WEBVTT - Spin Da Block

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<v Speaker 1>Talk, Talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with

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<v Speaker 1>an opinion to talk.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for tuning in for a new episode that

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<v Speaker 2>we talked back, A show dedicated to you negroes and

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<v Speaker 2>you pros and everybody else in between. Hello, beautiful people,

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<v Speaker 2>it's your co host AJ Holliday. What's up team now?

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<v Speaker 1>I like how you came in today full of energy

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<v Speaker 1>and I got none.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even got no blood. I had no energy.

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<v Speaker 2>Been just gone.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey y'all, it's Tan Bama. I love y'all. Thank y'all

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<v Speaker 1>for tuning in again.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up girl?

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<v Speaker 1>How your weekend outside of bleating?

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<v Speaker 2>I was outside yesterday. That's why I got zero energy today.

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<v Speaker 1>What'd you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Just hanging out? It's a new spot down here and Charleston.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all check it out if you're in the city. Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's called the Montague Room.

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to come there yesterday. The Drosan for

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<v Speaker 1>what I tell you, just to take my homegirl out

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<v Speaker 1>going through it. So I was gonna bring her down there.

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<v Speaker 1>But we looked at the weather and they said it

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<v Speaker 1>was about the rain.

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<v Speaker 2>Real it definitely rain, Yeah, it definitely rained dry. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know, Chausa is a very good place just

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<v Speaker 2>to hang out for a day because we have a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of good food options. Downtown has always lit. You

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<v Speaker 2>know it's gonna be you know, majority beach, but you

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<v Speaker 2>can have a great time down there, and we have

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<v Speaker 2>a very lovely rooftop bar. It's one of my favorite

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<v Speaker 2>places here. It's just so like it's almost like being

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<v Speaker 2>in Tuloom in Charleston. Maybe it's called ritual. It's really

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<v Speaker 2>really nice. It's not my favorite spots.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't do shit this weekend. I literally when I

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<v Speaker 1>got home from work, I stayed in the house. I

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<v Speaker 1>did not come back out till just now, like today,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's Monday, y'all. So I stayed in the house.

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<v Speaker 1>My hair fucked up. Like, let me tell you something.

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<v Speaker 1>I worked out. I told you I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>operation up the big My back is in full swing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I worked out like a mad woman last week

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<v Speaker 1>and I literally I did the JJ Smith ten day

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<v Speaker 1>Swoothie cleans. I'm on day eight today and y'all, I

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<v Speaker 1>a bitch lost ten pounds in the past eight days.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, well, my hair is nappy as fuck. So I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go nowhere except for the gym.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all I did, is this black women, man, I

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<v Speaker 2>hair really be holding us back. Fuck that hair. That

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<v Speaker 2>summer of y'all got to get the workouts and get

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<v Speaker 2>some braids or something, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Get you a wig and just take it off to

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<v Speaker 1>go to the gym and go.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, money through Friday. It's a weig hat for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Money through Friday. Hat weig hat hat wig money through Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to go get some of those bohemian knotless

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<v Speaker 1>braids with all the like curly hair mixed in it.

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<v Speaker 1>I like get that tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>I want I think I showed it to you. I

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<v Speaker 2>want that fairy hair, man, I want the folox mixed

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<v Speaker 2>with like the curly hair.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I went that next after my birthday. Yes, that's

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<v Speaker 1>so cute, But that that look was more fair like

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<v Speaker 1>curly hair than it was locks. She just clipped in

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of locks. I would want it where it's

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<v Speaker 1>more locks most of the lots. Yeah, I like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Them dad full locks took my hairt a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, Maybe I'll do it again.

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<v Speaker 1>Then my couchie hairy. My couchie is so hairy right now?

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<v Speaker 2>What what are we talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I just felt like I needed to share that,

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<v Speaker 1>like my wax girl quick out of nowhere. And y'all know,

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<v Speaker 1>I had that surgery so I couldn't get no wax

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<v Speaker 1>for a long time. So I'm finally healed and now

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<v Speaker 1>I want a wax. My pussy looked like but we.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's hot outside. I'm just hot. Do something with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I might have the ner this ship. I'm had

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<v Speaker 1>to find somebody new because it's not giving what it's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to give right now and I'm working out m M.

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<v Speaker 3>It's given onion giving number one, extra onions.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, because that hair. I don't know about Yuba, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Between that and my left under arm, I got to

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<v Speaker 2>be careful with life, Okay, I got to be real

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<v Speaker 2>careful in the summertime.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to have to come back to work. She

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<v Speaker 1>was so.

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<v Speaker 2>Good, y'all. Let's get into the stupid end of that news.

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<v Speaker 2>That's enough why I got that weekend. It's something else

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<v Speaker 2>I want to say, but I can't remember anyway, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Kim Kardashian says she cries herself to sleep at night

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<v Speaker 2>because she's a single parent. What do you think about that? Tom?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what as a stay at home, just to

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<v Speaker 1>stay at home. Because I ain't got no kids, I

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<v Speaker 1>really don't have much of opinion. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>it's like to be in there with no four four kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Mama, mama, mama, mama.

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<v Speaker 1>I could imagine like you might cry yourself to sleep

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<v Speaker 1>at sometimes. I remember how I knowing I was as

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<v Speaker 1>a kid. I remember like holding my fingers under the

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<v Speaker 1>door bathroom door, my mom trying to take a shit,

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<v Speaker 1>and I remember her saying, God, damn, I can't even

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<v Speaker 1>take a shit by myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember hearing her say to that too, because it's

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<v Speaker 2>like it's an unconscious thing. I think that kids do

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<v Speaker 2>like you. Just I don't know. Mama's doing something other that,

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<v Speaker 2>and watch me do dumb shit. So now let me

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<v Speaker 2>interrupt her or disturb her as soon as she get

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<v Speaker 2>on the fucking phone. You need something all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can imagine that she's not lying. Even with

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<v Speaker 1>all the help that she has, even with all the

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<v Speaker 1>money that she has, it's probably still hard now A

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<v Speaker 1>mom afore like a real because I don't really consider

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<v Speaker 1>her a single mom because she got so much, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>help at her back and call, but like a real

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<v Speaker 1>single mom, like a like a black woman living in

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<v Speaker 1>the hood with four kids. When she say, it hit

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<v Speaker 1>a little different to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, yeah, because I think I pictured Kim Kardashian as

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<v Speaker 2>a woman that's single as opposed to a single mom.

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<v Speaker 2>So she was like, so like, yeah, when you're in it,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, especially when you're babies, and when they're babies

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<v Speaker 2>in your feeding, there's madness going on. It's like full madness,

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<v Speaker 2>she continues, Right, she says, she's detailing that you have

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<v Speaker 2>no idea what's going on in the mornings. Kardashian adds,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like I always have to do one of my

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<v Speaker 2>daughter's here. You know, she's doing Negro here, so it's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of rough for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, Get you some motherfucker help, Like you literally could

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<v Speaker 1>harry somebody to be standing there in the dark waiting

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<v Speaker 1>on you to cut on the bathroom light to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, like come on, Kim, and you know everybody, the

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<v Speaker 2>thing is that she didn't have to leave her husband,

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't have to get a divorced shouldn't met me shut.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like how y'all be doing Kanye, man.

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<v Speaker 2>I really love Kanye.

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<v Speaker 1>Kanye had a bitch out there. It's a black duck

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<v Speaker 1>tape this past week.

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<v Speaker 2>Miss me with that.

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<v Speaker 3>He ain't have a bitch doing nothing. Them bitch just

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<v Speaker 3>be wanting to He.

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<v Speaker 1>Got Kim hell for being nicked and now his new bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>his new wife literally had on black electric tape as

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<v Speaker 1>an outfit.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know why they be doing this, Like y'all

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<v Speaker 3>just want to be this man.

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<v Speaker 2>You so bad, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't be as muse if you know what I am not.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody see you now walking in the Noble with your

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<v Speaker 1>little black duck tape out fit on.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all haven't seen that video where JT is yelling at

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<v Speaker 2>lit UZI, like they walking into like an apartment store

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<v Speaker 2>and something. He just takes off running like a little

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<v Speaker 2>badass kit and she's like, what the fuck you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>That would beat me with Kanye and his ass up

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<v Speaker 2>all day, nigga. I would have the mama teeth on

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<v Speaker 2>all day for Kanye if you don't sit through. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's what he needs a lot of these men that's

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<v Speaker 2>their damn need, man, they do. They need their mama

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<v Speaker 2>to bot badass kids, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Ari says that she doesn't want to be married the

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<v Speaker 1>money bag because of the baby mamas. And what I

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<v Speaker 1>think it is is she don't want to pay child support.

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<v Speaker 2>You to her own money, absolutely, because you know, when

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<v Speaker 2>you merge, get married, you're one. So whenever those mothers.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he has like eight kids, she has one.

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<v Speaker 2>So if I get married to you, they're gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>dipping in my account. A girl. I used to work

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<v Speaker 2>for Wakovia which is now Wells Fargo Bank right when

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<v Speaker 2>I was in college, and I remember on multiple occasions

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<v Speaker 2>wives calling crying on the phone because the government had

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<v Speaker 2>dopped had offset their checking accounts that they had a

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<v Speaker 2>couples accounts like with their husbands, and it was for

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<v Speaker 2>child support from another relationship, for an outside child. I can't, like,

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<v Speaker 2>the government can't differentiate whose money is who y'all have

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<v Speaker 2>this joint account. It happens, listen, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, don't think I can ever be with a nigga

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<v Speaker 1>who got eight kids?

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<v Speaker 2>Right like what I look like having the ninth I'm confused, right, girl?

