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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, Oh my just testing them before she

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Speaker 1: She really just wants to make sure that it contras

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Speaker 1: Man, We have been together for about ten years and

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Speaker 3: To start again. Huh chat?

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Speaker 1: What chat's broken? Chat? God? Dang it all right, story

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Speaker 2: I can still see all your chats. Yeah, there's the

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Speaker 1: So we've been together for about ten years and married

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Speaker 1: My wife is gorgeous with a phenomenal body, but I

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Speaker 1: man's punching up, punching up, or is maybe he's punching

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Speaker 1: always had a really strong relationship. We started as great

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Speaker 1: And we do not use the spicy rappers since we

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Speaker 1: had always been on birth control. I'm driving myself insane

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Speaker 1: She spends a lot of time at the gym, working

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Speaker 2: Maybe you're spending time with Jim.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's not cleaning up after his He's not

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Speaker 1: She has never given me a reason to suspect that

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Speaker 1: She is my world, and I can't imagine starting a

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Speaker 1: Edit really quick edited. Wow, you are all so amazing.

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Speaker 1: I'm touched by the dms and the heartfelt responses. I

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Speaker 1: I wanted to add some details to save me from

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Speaker 1: My wife has never given me a reason to think

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I hope not. Possibly. Well, we're an

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Speaker 2: Somebody shouldn't get an investigator before having the conversation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, not having a PI would be the way

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Speaker 1: like you have an update. I feel like he should

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Speaker 1: would it be abrasive to bring up like, Hey, I'm

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Speaker 2: Well, it's just like, hey, I found a condom wrapper,

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Speaker 2: and you're I found a spicy sleep wrapper.

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Speaker 1: Can we say that, right?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know I found a rubber we.

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Speaker 2: I found I found I found a spicy sleep wrapper

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Speaker 1: You do, I guess need to say that.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, if you've got that, you can

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Speaker 1: So that's weird, right, Yeah, it's not like I feel

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Speaker 2: You might just she might just come clean. Honestly, Uh,

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Speaker 1: Something you think a thing where it's like I know everything,

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Speaker 1: I have this condom wrapper. I found it. I mean this,

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Speaker 2: I think I think you say like, hey, I found

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Speaker 2: I don't mean I think just say I found this

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Speaker 1: If you want to try to immediately get to the

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Speaker 2: But that feels like a lie.

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Speaker 1: I mean it is a lie because he doesn't know

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Speaker 2: Ellie said, just talk to her, sir, this is a

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Speaker 2: Reddit story. Yeah, but I mean, hey, you have the

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Speaker 2: you have the rapper. Soriat says, address the elephant in

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Speaker 2: off as abrasive because it's inherently accusatory. Her response will

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Speaker 1: It's weird, Zach Taylor says, Ask why they found Johnny

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Speaker 1: knowing a Johnny, Little Johnny. But I found this Johnny

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Speaker 2: Let's see what happens.

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Speaker 1: Lots of folks have asked for an update. Not a

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Speaker 1: there's not more to say? Thanks to everyone in the

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Speaker 1: comment and the DMS for the empathy and well wishes.

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Speaker 1: A lot of good tips and advice too, Man, I

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Speaker 1: would hate to piss some of you off. Some of

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Speaker 1: of all, I found a rapper, not an actual Johnny,

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Speaker 1: I can't wait that long. I also drove by her

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Speaker 2: Advice, all terrible advice. Literally talk to her first.

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Speaker 1: Be like, this isn't from recently, because what if it

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Speaker 2: What if it's something totally like normal? And then you've

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but it is, it is. It's hard

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Speaker 3: In the car, Candy, It's okay, what I'm kidding?

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Speaker 1: What did you say? Boo? This man? Sorry, I don't

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Speaker 3: Anyways, let's keep going, Let's keep going.

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Speaker 1: I can't deal with this. I'm taking the advice a

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Speaker 2: Thank god, finally something reasonable.

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Speaker 1: As as some of you suggested, I plan to just

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Speaker 1: and watch your body language. I'm so scared and nervous

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Speaker 1: expect the worst for me. If she cheated. There is

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Speaker 1: zero chance we will ever stay married. Zero. I don't

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Speaker 1: I'm one hundred percent done. No therapy, no counseling, nothing.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm typing this. It makes it seem real. Well, dude,

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Speaker 1: it is real. It's real. I can't imagine her uh

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Speaker 1: that's an image I could never get out of my

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Speaker 2: Guys in car, like two people or three people in

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Speaker 1: I don't think he meant at the same time, wow,

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Speaker 2: What are you gonna do?

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Speaker 3: What do you do?

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Speaker 2: I think you could?

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Speaker 3: What do you do with your lip?

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Speaker 1: People?

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Speaker 3: Were you freaking your lips?

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Speaker 1: You look you look caught, You look like oh back

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Speaker 1: bull crap like two cars. Wait what Otherwise it's bullcrap

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Speaker 1: fifty to fifty. Bro's like, we have no assets except

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Speaker 2: Shut up? Why are you like planning all of this

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just confront her, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Lucy Ford ninety one says from past experience, three person

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Speaker 3: Listen, if I could do it? If I can do

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Speaker 1: Right? I forgot about kid? Yeah it's an suv? Is

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Speaker 1: what is Sexualgot about that? My you've heard that story

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Speaker 3: Read the story, Read the story, read the story.

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Speaker 1: Thought is burning a pit in my gut. I'll post

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Speaker 1: What is going to happen here? Divorce? Does she come

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Speaker 3: I want to know?

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Speaker 1: Tell me all right, here we go. I am devastated, inspiraling.

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Speaker 1: I thirty five mail, found the Jimmy rapper and my

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Speaker 2: And we have heard like, oh, if the spicy sleep

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Speaker 2: there's nothing to suggest that there would be any cheating. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: which is why I talk to her before you do

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Speaker 2: this whole freaking investigation.

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Speaker 1: Freaking have a conversation, which she's already done the investing

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Speaker 3: Dang, dang.

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Speaker 1: I'm so proud of how great she looks and how

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Speaker 1: Maybe foolishly. This guy did say he's a six.

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Speaker 3: But where though, Like, where are you a six? Like

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Speaker 3: it's just like us London.

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Speaker 1: It was a she. She comes home in showers right away,

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Speaker 1: at the gym. No, I shower home. Are you at

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Speaker 2: I well, no, but I'm at the gym multiple times

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Speaker 1: That's rookie numbers. You can't even talk with those numbers.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't avoid me when she walks in. She'll come

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Speaker 1: like don't you remember that that was us? Like, oh damn,

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Speaker 1: I'm torn and getting nervous about talking to her tonight,

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Speaker 1: this update, I'm gonna lose it. This should be my

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Speaker 2: Thank god. Sorry for the length, right, who's the six six?

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Speaker 3: For sure?

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Speaker 1: But it was a lot okay, man, all right, we

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Speaker 1: off to take a shower, pretty much like usual. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie. When she came over to kiss me,

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Speaker 1: I smelled really hard for any evidence of man sense

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Speaker 1: Is that Jim? Or Jim kind of Jim? Are we

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Speaker 1: talking about not gonna lie? Okay? Yeah, blah blah blah,

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Speaker 1: sny've sarved for men's sense, cologne, soap, deodorant, sweat anything.

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Speaker 1: She got out of the shower and came into the

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Speaker 1: I asked, have you lent your car to anyone recently. No,

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Speaker 1: She looked at me weird and said okay, and just

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Speaker 1: me and said, here, please look at my phone. Call

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Speaker 1: my sister, who she shares everything with, Call any of

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Speaker 1: She finally remembered and after work thing that they did

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Speaker 1: What is that?

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Speaker 3: I had her phone waving in his face.

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Speaker 1: But then and then his response was perfect. They're just like,

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Speaker 1: She's like, okay, okay, I understand. Sure, Yeah, I'd be suspicious,

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Speaker 1: definitely like, I'm gonna call the I'm gonna call the investigator.

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Speaker 2: That's why, just freaking talk. As soon as possible speech

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Speaker 1: So, as I sat there, she insisted that we call

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Speaker 1: the floor, and she answered I think so. Why My

437
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Speaker 1: wife then seriously asks do you and boyfriend's name use

438
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Speaker 1: Jimmy rappers? Her friend kind of chuckled and said yeah.

439
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,359
Speaker 1: My wife asked what brand, and she answered the brand

440
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,480
Speaker 1: that will be nameless because we don't do free sponsors.

441
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Speaker 1: My wife looked straight into my eyes and asked, when

442
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 1: you dumped your purse in my car, is there any

443
00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,119
Speaker 1: chance that there were there was a Jimmy rapper in there?

444
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 1: And her friend said, yeah, It's not unusual for me

445
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Speaker 1: to have them in my purse. Why my wife told

446
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Speaker 1: her friend about the rapper. Her friend said, she doesn't

447
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Speaker 1: know why she would have an empty rapper in her purse,

448
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Speaker 1: but it's certainly possible. She hung up the phone and

449
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Speaker 1: looked at me and asked if I would like to

450
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Speaker 1: go through her phone. I said no, and she asked

451
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Speaker 1: and she said mystery solved, I literally started crying. Oh oh,

452
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 1: that's a bad look. Sorry, buddy, I'm not gonna lie.

453
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Speaker 1: It's a bad look. I was crying because I was

454
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Speaker 1: so fricking relieved. I was crying because I'm married to

455
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Speaker 1: the most awesome woman in the world who loves me

456
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Speaker 1: more than anything. And I was crying because I was

457
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Speaker 1: erected with guilt that I thought she could be cheating.

458
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Speaker 2: Honestly, you should be. You should be ashamed of yourself

459
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Speaker 2: a little bit for not talking to her.

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Speaker 1: At This should have been an immediate thing, like communication

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Speaker 1: with tea. I did.

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Speaker 3: No, you didn't.

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Speaker 1: It's water.

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Speaker 3: It was so blatantly in there.

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Speaker 1: No, you guys just haven't heard of that water brand. Yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you're gonna If you're gonna confront

467
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Speaker 1: your hot wife about cheating on you and she didn't

468
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Speaker 1: at all, you can't have your first response be to

469
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Speaker 1: cry like you're you're not.

470
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Speaker 2: Doing all your points, you're losing all your points.

471
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 1: You just made her think that you don't trust her,

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Speaker 1: and then she saw you cry in front of her,

473
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Speaker 1: like and not in a way. There are hot ways

474
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Speaker 1: to cry in front of girls. Yeah, they think it's hot. Well,

475
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:27,199
Speaker 1: to be clear, that's showing emotion in a relationship. Fine,

476
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,920
Speaker 1: good cry after you did something wrong to your hot.

477
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Speaker 3: You did this yourself.

478
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 2: It's like she should be crying.

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Speaker 1: It's like too pathetic. It's a little too pathetic. I'm

480
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Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I'm sorry, and I don't think you're

481
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Speaker 1: a pathetic person. Ope, I'm just saying optically from everything

482
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Speaker 1: I've read in this.

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Speaker 2: Phone, Harriet says, I don't know. I think crying is

484
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 2: a good look in the situation, shows he understands the severity.

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Speaker 1: I think it just I guess it. You know, it

486
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Speaker 1: all just depends on the wife. It depends on how

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Speaker 1: the wife processes the crying. That's really all that matters.

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Speaker 2: I feel like the crying in this to be clear again,

489
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 2: men showing emotion good good crying about like you know

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Speaker 2: your mom.

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Speaker 1: No, I would never say it is anything or your

492
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 1: child being birth good right, but crying because you I

493
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Speaker 1: think crying because you like almost messed up your relationship.

494
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 1: Like it's the crying after It's like the crying after

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Speaker 1: realizing she didn't cheat on you. That's weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you should be comforting her, if anything,

497
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 2: rather comforting.

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Speaker 1: It should be like a oh, thank God, should just

499
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Speaker 1: be like a exhale, and then it's like we're done,

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00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 1: it's over, We're back to normal. Crying is not going

501
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Speaker 1: to help it get back to normal.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

503
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 2: I would love to know what you think. I feel

504
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 2: like saying, and yeah, everyone thinks you're No, I don't

505
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 2: think you're a jerk, but I think I'm curious. Do

506
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 2: you think him crying this situation is a red flag?

507
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 2: Or if it's like justified and you would see him

508
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,160
Speaker 2: crying as like, oh, like he's.

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Speaker 1: It's not even a red flag. It's is it hotter?

510
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: Is it gross? That's the two options. Is it hot

511
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 1: or right now, I'm really just playing it. It's but

512
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 1: it's that simple. It's that simple. You're trying to make

513
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 1: it more complex. It's that simple. Anyways, let's let's finish

514
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 1: this off. I felt miserable for how I must have

515
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: made her feel. My incredible wife took it so well.

516
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 1: She hit me with her dish towel and just said,

517
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Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, I can't believe you would think I would

518
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,639
Speaker 1: cheat on you. Okay, so she took it well, So

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00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 1: it's good. Everything's fine.

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Speaker 3: Kristin Foyle had Christen, We're.

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Speaker 1: I'm right under the gun. Oh no, five seconds left

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Speaker 1: and Chris hit us five seconds five seconds?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Wow? Yeah, yo. You know what the person who had

525
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 1: the best comment I just saw it was not talking

526
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 1: to her right away? Is the big red flag? Oh yeah,

527
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: it's not. It has nothing to do with this crying

528
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 1: or anything being like, do I call the lawyer and

529
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:14,199
Speaker 1: the detective at the same time, yeah, or separately talk

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Speaker 1: to your wife.

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Speaker 3: That's not what I wanted.

532
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 1: Okay, wait until the wait, until the show's over.

533
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 3: I know why did you do that?

534
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: What happened?

535
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 3: You went straight into an hour for some reason.

536
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 1: I guess that's what we have to do now.

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00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 3: No, no, no.

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00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: We need more water. Uh. My incredible wife took it

539
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: so well. She hit me with her dish towel and said,

540
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, I can't believe you think you could think

541
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Speaker 1: I would cheat on you. But she admitted again that

542
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 1: she may have felt the same in my shoes. She

543
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 1: even laughed a little and said it was kind of

544
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: cute that I was so jealous and nervous about asking

545
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Speaker 1: her about it.

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00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 2: Uh.

547
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 1: And by the way, I'll get jealous and nervous. If

548
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Speaker 1: you stop joining us when we go live on YouTube

549
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 1: every day, weekday, every weekday at three pm PST. All

550
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 1: you gotta do is tap our profile and then you're in.

551
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 2: And you can stay for the ten hour stream.

552
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 1: And you can stay for the ten hour stream.

553
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 2: Okay, why is this that fifty nine minutes?

554
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:07,679
Speaker 1: What happened?

555
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:11,120
Speaker 3: I refreshed it. I'm texting right right now. It shouldn't

556
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Speaker 3: be an hour.

557
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: It should be no wingles, it's not an hour.

558
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 3: Should be twenty minutes, should be twenty nin minutes, guys.

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00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 2: Twenty nine minutes.

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00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: So I think this is everything that possibly could have

561
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 1: gone right for Op in the situation has gone right.

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00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's it went well in spite of how terribly

563
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 2: he handled this.

564
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, should have said it right away. But she's not cheating.

565
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,360
Speaker 1: She loves you for She even thought it was kind

566
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 1: of cute about how nervous and stuff that you were,

567
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: which is cool. Sounds like you found a very real

568
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: one and a keeper.

569
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,360
Speaker 2: She sounds great, the ultimate keeper. You need to learn

570
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 2: to communicate though, but she sounds great. Okay, you should

571
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 2: read some donuts because I need to use a little

572
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:53,640
Speaker 2: Keon's room.

573
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 1: We're almost done. Are we Yeah, we're almost done. Almost

574
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: I hit it, hit it, just a little bit left.

575
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:01,919
Speaker 1: So we decided to have our glass of wine and

576
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,120
Speaker 1: go out for dinner. At dinner, we talked about how

577
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: excited we were to start trying for a baby. I

578
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: completely forgot about that. I am one hundred thousand percent

579
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: sure that she's telling the truth. I know her, I

580
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 1: know her like nobody else. I know her body language,

581
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: I know her voice and how it sounds when she's

582
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 1: stressed or hiding something, and there was none of that.

583
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: I hope none of you have to go through this,

584
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 1: but thanks for all the well wishes. I will probably

585
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 1: let my wife read this thread at some point, but

586
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 1: not while it's still so fresh. Plus she'll probably rib

587
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: me for going on Reddit for advice. She's not necessarily

588
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 1: a fan ha ha. So all is good, really really good.

589
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: Have a great life everyone, you too, Op and your

590
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 1: hot wife, and I hope you guys have good kids

591
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 1: with strong jeans, healthy healthy children.

592
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 2: Okay on w Forpp's wife. Yeah, I'm glad how it ended.

593
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 2: And I think what we learned from this is communicate early. Yeah,

594
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 2: just as do as possible, just to have.

595
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 1: The hard cold water conversations if you needed to have them.

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00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna go to the room and wash my hands.

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00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, was scrub them. What's our next episode? Kikey boy?

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to fix it right now, guys, once again,

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653
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Speaker 3: I was about to fix it. Well, so that's the tip.

654
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 3: That's again, that's the real time, that's the real that's

655
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 3: the real time.

656
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: I guess that's true. Well I did just I did

657
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 1: just ask Okay, they're saying to read. They're saying read. Okay,

658
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 1: they're saying read, saying we're saying read. I was asking

659
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: Chat if they wanted us to just do twenty five

660
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: minutes of buffoonery. No, they want us to read. Yeah,

661
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 1: they want us to read. Well, we could do twenty

662
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 1: five minutes of buffoonery.

663
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 2: They don't want that.

664
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: I know they don't, but we could do that.

665
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 2: They want they want us to read.

666
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: I know what they want. I'm just saying what we

667
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 1: could do. Guys. Why are you guys getting that we

668
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 1: have to do what chat wants?

669
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 2: Also, why is the chat on YouTube not our chat?

670
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 2: It's that moving?

671
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

672
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 3: Listen, we can only do so much over here.

673
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: Reading is fundamental? Is read to me? Okay?

674
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, can Ken Riley maybe make the chat the it's.

675
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 3: Been No, he just it hasn't been working. Like when

676
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 3: it starts working, it just goes away.

677
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 2: So no, no, but he made the chat just YouTube.

678
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 2: But the YouTube thing is it?

679
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: Is it moving?

680
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 2: It should be on I believe it. He put it

681
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 2: on the.

682
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,240
Speaker 1: I'm going to readjust my shirt?

683
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 2: You got you got, you got?

684
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 3: You got my No, it's working, it's working, coming.

685
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 1: Up, it is.

686
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 2: But it's you have to click the button so it

687
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:24,760
Speaker 2: keeps moving. Now it's now, it's moving, now, it's moving.

688
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 1: Savannah Riggs threatens to remove her membership if the buffoonery continues.

689
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 2: It's still it's well, we're sorry, we're what what's the

690
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 2: to a pole buffoonery? I know, guys, we're going to read,

691
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:42,799
Speaker 2: We're going to read.

692
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:43,800
Speaker 1: We're reading.

693
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 2: Kristen Foil really really got us. Dude, which are we reading?

694
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,320
Speaker 3: Uh?

695
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,320
Speaker 2: I did wash my hands, they are damp.

696
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:58,359
Speaker 3: Now I also have to.

697
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 2: You you have to pee a gang.

698
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:02,879
Speaker 1: Well, you're not allowed to do this.

699
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

700
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: It's tiny, tiny little, that's so tiny.

701
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 2: I've never seen a tiny ratter. My my sister tried

702
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 2: to steal my wedding Tiara.

703
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 1: Is that what we're reading?

704
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 2: One?

705
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 1: That's what I pulled up. That's the first story.

706
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:28,800
Speaker 2: You can buffoon while reading, all right. Also to the

707
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:30,479
Speaker 2: chat for Chris tinfoil hat.

708
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:35,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, should we put these on? Those are til hats?

709
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,760
Speaker 1: Thro Chris?

710
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, you know we actually used to have

711
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:44,800
Speaker 2: legit tinfoil hats.

712
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 1: We should make some more.

713
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 2: Someone said we look like run DMC in these hats.

714
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: That's pretty good. Your little sailor.

715
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,840
Speaker 2: All right, hydrated guys, you're saying too hydrated?

716
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 3: Oh what did I joined in to chains?

717
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 2: And Harriett says, you shouldn't shame your employees for having

718
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 2: tiny bladders. That's discrimination.

719
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 1: Oh technically I was the one. Yeah, and I get

720
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 1: to see we run a tight ship over here.

721
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 3: That's that's sure. If you call this a ship, this

722
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:22,760
Speaker 3: is a ship.

723
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: This is a ship. And I'm a pirate and we're

724
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: gonna read this next story.

725
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 2: Done with this buffoonery. Yeah, my dad's family refuses to

726
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 2: respect my boundaries and now they've stolen my family heirloom,

727
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 2: not the family jewel. So ghost account to avoid being

728
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 2: found out. Please delete this if it's in the wrong

729
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 2: sub I female forty eight have a very dysfunctional paternal family.

730
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 2: My dad left us for his mistress, who in turn

731
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 2: made a career out of suing him for child support.

732
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 1: Ah, what a nice little career, what a nice niche.

733
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 1: You know. I met this.

734
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 2: I was flirting with this woman at a dive bar

735
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 2: once and she was like forty something and she said that.

736
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:10,799
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, like, what do you do And she's like, oh,

737
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:11,800
Speaker 2: I divorced my husband.

738
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 3: Nice, thank you, Samuel for that story.

739
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 2: Oh by the way, this comes from Otherwise Bred seventy

740
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 2: six eight on the r slash Okay story time, so

741
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 2: read it. So that was the very first time I

742
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 2: heard someone my dad call someone a gold digger. Their

743
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 2: relationship caused a lot of pain in my family. My

744
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:37,880
Speaker 2: grandmother got sick of their loud fighting. Grandma ended up

745
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 2: upgrading her security system after Dad's mistress raised her hand

746
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 2: at her during an argument. Whoa wow, Dad's mistress. I

747
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:48,879
Speaker 2: wonder what that was raising the hand.

748
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: I wonder what that new security system is like.

749
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, it's you raising that hand.

750
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: No, it's like they come down, They come down on.

751
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 2: My dad neglected me for years because she kind of

752
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 2: forbade him from seeing me. And my half siblings grew

753
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:09,880
Speaker 2: up very insecure, unable to maintain healthy relationships. Dad created

754
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,240
Speaker 2: a harsh climate for a sibling relationship. I started visiting

755
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 2: them when I was a preteen. My grandma ended up

756
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 2: raising Jake and Tracy siblings, and Dad caused fights between

757
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 2: me and My sister told me she was the one

758
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 2: he was proud of. Uh.

759
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: Oh, Papa plays favorites.

760
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 2: Oh god, Oh, he made me the constant butt of

761
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 2: their jokes, and they siblings were oftentimes gifted my property.

762
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:44,280
Speaker 1: Wait, what gifted my property?

763
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 3: Oh?

764
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 2: Peas property?

765
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 1: Oh gifted my property is a weird way to describe

766
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: being stolen from.

767
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,959
Speaker 2: Oh and let's not forget how he forgot to get

768
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 2: me an Christmas present but they did not get but

769
00:38:57,160 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 2: they did get gifts on Christmas morning, so she forgot

770
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 2: to get a print Christmas and everyone else got one.

771
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 1: Dad, cony, you were just naughty that year? About that, ol.

772
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 2: Dad constantly took from me to give to Tracy and Jake,

773
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,839
Speaker 2: especially after I got some gigs as a teenager, so

774
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 2: he would force me to pay for their movie tickets

775
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 2: and food. His trick was to be extra nice, get there,

776
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 2: and then demand I pay for them. If I denied

777
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 2: his request, he would scold and shame me, or call

778
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 2: me names, or give me the silent treatment. I was

779
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 2: fifteen or sixteen, So the dad is acting like this

780
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 2: with his fifteen to sixteen year old.

781
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, Dad is not fully emotionally. He's formed like.

782
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:44,839
Speaker 3: Great, He's not He's not great.

783
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: It didn't sound like it.

784
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:49,399
Speaker 2: No, I stopped going to the movies or anywhere with them,

785
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,840
Speaker 2: So he moved on to force me to give Tracy

786
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 2: my dad I'm jacket, or would raid my luggage while

787
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 2: I was in the shower and decide that Tracy should

788
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,800
Speaker 2: have some of my stuff to be fair.

789
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: Oh Tracy, this is so bad.

790
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 2: Tracy grew up feeling ugly because her mom kept telling herself, wow,

791
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 2: oh my god. Dad's way of making her feel better

792
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 2: was to humiliate me in front of anyone who called

793
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 2: me pretty. People do this even out of politeness. Dad

794
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,720
Speaker 2: would say, pretty but dumb.

795
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 1: Excuse me, this isn't your dad.

796
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 2: Whose dad is this? This is a madman, a little

797
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 2: little dirty boy, and immediately disclose which school subjects I

798
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 2: sucked at, like, oh, if you need proof history, f.

799
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:46,879
Speaker 1: Dude, your dad is an op. I hate I hate

800
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: your dad. Your dad needs to get thrown down. I

801
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 1: hate Yeah.

802
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 3: To the sun needs to be suplexed. Or someone said

803
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,399
Speaker 3: that the sun kao does it? Literally just said throw

804
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 3: the dad into.

805
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 1: The sun right now, Na son son son Son.

806
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 2: Or would simply bring up how Tracy played the flute

807
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 2: and was so smart, and she is smart. To be fair,

808
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:13,240
Speaker 2: it's her personality that kills everything. So she is smart,

809
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: but she sucks. I just own my dad. When I

810
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,240
Speaker 2: was twenty one. Seems like he deserves it. He convinced

811
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 2: me to fly over and visit him. Dad talked about

812
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 2: spending time together, mending our fractured relationship, and writing a

813
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,759
Speaker 2: new page in our relationship. Maybe you should have tried to,

814
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 2: I don't know, be better. I was open to that,

815
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 2: so I would go to spend Christmas with him. We

816
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 2: talked for weeks until he suddenly disclosed his actual plans. No,

817
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 2: you didn't want to repair the relationship to go to No,

818
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 2: his actual plans were for me to babysit one of

819
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:50,760
Speaker 2: his many kids.

820
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: You know, no, wh my.

821
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 2: Stepmom took care of her own kid. I asked about

822
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 2: Jake and Tracy, and his answer was that they have

823
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 2: high quality lives. They deserve to have fun during Christmas break.

824
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you sound like really high quality people.

825
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 2: Also, if you're trying to get someone to mind your kids,

826
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 2: don't say that their life sucks, like, oh, you don't

827
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 2: have anything better to do, so obviously should take care

828
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:28,399
Speaker 2: of my kids.

829
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you freaking loser. Why don't you take care of

830
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 1: my cool kid, which is the closest you'll ever calm

831
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: just feeling cool? Idiots? I like your hat Keon.

832
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 3: I like your face, I mean switched. I need a

833
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 3: couple more waters.

834
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 2: Say, boy, I canceled our plans.

835
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 3: That's yours, a little boy.

836
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: I look like a little boy. Look at you.

837
00:42:58,600 --> 00:42:59,560
Speaker 2: He looks like a man.

838
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: Facial hair. You wouldn't look like a.

839
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 3: Man, a pirate.

840
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 2: You look like Orlando Bloom.

841
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 3: Thank you, man, thank you.

842
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 2: And Dakota looks like Jim Carrey Dakota. No, Dakota looks

843
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 2: like the kid looks like Kevin Kid. It like brought

844
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:15,840
Speaker 2: into the suitor.

845
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 1: I look like Georgie. Yeah, look Georgie.

846
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 3: Reed, Georgie read.

847
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 2: Uh So I canceled our plans and ghosted him for

848
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 2: ten years.

849
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: Oh bah oh, I let.

850
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 2: Him back in when I was in my early thirties.

851
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,319
Speaker 2: Same crap. Three or four months of bliss, and then

852
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 2: he and my siblings start with the jokes, their habit

853
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 2: of putting me down, and the complete detachment from my sister.

854
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 2: Harry Spaghetti's Dakota looks like the smallest boys.

855
00:43:52,560 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 4: No, no, yeah, yeah, okay, free they're having of putting

856
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,240
Speaker 4: me down, A complete detachment for my sister.

857
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 2: I stayed away until a year ago they turned up,

858
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,359
Speaker 2: and I kept all communication to a minimum, maybe one

859
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 2: phone call every three months, or applying to text messages only.

860
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 2: My sister announced her wedding and invited me. To be fair,

861
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 2: she always invited me to her her stuff. I did

862
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 2: not invite them to any event in the past twenty

863
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 2: five years.

864
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, nice, that's solidarity.

865
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, keep those numbers up. Yeah, keep them both

866
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 2: good numbers up. Yeah, keep them out. I never attended

867
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 2: any of her events, but this time communication was flowing nicely,

868
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 2: and I truly thought we were building something, something good.

