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Speaker 1: Hi. I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship and

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Speaker 1: what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling. Railvalry. No, no, sibling.

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Speaker 1: You don't do that with your mouth, revelry. That's good.

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Speaker 1: We were lucky enough to talk to Bert Kreischer, Coddie

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Speaker 1: and Annie. Bert is such a funny comedian. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: you gotta watch his show actually on Netflix. I think

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Speaker 1: it's called Cabin. It's something like that. Anyway, it's hysterical.

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Speaker 1: He brings all of these comedians up to this cabin

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Speaker 1: and does all this crazy shit with him. It's it's

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Speaker 1: really funny. Obviously, Bert is the common common deers. He's

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Speaker 1: got a lot to say, the guy. The guy doesn't

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Speaker 1: seem like he's able to keep quiet. And we soon

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Speaker 1: learned maybe why you know, sometimes I find comedians when

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Speaker 1: you when we uh talk to comedians and their families,

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Speaker 1: that there is a lot of interesting material, which clearly

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Speaker 1: is why they're comedians, is like you know, and in

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Speaker 1: this one there was a lot. We had a lot

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Speaker 1: of talk about anxiety, which I I you know, Ollie,

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Speaker 1: we when we were done with our you know, two

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Speaker 1: hour session with them. That was the one thing we

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Speaker 1: talked about. We wanted to say, like, let's bring that

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Speaker 1: up in the intro. That anxiety was a huge part

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Speaker 1: of this interview, big theme, and how how common it is.

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Speaker 1: And I think that people are more apt to be

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Speaker 1: open nowadays with some of these feelings, but I still

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Speaker 1: think it's it's a scary thing to add it. And

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Speaker 1: there are levels of anxiety, you know. I mean there's

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Speaker 1: your just day to day feeling anxious for something, having fear.

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Speaker 1: I mean I went through a period where it was

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Speaker 1: just debilitating. It was it came in waves, you know,

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Speaker 1: waves of insanity and then I'd kind of get a

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Speaker 1: little bit better, but I wasn't able to leave my house.

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Speaker 1: I mean I was, I was feeling it. And everyone

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Speaker 1: in all three of all three of these siblings they

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Speaker 1: had they were experiencing anxiety. I mean, I think they

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Speaker 1: still do. I think they try to keep it at bay.

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Speaker 1: You know, Bert would have these anxiety attacks when he

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Speaker 1: was younger, but he didn't know what they were and

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Speaker 1: the parents didn't know it was anxiety at all, which

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Speaker 1: probably is pretty similar to you, Oliver. At times I

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Speaker 1: bet you had a lot of anxiety that then nobody

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Speaker 1: really knew was anxiety. You know, I think it's it's

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Speaker 1: there's a theme happening in humanity. I don't know why

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Speaker 1: we're all fucking so anxious, but you know we are.

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Speaker 1: It was a wonderful conversation. Bert loves to talk, so

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Speaker 1: he basically talked the whole time. Yeah, but I love

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Speaker 1: how open Birt is. And you know, it's the thing is,

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Speaker 1: he took over in the beginning, right and we were

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Speaker 1: kind of waiting to hear from the sisters. Towards the

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Speaker 1: end though, they they seemed to they seemed to, you know,

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Speaker 1: they were more comfortable expressing their opinions and maybe Bert

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Speaker 1: space to say what they needed to say. But you

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Speaker 1: know what, a great family, just cool, a cool group.

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Speaker 1: But we had great, a great talk about the you know,

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Speaker 1: teenagers and and this crazy world we're living in right now.

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Speaker 1: Obviously they love each other like crazy, you can, you

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Speaker 1: can just tell. And they're great supports for each other.

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Speaker 1: And it's fun. Man, It's nice to see it. It's

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Speaker 1: nice to see. Yeah. So here is Bert, Annie and

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Speaker 1: Kottie Christian. My name's Bert Kreischer. I'm a stand up comedian.

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Speaker 1: This is my sister Annie Kreischer. She's two years younger

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Speaker 1: than me. This is my sister, Koddi Kreischer. She's an accident.

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Speaker 1: My parents had sex after mowing the lawn one day.

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Speaker 1: She walked in on them, and then we got this.

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Speaker 1: But it's a really you know, it's a really fantastic

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Speaker 1: dynamic because and by the way, I will overshare it

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Speaker 1: and you'll watch my sister's cringe. Is our parents. Our

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Speaker 1: parents split up and and it kind of really brought

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Speaker 1: the three of us really close together. At the time,

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Speaker 1: I was in Tallahassee at Florida State. Annie was at TCU, No,

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Speaker 1: no TCC What's what's the Georgia Southern And then we

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Speaker 1: all ended up in Tallahassee. And then Kotti was in

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Speaker 1: all in Tallahassee together and she should have been in

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Speaker 1: grade school. That's crazy, Yeah, but your parents your parents

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Speaker 1: divorced and then they got back together, they split up,

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Speaker 1: together for better or for worse. Are they still together now?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're still together. Oh man, they okay, wait,

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Speaker 1: we gotta go, We gotta go. We gotta work ourselves

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Speaker 1: to this. So you're born in Florida St. Petersburg and

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Speaker 1: the only person in this house? No, although that is

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Speaker 1: my personality. That is definitely my personality. I think, uh,

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Speaker 1: so there was and I was just some weird kid

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Speaker 1: who called himself wild boy, lived in a speedo or

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Speaker 1: up until I think, up until like I was ten

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Speaker 1: years four years ago, Bert, it seems to be the

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Speaker 1: guy that I wish I was, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's it's my inner my inner self there. I love

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Speaker 1: the speedo sort of wild What what would you? What

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Speaker 1: There was a very popular there was a very popular

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Speaker 1: ever run into someone that remembers that show all of

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Speaker 1: hold on, you remember Bigfoot and wild Boy? And they're like,

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Speaker 1: then you're like, I was wild Boy too, So I

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Speaker 1: was definitely wild Boy. So the age difference between you

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Speaker 1: oldest is ten years. I was ten when she was born.

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Speaker 1: She was eight. Their relationship is insanely close, like they're sisters,

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Speaker 1: but they're really. I mean they lived together when they

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Speaker 1: above each other. Bunblowt Wow. Yeah, it's not weird to us,

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Speaker 1: to enter the family. We have a nickname for each other.

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Speaker 1: We call each other Big Team. It's our uncle gave

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Speaker 1: remember at one point Leanne was like, am I going

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I was like, that's even rude

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Speaker 1: viper that. Well, so you guys, so you grew up

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Speaker 1: first of all, congratulations on the Super Bowl win. I

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Speaker 1: break it down and figure out why you do that.

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Speaker 1: like John, you couldn't hear me. And I got my

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00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 1: shit together and that was the beginning of the end. Honestly,

424
00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 1: it was that moment that then set it off, you know, yeah,

425
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,160
Speaker 1: and then you just wait for it to happen again.

426
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 1: Then it's just like waiting. Oh God. I would think,

427
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:10,920
Speaker 1: I would think in order to really because I've never

428
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:12,919
Speaker 1: I mean, I've had anxiety, but I've never had like

429
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:17,360
Speaker 1: I've never suffered from anxiety, you know, So I would

430
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,399
Speaker 1: think that if you do, and at some point you

431
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 1: have to kind of do the work to figure out

432
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:27,239
Speaker 1: where the That is totally coming from someone who's never

433
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 1: suffered from anxiety, right, but you have to kind of

434
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 1: distill it down to like where it could be come,

435
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 1: I mean, in order to really understand it, or you

436
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:43,880
Speaker 1: could just start drinking or medic like it's the problem

437
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 1: with problem with panic. A lot of times I don't

438
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 1: and I'll say this from growing up. I had them

439
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 1: when I was younger, and I didn't know what they were,

440
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:52,399
Speaker 1: so like, I didn't know what they were, and I

441
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 1: would just be like, I go in too my parents

442
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 1: room and be like I'm watching Johnny Carson and Johnny

443
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 1: Carson's yelling at me, Like I feel like he's yelling

444
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 1: and it's head's real small. I feel like his head's tiny,

445
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 1: and he's shouting at me, and I and the parts

446
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 1: of my toes right here where the nail meets the skin,

447
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: I feel like it's folding in. And my and my

448
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,679
Speaker 1: dad would be like, you're fine, go to bed, like

449
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:17,680
Speaker 1: not clearly, and I don't think there's an over exaggeration.