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<v Speaker 2>Ye you didn't let that dick make a slave out

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<v Speaker 2>of him? I can't.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm scared of it. Eight people, and I wonder how

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<v Speaker 3>many different baby mamas.

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking to a nigga. He had two kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, okay, I can do two, and

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<v Speaker 1>then a third one popped up three years old. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, I'm gonna go ahead and check on out.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't call that nigga since.

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<v Speaker 2>You ever had a dude. You ever ask a guy

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<v Speaker 2>if he has any kids and he's like nah, And

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<v Speaker 2>then all of a sudden, he just pops up with

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<v Speaker 2>a newborn. You like, but I thought you didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>any kids. He was like, well, the baby wasn't here yet.

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<v Speaker 2>And I had nobody saying that like that to me,

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<v Speaker 2>but that happened to me once upon a time.

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<v Speaker 3>These men are fucking crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I done had a nigga not claim one of his kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, well, I someone told me you

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<v Speaker 1>have a son. Because he has a daughter too. He

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<v Speaker 1>only told me about the daughter and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody told me you have a son, and he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't seen that little nigga in years, yo.

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<v Speaker 2>Ill that's I.

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<v Speaker 1>Immediately stopped talking to him. I was like, well why not,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's literally, from what I understand, he's like an

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<v Speaker 1>hour and a half away.

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<v Speaker 3>They called him looking just like him, looking just like you.

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<v Speaker 1>Somewhere he's like his mama won't let me see him.

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<v Speaker 1>And if that little nigga, when that little nigga grow up,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to find me, he find me. Ill.

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<v Speaker 1>I could not believe that he said that. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>how it was. I was like, I gotta go, and

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't talked to him since.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's disgusting. And any woman that would continue to

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<v Speaker 2>deal with a man who talks like that about a child,

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<v Speaker 2>mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>You won't do my baby like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And it's probably because he only he probably stole

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<v Speaker 2>fucks with the daughter's mom. You know, the love is

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<v Speaker 2>transferable from the woman to the child as far as

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<v Speaker 2>I'm concerned, even when it's a man's child.

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<v Speaker 3>These guys have a weird way of showing love. But

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<v Speaker 3>I'm with ari, girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you do the wedding, do the shit

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<v Speaker 2>under God, don't gut, don't sign know. People work with

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<v Speaker 2>the government, girl. And this nigga probably already on child

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<v Speaker 2>support for somebody. And if he makes more money, especially

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<v Speaker 2>when y'all merge money, they can go to court and

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<v Speaker 2>request more money or just let him have two more

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<v Speaker 2>kids so he can max out like Nick Cannon max

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<v Speaker 2>out at ten. She's a smart girl as far as

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<v Speaker 2>I'm concerned. She has one kid twenty seven. Like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not too bad. He may be like around the

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<v Speaker 2>same age I believe. I don't think they're old at all,

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<v Speaker 2>in his thirties. Possibly, I don't know. I don't keep

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<v Speaker 2>up with dumb people for real, aside from stupid internet

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<v Speaker 2>news like here for some real sin. So there's an

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<v Speaker 2>only fans model. She's Australian, claims that she ruined her

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<v Speaker 2>mother's marriage after revealing her stepfather is her top subscriber.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's a model who goes by the name of

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<v Speaker 2>Tye or Tay in Australia, and she describes the moment

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<v Speaker 2>she exposed her stepdad in a TikTok video posted earlier

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<v Speaker 2>this week. She said, I ruined my mom's marriage. I

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<v Speaker 2>never planned on telling this story on TikTok, but here

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<v Speaker 2>we are. So when I first started my website, I

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<v Speaker 2>had this customer who was my number one customer, bought

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<v Speaker 2>every single thing I sent him. She started. According to

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<v Speaker 2>two fab Ty said she and the subscriber would talk

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<v Speaker 2>every day and he had made a lot of customer

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<v Speaker 2>requests which led him to spend almost two thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 2>two thousand Australian dollars within two months. However, Tye discovered

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<v Speaker 2>as someone used the same name to view her videos

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<v Speaker 2>on TikTok and they were also tagged in her from

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<v Speaker 2>contacts list in her cell phone. So that's how she

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<v Speaker 2>figured out it was her her dad, her stepdad, and

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<v Speaker 2>this man has known her since she was eleven. She

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<v Speaker 2>had special requests from him, like to know what panties

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<v Speaker 2>she was wearing for today. Now he knew this is her,

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<v Speaker 2>this is my stepdaughter. She just didn't know it was

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<v Speaker 2>her stepdad making these request.

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<v Speaker 1>Right because she can't see him.

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<v Speaker 2>He sees her exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's scary. Sounds about white.

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<v Speaker 2>White, white people, she said. She narrowed the numbers down

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<v Speaker 2>to six people and texted her stepfather after going with

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<v Speaker 2>her gut instinct. After he responded, hey, ty, let's talk,

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<v Speaker 2>she explained that he should tell her mother what was

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<v Speaker 2>happening before exposing him in a fallow up video. She

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<v Speaker 2>addressed to people who said she should have made stepdad

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<v Speaker 2>fantasy content. What what is wrong with you?

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<v Speaker 1>Know?

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<v Speaker 2>What this is why this. I'm not human. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>give a fuck. I'm not I'm not like these people.

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<v Speaker 2>This is weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's weird, she said.

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<v Speaker 2>When I caught him, he denied it to all his friends,

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<v Speaker 2>and obviously my mom got rid of him right away.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want to talk about family trauma, my stepdad

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<v Speaker 2>watched me have sex with my partner for two months.

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<v Speaker 2>This is wild. This is wild. She ended up having

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<v Speaker 2>to block him. It goes on and on and on

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<v Speaker 2>and on. But girl, could you imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't imagine having sex on only fans in the

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<v Speaker 1>first day inn place first.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean, like, you aren't his child and you're

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<v Speaker 2>an adult now. But it is weird as fuck because

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<v Speaker 2>he essentially raised.

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<v Speaker 1>Her, right, So he always been having sexual fantasies about

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<v Speaker 1>her since she was.

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<v Speaker 2>A kid, right And you know, like she's mentioned laundry

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<v Speaker 2>like he did her laundry, And now here you are

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<v Speaker 2>asking like what panties I'm wearing? So were you?

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<v Speaker 1>Girl?

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<v Speaker 2>Let me not y it gets that's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>So Republican City council member Matthew Riley arrested for allegedly

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<v Speaker 1>smoking crack and pass it out. It was newly released

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<v Speaker 1>Bodycare for the show's moments. Cranston City councilman Matthew Riley

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<v Speaker 1>was found unconscious in his car after allegedly smoking crack cocaine.

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<v Speaker 1>This nigga forty one years old, and was arrested Monday morning.

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<v Speaker 2>This is not a nigga, a beige nigga. This is

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<v Speaker 2>a white man.

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<v Speaker 1>No exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, you got it. It's still a nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay was arrested Monday morning after a responding officer discovered

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<v Speaker 1>him passed out in the driver's seat of his car

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<v Speaker 1>with a glass pipe and a lighter in his hand.

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<v Speaker 1>He had him a good badge, baby. He didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>putting the pipe down, and the video shows the officer

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<v Speaker 1>shaking Riley, a Republican who represents War six away, before

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<v Speaker 1>searching him in his vehicle. She was like, you were

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<v Speaker 1>literally choking in your sleep, the officer said. Somebody literally

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<v Speaker 1>sprinted and flagged me down because they thought you were choking.

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<v Speaker 1>Though he appeared disoriented, Riley was polite and cooperative as

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<v Speaker 1>he was being questioned. He had first denied having drugs

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<v Speaker 1>in his vehicle, but later admitted to buying one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>dollars worth of crack the previous day. It was a relapse.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been cleaned for thirteen years. I just got back

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<v Speaker 1>into this. Oh that's kind of sad right there.

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<v Speaker 2>I know addiction is very hard man damn. So he

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<v Speaker 2>did resign apparently, and this happened in Rhode Island. It's

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<v Speaker 2>a Rhode Island Republican counsel and you see how to

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<v Speaker 2>keep making sure you know Republican like that fucking matters

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<v Speaker 2>like crack comes in all shape sizes, crackheads.

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<v Speaker 1>Joe Brown, little oozy verts. I want a rock was

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<v Speaker 1>playing in the background. Officer I made that I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>go back and look like, bitch, ain't no way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yo, because you imagine he was like, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>a cruck park. What crack pipe?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, bit, what crack pipe?

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<v Speaker 2>This is a peace pipe.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a politician.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you are crackaholic, that's what you are. So apparently

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<v Speaker 2>the contents did test positive for cocaine and hmm Fenton al,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all listen, if you listen to this show and you

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<v Speaker 2>are on drugs, read some literature, reconsider do something because

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<v Speaker 2>this is killing people.

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<v Speaker 1>Or at least find out where your community narcia and

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<v Speaker 1>distributor is so you can have that available to you,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can possibly be possibly save your own life.

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<v Speaker 1>Niggas just die every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know, it's wild. I know that people

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<v Speaker 2>will be cutting drugs now. They just you're not a chemist,

0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:30.080
<v Speaker 2>don't know what the fuck you're doing. So I've been

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<v Speaker 2>told that a pinch of fentanyl can kill you. Did

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<v Speaker 2>you see that video online once where the dog it

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<v Speaker 2>was a police officer. I mean she accidentally touched some

0:18:38.440 --> 0:18:42.640
<v Speaker 2>fentanyl during an arrest and immediately was like they had

0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:44.640
<v Speaker 2>to give her nor can. She was passing out.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 3>That's wild man. That stuff is very dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very strong, very powerful. Yeah, I don't know. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope mister Ridley get his life back together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, where a regular crack at like crackheads lived forever,

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<v Speaker 2>they died from gilling ship like cancer and stuff. They

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<v Speaker 2>never actually died from smoking crack. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's wow, y'all are ruining drugs for everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Right because they're sprinkling the ship on the weed now,

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<v Speaker 2>like I don't want no magic or my ship. Listen,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, y'all, we're talking about spending block this week, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it's summertime.

