WEBVTT - GLEN MEAKEM: Forever

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, how is August treating you? It's been long and hot,

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't it. Have you taken any vacations? Have you spent

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<v Speaker 1>any days by the pool or by the side of

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<v Speaker 1>a lake. August, with it sometimes almost unbearable heat, invites

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<v Speaker 1>us to slow down, to relax, to take a few moments,

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<v Speaker 1>to check out of the hustle, the bustle, the crazy making,

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<v Speaker 1>and soak in everything that makes life wonderful and worth living.

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<v Speaker 1>I've spent many an hour watching my kids playing the

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<v Speaker 1>big plastic pool we set up every summer. They splash,

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<v Speaker 1>they shriek, the giggles come lifting out of the water

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<v Speaker 1>and drift across the yard like effervescent bubbles of joy.

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<v Speaker 1>Whether it's your kids or grand kids or the neighbors kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you've been witnessed to this type of unfair,

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<v Speaker 1>uttered glee this summer. If not taken afternoon and head

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<v Speaker 1>to your local park, a child's laughter works like a

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<v Speaker 1>powerful infusion of happiness. That's today's medical advice from dr

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<v Speaker 1>to Lilah. A dose of happiness just one kitty park away,

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<v Speaker 1>one splash pool away. I've also taken a whole lot

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<v Speaker 1>of photos this summer hundreds of photos to the ad

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<v Speaker 1>to the tens of thousands of pictures I've taken over

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<v Speaker 1>the years. I love my pictures of summer, Shenanigan's first day,

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<v Speaker 1>last day of school, concerts, performances, new babies, birthdays, celebrations,

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<v Speaker 1>kids jumping in the pool. I love my pictures of

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<v Speaker 1>my farm, the flowers, the critters, the changing seasons, and

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<v Speaker 1>I keep all of them in a jumbled mess, in boxes,

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<v Speaker 1>tucked into corners of my closet, up in the attic,

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<v Speaker 1>on my phone, on my laptop. There has to be

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<v Speaker 1>a better way, and in fact, there is a better way.

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<v Speaker 1>I've discovered a service that's going to solve my problems

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<v Speaker 1>of too many photos and not enough organization. It's called Forever.

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<v Speaker 1>Forever is an online company that provides permanent storage of

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<v Speaker 1>all your digital memories permanent as in Forever. Unlike cloud

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<v Speaker 1>services or other photo services, there are no monthly or

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<v Speaker 1>yearly subscription fees to pay at Forever, so you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to worry about missing payments and losing access to

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<v Speaker 1>all your digital memories. I know you're intrigued, just as

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<v Speaker 1>I was, so I invited CEO and founder of Forever,

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<v Speaker 1>a brilliant guy named Glenn meekom out to my farm

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<v Speaker 1>today to have lunch in the garden and then give

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<v Speaker 1>us the rundown on how this all works. Before we

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<v Speaker 1>are talking about forever, though we already ate our lunch outside,

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<v Speaker 1>friends with me in the studio for today's edition of

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<v Speaker 1>Love Someone. Is a fascinating man that I've had the

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to have lunch. I think it to know a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit better, and now you're going to get to

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<v Speaker 1>know him a little bit better. Glenn Meekom, welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the Delila Studio to Love Someone today, and uh and

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<v Speaker 1>to my farm. Well great, hey, Delia, it's great to

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<v Speaker 1>be here with you. You have you have yet to

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<v Speaker 1>meet the emos. But did you see them over your

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<v Speaker 1>shoulder while you were dining? I did. I saw some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of animal like that in the distance and just beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Delila's farm is amazing and it's an honor to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks so much for having me. I used to do

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<v Speaker 1>a weekend radio show, so I kind of like having

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<v Speaker 1>the sound of my ears. You used to do a

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<v Speaker 1>weekend radio show where I did, and uh, well it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was in Pittsburgh and it was the FM

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<v Speaker 1>News Talk one or four point seven and then Katie

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<v Speaker 1>Ka because FM News Talk, so it was a serious program.