450
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: My parents weren't uncaring, but they just did. They didn't

451
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: know it was anxiety. They were like, you're just go

452
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 1: back to bed. You're gonna be fine. And so I mean,

453
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: I remember one time, very candidly, I had a realization

454
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 1: that one day my dad would die. I was watching

455
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 1: TV and someone died and I went, I thought, holy shit,

456
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,439
Speaker 1: one day my dad's gonna die. And I can't stop that,

457
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,680
Speaker 1: and I start spiraling out. I'm probably ten years old.

458
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 1: I know that because I was sleeping in your room.

459
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 1: We never, by the way, I never. I didn't start

460
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:51,680
Speaker 1: sleeping by myself until I was probably like fourteen, okay really,

461
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,199
Speaker 1: oh yeah. I slept with my parents up until I

462
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 1: was ten, and then at ten we moved in a

463
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:57,159
Speaker 1: new house, and then me and her slept in the

464
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 1: same room of us, all of us, and then and

465
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 1: then it at like, uh when I went to high school.

466
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,399
Speaker 1: I was like, maybe I should probably start, you know,

467
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: in my own room. But I remember, I remember realizing

468
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,359
Speaker 1: my dad was gonna die, and I went into his room.

469
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: I was I had to be ten years old. I

470
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,679
Speaker 1: went into his room and I woke him up and

471
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 1: very accurately, what what is it like if you wake

472
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 1: that up? What's his reaction? He jumps his motherfucker cock sucker?

473
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 1: What the fuck? And I said, Dad, Dad, I just

474
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 1: I just had a weird thought that one day you're

475
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 1: gonna die and I can't stop it. And he looked

476
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 1: at me and he goes, yeah, and you're gonna die too,

477
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: go back to bed, and I went, I'm dying and

478
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I'm like fuck. And then and

479
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,719
Speaker 1: and for me, it was the actualization that one day

480
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: everything's going to go black and I can't stop it.

481
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 1: And I yeah, And so panic attas have gone through

482
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: our family, and I think we've all dealt with him,

483
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 1: and coronavirus has made it exponentially worse even for you

484
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,520
Speaker 1: now currently, oh currently, Yeah, you wake up every morning

485
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:03,880
Speaker 1: and do like, okay, throat feels good, no temperature, no fever, no.

486
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 1: But then I go does it feel good? Does is

487
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: that allergy? Oh shit, let's go get tested. Wait where

488
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 1: did you guys get this? You guys? This is so

489
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 1: it's almost like you have this collective anxiety. Right, It's

490
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 1: like it's a codependent anxiety. We all call each other

491
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 1: and you're like, you're fine, You're fine, but you should

492
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 1: go get tested right right. And it also sounds like

493
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 1: you were super close. I mean, you didn't leave her room,

494
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 1: you were you shared a room together. Were you protective

495
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: of your sisters? I think so, but I was also

496
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:47,199
Speaker 1: I wanted the protection. Also, that's a good question. Were

497
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: you protective of birt? But your personality it didn't seem

498
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: like it needed protecting. My personality was like was like

499
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 1: sink or swim. I realized, like first grade, I had

500
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,239
Speaker 1: horrific anxiety attacks and that my dad dropped me off.

501
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 1: And I realized, what if he dies going to work

502
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: and I never see him again? And I had a

503
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: horrible separation anxiety, and so I cried. I cried aggressively

504
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 1: all through the first week of first grade, every day,

505
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 1: to the point where miss Missus Thompson had to sit

506
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 1: me at the front of the class and at a

507
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: desk facing the class and hold my hand while she

508
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: taught the class. Yeah wow, And I just cry looking

509
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: looking at the other kids, what if they don't come back?

510
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: And then slowly they'd be like, our parents aren't coming back.

511
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 1: Just send the whole fucking class into it anxiety attack. Yeah.

512
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 1: And so I think my personality was and and and

513
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 1: I would say Annie is a shy person. And I

514
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 1: think inherently I'm shy. But I think my personality is

515
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: almost like a should. I don't get the luxury of

516
00:27:55,600 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 1: being shy. I need to start being some somebody. I

517
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 1: need to start I don't know it was. It was

518
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 1: I was trying to explain this to my daughter. I

519
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: like taking her to school the other day, and I

520
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 1: was like, hey, first day of high school sucks. Is

521
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: They were doing like a distanced thing and I was like,

522
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 1: first day of high school suck. Sucks. And I was

523
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 1: trying to tell her my first day of high school.

524
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 1: I went to an all boys Catholic high school. She

525
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 1: goes to an all girls Catholic high school. I said,

526
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 1: it's never as bad you think it's bad for you,

527
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 1: It's bad for everyone. Everyone feels the same. And I

528
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 1: told her, and this is how bad my parenting is.

529
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 1: We're to die someday worse, I said, I said, I said, listen.

530
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: My first day of school, I went to all boys

531
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: Cathol High School. I didn't know any of the kids.

532
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 1: I knew like four of them. Like the day I

533
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: get there, one of them is chewing tobacco bat Fagan

534
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, here, clearly he's older than me.

535
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: I grew up with him. Yeah, but he was chewing

536
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: tobacco and I'm like, I don't chew tobacco. I'm not

537
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 1: that grown up, Like I'm still a child. And I

538
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 1: go first period was pe. I'm like, I'm good at sports.

539
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: I'll just get into a game with some kids and

540
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: that's how I'll make friends. And these kids were all

541
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: cuban with mustaches dunking, and I'm like, fuck, I'm not

542
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: even good at sports at the school. And so we

543
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 1: go into the locker room and he's like, hit the showers,

544
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: and I'm like, hold on, we got to get naked

545
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: in front of each other now, Like I'm not ready

546
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: for that. And I look at the showers and there's

547
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: ninth tenth graders, eleventh graders, twelfth graders, ninth graders and

548
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: I'm fourteen years old. There's eighteen nineteen, probably eighteen to

549
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: fourteen in this thing, and I'm terrified. And now Ila's like,

550
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: good God, what happened? I said, Well, what I didn't

551
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 1: realize is all the other boys were terrified too. So

552
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: that's the last one I'm trying to teach her. I go,

553
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: just as scared as you were. It's you're in your head.

554
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 1: They're in their head too, baby. But it's so funny,

555
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: just just going just going back for a second. You

556
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: know that I remember, as a young kid, probably on

557
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: the same age that you were, that I would think

558
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: about what death was and that it was just pure blackness.

559
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: And I couldn't wrap my head around this idea that

560
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 1: I wouldn't exist anymore and where would I be? And

561
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 1: I used to drive me insane where I'd have to

562
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: shake my cobwebs out and start over because it would

563
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: take me down a rabbit hole. You're talking about every

564
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: every morning at four in the morning. For me, four

565
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: in the morning, I wake up and I think, one

566
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: day it'll be black. Really, this is so dark. Why

567
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 1: do you have to think about it? It's just a reality,

568
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: and now let it go. Yeah, but whatever whatever is,

569
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: or you need to like go do Ayahuascar or something.

570
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: I can go on, go on and thinks step step step.

571
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 1: I don't think I want this inside me anymore. Do

572
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 1: you guys smoke weed or eat weed at all? I

573
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: haven't during the pandemic really, because I'm trying to preserve

574
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: my lung capacity. Right. Well, I'm just wondering because you know,

575
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 1: sometimes that helps anxiety. I mean, sometimes it can exacerbate it,

576
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 1: but then some but other times it can actually settle

577
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: you down, you know. Yeah. I have a friend who

578
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: says I like to do it because I like to

579
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: confront my anxiety, and I'm like, I definitely don't feel

580
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: like confronting anxiety. Oh god, Now I'd like to find

581
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: the one that settles you down. Yeah. I keep going

582
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 1: into weed stores going do you have one like xanax?

583
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 1: And they're like, well, you can take xanax. I go, yeah,

584
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: I don't want I already have that. I need the

585
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: one that feels like xanax. Right, but Katty, did you

586
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 1: did you get through it? I did. I went to

587
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: a CBT therapy or cognitive vehicle therapy. Yea six months?

