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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk. You're just two unapologetically

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Speaker 1: black women with an opinion who talks. What's up y'all?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode and

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Speaker 1: we Talked Back and show dedicated to you dreamers and Chasers.

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Speaker 1: This is your co host, aj Holiday. I know you're

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Speaker 1: looking at me like that. My jaw is fucked up, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to say, damn onto what happened just now

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Speaker 1: opening your mouth to speak, and you was like, I

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Speaker 1: barely can. Like y I be using the massage gun

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Speaker 1: on my ship. It's like bad so it'd be slipping

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Speaker 1: and sliding when I'm talking sometime. But what's up? Tampam y'all?

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Speaker 2: Team I love y'allo. Aj Yo, y'all don't work.

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Speaker 1: I got a doctor's excuse not to suck. I'm not

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Speaker 1: to say not just saying niggas names on this goddamn

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Speaker 1: my Sorry. The other day I had to think, like, damn,

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Speaker 1: I saw this nigga dick since March. Yeah, you can't

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Speaker 1: eat after seven time? Get out of there. It's crazy

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Speaker 1: over there. Like I'm in here trying to adjust my

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Speaker 1: shit to the left or right a little bit. It's

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Speaker 1: second not have another nigg another bit sucking my man, Dick,

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Speaker 1: I had adjust my shit a little bit, like, oh god,

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Speaker 1: I gotta be in pain for a little bit. Yes, please,

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Speaker 1: that's a real thing. What'd you do over the weekend?

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Speaker 1: I feel like I did get up with some friends

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Speaker 1: on Saturday. I had a little quick brunch, y'all. I'm

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Speaker 1: just tired of eating, you know what I'm saying. It's

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Speaker 1: like almost soon as soon as you eat, Like I

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Speaker 1: don't want to be tired as soon as I eat.

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Speaker 1: That's so crazy. You said that.

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Speaker 2: Like yesterday I went out to eat twice, two different times,

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Speaker 2: lunch and dinner, and both times I felt sleepy right after.

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Speaker 1: I like, you felt tired. I don't know what's that about.

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Speaker 1: I was talking about it.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I need something to wake me up,

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Speaker 2: and they offered someone offered me meth.

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Speaker 1: It was la what but cocaine or myth? You know,

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Speaker 1: it's like, we can get you some meth real quick

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Speaker 1: to wake up, Like, no, no, thank you, that mething.

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Speaker 1: Go wake you up, bitch. She's gonna have your eyes

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Speaker 1: stuck somewhere. Oh that's heroin how people be like in

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Speaker 1: the zombie leading to the side holding their body up

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Speaker 1: like not like, how y'all do that? It's very distorted. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like as soon as I ate, like every all of us,

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Speaker 1: we was like, what y'all about to do? Everybody like, man,

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Speaker 1: I'm abouna go home, I say, and take your clothes

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Speaker 1: off because it's like at home. I took my clothes

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Speaker 1: off and got in the fucking bed. Yesterday I ate

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Speaker 1: a couple of son chips. I worked out yesterday morning.

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Speaker 1: I ate a couple of son chips, and I automatically

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Speaker 1: started feeling tired. It's like this food is fucked up. Man,

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Speaker 1: it's the food. Where's the food? So sleepy, sleepy ass

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Speaker 1: food sleepy fuck like you literally can't eat no whole

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Speaker 1: like solid nothing. It gotta be like drinks and juices

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Speaker 1: and slushies and smoothies.

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Speaker 2: And then I hear everybody be like eugh. When I

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Speaker 2: tell them what I was eating, I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I had an uncrustable what is that that peanut like

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Speaker 2: the little peanut butter jelly sandwich?

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Speaker 1: Shit? Ew, why would you eat that? My friends? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I like fresh peanut butt and jelly, my jelly costs

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Speaker 1: ten dollars, and I get the fresh honey roasted peanut

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Speaker 1: butter from Whole Foods. Like that's a good peanut butter

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Speaker 1: and jelly sandwich. That ship that's pre made dog you're

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Speaker 1: wiling's and that shit snapped after a blunt. That like

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Speaker 1: that is some jail food dog. I like him. That's common.

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Speaker 1: For eight seconds. I seen my friends feeding their kids

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Speaker 1: that ship, and I'm like, y'all tripping. I would never

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Speaker 1: like if my kid were have ever come to your house.

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Speaker 1: And y'all, y'all, what is it called a stackable, uncrustable

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Speaker 1: or uncrustable. If I find out you give give my

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Speaker 1: kid an uncrustable, I'm gonna cut your ass.

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Speaker 2: Just bring your own uncrustable sea with your little thirty

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Speaker 2: dollars people. But you ain't got seem to worry about.

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Speaker 1: I love peanut and jelly though. That's my meal. That's

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Speaker 1: a good with some almond milk on the side, nice

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Speaker 1: and cold. I want no milk nice? What I do?

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Speaker 1: This weekend?

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Speaker 2: Elliott got invited to Jason lee birthday party and I

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Speaker 2: came as his plus one and it was very gay.

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Speaker 2: It was it was not a lot of straight men

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Speaker 2: in the building, which is to be expected, is Jason Lee.

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Speaker 1: He's not a straight man, so I'm sure.

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Speaker 2: But I started making good all the.

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Speaker 1: Ladies who like to hang out with the with the girls.

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Speaker 2: Jonathan Majors was in there, Evan Ross, uh y Ko Cyrus.

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Speaker 2: I think that's all that I really saw I was

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Speaker 1: But that was cool.

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Speaker 2: Then I went to the comedy store and saw a

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Speaker 2: roast competition. You know, I loved me some stand up comedy,

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Speaker 2: so that was that was fun. That was Yeah, they

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Speaker 2: were terrible. It made me feel like I really could

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Speaker 2: get up there, like, y'all, I have aspirations to do

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Speaker 2: like an amateur night of comedy, not no roast session.

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Speaker 2: I think you would be good at that, aging bitch.

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Speaker 1: I got it. I got an hour worth a roaster

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Speaker 1: for your ass.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, so that's what I did this weekend.

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Speaker 1: It was cool. Is it? Amateurs at the Uh? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: so people just sign up to roast each other.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yep, and they were terrible.

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Speaker 1: How do you roast somebody? All you can do is

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Speaker 1: their parents if you don't know their personal lives. Like

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Speaker 1: it's like with Battle rappers, like when they push it together,

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Speaker 1: like they didn't study this person. But how do you

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Speaker 1: just study this random ass person?

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if they I don't think they

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Speaker 2: got a chance to study them. Like the girl had

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Speaker 2: autism one of them, so he kept making fun of

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Speaker 2: her autism, like how how was the autism?

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Speaker 1: Like how did he know she had autism?

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Speaker 2: I guess I think she said. I think she said it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you give somebody ammo in a

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Speaker 1: in a roast, right, I would have used that autism

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Speaker 1: to my Uh she won though, Okay, yeah, because she

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Speaker 1: probably smarter. She want.

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Speaker 2: Neither one of them was funny to me, though.

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Speaker 1: Let's get in this stupid internet news chow. Y'all know

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Speaker 1: I take shit a little too deep sometimes, But this

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Speaker 1: word I don't even want to this, this is not much.

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Speaker 1: I am conscious of the things I do. I don't

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Speaker 1: even want to say the fucking word that she getting

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Speaker 1: on my fucking nerve. Okay, so y'all niggas don learned

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Speaker 1: a new word and sexy Red. Sexy Red tweeted and said,

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Speaker 1: I'm not demurror. I'm ah, I ain't no demurr. I

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Speaker 1: ain't no demurror. I'm a hole lip gloss line. So

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Speaker 1: she has a Yeah, she has a lip gloss line

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Speaker 1: that she uh is coming out with under her I

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Speaker 1: guess it's her her brand. It's called north Side Princess

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Speaker 1: y on north Side is like the Nigga side of

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Speaker 1: town in Saint Louis where all the black people live.

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Speaker 1: App But she has this new brand, and I guess

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Speaker 1: this is what she would you know, whatever product she

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Speaker 1: comes out, what would come under north Side Princess Child.

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Speaker 1: The names of the lip gloss on this line is ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: Talk about monopolizing hood ghetto ratchet. I don't even know

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Speaker 1: know if this hood get a Ratchet's just disgusting right this, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's just gross. It's just nasty. I'm like, why, why

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Speaker 1: are you gonna make this just about like hood get

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Speaker 1: a wretched? This is just disgusting. Why does she want

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Speaker 1: us to look at her in that way? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I guess she want y'all to see her for who

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Speaker 1: she is. I mean, she okay, she I know people

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Speaker 1: like that. I have family members Dad remind me of

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Speaker 1: Sexy Red. Like Sexy Red looked like she could be

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Speaker 1: on my daddy's side of the family for sure, mm hm.

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Speaker 1: And I have people that I know personally that act

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Speaker 1: like that too, Like Charlston is fucking ghetto as hell. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so they they those people do exist and she represents them.

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Speaker 1: But y'all, some of these lip gloss uh koochie juice,

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Speaker 1: Uh bootyhole brown. You wearing a lip glass name nut?

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Speaker 1: I mean it could be chestnut, but it's just nut

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Speaker 1: on your lips. Uh pussy hoole pink. Now, we saw

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Speaker 1: the video Sexy Red, we saw your video. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but that pussy whole pink. I'm just who is going

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Speaker 1: to release these lip blosses for her? And when you

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Speaker 1: ask people what they got on their mouth, are they

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Speaker 1: gonna say yellow discharge? It's a yellow discharge one right, Yes,

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Speaker 1: there's a gone, a real one that is, there's a

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Speaker 1: blue balls and there is a sex on my period.

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Speaker 1: I guess that would be Red Red. This she just

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Speaker 1: fucking nuts gross. She's like whatever y'all think. This is

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Speaker 1: the crazy part is but she probably gonna sell out,

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Speaker 1: sell the fuck out, so right now, I guess on

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Speaker 1: her website is just like email. She collect an email,

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Speaker 1: so whenever the item drops, you know, it'll be like

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Speaker 1: an email list, So it's not actually on Selle yet,

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Speaker 1: which I think the smartest thing would have been, if

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Speaker 1: you're going to advertise it, have the products already ready

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Speaker 1: right now, like this is the lunch. But yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta wait for that booty whole brown.

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Speaker 2: Well listen, I you know, more power to her, and

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Speaker 2: I hope she does sell out, but I will not

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Speaker 2: be purchasing any Gneria from my lips.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like manifestation to me. No thanks, I'm cool on that.

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Speaker 1: I wonder what the ingredients are. She probably even give

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Speaker 1: a fuck. She probably didn't go through no damn dermatology.

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Speaker 1: She ain't go through no medical, not medical but a

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Speaker 1: cosmetic scientist. Nothing, just a bunch of bullshit. People don't happened,

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Speaker 1: and people don't. Right, there's probably some Alibabas ship packaged

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Speaker 1: up yep and put the name on it. But to

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Speaker 1: be peeling and breaking up from Gneria, ooh, it's crazy,

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Speaker 1: mean Conorea. Anyway, what else happened? Angela jo Lee? All right,

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Speaker 1: so I thought this was funny? She any, Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: is funny. I don't think it's funny. It was sad

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Speaker 1: to me.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, Angelina Jolie hire a hit man for herself.

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Speaker 2: So she battled with darker times during her younger years,

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Speaker 2: and her quotes about hiring a hitman have recently resurfaced.

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Speaker 2: In two thousand and one interview with IMDb, the forty

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Speaker 2: nine year old admitted she tried to hire a hitman

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Speaker 2: to kill her when she was playing with suicidal thoughts.

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Speaker 2: Hiring a hitman to kill yourself is kind of.

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Speaker 1: Like what it is wild, but I understand and why not?