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<v Speaker 1>I talked. I talked politics and economics and history and stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was funny. You know, I never went into

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<v Speaker 1>talk radio as much as I love talking and as

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<v Speaker 1>much as I love because you have to know stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like you have to be educated and informed. I would

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<v Speaker 1>much rather be out playing in my garden. I would

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<v Speaker 1>much rather be, you know, building volcanoes with my six

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<v Speaker 1>year old than like actually being informed. I mean, the

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<v Speaker 1>things I'm passionate about. I know a little bit you do.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's funny. We listen to you on my

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<v Speaker 1>member myself, members of my team, we listened to you.

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<v Speaker 1>We listened to Delilah, and you give great advice. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been I've been listening to you in the last two

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<v Speaker 1>weeks a lot, and you give and I've listened for years,

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<v Speaker 1>but just recently because we've we're working together, I've been listening.

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<v Speaker 1>And you give great advice to people. Thank you. When

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<v Speaker 1>you've made many terrible life choices as I have, I

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<v Speaker 1>can say I don't really know what you should do,

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<v Speaker 1>but I can tell you what you shouldn't know. You

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<v Speaker 1>should not marry somebody just because they're cute and funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Cute and funny got me into a lot of trouble. Glenn. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you've been married. So first let's talk about who

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<v Speaker 1>you are and Wicker here on this podcast with me

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<v Speaker 1>and love someone today. UM, and then we're gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>back to you've been married forever, but you are the

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<v Speaker 1>founder of Forever dot com cor. When I had this idea,

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<v Speaker 1>was the whole idea was I thought that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a family guy. I've been married all these years.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got five kids, my wife and I and we

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<v Speaker 1>have and I love, as I told you at lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>I love family history. I love history in general. And

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<v Speaker 1>I have all this stuff video tapes to my grandparents

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<v Speaker 1>video tape. But before my father died, I got a

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<v Speaker 1>great video tape of him talking about his life and

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<v Speaker 1>his experiences and what do you do with all that?

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<v Speaker 1>And I and I realized, if it's sitting in a

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<v Speaker 1>on a tape or something in a box, no one's

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<v Speaker 1>enjoying it. No is experiencing it now, and it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get lost. So I said, okay, it's got to be

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<v Speaker 1>in the cloud. It's gotta be in the Internet cloud.

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<v Speaker 1>But I started reading all the terms of service, so

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<v Speaker 1>all these different you know, cloud storage places, and they're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna delete it if you stop paying every month, they're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna try to get you back for a year, then

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna delete. If it's social media and they're basically

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<v Speaker 1>data mining your stuff and then using that information to

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<v Speaker 1>sell access to you to advertisers, Okay, that means it's

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's not really free because they're data mining you.

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<v Speaker 1>But um, but even if you're not, if you think

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<v Speaker 1>about it, you get old, you get Alzheimer's, you die.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody's gonna die someday. Right, you're no longer valued valuable

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<v Speaker 1>to an advertiser. Well if if if the whole economic

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<v Speaker 1>model for keeping your stuff is because you're valuable to advertisers,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're gone, you're not valuable, So they're gonna delete

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<v Speaker 1>your stuff. And I was reading all the terms of

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<v Speaker 1>service to all these different services and realize that this

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<v Speaker 1>is not what I need. I want to I want

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<v Speaker 1>to place. I want a cloud storage and sharing service

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<v Speaker 1>where I know all these photos, all these videos, audio files,

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<v Speaker 1>special documents, special precious memories are going to be there,

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<v Speaker 1>not just for today and tomorrow, but for generations into

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<v Speaker 1>the future. It didn't exist. So I said, okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to start a company. That's right, I'm an entrepreneur.

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<v Speaker 1>I've started a number of companies, and so you started

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<v Speaker 1>forever dot com because you told me this at lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to bust you on it. Because you

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<v Speaker 1>had a video tape of your grandparents that you gave

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<v Speaker 1>to family members and they all lost them but one,

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<v Speaker 1>and you said, wait a minute, this is they're gone.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you know our grandparents are gone. We need a

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<v Speaker 1>better way to store and share these great memories and

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<v Speaker 1>these great traditions, traditions. So who was the one that

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<v Speaker 1>actually kept the videotape of your grandpa? It was my uncle.