869
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 1: You thought wrong, Yeah, I think you might. You might

870
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:49,439
Speaker 1: have thought wrong.

871
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 2: Have you heard of the history repeating itself?

872
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 3: Yeah?

873
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 2: Have you ever opened up a little history text book.

874
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 1: It's like cyclical fashion, like fashion swings back. Yeah, the

875
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 1: fashion of your dad being a big piece of crap.

876
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 1: I'm just about to come back into style, dude.

877
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 2: My sister, So, we were watching water Horse yesterday and

878
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 2: there's Sam.

879
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:13,280
Speaker 3: Sam. Just get to the story.

880
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 1: No way, there's no way. You just brought up water Horse.

881
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:20,439
Speaker 3: You get to the story.

882
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 1: No man, it's such a funny story. You have to

883
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 1: tell it. When we're done.

884
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:24,800
Speaker 2: That's not even the story.

885
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:27,360
Speaker 1: You're done, We're gone.

886
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 2: She saw a little twelve year old boy from World

887
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 2: War Two dressed in like a vest from like Scotland

888
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 2: and stuff, and she's like, dude, I would totally wear that.

889
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 2: So I feel like cyclical fashion, you know the thing?

890
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: Could she rock it? Though? She probably could rocket rock

891
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 1: the eleven year old boys vest from Scotland to World

892
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 1: War Two.

893
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 2: So via Ezekiel says, so he's going to hate you. No,

894
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 2: she's not. She will agree that she would look fire

895
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 2: like that World War two twelve year old boyfriend.

896
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 5: Rock That little kid'st that sounds all right, I said,

897
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 5: I said, whoa anyway, So it's like nothing.

898
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 2: I truly thought we were building something. Oh dude, we

899
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:25,319
Speaker 2: can mobilize child. We mobilized.

900
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 1: No, we can't do that. That's harassment story. I cannot

901
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: do that. Legal harassments. Oh god, you'd I'm sorry.

902
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 2: I accepted her invitation but left my husband and kids

903
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:45,760
Speaker 2: out of it. Long story short, I took three days

904
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 2: off so that I could attend. Also, I'm a handy

905
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 2: craft junkie and I'm famous in my inner circle only

906
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 2: for making bridal stuff for my friends. I also collaborated

907
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 2: in the making of my wedding Tiara actual metal, thick

908
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 2: bronze leaves with engraving and real stones. This is like

909
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 2: like a like a like a real like a dwarf, A.

910
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,400
Speaker 1: Dwarven, Yeah, a dwarven smith.

911
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 2: The piece was made from my family, heirlooms from my

912
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:20,280
Speaker 2: maternal family, so I find it special. My sister asked

913
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: me if I could help her with the wedding head piece.

914
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 2: I didn't think too long about it and arrived with

915
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 2: my kid. I thought it would take one and a

916
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 2: half days of work and in return she would have

917
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 2: a gift I made for her. I would not charge

918
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 2: for the materials, just gifted to her. She insisted that

919
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 2: I bring my wedding tiara, which she only saw in

920
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 2: my wedding pictures. She said it was for inspiration. I

921
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:44,439
Speaker 2: see you in the chat if you see that, it's

922
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:48,439
Speaker 2: not just for inspiration, and she's got to steal it, yeah,

923
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 2: because she had been trying to make her own but

924
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 2: it wasn't working out. My sister loves DIY because it

925
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 2: allows her stuff, because it allows her to crap on

926
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 2: everyone else who buys ready made stuff. Tracy insisted I

927
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 2: bring my veil, but I said no to that. We

928
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 2: all stayed at the same hotel slash venue boundaries began

929
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 2: busting immediately. Dad asked if I could let her and

930
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,800
Speaker 2: some family members stay in my hotel room, which I

931
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 2: paid for. Hello, I indebted to keep my room with

932
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 2: a jacuzzi all to myself because I don't have that

933
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 2: at home. What kind of crap is that? But he

934
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 2: tried to pressure me, but I said no, I mean,

935
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 2: what would you expect Your dad tries to pressure you

936
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 2: and everything that you want to want to do.

937
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:37,319
Speaker 1: Dad's not a good source of persuasion. No, wait, what's

938
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 1: the word? Uh? Pressure? Peer pressure's negative peer pressure.

939
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 2: I ended up making completely new Tiara, painted it and

940
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 2: had it ready as soon as possible. It was a

941
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 2: flower crown with non floor details. I also ended up

942
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:52,840
Speaker 2: creating a string of beads to add to her bouquet

943
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 2: free of charge. So Op is basically doing all this

944
00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 2: extra stuff for her sister to.

945
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 1: Make like a little Tierra.

946
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got a random request that I kept denying.

947
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,399
Speaker 2: My sister ended up hating her dress. She was right

948
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 2: in her attent, but the fabric didn't help that. She

949
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 2: tried to fashion from a curtain. Try to make her

950
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 2: wedding dress from a curtain there's people who do that

951
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 2: from a curtain.

952
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,760
Speaker 1: It's kind of trendy. You have to buy the right curtain.

953
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,840
Speaker 1: Think Di, iying your wedding dress is kind of trendy

954
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: right now? Am I wrong? Chat?

955
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 2: I think it? I mean it is, but I mean no,

956
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 2: for a curtain, do you have the skills to do that?

957
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:29,279
Speaker 2: Like it is? Like it is a thing?

958
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: Curtain is fabric, Yeah, fabric is web made out.

959
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 2: Of I guess that that curtain can kind of be

960
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 2: wedding dress material.

961
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:38,320
Speaker 3: Kid story.

962
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:42,919
Speaker 2: That she tried to fast from a curtain she thought

963
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:46,919
Speaker 2: using the lace trim as a hem adjust to her need.

964
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 2: She suggested I help her buy new dress. Wanted eight

965
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 2: hundred dollars for it to pay for something that she saw.

966
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 2: I helped her find a seamstress who worked on short notice.

967
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 2: I don't get why she left such important details for

968
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 2: the last minute, because none of your family knows that.

969
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 2: I'll like live without you. Still, Tracy was angry because

970
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 2: she didn't want her dress, so she kind of stopped

971
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 2: talking to me. I stayed because I thought she was

972
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 2: just being a bridezilla. Dad began to push me to

973
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 2: let my sister have my tiara. The one that's bejeweled

974
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 2: and bedazzled and bronze, the priceless Airlcesdorvin Tiara. I said

975
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 2: no because it's a very personal decision. Listen, these are

976
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 2: maternal family heirlooms in there, and I was uncomfortable letting

977
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:40,839
Speaker 2: her wear it, knowing that she hates my mom for

978
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 2: no freaking We reason so like, yeah, there's like jewels

979
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 2: and stuff.

980
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is intricate and jeweled.

981
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 2: She said insulting things once we were teenagers and yelled

982
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:53,800
Speaker 2: at me that her mom was more valuable than mine,

983
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 2: which is a crazy thing to yell, because because dad dumped.

984
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 1: Mom for hers, your mom's worthless compared to my mom. Yeah,

985
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 1: my mom is a high value woman. Your mom shop Ross.

986
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 2: My mom can steal any man she wants and then

987
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 2: divorce and then have a that that's her income.

988
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: Also, it's fine to shop at Ross. I love Ross.

989
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 2: Called passive income.

990
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 3: By that is literally sponsoring.

991
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, what are you doing?

992
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 1: Shut up? I love Ross.

993
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:29,799
Speaker 2: Hey, no sponsors. I'm sure her mother played a part

994
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 2: in this. So I get to the venue and I

995
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 2: see the of honor wearing the flower crowd I made.

996
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 2: I felt a horrible, sinking sensation slash, not in my stomach.

997
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,720
Speaker 2: I put so much time into that, and my sister

998
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:48,600
Speaker 2: just passed it on. Then I found Tracy wearing my tiara.

999
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,720
Speaker 2: I never noticed it. I never noticed it was missing

1000
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 2: because I kept it in just in case she wasn't dressed.

1001
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 1: Yet.

1002
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 2: She never gave me an explanation. Her mom kept adjusting

1003
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 2: it without even looking me in the eye. I addressed

1004
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 2: this with Dad, but he just kind of yelled. I

1005
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:08,760
Speaker 2: gave it to her, and then he opened his eyes

1006
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 2: at me really wide.

1007
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:12,000
Speaker 1: I gave it to her.

1008
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,800
Speaker 2: I hate when he does that, and that is the

1009
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 2: only that is only one of some many facial expressions

1010
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 2: that remind me of my painful relationship with him. He

1011
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 2: always opened his eyes really big to scare me or

1012
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 2: to remove my power of decision.

1013
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: I guess it's more like a yeah, just like a yeah.

1014
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 2: Oh gaslighted because he accused me of driving all the

1015
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 2: way to cause a scene on Tracy's big day. But

1016
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 2: if you want to make our big day, you can

1017
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 2: join us live every weekday add three pm PSD. Just

1018
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 2: to her profile, there's an update.

1019
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 1: I'm Paddington Bear. I'm Paddington Bear. You looks like p

1020
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 1: I even have the blue thing on. I'm padding him bear.

1021
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 2: We gotta get wait, wait, you get something, get something,

1022
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 2: but discuss discussing.

1023
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 1: You don't have to get what are you getting? All right,

1024
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 1: here's what I'll discuss.

1025
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 3: The fact that I cut it to the camera. Look

1026
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 3: at it.

1027
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 1: You shouldn't have let the tiara out of your sight.

1028
00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 1: It shouldn't have left your your hands because these people

1029
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 1: were clearly plotting against you. I know it sucks. It's

1030
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:26,800
Speaker 1: your family and that probably keeps you from seeing it clearly.

1031
00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:30,839
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's not good. God, God, dang it.

1032
00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:35,719
Speaker 3: I you know what's funny? People are like, oh, maybe

1033
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 3: the drinks weren't smart. I'm like, we're fine. Yeah, now

1034
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:45,840
Speaker 3: you're Paddington Bear. I'm padding to the story.

1035
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think, uh, the fact that they

1036
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 2: stole this family heirloom is is kind of I mean,

1037
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:57,359
Speaker 2: you're back to you're back to block territory. I think

1038
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 2: you should go no contact.

1039
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, you at the very beginning, honestly, if you knew

1040
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 3: what you were, You're doing this for how long like

1041
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:04,759
Speaker 3: twenty five?

1042
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:05,399
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah?

1043
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:09,720
Speaker 2: And every time that she lets these people into her life,

1044
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:11,399
Speaker 2: they just screw over.

1045
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 3: So you thought you thought twenty five years down the

1046
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:16,920
Speaker 3: drain for a reason.

1047
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: You thought they can't be the same now they have

1048
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:22,920
Speaker 1: to have changed now, And you know what, I do.

1049
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 2: Think it's good that she's giving them like multiple tries,

1050
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 2: like I think she's trying to extend some uh some

1051
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 2: like compassion. But no, no, no, I told the maid

1052
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 2: of honor that the crown wasn't meant for her, and

1053
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:39,280
Speaker 2: she gave it back. My sister acted like she didn't

1054
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:41,720
Speaker 2: know why I was upset, and I need to admit

1055
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:45,320
Speaker 2: that I was hurt. Nobody ever addressed how and why

1056
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:48,320
Speaker 2: they went through my stuff, So Tracy ended up handing

1057
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:51,760
Speaker 2: me back my tiara, but never answered when I asked

1058
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 2: her why she did that, I guess I don't deserve

1059
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 2: an answer. I was so angry I left with the

1060
00:54:56,680 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 2: flower crown still in my hand, didn't realize and stopping

1061
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 2: to check my luggage to see if anything was missing. Smart,

1062
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 2: I've gone no contact. Also smart, smart because I need

1063
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 2: to take care of my emotional well being. And see,

1064
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:13,359
Speaker 2: and I see, my family just likes to trample over

1065
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:17,800
Speaker 2: boundaries and people in general. Yes, which is completely true.

1066
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 2: Which is completely true, and they've proven it time and

1067
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,760
Speaker 2: time again. So I actually really like this color combo

1068
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 2: on you, Dakota, right by the way, Yeah, you look

1069
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 2: great like Paddington. Did you look great? I think it's yeah,

1070
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:29,800
Speaker 2: show Paddington.

1071
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: Environment behind me is blue. The couch.

1072
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it looks great, Joe Paddington.

1073
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 1: I'll have to wear this, and you have to go

1074
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:42,480
Speaker 1: to the shower thing.

1075
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:43,240
Speaker 2: The shower.

1076
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: Got to go to the shower thing.

1077
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 2: You have to you have to the the has Riley

1078
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 2: shown you this.

1079
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 3: Right, No, because he knew that would be giving me

1080
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:56,400
Speaker 3: too much power, too much power. Come on, this is

1081
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,120
Speaker 3: already too much power. The fact that you see.

1082
00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:02,320
Speaker 2: Much power, well, well we can figure out later. Okay,

1083
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 2: but Dakota, let's hit this next story. But yeah, Wadeicota's

1084
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 2: pulling that up. I want to tell you about water Horse.

1085
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: No stop, Yeah, let's do that. No water horse, a

1086
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,720
Speaker 1: little bit, a little bit of water to tie over anyway,

1087
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 1: we can have a little bit of gosh another one.

1088
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 2: Elizabeth are thanks for the twenty five bucks on the

1089
00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 2: donation link, and no less Jen thanks for the five bucks.

1090
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:38,879
Speaker 2: Even the shadows are donating for a longer stream. Mad

1091
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 2: Hatter Garleys to the five bucks, Lord Dakota and Lord keyon,

1092
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:46,320
Speaker 2: Lady of Madness, would you like to have some gifts

1093
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 2: as a welcome to the family.

1094
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:53,879
Speaker 1: Lady Madness wants to know your favorite colors. I'll say red, Caro,

1095
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: Carolina blue like this heroink or blue boys.

1096
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 3: I like Carolina blue?

1097
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 1: Wait, can Carolina be?

1098
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 2: I can't see?

1099
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 3: Oh now you want me to move it?

1100
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:11,120
Speaker 1: Does anybody know where that line was from?

1101
00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:12,439
Speaker 2: No, she's just terrible apart.

1102
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 3: Let's keep reading.

1103
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 2: Love Thyself. Thanks for five bucks, chat demands more time.

1104
00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 2: Love you guys, first time donating. Thanks Love Thyself. We

1105
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:22,240
Speaker 2: appreciate you.

1106
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 3: We got this one already from.

1107
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 2: Lord and we appreciate you.

1108
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 1: You love yourself and we love you back.

1109
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 2: Sam. You missed King Frederick yesterday in stream. Thanks Amy

1110
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 2: for the two bucks. Yeah, I heard, though, I heard,

1111
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 2: I heard that the King return. Christin foil hats, omg.

1112
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 2: I love the tinfoil hats.

1113
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: That makes sense.

1114
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:45,960
Speaker 2: It's in your name and Christin foy hats. Twenty gifted memberships.

1115
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 2: Grandma's got a powdery mouth. Five gifted memberships. Y'all are

1116
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 2: donating heavy on.

1117
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: The string there, Yeah, yes, sir, yes, sir, all right,

1118
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:01,960
Speaker 1: all right, next, now a little bit of water horse,

1119
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 1: you get. Stop jumping.

1120
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 3: I'm just reciting the time.

1121
00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 2: All right, we're going. I will be freeze. I will

1122
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 2: not distract you have if.

1123
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 3: You want to talk about water horse, you get.

1124
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 1: I'm not going to thank you the tom let, Thank you,

1125
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 1: thank you the tom let. Now are you ready for

1126
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 1: my brother is uh? I'm ready, Dakota was Worthington. Bear

1127
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 1: with the Swedish furniture. That's good, We're ready. Yep, we're ready.

1128
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 1: My brother is a narcissist, but my family is insisting

1129
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:46,000
Speaker 1: that I reconcile with him.

1130
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 2: Hmm, don't reckon. I feel like it's like narcissists are

1131
00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 2: the same thing as terrorists. You just you don't talk.

1132
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 1: We don't negotiate with negotiations, listen, we don't negotiate with

1133
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: narciss with narcissists or the other ones.

1134
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 3: As an narcissist myself, WHOA, You're gonna.

1135
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 1: Be put on a list talking like that, Kean.

1136
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a little narcissistic. It's okay, oh.

1137
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 1: Narcissist twin anyway, Okay. For the first part of my life,

1138
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 1: I was unaware of what a delusional narcissist my brother was.

1139
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 1: Our family might have never known if it had not

1140
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 1: been for his persistent need to have the last word

1141
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: and force others to agree with him on any topic,

1142
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 1: especially political topics. By the way, this comes from user

1143
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: choice AD thirty two to sixty three on the r

1144
00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 1: slash Okay story time. So I brought it choice so.

1145
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 1: Growing up, our parents encouraged discussion and debate about everything,

1146
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:46,440
Speaker 1: ranging from politics, science, history, religion, and even conspiracy theories.

1147
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:50,560
Speaker 1: I love a good conspiracy theory. What's your favorite one?

1148
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:52,520
Speaker 2: Don't answer that. Read the story.

1149
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:53,920
Speaker 3: Read the story.

1150
00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 1: Saying I enjoyed a conspiracy theory. Conspiracy. We're gonna read

1151
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 1: the rest of the story. We all grew up to

1152
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 1: be very vocal about our opinions because of this, and

1153
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 1: learn that it is okay if you don't share the

1154
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:09,200
Speaker 1: same opinion or of view as someone else, you can

1155
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 1: let it go and move on with your life and

1156
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: the discussion. My brother, who will call Adam, did not

1157
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 1: learn this skill. As we got older, we would have

1158
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 1: discussions about hot political topics going on all the time,

1159
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:23,480
Speaker 1: and more and more. He would get heated to the

1160
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 1: point of yelling and frustration if you did not agree

1161
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 1: with him. If Adam couldn't get you to agree with

1162
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:30,800
Speaker 1: him on or see his point of view. He seemed

1163
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 1: to think it was the worst thing in the world.

1164
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 1: It got to the point where politics slash excuse me,

1165
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 1: where politics slash social issues seem to be the only

1166
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: thing he wanted to talk about, even with our mom.

1167
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 1: During one of these political rants, he blew up at

1168
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:49,920
Speaker 1: our mom, unloading all of his true feelings about her

1169
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:52,800
Speaker 1: and me, and I just can't forgive him for it.

1170
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 1: We learned that he views the world and the things

1171
01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 1: that happened to him through a kaleidoscope. I will do

1172
01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: my best, he's gonna explain. I will do my best

1173
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 1: to relay these events in chronological order through history. One,

1174
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 1: he's still upset about ten dollars I allegedly stole from

1175
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:15,040
Speaker 1: him when I was five, and he would have been

1176
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:17,840
Speaker 1: eight ten dollars back. Though, Yeah, maybe you should give

1177
01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 1: himack his ten bucks feef with interest thief, All right,

1178
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 1: twelve bucks. This is an event that I myself don't

1179
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: even really remember, but as an adult in his mid twenties,

1180
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 1: Adam still resents me for it. According to him, he

1181
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:33,000
Speaker 1: hates that I took money from him and was never

1182
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:36,200
Speaker 1: punished for it. Oh that is super narcissistic.

1183
01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 3: It's fine.

1184
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 1: The justice complex is that he feels he feels like

1185
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 1: it's an injustice against him and that it was never

1186
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 1: fully rectified. So he feels constantly slighted at the thought

1187
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: of how this person never got in trouble for stealing

1188
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 1: my money.

1189
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 2: But she but maybe they stole the money.

1190
01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 1: I mean they were they were toddlers, tru bad dude.

1191
01:01:58,120 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 3: It's five dollars.

1192
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 1: Sam team narcissists. So when I asked my mom about this,

1193
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 1: she said she refused to punish me for something she

1194
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:09,520
Speaker 1: has no proof of. She didn't see me take anything

1195
01:02:09,600 --> 01:02:11,600
Speaker 1: and had no proof that I'd done anything. And you

1196
01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:14,960
Speaker 1: were also children, Like, what are we talking about here?

1197
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 2: We're talking about cold hard cash Dkoda five dollars. Now,

1198
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 2: you know what, let your kids steal? Your eight and

1199
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:28,120
Speaker 2: five year olds? You know what steal take that kid's lunch.

1200
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:30,640
Speaker 1: No proof, there's no proof.

1201
01:02:30,720 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 2: Sounds like what you're saying is stealing is good.

1202
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 1: That's what kind of sounds like, Oh, you got me, okay.

1203
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:40,120
Speaker 1: So she had no proof that I had done anything

1204
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: and told me that if we went out and I

1205
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:44,280
Speaker 1: had money to buy anything, she would take that as

1206
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:45,960
Speaker 1: an admission that I did take the money and I

1207
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: would be punished. She knew that I had no money

1208
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 1: at the time because I was five, so taking Adams

1209
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 1: would have been the only way for me to get

1210
01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 1: any He was also just upset in general that myself

1211
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: and our younger siblings weren't punished when he thought we

1212
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:01,600
Speaker 1: should have been. Why my mom didn't punish me? Our

1213
01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:03,479
Speaker 1: mom grew up in a household where you would get

1214
01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:06,439
Speaker 1: whooped for anything and everything. If one child did something

1215
01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 1: bad or was even accused, all the children got whapped.

1216
01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: She refused to do the same thing to her kids.

1217
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 1: W Mom Number two. Our mother never allowed him to

1218
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 1: go out and get wasted with his friends as a teenager.

1219
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:21,680
Speaker 1: Wasted A very weird thing to be upset about, But

1220
01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 1: I digress. Our mom was, in his mind, a terrible

1221
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:29,200
Speaker 1: parent for never allowing him to experience, uh making mistakes

1222
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:35,640
Speaker 1: as a teen. First, what parent allows that you didn't

1223
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 1: grow up in the Midwest?

1224
01:03:37,160 --> 01:03:37,280
Speaker 3: Uh?

1225
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:40,120
Speaker 1: Not to mention if. And that's not to imply that

1226
01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:44,480
Speaker 1: my parents allowed that. I'm just saying that wasted Uh yeah,

1227
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:46,760
Speaker 1: uh the teen The Midwest is a funny place.

1228
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 2: I heard it was that Wisconsin is like the the

1229
01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:53,080
Speaker 2: state that drinks the most per capita that doesn't.

1230
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 1: That doesn't strike me as surprising anyway, stay warm somehow,

1231
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:02,360
Speaker 1: not to mention if that was something he actually wanted

1232
01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:05,360
Speaker 1: to do, then he had ample opportunity to do so.

1233
01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 3: Wait.

1234
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the other thing is you don't have to

1235
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 1: get permission to do bad things.

1236
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:13,720
Speaker 2: You just do them.

1237
01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 1: That's what makes them a bad thing. Well, I guess

1238
01:04:16,120 --> 01:04:16,720
Speaker 1: you're doing it.

1239
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 2: You're like, hey, could I drink?

1240
01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:21,120
Speaker 1: Can I do this bad thing? No, I'm gonna do

1241
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 1: this bad thing anyway. That's how breaking the rules were.

1242
01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:29,400
Speaker 2: Actually, that is the relationship behalf of my parents. I'll

1243
01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 2: say like, hey, I'm about to do this drug. They're like,

1244
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 2: you shouldn't do this, and then I'm like, hey, I'm

1245
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 2: gonna do it anyway.

1246
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:37,680
Speaker 3: NodD, could I say a bad word? No, I'm gonna

1247
01:04:37,680 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 3: do it anymore.

1248
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:39,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it anyway.

1249
01:04:40,560 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 2: Okay.

1250
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:44,000
Speaker 1: Our parents would drop him off in another town and

1251
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 1: let him spend all day with kids his age to

1252
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:49,000
Speaker 1: do who knows what. The only things that she told

1253
01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 1: him were to keep his phone on him and to

1254
01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:52,400
Speaker 1: meet them at X place at X time to go

1255
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 1: home if he wanted to get into any shenanigans, he

1256
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 1: could have to hold resentment towards our mom because of

1257
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 1: this is crazy. He truly believes that if she had

1258
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:04,560
Speaker 1: allowed him to experience these things as a teen, that

1259
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 1: he would have avoided problems with alcohol in his twenties.

1260
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:10,680
Speaker 1: He didn't seem to realize that we have cousins that

1261
01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:13,919
Speaker 1: were allowed to drink his teens. Unlike them, Adam isn't

1262
01:05:13,960 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 1: spending his twenties in jail. Yeah. I was gonna say,

1263
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 1: that's not how that works. It's like, being allowed to

1264
01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:22,880
Speaker 1: drink when you're a teenager does not mean you don't

1265
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 1: have drinking problems when you become like a twenty something.

1266
01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 2: It's probably what are you talking about? It you drink

1267
01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:33,600
Speaker 2: early so you could develop a healthy relationship.

1268
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:43,640
Speaker 1: With don't listen to that guy. Yeah, unlike them, Adam

1269
01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 1: isn't spending his twenties in jail, on probation or in rehab.

1270
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:51,880
Speaker 1: Number three. He was gifted a car as a graduation gift,

1271
01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:54,479
Speaker 1: but accuses our parents of being cheap and greedy because

1272
01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 1: they wanted one hundred dollars for a part to make

1273
01:05:56,680 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 1: it work wild. This guy is like, sucks this guy

1274
01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:03,840
Speaker 1: while this guy is a self absorbed narcissist.

1275
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 6: Uh.

1276
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:07,479
Speaker 1: When he graduated high school, our parents gifted him a car.

1277
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 1: Adam had overheard them talking about this car and what

1278
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:12,080
Speaker 1: they could do with it. The car had been sitting

1279
01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:14,280
Speaker 1: on our grandparents farm for a while, and it only

1280
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:16,800
Speaker 1: needed one part to get it working again. They bought

1281
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 1: the part, and our grandpa got it working. But they

1282
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:20,920
Speaker 1: told Adam that he didn't have to pay them till

1283
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:23,000
Speaker 1: after he had started working and saved up money for

1284
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 1: a while.

1285
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:25,440
Speaker 2: That even gives him an yes zero out.

1286
01:06:25,640 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 1: This is a so far so far. He's mad that

1287
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 1: his parents got him a car.

1288
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 2: And also are like willing to not charge him for

1289
01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:36,919
Speaker 2: this part until like he gets a job.

1290
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:39,360
Speaker 1: We got you a whole car. It's only gonna cost

1291
01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 1: you one hundred dollars spread out over an entire year.

1292
01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:46,320
Speaker 2: That is the best deal ever. Literally, that's the best

1293
01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:46,880
Speaker 2: deal ever.

1294
01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 1: He didn't even need to take the car if he

1295
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 1: didn't want to. They weren't forcing him to. But of

1296
01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:57,720
Speaker 1: course Adam sees this as a way. Adam sees this

1297
01:06:57,800 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 1: in a way only he can. Instead of viewing this

1298
01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 1: is an opportunity for a good cheap car right out

1299
01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 1: of school. He's upset that they're forcing it on him.

1300
01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 1: He feels that they shouldn't be charging him for a

1301
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:09,840
Speaker 1: car at all, and says that they're terrible people for

1302
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:11,840
Speaker 1: giving him a car that has baked in the sun

1303
01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 1: for years.

1304
01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:16,200
Speaker 2: I mean every car is baked in the sun. Usually

1305
01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 2: they're outside.

1306
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, you idiot, you don't know how the sun works.

1307
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:21,400
Speaker 3: Ye send him to the sun.

1308
01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going to send you to the sun so

1309
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 1: you can figure out exactly how it works. You know what. Honestly,

1310
01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 1: this guy's not sounded like a sun guy. This guy

1311
01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 1: sounded like a black hole guy. Really, I would like

1312
01:07:31,160 --> 01:07:33,400
Speaker 1: black hole is for when you want someone to become

1313
01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:35,040
Speaker 1: spaghetti and no longer.

1314
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:37,560
Speaker 2: Exists, and immediately, like media spaget immediate, you.

1315
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:41,800
Speaker 1: Are spaghetti and you don't exist. I don't think this guy,

1316
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:45,520
Speaker 1: I don't want him to exist anymore. Spaghetti no longer exists.

1317
01:07:45,520 --> 01:07:47,200
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, doesn't the spaghetti get sent to like

1318
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 2: different legs?

1319
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:50,840
Speaker 1: Who knows? But he's spaghetti. H he's spaghetti, no longer existing.

1320
01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 1: Even though our parents, even though our parents would never

1321
01:07:56,200 --> 01:07:58,040
Speaker 1: give him a car if they thought it was unsafe

1322
01:07:58,080 --> 01:08:01,840
Speaker 1: to drive, he was still a set. They are terrible,

1323
01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 1: yet Adam sees himself as They are terrible, Yet Adam

1324
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:12,520
Speaker 1: sees himself as a saint. Okay, they are terrible, yet

1325
01:08:12,560 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 1: Adam sees himself as a saint because he gave me

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01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 1: a van for free.

1327
01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:20,559
Speaker 2: I think that's like in his voice, like they're terrible,

1328
01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:21,360
Speaker 2: but out of.

