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Speaker 1: girl Dre and the call and you are tuned in

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor Mind. We're a drunk mind

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Speaker 1: seeks sober thoughts. We gotta guess today, We gotta guess today.

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Speaker 1: So y'all know, we're still in London recording these fire episodes.

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Speaker 1: So y'all know we had to do a collaboration with

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Speaker 1: the one and only the Queen Madam Joyce in up.

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Speaker 1: So I feel like this is this is gonna be

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Speaker 1: let me ask you how are you today? Honestly, I'm

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Speaker 1: so happy to be here. Obviously, we did our episode

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Speaker 1: It was so I'm back again. We're doing a round two.

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Speaker 1: We had a bit of a party. You took a

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Speaker 2: I just could not believe the live show like that

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So before we get into that, though, because I

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Speaker 1: What were you doing before podcast? Oh my god, I

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Speaker 1: was working at this council. I won't say the name.

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Speaker 1: Oh you were hard core serious? Yeah, I got fired.

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Speaker 1: I flopped my probation, so they gave me. They gave

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Speaker 1: She God, she was awful. But yeah, I was doing

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Speaker 1: that before and then I was just a normal girl,

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Speaker 1: So I've always loved acting and performing, but I also

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Speaker 3: I can talk for ages.

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Speaker 1: I'm that friend that can be on the phone for

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you something about geography or something. So

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Speaker 1: it was just a fun passion project. Yeah. I one

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Speaker 1: day I decided, well, God gave me the message. To

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Speaker 1: and was like, you should start a podcast. Holy Spirit

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it just took off. And it just took off, man,

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Speaker 2: Like that's amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like we talked about this a

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Speaker 1: and learning are more reserves to say it nicely, There

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Speaker 3: Yes, do you know what it is?

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Speaker 1: Yet I'm I'm I'm a bad liar. I'm a bad

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Speaker 1: I love people who overshare, like you know how they

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Speaker 2: I like, I love a good story, like, but you're

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Speaker 1: Well you're gonna you're gonna tell it all I was.

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Speaker 1: It gives like this contours like all of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: love to show people who gave us love from the

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Speaker 1: beginning and stuff. But sometimes I gotta like shit on

462
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Speaker 1: people real quick because it's like, yeah, because I think

463
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Speaker 1: a lot of times too. One thing that I I

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Speaker 1: you love to see, I do that too. You a

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Speaker 1: good and is But I will say, let me ask

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Speaker 1: you this about the the UK market too, because I

467
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Speaker 1: feel like in America, one thing about it is like

468
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Speaker 1: you really don't become popular until everybody else gotta hop

469
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Speaker 1: on the first Like everybody nobody's gonna be like, man,

470
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Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. I'm listening to them. They're hard,

471
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Speaker 1: they cool. Like it took for like a lot of

472
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Speaker 1: people to start kind of hopping on the train, for

473
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Speaker 1: like people close to us to start believing in it.

474
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Speaker 3: Is the same thing, same exact, same thing.

475
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Speaker 1: Like I think it's just a human thing that people

476
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Speaker 1: will only give your alcolades if it's if it's confirmed

477
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Speaker 1: by other people with everybody else starts seeing, especially especially

478
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Speaker 1: being being a black woman in this space, especially being

479
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Speaker 1: a thicker woman in this space, especially being a boisterous

480
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: woman in this space, and having and and being vocal

481
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Speaker 1: and being what's the word being out?

482
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Speaker 3: What's that I'm gonna say out?

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Speaker 1: We're thinking it's not the word I was going to

484
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Speaker 1: say about you know what'll run with it being out?

485
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Speaker 3: We're thinking.

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Speaker 1: People weren't used to that, and especially in the UK,

487
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Speaker 1: we're quite a conservative country. You guys are so far

488
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Speaker 1: ahead of us.

489
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Speaker 3: I was saying.

490
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Speaker 1: We love to live our chaotic and fun girl energy

491
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Speaker 1: through you guys. You know, we watch a lot of

492
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Speaker 1: your shows. We love it. We love that, We love

493
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Speaker 1: people like Nini leagues, and we love people who are

494
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 1: very loud and boisterous. But if it's from our own community,

495
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 1: keep quiet. We don't like that there's too much, too much.

496
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,160
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy to me because people think Poor

497
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: Minds is wild, But I'm like, we're actually calm compared

498
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 1: to a lot of the podcasts. Really yeah, like Horrible

499
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Speaker 1: Decisions shout out to Mandy and Wheezy, they're crazy. If

500
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: you've never been to a Horrible Decisions live show, I

501
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Speaker 1: mean they have people out there chains, tying them up,

502
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: throwing shoutina cocktails as wild. These are full fledged Like

503
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Speaker 1: of course.

504
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Speaker 2: We talk about sex, but those are They're more so

505
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Speaker 2: sex based.

506
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Speaker 1: Sex based podcast but that's normal, Like talking about sex

507
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Speaker 1: and having a sex life is normal. Like it's not

508
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Speaker 1: like it is watched. I was in the Atlanta podcast

509
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Speaker 1: show and I watched Horrible Decisions, and my Christian eyes

510
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Speaker 1: I could not believe Virginy. My budget eyes, I could not,

511
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Speaker 1: but I was looking at my mindage and I was like,

512
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Speaker 1: is this happening on stage now? It was it was

513
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Speaker 1: like the splushing cake. Oh yeah, yeah they threw There

514
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Speaker 1: was a woman that she came out and started pouring

515
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Speaker 1: eggs on her body, and then there was a cake

516
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Speaker 1: and then somebody Mandy threw the cake. Per se. It

517
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Speaker 1: was mad. It's mad. You might see a boody hole

518
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Speaker 1: like sometimes, like when I've been in the artist I'm like,

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Speaker 1: is that a boody hole? Like if I have to

520
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Speaker 1: ask that, you know your show is crazy. That's why

521
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Speaker 1: I said, poor minds, you gonna get a little tour. Yeah,

522
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Speaker 1: you know, we don't talk about this next y. We

523
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Speaker 1: never go have a body hole slip out. Yeah, but

524
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Speaker 1: I think it's like not that I'm saying like it's normal,

525
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Speaker 1: but it's entertaining, Like I love like that fun but

526
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Speaker 1: I loved it, but I couldn't. I've never seen anything

527
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Speaker 1: like it, and I just kind of I love the

528
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Speaker 1: girls in the US. I loved watching the women interact

529
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Speaker 1: because they they then had a moan challenge. Oh, they

530
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Speaker 1: had a moan challenge and it was like, oh, whoever

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Speaker 1: has the best moan wins some much.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, And I was looking at the.

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Speaker 1: Stage and I was seeing like, may I got the

534
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Speaker 1: best moan? I've got them and I'm like, you're not

535
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Speaker 1: going to jump on stage to do this? And these

536
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Speaker 1: girls picked the mic and they were like.

537
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Speaker 2: Yes and out here that would never happen, like they

538
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Speaker 2: were fighting for it.

539
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 1: Will never what someone coming on the mic and morning

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Speaker 1: they would put your ars on shade bar and every

541
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Speaker 1: will laugh at you. Really Yeah, we was clapping like,

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Speaker 1: hey you bow a UK girl picking up her mic

543
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Speaker 1: to morning Man. Oh my, it was to if that

544
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Speaker 1: ever happens. Cheek did tell about the contest. You want

545
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Speaker 1: a pro, A real pro see Zella guy.

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Speaker 2: I don't even want to talk about I'm gonna tell

547
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Speaker 2: you after, but it was it was.

548
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Speaker 1: A contest, was a moaning contest. It was not a

549
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Speaker 1: mooning contest. But we'll talk about it afterwards. We'll talk

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Speaker 1: about it. You see, we we we just going absolutely crazy.

551
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Speaker 2: One of the reason I don't want to say, though,

552
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 2: it's because I feel like if I say it, then

553
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 2: I say which show it was, people are going to

554
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 2: try to look up the footage, and the footage is

555
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 2: out there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, oh I never knew that. Yes it's on.

557
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Speaker 1: Well it might be on like Patreon or whatever, but

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Speaker 1: it's final finding. Yeah, I see what you're saying. I'm

559
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, okay, we were We weren't.

560
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Speaker 3: We won't rebt that.

561
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Speaker 1: But what I was saying is I love how liberated

562
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 1: a liberal the US gulies are. I love how in

563
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Speaker 1: twined they are with their sexuality and they own it

564
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: and it's sexy and it's just honestly a lot of

565
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: us wish we were like that, but we were just

566
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: in this either. You know, there's a couple of years

567
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Speaker 1: behind them.

568
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Speaker 3: We'll catch you.

569
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Speaker 1: We'll be doing I'll do money, trying to just send

570
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Speaker 1: he wants to come on stage of money for me

571
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Speaker 1: if I'm in the audience, be like me, I couldn't.

572
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Speaker 1: I'll tell you You're gonna have one competitor if I'm in

573
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Speaker 1: the audience. But why do you think it's so tabooed?

574
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Speaker 2: Because I think too in a lot of ways, America

575
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Speaker 2: is still kind of like taboo when it comes to

576
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Speaker 2: a lot of things as well, Like I feel like,

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's only been like forty years since like

578
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Speaker 2: Women's Rights the movie.

579
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Speaker 1: Look, you better know your history because I show it's.

580
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Speaker 2: Been like forty fifty years, like with the seventies. Yeah, so,

581
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Speaker 2: I mean, it hasn't been in the seventies eighties. It

582
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 2: hasn't been that long. Women could not vote for a

583
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Speaker 2: long time. Women could not get furniture on their own,

584
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Speaker 2: they couldn't get cards. Like, it's a lot of things

585
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 2: we couldn't do over there either. So I wonder why

586
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 2: it's still so tabooed over here.

587
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: I think it's because the women in America, we're all

588
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: on one accord, Like you the bitch, why moaning too,

589
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 1: Nigga were moaning and rubbing our pusses together, and we're

590
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: gonna create a group called we moaning. Yes, we moon

591
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 1: Like they're gonna be all in the same record. I

592
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: feel like here's kind of like, oh yeah, we already concerned,

593
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 1: like y'all be clutching our pearl steel, like y'all kind

594
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: of be was just moaning this morning. And that's the thing,

595
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 1: like we it's not that we don't do it, it

596
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 1: is that we don't when it comes to public speak

597
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: about it. Like every conversation I have on my show

598
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 1: is things that us gunn is I've done. That's why

599
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 1: we're we're sitting down watching it. But we're not gonna

600
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 1: say with our mouths like oh I went to grad

601
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Speaker 1: sung this voice. Cock. We said cock cock cock cock.

602
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Speaker 1: We don't see the girl. We don't say that I

603
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 1: see you getting real dirty. We don't say that in America.

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Speaker 1: That's like the white Yeah they say that, we see that.

605
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Speaker 1: That sounds real, Like, you know you are a nasty

606
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Speaker 1: bitch if you say cok, I know you nasty because

607
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: she did. She said you gotta go from the first cock. Yeah, yeah,

608
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: you see, I was just shook. It took me better. No,

609
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's not it's not that it's not happening.

610
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: It's happening, but we're just still quite shy. And reserved

611
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Speaker 1: about saying those things, and to be honest, I'll be honest.

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Speaker 3: When we were younger, we.

613
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: Had a there was a lot of like slut shaming here.

614
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 1: I've all like the guys made us feel guilty for

615
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 1: wanting to like having sex and enjoy it. It's like,

616
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 1: you can't have a body count if it's more than three,

617
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: and it's like what happened? Heartbreaking? Like honestly it was.

618
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: It was a lot for us. I remember I was

619
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Speaker 1: having a conversation with my friend. I was like, I

620
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 1: remember how the guys used to be when we were younger,

621
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 1: and like any sort of like inkling that a woman

622
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: like having slack slack slaps slack slap slack slack sla

623
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 1: It almost scared us into liking things. That's why a

624
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: lot of us were probably in toxic relationss when we're younger,

625
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: because it was like, Okay, well his ship is a

626
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 1: bit of a dickhead, he's not very nice to be,

627
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: but at least it's not an extra bodycout, so no

628
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: one you know. So that's that's kind of how it

629
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: was growing up, Like we were all lying about bodycounts.

630
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: My bodycout was one until I was twenty two. Like, girl,

631
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: now that's some people.

632
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 2: I mean, as far as I'm concerned, I still don't

633
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 2: have kids. And if a kid didn't come from me,

634
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 2: prove it. Where is the who's gonna believe you?

635
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: Where's your proof? Talking about you hate that. I'm just

636
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 1: saying that. But I will say, don't get a twisted though.

637
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: In America, I still feel like the men are like

638
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: that too, Like they very much be like, oh, y'all

639
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: are sy'all everything we say, Like if a mass makes

640
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 1: a joke about something, they're like, oh my god, he

641
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: is the funniest person I've ever heard. If I said

642
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 1: or Drea says it, like, oh my god, they're whorees.

643
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: But like I said, it's more of a community with

644
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: the women, ycause you're like, we don't give a fuck

645
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 1: fuck y'all. We over here and we having fun. Girls

646
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 1: just want to have fun. So the community of women like,

647
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 1: we band together and we have a good time. We

648
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: don't need them to have a good time. So I

649
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: think maybe that's the difference, like we really don't value

650
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: their opinion too much.

651
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, slutshaming is for sure universal, It's all over the world.

652
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 2: They definitely be slut shaming us too in America.

653
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 1: But like Lake said, we.

654
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 2: Let me let me tell you something right now, we

655
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 2: don't care. We just don't care. We don't give a fuck.

656
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 2: It's like, I'm gonna be me because to me, a

657
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 2: man who will try to slut shame me for living

658
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 2: in my truth or being honest or just being vocal

659
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 2: about certain things. You not the nigga for me, no way,

660
00:33:58,480 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 2: Like you're not the type of man I want to be.

661
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 2: When you close minded? You like you you're not open

662
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 2: minded enough for me. I can't be with somebody who

663
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 2: does not view things to a certain extent the same.

664
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 1: Way I view think. I just I don't even want that.

665
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 3: Like it's not boring, terrible, terrible.

666
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,799
Speaker 1: Okay, So we got we always do this, we end

667
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 1: up chat. We got into the first topic, So go

668
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: ahead with the first topic. Droll.

669
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 2: Okay, So for the first topic, I really wanted to

670
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 2: talk about. Should you completely cut off your eggs, communication,

671
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 2: everything if you get in a new relationship mm hmm,

672
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:49,359
Speaker 2: you know, like no contact. Let me say this, well,

673
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 2: none of your yeah, yeah.

674
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 1: In this in this relationship I have, in this one

675
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 1: I have, I feel like but it wasn't because like

676
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,919
Speaker 1: was forced to, or it's just because they he does

677
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: everything that I need him to do, so I wouldn't.

678
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 1: I realized in the past when I wasn't cutting that

679
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: shit off is because the new book wasn't doing something.

680
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 1: So I feel like you should. But it should be

681
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,800
Speaker 1: just like automatic and natural. So if you're still talking

682
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 1: to your exes and you're in a new relationship, I

683
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 1: feel like something is missing, and you gotta look in

684
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: your relationships like what's missing to where you feel the

685
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: need to still talk to your Excuse me, I was

686
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 1: double dicking. That's what was missing for me. He wasn't

687
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 1: giving me that that pen enough, so I had to go.

688
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. He wasn't doing it to me,

689
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: so I had to go get it from somewhere. Somebody

690
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 1: gonna getting this thing. She was clapping for attention, you

691
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 1: know how it is. So I feel like something is

692
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: missing if you're still in contact with your ex. But yes,

693
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: you should completely cut off side because it's your ex

694
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,799
Speaker 1: for a reason. Now, you know what I'm saying.

695
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 3: I agree. I definitely agree with that.

696
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 1: I also think on the other behind, I agree with

697
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 1: kutting off your ax completely. But honestly, I feel like

698
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: if it's a serious X and you've been together for

699
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 1: two years or whatever and he was like your ex ex,

700
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 1: like it's still still a touchy subjects, yeah, please come off.

701
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: But you know there some you just don't really give

702
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:14,760
Speaker 1: a about.

703
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, you just proper don't care.