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Speaker 2: Just my thing is why not just off yourself? But

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Speaker 2: the reason why was that she didn't want her family

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Speaker 2: to Uh, it would be easier for her loved ones

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Speaker 2: to deal with right if she was murdered versus having suicide.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And to me that kind of makes sense, right,

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Speaker 1: Like if you want to get the fuck about this

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Speaker 1: planet right now, and you also, you know you don't

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Speaker 1: want to hurt your loved ones, if that's really where

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Speaker 1: your mind is at, can't nobody like you know how

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Speaker 1: people go to psychiatrists and therapists. They can't talk you

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Speaker 1: off the ledge for real. They'll try to keep medicating people.

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Speaker 1: But that's a decision that individual has made up and

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Speaker 1: if they actually followed through, like she really like found

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Speaker 1: a hit man. And the craziest thing she said in

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Speaker 1: New York, it's like kind of easy to find a

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Speaker 1: hit man, like, well, you know what she a hit

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Speaker 1: man is any nigga with a gun willing to shoot,

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Speaker 1: And that's it. That's that I should have learned from

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Speaker 2: Yes, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Like that's not your friend? If a bitch get on

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Speaker 2: I want all my girls to have my nigga numbers.

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Speaker 2: Say y'all can tell him what ring to.

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Speaker 1: You know. So we'll just be weird. This is what

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Speaker 2: rain and the raincoat like carbon San Diego and a

429
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:35,919
Speaker 2: payphone somewhere.

430
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:39,119
Speaker 1: Call it a bitch telling her yes because it's not

431
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:42,360
Speaker 1: just her when she's cheats. Or maybe she goes into

432
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 1: another relationship and she hadn't gotten tested, or maybe they

433
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 1: both went to get tested together and his shit came

434
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 1: back positive and not hers. Right, that's the situation I

435
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: know of. That actually happened to somebody that real close

436
00:23:55,359 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 1: to me. But he told her not the nurse did

437
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: he tell her right away? Girl? When he came out

438
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 1: with a gray white face, she was like, what's up?

439
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 1: My tests? Also was good, what's up with yours? The

440
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: nigga says what's HIV again, as if he didn't fucking

441
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 1: know what HIV is? Who are you playing there? That's scary.

442
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 1: That is scary as a fuck.

443
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I don't understand, Like legally, I mean, I

444
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:32,159
Speaker 2: get the law you can't share someone's medical information, but

445
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 2: when it comes to something like that, it should be

446
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 2: if they came in together and you know they're sexually active,

447
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 2: there's should be something that should be allowed to be

448
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:41,879
Speaker 2: shared between both parties.

449
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 1: What state is that? Because in the state of South Carolina,

450
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: if somebody comes in with like that's like d Hack

451
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,239
Speaker 1: is on your ass. D Hack wants to know who

452
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: you've had access to. D Heck is going to call

453
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 1: other people. They're gonna call the people that you tell

454
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 1: them that you've had access to. That's nothing to play with.

455
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,879
Speaker 1: So I'm confused as to why it's a hip of

456
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,680
Speaker 1: violation like what stated we Maybe it's a state that

457
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 1: just I don't know, Yeah, because that's next level. Why

458
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't you tell her sitting right there, y'all came together, right,

459
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: but you will tell him my shit? Negative? Right?

460
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 2: I don't think they'll tell anything. Like it's on the

461
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 2: person to tell their truth.

462
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 1: I guess their truth. Ain't it against the law to

463
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 1: pass out HIV? Is it against the law that has?

464
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,400
Speaker 1: What state is that? Yes? What state is that? Yeah?

465
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 1: Because if you are in certain states, and I believe

466
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: a lot of them, if you intentionally inflict that type

467
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 1: of harm on people, you will get jail time. If

468
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: you know what your status is and you are out

469
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 1: here having sex with a bunch of different people and

470
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 1: it leads back to you you going to prison. As

471
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 1: you should remember that white guy, he was a DJ

472
00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 1: in South Carolina.

473
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 2: Carolina Stephen, all those young black white guy.

474
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, he got arrested for that.

475
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 2: He would have jail.

476
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 1: Serves them. Right. He looked sick though, but he was.

477
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: He was praying on really really young black women, young

478
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: black women.

479
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 2: Mm hmmmm, that's terrible. Yeah, I would have told you,

480
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 2: but I don't think I would. But then I would

481
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,640
Speaker 2: have follow old girl because you the one who told.

482
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 2: Because how did they know that I violated hippo?

483
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 1: Right? Who told? I violated hippo? Bitch? The patient, the girlfriend,

484
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 1: the girlfriend told on the nurse. This is why sometimes

485
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,919
Speaker 1: you got mind your fucking business, because if somebody were

486
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: to give me some shit like that, I would have

487
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: tried to go about it and a roundabout way to

488
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 1: not get that person in trouble. I would have been

489
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: so appreciative that they told me. Right, but she you know,

490
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: but she probably wasn't shocked, like you know, you just

491
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 1: never know how you're going to react when you Yeah news.

492
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 1: I hope the girl is okay.

493
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 2: I hope the man it's okay, shit, because I mean he's.

494
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,439
Speaker 1: Very the fucking seitful. Okay, he probably knew he had

495
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 1: that ship the day they went to the hospital. Yeah,

496
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 1: or maybe he didn't.

497
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 2: If he didn't, and he just is shocked and embarrassing

498
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:15,719
Speaker 2: and shame, and it was like, I want to tell her,

499
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 2: but I need to tell her on my own time.

500
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 1: Which would be never, because you got a first what's

501
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: what's your own time while you still having sex with me?

502
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe later that night, I don't know. No, No,

503
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 1: there's never a right time to tell someone your HIV immediately.

504
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 1: It's the right time immediately, yeah, But I mean, like,

505
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 1: if you're someone with HIV, that's a hard conversation to have,

506
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: you know, imagine that, Like, that's a hard conversation to

507
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: have to come to your partner and tell him I

508
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 1: have this illness.

509
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: I didn't know I had it, or I didn't know

510
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 2: I had it, But now I'm telling you because i'm

511
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 2: you know, go get.

512
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: Your dick check and stop cheating on your home on

513
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 1: your girlfriend's tests. Stop men, stop cheating off your girls' tests.

514
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 1: That is an individual test that you need to get.

515
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 1: It ain't no oh you good, I'm good type shit.

516
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 1: There's a window pieriod. There's all types of shit like

517
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,679
Speaker 1: go get your own test, and.

518
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 2: If y'all gonna be out here, fucking all willy nilly.

519
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 1: They have will willy nil willy niling with your penis.

520
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 2: They have drugs like prep can keep you from getting HIV.

521
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: You know that, Like I know they said, that's what

522
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 1: they say, right, But look at the name of the medicine, preparation.

523
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 1: It's preparing you for what exactly to be HIV free?

524
00:28:56,280 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah? Or is it just uh? When you go

525
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: for testing you get the false negative type shit HIV blocker.

526
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 1: Because prep to me, that word in itself means to prepare.

527
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: So what are you preping the body for? Be careful, y'all.

528
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: That's all you can do a fight. It ain't nothing

529
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: that could prepare you for that shit, not even a

530
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 1: medication called prep The only thing that can uh guard

531
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: against it is condoms and no sex. That's it.

532
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 2: Well, let me just say this. This is gonna sound crazy.

533
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 2: Y'all probably gonna be in the comments saying timmy stupid.

534
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 2: I don't care what y'all think. At this point, I

535
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 2: would rather get HIV than cancer. If I had to

536
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 2: choose between HIV and cancer, I would take HIV over cancer.

537
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 2: People are living full lives with HIV like they take

538
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 2: their medicine and they're almost non detected.

539
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 1: They can go. See that's what I think PREP does.

540
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: PREP does like that non detected bullshit which I've seen

541
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 1: a crazy woman on it.

542
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 2: Where the disease you don't even thrive in your body

543
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 2: no more, it doesn't kill you. The same people are

544
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: living long. Cancer, on the other hand, is taking people

545
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 2: every single day.

546
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 1: I think about. I think both of them is about detection,

547
00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 1: detecting it early enough to where you can, you know,

548
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: help yourself not get six. So HIV is AIDS is

549
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: the HIV is the virus that causes AIDS, right, So

550
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: if you can detect your status and that HIV status,

551
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: then you can live long. But there's a lot of

552
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: people out here who never get tested and then they

553
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: die of AIDS. It's the same thing with cancer. You

554
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: know you're not going to get the scans and things

555
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 1: you need, like the minute you should, bitch, we are

556
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 1: out here talking about were sleepy after we eat? We

557
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: need to see about that. You see what I'm saying.

558
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 2: It's young people who shouldn't even be testing for cancer

559
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 2: at such a young age are coming up with cancer.

560
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: But it's tongues. But there's things that be happening that

561
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 1: they avoided or they didn't pay attention to to go

562
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 1: check on early enough. Yeah, you know, there's your body's

563
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 1: been telling you something going.

564
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 2: On, right, God, tongue cancer died in a year after Yeah,

565
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 2: ain't doing now like stuff like that. How do you

566
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:03,719
Speaker 2: even get tongue cancer?

567
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 1: What the fuck is that? That shit is crazy. It's

568
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: a lot of shit going on. Hey, I got my theories.

569
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: But when somebody goes into the hospital and comes out

570
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: with monkey pox, HIV and what was it was a

571
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: third something? I saw an article. This guy he uh

572
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: tested positive. It was like the first person to test

573
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: positive for all three of these things. They're all no,

574
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: it was COVID. Sorry, it was COVID, HIV and monkey pox. Okay,

575
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: I need y'all to do some fucking research. Shit, he

576
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 1: is too goddamn that damn backs that's what the fuck

577
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 1: he was into. Because that shit literally, you don't have

578
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 1: an immune system anymore, and that's essentially what HIV is.

579
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 1: You no longer have an immune system, you know, so

580
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 1: now your body can't fight against outside it's immune disease. Sure, yeah,

581
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: I don't want either place that went to a dark morning.

582
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 1: Let's get the fuck out of here before get darker. Right,

583
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: what are we talking about this week? We look, we're

584
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 1: talking about living and having children. That's what we're talking

585
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: about this week. Okay, because we got a bright, long

586
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: future ahead of us. Bet ch'a. I'm just going to

587
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: get better, not worse, period. Yes, and so that's the future.

588
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: So we're talking about the future today, y'all. That's what

589
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 1: we're talking about them. We'll be right back after this commercial. Hey, y'all,

590
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: we are back.

591
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 2: And I was talking to AJ and we were thinking

592
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 2: of content, and I was like, you know what, I

593
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 2: really want to have a conversation about motherhood, which is

594
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 2: a sensitive topic for both of us.

595
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 1: I think.

596
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 2: Because doctors say that if we were to get pregnant today,

597
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 2: it would be a jery accurate pregnancy. And I was

598
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 2: very offended pregnancy, very offended by the term. And I

599
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 2: was just thinking about how we see more women having

600
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 2: children later in life, like like how old Janet had

601
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 2: a baby fifty.

602
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 1: Moregnant. Yeah, so the girls are giving births. I don't

603
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 1: look exactly like a Shaunty pregnant, like already beautiful, happy,

604
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 1: thick up yeah, full yeah, But I mean that's I

605
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: already know baby, gonna baby, gonna do me in a

606
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 1: little bit.

607
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 2: But he had the baby, right, she did, I believe, so, oh,

608
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 2: congratulations to her. I didn't see any reports on it.

609
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: No, I'm lying. Yeah, I feel like I've seen something

610
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: that said they had the baby, like a week ago.

611
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 2: No, I don't know, but you might be right now

612
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 2: with Jane's baby.

613
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: Have we seen you? Where is the baby? Jack? I

614
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: have not seen the baby either, not sure. I remember

615
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: her having one picture when he was an infant. You

616
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: just like a little like a little doll based, little

617
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 1: puffy face, but nothing, you know, big this This kid

618
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: should be at least five years old now, right, Yeah.