1329
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:25,880
Speaker 1: Yes, his terrible. But Adam's great because he gave me

1330
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 1: a van that had zero breaks, a dead battery, a

1331
01:08:31,320 --> 01:08:33,439
Speaker 1: rear axle that was about to fall off if I

1332
01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:36,240
Speaker 1: hit a bump at the right speed, and a head

1333
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 1: and gasket about to go out, a broken spark plug,

1334
01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:42,040
Speaker 1: tires that were balding, and the dashlight didn't even work

1335
01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:43,200
Speaker 1: so I couldn't drive at night.

1336
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:45,439
Speaker 2: You don't need to drive at night.

1337
01:08:45,880 --> 01:08:48,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a saint. He gave you that out of

1338
01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:50,439
Speaker 1: the goodness of his heart. He gave you a death trap.

1339
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:53,320
Speaker 1: I mean he's trying to make you a saint trying. Yeah,

1340
01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:57,360
Speaker 1: he's trying to turn you into a saint afterlife. To

1341
01:08:57,439 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 1: be clear, our parents are terrible for wanting one hundred

1342
01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:03,479
Speaker 1: dollars for a part to make it car perfectly safe

1343
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:06,320
Speaker 1: to drive. Adam is a saint forgiving me a death

1344
01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 1: trap for free. Yeah, we get it, he's not. We

1345
01:09:11,520 --> 01:09:15,720
Speaker 1: got you. We're on your side. Opee number four. Our

1346
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:19,040
Speaker 1: parents cheated him out of money over bills when him

1347
01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:21,800
Speaker 1: and his fiance moved back in with our parents. Oh god,

1348
01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:27,160
Speaker 1: this guy's got a fiance. Oh no, I feel bad

1349
01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:27,559
Speaker 1: for her.

1350
01:09:27,680 --> 01:09:29,000
Speaker 3: Do you think she's narcissistic too?

1351
01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:30,439
Speaker 2: I think you can't.

1352
01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 1: I don't think exactly. She wouldn't be able to hang.

1353
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 1: It's like she's probably just being manipulated constantly by this guy.

1354
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:43,920
Speaker 1: Our parents would always allow us to come back home

1355
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 1: if we needed it. They've done it with all of us,

1356
01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:49,400
Speaker 1: including myself. When Adam needed to move back in with them,

1357
01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:53,439
Speaker 1: they welcomed him and his fiance with open arms. Of course,

1358
01:09:53,560 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 1: after they both found jobs, our parents wanted help with

1359
01:09:57,040 --> 01:10:00,120
Speaker 1: their bills. They split it up as equally as they

1360
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:02,800
Speaker 1: could manage, but he insisted that they didn't use that

1361
01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:06,040
Speaker 1: much electricity, slash gas or water and would always make

1362
01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:08,680
Speaker 1: a fuss about how much they were paying. Turns out

1363
01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:10,719
Speaker 1: he thought that my mom was just trying to scam

1364
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:14,040
Speaker 1: him out of his money. What a loser this guy is.

1365
01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:17,799
Speaker 1: But after they moved out and got their yearly usage

1366
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:21,439
Speaker 1: bill increased notification. My parents were the ones being scammed.

1367
01:10:21,800 --> 01:10:24,639
Speaker 1: They cost our parents a lot by staying with them.

1368
01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:27,680
Speaker 1: To elaborate on the bills for electricity, my parents get

1369
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:29,920
Speaker 1: built the same amount every month based on their usage

1370
01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:33,800
Speaker 1: from the previous year. It's called flex. If you use

1371
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:35,960
Speaker 1: way more one year, the following year, you're going to

1372
01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:38,040
Speaker 1: pay more to make up for it. My parents' bill

1373
01:10:38,080 --> 01:10:40,320
Speaker 1: went up a considerable amount after they lived with them.

1374
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:42,559
Speaker 2: It's just make sense. There's more people in the house.

1375
01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:45,439
Speaker 1: Right exactly. It's just the audacity they had of saying

1376
01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:47,439
Speaker 1: Mom was cheating the amount of money and being so

1377
01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:49,679
Speaker 1: meticulous about how much they paid, when it was really

1378
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:52,599
Speaker 1: them who had the problem. For both myself and our

1379
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:56,000
Speaker 1: younger brother, our parents charged a flat fee every month

1380
01:10:56,160 --> 01:10:59,679
Speaker 1: and we never argued about it. Number five, our dad

1381
01:10:59,720 --> 01:11:01,559
Speaker 1: prompt listen to them a car as a wedding gift

1382
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:04,160
Speaker 1: and got mad when they weren't given the car for free.

1383
01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:08,360
Speaker 1: This incident is the reason why Dad says he won't

1384
01:11:08,360 --> 01:11:10,799
Speaker 1: speak to Adam again without Mom or a lawyer present.

1385
01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 1: Wow way to go, Adam. While Adam was living with them,

1386
01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:18,800
Speaker 1: Adam and Dad discussed the possibility of giving them one

1387
01:11:18,840 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 1: of their older cars. Adam and Sarah fake name for

1388
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 1: fiance another Sarah one of the movies.

1389
01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:27,200
Speaker 2: I feel like Sarah is just like the go to

1390
01:11:27,360 --> 01:11:27,960
Speaker 2: fake name.

1391
01:11:29,160 --> 01:11:29,800
Speaker 1: It's an easy one.

1392
01:11:29,880 --> 01:11:30,599
Speaker 2: It's an easy one.

1393
01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:35,320
Speaker 1: Megan, Yeah, it's it's a nice and Sarah, it's a

1394
01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:38,320
Speaker 1: nice throwaway name. It's a nice throw away name.

1395
01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:41,439
Speaker 2: Wow, it is always Megan and Sarah.

1396
01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:43,879
Speaker 1: That are the throwaway names.

1397
01:11:46,520 --> 01:11:46,760
Speaker 3: Thanks.

1398
01:11:46,920 --> 01:11:47,719
Speaker 1: How you feeling keon?

1399
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, like a million bucks when you read the story.

1400
01:11:52,800 --> 01:11:56,720
Speaker 1: Like a million ducks. Okay um. Dad said that he

1401
01:11:56,760 --> 01:11:59,720
Speaker 1: would need to talk to mom. Oopsie wait. Adam and

1402
01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:02,920
Speaker 1: Sarah wanted to move across the country and needed a

1403
01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:05,439
Speaker 1: car to do so. Dad said that he would need

1404
01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:07,240
Speaker 1: to talk to Mom about it, but he would see

1405
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:10,000
Speaker 1: what he could do. All Adam heard was you'll get

1406
01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:12,920
Speaker 1: the car later. They said they would give him the

1407
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:15,000
Speaker 1: car if they got to keep the RV Adam and

1408
01:12:15,040 --> 01:12:17,719
Speaker 1: Sarah had bought. Now, that might sound like a crazy

1409
01:12:17,760 --> 01:12:21,280
Speaker 1: trade a car for an RV, but this RV was junk.

1410
01:12:21,800 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 1: Adam and Sarah had moved in with our parents with

1411
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:26,559
Speaker 1: the intention of living in the RV. After renovating it,

1412
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:28,840
Speaker 1: they ended up gutting it, letting it sit in the

1413
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:31,600
Speaker 1: backyard until winter and didn't seal it properly, so the

1414
01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 1: inside was completely water damaged. Not to mention, the engine

1415
01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:37,639
Speaker 1: was crap and couldn't go above forty miles per hour.

1416
01:12:38,120 --> 01:12:40,479
Speaker 1: There's no way Adam and Sarah had the money to

1417
01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:42,720
Speaker 1: burn for this RV and they would never be able

1418
01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:44,880
Speaker 1: to make it across the country with it. If anything,

1419
01:12:44,920 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 1: our parents were doing them a favor and getting the

1420
01:12:47,200 --> 01:12:50,920
Speaker 1: crappy end of the deal. But no, again, Adam thinks

1421
01:12:51,120 --> 01:12:54,200
Speaker 1: they're just being greedy and going back on their promises.

1422
01:12:54,479 --> 01:13:00,800
Speaker 1: He insists Dad promised him the car when he never did.

1423
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:03,360
Speaker 2: There's so many there's so many reasons.

1424
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:08,920
Speaker 1: They're all bs. I guarantee it. Our parents are abusive,

1425
01:13:07,760 --> 01:13:13,840
Speaker 1: authoritative tyrants. I'll be the first to say not every

1426
01:13:13,880 --> 01:13:16,599
Speaker 1: parent is perfect, but it baffles me. Our parents are

1427
01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:20,040
Speaker 1: siblings and even some extended family with this one. We

1428
01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 1: didn't have a perfect childhood by any means, but it

1429
01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:26,320
Speaker 1: was far from abusive, especially when we have cousins who

1430
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:30,000
Speaker 1: were literally taken away by CPS. I'm shocked at how

1431
01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:33,240
Speaker 1: he views our childhood. One of these abusive moments he

1432
01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:35,040
Speaker 1: would bring up was when he was forced to make

1433
01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:39,000
Speaker 1: a decision. Adam was a very indecisive child, and the

1434
01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:42,880
Speaker 1: school counselor suggests that our parents have him make more decisions.

1435
01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:47,120
Speaker 1: Apparently choosing between a hamburger or a McChicken was too

1436
01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:52,200
Speaker 1: terrible for him. No way, dude, hamburger McChicken trauma. That's

1437
01:13:52,560 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 1: my parents are tyrants because they made hamburger or McChicken.

1438
01:13:57,439 --> 01:14:03,000
Speaker 1: M that's moving on. Other moments are things he finds

1439
01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:06,000
Speaker 1: unjust and unfair, Like number one. I'm not going to

1440
01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:08,400
Speaker 1: get into the political debates here, but just know he've

1441
01:14:08,479 --> 01:14:13,920
Speaker 1: used politics, but just know his views on politics was

1442
01:14:13,960 --> 01:14:15,719
Speaker 1: a whole other point that helped to drive the wedge

1443
01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:19,040
Speaker 1: in our family relationship. Thank you, Op for not getting

1444
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:25,080
Speaker 1: into politics. For the love of God. Uh so that

1445
01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 1: was all in the past. Now we get to the

1446
01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:32,439
Speaker 1: park that's really solidified everything. His wedding, that.

1447
01:14:32,560 --> 01:14:35,880
Speaker 2: Was all just context. Now we're getting into the real

1448
01:14:36,240 --> 01:14:39,720
Speaker 2: all context. Oh my god. Exhausting.

1449
01:14:40,080 --> 01:14:41,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm exhausted by this guy.

1450
01:14:42,640 --> 01:14:47,200
Speaker 1: So let's get into the wedding. Adam and Sarah had

1451
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:50,680
Speaker 1: their wedding across the country. We were expecting that. What

1452
01:14:50,680 --> 01:14:52,880
Speaker 1: we weren't expecting was for our mother to not be

1453
01:14:53,080 --> 01:14:56,600
Speaker 1: invited to the ceremony. I was not invited either, but

1454
01:14:56,680 --> 01:15:00,160
Speaker 1: I expected that this broke our mom and I will

1455
01:15:00,160 --> 01:15:02,320
Speaker 1: never be able to forgive him for the emotional abuse

1456
01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 1: he's put on our mom throughout the years. Every negative

1457
01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 1: thing in his life, he traces it back to her.

1458
01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:10,520
Speaker 2: Dude, he needs to grow up and take some responsibility

1459
01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:13,599
Speaker 2: for his actions. He's just like blaming everyone he can

1460
01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:14,400
Speaker 2: for every.

1461
01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:19,080
Speaker 1: Most people I wouldn't consider like the narcissist label gets

1462
01:15:19,080 --> 01:15:24,120
Speaker 1: thrown around a lot. This guy is really bringing it home.

1463
01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:27,240
Speaker 2: So it's like it's like a thing of narcissists to

1464
01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:29,519
Speaker 2: just blame everyone for your problems.

1465
01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:33,040
Speaker 1: Everything is like it bounces right off. It's not me too.

1466
01:15:33,560 --> 01:15:35,400
Speaker 1: It's like any problems that you have, oh it's from

1467
01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:37,840
Speaker 1: these people from doing this has nothing to do with me.

1468
01:15:38,240 --> 01:15:40,800
Speaker 1: They also can't be wrong about anything. Yeah, And it's

1469
01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 1: like and if the thing about like the justice, if

1470
01:15:42,880 --> 01:15:45,519
Speaker 1: they feel like they're slided ooh, the holy digrudge against

1471
01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:46,439
Speaker 1: you literally forever.

1472
01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 3: He's the five dollars.

1473
01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:50,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, hence the I will never forgive you for the

1474
01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 1: five dollars that you weren't so much like it's not

1475
01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:54,200
Speaker 1: even about the five dollars it's the fact that they

1476
01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:56,479
Speaker 1: didn't get punished, that they didn't.

1477
01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:58,800
Speaker 2: They didn't they didn't know any consequence because I know,

1478
01:15:58,880 --> 01:16:01,680
Speaker 2: I know someone who does all of those things, but

1479
01:16:01,720 --> 01:16:03,560
Speaker 2: I don't think of them as a narcissist.

1480
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:04,760
Speaker 3: Who does I don't.

1481
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 2: I'm not going to I'm not gonna I'm not going

1482
01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:08,200
Speaker 2: to dock them.

1483
01:16:09,920 --> 01:16:11,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. It's usually not a thing that

1484
01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:14,120
Speaker 1: you realize about people, at least the the like this

1485
01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:16,080
Speaker 1: only happened to me like really once with one person

1486
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:18,479
Speaker 1: in my life. Yeah that I realized like, oh wow,

1487
01:16:18,520 --> 01:16:21,280
Speaker 1: that's a narcissist. But it was a shocking like that

1488
01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:23,960
Speaker 1: what was the thing that made you realize? It was

1489
01:16:24,000 --> 01:16:26,519
Speaker 1: actually somebody else asking me if I thought that they

1490
01:16:26,560 --> 01:16:29,040
Speaker 1: were a narcissist, Like somebody asked me like, do you

1491
01:16:29,040 --> 01:16:34,040
Speaker 1: think that that person? And I was like no, yeah,

1492
01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:39,120
Speaker 1: oh no, because we just talked through like all the A,

1493
01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:42,360
Speaker 1: B and C of like what narcissistic like personality, like

1494
01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:45,200
Speaker 1: what kind of stuff that they'll do, And it's like,

1495
01:16:45,320 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 1: oh wow, that really they really fit into that box,

1496
01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:50,599
Speaker 1: don't they. But anyway back to this, back to the story,

1497
01:16:50,840 --> 01:16:56,120
Speaker 1: good job guys. So before every negative thing in Adam's life.

1498
01:16:56,160 --> 01:16:59,160
Speaker 1: He traces it back to her, our mom. He doesn't

1499
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:00,720
Speaker 1: blame our dad at all. Well, even though a lot

1500
01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:02,519
Speaker 1: of the things our mom did was a joint decision

1501
01:17:02,520 --> 01:17:05,040
Speaker 1: between the two of them. Dad feels bad because we

1502
01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:08,400
Speaker 1: can only assume Adam blames mom because Dad was gone

1503
01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:10,679
Speaker 1: a lot when we were growing up. Having a full

1504
01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:13,240
Speaker 1: time job and being a full time college attendant will

1505
01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:15,559
Speaker 1: do that. Though our dad would get home at one

1506
01:17:15,600 --> 01:17:18,320
Speaker 1: am and leave at six or seven nearly every day

1507
01:17:18,400 --> 01:17:20,040
Speaker 1: to put food on the table and work towards a

1508
01:17:20,080 --> 01:17:23,120
Speaker 1: better future for all of us. I have nothing but

1509
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:26,400
Speaker 1: respect for my dad, but with his absence, Adam only

1510
01:17:26,400 --> 01:17:30,280
Speaker 1: had our mom to turn his hate towards. Anyway. After

1511
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:32,200
Speaker 1: some back and forth, our mom is allowed to go.

1512
01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:36,200
Speaker 1: Apparently he just forgot her name on the invite. Excuse me,

1513
01:17:36,400 --> 01:17:38,840
Speaker 1: Apparently he just forgot her name on the invite or something.

1514
01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:42,439
Speaker 1: But due to finances in time, they couldn't go. Mom

1515
01:17:42,479 --> 01:17:44,920
Speaker 1: is very claustrophobic and refuses to ride in a plane,

1516
01:17:44,960 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 1: so they would have had the needed so they would

1517
01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:49,880
Speaker 1: have needed to drive the whole way. With Mom's nerve

1518
01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:52,320
Speaker 1: issues and Dad's hip, it would have been three days

1519
01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:54,639
Speaker 1: there and three days back it just was not going

1520
01:17:54,720 --> 01:17:58,880
Speaker 1: to happen. Not to worry, though, my mom still had

1521
01:17:58,920 --> 01:18:01,920
Speaker 1: hope of seeing her first born be married because they

1522
01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:03,639
Speaker 1: were streaming the wedding. It sounds great.

1523
01:18:04,320 --> 01:18:06,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, stream our weddings.

1524
01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:09,639
Speaker 1: We'll all stream our weddings. Yeah, we'll put that packed

1525
01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:10,840
Speaker 1: right now. Wedding stream.

1526
01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:12,160
Speaker 3: Wait, who's wedding?

1527
01:18:12,560 --> 01:18:15,080
Speaker 1: All of ours? All three of us, we're all getting

1528
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:24,000
Speaker 1: married together. Relationship poly a little polycute. Fine, sounds great

1529
01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:27,160
Speaker 1: right until the day arrived and we needed to sign

1530
01:18:27,200 --> 01:18:29,880
Speaker 1: an information that we couldn't find until the last minute

1531
01:18:29,920 --> 01:18:32,640
Speaker 1: because Adam never gave it to us, and when we

1532
01:18:32,640 --> 01:18:35,000
Speaker 1: were able to view it, the stream was broken due

1533
01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:37,599
Speaker 1: to the amount of people watching or some technical glitch.

1534
01:18:38,120 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 1: No one watching the stream saw anything. Personally, I wouldn't

1535
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:43,160
Speaker 1: put it past him to have planned it. So yeah,

1536
01:18:43,160 --> 01:18:44,800
Speaker 1: there's a lot more I could say, but that's about

1537
01:18:44,800 --> 01:18:47,120
Speaker 1: the gist of it. The main point is that you

1538
01:18:47,160 --> 01:18:51,240
Speaker 1: can join us live on YouTube every weekday at three

1539
01:18:51,400 --> 01:18:56,759
Speaker 1: pm PST. Just tap our profile please fection.

1540
01:18:57,000 --> 01:18:59,600
Speaker 3: That was a perfect segue.

1541
01:19:00,400 --> 01:19:00,679
Speaker 1: Cool.

1542
01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:04,120
Speaker 2: I mean, this sounds like someone that you don't need

1543
01:19:04,160 --> 01:19:06,559
Speaker 2: in your life. It sucks that your mom is being

1544
01:19:06,600 --> 01:19:10,280
Speaker 2: caught in the in the crosshairs.

1545
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:13,720
Speaker 1: Though, Yeah, I think you guys can all just lean

1546
01:19:13,760 --> 01:19:17,400
Speaker 1: on each other and cut this like absolute just the

1547
01:19:17,520 --> 01:19:21,519
Speaker 1: malignant growth of a person out of your life like this,

1548
01:19:21,520 --> 01:19:24,200
Speaker 1: this person is no bueno for anyone.

1549
01:19:24,560 --> 01:19:28,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like the mom can't cut their their

1550
01:19:28,280 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 2: child out, like that's that's really hard.

1551
01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:32,400
Speaker 1: You can't, know, I mean you can, but like, I

1552
01:19:32,400 --> 01:19:33,080
Speaker 1: mean you can't.

1553
01:19:34,360 --> 01:19:36,519
Speaker 2: That's that's a really hard thing to do. But in

1554
01:19:36,640 --> 01:19:39,799
Speaker 2: terms of op OP, you don't have to keep uh

1555
01:19:40,360 --> 01:19:40,960
Speaker 2: dealing with this.

1556
01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:41,960
Speaker 1: That's way too much.

1557
01:19:42,680 --> 01:19:43,559
Speaker 2: That's way too much.

1558
01:19:43,640 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 1: But if other people in the family deal with it,

1559
01:19:45,360 --> 01:19:47,920
Speaker 1: then he's gonna have to deal with it too well.

1560
01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:50,479
Speaker 1: You could just needs to be removed from the nucleus.

1561
01:19:50,760 --> 01:19:54,759
Speaker 2: Remember there was a story that we read about uh

1562
01:19:55,160 --> 01:20:01,240
Speaker 2: Op's husband was stolen by their sister, and the op

1563
01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:03,080
Speaker 2: he was like, Hey, like, I don't want to go

1564
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:06,120
Speaker 2: to Thanksgiving anymore. If I'm gonna have to see my

1565
01:20:06,240 --> 01:20:09,480
Speaker 2: sister and my husband together.

1566
01:20:09,320 --> 01:20:12,600
Speaker 1: That's pretty fair. That's pretty fair.

1567
01:20:12,720 --> 01:20:14,640
Speaker 2: And so they just kind of said like like the

1568
01:20:14,760 --> 01:20:16,800
Speaker 2: mother wasn't going to cut the sister off even though

1569
01:20:16,800 --> 01:20:19,840
Speaker 2: she did a terrible thing. But they were like Hey,

1570
01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:23,559
Speaker 2: like we have to have separate gatherings essentially.

1571
01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:26,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, or maybe just don't let the husband come.

1572
01:20:27,280 --> 01:20:28,679
Speaker 2: Well, well, no, I don't think she wants to see

1573
01:20:28,680 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 2: the sister either.

1574
01:20:30,160 --> 01:20:33,280
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, she's probably more mad at maybe mad. Would

1575
01:20:33,320 --> 01:20:35,760
Speaker 1: you be more mad at the husband, your husband or

1576
01:20:35,800 --> 01:20:36,360
Speaker 1: your sister?

1577
01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:38,160
Speaker 2: I think would be more mad at my sister.

1578
01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:43,559
Speaker 1: I guess so any okay, whoever, I'm closer to Well,

1579
01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:44,960
Speaker 1: let's finish this off.

1580
01:20:45,560 --> 01:20:48,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, finished, because we're so close to the end, finish

1581
01:20:48,120 --> 01:20:48,519
Speaker 2: me off.

1582
01:20:48,640 --> 01:20:50,360
Speaker 3: Hannah just sipped us fifty dollars.

1583
01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:56,080
Speaker 1: Stop it, Oh my god, stop, Hannah's working for those

1584
01:20:56,400 --> 01:21:02,200
Speaker 1: extra read We're only five minutes. We look at top.

1585
01:21:02,760 --> 01:21:06,439
Speaker 1: Our mother will never stop loving him, and myself and

1586
01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:09,439
Speaker 1: younger siblings do not understand it. He has used her

1587
01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:11,719
Speaker 1: as a verbal punching bag for years, and he thinks

1588
01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:14,840
Speaker 1: it's justified. Until he apologizes to our mother, I will

1589
01:21:14,840 --> 01:21:17,479
Speaker 1: not be forgiving him or even speak to him. At

1590
01:21:17,479 --> 01:21:19,920
Speaker 1: this point, it feels weird to think that I'm one

1591
01:21:19,920 --> 01:21:22,840
Speaker 1: of four siblings and not one of three. It's also

1592
01:21:22,880 --> 01:21:24,479
Speaker 1: weird to think that I've had a sister in law

1593
01:21:24,479 --> 01:21:26,880
Speaker 1: for the last few years. I know they exist, but

1594
01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:29,800
Speaker 1: they feel dead to me. She doesn't deserve how she's

1595
01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:32,400
Speaker 1: been treated by him, and I hope he realizes that someday,

1596
01:21:32,479 --> 01:21:36,439
Speaker 1: for our mother's sake. I don't think he ever will, though, Adam,

1597
01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:39,280
Speaker 1: if you're reading this, you do not deserve our mother.

1598
01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:43,639
Speaker 1: I hope that you get the therapy you desperately need

1599
01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:46,559
Speaker 1: and decide to reconcile one day before all you have

1600
01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:51,040
Speaker 1: is a headstone to say I'm sorry too. That's facts.

1601
01:21:51,120 --> 01:21:53,160
Speaker 1: That's what I tell people on stream when it's like

1602
01:21:53,200 --> 01:21:55,760
Speaker 1: they want to go like no contact with parents. It's like, man,

1603
01:21:56,080 --> 01:22:01,440
Speaker 1: it's I get low. Almost never do I condone the no? Oh? Yeah,

1604
01:22:01,600 --> 01:22:03,920
Speaker 1: sometimes yes, sometimes yes for the no.

1605
01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:06,559
Speaker 2: I mean the dad. The dad in the last one

1606
01:22:06,640 --> 01:22:07,759
Speaker 2: kind of deserved the block.

1607
01:22:08,680 --> 01:22:10,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like that's a good one. It's like they already

1608
01:22:10,680 --> 01:22:11,040
Speaker 1: had like.

1609
01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:12,879
Speaker 2: So many chances.

1610
01:22:12,960 --> 01:22:14,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like the first thing that happens when

1611
01:22:14,640 --> 01:22:16,439
Speaker 1: you go back is they stink for me? So anyway,

1612
01:22:16,920 --> 01:22:20,160
Speaker 1: am I the ass am I the A hole? Am

1613
01:22:20,200 --> 01:22:21,479
Speaker 1: I am I the a hole?

1614
01:22:21,800 --> 01:22:22,439
Speaker 3: Excuse me?

1615
01:22:22,520 --> 01:22:24,800
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for not wanting to reconcile

1616
01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:29,400
Speaker 1: with him. No, no, You're not terrible. It's this guy

1617
01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:33,160
Speaker 1: is one of the literally having every doodoo boys I've

1618
01:22:33,200 --> 01:22:33,639
Speaker 1: ever heard.

1619
01:22:33,800 --> 01:22:36,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, like literally every quality of a narcissist is there,

1620
01:22:36,640 --> 01:22:39,519
Speaker 2: and he's exhibiting all of them to the fullest degree.

1621
01:22:41,160 --> 01:22:44,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but we got some donos, toxic narcissist.

1622
01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:45,600
Speaker 2: We got some dons.

1623
01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:50,479
Speaker 1: Now they're only one hundred dollars away.

1624
01:22:50,320 --> 01:22:54,120
Speaker 2: With them, They're not gonna hit it. Henna. Thanks for

1625
01:22:54,160 --> 01:22:58,000
Speaker 2: the fifty bucks. Gotta keep you going if possible. You

1626
01:22:58,040 --> 01:23:00,320
Speaker 2: are funny and lift my spirits.

1627
01:23:00,439 --> 01:23:04,000
Speaker 1: Oh sap Hannah, We're glad to We're goank you ugly

1628
01:23:04,040 --> 01:23:04,360
Speaker 1: old bat.

1629
01:23:04,400 --> 01:23:11,120
Speaker 2: Thanks for the five bucks to thirty minutes. God no, Elizabeth.

1630
01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:14,560
Speaker 1: R comes Bucks here comes.

1631
01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:18,360
Speaker 2: If we get another thirty minutes, I'm telling my waterhorse story.

1632
01:23:18,640 --> 01:23:20,920
Speaker 1: You get to I think you get get too. It

1633
01:23:21,000 --> 01:23:21,679
Speaker 1: is seven thirty.

1634
01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:25,000
Speaker 2: Do we get more our Thanks for the twenty five bucks.

1635
01:23:25,040 --> 01:23:28,320
Speaker 2: Do we have some stuff on the other donal link? Oh,

1636
01:23:28,400 --> 01:23:32,160
Speaker 2: we definitely do, okay, Heidi Vincent. Thanks for the five

1637
01:23:32,520 --> 01:23:36,800
Speaker 2: Okay Storytime memberships, making the give me the Little Beggar,

1638
01:23:37,000 --> 01:23:42,240
Speaker 2: Harriet Spaghetti one okay Storytime membership Dwindles. Thanks for the

1639
01:23:42,640 --> 01:23:48,919
Speaker 2: five Okay Storytime memberships. Harriet Spaghetti, you remember for one month, Sam,

1640
01:23:49,320 --> 01:23:51,800
Speaker 2: what is the number one sibling beef you will never

1641
01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:57,559
Speaker 2: let go of until you're dying breath. Yeah, what's your beef, dude,

1642
01:23:57,600 --> 01:23:59,759
Speaker 2: The one sibling bank that will never let in Sophia.

1643
01:23:59,800 --> 01:24:01,559
Speaker 2: If you as Sofia, she would probably say the same

1644
01:24:01,640 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 2: thing is. So I made a dry ice bomb with

1645
01:24:06,400 --> 01:24:10,240
Speaker 2: like a bottle and threw it into the street. And

1646
01:24:10,560 --> 01:24:12,920
Speaker 2: she came out and was like, oh, like, what's what's

1647
01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:15,120
Speaker 2: going on? And I'm like, oh, I made a dry

1648
01:24:15,160 --> 01:24:17,479
Speaker 2: ice bomb and it's like not going off, and she's like,

1649
01:24:17,520 --> 01:24:19,040
Speaker 2: it's not going it's not going off. I gotta go

1650
01:24:19,080 --> 01:24:22,040
Speaker 2: shake it right, And then she goes picks it up

1651
01:24:22,400 --> 01:24:22,760
Speaker 2: and it.