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<v Speaker 1>Your uncle kept the video table. Yeah, my brothers asked

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<v Speaker 1>them and they didn't know where they when I shared

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<v Speaker 1>this years ago now, but I shared the VHS tape

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<v Speaker 1>And people people lose things all the time. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. The people who really care about the family memories,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be my sister. My sister is the keeper

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<v Speaker 1>of our family memory, right, and your sister Dianna. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So Dianna needs a permanent digital home where she knows

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<v Speaker 1>that just that that if she organizes and keeps all

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<v Speaker 1>the family memories in that place, it's gonna be there

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<v Speaker 1>and it's never gonna be lost because not every one

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<v Speaker 1>of the children, not every one of the grandchildren is

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<v Speaker 1>going to really care, but there will be some who

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<v Speaker 1>really do. There will always be those family memory keepers

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<v Speaker 1>in every generation who want that stuff, who want to

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<v Speaker 1>have the photos and want to have the videos. And

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<v Speaker 1>how good of my sister is. If I say, do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember that picture blah blah blah, do you remember

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<v Speaker 1>that time? She says, yes, I have that. Can I

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<v Speaker 1>have that? No, No, you cannot because you will lose it,

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<v Speaker 1>she says, which I will. Well, and this is what

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<v Speaker 1>and forever solves that problem because now she can make

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<v Speaker 1>she can be the keeper, and she can share the

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<v Speaker 1>digital file with you, and you can lose the digital

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<v Speaker 1>file all you want. She's still got the core her

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<v Speaker 1>digital home intact, it will never get lost. So back

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<v Speaker 1>to your relationship, because you said you've been listening to

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<v Speaker 1>my show and to my advice, and clearly you don't

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<v Speaker 1>need my advice because you've managed to stay married for

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<v Speaker 1>more than three decades. Yeah. Well, Um, I'm lucky. I

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<v Speaker 1>I've I've met a wonderful woman. Um, we had both

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<v Speaker 1>had our you know. One of my favorite, um, one

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<v Speaker 1>of my favorite country songs is that song and you're

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<v Speaker 1>the you're the music expert, not me, but God bless

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<v Speaker 1>this broken road, broken road that led me straight to you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that love that song. I love that

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<v Speaker 1>song because you know, and this is the thing. Everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>got a broken road. Oh some of us have really

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<v Speaker 1>broken roads. Some of us took the off road ramp.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I've never been one to stay on a freeway.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to stay on a freeway. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to take the back road. I want to take the

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<v Speaker 1>off road. I want to go on the road last travel.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's oftentimes a really broken road. Yeah, yeah, it's good,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fun. Me. I think it was um. I forget

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<v Speaker 1>what famous poet wrote about that. You know, there was

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<v Speaker 1>that they were on the road and there was a

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<v Speaker 1>fork in the road and they took the road less

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<v Speaker 1>travel than that made all the difference was that. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was Robert Frost, But I think about that recently.

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<v Speaker 1>I was driving it was COVID. I was driving from

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<v Speaker 1>my home I live outside Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. I was driving

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<v Speaker 1>on the highway and there was nobody in the highway.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just completely empty because I was like the

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<v Speaker 1>only one in the city. Going to going to work,

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<v Speaker 1>and of course the safest place to be was it

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<v Speaker 1>the office because no one was there. But I'm there

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm driving, and I'm thinking to myself, well, you

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<v Speaker 1>know the nice thing about going And I've gone my

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<v Speaker 1>own way too. I'm different from you. Maybe I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>um had as many um obvious stumbles, but um, but

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<v Speaker 1>everybody has their stumbles. And but I've definitely gone my

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<v Speaker 1>own way. I don't I don't copy anybody else. And

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<v Speaker 1>the great thing about going your own way and choosing

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<v Speaker 1>your own road is you don't spend much time in traffic.

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<v Speaker 1>And I noticed that about here. You know, here at

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<v Speaker 1>your farm, there's not a lot of traffic here, no traffic,

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<v Speaker 1>my traff I laughed, because people talk about the me

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<v Speaker 1>that commute home was miserable, and I always laugh. Say,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, if you want to make, if people

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<v Speaker 1>want to make a find real meaning in life. And

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<v Speaker 1>of course you know, you and I are both churchgoers,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, you know there's real meaning and believing in

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<v Speaker 1>God and trying to find your purpose of God and

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<v Speaker 1>having faith. But in terms of your professional activities or

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<v Speaker 1>your life making a living, it really helps to go

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<v Speaker 1>your own way. It helps to really say what what

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<v Speaker 1>do I want to do? What do I love to do?