704
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 1: Like it's one of those things that if they pop

705
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 1: up to you, it's just kind of like, oh, you're right, Yeah,

706
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: how's the kids. You're right, there's some exes that I

707
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: proper don't care about. It's to me, it's just it

708
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 1: doesn't even mean anything. It's like, yo, even y'all, bro,

709
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 1: you're good, Like what's good? You like, it's not a

710
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 1: thing where yeah, oh my god, that's my ex. Just

711
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 1: like it's not even a threat. It's not even a

712
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: threat all mine, They're not a threat. I don't give

713
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: a streak though, Yeah, I feel like what you say

714
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: streak though, what makes me streaks? I don't think I'm strict.

715
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: I think I'm actually very nice and care free. Let

716
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 1: me tell you that in life, when you cut a

717
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 1: nigger off, like they know they ain't getting it, like

718
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 1: they like, damn, I gotta make this work. Dre is

719
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: not talking to me no more. When I cut a

720
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: nigga off, he be like, I'll see that bitch tomorrow.

721
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: She probably on her way right now, will you know

722
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I think they know. Like I'll be

723
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: like I had the ax, like we went back and

724
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: we know how you just had that ex where y'all

725
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,919
Speaker 1: just keep coming back like this is the first time

726
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 1: you had the longest breakup here, I broke up with

727
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: this nigga for three years. Yeah, it was all seven

728
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: years on and off. But like the last time, well,

729
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 1: I'll say this, the last time we were like in

730
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: a relationship that we broke up. It took us a

731
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,760
Speaker 1: year and a half to really break things off. Literally,

732
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 1: so you broke copp but you' oh yeah, he knew.

733
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 1: He was like, I'm not talking to you no more.

734
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 1: He was like, all right, what time I'm picking you

735
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: up Tomorrow I'll be like seven s and Joyce.

736
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 2: We will be on the phone and Lex will be like,

737
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 2: I'm done with him, Drea, I'm not dealing with him

738
00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 2: no more.

739
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:57,919
Speaker 1: Girl.

740
00:37:57,920 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 2: I just used to be over here like all right, legs,

741
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 2: that's me.

742
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 3: I'm a bit of a love.

743
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,959
Speaker 1: That's why I don't I don't allow guys too close

744
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:08,720
Speaker 1: to me because I know what I'm like. The minute

745
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: you get into my space. I'm forgiving, I'm loving. I

746
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 1: want to be your baby. And it's all about like

747
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 1: a man apologizing, I'm gonna believe him every time. They

748
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 1: can give me the most bullshit ass apology, like I'm

749
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: changed and I want you. I want to make this work.

750
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 1: I want you to be my wife. I want to

751
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,399
Speaker 1: give you a child. I'll be like girl he wanted.

752
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: He said he want to marry me. But guys, can

753
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:36,760
Speaker 1: we actually start accepting apologies and gifts only? Yeah? Okay,

754
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 1: now I like that only. I'm tired of hearing sorry

755
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: with mouth. I need I need sorry, a physical so

756
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 1: with your mouth though, Okay, you're freaking out. I don't

757
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 1: know that's right.

758
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 3: Let's focus on.

759
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 2: You.

760
00:38:56,400 --> 00:39:01,839
Speaker 1: Put that run down. You can apologize, but an apology

761
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:05,760
Speaker 1: and like something tangible. I need to know you're sorry.

762
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: What's a good apology gift? Like? Okay, say a man cheated,

763
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 1: he cheated with like a girl that you don't like

764
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 1: to like cheating with a bit you don't know, versus

765
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 1: cheating with somebody that's your op is a way different

766
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: type of heart. So he cheated with your op. What's

767
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: the acceptable gift to forgive him home? Okay? It has

768
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: to be more than one. It has to be even

769
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: a big funck off gift. Okay, it has to be

770
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 1: multiple gifts, multiple gifts. Okay.

771
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 2: So you said a house, Yeah, a house? Okay, you

772
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 2: cheated on me with my op? Yeah, oh somebody gotta

773
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 2: die and if because nobody gonna death or dishonored. Okay, okay, okay,

774
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 2: what about you? What's the what's the gift that you're

775
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 2: accepting your forgiving? You know what I really want to

776
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 2: be like talk sick babe?

777
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Yeah, a house to honestly, you know what,

778
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 1: if you just caught me a little back and kiss

779
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 1: on his cheek, I'll be like, okay, don't look you.

780
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 1: I was like, I ain't mad, No, my bad, I

781
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 1: know you love me. Let that home is what a

782
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 1: heart is, bitch. He might be doing you when he

783
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 1: was thinking about me. Hoo. He loves always saying all

784
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:27,240
Speaker 1: you gotta do is bout her cosmopology and a spinichh dip.

785
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 1: Give me a spinis dip too. Oh you back in

786
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: the doll with me? Boo, We back in love. I'm

787
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,839
Speaker 1: like girl, that's why he with me right now. Though

788
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: I need a proper hole, a proper finan to play

789
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: with me. And I serious, Yes, she's serious. At the

790
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 1: end of the day. You know how disrespectful you gotta

791
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: be the fuck a bitch?

792
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 2: You know I don't like you. Notice my you know,

793
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 2: me and this bitch don't get along.

794
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:00,280
Speaker 1: That is disrespect you.

795
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,760
Speaker 2: No, I don't like this, So you go to sleep

796
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,279
Speaker 2: with her. Oh you said about her?

797
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 1: Your enemies are at you, Oh they are they like

798
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 1: look at this bitch with that spinach, dip in that

799
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 1: martine and like this.

800
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 2: He came on to beat down, but he feels like

801
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 2: to sleep with my enemy. You gotta low he be

802
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 2: my enemy too. You don't really like me neither.

803
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 1: You might shake me in my sleep. I said, I

804
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 1: know how y'all doing the UK up. But let me

805
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: say I honestly, at this age, there's really nothing to

806
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,399
Speaker 1: give me to forgive you, honestly, all jose aside, because

807
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 1: I will say this, Okay, you buy me a house

808
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 1: and a car, I'm gonna be miserable because every time

809
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: you leave, I'm gonna think you with my eye and

810
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: y'all plot on me is nothing like trusting somebody like

811
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: when you lose that trust. And I learned that's why

812
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 1: it took us so long a year and a half,

813
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: because I was like, bro, what are you doing? I

814
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 1: to really look at myself in the mirror. Don't trust

815
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 1: this nigga like you're un I was so unhappy, but

816
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I have to love myself more.

817
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: And I think a lot of times we really don't

818
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: be loving ourselves enough. Yeah, And that's the truth. That's

819
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 1: the harsh reality, because I'm like, if I really loved myself,

820
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be dealing with somebody who would bring me

821
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: this loan. You wouldn't take him back for a limit

822
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: spinish deal. I was taking that nigga back for a

823
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 1: little Spanish deal and a little limit. Oh but it

824
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,279
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825
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826
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:35,359
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827
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:38,240
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858
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: what this is the second topic? What is the big difference?

859
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 1: Because you're you said you're dating somebody from Atlanta? Can

860
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 1: we say that or no? Can we know? We can?

861
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 3: Okay, we can?

862
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 1: So you get me dating somebody in Atlanta. Obviously you've

863
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:36,879
Speaker 1: dated men here. What is the difference between the men

864
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,919
Speaker 1: in the US and the men here? You know what,

865
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: It's interesting because I I'm sitting down with two American

866
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 1: ladies and it's very weird. I feel like when the

867
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: American ladies come to the UK, they have a complete

868
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:57,359
Speaker 1: different experience to how the UK girls are. When the

869
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 1: UK girls go to the US, they have a co

870
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: completely different experience than the US girls. Okay, before I

871
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 1: could be like, yeah, UK guys, I don't do this,

872
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 1: but I feel like every woman has a different experience.

873
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: Like for me, I've had such a fantastic time getting

874
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 1: to know guys abroad because they look after you know,

875
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:22,840
Speaker 1: I'm so spoiled. Okay, guys abroad, Like every time I

876
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 1: go to a different country, like it's like.

877
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 3: It's like I'm exotic now.

878
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 1: They do they love a foreign Yeah, they have a

879
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 1: thing in America. They say if she ain't foreign is

880
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: born or something like that. Yeah, so yeah, you're she

881
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,319
Speaker 1: ain't foreign born. Yeah, so that's why you're gonna come

882
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 1: to the States and clean up Like they're gonna have

883
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 1: a good time with you. Like I think because we're

884
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:49,879
Speaker 1: so used to each other, we don't appreciate each other enough.

885
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: Like UK girls, UK boys, we don't appreciate each other enough.

886
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: Maybe that's what the case, but when the US girl

887
00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:59,399
Speaker 1: has come, it's like, oh, new flavors. So you feel

888
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 1: like they're out here cheap with the women here. What's

889
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: that they're they're cheap like UK men are cheap with

890
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 1: UK women. They're cheating. I'm treading very lightly on this

891
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: conversation because there was there was a time that I

892
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: was flogged in different continents because of this chat, right

893
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: here really, Yeah, what I said that, I made a

894
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: statement about UK boys and then beat me. They flogged me. Okay,

895
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 1: I tried to tread like I t to try lightly

896
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:33,879
Speaker 1: on this conversation. From my experience, I have better experiences

897
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 1: internationally for me.

898
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 3: But the UK.

899
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 1: Guys thinking say this righta thing, that's what, that's what.

900
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: But no, honestly, like I feel like I have a

901
00:46:54,520 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: lot more better experiences abroad. One two, I love us guys.

902
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 1: I love them. My man obviously is American. I love

903
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 1: him too, child, But I will say like, I think

904
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 1: the big difference, more so for me is like when

905
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 1: I dated, like I dated a guy from the UK before,

906
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: and he liked to travel. I think American men don't

907
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 1: like to travel as much. Like when you date somebody

908
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 1: out the country, like they want to take you.

909
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 2: I think it's more emphasis placed on different things. Like

910
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 2: I think you meet a man out here, he's like, oh,

911
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 2: let's go to Paris tomorrow, Let's go to Monaco, Let's

912
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 2: go to Micano's, let's go to Santorini. Like in America,

913
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:39,879
Speaker 2: he like two thousand dollars. Yeah, I'd rather just buy

914
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,320
Speaker 2: you a band. Yeah, let's just go to the store

915
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 2: real quick. Yeah, let me just pay your rent or

916
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 2: something that we do, and then you know.

917
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:50,319
Speaker 1: They be on papers a lot ill. Yeah, I can't

918
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 1: leave the country. Yeah, we have an ankle, bras, we

919
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 1: have an ankle.

920
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 3: You take your criminals, well not me, not no, my.

921
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: Whole away take away, so they do like you don't

922
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 1: be there. I love the hospitality us man, I love

923
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 1: the hospitality. I love the chivalry. Like I find that

924
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: the men they're so chivalrous to Like there was I

925
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: went on a date with this NFL player. I was

926
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 1: in l A and the top spot to make my

927
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: girls proud. So I was in l A and honestly,

928
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 1: he he he just moved to l A. I won't

929
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 1: say what state because the might give it away, but

930
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:43,840
Speaker 1: I remember I was in the car and as I

931
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 1: was about to touch the handle, the guy ran around

932
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 1: the car to open the car door. I wasking daddy,

933
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:57,880
Speaker 1: my daddy. He ran around, Yeah, don't you touch that

934
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: door handle. I was like, that's real, Like even like

935
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 1: when you're walking this, like make sure you're walking the

936
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 1: inner side. Like it's just little things like that that

937
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 1: I find that the American guys are so chivalrous.

938
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 3: They'll they'll they'll run to open the door for you.

939
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 1: Completely strange. Is like it's for me. I love that

940
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: I love. I love a gentleman, and I find that

941
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 1: the gentleman energy in the States is so there, like

942
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: it just turns me on, especially during like the southern

943
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 1: parts of America. Have you like making sure that you're good,

944
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: like they're just ah ah there. So I was like

945
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: this one thing about my man too, like we will

946
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 1: be getting into it because one day I ain't gonna lie.

947
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 1: We went to Target. We kind of got into it

948
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 1: a little bit and Target, but he was like walking

949
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 1: in front of me, like storming off, but he still

950
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 1: opened that door. He was like and I got in,

951
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 1: and I was like, better open their door, daddy, wondering

952
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 1: about the American man. They don't play. I will, But

953
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:57,399
Speaker 1: I feel like.

954
00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:01,799
Speaker 2: Even he like there too a little bit. Yeah, like

955
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 2: he would never let me pay for anything, like I

956
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 2: love a nigga that don't let me pay for anything.

957
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 2: If I pull my car, he'd be like stop it

958
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 2: and pop you.

959
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 3: You know what's interesting?

960
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 2: If you don't pap my hand, if I pull my

961
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 2: cord out, I don't like it.

962
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: You know what's so interesting? I I one hundred percent

963
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 1: agree with you. I feel like the men in my

964
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 1: life is so wead because I talk about us girls

965
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: UK boys and yeah, a lot of the girls, a

966
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 1: lot of the girls out here were complaining, we're tired.

967
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:33,880
Speaker 1: But I have the most amazing guy friends. I have

968
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: the most amazing men as friends in my life that

969
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 1: if I'm out with my guy friends.

970
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 3: I'm not pulling out nothing.

971
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 1: I remember there was the time I was like to

972
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 1: the point where it's like, I'm such a princess, Like

973
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,839
Speaker 1: if my guy friends come up to me, if they're sorry,

974
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 1: if the bills being paid for, and maybe the woman

975
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: gives it to me out like I have, I have

976
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:01,359
Speaker 1: amaze and man in my life. When it comes to

977
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 1: Dayton now in the u K, I've had a different express,

978
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 1: but the man who are my friends had Oh they're

979
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 1: gonna take care.

980
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:09,879
Speaker 3: They would take care, they will, they will.

981
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 1: They have this thing that they were doing for a

982
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: while with the girls. They were like, oh, just pretend

983
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: to grab the receipt. Okay, but you're gonna come across

984
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,359
Speaker 1: the wrong American man and he's gonna be like there

985
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 1: you go. Appreciate the mom, Appreciate that good looking out.

986
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 1: So that's all I'm like. It's very hit or miss though,

987
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 1: So don't think it's all daddy energy, because it's very

988
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 1: much not. I think that's what you may attract because

989
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 1: of what you exude. You know what I'm saying, and

990
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 1: you for yeah, you four it say foreign is not boring? Yeah,

991
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 1: maybe here in that extent, they'd be like, oh, where

992
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 1: are you from? Shady?

993
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 3: I do it, I do it.

994
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 1: I give him in America's very slang in America, especially

995
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: when I sometimes sometimes I will say like if I'm if,

996
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: I'm if I'm the States and there's a guy that

997
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 1: I like. Sometimes I just act so stupid, girl, I

998
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 1: know exactly where I go. Excuse me, Honestly, I have

999
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 1: no clue. Can you just can you just let me

1000
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:17,919
Speaker 1: know where? I know where? Can you just like from here?

1001
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 1: I am queen of I'm not from here, I'm not

1002
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 1: from Can you just help me? And he's like, oh,

1003
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 1: where are you from? It's actually genius? Where you from?

1004
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:39,879
Speaker 1: That is actually really genius because I will say this too,

1005
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:44,879
Speaker 1: You're fine. Men are so easy, Oh my god, they

1006
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:48,319
Speaker 1: are so easy. Like it's very easy. I don't want

1007
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:49,959
Speaker 1: to say I use the word plot because it sounds

1008
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 1: so bad, but it's like, if you want a man,

1009
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 1: you can literally do the bare minimum and pull them.

1010
00:52:54,360 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 1: It's so easy. Distress stress work every time flotting worked too.

1011
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: Oh I love a good plum. Tell me you're gonna

1012
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:09,279
Speaker 1: help me. This is this is when, this is when. Okay,

1013
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 1: So how I got my boyfriend, like we work out

1014
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: at the gym together or whatever, and I saw him.

1015
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, he's fine as fuck, Like you know,

1016
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 1: I want to, so I started following him. I knew

1017
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 1: he was gonna follow me back because we kind of

1018
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 1: knew the same people whatever, So he fought. As soon

1019
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 1: as he followed me back, I started posting shit on

1020
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: my story like I'm working out, I'm posting this ass,

1021
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:31,360
Speaker 1: I'm posting everything because I knew he was gonna be

1022
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 1: like private storymin my main story because I wanted him

1023
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 1: to see it. So as soon as he as soon

1024
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 1: as I posted, like ten minutes later, here you go

1025
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: hard eyes in. It got him just like that conversation started.

