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Speaker 1: Talk, Talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with

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Speaker 1: an opinion to talk.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode that

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Speaker 2: we talked back, A show dedicated to you negroes and

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Speaker 2: you pros and everybody else in between. Hello, beautiful people,

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Speaker 2: it's your co host AJ Holliday. What's up team now?

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Speaker 1: I like how you came in today full of energy

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Speaker 1: and I got none.

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Speaker 2: I don't even got no blood. I had no energy.

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Speaker 2: Been just gone.

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Speaker 1: Hey y'all, it's Tan Bama. I love y'all. Thank y'all

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Speaker 1: for tuning in again.

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Speaker 2: What's up girl?

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Speaker 1: How your weekend outside of bleating?

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Speaker 2: I was outside yesterday. That's why I got zero energy today.

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Speaker 1: What'd you do?

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Speaker 2: Just hanging out? It's a new spot down here and Charleston.

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Speaker 2: Y'all check it out if you're in the city. Uh,

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Speaker 2: it's called the Montague Room.

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Speaker 1: I was about to come there yesterday. The Drosan for

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Speaker 1: what I tell you, just to take my homegirl out

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Speaker 1: going through it. So I was gonna bring her down there.

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Speaker 1: But we looked at the weather and they said it

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Speaker 1: was about the rain.

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Speaker 2: Real it definitely rain, Yeah, it definitely rained dry. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but you know, Chausa is a very good place just

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Speaker 2: to hang out for a day because we have a

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Speaker 2: lot of good food options. Downtown has always lit. You

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Speaker 2: know it's gonna be you know, majority beach, but you

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Speaker 2: can have a great time down there, and we have

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Speaker 2: a very lovely rooftop bar. It's one of my favorite

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Speaker 2: places here. It's just so like it's almost like being

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Speaker 2: in Tuloom in Charleston. Maybe it's called ritual. It's really

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Speaker 2: really nice. It's not my favorite spots.

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Speaker 1: I didn't do shit this weekend. I literally when I

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Speaker 1: got home from work, I stayed in the house. I

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Speaker 1: and it's Monday, y'all. So I stayed in the house.

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Speaker 1: My hair fucked up. Like, let me tell you something.

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Speaker 1: I worked out. I told you I was trying to

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Speaker 1: operation up the big My back is in full swing,

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Speaker 1: and I worked out like a mad woman last week

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Speaker 1: and I literally I did the JJ Smith ten day

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Speaker 1: Swoothie cleans. I'm on day eight today and y'all, I

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Speaker 1: a bitch lost ten pounds in the past eight days.

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Speaker 2: Oh god.

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Speaker 1: Now, well, my hair is nappy as fuck. So I

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Speaker 1: didn't go nowhere except for the gym.

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Speaker 2: That's all I did, is this black women, man, I

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Speaker 2: hair really be holding us back. Fuck that hair. That

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Speaker 2: summer of y'all got to get the workouts and get

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Speaker 2: some braids or something, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Get you a wig and just take it off to

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Speaker 1: go to the gym and go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, money through Friday. It's a weig hat for me.

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Speaker 2: Money through Friday. Hat weig hat hat wig money through Friday.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to go get some of those bohemian knotless

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Speaker 1: braids with all the like curly hair mixed in it.

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Speaker 1: I like get that tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: I want I think I showed it to you. I

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Speaker 2: want that fairy hair, man, I want the folox mixed

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Speaker 2: with like the curly hair.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I went that next after my birthday. Yes, that's

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Speaker 1: so cute, But that that look was more fair like

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Speaker 1: curly hair than it was locks. She just clipped in

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Speaker 1: a couple of locks. I would want it where it's

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Speaker 1: more locks most of the lots. Yeah, I like that,

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Speaker 2: Them dad full locks took my hairt a little bit.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Maybe I'll do it again.

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Speaker 1: Then my couchie hairy. My couchie is so hairy right now?

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Speaker 2: What what are we talking about?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I just felt like I needed to share that,

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Speaker 1: like my wax girl quick out of nowhere. And y'all know,

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Speaker 1: I had that surgery so I couldn't get no wax

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Speaker 1: for a long time. So I'm finally healed and now

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Speaker 1: I want a wax. My pussy looked like but we.

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Speaker 2: And that's hot outside. I'm just hot. Do something with that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I might have the ner this ship. I'm had

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Speaker 1: to find somebody new because it's not giving what it's

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Speaker 3: It's given onion giving number one, extra onions.

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Speaker 2: Girl, because that hair. I don't know about Yuba, bitch.

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Speaker 2: Between that and my left under arm, I got to

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Speaker 2: be careful with life, Okay, I got to be real

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Speaker 2: careful in the summertime.

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Speaker 1: I need to have to come back to work. She

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Speaker 2: Good, y'all. Let's get into the stupid end of that news.

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Speaker 2: That's enough why I got that weekend. It's something else

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Speaker 2: I want to say, but I can't remember anyway, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Kim Kardashian says she cries herself to sleep at night

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Speaker 2: because she's a single parent. What do you think about that? Tom?

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Speaker 1: You know what as a stay at home, just to

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Speaker 1: really don't have much of opinion. I don't know what

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Speaker 2: Mama, mama, mama, mama.

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Speaker 1: I could imagine like you might cry yourself to sleep

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Speaker 1: at sometimes. I remember how I knowing I was as

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Speaker 2: I remember hearing her say to that too, because it's

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Speaker 2: like it's an unconscious thing. I think that kids do

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Speaker 2: and watch me do dumb shit. So now let me

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Speaker 2: on the fucking phone. You need something all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So I can imagine that she's not lying. Even with

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Speaker 1: mom afore like a real because I don't really consider

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Speaker 1: her a single mom because she got so much, you know,

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Speaker 2: Right, yeah, because I think I pictured Kim Kardashian as

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Speaker 2: a woman that's single as opposed to a single mom.

