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Speaker 1: Jebels second date of date. Going out on a date
Speaker 1: when you're set up by friends is the worst because
Speaker 1: there's the pressure of being on the first date. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: and then there's the pressure of screwing things up and
Speaker 1: making your friend angry. And Charles emailed us about a
Speaker 1: girl he wants to call it today that was set
Speaker 1: up by one of his friends. Now, not only is
Speaker 1: that girl not talking to him, but his friend isn't
Speaker 1: even talking to him either. So Charles obviously screwed up
Speaker 1: something on his date and he wants to figure out
Speaker 1: what it was. Charles, how are you, hey, good man?
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm excited to be on your show.
Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm loveless, I'm friendless, I'm cool. Sounds like
Speaker 1: you killed it on your first date. Many, I killed
Speaker 1: something out on the what why don't you tell us
Speaker 1: a little bit about it? What was the girl's name
Speaker 1: that you went out with? Her name is Rebecca? Rebecca okay?
Speaker 1: And Rebecca was set up by a friend of yours. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a co worker friend of mine. Um, and Rebecca is
Speaker 1: a friend of hers who just moved to town. And
Speaker 1: why did your friend think that Rebecca would be a
Speaker 1: good fit for you? Well, I don't date a lot,
Speaker 1: and my co worker knew this, but you know, I
Speaker 1: would I would like to date more. I would like
Speaker 1: to you know, have a girlfriend one day. And so
Speaker 1: I think my co worker was just trying to help
Speaker 1: me out, help her friend Rebecca out, who's new to town,
Speaker 1: and you know, somebody could show her around. So she's like,
Speaker 1: you don't date a lot, this girl's new to town.
Speaker 1: She'd clearly has nobody else to hang out with, so
Speaker 1: this can be a good opportunity for you, Charles, something
Speaker 1: like that. And what did you and Rebecca do on
Speaker 1: your date? We went to the park. We uh, well,
Speaker 1: at first, I will admit I kind of like Facebook's
Speaker 1: doctor a little bit. Um. I think I think that
Speaker 1: that is totally okay, that's normal. Yeah, yeah, okay, good.
Speaker 1: And I saw her picture and she was super cute,
Speaker 1: and I was almost like like, I'm second guessing myself now,
Speaker 1: I'm like, is she too cute for me? But I
Speaker 1: you know, I set up a date. We did it
Speaker 1: on a weekend, like a day date. I'm not the
Speaker 1: kind of guy that like goes want to go to barn,
Speaker 1: like get smashed or whatever. Yeah, so you're boring. So
Speaker 1: you're real baring, dude. That sounds actually refreshing Charles to
Speaker 1: not have the pressure of a night date. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: not the kind of guy that's going to like go
Speaker 1: to a bar and gets drunk. I mean, it's just
Speaker 1: like kind of not who you are, and you know,
Speaker 1: it's kind of like lowering people's inhibitions. It's like almost
Speaker 1: like kind of like tricking a girl to go with
Speaker 1: you because she smashed. Yeah. See what you described to
Speaker 1: me is my fantasy. I love it. That's that's a
Speaker 1: great date to me. But apparently not for you. No,
Speaker 1: not not for me personally. I understand why though, But
Speaker 1: I mean it's also not as safe at nighttime. You know,
Speaker 1: it's it's dark, and where are you hanging out like
Speaker 1: back alley at night? No, I don't know. I just
Speaker 1: that's when like you know, crime goes up at night. Yeah, understand,
Speaker 1: scary world out there, all right. So anyway, so you
Speaker 1: took her on a daytime date to the park during
Speaker 1: the day because the nighttime is too scared. So we
Speaker 1: went on a drive. We went to the park. I'm
Speaker 1: like kind of a nature loving guy. I was hoping
Speaker 1: she would be too. So you know, we went. I
Speaker 1: brought a blanket, went for a walk. We had brought
Speaker 1: a fritz Bee. It was fun. Well, define nature, define
Speaker 1: nature loving like you enjoy nature or you actually like
Speaker 1: love nature. I tried to refrain from going loving it
Speaker 1: that much. Okay, Well, I was if that happened on
Speaker 1: your first date, I could see why you're not getting
Speaker 1: a call back and why your coworker would stop talking
Speaker 1: to you. Like no I had I did not do
Speaker 1: that on the day. Okay, okay, So how was it.
