WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Picnic in the Park

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<v Speaker 1>Jebels second date of date. Going out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>when you're set up by friends is the worst because

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<v Speaker 1>there's the pressure of being on the first date. Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then there's the pressure of screwing things up and

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<v Speaker 1>making your friend angry. And Charles emailed us about a

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<v Speaker 1>girl he wants to call it today that was set

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<v Speaker 1>up by one of his friends. Now, not only is

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<v Speaker 1>that girl not talking to him, but his friend isn't

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<v Speaker 1>even talking to him either. So Charles obviously screwed up

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<v Speaker 1>something on his date and he wants to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>what it was. Charles, how are you, hey, good man?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? I'm excited to be on your show.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, I'm loveless, I'm friendless, I'm cool. Sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you killed it on your first date. Many, I killed

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<v Speaker 1>something out on the what why don't you tell us

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about it? What was the girl's name

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<v Speaker 1>that you went out with? Her name is Rebecca? Rebecca okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And Rebecca was set up by a friend of yours. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a co worker friend of mine. Um, and Rebecca is

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<v Speaker 1>a friend of hers who just moved to town. And

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<v Speaker 1>why did your friend think that Rebecca would be a

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<v Speaker 1>good fit for you? Well, I don't date a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and my co worker knew this, but you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>would I would like to date more. I would like

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, have a girlfriend one day. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I think my co worker was just trying to help

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<v Speaker 1>me out, help her friend Rebecca out, who's new to town,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, somebody could show her around. So she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't date a lot, this girl's new to town.

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<v Speaker 1>She'd clearly has nobody else to hang out with, so

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<v Speaker 1>this can be a good opportunity for you, Charles, something

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<v Speaker 1>like that. And what did you and Rebecca do on

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<v Speaker 1>your date? We went to the park. We uh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>at first, I will admit I kind of like Facebook's

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<v Speaker 1>doctor a little bit. Um. I think I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that is totally okay, that's normal. Yeah, yeah, okay, good.

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<v Speaker 1>And I saw her picture and she was super cute,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was almost like like, I'm second guessing myself now,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, is she too cute for me? But I

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I set up a date. We did it

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<v Speaker 1>on a weekend, like a day date. I'm not the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of guy that like goes want to go to barn,

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<v Speaker 1>like get smashed or whatever. Yeah, so you're boring. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're real baring, dude. That sounds actually refreshing Charles to

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<v Speaker 1>not have the pressure of a night date. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not the kind of guy that's going to like go

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<v Speaker 1>to a bar and gets drunk. I mean, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of not who you are, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like lowering people's inhibitions. It's like almost

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of like tricking a girl to go with

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<v Speaker 1>you because she smashed. Yeah. See what you described to

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<v Speaker 1>me is my fantasy. I love it. That's that's a

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<v Speaker 1>great date to me. But apparently not for you. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not not for me personally. I understand why though, But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's also not as safe at nighttime. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's dark, and where are you hanging out like

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<v Speaker 1>back alley at night? No, I don't know. I just

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<v Speaker 1>that's when like you know, crime goes up at night. Yeah, understand,

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<v Speaker 1>scary world out there, all right. So anyway, so you

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<v Speaker 1>took her on a daytime date to the park during

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<v Speaker 1>the day because the nighttime is too scared. So we

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<v Speaker 1>went on a drive. We went to the park. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of a nature loving guy. I was hoping

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<v Speaker 1>she would be too. So you know, we went. I

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<v Speaker 1>brought a blanket, went for a walk. We had brought

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<v Speaker 1>a fritz Bee. It was fun. Well, define nature, define

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<v Speaker 1>nature loving like you enjoy nature or you actually like

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<v Speaker 1>love nature. I tried to refrain from going loving it

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<v Speaker 1>that much. Okay, Well, I was if that happened on

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<v Speaker 1>your first date, I could see why you're not getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back and why your coworker would stop talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Like no I had I did not do

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<v Speaker 1>that on the day. Okay, okay, So how was it.