1026
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 1: The next thing. You know, we love and that's my man.

1027
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 1: We don't roll off into the sun, bitch. We in

1028
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: love because men are easy. Like I knew what I

1029
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:54,239
Speaker 1: wanted and mind you, it's a thousand men hard eyes

1030
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 1: in that picture, but I wanted that one, you know,

1031
00:53:56,960 --> 00:53:58,359
Speaker 1: because I didn't want to make it feel like it

1032
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: was for him. I want to him to feel like

1033
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,719
Speaker 1: he was chasing me, because you gotta remember, you can't

1034
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: do too much because they still want to feel like

1035
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: they I didn't even tell him I did that till

1036
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 1: we were like three four months into our relationship, you

1037
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I feel like it's little

1038
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: things you can do to make a man. Sometimes a

1039
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: man don't even know he wants. You. Gotta let him

1040
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 1: know you won't me nigga positioning.

1041
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, and see with me, I've just you know, I

1042
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 2: feel like you can go like a picture, Oh that's a.

1043
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:29,720
Speaker 1: How many are we talking here? Like three fold?

1044
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:34,360
Speaker 2: But you know, take it away back, Okay, take it

1045
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:39,839
Speaker 2: away back? Yeah that's hard, too far, that's too far.

1046
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 2: I feel like he's gonna be like, damn want you

1047
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:41,799
Speaker 2: doing back?

1048
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 1: Then? What you do with? He gonna know what you

1049
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 1: freak COVID time is.

1050
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 2: He don't know what you're up to though, and he

1051
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 2: gonna see the vibes and he's gonna be like, all right,

1052
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 2: and then I feel like if he look at your

1053
00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 2: page and he feeling you, he gonna slide.

1054
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: Yeah he did. It works like a charge.

1055
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:03,280
Speaker 3: You know what's interesting.

1056
00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 1: I need to start doing that because I start panicking,

1057
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 1: Like if I like a guy but he's got five

1058
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 1: pictures and the first ones from twenty nineteen, I'm like, well,

1059
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 1: I'm fucked, because's gonna look like I'm really stalking. Yeah,

1060
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 1: but if you do like the most recent one and

1061
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:19,279
Speaker 1: then you do, you away man, Yeah, you gotta do

1062
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:21,320
Speaker 1: the balance. It doesn't look too crazy, so it's like, okay,

1063
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: oh I saw your resent, but oh ship like, oh,

1064
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 1: you also have some nice pictures from twenty nineteen. It

1065
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 1: doesn't look too yeah, but this one, this one is

1066
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:33,919
Speaker 1: that's you gotta goward out there and if they catch it, cool,

1067
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 1: but if they don't, don't keep doing it. That's why

1068
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 1: I said, you gotta keep it real, like you know

1069
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

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00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 3: This is good advice.

1071
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:44,280
Speaker 1: All right. Now, you know I'm not going to die aloge,

1072
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 1: that's great. Today, that's great today. Who makes you found

1073
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 1: on me? Honestly, December, guys, December is my deadline. This

1074
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:55,800
Speaker 1: is to get a man, get boyfriend like a serious

1075
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:59,799
Speaker 1: relations what happened? If you don't by December, then I'm

1076
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 1: whole than you tooccountable, not as our father. These American

1077
00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 1: bitches told me. She's like I went back to nineteen

1078
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 1: sixty seven and like the picture on this bitch ass,

1079
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 1: because there's there's no way you guys. You guys have

1080
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:19,440
Speaker 1: entered relationships and you don't want to leave the rest

1081
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 1: of us behind. Oh yoh oh, no one thing about me.

1082
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 1: I feel like I got to take everybody cause it's like,

1083
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 1: you know, you got to give the advice, and I lived.

1084
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 1: I'm almost ten years older than you, so I know

1085
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:32,319
Speaker 1: a little thing or two. I was out there being

1086
00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: wild and crazy. But I feel like there's somebody for everybody.

1087
00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:38,359
Speaker 1: That's what people don't realize. They want to look at

1088
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 1: you or look at us like we're loud where I'm

1089
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 1: not just with this and that. But guess what, I

1090
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 1: don't need a million men to love me and marry me.

1091
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:50,239
Speaker 1: I just need one. It's somebody out hey. You so beautiful.

1092
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 1: It's beauty. I love my man down.

1093
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,440
Speaker 3: I just honestly I love it.

1094
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:57,120
Speaker 1: What she looks like the sinner, it's just give it

1095
00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 1: like it's just given. Hey, look but I'm a healed

1096
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 1: lover now I used to be like a toxic lover

1097
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 1: like crazy, I'm in my heeled love error. I'm not

1098
00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 1: really sure what error I mean. She So, y'all make

1099
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 1: sure y'all share the content, like subscribe, follow all that

1100
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,840
Speaker 1: good stuff. And let me say this before we close off. Y'all,

1101
00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 1: there is one Twitter account that is connected to pour minds.

1102
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:30,360
Speaker 1: It's p o, you are underscore in my nds. Y'all

1103
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 1: are tagging the wrong poor minds page. If you see

1104
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 1: at poor minds with no underscore, that is at fake page,

1105
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,800
Speaker 1: do not follow that page. Okay, they block me Andrea

1106
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 1: and the poor Minds page on both so we only

1107
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 1: have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok. It's p oh,

1108
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: you are underscore in my nds.

1109
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 2: I and we got hell a fake Facebook page on.

1110
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 1: The Facebook page our face.

1111
00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 2: The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

1112
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:01,880
Speaker 2: least amount of file. So if you're on face, the

1113
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 2: one that's hours got the least amount of file, but

1114
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 2: one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty.

1115
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 1: Make if you actually look at the content, because the

1116
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 1: caption is like whoever it is don't speak English because

1117
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:16,520
Speaker 1: their captures are like bumba clade? Should men? Should men

1118
00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

1119
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:19,760
Speaker 4: No?

1120
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 1: Check answer below.

1121
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 2: Block block pull yo pully on poyo, Like that's literally

1122
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 2: what the caption I'm like you what that DG is

1123
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 2: bumba claude, bumba claude.

1124
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:37,040
Speaker 1: So now it's time to get into the bag the

1125
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 1: big bow bow bow bow. So our bed is our

1126
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:47,480
Speaker 1: six topic. Okay, and today we wanted to talk about

1127
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 1: something a little different. Now Drea has went through this

1128
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: before me personally, never have, never will not my forte.

1129
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: I don't believe in it. It's not ministry, but it's not.

1130
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:08,320
Speaker 1: So we want to talk about breaking celibacy. Okay, have

1131
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 1: you ever been celibate before? Yeah? How long were you

1132
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 1: celibate for? I would celebrate, honestly, like sometimes like putting

1133
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: a title on it is crazy because there's been times

1134
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 1: in my life where I've not had sex for like

1135
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:22,040
Speaker 1: two years just because i haven't really spoke to anyone.

1136
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 1: That thing with my thing would have closed up, you know,

1137
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: for a hole on you. You know what I'm saying,

1138
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 1: You gotta use that hole. You never heard use it before.

1139
00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 1: You lose it, you know what. Yeah, you know when

1140
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 1: life is so tough, it's like sexist, Like the last

1141
00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: thing is like two years.

1142
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 2: Well, I will say this, I fuck you.

1143
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 1: Because I kind of let that stress.

1144
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 2: Now I'm stressed, but I with her. I feel like

1145
00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 2: you're way too fucking horny. If you're trying to fu,

1146
00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 2: you ain't got no money. Im grayfu because wow, nothing

1147
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:04,480
Speaker 2: even turned me on when I'm back.

1148
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 1: Sometimes you're doing it to get to the money.

1149
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 2: If I have negative twelve pounds in my account, I

1150
01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:13,760
Speaker 2: don't want no dig.

1151
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 1: So it might be somebody. Look Nate, you remember, Nate,

1152
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:22,680
Speaker 1: what was the movie? What was the movie? Set set

1153
01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:24,480
Speaker 1: it off? I need this money?

1154
01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 2: Well, she fucked, but she wasn't fucking him to get

1155
01:00:27,160 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 2: that scratched, to get that each scratch.

1156
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 1: She was sucking him because she needed That's what I'm saying.

1157
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 1: But you were saying, how can you fuck when you

1158
01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 1: broke very easily? Okay?

1159
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:39,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she was fucking for money like she was

1160
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 2: fucking to get the money. And I would like, hows

1161
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 2: be fucking because they horny? They don't be getting no

1162
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 2: when they be still baking the niggaves.

1163
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 3: You know what?

1164
01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes I wish sometimes I wish that I would

1165
01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 1: like I couldn't do that. You know what, you know

1166
01:00:58,240 --> 01:00:59,640
Speaker 1: when you see that, you know, when you see that

1167
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 1: you're away.

1168
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:02,640
Speaker 3: I can funk for money.

1169
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 1: I wish sometimes I do.

1170
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 3: I've not got me.

1171
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm not gonna. I see the girls and

1172
01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:12,439
Speaker 1: they're like, oh my god, your trip your one big

1173
01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 1: bully money. I'm like, damn what. It's crazy because me

1174
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: and my friend we have this saying that we'd be like,

1175
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 1: she had to pay that tab, though that tab been paid.

1176
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: They're like that that tab is getting paid tonight. When

1177
01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:28,680
Speaker 1: a man is doing X, Y Z and he reial

1178
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 1: little girls is paying that tab one way or the other. Facts,

1179
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:34,080
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You know they're having a

1180
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:37,200
Speaker 1: good time. I'm not I'm not hating. No, I'm not hating.

1181
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 1: I mean I'm hating because why can't I have the guts?

1182
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 1: But no, it's not. It's it's meeting having a good time.

1183
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 1: Sometimes That's what I always think about it. I just

1184
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 1: be like, you know, maybe you were celibate for two

1185
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: years because it was actually so that one that one

1186
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:00,600
Speaker 1: was like no title sun, but but I actually had

1187
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 1: an intentional celibacy for a year, okay, because obviously I

1188
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:06,720
Speaker 1: wanted to get closer to God, I wanted to get

1189
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:08,880
Speaker 1: more to my spirituality. And I also felt like I

1190
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:13,000
Speaker 1: had a very toxic relationship with guys and sex. I

1191
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 1: kind of feel like I attached sex to my emotions

1192
01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: and my and my worth and there were just so

1193
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:24,000
Speaker 1: many things I needed to kind of unpacked. I was like, Okay, cool, seriously, seriously, seriously,

1194
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: no sex for one year. And I've said this story

1195
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:30,920
Speaker 1: a couple of times now. I was going strong for

1196
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:34,280
Speaker 1: one year. One year, no sex, no masturbation, nothing. Because

1197
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:36,000
Speaker 1: some of you not be like, I'm not having sex,

1198
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:41,400
Speaker 1: play with your pussy. That's me, I think, because that

1199
01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 1: what the Barbara's going crazy over there. She was always

1200
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:48,960
Speaker 1: you gots some batteries. You know how crazy it is

1201
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 1: for your batteries to run out. You gotta charge. It's

1202
01:02:54,080 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 1: a new battery. It was using it. Yeah, I've never

1203
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 1: used the roast toy. I'm not gonna lie. I don't know.

1204
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:10,919
Speaker 1: I don't like roads toys. I don't like the road toy.

1205
01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:15,040
Speaker 1: It's it's like it's too much. You don't want to

1206
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 1: you don't want to know that crossed and they stayed

1207
01:03:18,560 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 1: crossed for about three days. Let me say this, some

1208
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 1: of the vibrants don't need to be vibrating, like like

1209
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 1: keep it soft, Like yeah, I was shaken for four days.

1210
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:34,439
Speaker 3: It's like it's given. It's given massage, too much, given

1211
01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 3: too much.

1212
01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 1: So so you're just like, bro, that that thing is strong,

1213
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 1: that pussy is strong. You put the vibrant on the highest.

1214
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 2: Set because I agree the roads toy it's oh D,

1215
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 2: whoever created thing?

1216
01:03:56,800 --> 01:04:00,840
Speaker 1: What y'all? Because the first level is enough for me.

1217
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 1: I ain't even made it to SEV that's seven levels. Yeah,

1218
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 1: it's like seven.

1219
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:08,840
Speaker 2: It's like the first one is like that's like the

1220
01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 2: the next one is like, you know, like a video game.

1221
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,080
Speaker 1: Get to the next level. She ain't got to level

1222
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 1: seven yet, graduated there it's level.

1223
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:24,120
Speaker 2: And then it started getting real tricky too, because like

1224
01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:25,280
Speaker 2: you'll think you back on.

1225
01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:31,560
Speaker 1: Oh it's not like a Nintendo sixty four, because you'll

1226
01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:32,920
Speaker 1: think you back on level one.

1227
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 2: You'll think it's back on the and then you'll do

1228
01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:39,680
Speaker 2: that twice and then it'll be like, I don't like it.

1229
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:43,840
Speaker 1: It's just a little too that's too much, too much

1230
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:48,520
Speaker 1: for me. So you were celebrating no sex and no masturbation. Yeah,

1231
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:49,520
Speaker 1: but how was that?

1232
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 3: You know what? I enjoyed that?

1233
01:04:51,880 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 1: So you never wanted to real one out? I mean yeah,

1234
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:57,120
Speaker 1: I have thoughts like sometimes like when people kissing on

1235
01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 1: the screen. I got turned off when I see sexies.

1236
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: I was like, I can't, I can't, I can't do this,

1237
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:08,640
Speaker 1: I can't do this. But I really was avoiding any

1238
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 1: sort of anything that could put me back into that place. Yeah,

1239
01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 1: and unfortunately, there was one God, there was one sexy

1240
01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 1: guy that decided to move in downstairs from a flat,

1241
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 1: and yeah, he was my he became my neighbor, and

1242
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:27,800
Speaker 1: I was like father God. And it's mad because the

1243
01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 1: first time I actually met him, I was on my

1244
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:34,440
Speaker 1: way to I was on my way to the supermarket

1245
01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 1: to get food chopping, and he came.

1246
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 3: He came to me.

1247
01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 1: He's like, oh, yeah, where you going? And I just

1248
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 1: moved in and I said, oh yeah, I'm going food chopping.

1249
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 1: He's like, okay, let me take it. I was like

1250
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:45,959
Speaker 1: fucking hell, Oh my god. I was like fucking he Well,

1251
01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:48,440
Speaker 1: that's it there, So that's how you broke your celibacy.

1252
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 3: No way, wait.

1253
01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:57,680
Speaker 1: For the food shop. No, no, no, crazy. Okay, obviously,

1254
01:05:57,720 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: like first time I met him, you know, it took

1255
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:00,600
Speaker 1: me food shop and stuff.

1256
01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 3: You know, I did shipped to basket.

1257
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 1: And then from there we just started going out and

1258
01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 1: he was just he was just lavish. You were just

1259
01:06:08,920 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 1: buying me things, would just take me on. He was

1260
01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:12,920
Speaker 1: very lavish. And that's the kind of like you know,

1261
01:06:13,200 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 1: like nice, like you were just like I was just like, nah, man,

1262
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 1: this is my tip. This is the type that God

1263
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:21,800
Speaker 1: keeps telling me to leave alone. Yeah. But yeah, so

1264
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 1: we dated for about two months and then yeah, this

1265
01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 1: game was game.

1266
01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:28,439
Speaker 3: After that was game.

1267
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 1: I feel you though, because but I feel like, but

1268
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 1: did you feel like you did it on your terms? Though?

1269
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 1: Like it wasn't like the memory you said before you

1270
01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:38,640
Speaker 1: were having sex. It was like an emotional attachment. It

1271
01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 1: was all this cause did you feel like it was

1272
01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:44,439
Speaker 1: a better experience for you after the long celibacy? Yeah,

1273
01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:46,640
Speaker 1: it was definitely on my time and something. It's something

1274
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:49,760
Speaker 1: I wanted to do, right. It was fucking great. I

1275
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:56,920
Speaker 1: know that thing was juicy. Se I know it was good,

1276
01:06:57,000 --> 01:07:02,320
Speaker 1: and I know that ass was clap it was why

1277
01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:05,160
Speaker 1: because I seen it? Did you see it? She got that?

