WEBVTT - Baby Back

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effect Network Talk. You're just two unapologetically

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<v Speaker 1>black women with an opinion who talks. What's up y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for tuning in for a new episode and

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<v Speaker 1>we Talked Back and show dedicated to you dreamers and Chasers.

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<v Speaker 1>This is your co host, aj Holiday. I know you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking at me like that. My jaw is fucked up, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to say, damn onto what happened just now

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<v Speaker 1>opening your mouth to speak, and you was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>barely can. Like y I be using the massage gun

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<v Speaker 1>on my ship. It's like bad so it'd be slipping

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<v Speaker 1>and sliding when I'm talking sometime. But what's up? Tampam y'all?

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<v Speaker 2>Team I love y'allo. Aj Yo, y'all don't work.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a doctor's excuse not to suck. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>to say not just saying niggas names on this goddamn

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<v Speaker 1>my Sorry. The other day I had to think, like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw this nigga dick since March. Yeah, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>eat after seven time? Get out of there. It's crazy

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<v Speaker 1>over there. Like I'm in here trying to adjust my

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<v Speaker 1>shit to the left or right a little bit. It's

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<v Speaker 1>second not have another nigg another bit sucking my man, Dick,

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<v Speaker 1>I had adjust my shit a little bit, like, oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta be in pain for a little bit. Yes, please,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a real thing. What'd you do over the weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I did get up with some friends

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<v Speaker 1>on Saturday. I had a little quick brunch, y'all. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just tired of eating, you know what I'm saying. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like almost soon as soon as you eat, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be tired as soon as I eat.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so crazy. You said that.

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<v Speaker 2>Like yesterday I went out to eat twice, two different times,

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<v Speaker 2>lunch and dinner, and both times I felt sleepy right after.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, you felt tired. I don't know what's that about.

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I need something to wake me up,

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<v Speaker 2>and they offered someone offered me meth.

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<v Speaker 1>It was la what but cocaine or myth? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, we can get you some meth real quick

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<v Speaker 1>to wake up, Like, no, no, thank you, that mething.

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<v Speaker 1>Go wake you up, bitch. She's gonna have your eyes

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<v Speaker 1>stuck somewhere. Oh that's heroin how people be like in

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<v Speaker 1>the zombie leading to the side holding their body up

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<v Speaker 1>like not like, how y'all do that? It's very distorted. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Like as soon as I ate, like every all of us,

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<v Speaker 1>we was like, what y'all about to do? Everybody like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm abouna go home, I say, and take your clothes

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<v Speaker 1>off because it's like at home. I took my clothes

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<v Speaker 1>off and got in the fucking bed. Yesterday I ate

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of son chips. I worked out yesterday morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I ate a couple of son chips, and I automatically

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<v Speaker 1>started feeling tired. It's like this food is fucked up. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the food. Where's the food? So sleepy, sleepy ass

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<v Speaker 1>food sleepy fuck like you literally can't eat no whole

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<v Speaker 1>like solid nothing. It gotta be like drinks and juices

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<v Speaker 1>and slushies and smoothies.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I hear everybody be like eugh. When I

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<v Speaker 2>tell them what I was eating, I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I had an uncrustable what is that that peanut like

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<v Speaker 2>the little peanut butter jelly sandwich?

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<v Speaker 1>Shit? Ew, why would you eat that? My friends? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I like fresh peanut butt and jelly, my jelly costs

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<v Speaker 1>ten dollars, and I get the fresh honey roasted peanut

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<v Speaker 1>butter from Whole Foods. Like that's a good peanut butter

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<v Speaker 1>and jelly sandwich. That ship that's pre made dog you're

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<v Speaker 1>wiling's and that shit snapped after a blunt. That like

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<v Speaker 1>that is some jail food dog. I like him. That's common.

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<v Speaker 1>For eight seconds. I seen my friends feeding their kids

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<v Speaker 1>that ship, and I'm like, y'all tripping. I would never

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<v Speaker 1>like if my kid were have ever come to your house.

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<v Speaker 1>And y'all, y'all, what is it called a stackable, uncrustable

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<v Speaker 1>or uncrustable. If I find out you give give my

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<v Speaker 1>kid an uncrustable, I'm gonna cut your ass.

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<v Speaker 2>Just bring your own uncrustable sea with your little thirty

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<v Speaker 2>dollars people. But you ain't got seem to worry about.

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<v Speaker 1>I love peanut and jelly though. That's my meal. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a good with some almond milk on the side, nice

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<v Speaker 1>and cold. I want no milk nice? What I do?

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<v Speaker 1>This weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>Elliott got invited to Jason lee birthday party and I

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<v Speaker 2>came as his plus one and it was very gay.

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<v Speaker 2>It was it was not a lot of straight men

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<v Speaker 2>in the building, which is to be expected, is Jason Lee.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not a straight man, so I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 2>But I started making good all the.

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<v Speaker 1>Ladies who like to hang out with the with the girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Jonathan Majors was in there, Evan Ross, uh y Ko Cyrus.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's all that I really saw I was

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<v Speaker 2>paying attention to.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I went to the comedy store and saw a

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<v Speaker 2>roast competition. You know, I loved me some stand up comedy,

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<v Speaker 2>so that was that was fun. That was Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 2>were terrible. It made me feel like I really could

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<v Speaker 2>get up there, like, y'all, I have aspirations to do

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<v Speaker 2>like an amateur night of comedy, not no roast session.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you would be good at that, aging bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I got it. I got an hour worth a roaster

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<v Speaker 1>for your ass.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so that's what I did this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>It was cool. Is it? Amateurs at the Uh? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so people just sign up to roast each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yep, and they were terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you roast somebody? All you can do is

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<v Speaker 1>their parents if you don't know their personal lives. Like

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<v Speaker 1>it's like with Battle rappers, like when they push it together,

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<v Speaker 1>like they didn't study this person. But how do you

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<v Speaker 1>just study this random ass person?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't know if they I don't think they

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<v Speaker 2>got a chance to study them. Like the girl had

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<v Speaker 2>autism one of them, so he kept making fun of

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<v Speaker 2>her autism, like how how was the autism?

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<v Speaker 1>Like how did he know she had autism?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I think she said. I think she said it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you give somebody ammo in a

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<v Speaker 1>in a roast, right, I would have used that autism

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<v Speaker 1>to my Uh she won though, Okay, yeah, because she

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<v Speaker 1>probably smarter. She want.

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<v Speaker 2>Neither one of them was funny to me, though.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get in this stupid internet news chow. Y'all know

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<v Speaker 1>I take shit a little too deep sometimes, But this

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<v Speaker 1>word I don't even want to this, this is not much.

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<v Speaker 1>I am conscious of the things I do. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even want to say the fucking word that she getting

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<v Speaker 1>on my fucking nerve. Okay, so y'all niggas don learned

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<v Speaker 1>a new word and sexy Red. Sexy Red tweeted and said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not demurror. I'm ah, I ain't no demurr. I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't no demurror. I'm a hole lip gloss line. So

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<v Speaker 1>she has a Yeah, she has a lip gloss line

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<v Speaker 1>that she uh is coming out with under her I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it's her her brand. It's called north Side Princess

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<v Speaker 1>y on north Side is like the Nigga side of

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<v Speaker 1>town in Saint Louis where all the black people live.

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<v Speaker 1>App But she has this new brand, and I guess

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<v Speaker 1>this is what she would you know, whatever product she

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<v Speaker 1>comes out, what would come under north Side Princess Child.

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<v Speaker 1>The names of the lip gloss on this line is ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk about monopolizing hood ghetto ratchet. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>know if this hood get a Ratchet's just disgusting right this, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just gross. It's just nasty. I'm like, why, why

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<v Speaker 1>are you gonna make this just about like hood get

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<v Speaker 1>a wretched? This is just disgusting. Why does she want

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<v Speaker 1>us to look at her in that way? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess she want y'all to see her for who

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<v Speaker 1>she is. I mean, she okay, she I know people

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I have family members Dad remind me of

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<v Speaker 1>Sexy Red. Like Sexy Red looked like she could be

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<v Speaker 1>on my daddy's side of the family for sure, mm hm.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have people that I know personally that act

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<v Speaker 1>like that too, Like Charlston is fucking ghetto as hell. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so they they those people do exist and she represents them.

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<v Speaker 1>But y'all, some of these lip gloss uh koochie juice,

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<v Speaker 1>Uh bootyhole brown. You wearing a lip glass name nut?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it could be chestnut, but it's just nut

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<v Speaker 1>on your lips. Uh pussy hoole pink. Now, we saw

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<v Speaker 1>the video Sexy Red, we saw your video. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but that pussy whole pink. I'm just who is going

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<v Speaker 1>to release these lip blosses for her? And when you

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<v Speaker 1>ask people what they got on their mouth, are they

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say yellow discharge? It's a yellow discharge one right, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a gone, a real one that is, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>blue balls and there is a sex on my period.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that would be Red Red. This she just

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<v Speaker 1>fucking nuts gross. She's like whatever y'all think. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the crazy part is but she probably gonna sell out,

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<v Speaker 1>sell the fuck out, so right now, I guess on

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<v Speaker 1>her website is just like email. She collect an email,

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<v Speaker 1>so whenever the item drops, you know, it'll be like

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<v Speaker 1>an email list, So it's not actually on Selle yet,

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<v Speaker 1>which I think the smartest thing would have been, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to advertise it, have the products already ready

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<v Speaker 1>right now, like this is the lunch. But yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta you gotta wait for that booty whole brown.

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<v Speaker 2>Well listen, I you know, more power to her, and

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<v Speaker 2>I hope she does sell out, but I will not

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<v Speaker 2>be purchasing any Gneria from my lips.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like manifestation to me. No thanks, I'm cool on that.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder what the ingredients are. She probably even give

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<v Speaker 1>a fuck. She probably didn't go through no damn dermatology.

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<v Speaker 1>She ain't go through no medical, not medical but a

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<v Speaker 1>cosmetic scientist. Nothing, just a bunch of bullshit. People don't happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and people don't. Right, there's probably some Alibabas ship packaged

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<v Speaker 1>up yep and put the name on it. But to

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<v Speaker 1>be peeling and breaking up from Gneria, ooh, it's crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>mean Conorea. Anyway, what else happened? Angela jo Lee? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>so I thought this was funny? She any, Yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>is funny. I don't think it's funny. It was sad

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<v Speaker 1>to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Go ahead, Angelina Jolie hire a hit man for herself.

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<v Speaker 2>So she battled with darker times during her younger years,

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<v Speaker 2>and her quotes about hiring a hitman have recently resurfaced.

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<v Speaker 2>In two thousand and one interview with IMDb, the forty

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<v Speaker 2>nine year old admitted she tried to hire a hitman

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<v Speaker 2>to kill her when she was playing with suicidal thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>Hiring a hitman to kill yourself is kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what it is wild, but I understand and why not?

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<v Speaker 2>Just my thing is why not just off yourself? But

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<v Speaker 2>the reason why was that she didn't want her family

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<v Speaker 2>to Uh, it would be easier for her loved ones

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<v Speaker 2>to deal with right if she was murdered versus having suicide.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And to me that kind of makes sense, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you want to get the fuck about this

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<v Speaker 1>planet right now, and you also, you know you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to hurt your loved ones, if that's really where

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<v Speaker 1>your mind is at, can't nobody like you know how

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<v Speaker 1>people go to psychiatrists and therapists. They can't talk you

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<v Speaker 1>off the ledge for real. They'll try to keep medicating people.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's a decision that individual has made up and

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<v Speaker 1>if they actually followed through, like she really like found

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<v Speaker 1>a hit man. And the craziest thing she said in

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<v Speaker 1>New York, it's like kind of easy to find a

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<v Speaker 1>hit man, like, well, you know what she a hit

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<v Speaker 1>man is any nigga with a gun willing to shoot,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, anybody that's willing to kill somebody is a

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<v Speaker 1>hit man. It ain't got to be like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder how much she was paying the hit man.

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<v Speaker 2>She might have found a nigga name Marcus Off off

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<v Speaker 2>of the Bronx.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure it was a white person, and Angelina

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<v Speaker 1>Jolie was not about to hit up no nigga in

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<v Speaker 1>the hood like he killed me for five hundreds. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure it was somebody like real sketch.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't no hit man, nobody coming with a briefcase

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<v Speaker 2>and a silenceer on a gun.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a nigga. Was like, shit, how much you

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<v Speaker 1>give me? I do it. So it says I was

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<v Speaker 1>very aware that so many people around me, like my mother,

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<v Speaker 1>would feel as though they didn't give enough or do

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<v Speaker 1>enough if I had taken my own life, she told

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<v Speaker 1>the publication in twenty twenty three. So my solution to

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<v Speaker 1>that was if someone else had taken my life like

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<v Speaker 1>in a robbery. Then it would be murder and it

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be that anyone would feel they'd let me down.

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<v Speaker 1>So she was still considering her family, even in her

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<v Speaker 1>it is warped and as weird as it might seem,

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<v Speaker 1>it made it was a thoughtful way end your life.

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<v Speaker 1>We're your loved ones. I get it. But somebody would

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<v Speaker 1>have went to prison because they probably would have found

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<v Speaker 1>your killer, right because Marcus don't know what he doing.

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<v Speaker 1>He just wanted that five stacks. So that the hitman

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<v Speaker 1>told her to wait two months and see how she feel.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's still alive today with a family.

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<v Speaker 2>So right, so I guess two months later she was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>my acne is cleared up, so I guess I can

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<v Speaker 2>stay alive now.

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<v Speaker 1>The fuck out of here. I don't know if anybody's

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<v Speaker 1>out there having fleeting thoughts of suicide. Go talk to somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>talk to somebody. Stay here. We love you, I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>Stay here.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't call no hit man for yourself. Baby, It's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be okay. You see how two months later she was

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<v Speaker 2>willing to live again exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Carly Red says she doesn't want her friends to contact

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<v Speaker 2>her man in no circumstances.

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<v Speaker 1>So.

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<v Speaker 2>The love and hip hop atl star recently sparked debates

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<v Speaker 2>after revealing her boundaries regarding friendships between her girls and

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<v Speaker 2>her babe. She spoke on the controversial subject during a

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<v Speaker 2>sit down with Lauriel on The Morning Hustle. The radio

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<v Speaker 2>host asks you don't want your friends to be cool

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<v Speaker 2>with your man? Carlly Red played no games with her

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<v Speaker 2>spicy response, telling Laurial, not even if I died.

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck? Now? That's trip. She tripped a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, me and you in a car and we

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<v Speaker 2>get in a car accident, and I need to go

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<v Speaker 2>to the hospital, and you need to call my man.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't call him, curly asked with added with a straight face,

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<v Speaker 2>what happened to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch? She might be exaggerating, just a little tiny bit,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just still make it funny. But I understand

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<v Speaker 1>because I have had people like I have given my

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<v Speaker 1>man's phone number to friends in the past, who people

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<v Speaker 1>people I'm no longer friends with and probably should have

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<v Speaker 1>cut the ass off then, right, I don't really care

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<v Speaker 1>because my thing is always you know, if you could

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<v Speaker 1>bag them, you can have them. She's like her responses

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<v Speaker 1>are coming from a place of insecurity. Yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm not even the type that be like, oh my,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't come to my house when I'm home with

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<v Speaker 1>my man in the house. What.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't get friends. I trust these bitches with everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then if that's something that was supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be revealed to me, let it happen soon. In earlier Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have had a friend like, I'm giving you

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<v Speaker 1>his number in case of emergency because I'm like going

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<v Speaker 1>into surgery. This is a real situation. I'm going into surgery,

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<v Speaker 1>and I give my then homegirl my man's number to

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<v Speaker 1>call him and let him know how I'm doing. I

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<v Speaker 1>already spoke to him. I know he's coming after he

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<v Speaker 1>gets off of work. I'm gonna be in surgery. So

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<v Speaker 1>for him to be sitting here in a waiting room

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<v Speaker 1>for no reason doesn't make sense. I'm not that needy

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<v Speaker 1>of a person where I need a nigga to be

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<v Speaker 1>waiting around for me like her. Right, So I had

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<v Speaker 1>already discussed with him, like, hey, I'll see you when

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<v Speaker 1>you get off. She proceeds to call him, and you know,

0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:37.440
<v Speaker 1>she really needs you here, she really wants you to

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<v Speaker 1>be here, like I ask you to do all that.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't ask you to chastise this nigga about nothing

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<v Speaker 1>on a day like this. We already have a plan.

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<v Speaker 1>Just call a man, let him know how I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's it. That's that I should have learned from

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<v Speaker 1>that situation. The next nigga she was selling, she was

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<v Speaker 1>selling in short and so I gave her my man

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<v Speaker 1>at the time phone number to get life insurance for

0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:09.000
<v Speaker 1>his kid. How do y'all end up on the phone

0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:12.080
<v Speaker 1>talking about our fucking relationship? He done picked this bitch

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<v Speaker 1>for all type of information about me. This nigga is

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<v Speaker 1>a con artist. I know my nigga's probably just green

0:17:20.600 --> 0:17:24.160
<v Speaker 1>as your nigga could never get me on the phone

0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:28.439
<v Speaker 1>to talk about you never. Who's this hello? Girl? Right?