1652
01:24:23,840 --> 01:24:25,759
Speaker 3: Dang it, water horse time.

1653
01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:32,200
Speaker 2: I get to save my water horse story. I deserve it. God,

1654
01:24:32,520 --> 01:24:38,400
Speaker 2: thirty more minutes. Gosh dang. But and Sofia goes up,

1655
01:24:38,439 --> 01:24:41,720
Speaker 2: picks up the water bottle and it goes in her

1656
01:24:41,760 --> 01:24:47,160
Speaker 2: hand and her ears just like and she screams. And

1657
01:24:47,200 --> 01:24:50,240
Speaker 2: then she goes and tells mom and dad that she

1658
01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:55,040
Speaker 2: was saving a car from the dry ice bomb. Oh,

1659
01:24:55,080 --> 01:24:58,680
Speaker 2: she added the which is the and to her, she

1660
01:24:59,400 --> 01:25:02,519
Speaker 2: will say this today if you ask her, she was like, no, no, no,

1661
01:25:02,920 --> 01:25:05,519
Speaker 2: the dry ice bomb was gonna go off. I was

1662
01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:08,720
Speaker 2: picking up to save the car. It was literally in

1663
01:25:08,840 --> 01:25:11,320
Speaker 2: the gutter area, was no nowhere near a car?

1664
01:25:12,840 --> 01:25:15,360
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you were trying to you were

1665
01:25:15,400 --> 01:25:17,240
Speaker 1: trying to nuke somebody.

1666
01:25:17,240 --> 01:25:18,519
Speaker 2: Who damn?

1667
01:25:19,800 --> 01:25:25,639
Speaker 1: Oh god, guys, now one hundred away from another hour.

1668
01:25:26,160 --> 01:25:29,560
Speaker 3: It's fifty more minutes. Oh okay, but it's going to

1669
01:25:29,640 --> 01:25:30,000
Speaker 3: get there.

1670
01:25:30,640 --> 01:25:38,040
Speaker 1: Oh my day.

1671
01:25:40,760 --> 01:25:43,160
Speaker 3: They also like, I guess, I guess chat really likes

1672
01:25:43,160 --> 01:25:46,160
Speaker 3: it when I'm serious. I'm serious, because I'm usually the

1673
01:25:46,160 --> 01:25:52,880
Speaker 3: one who's like, we're all serious and here Yeah, sure, okay, pack, are.

1674
01:25:52,800 --> 01:25:54,160
Speaker 2: You guys hungry? Do you guys want to get like

1675
01:25:54,240 --> 01:25:54,960
Speaker 2: pizza or something?

1676
01:25:55,160 --> 01:25:55,679
Speaker 3: I'm starting.

1677
01:25:55,680 --> 01:25:56,920
Speaker 1: I could eat something, for sure.

1678
01:25:57,120 --> 01:25:58,479
Speaker 3: I could go for another water.

1679
01:25:58,560 --> 01:26:00,479
Speaker 1: Of course, yeah, I could go for more water.

1680
01:26:00,880 --> 01:26:03,080
Speaker 3: Water right here? Wait, wait, okay, hold on, read the

1681
01:26:03,160 --> 01:26:03,960
Speaker 3: dodos and then.

1682
01:26:03,840 --> 01:26:12,080
Speaker 2: Okay, grandma's got a potty mouth. Thank you, I guess.

1683
01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:16,719
Speaker 3: Say thank you, thank you wild look at this man, I'm.

1684
01:26:16,560 --> 01:26:22,120
Speaker 2: Trapped twenty okay, storytime memberships. No, seriously, thank you for

1685
01:26:22,280 --> 01:26:25,920
Speaker 2: growing the family. We love our little yourself.

1686
01:26:26,040 --> 01:26:28,439
Speaker 3: No, sound happy, Sam, I am happy.

1687
01:26:28,840 --> 01:26:32,120
Speaker 1: You're not that sounded angry?

1688
01:26:31,720 --> 01:26:37,599
Speaker 2: Very I I'm grow Thanks for the five bucks. Don't

1689
01:26:37,680 --> 01:26:43,920
Speaker 2: underestimate the little Sillies. Yep, every time I do, I

1690
01:26:43,920 --> 01:26:47,920
Speaker 2: get screwed. Christin Foyle Hot, thank you for the ten

1691
01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:51,599
Speaker 2: gifted memberships, making the making it a little bit bigger.

1692
01:26:51,640 --> 01:26:53,360
Speaker 2: To Family Amber Loggins.

1693
01:26:53,680 --> 01:26:56,880
Speaker 1: Thanks for the five bucks. What Waterhorse?

1694
01:26:57,520 --> 01:27:00,519
Speaker 2: I think I read all of Okay, I'm gonna tell

1695
01:27:00,520 --> 01:27:01,639
Speaker 2: my waterhorse story.

1696
01:27:01,920 --> 01:27:03,800
Speaker 3: So we didn't we didn't read mouse I think we

1697
01:27:03,840 --> 01:27:05,559
Speaker 3: did know Mousey.

1698
01:27:05,680 --> 01:27:09,000
Speaker 2: Thanks for the two bucks. Focus, Yes, bastic ferrets.

1699
01:27:09,240 --> 01:27:11,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, we're getting more.

1700
01:27:11,640 --> 01:27:14,479
Speaker 2: Sorry, and there's more. Matt Hatter gotanks for the five bucks.

1701
01:27:14,560 --> 01:27:17,160
Speaker 2: So note to self when invite okay story time to

1702
01:27:17,240 --> 01:27:19,320
Speaker 2: my wedding, I have a pack of twenty four water

1703
01:27:19,400 --> 01:27:19,760
Speaker 2: for them.

1704
01:27:20,080 --> 01:27:22,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, darn to pack of water please.

1705
01:27:22,880 --> 01:27:26,880
Speaker 2: Darn Peton and then Daniel paper Crane remember for six months,

1706
01:27:26,880 --> 01:27:30,080
Speaker 2: I love you guys so much, A little Silly's forever.

1707
01:27:31,880 --> 01:27:34,559
Speaker 2: And then we got some on the Dono link Ye

1708
01:27:35,080 --> 01:27:38,479
Speaker 2: Brittany Ice, you Lin says, stop underestimating the power of

1709
01:27:38,560 --> 01:27:41,960
Speaker 2: the little Sillies. Thanks for the five bucks, Shanna, thanks

1710
01:27:41,960 --> 01:27:44,679
Speaker 2: for the five bucks. Sam your smiling eyes tonight say.

1711
01:27:44,720 --> 01:27:46,679
Speaker 3: Y e, s oh, we got.

1712
01:27:49,520 --> 01:27:50,280
Speaker 2: I don't.

1713
01:27:52,320 --> 01:27:54,599
Speaker 1: We're gonna get we got fifteen more minutes. We're gonna

1714
01:27:54,600 --> 01:27:55,920
Speaker 1: have to spend it all reading chat.

1715
01:27:56,400 --> 01:27:58,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, you gots are going wild. You guys are

1716
01:27:58,680 --> 01:27:59,519
Speaker 2: going wild.

1717
01:28:00,520 --> 01:28:01,320
Speaker 3: Fifteen more minutes.

1718
01:28:01,400 --> 01:28:02,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1719
01:28:02,320 --> 01:28:02,559
Speaker 3: Yeay.

1720
01:28:04,040 --> 01:28:12,280
Speaker 2: Lucy Ford ninety one, thanks for the five guys. Chill, Chill, Chill, chill,

1721
01:28:13,640 --> 01:28:14,840
Speaker 2: water Horse.

1722
01:28:15,160 --> 01:28:25,280
Speaker 3: Water Oh, give you a wink, Josephine, Una.

1723
01:28:21,479 --> 01:28:28,200
Speaker 2: Stop it, stop it. You're encouraging though, you're encouraging. Okay,

1724
01:28:28,200 --> 01:28:30,680
Speaker 2: all right, I'm saying my Waterhorse story and then I'll

1725
01:28:30,680 --> 01:28:31,920
Speaker 2: read the rest of the doughnuts.

1726
01:28:32,120 --> 01:28:32,599
Speaker 1: Okay.

1727
01:28:32,800 --> 01:28:36,040
Speaker 2: So Sophia and I are watching Waterhorse yesterday.

1728
01:28:36,160 --> 01:28:41,400
Speaker 1: Say the full title water Horse something something something. It

1729
01:28:41,479 --> 01:28:46,840
Speaker 1: is the water Horse Birth of a Nation something. It's

1730
01:28:46,880 --> 01:28:47,920
Speaker 1: a crazy thing.

1731
01:28:51,000 --> 01:28:54,400
Speaker 2: So means via watching water Horse yesterday, and there's this kid.

1732
01:28:54,439 --> 01:28:56,840
Speaker 2: You're like, oh, like, like who's the main character? Like

1733
01:28:57,000 --> 01:28:59,720
Speaker 2: is this kid in anything? And we look at his

1734
01:29:00,160 --> 01:29:03,720
Speaker 2: IMDb and like it's like the last movie he was

1735
01:29:03,720 --> 01:29:06,640
Speaker 2: in and we're like, what's this kid up to? And

1736
01:29:06,680 --> 01:29:09,519
Speaker 2: so we pause it and he's like like, I won't

1737
01:29:09,560 --> 01:29:12,840
Speaker 2: say his name, but it's the main character. His name

1738
01:29:13,280 --> 01:29:16,920
Speaker 2: we've already said the movie, Like his name is.

1739
01:29:16,960 --> 01:29:19,040
Speaker 1: If you guys find this guy We are not telling

1740
01:29:19,080 --> 01:29:20,720
Speaker 1: you his name, but if we if you find this

1741
01:29:20,800 --> 01:29:26,880
Speaker 1: guy only positive harassment, yeah, only asking when Waterhorse two

1742
01:29:26,920 --> 01:29:27,479
Speaker 1: is coming out?

1743
01:29:27,560 --> 01:29:27,880
Speaker 3: You guys.

1744
01:29:29,479 --> 01:29:37,719
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait so so.

1745
01:29:35,000 --> 01:29:39,160
Speaker 2: So we're trying to find out. We go on Instagram.

1746
01:29:39,200 --> 01:29:42,880
Speaker 2: We find him and like he has an active open

1747
01:29:42,960 --> 01:29:47,839
Speaker 2: Instagram tap he just got married. We tap the marriage

1748
01:29:48,200 --> 01:29:52,240
Speaker 2: Instagram post and go to the comments and like three

1749
01:29:52,320 --> 01:29:56,800
Speaker 2: hundred comments saying waterhorse Is that the water horse kid?

1750
01:29:58,120 --> 01:30:03,840
Speaker 2: What's Waterhorse two coming up? And so I comment, dude,

1751
01:30:03,960 --> 01:30:09,599
Speaker 2: water horse points And then I go to his tag

1752
01:30:09,720 --> 01:30:12,800
Speaker 2: photos and he has a super active friend group. His

1753
01:30:12,840 --> 01:30:16,400
Speaker 2: whole friend group just went to Spain. And so I

1754
01:30:16,520 --> 01:30:20,080
Speaker 2: go to a picture posted like two weeks ago with

1755
01:30:20,200 --> 01:30:22,439
Speaker 2: him and a bunch of friends just maga in Spain,

1756
01:30:22,920 --> 01:30:27,519
Speaker 2: and I said, and They're like, buy a beach or

1757
01:30:27,560 --> 01:30:31,240
Speaker 2: a pool. And I'm like, that's waterhorse kids. That loves

1758
01:30:31,280 --> 01:30:31,960
Speaker 2: the water.

1759
01:30:35,400 --> 01:30:38,960
Speaker 1: That's Waterhorse for you as a water horse kid, for you,

1760
01:30:39,080 --> 01:30:42,599
Speaker 1: he loves the water. And then I see you're still

1761
01:30:42,640 --> 01:30:44,000
Speaker 1: doing your thing, water Horse.

1762
01:30:46,040 --> 01:30:50,560
Speaker 2: And then he has a kid, he said a baby.

1763
01:30:50,520 --> 01:30:51,960
Speaker 1: Yes, he does have a child.

1764
01:30:52,160 --> 01:30:56,519
Speaker 2: So it's like to take care of the waters, prepare

1765
01:30:56,640 --> 01:31:00,840
Speaker 2: you for taking your hair of a human child. And yeah,

1766
01:31:00,840 --> 01:31:03,720
Speaker 2: I just hope waterhorse kid is okay. He's like a

1767
01:31:03,800 --> 01:31:07,280
Speaker 2: DJ now here. He seems like he's thriving.

1768
01:31:07,360 --> 01:31:09,880
Speaker 1: Water Horse too, is right on the horizon.

1769
01:31:10,040 --> 01:31:11,840
Speaker 2: I need, I need water Horse.

1770
01:31:11,960 --> 01:31:14,080
Speaker 1: They just need to bang out the script. They gotta

1771
01:31:14,120 --> 01:31:14,519
Speaker 1: get this.

1772
01:31:14,880 --> 01:31:17,760
Speaker 3: Right story, Sam great water horse, water horse?

1773
01:31:17,760 --> 01:31:19,040
Speaker 1: Where's my water horse?

1774
01:31:19,520 --> 01:31:22,000
Speaker 2: But Sophia and I were just dying.

1775
01:31:22,040 --> 01:31:24,400
Speaker 3: All right, back to the donations, donations because we love

1776
01:31:24,400 --> 01:31:24,680
Speaker 3: you guys.

1777
01:31:24,720 --> 01:31:27,559
Speaker 1: All right, I'm back to the donations bomb. Thanks for

1778
01:31:27,600 --> 01:31:28,919
Speaker 1: the five dollars.

1779
01:31:29,120 --> 01:31:30,800
Speaker 3: Let me go and refresh. I feel like it's been

1780
01:31:30,880 --> 01:31:31,360
Speaker 3: okay good.

1781
01:31:31,920 --> 01:31:33,599
Speaker 1: We want something shot that we read.

1782
01:31:33,800 --> 01:31:37,439
Speaker 2: Lucy Ford, anyone who read I wrote on Tuesday about

1783
01:31:37,439 --> 01:31:41,080
Speaker 2: waiting for results from my blood work is working?

1784
01:31:41,320 --> 01:31:46,800
Speaker 1: Yeah what I say? What I say, Lucy, let's hearts

1785
01:31:46,840 --> 01:31:51,160
Speaker 1: in the chat. For so many hearts in the chat.

1786
01:31:51,520 --> 01:31:55,960
Speaker 2: I want the chat and the blooded with Yeah, I

1787
01:31:56,000 --> 01:31:57,760
Speaker 2: want to swimming in it.

1788
01:31:58,160 --> 01:32:04,639
Speaker 1: Want horror, No, I want the chat filled with equal

1789
01:32:04,840 --> 01:32:06,840
Speaker 1: proportions of hearts and water horse.

1790
01:32:08,240 --> 01:32:11,799
Speaker 3: Actually, just like a water emoji and a horse emoji

1791
01:32:12,680 --> 01:32:13,960
Speaker 3: and then hearts.

1792
01:32:14,360 --> 01:32:19,040
Speaker 2: Hearts water horse. Yeah, please.

1793
01:32:22,200 --> 01:32:23,360
Speaker 3: Just read the dogs.

1794
01:32:23,640 --> 01:32:24,120
Speaker 1: Clay Is.

1795
01:32:24,160 --> 01:32:27,519
Speaker 2: Thanks for the five bucks to read be entertained while

1796
01:32:27,560 --> 01:32:30,920
Speaker 2: at work cleaning. Thank you, Anonymous. Thanks for the twenty

1797
01:32:30,960 --> 01:32:33,519
Speaker 2: five bucks. Mama Ellie, thanks for the twenty five bucks.

1798
01:32:33,600 --> 01:32:37,599
Speaker 2: Keep it going, Chay, thanks for the fifty bucks. Wow,

1799
01:32:37,960 --> 01:32:43,240
Speaker 2: love you guys, Chay Hannah fifty bucks. You know you

1800
01:32:43,439 --> 01:32:47,639
Speaker 2: started this, started this freaking rally. Jane, you and Chris

1801
01:32:47,680 --> 01:32:50,960
Speaker 2: tinfoil hat. Gotta keep you going if possible. You are

1802
01:32:51,000 --> 01:32:54,799
Speaker 2: funny and lift up my spirits. I'll about we read, Lindsay,

1803
01:32:54,840 --> 01:32:57,760
Speaker 2: thanks for the one New Zealand dollar. Matt haattack Ally

1804
01:32:57,840 --> 01:33:00,240
Speaker 2: for the ten bucks, and that reminds me to coding on.

1805
01:33:00,360 --> 01:33:02,439
Speaker 2: You better have a dance with the bride or I

1806
01:33:02,479 --> 01:33:03,439
Speaker 2: will never forgive you.

1807
01:33:03,920 --> 01:33:05,040
Speaker 1: It's all right, we'll do that.

1808
01:33:05,360 --> 01:33:05,800
Speaker 2: I love.

1809
01:33:10,320 --> 01:33:24,600
Speaker 1: Let's get water water, all right, all right, love the

1810
01:33:24,680 --> 01:33:26,479
Speaker 1: way you say. It's gonna still be hard to find

1811
01:33:26,479 --> 01:33:28,320
Speaker 1: it because his last name spelled so weird.

1812
01:33:28,400 --> 01:33:33,439
Speaker 2: It's so weird, just like alright, Judge to be with

1813
01:33:33,479 --> 01:33:36,400
Speaker 2: Dola Burks. Thanks for the twenty seven sweet the scroll

1814
01:33:36,439 --> 01:33:41,519
Speaker 2: on the GTG to bed Gotta go to bed four

1815
01:33:41,720 --> 01:33:45,559
Speaker 2: thirty am Keon, give me a wink and a smile please,

1816
01:33:45,600 --> 01:33:47,679
Speaker 2: I think already gave it to you. M J Grow

1817
01:33:47,680 --> 01:33:50,200
Speaker 2: Thanks to the ten bucks. Keon a serious wink for

1818
01:33:50,240 --> 01:33:52,920
Speaker 2: the little sillies. Please, I just did it, Brittany I

1819
01:33:53,000 --> 01:33:53,280
Speaker 2: s u.

1820
01:33:53,320 --> 01:33:54,559
Speaker 1: Land thanks for the five bucks.

1821
01:33:54,640 --> 01:33:59,559
Speaker 2: Stop underestimating the power up shot, Sam, I love you all.

1822
01:34:00,760 --> 01:34:04,479
Speaker 2: Crane again member for six months, Love you guys so much.

1823
01:34:04,520 --> 01:34:07,440
Speaker 2: Little silly fever.

1824
01:34:08,320 --> 01:34:09,840
Speaker 3: I think I think I think we're caught up.

1825
01:34:09,920 --> 01:34:16,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we did. The phone is not dead?

1826
01:34:17,160 --> 01:34:17,559
Speaker 1: All right?

1827
01:34:18,080 --> 01:34:21,160
Speaker 2: Can someone please explain in discord about what the water

1828
01:34:21,240 --> 01:34:28,960
Speaker 2: Horse about Alex? I think it's Alex Eatle.

1829
01:34:30,320 --> 01:34:32,400
Speaker 3: We did the water horse story. We don't need the

1830
01:34:32,400 --> 01:34:33,320
Speaker 3: water horsory all right?

1831
01:34:33,360 --> 01:34:38,600
Speaker 1: Fine, all right, I'm reading, y'all better only give this manas.

1832
01:34:38,360 --> 01:34:41,320
Speaker 3: Riley said, lm A oh, y'all should check discord what

1833
01:34:41,479 --> 01:34:47,160
Speaker 3: I said? Riley said, just checked us on? Riley?

1834
01:34:47,200 --> 01:34:51,759
Speaker 2: Can you show? Can you tell you know it's t okay?

1835
01:34:51,760 --> 01:34:56,640
Speaker 1: Don't talk about that. I'm sorry. Nobody talked to anybody about.

1836
01:34:57,280 --> 01:35:01,720
Speaker 2: Where should we check in discord? It is it in

1837
01:35:01,800 --> 01:35:05,120
Speaker 2: stream memes? I'm looking at stream memes right now.

1838
01:35:07,120 --> 01:35:07,639
Speaker 1: Story three?

1839
01:35:07,800 --> 01:35:09,439
Speaker 2: Right, we're on story three?

1840
01:35:09,560 --> 01:35:12,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I want to read the stories.

1841
01:35:12,240 --> 01:35:16,080
Speaker 2: Sam and Dakota before Keon shut down water horse versus after.

1842
01:35:17,040 --> 01:35:20,120
Speaker 1: What do you mean? Here we go? We're locked in.

1843
01:35:20,160 --> 01:35:21,080
Speaker 2: We're locked in.

1844
01:35:21,600 --> 01:35:27,080
Speaker 3: Who's reading? Okay? Ready yet? Oh?

1845
01:35:31,120 --> 01:35:36,760
Speaker 2: Now yea, you're not ready? Come on, come on, I.

1846
01:35:36,800 --> 01:35:40,320
Speaker 1: Need another water water? Yeah? Wait, we need more water.

1847
01:35:41,000 --> 01:35:44,839
Speaker 3: Water stream, go fetch Dakota.

1848
01:35:44,840 --> 01:35:49,559
Speaker 2: All right, I'm looking. I'm looking at memes. Yeah, I

1849
01:35:49,600 --> 01:35:51,920
Speaker 2: love that lobster lady, shout out you what do you want?

1850
01:35:52,040 --> 01:35:52,080
Speaker 4: So?

1851
01:35:52,240 --> 01:35:55,679
Speaker 2: If you haven't, if you haven't joined our discord, discord

1852
01:35:55,720 --> 01:36:00,400
Speaker 2: dot gg slash, okay, story time. All right, come on,

1853
01:36:00,640 --> 01:36:05,000
Speaker 2: we're getting more water for what we're getting water for horses?

1854
01:36:05,360 --> 01:36:06,479
Speaker 1: Do you wait? We need ice pack?

1855
01:36:07,080 --> 01:36:09,280
Speaker 3: No, we're getting more, We're getting water.

1856
01:36:10,560 --> 01:36:11,960
Speaker 2: You start reading?

1857
01:36:12,120 --> 01:36:12,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just read?

1858
01:36:12,960 --> 01:36:13,360
Speaker 1: All right?

1859
01:36:13,479 --> 01:36:14,679
Speaker 2: You ready? Ready?

1860
01:36:14,760 --> 01:36:15,040
Speaker 1: Y'all?

1861
01:36:15,640 --> 01:36:16,720
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1862
01:36:16,800 --> 01:36:17,719
Speaker 2: My step mother?

1863
01:36:23,960 --> 01:36:25,920
Speaker 1: All right? Are we ready? Well? Are we ready?

1864
01:36:26,160 --> 01:36:26,839
Speaker 3: Water horse?

1865
01:36:27,080 --> 01:36:27,280
Speaker 1: Wait?

1866
01:36:27,320 --> 01:36:30,040
Speaker 2: They said it was in general chat. All right, let

1867
01:36:30,040 --> 01:36:31,960
Speaker 2: me let me. Let me just look at the general chat.

1868
01:36:32,920 --> 01:36:36,519
Speaker 2: I'm checking. I'm checking because Riley told me to Dakota.

1869
01:36:36,560 --> 01:36:39,719
Speaker 3: How what do you think about.

1870
01:36:38,680 --> 01:36:43,920
Speaker 2: Mm hmm bractically yes. Wait, what I'm looking at it? Well,

1871
01:36:43,960 --> 01:36:46,360
Speaker 2: it's sticking with the permit. What am I looking at?

1872
01:36:46,400 --> 01:36:47,320
Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm looking at.

1873
01:36:47,400 --> 01:36:47,760
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1874
01:36:47,880 --> 01:36:49,599
Speaker 2: Just read. Okay, I don't know what I'm looking.

1875
01:36:49,600 --> 01:36:50,040
Speaker 3: I'll look at it.

1876
01:36:51,120 --> 01:36:51,519
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1877
01:36:53,000 --> 01:36:55,320
Speaker 2: Wait wait wait wait wait, wait, what the heck? Everyone

1878
01:36:55,400 --> 01:36:57,040
Speaker 2: is that Korean barbecue without us?

1879
01:36:57,080 --> 01:36:57,960
Speaker 1: Wait? What the hell?

1880
01:36:58,240 --> 01:36:58,479
Speaker 5: What?

1881
01:36:58,560 --> 01:37:01,120
Speaker 2: Step look at that? They are?

1882
01:37:01,720 --> 01:37:02,080
Speaker 1: They all?

1883
01:37:02,120 --> 01:37:08,439
Speaker 2: What the Korean barbecue? They? That's Sophia, John Angie and Riley?

1884
01:37:08,640 --> 01:37:12,519
Speaker 3: Is that Tritian? There is Christian there Christian Christians got

1885
01:37:12,880 --> 01:37:14,040
Speaker 3: ditch twice for creed.

1886
01:37:14,439 --> 01:37:16,000
Speaker 2: Dude, that is wow?

1887
01:37:16,120 --> 01:37:19,920
Speaker 3: Wait that's so many wow wow.

1888
01:37:20,120 --> 01:37:22,960
Speaker 2: Riley, Wow, Riley, we didn't even get the invite. You

1889
01:37:23,000 --> 01:37:24,599
Speaker 2: didn't even order us food.

1890
01:37:24,920 --> 01:37:26,879
Speaker 1: Me personally, I'm I'm happy.

1891
01:37:27,720 --> 01:37:29,320
Speaker 3: Look at that patting to bear read the story.

1892
01:37:29,439 --> 01:37:30,840
Speaker 1: I'm happy to be here with everyone.

1893
01:37:31,240 --> 01:37:36,400
Speaker 2: We're doing the story. My stepmother is extremely.

1894
01:37:38,000 --> 01:37:38,720
Speaker 1: Nothing on the thing.

1895
01:37:39,000 --> 01:37:39,760
Speaker 2: What the heck is it?

1896
01:37:39,840 --> 01:37:40,479
Speaker 3: Let's view.

1897
01:37:42,560 --> 01:37:43,840
Speaker 1: Nothing because we were too we.

1898
01:37:43,760 --> 01:37:44,560
Speaker 3: Were a little.

1899
01:37:45,960 --> 01:37:46,280
Speaker 1: Nothing.

1900
01:37:47,520 --> 01:37:49,600
Speaker 2: Let's view Uh.

1901
01:37:49,240 --> 01:37:54,240
Speaker 3: They did Riley, Riley, Riley, just normal share my scream.

1902
01:37:54,400 --> 01:37:56,200
Speaker 1: They left us because we're dedicated to you.

1903
01:37:56,360 --> 01:38:00,439
Speaker 2: Start recording or casting with let's share starting.

1904
01:38:01,680 --> 01:38:03,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I got it, Okay, okay, dude.

1905
01:38:03,360 --> 01:38:05,799
Speaker 1: Winter ninety six girl says, this is the funniest stream

1906
01:38:05,840 --> 01:38:07,120
Speaker 1: you guys might want to take notes.

1907
01:38:07,240 --> 01:38:10,479
Speaker 2: All right, here we go. I'm sha share my screen. Yes,

1908
01:38:12,000 --> 01:38:15,080
Speaker 2: start recording or casting with that to you start now, okay,

1909
01:38:16,000 --> 01:38:22,800
Speaker 2: and then I go, I go to this one and

1910
01:38:22,840 --> 01:38:26,280
Speaker 2: then let me see i's it's work.

1911
01:38:26,800 --> 01:38:28,240
Speaker 1: It's work. It's work.

1912
01:38:29,560 --> 01:38:30,720
Speaker 3: You have to put its now.

1913
01:38:31,320 --> 01:38:36,400
Speaker 6: Uh uh how do I how do I make it

1914
01:38:36,479 --> 01:38:41,000
Speaker 6: so it's it's ah? The phone, the phone does not

1915
01:38:41,080 --> 01:38:42,480
Speaker 6: want to change orientation.

1916
01:38:43,520 --> 01:38:44,519
Speaker 1: Oh, I know how to do that.

1917
01:38:44,680 --> 01:38:47,080
Speaker 2: Now, show me, show me how to do show me

1918
01:38:47,080 --> 01:38:50,880
Speaker 2: how to google. Yeah, Susan Sas says, so not cool.

1919
01:38:51,240 --> 01:38:54,840
Speaker 2: To the rest of the gang, we're yeah, here we

1920
01:38:54,880 --> 01:38:55,759
Speaker 2: are a little hovel.

1921
01:38:55,880 --> 01:39:02,519
Speaker 1: Hey, it's okay, what Sam, watch that mouth talking about

1922
01:39:02,520 --> 01:39:03,600
Speaker 1: the babies.