1278
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:07,240
Speaker 1: Thanks guys, she.

1279
01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:12,160
Speaker 3: That's a weapon of mass destruction.

1280
01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: Looking hey, pad of Joyce, don't play honestly, That's why

1281
01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 1: that's why our cameras from here just spirkings somewhere. I'm saying, like,

1282
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:25,040
Speaker 1: let's streak as someone say, do you know what sod

1283
01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:27,160
Speaker 1: where people meet me? That's just so shocked to see

1284
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:30,480
Speaker 1: that I've got a crack. But it's crazy, Like Joyce,

1285
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:33,760
Speaker 1: we never knew, and it's just like, well, it's that's

1286
01:07:33,760 --> 01:07:36,040
Speaker 1: why I said earlier, like I seen it the other day,

1287
01:07:36,280 --> 01:07:39,200
Speaker 1: but today I see it. I said, I see why

1288
01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:44,240
Speaker 1: that milkshake brings out the boards. That's why he wanted

1289
01:07:44,280 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 1: to take her food shop. I would to take you

1290
01:07:49,000 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 1: to get some bananas too.

1291
01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:57,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm telling you you want to give banana.

1292
01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:02,120
Speaker 1: It's that wrongs from my tea. But we're gonna talk

1293
01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:04,400
Speaker 1: about that a minute. What made you break your celibacy?

1294
01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:05,400
Speaker 1: How long am I? God?

1295
01:08:05,680 --> 01:08:08,440
Speaker 2: Like, I actually broke my celibacy for like the last

1296
01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:09,440
Speaker 2: dude I was dating.

1297
01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 1: Oh so this was recent? You knew that how to

1298
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:19,759
Speaker 1: act shock for the people? God damn? Can I react

1299
01:08:19,760 --> 01:08:24,120
Speaker 1: with the audience please? To effects? About to effect? Yes,

1300
01:08:24,280 --> 01:08:24,679
Speaker 1: like I.

1301
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:27,920
Speaker 2: Hadn't had sex for like six months until I started

1302
01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:31,760
Speaker 2: dating the last person, Iran, what's up?

1303
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 1: I was like, good morning, queen. She was like, hey,

1304
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:41,800
Speaker 1: nothing was nothing was good about them morning. It was

1305
01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:42,599
Speaker 1: so nice.

1306
01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:45,240
Speaker 2: It wasn't nothing good about the mornings. Ain't gonna lie,

1307
01:08:45,280 --> 01:08:47,280
Speaker 2: But it was a it was a healing journey. I

1308
01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:50,559
Speaker 2: felt like it was good for my personal growth and

1309
01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:53,240
Speaker 2: for me to really get to know myself. I think

1310
01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:57,760
Speaker 2: that's important. I think everybody should take a break from

1311
01:08:57,800 --> 01:08:59,120
Speaker 2: six sometimes.

1312
01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 1: I agreed, do you know what I'm can because there's

1313
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:09,679
Speaker 1: a big conversation about things like pornography and masturbation stuff,

1314
01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:15,959
Speaker 1: and I feel like anyone that hasn't in their lifetime,

1315
01:09:16,280 --> 01:09:19,040
Speaker 1: like let's just say you if you, if you cannot

1316
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 1: have to take a six months out of no sex,

1317
01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:25,240
Speaker 1: I think that's scary. You know what It's like. No,

1318
01:09:25,280 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 1: I'm not making because I ain't gonna lie. If I

1319
01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:31,880
Speaker 1: started having sex when I was fifteen and you never

1320
01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:37,400
Speaker 1: break been going hard. No, If I did take a break,

1321
01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 1: it was because I was.

1322
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 2: But let me say this, though, it's crazy, it was

1323
01:09:44,680 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 2: never like.

1324
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've never looked at sex like oh

1325
01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:51,680
Speaker 1: I need it, I need to have it, or like oh,

1326
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 1: I'm so like, I mean, I get horny. Why horny?

1327
01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:58,160
Speaker 1: Bro the way you lie? You know, I'm saying like,

1328
01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:00,400
Speaker 1: of course I get horny. But I'm saying like, if

1329
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:02,559
Speaker 1: I have about of like a month or two where

1330
01:10:02,600 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 1: I'm not having sex, I'm not going crazy. You never

1331
01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:07,840
Speaker 1: not have sex for a month. Yes I have, Yes,

1332
01:10:07,880 --> 01:10:11,160
Speaker 1: I have not on purpose. Though I was definitely beating

1333
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:15,080
Speaker 1: my meat every day. She would ain't help me. Leave

1334
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 1: me alone, bitch? Can I get a break? Oh my god.

1335
01:10:20,240 --> 01:10:22,519
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, though, I guess like for me, it's

1336
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:25,760
Speaker 1: just like, I don't know, I've never felt like, I mean,

1337
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:28,360
Speaker 1: probably I should take that time, maybe, But I've never

1338
01:10:28,360 --> 01:10:31,840
Speaker 1: felt like I've had an extremely like unhealthy relationship with

1339
01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:34,040
Speaker 1: sex or anything like that. So I feel like it

1340
01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:35,960
Speaker 1: was never like in my journey. I feel like where

1341
01:10:36,080 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 1: my journey is because I'm super spiritual as well, you know,

1342
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:41,120
Speaker 1: I feel like every path that I have taken on

1343
01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 1: it was for Mike, and I'm on the right path.

1344
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:45,680
Speaker 1: I feel like everything that I've done that's lead me

1345
01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:49,560
Speaker 1: to be here. You know, sometimes people need that. Sometimes

1346
01:10:49,640 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe that will happen for me two

1347
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:54,760
Speaker 1: years from now. You never know because my story isn't over.

1348
01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:57,400
Speaker 1: But I said, for me, I needs that, I needs

1349
01:10:57,400 --> 01:10:58,040
Speaker 1: to beat my meat.

1350
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:00,360
Speaker 2: I felt like I needed that I needed to not

1351
01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:02,080
Speaker 2: have for like six months.

1352
01:11:02,120 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 1: Like it was like a really good time in my life.

1353
01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:07,480
Speaker 2: And I feel like I focused so much on myself,

1354
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:10,479
Speaker 2: my personal growth and like on business. And it's so

1355
01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 2: crazy because I always say this if people have been

1356
01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 2: watching the show for a long time, I always say,

1357
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:18,439
Speaker 2: I feel like that was like the time where like

1358
01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:22,519
Speaker 2: the show kind of like yeah, took off or started

1359
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:25,360
Speaker 2: taking off when we started getting like crazy opportunities and stuff.

1360
01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:28,720
Speaker 2: Because I was just focusing on myself, focusing on my

1361
01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:31,719
Speaker 2: business and being an entrepreneur, and I just wasn't worried

1362
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:34,479
Speaker 2: about no men, Like it was no man that I

1363
01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:37,000
Speaker 2: was dating that I was worried about distracting.

1364
01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:40,960
Speaker 1: Then that nigga came in my life. Lord dies, that's

1365
01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:43,439
Speaker 1: the thing that they do be coming, they becoming.

1366
01:11:43,560 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 2: They know it's they can smell it.

1367
01:11:47,600 --> 01:11:54,160
Speaker 1: They can smell that was hot like little seesus, the

1368
01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:59,599
Speaker 1: nigga swiping beesus. Okay, okay, so celibacy. I say, if

1369
01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 1: this in your journey, do it. But one thing about me,

1370
01:12:03,439 --> 01:12:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna scratch that thing. I'm gonna get it scratched.

1371
01:12:07,400 --> 01:12:13,639
Speaker 1: I'm clapping you feel me. I said, you've gone without

1372
01:12:13,680 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 1: having sex? Honestly, I'm gonna be real with you, like

1373
01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:18,880
Speaker 1: I really, I don't know. It probably has been like

1374
01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:20,479
Speaker 1: a couple of months, like maybe like three or four

1375
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:22,320
Speaker 1: into when I was like in between. Yes, it has,

1376
01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 1: like I've had times why I'm I'm saying, like, but

1377
01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 1: it wasn't let me tell you something about lev It's

1378
01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:36,760
Speaker 1: on lie. No it's not. But it's not like, oh,

1379
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 1: I'm not having sex, because it was just because shit

1380
01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 1: was happening. A nigga couldn't come through. The nigga I

1381
01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 1: wanted to see wasn't. It wasn't like, oh, I'm not

1382
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:47,400
Speaker 1: doing it. No, it was just like I literally couldn't

1383
01:12:47,479 --> 01:12:49,800
Speaker 1: get it. I was looking for it probably, but it

1384
01:12:49,880 --> 01:12:52,479
Speaker 1: just wasn't happening. That's what I'm saying. If I've gone

1385
01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:54,559
Speaker 1: a long time without sex, it's not like I was

1386
01:12:54,600 --> 01:12:57,760
Speaker 1: purposely doing it. But there has been bouts where you know,

1387
01:12:57,800 --> 01:12:59,439
Speaker 1: I haven't had sex for a while, but it wasn't

1388
01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:04,160
Speaker 1: on purpose, is what I'm saying. So with that being said,

1389
01:13:04,240 --> 01:13:07,679
Speaker 1: I think that if you do do celibacy. It could

1390
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:09,080
Speaker 1: be a good journey for you. You know what I'm

1391
01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 1: saying about, Like I said, with my journey in life,

1392
01:13:11,439 --> 01:13:14,400
Speaker 1: you know that wasn't something that I personally have experienced.

1393
01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:16,760
Speaker 1: But what I do it one day or try it, Yeah,

1394
01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 1: I would be open to it, you know what I'm saying.

1395
01:13:18,360 --> 01:13:20,800
Speaker 1: If that's where my story leads me to. I feel

1396
01:13:20,840 --> 01:13:23,400
Speaker 1: like you you saying that you have a good relationship

1397
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:27,280
Speaker 1: with sex. Yeah, I can understand why. That's okay. I

1398
01:13:27,320 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 1: think for me, my celibacy journey was because I have

1399
01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 1: a bad relationship, right, and I wanted to kind of

1400
01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 1: connect to myself and connect with God in that season, right.

1401
01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:42,280
Speaker 1: So again, it's it's how you feel you're trying to get, Like,

1402
01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:45,200
Speaker 1: if you're outside, be outside. If you want to be selivent,

1403
01:13:45,280 --> 01:13:50,280
Speaker 1: be celibate, it's fine. Yeah, I think it's just your journey.

1404
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 2: Everybody has a different journey. I feel for me it

1405
01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:58,680
Speaker 2: was the same thing. Like I just feel like if

1406
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 2: you ever feel like six, it's like an escape for you,

1407
01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:05,519
Speaker 2: that's not good because you need to figure out what

1408
01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:07,679
Speaker 2: it is that from.

1409
01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:12,160
Speaker 1: And I think that's what anything to drinking, smoking, whatever,

1410
01:14:12,200 --> 01:14:14,160
Speaker 1: it's like you feel like you're using it for something

1411
01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:17,040
Speaker 1: then other than having a good time, and you're actually

1412
01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:19,400
Speaker 1: really enjoying it. Like everything needs to be in like

1413
01:14:20,080 --> 01:14:22,680
Speaker 1: you shouldn't over indulge in anything. Yeah, and one thing

1414
01:14:22,680 --> 01:14:24,920
Speaker 1: about me, I don't have an addictive personality either. I

1415
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:26,479
Speaker 1: think we have talked about this on the show, So

1416
01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 1: I don't get addicted to nothing. If I wanted to

1417
01:14:29,080 --> 01:14:32,320
Speaker 1: drop sex tomorrow, I very much could smoking, drinking whatever.

1418
01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to the gym, I'm gonna be healthy.

1419
01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:37,000
Speaker 1: But it's like I don't have When I notice I

1420
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:40,120
Speaker 1: have a negative relationship with something, that's when I'm like, Okay,

1421
01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 1: this is not for me. I need to realize, cause

1422
01:14:42,880 --> 01:14:45,240
Speaker 1: I've had to do that with liquor. Like I still

1423
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:46,920
Speaker 1: do that every year, Like I'll take a break and

1424
01:14:46,920 --> 01:14:48,759
Speaker 1: I'll be like, you know what, I'm going too hard,

1425
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:51,200
Speaker 1: I'm doing too much. So I think it's like it's

1426
01:14:51,240 --> 01:14:54,120
Speaker 1: important to take a break from things that you're over

1427
01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:55,840
Speaker 1: indulging in. For sure.

1428
01:14:56,000 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 3: I agree.

1429
01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:02,200
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm on a I'm on the accidental

1430
01:15:02,280 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 1: celibacy Johnny, because as you were talking, I was like,

1431
01:15:04,360 --> 01:15:06,280
Speaker 1: what's the lost time I had sex? It's been a while.

1432
01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:08,600
Speaker 1: Bite yeah, sometimes it be an accident, this is a

1433
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:14,080
Speaker 1: this is like like the last time I got my

1434
01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 1: little back beating. That's why I say, sometimes what happened

1435
01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 1: to me? I'm like, damn, Yeah, It's like it was

1436
01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:21,479
Speaker 1: a time where I was working two three jobs. I'm like, damn,

1437
01:15:21,520 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 1: it's been like you know, because I'm working so much.

1438
01:15:23,560 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 1: I only had three dollars in rent was dude. So

1439
01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:28,400
Speaker 1: it's like sometimes you like, you know, you be busy

1440
01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:31,280
Speaker 1: with things and things happen, but but that's also a

1441
01:15:31,320 --> 01:15:33,519
Speaker 1: good thing because you know you're working, you're focused, and

1442
01:15:33,560 --> 01:15:36,840
Speaker 1: you're happening. Ain't no distraction. That dick going distraction? Now,

1443
01:15:37,040 --> 01:15:40,519
Speaker 1: I agree, good good dick will distract. Dick lo be

1444
01:15:40,600 --> 01:15:43,479
Speaker 1: a distraction. It does. It's such a love for God

1445
01:15:43,560 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 1: needs to change it because I think it's me. I like,

1446
01:15:46,600 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 1: I have sex with people that I like. Yeah, I

1447
01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:51,920
Speaker 1: feel like that's the best. The best sex that I've

1448
01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 1: ever had is with people that you love to me,

1449
01:15:59,280 --> 01:16:06,840
Speaker 1: like love to like. I like that too. If we

1450
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:07,919
Speaker 1: ain't making love.

1451
01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:12,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I feel like we're in love at least.

1452
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 1: I love to pretend, like, let's take it the UK.

1453
01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:19,559
Speaker 1: I want to do the UK. Men and the US

1454
01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:26,200
Speaker 1: me have different. Oh that's a great question. I don't

1455
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:30,519
Speaker 1: know what I do know, but I forgot you do.

1456
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 3: Know, But I don't think I've ever been with a

1457
01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:33,960
Speaker 3: US guy.

1458
01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:38,880
Speaker 1: No, I feel like being with a UK man. I

1459
01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:41,280
Speaker 1: feel like it was it was like, it was cool,

1460
01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:43,719
Speaker 1: you know, but I don't think I had enough to compare,

1461
01:16:44,120 --> 01:16:46,000
Speaker 1: Like I only had one. So of course I'm gonna

1462
01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:48,960
Speaker 1: say American men, it's better if it's good, one is another.

1463
01:16:50,479 --> 01:16:52,599
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. It was cool, it was cool.

1464
01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:56,439
Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't nothing such a baby. That's cool.

1465
01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, but I've had sex with American It

1466
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:04,200
Speaker 1: was cool. But that's yes, wasn't It wasn't like, oh

1467
01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:08,040
Speaker 1: my god, like, but I feel like I can't put

1468
01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:11,240
Speaker 1: all the UK men just because I have one, you

1469
01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:13,280
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Yeah, that's a good thing because

1470
01:17:13,280 --> 01:17:16,160
Speaker 1: there's some American men that blew my mind. And then

1471
01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 1: there was something I was like, so what's the average?

1472
01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:21,320
Speaker 1: What's the average? Are we saying, like for the US

1473
01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:24,799
Speaker 1: the bat that have you had bad good experiences overall?

1474
01:17:25,640 --> 01:17:28,960
Speaker 1: If I had, like no, it's like it's very it's

1475
01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:31,439
Speaker 1: a very small community. Of men who got good peen

1476
01:17:31,520 --> 01:17:34,799
Speaker 1: in America. They don't be slanging out that good wood

1477
01:17:34,920 --> 01:17:37,360
Speaker 1: like that. Y'all can get mad if you want to.