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<v Speaker 3>It usually just happens during the winter. But there's a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of people, you know, coming back.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, my d's got a lot of skirt.

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<v Speaker 2>Skirt. Yeah, they trying to check the temperature on that pussy,

0:19:33.640 --> 0:19:36.159
<v Speaker 2>trying to check the temperature. Trus see what's going on.

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<v Speaker 4>It's her right now, Y'all's her. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 4>y'all wanted to know, but it's her. We're just saying, Harry, yeah, bitch,

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<v Speaker 4>we'll be right back, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all, we are bad. Yeah, all right. So

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<v Speaker 1>I saw Kresha and post this acting bad with the nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>I told y'all I was done with and you know

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<v Speaker 1>we've all been there, so I wanted us to have

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation about spinning the block. Bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like spending the block. I can spend on you,

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<v Speaker 2>but don't try to spend on me. I'm offended, really.

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<v Speaker 1>So you have never dealt with a guy that spun

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<v Speaker 1>the block on you?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, But I'm always looking at your eyes from the

0:20:23.520 --> 0:20:24.960
<v Speaker 2>corner of my eye, like why are you here?

0:20:25.240 --> 0:20:27.480
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like all my niggas is a spin

0:20:27.720 --> 0:20:30.119
<v Speaker 1>I might as well be on the motherfucking Ferris Wheel.

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<v Speaker 3>I definitely keep the same niggas and hea your rotation

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<v Speaker 3>over the years.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it's easier, no new notches than your belt, right.

0:20:39.480 --> 0:20:41.800
<v Speaker 3>No, you definitely get some new notches in between them.

0:20:41.800 --> 0:20:42.920
<v Speaker 3>Same niggas, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But not not every notch is a new notch, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's I'm okay with that. So I went and

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<v Speaker 1>looked on Oprah Daily dot com and I found a

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<v Speaker 1>list of questions to ask yourself before you let someone

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<v Speaker 1>spend the block or before you spend the block on someone.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you you in the block? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I definitely not. Hey, bighead, Wait a minute, I

0:21:04.560 --> 0:21:10.920
<v Speaker 2>think that spend the block, actually spent the block on somebody?

0:21:11.280 --> 0:21:14.159
<v Speaker 2>Oh I lied, And this is just I told you

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<v Speaker 2>about this just recently, somebody I spent the block block

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<v Speaker 2>on because I did do them kind of dirty back

0:21:18.640 --> 0:21:21.320
<v Speaker 2>in the day. So I spent the block like because

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<v Speaker 2>you know, over the years, he just kept, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>trying to get back with me, like, man, you should

0:21:26.040 --> 0:21:28.040
<v Speaker 2>come such and such visit me da da da da.

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<v Speaker 2>And when I finally did it, it was like payback, bitch. Nah,

0:21:35.240 --> 0:21:38.720
<v Speaker 2>he ain't never ghost me, but he just started. He

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<v Speaker 2>just was doing the fucking most he was, you said

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<v Speaker 2>she was my husband. That's why I spun the block back.

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<v Speaker 2>And he really lied to me because now you still

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<v Speaker 2>funck with other bitches. Like we was kicking it real, real,

0:21:49.920 --> 0:21:52.080
<v Speaker 2>real hard. From one point. It was just it lasted

0:21:52.119 --> 0:21:55.760
<v Speaker 2>me about three or four months and it was just

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<v Speaker 2>a dead end.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he try to come back and spend it yea, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, nah, I tried spinning. Yeah, no more spinning.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, here, I'm trying to think. Have I ever spun

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<v Speaker 1>the block on my nigga girl? You know I was

0:22:11.800 --> 0:22:14.160
<v Speaker 1>spinning spin it on like this?

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<v Speaker 2>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh So here's the things that Oprah Daily dot Com

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<v Speaker 1>says that you should ask yourself before you spend the block,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, is the main issue that drove you apart resolvable?

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<v Speaker 1>Half the time, we never even revisit that ship before

0:22:31.440 --> 0:22:33.960
<v Speaker 1>we spend the block. We beat on forgot why we

0:22:33.960 --> 0:22:35.720
<v Speaker 1>was mad. Sometimes I have to go back through my

0:22:35.760 --> 0:22:38.359
<v Speaker 1>text thread to see why I stopped fucking with a nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>Nah, I usually know exactly why I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I beat on forgot, depending on how much the time

0:22:43.080 --> 0:22:45.360
<v Speaker 1>it was like I was mad at that nigga for something.

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<v Speaker 3>See, you might be petty. It takes me a while

0:22:48.240 --> 0:22:49.320
<v Speaker 3>to leave somebody alone.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I just I just changed my I don't

0:22:52.640 --> 0:22:57.200
<v Speaker 1>like I heat you. I literally just changed my HBO

0:22:57.359 --> 0:23:02.560
<v Speaker 1>password on a watch gut and but thrones now beat.

0:23:05.440 --> 0:23:07.320
<v Speaker 2>Like he probably was right there, what a hole at

0:23:07.320 --> 0:23:09.119
<v Speaker 2>the same time when his cable went out, like, oh,

0:23:09.160 --> 0:23:10.960
<v Speaker 2>let me call you don't got no cable.

0:23:11.000 --> 0:23:14.720
<v Speaker 1>You ain't got no cable, nigga, watch it on your phone,

0:23:15.000 --> 0:23:18.720
<v Speaker 1>watch whatever you can. You're gonna have to scroll Instagram, nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>All right.

0:23:19.680 --> 0:23:22.040
<v Speaker 1>Uh So the next thing is says, do you both

0:23:22.119 --> 0:23:24.240
<v Speaker 1>agree on what your past differences were?

0:23:27.119 --> 0:23:29.240
<v Speaker 2>I feel like maybe that's why I stop talking to people,

0:23:29.240 --> 0:23:30.960
<v Speaker 2>like and you know, we talk about this a lot

0:23:30.960 --> 0:23:33.639
<v Speaker 2>of perception, how people perceive what happens. I feel like

0:23:33.680 --> 0:23:35.879
<v Speaker 2>a lot of times men have a good time in

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship.

0:23:37.119 --> 0:23:39.960
<v Speaker 3>Meanwhile you just over that shit.

0:23:40.240 --> 0:23:43.080
<v Speaker 2>It's like they don't have the same They don't interpret

0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:44.960
<v Speaker 2>what's going on in the relationship the same way.

0:23:45.240 --> 0:23:49.520
<v Speaker 1>No, I don't think ever, I don't think it's always differently.

0:23:50.080 --> 0:23:55.520
<v Speaker 2>They're never exactly why you left, or never understand or

0:23:55.560 --> 0:23:58.240
<v Speaker 2>they may understand it right, But they're intentionally, which I

0:23:58.280 --> 0:24:01.560
<v Speaker 2>feel like they dont acting like you don't know what

0:24:01.600 --> 0:24:04.640
<v Speaker 2>the hell I'm talking about, to further drive me nuts. Right,

0:24:05.200 --> 0:24:06.840
<v Speaker 2>So now I got to block your ass because I

0:24:06.920 --> 0:24:07.920
<v Speaker 2>want to keep my sanity.

0:24:08.200 --> 0:24:10.639
<v Speaker 1>Why do we spend the block? Though? Typically it's like

0:24:11.080 --> 0:24:13.160
<v Speaker 1>there's something, Yeah, there's something, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, I have a saying and you are what you eat,

0:24:15.160 --> 0:24:19.720
<v Speaker 2>therefore you are who you beat. Yes, right, so there's

0:24:19.760 --> 0:24:22.680
<v Speaker 2>something about this person that you see yourself and them

0:24:22.840 --> 0:24:24.600
<v Speaker 2>a little bit in order for you to.

0:24:24.600 --> 0:24:25.840
<v Speaker 1>Deal with them.

0:24:25.840 --> 0:24:29.639
<v Speaker 2>So that's probably why it's just the familiality or the

0:24:29.680 --> 0:24:35.720
<v Speaker 2>dick bomb that pard like, I know this one is

0:24:35.760 --> 0:24:37.560
<v Speaker 2>going to do it for me, right, I don't feel

0:24:37.560 --> 0:24:38.520
<v Speaker 2>like trying a new one.

0:24:39.359 --> 0:24:41.120
<v Speaker 1>That's a lot of the reason why I ever spend

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<v Speaker 1>the block.

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you given each other enough space to know how

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<v Speaker 1>to do things better this time? You know what? There

0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:51.240
<v Speaker 1>is someone that I had been talking to you that

0:24:51.840 --> 0:24:54.040
<v Speaker 1>when we were talking or we were living in Europe

0:24:54.080 --> 0:24:57.760
<v Speaker 1>when we were talking and he was just a wild boy.

0:24:57.840 --> 0:25:00.000
<v Speaker 1>He was like just you know, doing all the things,

0:25:00.119 --> 0:25:02.399
<v Speaker 1>getting real money for the first time because we're in

0:25:02.440 --> 0:25:04.639
<v Speaker 1>our twenties, he's starting to get real money. For the

0:25:04.640 --> 0:25:07.360
<v Speaker 1>first time, he very good looking, like he was out

0:25:07.359 --> 0:25:11.200
<v Speaker 1>there having his way, and now he older, hairline back

0:25:11.240 --> 0:25:11.679
<v Speaker 1>a little bit.

0:25:12.640 --> 0:25:15.399
<v Speaker 2>Don't choose me now, you know through.