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Speaker 2: So she was like, so like, yeah, when you're in it,

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Speaker 2: I mean, especially when you're babies, and when they're babies

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Speaker 2: she continues, Right, she says, she's detailing that you have

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Speaker 2: no idea what's going on in the mornings. Kardashian adds,

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Speaker 2: it's like I always have to do one of my

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Speaker 2: kind of rough for her.

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Speaker 1: Girl, Get you some motherfucker help, Like you literally could

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Speaker 1: harry somebody to be standing there in the dark waiting

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Speaker 2: Yes, like come on, Kim, and you know everybody, the

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Speaker 2: thing is that she didn't have to leave her husband,

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Speaker 2: She didn't have to get a divorced shouldn't met me shut.

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Speaker 3: I don't like how y'all be doing Kanye, man.

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Speaker 2: I really love Kanye.

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Speaker 1: Kanye had a bitch out there. It's a black duck

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Speaker 1: tape this past week.

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Speaker 2: Miss me with that.

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Speaker 3: He ain't have a bitch doing nothing. Them bitch just

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Speaker 3: be wanting to He.

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Speaker 1: Got Kim hell for being nicked and now his new bitch,

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Speaker 1: his new wife literally had on black electric tape as

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Speaker 1: an outfit.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why they be doing this, Like y'all

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Speaker 3: just want to be this man.

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Speaker 2: You so bad, you.

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't be as muse if you know what I am not.

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Speaker 1: Somebody see you now walking in the Noble with your

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Speaker 2: Y'all haven't seen that video where JT is yelling at

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Speaker 2: lit UZI, like they walking into like an apartment store

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Speaker 2: and something. He just takes off running like a little

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Speaker 2: badass kit and she's like, what the fuck you doing?

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Speaker 2: That would beat me with Kanye and his ass up

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Speaker 2: all day, nigga. I would have the mama teeth on

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Speaker 2: all day for Kanye if you don't sit through. And

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Speaker 2: that's what he needs a lot of these men that's

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Speaker 2: their damn need, man, they do. They need their mama

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Speaker 2: to bot badass kids, all right.

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Speaker 1: Ari says that she doesn't want to be married the

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Speaker 1: money bag because of the baby mamas. And what I

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Speaker 1: think it is is she don't want to pay child support.

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Speaker 2: You to her own money, absolutely, because you know, when

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Speaker 2: you merge, get married, you're one. So whenever those mothers.

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Speaker 2: I think he has like eight kids, she has one.

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Speaker 2: So if I get married to you, they're gonna be

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Speaker 2: dipping in my account. A girl. I used to work

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Speaker 2: couples accounts like with their husbands, and it was for

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Speaker 2: child support from another relationship, for an outside child. I can't, like,

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Speaker 2: the government can't differentiate whose money is who y'all have

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Speaker 2: this joint account. It happens, listen, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, don't think I can ever be with a nigga

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Speaker 1: who got eight kids?

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Speaker 2: Right like what I look like having the ninth I'm confused, right, girl?

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Speaker 2: Ye you didn't let that dick make a slave out

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Speaker 3: I'm scared of it. Eight people, and I wonder how

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Speaker 3: many different baby mamas.

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Speaker 1: I was talking to a nigga. He had two kids,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, I can do two, and

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Speaker 1: then a third one popped up three years old. I

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Speaker 1: I ain't call that nigga since.

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Speaker 2: You ever had a dude. You ever ask a guy

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Speaker 2: if he has any kids and he's like nah, And

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Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, he just pops up with

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Speaker 2: a newborn. You like, but I thought you didn't have

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Speaker 2: any kids. He was like, well, the baby wasn't here yet.

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Speaker 2: And I had nobody saying that like that to me,

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Speaker 2: but that happened to me once upon a time.

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Speaker 3: These men are fucking crazy.

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Speaker 1: I done had a nigga not claim one of his kids,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, well, I someone told me you

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Speaker 1: have a son. Because he has a daughter too. He

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Speaker 1: somebody told me you have a son, and he was like,

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Speaker 1: I ain't seen that little nigga in years, yo.

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Speaker 2: Ill that's I.

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Speaker 1: Immediately stopped talking to him. I was like, well why not,

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Speaker 1: because he's literally, from what I understand, he's like an

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Speaker 1: hour and a half away.

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Speaker 3: They called him looking just like him, looking just like you.

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Speaker 1: Somewhere he's like his mama won't let me see him.

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Speaker 1: And if that little nigga, when that little nigga grow up,

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Speaker 1: if you want to find me, he find me. Ill.

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Speaker 1: I could not believe that he said that. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: I ain't talked to him since.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's disgusting. And any woman that would continue to

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Speaker 2: deal with a man who talks like that about a child,

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Speaker 2: What this is why this. I'm not human. I don't

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Speaker 2: When I caught him, he denied it to all his friends,

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Speaker 2: A kid, right And you know, like she's mentioned laundry

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Speaker 1: Though he appeared disoriented, Riley was polite and cooperative as

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Speaker 2: I know addiction is very hard man damn. So he

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Speaker 2: keep making sure you know Republican like that fucking matters

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Speaker 2: like crack comes in all shape sizes, crackheads.

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Speaker 1: Joe Brown, little oozy verts. I want a rock was

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Speaker 2: Yeah yo, because you imagine he was like, it's not

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Speaker 2: a cruck park. What crack pipe?

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Speaker 1: Like, bit, what crack pipe?

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Speaker 2: This is a peace pipe.

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Speaker 1: I'm a politician.