588
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 1: Oh good, Yeah, it was a total game changer, isn't crazy.

589
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: Our brains are so fucking nuts, now, Kady, When you

590
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: were born, so you're ten years younger than your brother

591
00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 1: eight from Annie, and you know, did it change the

592
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: dynamic for you guys when Cotty was born? Like, was

593
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: it very different because she was such a baby? And

594
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:11,479
Speaker 1: were you helpful? Were you more helpful to your parents?

595
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 1: I was? I mean not that you weren't. Not really

596
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: they were good together. I would like I was seven

597
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 1: seven eight, so it was like I had like a baby,

598
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 1: a baby doll, you know. So that was the fun

599
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: thing for me, was it's like, ooh, there's a baby

600
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 1: in the house. You know. You two were more like

601
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: you guys were pretty really close grind. Yeah, we were

602
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: such a big age difference. Like I remember when I

603
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 1: had separation anxiety in fourth grade. That's when you went

604
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 1: to college. Mom and dad were like, if you can

605
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: make it through the week, like do the full week,

606
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: then you can go visit Burt in Tallahassee this weekend.

607
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 1: And looking back now, I'm like, that was so selfless

608
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: of him, because I would never oh whenever he would

609
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: go back to school. Yea, my parents had to take

610
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 1: her to the gas station down the street is they

611
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: would pull over so that she could say goodbye again. Yeah, yeah,

612
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: I forgot about that. Yeah, we were really close. Katie

613
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: being born brought a lot of joy to our family.

614
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 1: I think I think our family was fun. We were good,

615
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 1: but we were like typical boy daughter family. I see

616
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: families now that they just have a boy and a girl,

617
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: and I go, you know, I always think you're not

618
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 1: going to go for one more like like two girls

619
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: two boys, a different dynamic. But with us, when Kotti

620
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 1: was born, all of a sudden, our family was like

621
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: a lot funnier, a lot funner like, because Kotti was

622
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 1: a little different of a person. And to this day,

623
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: I always thought Kotty was the funniest person in our family,

624
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: without a doubt. But she and she was, and she

625
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: was very grown up. And the way she would like,

626
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 1: my friends would come over and they would like, Kottie

627
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 1: would kind of fuck with us, and and my friends

628
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: were in high school and she would you know, she

629
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: would said she It was like perfect example. I took

630
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: her to a party in college when she was maybe

631
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 1: in fourth grade, in fourth grade, and we put a

632
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: fake monkey around her neck and she went and collected

633
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,720
Speaker 1: money for the keg and she collected like four hundred

634
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,479
Speaker 1: dollars and we were like, oh, we have a gold mine.

635
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 1: And so we just took her to parties with the

636
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 1: monkey around her neck and she just make cash. And

637
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 1: then she'd call up like on a on a Sunday

638
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 1: and be like, Hey in Tallahassee, she's in fourth grade. Hey,

639
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 1: we're at the bowling alley And I'm like what She's like,

640
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 1: yeat Worth the bowling Alley. I'm here with the Triedelts.

641
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 1: You should come over and bowl with us. All of

642
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: a sudden, my friends were like fuck. I mean, she

643
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: was a lot of a lot, brought a lot of

644
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,399
Speaker 1: levity to our family. And it's weird, like I'd meet

645
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: I met one girl at one of your parties late

646
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 1: night and she's like, do you want to come to

647
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: our house and hang out? And then I went to

648
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: the triadout house. The next day she moved into the

649
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: Tridel house. And that's so weird that I was in

650
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: fourth grade. It is party crazy. Where was mom and

651
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,399
Speaker 1: dad at home? Yeah? It was weird because he would

652
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 1: let me fly. Remember that. Yeah, I think it was

653
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: like the time was so different, you know, so you're

654
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: at college Bert, you were considered the top partier at

655
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 1: the number one I read that in the country, is

656
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 1: like something really magazine or Yeah, it's the reason I'm

657
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:28,320
Speaker 1: sitting here today kidding me. I actually tried to I

658
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,399
Speaker 1: actually tried to uh move past it when I moved

659
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 1: to Hollywood. Not a buddy very wisely one time say

660
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 1: to me. He said, hey, man, I noticed that you're

661
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 1: like kind of like trying to ignore that part that

662
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: that article was when it was in Rolling Stone magazine

663
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: that wrote a six and a half page article about me,

664
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: calling me the number one party animal at the number

665
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 1: one party school, and it was a really big deal.

666
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,279
Speaker 1: Oliver Stone option the rights of my life. I moved

667
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: to New York. Will Smith discovered me within doing stand

668
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: up for six months mostly because of this article, and

669
00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: it gave me a career. It got I started to

670
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 1: television and have my own TV show, followed by another,

671
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 1: you know, development deal after development deal after TV show,

672
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 1: And my buddy said to me, I feel like you're

673
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 1: really kind of like pushing this article away, like you

674
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: don't want to acknowledge it. And I said, well, I'm

675
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 1: past that. That's not who I am. He goes. No, no, no,

676
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 1: you should never think that he goes. If you hadn't

677
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: moved to La, I wouldn't be in La and he goes,

678
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 1: and you wouldn't have moved to La without that article.

679
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: So you need to be grateful that that article was written.

680
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,320
Speaker 1: Let's go back for two seconds, Like, this article is

681
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 1: written about you in Rolling Stone. How does this? How

682
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: does this happen? Like? How does Rolling Stone write an

683
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: article about the number one party at the number one

684
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: party school? How does how do they find you? So

685
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 1: they were trying to write an article about Florida State,

686
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: and so they called like four people at Florida State

687
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: and they said, we want to write an article about

688
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 1: Florida State had been just voted the number one party

689
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: school in the nation. And then you have someone we

690
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 1: could stay with. And it happened that the four people

691
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 1: they called were all friends of mine who thought I

692
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,839
Speaker 1: was fucking with them. So they call They said, oh,

693
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 1: call Bert, call Bert. So this guy Rolling Stone called,

694
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 1: and my buddy Blair answered, I was in the middle

695
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: of a bong hit. We were about to go play

696
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:12,320
Speaker 1: frisbee golf and he pisched himself. My name's Eric Kaderguard

697
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 1: I'd like to do an article about the school. I'd

698
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: I need a liaison. Everyone's recommended you. Would you be

699
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: cool with me staying with you for a week? And

700
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:20,879
Speaker 1: I excelled my bong hit and I was like sure.

701
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: He was like, were you just doing a bong hit?

702
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,280
Speaker 1: And I was like yeah. He was like, dude, you're perfect.

703
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 1: So then he lives with me for a week. We

704
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 1: party a lot. Because I don't know that I'm I

705
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: don't know the article is going to be about me.

706
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: They go to write the article and then they just

707
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 1: kind of thought it would be a better article if

708
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: it was about a kid. So I was twenty six

709
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 1: year years old. I twenty five, I'd spent six and

710
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: a half years in college, and so they just they

711
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: just wrote an article about me, and it changed my

712
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: life overnight, like overnight. Yeah, gave me the confidence to

713
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 1: try stand up. I tried stand up, and then, like

714
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: I said, everything kind of made sense to move to

715
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: New York and start to a stand up And you know,

716
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 1: six months in Smith discovered me, and it was and

717
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden it was I was off

718
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 1: of the races, and did will Smith discover you at

719
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 1: a club? Yeah? His people did his people saw me,

720
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 1: and they're like, I think Will would like you. And

721
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: I told the story a number of times. But then

722
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,879
Speaker 1: I met him at a studio and and we hung

723
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:15,720
Speaker 1: out for the day. We went and saw a movie together.

724
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,240
Speaker 1: And what did you guys think when that was happening

725
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 1: for your brother? Did you think that he was going

726
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 1: to have the kind of career that he had and

727
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 1: has or no, I remember you getting offered like a

728
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 1: job to be a radio host in Tampa or something.

729
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: Dad's like, you should have taken it. You should have

730
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: taken it. It sounds it sounds. Yeah, it sounds weird.

