1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight. Here it is y'all, strawberry letter, 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Okay, subjects going in circles, circles, round 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: and round, Dear Morning Show. I am sick and tired 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 1: of this man, But more importantly, I'm sick of myself. 5 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,159 Speaker 1: Here it is. I'm in love with a man that 6 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: I'm sure doesn't love me. We met my freshman year 7 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: of high school, lost touch, and reunited last year. I 8 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: always accused him of cheating, and I had the grounds too. 9 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: When we would go out skating, I would always catch 10 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: him in some other girls faces and sitting on their 11 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 1: laps and getting their phone numbers, like I wasn't even there. 12 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: When I confronted him, he would say, I'm teaching them 13 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,519 Speaker 1: how to skate. But like a fool, I broke up 14 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: with him and got back with him. The sex is incredible, 15 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: and I think that is blocking my better judgment. What 16 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: should I do? I do still love him, and we 17 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: broke up for a few months, and now we are 18 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: reunited again, and I think I want to take him back. 19 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: Signed getting dizzy. I'm getting dizzy too. You are taking 20 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 1: us all round and round on circles. I mean don't 21 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 1: you really want to get off this merry go round? 22 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: All your answers and your clues are right here in 23 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 1: your letter. You're sick of yourself. You're sure he doesn't 24 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 1: love you. Uh, come on, I'm sick of you too. 25 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: Because you had grounds to accuse him of cheating, you 26 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:24,839 Speaker 1: still took him back, etcetera, etcetera. You caught him sitting 27 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: on girls laps? How much more evidence do you need 28 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: to know that this man is no good for you? 29 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: And he's gonna keep doing the same thing over and 30 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 1: over again. Why do you keep this loser taking him back? 31 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: Why do you keep him in your life? It's not 32 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: him at this point, it's you. Let him go, Steve. 33 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: There's so much in this letter. First of all, I 34 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: don't I don't. I don't know how old she is. 35 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 1: See I didn't get a clear indication of that. They 36 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: started dating when she was a fresh in her freshman 37 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: year of high school, lost touch, and reunited last year. See. 38 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: I don't know how much time has gone by. But 39 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: your problem with this guy is you know he's nothing, 40 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: but you insist on standing with him. Point blank. However 41 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,360 Speaker 1: you are? You You're not that old you This is 42 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: your fault. You know you can stop this the moment 43 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: you want to. First of all, you know this whole 44 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: thing about we would go out skating and I catch 45 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: him in other girl's face and sitting on their left 46 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: getting their numbers Like I wasn't that. Then when I 47 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: confronted him, he tell you, and I'm teaching him how 48 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: to skate. I've learned how to scape before. You don't 49 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: do it on nobody Left. You think you know I 50 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: don't now. Used to skated the Blue Goose upon seventy 51 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: ninth and Central in Cleveland on how every Thursday Sad. 52 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: I was up there. Man, I was the dude on 53 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: the outside wall with the corn roll coming around new corner, 54 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: low riding man bump into them, beach man, rock roll, 55 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:57,519 Speaker 1: skate bounced. That was me. Man. Never did it in 56 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: Nobody's left skate. How are you are you falling for this? 57 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 1: I don't understand now. Okay, first of all, get your 58 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: stuff together. Here's here's okay. It's it's so much in 59 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 1: here because I mean, you know, this could be one 60 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: of my daughters. The sex is incredible, and I think 61 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 1: that's blocking my better judgment. You're just wrong, that's all 62 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 1: you know it happens. All of us been there. You 63 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: know you'll be all right. But see here's here's a 64 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: part when you say you're sick and tired of yourself, 65 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: but now you keep getting back together. Let me help 66 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: you understand, y'all don't get back together. See, let me 67 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: help women understand something about these relationships that you keep 68 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 1: going in and out of. You keep thinking you're getting 69 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: back together. What we do is we hooked back up 70 00:03:56,200 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: with