1478
01:17:38,400 --> 01:17:41,120
Speaker 1: You it's a thing. It's like it was a study.

1479
01:17:41,120 --> 01:17:43,080
Speaker 1: It was like seventy nine percent of women don't have

1480
01:17:43,200 --> 01:17:45,680
Speaker 1: orgasms in the States, like from sex. You know what

1481
01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying a lot of women right into the show

1482
01:17:48,080 --> 01:17:50,439
Speaker 1: and they're like, you know, I'm having sex with my partner,

1483
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:52,680
Speaker 1: and then afterwards I got to use my toy, Like

1484
01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 1: what can I do? Like yeah, yeah, the girls ain't

1485
01:17:57,080 --> 01:18:01,000
Speaker 1: the girls ain't getting it. Oh, sisters, I'm not gonna lie.

1486
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Speaker 3: I've had a great time.

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Speaker 1: Hey, I'm a gifst mine I'm getting.

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Speaker 2: I would say, he said, she said a grand time

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Speaker 2: over here.

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Speaker 3: I mean in the u K.

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Speaker 1: Like like obviously, like I've been with I don't think

1492
01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:19,320
Speaker 1: i've been I'm trying to think I've been the water abroad,

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01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:24,880
Speaker 1: no UK mad, and I've had I've had a good time.

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01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:29,800
Speaker 1: I've had fun man here, extremely fun and I the

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01:18:29,880 --> 01:18:31,080
Speaker 1: matter here are fun.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And I feel like it's a lot of African

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01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:36,439
Speaker 2: men in the u K. Yeah, I feel like African

1498
01:18:36,439 --> 01:18:42,600
Speaker 2: men are real dick. Please, you had you gave me

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01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:43,400
Speaker 2: a flash back.

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01:18:46,320 --> 01:18:50,960
Speaker 1: Don't get me started. You are a wild girl. I

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01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 1: mean that's from what I hear. I don't know. I

1502
01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:56,000
Speaker 1: never had you heard it from me, bitch, you just

1503
01:18:56,040 --> 01:18:58,080
Speaker 1: said it was all right. I didn't know. I know

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01:18:58,160 --> 01:19:00,680
Speaker 1: you said we were talking about came in. But like

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01:19:00,760 --> 01:19:02,439
Speaker 1: African men, once we get into like you know.

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01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:09,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, friends, all my friends that have dated like African me,

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01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:13,360
Speaker 2: and they always say, like, African min top tier.

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01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:15,000
Speaker 1: The Sexty's top tier.

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01:19:15,320 --> 01:19:17,000
Speaker 2: And I feel like y'all have a lot of African

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01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:19,960
Speaker 2: min over here, and that's probably why.

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01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:21,640
Speaker 1: We have a good time. She said, we have a

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01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:24,360
Speaker 1: good time. We have a good Okay, so we're gonna

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01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 1: move on. So now it's time to get into the

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01:19:28,960 --> 01:19:37,120
Speaker 1: bob we in the bo bow bow bow. See. It's

1515
01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:41,599
Speaker 1: the shout out to Chromati for sponsoring this episode. Y'all

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Speaker 1: please go check out this wrong because it is really

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Speaker 1: good and it's smooth, it's tasty. And then it's women own.

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01:19:49,160 --> 01:19:50,920
Speaker 2: Yes that I was gonna say, it's one of the

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01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:58,240
Speaker 2: very few women owned its defined and they're from they're

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01:19:58,240 --> 01:19:59,000
Speaker 2: from Karaku.

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01:20:00,560 --> 01:20:04,800
Speaker 1: Yeah you can read real good. I like that. But yes,

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01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:09,320
Speaker 1: y'all make yeah Cromanti for Spash on this episode What's

1523
01:20:09,400 --> 01:20:12,040
Speaker 1: up y'all as your girl XP and it's Sugarl Dre

1524
01:20:12,120 --> 01:20:14,479
Speaker 1: and the call. Y'all know, we have a segment on

1525
01:20:14,640 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 1: Poor Minds called Item of the Week. But do you

1526
01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:18,759
Speaker 1: have a product or something that you want to promote

1527
01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:21,600
Speaker 1: and you want it featured on Poor Minds. Your opportunity

1528
01:20:21,720 --> 01:20:22,919
Speaker 1: is here period.

1529
01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:25,400
Speaker 2: If you have an item or you have a business

1530
01:20:25,439 --> 01:20:27,479
Speaker 2: and you want to get it promoted. We are now

1531
01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:30,840
Speaker 2: having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if

1532
01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:33,200
Speaker 2: you would like to get your product featured for Item

1533
01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:35,559
Speaker 2: of the Week, all you need to do is send

1534
01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:38,799
Speaker 2: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

1535
01:20:38,840 --> 01:20:42,640
Speaker 2: dot com. That's I T E M O F T

1536
01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:47,919
Speaker 2: H E W E E K PM at gmail dot com.

1537
01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:50,280
Speaker 2: Send us an email and we'll work it out.

1538
01:20:50,320 --> 01:20:51,240
Speaker 1: We gonna figure it out.

1539
01:20:51,640 --> 01:20:55,280
Speaker 2: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make

1540
01:20:55,320 --> 01:20:58,679
Speaker 2: you some money. We love to moret a small business

1541
01:20:58,720 --> 01:21:01,879
Speaker 2: man and a black business at that, but I mean.

1542
01:21:03,840 --> 01:21:08,800
Speaker 1: Discriminade. Any business is welcome. Now time to get into

1543
01:21:08,840 --> 01:21:11,439
Speaker 1: the bop. Okay, So Bop of the Week is whatever

1544
01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:14,800
Speaker 1: music you've been listening to this week, like the Good

1545
01:21:14,880 --> 01:21:17,280
Speaker 1: Good Tune, so I'm an R and B girl. The

1546
01:21:17,360 --> 01:21:20,120
Speaker 1: people know I love me a good R and B tune.

1547
01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:22,880
Speaker 1: So my Bop of the week this week is by

1548
01:21:23,280 --> 01:21:26,200
Speaker 1: an artists called d Mott and this song is called

1549
01:21:26,240 --> 01:21:28,760
Speaker 1: My Everything. And I always say this, we need to

1550
01:21:28,840 --> 01:21:31,680
Speaker 1: get back to the love making music. I want a

1551
01:21:31,760 --> 01:21:34,280
Speaker 1: man to beg for it. Beg me, you know what

1552
01:21:34,360 --> 01:21:37,639
Speaker 1: I'm saying, or just make me feel like I am

1553
01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:42,519
Speaker 1: the last star in the sky. Okay, So dmont My Everything,

1554
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:44,400
Speaker 1: It's kind of like how that song is. It's a

1555
01:21:44,439 --> 01:21:46,240
Speaker 1: good R and B song. I like indie R and B.

1556
01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:48,840
Speaker 1: I don't like big artists. I like sometimes that's when

1557
01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:51,400
Speaker 1: the music gets watered down so everybody can love it.

1558
01:21:51,800 --> 01:21:53,879
Speaker 1: I like when people just make what's true to themselves

1559
01:21:53,880 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 1: because that's how you get to the good music. So

1560
01:21:56,160 --> 01:21:58,960
Speaker 1: dmont My Everything, that's not Bop of the week. What

1561
01:21:59,080 --> 01:22:00,840
Speaker 1: you've been listening to? I know you got a good

1562
01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:03,040
Speaker 1: I know you've got a good. You know. I'm very eclectic.

1563
01:22:03,439 --> 01:22:06,600
Speaker 1: I love aphrobets. Aphrobe's is my first love. But I

1564
01:22:06,640 --> 01:22:09,719
Speaker 1: would like to also jump on the R and B bandwagon, okay,

1565
01:22:10,040 --> 01:22:12,560
Speaker 1: because honestly, we don't make R and B like we

1566
01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:16,920
Speaker 1: used to man, seriously, we need to bring back two thousands. Yeah,

1567
01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:22,760
Speaker 1: be sexy heartbreak love that tip. But there's something that

1568
01:22:22,920 --> 01:22:26,760
Speaker 1: I came across on TikTok. Her name is Sasha keyboll Okay.

1569
01:22:26,960 --> 01:22:31,519
Speaker 1: It's called hold Up. I really like that song really,

1570
01:22:32,520 --> 01:22:36,400
Speaker 1: the strings, the like the saxophone in there. Like I

1571
01:22:36,600 --> 01:22:41,720
Speaker 1: just I love a well thought out musician and I

1572
01:22:41,920 --> 01:22:44,880
Speaker 1: really really love I love this song. I think it's

1573
01:22:44,920 --> 01:22:47,120
Speaker 1: so well done. So yeah, big up her, Sasha Keybole

1574
01:22:47,640 --> 01:22:50,200
Speaker 1: hold up. You know what's crazy that you said that,

1575
01:22:50,320 --> 01:22:52,879
Speaker 1: because I find a lot of good artists on TikTok.

1576
01:22:53,360 --> 01:22:55,719
Speaker 1: People be sleeping on the music you can find on TikTok,

1577
01:22:56,040 --> 01:22:59,280
Speaker 1: Like if you set your algorithm up, we're like musicians.

1578
01:22:59,360 --> 01:23:01,639
Speaker 1: Come on there, you'll find some good ship for real.

1579
01:23:02,800 --> 01:23:07,840
Speaker 1: And I'm appreciating real music with like real instruments, just

1580
01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:12,280
Speaker 1: like just none of this like beach ship on a computer.

1581
01:23:12,760 --> 01:23:18,840
Speaker 1: I was. I was like a little flu flu I

1582
01:23:19,000 --> 01:23:22,120
Speaker 1: swear that. I went to recess Landet It's an event

1583
01:23:22,240 --> 01:23:25,400
Speaker 1: in the UK, and they had a little section where

1584
01:23:25,439 --> 01:23:28,800
Speaker 1: there was a guy on stage. I don't even want

1585
01:23:28,840 --> 01:23:30,120
Speaker 1: to say this out loud, but I don't give a

1586
01:23:30,200 --> 01:23:33,920
Speaker 1: fuck because I'm licky, licky he was. He had a

1587
01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:36,479
Speaker 1: I don't know who this guy is. He had as

1588
01:23:36,600 --> 01:23:42,040
Speaker 1: he was wearing a white vest, jeans, and he had

1589
01:23:42,080 --> 01:23:47,439
Speaker 1: a saxophone and he was blowing, and I was freaking

1590
01:23:47,439 --> 01:23:49,800
Speaker 1: a lord of massive blood of Jesus. This is a

1591
01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:52,760
Speaker 1: good you liked it? I fucking liked it so bad

1592
01:23:53,600 --> 01:23:55,920
Speaker 1: blowing and he was and he just looked I think

1593
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:56,800
Speaker 1: did he have a do rag?

1594
01:23:56,880 --> 01:23:57,839
Speaker 3: I don't even remember.

1595
01:23:57,960 --> 01:23:59,920
Speaker 1: I just know that he had a saxophone in hand,

1596
01:24:00,800 --> 01:24:04,880
Speaker 1: was blowing, and he looked sexy doing that. I'm always like, yeah,

1597
01:24:05,800 --> 01:24:08,720
Speaker 1: what else? What else you blow? I ain't gonna I

1598
01:24:08,760 --> 01:24:10,599
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie. I want to see a nigga playing

1599
01:24:10,640 --> 01:24:15,559
Speaker 1: a piccolo? You you deep in your bag? If that's

1600
01:24:15,600 --> 01:24:21,679
Speaker 1: what you playing a piccolo? Stop, It's like a wind instrument.

1601
01:24:21,840 --> 01:24:26,840
Speaker 1: It's a wind instrument. Clarinet. Do you have clarinets here? Yeah?

1602
01:24:26,880 --> 01:24:31,639
Speaker 1: But I'm just why is that specific instrument? Exactly? Because

1603
01:24:31,680 --> 01:24:32,720
Speaker 1: you didn't even know what it is?

1604
01:24:35,120 --> 01:24:37,439
Speaker 2: If you if you play a piccolo, you deep in

1605
01:24:37,560 --> 01:24:39,400
Speaker 2: your bag, deep in your bag?

1606
01:24:39,680 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 1: You a wind player? You were like, you said, what

1607
01:24:42,280 --> 01:24:43,000
Speaker 1: else you blow?

1608
01:24:44,479 --> 01:24:45,040
Speaker 2: You know?

1609
01:24:45,720 --> 01:24:50,080
Speaker 1: This couch? Is this count? I don't know what's in

1610
01:24:50,200 --> 01:24:52,080
Speaker 1: this wrong, but y'all is cutting off.

1611
01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:54,880
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so you know I gotta bring it

1612
01:24:54,920 --> 01:24:58,000
Speaker 2: full a circle. Lord, bring it back to the States.

1613
01:24:58,160 --> 01:25:02,040
Speaker 1: Okay, little hood is she? Boss man be love?

1614
01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:03,000
Speaker 3: Oh my god?

1615
01:25:03,360 --> 01:25:03,680
Speaker 1: You so.

1616
01:25:06,520 --> 01:25:11,920
Speaker 2: He got a song called mister pot Scraper, and I

1617
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:13,759
Speaker 2: love it. I'm gonna read y'all some lyrics.

1618
01:25:14,040 --> 01:25:15,360
Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, Thank you.

1619
01:25:18,240 --> 01:25:21,719
Speaker 2: Left pocket full of pink fifties. Why pocket got blues

1620
01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:24,720
Speaker 2: in it? Plugs singing in packs to me, I know

1621
01:25:24,840 --> 01:25:27,760
Speaker 2: what to do with it. A thousand dollars shoes, I'm

1622
01:25:27,800 --> 01:25:30,760
Speaker 2: walking on a damn ounce. He ain't running up a bag.

1623
01:25:31,040 --> 01:25:34,400
Speaker 2: He running his damn mouth. Oh that was a bar

1624
01:25:34,520 --> 01:25:38,160
Speaker 2: low key, yeah, okay, he meant that. He said I

1625
01:25:38,240 --> 01:25:41,479
Speaker 2: missed a swang a doll. Mister beat the road two

1626
01:25:41,560 --> 01:25:43,880
Speaker 2: thousand on the coat, stepping on their throat.

1627
01:25:44,000 --> 01:25:50,240
Speaker 1: Nigga. Ah, that would so good. Thank you, Thank you,

1628
01:25:51,080 --> 01:25:54,760
Speaker 1: You're welcome. Appreciate that. I love y'all. I love this song.

1629
01:25:54,920 --> 01:25:59,200
Speaker 1: You do something to my speriod. I see, I see

1630
01:25:59,800 --> 01:26:02,760
Speaker 1: it's in me, not me. Thank you, Thank you. Shout

1631
01:26:02,760 --> 01:26:06,320
Speaker 1: out the boss man love. Okay, So now can I

1632
01:26:07,439 --> 01:26:09,479
Speaker 1: what you want to you like I feel like you.

1633
01:26:09,640 --> 01:26:12,320
Speaker 1: I see you over there. You like that because you

1634
01:26:12,400 --> 01:26:15,040
Speaker 1: know what. Trap music is such a new genre for me.

1635
01:26:15,840 --> 01:26:19,479
Speaker 1: But there was a song in America that was spinning

1636
01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:29,479
Speaker 1: when three Silk City, it's three ten baby and Blue Faces.

1637
01:26:30,560 --> 01:26:33,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, I ain't never heard this one. You might

1638
01:26:33,240 --> 01:26:34,599
Speaker 1: be putting a little sleepy.

1639
01:26:34,920 --> 01:26:36,640
Speaker 3: Honestly, you've probably heard it.

1640
01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:46,120
Speaker 1: It was spinning, is it? Well? Think? Oh? I know that. Yeah,

1641
01:26:46,200 --> 01:26:46,920
Speaker 1: it was a vibe.

1642
01:26:47,200 --> 01:26:47,640
Speaker 2: It was a.

1643
01:26:49,320 --> 01:26:51,640
Speaker 1: No, no, it's not. I made a TikTok to it.

1644
01:26:51,760 --> 01:26:55,720
Speaker 1: I was okay, you ate you ate with that one.