0:25:15.480 --> 0:25:18.359
<v Speaker 1>But I like him more now because he just seems

0:25:18.440 --> 0:25:23.760
<v Speaker 1>like more subtle, not even humble, just more grown.

0:25:24.200 --> 0:25:26.919
<v Speaker 2>Because these niggas go get that, these holes need me

0:25:27.080 --> 0:25:29.879
<v Speaker 2>headcut and they be acting brand new in two days

0:25:29.960 --> 0:25:32.120
<v Speaker 2>because it only lasts about forty eight hours.

0:25:35.040 --> 0:25:37.160
<v Speaker 1>But he is better now though, So I think there

0:25:37.280 --> 0:25:40.240
<v Speaker 1>is something that comes with like time, you know, like

0:25:40.480 --> 0:25:44.320
<v Speaker 1>a little growth on both parties. Because I wasn't no saint,

0:25:44.840 --> 0:25:45.040
<v Speaker 1>you know.

0:25:45.880 --> 0:25:47.840
<v Speaker 2>One of my homegirls, so she was dating a guy

0:25:47.840 --> 0:25:49.399
<v Speaker 2>who was much older than her when we were in

0:25:49.400 --> 0:25:52.800
<v Speaker 2>our twenties and early thirties, and you know, he was

0:25:52.800 --> 0:25:54.400
<v Speaker 2>trying to get to the bag, like he was trying

0:25:54.400 --> 0:25:57.399
<v Speaker 2>to get So now he's a millionaire. So now she's

0:25:57.480 --> 0:26:00.719
<v Speaker 2>more subtle, doesn't have to be outside as much, and

0:26:00.760 --> 0:26:04.359
<v Speaker 2>now she's like reconsidering the relationship and like what she

0:26:04.400 --> 0:26:05.919
<v Speaker 2>could have done differently earlier on.

0:26:06.080 --> 0:26:08.080
<v Speaker 1>But so he don't want her now, Well he's in

0:26:08.119 --> 0:26:09.119
<v Speaker 1>a relationship now.

0:26:10.520 --> 0:26:13.200
<v Speaker 2>She wants to be like, man, he we don't have

0:26:13.240 --> 0:26:18.080
<v Speaker 2>sex enough, got some problem okay, especially older men, right,

0:26:18.119 --> 0:26:21.119
<v Speaker 2>because was that on our show or somebody else to

0:26:21.119 --> 0:26:24.160
<v Speaker 2>show we were talking about when men reach their their

0:26:24.200 --> 0:26:24.920
<v Speaker 2>sexual peak.

0:26:25.960 --> 0:26:27.520
<v Speaker 1>I think it's on everybody's.

0:26:27.040 --> 0:26:32.840
<v Speaker 2>Show, like us our age like fucking out of both pants?

0:26:33.080 --> 0:26:36.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah right now My age is fluid. But you know

0:26:36.840 --> 0:26:41.119
<v Speaker 1>when you get to a certain age out of and

0:26:41.119 --> 0:26:43.880
<v Speaker 1>then men they usually get there.

0:26:44.359 --> 0:26:44.600
<v Speaker 2>There.

0:26:44.640 --> 0:26:46.800
<v Speaker 1>What is it? It's not libido because that's what women.

0:26:46.640 --> 0:26:48.840
<v Speaker 2>Have men havelabido everybody libido?

0:26:49.040 --> 0:26:50.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I thought that was a feeling.

0:26:50.400 --> 0:26:53.000
<v Speaker 3>We just don't get our beatle libido catered to like

0:26:53.080 --> 0:26:53.640
<v Speaker 3>men do like.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't want my beat up, my beat o, please sir?

0:27:06.920 --> 0:27:07.240
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:27:07.320 --> 0:27:11.040
<v Speaker 1>The next question is your ex open to getting back together,

0:27:11.240 --> 0:27:13.359
<v Speaker 1>because that's another thing. You spend a block on the

0:27:13.440 --> 0:27:16.840
<v Speaker 1>nigga and he'll just do you like that.

0:27:18.880 --> 0:27:20.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but he wanted me back and then once I

0:27:20.920 --> 0:27:22.920
<v Speaker 2>got back there, you know, that's like an ongoing thing

0:27:22.960 --> 0:27:25.399
<v Speaker 2>for me. I always tell people, Yeah, I feel like

0:27:25.400 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 2>a lot of men just like the idea right until

0:27:28.040 --> 0:27:29.640
<v Speaker 2>they actually get me, and then you're trying to treat

0:27:29.640 --> 0:27:30.480
<v Speaker 2>me all type of ways.

0:27:30.760 --> 0:27:33.560
<v Speaker 1>I think some it's all about a challenge oftentimes with me,

0:27:33.640 --> 0:27:37.880
<v Speaker 1>like niggas want to like just conquer right or see

0:27:37.880 --> 0:27:40.320
<v Speaker 1>if they still have access. It's not even really about

0:27:40.359 --> 0:27:43.280
<v Speaker 1>having me. It's about having access to me still.

0:27:43.400 --> 0:27:45.760
<v Speaker 2>You know that's one thing women need to you know,

0:27:45.800 --> 0:27:48.199
<v Speaker 2>how we be telling I got all these niggas, I

0:27:48.240 --> 0:27:51.040
<v Speaker 2>got somebody's gonna do whatever I want them.

0:27:51.080 --> 0:27:56.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't never say niggas do I have y'all, I

0:27:56.040 --> 0:27:56.760
<v Speaker 1>don't hear nothing.

0:27:57.040 --> 0:27:59.040
<v Speaker 2>A lot of these dudes just want to know that

0:27:59.080 --> 0:28:02.160
<v Speaker 2>they still got access. You can be entertaining somebody. They

0:28:02.160 --> 0:28:05.320
<v Speaker 2>feel like little pool when you start talking to somebody

0:28:05.320 --> 0:28:10.159
<v Speaker 2>else or how they come with the bullshit. Just so

0:28:10.200 --> 0:28:12.080
<v Speaker 2>don't be letting nobody call you'all phone in the middle

0:28:12.080 --> 0:28:13.720
<v Speaker 2>of the night on some bullshit.

0:28:14.040 --> 0:28:16.200
<v Speaker 1>No, like that nigga on the elevator we just seen

0:28:16.600 --> 0:28:19.000
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, un handy, you've been texting me

0:28:19.040 --> 0:28:21.000
<v Speaker 1>ever saying this boy, you ain't even think about me.

0:28:20.960 --> 0:28:22.760
<v Speaker 2>Now you see your crummy paws off me.

0:28:22.920 --> 0:28:23.680
<v Speaker 1>Unhand me, sir.

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:29.359
<v Speaker 2>This nigger we walk into elevated tas like this nigger

0:28:31.560 --> 0:28:33.080
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, who's this young man?

0:28:36.160 --> 0:28:39.160
<v Speaker 1>The next one? Are you afraid you won't find someone else?

0:28:39.960 --> 0:28:43.400
<v Speaker 1>That's another reason why people spend the block because they

0:28:43.400 --> 0:28:45.400
<v Speaker 1>go back to what, like you said, it was familiar.

0:28:45.520 --> 0:28:48.120
<v Speaker 1>You know, this is something familiar. It may not be

0:28:48.240 --> 0:28:51.440
<v Speaker 1>the best, but it is something that I know, get

0:28:51.760 --> 0:28:55.520
<v Speaker 1>right that I know it's the lesser evil. Sometimes people

0:28:55.560 --> 0:28:58.880
<v Speaker 1>feel like, read that question again. Are you afraid you

0:28:58.960 --> 0:29:01.480
<v Speaker 1>won't find someone else?

0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:05.320
<v Speaker 3>I feel like a lot of women go through that.

0:29:06.200 --> 0:29:08.440
<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. It's like almost like.

0:29:11.160 --> 0:29:14.640
<v Speaker 3>You're ready to go, you leave, but then the dating scene.

0:29:14.480 --> 0:29:19.320
<v Speaker 2>Is true crash. So you're about to start this new

0:29:19.440 --> 0:29:23.720
<v Speaker 2>conquest with a new batch of niggas that I ain't

0:29:24.040 --> 0:29:26.720
<v Speaker 2>doing with a new batch of men, right, And you

0:29:26.800 --> 0:29:31.160
<v Speaker 2>gotta figure out everybody's little quirks and likes and dislikes.

0:29:31.960 --> 0:29:35.040
<v Speaker 2>And it's very it's time consuming, it's nerve wrecking. It's

0:29:35.120 --> 0:29:36.560
<v Speaker 2>just like, damn, my mother will go back to my

0:29:36.560 --> 0:29:37.880
<v Speaker 2>old nigga, deal with that dumb shit.

0:29:37.960 --> 0:29:38.600
<v Speaker 1>I got a story.

0:29:38.640 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 2>I know him.

0:29:39.280 --> 0:29:41.440
<v Speaker 1>I remember I broke me and my guy had broken

0:29:41.520 --> 0:29:43.280
<v Speaker 1>up and we had been together for some years. And

0:29:43.320 --> 0:29:46.080
<v Speaker 1>this is me firstly back outside and I wasn't fucking

0:29:46.120 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 1>with nobody for a couple of months. I just like,

0:29:48.200 --> 0:29:51.120
<v Speaker 1>I need some time to myself. So finally I'm back

0:29:51.160 --> 0:29:53.640
<v Speaker 1>outside and I'm dating and I went out and I

0:29:53.680 --> 0:29:55.720
<v Speaker 1>met this man and he was so fine. This was

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:59.280
<v Speaker 1>like a one night stand, right, and he was so

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:01.960
<v Speaker 1>fine and we were like kissing. We went to his house.

0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:03.960
<v Speaker 1>We were kissing, is all passionate, like something out of

0:30:03.960 --> 0:30:07.960
<v Speaker 1>the movie. And we had sex and it was so bad.