Speaker 1: How was the conversation? Was it easy? Yeah? I thought
Speaker 1: it was great. We were laughing, we were talking. I
Speaker 1: mean whatever you would want a date to go. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: this was it. I thought, was is there anything in
Speaker 1: your mind that have gone wrong? I mean again, like
Speaker 1: I said, I'm second getting myself. Um, so you know,
Speaker 1: after the date, I drove her home. I wanted to
Speaker 1: be a gentleman, so you know, I'm like, I'm not
Speaker 1: going to go for a kiss or anything. But I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, we got to her place and
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, hold on, don't get out
Speaker 1: of the car, and I like ran around and opened
Speaker 1: the door for her. Yeah, that's nice. Yeah I thought so,
Speaker 1: But I don't know if maybe people don't do that anymore.
Speaker 1: She thought it was weird. I don't know, maybe that
Speaker 1: was nothing we've done second day updates before where a
Speaker 1: girl has been like, he's obviously a chauvin it's because
Speaker 1: he feels like he has to open my door. Remember
Speaker 1: that one. Yeah, but that was one person. I mean,
Speaker 1: the majority of people don't feel that way. How did
Speaker 1: you tell her to stay in the car? Maybe that
Speaker 1: weirded her out. Maybe you pulled up and you're like,
Speaker 1: stay in the car. I didn't use that exact way.
Speaker 1: You have two women who are not speaking to you
Speaker 1: right now because of something you did, and you literally
Speaker 1: can't think of anything other than I opened her car door.
Speaker 1: It sounds like a great no. I even I said,
Speaker 1: it's you know, it's hey, Could I call you again?
Speaker 1: She was like sure, And you know, I've called a
Speaker 1: couple of times. It's been like ten days. The only
Speaker 1: thing I got back with a text is said I'm
Speaker 1: busy and that's it, and then that's it, and then
Speaker 1: the co worker stopped talking to you. Weird. Do you
Speaker 1: work directly with this co workers you have to see
Speaker 1: him all the time or is it just somebody casually
Speaker 1: in your office? Yeah, it's it she and I. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I see her all the time. Like I'll literally go
Speaker 1: in the breaker and she'll leaves. WHOA, you must have
Speaker 1: done something pretty bad. Yeah, man, not in my memory. Now,
Speaker 1: you said you've been out of the dating world for
Speaker 1: a while. It's not because you're like married and they
Speaker 1: found that out right, No, I just don't. I don't
Speaker 1: really like tender or anything like that. Is I kind
Speaker 1: of want to meet somebody through people that I know
Speaker 1: hasn't happened for me. Okay, well, we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back and hopefully find out why she's not talking
Speaker 1: to you and your co worker isn't talking to you
Speaker 1: right after this when we get your second day up date. Okay, great, thanks,
Speaker 1: all right, man, hang on five brooking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Today's second dater is really living up to his namesake.
Speaker 1: In case you don't know where that music is, that's
Speaker 1: the theme to the Peanuts Charlie Brown and if you
Speaker 1: know anything about those stories, Charlie was always getting screwed
Speaker 1: over having the football yanked out from underneath him, never
Speaker 1: ending with him getting the girl and our second date
Speaker 1: up dator Today, his name is Charles, and Charles is
Speaker 1: going to see if he can change history and maybe
Speaker 1: do something good with his name, because he's apparently pissed
Speaker 1: off everybody that he knows, and he has no idea
Speaker 1: why he was set up by his co worker to
Speaker 1: go out on a date with a girl named Rebecca.