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<v Speaker 1>And if you can find a way to earn a

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<v Speaker 1>living doing what you love to do, life is just

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<v Speaker 1>so much better and you make such a bigger contribution,

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<v Speaker 1>so much better. I call it the sweet spot. You

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<v Speaker 1>know where you find that spot where your great passion.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, it's connecting, it's connecting. My great passion. I

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<v Speaker 1>love to connect people. I love to introduce people. I

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<v Speaker 1>love to play matchmaker and introduce people that fall in love.

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<v Speaker 1>I love connecting people. So when I took that passion

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<v Speaker 1>and married it with the world's great need, which is

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<v Speaker 1>people are lonely at night. You know, radio reaches different

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<v Speaker 1>people at different times for different reasons. You know, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're listening in morning drive, you want to know where

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<v Speaker 1>the traffic mess is, unless you're taking a back road

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<v Speaker 1>like you and I do. But people, you know, want

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<v Speaker 1>to know what happened in the news, or they want

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<v Speaker 1>to know where the traffic problems are, and they want

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<v Speaker 1>to be entertained. But at night, people want to slow

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<v Speaker 1>down and they want to process the day, and a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people are desperately lonely. Especially it's so Funny,

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<v Speaker 1>people in big cities are the loneliest people I've ever

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<v Speaker 1>talked to. The bigger the city, the lonelier the soul.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when I can take my passion, which is connecting,

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<v Speaker 1>and share it on the radio to meet that need

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<v Speaker 1>of reminding people that they have great worth and great value,

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<v Speaker 1>then it works. Your passion is being an entrepreneur, but

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<v Speaker 1>your real passion, you know, out outside talking over lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>is your family. Family. Every two seconds, who would come

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<v Speaker 1>back to your son, Matthew, every you know, or your

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<v Speaker 1>wife or this or a ski trip or so you

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<v Speaker 1>took that passion, yeah, and and and figured out that

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<v Speaker 1>there's a need families have. And if as I told you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think a lot of entrepreneurs do this, they

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<v Speaker 1>see a need that they identify themselves. It's a need

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<v Speaker 1>in their own life. And then you say, well, gee,

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<v Speaker 1>do other people have this need to when you do

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<v Speaker 1>a little research and realize yeah, a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>have this need and that's a business opportunity. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's a great thing about the free market, right My

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<v Speaker 1>first company was called free Markets, And the great thing

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<v Speaker 1>about that economic freedom is, hey, I have the freedom

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<v Speaker 1>to go start a business and meet a need and

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully I can create a lot of jobs and create

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of value and create a great service for people.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's it's it's creating that UM, it's it's helping

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<v Speaker 1>society by meeting a need people have. And in our

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<v Speaker 1>case with Forever dot Com, it's how many how many

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<v Speaker 1>people do you have that that are now being able

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<v Speaker 1>to support themselves or their families because they work with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Seventy five full time employees at Forever and UM we

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<v Speaker 1>also have twenty seven hundred UM affiliate salespeople, so people

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<v Speaker 1>who earn a commission as being a Forever ambassador. And

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<v Speaker 1>these are the people that I need, because the ambassador

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<v Speaker 1>actually comes and hand holds you through the process of

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<v Speaker 1>collating and putting together the videotapes the VCRs. Absolutely, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there are there are we have ambassadors. So we have

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<v Speaker 1>some in Australia, some in New Zealand, some in England,

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<v Speaker 1>but mostly in the US, and quite a few in Canada.

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<v Speaker 1>And so yeah, there are people in pretty much every

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<v Speaker 1>community out there, every major metro certainly who can come

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<v Speaker 1>and help and uh, and many of them are organizers,

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<v Speaker 1>will help you organize your stuff and get it digitized

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<v Speaker 1>with you know, with Forever, because we digitize everybody's old

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<v Speaker 1>stuff and we also VCRs. You can digitize this. We

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<v Speaker 1>can dig ties anything, old family movies, my sister, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know she's hoarding themselves, movies, everything. We can digitize everything.