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<v Speaker 1>How was the conversation? Was it easy? Yeah? I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was great. We were laughing, we were talking. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean whatever you would want a date to go. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this was it. I thought, was is there anything in

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<v Speaker 1>your mind that have gone wrong? I mean again, like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I'm second getting myself. Um, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>after the date, I drove her home. I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>be a gentleman, so you know, I'm like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to go for a kiss or anything. But I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know, we got to her place and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know, hold on, don't get out

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<v Speaker 1>of the car, and I like ran around and opened

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<v Speaker 1>the door for her. Yeah, that's nice. Yeah I thought so,

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if maybe people don't do that anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>She thought it was weird. I don't know, maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>was nothing we've done second day updates before where a

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<v Speaker 1>girl has been like, he's obviously a chauvin it's because

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<v Speaker 1>he feels like he has to open my door. Remember

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<v Speaker 1>that one. Yeah, but that was one person. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>the majority of people don't feel that way. How did

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<v Speaker 1>you tell her to stay in the car? Maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>weirded her out. Maybe you pulled up and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>stay in the car. I didn't use that exact way.

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<v Speaker 1>You have two women who are not speaking to you

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<v Speaker 1>right now because of something you did, and you literally

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<v Speaker 1>can't think of anything other than I opened her car door.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like a great no. I even I said,

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, it's hey, Could I call you again?

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<v Speaker 1>She was like sure, And you know, I've called a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of times. It's been like ten days. The only

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<v Speaker 1>thing I got back with a text is said I'm

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<v Speaker 1>busy and that's it, and then that's it, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the co worker stopped talking to you. Weird. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>work directly with this co workers you have to see

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<v Speaker 1>him all the time or is it just somebody casually

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<v Speaker 1>in your office? Yeah, it's it she and I. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I see her all the time. Like I'll literally go

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<v Speaker 1>in the breaker and she'll leaves. WHOA, you must have

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<v Speaker 1>done something pretty bad. Yeah, man, not in my memory. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you said you've been out of the dating world for

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<v Speaker 1>a while. It's not because you're like married and they

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<v Speaker 1>found that out right, No, I just don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really like tender or anything like that. Is I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of want to meet somebody through people that I know

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't happened for me. Okay, well, we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back and hopefully find out why she's not talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you and your co worker isn't talking to you

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<v Speaker 1>right after this when we get your second day up date. Okay, great, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, man, hang on five brooking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's second dater is really living up to his namesake.

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<v Speaker 1>In case you don't know where that music is, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the theme to the Peanuts Charlie Brown and if you

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<v Speaker 1>know anything about those stories, Charlie was always getting screwed

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<v Speaker 1>over having the football yanked out from underneath him, never

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<v Speaker 1>ending with him getting the girl and our second date

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<v Speaker 1>up dator Today, his name is Charles, and Charles is

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<v Speaker 1>going to see if he can change history and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>do something good with his name, because he's apparently pissed

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<v Speaker 1>off everybody that he knows, and he has no idea

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<v Speaker 1>why he was set up by his co worker to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with a girl named Rebecca.

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<v Speaker 1>They went out, had fun, according to him, but now

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<v Speaker 1>after the date, she's not calling him back and the

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<v Speaker 1>co worker won't talk to him. Charles, are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>to see if you can change things for the name

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<v Speaker 1>Charlie for good? All right? Oh yeah? Look at the

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<v Speaker 1>passion in Charles's voice. Do you think your co worker

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<v Speaker 1>isn't just talking to you. Maybe she feels guilty that

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<v Speaker 1>you got set up with a girl that doesn't like

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<v Speaker 1>you or something. Maybe that makes sense, But we're good friends,

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<v Speaker 1>so I would think she would tell me, yeah, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>there could be it could be just awkward for he, like, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't work out. Now I don't know what to

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<v Speaker 1>say to him. You know he's such a sad, pathetic

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<v Speaker 1>man already. I don't want to make it worse. Oh, thanks, Brook,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad I called the show today. Yeah, we are

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<v Speaker 1>really helping you out. Man. Okay, I'm gonna doll the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and get your second date update. All right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. I was looking for Rebecca. Rebecca, Hey, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? My name is Jubil and I host

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<v Speaker 1>a morning radio show called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay, Hi, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have a few minut it's a talk. What

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<v Speaker 1>is this about? My name is ju Bowl, Jubowl, Jebil, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and host a morning radio show called Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. It's on in the morning. If you

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<v Speaker 1>can't tell, I've said it like four times now. Okay, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm new to town. I don't really know any video

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<v Speaker 1>shows or anything. Yeah, I've heard that you're new in town.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome that's a creepy It's like we're the welcome committee suddenly.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you know? I'm new? I know a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about you, Rebecca, that's normal, that's how do you know

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about me? Let me I'll explain. We do

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<v Speaker 1>a segment on our show called the second date update. So,

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<v Speaker 1>even though you're new in town, you went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date recently with one of our listeners, and he

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us to see if we could find out what

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<v Speaker 1>happened on your date and why you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him again. I'm assuming you're talking about Charles. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am. Unless you've been on a bunch of dates,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know this one. I haven't had time really. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Charles is wondering why you don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again. He says he's tried to text you

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<v Speaker 1>when you said you were busy, and then now you

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<v Speaker 1>just stopped responding. Yeah, well I am busy. I'm getting

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<v Speaker 1>set up and situated, and this is just weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>understand that I don't like have many friends in town,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just like talking to a radio sa. Oh hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're your new friends. Now you don't need any other friends.