0:30:08.160 --> 0:30:10.320
<v Speaker 1>It was so bad. He sucked me like a little

0:30:10.400 --> 0:30:13.120
<v Speaker 1>rabbit and like his diad was small, and it was

0:30:13.160 --> 0:30:19.600
<v Speaker 1>like I was. I drove home crying, God, nigga bad

0:30:19.920 --> 0:30:21.840
<v Speaker 1>cause you don't let somebody else use your couchie.

0:30:21.880 --> 0:30:24.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was a mistake. It was a big mistake.

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:26.600
<v Speaker 1>And I just thought he was about to lay it

0:30:26.600 --> 0:30:32.040
<v Speaker 1>down because he was so fine and the passionate kissing.

0:30:31.840 --> 0:30:33.840
<v Speaker 2>He might have been maybe because he was maybe he

0:30:33.880 --> 0:30:34.400
<v Speaker 2>was excited.

0:30:34.520 --> 0:30:39.160
<v Speaker 1>Was it little like Roger rabbit, like a little rabbit

0:30:39.160 --> 0:30:43.520
<v Speaker 1>pumping fast and it was little. I couldn't feel it.

0:30:44.240 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 2>That's different.

0:30:44.960 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 1>I cried, nigga back, I spun the block. But maybe

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:56.080
<v Speaker 1>I miss you. Let's try again after that experience. So

0:30:57.640 --> 0:31:01.960
<v Speaker 1>last question, will you ask your X the tough questions,

0:31:02.640 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 1>like the tough questions about like why are our relationship

0:31:05.840 --> 0:31:08.760
<v Speaker 1>dissolved and what can we do to make it better

0:31:08.840 --> 0:31:13.920
<v Speaker 1>this time. Man, I feel like the people I've left,

0:31:14.040 --> 0:31:16.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm not going back, like for real, like the real

0:31:16.360 --> 0:31:18.520
<v Speaker 1>relationships you're in, like that last.

0:31:18.440 --> 0:31:21.520
<v Speaker 2>Years, Like you tried for a really long time. Why

0:31:21.560 --> 0:31:23.320
<v Speaker 2>are you going back? I feel like you just need

0:31:23.360 --> 0:31:25.560
<v Speaker 2>to remember the bad things.

0:31:26.000 --> 0:31:29.360
<v Speaker 3>That's what that to keep you away for that person, you.

0:31:29.320 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 2>Know, because when when you're in a relationship, you're always

0:31:31.520 --> 0:31:33.600
<v Speaker 2>trying to weigh the good and the bad to try

0:31:33.640 --> 0:31:36.360
<v Speaker 2>and stay. And oftentimes women just need one reason to stay.

0:31:36.800 --> 0:31:39.680
<v Speaker 2>Give me one reason to stay here. Yet I turn

0:31:40.040 --> 0:31:40.880
<v Speaker 2>back around.

0:31:41.320 --> 0:31:43.880
<v Speaker 1>That's a real thing, right, Give me me wh a

0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:45.200
<v Speaker 1>million reasons to league?

0:31:45.400 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 2>Right, But he'd be like, baby, I love you.

0:31:49.280 --> 0:31:52.360
<v Speaker 1>I love you too, and right back, And then you

0:31:52.440 --> 0:31:55.040
<v Speaker 1>were and then you're reminded shortly after why the fuck

0:31:55.080 --> 0:31:55.680
<v Speaker 1>you left in the.

0:31:55.640 --> 0:32:01.080
<v Speaker 2>First acting exactly so like the actual real relationships though,

0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:04.520
<v Speaker 2>the relationships you're in for many many years. I feel

0:32:04.520 --> 0:32:07.120
<v Speaker 2>like you know why you left. You tried for a

0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:10.120
<v Speaker 2>very long time. You gave a lot of grace. It

0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:12.160
<v Speaker 2>just wasn't working out. And a lot of times people

0:32:12.240 --> 0:32:14.400
<v Speaker 2>just are better as friends. So the guy I told

0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:16.920
<v Speaker 2>you about that I spun the block on because I

0:32:16.960 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 2>did do him dirty, like and I don't know two

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:21.600
<v Speaker 2>thousand and eight or so, e remeybody I told you

0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:23.160
<v Speaker 2>to do? Who hacked my Facebook page?

0:32:25.320 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 1>That?

0:32:27.600 --> 0:32:32.440
<v Speaker 2>No, it was soldier boy. So I spun the block

0:32:32.480 --> 0:32:35.080
<v Speaker 2>on him, like after I got out my last relationship

0:32:35.560 --> 0:32:40.200
<v Speaker 2>and during that relationship, like I never would entertain anybody.

0:32:40.680 --> 0:32:43.760
<v Speaker 2>My ex knows now for sure that I will ignore

0:32:43.800 --> 0:32:46.760
<v Speaker 2>the fuck out somebody I don't fuck with m Like,

0:32:47.040 --> 0:32:49.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, while we were in a relationship, he would

0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:51.520
<v Speaker 2>always like accuse me of doing this. And when I

0:32:51.520 --> 0:32:53.960
<v Speaker 2>don't fuck with you, I make it known. So now

0:32:53.960 --> 0:32:56.600
<v Speaker 2>he gets to feel that. So this this person was

0:32:56.640 --> 0:32:58.040
<v Speaker 2>always like a friend of mine. So I'm like, you

0:32:58.040 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 2>know how you always be like, oh you got to

0:32:59.440 --> 0:33:02.440
<v Speaker 2>marry your friend, because I feel like my ex was

0:33:02.480 --> 0:33:04.280
<v Speaker 2>never my friend. You know what I'm saying. We went

0:33:04.280 --> 0:33:08.840
<v Speaker 2>straight into like boyfriend girlfriend shit, you know what I'm saying,

0:33:08.840 --> 0:33:12.840
<v Speaker 2>Like he never knew me just as a friend.

0:33:13.960 --> 0:33:16.640
<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't think it's necessary to like just be

0:33:16.800 --> 0:33:18.920
<v Speaker 1>homies first, You don't think so?

0:33:19.280 --> 0:33:21.840
<v Speaker 2>No, I think so, man, because some of some of

0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:24.479
<v Speaker 2>my guy friends that you know, maybe I had been

0:33:24.560 --> 0:33:27.000
<v Speaker 2>intimate before, or maybe we just you know, just straight

0:33:27.040 --> 0:33:29.600
<v Speaker 2>platonica the whole time I've known them. They know me

0:33:29.880 --> 0:33:31.880
<v Speaker 2>to my core, you know what I'm saying. So it's

0:33:31.920 --> 0:33:36.240
<v Speaker 2>never like any weird ass misunderstandings, like they know who

0:33:36.800 --> 0:33:40.760
<v Speaker 2>aj Ashley is? Right with that niggas like why are

0:33:40.760 --> 0:33:42.080
<v Speaker 2>you playing with me? Like I don't know who the

0:33:42.080 --> 0:33:43.560
<v Speaker 2>fuck I am?

0:33:44.000 --> 0:33:46.040
<v Speaker 1>So did you not present yourself the same way?

0:33:46.120 --> 0:33:48.920
<v Speaker 2>Yes, the very same way. So it's just a different

0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:51.960
<v Speaker 2>level of respect. I think that men generally respect their

0:33:52.000 --> 0:33:56.000
<v Speaker 2>female friends more than they respect women they actually deal with.

0:33:56.160 --> 0:33:58.840
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I don't know if I'm the same way around

0:33:59.080 --> 0:34:02.920
<v Speaker 1>my platonic male friends that I am around guys that

0:34:02.960 --> 0:34:03.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm dating.

0:34:04.320 --> 0:34:05.760
<v Speaker 2>At first, what's different.

0:34:06.920 --> 0:34:09.200
<v Speaker 1>Because I'm a fart in front of one of my homeboys,

0:34:09.320 --> 0:34:11.880
<v Speaker 1>I can be like, excuse me, my nigga, you know,

0:34:12.000 --> 0:34:15.520
<v Speaker 1>like I'm like a whole nigga. I'm if I have to,

0:34:17.000 --> 0:34:19.760
<v Speaker 1>it would not be on person. Yeah, okay, if it happens,

0:34:19.800 --> 0:34:22.000
<v Speaker 1>I would never like to sleep. I would not lift

0:34:22.080 --> 0:34:23.840
<v Speaker 1>up my leg to fart in front of my homeboy.

0:34:23.920 --> 0:34:25.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm not like that, But if it happened, I wouldn't

0:34:26.000 --> 0:34:27.759
<v Speaker 1>be you know, I wouldn't feel a way.

0:34:27.760 --> 0:34:29.560
<v Speaker 2>Can you be at home by yourself lifting your leg

0:34:29.640 --> 0:34:31.440
<v Speaker 2>up in fart, lifting my leg up.

0:34:31.560 --> 0:34:33.719
<v Speaker 1>No, but you know how guys play with each other,

0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:36.840
<v Speaker 1>right yeah, no, no, absolutely not. But I wouldn't feel

0:34:37.080 --> 0:34:38.719
<v Speaker 1>like if I farted in front of a guy I

0:34:38.760 --> 0:34:42.520
<v Speaker 1>was dating, I would be hugely embarrassed. Right but my homeboy,

0:34:42.560 --> 0:34:43.680
<v Speaker 1>i'd be like, nigga just when.

0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:47.000
<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying. So, your mate, your lifetime partner,

0:34:47.080 --> 0:34:49.000
<v Speaker 2>you should be comfortable farting in front of them. No,

0:34:49.320 --> 0:34:50.879
<v Speaker 2>they don't give a damn. They could be a guy

0:34:50.920 --> 0:34:51.439
<v Speaker 2>you just met.