0:17:28.600 --> 0:17:30.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm all listen. I had that nigga donumber save and

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<v Speaker 1>if it ring and I see it, I'm calling you first.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't even answer, and I'm calling you like your

0:17:35.320 --> 0:17:39.040
<v Speaker 1>man call, like where are you at? Like even those

0:17:39.240 --> 0:17:41.359
<v Speaker 1>of pranks that people are doing right now, like they

0:17:41.440 --> 0:17:43.720
<v Speaker 1>calling their friends like they would never get me. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>say hello, and when I hear it is your nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna act like something happened in my phone because

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<v Speaker 1>I need to get off the phone with him to

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<v Speaker 1>call you, because why are you calling him? I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>even answering because I already noticed your nigga calling, Like

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<v Speaker 1>my best friends, I have all my best friends boyfriend's numbers,

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<v Speaker 1>but for whatever reason, it'd be like, how would it happen.

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<v Speaker 2>It'd be like, oh, we're surprised were playing in the

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<v Speaker 2>surprise party or for some shit like that has happened

0:18:06.320 --> 0:18:08.920
<v Speaker 2>for me to have their numbers. That's not something like that,

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<v Speaker 2>so I would already know who the fuck it is

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<v Speaker 2>calling me. Please don't play on my phone, nigga. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>calling your girlfriend right now.

0:18:14.400 --> 0:18:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Because we go. Before I talk to you, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's not your friend? If a bitch get on

0:18:22.040 --> 0:18:24.200
<v Speaker 1>the phone talking with your madam, Like, don't call my

0:18:24.320 --> 0:18:27.520
<v Speaker 1>friend about shit. He was wrong and so was she.

0:18:27.960 --> 0:18:32.680
<v Speaker 1>So maybe Carl wadd just wants to avoid this type

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<v Speaker 1>of shit happishness because she knows the women and she

0:18:36.040 --> 0:18:38.760
<v Speaker 1>knows her man. Yeah, she know her friends and she

0:18:38.880 --> 0:18:40.920
<v Speaker 1>knows her man. But if you can't trust your friends

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<v Speaker 1>or your man, you might need to reconsider all those relationships,

0:18:43.840 --> 0:18:46.840
<v Speaker 1>all the people. Yeah, you know, like you might want

0:18:46.880 --> 0:18:49.919
<v Speaker 1>to reconsider it because imagine, imagine you told your homegirl

0:18:50.000 --> 0:18:51.639
<v Speaker 1>something like this, y'all tell me if I'm wrong or not.

0:18:52.840 --> 0:18:56.320
<v Speaker 1>You shut the fuck up, you tell your homegirl girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, I dread the day that somebody I

0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:03.280
<v Speaker 1>used to fuck with in this city sees me with

0:19:03.440 --> 0:19:06.440
<v Speaker 1>my now boyfriend, because niggas don't give a fuck who

0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:09.680
<v Speaker 1>you fucking with until they see you. They don't even

0:19:09.720 --> 0:19:12.160
<v Speaker 1>remember that y'all used to fuck around until they see

0:19:12.200 --> 0:19:14.280
<v Speaker 1>your mass. It's not it really doesn't have nothing to

0:19:14.359 --> 0:19:17.480
<v Speaker 1>do with you. It's just like, yes, I want to

0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:19.520
<v Speaker 1>let him know that I hadn't fucked this bitch before

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<v Speaker 1>type shit. So that's a conversation I had with my

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<v Speaker 1>then best friend. Do you think that's something that she

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<v Speaker 1>should tell your man? Hell, that happened in real fucking life.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I knew she had done talk too fucking

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<v Speaker 1>much exactly, And why would that come up? Like, why

0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:42.800
<v Speaker 1>would you think that you were on my side telling

0:19:42.880 --> 0:19:48.399
<v Speaker 1>him that? Are you nuts? But just be retarded? So

0:19:48.560 --> 0:19:51.680
<v Speaker 1>like you you know, I'm not talking to your boyfriend,

0:19:51.760 --> 0:19:53.920
<v Speaker 1>for an hour on the phone about your relationship. Even

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<v Speaker 1>though I know your side and maybe now he's given

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<v Speaker 1>me his shit, I don't even fuck about his side.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not my friend, dude, so what the hell am

0:20:00.800 --> 0:20:04.600
<v Speaker 1>I talking to you for? But in case of emergency

0:20:04.680 --> 0:20:10.080
<v Speaker 1>and shit like that, like why why wouldn't you want somebody? Right?

0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:12.320
<v Speaker 1>You would have had a car accident and don't nobody

0:20:12.400 --> 0:20:15.040
<v Speaker 1>know your nigga a holy and a cheeseburger, don't know shit?

0:20:15.240 --> 0:20:17.080
<v Speaker 1>You at the hospital fighting for your life and even

0:20:17.119 --> 0:20:19.400
<v Speaker 1>if your dad like who cares? If? Like, who want

0:20:19.440 --> 0:20:27.120
<v Speaker 1>this nigga next? If I'm dead? Like right, the hell o? God,

0:20:27.880 --> 0:20:28.520
<v Speaker 1>bitch is nuts.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but that just comes from a place of like

0:20:32.160 --> 0:20:35.879
<v Speaker 2>hurt and having past situations that somebody betrayed her.

0:20:36.720 --> 0:20:40.120
<v Speaker 1>That's sad too, or she know herself. Maybe she's done

0:20:40.160 --> 0:20:43.439
<v Speaker 1>that a lot of times. You know how people online

0:20:43.480 --> 0:20:46.520
<v Speaker 1>on social media they always want to put like everybody

0:20:46.640 --> 0:20:49.080
<v Speaker 1>hating on me, Like they just have these negative posts

0:20:49.080 --> 0:20:51.000
<v Speaker 1>that they always put up, And half the time I'd

0:20:51.040 --> 0:20:55.080
<v Speaker 1>be like, bitch, that's you right, because everybody hate your ass.

0:20:55.480 --> 0:20:58.639
<v Speaker 1>There's a general consensus that you ain't shit out here.

0:20:59.240 --> 0:21:01.520
<v Speaker 1>But you tell you you telling the world and random

0:21:01.560 --> 0:21:04.399
<v Speaker 1>people who really don't know you that everybody's hating on you.

0:21:05.440 --> 0:21:08.440
<v Speaker 1>Which one is it? So I feel like, you know,

0:21:08.600 --> 0:21:11.400
<v Speaker 1>sometimes people don't trust people because they don't trust themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Write that part.

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<v Speaker 2>I want all my girls to have my nigga numbers.

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<v Speaker 2>Say y'all can tell him what ring to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get period right, Yeah, get me the right ring. He

0:21:21.200 --> 0:21:25.080
<v Speaker 1>need to be able to contact y'all exactly.

0:21:25.640 --> 0:21:27.600
<v Speaker 2>But I trust my girls. I trust my girls with

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<v Speaker 2>my life, my man, my mama.

0:21:29.119 --> 0:21:34.000
<v Speaker 1>You know. So we'll just be weird. This is what

0:21:34.200 --> 0:21:36.320
<v Speaker 1>you pulled up. You read it. That was about the

0:21:37.000 --> 0:21:40.920
<v Speaker 1>house in Virginia. We're gonna close out stupid internet news

0:21:41.000 --> 0:21:42.880
<v Speaker 1>with this wammy, y'all let us know what you think.

0:21:43.160 --> 0:21:47.359
<v Speaker 1>So somebody posted on Twitter or ex whatever y'all want

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<v Speaker 1>to call it nowadays, says this nurse. Said a patient

0:21:51.240 --> 0:21:55.560
<v Speaker 1>came in with his girlfriend. He was HIV positive but

0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:59.680
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to tell her the nurses. Coworker was so

0:21:59.800 --> 0:22:02.680
<v Speaker 1>b o that she went to the girlfriend, pull the girl,

0:22:03.280 --> 0:22:06.200
<v Speaker 1>pull the pull the girl to girl move and told

0:22:06.240 --> 0:22:10.280
<v Speaker 1>her the nurses are at odds on if it was

0:22:10.560 --> 0:22:15.240
<v Speaker 1>right or wrong not but wait, what the nurses are

0:22:15.440 --> 0:22:19.040
<v Speaker 1>at odds on if it was right or not. But

0:22:19.200 --> 0:22:23.000
<v Speaker 1>the one that babble got fired and is now facing

0:22:23.359 --> 0:22:29.119
<v Speaker 1>potential jail time. What is of what's that girl? I was?

0:22:29.440 --> 0:22:33.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm not. It says you take on, you take an

0:22:33.359 --> 0:22:37.320
<v Speaker 1>old and hippo ain't nothing to play with. It's all

0:22:37.560 --> 0:22:43.800
<v Speaker 1>very unfortunate. Okay, So who told one of the nurses?

0:22:43.840 --> 0:22:46.159
<v Speaker 1>So this is so let's say me and you like

0:22:46.240 --> 0:22:48.600
<v Speaker 1>you're both we're both nurses. A patient comes in. This

0:22:48.720 --> 0:22:52.000
<v Speaker 1>is my patient, right you ever, you overhear the conversation,

0:22:52.119 --> 0:22:54.440
<v Speaker 1>you pull the girl to the side and say, hey,

0:22:55.720 --> 0:22:59.159
<v Speaker 1>your dude in here sick, right. He doesn't want you

0:22:59.200 --> 0:23:01.320
<v Speaker 1>to nothing that he could give you. Yeah, he doesn't

0:23:01.359 --> 0:23:04.320
<v Speaker 1>want you to know. But here's a situation. You didn't

0:23:04.320 --> 0:23:06.680
<v Speaker 1>get fired. This is my patient though, So you just

0:23:07.640 --> 0:23:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think I would have sent her an

0:23:09.040 --> 0:23:11.760
<v Speaker 1>anonymous message on social media. I wouldn't have jeopardized my

0:23:11.920 --> 0:23:13.520
<v Speaker 1>job right then and there. But I think it's kind

0:23:13.560 --> 0:23:17.719
<v Speaker 1>of sick and fucked up that if two people are

0:23:17.800 --> 0:23:22.720
<v Speaker 1>there in the office together and let you know, yes,

0:23:23.760 --> 0:23:26.560
<v Speaker 1>and I know somebody that does happened to where the

0:23:26.640 --> 0:23:27.720
<v Speaker 1>guy had HIV?

0:23:29.640 --> 0:23:31.680
<v Speaker 2>I can see you now where you outside in the

0:23:31.800 --> 0:23:34.920
<v Speaker 2>rain and the raincoat like carbon San Diego and a

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<v Speaker 2>payphone somewhere.

0:23:36.080 --> 0:23:39.119
<v Speaker 1>Call it a bitch telling her yes because it's not

0:23:39.359 --> 0:23:42.360
<v Speaker 1>just her when she's cheats. Or maybe she goes into

0:23:42.400 --> 0:23:45.439
<v Speaker 1>another relationship and she hadn't gotten tested, or maybe they

0:23:45.560 --> 0:23:47.960
<v Speaker 1>both went to get tested together and his shit came

0:23:48.040 --> 0:23:52.760
<v Speaker 1>back positive and not hers. Right, that's the situation I

0:23:52.880 --> 0:23:55.280
<v Speaker 1>know of. That actually happened to somebody that real close

0:23:55.359 --> 0:24:00.639
<v Speaker 1>to me. But he told her not the nurse did

0:24:00.680 --> 0:24:03.840
<v Speaker 1>he tell her right away? Girl? When he came out

0:24:03.920 --> 0:24:07.600
<v Speaker 1>with a gray white face, she was like, what's up?

0:24:08.200 --> 0:24:11.399
<v Speaker 1>My tests? Also was good, what's up with yours? The

0:24:11.520 --> 0:24:16.399
<v Speaker 1>nigga says what's HIV again, as if he didn't fucking

0:24:16.520 --> 0:24:21.760
<v Speaker 1>know what HIV is? Who are you playing there? That's scary.

0:24:22.000 --> 0:24:23.760
<v Speaker 1>That is scary as a fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I don't understand, Like legally, I mean, I

0:24:28.720 --> 0:24:32.159
<v Speaker 2>get the law you can't share someone's medical information, but

0:24:32.280 --> 0:24:34.480
<v Speaker 2>when it comes to something like that, it should be

0:24:35.000 --> 0:24:37.480
<v Speaker 2>if they came in together and you know they're sexually active,

0:24:37.520 --> 0:24:40.440
<v Speaker 2>there's should be something that should be allowed to be

0:24:40.520 --> 0:24:41.879
<v Speaker 2>shared between both parties.

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<v Speaker 1>What state is that? Because in the state of South Carolina,

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<v Speaker 1>if somebody comes in with like that's like d Hack

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<v Speaker 1>is on your ass. D Hack wants to know who

0:24:49.320 --> 0:24:52.000
<v Speaker 1>you've had access to. D Heck is going to call

0:24:52.960 --> 0:24:56.440
<v Speaker 1>other people. They're gonna call the people that you tell

0:24:56.520 --> 0:24:58.879
<v Speaker 1>them that you've had access to. That's nothing to play with.

0:24:59.040 --> 0:25:01.879
<v Speaker 1>So I'm confused as to why it's a hip of

0:25:01.960 --> 0:25:04.680
<v Speaker 1>violation like what stated we Maybe it's a state that

0:25:05.720 --> 0:25:09.680
<v Speaker 1>just I don't know, Yeah, because that's next level. Why

0:25:09.720 --> 0:25:14.480
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't you tell her sitting right there, y'all came together, right,

0:25:14.600 --> 0:25:19.000
<v Speaker 1>but you will tell him my shit? Negative? Right?

0:25:20.160 --> 0:25:23.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't think they'll tell anything. Like it's on the

0:25:23.880 --> 0:25:25.359
<v Speaker 2>person to tell their truth.

0:25:25.640 --> 0:25:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I guess their truth. Ain't it against the law to

0:25:29.800 --> 0:25:33.679
<v Speaker 1>pass out HIV? Is it against the law that has?

0:25:34.520 --> 0:25:37.400
<v Speaker 1>What state is that? Yes? What state is that? Yeah?

0:25:37.440 --> 0:25:39.960
<v Speaker 1>Because if you are in certain states, and I believe

0:25:40.119 --> 0:25:43.280
<v Speaker 1>a lot of them, if you intentionally inflict that type

0:25:43.320 --> 0:25:45.919
<v Speaker 1>of harm on people, you will get jail time. If

0:25:46.000 --> 0:25:48.280
<v Speaker 1>you know what your status is and you are out

0:25:48.359 --> 0:25:50.680
<v Speaker 1>here having sex with a bunch of different people and

0:25:51.440 --> 0:25:55.280
<v Speaker 1>it leads back to you you going to prison. As

0:25:55.359 --> 0:25:57.240
<v Speaker 1>you should remember that white guy, he was a DJ

0:25:57.760 --> 0:25:58.960
<v Speaker 1>in South Carolina.

0:25:59.320 --> 0:26:02.760
<v Speaker 2>Carolina Stephen, all those young black white guy.

0:26:03.359 --> 0:26:05.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he got arrested for that.

0:26:05.359 --> 0:26:06.160
<v Speaker 2>He would have jail.

0:26:08.040 --> 0:26:11.240
<v Speaker 1>Serves them. Right. He looked sick though, but he was.

0:26:11.400 --> 0:26:14.000
<v Speaker 1>He was praying on really really young black women, young

0:26:14.040 --> 0:26:14.560
<v Speaker 1>black women.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmmmm, that's terrible. Yeah, I would have told you,

0:26:19.760 --> 0:26:21.640
<v Speaker 2>but I don't think I would. But then I would

0:26:21.680 --> 0:26:23.640
<v Speaker 2>have follow old girl because you the one who told.

0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:26.680
<v Speaker 2>Because how did they know that I violated hippo?

0:26:26.920 --> 0:26:31.960
<v Speaker 1>Right? Who told? I violated hippo? Bitch? The patient, the girlfriend,

0:26:32.480 --> 0:26:35.399
<v Speaker 1>the girlfriend told on the nurse. This is why sometimes

0:26:35.400 --> 0:26:37.919
<v Speaker 1>you got mind your fucking business, because if somebody were

0:26:37.960 --> 0:26:39.280
<v Speaker 1>to give me some shit like that, I would have

0:26:39.320 --> 0:26:41.280
<v Speaker 1>tried to go about it and a roundabout way to

0:26:41.400 --> 0:26:42.919
<v Speaker 1>not get that person in trouble. I would have been

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:47.560
<v Speaker 1>so appreciative that they told me. Right, but she you know,

0:26:47.720 --> 0:26:51.600
<v Speaker 1>but she probably wasn't shocked, like you know, you just

0:26:51.760 --> 0:26:56.480
<v Speaker 1>never know how you're going to react when you Yeah news.

0:26:56.760 --> 0:26:58.000
<v Speaker 1>I hope the girl is okay.

0:26:58.240 --> 0:27:04.320
<v Speaker 2>I hope the man it's okay, shit, because I mean he's.