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<v Speaker 1>We're the best friends you never wanted. Wow. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then did you like your date with Charles? Was it fun?

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<v Speaker 1>It was? Um, it was something, there was a date,

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<v Speaker 1>it was it just maybe a little boring. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't the most exciting date I've ever been on.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, would you mind telling us about the date

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<v Speaker 1>in your own words? Because we actually talked to Charles

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<v Speaker 1>about your date. He said that you guys went to

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<v Speaker 1>the park and had a lot of fun. So he's

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<v Speaker 1>gon used. I mean, he's nice at all, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't know. I got a really creepy vibe

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<v Speaker 1>from him. Creepy. Yeah, we talked to him. I did

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<v Speaker 1>not get a creepy vibe from him over the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Well neither did I at first, but didn't. Something happened.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened, Well, when we went up to play frisbee,

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<v Speaker 1>he left his phone on the blanket and I noticed

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<v Speaker 1>his screen faver was um of my friend who set

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<v Speaker 1>us up? Wait, the background on his phone was a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of your friend. Yeah okay, but I mean he

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<v Speaker 1>said they were really good friends. Was it like a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of him and her? Yeah? No, It's like a

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<v Speaker 1>candid shot, like she didn't even know it was kicking.

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<v Speaker 1>It's weird. So it looks like he just took a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of your friend, his coworker and saved it as

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<v Speaker 1>the wallpaper on his phone. Yeah. Did you ask him

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<v Speaker 1>about it? I did. I mentioned that I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this Coppin. He's like, yeah, yeah, and then he started

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<v Speaker 1>like talking about her and how close they are, but

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<v Speaker 1>I know from her that they're not that close. So

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<v Speaker 1>that was I mean, that was the creepers number one. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and is their number two? Because that's creepy enough for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I feel like we're jumped to conclusions. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he started gushing about her and just saying how amazing

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<v Speaker 1>she was and talking about like, had it been a

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<v Speaker 1>different time, who knows what would have happened between them.

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<v Speaker 1>It was awkward. So on your first date with him,

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<v Speaker 1>he's talking about how much he loves your friend basically, yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>and when you talk to your friends. She had no

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<v Speaker 1>idea that Charles has a crush on her. No, she

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea. She said that he hard like they talk,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's never anything deep. And then I told her

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<v Speaker 1>that he had a picture on his phone and she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, what that explains a lot, Rebecca, because not

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<v Speaker 1>only have you not been talking to Charles, neither has

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<v Speaker 1>his coworker. Yeah. Well, yeah, I mean she's like creeped

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<v Speaker 1>down up and he's like the first day back at

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<v Speaker 1>the office, she tried to avoid him, but he told

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<v Speaker 1>us that you feel bad for him. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>he took a candid picture of some girl and put

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<v Speaker 1>it at as a screensaver on his phone. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>that's creepy behavior. He doesn't have very good social etiquette,

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<v Speaker 1>but he obviously has a crush on someone that's not you.

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<v Speaker 1>So if somebody has a crush on somebody that can

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<v Speaker 1>take a picture of them without all right, well let's

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<v Speaker 1>how about this, Rebecca. I do have to let you

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<v Speaker 1>know that Charles is actually on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am, Charles. You there, Yeah, I need myself. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you do. Charles. Catherine and I are just friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and I told you that on the date. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a screensaver of my coworker on my phone.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I'm unusual to have pictures of your friends

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<v Speaker 1>on your phone. Yeah, but as a screensaver, like that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of strange. It's not that. I mean I see

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<v Speaker 1>her all the time, like as we walked to the office,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's like a shot. What I like what I see?