731
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,320
Speaker 1: And maybe I don't know if you guys and I

732
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 1: speaking respectfully, but I don't know if you guys can

733
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: wrap your head around how foreign the idea of being

734
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: in the entertainment businesses to the average person, Like the

735
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 1: idea that you would move, that you would have the

736
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 1: balls to move to New York. I mean, I think,

737
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 1: I think I do this For a fact. If I

738
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 1: ever run into anyone from Tampa in LA I take

739
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:02,319
Speaker 1: a second extra to be like, I never run into

740
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 1: people from Florida here, Like there's a young lady went

741
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: to a same high school. Cattie did Academy of the

742
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,839
Speaker 1: Holy Names, and she works at the Starbucks by my house,

743
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 1: and I take a minute to be like, hey, don't

744
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 1: give up. Like no one, no one ever does this,

745
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,439
Speaker 1: you know. And so the idea that that you could

746
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: My dad I remember when I the first time I

747
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: made more money than my dad, and he was like,

748
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you. I don't know

749
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 1: why people are paying you to do this at all.

750
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: Like I don't. I can't give you any advice, Like

751
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 1: I don't know how to parent this, sure, you know,

752
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,320
Speaker 1: and so so like I and so I can definitely.

753
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 1: It's it's almost like what not not crack the code

754
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:43,839
Speaker 1: for Hollywood? But once you work in Hollywood, you go, oh,

755
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 1: you just got to not give up. That's it, That's

756
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 1: all it is. And not be a dick, don't hurt

757
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 1: people's feelings. Just always show up on time, be friendly,

758
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 1: don't get too drunk, have a good time. Like there's

759
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 1: something the ge codes aren't that difficulty? So many people

760
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 1: come out here with so many issues. Is that like

761
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: regular people look at it and go and we were

762
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,720
Speaker 1: we grow up very regular. The idea that I remember

763
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 1: I remember seeing myself on TV for the first time.

764
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,839
Speaker 1: You don't know what that's like, meaning like the idea

765
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 1: that you got on television, like I'm on Like I

766
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 1: was walking by a television and I was on television,

767
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: and I was like, shut the fuck up, I'm looking

768
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 1: at me on television, Like that's a mind fuck, a

769
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 1: mind fucked. What was your experience seeing your brother for

770
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 1: the first time? Do you remember what that was. I

771
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 1: didn't think much of the Rolling Stone article. I was like, nah,

772
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 1: it just kind of hat. I remember my alarm. My

773
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: alarm went off for work and it was about like

774
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 1: they were talking about you on the radio, and I

775
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: was like, what, That's a weird way to wake up.

776
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 1: And then I just went to work and then like

777
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:48,439
Speaker 1: the FedEx guy came in and they were like, hey,

778
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 1: are you the same Chrysier? And so that happens, like

779
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 1: so that starts happening in life where they go but

780
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: you have no religion. You didn't have any like joy

781
00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 1: or excitement or anything for him. You're just like whatever.

782
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: Was like, yeah, okay, I like nobody parents. This is weird.

783
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: I mean I remember in college you were on the

784
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 1: X Show and I went down to the lobby because

785
00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 1: I didn't have cable in my room, and I was like,

786
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 1: this is too hard, but I'm happy for him. And

787
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: then I moved out here. You know what, it didn't

788
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:23,239
Speaker 1: start resonating for me until recently. Isn't that weird? Yeah?

789
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: You no, yeah, until recently, until recent But it's honest,

790
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: like like it was recently that I was like, wherever

791
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 1: I drive, I see billboards now and I'm like, that's weird.

792
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 1: I wonder how that must feel like to be him.

793
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 1: What was interesting is I remember moving out here. I

794
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 1: moved out here at twenty two, right when I graduated,

795
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 1: and he told me just go work at an agency,

796
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 1: working an agency for two years, and then after that

797
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 1: you can do whatever you want. And everyone kept telling

798
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: me when I moved out here, They're like, you're going

799
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: to be a publicist. Just go to work at a

800
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: publicity firm. And it irked me where I was like,

801
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 1: I never want to be in publicity. I work in

802
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: a publicity department now, but it and I was like, no,

803
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 1: I'm ever gonna work in publicity. But there's it's a

804
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 1: weird feeling when you were raised in a normal town

805
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,800
Speaker 1: and then you moved to LA and you start noticing

806
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 1: the competitiveness amongst like even normal peers at like agencies

807
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: or management companies, that it's unsettling. And I always remember

808
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 1: watching Bert help his friends and being genuinely happy for

809
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: people when they succeeded, and I was like, that's so rare.

810
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: I felt like that was so rare just in Los Angeles.

811
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 1: So it always made me happy. Now that he has

812
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 1: it for himself, I'm like, you know what, that really

813
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 1: paid off, that he always wanted to help people get jobs,

814
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,399
Speaker 1: or you know, like I always I was like, you're

815
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 1: never like genuinely happy for him, but I feel I

816
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 1: do not feel that right now. But yeah, I was like,

817
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 1: you know, I'm genuinely happy for you you as to

818
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: get you are, and we would have fun with you.

819
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: We were, you know, visiting your New York and changing

820
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 1: our sleep schedule to be at a comedy club all night.

821
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: But you know what I mean, like you really busted

822
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: your ass. So it's been cool to see you evolve

823
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: to where you are now. When you went to New

824
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: York and what were you doing? Where was I? I

825
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 1: was in school. I went to a few schools and

826
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 1: then landed in Hawaii to kind of wrap it all up.

827
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: Was it great? I like the where you put that,

828
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: that's good. Yeah, I had to wrap it all up.

829
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 1: And then I and then I moved out here. So

830
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,399
Speaker 1: did you guys all come out like sort of one

831
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: by one to la I mean, and this is where

832
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 1: home is now. Yeah. He came out first, and then

833
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: I came out maybe a year or two later. Yeah,

834
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 1: and then Kotti came out a year later after I

835
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 1: came out. And you guys all and you guys are

836
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 1: all like pretty tight right now. I mean yeah, you see,

837
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 1: you get to see each other all the time. You

838
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 1: make it a point to be together, and you know, yeah,

839
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,840
Speaker 1: I would say I would say probably probably more than

840
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 1: the average siblings. When when we when they first moved out,

841
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 1: they moved in together down the street from me and

842
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: my wife, and they were like, no, I lived by myself. Yes,

843
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 1: for a year for a year, had your first when

844
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 1: you had Georgia, and I was with you guys, I

845
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:28,880
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Speaker 1: moved out. I mean I was still with you guys

847
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Speaker 1: a lot. Oh that's right. You guys lived over there,

848
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 1: but they would like we would we would Monday nights,

849
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Speaker 1: we'd go to their house and watch Monday night football

850
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: and they'd come over, we'd grill, and I would say, honestly,

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Speaker 1: my daughters are way more affectionate, one hundred percent more

852
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Speaker 1: affectionate with them, and have a very, very very close

853
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855
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00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: process when you're doing your stand up. I'll find something

890
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 1: A lot of times I'll it used to be I'd

891
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 1: mishear things. A lot of times i won't notice it.

892
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 1: It'll be something like LeAnn Er them will say oh,

893
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 1: this is going in your act, and then I'll be like,

894
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 1: oh shit, yeah, it is like I'll I'll walk right

895
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 1: past it. But usually it's like a story. A story

896
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 1: will happen or something will happen, and I'll just and

897
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 1: I'll just I'll have to take it on the road

898
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:48,879
Speaker 1: and really work it out on stage A lot trying

899
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 1: to think of a good example of something. Do you

900
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,439
Speaker 1: write Do you write shit? I mean, do you write

901
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 1: down or do you just memory you put it in

902
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 1: your phone or you got memory, you just memory stuff

903
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 1: I write. I write some stuff like uh, and then

904
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: I'll put it down and then it's a little seeds.