0:34:51.560 --> 0:34:53.720
<v Speaker 1>No, men do care about stuff like that.

0:34:54.160 --> 0:34:58.600
<v Speaker 2>I know they do, which I'm saying like I wouldn't

0:34:58.640 --> 0:35:01.400
<v Speaker 2>do it, but if it happens, it's not going to

0:35:01.440 --> 0:35:05.400
<v Speaker 2>be like I didn't know. Women farn't what are you doing? No?

0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, I don't want nobody who's gonna be like

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:11.200
<v Speaker 1>weird about it. My mom never farted in her life.

0:35:11.280 --> 0:35:14.279
<v Speaker 1>Yes she did, Yeah, but I just I would not

0:35:14.400 --> 0:35:16.640
<v Speaker 1>do that in front of someone. I would be mortified

0:35:16.640 --> 0:35:19.200
<v Speaker 1>if I did it in in front of somebody. It

0:35:19.280 --> 0:35:22.440
<v Speaker 1>took me so long to even you know, go number

0:35:22.440 --> 0:35:23.480
<v Speaker 1>two at my.

0:35:23.480 --> 0:35:25.479
<v Speaker 2>Guy's house that you'm hiding like a cat.

0:35:25.600 --> 0:35:28.840
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm like, go get me some ice creep right down, bigga, God,

0:35:31.520 --> 0:35:34.200
<v Speaker 1>hurry up, get out of here, like, go somewhere so

0:35:34.320 --> 0:35:36.120
<v Speaker 1>I could use the bathroom. It took me so long.

0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:38.480
<v Speaker 2>So I don't like people who want to come talk

0:35:38.520 --> 0:35:40.920
<v Speaker 2>to me while I'm taking a shit, like I already

0:35:40.920 --> 0:35:42.520
<v Speaker 2>know what you smell, like like know you?

0:35:42.719 --> 0:35:45.160
<v Speaker 1>That's when you really really in there, that's when you're

0:35:45.200 --> 0:35:46.640
<v Speaker 1>really comfortable with each other.

0:35:48.120 --> 0:35:50.759
<v Speaker 2>Can I have some privacy? I don't like people like

0:35:51.680 --> 0:35:54.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how we going into this type of shit, literally,

0:35:55.239 --> 0:35:59.080
<v Speaker 2>but do men like I don't want to say, violate

0:35:59.160 --> 0:36:01.160
<v Speaker 2>you like it could be a hot summer day. Have

0:36:01.239 --> 0:36:03.640
<v Speaker 2>you ever had anybody like swipe your butt crack on

0:36:03.640 --> 0:36:05.200
<v Speaker 2>a hot summer sunny day?

0:36:05.480 --> 0:36:06.520
<v Speaker 1>No, what the fuck?

0:36:06.840 --> 0:36:09.239
<v Speaker 2>Like why you want to know me that intimately? Like

0:36:09.440 --> 0:36:13.759
<v Speaker 2>swipe smell? Who did that to you? Multiple people have

0:36:13.880 --> 0:36:15.640
<v Speaker 2>done that to me in life.

0:36:16.760 --> 0:36:20.280
<v Speaker 1>You must be walking around a little wingy.

0:36:22.840 --> 0:36:25.759
<v Speaker 2>Like I do have HBO and I'm fully aware of it.

0:36:25.880 --> 0:36:27.879
<v Speaker 2>That's why I shower the way I do. You're never

0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:31.520
<v Speaker 2>gonna smell me just outside funky. But at what point

0:36:31.520 --> 0:36:34.600
<v Speaker 2>do you think you don't stink? You? Not you about?

0:36:38.680 --> 0:36:40.720
<v Speaker 1>Should you talking about good?

0:36:41.360 --> 0:36:43.840
<v Speaker 2>Yes? Like just straight violating, like I just want to

0:36:43.880 --> 0:36:47.000
<v Speaker 2>see what you sell, Like why I feel like there's

0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:50.239
<v Speaker 2>some things women have to keep like a secret. You

0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:52.240
<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying. I don't believe in women getting

0:36:52.320 --> 0:36:54.440
<v Speaker 2>dressed in front of men, Like can I get my

0:36:54.520 --> 0:36:56.960
<v Speaker 2>space so I can do my magic? Bitch?

0:36:57.080 --> 0:36:59.359
<v Speaker 1>You know it is my man. I don't mind getting

0:36:59.400 --> 0:37:01.279
<v Speaker 1>dressed in front of them. I don't know, but it's

0:37:01.320 --> 0:37:03.439
<v Speaker 1>just some things that I do need my privacy for

0:37:03.440 --> 0:37:06.200
<v Speaker 1>for life, like and that number two.

0:37:06.480 --> 0:37:08.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh, go the fuck away.

0:37:09.239 --> 0:37:13.759
<v Speaker 1>Get out my space, like right now, Or like I

0:37:13.800 --> 0:37:15.919
<v Speaker 1>had a guy I used to like him so much.

0:37:15.920 --> 0:37:18.360
<v Speaker 1>He was so fine. This was in college, but he

0:37:18.560 --> 0:37:21.120
<v Speaker 1>just was so fucking goofy as fucking He used to

0:37:21.160 --> 0:37:22.759
<v Speaker 1>do stuff that would piss me off. Like we'd be

0:37:22.840 --> 0:37:26.920
<v Speaker 1>like laying down watching TV, having like just chilling good vibes.

0:37:27.239 --> 0:37:29.360
<v Speaker 1>We just smoking. All of a sudden Dutch oving me.

0:37:29.800 --> 0:37:31.880
<v Speaker 1>Do you know what that is like? And put the

0:37:32.160 --> 0:37:36.000
<v Speaker 1>and hold me under the blanket with his fart. Nigga,

0:37:36.160 --> 0:37:38.319
<v Speaker 1>I hate you. I'm leaving. I'm not coming back. That's

0:37:38.320 --> 0:37:39.480
<v Speaker 1>not okay, that's terrible.

0:37:40.080 --> 0:37:41.480
<v Speaker 2>That's discussing, is that, Jordan?

0:37:41.560 --> 0:37:42.040
<v Speaker 1>You do that?

0:37:44.880 --> 0:37:45.680
<v Speaker 2>Like I'm gonna fight you.

0:37:45.800 --> 0:37:48.319
<v Speaker 1>But we were I mean essentially kids. I mean we

0:37:48.320 --> 0:37:49.200
<v Speaker 1>were college and you.

0:37:49.200 --> 0:37:53.360
<v Speaker 2>Weren't doing them crazy like that's terrible. Yeah, it was gross.

0:37:53.440 --> 0:37:55.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't like that. I don't want to know you

0:37:55.239 --> 0:37:55.520
<v Speaker 1>like that.

0:37:56.520 --> 0:38:01.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So we all know recently that Nellie and as

0:38:01.600 --> 0:38:04.239
<v Speaker 2>Shanty have spun the block. We talked about this in

0:38:04.280 --> 0:38:07.600
<v Speaker 2>our stupid Internet news in another episode, it's cool spend

0:38:07.640 --> 0:38:10.920
<v Speaker 2>the block. It's been ten years. He has been innother relationships.

0:38:11.040 --> 0:38:13.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't know any other relationships she's been.

0:38:13.160 --> 0:38:14.320
<v Speaker 1>In has been public.

0:38:14.600 --> 0:38:18.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I heard her dating floor Rider at some point.

0:38:18.080 --> 0:38:20.640
<v Speaker 2>Maybe possibly, I don't know. We just know that she's

0:38:20.680 --> 0:38:23.719
<v Speaker 2>just been findings hell on vacation with somebody's for the

0:38:23.800 --> 0:38:25.520
<v Speaker 2>last ten years. We don't know what she's been doing,

0:38:26.040 --> 0:38:29.160
<v Speaker 2>especially for her birthday. I live for a Shanty birthday pictures. Right,

0:38:29.120 --> 0:38:34.759
<v Speaker 2>he looks good, Nelly. I just feel like if he

0:38:34.840 --> 0:38:36.520
<v Speaker 2>was going to spend the block, I feel like you

0:38:36.520 --> 0:38:40.440
<v Speaker 2>should come with a ring. Shouldn't coming? It needs to

0:38:40.440 --> 0:38:43.399
<v Speaker 2>come soon. It shouldn't be the year after next, because

0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:45.400
<v Speaker 2>how long were they in an initial relationship?

0:38:45.480 --> 0:38:47.279
<v Speaker 1>Well, they have to get to read know each other.

0:38:47.320 --> 0:38:47.759
<v Speaker 1>They're different.

0:38:47.840 --> 0:38:51.279
<v Speaker 2>How does that take shit for me at least are you,

0:38:51.480 --> 0:38:54.400
<v Speaker 2>because you're a grown man. At least for you, like

0:38:54.600 --> 0:38:56.960
<v Speaker 2>three months if I already known you. I'm pretty sure

0:38:56.960 --> 0:38:58.840
<v Speaker 2>they spoke to each other over the last ten years.

0:38:58.920 --> 0:39:02.279
<v Speaker 2>It's not like they con You think that Nellie and

0:39:02.360 --> 0:39:05.120
<v Speaker 2>Shanti just never had any contact in the last ten

0:39:05.200 --> 0:39:06.680
<v Speaker 2>years and now maybe not.

0:39:07.000 --> 0:39:11.680
<v Speaker 1>You never know, girloo, you never know. You never know.

0:39:11.920 --> 0:39:14.640
<v Speaker 1>They might have. First time they seen each other was

0:39:14.680 --> 0:39:16.759
<v Speaker 1>on that versus stage for all we know.

0:39:17.320 --> 0:39:19.799
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but if he's going to spend the block,

0:39:19.840 --> 0:39:20.960
<v Speaker 2>I feel like he should come with.

