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Speaker 1: If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or

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Speaker 1: Welcome back, y'all. That's another hunt. We're closing the end

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Speaker 1: of the year, but y'all are not closing your legs

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Speaker 1: A trend? Because I got advice based on a trend,

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Speaker 1: And so my advice in twenty twenty six would be,

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Speaker 2: You gotta abort, abort mission, abort the baby, and take

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't have a trend, but now I got

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Speaker 1: a hot take, baby, Okay, come on, hot take. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I completely agree with the three months shit. That's

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Speaker 1: just saying, like, did no, Yeah, three months is crazy.

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Speaker 2: The subject line for this one Weezy is should I

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Speaker 2: Mandy and Weezy. I wanted to start off by saying

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Speaker 2: I love your guys, Pod. So I've been on and

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Speaker 2: He's really cool and always wants to treat me well.

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Speaker 1: Well started talking about something else.

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Speaker 1: What do I do? Bit, you better go fuck that

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Speaker 2: For me, a good homie Hop was a teammate that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't ever fucked that nigga, y'all. I'm just

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Speaker 2: But he was like, I know that you slept with

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Speaker 2: And so because he could never envision even a wedding

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Speaker 2: Situation clearly ended up not good. So commes down do

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Speaker 1: So it's the same thing I thought, It's like. Then

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Speaker 1: not worse. No, you're right, that's family. Okay, that's worst.

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Speaker 1: All right, people got married to a homie hop. See

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So you don't count excess from high school in

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Speaker 2: Anyways, our advice to you is move forward past first

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