1645
01:26:55,840 --> 01:26:57,960
Speaker 1: That was a vibe. I'm not going on. That was

1646
01:26:58,000 --> 01:27:02,400
Speaker 1: a good one for the streets. What's up, y'all? Iss

1647
01:27:02,439 --> 01:27:05,519
Speaker 1: your girl xp Andy shergirls raying a call and y'all

1648
01:27:05,640 --> 01:27:08,280
Speaker 1: do not forget to call our shot line. I know

1649
01:27:08,360 --> 01:27:10,080
Speaker 1: you've heard of a hotline, but this is the poor

1650
01:27:10,200 --> 01:27:13,200
Speaker 1: mind's shot line. Yeah, we love to hear from y'all.

1651
01:27:13,280 --> 01:27:15,519
Speaker 2: Y'all need to call in, y'all, And this is not

1652
01:27:15,680 --> 01:27:17,800
Speaker 2: necessarily for questions, you know, we just want to hear

1653
01:27:17,840 --> 01:27:19,760
Speaker 2: from y'all if we want to know y'all, feedback, y'all,

1654
01:27:19,840 --> 01:27:21,920
Speaker 2: thoughts on the show, or just what's going on in

1655
01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:24,360
Speaker 2: your life, so you can always call six seven eight

1656
01:27:24,840 --> 01:27:27,960
Speaker 2: eight two seven one eight two seed yes.

1657
01:27:27,880 --> 01:27:30,200
Speaker 1: And y'all know, keep it short and cute. Don't be

1658
01:27:30,360 --> 01:27:32,680
Speaker 1: calling and letting us know about your baby daddy, says

1659
01:27:32,680 --> 01:27:35,040
Speaker 1: a brother, cousin, boyfriend. Okay, well I want to hear

1660
01:27:35,080 --> 01:27:37,120
Speaker 1: about that. Actually, well, you know, they can let a

1661
01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:38,600
Speaker 1: little some but you know, we want to keep it

1662
01:27:38,720 --> 01:27:41,520
Speaker 1: cute and short. Like she said, this is not questions,

1663
01:27:41,760 --> 01:27:43,880
Speaker 1: This is not pour your heart out. So just call

1664
01:27:44,040 --> 01:27:45,960
Speaker 1: give us a little feedback. What you want to see

1665
01:27:46,000 --> 01:27:48,680
Speaker 1: on the show, any suggestions, what you think about the show,

1666
01:27:48,720 --> 01:27:50,720
Speaker 1: if you just want to simply give us our flowers,

1667
01:27:50,960 --> 01:27:53,160
Speaker 1: you know, or any it could be anything. What's bothering

1668
01:27:53,200 --> 01:27:54,880
Speaker 1: you this week, what got on your nerves this week?

1669
01:27:55,040 --> 01:27:56,679
Speaker 1: If you just want to vent and get some things

1670
01:27:56,760 --> 01:27:59,880
Speaker 1: off your chest. Pull the shot line again. The number

1671
01:28:00,000 --> 01:28:04,479
Speaker 1: it's six seven eight eight two seven one eight to six.

1672
01:28:05,560 --> 01:28:08,759
Speaker 1: So we're gonna answer our favorite Do you give good advice?

1673
01:28:09,280 --> 01:28:11,320
Speaker 1: I try to. I think you do give good advice.

1674
01:28:11,360 --> 01:28:13,760
Speaker 1: I do my burst, I do I feel like you're

1675
01:28:13,760 --> 01:28:15,560
Speaker 1: gonna give I feel like you give good advice. So

1676
01:28:15,640 --> 01:28:17,840
Speaker 1: this is our favorite segment of the show where we

1677
01:28:17,920 --> 01:28:20,040
Speaker 1: give our advice. If you want your question answered on

1678
01:28:20,040 --> 01:28:22,280
Speaker 1: the show, make sure you email us at ask poor

1679
01:28:22,360 --> 01:28:24,800
Speaker 1: Minds at gmail dot com. And if you are a

1680
01:28:24,880 --> 01:28:27,080
Speaker 1: Patreon member, make sure you put that in the subject line.

1681
01:28:27,080 --> 01:28:29,680
Speaker 1: You get to skip the line period. Okay, Dre, you

1682
01:28:29,720 --> 01:28:31,400
Speaker 1: want me to read number one? You know I'm gonna

1683
01:28:31,400 --> 01:28:34,559
Speaker 1: read it, damn because I read the long Okay, right,

1684
01:28:34,640 --> 01:28:39,200
Speaker 1: you're right, you're right, Go ahead, Hadrian and Lys.

1685
01:28:39,520 --> 01:28:41,240
Speaker 2: I am in a rough patch with a friend of

1686
01:28:41,320 --> 01:28:44,280
Speaker 2: mine who I've been friends with for well over fifteen years.

1687
01:28:44,680 --> 01:28:47,200
Speaker 2: Within the last eight years at least, we have grown

1688
01:28:47,280 --> 01:28:50,559
Speaker 2: to become best friends, even though we're total opposites. I'm

1689
01:28:50,640 --> 01:28:52,640
Speaker 2: the stay at home and chilled with the glass of

1690
01:28:52,760 --> 01:28:55,599
Speaker 2: wine girl, while she likes to turn up and party.

1691
01:28:56,200 --> 01:28:58,759
Speaker 2: Being that she is so on the scene, she often

1692
01:28:58,800 --> 01:29:01,519
Speaker 2: tells me stories about her other friends, personal life, and

1693
01:29:01,640 --> 01:29:04,920
Speaker 2: tea that happens while we're partying. I pretty much know

1694
01:29:05,560 --> 01:29:09,040
Speaker 2: something about all of her friends, even things that maybe

1695
01:29:09,120 --> 01:29:12,800
Speaker 2: I shouldn't know. At first, the tea was entertaining, but

1696
01:29:12,920 --> 01:29:15,360
Speaker 2: as we get older, I find myself questioning were the

1697
01:29:15,479 --> 01:29:19,200
Speaker 2: things I've confided in her while venting has been shared

1698
01:29:19,240 --> 01:29:22,080
Speaker 2: with her other friends. I've even asked her flat out

1699
01:29:22,120 --> 01:29:25,040
Speaker 2: if she's ever shared my tea with her other friends,

1700
01:29:25,120 --> 01:29:27,400
Speaker 2: but she swears she would never bring it up because

1701
01:29:27,400 --> 01:29:31,040
Speaker 2: we're so close. The older I get, the less I

1702
01:29:31,200 --> 01:29:34,720
Speaker 2: find gossip and tea entertaining. And although I love her,

1703
01:29:35,080 --> 01:29:37,680
Speaker 2: I'm starting to look at her sideways. I want to

1704
01:29:37,760 --> 01:29:40,360
Speaker 2: be able to share my life and my friend without

1705
01:29:40,439 --> 01:29:44,160
Speaker 2: fear of people I don't know personally knowing my business.

1706
01:29:44,640 --> 01:29:47,080
Speaker 2: My question is am I foolish to believe that she

1707
01:29:47,280 --> 01:29:49,920
Speaker 2: really isn't spreading my business out of the loyalty and

1708
01:29:50,040 --> 01:29:52,680
Speaker 2: bun that we have, or should I just come to

1709
01:29:52,840 --> 01:29:55,760
Speaker 2: terms with the facts that I've outgrown the friendship. Please

1710
01:29:55,840 --> 01:29:58,719
Speaker 2: keep me anonymous as our friend group does enjoy watching

1711
01:29:58,760 --> 01:30:00,320
Speaker 2: poor minds weakly take slightly.

1712
01:30:00,400 --> 01:30:03,439
Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, well, I'm telling you you're not getting invited

1713
01:30:03,560 --> 01:30:05,760
Speaker 1: next week when they have girls night, because if you're

1714
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:08,880
Speaker 1: watching this weekly, she asked her about it, she might know.

1715
01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:11,439
Speaker 2: I don't think so, I mean, I don't mean nothing

1716
01:30:11,439 --> 01:30:14,280
Speaker 2: will say specifically that would like give it here?

1717
01:30:14,720 --> 01:30:18,240
Speaker 1: Okay, So how do you feel? I feel like obviously

1718
01:30:18,280 --> 01:30:20,960
Speaker 1: they've been friends for a long time, They've been friends

1719
01:30:21,000 --> 01:30:23,920
Speaker 1: for fifteen years, They're best friends. They live they live

1720
01:30:24,280 --> 01:30:30,680
Speaker 1: different lives, and she feels that she's she's afraid that

1721
01:30:30,920 --> 01:30:33,280
Speaker 1: her friend is spreading her business or could be spreading

1722
01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:36,080
Speaker 1: her business. Honestly, I feel like as we get older,

1723
01:30:36,200 --> 01:30:40,360
Speaker 1: we actually need to start keep us something shit to ourselves. Amen,

1724
01:30:40,840 --> 01:30:42,680
Speaker 1: Like I can't. I'm gonna be honest, and I mean

1725
01:30:42,680 --> 01:30:44,720
Speaker 1: I'm an overshare her, but I feel like if you

1726
01:30:44,880 --> 01:30:48,559
Speaker 1: are afraid of information coming out, I know it's your

1727
01:30:48,600 --> 01:30:50,360
Speaker 1: best friend and it's a win, but I feel like

1728
01:30:50,479 --> 01:30:53,599
Speaker 1: sometimes we need to actually you don't have to tell

1729
01:30:53,600 --> 01:30:59,040
Speaker 1: your friends everything, like seriously, Like I agree, I agree, And.

1730
01:30:59,360 --> 01:31:02,240
Speaker 3: Unfortunately there are some people that love just like for me,

1731
01:31:02,400 --> 01:31:03,720
Speaker 3: I love just die.

1732
01:31:04,040 --> 01:31:06,800
Speaker 1: Like I feel like I couldn't be friends with someone

1733
01:31:06,840 --> 01:31:10,760
Speaker 1: that doesn't, yeah, because I'm I'm I'm someone that likes

1734
01:31:10,880 --> 01:31:14,120
Speaker 1: chi people who don't want to tell me. Maybe it's

1735
01:31:14,120 --> 01:31:16,120
Speaker 1: a little weird to me, it's.

1736
01:31:17,560 --> 01:31:21,160
Speaker 2: Because yeah, Like I feel like if we're friends, like

1737
01:31:21,240 --> 01:31:23,840
Speaker 2: I'll say this when it comes to like strangers, I'm

1738
01:31:23,920 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 2: never gonna overshare with strangers, but when it comes to

1739
01:31:26,920 --> 01:31:27,880
Speaker 2: my friends.

1740
01:31:27,680 --> 01:31:30,240
Speaker 1: Like, if I really fuck with you, you will know

1741
01:31:30,320 --> 01:31:31,000
Speaker 1: a lot about me.

1742
01:31:31,240 --> 01:31:34,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so people who you're friends with who don't

1743
01:31:34,520 --> 01:31:37,360
Speaker 2: want to tell you certain things. I think that's a

1744
01:31:37,400 --> 01:31:42,360
Speaker 2: little strange. I agree, But I also feel like if

1745
01:31:42,400 --> 01:31:44,559
Speaker 2: you don't want people to find out, you shouldn't tell

1746
01:31:44,600 --> 01:31:47,800
Speaker 2: them anything. But also you shouldn't be friends with people

1747
01:31:47,840 --> 01:31:52,240
Speaker 2: that you feel like you can't tell. I really because

1748
01:31:52,240 --> 01:31:55,040
Speaker 2: I don't care if that makes sense. Like I'm never

1749
01:31:55,600 --> 01:31:57,640
Speaker 2: when I think about my friendships with people and the

1750
01:31:57,680 --> 01:31:59,880
Speaker 2: stuff that I tell them, I'm never like, Oh, I

1751
01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 2: wonder if when I'm not around her, she be telling

1752
01:32:02,160 --> 01:32:05,519
Speaker 2: people my bi Yeah it necross my mind.

1753
01:32:05,600 --> 01:32:06,519
Speaker 3: It doesn't cross your mind.

1754
01:32:06,640 --> 01:32:09,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And do you know what sometimes like, I

1755
01:32:09,200 --> 01:32:12,679
Speaker 1: feel like sometimes when people have friendships for a long time,

1756
01:32:13,439 --> 01:32:16,600
Speaker 1: they feel like they need to stay in those friendships.

1757
01:32:17,120 --> 01:32:18,400
Speaker 3: But dynamics can change.

1758
01:32:18,760 --> 01:32:20,880
Speaker 1: Like, for example, when you're younger, you probably had something

1759
01:32:20,880 --> 01:32:23,320
Speaker 1: in comment, maybe you guys played volleyball together. It's like, oh, yeah,

1760
01:32:23,400 --> 01:32:25,639
Speaker 1: let's be best friends. But it seems like as you've grown,

1761
01:32:25,720 --> 01:32:28,840
Speaker 1: you guys have you guys are now completely two different

1762
01:32:28,840 --> 01:32:31,800
Speaker 1: people in your adult hard years. And she likes to

1763
01:32:31,840 --> 01:32:33,960
Speaker 1: do some stuff you don't like to do it, and

1764
01:32:34,560 --> 01:32:37,040
Speaker 1: now you can't trust her. I feel like, honestly, you

1765
01:32:37,040 --> 01:32:39,479
Speaker 1: should just charge it for me. Yeah, I think sometimes

1766
01:32:39,520 --> 01:32:42,599
Speaker 1: we like to force friendships because of time. Yeah, time

1767
01:32:42,680 --> 01:32:45,800
Speaker 1: doesn't mean anything, agreed. You can meet somebody and then

1768
01:32:45,840 --> 01:32:48,280
Speaker 1: this be a person that is your best friend for

1769
01:32:48,439 --> 01:32:50,800
Speaker 1: life and y'all bonded like that, like, and then you

1770
01:32:50,840 --> 01:32:53,680
Speaker 1: can be friends with somebody fifteen years and it's like,

1771
01:32:54,000 --> 01:32:55,960
Speaker 1: you know what, this doesn't serve me anymore. So I

1772
01:32:56,000 --> 01:32:57,759
Speaker 1: think a lot of times we put so much emphasis

1773
01:32:57,840 --> 01:33:00,600
Speaker 1: on time when time doesn't really meet much to me

1774
01:33:00,760 --> 01:33:04,519
Speaker 1: when it comes to like bonds with somebody. But I

1775
01:33:04,640 --> 01:33:08,599
Speaker 1: also think too, another thing, like you said, I don't

1776
01:33:08,680 --> 01:33:10,240
Speaker 1: feel like that, Like when I because I tell Dre

1777
01:33:10,400 --> 01:33:13,000
Speaker 1: all my business, I'll never be like, oh I want

1778
01:33:13,000 --> 01:33:15,800
Speaker 1: I Drea's telling it. I literally that thought has literally

1779
01:33:15,960 --> 01:33:19,360
Speaker 1: never crossed my mind. Yeah. And another thing too, is

1780
01:33:19,439 --> 01:33:21,360
Speaker 1: like like if Drea was telling me something about like

1781
01:33:21,520 --> 01:33:24,080
Speaker 1: her business and her boyfriend, my other friends they wouldn't

1782
01:33:24,080 --> 01:33:26,439
Speaker 1: even care to hear that that. My friends would probably

1783
01:33:26,439 --> 01:33:29,479
Speaker 1: think it's We're like, okay, why does this matter? Like

1784
01:33:29,640 --> 01:33:32,080
Speaker 1: what are you telling me this for? So I don't

1785
01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:33,200
Speaker 1: even think that's like a thing.

1786
01:33:33,880 --> 01:33:36,439
Speaker 2: I just don't even care though, like I said, because

1787
01:33:38,600 --> 01:33:43,840
Speaker 2: the things about life shit always gonna come to a head,

1788
01:33:44,120 --> 01:33:46,400
Speaker 2: like you always gonna find out what the fuck really

1789
01:33:46,479 --> 01:33:49,160
Speaker 2: going on at some point. So even if you got

1790
01:33:49,200 --> 01:33:51,280
Speaker 2: a friend where you think you confiding them and you

1791
01:33:51,520 --> 01:33:54,200
Speaker 2: telling them all your deepest, darkest secrets and you don't

1792
01:33:54,200 --> 01:33:54,880
Speaker 2: want nobody to know.

1793
01:33:55,200 --> 01:33:58,400
Speaker 1: If she's telling people your business, you gonna find out.