1923
01:39:03,520 --> 01:39:04,519
Speaker 2: Hopping about the hovel.

1924
01:39:05,520 --> 01:39:08,320
Speaker 1: This is no hovel. This is a golden palace of

1925
01:39:08,360 --> 01:39:10,080
Speaker 1: good times. It is true.

1926
01:39:10,160 --> 01:39:13,880
Speaker 3: Let me just make sure it's good. Yeah, we got it.

1927
01:39:13,920 --> 01:39:17,719
Speaker 3: I'm so good at my job. Now, guys, look.

1928
01:39:17,680 --> 01:39:21,080
Speaker 1: Look, look with your eyes, with your special eye.

1929
01:39:23,840 --> 01:39:26,240
Speaker 3: I said, he's getting water for our horses.

1930
01:39:26,760 --> 01:39:27,599
Speaker 1: Special eyes.

1931
01:39:27,760 --> 01:39:28,679
Speaker 3: Where are the horses?

1932
01:39:29,960 --> 01:39:38,240
Speaker 2: Should be cheers too for water water horse etle.

1933
01:39:38,160 --> 01:39:39,240
Speaker 3: And water clever.

1934
01:39:39,439 --> 01:39:40,240
Speaker 1: Make sure you cover it and.

1935
01:39:40,920 --> 01:39:45,880
Speaker 2: Water cover it, covering it all right?

1936
01:39:46,320 --> 01:39:48,040
Speaker 1: Now read here we go.

1937
01:39:48,920 --> 01:39:53,400
Speaker 2: My stepmother is extremely controlling. Now she's refusing to let

1938
01:39:53,439 --> 01:39:54,479
Speaker 2: me drive by car.

1939
01:39:54,840 --> 01:40:00,559
Speaker 1: Room room skirts. You can't to drive your car.

1940
01:40:01,280 --> 01:40:05,720
Speaker 2: Sixteen female and my twin brother sixteen male, obviously have

1941
01:40:05,880 --> 01:40:09,360
Speaker 2: always been pretty close as siblings. Our dad forty one male,

1942
01:40:09,520 --> 01:40:12,439
Speaker 2: has always been a bit of a nomad, a cheating

1943
01:40:12,640 --> 01:40:16,000
Speaker 2: piece of crap, And although we have two older sisters

1944
01:40:16,000 --> 01:40:18,600
Speaker 2: and a couple of older step siblings, my twin is

1945
01:40:18,640 --> 01:40:20,880
Speaker 2: the only thing I've ever been able to count on

1946
01:40:21,280 --> 01:40:25,000
Speaker 2: to be in my life. He is the only thing

1947
01:40:25,560 --> 01:40:29,680
Speaker 2: or person that I've ever been separated from. I mean,

1948
01:40:29,720 --> 01:40:31,360
Speaker 2: you've ever been separated from anything else?

1949
01:40:31,560 --> 01:40:34,240
Speaker 1: Like, literally, my whole life fourteen years.

1950
01:40:34,000 --> 01:40:46,839
Speaker 2: Old is their napkin.

1951
01:40:48,920 --> 01:40:49,519
Speaker 3: I'm hungry?

1952
01:40:49,680 --> 01:40:50,240
Speaker 1: Is towl?

1953
01:40:51,680 --> 01:40:54,280
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, pass the debates. Going to get mad at

1954
01:40:54,280 --> 01:40:55,559
Speaker 2: me for not freaking deep?

1955
01:40:56,000 --> 01:40:56,360
Speaker 1: Please?

1956
01:40:57,320 --> 01:40:59,240
Speaker 3: Oh Jesus Christ.

1957
01:41:00,960 --> 01:41:02,519
Speaker 2: Alright, sorry, chat, I'm going back to it.

1958
01:41:02,560 --> 01:41:05,920
Speaker 1: I read read all right to water horse my brand?

1959
01:41:06,040 --> 01:41:06,639
Speaker 3: What did you do?

1960
01:41:06,800 --> 01:41:09,200
Speaker 2: Oh my, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

1961
01:41:09,240 --> 01:41:10,000
Speaker 3: I fix it.

1962
01:41:10,280 --> 01:41:10,960
Speaker 1: He broke it.

1963
01:41:11,040 --> 01:41:11,640
Speaker 3: He broke it.

1964
01:41:11,720 --> 01:41:17,160
Speaker 2: No, it's like I didn't make it. Fuck you break it?

1965
01:41:17,920 --> 01:41:18,599
Speaker 1: He broke it.

1966
01:41:18,640 --> 01:41:21,200
Speaker 2: Which What do I do when you do three?

1967
01:41:21,280 --> 01:41:23,960
Speaker 1: It's s three it's three, It's s three.

1968
01:41:24,160 --> 01:41:25,160
Speaker 3: How did you do this?

1969
01:41:25,280 --> 01:41:27,000
Speaker 1: All right, here we go, I gotta figure it. Yeah,

1970
01:41:27,000 --> 01:41:27,559
Speaker 1: I fix it?

1971
01:41:27,680 --> 01:41:29,040
Speaker 3: Okay, all right.

1972
01:41:29,320 --> 01:41:31,240
Speaker 2: My Twitter is the only thing I've ever been able

1973
01:41:31,240 --> 01:41:33,200
Speaker 2: to count on to be in my life. He is

1974
01:41:33,240 --> 01:41:36,960
Speaker 2: the only thing or person that I've never been separated from.

1975
01:41:37,800 --> 01:41:40,360
Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from a Shamed air twenty

1976
01:41:40,360 --> 01:41:43,360
Speaker 2: seven o eight on the r slash Okay story time,

1977
01:41:43,400 --> 01:41:46,599
Speaker 2: so I'll read it so anyway, this problem that I

1978
01:41:46,640 --> 01:41:50,519
Speaker 2: have is not with him, but with my stepmom, forty

1979
01:41:50,520 --> 01:41:53,120
Speaker 2: two female. She has been with my dad off and on,

1980
01:41:53,280 --> 01:41:55,960
Speaker 2: hard to explain for about eight years now. I'm not

1981
01:41:56,000 --> 01:41:58,639
Speaker 2: going to go into details on their relationship, but basically,

1982
01:41:58,680 --> 01:42:01,960
Speaker 2: the only reason my dad with her is because she's

1983
01:42:02,080 --> 01:42:06,680
Speaker 2: convenient and pretty much free babysitter.

1984
01:42:06,920 --> 01:42:11,040
Speaker 1: Sometimes we find ourselves in situations of convenience.

1985
01:42:11,680 --> 01:42:13,800
Speaker 3: I'm gonna should I add that is true. I thought

1986
01:42:13,800 --> 01:42:14,280
Speaker 3: I should add.

1987
01:42:14,400 --> 01:42:18,839
Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes shouldn't be with your wife. Your wife shouldn't

1988
01:42:18,880 --> 01:42:20,320
Speaker 1: just be a convenience to you.

1989
01:42:20,680 --> 01:42:24,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, but sometimes it happens. So like maybe you're you know,

1990
01:42:24,439 --> 01:42:27,679
Speaker 2: eighteen hundred's only gal in your small village.

1991
01:42:27,840 --> 01:42:30,920
Speaker 1: They had only gals in the eighteen hundreds, Yeah, they

1992
01:42:30,920 --> 01:42:36,719
Speaker 1: got burnt at the stake, but that's not the point.

1993
01:42:37,200 --> 01:42:40,280
Speaker 2: She has always been extremely controlling of me and my siblings,

1994
01:42:40,280 --> 01:42:42,400
Speaker 2: and she didn't try for the first few months she

1995
01:42:42,479 --> 01:42:45,080
Speaker 2: lived with us, but everything pretty much exploded after that.

1996
01:42:45,479 --> 01:42:48,400
Speaker 2: She'd only have sons before we came into her life.

1997
01:42:48,640 --> 01:42:52,080
Speaker 2: More like she intruded into ours, and she kind of

1998
01:42:52,160 --> 01:42:56,080
Speaker 2: lost it when she realized she had an impressional little

1999
01:42:56,200 --> 01:42:59,920
Speaker 2: dollar Moult jokes on her though I had basically been

2000
01:43:00,040 --> 01:43:01,920
Speaker 2: taking care of myself since I was six years old

2001
01:43:02,120 --> 01:43:05,000
Speaker 2: because my dad didn't give a crap about his kids.

2002
01:43:06,479 --> 01:43:15,400
Speaker 2: Desiree Maryland says only wenchesne, we love to see you reading. No,

2003
01:43:16,960 --> 01:43:22,080
Speaker 2: that's fine, fall as she initially expected. Anyways, the present times,

2004
01:43:22,080 --> 01:43:25,240
Speaker 2: we are currently living in a state very far from

2005
01:43:25,240 --> 01:43:27,439
Speaker 2: my two older sisters and the rest of the family.

2006
01:43:28,600 --> 01:43:32,160
Speaker 3: Are you serious, We don't We don't read, and we

2007
01:43:32,160 --> 01:43:32,960
Speaker 3: don't drink and read.

2008
01:43:33,320 --> 01:43:38,280
Speaker 2: I'm thirsty.

2009
01:43:38,439 --> 01:43:41,120
Speaker 3: We're trying so hard, guys, I'm trying.

2010
01:43:41,760 --> 01:43:47,160
Speaker 2: I am not allowed, let me read, reading, allowed to

2011
01:43:47,240 --> 01:43:50,200
Speaker 2: have contact with any of them. Only my second week,

2012
01:43:50,400 --> 01:43:53,040
Speaker 2: and I totally thought, I feel like I've been here forever.

2013
01:43:53,160 --> 01:43:55,679
Speaker 3: That's crazy, that's honestly, Yeah, doesn't.

2014
01:43:55,479 --> 01:43:59,519
Speaker 2: It, and I totally follow that rule. I I made

2015
01:43:59,840 --> 01:44:03,400
Speaker 2: very yay good friends with a family that she used

2016
01:44:03,439 --> 01:44:05,479
Speaker 2: to be neighbors with. The mom is her only friend,

2017
01:44:05,800 --> 01:44:08,639
Speaker 2: and the dad thinks she's a piece of pope. They

2018
01:44:08,640 --> 01:44:12,759
Speaker 2: have seven kids with mixed feelings, and I'm not really

2019
01:44:12,800 --> 01:44:15,280
Speaker 2: sure what I'm supposed to be thinking right now, So basically,

2020
01:44:15,320 --> 01:44:18,840
Speaker 2: my step mom will call her Sharon. Recently kind of

2021
01:44:18,920 --> 01:44:21,360
Speaker 2: helped me out in finding a car to buy for

2022
01:44:21,520 --> 01:44:24,160
Speaker 2: myself with my savings. I've been working for two years

2023
01:44:24,200 --> 01:44:26,880
Speaker 2: now and saving up fifty percent of my paychecks, although

2024
01:44:26,880 --> 01:44:28,840
Speaker 2: I didn't realize I was going to be using it

2025
01:44:28,880 --> 01:44:32,160
Speaker 2: to buy my own car. I've been hoping that my

2026
01:44:32,240 --> 01:44:34,719
Speaker 2: dad would be a good person for once his gosh

2027
01:44:34,800 --> 01:44:37,240
Speaker 2: darn life and put the brakes on an old jump

2028
01:44:37,280 --> 01:44:39,080
Speaker 2: that we have sitting in her backyard that used to

2029
01:44:39,160 --> 01:44:42,880
Speaker 2: be my oldest stepbrother's car still runs fine, and I

2030
01:44:42,920 --> 01:44:44,679
Speaker 2: told him that I would pay for the new breaks

2031
01:44:44,720 --> 01:44:48,479
Speaker 2: although he's the only uh, although he's the one that

2032
01:44:48,560 --> 01:44:49,400
Speaker 2: fed them up in.

2033
01:44:49,360 --> 01:44:52,800
Speaker 1: The first places. He f the breaks up.

2034
01:44:52,880 --> 01:44:54,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, although he's the only one that f't.

2035
01:44:55,439 --> 01:44:58,760
Speaker 1: I guarantee you this jeep is not gonna run well dude,

2036
01:44:58,800 --> 01:45:01,719
Speaker 1: it's a jeep. Yeah, jeeps are hard.

2037
01:45:01,760 --> 01:45:04,280
Speaker 3: Jeep I have a friend who owns a Jeep dealership. No,

2038
01:45:04,360 --> 01:45:07,160
Speaker 3: I just always tease them flex they're bad. Yeah. Should

2039
01:45:07,160 --> 01:45:10,479
Speaker 3: I put in a free sponsor for them? No, we

2040
01:45:10,560 --> 01:45:11,400
Speaker 3: all got jeeps.

2041
01:45:11,640 --> 01:45:13,720
Speaker 2: He has been putting it off for two years now,

2042
01:45:13,760 --> 01:45:15,840
Speaker 2: and recently I got my license. I figured it was

2043
01:45:15,840 --> 01:45:19,960
Speaker 2: about time I had something to drive, and my dad

2044
01:45:20,040 --> 01:45:24,080
Speaker 2: tried offering me a rusted out old Camry that has

2045
01:45:24,120 --> 01:45:26,960
Speaker 2: been through four of my siblings and my sister literally

2046
01:45:27,000 --> 01:45:30,599
Speaker 2: crashed into the side of a concrete barn. I told

2047
01:45:30,680 --> 01:45:33,320
Speaker 2: him that he could either make the Jeep a priority

2048
01:45:33,439 --> 01:45:35,280
Speaker 2: or tell me that I needed to find my own car.

2049
01:45:35,760 --> 01:45:39,320
Speaker 1: People make barns out of concrete.

2050
01:45:39,439 --> 01:45:40,240
Speaker 3: It's called a house.

2051
01:45:40,840 --> 01:45:44,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, can you do that?

2052
01:45:45,479 --> 01:45:47,479
Speaker 2: I always imagine like a wood barn, but I guess

2053
01:45:47,520 --> 01:45:48,960
Speaker 2: a barn can be made out of anything.

2054
01:45:49,040 --> 01:45:50,840
Speaker 1: They don't want those cows getting out of there.

2055
01:45:50,920 --> 01:45:53,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, they don't want that wolf blowing that shit.

2056
01:45:53,160 --> 01:45:53,280
Speaker 3: Now.

2057
01:45:53,479 --> 01:45:54,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, we learned.

2058
01:45:55,320 --> 01:45:58,440
Speaker 2: Sorry, sorry, sorry, you learned from that one story.

2059
01:45:58,160 --> 01:46:00,639
Speaker 3: Here for lessened two weeks. Now, you know what I'm doing.

2060
01:46:01,320 --> 01:46:05,120
Speaker 2: I'm still learning. He ain't give me an answer, and

2061
01:46:05,160 --> 01:46:06,120
Speaker 2: so I told.

2062
01:46:05,960 --> 01:46:09,760
Speaker 1: Him to ruin whatever he wants. What is going on

2063
01:46:09,880 --> 01:46:15,720
Speaker 1: is that Waterhorse? Waterhorse?

2064
01:46:19,120 --> 01:46:22,240
Speaker 2: Jimberly Coba says, first time watching a live high from Codyria.

2065
01:46:22,360 --> 01:46:30,840
Speaker 1: Hello, stop, don't put it on me. I love Korea.

2066
01:46:34,840 --> 01:46:36,640
Speaker 1: There's literally nothing.

2067
01:46:36,479 --> 01:46:40,880
Speaker 3: Wrong with Okay, back to reading, please, I never said

2068
01:46:40,920 --> 01:46:45,719
Speaker 3: anything wrong about Korean spread hy Welcome to the stream,

2069
01:46:46,120 --> 01:46:51,160
Speaker 3: water Horse, just read please, I'm.

2070
01:46:51,080 --> 01:46:55,720
Speaker 1: Trying shut up. You knew what you were doing. You

2071
01:46:55,840 --> 01:46:56,840
Speaker 1: know what you did, Kean.

2072
01:46:57,400 --> 01:46:59,639
Speaker 2: He didn't give me an answer, and so I told

2073
01:46:59,720 --> 01:47:02,080
Speaker 2: him I I would buy my own car and be

2074
01:47:02,160 --> 01:47:04,040
Speaker 2: done with it, which it sounds like, I feel like

2075
01:47:04,080 --> 01:47:06,640
Speaker 2: that's like okay to do. It's like, hey, either you

2076
01:47:06,680 --> 01:47:08,720
Speaker 2: get me this jeep. I'm just gonna get my own car.

2077
01:47:09,000 --> 01:47:12,880
Speaker 2: You know, I didn't want his or my stepmom's names

2078
01:47:12,960 --> 01:47:17,120
Speaker 2: anywhere near my car. Anyways, she went behind my dad's

2079
01:47:17,160 --> 01:47:20,000
Speaker 2: back and found a green two thousand and three Prius

2080
01:47:20,040 --> 01:47:22,280
Speaker 2: for sale about three hours away from where we lived.

2081
01:47:22,400 --> 01:47:24,799
Speaker 2: It's not exactly a challenge to look at a screen

2082
01:47:24,960 --> 01:47:27,559
Speaker 2: and send a car to your stepdaughter, but thank you

2083
01:47:27,640 --> 01:47:30,680
Speaker 2: so much for your contribution. Anyways, I buy the car,

2084
01:47:30,760 --> 01:47:34,280
Speaker 2: and she insists on having her name put with mine

2085
01:47:34,439 --> 01:47:36,200
Speaker 2: on the title. She didn't give me much of a

2086
01:47:36,280 --> 01:47:38,479
Speaker 2: choice since A I wanted the car really badly after

2087
01:47:38,520 --> 01:47:41,000
Speaker 2: going to see it and knew she would walk my

2088
01:47:41,160 --> 01:47:43,280
Speaker 2: booty out of the dealership and tell me to forget

2089
01:47:43,320 --> 01:47:46,479
Speaker 2: about driving if I said anything, and B I didn't

2090
01:47:46,479 --> 01:47:48,519
Speaker 2: want to cause a scene in front of the sales guy,

2091
01:47:48,560 --> 01:47:51,080
Speaker 2: who was a really nice guy. Anyways, we'd get the

2092
01:47:51,080 --> 01:47:54,200
Speaker 2: car home and instantly take it over to the friend's

2093
01:47:54,200 --> 01:47:56,320
Speaker 2: house to have the dad, let's call him Jake, take

2094
01:47:56,320 --> 01:47:58,240
Speaker 2: a look at it. He is a mechanic and is

2095
01:47:58,439 --> 01:48:00,559
Speaker 2: and has his own shop right next to his house.

2096
01:48:00,960 --> 01:48:02,559
Speaker 2: He runs through it and a few days later I'm

2097
01:48:02,560 --> 01:48:05,200
Speaker 2: at his house hanging out with my best friend who

2098
01:48:05,280 --> 01:48:08,040
Speaker 2: is his daughter, and he tells me that it's ready

2099
01:48:08,040 --> 01:48:10,240
Speaker 2: to take home. So it sounds like new.

2100
01:48:10,080 --> 01:48:12,759
Speaker 1: Prius, new Prius or a new old.

2101
01:48:12,520 --> 01:48:16,320
Speaker 2: Prius two thousand and three new to you old Prius.

2102
01:48:16,600 --> 01:48:19,479
Speaker 1: It makes me question that you guys, you have anyone

2103
01:48:19,520 --> 01:48:21,800
Speaker 1: take a look at it before you bought it? You

2104
01:48:22,439 --> 01:48:25,800
Speaker 1: do that first? What you tell me you have someone

2105
01:48:25,840 --> 01:48:26,879
Speaker 1: look at it first?

2106
01:48:28,040 --> 01:48:31,880
Speaker 2: You go to the dealership. Was it in a dealership?

2107
01:48:32,200 --> 01:48:35,000
Speaker 1: It was that a dealership that's every dealership comes from

2108
01:48:35,040 --> 01:48:35,680
Speaker 1: a dealership.

2109
01:48:36,920 --> 01:48:41,759
Speaker 2: Let me remind you of boy, mister.

2110
01:48:42,520 --> 01:48:44,400
Speaker 1: I'm not a water boy. I'm a water horse and.

2111
01:48:46,439 --> 01:48:50,439
Speaker 2: Read, and she knew she would walk my booty out

2112
01:48:50,479 --> 01:48:51,320
Speaker 2: of the dealership.

2113
01:48:51,360 --> 01:48:55,280
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, okay, come on, okay.

2114
01:48:56,240 --> 01:48:58,760
Speaker 2: Distracted, he runs through it. A few days later, I'm

2115
01:48:58,760 --> 01:49:00,160
Speaker 2: out as I was hanging with my best friend and

2116
01:49:01,400 --> 01:49:04,080
Speaker 2: tells me it's ready to take home. And mind you,

2117
01:49:04,120 --> 01:49:06,240
Speaker 2: I have my license. At this point, I can legally

2118
01:49:06,320 --> 01:49:11,599
Speaker 2: drive the thing car, the fing car, the fing car

2119
01:49:11,680 --> 01:49:14,720
Speaker 2: if I want to drive the fing car. Plus, his

2120
01:49:14,760 --> 01:49:16,760
Speaker 2: house is seven minutes down the road from mine. So

2121
01:49:16,800 --> 01:49:19,120
Speaker 2: I called Sharon and let her know the situation and

2122
01:49:19,120 --> 01:49:21,760
Speaker 2: basically tell her that I was planning on driving at

2123
01:49:21,760 --> 01:49:24,439
Speaker 2: home the next day after playing D and D with

2124
01:49:24,479 --> 01:49:28,320
Speaker 2: their kids. She yells at me for telling her and

2125
01:49:28,360 --> 01:49:30,840
Speaker 2: not asking her if it was okay. I tried to

2126
01:49:30,880 --> 01:49:33,640
Speaker 2: explain that I was mostly letting her know the situation

2127
01:49:34,040 --> 01:49:36,200
Speaker 2: and that I was planning on asking her if it

2128
01:49:36,240 --> 01:49:37,679
Speaker 2: was okay in person when I got home.

2129
01:49:38,120 --> 01:49:42,160
Speaker 1: She hung up on me. That's not what you're supposed

2130
01:49:42,200 --> 01:49:44,800
Speaker 1: to do to your kid, to your like, yeah, it's

2131
01:49:44,840 --> 01:49:47,120
Speaker 1: like you're supposed to be like, I'm co signing the

2132
01:49:47,200 --> 01:49:49,600
Speaker 1: car so that you can get good credit and not

2133
01:49:49,760 --> 01:49:51,840
Speaker 1: be totally at fault if something goes wrong.

2134
01:49:51,960 --> 01:49:53,759
Speaker 2: Not to control your car usage.

2135
01:49:53,840 --> 01:49:56,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, and not to be like your car belongs to

2136
01:49:56,439 --> 01:49:59,360
Speaker 1: me for the evening, and that's your life belongs to me.

2137
01:50:00,640 --> 01:50:03,400
Speaker 1: You must not go anywhere without my knowledge without am

2138
01:50:03,479 --> 01:50:05,000
Speaker 1: I say so, you will be lucked.

2139
01:50:05,240 --> 01:50:06,240
Speaker 3: We're in space.

2140
01:50:06,560 --> 01:50:10,040
Speaker 1: Read the next day. Ready, you were trying to derail

2141
01:50:10,080 --> 01:50:11,519
Speaker 1: to talk about D and D. Don't think I didn't

2142
01:50:11,520 --> 01:50:13,679
Speaker 1: see that. I just don't think I didn't see that.

2143
01:50:14,680 --> 01:50:17,040
Speaker 1: Derailer guilty everyone boo this.

2144
01:50:17,080 --> 01:50:21,439
Speaker 3: Man boom, Yeah, boomy, guys boom.

2145
01:50:21,479 --> 01:50:24,519
Speaker 2: The next day rolls around, and I haven't heard anything

2146
01:50:24,560 --> 01:50:27,599
Speaker 2: about it. If she's okay with me driving my car

2147
01:50:27,880 --> 01:50:30,400
Speaker 2: from their house until about fifteen minutes before we had

2148
01:50:30,439 --> 01:50:33,599
Speaker 2: to leave, what she calls my twin to tell him

2149
01:50:33,880 --> 01:50:36,800
Speaker 2: that he's driving my car home, and then if I

2150
01:50:36,800 --> 01:50:39,360
Speaker 2: have a problem with it, we can just leave it

2151
01:50:39,400 --> 01:50:41,440
Speaker 2: here and I can forget about driving.

2152
01:50:41,160 --> 01:50:44,160
Speaker 1: It at all. Wow, didn't op pay for this car?

2153
01:50:44,320 --> 01:50:47,080
Speaker 1: I mean I assume part of it. Yeah, she paid,

2154
01:50:47,240 --> 01:50:47,960
Speaker 1: she saved money.

2155
01:50:48,439 --> 01:50:52,320
Speaker 2: I had a huge problem with that, as in everyone else. Allison,

2156
01:50:52,720 --> 01:50:54,559
Speaker 2: her best friend, told me that I need to talk

2157
01:50:54,640 --> 01:50:58,720
Speaker 2: to her about it, and basically kind of emotionally manipulated

2158
01:50:58,760 --> 01:51:01,280
Speaker 2: me into doing so. I was just about to drop

2159
01:51:01,320 --> 01:51:04,080
Speaker 2: it to not make waves, and she told me that

2160
01:51:04,160 --> 01:51:07,160
Speaker 2: I sound like Sharon when I say that I don't

2161
01:51:07,160 --> 01:51:08,799
Speaker 2: want to deal with the fight shared.

2162
01:51:10,400 --> 01:51:12,360
Speaker 3: Dude, dude, what was.

2163
01:51:14,640 --> 01:51:15,759
Speaker 2: They didn't hear it?

2164
01:51:15,960 --> 01:51:19,040
Speaker 3: Just rolled out?

2165
01:51:19,479 --> 01:51:25,200
Speaker 1: Didn't hear it? It was just a water water horse.

2166
01:51:29,360 --> 01:51:32,439
Speaker 3: So nonchalant about it too, like that no.

2167
01:51:32,439 --> 01:51:34,960
Speaker 1: One saw shout out to all the people in the

2168
01:51:35,040 --> 01:51:38,040
Speaker 1: chat who are like nah, we would only ever cheer kean.

2169
01:51:37,800 --> 01:51:39,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, shout out to you, love y'all.

2170
01:51:39,240 --> 01:51:41,720
Speaker 1: I actually love all y'all for saying that, because I

2171
01:51:41,760 --> 01:51:42,400
Speaker 1: love that man.

2172
01:51:43,880 --> 01:51:49,880
Speaker 3: Everyone parcel all you guys parts to these two water horses.

2173
01:51:52,640 --> 01:51:59,759
Speaker 1: Want to ride the water. Stop horful, so horwerful.

2174
01:52:00,160 --> 01:52:04,400
Speaker 2: Advise me read every time you keep something secret from

2175
01:52:04,439 --> 01:52:06,960
Speaker 2: my dad. Jake advised me to stay quiet about it

2176
01:52:07,000 --> 01:52:09,400
Speaker 2: and not make waves until I'm eighteen. He supports me

2177
01:52:09,439 --> 01:52:12,080
Speaker 2: in my decision to cut her off completely after that.

2178
01:52:12,640 --> 01:52:14,920
Speaker 2: Looking back, he was completely right and I shouldn't have

2179
01:52:14,960 --> 01:52:17,880
Speaker 2: listened to Allison's advice, although she meant well and thought

2180
01:52:17,920 --> 01:52:21,280
Speaker 2: it would pan out, but okay. Anyways, I went home

2181
01:52:21,360 --> 01:52:23,320
Speaker 2: and walked in the door. She was sitting on the

2182
01:52:23,360 --> 01:52:25,600
Speaker 2: floor playing video games. I like to point out that

2183
01:52:25,680 --> 01:52:28,120
Speaker 2: I never usually say anything to her when I first

2184
01:52:28,160 --> 01:52:30,320
Speaker 2: walk in. I usually go about my business to take

2185
01:52:30,320 --> 01:52:32,639
Speaker 2: care of my crap. Anyways, I go to my room

2186
01:52:32,720 --> 01:52:35,000
Speaker 2: begin putting my clothes away that were on my bed

2187
01:52:35,160 --> 01:52:37,000
Speaker 2: so that I could get to bed early, and also

2188
01:52:37,120 --> 01:52:39,200
Speaker 2: because it takes me a long time to work with

2189
01:52:39,240 --> 01:52:41,720
Speaker 2: the courage to tell my parents that I need to

2190
01:52:41,760 --> 01:52:45,040
Speaker 2: have talked with them about stuff. After ten minutes of

2191
01:52:45,040 --> 01:52:47,960
Speaker 2: psyching myself up, I finally am able to get the

2192
01:52:48,000 --> 01:52:51,840
Speaker 2: words out. I tell her that I need to talk

2193
01:52:51,880 --> 01:52:56,519
Speaker 2: to her in a bit. She replies with, if you

2194
01:52:56,520 --> 01:52:58,920
Speaker 2: have something to say, just say it. And I tell

2195
01:52:58,920 --> 01:53:00,280
Speaker 2: her that I'm a bit busy right now down and

2196
01:53:00,360 --> 01:53:02,960
Speaker 2: wanted to talk about it in a bit. A bit later,

2197
01:53:03,400 --> 01:53:07,280
Speaker 2: she wanted the conversation to be a family spectacle, when

2198
01:53:07,320 --> 01:53:08,719
Speaker 2: I clearly wanted to be in private.