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Speaker 2: No, you are crackaholic, that's what you are. So apparently

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Speaker 2: the contents did test positive for cocaine and hmm Fenton al,

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Speaker 2: y'all listen, if you listen to this show and you

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Speaker 1: Or at least find out where your community narcia and

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Speaker 1: Niggas just die every day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, it's wild. I know that people

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Speaker 2: don't know what the fuck you're doing. So I've been

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Speaker 2: told that a pinch of fentanyl can kill you. Did

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Speaker 1: Damn mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: That's wild man. That stuff is very dangerous.

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Speaker 1: It's very strong, very powerful. Yeah, I don't know. Well,

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Speaker 1: I hope mister Ridley get his life back together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, where a regular crack at like crackheads lived forever,

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Speaker 2: they died from gilling ship like cancer and stuff. They

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Speaker 1: It's wow, y'all are ruining drugs for everybody.

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Speaker 2: Right because they're sprinkling the ship on the weed now,

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Speaker 2: like I don't want no magic or my ship. Listen,

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Speaker 2: all right, y'all, we're talking about spending block this week, Okay,

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Speaker 2: it's summertime.

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Speaker 3: It usually just happens during the winter. But there's a

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Speaker 1: Listen, my d's got a lot of skirt.

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Speaker 2: Skirt. Yeah, they trying to check the temperature on that pussy,

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Speaker 2: trying to check the temperature. Trus see what's going on.

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Speaker 4: It's her right now, Y'all's her. I don't know if

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Speaker 4: y'all wanted to know, but it's her. We're just saying, Harry, yeah, bitch,

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Speaker 1: All right, y'all, we are bad. Yeah, all right. So

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Speaker 1: I saw Kresha and post this acting bad with the nigga.

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Speaker 1: I told y'all I was done with and you know

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Speaker 1: we've all been there, so I wanted us to have

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Speaker 2: I don't like spending the block. I can spend on you,

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Speaker 2: but don't try to spend on me. I'm offended, really.

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Speaker 1: So you have never dealt with a guy that spun

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Speaker 1: the block on you?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, But I'm always looking at your eyes from the

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Speaker 1: I just feel like all my niggas is a spin

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Speaker 1: I might as well be on the motherfucking Ferris Wheel.

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Speaker 3: I definitely keep the same niggas and hea your rotation

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Speaker 3: over the years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's easier, no new notches than your belt, right.

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Speaker 3: No, you definitely get some new notches in between them.

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Speaker 1: But not not every notch is a new notch, right,

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Speaker 1: So that's I'm okay with that. So I went and

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Speaker 1: list of questions to ask yourself before you let someone

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Speaker 1: Do you you in the block? Right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I definitely not. Hey, bighead, Wait a minute, I

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Speaker 2: Oh I lied, And this is just I told you

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Speaker 2: about this just recently, somebody I spent the block block

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Speaker 2: you know, over the years, he just kept, you know,

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Speaker 2: come such and such visit me da da da da.

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Speaker 2: And when I finally did it, it was like payback, bitch. Nah,

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Speaker 2: he ain't never ghost me, but he just started. He

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Speaker 2: just was doing the fucking most he was, you said

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Speaker 2: she was my husband. That's why I spun the block back.

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Speaker 2: And he really lied to me because now you still

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Speaker 2: real hard. From one point. It was just it lasted

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Speaker 2: me about three or four months and it was just

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Speaker 1: Did he try to come back and spend it yea, yes.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, nah, I tried spinning. Yeah, no more spinning.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here, I'm trying to think. Have I ever spun

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Uh So here's the things that Oprah Daily dot Com

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Speaker 1: all right, is the main issue that drove you apart resolvable?

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Speaker 1: Half the time, we never even revisit that ship before

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Speaker 1: we spend the block. We beat on forgot why we

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Speaker 3: Nah, I usually know exactly why I don't.

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Speaker 1: I beat on forgot, depending on how much the time

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Speaker 3: See, you might be petty. It takes me a while

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Speaker 1: I just I just I just changed my I don't

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Speaker 1: like I heat you. I literally just changed my HBO

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Speaker 1: password on a watch gut and but thrones now beat.

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Speaker 2: Like he probably was right there, what a hole at

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Speaker 2: the same time when his cable went out, like, oh,

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00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 2: let me call you don't got no cable.

437
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 1: You ain't got no cable, nigga, watch it on your phone,

438
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 1: watch whatever you can. You're gonna have to scroll Instagram, nigga.

439
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 2: All right.

440
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 1: Uh So the next thing is says, do you both

441
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: agree on what your past differences were?

442
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 2: I feel like maybe that's why I stop talking to people,

443
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 2: like and you know, we talk about this a lot

444
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 2: of perception, how people perceive what happens. I feel like

445
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:35,879
Speaker 2: a lot of times men have a good time in

446
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 2: a relationship.

447
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 3: Meanwhile you just over that shit.

448
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 2: It's like they don't have the same They don't interpret

449
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 2: what's going on in the relationship the same way.

450
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 1: No, I don't think ever, I don't think it's always differently.

451
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 2: They're never exactly why you left, or never understand or

452
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 2: they may understand it right, But they're intentionally, which I

453
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 2: feel like they dont acting like you don't know what

454
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 2: the hell I'm talking about, to further drive me nuts. Right,

455
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 2: So now I got to block your ass because I

456
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:07,920
Speaker 2: want to keep my sanity.

457
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 1: Why do we spend the block? Though? Typically it's like

458
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 1: there's something, Yeah, there's something, you.

459
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 2: Know, I have a saying and you are what you eat,

460
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 2: therefore you are who you beat. Yes, right, so there's

461
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 2: something about this person that you see yourself and them

462
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 2: a little bit in order for you to.

463
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 1: Deal with them.