Speaker 1: They went out, had fun, according to him, but now
Speaker 1: after the date, she's not calling him back and the
Speaker 1: co worker won't talk to him. Charles, are you ready
Speaker 1: to see if you can change things for the name
Speaker 1: Charlie for good? All right? Oh yeah? Look at the
Speaker 1: passion in Charles's voice. Do you think your co worker
Speaker 1: isn't just talking to you. Maybe she feels guilty that
Speaker 1: you got set up with a girl that doesn't like
Speaker 1: you or something. Maybe that makes sense, But we're good friends,
Speaker 1: so I would think she would tell me, yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: there could be it could be just awkward for he, like, ah,
Speaker 1: that didn't work out. Now I don't know what to
Speaker 1: say to him. You know he's such a sad, pathetic
Speaker 1: man already. I don't want to make it worse. Oh, thanks, Brook,
Speaker 1: I'm glad I called the show today. Yeah, we are
Speaker 1: really helping you out. Man. Okay, I'm gonna doll the
Speaker 1: phone and get your second date update. All right, Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. I was looking for Rebecca. Rebecca, Hey, Rebecca,
Speaker 1: how are you? My name is Jubil and I host
Speaker 1: a morning radio show called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay, Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: do you have a few minut it's a talk. What
Speaker 1: is this about? My name is ju Bowl, Jubowl, Jebil, Yes,
Speaker 1: and host a morning radio show called Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. It's on in the morning. If you
Speaker 1: can't tell, I've said it like four times now. Okay, sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm new to town. I don't really know any video
Speaker 1: shows or anything. Yeah, I've heard that you're new in town.
Speaker 1: Welcome that's a creepy It's like we're the welcome committee suddenly.
Speaker 1: How do you know? I'm new? I know a lot
Speaker 1: about you, Rebecca, that's normal, that's how do you know
Speaker 1: a lot about me? Let me I'll explain. We do
Speaker 1: a segment on our show called the second date update. So,
Speaker 1: even though you're new in town, you went out on
Speaker 1: a date recently with one of our listeners, and he
Speaker 1: emailed us to see if we could find out what
Speaker 1: happened on your date and why you don't want to
Speaker 1: go out with him again. I'm assuming you're talking about Charles. Yes,
Speaker 1: I am. Unless you've been on a bunch of dates,
Speaker 1: I don't know this one. I haven't had time really. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: Charles is wondering why you don't want to go out
Speaker 1: with him again. He says he's tried to text you
Speaker 1: when you said you were busy, and then now you
Speaker 1: just stopped responding. Yeah, well I am busy. I'm getting
Speaker 1: set up and situated, and this is just weird. I
Speaker 1: understand that I don't like have many friends in town,
Speaker 1: and it's just like talking to a radio sa. Oh hey,
Speaker 1: we're your new friends. Now you don't need any other friends.
Speaker 1: We're the best friends you never wanted. Wow. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: then did you like your date with Charles? Was it fun?
Speaker 1: It was? Um, it was something, there was a date,
Speaker 1: it was it just maybe a little boring. I mean,
Speaker 1: it wasn't the most exciting date I've ever been on.
Speaker 1: I mean, would you mind telling us about the date
Speaker 1: in your own words? Because we actually talked to Charles
Speaker 1: about your date. He said that you guys went to
Speaker 1: the park and had a lot of fun. So he's
Speaker 1: gon used. I mean, he's nice at all, but I
Speaker 1: just I don't know. I got a really creepy vibe
Speaker 1: from him. Creepy. Yeah, we talked to him. I did
Speaker 1: not get a creepy vibe from him over the phone.
Speaker 1: Well neither did I at first, but didn't. Something happened.
Speaker 1: What happened, Well, when we went up to play frisbee,
Speaker 1: he left his phone on the blanket and I noticed
Speaker 1: his screen faver was um of my friend who set
Speaker 1: us up? Wait, the background on his phone was a
Speaker 1: picture of your friend. Yeah okay, but I mean he
Speaker 1: said they were really good friends. Was it like a
Speaker 1: picture of him and her? Yeah? No, It's like a
Speaker 1: candid shot, like she didn't even know it was kicking.