905
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 1: You plant little seeds all over and then when you

906
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,399
Speaker 1: start to work an hour, you take these big ten

907
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 1: pole stories of of that you know work or sometimes

908
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,400
Speaker 1: you write a joke. I'm not really much of a

909
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: joke joke guy. I'm more stories and sometimes like little

910
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 1: things like I misread words. Uh. Sometimes I'm dyslexic, so

911
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 1: I'll read uh ingenious and indigenous or muscles or as

912
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: Muslims and so and so. I I little things like that,

913
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: and and when you build an hour, little things like

914
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 1: that add in great on big stories. So if you

915
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,359
Speaker 1: can get the last per minute up on a big story,

916
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 1: But like I, but stuff will happen and then you'll

917
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: just write it down trying to see if there's anything

918
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: Do you do you girls? See you do your sisters?

919
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: Do you sis? Do you tell them straight up? I mean,

920
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 1: are you like Bert that's no good? That sucks? I mean,

921
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:54,400
Speaker 1: are you involved in it all? In his world of

922
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,839
Speaker 1: writing jokes or does he does he try them out

923
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 1: on you guys at all? Or no? Not really? No,

924
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 1: not really. It's I don't think like my dad's never

925
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 1: seen me perform live. I don't think yeah yeah really

926
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,359
Speaker 1: yeah he won't you don't want to watch me? Why

927
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,760
Speaker 1: is that? Because it makes him very uncomforting and nervous.

928
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:20,320
Speaker 1: It's like he would absolutely hate to do it himself.

929
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 1: So it makes like he almost experiences the anxiety of

930
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 1: being forced to do that. Yeah, and he's like, I

931
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: just so if anything on TV anything, he'll somebody else

932
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: watch it, and once you say no, Dad, it was good,

933
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:42,320
Speaker 1: he'll go okay. And then but I don't think he's

934
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: watched any of your seal would you be would you

935
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 1: be if your dad was coming to see a show?

936
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 1: Would that mess you up? Or would you be excited

937
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 1: about something like that? It doesn't even register. I wouldn't.

938
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. Exit he just never has. And it's like

939
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 1: it's almost like if you you talk to a kid

940
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 1: who grew up without a father and he's like, yeah,

941
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just never had one. And I

942
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 1: don't mean like it's that dramatic, but like he's never

943
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: watched me for him, so it doesn't matter. And if

944
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:07,920
Speaker 1: he did watch me that I guess that would be fine.

945
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 1: I don't. I've done it so long now that I

946
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,879
Speaker 1: that it wouldn't affect the way I perform at all.

947
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 1: But you you don't care one way or nothing. I

948
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,800
Speaker 1: don't care whatever makes him happy, if if if it

949
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 1: makes him uncomfortable to watch me, and I imagine it

950
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 1: would make me uncomfortable watching one of my daughters do

951
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 1: stand up about me. That's the other thing is like

952
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 1: when I do stand up, when you talk about my process.

953
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 1: I whatever I was explaining to someone, whatever, however I hear.

954
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 1: However I remember a story, I just remember the funny parts.

955
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: I don't remember some of the details that maybe are

956
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 1: important in a story, Like I just remember the shit

957
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 1: that made me laugh, and that's the part of the

958
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 1: story I tell back to you. And sometimes with my dad,

959
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: he'll be like, that never happened, and I'm like, no,

960
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,839
Speaker 1: it totally happened. He's like, like, I remember one time

961
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 1: I was telling a story about first grade and I said,

962
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 1: my dad drove a van, and he goes, never had

963
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: a van, and I was like, he did have a

964
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: fucking van. But the thing I remember is the fucking baby.

965
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 1: He don't remember the van at all. Oh God, and

966
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:07,359
Speaker 1: so so yeah, but yeah. But oddly enough, the last

967
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: time I was in Tampa, I was doing the Tampa

968
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 1: Theater and they had planned out that my dad would

969
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,000
Speaker 1: come run out on stage. He was in the green room.

970
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 1: He'd come out on stage, rip his shirt off and

971
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: take get a picture with me, and you could feel

972
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 1: him shaking, and they videotaped it. And so he came out,

973
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 1: ripped his shirt off, put his arm around me, his

974
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: arms trembling, gives me a kiss, and he goes, I

975
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: love you. And then he gets off stage and he

976
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 1: was high. I mean he was he was and they

977
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 1: had the camera on him and he was like, like

978
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: he really felt about it. He was like they went

979
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: like and then he called me. He was like, they

980
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 1: went crazy when I took my shirt off, and I

981
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, you're like, now you know he's gonna

982
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 1: do it. Yeah, You're like, now you know why I

983
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 1: do this. You were the first comedian to do all

984
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 1: the sort of drive ins and socially distanced shows. How

985
00:51:56,719 --> 00:52:01,240
Speaker 1: how was that was? That? Was it weird? The first

986
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 1: one was weird, The second one was the first one

987
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 1: was weird. But it was so beautiful in North Carolina.

988
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:10,799
Speaker 1: It was It was an like a slice of Americana pie.

989
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 1: It was a grass drive in, tiered in the middle

990
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 1: of a rock quarry. It was in the middle of nowhere,

991
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:20,279
Speaker 1: trees everywhere, beautiful suns that and everyone was tailgating. Everyone

992
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: had their chairs out, They had big inflatable couches, beds

993
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: in their plat in the back of their trucks. One

994
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 1: dude filled up his truck with water and as a performer,

995
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 1: I tore through my hour in like thirty five minutes

996
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: because I wasn't getting the response I get normally in

997
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 1: a theater. But then as you start doing them more

998
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,320
Speaker 1: and more, you get more and more comfortable with what

999
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 1: you understand the response to be, meaning the lass I

1000
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:48,360
Speaker 1: need to hear to know I'm doing well. It just

1001
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 1: you just had to change your bar on where it

1002
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 1: needed to be. And I ended up loving it. And

1003
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 1: I mean this sounds a little virtue signally, but you know,

1004
00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: I ended up loving it. And it was offering work

1005
00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 1: to you know, twenty people night that would work on

1006
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 1: my shows we had a big production, and to my

1007
00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 1: tour bus driver, all my friends, and it was allowing

1008
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 1: people an opportunity to get out of the house safely

1009
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: and and feel like they were a part of something.

1010
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 1: My sisters came out. I did the Hollywood I did

1011
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: the Rose Bowl, and my sisters came out and they

1012
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 1: were like, and they called me right when they were

1013
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 1: leaving the parking lot and they're like, that was so

1014
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 1: cool to be able to get you say what you said,

1015
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 1: but it was awesome. You felt normal for someone who

1016
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:35,239
Speaker 1: had been quarantined. We'd been hardcore quarantined. Because I was

1017
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 1: pregnant and it was shortly after I had Lola, and

1018
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 1: it was like so nice. It was like all we needed,

1019
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 1: just the two to three hours of being out and

1020
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 1: even you didn't leave your car, it was just all

1021
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:50,799
Speaker 1: you needed to feel like you had social interaction again. Yeah,

1022
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 1: it was really fun. Yeah, we went to we went

1023
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 1: to a drive in at my daughter's school the other night,

1024
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 1: and I fucking loved it. And I've been doing them.

1025
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 1: I've done, like I think, Sick Cities. I did a

1026
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 1: ton of them. I did like, wow four runs this

1027
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 1: summer and uh and I did. I went. I went

1028
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 1: to my first drive in and we watched Faris Bueller's

1029
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 1: Day Off and I had such a fun fucking time

1030
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 1: with my family, Like we all brought subs and we

1031
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 1: were laughing and I was just thought to myself, if

1032
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 1: I was drinking, this would be a blast. I know.

1033
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 1: I know what you mean. Kind of want to get

1034
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: into some of the things you guys are working on.

1035
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 1: And I mean, Bert, You've got Burke Cast, the Go

1036
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: Big Show, the Birdie Boy Tour, I mean, what else

1037
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 1: do you have going on? Well, what's the what's the cabin?

1038
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 1: What is that show? Cabin is my Netflix series. I

1039
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 1: just invited, uh. It was like a retreat into the

1040
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 1: woods for me to take care of my mind, body

1041
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:52,200
Speaker 1: and spirit and soul. And so I'd invite comedians and

1042
00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 1: people sometimes just famous people I didn't even know. Really.