0:27:03.440 --> 0:27:06.439
<v Speaker 1>Very the fucking seitful. Okay, he probably knew he had

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:10.280
<v Speaker 1>that ship the day they went to the hospital. Yeah,

0:27:11.080 --> 0:27:11.800
<v Speaker 1>or maybe he didn't.

0:27:11.880 --> 0:27:14.040
<v Speaker 2>If he didn't, and he just is shocked and embarrassing

0:27:14.080 --> 0:27:15.719
<v Speaker 2>and shame, and it was like, I want to tell her,

0:27:15.760 --> 0:27:17.760
<v Speaker 2>but I need to tell her on my own time.

0:27:17.760 --> 0:27:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Which would be never, because you got a first what's

0:27:20.720 --> 0:27:23.359
<v Speaker 1>what's your own time while you still having sex with me?

0:27:25.080 --> 0:27:34.159
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe later that night, I don't know. No, No,

0:27:36.040 --> 0:27:40.320
<v Speaker 1>there's never a right time to tell someone your HIV immediately.

0:27:40.480 --> 0:27:44.200
<v Speaker 1>It's the right time immediately, yeah, But I mean, like,

0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:47.520
<v Speaker 1>if you're someone with HIV, that's a hard conversation to have,

0:27:47.800 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, imagine that, Like, that's a hard conversation to

0:27:51.080 --> 0:27:53.280
<v Speaker 1>have to come to your partner and tell him I

0:27:53.400 --> 0:27:54.200
<v Speaker 1>have this illness.

0:27:54.840 --> 0:27:56.760
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know I had it, or I didn't know

0:27:56.880 --> 0:28:00.400
<v Speaker 2>I had it, But now I'm telling you because i'm

0:28:00.640 --> 0:28:02.520
<v Speaker 2>you know, go get.

0:28:02.400 --> 0:28:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Your dick check and stop cheating on your home on

0:28:04.640 --> 0:28:10.159
<v Speaker 1>your girlfriend's tests. Stop men, stop cheating off your girls' tests.

0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:12.920
<v Speaker 1>That is an individual test that you need to get.

0:28:13.280 --> 0:28:15.960
<v Speaker 1>It ain't no oh you good, I'm good type shit.

0:28:16.080 --> 0:28:19.119
<v Speaker 1>There's a window pieriod. There's all types of shit like

0:28:19.240 --> 0:28:22.679
<v Speaker 1>go get your own test, and.

0:28:22.720 --> 0:28:25.480
<v Speaker 2>If y'all gonna be out here, fucking all willy nilly.

0:28:25.680 --> 0:28:36.760
<v Speaker 1>They have will willy nil willy niling with your penis.

0:28:37.119 --> 0:28:40.720
<v Speaker 2>They have drugs like prep can keep you from getting HIV.

0:28:41.160 --> 0:28:44.400
<v Speaker 1>You know that, Like I know they said, that's what

0:28:44.520 --> 0:28:49.680
<v Speaker 1>they say, right, But look at the name of the medicine, preparation.

0:28:49.920 --> 0:28:55.760
<v Speaker 1>It's preparing you for what exactly to be HIV free?

0:28:56.280 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah? Or is it just uh? When you go

0:29:00.440 --> 0:29:04.440
<v Speaker 1>for testing you get the false negative type shit HIV blocker.

0:29:05.120 --> 0:29:09.400
<v Speaker 1>Because prep to me, that word in itself means to prepare.

0:29:09.560 --> 0:29:12.800
<v Speaker 1>So what are you preping the body for? Be careful, y'all.

0:29:12.840 --> 0:29:16.960
<v Speaker 1>That's all you can do a fight. It ain't nothing

0:29:17.120 --> 0:29:19.480
<v Speaker 1>that could prepare you for that shit, not even a

0:29:19.600 --> 0:29:23.240
<v Speaker 1>medication called prep The only thing that can uh guard

0:29:23.280 --> 0:29:25.520
<v Speaker 1>against it is condoms and no sex. That's it.

0:29:26.440 --> 0:29:28.680
<v Speaker 2>Well, let me just say this. This is gonna sound crazy.

0:29:28.840 --> 0:29:31.320
<v Speaker 2>Y'all probably gonna be in the comments saying timmy stupid.

0:29:31.400 --> 0:29:34.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't care what y'all think. At this point, I

0:29:34.680 --> 0:29:39.000
<v Speaker 2>would rather get HIV than cancer. If I had to

0:29:39.080 --> 0:29:42.080
<v Speaker 2>choose between HIV and cancer, I would take HIV over cancer.

0:29:42.440 --> 0:29:45.920
<v Speaker 2>People are living full lives with HIV like they take

0:29:45.960 --> 0:29:48.440
<v Speaker 2>their medicine and they're almost non detected.

0:29:49.040 --> 0:29:50.960
<v Speaker 1>They can go. See that's what I think PREP does.

0:29:51.120 --> 0:29:53.640
<v Speaker 1>PREP does like that non detected bullshit which I've seen

0:29:53.680 --> 0:29:54.640
<v Speaker 1>a crazy woman on it.

0:29:54.680 --> 0:29:57.040
<v Speaker 2>Where the disease you don't even thrive in your body

0:29:57.120 --> 0:29:59.440
<v Speaker 2>no more, it doesn't kill you. The same people are

0:29:59.480 --> 0:30:02.760
<v Speaker 2>living long. Cancer, on the other hand, is taking people

0:30:02.920 --> 0:30:04.200
<v Speaker 2>every single day.

0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:07.720
<v Speaker 1>I think about. I think both of them is about detection,

0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:11.520
<v Speaker 1>detecting it early enough to where you can, you know,

0:30:12.520 --> 0:30:16.160
<v Speaker 1>help yourself not get six. So HIV is AIDS is

0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:19.200
<v Speaker 1>the HIV is the virus that causes AIDS, right, So

0:30:19.240 --> 0:30:22.280
<v Speaker 1>if you can detect your status and that HIV status,

0:30:22.360 --> 0:30:24.040
<v Speaker 1>then you can live long. But there's a lot of

0:30:24.080 --> 0:30:25.920
<v Speaker 1>people out here who never get tested and then they

0:30:26.040 --> 0:30:28.920
<v Speaker 1>die of AIDS. It's the same thing with cancer. You

0:30:29.040 --> 0:30:31.400
<v Speaker 1>know you're not going to get the scans and things

0:30:31.480 --> 0:30:33.560
<v Speaker 1>you need, like the minute you should, bitch, we are

0:30:33.600 --> 0:30:35.720
<v Speaker 1>out here talking about were sleepy after we eat? We

0:30:35.840 --> 0:30:37.560
<v Speaker 1>need to see about that. You see what I'm saying.

0:30:38.000 --> 0:30:41.040
<v Speaker 2>It's young people who shouldn't even be testing for cancer

0:30:41.160 --> 0:30:44.280
<v Speaker 2>at such a young age are coming up with cancer.

0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:48.280
<v Speaker 1>But it's tongues. But there's things that be happening that

0:30:48.560 --> 0:30:51.440
<v Speaker 1>they avoided or they didn't pay attention to to go

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:55.160
<v Speaker 1>check on early enough. Yeah, you know, there's your body's

0:30:55.200 --> 0:30:56.400
<v Speaker 1>been telling you something going.

0:30:56.320 --> 0:30:59.360
<v Speaker 2>On, right, God, tongue cancer died in a year after Yeah,

0:30:59.680 --> 0:31:02.120
<v Speaker 2>ain't doing now like stuff like that. How do you

0:31:02.200 --> 0:31:03.719
<v Speaker 2>even get tongue cancer?

0:31:03.840 --> 0:31:06.040
<v Speaker 1>What the fuck is that? That shit is crazy. It's

0:31:06.080 --> 0:31:09.040
<v Speaker 1>a lot of shit going on. Hey, I got my theories.

0:31:09.240 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 1>But when somebody goes into the hospital and comes out

0:31:11.640 --> 0:31:15.520
<v Speaker 1>with monkey pox, HIV and what was it was a

0:31:15.600 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 1>third something? I saw an article. This guy he uh

0:31:18.320 --> 0:31:20.440
<v Speaker 1>tested positive. It was like the first person to test

0:31:20.520 --> 0:31:23.640
<v Speaker 1>positive for all three of these things. They're all no,

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:28.640
<v Speaker 1>it was COVID. Sorry, it was COVID, HIV and monkey pox. Okay,

0:31:29.520 --> 0:31:32.120
<v Speaker 1>I need y'all to do some fucking research. Shit, he

0:31:32.320 --> 0:31:35.840
<v Speaker 1>is too goddamn that damn backs that's what the fuck

0:31:35.880 --> 0:31:38.960
<v Speaker 1>he was into. Because that shit literally, you don't have

0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:41.920
<v Speaker 1>an immune system anymore, and that's essentially what HIV is.

0:31:42.040 --> 0:31:45.920
<v Speaker 1>You no longer have an immune system, you know, so

0:31:46.040 --> 0:31:52.480
<v Speaker 1>now your body can't fight against outside it's immune disease. Sure, yeah,

0:31:52.680 --> 0:31:56.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't want either place that went to a dark morning.

0:31:58.480 --> 0:32:01.560
<v Speaker 1>Let's get the fuck out of here before get darker. Right,

0:32:02.600 --> 0:32:05.640
<v Speaker 1>what are we talking about this week? We look, we're

0:32:05.680 --> 0:32:08.520
<v Speaker 1>talking about living and having children. That's what we're talking

0:32:08.560 --> 0:32:11.040
<v Speaker 1>about this week. Okay, because we got a bright, long

0:32:11.680 --> 0:32:13.840
<v Speaker 1>future ahead of us. Bet ch'a. I'm just going to

0:32:13.920 --> 0:32:19.840
<v Speaker 1>get better, not worse, period. Yes, and so that's the future.

0:32:19.920 --> 0:32:21.800
<v Speaker 1>So we're talking about the future today, y'all. That's what

0:32:21.840 --> 0:32:31.600
<v Speaker 1>we're talking about them. We'll be right back after this commercial. Hey, y'all,

0:32:31.720 --> 0:32:32.720
<v Speaker 1>we are back.

0:32:33.160 --> 0:32:36.880
<v Speaker 2>And I was talking to AJ and we were thinking

0:32:36.960 --> 0:32:40.320
<v Speaker 2>of content, and I was like, you know what, I

0:32:40.480 --> 0:32:44.800
<v Speaker 2>really want to have a conversation about motherhood, which is

0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:46.920
<v Speaker 2>a sensitive topic for both of us.

0:32:47.000 --> 0:32:47.480
<v Speaker 1>I think.

0:32:49.480 --> 0:32:54.560
<v Speaker 2>Because doctors say that if we were to get pregnant today,

0:32:55.760 --> 0:32:59.080
<v Speaker 2>it would be a jery accurate pregnancy. And I was

0:32:59.800 --> 0:33:05.800
<v Speaker 2>very offended pregnancy, very offended by the term. And I

0:33:05.960 --> 0:33:10.560
<v Speaker 2>was just thinking about how we see more women having

0:33:10.760 --> 0:33:16.960
<v Speaker 2>children later in life, like like how old Janet had

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:18.160
<v Speaker 2>a baby fifty.

0:33:19.680 --> 0:33:25.400
<v Speaker 1>Moregnant. Yeah, so the girls are giving births. I don't

0:33:25.440 --> 0:33:32.240
<v Speaker 1>look exactly like a Shaunty pregnant, like already beautiful, happy,

0:33:32.640 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 1>thick up yeah, full yeah, But I mean that's I

0:33:36.440 --> 0:33:39.200
<v Speaker 1>already know baby, gonna baby, gonna do me in a

0:33:39.200 --> 0:33:39.520
<v Speaker 1>little bit.

0:33:39.560 --> 0:33:42.520
<v Speaker 2>But he had the baby, right, she did, I believe, so, oh,

0:33:42.600 --> 0:33:45.320
<v Speaker 2>congratulations to her. I didn't see any reports on it.

0:33:45.680 --> 0:33:48.520
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm lying. Yeah, I feel like I've seen something

0:33:48.600 --> 0:33:50.280
<v Speaker 1>that said they had the baby, like a week ago.

0:33:51.360 --> 0:33:53.840
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't know, but you might be right now

0:33:53.920 --> 0:33:54.800
<v Speaker 2>with Jane's baby.

0:33:55.440 --> 0:33:57.680
<v Speaker 1>Have we seen you? Where is the baby? Jack? I

0:33:57.720 --> 0:34:01.240
<v Speaker 1>have not seen the baby either, not sure. I remember

0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:03.280
<v Speaker 1>her having one picture when he was an infant. You

0:34:03.440 --> 0:34:07.480
<v Speaker 1>just like a little like a little doll based, little

0:34:07.480 --> 0:34:11.880
<v Speaker 1>puffy face, but nothing, you know, big this This kid

0:34:11.960 --> 0:34:14.520
<v Speaker 1>should be at least five years old now, right, Yeah.

0:34:14.840 --> 0:34:17.880
<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm assuming somewhere in there four or five. Tom's

0:34:17.880 --> 0:34:19.120
<v Speaker 2>moved that baby might be twenty one.

0:34:19.160 --> 0:34:24.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Time been moving really fast lately. We

0:34:24.800 --> 0:34:26.000
<v Speaker 1>want to see the baby, Janet.

0:34:26.840 --> 0:34:28.799
<v Speaker 2>Is there a cut off age for you, like if

0:34:28.840 --> 0:34:31.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm not pregnant, if I don't get pregnant by this.

0:34:31.640 --> 0:34:34.440
<v Speaker 1>I was saying forty at one point, but it's like

0:34:34.520 --> 0:34:38.799
<v Speaker 1>when forty comes, it's like, so now I'm at forty two.

0:34:39.840 --> 0:34:42.839
<v Speaker 1>So every year you push you for it, so if

0:34:42.840 --> 0:34:44.360
<v Speaker 1>it don't happen, like okay, so I want to have

0:34:44.400 --> 0:34:47.160
<v Speaker 1>a Gemini, so I might actively start trying to get

0:34:47.200 --> 0:34:51.000
<v Speaker 1>pregnant in September. I don't know this year. Yeah, okay,

0:34:51.719 --> 0:34:55.719
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm here following my uh ovulation, like for I

0:34:55.840 --> 0:34:58.840
<v Speaker 1>already follow it, but I follow it to not get pregnant,

0:34:59.040 --> 0:35:01.719
<v Speaker 1>which because I've had two tube of pregnancies, and once

0:35:01.760 --> 0:35:05.040
<v Speaker 1>you have one, your chances of having another increase. So

0:35:05.080 --> 0:35:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I've already had a second one, so I don't want

0:35:08.200 --> 0:35:10.480
<v Speaker 1>to end up in a situation where I have another

0:35:10.680 --> 0:35:14.880
<v Speaker 1>like ectopic pregnancy. But the better way for me to

0:35:14.960 --> 0:35:17.520
<v Speaker 1>get pregnant would be to do an in vitro. But

0:35:17.680 --> 0:35:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I can is Carol, you don't know what in vitro is.

0:35:23.239 --> 0:35:25.960
<v Speaker 1>You never looked it up, Like, no, I've never never,

0:35:26.120 --> 0:35:29.239
<v Speaker 1>because I actively, like before I stopped working at the

0:35:29.320 --> 0:35:31.120
<v Speaker 1>last company I worked for, like I'm trying to hurry

0:35:31.200 --> 0:35:32.919
<v Speaker 1>up and use all my health care benefits and shit,

0:35:33.320 --> 0:35:36.600
<v Speaker 1>I did start like trying to just do like the

0:35:36.880 --> 0:35:40.120
<v Speaker 1>beginning process of checking on your fertility and stuff like.

0:35:40.200 --> 0:35:42.880
<v Speaker 1>So they they check your tubes, your philopian tubes and

0:35:42.920 --> 0:35:46.560
<v Speaker 1>stuff like that, and they which I only have one

0:35:46.960 --> 0:35:51.200
<v Speaker 1>of you only have one? Yes, I have one, but listen, y'all.

0:35:51.280 --> 0:35:54.319
<v Speaker 1>The amazing thing about a woman's body, even with one

0:35:54.440 --> 0:35:57.800
<v Speaker 1>philopian tube, do you know that it moves to the

0:35:57.880 --> 0:36:02.919
<v Speaker 1>next ovary to catch day like you're philopian too, one

0:36:03.520 --> 0:36:07.400
<v Speaker 1>actually moves. You don't need both of them. Obviously you

0:36:07.560 --> 0:36:11.240
<v Speaker 1>had to, Yes, obviously you had too for a reason.

0:36:11.320 --> 0:36:14.880
<v Speaker 1>But you can still operate with the one.

0:36:16.360 --> 0:36:18.640
<v Speaker 2>Just like a man can have one nut and make babies.

0:36:19.560 --> 0:36:21.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it's true.

0:36:22.160 --> 0:36:24.120
<v Speaker 2>I know somebody who lost the nut in high school,

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:27.479
<v Speaker 2>I mean in college, wrestling with his roommate and got needed.