464
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:29,639
Speaker 2: So that's probably why it's just the familiality or the

465
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 2: dick bomb that pard like, I know this one is

466
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 2: going to do it for me, right, I don't feel

467
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 2: like trying a new one.

468
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,120
Speaker 1: That's a lot of the reason why I ever spend

469
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: the block.

470
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 2: Right?

471
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 1: Have you given each other enough space to know how

472
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:49,120
Speaker 1: to do things better this time? You know what? There

473
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 1: is someone that I had been talking to you that

474
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 1: when we were talking or we were living in Europe

475
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: when we were talking and he was just a wild boy.

476
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 1: He was like just you know, doing all the things,

477
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,399
Speaker 1: getting real money for the first time because we're in

478
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 1: our twenties, he's starting to get real money. For the

479
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,360
Speaker 1: first time, he very good looking, like he was out

480
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 1: there having his way, and now he older, hairline back

481
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 1: a little bit.

482
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 2: Don't choose me now, you know through.

483
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 1: But I like him more now because he just seems

484
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: like more subtle, not even humble, just more grown.

485
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 2: Because these niggas go get that, these holes need me

486
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 2: headcut and they be acting brand new in two days

487
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 2: because it only lasts about forty eight hours.

488
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: But he is better now though, So I think there

489
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 1: is something that comes with like time, you know, like

490
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: a little growth on both parties. Because I wasn't no saint,

491
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: you know.

492
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: One of my homegirls, so she was dating a guy

493
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 2: who was much older than her when we were in

494
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 2: our twenties and early thirties, and you know, he was

495
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,400
Speaker 2: trying to get to the bag, like he was trying

496
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 2: to get So now he's a millionaire. So now she's

497
00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,719
Speaker 2: more subtle, doesn't have to be outside as much, and

498
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 2: now she's like reconsidering the relationship and like what she

499
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 2: could have done differently earlier on.

500
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: But so he don't want her now, Well he's in

501
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 1: a relationship now.

502
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 2: She wants to be like, man, he we don't have

503
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 2: sex enough, got some problem okay, especially older men, right,

504
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,119
Speaker 2: because was that on our show or somebody else to

505
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,160
Speaker 2: show we were talking about when men reach their their

506
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 2: sexual peak.

507
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: I think it's on everybody's.

508
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 2: Show, like us our age like fucking out of both pants?

509
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 1: Yeah right now My age is fluid. But you know

510
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: when you get to a certain age out of and

511
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,880
Speaker 1: then men they usually get there.

512
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 2: There.

513
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: What is it? It's not libido because that's what women.

514
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 2: Have men havelabido everybody libido?

515
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 1: Oh, I thought that was a feeling.

516
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 3: We just don't get our beatle libido catered to like

517
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 3: men do like.

518
00:26:53,560 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 1: They don't want my beat up, my beat o, please sir?

519
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 2: Okay.

520
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 1: The next question is your ex open to getting back together,

521
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 1: because that's another thing. You spend a block on the

522
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 1: nigga and he'll just do you like that.

523
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, but he wanted me back and then once I

524
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 2: got back there, you know, that's like an ongoing thing

525
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 2: for me. I always tell people, Yeah, I feel like

526
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 2: a lot of men just like the idea right until

527
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,640
Speaker 2: they actually get me, and then you're trying to treat

528
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 2: me all type of ways.

529
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: I think some it's all about a challenge oftentimes with me,

530
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 1: like niggas want to like just conquer right or see

531
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 1: if they still have access. It's not even really about

532
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: having me. It's about having access to me still.

533
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 2: You know that's one thing women need to you know,

534
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,199
Speaker 2: how we be telling I got all these niggas, I

535
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 2: got somebody's gonna do whatever I want them.

536
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 1: I don't never say niggas do I have y'all, I

537
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: don't hear nothing.

538
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 2: A lot of these dudes just want to know that

539
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 2: they still got access. You can be entertaining somebody. They

540
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 2: feel like little pool when you start talking to somebody

541
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 2: else or how they come with the bullshit. Just so

542
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 2: don't be letting nobody call you'all phone in the middle

543
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 2: of the night on some bullshit.

544
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 1: No, like that nigga on the elevator we just seen

545
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, un handy, you've been texting me

546
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: ever saying this boy, you ain't even think about me.

547
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 2: Now you see your crummy paws off me.

548
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 1: Unhand me, sir.

549
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 2: This nigger we walk into elevated tas like this nigger

550
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 2: and I'm like, who's this young man?

551
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 1: The next one? Are you afraid you won't find someone else?

552
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 1: That's another reason why people spend the block because they

553
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: go back to what, like you said, it was familiar.

554
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 1: You know, this is something familiar. It may not be

555
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: the best, but it is something that I know, get

556
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: right that I know it's the lesser evil. Sometimes people

557
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: feel like, read that question again. Are you afraid you

558
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: won't find someone else?

559
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of women go through that.

560
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. It's like almost like.

561
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 3: You're ready to go, you leave, but then the dating scene.

562
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 2: Is true crash. So you're about to start this new

563
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 2: conquest with a new batch of niggas that I ain't

564
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 2: doing with a new batch of men, right, And you

565
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 2: gotta figure out everybody's little quirks and likes and dislikes.

566
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 2: And it's very it's time consuming, it's nerve wrecking. It's

567
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 2: just like, damn, my mother will go back to my

568
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 2: old nigga, deal with that dumb shit.

569
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: I got a story.

570
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 2: I know him.

571
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: I remember I broke me and my guy had broken

572
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: up and we had been together for some years. And

573
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: this is me firstly back outside and I wasn't fucking

574
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: with nobody for a couple of months. I just like,

575
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: I need some time to myself. So finally I'm back

576
00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: outside and I'm dating and I went out and I

577
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 1: met this man and he was so fine. This was

578
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: like a one night stand, right, and he was so

579
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: fine and we were like kissing. We went to his house.