619
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 2: Well, I'm assuming somewhere in there four or five. Tom's

620
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 2: moved that baby might be twenty one.

621
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. Time been moving really fast lately. We

622
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 1: want to see the baby, Janet.

623
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 2: Is there a cut off age for you, like if

624
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:31,360
Speaker 2: I'm not pregnant, if I don't get pregnant by this.

625
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: I was saying forty at one point, but it's like

626
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 1: when forty comes, it's like, so now I'm at forty two.

627
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 1: So every year you push you for it, so if

628
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 1: it don't happen, like okay, so I want to have

629
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: a Gemini, so I might actively start trying to get

630
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 1: pregnant in September. I don't know this year. Yeah, okay,

631
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 1: Like I'm here following my uh ovulation, like for I

632
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 1: already follow it, but I follow it to not get pregnant,

633
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,719
Speaker 1: which because I've had two tube of pregnancies, and once

634
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: you have one, your chances of having another increase. So

635
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 1: I've already had a second one, so I don't want

636
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 1: to end up in a situation where I have another

637
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 1: like ectopic pregnancy. But the better way for me to

638
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: get pregnant would be to do an in vitro. But

639
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 1: I can is Carol, you don't know what in vitro is.

640
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 1: You never looked it up, Like, no, I've never never,

641
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 1: because I actively, like before I stopped working at the

642
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 1: last company I worked for, like I'm trying to hurry

643
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:32,919
Speaker 1: up and use all my health care benefits and shit,

644
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 1: I did start like trying to just do like the

645
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: beginning process of checking on your fertility and stuff like.

646
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: So they they check your tubes, your philopian tubes and

647
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 1: stuff like that, and they which I only have one

648
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: of you only have one? Yes, I have one, but listen, y'all.

649
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 1: The amazing thing about a woman's body, even with one

650
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,800
Speaker 1: philopian tube, do you know that it moves to the

651
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:02,919
Speaker 1: next ovary to catch day like you're philopian too, one

652
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 1: actually moves. You don't need both of them. Obviously you

653
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,240
Speaker 1: had to, Yes, obviously you had too for a reason.

654
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 1: But you can still operate with the one.

655
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 2: Just like a man can have one nut and make babies.

656
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's true.

657
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 2: I know somebody who lost the nut in high school,

658
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,479
Speaker 2: I mean in college, wrestling with his roommate and got needed.

659
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:29,839
Speaker 1: I know somebody with one nut too, because they shit

660
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 1: had got twisted once, like inside, how are you going

661
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 1: to nuts? Okay, but go ahead, sorry, reason it's nuts

662
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: right this girl nuts? Girl nuts inside. So yeah, I

663
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 1: only have the one tube, so it moves anyway. So

664
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 1: I track my ovulation because sometimes I feel like I

665
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 1: might feel like I'm ovulating, but I'm not. And I

666
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 1: think it's because of the the one over. Because they

667
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: say you can have like phantom periods. All types of

668
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 1: shit be happening a child when you get a certain

669
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: age and when you have had some type of fertility issue,

670
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 1: like you still have a cycle. Yeah, but that doesn't

671
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: mean you're actually like yeah. So I started like going

672
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 1: through the process to check on that stuff. So I

673
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: only got as far as and I forgot the name

674
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,919
Speaker 1: of the procedure. But it's just like they both die

675
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 1: through the fallopian tube, receive if it's any blockages. So

676
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 1: I have the one tube with a little blockage. So

677
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 1: did you have a tube removed? So the first time,

678
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: the first time, the first the first pregnancy I had,

679
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: you know, it was in the tube, so they had

680
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 1: they actually removed No, excuse me, I'm lying. The first

681
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: time the one tube that I have, it was a

682
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 1: pair or a pair, So they removed the ectopic pregnancy

683
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 1: and they patched up the tube. But we're talking about

684
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: something as small as a vein basically, so there's gonna

685
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 1: be some scar tissue on that one tube. The second

686
00:37:56,480 --> 00:38:01,799
Speaker 1: time I had an ectopic pregnancy, they remove the entire

687
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 1: tube and they did that through like the liposcopic, like

688
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: they just go through your neighbor. And they told you

689
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 1: they were going to do that or they the first time. No,

690
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 1: I did not know. And this is how, this is

691
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: why I know that the medical system is not for black.

692
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: Even with the first one, I knew something was happening

693
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:19,839
Speaker 1: with my body, and I kept trying to get an

694
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 1: appointment to go to the doctor because I'm like, ma'am,

695
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: hey i'm pregnant. I'm calling a nurse. I'm like, hey,

696
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:30,879
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant and I'm bleeding. But what I also told

697
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 1: this one because the guy who I was pregnant for

698
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: at the time, which was my boyfriend, I thought, right,

699
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 1: but you don't know niggas until shit, you're real. So

700
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 1: now he's acting from the time I told him I

701
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: was pregnant, he started acting weird. So I was contemplating

702
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 1: having an abortion because one thing about a baby. I

703
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: ain't forcing a nigga to do shit. Let me say,

704
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 1: if she have a baby with a guy, if he leave,

705
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 1: you take your baby. Yes, absolutely, I do want to

706
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 1: put that baby on the porch. What do you want

707
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 1: to I'm gonna call your ass from the corner store, like,

708
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 1: what are you gonna do? Well, I don't know what

709
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 1: I'm do it without you. I'm not doing it, like

710
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: I really really I appreciate mothers, especially ones that had

711
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 1: to do it by themselves, because how I guess you

712
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 1: you know, you don't know until you So it feels

713
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 1: like prisoning me. I guess I would adapt, but do

714
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 1: I want to go through it? No?

715
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:24,800
Speaker 2: By for today she was like it was trying to

716
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 2: go pick up her baby from daycare. She's like, I

717
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 2: can't believe I gotta go pick this kid up.

718
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,879
Speaker 1: Every day. I gotta do this shit. I can't believe

719
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: I gotta do what girls asked me. She was like,

720
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: am I a bad? Am I a bad mom because

721
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: I can't parent without being high? I'm like, no, bitch,

722
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 1: She's an amazing parent, but she just need a little

723
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 1: I think. I mean, some people might say that that

724
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: is not the most healthy way to parent, but as

725
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: long as your kids are okay, I mean, who am

726
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 1: I to do? Mean wrecking out? Like these kids are phenomenal.

727
00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 1: So obviously the weed has enhanced her parenting skills. But

728
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: the fucking health system. So I'm I'm spotting, and I

729
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 1: call and call my doctor, my O G Y N.

730
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:10,399
Speaker 1: And I'm talking to the nurse and I'm like, hey,

731
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 1: I am pregnant. I tested pregnant. I'm I tested positive.

732
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant, right, I'm having all the symptoms, all the things.

733
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 1: I am contemplating having an abortion, But I am spotting

734
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: so I need to come in for an appointment so

735
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,360
Speaker 1: I can see what's going on. She got real quiet

736
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 1: on the phone and started whispering to me. She was like,

737
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 1: why do you want to have an abortion? I said,

738
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: because I have a I said, I have a situation,

739
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: and I'm just not sure about it. Like what the fuck, mama?

740
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 1: She was like, well, your baby is already growing, your

741
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 1: baby already has arms.

742
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,359
Speaker 2: So that was her personal feelings about She was trying

743
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 2: to deter me from hoping. She was doing the lawyer's

744
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 2: work too, like I saved the child.

745
00:40:56,239 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: This medical university, which is like a Christian college, Christian

746
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,879
Speaker 1: college at Christian hospital, right, And you know, I don't

747
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 1: know if people notice. Hospitals can deny you here. But

748
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: in this instance, she had no business denying me care

749
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: because what this witch told me on the phone was, well,

750
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: take another pregnant test. If it's negative, then you're not pregnant.

751
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 1: No shit. So what I did. I had already made

752
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 1: the appointment at the abortion clinic, right, So I just

753
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 1: went on with my appointment at the abortion clinic because

754
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:27,839
Speaker 1: I need to be seen at this point. So leading

755
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 1: up to that appointment, I'm in Victoria's secret bitcha. I'm

756
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 1: passed out in the mall like I'm bleeding internally, which

757
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: is why I called to doctor. So I get to

758
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 1: my appointment the next day after passing out in the

759
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 1: day of Victoria's secret. I get to the appointment. They're

760
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 1: doing an ultrasound EC topic pregnancy. So I end up

761
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: back at the hospital that I called a week prior

762
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 1: trying to get in. So I end up their emergency

763
00:41:58,440 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 1: surgery that night.

764
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 2: And that's why I always say, y'all, we have to

765
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,320
Speaker 2: advocate for ourselves. You know something is wrong with yourbody,

766
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 2: don't let them turn you around. You make it a priority,

767
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 2: like you are going to fucking see me. Somebody's going

768
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 2: to see me.

769
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: So I actually tried to suit the hospital. So I

770
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: put like, you know, these message not message boards, but

771
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 1: I guess it is a message board like online you

772
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 1: could put your case whatever, and different lawyers of contact you.

773
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 1: So I don't know if this attorney was an affiliate

774
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 1: of the hospital or something. I don't know, but when

775
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 1: I spoke to him, he was basically I needed to

776
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 1: have died and then my family would have a lawsuit

777
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: for it to be malpracticed because I didn't bleed out

778
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 1: and die somewhere. That's some bullshit because I could have

779
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 1: So you denied me care based on your personal views

780
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 1: and it may not even be the views of my

781
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 1: doctor or everyone at the hospital. It was this one

782
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: bitch in particular, right who denied me care. And I

783
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,840
Speaker 1: end up back there having to have surgery, emergency surgery,

784
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: so I have the one tube. And then the next

785
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 1: time I was living in Atlanta, still they just took

786
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 1: the tube out. Still, can you please tell me what

787
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 1: vitro is? Oh shit, what happened? And vitros when they

788
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,439
Speaker 1: remove your eggs, so you have women of our age,

789
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: like even people do it earlier, like if they don't

790
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:19,319
Speaker 1: have a partner at thirty five thirty, they start they

791
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 1: might freeze their eggs and stuff like that. Right, So

792
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 1: even if aside from freezing your eggs in vitro, they

793
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 1: remove your egg, they fertilize it with the sperm, and

794
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 1: then they implant it in your uterus, so you basically

795
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 1: bypassing the ovary excuse me, you're bypassing the Philipian tubes

796
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: because with your filopian tubes, that's where the egg gets

797
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 1: fertilized through a natural conception. So you have sex, sperm

798
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 1: goes in there, the egg meets the sperm, and then

799
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:48,319
Speaker 1: it drops down into your uterus, and that's where your

800
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 1: baby grows at. Your baby cannot grow in a tube.

801
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 1: Your tube is the size of a vein, so it

802
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 1: will burst if some kids starts growing in there. Exactly,

803
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 1: you could bleed out internally. Well, can't give me your hand.

804
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 1: Let me say this. I'm sorry that happened to you.

805
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 1: For real. That was very traumatic. It is so that

806
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 1: you were able to share that story, like and just

807
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: like that was a lot to share. So I love

808
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 1: you and I love you for sharing that. Man. But

809
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 1: I think a lot of women are going through this,

810
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: not just black women. It's a lot of women with

811
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,879
Speaker 1: fertility issues. But y'all know they put the they put

812
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 1: the abortion clinic in our neighborhoods. But white people have

813
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 1: always had fertility clinics. So be careful when you go

814
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: to the doctor and they want to remove your entire

815
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 1: womb because you have fibroids. Because please don't think for

816
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: a moment that your womb is not going into somebody else,

817
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: because I think that's what's happening when they start removing

818
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: our parts. Yeah, because they sell them to somebody else.

819
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 2: I had surgery on twenty twenty three February where they

820
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:53,320
Speaker 2: took fourteen fibroid tumors, and they offered to take my uterus,

821
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 2: and I told them no that I did not I

822
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 2: wanted to.