0:36:27.680 --> 0:36:29.839
<v Speaker 1>I know somebody with one nut too, because they shit

0:36:29.880 --> 0:36:34.040
<v Speaker 1>had got twisted once, like inside, how are you going

0:36:34.080 --> 0:36:37.920
<v Speaker 1>to nuts? Okay, but go ahead, sorry, reason it's nuts

0:36:38.040 --> 0:36:43.520
<v Speaker 1>right this girl nuts? Girl nuts inside. So yeah, I

0:36:43.600 --> 0:36:46.160
<v Speaker 1>only have the one tube, so it moves anyway. So

0:36:46.680 --> 0:36:49.200
<v Speaker 1>I track my ovulation because sometimes I feel like I

0:36:49.360 --> 0:36:52.520
<v Speaker 1>might feel like I'm ovulating, but I'm not. And I

0:36:52.600 --> 0:36:55.880
<v Speaker 1>think it's because of the the one over. Because they

0:36:55.880 --> 0:36:58.120
<v Speaker 1>say you can have like phantom periods. All types of

0:36:58.120 --> 0:37:00.319
<v Speaker 1>shit be happening a child when you get a certain

0:37:00.360 --> 0:37:03.080
<v Speaker 1>age and when you have had some type of fertility issue,

0:37:03.880 --> 0:37:07.200
<v Speaker 1>like you still have a cycle. Yeah, but that doesn't

0:37:07.239 --> 0:37:11.560
<v Speaker 1>mean you're actually like yeah. So I started like going

0:37:11.600 --> 0:37:13.440
<v Speaker 1>through the process to check on that stuff. So I

0:37:13.560 --> 0:37:15.640
<v Speaker 1>only got as far as and I forgot the name

0:37:15.680 --> 0:37:17.919
<v Speaker 1>of the procedure. But it's just like they both die

0:37:18.120 --> 0:37:20.960
<v Speaker 1>through the fallopian tube, receive if it's any blockages. So

0:37:21.040 --> 0:37:23.920
<v Speaker 1>I have the one tube with a little blockage. So

0:37:24.600 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 1>did you have a tube removed? So the first time,

0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:33.160
<v Speaker 1>the first time, the first the first pregnancy I had,

0:37:33.760 --> 0:37:35.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, it was in the tube, so they had

0:37:35.360 --> 0:37:38.279
<v Speaker 1>they actually removed No, excuse me, I'm lying. The first

0:37:38.360 --> 0:37:40.719
<v Speaker 1>time the one tube that I have, it was a

0:37:40.800 --> 0:37:46.640
<v Speaker 1>pair or a pair, So they removed the ectopic pregnancy

0:37:47.239 --> 0:37:49.560
<v Speaker 1>and they patched up the tube. But we're talking about

0:37:49.719 --> 0:37:52.960
<v Speaker 1>something as small as a vein basically, so there's gonna

0:37:53.000 --> 0:37:56.400
<v Speaker 1>be some scar tissue on that one tube. The second

0:37:56.480 --> 0:38:01.799
<v Speaker 1>time I had an ectopic pregnancy, they remove the entire

0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:04.239
<v Speaker 1>tube and they did that through like the liposcopic, like

0:38:04.320 --> 0:38:05.680
<v Speaker 1>they just go through your neighbor. And they told you

0:38:05.840 --> 0:38:08.160
<v Speaker 1>they were going to do that or they the first time. No,

0:38:08.840 --> 0:38:11.200
<v Speaker 1>I did not know. And this is how, this is

0:38:11.239 --> 0:38:15.080
<v Speaker 1>why I know that the medical system is not for black.

0:38:15.160 --> 0:38:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Even with the first one, I knew something was happening

0:38:17.719 --> 0:38:19.839
<v Speaker 1>with my body, and I kept trying to get an

0:38:19.880 --> 0:38:21.719
<v Speaker 1>appointment to go to the doctor because I'm like, ma'am,

0:38:22.160 --> 0:38:25.160
<v Speaker 1>hey i'm pregnant. I'm calling a nurse. I'm like, hey,

0:38:25.320 --> 0:38:30.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm pregnant and I'm bleeding. But what I also told

0:38:30.920 --> 0:38:32.840
<v Speaker 1>this one because the guy who I was pregnant for

0:38:32.840 --> 0:38:35.960
<v Speaker 1>at the time, which was my boyfriend, I thought, right,

0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:38.719
<v Speaker 1>but you don't know niggas until shit, you're real. So

0:38:38.840 --> 0:38:40.880
<v Speaker 1>now he's acting from the time I told him I

0:38:40.960 --> 0:38:46.480
<v Speaker 1>was pregnant, he started acting weird. So I was contemplating

0:38:46.560 --> 0:38:48.400
<v Speaker 1>having an abortion because one thing about a baby. I

0:38:48.440 --> 0:38:52.520
<v Speaker 1>ain't forcing a nigga to do shit. Let me say,

0:38:52.560 --> 0:38:54.400
<v Speaker 1>if she have a baby with a guy, if he leave,

0:38:54.440 --> 0:38:56.600
<v Speaker 1>you take your baby. Yes, absolutely, I do want to

0:38:56.680 --> 0:38:58.799
<v Speaker 1>put that baby on the porch. What do you want

0:38:58.840 --> 0:39:01.080
<v Speaker 1>to I'm gonna call your ass from the corner store, like,

0:39:01.200 --> 0:39:04.400
<v Speaker 1>what are you gonna do? Well, I don't know what

0:39:04.520 --> 0:39:07.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm do it without you. I'm not doing it, like

0:39:07.520 --> 0:39:12.960
<v Speaker 1>I really really I appreciate mothers, especially ones that had

0:39:13.000 --> 0:39:16.000
<v Speaker 1>to do it by themselves, because how I guess you

0:39:16.200 --> 0:39:18.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, you don't know until you So it feels

0:39:18.640 --> 0:39:20.600
<v Speaker 1>like prisoning me. I guess I would adapt, but do

0:39:20.719 --> 0:39:21.759
<v Speaker 1>I want to go through it? No?

0:39:22.960 --> 0:39:24.800
<v Speaker 2>By for today she was like it was trying to

0:39:24.840 --> 0:39:27.200
<v Speaker 2>go pick up her baby from daycare. She's like, I

0:39:27.280 --> 0:39:29.160
<v Speaker 2>can't believe I gotta go pick this kid up.

0:39:30.840 --> 0:39:32.879
<v Speaker 1>Every day. I gotta do this shit. I can't believe

0:39:32.880 --> 0:39:35.000
<v Speaker 1>I gotta do what girls asked me. She was like,

0:39:35.080 --> 0:39:37.160
<v Speaker 1>am I a bad? Am I a bad mom because

0:39:37.239 --> 0:39:41.000
<v Speaker 1>I can't parent without being high? I'm like, no, bitch,

0:39:42.160 --> 0:39:45.319
<v Speaker 1>She's an amazing parent, but she just need a little

0:39:46.440 --> 0:39:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I think. I mean, some people might say that that

0:39:49.840 --> 0:39:52.520
<v Speaker 1>is not the most healthy way to parent, but as

0:39:52.520 --> 0:39:54.239
<v Speaker 1>long as your kids are okay, I mean, who am

0:39:54.280 --> 0:39:56.880
<v Speaker 1>I to do? Mean wrecking out? Like these kids are phenomenal.

0:39:57.040 --> 0:40:02.040
<v Speaker 1>So obviously the weed has enhanced her parenting skills. But

0:40:02.360 --> 0:40:06.640
<v Speaker 1>the fucking health system. So I'm I'm spotting, and I

0:40:06.800 --> 0:40:08.880
<v Speaker 1>call and call my doctor, my O G Y N.

0:40:08.960 --> 0:40:10.399
<v Speaker 1>And I'm talking to the nurse and I'm like, hey,

0:40:11.160 --> 0:40:16.320
<v Speaker 1>I am pregnant. I tested pregnant. I'm I tested positive.

0:40:16.320 --> 0:40:19.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm pregnant, right, I'm having all the symptoms, all the things.

0:40:20.280 --> 0:40:25.040
<v Speaker 1>I am contemplating having an abortion, But I am spotting

0:40:25.320 --> 0:40:27.200
<v Speaker 1>so I need to come in for an appointment so

0:40:27.280 --> 0:40:30.360
<v Speaker 1>I can see what's going on. She got real quiet

0:40:30.400 --> 0:40:33.239
<v Speaker 1>on the phone and started whispering to me. She was like,

0:40:33.360 --> 0:40:36.160
<v Speaker 1>why do you want to have an abortion? I said,

0:40:36.200 --> 0:40:38.560
<v Speaker 1>because I have a I said, I have a situation,

0:40:38.760 --> 0:40:42.120
<v Speaker 1>and I'm just not sure about it. Like what the fuck, mama?

0:40:43.960 --> 0:40:47.239
<v Speaker 1>She was like, well, your baby is already growing, your

0:40:47.280 --> 0:40:48.520
<v Speaker 1>baby already has arms.

0:40:48.640 --> 0:40:51.359
<v Speaker 2>So that was her personal feelings about She was trying

0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:54.120
<v Speaker 2>to deter me from hoping. She was doing the lawyer's

0:40:54.160 --> 0:40:56.320
<v Speaker 2>work too, like I saved the child.

0:40:56.239 --> 0:41:01.560
<v Speaker 1>This medical university, which is like a Christian college, Christian

0:41:01.600 --> 0:41:04.879
<v Speaker 1>college at Christian hospital, right, And you know, I don't

0:41:04.880 --> 0:41:08.239
<v Speaker 1>know if people notice. Hospitals can deny you here. But

0:41:09.040 --> 0:41:12.000
<v Speaker 1>in this instance, she had no business denying me care

0:41:12.080 --> 0:41:15.000
<v Speaker 1>because what this witch told me on the phone was, well,

0:41:15.080 --> 0:41:17.640
<v Speaker 1>take another pregnant test. If it's negative, then you're not pregnant.

0:41:18.880 --> 0:41:21.080
<v Speaker 1>No shit. So what I did. I had already made

0:41:21.120 --> 0:41:23.360
<v Speaker 1>the appointment at the abortion clinic, right, So I just

0:41:23.440 --> 0:41:25.560
<v Speaker 1>went on with my appointment at the abortion clinic because

0:41:25.560 --> 0:41:27.839
<v Speaker 1>I need to be seen at this point. So leading

0:41:27.960 --> 0:41:30.440
<v Speaker 1>up to that appointment, I'm in Victoria's secret bitcha. I'm

0:41:30.480 --> 0:41:34.120
<v Speaker 1>passed out in the mall like I'm bleeding internally, which

0:41:34.160 --> 0:41:40.360
<v Speaker 1>is why I called to doctor. So I get to

0:41:40.520 --> 0:41:43.960
<v Speaker 1>my appointment the next day after passing out in the

0:41:44.040 --> 0:41:46.600
<v Speaker 1>day of Victoria's secret. I get to the appointment. They're

0:41:46.640 --> 0:41:51.000
<v Speaker 1>doing an ultrasound EC topic pregnancy. So I end up

0:41:51.160 --> 0:41:54.520
<v Speaker 1>back at the hospital that I called a week prior

0:41:55.160 --> 0:41:58.400
<v Speaker 1>trying to get in. So I end up their emergency

0:41:58.440 --> 0:41:59.480
<v Speaker 1>surgery that night.

0:42:00.080 --> 0:42:01.840
<v Speaker 2>And that's why I always say, y'all, we have to

0:42:02.040 --> 0:42:05.320
<v Speaker 2>advocate for ourselves. You know something is wrong with yourbody,

0:42:05.400 --> 0:42:08.480
<v Speaker 2>don't let them turn you around. You make it a priority,

0:42:08.600 --> 0:42:11.120
<v Speaker 2>like you are going to fucking see me. Somebody's going

0:42:11.200 --> 0:42:11.520
<v Speaker 2>to see me.

0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:13.279
<v Speaker 1>So I actually tried to suit the hospital. So I

0:42:13.360 --> 0:42:15.640
<v Speaker 1>put like, you know, these message not message boards, but

0:42:16.200 --> 0:42:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I guess it is a message board like online you

0:42:17.920 --> 0:42:23.360
<v Speaker 1>could put your case whatever, and different lawyers of contact you.

0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:26.320
<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if this attorney was an affiliate

0:42:26.400 --> 0:42:28.440
<v Speaker 1>of the hospital or something. I don't know, but when

0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:30.400
<v Speaker 1>I spoke to him, he was basically I needed to

0:42:30.480 --> 0:42:33.480
<v Speaker 1>have died and then my family would have a lawsuit

0:42:34.120 --> 0:42:37.719
<v Speaker 1>for it to be malpracticed because I didn't bleed out

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:41.360
<v Speaker 1>and die somewhere. That's some bullshit because I could have

0:42:42.080 --> 0:42:45.680
<v Speaker 1>So you denied me care based on your personal views

0:42:45.719 --> 0:42:47.320
<v Speaker 1>and it may not even be the views of my

0:42:47.440 --> 0:42:49.960
<v Speaker 1>doctor or everyone at the hospital. It was this one

0:42:50.000 --> 0:42:54.000
<v Speaker 1>bitch in particular, right who denied me care. And I

0:42:54.160 --> 0:42:57.840
<v Speaker 1>end up back there having to have surgery, emergency surgery,

0:42:58.680 --> 0:43:00.960
<v Speaker 1>so I have the one tube. And then the next

0:43:01.000 --> 0:43:04.719
<v Speaker 1>time I was living in Atlanta, still they just took

0:43:04.760 --> 0:43:07.759
<v Speaker 1>the tube out. Still, can you please tell me what

0:43:08.120 --> 0:43:12.319
<v Speaker 1>vitro is? Oh shit, what happened? And vitros when they

0:43:12.400 --> 0:43:14.439
<v Speaker 1>remove your eggs, so you have women of our age,

0:43:14.520 --> 0:43:16.520
<v Speaker 1>like even people do it earlier, like if they don't

0:43:16.560 --> 0:43:19.319
<v Speaker 1>have a partner at thirty five thirty, they start they

0:43:19.440 --> 0:43:21.320
<v Speaker 1>might freeze their eggs and stuff like that. Right, So

0:43:21.400 --> 0:43:24.680
<v Speaker 1>even if aside from freezing your eggs in vitro, they

0:43:24.760 --> 0:43:27.239
<v Speaker 1>remove your egg, they fertilize it with the sperm, and

0:43:27.280 --> 0:43:30.200
<v Speaker 1>then they implant it in your uterus, so you basically

0:43:30.400 --> 0:43:34.920
<v Speaker 1>bypassing the ovary excuse me, you're bypassing the Philipian tubes

0:43:34.920 --> 0:43:38.560
<v Speaker 1>because with your filopian tubes, that's where the egg gets

0:43:38.640 --> 0:43:43.000
<v Speaker 1>fertilized through a natural conception. So you have sex, sperm

0:43:43.080 --> 0:43:46.200
<v Speaker 1>goes in there, the egg meets the sperm, and then

0:43:46.239 --> 0:43:48.319
<v Speaker 1>it drops down into your uterus, and that's where your

0:43:48.360 --> 0:43:51.680
<v Speaker 1>baby grows at. Your baby cannot grow in a tube.

0:43:51.800 --> 0:43:54.920
<v Speaker 1>Your tube is the size of a vein, so it

0:43:55.040 --> 0:43:58.360
<v Speaker 1>will burst if some kids starts growing in there. Exactly,

0:43:58.440 --> 0:44:01.040
<v Speaker 1>you could bleed out internally. Well, can't give me your hand.

0:44:01.120 --> 0:44:03.279
<v Speaker 1>Let me say this. I'm sorry that happened to you.

0:44:03.440 --> 0:44:07.239
<v Speaker 1>For real. That was very traumatic. It is so that

0:44:07.400 --> 0:44:09.600
<v Speaker 1>you were able to share that story, like and just

0:44:10.360 --> 0:44:13.440
<v Speaker 1>like that was a lot to share. So I love

0:44:13.560 --> 0:44:16.279
<v Speaker 1>you and I love you for sharing that. Man. But

0:44:16.560 --> 0:44:18.160
<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of women are going through this,

0:44:18.360 --> 0:44:20.080
<v Speaker 1>not just black women. It's a lot of women with

0:44:20.200 --> 0:44:22.879
<v Speaker 1>fertility issues. But y'all know they put the they put

0:44:22.920 --> 0:44:25.719
<v Speaker 1>the abortion clinic in our neighborhoods. But white people have

0:44:25.800 --> 0:44:28.640
<v Speaker 1>always had fertility clinics. So be careful when you go

0:44:28.760 --> 0:44:30.759
<v Speaker 1>to the doctor and they want to remove your entire

0:44:30.960 --> 0:44:35.719
<v Speaker 1>womb because you have fibroids. Because please don't think for

0:44:35.840 --> 0:44:38.520
<v Speaker 1>a moment that your womb is not going into somebody else,

0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:41.960
<v Speaker 1>because I think that's what's happening when they start removing

0:44:42.040 --> 0:44:45.000
<v Speaker 1>our parts. Yeah, because they sell them to somebody else.

0:44:45.600 --> 0:44:48.640
<v Speaker 2>I had surgery on twenty twenty three February where they

0:44:48.680 --> 0:44:53.320
<v Speaker 2>took fourteen fibroid tumors, and they offered to take my uterus,

0:44:53.440 --> 0:44:55.239
<v Speaker 2>and I told them no that I did not I

0:44:55.320 --> 0:44:55.680
<v Speaker 2>wanted to.