Speaker 1: It's weird. So it looks like he just took a
Speaker 1: picture of your friend, his coworker and saved it as
Speaker 1: the wallpaper on his phone. Yeah. Did you ask him
Speaker 1: about it? I did. I mentioned that I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: this Coppin. He's like, yeah, yeah, and then he started
Speaker 1: like talking about her and how close they are, but
Speaker 1: I know from her that they're not that close. So
Speaker 1: that was I mean, that was the creepers number one. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and is their number two? Because that's creepy enough for me.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I feel like we're jumped to conclusions. Well,
Speaker 1: he started gushing about her and just saying how amazing
Speaker 1: she was and talking about like, had it been a
Speaker 1: different time, who knows what would have happened between them.
Speaker 1: It was awkward. So on your first date with him,
Speaker 1: he's talking about how much he loves your friend basically, yeah, well,
Speaker 1: and when you talk to your friends. She had no
Speaker 1: idea that Charles has a crush on her. No, she
Speaker 1: had no idea. She said that he hard like they talk,
Speaker 1: but it's never anything deep. And then I told her
Speaker 1: that he had a picture on his phone and she
Speaker 1: was like, what that explains a lot, Rebecca, because not
Speaker 1: only have you not been talking to Charles, neither has
Speaker 1: his coworker. Yeah. Well, yeah, I mean she's like creeped
Speaker 1: down up and he's like the first day back at
Speaker 1: the office, she tried to avoid him, but he told
Speaker 1: us that you feel bad for him. It sounds like
Speaker 1: he took a candid picture of some girl and put
Speaker 1: it at as a screensaver on his phone. That's not
Speaker 1: that's creepy behavior. He doesn't have very good social etiquette,
Speaker 1: but he obviously has a crush on someone that's not you.
Speaker 1: So if somebody has a crush on somebody that can
Speaker 1: take a picture of them without all right, well let's
Speaker 1: how about this, Rebecca. I do have to let you
Speaker 1: know that Charles is actually on the other line listening
Speaker 1: and wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes,
Speaker 1: I am, Charles. You there, Yeah, I need myself. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think you do. Charles. Catherine and I are just friends,
Speaker 1: and I told you that on the date. Yeah. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't have a screensaver of my coworker on my phone.
Speaker 1: You know. I'm unusual to have pictures of your friends
Speaker 1: on your phone. Yeah, but as a screensaver, like that's
Speaker 1: kind of strange. It's not that. I mean I see
Speaker 1: her all the time, like as we walked to the office,
Speaker 1: so it's like a shot. What I like what I see?
Speaker 1: You took a wait, hold on, hold up, sorry, Charles,
Speaker 1: you took a photo of what you see on a
Speaker 1: daily basis when you walk by your coworker. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I took a photo of my friend as I see
Speaker 1: her in the office. Does she know that you took
Speaker 1: that picture? I mean, that's not important. It's just a pend.
Speaker 1: I think that is kind of important, Charles. Yet that's important.
Speaker 1: She doesn't know, obviously, And I told her what the
Speaker 1: picture was, and she doesn't even remember you taking it.
Speaker 1: It was just like her with a cup of coffee,
Speaker 1: with her hair like falling into her mouth, like. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's weird. I don't. I can't see her having a
Speaker 1: problem with it. She's not talking to you. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's obviously kind of creepy. I mean, I don't think
Speaker 1: he's meaning to be creepy. I just think Charles obviously
Speaker 1: have a crush on your coworker. No, I don't. We're
Speaker 1: just friends, you said, And another time that you guys
Speaker 1: might have been together, things worked out differently that you
Speaker 1: would be together. So it's not another time, it's this time.
Speaker 1: It's this time now, and we're just spend I mean,
Speaker 1: in another time, I could have been with Angelina and Jolie.
