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Speaker 1: Jebels second date of date. Going out on a date

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Speaker 1: and then there's the pressure of screwing things up and

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Speaker 1: what it was. Charles, how are you, hey, good man?

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm excited to be on your show.

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Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm loveless, I'm friendless, I'm cool. Sounds like

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Speaker 1: you killed it on your first date. Many, I killed

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Speaker 1: And Rebecca was set up by a friend of yours. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: me is my fantasy. I love it. That's that's a

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Speaker 1: right after this when we get your second day up date. Okay, great, thanks,

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Speaker 1: all right, man, hang on five brooking jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Today's second dater is really living up to his namesake.

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Speaker 1: In case you don't know where that music is, that's

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Speaker 1: the theme to the Peanuts Charlie Brown and if you

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Speaker 1: know anything about those stories, Charlie was always getting screwed

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Speaker 1: over having the football yanked out from underneath him, never

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Speaker 1: Charlie for good? All right? Oh yeah? Look at the

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Speaker 1: passion in Charles's voice. Do you think your co worker

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. I was looking for Rebecca. Rebecca, Hey, Rebecca,

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Speaker 1: how are you? My name is Jubil and I host

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Speaker 1: a morning radio show called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: We're the best friends you never wanted. Wow. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: then did you like your date with Charles? Was it fun?

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Speaker 1: Well neither did I at first, but didn't. Something happened.

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