2199
01:53:09,000 --> 01:53:11,280
Speaker 1: She's trying to juice up the drama numbers, and You're

2200
01:53:11,320 --> 01:53:12,479
Speaker 1: just trying to be like, I want to have a

2201
01:53:12,520 --> 01:53:16,479
Speaker 1: real conversation with you. She's like, not unless it makes

2202
01:53:16,479 --> 01:53:19,479
Speaker 1: everyone hate you. Yeah, not unless it's on stream. Not

2203
01:53:19,560 --> 01:53:20,720
Speaker 1: unless it's streamed out.

2204
01:53:21,240 --> 01:53:24,640
Speaker 2: Also questioned, would you guys want to have hard conversations

2205
01:53:24,640 --> 01:53:28,120
Speaker 2: with friends, family, or romantic partners on stream with us

2206
01:53:28,840 --> 01:53:30,400
Speaker 2: and we could help mediate.

2207
01:53:32,479 --> 01:53:36,479
Speaker 1: You want us to be Jerry Springer? Yes, yeah, but

2208
01:53:36,520 --> 01:53:38,160
Speaker 1: that actually sounds awesome.

2209
01:53:38,360 --> 01:53:40,880
Speaker 3: Not doing my therapeutic stuff with my family. Maybe with

2210
01:53:40,920 --> 01:53:42,479
Speaker 3: my sister, but she'll probably cry.

2211
01:53:43,960 --> 01:53:45,360
Speaker 2: About you chat.

2212
01:53:45,640 --> 01:53:52,800
Speaker 3: Oh, never mind you anyway, I said nothing, go back

2213
01:53:52,920 --> 01:53:54,840
Speaker 3: to listen to do that too.

2214
01:53:57,360 --> 01:53:59,800
Speaker 1: I don't want to work out my trauma on the stream.

2215
01:54:01,120 --> 01:54:03,599
Speaker 3: They don't. They can hear anything else about me, but

2216
01:54:03,640 --> 01:54:04,439
Speaker 3: not my Yeah.

2217
01:54:04,680 --> 01:54:06,200
Speaker 2: I feel like we're gonna get a split chat. Some

2218
01:54:06,200 --> 01:54:08,240
Speaker 2: people are gonna say nope. Other people are gonna say,

2219
01:54:08,520 --> 01:54:11,000
Speaker 2: heck yeah, we are thinking about doing that.

2220
01:54:11,080 --> 01:54:12,519
Speaker 1: I think we should. That'd be we need to be

2221
01:54:12,640 --> 01:54:14,760
Speaker 1: Jerry Springer has left a gap that has yet to

2222
01:54:14,760 --> 01:54:15,120
Speaker 1: be filled.

2223
01:54:15,160 --> 01:54:16,120
Speaker 3: Hey, you know what needs to be filled?

2224
01:54:17,280 --> 01:54:20,200
Speaker 1: Read shut up, Kean, you set us up so hard

2225
01:54:20,240 --> 01:54:22,200
Speaker 1: for that. Now we can't do it because we'd be the.

2226
01:54:22,160 --> 01:54:26,280
Speaker 2: Bad read about fifteen minutes later, my years need to

2227
01:54:26,280 --> 01:54:29,040
Speaker 2: be filled. She got done playing video games and went

2228
01:54:29,080 --> 01:54:31,759
Speaker 2: to her room. My twin followed her and started talking

2229
01:54:31,760 --> 01:54:35,240
Speaker 2: to her about school stuff. I waited until the conversation

2230
01:54:35,360 --> 01:54:38,160
Speaker 2: seemed like it was almost finished before walking into the room.

2231
01:54:38,600 --> 01:54:40,480
Speaker 2: I sat down on the bed right next to her

2232
01:54:40,720 --> 01:54:43,040
Speaker 2: and waited for them to be done. My twin hadn't

2233
01:54:43,080 --> 01:54:46,560
Speaker 2: even exited the room before she turned to me and said,

2234
01:54:47,280 --> 01:54:49,600
Speaker 2: go ahead throw your fit.

2235
01:54:49,960 --> 01:54:52,640
Speaker 1: Wow, what a ballsy thing to say.

2236
01:54:52,840 --> 01:54:55,560
Speaker 2: When I tell you, I had to hold myself back

2237
01:54:55,560 --> 01:54:58,560
Speaker 2: from showing her what a fit really looked like.

2238
01:55:00,000 --> 01:55:01,440
Speaker 1: So I told myself back.

2239
01:55:01,840 --> 01:55:04,080
Speaker 2: So I held myself back and tried to tell her

2240
01:55:04,360 --> 01:55:08,360
Speaker 2: that I was not comfortable with the fact that she

2241
01:55:08,520 --> 01:55:12,520
Speaker 2: had him drive my car. Even before I got to

2242
01:55:13,200 --> 01:55:16,120
Speaker 2: I'd even get two words out before she cut me off,

2243
01:55:16,240 --> 01:55:20,240
Speaker 2: literally screaming at me for being so selfish and self

2244
01:55:20,360 --> 01:55:25,720
Speaker 2: absorbed and ungrateful for everything that she did for me, like,

2245
01:55:25,840 --> 01:55:28,600
Speaker 2: b you stole owe me two thousand dollars that you

2246
01:55:28,680 --> 01:55:31,760
Speaker 2: borrowed because you don't have an effing job. Who's doing

2247
01:55:31,840 --> 01:55:32,200
Speaker 2: what for?

2248
01:55:32,280 --> 01:55:36,720
Speaker 1: Who here? Talk talk yo ish, talk yo ish.

2249
01:55:37,480 --> 01:55:39,720
Speaker 2: I tried to explain to her that I didn't have

2250
01:55:39,800 --> 01:55:42,320
Speaker 2: a problem with him driving the car, but I did

2251
01:55:42,360 --> 01:55:44,800
Speaker 2: have one with the fact that I hadn't even had

2252
01:55:45,240 --> 01:55:51,360
Speaker 2: a chance to drive it, yet at all. She was

2253
01:55:51,400 --> 01:55:54,080
Speaker 2: the one that testrove it. Anyway, she kept jumping on

2254
01:55:54,160 --> 01:55:57,720
Speaker 2: my booty every single or time I opened my mouth.

2255
01:55:57,920 --> 01:55:59,560
Speaker 2: I think the most words I said at the time,

2256
01:55:59,680 --> 01:56:02,440
Speaker 2: the whole argument was three. She kept calling me a

2257
01:56:02,520 --> 01:56:05,200
Speaker 2: b saying I was a brat the insult that pisces

2258
01:56:05,240 --> 01:56:07,760
Speaker 2: me off the f a most. She was even hitting

2259
01:56:07,800 --> 01:56:12,240
Speaker 2: the combos. At one point she called me a b

2260
01:56:12,640 --> 01:56:16,640
Speaker 2: E teenage bratt who was throwing a fit because she

2261
01:56:16,640 --> 01:56:19,280
Speaker 2: couldn't share a car for five seconds.

2262
01:56:19,280 --> 01:56:22,600
Speaker 3: M she hit the combo of like you're one, you're two,

2263
01:56:23,600 --> 01:56:24,760
Speaker 3: you're both of these things.

2264
01:56:24,760 --> 01:56:25,640
Speaker 2: Come find two.

2265
01:56:25,680 --> 01:56:26,760
Speaker 1: Buckle my shoe.

2266
01:56:26,920 --> 01:56:28,400
Speaker 2: By the way, if you want to hit the combo

2267
01:56:28,480 --> 01:56:31,640
Speaker 2: of your life, you should join his live on YouTube

2268
01:56:31,640 --> 01:56:32,880
Speaker 2: every weekday three b M pst.

2269
01:56:33,040 --> 01:56:35,400
Speaker 3: I just have our profile just to do a poll

2270
01:56:35,920 --> 01:56:38,000
Speaker 3: for like what you lost earlier? So, oh should we

2271
01:56:38,000 --> 01:56:38,280
Speaker 3: stream it?

2272
01:56:38,280 --> 01:56:38,600
Speaker 2: Should we?

2273
01:56:38,720 --> 01:56:38,840
Speaker 1: So?

2274
01:56:38,880 --> 01:56:42,160
Speaker 2: Should we stream your live difficult conversations? Or nah, yeah

2275
01:56:42,360 --> 01:56:45,120
Speaker 2: we should and we can. We actually have a guy

2276
01:56:45,200 --> 01:56:47,720
Speaker 2: that does that, so we would bring him in. It

2277
01:56:47,760 --> 01:56:48,560
Speaker 2: wouldn't just be our.

2278
01:56:51,400 --> 01:56:52,360
Speaker 1: It's so far.

2279
01:56:52,400 --> 01:56:55,160
Speaker 2: It's fifty to fifty. Put your answers to the put

2280
01:56:55,160 --> 01:56:58,280
Speaker 2: your answers to the chat. The reason that she gave

2281
01:56:58,400 --> 01:57:01,680
Speaker 2: me for why I wasn't allowed to drive my car

2282
01:57:01,720 --> 01:57:05,120
Speaker 2: home was because I wasn't on the insurance as a

2283
01:57:05,200 --> 01:57:08,960
Speaker 2: licensed driver. Yet guess what neither was my twin. The

2284
01:57:09,080 --> 01:57:11,200
Speaker 2: argument ended when she told me twice in a row

2285
01:57:11,240 --> 01:57:15,160
Speaker 2: that I was BS, and I completely lost it. The

2286
01:57:15,320 --> 01:57:17,840
Speaker 2: entire time I was holding back tears of anger and hurt.

2287
01:57:18,000 --> 01:57:20,680
Speaker 2: But when I tell you, my eyes were completely dry

2288
01:57:20,720 --> 01:57:22,640
Speaker 2: when I screamed, our entire.

2289
01:57:23,960 --> 01:57:34,840
Speaker 1: Dude number two was dry. That burf wasn't dry though.

2290
01:57:35,560 --> 01:57:36,200
Speaker 3: Look at the chest.

2291
01:57:36,520 --> 01:57:42,160
Speaker 2: Wow, it's fifty to fifty. Okay, so sixty people are down.

2292
01:57:43,400 --> 01:57:46,840
Speaker 2: When I screamed, our entire effing family is BS, I

2293
01:57:46,920 --> 01:57:48,760
Speaker 2: mean Sahara type dry?

2294
01:57:49,320 --> 01:57:50,320
Speaker 1: My dudes.

2295
01:57:51,200 --> 01:57:54,720
Speaker 2: Oh, my eyes were completely dry. When I screamed our

2296
01:57:55,000 --> 01:57:58,800
Speaker 2: entire effing family is BS. I mean Sahara type dry

2297
01:57:58,920 --> 01:58:04,080
Speaker 2: my dudes. Any Ways, am Ida hole for having a

2298
01:58:04,200 --> 01:58:06,560
Speaker 2: problem with this. Am I writing my decision to cut

2299
01:58:06,600 --> 01:58:11,800
Speaker 2: off contact after I turn eighteen. Also, it's been a

2300
01:58:11,840 --> 01:58:13,840
Speaker 2: few months since this happened and I still haven't driven

2301
01:58:13,880 --> 01:58:16,840
Speaker 2: my car alone. And she basically used it as she

2302
01:58:16,920 --> 01:58:21,000
Speaker 2: basically uses it as her personal vehicle. I have a

2303
01:58:21,120 --> 01:58:24,400
Speaker 2: huge problem because with it, because I'm paying for effing

2304
01:58:24,480 --> 01:58:28,760
Speaker 2: gas and she's that And because I'm paying for effing

2305
01:58:28,800 --> 01:58:31,720
Speaker 2: gas that she's using and she still hasn't paid me

2306
01:58:31,760 --> 01:58:33,440
Speaker 2: back my two K.

2307
01:58:34,240 --> 01:58:35,440
Speaker 3: Bro for a sixteen year old.

2308
01:58:35,480 --> 01:58:36,760
Speaker 1: This this is.

2309
01:58:36,760 --> 01:58:41,760
Speaker 2: Kind of like, it's completely whack that she's she's being

2310
01:58:41,760 --> 01:58:42,600
Speaker 2: manipulated like this.

2311
01:58:42,680 --> 01:58:44,520
Speaker 1: I hate this. Here's my advice.

2312
01:58:44,680 --> 01:58:45,360
Speaker 2: What's your advice.

2313
01:58:45,720 --> 01:58:49,360
Speaker 1: You're legally on the paperwork as a registered owner of

2314
01:58:49,400 --> 01:58:55,760
Speaker 1: this vehicle. Steal this car. Steal this car from your

2315
01:58:56,040 --> 01:59:00,280
Speaker 1: lame family member, and do not tell her where it is.

2316
01:59:02,680 --> 01:59:05,200
Speaker 2: I actually I think you need like written consent or

2317
01:59:05,240 --> 01:59:05,840
Speaker 2: something from.

2318
01:59:05,800 --> 01:59:08,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, you are a sixteen year old. I think you'd No,

2319
01:59:09,120 --> 01:59:10,680
Speaker 3: I don't think that's no.

2320
01:59:11,200 --> 01:59:13,880
Speaker 1: She's on the lead, she's on the paperwork, she's on

2321
01:59:13,920 --> 01:59:16,400
Speaker 1: the title. Well, it's a car. It depends if it's

2322
01:59:16,440 --> 01:59:19,720
Speaker 1: an and or an or. Yeah, So you're right, you

2323
01:59:19,840 --> 01:59:20,600
Speaker 1: got me on that one.

2324
01:59:20,640 --> 01:59:20,800
Speaker 2: Now.

2325
01:59:20,880 --> 01:59:22,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, Actually that's what I did at the beginning with

2326
01:59:22,920 --> 01:59:23,360
Speaker 3: my car.

2327
01:59:23,480 --> 01:59:24,160
Speaker 1: Were you and or?

2328
01:59:24,240 --> 01:59:27,360
Speaker 2: Or? I was, uh, and, which means you both have

2329
01:59:27,440 --> 01:59:29,600
Speaker 2: to have consent If it's or, it could be either

2330
01:59:29,720 --> 01:59:33,560
Speaker 2: or yeah, so then she could steal it Also, I'm

2331
01:59:33,600 --> 01:59:37,879
Speaker 2: looking at the poll right now. Steal it anyway, everyone's

2332
01:59:37,880 --> 01:59:38,480
Speaker 2: saying stream it.

2333
01:59:38,520 --> 01:59:39,640
Speaker 1: I don't even care, dude.

2334
01:59:39,400 --> 01:59:41,720
Speaker 2: Steal fifty percent people think stream it.

2335
01:59:41,720 --> 01:59:44,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, they would be good. I think those votes are

2336
01:59:44,520 --> 01:59:45,880
Speaker 1: more for like, if they would do it, I think

2337
01:59:46,040 --> 01:59:49,000
Speaker 1: everyone would want to watch it. Everyone would want to

2338
01:59:49,000 --> 01:59:51,120
Speaker 1: watch it. I think this is more about participating in it,

2339
01:59:51,800 --> 01:59:53,560
Speaker 1: which is honestly, it's a great split where we got

2340
01:59:53,640 --> 01:59:55,680
Speaker 1: thirty people in the stream who were like, yeah, I

2341
01:59:55,760 --> 01:59:58,520
Speaker 1: do that. It's something we're actively working on. Actually, yeah,

2342
01:59:58,520 --> 01:59:59,080
Speaker 1: that's awesome.

2343
01:59:59,280 --> 02:00:01,000
Speaker 3: Anything else that you would say to Opie.

2344
02:00:03,360 --> 02:00:05,760
Speaker 1: Look, I always say this when it comes to cutting

2345
02:00:05,760 --> 02:00:08,640
Speaker 1: off like family at an early age. I think you

2346
02:00:08,720 --> 02:00:11,560
Speaker 1: have this one family member who's like really really like

2347
02:00:13,280 --> 02:00:18,320
Speaker 1: just lame. You can go like low slash no contact

2348
02:00:18,320 --> 02:00:24,120
Speaker 1: with them. But I wouldn't. I wouldn't ever. Like, it's

2349
02:00:24,160 --> 02:00:26,280
Speaker 1: just hard when it comes to family. So it's hard

2350
02:00:26,320 --> 02:00:28,160
Speaker 1: when it comes to anything really to like close the

2351
02:00:28,160 --> 02:00:29,280
Speaker 1: door permanently.

2352
02:00:29,400 --> 02:00:32,440
Speaker 3: Especially when you're I'm not gonna lie when you are sixteen, ye.

2353
02:00:32,480 --> 02:00:33,000
Speaker 2: Know, you wouldn't.

2354
02:00:33,000 --> 02:00:33,600
Speaker 1: You wouldn't close.

2355
02:00:33,760 --> 02:00:36,600
Speaker 2: But this is the step mom, right, I.

2356
02:00:36,520 --> 02:00:40,440
Speaker 1: Thought it was an aunt? Was it an aunt? I'm

2357
02:00:40,440 --> 02:00:43,760
Speaker 1: pretty sure it was that was there was an aunt, Sharon, right,

2358
02:00:44,560 --> 02:00:48,000
Speaker 1: I think the aunt was Oh okay, Oh so this

2359
02:00:48,040 --> 02:00:49,720
Speaker 1: woman's not even related to you by.

2360
02:00:49,600 --> 02:00:53,280
Speaker 2: Blood the point of the story. Noah, I don't think so,

2361
02:00:53,480 --> 02:00:56,760
Speaker 2: I got. I got the dad is the blood. The

2362
02:00:56,840 --> 02:00:58,440
Speaker 2: dad is the blood. Blood blood we got.

2363
02:00:58,560 --> 02:01:00,720
Speaker 1: Oh dude, I've been thinking it. This was her aunt

2364
02:01:00,760 --> 02:01:03,920
Speaker 1: the whole time. This is stepmother. You know, step mom

2365
02:01:04,000 --> 02:01:07,880
Speaker 1: needs to catch a for real stepmom and this and

2366
02:01:08,040 --> 02:01:12,840
Speaker 1: op need to have a legit like exhibition match in

2367
02:01:12,880 --> 02:01:15,240
Speaker 1: front of the family, because apparently that's that's what the

2368
02:01:15,280 --> 02:01:17,360
Speaker 1: step mom likes to do. She likes to make the

2369
02:01:17,520 --> 02:01:21,240
Speaker 1: entire family weigh in on it. Yeah, I think, na,

2370
02:01:21,360 --> 02:01:23,360
Speaker 1: this is your car, get your family on your side,

2371
02:01:23,400 --> 02:01:25,080
Speaker 1: and then pressure your dead well the dad.

2372
02:01:25,240 --> 02:01:28,120
Speaker 2: The dad's basically saying like, wait until you're eighteen to

2373
02:01:28,240 --> 02:01:30,560
Speaker 2: like to to deal with this.

2374
02:01:31,120 --> 02:01:35,600
Speaker 1: It's like, I've ever heard that's my car if she

2375
02:01:35,680 --> 02:01:38,200
Speaker 1: spent money on it, Yeah, that's my car. How you

2376
02:01:38,240 --> 02:01:40,160
Speaker 1: spent on it? It's like, that's your car, that's your car.

2377
02:01:40,360 --> 02:01:44,160
Speaker 1: But from the dad's perspective, it's like seldom do the

2378
02:01:44,160 --> 02:01:47,040
Speaker 1: sixteen year olds get up too much good with the automobiles.

2379
02:01:47,360 --> 02:01:51,200
Speaker 1: It's true. Seldom seldom do they. But when did you

2380
02:01:51,240 --> 02:01:53,880
Speaker 1: get your car? Sixteen? It's kind of how I know

2381
02:01:55,120 --> 02:01:56,640
Speaker 1: it was freedom free?

2382
02:01:56,720 --> 02:02:01,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, sixteen eighteen. I had people driving me around.

2383
02:02:01,720 --> 02:02:04,839
Speaker 1: Damn. Yeah, well of course you were a passenger princess.

2384
02:02:04,960 --> 02:02:06,400
Speaker 3: I'm a passenger queen.

2385
02:02:06,720 --> 02:02:10,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. With those Christmas hams, you be anyone's passenger princess.

2386
02:02:10,280 --> 02:02:11,560
Speaker 2: Wait, did you get a new car?

2387
02:02:12,400 --> 02:02:13,560
Speaker 3: Yeah? After my car accident.

2388
02:02:14,120 --> 02:02:14,640
Speaker 2: It's is it?

2389
02:02:14,680 --> 02:02:18,400
Speaker 1: The is it? The I was messed up? The purple one?

2390
02:02:18,640 --> 02:02:22,520
Speaker 1: Mm hmm huh, yeah, I thought that was more like

2391
02:02:22,520 --> 02:02:24,840
Speaker 1: a one. It wasn't that.

2392
02:02:24,920 --> 02:02:27,000
Speaker 2: It wasn't like there was like a white, like sporty

2393
02:02:27,080 --> 02:02:27,560
Speaker 2: looking one.

2394
02:02:28,560 --> 02:02:29,160
Speaker 1: The Corolla.

2395
02:02:29,560 --> 02:02:31,400
Speaker 3: No, that was probably Brandon's.

2396
02:02:32,120 --> 02:02:33,400
Speaker 1: Oh maybe that was Brandon's.

2397
02:02:33,440 --> 02:02:35,680
Speaker 3: Okay, back to are you talking about the FRS Yeah,

2398
02:02:35,760 --> 02:02:37,840
Speaker 3: frus is Brandon. I used to have that car.

2399
02:02:38,040 --> 02:02:39,640
Speaker 1: That's what what do you? Yeah, what are you talking about?

2400
02:02:39,640 --> 02:02:40,960
Speaker 1: You used to have that? I used to. This guy's

2401
02:02:41,000 --> 02:02:45,360
Speaker 1: had so many cars, he's so cool. Everybody stop back

2402
02:02:45,400 --> 02:02:48,040
Speaker 1: to the stories, not about me. The story's over.

2403
02:02:48,200 --> 02:02:50,560
Speaker 3: Stories over, Okay, read the donuts. We're gonna get ready for.

2404
02:02:50,520 --> 02:02:53,080
Speaker 2: The mar Yeah, get that ready. I'll read the donuts.

2405
02:02:55,320 --> 02:02:57,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna finish when we got maybe we don't have

2406
02:02:57,320 --> 02:03:02,640
Speaker 2: any any dons that's important. Yeah, Jessica hufflepuff, thanks for

2407
02:03:02,640 --> 02:03:06,600
Speaker 2: the two ninety nine Australian, isn't It's like trying to

2408
02:03:06,640 --> 02:03:07,560
Speaker 2: herd wallabies.

2409
02:03:07,600 --> 02:03:11,320
Speaker 1: It's a d Yeah it is, yep.

2410
02:03:11,400 --> 02:03:14,200
Speaker 2: But that's the fun of it. You know, you guys,

2411
02:03:15,400 --> 02:03:18,320
Speaker 2: you know, you guys could go read these I.

2412
02:03:18,240 --> 02:03:21,480
Speaker 3: Love my wallet? What the hell? Sam? You know what

2413
02:03:21,480 --> 02:03:22,160
Speaker 3: you guys could do?

2414
02:03:22,760 --> 02:03:25,440
Speaker 2: You could go But but like, but you're you're here

2415
02:03:25,480 --> 02:03:26,440
Speaker 2: for the is that story?

2416
02:03:26,440 --> 02:03:26,680
Speaker 1: Three?

2417
02:03:27,400 --> 02:03:29,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're around the next four.

2418
02:03:29,280 --> 02:03:31,839
Speaker 2: We're here for the jokes, the goofs.

2419
02:03:32,160 --> 02:03:34,000
Speaker 3: You know, I'm still a little goofy.

2420
02:03:34,120 --> 02:03:36,480
Speaker 2: If we just read these all day, then then then

2421
02:03:36,520 --> 02:03:37,840
Speaker 2: what what what would we do?

2422
02:03:38,280 --> 02:03:38,880
Speaker 1: What we do?

2423
02:03:38,880 --> 02:03:41,080
Speaker 3: You know what we did? We did. I kind of

2424
02:03:41,080 --> 02:03:43,560
Speaker 3: want to add a couple of minutes to the timer

2425
02:03:43,680 --> 02:03:44,960
Speaker 3: because we were goofing around.

2426
02:03:45,200 --> 02:03:48,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, add five, I'm add five. No, you can't just

2427
02:03:48,640 --> 02:03:50,760
Speaker 1: add you can add five?

2428
02:03:51,000 --> 02:03:51,200
Speaker 2: Five?

2429
02:03:51,480 --> 02:03:51,680
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2430
02:03:51,720 --> 02:03:53,560
Speaker 3: Sam? What am I doing? Adding five?

2431
02:03:53,680 --> 02:03:58,640
Speaker 1: It's okay, It's okay. They deserve it. Uh, it's ten five?

2432
02:03:58,720 --> 02:04:01,879
Speaker 1: What what is it? What's the episode?

2433
02:04:02,000 --> 02:04:02,840
Speaker 2: You guys?

2434
02:04:03,400 --> 02:04:03,960
Speaker 3: They deserve it?

2435
02:04:04,480 --> 02:04:05,280
Speaker 1: What's the episode?

2436
02:04:05,480 --> 02:04:08,680
Speaker 3: Uh? Are we on four? What are four?

2437
02:04:09,000 --> 02:04:09,400
Speaker 1: Yes?

2438
02:04:10,080 --> 02:04:10,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

2439
02:04:10,400 --> 02:04:13,280
Speaker 1: Yes? Ten fifty seven, ten fifty seven.

2440
02:04:13,520 --> 02:04:17,760
Speaker 2: Have you guys already finished your your drinks? Yours?

2441
02:04:17,960 --> 02:04:19,800
Speaker 1: Yeah? Water is pretty much done.

2442
02:04:20,320 --> 02:04:22,480
Speaker 3: Wait did you read the Arrest of the Jonas?

2443
02:04:22,800 --> 02:04:24,000
Speaker 1: Uh?

2444
02:04:24,480 --> 02:04:28,840
Speaker 2: Uh Yeahku Fredozo, thanks for joining the Knights, Derek Sipe,

2445
02:04:28,840 --> 02:04:32,040
Speaker 2: thanks for joining the Knights. And it's Akai Weirdo. Thanks

2446
02:04:32,040 --> 02:04:39,920
Speaker 2: for being a member for five Yeah ya ya coding

2447
02:04:40,040 --> 02:04:41,240
Speaker 2: k count them up?

2448
02:04:41,280 --> 02:04:45,240
Speaker 1: One, two, three, four? Guys? Five? What that's how many months?

2449
02:04:45,480 --> 02:04:45,839
Speaker 3: Bands?

2450
02:04:49,960 --> 02:04:51,640
Speaker 1: What that is?

2451
02:04:51,840 --> 02:04:55,840
Speaker 2: How many up? Four?

2452
02:04:57,640 --> 02:04:58,000
Speaker 1: Weirdo?

2453
02:04:59,160 --> 02:05:00,680
Speaker 2: Right, this is your story?

2454
02:05:00,880 --> 02:05:06,120
Speaker 1: I got one? Wait? Why is what? The title is

2455
02:05:06,320 --> 02:05:11,680
Speaker 1: really not good for this one. It's like full blown

2456
02:05:13,760 --> 02:05:16,400
Speaker 1: for what I mean? Maybe it's all right?

2457
02:05:16,640 --> 02:05:17,840
Speaker 3: Is it my parents passed down?

2458
02:05:18,000 --> 02:05:21,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's well, it's for mine. It starts like this, Look,

2459
02:05:23,880 --> 02:05:27,080
Speaker 1: I don't have the new I have uh the original?

2460
02:05:27,160 --> 02:05:28,880
Speaker 1: I have lame title. No, it looks like I have

2461
02:05:28,920 --> 02:05:29,840
Speaker 1: the original title.

2462
02:05:30,440 --> 02:05:31,480
Speaker 3: Oh you have the original title.

2463
02:05:31,520 --> 02:05:32,240
Speaker 1: That's what it looks like.

2464
02:05:32,440 --> 02:05:34,640
Speaker 3: Can you here? Do you want me to? Can you?

2465
02:05:34,760 --> 02:05:38,760
Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't know? Could you fix it?

2466
02:05:38,960 --> 02:05:41,840
Speaker 2: Could you do your job? You know?

2467
02:05:41,960 --> 02:05:44,839
Speaker 1: Guys, guys and stop it? Kean don't you look bashful

2468
02:05:44,880 --> 02:05:49,280
Speaker 1: over there? I love you down? Everything great? Look, honestly,

2469
02:05:49,320 --> 02:05:51,640
Speaker 1: we could use this title. It's not even that bad.