0:44:55.920 --> 0:44:58.319
<v Speaker 1>Why would you need to do that? Why would you why?

0:44:58.560 --> 0:45:02.080
<v Speaker 1>That's you literally take in a woman's soul. That's where

0:45:02.160 --> 0:45:05.960
<v Speaker 1>all of our energy is at, So why would you

0:45:06.040 --> 0:45:07.879
<v Speaker 1>want to remove that from somebody's body.

0:45:07.920 --> 0:45:09.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, no, sir, I'm gonna keep the uterus.

0:45:11.080 --> 0:45:12.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm gonna keep my uterus, thank you.

0:45:13.960 --> 0:45:16.759
<v Speaker 2>And then they were saying like and even then, my

0:45:17.000 --> 0:45:20.200
<v Speaker 2>the fibroids were not inside my uterus, they were around

0:45:20.239 --> 0:45:22.640
<v Speaker 2>the outside. So what even reason do you need. You're

0:45:22.680 --> 0:45:25.000
<v Speaker 2>not going into my uterus, so there's no reason to

0:45:25.120 --> 0:45:27.560
<v Speaker 2>take it. Like, I don't even understand why you would

0:45:27.719 --> 0:45:30.440
<v Speaker 2>offer that, you know, to a woman who has no children,

0:45:30.520 --> 0:45:32.839
<v Speaker 2>to a woman who has no children, Right.

0:45:33.040 --> 0:45:35.799
<v Speaker 1>That's weird, bitch. I'll be trying to just double check.

0:45:35.840 --> 0:45:38.560
<v Speaker 1>You might even get an ultra style I might have exactly.

0:45:38.680 --> 0:45:40.920
<v Speaker 1>You don't even know, Like, can you check and see.

0:45:40.960 --> 0:45:42.800
<v Speaker 2>If I still have a uterus? Yes, that would be

0:45:42.840 --> 0:45:44.560
<v Speaker 2>crazy if I went to the doctor like, oh yo,

0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:50.520
<v Speaker 2>shiit hollow bitch. Wait, then I would have a lot

0:45:50.520 --> 0:45:51.239
<v Speaker 2>of suit for sure.

0:45:51.520 --> 0:45:54.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, girl, feel like they'd be doing that. They were

0:45:54.480 --> 0:45:57.440
<v Speaker 1>doing that to Hispanic women at the border. They were

0:45:57.480 --> 0:45:59.560
<v Speaker 1>giving these women hysterectomies and they didn't know.

0:46:00.280 --> 0:46:04.520
<v Speaker 2>Think about Henrietta Lax. Let's talk about her, Like, if

0:46:04.600 --> 0:46:07.920
<v Speaker 2>you don't know who Henrietta Lax is as a black woman,

0:46:08.040 --> 0:46:09.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm mad at you a little bit.

0:46:09.160 --> 0:46:10.160
<v Speaker 1>But here's some education.

0:46:11.360 --> 0:46:12.359
<v Speaker 2>She was a black woman.

0:46:12.400 --> 0:46:17.440
<v Speaker 1>What is this the nineteen early thirties, I was by said,

0:46:17.480 --> 0:46:19.359
<v Speaker 1>early nineteen hundreds, and she got on time ago.

0:46:19.800 --> 0:46:23.080
<v Speaker 2>She got diagnosed with cancer cancer, yep, and they did.

0:46:23.200 --> 0:46:27.759
<v Speaker 2>They took her DNA and cells without her permission, and

0:46:28.040 --> 0:46:32.360
<v Speaker 2>she had the only regenerating cell known to man.

0:46:32.360 --> 0:46:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Which doesn't make sense because if she has cervical cancer

0:46:35.480 --> 0:46:39.040
<v Speaker 1>and she has cells that can regenerate themselves, would her

0:46:39.120 --> 0:46:41.360
<v Speaker 1>body not have cured her out of the cancer. So

0:46:42.360 --> 0:46:45.759
<v Speaker 1>they murdered Henrietta Lax and they took her cells. And

0:46:45.880 --> 0:46:48.480
<v Speaker 1>they have even sent her DNA to the.

0:46:48.520 --> 0:46:51.520
<v Speaker 2>Moon, right, they said, they have used her cells so

0:46:51.680 --> 0:46:54.279
<v Speaker 2>many times and created that it could wrap around the

0:46:54.360 --> 0:46:55.879
<v Speaker 2>Earth like thousands of times.

0:46:55.960 --> 0:46:59.320
<v Speaker 1>They've been using her shit to make vaccines and medicines.

0:46:59.480 --> 0:47:02.680
<v Speaker 2>Right, the only thing, the reason we know about autism, sickle,

0:47:02.760 --> 0:47:05.000
<v Speaker 2>sell all these different diseases is because of this black

0:47:05.040 --> 0:47:09.719
<v Speaker 2>woman and her family just recently got any amount of compensation.

0:47:10.000 --> 0:47:12.520
<v Speaker 2>They should be one of the richest families on the

0:47:12.600 --> 0:47:13.719
<v Speaker 2>planet because of that.

0:47:13.960 --> 0:47:18.279
<v Speaker 1>I think her the last person in her lineage. I

0:47:18.360 --> 0:47:21.200
<v Speaker 1>think it was a son he passed away.

0:47:21.400 --> 0:47:23.799
<v Speaker 2>Oh really, I did not know that. Rest in peace

0:47:23.880 --> 0:47:24.359
<v Speaker 2>to that man.

0:47:24.520 --> 0:47:26.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So, I mean, I'm pretty sure they got more

0:47:26.719 --> 0:47:28.719
<v Speaker 1>family members, but they did, and I don't know what

0:47:28.840 --> 0:47:32.400
<v Speaker 1>the settlement was. But they can't. They can't compensate that

0:47:32.520 --> 0:47:34.040
<v Speaker 1>family enough. Right, there's no way.

0:47:34.320 --> 0:47:36.200
<v Speaker 2>There's no way to compensate them enough.

0:47:38.920 --> 0:47:43.600
<v Speaker 1>She kissed off. I do you want kids? Like how bad?

0:47:44.200 --> 0:47:50.160
<v Speaker 2>I would like a baby, And I've decided more recently

0:47:50.600 --> 0:47:52.080
<v Speaker 2>that that was something I want. I think it was

0:47:52.160 --> 0:47:55.439
<v Speaker 2>my god kids that made me like want my own

0:47:55.560 --> 0:47:58.239
<v Speaker 2>kids because I just loved them so much. And if

0:47:58.280 --> 0:48:00.480
<v Speaker 2>I could love these kids that didn't come from me

0:48:00.560 --> 0:48:04.960
<v Speaker 2>so much, like, I don't imagine, You're right, I only imagine.

0:48:05.680 --> 0:48:07.520
<v Speaker 2>I can only imagine how much I would love my

0:48:07.640 --> 0:48:11.200
<v Speaker 2>own You know, so it didn't make me want a

0:48:11.320 --> 0:48:15.080
<v Speaker 2>baby like I do have like a pregnancy hard story,

0:48:15.200 --> 0:48:18.120
<v Speaker 2>but I'm not capable of sharing that here. Like I

0:48:18.200 --> 0:48:20.040
<v Speaker 2>don't think I could, like like the way you did

0:48:20.080 --> 0:48:22.719
<v Speaker 2>that just now that I was very courageous, because I

0:48:22.800 --> 0:48:24.480
<v Speaker 2>probably might just fall apart, you know.

0:48:24.680 --> 0:48:26.280
<v Speaker 1>So I can't share that story.

0:48:26.400 --> 0:48:29.240
<v Speaker 2>But I do want a baby, you know, I would

0:48:29.360 --> 0:48:32.320
<v Speaker 2>like to, but I'm just I'm very afraid, like it

0:48:32.360 --> 0:48:34.640
<v Speaker 2>would take a very I would need a very strong

0:48:34.760 --> 0:48:38.680
<v Speaker 2>partner to hold my hand through pregnancy at this stage

0:48:38.680 --> 0:48:41.640
<v Speaker 2>in my life, because the last time I did it

0:48:41.920 --> 0:48:45.239
<v Speaker 2>was not a good experience. So I would need that,

0:48:45.360 --> 0:48:47.400
<v Speaker 2>and I didn't have that the first time because not

0:48:47.520 --> 0:48:49.640
<v Speaker 2>because my partner wasn't a good partner.

0:48:49.719 --> 0:48:51.640
<v Speaker 1>He was a great man that I was.

0:48:51.800 --> 0:48:56.759
<v Speaker 2>I mean, he was all right, but you know, he

0:48:56.840 --> 0:48:58.440
<v Speaker 2>was a good We were very we were in a

0:48:58.520 --> 0:49:01.360
<v Speaker 2>healthy state at that time. But he was in the

0:49:01.440 --> 0:49:04.480
<v Speaker 2>military and he was deployed. He was all the way,

0:49:05.239 --> 0:49:08.560
<v Speaker 2>you know, protecting this great country that we live in

0:49:09.200 --> 0:49:13.439
<v Speaker 2>and we were separated by the military, so he could

0:49:13.520 --> 0:49:15.480
<v Speaker 2>not be there for me. So that experience I had

0:49:15.520 --> 0:49:17.759
<v Speaker 2>to go. I was living in another country. I didn't

0:49:17.760 --> 0:49:20.960
<v Speaker 2>have family, there. I had friends there, but it was

0:49:21.080 --> 0:49:22.720
<v Speaker 2>just a lot to go through by myself.

0:49:23.000 --> 0:49:27.600
<v Speaker 1>So to do that again at this age and I

0:49:27.840 --> 0:49:32.719
<v Speaker 1>a geriatric practice, I just wouldn't need. Like God would

0:49:32.760 --> 0:49:37.600
<v Speaker 1>have to send me very someone, very loving and patient.

0:49:38.280 --> 0:49:41.680
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have to get any presisting baby daddy, somebody

0:49:41.719 --> 0:49:43.520
<v Speaker 1>who've been through something. And see, I don't know if

0:49:43.520 --> 0:49:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I want that, because I don't want somebody hell, our

0:49:46.120 --> 0:49:49.800
<v Speaker 1>age male with no children who said he had to

0:49:49.840 --> 0:49:50.440
<v Speaker 1>be our age.

0:49:52.840 --> 0:49:57.799
<v Speaker 2>I get my nigga a little younger. Drea might had

0:49:57.840 --> 0:50:03.000
<v Speaker 2>the right idea. It's like that's for me, but girl, Like,

0:50:03.280 --> 0:50:06.960
<v Speaker 2>the only thing I don't like about men who have

0:50:07.239 --> 0:50:10.080
<v Speaker 2>kids and already done it is like I don't want

0:50:10.120 --> 0:50:11.960
<v Speaker 2>no nigga like, nah, you're holding the baby wrong. You

0:50:12.000 --> 0:50:13.840
<v Speaker 2>gotta do it like this, you got to pour the

0:50:13.920 --> 0:50:15.319
<v Speaker 2>milk on here, like you ain't doing it right.

0:50:15.400 --> 0:50:17.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't want no nigga doing that to me. Like

0:50:17.360 --> 0:50:18.359
<v Speaker 1>I kind of want our.

0:50:18.320 --> 0:50:22.200
<v Speaker 2>Experience to be the first time together, you know, but

0:50:22.320 --> 0:50:24.960
<v Speaker 2>at this age, you know you're right, it's it'll probably

0:50:24.960 --> 0:50:27.640
<v Speaker 2>be harder to find unless I go younger, which I'm

0:50:27.640 --> 0:50:28.320
<v Speaker 2>not a post.

0:50:28.160 --> 0:50:30.560
<v Speaker 1>And funk with y'all. Niggas talking about. I really feel

0:50:30.600 --> 0:50:33.000
<v Speaker 1>like men who don't have kids are like the socially

0:50:33.040 --> 0:50:36.160
<v Speaker 1>awkward ones. It's a lot of reason why women right

0:50:36.320 --> 0:50:38.879
<v Speaker 1>don't have kids. I hate when people ask me that. Yeah,

0:50:39.120 --> 0:50:41.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel like at a certain age, stop asking women

0:50:41.080 --> 0:50:44.040
<v Speaker 1>why they don't have kids? What I do? I'd be like, oh,

0:50:44.120 --> 0:50:46.879
<v Speaker 1>I had to to a pregnancies and I just look

0:50:46.920 --> 0:50:47.759
<v Speaker 1>at them, look at them.

0:50:47.840 --> 0:50:51.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because now I'm not like my business now, like

0:50:51.160 --> 0:50:53.040
<v Speaker 2>because we're having a good time and now you just

0:50:53.160 --> 0:50:54.000
<v Speaker 2>ruined a good time with that.

0:50:54.760 --> 0:50:57.919
<v Speaker 1>Kids like aunts and just random asks people. Yeah, people

0:50:58.040 --> 0:51:00.919
<v Speaker 1>have a real problem. And like you're a single mom,

0:51:01.080 --> 0:51:04.120
<v Speaker 1>So are you urging me to do that? Right, bitch?

0:51:04.840 --> 0:51:08.239
<v Speaker 1>Like why your kids ain't got no daddy? Like what

0:51:08.440 --> 0:51:09.640
<v Speaker 1>that's like you gotta ask?

0:51:09.719 --> 0:51:13.320
<v Speaker 2>That's almost like that question equally fucked up. You pauled

0:51:13.400 --> 0:51:16.160
<v Speaker 2>by my question, but I'm also equally appalled by yours.

0:51:16.200 --> 0:51:19.000
<v Speaker 1>Bitch, don't ask me that, where's your baby daddy? Right?

0:51:19.200 --> 0:51:21.480
<v Speaker 1>Where they daddy? I ain't never seen him, man, none

0:51:21.480 --> 0:51:27.799
<v Speaker 1>of this shit. He wasn't at your baby shower. That's

0:51:27.840 --> 0:51:31.080
<v Speaker 1>not nice. I'm sorry, girl. People don't be nice. You know,

0:51:31.200 --> 0:51:34.040
<v Speaker 1>people need to be more considerately if I'm not talking

0:51:34.080 --> 0:51:35.000
<v Speaker 1>to why you ask?

0:51:35.200 --> 0:51:37.600
<v Speaker 2>It's never women that ask that. To me, it's always

0:51:37.840 --> 0:51:39.480
<v Speaker 2>men though. It's always a.

0:51:39.560 --> 0:51:41.680
<v Speaker 1>Man on a date or something like why you ain't

0:51:41.719 --> 0:51:45.080
<v Speaker 1>got no kids? But then they judge women who already

0:51:45.120 --> 0:51:47.520
<v Speaker 1>have kids when they meet him. So what what what

0:51:47.680 --> 0:51:51.200
<v Speaker 1>y'all want? Really? I'll be like, I just want to

0:51:51.280 --> 0:51:53.600
<v Speaker 1>offend us. I think I'm like, I don't like that question.

0:51:56.080 --> 0:51:57.200
<v Speaker 1>Be wanting to offend us?

0:51:57.719 --> 0:52:02.520
<v Speaker 2>Right, I don't know if it's intentional. Some people just

0:52:02.640 --> 0:52:05.439
<v Speaker 2>don't know that that's it could be a hurtful question.

0:52:06.480 --> 0:52:08.920
<v Speaker 2>And if you tell them the truth, like like if

0:52:08.960 --> 0:52:11.160
<v Speaker 2>I told them really why I didn't have kids and

0:52:11.239 --> 0:52:14.759
<v Speaker 2>what happened, it would ruin the evening, like everybody.

0:52:14.480 --> 0:52:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Just looking down at the plate, just minding they fucking business. Yeah,

0:52:18.440 --> 0:52:21.040
<v Speaker 1>fun anymore what I needed? So I think at I'll

0:52:21.080 --> 0:52:24.000
<v Speaker 1>say thirty. When you see a woman thirty where no kids,

0:52:24.080 --> 0:52:27.000
<v Speaker 1>don't ask her if she wants children, don't ask her

0:52:27.200 --> 0:52:29.080
<v Speaker 1>why she doesn't have children, don't ask her why she

0:52:29.120 --> 0:52:32.840
<v Speaker 1>doesn't have a husband. Don't just mind mind your family

0:52:32.920 --> 0:52:36.040
<v Speaker 1>that you created and probably not taking care of mine.

0:52:36.160 --> 0:52:38.560
<v Speaker 1>Marry her and give her a baby. That part That's

0:52:38.760 --> 0:52:41.319
<v Speaker 1>That's one thing I can't stand about niggas talking about

0:52:41.360 --> 0:52:45.239
<v Speaker 1>women like pick one. It's so many women out here,

0:52:45.320 --> 0:52:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Why are you single? Mm hmm. So nobody's good enough

0:52:50.480 --> 0:52:53.040
<v Speaker 1>because we really be trying with the worst of the worst.

0:52:53.120 --> 0:52:54.480
<v Speaker 1>We still be trying with them.

0:52:54.719 --> 0:52:58.000
<v Speaker 2>I was saying, I haven't let some good ones get away.

0:52:59.880 --> 0:53:02.279
<v Speaker 2>I have bless some good ones get away from me,

0:53:02.520 --> 0:53:03.520
<v Speaker 2>especially in my twenties.