823
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,319
Speaker 1: Why would you need to do that? Why would you why?

824
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: That's you literally take in a woman's soul. That's where

825
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:05,960
Speaker 1: all of our energy is at, So why would you

826
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:07,879
Speaker 1: want to remove that from somebody's body.

827
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, sir, I'm gonna keep the uterus.

828
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna keep my uterus, thank you.

829
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 2: And then they were saying like and even then, my

830
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 2: the fibroids were not inside my uterus, they were around

831
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 2: the outside. So what even reason do you need. You're

832
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 2: not going into my uterus, so there's no reason to

833
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 2: take it. Like, I don't even understand why you would

834
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 2: offer that, you know, to a woman who has no children,

835
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,839
Speaker 2: to a woman who has no children, Right.

836
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 1: That's weird, bitch. I'll be trying to just double check.

837
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 1: You might even get an ultra style I might have exactly.

838
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 1: You don't even know, Like, can you check and see.

839
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:42,800
Speaker 2: If I still have a uterus? Yes, that would be

840
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 2: crazy if I went to the doctor like, oh yo,

841
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 2: shiit hollow bitch. Wait, then I would have a lot

842
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 2: of suit for sure.

843
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, feel like they'd be doing that. They were

844
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: doing that to Hispanic women at the border. They were

845
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 1: giving these women hysterectomies and they didn't know.

846
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 2: Think about Henrietta Lax. Let's talk about her, Like, if

847
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 2: you don't know who Henrietta Lax is as a black woman,

848
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 2: I'm mad at you a little bit.

849
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: But here's some education.

850
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:12,359
Speaker 2: She was a black woman.

851
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 1: What is this the nineteen early thirties, I was by said,

852
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:19,359
Speaker 1: early nineteen hundreds, and she got on time ago.

853
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 2: She got diagnosed with cancer cancer, yep, and they did.

854
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 2: They took her DNA and cells without her permission, and

855
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:32,360
Speaker 2: she had the only regenerating cell known to man.

856
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: Which doesn't make sense because if she has cervical cancer

857
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 1: and she has cells that can regenerate themselves, would her

858
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 1: body not have cured her out of the cancer. So

859
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 1: they murdered Henrietta Lax and they took her cells. And

860
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 1: they have even sent her DNA to the.

861
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 2: Moon, right, they said, they have used her cells so

862
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 2: many times and created that it could wrap around the

863
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:55,879
Speaker 2: Earth like thousands of times.

864
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 1: They've been using her shit to make vaccines and medicines.

865
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 2: Right, the only thing, the reason we know about autism, sickle,

866
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 2: sell all these different diseases is because of this black

867
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:09,719
Speaker 2: woman and her family just recently got any amount of compensation.

868
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 2: They should be one of the richest families on the

869
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 2: planet because of that.

870
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:18,279
Speaker 1: I think her the last person in her lineage. I

871
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 1: think it was a son he passed away.

872
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:23,799
Speaker 2: Oh really, I did not know that. Rest in peace

873
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 2: to that man.

874
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. So, I mean, I'm pretty sure they got more

875
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 1: family members, but they did, and I don't know what

876
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 1: the settlement was. But they can't. They can't compensate that

877
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: family enough. Right, there's no way.

878
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 2: There's no way to compensate them enough.

879
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 1: She kissed off. I do you want kids? Like how bad?

880
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 2: I would like a baby, And I've decided more recently

881
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 2: that that was something I want. I think it was

882
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:55,439
Speaker 2: my god kids that made me like want my own

883
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:58,239
Speaker 2: kids because I just loved them so much. And if

884
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 2: I could love these kids that didn't come from me

885
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 2: so much, like, I don't imagine, You're right, I only imagine.

886
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 2: I can only imagine how much I would love my

887
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 2: own You know, so it didn't make me want a

888
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 2: baby like I do have like a pregnancy hard story,

889
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 2: but I'm not capable of sharing that here. Like I

890
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 2: don't think I could, like like the way you did

891
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 2: that just now that I was very courageous, because I

892
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 2: probably might just fall apart, you know.

893
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,280
Speaker 1: So I can't share that story.

894
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:29,240
Speaker 2: But I do want a baby, you know, I would

895
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:32,320
Speaker 2: like to, but I'm just I'm very afraid, like it

896
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 2: would take a very I would need a very strong

897
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 2: partner to hold my hand through pregnancy at this stage

898
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 2: in my life, because the last time I did it

899
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 2: was not a good experience. So I would need that,

900
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 2: and I didn't have that the first time because not

901
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 2: because my partner wasn't a good partner.

902
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 1: He was a great man that I was.

903
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:56,759
Speaker 2: I mean, he was all right, but you know, he

904
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:58,440
Speaker 2: was a good We were very we were in a

905
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:01,360
Speaker 2: healthy state at that time. But he was in the

906
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 2: military and he was deployed. He was all the way,

907
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 2: you know, protecting this great country that we live in

908
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:13,439
Speaker 2: and we were separated by the military, so he could

909
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 2: not be there for me. So that experience I had

910
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 2: to go. I was living in another country. I didn't

911
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 2: have family, there. I had friends there, but it was

912
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:22,720
Speaker 2: just a lot to go through by myself.

913
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: So to do that again at this age and I

914
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 1: a geriatric practice, I just wouldn't need. Like God would

915
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: have to send me very someone, very loving and patient.

916
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to get any presisting baby daddy, somebody

917
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: who've been through something. And see, I don't know if

918
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: I want that, because I don't want somebody hell, our

919
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:49,800
Speaker 1: age male with no children who said he had to

920
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 1: be our age.

921
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 2: I get my nigga a little younger. Drea might had

922
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 2: the right idea. It's like that's for me, but girl, Like,

923
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 2: the only thing I don't like about men who have

924
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 2: kids and already done it is like I don't want

925
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 2: no nigga like, nah, you're holding the baby wrong. You

926
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 2: gotta do it like this, you got to pour the

927
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 2: milk on here, like you ain't doing it right.

928
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 1: I don't want no nigga doing that to me. Like

929
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:18,359
Speaker 1: I kind of want our.

930
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 2: Experience to be the first time together, you know, but

931
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 2: at this age, you know you're right, it's it'll probably

932
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 2: be harder to find unless I go younger, which I'm

933
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:28,320
Speaker 2: not a post.

934
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 1: And funk with y'all. Niggas talking about. I really feel

935
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: like men who don't have kids are like the socially

936
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: awkward ones. It's a lot of reason why women right

937
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 1: don't have kids. I hate when people ask me that. Yeah,

938
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 1: I feel like at a certain age, stop asking women

939
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 1: why they don't have kids? What I do? I'd be like, oh,

940
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:46,879
Speaker 1: I had to to a pregnancies and I just look

941
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 1: at them, look at them.

942
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, because now I'm not like my business now, like

943
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 2: because we're having a good time and now you just

944
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 2: ruined a good time with that.

945
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:57,919
Speaker 1: Kids like aunts and just random asks people. Yeah, people

946
00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,919
Speaker 1: have a real problem. And like you're a single mom,

947
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 1: So are you urging me to do that? Right, bitch?

948
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 1: Like why your kids ain't got no daddy? Like what

949
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: that's like you gotta ask?

950
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 2: That's almost like that question equally fucked up. You pauled

951
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 2: by my question, but I'm also equally appalled by yours.

952
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 1: Bitch, don't ask me that, where's your baby daddy? Right?

953
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: Where they daddy? I ain't never seen him, man, none

954
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:27,799
Speaker 1: of this shit. He wasn't at your baby shower. That's

955
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 1: not nice. I'm sorry, girl. People don't be nice. You know,

956
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: people need to be more considerately if I'm not talking

957
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 1: to why you ask?

958
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 2: It's never women that ask that. To me, it's always

959
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 2: men though. It's always a.

960
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 1: Man on a date or something like why you ain't

961
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: got no kids? But then they judge women who already

962
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 1: have kids when they meet him. So what what what

963
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 1: y'all want? Really? I'll be like, I just want to

964
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: offend us. I think I'm like, I don't like that question.

965
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 1: Be wanting to offend us?

966
00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 2: Right, I don't know if it's intentional. Some people just

967
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,439
Speaker 2: don't know that that's it could be a hurtful question.

968
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 2: And if you tell them the truth, like like if

969
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 2: I told them really why I didn't have kids and

970
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 2: what happened, it would ruin the evening, like everybody.

971
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 1: Just looking down at the plate, just minding they fucking business. Yeah,

972
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 1: fun anymore what I needed? So I think at I'll

973
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: say thirty. When you see a woman thirty where no kids,

974
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: don't ask her if she wants children, don't ask her

975
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: why she doesn't have children, don't ask her why she

976
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:32,840
Speaker 1: doesn't have a husband. Don't just mind mind your family

977
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 1: that you created and probably not taking care of mine.

978
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: Marry her and give her a baby. That part That's

979
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 1: That's one thing I can't stand about niggas talking about

980
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 1: women like pick one. It's so many women out here,

981
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 1: Why are you single? Mm hmm. So nobody's good enough

982
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: because we really be trying with the worst of the worst.

983
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: We still be trying with them.

984
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 2: I was saying, I haven't let some good ones get away.

985
00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 2: I have bless some good ones get away from me,

986
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 2: especially in my twenties.

987
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 1: When good or they were being good to get you

988
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:10,440
Speaker 1: so then they can then treat you. How the nigga

989
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 1: that got you treating you? I say that, Larry, are

990
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: they really good or are they being good? So when

991
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 1: they get you they can treat you how the nigga

992
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: that got you treating you? You see what I'm saying,

993
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: Because you just don't know somebody until you know them.

994
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 1: So once he does acquire you, like then you meet

995
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 1: the real man and now it's like, this is the

996
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: same pro this is the same nigga. You know you

997
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 1: don't know though, yeah, you never know. You never don't know.

998
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,760
Speaker 1: So there was something why you didn't go with that person,

999
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: something very much something.

1000
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:45,400
Speaker 2: Sometimes it used to be me like, bitch, I'm outside,

1001
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 2: you want to you want to lock me down and

1002
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:50,800
Speaker 2: I'm outside. When I was in my late twenties, I

1003
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 2: was having my way, baby, like I'll have my way like.

1004
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 1: Time is up.

1005
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 2: But like you know, I can look back and say, damn,

1006
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:01,719
Speaker 2: he probably would would have been a good husband. But

1007
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 2: who knows, he might be somewhere beating a bitch up

1008
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 2: right now.

1009
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,880
Speaker 1: So exactly know, you just never know. You never know.

1010
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,839
Speaker 1: But at least one. That's where I'm at. I want

1011
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 1: at least one kid. And this might be for a

1012
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 1: real selfish reason. I just want to see what my

1013
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 1: kid would look like, what they look like. I just

1014
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 1: and I think about like the nine months leading up

1015
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: to seeing what they look like and who they are, right,

1016
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: I just want to see who God gonna send me, right,

1017
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 1: you know, I might not be a serial killer. You

1018
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 1: never know, a Gemini, you never know. Girl by.

1019
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:41,640
Speaker 2: I think if if God blessed me with the child,

1020
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 2: especially at this age, I would just want to have

1021
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 2: life beyond my own. You know, we're getting older, we're

1022
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,399
Speaker 2: not getting we never getting younger, right, so one day

1023
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 2: we leaving here and I just want to have a

1024
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 2: life beyond this one. It just would be a shame, but.

1025
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:01,239
Speaker 1: I'm coming back. I might come back this time. I'm

1026
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:02,960
Speaker 1: not sure. I've been back a lot of times. I

1027
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: might not come back to Yeah.

1028
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 2: I mean, your soul will come back, you know, if

1029
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:09,400
Speaker 2: you believe in reincarnation, your soul will exist in another

1030
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:10,760
Speaker 2: form at some point.

1031
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:15,839
Speaker 1: But Ashley James, yes, I have been back before as

1032
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 1: Ashley Jane. Yes.