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<v Speaker 1>And then of course, you know, you create your photo books,

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<v Speaker 1>you create holiday cards. You don't need to go when

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<v Speaker 1>people are going to this service for their holiday cards,

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<v Speaker 1>their Christmas cards, and they're going over here to print

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<v Speaker 1>a photo book, and then they've got stuff in storage

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<v Speaker 1>over here, and then they've uploaded stuff over there, and

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<v Speaker 1>they've got a bunch stuff on their phone, and then

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<v Speaker 1>they got stuff at home and boxes. That is the mess,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the photo or the memory mess most people have.

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<v Speaker 1>And my life, that's my life. It's everywhere, it's everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's nowhere, like I don't have a spot where

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<v Speaker 1>everything is. And that's and it's a process, right, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's not like anybody's going to click their fingers

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<v Speaker 1>and all of a sudden they have all their memories organized.

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<v Speaker 1>But what people really need what I identified as a

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<v Speaker 1>problem ten years ago, and the solution is people really

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<v Speaker 1>need a permanent digital home a place where they can

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<v Speaker 1>over the months, in years, with the help of an

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<v Speaker 1>ambassador or on their own, they can you know, sink

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<v Speaker 1>their phone and get all their photos and videos that

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<v Speaker 1>are new. You saw how many are on my phone?

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<v Speaker 1>How many? Isn't that insane? We need to get that

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<v Speaker 1>all on your new forever account. Isn't that insane? And

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<v Speaker 1>they're not really organized to They're probably just all a huge,

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<v Speaker 1>massive photo role. Yeah. So I do have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of albums because you know, I put pictures of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>baby Paul in this one, and Little Delilah this one,

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<v Speaker 1>and goats. I have just an album of goats, just goats. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's good. Goats are important in my life. They're very important.

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<v Speaker 1>Why ask me, why what do I do with my goats?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do with your Absolutely nothing but love

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<v Speaker 1>on them. Sometimes we have milk goats. I was gonna say,

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<v Speaker 1>no goats milk. I love goats, making goats cheese and

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<v Speaker 1>lavender soap out of goat's milk. But right now I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even have a goat in milk, so we're not

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<v Speaker 1>milking any goats right now. So No, they're just adorable

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<v Speaker 1>and I just loved them. One thing I've learned in life,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've been around long enough to have learned a

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<v Speaker 1>few things, is what makes life so rich in the

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<v Speaker 1>world so rich, is that everybody is different, and everybody

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<v Speaker 1>has different interests. And when you get into the detail

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<v Speaker 1>of anything, it's like, I had no idea you could

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<v Speaker 1>make lavender soap out of goat's milk. There's just a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of smart people working really hard and making a

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<v Speaker 1>contribution and and and worrying about all different kinds of things.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what makes society go around. And your part

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<v Speaker 1>right now is helping. Especially. It's got to be like moms. Yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we we always say it's something because dads have one

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<v Speaker 1>picture in their wallet. Right, it's moms and grandma's are

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<v Speaker 1>are primary, that's right. Our primary clients are mothers and grandmothers.

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<v Speaker 1>Um not a lot of teenagers. Because we we find

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<v Speaker 1>once once a woman's had that baby, now she's thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about twenty years, thirty years, forty years ahead of her

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<v Speaker 1>before that. She's not thinking so long term. But once, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not even once she has the baby. It's once they

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<v Speaker 1>start school and and they have the kindergarten graduation and

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<v Speaker 1>they have their first recital, and they learned to play

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<v Speaker 1>the little recorder, and then they learned to play the horn,

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<v Speaker 1>or they go into choir. All of a sudden, you've

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<v Speaker 1>got pictures and videos and and you need something to

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<v Speaker 1>do with them, right, And you also know as a mom,

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<v Speaker 1>as a parent, you know, because we have a few

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<v Speaker 1>good we have a lot of great moments. We have,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands of fabulous women.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a few good men. We always kid about

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<v Speaker 1>that that, you know, the old Marine Corps tagline, A

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<v Speaker 1>few good We definitely have a few good men at

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<v Speaker 1>Forever who really care about the family memories too. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's an expectation now that hey, that rehearsal

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<v Speaker 1>dinner party is going to be coming up in twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five years, and you're going to need the baby pictures.