0:53:03.560 --> 0:53:07.640
<v Speaker 1>When good or they were being good to get you

0:53:07.880 --> 0:53:10.440
<v Speaker 1>so then they can then treat you. How the nigga

0:53:10.480 --> 0:53:13.719
<v Speaker 1>that got you treating you? I say that, Larry, are

0:53:13.800 --> 0:53:16.920
<v Speaker 1>they really good or are they being good? So when

0:53:17.000 --> 0:53:19.880
<v Speaker 1>they get you they can treat you how the nigga

0:53:19.920 --> 0:53:22.960
<v Speaker 1>that got you treating you? You see what I'm saying,

0:53:22.960 --> 0:53:25.040
<v Speaker 1>Because you just don't know somebody until you know them.

0:53:25.120 --> 0:53:27.799
<v Speaker 1>So once he does acquire you, like then you meet

0:53:27.840 --> 0:53:30.440
<v Speaker 1>the real man and now it's like, this is the

0:53:30.480 --> 0:53:34.080
<v Speaker 1>same pro this is the same nigga. You know you

0:53:34.200 --> 0:53:36.400
<v Speaker 1>don't know though, yeah, you never know. You never don't know.

0:53:36.600 --> 0:53:39.760
<v Speaker 1>So there was something why you didn't go with that person,

0:53:40.120 --> 0:53:42.120
<v Speaker 1>something very much something.

0:53:42.239 --> 0:53:45.400
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it used to be me like, bitch, I'm outside,

0:53:45.440 --> 0:53:47.040
<v Speaker 2>you want to you want to lock me down and

0:53:47.120 --> 0:53:50.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm outside. When I was in my late twenties, I

0:53:50.920 --> 0:53:53.360
<v Speaker 2>was having my way, baby, like I'll have my way like.

0:53:55.200 --> 0:53:55.799
<v Speaker 1>Time is up.

0:53:56.800 --> 0:53:59.239
<v Speaker 2>But like you know, I can look back and say, damn,

0:53:59.280 --> 0:54:01.719
<v Speaker 2>he probably would would have been a good husband. But

0:54:01.800 --> 0:54:03.640
<v Speaker 2>who knows, he might be somewhere beating a bitch up

0:54:03.680 --> 0:54:03.920
<v Speaker 2>right now.

0:54:04.000 --> 0:54:06.880
<v Speaker 1>So exactly know, you just never know. You never know.

0:54:07.920 --> 0:54:10.839
<v Speaker 1>But at least one. That's where I'm at. I want

0:54:10.880 --> 0:54:12.279
<v Speaker 1>at least one kid. And this might be for a

0:54:12.320 --> 0:54:15.400
<v Speaker 1>real selfish reason. I just want to see what my

0:54:15.560 --> 0:54:21.239
<v Speaker 1>kid would look like, what they look like. I just

0:54:21.719 --> 0:54:24.279
<v Speaker 1>and I think about like the nine months leading up

0:54:24.320 --> 0:54:27.560
<v Speaker 1>to seeing what they look like and who they are, right,

0:54:28.880 --> 0:54:30.960
<v Speaker 1>I just want to see who God gonna send me, right,

0:54:31.760 --> 0:54:34.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, I might not be a serial killer. You

0:54:34.120 --> 0:54:36.719
<v Speaker 1>never know, a Gemini, you never know. Girl by.

0:54:39.120 --> 0:54:41.640
<v Speaker 2>I think if if God blessed me with the child,

0:54:42.120 --> 0:54:46.480
<v Speaker 2>especially at this age, I would just want to have

0:54:46.680 --> 0:54:49.560
<v Speaker 2>life beyond my own. You know, we're getting older, we're

0:54:49.560 --> 0:54:52.399
<v Speaker 2>not getting we never getting younger, right, so one day

0:54:52.440 --> 0:54:55.040
<v Speaker 2>we leaving here and I just want to have a

0:54:55.200 --> 0:54:58.480
<v Speaker 2>life beyond this one. It just would be a shame, but.

0:54:58.520 --> 0:55:01.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm coming back. I might come back this time. I'm

0:55:01.280 --> 0:55:02.960
<v Speaker 1>not sure. I've been back a lot of times. I

0:55:03.080 --> 0:55:04.120
<v Speaker 1>might not come back to Yeah.

0:55:04.120 --> 0:55:05.880
<v Speaker 2>I mean, your soul will come back, you know, if

0:55:05.920 --> 0:55:09.400
<v Speaker 2>you believe in reincarnation, your soul will exist in another

0:55:09.560 --> 0:55:10.760
<v Speaker 2>form at some point.

0:55:10.920 --> 0:55:15.839
<v Speaker 1>But Ashley James, yes, I have been back before as

0:55:15.920 --> 0:55:16.839
<v Speaker 1>Ashley Jane. Yes.

0:55:17.080 --> 0:55:18.759
<v Speaker 2>So you're gonna come back as Actually James.

0:55:19.040 --> 0:55:21.719
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm probably gonna come back as Rick James. Bitch,

0:55:21.840 --> 0:55:25.160
<v Speaker 1>that's what's gonna happen. I want to come back as

0:55:25.280 --> 0:55:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Brett James, a white, rich white man, James Brown. I'm

0:55:37.040 --> 0:55:40.359
<v Speaker 1>gonna come back, but I don't know. People be warning.

0:55:40.360 --> 0:55:42.920
<v Speaker 1>I hate when men say my seed. That is so

0:55:43.080 --> 0:55:46.680
<v Speaker 1>disgusting to me, my seed, because a lot of them

0:55:46.800 --> 0:55:50.319
<v Speaker 1>just literally just be dropping seeds around mm hm. As

0:55:50.360 --> 0:55:53.040
<v Speaker 1>long as but as long as they're taking care of them,

0:55:53.040 --> 0:55:54.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't care how you can call them whatever the

0:55:54.640 --> 0:55:56.719
<v Speaker 1>fuck you want to. Got a certain amount, you can't

0:55:56.719 --> 0:55:58.680
<v Speaker 1>take care of them kids, you know what I mean,

0:55:58.880 --> 0:56:02.200
<v Speaker 1>even helping like Elon Musk got like eleven kids. One

0:56:02.239 --> 0:56:04.040
<v Speaker 1>of his kids. I was looking at the baby named

0:56:04.120 --> 0:56:06.840
<v Speaker 1>dark He got to be a super villain when he

0:56:06.880 --> 0:56:12.040
<v Speaker 1>grew up, like Darkness the moment I was born, you know, like,

0:56:12.840 --> 0:56:13.760
<v Speaker 1>is the villain.

0:56:14.040 --> 0:56:17.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you name your baby dark one of the babies,

0:56:17.440 --> 0:56:18.720
<v Speaker 2>that name is just some symbols.

0:56:18.760 --> 0:56:22.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't even know. Look it up. It's like a symbol.

0:56:22.760 --> 0:56:24.600
<v Speaker 1>It's not even like. I don't know how I was

0:56:24.680 --> 0:56:28.240
<v Speaker 1>allowed to because you know their names. They won't allow

0:56:28.360 --> 0:56:29.600
<v Speaker 1>you to give a baby right.

0:56:30.040 --> 0:56:33.160
<v Speaker 2>How Like you can't name a baby Satan in America.

0:56:33.880 --> 0:56:35.640
<v Speaker 2>I think it's against the law. You can't name a

0:56:35.719 --> 0:56:37.200
<v Speaker 2>baby Satan or something like that.

0:56:38.120 --> 0:56:38.560
<v Speaker 1>Lucifer.

0:56:38.719 --> 0:56:40.080
<v Speaker 2>You can't name a baby Lucifer.

0:56:41.600 --> 0:56:42.120
<v Speaker 1>You can't.

0:56:42.760 --> 0:56:46.839
<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm lying real quick because I think you can't

0:56:47.160 --> 0:56:47.719
<v Speaker 2>name a baby.

0:56:48.400 --> 0:56:51.960
<v Speaker 1>Say I can't name my kid that some people named Lucifer. Yeah,

0:56:53.680 --> 0:56:55.239
<v Speaker 1>me baby, the best of the band.

0:56:55.320 --> 0:56:59.520
<v Speaker 2>Baby names in the law on naming children any unions

0:57:00.040 --> 0:57:01.640
<v Speaker 2>in the States, can you nam Kate Lucifer?

0:57:01.960 --> 0:57:07.440
<v Speaker 1>Saying yeah you can. Yeah, I don't see why not.

0:57:07.600 --> 0:57:09.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I thought it was against people have a

0:57:09.520 --> 0:57:12.479
<v Speaker 1>different understanding of those entities. You know what I'm saying.

0:57:13.800 --> 0:57:19.240
<v Speaker 1>Lucifer is the light Bringer, Well, yes, the light Bringer.

0:57:22.000 --> 0:57:24.439
<v Speaker 1>List all these things is inside. You ain't got nothing

0:57:24.480 --> 0:57:27.000
<v Speaker 1>to do with anything outside of you. You come in

0:57:27.080 --> 0:57:33.080
<v Speaker 1>in contact with humans that possess these energies, so you

0:57:33.160 --> 0:57:40.960
<v Speaker 1>can fuck around and meet the devil Jesus. But anyway,

0:57:41.040 --> 0:57:44.200
<v Speaker 1>let's get into the benefits of having children later in life.

0:57:44.240 --> 0:57:47.120
<v Speaker 1>Because people like to tell you all about shit geriatric

0:57:47.360 --> 0:57:49.600
<v Speaker 1>or you're gonna get diabetes, you're gonna get a big

0:57:49.640 --> 0:57:52.040
<v Speaker 1>ass baby. You're gonna get two babies. I would love

0:57:52.080 --> 0:57:54.280
<v Speaker 1>that if I can just get two, So hold on.

0:57:54.320 --> 0:57:58.480
<v Speaker 2>Look, it says most states prohibit using baby names with numerals, emojis,

0:57:59.000 --> 0:57:59.880
<v Speaker 2>or symbols in them.

0:58:01.760 --> 0:58:04.959
<v Speaker 1>But I bet you some of these young fucking gen

0:58:05.120 --> 0:58:12.600
<v Speaker 1>zers is like, I'm would name my baby eggplant. Oh

0:58:12.680 --> 0:58:20.080
<v Speaker 1>like the little crazy that's my favorite emoji crazy. And

0:58:20.160 --> 0:58:26.600
<v Speaker 1>this one, no, this is mine, y'all? And this one

0:58:29.800 --> 0:58:37.960
<v Speaker 1>what's your name? Baby? First day bake dumb ass? That's

0:58:38.000 --> 0:58:39.240
<v Speaker 1>another thing, y'all.

0:58:40.280 --> 0:58:43.000
<v Speaker 2>School about the start, and you been calling your baby

0:58:43.080 --> 0:58:46.040
<v Speaker 2>moot moot since the baby was born. Please teach your

0:58:46.080 --> 0:58:50.360
<v Speaker 2>baby they real name before they go to kenano because

0:58:50.400 --> 0:58:51.040
<v Speaker 2>they're gonna.

0:58:50.800 --> 0:58:53.080
<v Speaker 1>Be waiting on their teacher. You're waiting on the teacher

0:58:53.120 --> 0:58:56.840
<v Speaker 1>to call moot. Go ahead, all right, So seven benefits

0:58:56.880 --> 0:59:01.120
<v Speaker 1>of having a child leader life. Reacher research has turned

0:59:01.200 --> 0:59:03.920
<v Speaker 1>up some surprising benefits of being an older parent for

0:59:04.040 --> 0:59:07.400
<v Speaker 1>both you and your baby. Here are a few perks

0:59:07.440 --> 0:59:12.840
<v Speaker 1>of parenting life parenting later in life. Okay, people rarely

0:59:12.880 --> 0:59:16.280
<v Speaker 1>talk about the benefits of having a baby after thirty five. Okay,

0:59:16.360 --> 0:59:18.960
<v Speaker 1>so look, geriatric is thirty five plus. I don't know

0:59:18.960 --> 0:59:20.560
<v Speaker 1>if y'all know that, but yeah, bitch, you ain't that

0:59:20.680 --> 0:59:24.640
<v Speaker 1>young at thirty five. Instead, we often hear only about

0:59:24.680 --> 0:59:27.880
<v Speaker 1>the worries movie You're not Old for the Earth? You know,

0:59:28.640 --> 0:59:31.320
<v Speaker 1>but remember what was that movie where they was trying

0:59:31.320 --> 0:59:34.800
<v Speaker 1>to get in the club. It was like, he was like, what,

0:59:34.960 --> 0:59:36.600
<v Speaker 1>you bitch is trying to get in this club. He's like,

0:59:36.720 --> 0:59:39.080
<v Speaker 1>you old bitch is coming to the club. He's like, oh, bit,

0:59:39.160 --> 0:59:42.560
<v Speaker 1>He's like, you're not old for the earth for this club.

0:59:43.400 --> 0:59:45.320
<v Speaker 1>If y'all know that movie, You're too old for the

0:59:45.360 --> 0:59:49.160
<v Speaker 1>baby club, it says, we often hear only about the

0:59:49.200 --> 0:59:51.959
<v Speaker 1>worries about pregnancy later in life. This makes some sense,

0:59:52.000 --> 0:59:56.360
<v Speaker 1>is knowing that we have ticking biological clock, which is

0:59:56.400 --> 0:59:59.520
<v Speaker 1>why women calculate time a little bit different. It can

0:59:59.600 --> 1:00:02.240
<v Speaker 1>be real, really scary, and it's true that the number

1:00:02.280 --> 1:00:05.800
<v Speaker 1>of eggs people with ovaries have. You heard that, and

1:00:05.960 --> 1:00:09.680
<v Speaker 1>it's true that the number of eggs people with ovaries.

1:00:10.320 --> 1:00:16.240
<v Speaker 1>This is a gender neutral article because you women have ovaries,

1:00:16.280 --> 1:00:21.120
<v Speaker 1>but anyway have decreases as they age. Pregnancy over thirty

1:00:21.160 --> 1:00:23.880
<v Speaker 1>five also comes with the higher risk of certain complications

1:00:24.000 --> 1:00:29.800
<v Speaker 1>like hypertension or diabetes for you, and chromosomal abnormalities like

1:00:30.080 --> 1:00:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Down syndrome for your baby. However, there are also a

1:00:33.240 --> 1:00:36.040
<v Speaker 1>number of compelling benefits of having a baby after thirty five.

1:00:36.240 --> 1:00:39.760
<v Speaker 1>In fact, while there is no one right time for pregnancy,

1:00:39.800 --> 1:00:44.280
<v Speaker 1>there are a number of advantages for advantages to postponing parenthood,

1:00:45.040 --> 1:00:48.360
<v Speaker 1>potential benefits after having a baby after thirty five, or

1:00:48.360 --> 1:00:53.400
<v Speaker 1>says there's no pot that part okay. Studies show that

1:00:53.520 --> 1:00:56.600
<v Speaker 1>having kids later in life can make you mentally sharper

1:00:56.800 --> 1:00:59.880
<v Speaker 1>as you age. A study published in the Journal of

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<v Speaker 1>American Geriatric Society tested eight hundred and thirty middle aged

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<v Speaker 1>women to determine whether there was a link between having

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<v Speaker 1>a baby at a later age and brain power. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get smarter.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to say, you read that really well.

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<v Speaker 1>Shut up, girl, I've been practicing. Obviously a bent for

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<v Speaker 1>practicing reading. The researchers found that their's excuse me, found

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<v Speaker 1>that those who had their last child after thirty five

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<v Speaker 1>had sharper cogni cognition and verbal memory post menopause. They

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<v Speaker 1>also found that people who had their first child after

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<v Speaker 1>the age of twenty four were better at problem solving

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<v Speaker 1>and better at problem solving than their peers who had

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<v Speaker 1>children younger. It says you're likely to be happier and

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<v Speaker 1>less stressed. Now there's money, yes, period, and the support.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to offend anybody by I'm gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>not defend any offend any women who have experienced postpartum

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<v Speaker 1>disorder right because I'm not saying it doesn't exist. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think that when you have support system, especially the

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<v Speaker 1>person that you had this baby with right there. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to say at your back and call, but

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<v Speaker 1>a dependable person by your side, actually doing the wanting

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<v Speaker 1>with you, you might find yourself less depressed, less stress.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I mean there's also some not just just

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<v Speaker 1>because you can have a baby doesn't mean you're a mother.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have any kids, and I'm a mom all

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<v Speaker 1>day long, like I'm very nursing. So some people, some

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<v Speaker 1>people don't have that thing. Yeah, some people don't have

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<v Speaker 1>any if I don't do nothing for you. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>fedialized and I know babies require you really like really

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<v Speaker 1>would love it too, your food too, Like i'd like

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<v Speaker 1>I was at agent house. I was like, maybe a sandwich.

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<v Speaker 1>The sandwich came out with honey butter glazes on it

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<v Speaker 1>and like just very extra, like it's midnight, bitch, I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted a sandwich. You unless it's gonna be good. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I am real meticulous about food. Girl. If it was

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<v Speaker 1>the other way around. At twelve o'clock, he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>make me a sandwich. You would have got a little

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<v Speaker 1>piece of meat, some bread, you want Mayo's, some lettuce, tomato.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sprinkling no salt and pepper on your sandwich.