580
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: We were kissing, is all passionate, like something out of

581
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 1: the movie. And we had sex and it was so bad.

582
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: It was so bad. He sucked me like a little

583
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: rabbit and like his diad was small, and it was

584
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 1: like I was. I drove home crying, God, nigga bad

585
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 1: cause you don't let somebody else use your couchie.

586
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a mistake. It was a big mistake.

587
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: And I just thought he was about to lay it

588
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: down because he was so fine and the passionate kissing.

589
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 2: He might have been maybe because he was maybe he

590
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 2: was excited.

591
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 1: Was it little like Roger rabbit, like a little rabbit

592
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: pumping fast and it was little. I couldn't feel it.

593
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 2: That's different.

594
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 1: I cried, nigga back, I spun the block. But maybe

595
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: I miss you. Let's try again after that experience. So

596
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 1: last question, will you ask your X the tough questions,

597
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: like the tough questions about like why are our relationship

598
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: dissolved and what can we do to make it better

599
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: this time. Man, I feel like the people I've left,

600
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: I'm not going back, like for real, like the real

601
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 1: relationships you're in, like that last.

602
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 2: Years, Like you tried for a really long time. Why

603
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 2: are you going back? I feel like you just need

604
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 2: to remember the bad things.

605
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 3: That's what that to keep you away for that person, you.

606
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 2: Know, because when when you're in a relationship, you're always

607
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 2: trying to weigh the good and the bad to try

608
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 2: and stay. And oftentimes women just need one reason to stay.

609
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 2: Give me one reason to stay here. Yet I turn

610
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 2: back around.

611
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: That's a real thing, right, Give me me wh a

612
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 1: million reasons to league?

613
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 2: Right, But he'd be like, baby, I love you.

614
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 1: I love you too, and right back, And then you

615
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 1: were and then you're reminded shortly after why the fuck

616
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: you left in the.

617
00:31:55,640 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 2: First acting exactly so like the actual real relationships though,

618
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 2: the relationships you're in for many many years. I feel

619
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 2: like you know why you left. You tried for a

620
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 2: very long time. You gave a lot of grace. It

621
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 2: just wasn't working out. And a lot of times people

622
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 2: just are better as friends. So the guy I told

623
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 2: you about that I spun the block on because I

624
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 2: did do him dirty, like and I don't know two

625
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 2: thousand and eight or so, e remeybody I told you

626
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 2: to do? Who hacked my Facebook page?

627
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: That?

628
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 2: No, it was soldier boy. So I spun the block

629
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 2: on him, like after I got out my last relationship

630
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 2: and during that relationship, like I never would entertain anybody.

631
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 2: My ex knows now for sure that I will ignore

632
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 2: the fuck out somebody I don't fuck with m Like,

633
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 2: you know, while we were in a relationship, he would

634
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 2: always like accuse me of doing this. And when I

635
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 2: don't fuck with you, I make it known. So now

636
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 2: he gets to feel that. So this this person was

637
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 2: always like a friend of mine. So I'm like, you

638
00:32:58,040 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 2: know how you always be like, oh you got to

639
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 2: marry your friend, because I feel like my ex was

640
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 2: never my friend. You know what I'm saying. We went

641
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 2: straight into like boyfriend girlfriend shit, you know what I'm saying,

642
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 2: Like he never knew me just as a friend.

643
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 1: Well, I don't think it's necessary to like just be

644
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: homies first, You don't think so?

645
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 2: No, I think so, man, because some of some of

646
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,479
Speaker 2: my guy friends that you know, maybe I had been

647
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 2: intimate before, or maybe we just you know, just straight

648
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 2: platonica the whole time I've known them. They know me

649
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 2: to my core, you know what I'm saying. So it's

650
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 2: never like any weird ass misunderstandings, like they know who

651
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 2: aj Ashley is? Right with that niggas like why are

652
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: you playing with me? Like I don't know who the

653
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 2: fuck I am?

654
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 1: So did you not present yourself the same way?

655
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 2: Yes, the very same way. So it's just a different

656
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 2: level of respect. I think that men generally respect their

657
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 2: female friends more than they respect women they actually deal with.

658
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: Yes, I don't know if I'm the same way around

659
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: my platonic male friends that I am around guys that

660
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: I'm dating.

661
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 2: At first, what's different.

662
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: Because I'm a fart in front of one of my homeboys,

663
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 1: I can be like, excuse me, my nigga, you know,

664
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 1: like I'm like a whole nigga. I'm if I have to,

665
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,760
Speaker 1: it would not be on person. Yeah, okay, if it happens,

666
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 1: I would never like to sleep. I would not lift

667
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 1: up my leg to fart in front of my homeboy.

668
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm not like that, But if it happened, I wouldn't

669
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: be you know, I wouldn't feel a way.

670
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 2: Can you be at home by yourself lifting your leg

671
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 2: up in fart, lifting my leg up.

672
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: No, but you know how guys play with each other,

673
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 1: right yeah, no, no, absolutely not. But I wouldn't feel

674
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 1: like if I farted in front of a guy I

675
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: was dating, I would be hugely embarrassed. Right but my homeboy,

676
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: i'd be like, nigga just when.

677
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. So, your mate, your lifetime partner,

678
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 2: you should be comfortable farting in front of them. No,

679
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:50,879
Speaker 2: they don't give a damn. They could be a guy

680
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:51,439
Speaker 2: you just met.

681
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 1: No, men do care about stuff like that.

682
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 2: I know they do, which I'm saying like I wouldn't

683
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 2: do it, but if it happens, it's not going to

684
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 2: be like I didn't know. Women farn't what are you doing? No?