you for sex. That is a difference in your mind. 71 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: You're thinking we're together. He just came back over for 72 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: some most sex. Why y'all don't understand this? What is it? 73 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:18,839 Speaker 1: Straight talk? No chaser? How to get keep and find 74 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: a man? I have some chapters in this book that 75 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:27,479 Speaker 1: goes so much deeper than the first book. I promise you, lady. 76 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: I have a chapter in here that deals with this you, 77 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: your body, your sex, what it is, how we treat it, 78 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: the value we have on it versus the value you 79 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: have on it, How you see it this way and 80 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 1: we see it another one. I haven't tired chapters on this. 81 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: I have chapters in here on how to get it, 82 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 1: how you want it, how to get what you want 83 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:52,799 Speaker 1: how to make it like you wanted. I can show 84 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:56,559 Speaker 1: you how it's done, but you've got to start letting 85 00:04:56,600 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 1: go of some of these old fallacies and information that 86 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: you keep giving to each other when you are in 87 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 1: an on and off again relationship, the on part when 88 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: it's on, it's on to whom? I'm asking you, I mean, ladies, 89 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: if your relationship is constantly off and on, when it's on, 90 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: it's on to who, because it too easily goes back off? 91 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 1: Is it? Because? Is it? Could you consider this for 92 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: a moment that you think you're getting back together when 93 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 1: actually all he's doing is hooking back up to bang. 94 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: And guess who he's banging? You? You? And now you're 95 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: thinking you're together, but in essence you're not together. You're 96 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: just being hit because you keep wondering why is off again? 97 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: Because man, we don't do on off? All right, We 98 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: will have part two of Steve's response ones at twenty 99 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: three after the hour, Part two of your response to 100 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. It is in your face, Okay, this 101 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 1: girl is going in a circle circles, just trifling the 102 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: dude she got in her life to sex good. She 103 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 1: can't think good. It quit being stupid. It's some damn sex. 104 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: I got it. I got it good. I like it too. 105 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 1: I like it in the more, I like it when 106 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,359 Speaker 1: it's cold. I like it at pizza, I fried, I 107 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: don't care. I got it, got it. But guess what, though, 108 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: you got the rest of the day to live your life, 109 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:42,239 Speaker 1: and the feeling you have with this boy or man 110 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: when you ain't having sex ain't worth a damn So 111 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: now what a moment of pleasure? Life of pain? That's 112 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: what you're trading it in for. Quit being stupid. Okay, ladies, 113 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: I'm going to teach you something. The girl said signed 114 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: getting dizzy, Well dizzy right now, you're just dizzy. But 115 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:06,559 Speaker 1: if you keep on dizziness gonna turn into something else. 116 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 1: See here's the lesson, ladies. Once we as men find 117 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: out that your tolerance level is high for pain, I'm teaching. 118 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 1: Once we find out that your tolerance level is high, 119 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: we then see just how much you can tolerate. I'm 120 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: telling you it's that alter so oh or you can 121 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 1: take this, okay, then take that? How about some of this? Then? Okay, 122 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: how about a little bit more of that? Women, listen 123 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: to me. You have to develop low tolerance in your life, 124 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: not not being nasty or bitter. Get away, man, you 125 00:07:56,320 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: ain't gonna do that. Stay sexy with it all, always 126 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: stay a lady. But develop low tolerance for bs. You 127 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: just don't tolerate it. That's another book, Steve. I've already 128 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: you understand. Develop low tolerance for b s. Then that 129 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: way we won't bring it. I'm telling you, if you 130 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: have a high level of tolerance, we are going to 131 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: see how high that level of tolerance is. And we're 132 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: gonna just keep giving you stuff to tolerate. It's not 133 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: him at you stop tolerating, all right, Steve, You know 134 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here and go email us 135 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 1: or Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter. At 136 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: my girls, Shirley and please join me this Thursday at 137 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: one thirty pm Eastern Time on Facebook Live. You're listening 138 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:56,839 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.