1043
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: I had Caitlyn Jenner come and we'd spend the day

1044
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 1: in the cabin doing stuff like like crystal therapy or

1045
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 1: or sound baths, or coffee enemas or polar plunges. And

1046
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 1: it was a blast. It was really a blast. And

1047
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 1: and and you know, I brought a really eclectic group

1048
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,879
Speaker 1: of the funniest people I think, along with some great

1049
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:20,760
Speaker 1: people like uh like uh Joel McHale and uh Kelly

1050
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:24,800
Speaker 1: Quoco and miss Pat and uh. And it was a blast.

1051
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 1: That's an awesome idea, you know. I like this whole

1052
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 1: unscripted world. It's really fun. I'm sort of dabbling in

1053
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 1: it right now myself. The more that the more closer

1054
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: we can get unscripted projects to be what we're doing

1055
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: right now, the better they are. And I think really

1056
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 1: in essence, what The Cabin was was was a very

1057
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:47,360
Speaker 1: elaborate podcast in a weird way, with with with cameras

1058
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:49,719
Speaker 1: following you around I think why it worked so well

1059
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: with so many comedians are so comfortable on podcasts, like

1060
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: as a guest of a podcast, I know what I

1061
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 1: I know what I want when I'm a host, so

1062
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 1: as you tell things, And it's interesting to do this

1063
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 1: with my sisters cause I've been on so many podcasts,

1064
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,840
Speaker 1: so I've I've been doing podcasts for ten years, and

1065
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 1: so it's interesting when they tell a story, or when

1066
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: you tell a story, I immediately go, all right, I

1067
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:15,480
Speaker 1: gotta move things forward. I understand that I want to

1068
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 1: make sure that I give them everything they need. And

1069
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 1: that was what the cabin was was a lot of

1070
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 1: people that got podcasts and had done a lot of podcasts,

1071
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 1: So when the cameras were on, they treated it in

1072
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 1: that energy, that space of like I'll give you everything

1073
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 1: you need. I'm not gonna stop talking. I don't need

1074
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 1: you to cue me. I got this. I can play

1075
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 1: with you. We'll have fun. How much of it was

1076
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:38,399
Speaker 1: like you know, I know it's unscripted, and how much

1077
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 1: of it was Okay, we're gonna set this up and

1078
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:41,640
Speaker 1: we got to do this, this and that, or was

1079
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:44,359
Speaker 1: it just real free for all unscripted stuff. I would

1080
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:46,239
Speaker 1: say it's all free for all. There was like this

1081
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:48,800
Speaker 1: is the you know when you would say scripted, Like

1082
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 1: at one point I waxed my asshole and done that twice.

1083
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 1: By the way, I've done it twice too, And so

1084
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: I was waxing my asshole, and my friend Nicki Glazer

1085
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 1: is a comic, was walking up the stairs and the

1086
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 1: idea your sisters just didn't do anything. When you said that,

1087
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, yeah, I waxed my asshole choice and

1088
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:14,560
Speaker 1: your sister a total straight face, like, no, it was.

1089
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 1: It was unscripted. But in a moment like that when

1090
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 1: I'm about to wax my asshole and I know what

1091
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 1: Nicki's walking in and I know she's my friend, I

1092
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 1: know my boundaries, but I still want her to feel

1093
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: comfortable on a set and around with people filming, or

1094
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: I had to go nicky, like from a different room,

1095
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 1: it's bert you're about to see my asshole. I would

1096
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 1: love for you to be a little socker when you

1097
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 1: see it, but I want you to make the choice

1098
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 1: whether or not you'd like to see my asshole, because

1099
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to be your choice. And she was like,

1100
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 1: I appreciate that, Burt. I'd like to see your asshole.

1101
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, and I was like that

1102
00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: was about as scripted this week. That's amazing. Okay, ready,

1103
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 1: let's do the speed round. So one word to describe

1104
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 1: Bert from each sister. Big words, big words. The girls

1105
00:57:55,520 --> 00:58:01,480
Speaker 1: are like generous, that's a good one. This very general, sensitive,

1106
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 1: very very very okay. One word to describe Annie grounded?

1107
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: Really yeah, I mean you're the most normal of us

1108
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 1: all really? Oh yeah? Why? Oh really that's so interesting.

1109
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 1: Annie's big thing is Annie's big thing is just a yeah, no, well,

1110
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: she does feel like this sort of grounding energy over

1111
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 1: there on that side of the frame. You know, she's

1112
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 1: like she's cool, like cool as a cucumber. It feels

1113
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 1: if one of my sisters had to call me to

1114
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: tell me my father was dad, I'd want it to

1115
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 1: make Annie back to dad dying. Okay, yeah, it always

1116
00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 1: comes back around to that. Okay. One word to describe

1117
00:58:54,120 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 1: Cotty funny cool, cool, cool, Yeah, what do you mean?

1118
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 1: I mean? No? I figured you're cool cool, all right,

1119
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:10,439
Speaker 1: I'll take it. Yeah, I would not describe her as cool.

1120
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 1: Katti is ten times funnier than I am, really ten

1121
00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 1: times funnier than I am, and like when they came

1122
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:20,720
Speaker 1: over to clean my closets. My closet was a mess.

1123
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 1: So they came over and they're like, well, we're gonna

1124
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 1: help you clean your closet. They did the same thing

1125
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 1: to my man cave. And she's very quick with her wit, like,

1126
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 1: I got a pair of these I don't even know

1127
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:35,040
Speaker 1: what you said, these shoes that were just like orthopedic

1128
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 1: shoes that Ultra Marathon has used to run and that

1129
00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 1: they make your feet look like duck feet. And Kotti

1130
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 1: just looked at me and goes, what are you gonna

1131
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: be doing kissing walls with that? And I was like what.

1132
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 1: She's like, there's boots, there's boots. You're wearing like very

1133
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 1: quick witted. Yeah yeah, So do you put that into

1134
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 1: use at all? Or is that just I mean as

1135
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 1: far as no, you don't. No. Never. I tried. I

1136
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 1: tried so hard. I was like, come out here. This

1137
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 1: is called nepotism. I will get in this business. I

1138
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: will get you opening your cute young girl. You can

1139
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 1: get spots everywhere. I will help you with your material,

1140
01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 1: get you up and running. Trust me. And she was

1141
01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 1: like nope, last thing I want. I mean, yeah, I

1142
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 1: get it. If you guys could all think of one

1143
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 1: word together that would describe your relationship. What would it be?

1144
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 1: Unhealthy relationship? Uh? Unbreakable? Yeah very much? Yeah, definitely. Do

1145
01:00:34,480 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 1: you guys fight? Do you guys fight ever? I mean

1146
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 1: or not? Really? No? Really? No? Even like even like

1147
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 1: what like we had a Thanksgiving where everyone was fighting

1148
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:50,400
Speaker 1: at the tablesgiving Yeah, Thanksgiving because dad was opening nice

1149
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 1: wine and he's like, you just then you got all

1150
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 1: sensitive and you're like, I'll drink the chip wine. My

1151
01:00:57,200 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 1: dad opened a biden, a nice bottle of wine and

1152
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:01,480
Speaker 1: then he's like, well, you gotta you gotta sip it.

1153
01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 1: You're not gonna just guzzle it, are you? And I said, well,

1154
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 1: give me the cheap wine because I want to enjoy

1155
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:08,920
Speaker 1: my night. He's like, open up the expensive wine. And

1156
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 1: then I was like, fine, I'll have a fucking expensive wine.

1157
01:01:11,120 --> 01:01:12,920
Speaker 1: He's like, don't guzzle it. I go, don't tell me

1158
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 1: how to drink. And who would your parents say was

1159
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 1: the naughtiest child who broke the most rules? Annie? No, No,

1160
01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:29,000
Speaker 1: it's kind it's cottie. It's ktti. It's definitely cotty. Oh

1161
01:01:29,080 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 1: really he stole a car at like thirteen. Yeah. Wow, Kottiere.

1162
01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 1: I feel like Kotty's sitting over there like she's got

1163
01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 1: a badass vibe, but she's kind of the quiet assassin

1164
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 1: in a way, you know, Like I think they're just

1165
01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: so used to Bert talking all the time that they

1166
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:50,479
Speaker 1: just they just they just like they know they're gonna

1167
01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 1: say something of Birch's gonna take over. Yeah, yeah, pretty much.