685
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I don't want nobody who's gonna be like

686
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: weird about it. My mom never farted in her life.

687
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:14,279
Speaker 1: Yes she did, Yeah, but I just I would not

688
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 1: do that in front of someone. I would be mortified

689
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 1: if I did it in in front of somebody. It

690
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 1: took me so long to even you know, go number

691
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: two at my.

692
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,479
Speaker 2: Guy's house that you'm hiding like a cat.

693
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, go get me some ice creep right down, bigga, God,

694
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: hurry up, get out of here, like, go somewhere so

695
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: I could use the bathroom. It took me so long.

696
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 2: So I don't like people who want to come talk

697
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 2: to me while I'm taking a shit, like I already

698
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 2: know what you smell, like like know you?

699
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: That's when you really really in there, that's when you're

700
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 1: really comfortable with each other.

701
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 2: Can I have some privacy? I don't like people like

702
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,800
Speaker 2: I don't know how we going into this type of shit, literally,

703
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 2: but do men like I don't want to say, violate

704
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 2: you like it could be a hot summer day. Have

705
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 2: you ever had anybody like swipe your butt crack on

706
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 2: a hot summer sunny day?

707
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: No, what the fuck?

708
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 2: Like why you want to know me that intimately? Like

709
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 2: swipe smell? Who did that to you? Multiple people have

710
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 2: done that to me in life.

711
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,280
Speaker 1: You must be walking around a little wingy.

712
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 2: Like I do have HBO and I'm fully aware of it.

713
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,879
Speaker 2: That's why I shower the way I do. You're never

714
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 2: gonna smell me just outside funky. But at what point

715
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 2: do you think you don't stink? You? Not you about?

716
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,720
Speaker 1: Should you talking about good?

717
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 2: Yes? Like just straight violating, like I just want to

718
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 2: see what you sell, Like why I feel like there's

719
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 2: some things women have to keep like a secret. You

720
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:52,240
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. I don't believe in women getting

721
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 2: dressed in front of men, Like can I get my

722
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 2: space so I can do my magic? Bitch?

723
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 1: You know it is my man. I don't mind getting

724
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: dressed in front of them. I don't know, but it's

725
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,439
Speaker 1: just some things that I do need my privacy for

726
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 1: for life, like and that number two.

727
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 2: Oh, go the fuck away.

728
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: Get out my space, like right now, Or like I

729
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,919
Speaker 1: had a guy I used to like him so much.

730
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 1: He was so fine. This was in college, but he

731
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: just was so fucking goofy as fucking He used to

732
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 1: do stuff that would piss me off. Like we'd be

733
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 1: like laying down watching TV, having like just chilling good vibes.

734
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 1: We just smoking. All of a sudden Dutch oving me.

735
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 1: Do you know what that is like? And put the

736
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 1: and hold me under the blanket with his fart. Nigga,

737
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,319
Speaker 1: I hate you. I'm leaving. I'm not coming back. That's

738
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: not okay, that's terrible.

739
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 2: That's discussing, is that, Jordan?

740
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: You do that?

741
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 2: Like I'm gonna fight you.

742
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,319
Speaker 1: But we were I mean essentially kids. I mean we

743
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: were college and you.

744
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 2: Weren't doing them crazy like that's terrible. Yeah, it was gross.

745
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't want to know you

746
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 1: like that.

747
00:37:56,520 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 2: Okay, So we all know recently that Nellie and as

748
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 2: Shanty have spun the block. We talked about this in

749
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 2: our stupid Internet news in another episode, it's cool spend

750
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 2: the block. It's been ten years. He has been innother relationships.

751
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,280
Speaker 2: I don't know any other relationships she's been.

752
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:14,320
Speaker 1: In has been public.

753
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I heard her dating floor Rider at some point.

754
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 2: Maybe possibly, I don't know. We just know that she's

755
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 2: just been findings hell on vacation with somebody's for the

756
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 2: last ten years. We don't know what she's been doing,

757
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 2: especially for her birthday. I live for a Shanty birthday pictures. Right,

758
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 2: he looks good, Nelly. I just feel like if he

759
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 2: was going to spend the block, I feel like you

760
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 2: should come with a ring. Shouldn't coming? It needs to

761
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 2: come soon. It shouldn't be the year after next, because

762
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 2: how long were they in an initial relationship?

763
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 1: Well, they have to get to read know each other.

764
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 1: They're different.

765
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 2: How does that take shit for me at least are you,

766
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 2: because you're a grown man. At least for you, like

767
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: three months if I already known you. I'm pretty sure

768
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 2: they spoke to each other over the last ten years.

769
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 2: It's not like they con You think that Nellie and

770
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 2: Shanti just never had any contact in the last ten

771
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 2: years and now maybe not.

772
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 1: You never know, girloo, you never know. You never know.

773
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: They might have. First time they seen each other was

774
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 1: on that versus stage for all we know.

775
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 2: I don't know, but if he's going to spend the block,

776
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 2: I feel like he should come with.

777
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 1: All a ring in three months.

778
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 2: At their age, what you're waiting for? You don't waste

779
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 2: how many years before? You just waste ten years of

780
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 2: another woman's life. What are you here for?

781
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: They wasted each other's time.

782
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 2: No, I'm pretty sure Shanty wanted to be married before.

783
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure she's a woman.

784
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: That don't be shit. I'm a woman. I'm scared girl,

785
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: I'm a commitment for That's what my therapist tell me.

786
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:52,319
Speaker 2: Let's unpack that for a moment. Why do you think

787
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:56,800
Speaker 2: it is that you're afraid of commitment? Tam them?