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<v Speaker 1>It's twelve o'clock. Eat it this way, grill it, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>go to sleep. I like to eat good, so I

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, they might come from money. Like one

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<v Speaker 1>of my best friends, she had both of her kids,

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<v Speaker 1>the last one at last year of high school, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she got pregnant nine months later. Like I know

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<v Speaker 1>what she went through to be the woman that she is,

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<v Speaker 1>staying with these two grown ass kids, and she'd be like, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done. Like yeah, and I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 2>They remember like being nineteen and twenty and looking at

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<v Speaker 2>friends that had kids and I'm like, damn girl.

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<v Speaker 1>But now the kids is grown. Yeah, and they're good

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<v Speaker 1>and they're good. Yeah. Listen, mama's come with a slice

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<v Speaker 1>of bread. Man. All my friends who got kids be rich.

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<v Speaker 1>Lem me just be having money. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>it's because they got somebody dependent. That's how we think

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<v Speaker 1>of like.

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<v Speaker 2>Every morning, like how do y'all afford these children?

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<v Speaker 1>They got to you see. I remember when and people

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to get on a JT about this, but

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<v Speaker 1>she did an interview with Angie Martinez and she was

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<v Speaker 1>saying how she don't got to go to that hard

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<v Speaker 1>because she don't got kids, and so people like and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure young Miami probably felt away about that too,

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<v Speaker 1>because she has two kids. And JT just is basically saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have kids, I don't have to do the most.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. It's just it's just me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's just a true statement. Right But before she

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<v Speaker 1>but some people don't you know, some people don't give

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<v Speaker 1>a fuck and they're still doing bad with the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you are a sound mind adult or even

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<v Speaker 1>a young person. It forces you to want to be guy.

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<v Speaker 1>It might be the reason why you struggle, but a

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<v Speaker 1>baby will definitely be the reason you hustle. So I

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<v Speaker 1>probably would have a little more hustle. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>had to take care.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what, I feel like it's more for

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<v Speaker 2>women than men.

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<v Speaker 1>Though. Am I tripping off for that? I think you

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<v Speaker 1>might because I the men that I know, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know some wonderful men, even if they did me some

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<v Speaker 1>type of way, they're great fathers. I feel like our generation, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know niggas who don't. I don't associate

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<v Speaker 1>myself with those types of people, like I think ostracized.

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<v Speaker 2>I think our parents' generation like it was okay to

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<v Speaker 2>be a dead beat. Yeah, but our generations don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Play that ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Like if you don't fuck with your kids, niggas do

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<v Speaker 2>not fuck with you.

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<v Speaker 1>No men really be out here fucking with their kids.

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<v Speaker 1>To the men we're proud of y'all. Yeah, man, all

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<v Speaker 1>my friends take care of their kids. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>who y'all know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know know no guys that don't. I can't

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<v Speaker 2>think of one, but I'm sure that watch them like bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>So exactly so, but I also know some women who

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<v Speaker 1>make it hard and I mean personally, I know some

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<v Speaker 1>women who make it hard for their kids dad to

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<v Speaker 1>be a dad because you know, so they make it

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<v Speaker 1>hard for them going through the court system, or they're

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<v Speaker 1>just angry, which I understand. I can understand why you

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<v Speaker 1>would be angry having a baby, you know, because no

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<v Speaker 1>woman just wants to be a baby mom. Nobody goes

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<v Speaker 1>into that ship like that, like we women really be

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<v Speaker 1>in love with every nigga they fucking with, and they

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<v Speaker 1>really think this the one, and they really think like better.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. Nobody goes into it to

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<v Speaker 1>be a single mom. No, nobody don't. No matter what

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<v Speaker 1>they say. Women want to be loved.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody wants to be loved. I think you know, such

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<v Speaker 2>an ugly web.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, since as research shows that older parents tend to

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<v Speaker 1>feel less stressed and more contentment and joy after having

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<v Speaker 1>children than their younger counterparts. In fact, according to the

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<v Speaker 1>authors of twenty seventeen review, existing studies show that happiness

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<v Speaker 1>increases around and after childbirth among older mothers, whereas for

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<v Speaker 1>younger mothers, the effect does not exist or it is

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<v Speaker 1>short lived. So you have a baby, you and this

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<v Speaker 1>guy just full of bliss, and it could be a

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<v Speaker 1>young couple. And I have seen this over and over again.

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<v Speaker 1>When that baby comes, it's something that happens. We know,

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<v Speaker 1>women going to just stress, women are going to change,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just don't think that men are allowed enough

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<v Speaker 1>time to catch up to the changes.

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<v Speaker 2>Of this woman physically going to do all the changes

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<v Speaker 2>and mentally changing as well during that time.

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<v Speaker 1>Whereas the man he don't feel it, you know. So

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<v Speaker 1>now you've got a parent the baby and parent the man,

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<v Speaker 1>and men could feel like who you're talking to, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So I could see, like a younger couples, why dissolve?

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<v Speaker 1>It becomes harder as soon as the baby come. You

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<v Speaker 1>haven't seen somebody have been together for years, as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as they have a baby, the nigga's out of there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like what happened? Yeah, I've seen y'all thought that baby

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna make the stronger.

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<v Speaker 2>M Yeah, that connection got to be stronger already because

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<v Speaker 2>that baby is gonna test it for sure, exactly. But

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<v Speaker 2>I think when you older, I think people want to

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<v Speaker 2>be in the house more when they're older, like you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know so, so workout. We're gonna have to chase these kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hm. At least your husband, he's gonna have to

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<v Speaker 1>have some stamina to keep a pair can get out.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want nobody else raising my kid. I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Your child may have a reduced risk of injury, it says.

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<v Speaker 1>Parents of any age aim to protect their children at

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<v Speaker 1>best excuse me, as best as they can. However, several

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<v Speaker 1>studies point to the fact that a child's risk of

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<v Speaker 1>experiencing an unintentional injury that requires medical attention declines with

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<v Speaker 1>increasing uh maternal age, So basically older moms the kids

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<v Speaker 1>are less likely to get hurt, possibly because older parents

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<v Speaker 1>are more aware of dangerous and are better equipped to

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<v Speaker 1>guard against them. And you'll get like our older moms

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<v Speaker 1>doing all the fun bullshit with the kids. Right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>probably the older moms probably are like they got more

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<v Speaker 1>patience with the kids like younger moms. You gotta cook.

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<v Speaker 1>He jumping off a slide, You're doing a TikTok right, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>broke legs. Stupid. I always at the beach. I swear

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<v Speaker 1>to God, this is where I feel like I'm a mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I be watching other people kids. I watch people not

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<v Speaker 1>watch their kids, like at the beach, you this fucking

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<v Speaker 1>kid is too close to the damn shoreline, Like where

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<v Speaker 1>are you at? Like, where the fuck is the parent

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<v Speaker 1>your kid? Quick enough? If something would have happened. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I find myself watching other people's kids all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I watch how people. I was in higher seat the

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<v Speaker 1>one day and I'm like almost I just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like started like creeping around, like in the fruit section,

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<v Speaker 1>like I was looking at shit. But really, I'm watching

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<v Speaker 1>this lady interact with her kid because he just seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like he wanted to get away from her so bad,

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<v Speaker 1>like he wasn't supposed to be with her or something.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if he was having a little

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<v Speaker 1>issue or did you steal this kid because he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem to like your ass at fucking all. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like watching and I almost said something, I just mind

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<v Speaker 1>my business and went on. I just hope the kid

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<v Speaker 1>is okay. I remember one time, this was recently. I

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<v Speaker 1>was on a plane and I had just seen a

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<v Speaker 1>missing child. It was like a little Mexican little girl

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<v Speaker 1>and it was a little Mexican girl over at the seat,

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<v Speaker 1>and I kept on watching her like and then we

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<v Speaker 1>was like, uh no, she was like a seat right

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<v Speaker 1>here looking back at her. I was like, is that her?

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<v Speaker 1>That kind of looked like her. I can't remember the name,

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<v Speaker 1>but I said the name and she ain't look I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, okay, that ain't her because we going we

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<v Speaker 1>leaving this plane together if she look at this name.

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<v Speaker 1>Because one thing I cannot stand and seeing white people

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<v Speaker 1>with black kids, Oh, I just be like, man, black

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<v Speaker 1>people need to adopt children, Like I am open to adoption,

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<v Speaker 1>and but I don't have my own kid. I would

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<v Speaker 1>definitely adopt a kid, and I might get a seven

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<v Speaker 1>or eight year old, might not even shoot they try

1:11:27.520 --> 1:11:29.560
<v Speaker 1>to get an infant because these kids get left in

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<v Speaker 1>the system until they're eighteen. So we can't be upset

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<v Speaker 1>that white people are adopted adopting our kids, but are

1:11:36.360 --> 1:11:39.880
<v Speaker 1>we able to adopt theirs. I see one family online

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<v Speaker 1>adopted their son's friend, little white boy with them now,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just can't stand it. I'd be like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>will you get this fucking baby? For why you want

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<v Speaker 1>this baby?

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<v Speaker 2>I just I don't if they're being loved and not

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<v Speaker 2>abused being kennels. Do you see these these these stuff

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<v Speaker 2>that's crazy. They're locking the kids up in a barn

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<v Speaker 2>having a message. Honestly, I think nobody, but that's what's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>My mind just always go there when I see even

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<v Speaker 1>though they could be being loved, and that's what we

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<v Speaker 1>could all hold for, that they're being loved to taking

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<v Speaker 1>care of.

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<v Speaker 2>Because a child that grows up in the system and

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<v Speaker 2>never gets adopted, that is the saddest thing, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So obviously we don't want nobody's baby and no kennel

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<v Speaker 2>in a barn and ship like that. I hope them

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<v Speaker 2>white people that had them black kids like that, I

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<v Speaker 2>hope they getting the ass whooping jail for real, because

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<v Speaker 2>that's just sick. It's some sick people out here.

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<v Speaker 1>That one family had the kids in a barn by

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<v Speaker 1>four little black kids. This other white lady, she literally

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<v Speaker 1>was just putting this little girl in a kennel in public,

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<v Speaker 1>like she opened the back hatch to her suv and

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<v Speaker 1>like the little girl knew to get in there. That's

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<v Speaker 1>so sad. Belt to ask, right, I'm not calling the police.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been her first. I would be going

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<v Speaker 1>to jail firms, I swear to God, y'all. Should I

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<v Speaker 1>be staying like I'd be willing to die for black people. Y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Niggas ain't like y'all not like me. I'm a real

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<v Speaker 1>militant with this shit. I would have dragged that bitch

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<v Speaker 1>if I had seen her with that baby in that

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<v Speaker 1>kennel in her truck. That should hurt my feelings to

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<v Speaker 1>even see it online. And then the babies just know

1:13:21.640 --> 1:13:25.920
<v Speaker 1>to go in there like she's a trained pet. That said,

1:13:26.400 --> 1:13:28.840
<v Speaker 1>right now, as we talk and record this episode, that

1:13:28.920 --> 1:13:33.960
<v Speaker 1>has happening to a child somewhere anyway, you might be

1:13:34.320 --> 1:13:41.680
<v Speaker 1>more emotionally prepared. There's an undoubted sense of maturity that

1:13:41.840 --> 1:13:44.800
<v Speaker 1>comes along with age. Just think about how much you've

1:13:44.920 --> 1:13:48.719
<v Speaker 1>changed since your teens. Research suggests that maturity place.

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<v Speaker 2>And you said, I'm ready to die for black people.

1:13:52.800 --> 1:13:55.960
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm glad it's people like you. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>ready to die for the people I love.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if I would just like, like

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<v Speaker 1>give my life for And that's why we fucked up.

1:14:04.680 --> 1:14:06.479
<v Speaker 1>A lot of people gave their life of of us,

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<v Speaker 1>like people be on Kanye saying how Kanye was talking

1:14:10.320 --> 1:14:13.280
<v Speaker 1>about the slaves and saying how slavery was a choice. Listen,

1:14:14.160 --> 1:14:17.040
<v Speaker 1>Lincoln did not end slavery. We end of slavery because

1:14:17.040 --> 1:14:19.599
<v Speaker 1>we was fucking slaughtering ass. Okay, let's be very clear.

1:14:19.640 --> 1:14:24.320
<v Speaker 1>We had the Haitians coming in, Barbadians, everybody, the Bayesians,

1:14:24.360 --> 1:14:28.920
<v Speaker 1>every people. That they're doing it today. That's what I'm getting.

1:14:28.960 --> 1:14:31.920
<v Speaker 1>That's the point I'm getting to. If anybody's choosing slavery,

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<v Speaker 1>it's us today. Because if you're not willing to what

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck you? You're not willing to die for nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>I am.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of things I'm willing to like for.

1:14:39.560 --> 1:14:41.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm willing to die for my god kids. I'm willing

1:14:41.880 --> 1:14:45.000
<v Speaker 2>to die for my family, my sister, my mother.

1:14:45.240 --> 1:14:49.040
<v Speaker 1>I see children, people, children, myself, and the little girls

1:14:49.080 --> 1:14:51.160
<v Speaker 1>we had on yesterday, Like, I'm willing to die for them,

1:14:51.160 --> 1:14:53.560
<v Speaker 1>and they just I don't even know them. It just

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<v Speaker 1>depends on what the situation.

1:14:54.680 --> 1:14:56.800
<v Speaker 2>I guess it just depends. Yeah, Okay, I'll say that

1:14:57.520 --> 1:14:58.560
<v Speaker 2>my situation.

1:14:59.080 --> 1:15:01.200
<v Speaker 1>Now, I'm an organized her Okay, I'm not saying I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in the front line type bitch.

1:15:02.720 --> 1:15:04.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what it sounds like. It's about to put

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<v Speaker 2>on boots and get hit the ground.

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<v Speaker 1>No, if she comes to the front line, I mean

1:15:08.880 --> 1:15:13.760
<v Speaker 1>come behind the line. I'm willing, but I'm organizing crash. Okay,

1:15:13.800 --> 1:15:18.559
<v Speaker 1>we're on the same. I like, let's put on black

1:15:18.600 --> 1:15:22.439
<v Speaker 1>paint tomorrow and go outside. Okay, so listen, I saw

1:15:22.479 --> 1:15:26.000
<v Speaker 1>a video recently with Tommy tell Me from Love and

1:15:26.080 --> 1:15:28.840
<v Speaker 1>Hip Hop. I saw a video of her recently, and

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<v Speaker 1>I sent it to a couple of people who will

1:15:30.320 --> 1:15:32.000
<v Speaker 1>be on the type of time I'm on because when she,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm ready, if she get real, if we can

1:15:34.160 --> 1:15:37.800
<v Speaker 1>collectively be down for change. No, I'm not about to

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<v Speaker 1>just go throw myself into the fire when these niggas

1:15:41.680 --> 1:15:43.720
<v Speaker 1>will still be doing the same. That's what I what

1:15:43.800 --> 1:15:46.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. But some people that's in the streets, that's

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<v Speaker 1>just not living right there. I ain't trying to do right.

1:15:50.200 --> 1:15:52.200
<v Speaker 1>They gotta go to see. Those are not even the

1:15:52.240 --> 1:15:57.519
<v Speaker 1>people I'm considering. Okay, So Tommy was like, y'all call

1:15:57.600 --> 1:16:00.559
<v Speaker 1>me when y'all ready to go get on some police.

1:16:00.760 --> 1:16:02.240
<v Speaker 1>Call me when y'all ready. Dude, I'm not about to

1:16:02.280 --> 1:16:04.519
<v Speaker 1>be marching down the street about this ship. But call

1:16:04.600 --> 1:16:06.760
<v Speaker 1>me when y'all on some real ship. And that is

1:16:06.840 --> 1:16:09.680
<v Speaker 1>how I feel, so we can collectively get on some

1:16:09.800 --> 1:16:14.200
<v Speaker 1>real ship. I'm down. I'm down for the next generation

1:16:15.240 --> 1:16:18.479
<v Speaker 1>because once you conquer death, like, yes, I want a child,

1:16:18.800 --> 1:16:20.439
<v Speaker 1>and I feel like and maybe if I had a

1:16:20.520 --> 1:16:22.800
<v Speaker 1>kid right now, I wouldn't feel this way. But I

1:16:22.880 --> 1:16:23.880
<v Speaker 1>don't mind dying.

1:16:24.240 --> 1:16:28.600
<v Speaker 2>When you say conquered death, okay, freof yes, the.

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<v Speaker 1>Fear of dying, the fear of transitioning once you get

1:16:32.560 --> 1:16:35.600
<v Speaker 1>past that, because we dying every day. But once you

1:16:35.680 --> 1:16:39.519
<v Speaker 1>get past that, you it's limitless. Would would you like

1:16:39.600 --> 1:16:43.800
<v Speaker 1>to think of myself living every day and not dying.