2470
02:05:53,160 --> 02:05:53,960
Speaker 3: Should I pierce my ear?

2471
02:05:54,000 --> 02:05:56,520
Speaker 1: It's not even that bad? Yeah, you should pierce you.

2472
02:05:56,640 --> 02:05:59,320
Speaker 3: Will eventually again, it's been pierced before.

2473
02:05:59,360 --> 02:06:02,320
Speaker 1: Should we should we do this? Should do this now? Yes,

2474
02:06:02,400 --> 02:06:05,000
Speaker 1: you're added this time and now we're just wasting it. Okay,

2475
02:06:05,080 --> 02:06:07,840
Speaker 1: all right, I'm just gonna do this title and it's kid. No,

2476
02:06:08,120 --> 02:06:09,840
Speaker 1: we'll get it on the back end. We'll get it

2477
02:06:09,880 --> 02:06:12,640
Speaker 1: on the back end because we only have ten minutes left.

2478
02:06:14,560 --> 02:06:15,280
Speaker 3: But they never told me.

2479
02:06:15,960 --> 02:06:17,400
Speaker 1: Okay, ready, got it? Yeah?

2480
02:06:18,000 --> 02:06:20,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, hold on that record is Sam? Ready?

2481
02:06:21,640 --> 02:06:22,200
Speaker 1: You better be?

2482
02:06:22,600 --> 02:06:26,280
Speaker 2: I'm ready a burp? No, I already finished my water.

2483
02:06:26,680 --> 02:06:28,280
Speaker 3: Could you read on? Could you read on something?

2484
02:06:29,240 --> 02:06:29,760
Speaker 1: Huh?

2485
02:06:29,800 --> 02:06:30,040
Speaker 3: There?

2486
02:06:30,440 --> 02:06:31,440
Speaker 1: Well, I got I have it.

2487
02:06:31,480 --> 02:06:33,320
Speaker 3: I have Okay, go ahead, you got it? Do it.

2488
02:06:33,880 --> 02:06:38,760
Speaker 1: My parents passed down a hereditary illness, but they never

2489
02:06:38,920 --> 02:06:39,360
Speaker 1: told me.

2490
02:06:39,680 --> 02:06:44,960
Speaker 2: How dare they share my jeans and give me terrible

2491
02:06:44,960 --> 02:06:45,839
Speaker 2: stuff in them?

2492
02:06:46,000 --> 02:06:49,400
Speaker 1: Yeah? You never want bad stuff in your jeans. You

2493
02:06:49,480 --> 02:06:52,560
Speaker 1: usually just want the apple bottoms and with the fur,

2494
02:06:53,480 --> 02:06:55,840
Speaker 1: you just want a thick key on raw apple bottom.

2495
02:06:55,920 --> 02:06:59,280
Speaker 1: Jeans boots with their read This is so bad? Can

2496
02:06:59,320 --> 02:07:04,280
Speaker 1: I do that? Yeah? You did it wrong? No no,

2497
02:07:07,560 --> 02:07:10,440
Speaker 1: I twenty eight female recently found out I have it.

2498
02:07:10,600 --> 02:07:12,040
Speaker 1: Will you stop so I can do this?

2499
02:07:12,120 --> 02:07:16,280
Speaker 2: Hey? Hey, hey, okay, everyone ever calm.

2500
02:07:16,000 --> 02:07:18,920
Speaker 1: We're okay, we're two waters deep. We're all getting a little,

2501
02:07:19,360 --> 02:07:21,360
Speaker 1: a little feisty.

2502
02:07:21,000 --> 02:07:24,760
Speaker 3: All right, don't want the Korean barbecue. I'm really upset.

2503
02:07:25,200 --> 02:07:27,760
Speaker 1: I twenty eight female, recently found out I have a

2504
02:07:27,800 --> 02:07:30,320
Speaker 1: serious hereditary illness that's going to screw up my life,

2505
02:07:30,360 --> 02:07:32,600
Speaker 1: and I'm so mad I can barely type this out.

2506
02:07:33,480 --> 02:07:37,120
Speaker 1: It's a degenerative illness, no cure, nothing, My body's just

2507
02:07:37,120 --> 02:07:39,600
Speaker 1: gonna slowly get worse and the kicker. My parents have

2508
02:07:39,640 --> 02:07:42,040
Speaker 1: known this could happen my entire life and never said

2509
02:07:42,040 --> 02:07:45,640
Speaker 1: a dang word. By the way, this comes from user

2510
02:07:45,720 --> 02:07:48,720
Speaker 1: quirky background eight three eight on the r slash Okay storytime. So,

2511
02:07:48,800 --> 02:07:52,800
Speaker 1: but so I'm gonna tell you right now. I kind

2512
02:07:52,800 --> 02:07:54,440
Speaker 1: of agree with not telling.

2513
02:07:54,200 --> 02:07:56,440
Speaker 2: You, because, like, I mean, what are you gonna do?

2514
02:07:56,520 --> 02:07:57,240
Speaker 1: What's the difference.

2515
02:07:57,480 --> 02:07:59,200
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's good to know, but I don't

2516
02:07:59,200 --> 02:08:00,840
Speaker 2: think they're terrible people for not telling.

2517
02:08:00,880 --> 02:08:02,880
Speaker 1: It would be different if you could like take actionable

2518
02:08:02,880 --> 02:08:05,400
Speaker 1: steps to help prevent it early on. Yeah, but if

2519
02:08:05,400 --> 02:08:07,640
Speaker 1: it's something where it's just like you're either gonna get

2520
02:08:07,640 --> 02:08:10,280
Speaker 1: it or you're not, Why live your whole life with

2521
02:08:10,360 --> 02:08:12,600
Speaker 1: that like guillotine above you? Well, you know what I

2522
02:08:12,600 --> 02:08:13,680
Speaker 1: would do if I had a kid.

2523
02:08:14,000 --> 02:08:15,840
Speaker 2: I want to get more into the story, But if

2524
02:08:15,880 --> 02:08:18,800
Speaker 2: I had a kid that had a hereditary illness, potentially

2525
02:08:18,840 --> 02:08:20,800
Speaker 2: that was going to like, you know, like macular generation

2526
02:08:20,920 --> 02:08:23,520
Speaker 2: or whatever, right, you know that's eyes like als or

2527
02:08:23,560 --> 02:08:27,000
Speaker 2: something early on said als, Like, I would be like, hey,

2528
02:08:27,040 --> 02:08:29,400
Speaker 2: you like you might get this, so you have like

2529
02:08:29,440 --> 02:08:32,280
Speaker 2: twenty good years to like freaking live way.

2530
02:08:32,360 --> 02:08:33,960
Speaker 1: Yeah you know what, that might actually be the best

2531
02:08:33,960 --> 02:08:36,839
Speaker 1: way to do it. Yeah, you flipped me immediately. Okay,

2532
02:08:37,080 --> 02:08:40,760
Speaker 1: So read this. Illness runs in my family. My dad's

2533
02:08:40,760 --> 02:08:44,000
Speaker 1: mom has it. His sister, my aunt, died from it

2534
02:08:44,040 --> 02:08:46,640
Speaker 1: a few years ago. I was living overseas when she passed,

2535
02:08:46,640 --> 02:08:49,840
Speaker 1: and my parents told me it was cancer. Cancer. They

2536
02:08:49,920 --> 02:08:53,400
Speaker 1: lied right to my face. It wasn't until I got

2537
02:08:53,440 --> 02:08:56,160
Speaker 1: diagnosed that they finally came clean and admitted that she

2538
02:08:56,360 --> 02:08:59,320
Speaker 1: had the same illness that I do. When I confronted them,

2539
02:08:59,320 --> 02:09:01,840
Speaker 1: my dad wouldn't give me a straight answer. I asked

2540
02:09:01,880 --> 02:09:04,280
Speaker 1: if he had it too, and he dodged every single question,

2541
02:09:04,480 --> 02:09:08,360
Speaker 1: acting like I was overreacting. My mom, on the other hand,

2542
02:09:08,360 --> 02:09:10,560
Speaker 1: tried to justify it by saying they didn't want me

2543
02:09:10,640 --> 02:09:13,720
Speaker 1: living in fear. Are you kidding me? I could have

2544
02:09:13,800 --> 02:09:17,360
Speaker 1: been prepared. Instead, they chose to let me walk into

2545
02:09:17,400 --> 02:09:19,600
Speaker 1: this blind, which is what would happen if you had

2546
02:09:19,680 --> 02:09:24,880
Speaker 1: macular degeneration. And here's where it gets worse. I have

2547
02:09:24,920 --> 02:09:29,200
Speaker 1: a two year old son. Ooh yeah, that's yeah.

2548
02:09:29,240 --> 02:09:31,680
Speaker 2: I mean that's why I think, like having this information

2549
02:09:31,840 --> 02:09:34,960
Speaker 2: early is like I would I would just like make

2550
02:09:35,000 --> 02:09:38,120
Speaker 2: it part of my kid's upbring. It would be like

2551
02:09:38,200 --> 02:09:40,080
Speaker 2: five years old, give age appropriate.

2552
02:09:40,120 --> 02:09:42,720
Speaker 1: I don't know about five. I'm thinking pretty early.

2553
02:09:42,840 --> 02:09:46,680
Speaker 2: No, no, I'm thinking five, Like hey, no, five, five is

2554
02:09:46,720 --> 02:09:50,320
Speaker 2: so early age appropriated, age appropriate where it's like, hey,

2555
02:09:50,400 --> 02:09:52,040
Speaker 2: like you might die early.

2556
02:09:55,480 --> 02:09:58,120
Speaker 1: I don't think that's five year old. Kids.

2557
02:09:58,320 --> 02:10:01,560
Speaker 2: Some color color outside of the line.

2558
02:10:02,880 --> 02:10:04,720
Speaker 3: That five year old would be freaking out every day.

2559
02:10:04,760 --> 02:10:12,600
Speaker 1: Don't worry, kid, color outside those lines, don't you. Yeah.

2560
02:10:12,760 --> 02:10:15,600
Speaker 1: I think Jelly buzz All Dogs Go to Heaven movie. Yeah,

2561
02:10:15,600 --> 02:10:17,280
Speaker 1: I haven't watched that. I haven't watched all dogs go

2562
02:10:17,280 --> 02:10:19,920
Speaker 1: to heaven first and then wait a couple of years

2563
02:10:20,240 --> 02:10:23,440
Speaker 1: and then let hit him with it. Okay, I have

2564
02:10:23,480 --> 02:10:25,560
Speaker 1: a two year old son, which means that my child

2565
02:10:25,680 --> 02:10:27,440
Speaker 1: might have this, and they never told me that I

2566
02:10:27,520 --> 02:10:29,640
Speaker 1: was at risk. I could have had him tested and

2567
02:10:29,680 --> 02:10:32,440
Speaker 1: made informed decisions, but no, they took that from me,

2568
02:10:32,800 --> 02:10:35,120
Speaker 1: and now I live in constant fear for him too.

2569
02:10:35,800 --> 02:10:37,680
Speaker 1: Then my mom had the nerve to ask me if

2570
02:10:37,720 --> 02:10:40,040
Speaker 1: I would have rather not been born than deal with this?

2571
02:10:40,600 --> 02:10:43,440
Speaker 1: Can you believe that she turned it around on me

2572
02:10:43,600 --> 02:10:46,040
Speaker 1: like I'm the monster for even thinking it? And you

2573
02:10:46,040 --> 02:10:49,960
Speaker 1: know what, Yeah, I said it. Yes, I would rather

2574
02:10:49,960 --> 02:10:52,080
Speaker 1: have not been born than to deal with this disease.

2575
02:10:52,240 --> 02:10:55,200
Speaker 1: No way. I don't believe that. It seems like a

2576
02:10:55,200 --> 02:10:56,360
Speaker 1: pretty hot take to me. I don't know.

2577
02:10:56,560 --> 02:10:57,760
Speaker 2: I don't believe that.

2578
02:10:58,120 --> 02:11:02,320
Speaker 1: In the vast, endless manatuury of color and experience that

2579
02:11:02,400 --> 02:11:05,280
Speaker 1: life has to offer, I think that you can find

2580
02:11:05,280 --> 02:11:07,879
Speaker 1: some value in it, regardless of what genetic even.

2581
02:11:07,800 --> 02:11:10,920
Speaker 2: Twenty years of living inherent living life is.

2582
02:11:11,680 --> 02:11:12,480
Speaker 3: Life is amazing.

2583
02:11:12,520 --> 02:11:14,320
Speaker 2: Life is amazing, yep.

2584
02:11:14,360 --> 02:11:17,360
Speaker 1: But there life is what you make it. I mean,

2585
02:11:17,880 --> 02:11:23,520
Speaker 1: could be a dream, great song, We're going to get

2586
02:11:23,520 --> 02:11:29,480
Speaker 1: into the rest of the stories an instrument. Very damn sometimes.

2587
02:11:30,720 --> 02:11:32,600
Speaker 3: Right now so hard.

2588
02:11:33,120 --> 02:11:35,360
Speaker 1: Yes, I would rather not have been born than deal

2589
02:11:35,400 --> 02:11:37,960
Speaker 1: with this disease. They made a selfish choice, and now

2590
02:11:38,000 --> 02:11:41,240
Speaker 1: I'm paying for it. They knew the risks. Why are

2591
02:11:41,240 --> 02:11:44,960
Speaker 1: you laughing? They knew the risks and did it anyway

2592
02:11:45,120 --> 02:11:48,480
Speaker 1: for themselves. They wanted kids, and now I'm stuck with this.

2593
02:11:49,040 --> 02:11:51,560
Speaker 1: I called them selfish, and I meant every word. Now

2594
02:11:51,560 --> 02:11:54,320
Speaker 1: they're begging me not to tell my younger siblings. They

2595
02:11:54,360 --> 02:11:56,280
Speaker 1: don't know about this yet and haven't been tested, and

2596
02:11:56,360 --> 02:11:58,640
Speaker 1: my parents want to keep it that way. They're hoping

2597
02:11:58,680 --> 02:12:01,360
Speaker 1: they'll get lucky. But I'm not going to lie to them.

2598
02:12:01,520 --> 02:12:04,120
Speaker 1: I refuse to let them be blindsided like I was.

2599
02:12:04,280 --> 02:12:07,879
Speaker 1: They deserve to know the truth. I've gone low contact

2600
02:12:07,920 --> 02:12:10,600
Speaker 1: with my parents. I can't stand to even think about

2601
02:12:10,600 --> 02:12:12,920
Speaker 1: them right now. My mom keeps trying to guilt trip me,

2602
02:12:13,000 --> 02:12:15,240
Speaker 1: saying that they were just trying to protect me, but

2603
02:12:15,280 --> 02:12:18,480
Speaker 1: protect me from what the truth, No, they weren't protecting me.

2604
02:12:18,560 --> 02:12:21,400
Speaker 1: They were protecting themselves from the guilt of knowing that

2605
02:12:21,440 --> 02:12:23,920
Speaker 1: they passed this on. And now they want me to

2606
02:12:23,920 --> 02:12:28,600
Speaker 1: protect them too, but I won't. I think we could

2607
02:12:28,640 --> 02:12:29,360
Speaker 1: have both of those.

2608
02:12:30,120 --> 02:12:31,920
Speaker 2: I think we're getting into a little I think op

2609
02:12:32,320 --> 02:12:35,840
Speaker 2: is what we know for sure. Opie is struggling with

2610
02:12:35,880 --> 02:12:41,000
Speaker 2: this information. Yes, that it is earth shattering, earth shattering revelation,

2611
02:12:41,120 --> 02:12:46,080
Speaker 2: especially having a kid. Yeah, and I think that the

2612
02:12:46,200 --> 02:12:50,880
Speaker 2: parents were in the wrong and not telling him. I

2613
02:12:50,920 --> 02:12:52,440
Speaker 2: think telling like.

2614
02:12:52,440 --> 02:12:55,720
Speaker 1: The after your explanation, I would agree of like the

2615
02:12:55,840 --> 02:12:56,640
Speaker 1: right way to do it, you know.

2616
02:12:56,960 --> 02:12:58,920
Speaker 2: I think it's like like it's not the same, but

2617
02:12:58,960 --> 02:13:01,080
Speaker 2: it's kind of the same as like being adopted, Like

2618
02:13:01,600 --> 02:13:04,240
Speaker 2: there's never like a good true like I think like

2619
02:13:04,280 --> 02:13:10,320
Speaker 2: you give age appropriate ways along the along a kid's

2620
02:13:10,360 --> 02:13:12,800
Speaker 2: life to say like, hey, this is what your background

2621
02:13:12,880 --> 02:13:16,000
Speaker 2: looks like, right, Like you shouldn't It shouldn't be a

2622
02:13:16,040 --> 02:13:18,800
Speaker 2: surprise to a kid at like when they're twenty that

2623
02:13:18,800 --> 02:13:21,000
Speaker 2: their adopter or whatever. Right, And I think this is

2624
02:13:21,600 --> 02:13:23,800
Speaker 2: similar in that that it shouldn't be a surprise. It

2625
02:13:23,800 --> 02:13:27,600
Speaker 2: should be part of like you knowing about yourself growing up.

2626
02:13:27,880 --> 02:13:30,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think like the slow drip A lot

2627
02:13:30,080 --> 02:13:33,840
Speaker 3: of people are saying eighteen, I feel like one year

2628
02:13:33,920 --> 02:13:37,600
Speaker 3: mature enough, so like maybe ten. I don't know, it

2629
02:13:37,600 --> 02:13:41,640
Speaker 3: depends if I wanted, like maybe thirteen, fifteen sixteen. You

2630
02:13:41,760 --> 02:13:45,240
Speaker 3: just as a parent, you should not keep that information

2631
02:13:45,280 --> 02:13:46,120
Speaker 3: away from.

2632
02:13:45,840 --> 02:13:47,560
Speaker 2: I agree, but I think it could be earlier, Like

2633
02:13:47,600 --> 02:13:50,760
Speaker 2: I think I think there are ways to tell kids

2634
02:13:51,240 --> 02:13:53,520
Speaker 2: three years old, two years old.

2635
02:13:53,720 --> 02:13:59,160
Speaker 3: No, No, you're like once you can understand fully, Like

2636
02:13:59,200 --> 02:14:01,800
Speaker 3: I think five or so is way too young, Like hey.

2637
02:14:02,640 --> 02:14:05,600
Speaker 1: And age appropriate. It's in appropriate for sure, but like

2638
02:14:05,880 --> 02:14:08,520
Speaker 1: there's no age appropriate way to tell a five year

2639
02:14:08,520 --> 02:14:12,040
Speaker 1: old that they could have a debilitating life ending genetic disease.

2640
02:14:12,080 --> 02:14:14,440
Speaker 2: There is a saying that you could die at a

2641
02:14:14,480 --> 02:14:16,760
Speaker 2: young age. That's just learning what death is.

2642
02:14:17,080 --> 02:14:20,120
Speaker 1: And that's that's that's why they watch All Dogs Go

2643
02:14:20,200 --> 02:14:21,720
Speaker 1: to Heaven, Sam.

2644
02:14:21,480 --> 02:14:23,600
Speaker 2: And that's the age of propriori it.

2645
02:14:23,640 --> 02:14:25,400
Speaker 1: You don't make it about them. You make it about

2646
02:14:25,400 --> 02:14:27,760
Speaker 1: the dog and the movie at five, But my dad,

2647
02:14:27,960 --> 02:14:29,680
Speaker 1: can you make it about my dad took me out.

2648
02:14:29,600 --> 02:14:33,440
Speaker 2: Into the forest when I was a kid and had

2649
02:14:33,480 --> 02:14:36,880
Speaker 2: me breathe on a tree to like understand, like, oh,

2650
02:14:36,920 --> 02:14:39,280
Speaker 2: I give like oxen to the tree and the tree

2651
02:14:39,360 --> 02:14:42,760
Speaker 2: gives outside back to me.

2652
02:14:43,200 --> 02:14:46,320
Speaker 1: Like I feel like you realize a cute story explanation

2653
02:14:46,400 --> 02:14:48,160
Speaker 1: that you were like, wait, this is weird.

2654
02:14:48,400 --> 02:14:50,120
Speaker 2: No, it's not weird. It was sick.

2655
02:14:50,200 --> 02:14:54,000
Speaker 1: They didn't teach you that kindergarten was.

2656
02:14:54,080 --> 02:14:56,360
Speaker 2: When I was like, this is in preschool. He was

2657
02:14:56,400 --> 02:14:58,640
Speaker 2: like part of the circle of life. And then he

2658
02:14:58,840 --> 02:14:59,960
Speaker 2: pointed to some dead ship.

2659
02:15:00,000 --> 02:15:03,120
Speaker 1: It is like that. I don't know why. I imagine

2660
02:15:03,120 --> 02:15:09,200
Speaker 1: you so much more developed than that. Read Okay, God,

2661
02:15:09,240 --> 02:15:13,240
Speaker 1: I'm sorry everybody, We're the worst. Okay.

2662
02:15:13,600 --> 02:15:13,720
Speaker 2: Uh.

2663
02:15:13,880 --> 02:15:15,760
Speaker 1: Now they want me to protect them too, but I won't.

2664
02:15:15,840 --> 02:15:17,880
Speaker 1: I love my son and my siblings too much to

2665
02:15:17,960 --> 02:15:21,000
Speaker 1: lie to them. I ended up telling my siblings. We

2666
02:15:21,040 --> 02:15:23,120
Speaker 1: met at my sister's house and I just came out

2667
02:15:23,120 --> 02:15:26,760
Speaker 1: with it. I have Huntington's and it's hereditary. You should

2668
02:15:26,800 --> 02:15:29,840
Speaker 1: both get checked. My brother started panicking. He and his

2669
02:15:29,880 --> 02:15:32,600
Speaker 1: fiance just started trying to get pregnant, and now he's terrified.

2670
02:15:32,960 --> 02:15:35,680
Speaker 1: He's furious with our parents and fully on my side.

2671
02:15:36,120 --> 02:15:38,680
Speaker 1: He confronted them right after, and now we're both going

2672
02:15:38,720 --> 02:15:41,840
Speaker 1: low contact. My sister was more shocked and distant, but

2673
02:15:42,240 --> 02:15:44,800
Speaker 1: she said she'll get tested. My parents are pissed that

2674
02:15:44,840 --> 02:15:47,080
Speaker 1: I told them without waiting for the right time, but

2675
02:15:47,200 --> 02:15:50,080
Speaker 1: I don't regret it. My siblings deserve the truth, and

2676
02:15:50,120 --> 02:15:52,360
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to let them live in ignorance like

2677
02:15:52,400 --> 02:15:54,040
Speaker 1: I did. And I think, like you said, there's no

2678
02:15:54,360 --> 02:15:56,840
Speaker 1: there really isn't a right time for this anymore. It's

2679
02:15:56,880 --> 02:15:59,920
Speaker 1: the right time, the right copra is as soon as possible.

2680
02:16:00,680 --> 02:16:02,600
Speaker 1: Am I the a hill for going low contact and

2681
02:16:02,640 --> 02:16:04,800
Speaker 1: refusing to keep their secret even though they claim they

2682
02:16:04,800 --> 02:16:07,280
Speaker 1: were just trying to protect me. And now we do

2683
02:16:07,360 --> 02:16:12,520
Speaker 1: have an update. But let's let's let's see what we think.

2684
02:16:13,000 --> 02:16:14,920
Speaker 1: I'm kind of split down the middle a little bit here.

2685
02:16:15,400 --> 02:16:18,840
Speaker 2: I think I think OPI is getting pretty like op

2686
02:16:19,000 --> 02:16:26,960
Speaker 2: is upset righted. But I do think that telling the

2687
02:16:27,720 --> 02:16:29,560
Speaker 2: telling the rest of the family is is good.

2688
02:16:29,600 --> 02:16:31,400
Speaker 1: It's a good move. Yeah, for sure, they needed to

2689
02:16:31,440 --> 02:16:34,800
Speaker 1: know the parents, Like I think they were coming from

2690
02:16:34,800 --> 02:16:37,880
Speaker 1: the right place, but then in practice it did it

2691
02:16:37,959 --> 02:16:42,320
Speaker 1: was the wrong thing. And I don't think it's fair

2692
02:16:42,400 --> 02:16:46,400
Speaker 1: to completely disregard their intent. Yeah, I don't think they're

2693
02:16:46,440 --> 02:16:48,760
Speaker 1: to like kind of parvie a better life instead of

2694
02:16:48,800 --> 02:16:52,000
Speaker 1: this thing where you have this like giant anvil hanging

2695
02:16:52,040 --> 02:16:53,800
Speaker 1: over you that could fall on you at some moment.

2696
02:16:53,879 --> 02:16:56,560
Speaker 2: The parents aren't terrible, evil people. They were trying to

2697
02:16:56,600 --> 02:16:59,400
Speaker 2: do what's best. But I do think it is right.

2698
02:16:59,600 --> 02:17:01,080
Speaker 2: I don't Yeah, I don't think it. I don't think

2699
02:17:01,080 --> 02:17:03,400
Speaker 2: it was right, but they were trying to.

2700
02:17:03,360 --> 02:17:04,600
Speaker 1: By their formative viewers for sure.

2701
02:17:04,680 --> 02:17:06,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like if I was like, it was like asthma,

2702
02:17:06,760 --> 02:17:08,280
Speaker 3: asma does suck? I have asthma, But.

2703
02:17:08,360 --> 02:17:11,160
Speaker 1: Like you need to tell a kid that they have asthma.

2704
02:17:10,959 --> 02:17:12,760
Speaker 2: But it's like not telling a kid they have a

2705
02:17:12,760 --> 02:17:13,359
Speaker 2: pen analogy.

2706
02:17:13,560 --> 02:17:17,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's like oh fine, yeah, but for something

2707
02:17:17,120 --> 02:17:19,400
Speaker 1: like parkins is that I don't know. We'll see. Let's

2708
02:17:19,400 --> 02:17:20,160
Speaker 1: get to the update.

2709
02:17:20,400 --> 02:17:21,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2710
02:17:22,000 --> 02:17:27,920
Speaker 1: I told my siblings. We met at my wait, we

2711
02:17:28,040 --> 02:17:30,840
Speaker 1: just read this, but anyway, I'll read the update. Anyway.

2712
02:17:31,000 --> 02:17:32,840
Speaker 1: I told my siblings we met at my sister's house.

2713
02:17:32,879 --> 02:17:34,400
Speaker 1: I just came out with it. I told them that

2714
02:17:34,440 --> 02:17:37,920
Speaker 1: what I had said and that it was hereditary. My

2715
02:17:38,000 --> 02:17:39,680
Speaker 1: sister thanked me for telling her and told me that

2716
02:17:39,680 --> 02:17:42,160
Speaker 1: she would get tested, but seemed distant. I get it.

2717
02:17:42,160 --> 02:17:44,520
Speaker 1: It's very heavy, so I've been giving her space, but

2718
02:17:44,560 --> 02:17:46,960
Speaker 1: made it clear that I'm here for My brother looked

2719
02:17:46,959 --> 02:17:49,960
Speaker 1: horrified because he and his fiance had had started trying

2720
02:17:50,000 --> 02:17:52,640
Speaker 1: for a baby, and the fear in his eyes was immediate.

2721
02:17:52,840 --> 02:17:55,880
Speaker 1: His fiance, who works as a senior nurse in pallative care,

2722
02:17:57,240 --> 02:17:59,920
Speaker 1: didn't take it lightly either. She deals with the gender

2723
02:18:00,120 --> 02:18:02,480
Speaker 1: of diseases every day and had a family member die

2724
02:18:02,520 --> 02:18:05,360
Speaker 1: from one, so this news hit her hard. She immediately

2725
02:18:05,400 --> 02:18:07,800
Speaker 1: took control of the situation. She has a lot of

2726
02:18:07,800 --> 02:18:10,080
Speaker 1: connections in the medical field because of her work, and

2727
02:18:10,160 --> 02:18:12,400
Speaker 1: she's been pulling strings to get my brother's test done

2728
02:18:12,440 --> 02:18:15,360
Speaker 1: as fast as possible. She's also been making sure I

2729
02:18:15,400 --> 02:18:17,879
Speaker 1: get the care I need, reaching out to specialists she

2730
02:18:18,000 --> 02:18:21,280
Speaker 1: knows personally. She's actually moving things around and calling in

2731
02:18:21,320 --> 02:18:26,280
Speaker 1: favors to ensure that I'm seen quickly. I'm good for her.

2732
02:18:27,000 --> 02:18:29,040
Speaker 1: On top of that, she's been adamant that I need

2733
02:18:29,040 --> 02:18:31,440
Speaker 1: to see a counselor pushing me to get emotional support.