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<v Speaker 1>Where all the baby pictures go, where all those videos go?

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<v Speaker 1>Where are we gonna get all that? You know? Where

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<v Speaker 1>do you keep all that stuff for my sister? Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that horrible? How I just I naturally a zoom that

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<v Speaker 1>Anna is just going to handle all that. She's always

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<v Speaker 1>been the one to handle not just the family memories,

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<v Speaker 1>but the family business. You know, the family get together as,

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<v Speaker 1>the family trips, the family stuff. She's like always been

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<v Speaker 1>even before mom and Dad passed. They were really young

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<v Speaker 1>when they died, but even before they passed, somehow she

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<v Speaker 1>stepped into that role either she decided she wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>or by default that that she is the keeper of

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<v Speaker 1>our family traditions, our family stories. Yeah, that's important, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's I would say that I have this I have

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<v Speaker 1>this chart where you have some people are really big

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<v Speaker 1>memory keepers, like Deanna, and they're the ones who really

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<v Speaker 1>really need to have that permanent digital home at forever

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<v Speaker 1>dot com and organize all the family memories and keep it.

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<v Speaker 1>But then you have other people who are the satellite people.

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<v Speaker 1>They need to be able to have an account to,

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<v Speaker 1>they need to be able to share and see, but

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<v Speaker 1>maybe they're not as in to the really being the

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<v Speaker 1>big organizer. But we we want to provide that permanent

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<v Speaker 1>digital home for that big organizer person and all of

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<v Speaker 1>her family around her, and that's that's what we do.

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<v Speaker 1>So back to your story, is in your family your

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<v Speaker 1>wife the keeper of all this or have you always?

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<v Speaker 1>I would say Diane and I my wife is Diane.

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<v Speaker 1>We both how many years how many years together. God

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<v Speaker 1>were this summer? Thirty three years we've been married. Good? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we've kept it together. It's a it's a it's a

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<v Speaker 1>work in process, you know, it's not I think keep

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<v Speaker 1>having a successful long marriage is about UM marrying well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you gotta find somebody who's compatible and who

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<v Speaker 1>you really love, and but it's also a question of

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<v Speaker 1>UM really loving each other, respecting each other, and listening.

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<v Speaker 1>That's one thing I've learned to do. I mean, there

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<v Speaker 1>were I think every marriage has its really tough moments,

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of marriages blow apart when those tough

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<v Speaker 1>moments come. But um, I think I gotten a lot

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<v Speaker 1>better at listening than I used to be. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>been one thing that's been important in keeping our marriage together.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that because you've just naturally evolved into this better listener?

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<v Speaker 1>Or did Diane say you never listened to me and

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<v Speaker 1>I am so sick and tired of this? Like did

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<v Speaker 1>she actually lay it out there or did you just

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<v Speaker 1>come to a realization? Oh no, I think that, Um.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the keys is communications. So no, we one

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<v Speaker 1>thing about our marriage is we we communicate. That means

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes we fight and sometimes you know, we we we

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<v Speaker 1>we can weather all the time. You need to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to fight with your your spouse or your significant

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<v Speaker 1>another so long as you fight kindly. When you have

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<v Speaker 1>a disagreement or a problem that arises and you become mean,

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<v Speaker 1>mean spirited or say mean spirited things, you just you

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<v Speaker 1>just destroyed the fabric of your your marriage. Agree with

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<v Speaker 1>your union. But if you can disagree kindly, like still

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<v Speaker 1>respect the other person, but veheimately disagree. Um, that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>how you work through things. I agree with you, And

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<v Speaker 1>I think that where so many relationships go off track

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<v Speaker 1>is that people just can't talk and can't be honest

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<v Speaker 1>with each other. And you're totally right. I always this

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<v Speaker 1>is the way I like to run a company too,

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<v Speaker 1>Is you think about it, It's the same in the marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>same in apparent child relationship, same in a company relationship

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<v Speaker 1>where you gotta be honest if you're not gotta be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>and you gotta respect one another. And I call it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's like honesty and then graciousness. If you

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<v Speaker 1>can be honest with each other and gracious with each other,

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<v Speaker 1>and by the way, that takes this thing called courage.