788
00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: Can I lay back? I'm just kidding all right. So

789
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 1: I think I'm afraid of commitment because I don't want

790
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 1: to choose the wrong person. I don't want to choose

791
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: wrong And I have so many options too, that makes

792
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 1: it harder to pick one. When you got like endless

793
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 1: niggas in your dms, endless niggas every time you walk

794
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 1: out the door.

795
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,399
Speaker 2: That's that's everybody. That's most I do want to say

796
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,720
Speaker 2: most women, because all women don't have all those options.

797
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 2: But if you're an attractive woman, you definitely got dick

798
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:27,879
Speaker 2: on our three.

799
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, everywhere I go.

800
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 2: But it's hard for you to pick one. What do

801
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 2: you entertain? At some point you have to You have

802
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 2: to entertain at least one person, right, So is the

803
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 2: person you're entertaining somebody that could potentially be your mate

804
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:45,879
Speaker 2: or is it somebody that is not?

805
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 1: Also, that's some bullshit, so we both want the same thing. Nothing,

806
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:01,360
Speaker 1: So you are choosing, I'm not choosing.

807
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:05,399
Speaker 2: That is choosing. It's not you are choosing because if

808
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 2: you're given this person the available time when you are available,

809
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 2: if you're setting aside setting aside time for an unavailable person,

810
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 2: you could be setting aside setting aside the same time

811
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 2: for somebody who is available.

812
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:22,240
Speaker 1: You know what. More recently here I have been making

813
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 1: time for people who make time havelftime. Yeah, okay, yeah,

814
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: but it is a fear of mine because I just

815
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 1: don't I just don't want to end up. I be ready, y'all.

816
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 1: I love love. I mean, I just want to love

817
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: first dates. What is it called?

818
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:41,959
Speaker 2: What is it called?

819
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: When? Where's the what's the area where they had the

820
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: babies at? After birth?

821
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 3: War?

822
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 1: This bitch got more war? Stay with me yesterday? All right?

823
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 2: Baby? Have you maybe?

824
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 1: Al right? Baby? All right, baby, I'm gonna call you back,

825
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: getting ready to record. Baby, bitch, how many babies do

826
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 1: you have? Babies? Meanwhile, I'll be like, all right, my boy,

827
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna at you.

828
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 2: That's all.

829
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: I love them, Okay, I know, y'all, my baby.

830
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 3: I got one baby.

831
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: It'd be different niggas, all of them, all right? So

832
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: do you have any last words for this?

833
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 2: No? But I feel like, meanwhile, meanwhile, while I'm calling everybody,

834
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 2: baby right, whichever baby steps up to the plate and

835
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 2: does all the things I need right, that'll beat it forever.

836
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 1: Baby.

837
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:47,800
Speaker 2: So in the meanwhile, all these niggas is that nigga?

838
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: All of them is baby?

839
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, let's be clear. That's what they do. This

840
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:56,720
Speaker 2: is me. I'll let you my boy, thank you for dinner.

841
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: I'm scared. That's another thing. It's not just the options,

842
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: the endless options and the fear of choosing wrong. I'm

843
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: just scared somebody gonna fucking hurt me really badly too.

844
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 1: Like I've been there before. I've been there anytime I've

845
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: really allowed myself to be opened up, opened and vulnerable

846
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 1: and like completely submit to a nigga. They take my

847
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: little heart and they drop it on the ground.

848
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 2: But are you opening up to the right people?

849
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 1: Apparently not when you do pick so I don't know,

850
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: And like they always seem like the right person at

851
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 1: the time when I allow myself to be.

852
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 2: And then show up with that representative and usually you

853
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 2: don't find out who the.

854
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 3: Fuck he is until after a second. Yeah, oftentimes, so.

855
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: Once I've been conquered, that's how I feel, like, Oh,

856
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 1: I allowed this person to conquer me now and now

857
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 1: they playing with my top.

858
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, women chase after they give the pussy up before

859
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 2: we have all control, and I ain't got time for that.

860
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 2: Then all of a sudden, what happened? Like why am

861
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 2: I look for him. Now in the dark in the daytime.

862
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 1: Is my online trying to find use car parts for

863
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:09,919
Speaker 1: this nigga. You know, I just had a flash back.

864
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 2: But as far as spending the blog, I had a

865
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 2: homeboy tell me recently that he has intentionally like he

866
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:19,800
Speaker 2: saw a girl in the club that he tried to

867
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 2: holler at before. And this is not somebody he actually

868
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 2: got with. This is just somebody who didn't give him

869
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,439
Speaker 2: a chance. Like when he saw her one other time,

870
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 2: he tried to haller at her and she like, So,

871
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,600
Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe his aura was different this day.

872
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 2: She gave him the number, right they start talking, hanging out,

873
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:40,879
Speaker 2: he intentionally like got her number, hollered at her, made

874
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 2: her like him just to fuck her and not talk

875
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 2: to her no more. Yes, so you have to be

876
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 2: careful of those type of spinners. Also, you coming back

877
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 2: to around, just coming back around just to play me,

878
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 2: Like maybe I was in a relationship the first time,

879
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 2: maybe I had other shit going wide and talk.

880
00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 1: To you, but now you just doing it as a reveal. Yeah,

881
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:02,720
Speaker 1: because I didn't like you when you were fat.

882
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 2: So there are some revide revenge spinners. Yeah here, y'all

883
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 2: be careful.

884
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 1: No, I know a guy that does that to women,

885
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:10,839
Speaker 1: Like he used to be fat and now he's not,

886
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,720
Speaker 1: and now he getting all the girls that he couldn't

887
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 1: get when he was fat, so he could play them.

888
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 1: Oh that's great, that's him out there barking. Would you

889
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 1: like to do and tell your.