2734
02:18:31,640 --> 02:18:33,480
Speaker 1: That is also so true. I can't believe we didn't

2735
02:18:33,640 --> 02:18:39,840
Speaker 1: say therapy one time during that entire discussion. Given her experience,

2736
02:18:39,920 --> 02:18:41,800
Speaker 1: she knows how hard this is going to be, and

2737
02:18:41,840 --> 02:18:44,400
Speaker 1: I'm grateful she's making it happen because I wouldn't know

2738
02:18:44,440 --> 02:18:47,040
Speaker 1: where to begin. My husband and I have also been

2739
02:18:47,080 --> 02:18:50,280
Speaker 1: having difficult conversations about the future. You've decided to make

2740
02:18:50,280 --> 02:18:53,199
Speaker 1: my will, and I've been clear with him about when

2741
02:18:53,400 --> 02:18:56,119
Speaker 1: I won't want to continue living if things get too bad.

2742
02:18:56,480 --> 02:18:58,800
Speaker 2: Riley, stop donating to the stream.

2743
02:18:59,000 --> 02:19:01,520
Speaker 3: Just answer hot Sophia and Riley.

2744
02:19:01,920 --> 02:19:03,040
Speaker 1: Wait, they're a hot pot.

2745
02:19:03,320 --> 02:19:05,680
Speaker 2: They are hot pot and they donated five bucks.

2746
02:19:05,760 --> 02:19:10,360
Speaker 3: Riley stop, damn more time.

2747
02:19:11,480 --> 02:19:14,960
Speaker 1: Y'all. Y'all are missing story. This has been a fun,

2748
02:19:15,080 --> 02:19:17,760
Speaker 1: fun stream and y'all missed out. That's how I feel

2749
02:19:17,760 --> 02:19:22,400
Speaker 1: about it. Y'all missed out. Y'all missed out. Uh but

2750
02:19:23,080 --> 02:19:26,280
Speaker 1: uh uh. We've decided to make my will, and I've

2751
02:19:26,280 --> 02:19:28,480
Speaker 1: been clear with him about when I won't want to

2752
02:19:28,520 --> 02:19:31,400
Speaker 1: continue living if things get too bad. I've also started

2753
02:19:31,400 --> 02:19:34,160
Speaker 1: recording videos for my son. I watched p S I

2754
02:19:34,200 --> 02:19:36,520
Speaker 1: Love You years ago, and the idea of leaving something

2755
02:19:36,560 --> 02:19:38,680
Speaker 1: behind for my husband and son feels like a way

2756
02:19:38,720 --> 02:19:41,440
Speaker 1: to hold onto a part of me. Yeah. That's so sweet,

2757
02:19:42,080 --> 02:19:44,800
Speaker 1: uh and sad. At the same time, we're planning to

2758
02:19:44,800 --> 02:19:47,200
Speaker 1: speak to a child psychologist soon to figure out the

2759
02:19:47,200 --> 02:19:49,520
Speaker 1: best way to prepare our son for what's coming, though

2760
02:19:49,520 --> 02:19:52,720
Speaker 1: we haven't started yet. All we all, and also to

2761
02:19:52,800 --> 02:19:55,520
Speaker 1: weigh our option about him and the possibility of him

2762
02:19:55,560 --> 02:19:58,240
Speaker 1: getting this illness from me. We're not going to make

2763
02:19:58,280 --> 02:20:02,200
Speaker 1: an uninformed decision. On Saturday, our parents invited all of

2764
02:20:02,280 --> 02:20:04,480
Speaker 1: us over to their house, saying they wanted to talk.

2765
02:20:05,000 --> 02:20:07,880
Speaker 1: My sister came too, but she didn't stay. My sister

2766
02:20:07,920 --> 02:20:10,400
Speaker 1: came to, but she didn't stay long. As soon as

2767
02:20:10,400 --> 02:20:12,840
Speaker 1: my parents started explaining how they kept the illness hidden

2768
02:20:12,879 --> 02:20:15,760
Speaker 1: to protect us, she couldn't take it. She stood up,

2769
02:20:15,840 --> 02:20:19,360
Speaker 1: said she couldn't handle it, and left. She's been distant since,

2770
02:20:19,360 --> 02:20:21,400
Speaker 1: and it feels like I've lost her a little. I

2771
02:20:21,440 --> 02:20:23,800
Speaker 1: know she's terrified, but it still hurts to see her

2772
02:20:23,800 --> 02:20:28,880
Speaker 1: pulling away. After my sister left, everything exploded. My parents

2773
02:20:28,959 --> 02:20:31,640
Speaker 1: turned on me, blaming me for ruining the family and

2774
02:20:31,680 --> 02:20:35,920
Speaker 1: accusing me of causing all this chaos by telling the truth. Now.

2775
02:20:36,320 --> 02:20:36,840
Speaker 2: Uh.

2776
02:20:36,879 --> 02:20:38,959
Speaker 1: They kept saying they did it to protect us, but

2777
02:20:39,000 --> 02:20:41,920
Speaker 1: I just couldn't respond anymore. That's when my brother's fiance

2778
02:20:42,040 --> 02:20:45,640
Speaker 1: stepped in. She completely laid into them, telling them that

2779
02:20:45,760 --> 02:20:48,360
Speaker 1: they had no right to keep something this serious from us.

2780
02:20:48,840 --> 02:20:51,240
Speaker 1: She told them that they hadn't protected us, they had

2781
02:20:51,240 --> 02:20:54,040
Speaker 1: betrayed us, and I was so relieved that she stepped

2782
02:20:54,080 --> 02:20:56,480
Speaker 1: in because I didn't have the energy to argue anymore.

2783
02:20:56,959 --> 02:21:00,400
Speaker 1: Then my dad snapped. He started shouting it at her,

2784
02:21:01,080 --> 02:21:03,080
Speaker 1: telling her to stay out of it, and he shoved

2785
02:21:03,160 --> 02:21:06,200
Speaker 1: me I couldn't even react. I was so shocked, and

2786
02:21:06,240 --> 02:21:09,920
Speaker 1: I'm honestly I'm shocked as well reading this. My husband

2787
02:21:10,040 --> 02:21:14,320
Speaker 1: immediately stepped between us, excuse me, grab my dad's arm

2788
02:21:14,440 --> 02:21:17,600
Speaker 1: and told him he'd better never touch me again. My

2789
02:21:17,720 --> 02:21:20,000
Speaker 1: dad just kept shouting, saying I was the one who

2790
02:21:20,040 --> 02:21:22,760
Speaker 1: was tearing the family apart and blowing everything out of proportion.

2791
02:21:23,160 --> 02:21:27,720
Speaker 1: You can't blow, you can't blow, getting like Huntington's out

2792
02:21:27,720 --> 02:21:28,279
Speaker 1: of proportion.

2793
02:21:28,920 --> 02:21:32,160
Speaker 2: That's like like the worst thing that.

2794
02:21:31,680 --> 02:21:34,760
Speaker 1: This is the debt that you have accrued the parents.

2795
02:21:35,080 --> 02:21:37,120
Speaker 1: This is the debt you will crude after all this

2796
02:21:37,240 --> 02:21:42,280
Speaker 1: time of not telling them, like get physical to the.

2797
02:21:45,160 --> 02:21:50,080
Speaker 3: Terrible jod John John, Stop, this is so mean.

2798
02:21:50,320 --> 02:21:52,440
Speaker 1: Stop that he doesn't want he doesn't want us to

2799
02:21:52,480 --> 02:21:54,600
Speaker 1: leave because they're all bringing back hot pop for us.

2800
02:21:54,959 --> 02:21:57,720
Speaker 3: My second week. But this is my second week and

2801
02:21:57,720 --> 02:21:58,960
Speaker 3: this is Dakota's first.

2802
02:21:59,040 --> 02:22:01,040
Speaker 1: I don't even want to leave on so I don't

2803
02:22:01,040 --> 02:22:04,880
Speaker 1: even know what you're doing. Uh huh. So that was it.

2804
02:22:05,440 --> 02:22:08,240
Speaker 1: We left. My brother and his fiance walked out with us,

2805
02:22:08,240 --> 02:22:10,520
Speaker 1: and since then none of us have spoken to my parents.

2806
02:22:10,959 --> 02:22:13,480
Speaker 1: They've been calling, but I don't want to hear their excuses.

2807
02:22:13,800 --> 02:22:16,480
Speaker 1: They're still insisting that they did everything to protect us,

2808
02:22:16,480 --> 02:22:18,920
Speaker 1: but it feels like they were just protecting themselves from guilt.

2809
02:22:19,360 --> 02:22:22,440
Speaker 1: I don't have the energy for their manipulations anymore, but

2810
02:22:22,480 --> 02:22:24,720
Speaker 1: I'll always have energy for you to join us live

2811
02:22:24,760 --> 02:22:29,840
Speaker 1: on YouTube every week at three pm PSD. Just tap

2812
02:22:29,920 --> 02:22:34,000
Speaker 1: that profile. Now, before we finish off the story, let's

2813
02:22:34,000 --> 02:22:37,400
Speaker 1: discuss where we're at. I would like the father to

2814
02:22:37,920 --> 02:22:41,000
Speaker 1: now be No, the father is going into the orc

2815
02:22:41,040 --> 02:22:46,240
Speaker 1: cloud for sure. Father is ordered right out of the system.

2816
02:22:46,560 --> 02:22:49,200
Speaker 2: I feel like the maybe they were trying to do

2817
02:22:49,240 --> 02:22:50,920
Speaker 2: something well intentioned by not.

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02:22:51,680 --> 02:22:53,640
Speaker 3: This is not the time to be well like, this

2819
02:22:53,680 --> 02:22:56,160
Speaker 3: is not But you can't keep hammering that point when

2820
02:22:56,200 --> 02:22:57,959
Speaker 3: it clearly is not what happened.

2821
02:22:58,440 --> 02:23:01,320
Speaker 1: But that that that only makes sense if you end

2822
02:23:01,400 --> 02:23:01,960
Speaker 1: up telling them.

2823
02:23:02,040 --> 02:23:04,839
Speaker 2: But the raising is hand against.

2824
02:23:04,720 --> 02:23:05,760
Speaker 1: Oh, that's unacceptable.

2825
02:23:05,840 --> 02:23:13,039
Speaker 2: That that's that's or God behavior. For sure, John hit

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02:23:13,120 --> 02:23:14,760
Speaker 2: the goal, but only Kean reads and.

2827
02:23:14,800 --> 02:23:18,360
Speaker 1: All chairs that would be great.

2828
02:23:19,160 --> 02:23:24,400
Speaker 2: Uh, but yeah, Dad is in the cloudy.

2829
02:23:24,600 --> 02:23:25,959
Speaker 1: Dad's or clouded for sure.

2830
02:23:26,120 --> 02:23:27,720
Speaker 2: But I want to hear the end of this story.

2831
02:23:27,800 --> 02:23:31,080
Speaker 3: I just don't understand how the parents don't understand, Like

2832
02:23:31,360 --> 02:23:34,879
Speaker 3: they keep hammering it like we did this to protect you.

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02:23:34,840 --> 02:23:36,279
Speaker 3: You're you didn't protect any.

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02:23:36,160 --> 02:23:38,960
Speaker 1: What I I agree with that to a extent. Intend

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02:23:39,320 --> 02:23:41,760
Speaker 1: to there there comes a point where you need to

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02:23:41,800 --> 02:23:42,120
Speaker 1: tell them.

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02:23:42,160 --> 02:23:45,600
Speaker 2: I think it's argument as like, hey, I didn't tell

2838
02:23:45,600 --> 02:23:47,400
Speaker 2: you I cheated to protect your feelings.

2839
02:23:47,440 --> 02:23:49,440
Speaker 1: No, no, no different thing.

2840
02:23:49,520 --> 02:23:52,600
Speaker 3: No, this is what it is.

2841
02:23:52,360 --> 02:23:56,320
Speaker 2: It's obscure. It's obscuring truth. So you don't have to.

2842
02:23:56,360 --> 02:24:00,160
Speaker 3: Like this is literally life or death. Yes, information waiting

2843
02:24:00,760 --> 02:24:01,120
Speaker 3: for death.

2844
02:24:01,240 --> 02:24:05,240
Speaker 1: We're talking about keeping like their childhood sacred or whatever,

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02:24:05,280 --> 02:24:07,600
Speaker 1: where it's like they can have a childhood and be

2846
02:24:07,840 --> 02:24:11,080
Speaker 1: kids and not have to worry about this enormous thing

2847
02:24:11,160 --> 02:24:14,200
Speaker 1: hovering over them, which is fair. But once they hit

2848
02:24:14,240 --> 02:24:16,600
Speaker 1: that age where they're starting to become like adolescents or

2849
02:24:16,640 --> 02:24:19,120
Speaker 1: young adults, like, that's the point where you need to

2850
02:24:19,280 --> 02:24:23,680
Speaker 1: like actually tell them, Okay, you have to know what's

2851
02:24:23,720 --> 02:24:26,400
Speaker 1: going on with you, like you you you need to

2852
02:24:26,440 --> 02:24:28,560
Speaker 1: know now like you've had your childhood.

2853
02:24:28,760 --> 02:24:33,440
Speaker 3: When you understand fully the circumstances of like death and

2854
02:24:33,480 --> 02:24:37,320
Speaker 3: all that stuff and like what this disease is. I

2855
02:24:37,360 --> 02:24:38,800
Speaker 3: think that's when you tell them. And I think again,

2856
02:24:38,879 --> 02:24:42,199
Speaker 3: like early teens is like the best time.

2857
02:24:42,480 --> 02:24:45,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, but I think I think just so you

2858
02:24:45,600 --> 02:24:47,640
Speaker 2: know what you we all know you want to tell

2859
02:24:47,680 --> 02:24:50,400
Speaker 2: them at four years old. I think truth should never

2860
02:24:50,520 --> 02:24:53,879
Speaker 2: be obfiscated, all right. And I think and I think,

2861
02:24:54,440 --> 02:24:57,560
Speaker 2: and I think there's age appropriate ways, like you know,

2862
02:24:57,600 --> 02:24:59,640
Speaker 2: you're you're not gonna say your kid's gonna die or whatever.

2863
02:25:00,320 --> 02:25:04,120
Speaker 2: But I think there's age appropriate ways to tell truth

2864
02:25:04,640 --> 02:25:10,800
Speaker 2: at every age. And it's protection for children, but adult portrayal,

2865
02:25:11,000 --> 02:25:13,440
Speaker 2: that's perfect, all right. But even if you found out

2866
02:25:13,440 --> 02:25:15,760
Speaker 2: when you were eighteen, you would probably be pissed too

2867
02:25:15,760 --> 02:25:17,200
Speaker 2: because you're like, why didn't I know about this?

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02:25:17,280 --> 02:25:22,440
Speaker 1: Further pissed. But I wouldn't be pissed at fourteen or thirteen. Okay,

2869
02:25:22,480 --> 02:25:24,760
Speaker 1: sure I'd be pissed at eighteen for sure, but it

2870
02:25:24,760 --> 02:25:26,400
Speaker 1: would be pissed because I'd be like, will not I

2871
02:25:26,400 --> 02:25:29,279
Speaker 1: have to I have to reprocess my entire like impending

2872
02:25:29,280 --> 02:25:29,840
Speaker 1: adults or.

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02:25:29,879 --> 02:25:32,000
Speaker 3: Would just make my life. I would just be that's

2874
02:25:32,000 --> 02:25:34,560
Speaker 3: like in the back of my head or at least, no,

2875
02:25:34,840 --> 02:25:35,600
Speaker 3: I don't think it would be.

2876
02:25:35,560 --> 02:25:36,120
Speaker 1: In the back of your head.

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02:25:36,160 --> 02:25:37,640
Speaker 2: It would I mean, yes, it's gonna be back in

2878
02:25:37,640 --> 02:25:39,320
Speaker 2: the head, but you would be like it would be

2879
02:25:39,440 --> 02:25:42,720
Speaker 2: just part of of your experience because that it's part

2880
02:25:42,720 --> 02:25:43,359
Speaker 2: of your experience.

2881
02:25:43,360 --> 02:25:44,920
Speaker 3: But then you at least would want to know. But

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02:25:45,240 --> 02:25:45,680
Speaker 3: I don't know.

2883
02:25:45,959 --> 02:25:49,360
Speaker 2: I think I think very I think like I think

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02:25:49,640 --> 02:25:52,200
Speaker 2: what child I think what childhood is. Like my dad

2885
02:25:52,200 --> 02:25:54,240
Speaker 2: would always say, like, you know, preserve your innocence as

2886
02:25:54,280 --> 02:25:57,000
Speaker 2: long as possible what it is. And I do think

2887
02:25:57,000 --> 02:25:59,600
Speaker 2: there's a preservation of innocence here. But I think like

2888
02:26:00,600 --> 02:26:02,120
Speaker 2: and I think that's what they were trying to do

2889
02:26:02,240 --> 02:26:05,720
Speaker 2: to the extreme. But in in like learning things about

2890
02:26:05,720 --> 02:26:09,199
Speaker 2: the world, I think you you learn like like, for example,

2891
02:26:09,240 --> 02:26:11,480
Speaker 2: you learn that there are people that like kill people,

2892
02:26:11,879 --> 02:26:13,840
Speaker 2: you know, when you're like I don't know, six or seven,

2893
02:26:13,920 --> 02:26:16,439
Speaker 2: Like you learn that it's like murderers every like around.

2894
02:26:16,320 --> 02:26:16,920
Speaker 1: Do you I.

2895
02:26:19,200 --> 02:26:21,160
Speaker 2: Guess at least people that like you know, well yeah,

2896
02:26:21,200 --> 02:26:23,440
Speaker 2: straight or danger right yeah, And you learn like you

2897
02:26:23,560 --> 02:26:25,680
Speaker 2: learn that there are you learn there are bad things

2898
02:26:25,680 --> 02:26:28,360
Speaker 2: in the world at an early age, right, and so

2899
02:26:28,600 --> 02:26:31,320
Speaker 2: but you don't learn about like the worst of those people.

2900
02:26:31,360 --> 02:26:33,080
Speaker 2: You just learn like, hey, there's bad things out and

2901
02:26:33,080 --> 02:26:36,200
Speaker 2: that's what that's what they were. The education starts, you know,

2902
02:26:36,240 --> 02:26:40,400
Speaker 2: like five or six, But I think education starts early,

2903
02:26:40,440 --> 02:26:42,480
Speaker 2: and so I think it should start I think all

2904
02:26:42,560 --> 02:26:44,480
Speaker 2: this should start early, and I think it's the same

2905
02:26:44,600 --> 02:26:47,080
Speaker 2: thing as like, like I don't think I think the

2906
02:26:47,160 --> 02:26:51,560
Speaker 2: reason the parents didn't say anything until this point is

2907
02:26:51,640 --> 02:26:56,720
Speaker 2: because they didn't want to deal with telling their child

2908
02:26:57,200 --> 02:27:00,640
Speaker 2: about Huntington's. They didn't want to deal with their their

2909
02:27:00,680 --> 02:27:04,320
Speaker 2: own guilt that was building over time of having to

2910
02:27:04,360 --> 02:27:07,960
Speaker 2: say this knowledge, which is the exact same reason that

2911
02:27:08,000 --> 02:27:11,720
Speaker 2: the cheaters give and not saying no, that's what they were.

2912
02:27:11,800 --> 02:27:13,640
Speaker 1: I think they were just trying to like play it

2913
02:27:13,680 --> 02:27:15,880
Speaker 1: like fingers crossed, like they got out of it. They

2914
02:27:15,879 --> 02:27:19,040
Speaker 1: don't have it, and it's just such a bad that's

2915
02:27:19,040 --> 02:27:22,920
Speaker 1: such a dumb were guilty about. It's like, oh, I'm

2916
02:27:22,920 --> 02:27:26,840
Speaker 1: guilty that I these kids and that I have the

2917
02:27:26,879 --> 02:27:29,480
Speaker 1: rest of the story. It's like I feel like people

2918
02:27:29,560 --> 02:27:31,720
Speaker 1: with like stuff like that still have the right to like,

2919
02:27:32,280 --> 02:27:36,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, I have a kid. He saw the

2920
02:27:36,160 --> 02:27:38,080
Speaker 1: right to have a kid. But yeah, I mean, but

2921
02:27:38,680 --> 02:27:41,480
Speaker 1: you also have the responsibility.

2922
02:27:41,800 --> 02:27:42,600
Speaker 2: I'm telling you that kid.

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02:27:42,879 --> 02:27:47,160
Speaker 1: Any that single day after thirteen that these kids didn't

2924
02:27:47,160 --> 02:27:50,959
Speaker 1: know that they had Huntington's potentially was a mistake. I

2925
02:27:50,959 --> 02:27:53,440
Speaker 1: think every day you got to go this entire moment

2926
02:27:53,760 --> 02:27:56,000
Speaker 1: at least Harry the whole blow up moment that they've

2927
02:27:56,040 --> 02:27:58,240
Speaker 1: had that he was a wizard. They had to pay

2928
02:27:58,280 --> 02:28:01,160
Speaker 1: the debt that they had a crew after all that

2929
02:28:01,240 --> 02:28:02,760
Speaker 1: time of not having the truth out there.

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02:28:03,000 --> 02:28:06,080
Speaker 3: There's a difference between like, hey, you're a wizard, between like,

2931
02:28:06,200 --> 02:28:07,080
Speaker 3: hey you might not.

2932
02:28:07,680 --> 02:28:09,879
Speaker 2: Yeah you're a wizard, Harry, do at eleven.

2933
02:28:09,640 --> 02:28:13,320
Speaker 3: You're a hairy wizard. Let's finish the story.

2934
02:28:13,400 --> 02:28:14,039
Speaker 2: Finish the story.

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02:28:14,080 --> 02:28:15,640
Speaker 1: I like how we all have that moment at the

2936
02:28:15,640 --> 02:28:19,959
Speaker 1: same time when I said, Harry wizard. Okay, the story

2937
02:28:20,000 --> 02:28:23,640
Speaker 1: is coming to a close right now. My brother and

2938
02:28:23,680 --> 02:28:27,039
Speaker 1: I are focused on getting tested. His fiance is doing

2939
02:28:27,080 --> 02:28:30,200
Speaker 1: everything she can to keep things moving forward. She's been

2940
02:28:30,240 --> 02:28:32,720
Speaker 1: an incredible support and we're relying on her to help

2941
02:28:32,760 --> 02:28:36,280
Speaker 1: us navigate what comes next. I'm focusing on my son,

2942
02:28:36,360 --> 02:28:39,520
Speaker 1: my husband and preparing for the future. There's too much

2943
02:28:39,560 --> 02:28:41,879
Speaker 1: at stake to keep fighting about a secret that never

2944
02:28:41,920 --> 02:28:45,320
Speaker 1: should have been kept in the first place. And that

2945
02:28:46,800 --> 02:28:49,680
Speaker 1: is the end of that story.

2946
02:28:49,800 --> 02:28:51,760
Speaker 2: Well, when do you think you should tell your kid

2947
02:28:51,800 --> 02:28:54,360
Speaker 2: that they have Huntington's put your answers to the cut

2948
02:28:54,680 --> 02:28:55,440
Speaker 2: and the chat below.

2949
02:28:55,560 --> 02:28:56,080
Speaker 1: Let's do a.

2950
02:28:56,040 --> 02:29:00,480
Speaker 2: Poll really quick. Is it five or thirteen, five, thirteen

2951
02:29:00,600 --> 02:29:01,000
Speaker 2: or eighteen?

2952
02:29:01,040 --> 02:29:04,520
Speaker 3: How about no? No, no, how about we do thirteen? Is

2953
02:29:04,600 --> 02:29:07,840
Speaker 3: like the median? So like below thirteen.

2954
02:29:08,080 --> 02:29:10,760
Speaker 2: Or below five below, thirteen.

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02:29:10,520 --> 02:29:13,480
Speaker 3: Below, I can't give three choices, I can do two?

2956
02:29:13,560 --> 02:29:15,599
Speaker 2: Okay, fine, how about.

2957
02:29:15,400 --> 02:29:18,600
Speaker 3: Okay, let's let's should we do below thirteen and then

2958
02:29:18,720 --> 02:29:20,680
Speaker 3: above thirteen or twelve?

2959
02:29:20,720 --> 02:29:24,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do let's do below? Yeah above or below, above, above,

2960
02:29:24,720 --> 02:29:28,640
Speaker 2: twelve below twelve okay maybe so like.

2961
02:29:30,360 --> 02:29:31,279
Speaker 3: So below twelve.

2962
02:29:31,480 --> 02:29:33,120
Speaker 2: Jellybuzz saying, how about this instead?

2963
02:29:33,160 --> 02:29:35,119
Speaker 1: How about early childhood or late childhood?

2964
02:29:35,200 --> 02:29:39,600
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that works early. I'm gonna do early and late.

2965
02:29:39,640 --> 02:29:42,680
Speaker 3: How about that? Everyone understands that I can't do too

2966
02:29:42,760 --> 02:29:43,720
Speaker 3: much of like a long.

2967
02:29:43,640 --> 02:29:48,279
Speaker 1: Post early versus lately, early childhood versus late childhood telling

2968
02:29:48,320 --> 02:29:49,760
Speaker 1: him Ming Ming thirteen fifty.

2969
02:29:49,800 --> 02:29:53,840
Speaker 2: I've a lot of support Jessica below, thirteen, Ozzie Girl

2970
02:29:54,000 --> 02:29:59,320
Speaker 2: Art Shop ten, Megan below, thirteen, Wingles below thirteen.

2971
02:29:59,480 --> 02:30:00,760
Speaker 1: Hey did you see Prince? Said?

2972
02:30:00,879 --> 02:30:10,000
Speaker 2: Riley choices below, twelve below twelve. I'm saying early, Dakota

2973
02:30:10,040 --> 02:30:14,440
Speaker 2: saying late. I want to know for me all really early.

2974
02:30:14,640 --> 02:30:17,160
Speaker 1: Look, I think you can, like, let's go, I think

2975
02:30:17,200 --> 02:30:22,480
Speaker 1: you can introduce the concept of like fred, I'm seeing,

2976
02:30:22,879 --> 02:30:26,560
Speaker 1: get fricked. There's only one vote.

2977
02:30:26,760 --> 02:30:28,120
Speaker 2: And it's the only vote that matters.

2978
02:30:28,320 --> 02:30:30,160
Speaker 1: Damn it. Go yeah, there you go.

2979
02:30:30,600 --> 02:30:36,119
Speaker 2: Let's go No no, no, no, no, no, get right, early childhood.

2980
02:30:36,600 --> 02:30:37,360
Speaker 1: Let's freak it go.

2981
02:30:38,160 --> 02:30:43,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys were you guys were so adamant. Oh no,

2982
02:30:43,040 --> 02:30:49,000
Speaker 2: no no, but hmmm, let's go chat. Let's go chat. Look.

2983
02:30:49,040 --> 02:30:50,280
Speaker 1: I see a lot of people in there that I

2984
02:30:50,320 --> 02:30:53,680
Speaker 1: don't think voted for Oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah, sure.

2985
02:30:54,280 --> 02:30:56,920
Speaker 1: That person just said Harriet Spaghetti just said thirteen to

2986
02:30:56,959 --> 02:30:58,640
Speaker 1: sixteen and didn't put a one or two.

2987
02:30:58,760 --> 02:31:00,879
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know it is that the fault of

2988
02:31:00,920 --> 02:31:03,080
Speaker 2: the voters that that didn't show up to an election.

2989
02:31:03,240 --> 02:31:03,800
Speaker 2: I don't think so.

2990
02:31:03,840 --> 02:31:05,959
Speaker 1: We're too smart to know how to vote.

2991
02:31:06,560 --> 02:31:08,400
Speaker 2: They're conscientiously objecting.

2992
02:31:08,800 --> 02:31:12,680
Speaker 1: Ah all right, I guess I saw I see early

2993
02:31:13,000 --> 02:31:16,560
Speaker 1: like because the kids are adaptable, that's what before.

2994
02:31:16,680 --> 02:31:18,320
Speaker 2: People sure listen to chat, but not me.

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02:31:18,520 --> 02:31:21,560
Speaker 1: I feel like eleven twelve thirteen, that's before puber.

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02:31:21,440 --> 02:31:22,959
Speaker 2: Oh now you're doing eleven twelve?

2997
02:31:23,240 --> 02:31:24,199
Speaker 1: Wow? Really?

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02:31:24,720 --> 02:31:29,000
Speaker 2: Really you brought up Well, I was just which is

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02:31:29,000 --> 02:31:30,959
Speaker 2: why I was saying, like, thirteen years way too late.

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02:31:31,160 --> 02:31:33,039
Speaker 2: I really learned that he was a Wizard of eleven

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Speaker 2: and you're just gonna.

3002
02:31:33,800 --> 02:31:39,119
Speaker 1: Disregard eleven then eleven, I mean, but that's still late childhood.

3003
02:31:39,160 --> 02:31:44,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, but there's early admissions to Hogwarts, all right.

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