1168
01:01:56,800 --> 01:01:58,640
Speaker 1: Here's the deal. If you're going to a wedding and

1169
01:01:58,720 --> 01:02:02,440
Speaker 1: you're sitting with the Chryslers, here's what you want. If

1170
01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 1: you're sitting with us, if you want to have a

1171
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:08,800
Speaker 1: fucking time of your life, We're gonna wake up and go,

1172
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:11,520
Speaker 1: oh my god, that was the greatest night I've ever had.

1173
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 1: I can't wait to look on Instagram and see what

1174
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 1: I did. You want to sit next to me? Okay?

1175
01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 1: If if you do not like the bride and groom

1176
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:21,120
Speaker 1: and you want to talk shit about them throughout the

1177
01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 1: entire night and lapsterically, you want to sit next to Katy.

1178
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: Okay if you are if you are sitting the bride

1179
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 1: and groom's brother next to someone and you want that

1180
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:32,320
Speaker 1: brother to go away and go man, that was a

1181
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 1: great wedding. Sit up next to Annie because Annie is

1182
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: just a generous, kind person. Katty is the person that

1183
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:41,560
Speaker 1: you can She will trash someone with you, like like

1184
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 1: like like roast someone with one with you and it's hilarious.

1185
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:46,440
Speaker 1: And I'm the person that your kid's gonna get your

1186
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:48,240
Speaker 1: shirtless on a table, right, and you'll be like, oh

1187
01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:51,240
Speaker 1: my god, what a trio. I love that so great.

1188
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 1: I love I love that. That's so that's such a

1189
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:57,280
Speaker 1: perfect way of like getting to know you guys, you know,

1190
01:02:57,600 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 1: or describing what it is like getting to know you

1191
01:02:59,800 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 1: got guys. Okay, who was the big tattletale. I don't

1192
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 1: think any of us were tattletales, but Bert definitely lets

1193
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 1: things slip. Yeah, I fuck up on the tattletale where

1194
01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:15,200
Speaker 1: it's just like why would you ever say that? Yeah,

1195
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm the person that gets interrogated and they're like, you know,

1196
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 1: they're talking about you. I was like, they're talking about me, Well,

1197
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 1: let me tell you what they did. And they're like

1198
01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: and then I get back in the cell and they're

1199
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:26,439
Speaker 1: like you didn't say anything, right, and I was like right.

1200
01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:32,680
Speaker 1: It's like yeah, that's like in Gooni's when Chunk is

1201
01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 1: like and they're like, you know, tell us everything, and

1202
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 1: he's like, when I was poor, that's me who was

1203
01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 1: the most anxious kid? Easy Kotti and then adult are

1204
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 1: now like right now, I think it's a tie between

1205
01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 1: me and you. Not even close. See, my anxiousness is

1206
01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:59,160
Speaker 1: is weird because I power through a lot of it.

1207
01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 1: And just like I just go like I had a

1208
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 1: problem flying and I went to the doctor and was like,

1209
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:05,840
Speaker 1: I have a problem flying. He was like, when was

1210
01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 1: the last time he flew? I said yesterday. He goes,

1211
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:09,920
Speaker 1: then you don't have a problem flying. And I was like,

1212
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 1: oh cool, I guess I'll just drink at airports and

1213
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, you can do that. A great doctor.

1214
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 1: Great doctor. Oh man, Okay, who which sibling has the

1215
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 1: weirdest habits? It's got to be me. It's got to

1216
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:30,200
Speaker 1: be me. I'm a weird I'm a I'm a weird

1217
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 1: weird person. I collect knives, but I have knives and

1218
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:38,720
Speaker 1: hatchets all over the place. I uh yeah, I'm a

1219
01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 1: very weird person. I think that's cool to me. You

1220
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 1: have any No, not really, I just have one. Not

1221
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 1: that I what is it? I put toilet paper over

1222
01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:54,240
Speaker 1: the hole every time. Oh, you're afraid of in the toilet.

1223
01:04:55,240 --> 01:05:01,000
Speaker 1: Snakes toilet, right, so you put a toilet paper over

1224
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 1: the hole, so you can't. So there's one square, so

1225
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 1: that were to come up every single time. And I

1226
01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: can't ship in a port a potty because I think

1227
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: I'm afraid of rattlesnak is gonna bite me in the ass. Really, Wow, Well,

1228
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 1: I guess, I guess. I guess if you put the

1229
01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 1: square over, the snake comes up and then he can't

1230
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 1: see because he's just like ah ship, which is the

1231
01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 1: most extroverted. Sometimes this is surprising question, not that surprising.

1232
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:35,360
Speaker 1: It's not that surprising. I overshare, I overshare. I over

1233
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:37,520
Speaker 1: I need you to like me. I want you to

1234
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:40,320
Speaker 1: walk away going God damn it. That was an exceptional

1235
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: human being. And so I I and so I I

1236
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: have a problem with that, I think and and and

1237
01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 1: in doing that, I like I strike up conversations with

1238
01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 1: people that you shouldn't talk to, Like just overshare is

1239
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:59,400
Speaker 1: your wife, like let's go, let's go. Yeah, And certain

1240
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 1: certain things. I'm a very curious person, so like, uh, like,

1241
01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:05,560
Speaker 1: if you tell me something that I find interesting, I

1242
01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:07,840
Speaker 1: can't let go of it. I Q on it NonStop. Yeah,

1243
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:10,440
Speaker 1: you just have to ask every question. Yeah, when you

1244
01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:12,720
Speaker 1: were kids, what would you have thought each other would

1245
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:17,480
Speaker 1: have done or been for a living. I knew you

1246
01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:21,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't be sitting in an office. I thought you'd be

1247
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 1: in an office. I was I thought you. I thought

1248
01:06:24,280 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 1: you'd be in an office, and I thought I never

1249
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:29,040
Speaker 1: thought you'd be in an office. I never thought you'd

1250
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 1: do what you're doing now, Like that's the last thing.

1251
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 1: Uh oh, yeah, not at all. I think I thought

1252
01:06:35,240 --> 01:06:38,480
Speaker 1: I would be I kind of thought I would be

1253
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 1: like sell something, like sell cars or something, because I

1254
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:45,320
Speaker 1: just I'm good with people and I I'm not good

1255
01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:49,120
Speaker 1: at selling things. But I thought, like coming out of

1256
01:06:49,160 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: college is I was like, I don't know what I'll do.

1257
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 1: I guess I'll sell carpets in East Georgia. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: like a people person, just like, yeah, connecting with people.

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Speaker 1: Thought would work with like dolphins or something. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: thought anyone be working with dolphins. Yeah, Annie, what what

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Speaker 1: do you do? Annie? And I haven't even asked you

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Speaker 1: that I'm a nanny. Oh that's fun. How old are

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Speaker 1: the kids that you're working with? Well, I just stopped

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Speaker 1: working for a family. Well, I mean, not to to

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Speaker 1: her own horn, but Annie would never tell you anything

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Speaker 1: about herself. Annie would rather hear you talk about yourself

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Speaker 1: than tell her about your her self. But what's that

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Speaker 1: like though, you know, I mean leaving a family after

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Speaker 1: such a long time. I mean, is there is there

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Speaker 1: heartbreak that goes along with that? Well, no, because I'm

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Speaker 1: still in contact, you are okay, And it really it's

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Speaker 1: not like I nanny and friends of theirs had twins

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Speaker 1: when I had first moved out here, maybe a year

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Speaker 1: or two after I'd moved out here, and it was

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Speaker 1: just something that I kind of fell into, you know.

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Speaker 1: So they had twins and I was with the twins

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Speaker 1: for like ten years. Oh wow wow, And I'm still

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Speaker 1: like now they have like phones and Instagram, so I'm

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Speaker 1: like still and still text and talk to them. We

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Speaker 1: we used to call her a days because she's like

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Speaker 1: xanax to people. She's very relaxing, so we call her

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Speaker 1: a se And that's what my daughters call her, Isase.

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Speaker 1: And she's now like this like this like aunt to

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Speaker 1: like three other families that where the kids literally consider

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Speaker 1: her their their aunt. And uh and like I said,

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Speaker 1: she really the people that the people that she has

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Speaker 1: worked for, the people who have asked her to come

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Speaker 1: work for our people, where I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: get that job and then tell me everything about that person.