1033
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 2: So you're gonna come back as Actually James.

1034
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 1: No, I'm probably gonna come back as Rick James. Bitch,

1035
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 1: that's what's gonna happen. I want to come back as

1036
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: Brett James, a white, rich white man, James Brown. I'm

1037
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:40,359
Speaker 1: gonna come back, but I don't know. People be warning.

1038
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 1: I hate when men say my seed. That is so

1039
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 1: disgusting to me, my seed, because a lot of them

1040
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 1: just literally just be dropping seeds around mm hm. As

1041
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:53,040
Speaker 1: long as but as long as they're taking care of them,

1042
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 1: I don't care how you can call them whatever the

1043
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 1: fuck you want to. Got a certain amount, you can't

1044
00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 1: take care of them kids, you know what I mean,

1045
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: even helping like Elon Musk got like eleven kids. One

1046
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: of his kids. I was looking at the baby named

1047
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:06,840
Speaker 1: dark He got to be a super villain when he

1048
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 1: grew up, like Darkness the moment I was born, you know, like,

1049
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:13,760
Speaker 1: is the villain.

1050
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:17,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you name your baby dark one of the babies,

1051
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:18,720
Speaker 2: that name is just some symbols.

1052
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:22,760
Speaker 1: I don't even know. Look it up. It's like a symbol.

1053
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: It's not even like. I don't know how I was

1054
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:28,240
Speaker 1: allowed to because you know their names. They won't allow

1055
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:29,600
Speaker 1: you to give a baby right.

1056
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 2: How Like you can't name a baby Satan in America.

1057
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 2: I think it's against the law. You can't name a

1058
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 2: baby Satan or something like that.

1059
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 1: Lucifer.

1060
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 2: You can't name a baby Lucifer.

1061
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 1: You can't.

1062
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:46,839
Speaker 2: I'm I'm lying real quick because I think you can't

1063
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 2: name a baby.

1064
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: Say I can't name my kid that some people named Lucifer. Yeah,

1065
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 1: me baby, the best of the band.

1066
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 2: Baby names in the law on naming children any unions

1067
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:01,640
Speaker 2: in the States, can you nam Kate Lucifer?

1068
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 1: Saying yeah you can. Yeah, I don't see why not.

1069
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:09,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I thought it was against people have a

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00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:12,479
Speaker 1: different understanding of those entities. You know what I'm saying.

1071
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 1: Lucifer is the light Bringer, Well, yes, the light Bringer.

1072
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:24,439
Speaker 1: List all these things is inside. You ain't got nothing

1073
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 1: to do with anything outside of you. You come in

1074
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 1: in contact with humans that possess these energies, so you

1075
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 1: can fuck around and meet the devil Jesus. But anyway,

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00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 1: let's get into the benefits of having children later in life.

1077
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 1: Because people like to tell you all about shit geriatric

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00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,600
Speaker 1: or you're gonna get diabetes, you're gonna get a big

1079
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 1: ass baby. You're gonna get two babies. I would love

1080
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 1: that if I can just get two, So hold on.

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00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:58,480
Speaker 2: Look, it says most states prohibit using baby names with numerals, emojis,

1082
00:57:59,000 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 2: or symbols in them.

1083
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:04,959
Speaker 1: But I bet you some of these young fucking gen

1084
00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:12,600
Speaker 1: zers is like, I'm would name my baby eggplant. Oh

1085
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 1: like the little crazy that's my favorite emoji crazy. And

1086
00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 1: this one, no, this is mine, y'all? And this one

1087
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 1: what's your name? Baby? First day bake dumb ass? That's

1088
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 1: another thing, y'all.

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00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 2: School about the start, and you been calling your baby

1090
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 2: moot moot since the baby was born. Please teach your

1091
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 2: baby they real name before they go to kenano because

1092
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 2: they're gonna.

1093
00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:53,080
Speaker 1: Be waiting on their teacher. You're waiting on the teacher

1094
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: to call moot. Go ahead, all right, So seven benefits

1095
00:58:56,880 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 1: of having a child leader life. Reacher research has turned

1096
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 1: up some surprising benefits of being an older parent for

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00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: both you and your baby. Here are a few perks

1098
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 1: of parenting life parenting later in life. Okay, people rarely

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00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 1: talk about the benefits of having a baby after thirty five. Okay,

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00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 1: so look, geriatric is thirty five plus. I don't know

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00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: if y'all know that, but yeah, bitch, you ain't that

1102
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 1: young at thirty five. Instead, we often hear only about

1103
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 1: the worries movie You're not Old for the Earth? You know,

1104
00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: but remember what was that movie where they was trying

1105
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 1: to get in the club. It was like, he was like, what,

1106
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 1: you bitch is trying to get in this club. He's like,

1107
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 1: you old bitch is coming to the club. He's like, oh, bit,

1108
00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 1: He's like, you're not old for the earth for this club.

1109
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 1: If y'all know that movie, You're too old for the

1110
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:49,160
Speaker 1: baby club, it says, we often hear only about the

1111
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:51,959
Speaker 1: worries about pregnancy later in life. This makes some sense,

1112
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 1: is knowing that we have ticking biological clock, which is

1113
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 1: why women calculate time a little bit different. It can

1114
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:02,240
Speaker 1: be real, really scary, and it's true that the number

1115
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: of eggs people with ovaries have. You heard that, and

1116
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 1: it's true that the number of eggs people with ovaries.

1117
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:16,240
Speaker 1: This is a gender neutral article because you women have ovaries,

1118
01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 1: but anyway have decreases as they age. Pregnancy over thirty

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01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 1: five also comes with the higher risk of certain complications

1120
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 1: like hypertension or diabetes for you, and chromosomal abnormalities like

1121
01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 1: Down syndrome for your baby. However, there are also a

1122
01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 1: number of compelling benefits of having a baby after thirty five.

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01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:39,760
Speaker 1: In fact, while there is no one right time for pregnancy,

1124
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 1: there are a number of advantages for advantages to postponing parenthood,

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01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 1: potential benefits after having a baby after thirty five, or

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01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:53,400
Speaker 1: says there's no pot that part okay. Studies show that

1127
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:56,600
Speaker 1: having kids later in life can make you mentally sharper

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01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 1: as you age. A study published in the Journal of

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01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:04,240
Speaker 1: American Geriatric Society tested eight hundred and thirty middle aged

1130
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 1: women to determine whether there was a link between having

1131
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:12,240
Speaker 1: a baby at a later age and brain power. I'm

1132
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:12,960
Speaker 1: gonna get smarter.

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01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 2: I just want to say, you read that really well.

1134
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:21,760
Speaker 1: Shut up, girl, I've been practicing. Obviously a bent for

1135
01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 1: practicing reading. The researchers found that their's excuse me, found

1136
01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: that those who had their last child after thirty five

1137
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 1: had sharper cogni cognition and verbal memory post menopause. They

1138
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 1: also found that people who had their first child after

1139
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 1: the age of twenty four were better at problem solving

1140
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 1: and better at problem solving than their peers who had

1141
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 1: children younger. It says you're likely to be happier and

1142
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:57,600
Speaker 1: less stressed. Now there's money, yes, period, and the support.

1143
01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:00,760
Speaker 1: I'm not going to offend anybody by I'm gonna try

1144
01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: not defend any offend any women who have experienced postpartum

1145
01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 1: disorder right because I'm not saying it doesn't exist. But

1146
01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 1: I think that when you have support system, especially the

1147
01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 1: person that you had this baby with right there. I

1148
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 1: don't want to say at your back and call, but

1149
01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:30,560
Speaker 1: a dependable person by your side, actually doing the wanting

1150
01:02:30,720 --> 01:02:34,920
Speaker 1: with you, you might find yourself less depressed, less stress.

1151
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 1: And then I mean there's also some not just just

1152
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 1: because you can have a baby doesn't mean you're a mother.

1153
01:02:40,160 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 1: I don't have any kids, and I'm a mom all

1154
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:46,280
Speaker 1: day long, like I'm very nursing. So some people, some

1155
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 1: people don't have that thing. Yeah, some people don't have

1156
01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 1: any if I don't do nothing for you. I'm a

1157
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 1: fedialized and I know babies require you really like really

1158
01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 1: would love it too, your food too, Like i'd like

1159
01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 1: I was at agent house. I was like, maybe a sandwich.

1160
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:10,240
Speaker 1: The sandwich came out with honey butter glazes on it

1161
01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 1: and like just very extra, like it's midnight, bitch, I

1162
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 1: just wanted a sandwich. You unless it's gonna be good. Yeah,

1163
01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 1: I am real meticulous about food. Girl. If it was

1164
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 1: the other way around. At twelve o'clock, he was like,

1165
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 1: make me a sandwich. You would have got a little

1166
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 1: piece of meat, some bread, you want Mayo's, some lettuce, tomato.

1167
01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 1: I'm not sprinkling no salt and pepper on your sandwich.

1168
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 1: It's twelve o'clock. Eat it this way, grill it, bitch,

1169
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 1: go to sleep. I like to eat good, so I

1170
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:46,760
Speaker 1: like you said, they might come from money. Like one

1171
01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 1: of my best friends, she had both of her kids,

1172
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:51,720
Speaker 1: the last one at last year of high school, and

1173
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 1: then she got pregnant nine months later. Like I know

1174
01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:57,800
Speaker 1: what she went through to be the woman that she is,

1175
01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:00,840
Speaker 1: staying with these two grown ass kids, and she'd be like, girl,

1176
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 1: I'm done. Like yeah, and I'm ready.

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01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 2: They remember like being nineteen and twenty and looking at

1178
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:08,600
Speaker 2: friends that had kids and I'm like, damn girl.

1179
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 1: But now the kids is grown. Yeah, and they're good

1180
01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 1: and they're good. Yeah. Listen, mama's come with a slice

1181
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 1: of bread. Man. All my friends who got kids be rich.

1182
01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 1: Lem me just be having money. I don't know if

1183
01:04:18,800 --> 01:04:21,080
Speaker 1: it's because they got somebody dependent. That's how we think

1184
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:21,360
Speaker 1: of like.

1185
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 2: Every morning, like how do y'all afford these children?

1186
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:27,760
Speaker 1: They got to you see. I remember when and people

1187
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:29,760
Speaker 1: was trying to get on a JT about this, but

1188
01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:32,120
Speaker 1: she did an interview with Angie Martinez and she was

1189
01:04:32,160 --> 01:04:33,600
Speaker 1: saying how she don't got to go to that hard

1190
01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 1: because she don't got kids, and so people like and

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01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:39,200
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure young Miami probably felt away about that too,

1192
01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 1: because she has two kids. And JT just is basically saying, like,

1193
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:46,160
Speaker 1: I don't have kids, I don't have to do the most.

1194
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:48,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's just it's just me. Yeah,

1195
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 1: but it's just a true statement. Right But before she

1196
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:56,160
Speaker 1: but some people don't you know, some people don't give

1197
01:04:56,160 --> 01:04:58,880
Speaker 1: a fuck and they're still doing bad with the kids.

1198
01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 1: But if you are a sound mind adult or even

1199
01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:06,120
Speaker 1: a young person. It forces you to want to be guy.

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01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 1: It might be the reason why you struggle, but a

1201
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:11,920
Speaker 1: baby will definitely be the reason you hustle. So I

1202
01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: probably would have a little more hustle. I think I

1203
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:15,280
Speaker 1: had to take care.

1204
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 2: But you know what, I feel like it's more for

1205
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 2: women than men.

1206
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:21,720
Speaker 1: Though. Am I tripping off for that? I think you

1207
01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:23,920
Speaker 1: might because I the men that I know, and I

1208
01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 1: know some wonderful men, even if they did me some

1209
01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:34,040
Speaker 1: type of way, they're great fathers. I feel like our generation, yeah,

1210
01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:36,360
Speaker 1: I don't really know niggas who don't. I don't associate

1211
01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:39,040
Speaker 1: myself with those types of people, like I think ostracized.