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<v Speaker 1>I really think in our society today We don't talk

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<v Speaker 1>enough about courage that it it takes courage to actually

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<v Speaker 1>speak the hard truths and be honest. It takes courage

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<v Speaker 1>to confront your own past, be honest with yourself. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's the way it is in life. In marriage, if

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<v Speaker 1>you can actually speak the truth, have the courage to

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<v Speaker 1>speak the truth, and then speak it in a great

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<v Speaker 1>as you're saying, in a gracious way, then you can

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<v Speaker 1>have a conversation and and respect each other and work

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<v Speaker 1>through whatever the issues are and keep a marriage together.

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<v Speaker 1>If if you can't speak the truth and you're not

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<v Speaker 1>gracious to each other, it's gonna blow apart. Glenn and

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<v Speaker 1>I could chat for hours and hours about our pictures,

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<v Speaker 1>your accommodations. It's funny. So I served in the First

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<v Speaker 1>Call four. I used to had a military scholarship in college,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was an officer in the army. And I

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<v Speaker 1>went and served, and I was a reserve reserve officer,

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<v Speaker 1>So I've been on active duty after college. Then I

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<v Speaker 1>was in the reserves, working normal job and met my wife,

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<v Speaker 1>I got married. Um I was, I was in graduate

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<v Speaker 1>school and then I volunteered went back on active duty

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<v Speaker 1>to serve in the First Call four. This is and

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<v Speaker 1>I was a combat engineer officer. I served was over

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<v Speaker 1>there for six months. I came back. Well, my wife,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been only married about a year year and a

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<v Speaker 1>half when I went, and I had no idea going

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<v Speaker 1>into this. You know, I thought I was the one

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<v Speaker 1>who was serving, right. I had no idea how um,

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<v Speaker 1>how much the spouse or the mother or father or

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<v Speaker 1>brother and sister who are left behind, how much they're

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<v Speaker 1>serving too. I mean, it's really something. It's a really

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<v Speaker 1>it's a huge burden. And yeah, because it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>you're out of sight, out of mind. They're worrying, praying,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out where you are, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you safe, are you fed? Are you too hot?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, exactly exactly. So she Diane was very supportive

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<v Speaker 1>of me doing this volunteering and serving, and she's very

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<v Speaker 1>patriotic as em I, and she was very supportive. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, then I'm gone for all this time and

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<v Speaker 1>I got back and it was wonderful coming back, oh

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<v Speaker 1>or you know. But but also, you know, when you've

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<v Speaker 1>been gone a long time, it's like it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>finger and a bucketful of water. You know, you pull

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<v Speaker 1>the finger out. You know, it's kind of like people

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<v Speaker 1>learned to kind of live without you, and then all

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden you're back in and it's it's very stressful.

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<v Speaker 1>So we went and did some counseling. So We've been

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<v Speaker 1>married thirty three years, and we've done counseling at various

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<v Speaker 1>points in our marriage, and this was the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>And we went and uh, and I remember we sat

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<v Speaker 1>down for the first time with this counselor and and

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<v Speaker 1>he looked at me and said, well, why are we here?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, well, you know, Diane's been very upset

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<v Speaker 1>and this and that and the other thing. And and

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<v Speaker 1>of course he physically moved, because the three of us

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<v Speaker 1>were sitting kind of, you know, like a triangle, he

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<v Speaker 1>physically moved his body, shifted away from Diane, looked straight

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<v Speaker 1>at me and said, Glenn, let's talk about you. So

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<v Speaker 1>he wanted went right for the heart of the matter, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that that, um, you know, when this

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<v Speaker 1>gets back to what keeps relationships together, what keeps family together,

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<v Speaker 1>is when we when we are aware of ourselves. I think,

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<v Speaker 1>when if you're blaming other people for the problems, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you're the problem. It's it's such a it's such a

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<v Speaker 1>pleasure to talk with you. It's a real honored to

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<v Speaker 1>be here at your farm. And so you've got five kids,

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<v Speaker 1>how many grandkids? We have one on the way, one