1:16:44.200 --> 1:16:46.920
<v Speaker 1>You were talking about age and what your body, but

1:16:47.080 --> 1:16:52.800
<v Speaker 1>to go through before and after child? Okay, it's the inevitable. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let me get back to my thing, because we get

1:16:54.760 --> 1:16:59.200
<v Speaker 1>a little bit too deep, right, Just let y'all. I

1:16:59.240 --> 1:17:01.559
<v Speaker 1>don't know if y'all knowing not, but I am.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, everybody plays their role. You gotta like, I'll

1:17:05.200 --> 1:17:08.240
<v Speaker 2>probably you'll be outside with Tommy with the guns. No,

1:17:08.560 --> 1:17:11.439
<v Speaker 2>I'll be inside prepared meals. So y'all have nurishment.

1:17:12.479 --> 1:17:15.280
<v Speaker 1>Everybody has a role, Nick and blow the building up

1:17:15.320 --> 1:17:17.720
<v Speaker 1>that you win. Listen, we all again, and we all

1:17:17.800 --> 1:17:20.320
<v Speaker 1>got to do our part. Though, I'm just saying, you's

1:17:20.360 --> 1:17:23.840
<v Speaker 1>gotta be a well old machine. Everybody gotta do their part. Okay,

1:17:24.040 --> 1:17:27.360
<v Speaker 1>it so I could die last. I'm gonna make sure

1:17:27.439 --> 1:17:29.840
<v Speaker 1>y'all well fed if you need a like, if you

1:17:29.920 --> 1:17:32.720
<v Speaker 1>need your shoulders like worked out after you come back

1:17:34.479 --> 1:17:42.040
<v Speaker 1>you seem ye, that's me. That's my job. Car the

1:17:42.120 --> 1:17:51.000
<v Speaker 1>face size girl. Everybody gotta know their role. Baby shame. Uh.

1:17:51.080 --> 1:17:53.640
<v Speaker 1>This says your child is is likely to be more

1:17:53.720 --> 1:17:56.759
<v Speaker 1>tech savvy. Yeah, because y'all letting the tablet reis a journey.

1:17:56.760 --> 1:18:00.599
<v Speaker 1>That's why you might be more financially stable and healthier.

1:18:01.040 --> 1:18:04.040
<v Speaker 1>That is to me, that is the plus, okay, right,

1:18:06.400 --> 1:18:08.760
<v Speaker 1>just having the means to have fun with the kid.

1:18:09.200 --> 1:18:12.280
<v Speaker 1>There's nothing that can And I don't have any kids,

1:18:12.320 --> 1:18:15.040
<v Speaker 1>but I can imagine like having a child and not

1:18:15.200 --> 1:18:17.720
<v Speaker 1>being able to feed them. That would break my heart.

1:18:17.800 --> 1:18:19.080
<v Speaker 1>And there's a lot of people that go through that.

1:18:19.280 --> 1:18:21.640
<v Speaker 1>I would never want to bring a kid into this

1:18:22.080 --> 1:18:26.120
<v Speaker 1>situation like that, Like I don't I'm not promoting abortion,

1:18:26.360 --> 1:18:30.280
<v Speaker 1>but I definitely ain't for fucking struggling the fuck, Like

1:18:30.800 --> 1:18:32.960
<v Speaker 1>what are you doing? Like you're ruining other.

1:18:32.920 --> 1:18:35.240
<v Speaker 2>People's life, like looking into the eyes of your hungry

1:18:35.320 --> 1:18:37.200
<v Speaker 2>baby and not being able to do nothing about it.

1:18:37.280 --> 1:18:41.240
<v Speaker 1>It's got to be next level pain, you know, yeah,

1:18:41.439 --> 1:18:45.120
<v Speaker 1>and this last one you may live longer. I believe

1:18:45.160 --> 1:18:49.559
<v Speaker 1>that people will be wanting to get rid of their periods, Like, girl,

1:18:49.560 --> 1:18:52.280
<v Speaker 1>I love to see my period, okay, because as long

1:18:52.360 --> 1:18:55.120
<v Speaker 1>as I see it, that means I'm not menopausal. Okay.

1:18:57.439 --> 1:18:59.320
<v Speaker 1>If you can have a baby later in life, that

1:18:59.439 --> 1:19:02.680
<v Speaker 1>means you're health like your body was healthy enough to

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<v Speaker 1>produce another fucking human.

1:19:04.400 --> 1:19:05.120
<v Speaker 2>Onto god shit.

1:19:05.960 --> 1:19:08.759
<v Speaker 1>So it says having kids later might make you live longer.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people think that having babies late in life either

1:19:11.400 --> 1:19:13.479
<v Speaker 1>means you won't have the energy to keep up with

1:19:13.560 --> 1:19:16.360
<v Speaker 1>the young kids, or worse, you won't be around for

1:19:16.479 --> 1:19:19.400
<v Speaker 1>their major life events like getting married and having children

1:19:19.439 --> 1:19:22.920
<v Speaker 1>of their own, says doctor Sabler. But research finds that

1:19:23.120 --> 1:19:25.640
<v Speaker 1>this couldn't be further from the truth. In fact, in

1:19:25.680 --> 1:19:29.680
<v Speaker 1>twenty fifteen, studies published in Menopause found that women who

1:19:29.840 --> 1:19:32.759
<v Speaker 1>have children after the age of thirty three were twice

1:19:32.760 --> 1:19:35.799
<v Speaker 1>as likely to live to the age ninety five compared

1:19:35.800 --> 1:19:39.240
<v Speaker 1>to women who had their last child before thirty And

1:19:39.520 --> 1:19:42.599
<v Speaker 1>that's something worth considering. I'm gonna tell y'all my friends

1:19:42.640 --> 1:19:44.719
<v Speaker 1>who had kids early, they got they got my fucking

1:19:44.880 --> 1:19:49.559
<v Speaker 1>uh Ara rheumatoried authoritis right now, which is hands is crippled,

1:19:50.000 --> 1:19:53.160
<v Speaker 1>all type of shit going on. So I think like

1:19:53.280 --> 1:19:57.040
<v Speaker 1>the babies might also aige you earlier to having children early.

1:19:57.479 --> 1:20:00.839
<v Speaker 2>You don't feel like, uh women who don't have husbands

1:20:01.000 --> 1:20:02.160
<v Speaker 2>and have kids, Yeah.

1:20:02.000 --> 1:20:03.880
<v Speaker 1>They'd be looking at all good. That's why I wanted

1:20:03.920 --> 1:20:07.320
<v Speaker 1>my uh my cousin, Big Tash, not the low one

1:20:07.400 --> 1:20:09.760
<v Speaker 1>to come on to day because she's fucking fabulous. She's

1:20:09.760 --> 1:20:12.439
<v Speaker 1>beautiful and she has a big grown ass son and

1:20:13.120 --> 1:20:16.160
<v Speaker 1>doing well. So if you can do it early and

1:20:16.240 --> 1:20:20.240
<v Speaker 1>come out on the other side successful, I'm jealous. Yeah,

1:20:20.280 --> 1:20:22.640
<v Speaker 1>me too, you know so Now I wasn't jealous when

1:20:22.680 --> 1:20:24.680
<v Speaker 1>we was twenty two and you was right, Oh you

1:20:24.800 --> 1:20:27.000
<v Speaker 1>can't go with me to see jun out of night. Damn,

1:20:27.120 --> 1:20:29.280
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy, girl. I'm gonna call you the woman. But

1:20:29.400 --> 1:20:33.920
<v Speaker 1>now definite. Yeah, they can babysit, you can still go outside. Yeah.

1:20:34.200 --> 1:20:36.720
<v Speaker 1>I feel like Cardi b made it real popular and

1:20:36.880 --> 1:20:39.920
<v Speaker 1>okay for women to be women and have babies and

1:20:40.040 --> 1:20:43.679
<v Speaker 1>keep her career. Yes, because she did all the fucking things.

1:20:43.720 --> 1:20:46.000
<v Speaker 1>And even if her and old boy breaking up right now,

1:20:46.360 --> 1:20:47.840
<v Speaker 1>which I don't think so, I think is more of

1:20:47.880 --> 1:20:51.800
<v Speaker 1>a financial thing. But anyway, even if they are, she

1:20:51.960 --> 1:20:54.000
<v Speaker 1>has her children, she has her career. She still has

1:20:54.040 --> 1:20:57.599
<v Speaker 1>a many years ahead of her in life. And I'm

1:20:57.640 --> 1:21:01.120
<v Speaker 1>pretty sure Nicki Minaj was putting child being during years

1:21:01.200 --> 1:21:02.840
<v Speaker 1>on the back burner because.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of women felt like for the care Yeah,

1:21:05.120 --> 1:21:09.639
<v Speaker 2>so shout out to she had the most beautiful Cinderella story.

1:21:09.720 --> 1:21:11.479
<v Speaker 2>We saw her from loving him her and she's like,

1:21:11.520 --> 1:21:13.120
<v Speaker 2>I wear my shirt like this, so you don't look

1:21:13.160 --> 1:21:14.680
<v Speaker 2>at my teeth. Remember my tee?

1:21:15.120 --> 1:21:16.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, look at my TD soill you don't look at

1:21:16.680 --> 1:21:17.960
<v Speaker 1>my teeth. Now look at her.

1:21:18.080 --> 1:21:21.200
<v Speaker 2>She's so beautiful and yes, beautiful. It's just such a

1:21:21.240 --> 1:21:22.080
<v Speaker 2>beautiful Cinderella.

1:21:22.120 --> 1:21:23.760
<v Speaker 1>And I remember her being on the breakfast leve and

1:21:23.800 --> 1:21:28.080
<v Speaker 1>saying like, I'm trying to have kids. Like soon she started,

1:21:28.160 --> 1:21:28.479
<v Speaker 1>she did.

1:21:28.680 --> 1:21:31.160
<v Speaker 2>She did everything people told her not to. You know

1:21:31.720 --> 1:21:33.920
<v Speaker 2>that she was going to ruin it and looking yeah

1:21:34.000 --> 1:21:34.600
<v Speaker 2>so yeah, so.

1:21:35.800 --> 1:21:38.160
<v Speaker 1>Baby, don't wait on no career shit. And then the

1:21:38.240 --> 1:21:39.880
<v Speaker 1>older you get, now they're not waiting on the man.

1:21:39.960 --> 1:21:47.080
<v Speaker 1>Bitch is the freezing they sperm? What's old? Girl? Damn?

1:21:47.160 --> 1:21:48.479
<v Speaker 1>I don't know who you're talking about. You know who

1:21:48.520 --> 1:21:51.679
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about? No, I don't she was on black Effect,

1:21:52.200 --> 1:21:54.040
<v Speaker 1>remember she did in one of our episodes and then

1:21:54.080 --> 1:21:58.519
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to put the episode out. Oh pretty privileged,

1:21:58.600 --> 1:22:04.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, Ebany, Ebanie Williams, Ebonie Williams. She's pregnant right now.

1:22:04.760 --> 1:22:07.439
<v Speaker 1>She froze her eggs in her thirties and she's pregnant.

1:22:07.479 --> 1:22:10.160
<v Speaker 1>People are talking shit about her because she wasn't able

1:22:10.240 --> 1:22:12.960
<v Speaker 1>to lock in a husband, a man, she's been married before,

1:22:13.000 --> 1:22:15.000
<v Speaker 1>but she wasn't able to lock in somebody to have

1:22:15.120 --> 1:22:17.400
<v Speaker 1>the baby with. So she guess she got a sperm

1:22:17.479 --> 1:22:22.280
<v Speaker 1>donor or whoever, and she's having her baby like she

1:22:22.560 --> 1:22:24.840
<v Speaker 1>has the means to take care of kids. So so

1:22:24.960 --> 1:22:28.160
<v Speaker 1>we mad at that. But then y'all also, don't y'all

1:22:28.200 --> 1:22:31.000
<v Speaker 1>talk about single moms who had a baby, daddy who

1:22:31.160 --> 1:22:32.160
<v Speaker 1>chose not to be there.

1:22:33.360 --> 1:22:35.479
<v Speaker 2>You can't You can't please anybody, so I mean, you

1:22:35.560 --> 1:22:37.400
<v Speaker 2>can't please everybody, So there's no point.

1:22:37.439 --> 1:22:40.280
<v Speaker 1>Ye happy as hell, Just make yourself happy. Yeah, me too.

1:22:40.680 --> 1:22:46.240
<v Speaker 1>Congratulations girls here, y'all be fine. Everything to be mad at?

1:22:46.320 --> 1:22:49.840
<v Speaker 1>What's our last last? Have the yddamn baby? Okay, it's

1:22:50.280 --> 1:22:54.040
<v Speaker 1>a goddamn had a baby. Y'all go pro create and before.

1:22:54.240 --> 1:22:56.080
<v Speaker 2>Don't because some people don't want a baby, you know,

1:22:56.840 --> 1:22:58.520
<v Speaker 2>do what makes you happy whatever.

1:22:58.520 --> 1:23:00.920
<v Speaker 1>If you don't want the baby, because Michael Jackson said,

1:23:00.920 --> 1:23:03.280
<v Speaker 1>if you can't feed the baby, don't have the baby. Okay.

1:23:03.560 --> 1:23:05.439
<v Speaker 1>But if a woman doesn't want to be pregnand there

1:23:05.520 --> 1:23:08.320
<v Speaker 1>is so many things you can do to avoid pregnancy

1:23:08.479 --> 1:23:11.320
<v Speaker 1>as a woman, you know, aside from using lightsol on

1:23:11.360 --> 1:23:15.240
<v Speaker 1>your kuchi, you could use my Day's app. You remember

1:23:15.280 --> 1:23:18.280
<v Speaker 1>we read that thing how women use lights alack, Yeah,

1:23:21.120 --> 1:23:25.840
<v Speaker 1>the altered that was the you know talking about. I

1:23:25.840 --> 1:23:27.439
<v Speaker 1>said that was the original that you like, put a

1:23:27.479 --> 1:23:28.600
<v Speaker 1>little tap of bleach in you.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't put no bleach in there.

1:23:32.040 --> 1:23:34.760
<v Speaker 1>You do that well when I do, when I do

1:23:34.960 --> 1:23:38.240
<v Speaker 1>a spiritual bascist to cleanse the outside of my body,

1:23:38.280 --> 1:23:40.360
<v Speaker 1>I do put a cap full of bleach. Put it.

1:23:40.439 --> 1:23:43.240
<v Speaker 1>I put a cap full of APPI side of vinegar.

1:23:44.960 --> 1:23:49.760
<v Speaker 1>I put some salt in their. No, bitch, a little

1:23:49.800 --> 1:23:51.720
<v Speaker 1>capful of bleach is not going to kill you. We

1:23:51.880 --> 1:23:55.439
<v Speaker 1>are chlorine in our water that we're drinking like it's

1:23:55.479 --> 1:23:56.200
<v Speaker 1>not you be all.

1:23:56.160 --> 1:23:59.240
<v Speaker 2>Right, Chlorine in the bottle water, chlorine.

1:23:58.800 --> 1:24:06.040
<v Speaker 1>And all this stuff, fluoride, fluoride, chlorine, whatever, ships calcifying

1:24:06.120 --> 1:24:07.439
<v Speaker 1>your pinot gland. That's what I do.

1:24:07.560 --> 1:24:10.920
<v Speaker 2>Put a little apple, snap that puss it back.

1:24:13.439 --> 1:24:19.920
<v Speaker 1>That do not work. Gonna starts the last last. Stop

1:24:19.960 --> 1:24:23.360
<v Speaker 1>putting stuff up, y'all couci like penis, No not the

1:24:23.439 --> 1:24:28.479
<v Speaker 1>penis just all us extra ship the suppositories, all the boras.

1:24:28.840 --> 1:24:30.920
<v Speaker 1>Get your diet together. And the kuchi is a self

1:24:30.960 --> 1:24:33.479
<v Speaker 1>cleaning organism. It'll be all right. What about I see

1:24:33.560 --> 1:24:35.240
<v Speaker 1>girls putting all right? No, I know we gotta go.

1:24:35.360 --> 1:24:41.759
<v Speaker 1>But yogurt not I've done. I've done. Garlic for East infection.

1:24:42.160 --> 1:24:44.400
<v Speaker 1>You put a piece of garlic like you do it

1:24:44.479 --> 1:24:46.800
<v Speaker 1>at night. Do it that night, because as soon as

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<v Speaker 1>it gets in your body, you're gonna taste it in

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<v Speaker 1>your mouth. Oh, I know it's coming all out. And

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<v Speaker 1>when I tell you that is a natural remedy for

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<v Speaker 1>East infections. You take a needle, put a piece of

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<v Speaker 1>string right, and you put the uh. You put the

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<v Speaker 1>garlic in the tampon applicator and shoot it up.

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<v Speaker 2>Last you had the house spelling like pizza.

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<v Speaker 1>I want a pizza right now. You're not voice when

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<v Speaker 1>you tell jokes, bitch, you'll be coming out what I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't know who that is. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I'm a man. That's my last list. Stop putting

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<v Speaker 1>stuff in your couchie. Happy baby, have a baby, be

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<v Speaker 1>happy whatever it is? All right, y'all. If you enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>And never hold your baby bag. Okay, you just have

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<v Speaker 1>a baby? Baby back baby, baby, baby, baby baby anything. Ribs,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hungry, it's eight. I had cheesecake. Acty bitches, do

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