1212
01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 2: I think our parents' generation like it was okay to

1213
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 2: be a dead beat. Yeah, but our generations don't.

1214
01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:44,880
Speaker 1: Play that ship.

1215
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:46,640
Speaker 2: Like if you don't fuck with your kids, niggas do

1216
01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 2: not fuck with you.

1217
01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:50,040
Speaker 1: No men really be out here fucking with their kids.

1218
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 1: To the men we're proud of y'all. Yeah, man, all

1219
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:55,520
Speaker 1: my friends take care of their kids. I don't know

1220
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 1: who y'all know.

1221
01:05:56,800 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 2: I don't know know no guys that don't. I can't

1222
01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 2: think of one, but I'm sure that watch them like bitch,

1223
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 2: I know.

1224
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:08,120
Speaker 1: So exactly so, but I also know some women who

1225
01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:10,160
Speaker 1: make it hard and I mean personally, I know some

1226
01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:14,920
Speaker 1: women who make it hard for their kids dad to

1227
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 1: be a dad because you know, so they make it

1228
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 1: hard for them going through the court system, or they're

1229
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:26,200
Speaker 1: just angry, which I understand. I can understand why you

1230
01:06:26,200 --> 01:06:28,760
Speaker 1: would be angry having a baby, you know, because no

1231
01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 1: woman just wants to be a baby mom. Nobody goes

1232
01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:34,000
Speaker 1: into that ship like that, like we women really be

1233
01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:36,160
Speaker 1: in love with every nigga they fucking with, and they

1234
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 1: really think this the one, and they really think like better.

1235
01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Nobody goes into it to

1236
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 1: be a single mom. No, nobody don't. No matter what

1237
01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:50,440
Speaker 1: they say. Women want to be loved.

1238
01:06:50,920 --> 01:06:54,479
Speaker 2: Everybody wants to be loved. I think you know, such

1239
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 2: an ugly web.

1240
01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:03,600
Speaker 1: Okay, since as research shows that older parents tend to

1241
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:08,200
Speaker 1: feel less stressed and more contentment and joy after having

1242
01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 1: children than their younger counterparts. In fact, according to the

1243
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:16,920
Speaker 1: authors of twenty seventeen review, existing studies show that happiness

1244
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:21,320
Speaker 1: increases around and after childbirth among older mothers, whereas for

1245
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:24,760
Speaker 1: younger mothers, the effect does not exist or it is

1246
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:27,880
Speaker 1: short lived. So you have a baby, you and this

1247
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 1: guy just full of bliss, and it could be a

1248
01:07:30,760 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 1: young couple. And I have seen this over and over again.

1249
01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 1: When that baby comes, it's something that happens. We know,

1250
01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 1: women going to just stress, women are going to change,

1251
01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:43,440
Speaker 1: and I just don't think that men are allowed enough

1252
01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:45,840
Speaker 1: time to catch up to the changes.

1253
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 2: Of this woman physically going to do all the changes

1254
01:07:50,280 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 2: and mentally changing as well during that time.

1255
01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:55,520
Speaker 1: Whereas the man he don't feel it, you know. So

1256
01:07:55,640 --> 01:07:58,040
Speaker 1: now you've got a parent the baby and parent the man,

1257
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 1: and men could feel like who you're talking to, you know.

1258
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:05,600
Speaker 1: So I could see, like a younger couples, why dissolve?

1259
01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:08,280
Speaker 1: It becomes harder as soon as the baby come. You

1260
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:10,120
Speaker 1: haven't seen somebody have been together for years, as soon

1261
01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:11,919
Speaker 1: as they have a baby, the nigga's out of there. Yeah,

1262
01:08:12,040 --> 01:08:15,560
Speaker 1: like what happened? Yeah, I've seen y'all thought that baby

1263
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:17,679
Speaker 1: was gonna make the stronger.

1264
01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:21,639
Speaker 2: M Yeah, that connection got to be stronger already because

1265
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:24,840
Speaker 2: that baby is gonna test it for sure, exactly. But

1266
01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:27,200
Speaker 2: I think when you older, I think people want to

1267
01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 2: be in the house more when they're older, like you.

1268
01:08:29,240 --> 01:08:33,240
Speaker 1: Know so, so workout. We're gonna have to chase these kids.

1269
01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:35,360
Speaker 1: Mm hm. At least your husband, he's gonna have to

1270
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:38,599
Speaker 1: have some stamina to keep a pair can get out.

1271
01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:41,360
Speaker 1: I don't want nobody else raising my kid. I do.

1272
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 1: Your child may have a reduced risk of injury, it says.

1273
01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:51,040
Speaker 1: Parents of any age aim to protect their children at

1274
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:54,920
Speaker 1: best excuse me, as best as they can. However, several

1275
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:57,640
Speaker 1: studies point to the fact that a child's risk of

1276
01:08:58,080 --> 01:09:02,760
Speaker 1: experiencing an unintentional injury that requires medical attention declines with

1277
01:09:02,960 --> 01:09:09,559
Speaker 1: increasing uh maternal age, So basically older moms the kids

1278
01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:12,920
Speaker 1: are less likely to get hurt, possibly because older parents

1279
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:16,760
Speaker 1: are more aware of dangerous and are better equipped to

1280
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 1: guard against them. And you'll get like our older moms

1281
01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:25,080
Speaker 1: doing all the fun bullshit with the kids. Right, No,

1282
01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:30,000
Speaker 1: probably the older moms probably are like they got more

1283
01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:33,920
Speaker 1: patience with the kids like younger moms. You gotta cook.

1284
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 1: He jumping off a slide, You're doing a TikTok right, Oh,

1285
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 1: broke legs. Stupid. I always at the beach. I swear

1286
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:51,320
Speaker 1: to God, this is where I feel like I'm a mom.

1287
01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:54,519
Speaker 1: I be watching other people kids. I watch people not

1288
01:09:54,680 --> 01:09:58,280
Speaker 1: watch their kids, like at the beach, you this fucking

1289
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 1: kid is too close to the damn shoreline, Like where

1290
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:03,599
Speaker 1: are you at? Like, where the fuck is the parent

1291
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:09,240
Speaker 1: your kid? Quick enough? If something would have happened. Yeah,

1292
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:13,599
Speaker 1: So I find myself watching other people's kids all the time.

1293
01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 1: I watch how people. I was in higher seat the

1294
01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 1: one day and I'm like almost I just kind of

1295
01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:21,120
Speaker 1: like started like creeping around, like in the fruit section,

1296
01:10:21,240 --> 01:10:23,000
Speaker 1: like I was looking at shit. But really, I'm watching

1297
01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 1: this lady interact with her kid because he just seemed

1298
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:28,439
Speaker 1: like he wanted to get away from her so bad,

1299
01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:31,880
Speaker 1: like he wasn't supposed to be with her or something.

1300
01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:33,760
Speaker 1: So I don't know if he was having a little

1301
01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:37,479
Speaker 1: issue or did you steal this kid because he doesn't

1302
01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:41,000
Speaker 1: seem to like your ass at fucking all. So I'm

1303
01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:43,439
Speaker 1: like watching and I almost said something, I just mind

1304
01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 1: my business and went on. I just hope the kid

1305
01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 1: is okay. I remember one time, this was recently. I

1306
01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:48,840
Speaker 1: was on a plane and I had just seen a

1307
01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:51,240
Speaker 1: missing child. It was like a little Mexican little girl

1308
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:53,880
Speaker 1: and it was a little Mexican girl over at the seat,

1309
01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:56,160
Speaker 1: and I kept on watching her like and then we

1310
01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:58,479
Speaker 1: was like, uh no, she was like a seat right

1311
01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:04,720
Speaker 1: here looking back at her. I was like, is that her?

1312
01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:07,200
Speaker 1: That kind of looked like her. I can't remember the name,

1313
01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:08,800
Speaker 1: but I said the name and she ain't look I

1314
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:10,479
Speaker 1: was like, okay, that ain't her because we going we

1315
01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:12,599
Speaker 1: leaving this plane together if she look at this name.

1316
01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 1: Because one thing I cannot stand and seeing white people

1317
01:11:15,600 --> 01:11:18,880
Speaker 1: with black kids, Oh, I just be like, man, black

1318
01:11:18,920 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 1: people need to adopt children, Like I am open to adoption,

1319
01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:23,320
Speaker 1: and but I don't have my own kid. I would

1320
01:11:23,360 --> 01:11:25,320
Speaker 1: definitely adopt a kid, and I might get a seven

1321
01:11:25,400 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 1: or eight year old, might not even shoot they try

1322
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:29,560
Speaker 1: to get an infant because these kids get left in

1323
01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:32,880
Speaker 1: the system until they're eighteen. So we can't be upset

1324
01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 1: that white people are adopted adopting our kids, but are

1325
01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:39,880
Speaker 1: we able to adopt theirs. I see one family online

1326
01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:44,960
Speaker 1: adopted their son's friend, little white boy with them now,

1327
01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:48,280
Speaker 1: but I just can't stand it. I'd be like, well,

1328
01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:50,120
Speaker 1: will you get this fucking baby? For why you want

1329
01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:50,679
Speaker 1: this baby?

1330
01:11:51,920 --> 01:11:55,800
Speaker 2: I just I don't if they're being loved and not

1331
01:11:56,000 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 2: abused being kennels. Do you see these these these stuff

1332
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:03,759
Speaker 2: that's crazy. They're locking the kids up in a barn

1333
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 2: having a message. Honestly, I think nobody, but that's what's happening.

1334
01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:12,240
Speaker 1: My mind just always go there when I see even

1335
01:12:12,280 --> 01:12:14,600
Speaker 1: though they could be being loved, and that's what we

1336
01:12:14,640 --> 01:12:16,519
Speaker 1: could all hold for, that they're being loved to taking

1337
01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:16,760
Speaker 1: care of.

1338
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:19,200
Speaker 2: Because a child that grows up in the system and

1339
01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 2: never gets adopted, that is the saddest thing, you know.

1340
01:12:22,720 --> 01:12:26,200
Speaker 2: So obviously we don't want nobody's baby and no kennel

1341
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:28,760
Speaker 2: in a barn and ship like that. I hope them

1342
01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:30,960
Speaker 2: white people that had them black kids like that, I

1343
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:33,960
Speaker 2: hope they getting the ass whooping jail for real, because

1344
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:36,439
Speaker 2: that's just sick. It's some sick people out here.

1345
01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:38,920
Speaker 1: That one family had the kids in a barn by

1346
01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 1: four little black kids. This other white lady, she literally

1347
01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 1: was just putting this little girl in a kennel in public,

1348
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:50,920
Speaker 1: like she opened the back hatch to her suv and

1349
01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:53,960
Speaker 1: like the little girl knew to get in there. That's

1350
01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:59,519
Speaker 1: so sad. Belt to ask, right, I'm not calling the police.

1351
01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:01,040
Speaker 1: I would have been her first. I would be going

1352
01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:05,200
Speaker 1: to jail firms, I swear to God, y'all. Should I

1353
01:13:05,240 --> 01:13:08,320
Speaker 1: be staying like I'd be willing to die for black people. Y'all.

1354
01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:10,559
Speaker 1: Niggas ain't like y'all not like me. I'm a real

1355
01:13:10,680 --> 01:13:14,439
Speaker 1: militant with this shit. I would have dragged that bitch

1356
01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:16,560
Speaker 1: if I had seen her with that baby in that

1357
01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:19,479
Speaker 1: kennel in her truck. That should hurt my feelings to

1358
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:21,400
Speaker 1: even see it online. And then the babies just know

1359
01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:25,920
Speaker 1: to go in there like she's a trained pet. That said,

1360
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:28,840
Speaker 1: right now, as we talk and record this episode, that

1361
01:13:28,920 --> 01:13:33,960
Speaker 1: has happening to a child somewhere anyway, you might be

1362
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:41,680
Speaker 1: more emotionally prepared. There's an undoubted sense of maturity that

1363
01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:44,800
Speaker 1: comes along with age. Just think about how much you've

1364
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:48,719
Speaker 1: changed since your teens. Research suggests that maturity place.