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<v Speaker 1>on the way. So now Forever dot com is really

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<v Speaker 1>gonna kick in because every picture Grandma takes of the baby,

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<v Speaker 1>when the baby gets here, her phone is going to

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<v Speaker 1>have as many pictures on it as mine does, just

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<v Speaker 1>of one granding yeah and well and then of course,

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<v Speaker 1>but they'll all be in her Forever account. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>all backed up and saved, triple backed up and secured,

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<v Speaker 1>won't get dropped in. It's amazing how many people's phones,

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<v Speaker 1>uh get lost because they dropped them like they're at

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<v Speaker 1>a bathroom, and then they're confused about maybe they have

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<v Speaker 1>some kind of cloud storage back up, but they don't

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<v Speaker 1>even understand what it is and it's not permanent. And

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<v Speaker 1>then it's just so we we are really into solving

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<v Speaker 1>that problem and it's good. So forever dot com that's

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<v Speaker 1>all they have to know. If people want to get

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<v Speaker 1>more information on what I do, yeah, just go to

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<v Speaker 1>forever dot com. Just the word we own it. We

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<v Speaker 1>I started. We when we started the company ten years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>we paid for that domain and we've owned it ever since.

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<v Speaker 1>We are to have the brand name Forever, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>all about keeping those precious precious family memories, the videos

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<v Speaker 1>and the photos, and the documents and the audio files.

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<v Speaker 1>Some audio files sometimes it's the last message someone left

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<v Speaker 1>before they died, that that that message is so important

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<v Speaker 1>to people. You can save all of that in your

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<v Speaker 1>permanent digital hemet Forever dot com and if you want

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<v Speaker 1>more information to go to Forever dot com. Lynn. Thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for spending time with us today, and thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for being so delightful. God bless you. Thank you, Delia.

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<v Speaker 1>Permanent digital storage for all your precious memories, share able

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<v Speaker 1>for generations to come. That's what Forever offers you when

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<v Speaker 1>you buy storage space on their platform. Create your library

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<v Speaker 1>with all the photos and scanned documents you want to

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<v Speaker 1>keep safe, then sort to your hearts content, making albums

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<v Speaker 1>that you can share with family, albums you can share

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<v Speaker 1>with friends, making photo books for each one of your

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<v Speaker 1>grandkids so they can have access to great Grandma EULA's

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<v Speaker 1>photographs or her recipe for fried peach pies. Forever even

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<v Speaker 1>has ambassadors scattered all across the country, even in Canada,

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<v Speaker 1>and they'll match you up with an ambassador to help

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<v Speaker 1>you with the process, as well as additional services like

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<v Speaker 1>photo negative and film scanning and digitizing to get all

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<v Speaker 1>those dusty old movies, old videos, old slides out of

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<v Speaker 1>boxes and being looked at once again. And then think

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<v Speaker 1>of the possibilities framable prints, memory books, calendars, greeting cards. Yep,

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<v Speaker 1>Forever does that too. See why I'm so excited about this.

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<v Speaker 1>I've welcomed Forever into my world, and I'm sure I'll

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<v Speaker 1>have much more to say about them in the coming

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<v Speaker 1>months as I begin to build my digital library. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're curious, visit them at Forever dot com. Glenn and

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<v Speaker 1>his wonderful ambassadors I met about three d and fifty

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<v Speaker 1>of them are waiting to welcome you aboard. August is

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<v Speaker 1>coming to a close soon, back to school, cooler weather,

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<v Speaker 1>falling leaves, and the apple harvest approaches, a whole new

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<v Speaker 1>season to be excited about, and with many, many, many

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<v Speaker 1>picture taking opportunities that lie ahead. Make the most of it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll be right here cheering you on with every

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<v Speaker 1>time you say say cheese. Join me nightly on the air,

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<v Speaker 1>daily on my short form podcast, Hey it's Delilah, And

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<v Speaker 1>in another two weeks be back here on Love Someone,

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<v Speaker 1>when I'll have another fascinating guest to sit down with.

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<v Speaker 1>I love spending time with you, and do me a

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<v Speaker 1>favor in your busy, busy summer schedule, slow day, and

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<v Speaker 1>love someone to