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:22.640
<v Speaker 1>All a ring in three months.

0:39:24.040 --> 0:39:27.000
<v Speaker 2>At their age, what you're waiting for? You don't waste

0:39:27.000 --> 0:39:28.759
<v Speaker 2>how many years before? You just waste ten years of

0:39:28.800 --> 0:39:31.080
<v Speaker 2>another woman's life. What are you here for?

0:39:31.200 --> 0:39:32.640
<v Speaker 1>They wasted each other's time.

0:39:32.800 --> 0:39:35.520
<v Speaker 2>No, I'm pretty sure Shanty wanted to be married before.

0:39:35.800 --> 0:39:38.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty sure she's a woman.

0:39:38.200 --> 0:39:42.000
<v Speaker 1>That don't be shit. I'm a woman. I'm scared girl,

0:39:42.840 --> 0:39:45.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm a commitment for That's what my therapist tell me.

0:39:47.239 --> 0:39:52.319
<v Speaker 2>Let's unpack that for a moment. Why do you think

0:39:52.360 --> 0:39:56.800
<v Speaker 2>it is that you're afraid of commitment? Tam them?

0:39:57.200 --> 0:40:00.520
<v Speaker 1>Can I lay back? I'm just kidding all right. So

0:40:00.840 --> 0:40:03.319
<v Speaker 1>I think I'm afraid of commitment because I don't want

0:40:03.360 --> 0:40:05.920
<v Speaker 1>to choose the wrong person. I don't want to choose

0:40:05.920 --> 0:40:10.719
<v Speaker 1>wrong And I have so many options too, that makes

0:40:10.760 --> 0:40:13.680
<v Speaker 1>it harder to pick one. When you got like endless

0:40:13.719 --> 0:40:17.399
<v Speaker 1>niggas in your dms, endless niggas every time you walk

0:40:17.400 --> 0:40:18.000
<v Speaker 1>out the door.

0:40:18.880 --> 0:40:21.399
<v Speaker 2>That's that's everybody. That's most I do want to say

0:40:21.400 --> 0:40:23.720
<v Speaker 2>most women, because all women don't have all those options.

0:40:23.760 --> 0:40:27.200
<v Speaker 2>But if you're an attractive woman, you definitely got dick

0:40:27.239 --> 0:40:27.879
<v Speaker 2>on our three.

0:40:28.239 --> 0:40:29.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everywhere I go.

0:40:30.200 --> 0:40:34.120
<v Speaker 2>But it's hard for you to pick one. What do

0:40:34.200 --> 0:40:36.960
<v Speaker 2>you entertain? At some point you have to You have

0:40:37.040 --> 0:40:39.960
<v Speaker 2>to entertain at least one person, right, So is the

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:44.040
<v Speaker 2>person you're entertaining somebody that could potentially be your mate

0:40:44.160 --> 0:40:45.879
<v Speaker 2>or is it somebody that is not?

0:40:46.080 --> 0:40:53.440
<v Speaker 1>Also, that's some bullshit, so we both want the same thing. Nothing,

0:40:58.080 --> 0:41:01.360
<v Speaker 1>So you are choosing, I'm not choosing.

0:41:01.520 --> 0:41:05.399
<v Speaker 2>That is choosing. It's not you are choosing because if

0:41:05.440 --> 0:41:08.600
<v Speaker 2>you're given this person the available time when you are available,

0:41:08.600 --> 0:41:12.680
<v Speaker 2>if you're setting aside setting aside time for an unavailable person,

0:41:13.200 --> 0:41:15.960
<v Speaker 2>you could be setting aside setting aside the same time

0:41:16.120 --> 0:41:17.520
<v Speaker 2>for somebody who is available.

0:41:17.560 --> 0:41:22.240
<v Speaker 1>You know what. More recently here I have been making

0:41:22.280 --> 0:41:26.880
<v Speaker 1>time for people who make time havelftime. Yeah, okay, yeah,

0:41:27.120 --> 0:41:29.200
<v Speaker 1>but it is a fear of mine because I just

0:41:29.320 --> 0:41:34.480
<v Speaker 1>don't I just don't want to end up. I be ready, y'all.

0:41:34.560 --> 0:41:37.279
<v Speaker 1>I love love. I mean, I just want to love

0:41:37.440 --> 0:41:41.200
<v Speaker 1>first dates. What is it called?

0:41:41.239 --> 0:41:41.959
<v Speaker 2>What is it called?

0:41:41.960 --> 0:41:44.080
<v Speaker 1>When? Where's the what's the area where they had the

0:41:44.160 --> 0:41:45.680
<v Speaker 1>babies at? After birth?

0:41:47.760 --> 0:41:47.960
<v Speaker 3>War?

0:41:48.440 --> 0:41:53.920
<v Speaker 1>This bitch got more war? Stay with me yesterday? All right?

0:41:54.000 --> 0:41:56.040
<v Speaker 2>Baby? Have you maybe?

0:41:56.280 --> 0:41:58.680
<v Speaker 1>Al right? Baby? All right, baby, I'm gonna call you back,

0:41:58.719 --> 0:42:01.640
<v Speaker 1>getting ready to record. Baby, bitch, how many babies do

0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:07.640
<v Speaker 1>you have? Babies? Meanwhile, I'll be like, all right, my boy,

0:42:08.600 --> 0:42:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna at you.

0:42:11.120 --> 0:42:11.440
<v Speaker 2>That's all.

0:42:11.840 --> 0:42:14.279
<v Speaker 1>I love them, Okay, I know, y'all, my baby.

0:42:15.480 --> 0:42:16.600
<v Speaker 3>I got one baby.

0:42:17.760 --> 0:42:21.400
<v Speaker 1>It'd be different niggas, all of them, all right? So

0:42:21.480 --> 0:42:24.080
<v Speaker 1>do you have any last words for this?

0:42:24.239 --> 0:42:33.480
<v Speaker 2>No? But I feel like, meanwhile, meanwhile, while I'm calling everybody,

0:42:33.560 --> 0:42:38.239
<v Speaker 2>baby right, whichever baby steps up to the plate and

0:42:38.360 --> 0:42:42.560
<v Speaker 2>does all the things I need right, that'll beat it forever.

0:42:42.640 --> 0:42:43.440
<v Speaker 1>Baby.

0:42:43.880 --> 0:42:47.800
<v Speaker 2>So in the meanwhile, all these niggas is that nigga?

0:42:48.080 --> 0:42:49.080
<v Speaker 1>All of them is baby?

0:42:49.160 --> 0:42:51.920
<v Speaker 2>Yes, Okay, let's be clear. That's what they do. This

0:42:52.000 --> 0:42:56.720
<v Speaker 2>is me. I'll let you my boy, thank you for dinner.

0:42:58.719 --> 0:43:02.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm scared. That's another thing. It's not just the options,

0:43:02.680 --> 0:43:06.520
<v Speaker 1>the endless options and the fear of choosing wrong. I'm

0:43:06.520 --> 0:43:10.000
<v Speaker 1>just scared somebody gonna fucking hurt me really badly too.

0:43:10.280 --> 0:43:12.879
<v Speaker 1>Like I've been there before. I've been there anytime I've

0:43:12.920 --> 0:43:17.080
<v Speaker 1>really allowed myself to be opened up, opened and vulnerable

0:43:17.160 --> 0:43:20.239
<v Speaker 1>and like completely submit to a nigga. They take my

0:43:20.280 --> 0:43:21.719
<v Speaker 1>little heart and they drop it on the ground.

0:43:22.920 --> 0:43:24.800
<v Speaker 2>But are you opening up to the right people?

0:43:25.440 --> 0:43:29.480
<v Speaker 1>Apparently not when you do pick so I don't know,

0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:32.560
<v Speaker 1>And like they always seem like the right person at

0:43:32.560 --> 0:43:34.200
<v Speaker 1>the time when I allow myself to be.

0:43:35.920 --> 0:43:38.960
<v Speaker 2>And then show up with that representative and usually you

0:43:38.960 --> 0:43:39.879
<v Speaker 2>don't find out who the.

0:43:39.800 --> 0:43:43.600
<v Speaker 3>Fuck he is until after a second. Yeah, oftentimes, so.

0:43:43.719 --> 0:43:46.480
<v Speaker 1>Once I've been conquered, that's how I feel, like, Oh,

0:43:46.520 --> 0:43:49.000
<v Speaker 1>I allowed this person to conquer me now and now

0:43:49.000 --> 0:43:50.040
<v Speaker 1>they playing with my top.

0:43:50.280 --> 0:43:53.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, women chase after they give the pussy up before

0:43:53.800 --> 0:43:55.920
<v Speaker 2>we have all control, and I ain't got time for that.

0:43:56.040 --> 0:43:59.719
<v Speaker 2>Then all of a sudden, what happened? Like why am

0:43:59.760 --> 0:44:02.600
<v Speaker 2>I look for him. Now in the dark in the daytime.

0:44:02.600 --> 0:44:05.200
<v Speaker 1>Is my online trying to find use car parts for

0:44:05.239 --> 0:44:09.919
<v Speaker 1>this nigga. You know, I just had a flash back.

0:44:12.080 --> 0:44:14.440
<v Speaker 2>But as far as spending the blog, I had a

0:44:14.440 --> 0:44:18.239
<v Speaker 2>homeboy tell me recently that he has intentionally like he

0:44:18.320 --> 0:44:19.800
<v Speaker 2>saw a girl in the club that he tried to

0:44:19.800 --> 0:44:22.160
<v Speaker 2>holler at before. And this is not somebody he actually

0:44:22.600 --> 0:44:25.080
<v Speaker 2>got with. This is just somebody who didn't give him

0:44:25.080 --> 0:44:27.439
<v Speaker 2>a chance. Like when he saw her one other time,

0:44:27.440 --> 0:44:30.160
<v Speaker 2>he tried to haller at her and she like, So,

0:44:30.360 --> 0:44:32.600
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, maybe his aura was different this day.