1365
01:13:49,360 --> 01:13:52,760
Speaker 2: And you said, I'm ready to die for black people.

1366
01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:55,960
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm glad it's people like you. I'm

1367
01:13:56,000 --> 01:13:58,840
Speaker 2: ready to die for the people I love.

1368
01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:00,160
Speaker 1: But I don't know if I would just like, like

1369
01:14:00,680 --> 01:14:04,160
Speaker 1: give my life for And that's why we fucked up.

1370
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 1: A lot of people gave their life of of us,

1371
01:14:06,880 --> 01:14:10,080
Speaker 1: like people be on Kanye saying how Kanye was talking

1372
01:14:10,320 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 1: about the slaves and saying how slavery was a choice. Listen,

1373
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:17,040
Speaker 1: Lincoln did not end slavery. We end of slavery because

1374
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,599
Speaker 1: we was fucking slaughtering ass. Okay, let's be very clear.

1375
01:14:19,640 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 1: We had the Haitians coming in, Barbadians, everybody, the Bayesians,

1376
01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:28,920
Speaker 1: every people. That they're doing it today. That's what I'm getting.

1377
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 1: That's the point I'm getting to. If anybody's choosing slavery,

1378
01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:34,720
Speaker 1: it's us today. Because if you're not willing to what

1379
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:36,639
Speaker 1: the fuck you? You're not willing to die for nothing.

1380
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:37,160
Speaker 1: I am.

1381
01:14:37,280 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 2: There's a lot of things I'm willing to like for.

1382
01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:41,840
Speaker 2: I'm willing to die for my god kids. I'm willing

1383
01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:45,000
Speaker 2: to die for my family, my sister, my mother.

1384
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:49,040
Speaker 1: I see children, people, children, myself, and the little girls

1385
01:14:49,080 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 1: we had on yesterday, Like, I'm willing to die for them,

1386
01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:53,560
Speaker 1: and they just I don't even know them. It just

1387
01:14:53,600 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 1: depends on what the situation.

1388
01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:56,800
Speaker 2: I guess it just depends. Yeah, Okay, I'll say that

1389
01:14:57,520 --> 01:14:58,560
Speaker 2: my situation.

1390
01:14:59,080 --> 01:15:01,200
Speaker 1: Now, I'm an organized her Okay, I'm not saying I'm

1391
01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:02,479
Speaker 1: in the front line type bitch.

1392
01:15:02,720 --> 01:15:04,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what it sounds like. It's about to put

1393
01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:06,320
Speaker 2: on boots and get hit the ground.

1394
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:08,479
Speaker 1: No, if she comes to the front line, I mean

1395
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:13,760
Speaker 1: come behind the line. I'm willing, but I'm organizing crash. Okay,

1396
01:15:13,800 --> 01:15:18,559
Speaker 1: we're on the same. I like, let's put on black

1397
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:22,439
Speaker 1: paint tomorrow and go outside. Okay, so listen, I saw

1398
01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:26,000
Speaker 1: a video recently with Tommy tell Me from Love and

1399
01:15:26,080 --> 01:15:28,840
Speaker 1: Hip Hop. I saw a video of her recently, and

1400
01:15:28,880 --> 01:15:30,280
Speaker 1: I sent it to a couple of people who will

1401
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:32,000
Speaker 1: be on the type of time I'm on because when she,

1402
01:15:32,200 --> 01:15:34,040
Speaker 1: if I'm ready, if she get real, if we can

1403
01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:37,800
Speaker 1: collectively be down for change. No, I'm not about to

1404
01:15:37,960 --> 01:15:41,200
Speaker 1: just go throw myself into the fire when these niggas

1405
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:43,720
Speaker 1: will still be doing the same. That's what I what

1406
01:15:43,800 --> 01:15:46,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But some people that's in the streets, that's

1407
01:15:46,800 --> 01:15:48,559
Speaker 1: just not living right there. I ain't trying to do right.

1408
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:52,200
Speaker 1: They gotta go to see. Those are not even the

1409
01:15:52,240 --> 01:15:57,519
Speaker 1: people I'm considering. Okay, So Tommy was like, y'all call

1410
01:15:57,600 --> 01:16:00,559
Speaker 1: me when y'all ready to go get on some police.

1411
01:16:00,760 --> 01:16:02,240
Speaker 1: Call me when y'all ready. Dude, I'm not about to

1412
01:16:02,280 --> 01:16:04,519
Speaker 1: be marching down the street about this ship. But call

1413
01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:06,760
Speaker 1: me when y'all on some real ship. And that is

1414
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:09,680
Speaker 1: how I feel, so we can collectively get on some

1415
01:16:09,800 --> 01:16:14,200
Speaker 1: real ship. I'm down. I'm down for the next generation

1416
01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:18,479
Speaker 1: because once you conquer death, like, yes, I want a child,

1417
01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:20,439
Speaker 1: and I feel like and maybe if I had a

1418
01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:22,800
Speaker 1: kid right now, I wouldn't feel this way. But I

1419
01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:23,880
Speaker 1: don't mind dying.

1420
01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:28,600
Speaker 2: When you say conquered death, okay, freof yes, the.

1421
01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:32,439
Speaker 1: Fear of dying, the fear of transitioning once you get

1422
01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:35,600
Speaker 1: past that, because we dying every day. But once you

1423
01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:39,519
Speaker 1: get past that, you it's limitless. Would would you like

1424
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:43,800
Speaker 1: to think of myself living every day and not dying.

1425
01:16:44,200 --> 01:16:46,920
Speaker 1: You were talking about age and what your body, but

1426
01:16:47,080 --> 01:16:52,800
Speaker 1: to go through before and after child? Okay, it's the inevitable. Okay,

1427
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:54,680
Speaker 1: let me get back to my thing, because we get

1428
01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:59,200
Speaker 1: a little bit too deep, right, Just let y'all. I

1429
01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:01,559
Speaker 1: don't know if y'all knowing not, but I am.

1430
01:17:01,880 --> 01:17:05,120
Speaker 2: I mean, everybody plays their role. You gotta like, I'll

1431
01:17:05,200 --> 01:17:08,240
Speaker 2: probably you'll be outside with Tommy with the guns. No,

1432
01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:11,439
Speaker 2: I'll be inside prepared meals. So y'all have nurishment.

1433
01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 1: Everybody has a role, Nick and blow the building up

1434
01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:17,720
Speaker 1: that you win. Listen, we all again, and we all

1435
01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:20,320
Speaker 1: got to do our part. Though, I'm just saying, you's

1436
01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:23,840
Speaker 1: gotta be a well old machine. Everybody gotta do their part. Okay,

1437
01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:27,360
Speaker 1: it so I could die last. I'm gonna make sure

1438
01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:29,840
Speaker 1: y'all well fed if you need a like, if you

1439
01:17:29,920 --> 01:17:32,720
Speaker 1: need your shoulders like worked out after you come back

1440
01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:42,040
Speaker 1: you seem ye, that's me. That's my job. Car the

1441
01:17:42,120 --> 01:17:51,000
Speaker 1: face size girl. Everybody gotta know their role. Baby shame. Uh.

1442
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:53,640
Speaker 1: This says your child is is likely to be more

1443
01:17:53,720 --> 01:17:56,759
Speaker 1: tech savvy. Yeah, because y'all letting the tablet reis a journey.

1444
01:17:56,760 --> 01:18:00,599
Speaker 1: That's why you might be more financially stable and healthier.

1445
01:18:01,040 --> 01:18:04,040
Speaker 1: That is to me, that is the plus, okay, right,

1446
01:18:06,400 --> 01:18:08,760
Speaker 1: just having the means to have fun with the kid.

1447
01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:12,280
Speaker 1: There's nothing that can And I don't have any kids,

1448
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:15,040
Speaker 1: but I can imagine like having a child and not

1449
01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:17,720
Speaker 1: being able to feed them. That would break my heart.

1450
01:18:17,800 --> 01:18:19,080
Speaker 1: And there's a lot of people that go through that.

1451
01:18:19,280 --> 01:18:21,640
Speaker 1: I would never want to bring a kid into this

1452
01:18:22,080 --> 01:18:26,120
Speaker 1: situation like that, Like I don't I'm not promoting abortion,

1453
01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:30,280
Speaker 1: but I definitely ain't for fucking struggling the fuck, Like

1454
01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:32,960
Speaker 1: what are you doing? Like you're ruining other.

1455
01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:35,240
Speaker 2: People's life, like looking into the eyes of your hungry

1456
01:18:35,320 --> 01:18:37,200
Speaker 2: baby and not being able to do nothing about it.

1457
01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 1: It's got to be next level pain, you know, yeah,

1458
01:18:41,439 --> 01:18:45,120
Speaker 1: and this last one you may live longer. I believe

1459
01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:49,559
Speaker 1: that people will be wanting to get rid of their periods, Like, girl,

1460
01:18:49,560 --> 01:18:52,280
Speaker 1: I love to see my period, okay, because as long

1461
01:18:52,360 --> 01:18:55,120
Speaker 1: as I see it, that means I'm not menopausal. Okay.

1462
01:18:57,439 --> 01:18:59,320
Speaker 1: If you can have a baby later in life, that

1463
01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:02,680
Speaker 1: means you're health like your body was healthy enough to

1464
01:19:02,840 --> 01:19:04,559
Speaker 1: produce another fucking human.

1465
01:19:04,400 --> 01:19:05,120
Speaker 2: Onto god shit.

1466
01:19:05,960 --> 01:19:08,759
Speaker 1: So it says having kids later might make you live longer.

1467
01:19:08,880 --> 01:19:11,320
Speaker 1: Some people think that having babies late in life either

1468
01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:13,479
Speaker 1: means you won't have the energy to keep up with

1469
01:19:13,560 --> 01:19:16,360
Speaker 1: the young kids, or worse, you won't be around for

1470
01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:19,400
Speaker 1: their major life events like getting married and having children

1471
01:19:19,439 --> 01:19:22,920
Speaker 1: of their own, says doctor Sabler. But research finds that

1472
01:19:23,120 --> 01:19:25,640
Speaker 1: this couldn't be further from the truth. In fact, in

1473
01:19:25,680 --> 01:19:29,680
Speaker 1: twenty fifteen, studies published in Menopause found that women who

1474
01:19:29,840 --> 01:19:32,759
Speaker 1: have children after the age of thirty three were twice

1475
01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:35,799
Speaker 1: as likely to live to the age ninety five compared

1476
01:19:35,800 --> 01:19:39,240
Speaker 1: to women who had their last child before thirty And

1477
01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:42,599
Speaker 1: that's something worth considering. I'm gonna tell y'all my friends

1478
01:19:42,640 --> 01:19:44,719
Speaker 1: who had kids early, they got they got my fucking

1479
01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:49,559
Speaker 1: uh Ara rheumatoried authoritis right now, which is hands is crippled,

1480
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:53,160
Speaker 1: all type of shit going on. So I think like

1481
01:19:53,280 --> 01:19:57,040
Speaker 1: the babies might also aige you earlier to having children early.

1482
01:19:57,479 --> 01:20:00,839
Speaker 2: You don't feel like, uh women who don't have husbands

1483
01:20:01,000 --> 01:20:02,160
Speaker 2: and have kids, Yeah.