1794
01:33:58,520 --> 01:33:59,200
Speaker 1: You'll find out.

1795
01:33:59,200 --> 01:34:01,120
Speaker 2: Agree, it's gonna get back to you some kind of

1796
01:34:01,200 --> 01:34:03,840
Speaker 2: way at some point. If she missed you like that,

1797
01:34:04,439 --> 01:34:06,800
Speaker 2: it's gonna get back to you. So it's to me,

1798
01:34:06,880 --> 01:34:08,920
Speaker 2: it's just not even nothing to worry about. But again,

1799
01:34:10,160 --> 01:34:13,160
Speaker 2: you know, like personally, I have some sheep that don't

1800
01:34:13,200 --> 01:34:13,680
Speaker 2: nobody know.

1801
01:34:14,880 --> 01:34:16,680
Speaker 1: There's some shit I'm taking to you.

1802
01:34:16,800 --> 01:34:19,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it's certain shit that only I know. And

1803
01:34:20,400 --> 01:34:23,559
Speaker 2: because I feel that way, I would never tell nobody, right,

1804
01:34:24,200 --> 01:34:25,840
Speaker 2: So I feel like, if you're telling people stuff and

1805
01:34:25,880 --> 01:34:28,360
Speaker 2: you're scared about people finding out, just keep it to yourself.

1806
01:34:28,439 --> 01:34:31,280
Speaker 2: That's the problem with people like overshares. Everybody want to

1807
01:34:31,360 --> 01:34:36,040
Speaker 2: overshare all they sit. Keep it to yourself. Sometimes it's okay, yo, Yeah,

1808
01:34:36,760 --> 01:34:38,479
Speaker 2: all right, I hope y'all got some time.

1809
01:34:40,200 --> 01:34:43,240
Speaker 1: That question along. It is long, it's not too too

1810
01:34:43,280 --> 01:34:44,720
Speaker 1: it's not bad like the other I'm gonna show it

1811
01:34:44,800 --> 01:34:47,599
Speaker 1: to hood, okay, so I'll start high ladies. I started

1812
01:34:47,920 --> 01:34:49,600
Speaker 1: this man about a month ago, and he took me

1813
01:34:49,720 --> 01:34:51,920
Speaker 1: on dates and paid for everything without a problem. He

1814
01:34:51,960 --> 01:34:54,640
Speaker 1: even took me to a high class Italian restaurant on

1815
01:34:54,800 --> 01:34:57,320
Speaker 1: the second date, and in between dates we would talk

1816
01:34:57,360 --> 01:34:59,240
Speaker 1: on the phone all the time. By the fifth date,

1817
01:34:59,479 --> 01:35:02,479
Speaker 1: I was ready give him some. My throat wasn't feeling well.

1818
01:35:02,600 --> 01:35:05,080
Speaker 1: I ordered tea on that day. This is very important.

1819
01:35:05,439 --> 01:35:07,679
Speaker 1: After an intimate night, I woke up in his apartment

1820
01:35:07,760 --> 01:35:11,599
Speaker 1: and suggested Starbucks, and he suggested a Starbucks medicine ball

1821
01:35:12,080 --> 01:35:14,439
Speaker 1: for my throat. I'm thinking he was offering it as

1822
01:35:14,479 --> 01:35:16,519
Speaker 1: a kind gesture since he already knew I had a

1823
01:35:16,560 --> 01:35:18,960
Speaker 1: little cough. I told him that we could go back,

1824
01:35:19,360 --> 01:35:21,960
Speaker 1: that we could go, even though I already had tea

1825
01:35:22,080 --> 01:35:24,920
Speaker 1: at home. We get to Starbucks and once it's time

1826
01:35:25,000 --> 01:35:27,800
Speaker 1: to pay, he's just standing there. I asked him, did

1827
01:35:27,880 --> 01:35:30,400
Speaker 1: you forget your wallet? He's like, no, I have it.

1828
01:35:30,800 --> 01:35:34,400
Speaker 1: The barista is just staring at him, as irritated as

1829
01:35:34,520 --> 01:35:37,800
Speaker 1: I am. I go ahead and pay. He drops me

1830
01:35:37,920 --> 01:35:40,000
Speaker 1: off and I go about my day. He had no

1831
01:35:40,120 --> 01:35:42,880
Speaker 1: problem spending money, but once we get intimate. He didn't

1832
01:35:42,880 --> 01:35:45,640
Speaker 1: want to pay for my nine dollars Starbucks order, and

1833
01:35:45,800 --> 01:35:48,560
Speaker 1: my thing is, it was so embarrassing and uncomfortable for

1834
01:35:48,680 --> 01:35:50,600
Speaker 1: me to be put on the spot like that. It

1835
01:35:50,760 --> 01:35:53,719
Speaker 1: was like he completely switched up. I gave my body

1836
01:35:53,800 --> 01:35:56,080
Speaker 1: to him, and now he doesn't care about my well being.

1837
01:35:56,520 --> 01:35:58,720
Speaker 1: It didn't sit right with me, so I texted him

1838
01:35:58,720 --> 01:36:01,120
Speaker 1: about it. I told him at that moment, I didn't

1839
01:36:01,120 --> 01:36:04,080
Speaker 1: feel safe with him, and that he misled me by

1840
01:36:04,160 --> 01:36:08,000
Speaker 1: suggesting something and not offering to pay. That's so weird.

1841
01:36:08,160 --> 01:36:11,320
Speaker 1: All he said was it's disappointing that you feel that way,

1842
01:36:11,680 --> 01:36:14,120
Speaker 1: and that he didn't mind paying until I asked him

1843
01:36:14,160 --> 01:36:16,880
Speaker 1: if he didn't if he had his wallet. I feel

1844
01:36:16,920 --> 01:36:19,799
Speaker 1: at this point he was testing me. I'm so upset

1845
01:36:19,840 --> 01:36:23,000
Speaker 1: because I've been celibate for four months and I wasted

1846
01:36:23,040 --> 01:36:25,479
Speaker 1: it on him. I didn't text back, and a few

1847
01:36:25,560 --> 01:36:27,559
Speaker 1: days went by, I got a text for him saying

1848
01:36:27,880 --> 01:36:30,559
Speaker 1: we should just be friends. I told him better yet,

1849
01:36:30,640 --> 01:36:32,840
Speaker 1: we can just go our separate ways. I feel like

1850
01:36:32,920 --> 01:36:36,000
Speaker 1: this was intentional and very calculated. Why would I want

1851
01:36:36,040 --> 01:36:38,040
Speaker 1: to be friends with you? After that? And my tripping?

1852
01:36:38,240 --> 01:36:40,800
Speaker 1: Was I doing too much? For speaking up. Money isn't

1853
01:36:40,800 --> 01:36:44,200
Speaker 1: the issue. It was the principal hoping to get some advice.

1854
01:36:44,720 --> 01:36:49,360
Speaker 2: I think you it was nine dollars fox, like I

1855
01:36:49,600 --> 01:36:51,800
Speaker 2: was finking if I say this that goodest thing?

1856
01:36:53,120 --> 01:36:55,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? Are you being like a pigmy? But well, the

1857
01:36:55,120 --> 01:36:59,560
Speaker 1: truth over two things. I want to say, can we

1858
01:36:59,760 --> 01:37:05,880
Speaker 1: all let's come, let's come closer. Being taken out for

1859
01:37:05,960 --> 01:37:11,080
Speaker 1: food is bare minimum? Please please? Can we make stop trick?

1860
01:37:12,560 --> 01:37:14,920
Speaker 1: He's not a trick if he only buys your food,

1861
01:37:15,360 --> 01:37:19,720
Speaker 1: like agreed second date in Italian? Baby, he should have

1862
01:37:19,760 --> 01:37:21,680
Speaker 1: taken you to Italian on the first date. You know

1863
01:37:21,720 --> 01:37:24,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's the standard, right, Let's let's let's

1864
01:37:24,400 --> 01:37:26,240
Speaker 1: let's bring it to a new standard. That's the first thing.

1865
01:37:27,000 --> 01:37:28,960
Speaker 1: Let's let's all give yourself a new standard so we

1866
01:37:29,000 --> 01:37:32,800
Speaker 1: don't put certain behaviors on and then equate that to

1867
01:37:32,880 --> 01:37:34,720
Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, he took me Italian, so

1868
01:37:34,800 --> 01:37:36,840
Speaker 1: that must mean he really likes me. It's like, no,

1869
01:37:37,000 --> 01:37:39,960
Speaker 1: he's got money and he's hungry, right right, Like that's.

1870
01:37:39,840 --> 01:37:40,320
Speaker 3: The first thing.

1871
01:37:40,920 --> 01:37:44,680
Speaker 1: Anyways, fact second thing for me, I do feel like

1872
01:37:45,800 --> 01:37:48,200
Speaker 1: he was testing her, and I think this ship is

1873
01:37:48,320 --> 01:37:49,960
Speaker 1: so annoying. I see a lot of guys like, oh,

1874
01:37:49,960 --> 01:37:52,439
Speaker 1: I've spent money on me, and let's see if she'll

1875
01:37:52,479 --> 01:37:53,720
Speaker 1: spend the money as well.

1876
01:37:53,960 --> 01:37:55,240
Speaker 3: But to me, I'm not gonna lie.

1877
01:37:56,439 --> 01:37:59,760
Speaker 1: I would have just paid for it, because if you've

1878
01:37:59,760 --> 01:38:02,920
Speaker 1: taken me on five good dates, you've spent you've looked

1879
01:38:02,920 --> 01:38:05,000
Speaker 1: after me, you've sorted down my taxi, you saw everything

1880
01:38:05,880 --> 01:38:09,200
Speaker 1: me paying nine dollars, I will probably look at you sideways,

1881
01:38:09,240 --> 01:38:11,240
Speaker 1: but I'll be like, well, my brain will tell me

1882
01:38:12,000 --> 01:38:14,240
Speaker 1: he's paid for five things before.

1883
01:38:15,800 --> 01:38:16,160
Speaker 3: This one.

1884
01:38:16,280 --> 01:38:18,080
Speaker 1: Feels like he's just trying to gauge what I'm on.

1885
01:38:18,280 --> 01:38:21,280
Speaker 1: Maybe he's seeing if he likes me or not. Maybe'll

1886
01:38:21,439 --> 01:38:23,639
Speaker 1: he's seeing like if I'm just there for the money,

1887
01:38:23,840 --> 01:38:25,920
Speaker 1: Like that's what my mind is. I think what is

1888
01:38:26,000 --> 01:38:28,240
Speaker 1: what is annoying about the situator is because he's done

1889
01:38:28,280 --> 01:38:31,240
Speaker 1: it after the sex. Yeah, if that's what feeling, then

1890
01:38:31,320 --> 01:38:34,439
Speaker 1: she was celebate. She says she would celebate for four

1891
01:38:34,479 --> 01:38:37,160
Speaker 1: months and she broke it for him. Yeah, but and yeah,

1892
01:38:37,200 --> 01:38:40,439
Speaker 1: but nobody told her she will continue to be chopping

1893
01:38:40,520 --> 01:38:43,200
Speaker 1: the money. That Italian Brad must have been real good.

1894
01:38:44,760 --> 01:38:45,920
Speaker 1: I agree with Joeys.

1895
01:38:46,080 --> 01:38:49,240
Speaker 2: I just feel like if we don't want on five dates,

1896
01:38:49,960 --> 01:38:52,840
Speaker 2: and you don't need X, Y and Z, you don't

1897
01:38:52,880 --> 01:38:55,760
Speaker 2: pay for dinners and all of this stuff. Who gives

1898
01:38:55,760 --> 01:38:58,880
Speaker 2: the fuck about paying for some nine dollars Starbucks? Yes, now,

1899
01:38:58,960 --> 01:39:01,920
Speaker 2: if it's the first day, If it's the first day

1900
01:39:02,760 --> 01:39:05,519
Speaker 2: and you left your card at home, you ain't gonna

1901
01:39:05,520 --> 01:39:08,000
Speaker 2: see me again, because that's the little because I feel

1902
01:39:08,040 --> 01:39:08,760
Speaker 2: like you tried me.

1903
01:39:09,560 --> 01:39:12,600
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie all that. Oh, like how you

1904
01:39:12,640 --> 01:39:14,400
Speaker 1: said like I would have thought, like about the five

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Speaker 1: days before, maybe I'm not gonna lie. None of that

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Speaker 1: would even cross my mind. I was just been like, oh,

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Speaker 1: and did scan my little phone? Because I wouldn't even

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Speaker 1: think he was trying to test me. If he, like,

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Speaker 1: if you didn't pull out your card for nine dollars,

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, I got it because it ain't

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Speaker 1: that serious.

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Speaker 2: But five days and I'm not even really thinking about

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Speaker 2: you trying to test me. Yeah, I thought, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Five days you my man? We in love by now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just like, yeah, my mind wouldn't even be

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Speaker 2: going in that. I would just be like, okay, whatever,

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Speaker 2: like and who cares it's Starbucks? You acting like you

1918
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Speaker 2: had a let me think like you had carbar.

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Speaker 1: And But this goes into the conversation that we had

1920
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Speaker 1: earlier about the celibacy. You weren't even ready to have sex.

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Speaker 1: You've thought that you owed him something. Yeah, because fank,

1922
01:40:04,200 --> 01:40:07,360
Speaker 1: you weren't healed yet to be having sex with this man.

1923
01:40:07,400 --> 01:40:10,240
Speaker 1: Because you felt played. That's what it came down. So

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01:40:10,360 --> 01:40:12,360
Speaker 1: you felt played because you gave him your body. You

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Speaker 1: shouldn't have gave it to him at all if you

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Speaker 1: wasn't ready, because honestly, it could have been like he

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01:40:17,320 --> 01:40:19,000
Speaker 1: got the sex, and it don't matter if he paid

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Speaker 1: for the Starbucks or not. He could have left anyway

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Speaker 1: just because maybe he didn't like it, or maybe he

1930
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Speaker 1: wasn't vibing with you. Sometimes men, let me tell you

1931
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Speaker 1: how men will play the long game for some puzzy

1932
01:40:28,840 --> 01:40:30,639
Speaker 1: men will sit up there and act like the person

1933
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Speaker 1: you want until they get what they want. So until

1934
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Speaker 1: you have a healthy view on sex, you shouldn't have

1935
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Speaker 1: done it anyway. It's what I'm saying. That's a really

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01:40:39,240 --> 01:40:41,360
Speaker 1: good point. Yeah, I'm saying, like it was like because

1937
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Speaker 1: she brought up the oh, but I gave you my body. Girl,

1938
01:40:44,280 --> 01:40:47,000
Speaker 1: You finna do all this over some starbucks because you

1939
01:40:47,160 --> 01:40:48,280
Speaker 1: felt played.

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Speaker 2: And that's That's why I was saying, that's really a

1941
01:40:50,840 --> 01:40:53,640
Speaker 2: good point that you just said, because at the end

1942
01:40:53,680 --> 01:40:57,400
Speaker 2: of the day, I think a lot of women missed

1943
01:40:57,479 --> 01:41:01,160
Speaker 2: that part, Like if you are not ready to have

1944
01:41:01,320 --> 01:41:03,280
Speaker 2: sex with somebody, don't have sex with them. I think

1945
01:41:03,400 --> 01:41:05,800
Speaker 2: sometimes women have sex with me and and I'm not

1946
01:41:05,880 --> 01:41:08,360
Speaker 2: saying that this is the situation with this particular girl,

1947
01:41:08,880 --> 01:41:11,280
Speaker 2: but I think sometimes women have sex with me and

1948
01:41:11,320 --> 01:41:14,240
Speaker 2: because of what they think will come from the situation

1949
01:41:14,479 --> 01:41:17,800
Speaker 2: after they have sex. You need to only have sex

1950
01:41:17,880 --> 01:41:20,080
Speaker 2: with the nigga when you're ready, because I promise you

1951
01:41:20,160 --> 01:41:22,800
Speaker 2: it's gonna be you not gonna feel played if you

1952
01:41:22,880 --> 01:41:24,679
Speaker 2: really get a niggas some policy because you just wanted

1953
01:41:24,720 --> 01:41:28,720
Speaker 2: to because expecting something in return or expecting it to

1954
01:41:28,800 --> 01:41:31,200
Speaker 2: be a certain way unless you pay that tail.