890
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 2: Oh we can go back to Diddy and Karesha like

891
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 2: so so then it just last week she said she

892
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 2: was out of that relationship. She wanted her own nigga,

893
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 2: her own nigga this summer, all this shit, now you

894
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 2: back outside. Hey, I don't judge my friends when they

895
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 2: do shit like that. If you like him, I love him,

896
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 2: so yeah, I'm okay when my friends spend the block

897
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,879
Speaker 2: on a dude. To allow a dude to spend the block,

898
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 2: I don't try to deter them me neither.

899
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 1: I don't have I can't. I am in no position

900
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: to tell anybody anything about their relationship when it comes

901
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: to that.

902
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 2: Spend the block, spind it. If you want to spend

903
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 2: the block on my only.

904
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: My only advice is just wear a condom. That's my only.

905
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: He's a common guy.

906
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 2: Just go get tested. See y'all can slip and slide,

907
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 2: like make a whole date out of it.

908
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 1: You know, you can get tested today and then he

909
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: can follow and then come back to you with girl

910
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: put in a lot unless you're getting tested every day

911
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 1: a Christian, that's what he gave us, these kind.

912
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 2: Of skin you So God gave y'all condoms connors be

913
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 2: irritating like Cucie. Okay, y'all did not create that. God did.

914
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 1: He created the mind that created that. So I'm just

915
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: here for it. I don't ever want to be nowhere like,

916
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 1: oh what happened to Tammy? Oh y'all didn't hear? It's

917
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 1: so sad.

918
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 2: Because I have got.

919
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 1: Something in my vagina. Like, No, I don't want to

920
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: be like on a be because it's some dick. No,

921
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 1: that's just not how I'm going about it.

922
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 2: That could happen from your husband.

923
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,279
Speaker 1: It is. But then at least I made a viow

924
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: before God. Now this was Guy's decision for me. I

925
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 1: guess I don't know both.

926
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:22,760
Speaker 2: Ways, That's what I'm saying. I'm just playing, y'all. Safe sex,

927
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 2: always practical play. You gonna make a whole date out

928
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 2: of going and get tested together. Get y'all people work

929
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 2: and have like a pink slip party.

930
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 1: That is the worst idea, because what if somebody slip

931
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: come back fucked up. Now it's no longer a party.

932
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:41,479
Speaker 2: A memorial ship.

933
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, go get your tests and bring your paperwork back.

934
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 2: Niggas be cheating off their girlfriend tests or whoever they

935
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:50,840
Speaker 2: want test, So you've got to make sure they bring

936
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 2: their own tests with their social and name on it.

937
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: Niggas do not go get the first of all, they

938
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,399
Speaker 1: just don't go to the hospital period. That much. Black

939
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,320
Speaker 1: men are they be on I've seen black men literally

940
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: on their deathbed before they'll even go to the hospital. Like,

941
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 1: why won't you go check on yourself?

942
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 2: That's why you need a wife. Y'all out here not

943
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 2: making sure your women do the same thing. Goad bitches.

944
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 2: Be'all have with bad livers pussy good though, because you

945
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 2: went to the obg y am, but you ain't had

946
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:20,760
Speaker 2: a full physical.

947
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: You point at me like you talk about I'd be

948
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 1: going to the door.

949
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 2: My heart, my heart bad, and my pussy good. Like, girls,

950
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 2: that's crazy. We need to do a damn a physical

951
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 2: challenge for the month of June.

952
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:38,760
Speaker 3: What do you mean, Like, yeah, go get a full physical,

953
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 3: get a full blood work up.

954
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, make sure you're good, you know, get you

955
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:43,399
Speaker 2: some Obamacare.

956
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 1: I have to Well, you can't get obamacare right now,

957
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 1: I think the it is closed. But you can prepare

958
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 1: for the end of this year to go get you

959
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: some health care, or just go get you some health

960
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:55,360
Speaker 1: care if you get afforded, you know. But I have

961
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 1: to get I have to get my body checked all

962
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 1: the time, just because I have MS, so they're always

963
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: usually checking my levels, my blood work and all that

964
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 1: good stuff. But people don't go often at all.

965
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 2: Nope, they be scared too.

966
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 1: And I can understand the fear though, like sometimes ignorance

967
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: is bliss, especially like if you got something going on,

968
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: you might be scared to go. I can get I

969
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: understand that.

970
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:19,959
Speaker 3: Today's just gonna be around here violating other people.

971
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: Then I know, but I understand the fear though, so

972
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 1: ooh lot.

973
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 3: I don't like talk about stuff now.

974
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 1: That's why it's just easier to just put on a condom.

975
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 1: Anytime I ever fuck without a condom, I go to

976
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 1: bed like this at night.

977
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 2: Thank God. If you ever can't sleep just.

978
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 1: Laying in the dark with my eyes offen, I'm not

979
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: doing that no more. I be like you sleep.

980
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 2: Peacefully up sull do.

981
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:45,719
Speaker 3: Y'all.

982
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 2: These are jokes. Okay, let's be clear anyway, bitch listen,

983
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 2: spend the block or not be careful. That's the that's

984
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 2: my word, right, you know what I mean? Because sometimes

985
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 2: certain people will and hit your phone. It's like, is

986
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 2: this nigga coming to bring me some shit? I do

987
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 2: think that about certain people, like does he have a

988
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 2: special delivery he's trying to drop off? Because why are

989
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:10,640
Speaker 2: you on my phone right now?

990
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 1: It's the dick they're trying to drop off. But what's

991
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: in it?

992
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:15,479
Speaker 2: Right? What's in the dick?

993
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 3: They might not know exactly, So why are you here?

994
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 2: Sir?

995
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:22,400
Speaker 3: He careful y'all listen.

996
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,560
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998
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1000
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1001
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1003
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