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Speaker 1: And she's like, yeah, it's not what I do. We went,

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Speaker 1: We went. Me and my wife had to shoot something

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Speaker 1: on Saturday and my oldest daughter was birthday party. Had

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Speaker 1: to go to a socially distanced birthday party. And my

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01:08:48,960 --> 01:08:51,559
Speaker 1: youngest daughter were like, She's like, I'll just stay home

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Speaker 1: by myself. We're like, no, let's not happy. You're fourteen,

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Speaker 1: You're not. She's like that, what's the worst that can happen.

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Speaker 1: I was like, you're not predicting the worst. That's why.

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Speaker 1: Like you don't know, you don't know. The guy that

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Speaker 1: knocks the door, help him hurt lot open the door.

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Speaker 1: I'm bleeding. I need help, and you open. He's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're not You're mine, little girl, and so so I society, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I love It's so great, and she goes, well, can

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Speaker 1: I just have Zayse have like a zas day where

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01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:20,280
Speaker 1: I just hang out with day? And we were like yeah,

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Speaker 1: and so she just hung out with her for the

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Speaker 1: day and loved it and was like in hog Heaven,

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Speaker 1: you know, Bert, just you're such an open book, right,

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01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:31,040
Speaker 1: you over share? You know? Is what you see what

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01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:34,080
Speaker 1: you get? Man? Or or is there is there something

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Speaker 1: that you keep for yourself that people don't know about,

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01:09:37,560 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 1: or a personality trade or something that you just hold

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Speaker 1: on to you know? Are you just balls out? No? Yeah,

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01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:48,080
Speaker 1: I get Yeah, what you see is what you get

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Speaker 1: words at all? Like U yeah, Like I'm not a

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Speaker 1: really good listener. So like I remember my best friend

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Speaker 1: as a comedian is Tom Segura, and we have a

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Speaker 1: podcast and we've been best friends for a very long time.

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Speaker 1: And he said something to me the other day and

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you how many sisters do you have?

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Speaker 1: And he was like how do you not know? And

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know. You got one right,

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Speaker 1: And he was like, wait, how many do you think

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Speaker 1: I have? It? He was like I couldn't tell you.

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Speaker 1: I don't really pay attention that much. And he's like,

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Speaker 1: I know everything about you. How do you not know

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01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:19,439
Speaker 1: this about me? And I was like, I'm just focused

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Speaker 1: on you, buddy. Oh my god, what was your first

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Speaker 1: celebrity crush? All of you? Probably wonder Woman Linda Calrter. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: are you shitting me? That's me? Like, wait, who is

1330
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:39,320
Speaker 1: your first celebrity crush, Jordan new Kids on the Block.

1331
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Speaker 1: I don't know what if, she said, Quincy Corner. Remember

1332
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Speaker 1: a show called Benson, Not Benson, but the Governor God

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Speaker 1: I loved, I Love. No clue, no clue. Who's your

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Speaker 1: celebrity crush right now? Oh, I've been into Magnum p

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Speaker 1: I lately. Tom Seller weren't far away. You know, before

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Speaker 1: Magni I were in the same world first concert. It

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Speaker 1: was the winning Houston and the Bea Sports Yes, Starship, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Whitney Houston and the Starship, the Starship Yeah Storm. Remember

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Speaker 1: you remember who we went with, Seve, Remember our family,

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Speaker 1: That's who that was. You guys all went to the

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Speaker 1: same concert, Yeah, Based Stadium Stadium. It was for fourth

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Speaker 1: of July or something. Yeah, it's fourth of July. And

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01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:02,320
Speaker 1: Whitney Houston fucking off the thunder. You're playing her national

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01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 1: anthem the other day and I was like, fuck, man,

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Speaker 1: I cried. I was on the treadmill and I cried watching.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was so good. We have a

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Speaker 1: it's a two part we ask it. We ask all

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Speaker 1: this all siblings the same question. The first part is,

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Speaker 1: you know, if there was just you know there's three

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Speaker 1: of you, So figure that part out, do the math.

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Speaker 1: If you can take if you could take something from

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Speaker 1: your sibling that you admire, something that you wished that

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01:12:28,840 --> 01:12:31,519
Speaker 1: you had as a part of you, what would that be.

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Speaker 1: And on the flip side of that, if you could

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Speaker 1: alleviate something from your sibling, take something away that you

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Speaker 1: think would make their life a little bit easier, what

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Speaker 1: would that be. Let's go youngest to oldest. So let's

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Speaker 1: start with what you guys would like to take, you know,

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Speaker 1: with with Coddy, I'd take away her. I'd take away

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Speaker 1: her anxiety easily, and I would take I would take

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Speaker 1: I'd steal her her quickness. I'm not as quick as

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Speaker 1: she is. Yeah, if I had that wight on stage,

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Speaker 1: I would destructive. Well, definitely anxiety. Yeah, I think we

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Speaker 1: take that away from all of that there? Oh is

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Speaker 1: that is that the universal? Take that for me? Her?

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Speaker 1: Like she's a ball buster, you know? Yeah, yeah, I

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01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:28,560
Speaker 1: could use a little more of that. Yeah, like Cat, No,

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Speaker 1: not Chensey, Cat like the ball buster. Yeah. Okay, what

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Speaker 1: would we take from Annie? I'd take your I would

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Speaker 1: take your ability to be grounded in the moment, just

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Speaker 1: be able to just be chilled. I would love that.

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Speaker 1: And then what would I give you? Like your self assurance?

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Speaker 1: That's what I would take. Yeah, I take that. And

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Speaker 1: then what would you take take away from it? I

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Speaker 1: tell you, I take away some of your shyness. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: if you'd just be a little bit more like me,

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Speaker 1: I think you'd be a great person. All right, Now,

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Speaker 1: what do you got your work ethic? You're going to

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Speaker 1: say my workouts? Yeah, your workouts, your body? Yeah, your

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01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:21,720
Speaker 1: your work ethic. And I would say you're you're like

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01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:24,800
Speaker 1: the comfort in your own skin. Yeah. Yeah, you could

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01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:27,800
Speaker 1: walk into any room and just you can walk into

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01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 1: anything room, Which is the nice thing about you if

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Speaker 1: if like you're with if you're someone with you, you

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01:14:33,640 --> 01:14:37,160
Speaker 1: don't have to worry about anything, you know, especially being

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Speaker 1: an introvert. Yeah, like you're like, oh, I can just

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01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:48,439
Speaker 1: coast along. What would I take out of you? Problem

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01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 1: would I take away from me? Probably how sensitive you are.

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Speaker 1: I would love to get rid of that. I would

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Speaker 1: love to get rid of that so much. You liked

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01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:03,639
Speaker 1: Georgia sensitive meaning like you just you just take things

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01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 1: personally across the board. So personally, I like, some guy

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01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:13,960
Speaker 1: can make a video where he doesn't like me or

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01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:16,640
Speaker 1: leave a comment and it I mean eat him up

1395
01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:20,599
Speaker 1: for days. Oh my god. Yeah. But it's but it's

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01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:22,519
Speaker 1: a good trait too that I'm glad I have it

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01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:26,360
Speaker 1: because you know, adversely, I you know, if I go

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01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:28,240
Speaker 1: into a room like the back of the comedy store

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Speaker 1: and I see someone that doesn't know anybody, I take

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Speaker 1: a moment because I know what that would feel like,

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01:15:33,439 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 1: and I take a moment to go, hey, you know,

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01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:39,280
Speaker 1: yeah you, and I'll introduce you everybody, and and then

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01:15:39,439 --> 01:15:41,280
Speaker 1: I do that and then they feel a little more comfortable.

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01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:45,479
Speaker 1: I definitely am a little more aware of how people

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Speaker 1: feel in certain situations because I'm so sensitive. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: this has been awesome. Hey, thank you so much. It

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Speaker 1: was nice getting to know you. This is a blast.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much. Thank you, guys. Sibling Revelry

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Speaker 1: is executive produced by Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson. Producer

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Speaker 1: is Alison. President, editor is Josh Wendish. Music by Mark

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Speaker 1: Hudson aka Uncle Mark. If you want to show us

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