1955
01:41:32,960 --> 01:41:34,880
Speaker 1: I think this is something that my older sister taught

1956
01:41:34,960 --> 01:41:37,280
Speaker 1: me as well. It's one of those things where it's

1957
01:41:37,360 --> 01:41:40,640
Speaker 1: like you, as a woman, you always need to you

1958
01:41:40,800 --> 01:41:42,439
Speaker 1: always need to have your power. So if you have

1959
01:41:42,520 --> 01:41:44,519
Speaker 1: sex with persis because you want to have sex them.

1960
01:41:44,880 --> 01:41:46,400
Speaker 1: It's not a thing where you're having sex with them

1961
01:41:46,439 --> 01:41:48,519
Speaker 1: and then you feel like they abuse you know, you

1962
01:41:48,720 --> 01:41:49,160
Speaker 1: ate my pussy.

1963
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Speaker 3: And I had a good mother.

1964
01:41:50,920 --> 01:41:54,320
Speaker 1: That was it. Like even if it's a thing where

1965
01:41:55,200 --> 01:41:56,680
Speaker 1: a guy takes you out for five days and you

1966
01:41:56,760 --> 01:41:59,400
Speaker 1: had your time and you try to listen, I'm fucking

1967
01:41:59,439 --> 01:42:00,040
Speaker 1: you because.

1968
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Speaker 3: I decided to because I want to fuck you and you.

1969
01:42:01,840 --> 01:42:05,200
Speaker 1: Look good and stuff, and you had sex and you

1970
01:42:05,479 --> 01:42:07,240
Speaker 1: and it didn't and that's what he wanted went out

1971
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Speaker 1: of business.

1972
01:42:07,560 --> 01:42:08,439
Speaker 3: It wouldn't, it wouldn't.

1973
01:42:08,680 --> 01:42:11,960
Speaker 1: It wouldn't affect you because it's like everything was done

1974
01:42:12,040 --> 01:42:14,680
Speaker 1: on your own time. Yeah, So like you were saying, like,

1975
01:42:14,680 --> 01:42:16,120
Speaker 1: if you're gonna have sex with someone, let it be

1976
01:42:16,200 --> 01:42:17,640
Speaker 1: on your own times, not because you feel like they

1977
01:42:17,720 --> 01:42:21,240
Speaker 1: owe you something or because you feel like, oh he's

1978
01:42:21,280 --> 01:42:23,840
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, now we have emotions, or he likes me

1979
01:42:24,240 --> 01:42:25,240
Speaker 1: or none of that.

1980
01:42:25,840 --> 01:42:27,439
Speaker 3: Have sex with someone because you want to have sex

1981
01:42:27,520 --> 01:42:27,640
Speaker 3: with you.

1982
01:42:28,040 --> 01:42:30,200
Speaker 1: And if it doesn't and if it doesn't work out,

1983
01:42:30,280 --> 01:42:32,960
Speaker 1: and if the game is being played, charge it.

1984
01:42:33,080 --> 01:42:35,360
Speaker 3: You had a good time, that's it.

1985
01:42:35,560 --> 01:42:38,479
Speaker 1: That's what it is for me. I agree, you do

1986
01:42:38,680 --> 01:42:41,320
Speaker 1: give good advice. See you, I feel like the young

1987
01:42:41,520 --> 01:42:43,280
Speaker 1: you know what it is, The young girls here give

1988
01:42:44,120 --> 01:42:46,679
Speaker 1: they give because like the girls that'd be like younger.

1989
01:42:46,880 --> 01:42:49,080
Speaker 1: Sometimes I think we're a little more childish, So I

1990
01:42:49,160 --> 01:42:51,439
Speaker 1: think about like what you're doing at your age. We

1991
01:42:51,520 --> 01:42:53,960
Speaker 1: were talking to Whitney the other week and the things

1992
01:42:54,000 --> 01:42:57,000
Speaker 1: that you do. I was not there at all, you

1993
01:42:57,040 --> 01:42:59,479
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Yeah, not at twenty six and

1994
01:42:59,600 --> 01:43:01,680
Speaker 1: like in that age range. So I can mind y'all

1995
01:43:01,720 --> 01:43:04,599
Speaker 1: the young girl y'all got your haird obviously, the women

1996
01:43:04,680 --> 01:43:08,000
Speaker 1: around me, women like you. Witne's got older sister, I've

1997
01:43:08,000 --> 01:43:10,000
Speaker 1: got older sisters. So it's one of those things where

1998
01:43:10,000 --> 01:43:12,519
Speaker 1: we just kind of observe what all our what all

1999
01:43:12,560 --> 01:43:15,439
Speaker 1: our the older women in our lives have have taught us,

2000
01:43:15,479 --> 01:43:17,680
Speaker 1: And we asked questions like honestly, like that's I was

2001
01:43:17,680 --> 01:43:22,000
Speaker 1: asking questions like, guys, teach me something today and I

2002
01:43:22,160 --> 01:43:22,680
Speaker 1: just take it in.

2003
01:43:22,840 --> 01:43:23,920
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Yeah, and shout out to Yaggy world. We

2005
01:43:29,000 --> 01:43:33,200
Speaker 1: got our fits on today this episode. Now let the

2006
01:43:33,240 --> 01:43:35,519
Speaker 1: girls know where they can find you all their good

2007
01:43:35,520 --> 01:43:46,960
Speaker 1: stuff because they cut me. Oh girls, Hi guys, I

2008
01:43:47,280 --> 01:43:50,280
Speaker 1: swear guys, thank you so much for having me. Please

2009
01:43:50,360 --> 01:43:54,160
Speaker 1: go and check Poor Mind's episode on my channel Cotails

2010
01:43:54,200 --> 01:43:56,960
Speaker 1: and Takeaways, where we'll be having more fun if you

2011
01:43:57,000 --> 01:44:01,920
Speaker 1: guys want to see. But Yeah podcast is Cotails and Takeaways.

2012
01:44:01,920 --> 01:44:04,000
Speaker 1: If you want to find us, it's Cortoles and Takeaways

2013
01:44:04,000 --> 01:44:06,360
Speaker 1: on all platforms. If you want to find me, it's

2014
01:44:06,439 --> 01:44:09,200
Speaker 1: Madam Joyce. So that's m A D. Because I am

2015
01:44:09,240 --> 01:44:12,600
Speaker 1: a mode lady A j O Y C E.

2016
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Speaker 3: And yeah, thank you so much for having me.

2017
01:44:15,240 --> 01:44:23,200
Speaker 1: What's it's a grand time? So do you do karaoke? Yeah? Okay?

2018
01:44:23,360 --> 01:44:25,880
Speaker 1: Lecks got a song? Okay, so you know I'm an

2019
01:44:25,960 --> 01:44:27,920
Speaker 1: R and B girl. Yeah, I always. I feel like

2020
01:44:27,960 --> 01:44:30,880
Speaker 1: we gotta do the classics. Were out with the classics.

2021
01:44:31,160 --> 01:44:33,680
Speaker 1: Now you like R and B, you have to know

2022
01:44:33,800 --> 01:44:36,400
Speaker 1: this song. This is a classic. I feel like everybody

2023
01:44:36,520 --> 01:44:39,160
Speaker 1: knows this song. Okay, we all got to sing together

2024
01:44:39,280 --> 01:44:39,719
Speaker 1: all ready.

2025
01:44:39,840 --> 01:44:43,000
Speaker 2: Oh and I have to shout out real quick. So

2026
01:44:43,240 --> 01:44:45,880
Speaker 2: make sure y'all got a Muse Beauty Collection dot com.

2027
01:44:46,360 --> 01:44:50,639
Speaker 2: That's m U s E Beauty Collection dot com. Get

2028
01:44:50,680 --> 01:44:54,480
Speaker 2: your lip glosses, your lipliners, your mad lick with lipsticks,

2029
01:44:54,600 --> 01:44:54,920
Speaker 2: all it.

2030
01:44:56,760 --> 01:44:59,760
Speaker 1: All right? Y'all? Ready? Yes, let me clear my thought

2031
01:45:00,000 --> 01:45:02,800
Speaker 1: because we've sang this on the show before. But I'm

2032
01:45:02,920 --> 01:45:05,760
Speaker 1: testing my girls. You know, we across the pond. So

2033
01:45:05,960 --> 01:45:07,000
Speaker 1: she's been surprising me.

2034
01:45:07,120 --> 01:45:10,599
Speaker 2: Normally, I always know what the karaoke song picking together,

2035
01:45:11,360 --> 01:45:13,840
Speaker 2: but she's been picking all the songs because I feel

2036
01:45:13,840 --> 01:45:13,960
Speaker 2: like I.

2037
01:45:13,960 --> 01:45:16,160
Speaker 1: Gotta pick the classes to see how good. Because y'all

2038
01:45:16,280 --> 01:45:18,160
Speaker 1: love the R and B out here, But this is

2039
01:45:18,200 --> 01:45:19,880
Speaker 1: a this is a super class. You have to know it.

2040
01:45:19,960 --> 01:45:23,240
Speaker 1: You already. I'm gonna have these are my confessions.

2041
01:45:23,600 --> 01:45:25,760
Speaker 4: Just when I thought I said all I could save

2042
01:45:25,840 --> 01:45:28,439
Speaker 4: my chick on the side, and she got one on

2043
01:45:28,600 --> 01:45:28,960
Speaker 4: the way.

2044
01:45:29,080 --> 01:45:32,760
Speaker 1: He's on my confessions. Man, I thought, I don't know

2045
01:45:33,080 --> 01:45:36,320
Speaker 1: what to do. I guess I gotta give part to

2046
01:45:36,520 --> 01:45:39,760
Speaker 1: him my confession. If I'm gonna tell it, then I

2047
01:45:39,920 --> 01:45:43,720
Speaker 1: gotta tell it. Damn the cry and I got that

2048
01:45:43,920 --> 01:45:48,840
Speaker 1: phone call. I'm so through. I don't know what to do,

2049
01:45:49,680 --> 01:45:52,400
Speaker 1: and you part to him my confession. It's gonna be

2050
01:45:52,520 --> 01:45:54,920
Speaker 1: the hardest thing. I think. Goda I had to do.

2051
01:45:55,320 --> 01:45:58,160
Speaker 1: Got me talking to myself. I see how I'm gonna.

2052
01:45:57,960 --> 01:46:00,200
Speaker 4: Tell you about that sh come pap one and I

2053
01:46:00,280 --> 01:46:02,880
Speaker 4: told y'all I was s creeping with, sleeping with saying

2054
01:46:02,920 --> 01:46:04,960
Speaker 4: she's three months pregnant and she's keeping it.

2055
01:46:05,120 --> 01:46:07,759
Speaker 1: The first thing that came to mind was you. Second

2056
01:46:07,880 --> 01:46:10,439
Speaker 1: thing is how I know him? It's not is it you.

2057
01:46:10,880 --> 01:46:13,920
Speaker 4: Third thing is me wishing that I never did what

2058
01:46:14,120 --> 01:46:16,960
Speaker 4: I did, how I ain't readily for no kid, and

2059
01:46:17,120 --> 01:46:19,559
Speaker 4: by bye to our relationships.

2060
01:46:22,400 --> 01:46:25,920
Speaker 1: Were I'm so impersoned with the girl. We are three

2061
01:46:26,040 --> 01:46:34,320
Speaker 1: for three, we are best friends. No y'all hang over.

2062
01:46:35,560 --> 01:46:37,880
Speaker 1: Oh man, this is a classic. I hope you know it. Okay,

2063
01:46:38,000 --> 01:46:39,000
Speaker 1: you already? Yeah.

2064
01:46:40,520 --> 01:46:43,479
Speaker 5: When you're feeling in your body, it's about somebody who

2065
01:46:44,360 --> 01:46:47,120
Speaker 5: makes you change your ways, like hey, you with your

2066
01:46:47,200 --> 01:46:48,400
Speaker 5: crew that wants.

2067
01:46:48,320 --> 01:46:51,120
Speaker 1: So they act like you're ready, you don't really know.

2068
01:46:51,640 --> 01:46:54,840
Speaker 1: And then everything in your past you wanta let it.

2069
01:46:55,000 --> 01:46:59,800
Speaker 6: Oh, I've been in, done it. Yeah, after all that,

2070
01:47:00,479 --> 01:47:05,679
Speaker 6: this is what I found. Nobody wants to be your loan.

2071
01:47:06,840 --> 01:47:09,840
Speaker 6: If you're touched by the words of the song.

2072
01:47:09,920 --> 01:47:13,760
Speaker 1: This baby, you got it, you got it bad. When

2073
01:47:13,800 --> 01:47:18,320
Speaker 1: you're on the phone, hang up, you call right back.

2074
01:47:19,040 --> 01:47:19,600
Speaker 4: You got it.

2075
01:47:19,800 --> 01:47:23,599
Speaker 1: You got it bad. When you miss aday, We got

2076
01:47:23,640 --> 01:47:28,000
Speaker 1: your feeling. Whole lives off training. Know you got it bad.

2077
01:47:28,160 --> 01:47:31,000
Speaker 1: When you're stuck in the house, you don't want to

2078
01:47:31,200 --> 01:47:35,679
Speaker 1: have fun because all you think about you got it bad.

2079
01:47:35,880 --> 01:47:39,519
Speaker 5: When you're out with someone, but your keep ball thinking

2080
01:47:39,560 --> 01:47:42,040
Speaker 5: about somebody, you got it bad?

2081
01:47:42,520 --> 01:47:46,000
Speaker 1: Why you when you say that you love it and.

2082
01:47:46,160 --> 01:47:48,800
Speaker 2: You really know if you can used to matter, it

2083
01:47:48,920 --> 01:47:52,400
Speaker 2: don't matter no more like my money or my cause.

2084
01:47:52,960 --> 01:47:58,400
Speaker 1: You can't have it all sowers cause the caddy set

2085
01:47:58,520 --> 01:48:01,920
Speaker 1: out watching me to have you girl.

2086
01:48:02,439 --> 01:48:07,080
Speaker 4: I'm watching and all I really I tell you all

2087
01:48:07,160 --> 01:48:11,240
Speaker 4: My people's note was going on, look at your mate

2088
01:48:11,400 --> 01:48:17,000
Speaker 4: into seeing my song to I'm young man, yr my girl.

2089
01:48:17,800 --> 01:48:21,040
Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell him to the whole ride brold let

2090
01:48:21,080 --> 01:48:24,559
Speaker 4: me say I'm youngerl your mo man.

2091
01:48:25,360 --> 01:48:28,920
Speaker 1: Promise to love you the best. I can't see, y'am,

2092
01:48:29,000 --> 01:48:33,800
Speaker 1: been there, done it, hunt around. I'm all that this

2093
01:48:34,080 --> 01:48:40,200
Speaker 1: is what I found. Everybody Yanna just like me. It's

2094
01:48:40,240 --> 01:48:44,160
Speaker 1: too bad that you can't see because you got it

2095
01:48:44,360 --> 01:49:00,519
Speaker 1: bad man. Were laying to that two verses. She wasn't done. Listen. Yeah,

2096
01:49:01,040 --> 01:49:05,760
Speaker 1: we gotta be sisters, Auntie. Okay, we don't want me

2097
01:49:05,760 --> 01:49:09,960
Speaker 1: to be my sister. Ye can be sure, wister? Yeah

2098
01:49:10,040 --> 01:49:15,280
Speaker 1: you big sisters like okay, okay, we don't keep that

2099
01:49:15,400 --> 01:49:21,400
Speaker 1: sisters is cool, Joyce always have a good I really

2100
01:49:21,560 --> 01:49:24,320
Speaker 1: love you down. You know what I like about episodes

2101
01:49:24,360 --> 01:49:26,120
Speaker 1: of you because I like that we have that balance,

2102
01:49:26,160 --> 01:49:27,439
Speaker 1: like we're gonna have fun. But we're gonna have some

2103
01:49:27,600 --> 01:49:31,799
Speaker 1: good deep conversation, some good advice.

2104
01:49:31,960 --> 01:49:33,000
Speaker 3: So thank you so much, y'all.

2105
01:49:33,040 --> 01:49:36,000
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all follow Madam Joyce on all social media

2106
01:49:36,120 --> 01:49:38,000
Speaker 1: and we'll see y'all next week, y'all,