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<v Speaker 1>You took a wait, hold on, hold up, sorry, Charles,

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<v Speaker 1>you took a photo of what you see on a

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<v Speaker 1>daily basis when you walk by your coworker. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I took a photo of my friend as I see

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<v Speaker 1>her in the office. Does she know that you took

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<v Speaker 1>that picture? I mean, that's not important. It's just a pend.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that is kind of important, Charles. Yet that's important.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't know, obviously, And I told her what the

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<v Speaker 1>picture was, and she doesn't even remember you taking it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just like her with a cup of coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>with her hair like falling into her mouth, like. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird. I don't. I can't see her having a

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<v Speaker 1>problem with it. She's not talking to you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's obviously kind of creepy. I mean, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>he's meaning to be creepy. I just think Charles obviously

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<v Speaker 1>have a crush on your coworker. No, I don't. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just friends, you said, And another time that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>might have been together, things worked out differently that you

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<v Speaker 1>would be together. So it's not another time, it's this time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's this time now, and we're just spend I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>in another time, I could have been with Angelina and Jolie.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm speculating. Hey, well, no matter what It's totally inappropriate

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date to talk about how in love

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<v Speaker 1>you are with somebody else when it's supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>about me, you know, I mean, that's just weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>did not talk about how I was in love with her.

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<v Speaker 1>I said that we could have been in love. But

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<v Speaker 1>with your friends, Charles, you shouldn't bring up love and

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<v Speaker 1>another woman's name like that your mom on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just talking about how much I adored Katherine,

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<v Speaker 1>her friend, which I think she would appreciate. Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>were talking about her hair, how shiny it was. You

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<v Speaker 1>were talking about how strong she is a yoga she does.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you went off about it was not like

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<v Speaker 1>a normal friend conversation. It was like you had studied

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<v Speaker 1>every inch of her, which is weird. She set us up.

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<v Speaker 1>She knows me, uh not. When I'm talking to her,

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<v Speaker 1>she says that she doesn't know you that well. She said,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just coworkers. I can't believe you even told her

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<v Speaker 1>all that that I talked about her. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>have a picture on my phone that was that was

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation with you, not her. Okay, well, she's my friend,

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<v Speaker 1>and if somebody has a creepy picture of someone on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. I'm going to tell her. I told you

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<v Speaker 1>that confidence, Charles. If you're not okay, if your picture

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<v Speaker 1>isn't creepy, why did you have to tell her in confidence?

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<v Speaker 1>You know you have different conversations with different people about

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<v Speaker 1>different things. You guys, I feel Charles. I feel bad

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<v Speaker 1>for you right now. You're learning a lot of stuff

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<v Speaker 1>about yourself. I don't feel like you're creepy. Maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>just need to admit that you did things that were

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<v Speaker 1>wrong according to social Norris. I don't. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's wrong. They have a picture of your friends. Hey, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like a second date with Charles? We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. No, No, I don't think so. Charles.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to confess your love to your coworker friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you, guys, I'm not in love with her.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just my friends, and she happened to be like

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<v Speaker 1>cool and awesome and pretty and like I'd like her

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, But that doesn't mean we're anything more than friends. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, we got it, Charles, Rebecca, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for answering the phone, and welcome to town.

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<v Speaker 1>Text in it seven eighty five nine two says that

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<v Speaker 1>girl sound super insecure. I don't know if it's that

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<v Speaker 1>or if she's correct, and that the dude she went

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<v Speaker 1>out with has a crushed on his coworker talking about

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update if you missed it, this dude,

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<v Speaker 1>Charles was set up by one of his co workers

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<v Speaker 1>any out with a girl named Rebecca to picnic in

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<v Speaker 1>the park. Afterwards, both Rebecca and his co worker wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>talk to Charles anymore, so we called Rebecca and she

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<v Speaker 1>told us that she got a really creepy vibe from him.

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<v Speaker 1>At one point, Charles left his phone on the picnic blanket,

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<v Speaker 1>and Rebecca noticed that the screensaver was a candid photo

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<v Speaker 1>of their mutual friend. Yeah, who had set them up?

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<v Speaker 1>He had just taken a random photo of her and

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<v Speaker 1>was using her as the background on his phone. Charles

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<v Speaker 1>didn't deny the photo, but he insisted that they were

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<v Speaker 1>just friends, and after that he went on to praise

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<v Speaker 1>his coworker for being cool, pretty and awesome and said

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<v Speaker 1>they could have been in love, but they weren't because

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<v Speaker 1>they're just coworkers. But it sounds like he's in love

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<v Speaker 1>with her. I don't think he's very self aware No, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and the end. No second day update. Remember, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a second day update, just emailed the

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<v Speaker 1>show and we will call the person who didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>you back