Speaker 1: I'm speculating. Hey, well, no matter what It's totally inappropriate
Speaker 1: on a first date to talk about how in love
Speaker 1: you are with somebody else when it's supposed to be
Speaker 1: about me, you know, I mean, that's just weird. I
Speaker 1: did not talk about how I was in love with her.
Speaker 1: I said that we could have been in love. But
Speaker 1: with your friends, Charles, you shouldn't bring up love and
Speaker 1: another woman's name like that your mom on a first date.
Speaker 1: I was just talking about how much I adored Katherine,
Speaker 1: her friend, which I think she would appreciate. Okay, you
Speaker 1: were talking about her hair, how shiny it was. You
Speaker 1: were talking about how strong she is a yoga she does.
Speaker 1: I mean, you went off about it was not like
Speaker 1: a normal friend conversation. It was like you had studied
Speaker 1: every inch of her, which is weird. She set us up.
Speaker 1: She knows me, uh not. When I'm talking to her,
Speaker 1: she says that she doesn't know you that well. She said,
Speaker 1: you're just coworkers. I can't believe you even told her
Speaker 1: all that that I talked about her. And then I
Speaker 1: have a picture on my phone that was that was
Speaker 1: a conversation with you, not her. Okay, well, she's my friend,
Speaker 1: and if somebody has a creepy picture of someone on
Speaker 1: the phone. I'm going to tell her. I told you
Speaker 1: that confidence, Charles. If you're not okay, if your picture
Speaker 1: isn't creepy, why did you have to tell her in confidence?
Speaker 1: You know you have different conversations with different people about
Speaker 1: different things. You guys, I feel Charles. I feel bad
Speaker 1: for you right now. You're learning a lot of stuff
Speaker 1: about yourself. I don't feel like you're creepy. Maybe you
Speaker 1: just need to admit that you did things that were
Speaker 1: wrong according to social Norris. I don't. I don't think
Speaker 1: it's wrong. They have a picture of your friends. Hey, Rebecca,
Speaker 1: would you like a second date with Charles? We will
Speaker 1: pay for it. No, No, I don't think so. Charles.
Speaker 1: You need to confess your love to your coworker friend.
Speaker 1: I told you, guys, I'm not in love with her.
Speaker 1: She's just my friends, and she happened to be like
Speaker 1: cool and awesome and pretty and like I'd like her
Speaker 1: a lot, But that doesn't mean we're anything more than friends. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, we got it, Charles, Rebecca, thank you for
Speaker 1: thank you for answering the phone, and welcome to town.
Speaker 1: Text in it seven eighty five nine two says that
Speaker 1: girl sound super insecure. I don't know if it's that
Speaker 1: or if she's correct, and that the dude she went
Speaker 1: out with has a crushed on his coworker talking about
Speaker 1: today's second date update if you missed it, this dude,
Speaker 1: Charles was set up by one of his co workers
Speaker 1: any out with a girl named Rebecca to picnic in
Speaker 1: the park. Afterwards, both Rebecca and his co worker wouldn't
Speaker 1: talk to Charles anymore, so we called Rebecca and she
Speaker 1: told us that she got a really creepy vibe from him.
Speaker 1: At one point, Charles left his phone on the picnic blanket,
Speaker 1: and Rebecca noticed that the screensaver was a candid photo
Speaker 1: of their mutual friend. Yeah, who had set them up?
Speaker 1: He had just taken a random photo of her and
Speaker 1: was using her as the background on his phone. Charles
Speaker 1: didn't deny the photo, but he insisted that they were
Speaker 1: just friends, and after that he went on to praise
Speaker 1: his coworker for being cool, pretty and awesome and said
Speaker 1: they could have been in love, but they weren't because
Speaker 1: they're just coworkers. But it sounds like he's in love
Speaker 1: with her. I don't think he's very self aware No, yeah,
Speaker 1: and the end. No second day update. Remember, if you
Speaker 1: want to do a second day update, just emailed the
Speaker 1: show and we will call the person who didn't call
Speaker 1: you back