1484
01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:03,880
Speaker 1: They'd be looking at all good. That's why I wanted

1485
01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:07,320
Speaker 1: my uh my cousin, Big Tash, not the low one

1486
01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:09,760
Speaker 1: to come on to day because she's fucking fabulous. She's

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Speaker 1: beautiful and she has a big grown ass son and

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01:20:13,120 --> 01:20:16,160
Speaker 1: doing well. So if you can do it early and

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Speaker 1: come out on the other side successful, I'm jealous. Yeah,

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01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:22,640
Speaker 1: me too, you know so Now I wasn't jealous when

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01:20:22,680 --> 01:20:24,680
Speaker 1: we was twenty two and you was right, Oh you

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01:20:24,800 --> 01:20:27,000
Speaker 1: can't go with me to see jun out of night. Damn,

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01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:29,280
Speaker 1: that's crazy, girl. I'm gonna call you the woman. But

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01:20:29,400 --> 01:20:33,920
Speaker 1: now definite. Yeah, they can babysit, you can still go outside. Yeah.

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01:20:34,200 --> 01:20:36,720
Speaker 1: I feel like Cardi b made it real popular and

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01:20:36,880 --> 01:20:39,920
Speaker 1: okay for women to be women and have babies and

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01:20:40,040 --> 01:20:43,679
Speaker 1: keep her career. Yes, because she did all the fucking things.

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01:20:43,720 --> 01:20:46,000
Speaker 1: And even if her and old boy breaking up right now,

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01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:47,840
Speaker 1: which I don't think so, I think is more of

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01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:51,800
Speaker 1: a financial thing. But anyway, even if they are, she

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01:20:51,960 --> 01:20:54,000
Speaker 1: has her children, she has her career. She still has

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01:20:54,040 --> 01:20:57,599
Speaker 1: a many years ahead of her in life. And I'm

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01:20:57,640 --> 01:21:01,120
Speaker 1: pretty sure Nicki Minaj was putting child being during years

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01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:02,840
Speaker 1: on the back burner because.

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01:21:02,680 --> 01:21:04,840
Speaker 2: A lot of women felt like for the care Yeah,

1506
01:21:05,120 --> 01:21:09,639
Speaker 2: so shout out to she had the most beautiful Cinderella story.

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01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:11,479
Speaker 2: We saw her from loving him her and she's like,

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01:21:11,520 --> 01:21:13,120
Speaker 2: I wear my shirt like this, so you don't look

1509
01:21:13,160 --> 01:21:14,680
Speaker 2: at my teeth. Remember my tee?

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01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:16,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, look at my TD soill you don't look at

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01:21:16,680 --> 01:21:17,960
Speaker 1: my teeth. Now look at her.

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01:21:18,080 --> 01:21:21,200
Speaker 2: She's so beautiful and yes, beautiful. It's just such a

1513
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:22,080
Speaker 2: beautiful Cinderella.

1514
01:21:22,120 --> 01:21:23,760
Speaker 1: And I remember her being on the breakfast leve and

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01:21:23,800 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 1: saying like, I'm trying to have kids. Like soon she started,

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01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:28,479
Speaker 1: she did.

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01:21:28,680 --> 01:21:31,160
Speaker 2: She did everything people told her not to. You know

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01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:33,920
Speaker 2: that she was going to ruin it and looking yeah

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01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:34,600
Speaker 2: so yeah, so.

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01:21:35,800 --> 01:21:38,160
Speaker 1: Baby, don't wait on no career shit. And then the

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01:21:38,240 --> 01:21:39,880
Speaker 1: older you get, now they're not waiting on the man.

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01:21:39,960 --> 01:21:47,080
Speaker 1: Bitch is the freezing they sperm? What's old? Girl? Damn?

1523
01:21:47,160 --> 01:21:48,479
Speaker 1: I don't know who you're talking about. You know who

1524
01:21:48,520 --> 01:21:51,679
Speaker 1: I'm talking about? No, I don't she was on black Effect,

1525
01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:54,040
Speaker 1: remember she did in one of our episodes and then

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01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:58,519
Speaker 1: didn't want to put the episode out. Oh pretty privileged,

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01:21:58,600 --> 01:22:04,640
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Ebany, Ebanie Williams, Ebonie Williams. She's pregnant right now.

1528
01:22:04,760 --> 01:22:07,439
Speaker 1: She froze her eggs in her thirties and she's pregnant.

1529
01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:10,160
Speaker 1: People are talking shit about her because she wasn't able

1530
01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:12,960
Speaker 1: to lock in a husband, a man, she's been married before,

1531
01:22:13,000 --> 01:22:15,000
Speaker 1: but she wasn't able to lock in somebody to have

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01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:17,400
Speaker 1: the baby with. So she guess she got a sperm

1533
01:22:17,479 --> 01:22:22,280
Speaker 1: donor or whoever, and she's having her baby like she

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01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:24,840
Speaker 1: has the means to take care of kids. So so

1535
01:22:24,960 --> 01:22:28,160
Speaker 1: we mad at that. But then y'all also, don't y'all

1536
01:22:28,200 --> 01:22:31,000
Speaker 1: talk about single moms who had a baby, daddy who

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01:22:31,160 --> 01:22:32,160
Speaker 1: chose not to be there.

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01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:35,479
Speaker 2: You can't You can't please anybody, so I mean, you

1539
01:22:35,560 --> 01:22:37,400
Speaker 2: can't please everybody, So there's no point.

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01:22:37,439 --> 01:22:40,280
Speaker 1: Ye happy as hell, Just make yourself happy. Yeah, me too.

1541
01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 1: Congratulations girls here, y'all be fine. Everything to be mad at?

1542
01:22:46,320 --> 01:22:49,840
Speaker 1: What's our last last? Have the yddamn baby? Okay, it's

1543
01:22:50,280 --> 01:22:54,040
Speaker 1: a goddamn had a baby. Y'all go pro create and before.

1544
01:22:54,240 --> 01:22:56,080
Speaker 2: Don't because some people don't want a baby, you know,

1545
01:22:56,840 --> 01:22:58,520
Speaker 2: do what makes you happy whatever.

1546
01:22:58,520 --> 01:23:00,920
Speaker 1: If you don't want the baby, because Michael Jackson said,

1547
01:23:00,920 --> 01:23:03,280
Speaker 1: if you can't feed the baby, don't have the baby. Okay.

1548
01:23:03,560 --> 01:23:05,439
Speaker 1: But if a woman doesn't want to be pregnand there

1549
01:23:05,520 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 1: is so many things you can do to avoid pregnancy

1550
01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:11,320
Speaker 1: as a woman, you know, aside from using lightsol on

1551
01:23:11,360 --> 01:23:15,240
Speaker 1: your kuchi, you could use my Day's app. You remember

1552
01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 1: we read that thing how women use lights alack, Yeah,

1553
01:23:21,120 --> 01:23:25,840
Speaker 1: the altered that was the you know talking about. I

1554
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:27,439
Speaker 1: said that was the original that you like, put a

1555
01:23:27,479 --> 01:23:28,600
Speaker 1: little tap of bleach in you.

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01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:30,960
Speaker 2: I ain't put no bleach in there.

1557
01:23:32,040 --> 01:23:34,760
Speaker 1: You do that well when I do, when I do

1558
01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:38,240
Speaker 1: a spiritual bascist to cleanse the outside of my body,

1559
01:23:38,280 --> 01:23:40,360
Speaker 1: I do put a cap full of bleach. Put it.

1560
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:43,240
Speaker 1: I put a cap full of APPI side of vinegar.

1561
01:23:44,960 --> 01:23:49,760
Speaker 1: I put some salt in their. No, bitch, a little

1562
01:23:49,800 --> 01:23:51,720
Speaker 1: capful of bleach is not going to kill you. We

1563
01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:55,439
Speaker 1: are chlorine in our water that we're drinking like it's

1564
01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:56,200
Speaker 1: not you be all.

1565
01:23:56,160 --> 01:23:59,240
Speaker 2: Right, Chlorine in the bottle water, chlorine.

1566
01:23:58,800 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 1: And all this stuff, fluoride, fluoride, chlorine, whatever, ships calcifying

1567
01:24:06,120 --> 01:24:07,439
Speaker 1: your pinot gland. That's what I do.

1568
01:24:07,560 --> 01:24:10,920
Speaker 2: Put a little apple, snap that puss it back.

1569
01:24:13,439 --> 01:24:19,920
Speaker 1: That do not work. Gonna starts the last last. Stop

1570
01:24:19,960 --> 01:24:23,360
Speaker 1: putting stuff up, y'all couci like penis, No not the

1571
01:24:23,439 --> 01:24:28,479
Speaker 1: penis just all us extra ship the suppositories, all the boras.

1572
01:24:28,840 --> 01:24:30,920
Speaker 1: Get your diet together. And the kuchi is a self

1573
01:24:30,960 --> 01:24:33,479
Speaker 1: cleaning organism. It'll be all right. What about I see

1574
01:24:33,560 --> 01:24:35,240
Speaker 1: girls putting all right? No, I know we gotta go.

1575
01:24:35,360 --> 01:24:41,759
Speaker 1: But yogurt not I've done. I've done. Garlic for East infection.

1576
01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:44,400
Speaker 1: You put a piece of garlic like you do it

1577
01:24:44,479 --> 01:24:46,800
Speaker 1: at night. Do it that night, because as soon as

1578
01:24:46,840 --> 01:24:48,600
Speaker 1: it gets in your body, you're gonna taste it in

1579
01:24:48,640 --> 01:24:51,240
Speaker 1: your mouth. Oh, I know it's coming all out. And

1580
01:24:51,479 --> 01:24:54,040
Speaker 1: when I tell you that is a natural remedy for

1581
01:24:54,080 --> 01:24:57,519
Speaker 1: East infections. You take a needle, put a piece of

1582
01:24:57,800 --> 01:25:01,240
Speaker 1: string right, and you put the uh. You put the

1583
01:25:01,320 --> 01:25:04,280
Speaker 1: garlic in the tampon applicator and shoot it up.

1584
01:25:04,400 --> 01:25:06,120
Speaker 2: Last you had the house spelling like pizza.

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01:25:10,360 --> 01:25:18,360
Speaker 1: I want a pizza right now. You're not voice when

1586
01:25:18,400 --> 01:25:22,720
Speaker 1: you tell jokes, bitch, you'll be coming out what I

1587
01:25:22,720 --> 01:25:26,120
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know who that is. That's that's

1588
01:25:26,120 --> 01:25:29,080
Speaker 1: why I'm a man. That's my last list. Stop putting

1589
01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:31,280
Speaker 1: stuff in your couchie. Happy baby, have a baby, be

1590
01:25:31,520 --> 01:25:35,439
Speaker 1: happy whatever it is? All right, y'all. If you enjoyed

1591
01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:37,880
Speaker 1: this episode, y'all tune in every Thursday on The Black

1592
01:25:37,880 --> 01:25:40,840
Speaker 1: Effect podcast, iHeartRadio, Apple, wherever the fuck you get your

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01:25:40,880 --> 01:25:42,880
Speaker 1: podcasts at. I don't give a if it wasn't right,

1594
01:25:43,200 --> 01:25:45,360
Speaker 1: it sound right to me. All right. This is your

1595
01:25:45,439 --> 01:25:47,840
Speaker 1: co host, A J. Holiday two point oh. You can

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01:25:47,880 --> 01:25:48,920
Speaker 1: find me on instagram s.

1597
01:25:48,960 --> 01:25:51,639
Speaker 2: Kick you Tam, I'm official Tam Bam on Instagram, y'all

1598
01:25:51,680 --> 01:25:53,320
Speaker 2: follow me. Remember speak now.

1599
01:25:54,960 --> 01:25:57,000
Speaker 1: And never hold your baby bag. Okay, you just have

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01:25:57,120 --> 01:26:00,840
Speaker 1: a baby? Baby back baby, baby, baby, baby baby anything. Ribs,

1601
01:26:00,880 --> 01:26:05,640
Speaker 1: I'm hungry, it's eight. I had cheesecake. Acty bitches, do

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01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:10,560
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