0:44:32.960 --> 0:44:36.040
<v Speaker 2>She gave him the number, right they start talking, hanging out,

0:44:37.160 --> 0:44:40.879
<v Speaker 2>he intentionally like got her number, hollered at her, made

0:44:40.880 --> 0:44:43.759
<v Speaker 2>her like him just to fuck her and not talk

0:44:43.840 --> 0:44:45.920
<v Speaker 2>to her no more. Yes, so you have to be

0:44:46.040 --> 0:44:50.600
<v Speaker 2>careful of those type of spinners. Also, you coming back

0:44:50.640 --> 0:44:52.600
<v Speaker 2>to around, just coming back around just to play me,

0:44:52.680 --> 0:44:54.640
<v Speaker 2>Like maybe I was in a relationship the first time,

0:44:55.000 --> 0:44:57.080
<v Speaker 2>maybe I had other shit going wide and talk.

0:44:56.960 --> 0:45:00.960
<v Speaker 1>To you, but now you just doing it as a reveal. Yeah,

0:45:01.040 --> 0:45:02.720
<v Speaker 1>because I didn't like you when you were fat.

0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:06.680
<v Speaker 2>So there are some revide revenge spinners. Yeah here, y'all

0:45:06.719 --> 0:45:07.760
<v Speaker 2>be careful.

0:45:07.440 --> 0:45:09.200
<v Speaker 1>No, I know a guy that does that to women,

0:45:09.280 --> 0:45:10.839
<v Speaker 1>Like he used to be fat and now he's not,

0:45:10.960 --> 0:45:12.720
<v Speaker 1>and now he getting all the girls that he couldn't

0:45:12.719 --> 0:45:15.840
<v Speaker 1>get when he was fat, so he could play them.

0:45:16.000 --> 0:45:23.799
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's great, that's him out there barking. Would you

0:45:23.840 --> 0:45:26.359
<v Speaker 1>like to do and tell your.

0:45:30.120 --> 0:45:32.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh we can go back to Diddy and Karesha like

0:45:32.160 --> 0:45:34.600
<v Speaker 2>so so then it just last week she said she

0:45:34.719 --> 0:45:36.640
<v Speaker 2>was out of that relationship. She wanted her own nigga,

0:45:36.840 --> 0:45:39.400
<v Speaker 2>her own nigga this summer, all this shit, now you

0:45:39.560 --> 0:45:43.719
<v Speaker 2>back outside. Hey, I don't judge my friends when they

0:45:43.760 --> 0:45:48.000
<v Speaker 2>do shit like that. If you like him, I love him,

0:45:48.040 --> 0:45:51.279
<v Speaker 2>so yeah, I'm okay when my friends spend the block

0:45:51.320 --> 0:45:53.879
<v Speaker 2>on a dude. To allow a dude to spend the block,

0:45:53.960 --> 0:45:55.799
<v Speaker 2>I don't try to deter them me neither.

0:45:55.960 --> 0:45:58.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't have I can't. I am in no position

0:45:58.280 --> 0:46:01.640
<v Speaker 1>to tell anybody anything about their relationship when it comes

0:46:01.680 --> 0:46:02.000
<v Speaker 1>to that.

0:46:02.800 --> 0:46:05.640
<v Speaker 2>Spend the block, spind it. If you want to spend

0:46:05.680 --> 0:46:06.880
<v Speaker 2>the block on my only.

0:46:06.760 --> 0:46:10.759
<v Speaker 1>My only advice is just wear a condom. That's my only.

0:46:14.040 --> 0:46:15.000
<v Speaker 1>He's a common guy.

0:46:15.560 --> 0:46:17.840
<v Speaker 2>Just go get tested. See y'all can slip and slide,

0:46:18.840 --> 0:46:20.120
<v Speaker 2>like make a whole date out of it.

0:46:20.239 --> 0:46:22.360
<v Speaker 1>You know, you can get tested today and then he

0:46:22.400 --> 0:46:27.080
<v Speaker 1>can follow and then come back to you with girl

0:46:27.160 --> 0:46:29.759
<v Speaker 1>put in a lot unless you're getting tested every day

0:46:30.040 --> 0:46:36.360
<v Speaker 1>a Christian, that's what he gave us, these kind.

0:46:36.120 --> 0:46:39.920
<v Speaker 2>Of skin you So God gave y'all condoms connors be

0:46:39.920 --> 0:46:43.719
<v Speaker 2>irritating like Cucie. Okay, y'all did not create that. God did.

0:46:44.200 --> 0:46:48.080
<v Speaker 1>He created the mind that created that. So I'm just

0:46:48.120 --> 0:46:50.600
<v Speaker 1>here for it. I don't ever want to be nowhere like,

0:46:50.680 --> 0:46:53.560
<v Speaker 1>oh what happened to Tammy? Oh y'all didn't hear? It's

0:46:53.680 --> 0:46:54.759
<v Speaker 1>so sad.

0:46:56.160 --> 0:46:57.200
<v Speaker 2>Because I have got.

0:46:57.000 --> 0:46:59.400
<v Speaker 1>Something in my vagina. Like, No, I don't want to

0:46:59.400 --> 0:47:02.920
<v Speaker 1>be like on a be because it's some dick. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just not how I'm going about it.

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<v Speaker 2>That could happen from your husband.

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<v Speaker 1>It is. But then at least I made a viow

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<v Speaker 1>before God. Now this was Guy's decision for me. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I don't know both.

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<v Speaker 2>Ways, That's what I'm saying. I'm just playing, y'all. Safe sex,

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<v Speaker 2>always practical play. You gonna make a whole date out

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<v Speaker 2>of going and get tested together. Get y'all people work

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<v Speaker 2>and have like a pink slip party.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the worst idea, because what if somebody slip

0:47:34.520 --> 0:47:37.640
<v Speaker 1>come back fucked up. Now it's no longer a party.

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<v Speaker 2>A memorial ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, go get your tests and bring your paperwork back.

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<v Speaker 2>Niggas be cheating off their girlfriend tests or whoever they

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<v Speaker 2>want test, So you've got to make sure they bring

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<v Speaker 2>their own tests with their social and name on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Niggas do not go get the first of all, they

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<v Speaker 1>just don't go to the hospital period. That much. Black

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<v Speaker 1>men are they be on I've seen black men literally

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<v Speaker 1>on their deathbed before they'll even go to the hospital. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why won't you go check on yourself?

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<v Speaker 2>That's why you need a wife. Y'all out here not

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<v Speaker 2>making sure your women do the same thing. Goad bitches.

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<v Speaker 2>Be'all have with bad livers pussy good though, because you

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<v Speaker 2>went to the obg y am, but you ain't had

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<v Speaker 2>a full physical.

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<v Speaker 1>You point at me like you talk about I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>going to the door.

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<v Speaker 2>My heart, my heart bad, and my pussy good. Like, girls,

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<v Speaker 2>that's crazy. We need to do a damn a physical

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<v Speaker 2>challenge for the month of June.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean, Like, yeah, go get a full physical,

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<v Speaker 3>get a full blood work up.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, make sure you're good, you know, get you

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<v Speaker 2>some Obamacare.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to Well, you can't get obamacare right now,

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<v Speaker 1>I think the it is closed. But you can prepare

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<v Speaker 1>for the end of this year to go get you

0:48:50.680 --> 0:48:52.759
<v Speaker 1>some health care, or just go get you some health

0:48:52.800 --> 0:48:55.360
<v Speaker 1>care if you get afforded, you know. But I have

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<v Speaker 1>to get I have to get my body checked all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, just because I have MS, so they're always

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<v Speaker 1>usually checking my levels, my blood work and all that

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<v Speaker 1>good stuff. But people don't go often at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Nope, they be scared too.

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<v Speaker 1>And I can understand the fear though, like sometimes ignorance

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<v Speaker 1>is bliss, especially like if you got something going on,

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<v Speaker 1>you might be scared to go. I can get I

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<v Speaker 1>understand that.

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<v Speaker 3>Today's just gonna be around here violating other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I know, but I understand the fear though, so

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<v Speaker 1>ooh lot.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like talk about stuff now.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why it's just easier to just put on a condom.

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<v Speaker 1>Anytime I ever fuck without a condom, I go to

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<v Speaker 1>bed like this at night.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank God. If you ever can't sleep just.

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<v Speaker 1>Laying in the dark with my eyes offen, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>doing that no more. I be like you sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>Peacefully up sull do.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>These are jokes. Okay, let's be clear anyway, bitch listen,

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<v Speaker 2>spend the block or not be careful. That's the that's

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<v Speaker 2>my word, right, you know what I mean? Because sometimes

0:49:59.160 --> 0:50:01.520
<v Speaker 2>certain people will and hit your phone. It's like, is

0:50:01.560 --> 0:50:03.680
<v Speaker 2>this nigga coming to bring me some shit? I do

0:50:03.760 --> 0:50:06.920
<v Speaker 2>think that about certain people, like does he have a

0:50:06.960 --> 0:50:09.520
<v Speaker 2>special delivery he's trying to drop off? Because why are

0:50:09.560 --> 0:50:10.640
<v Speaker 2>you on my phone right now?

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<v Speaker 1>It's the dick they're trying to drop off. But what's

0:50:13.760 --> 0:50:14.080
<v Speaker 1>in it?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? What's in the dick?

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<v Speaker 3>They might not know exactly, So why are you here?

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<v Speaker 2>Sir?

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<v Speaker 3>He careful y'all listen.

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