Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: One or two point seven Kiss FM. So they did
Speaker 3: a big survey. This is something I was reading. What
Speaker 3: percentage of Americans would tell a close friend under certain
Speaker 3: circumstances these things. So, for example, would you tell a
Speaker 3: close friend that they have body odor?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: I wouldn't what I would had this happened to me before,
Speaker 3: and we the friends, talked about it, but we were
Speaker 3: too shy to address it with the friend that had
Speaker 3: the boh, you're.
Speaker 4: Saying close friend, like those friends you're.
Speaker 2: Like, hey, you have a funk every time you come around.
Speaker 1: I couldn't say to this person.
Speaker 3: I felt too bad about it, so I would just
Speaker 3: deal with the funk.
Speaker 1: And we were like, do you when you are you
Speaker 1: smell that? Yeah? I smell that, but you can't say anything,
Speaker 1: so we wouldn't do it.
Speaker 3: Sixty six percent of Americas say they would tell their friend.
Speaker 4: Yes, I think it's okay.
Speaker 3: Would you tell a close friend they're being cheated on?
Speaker 3: We talked about this through Ryan's roses before. No, I
Speaker 3: would not being cheated on, Like.
Speaker 5: If I had facts and evidence, then maybe I would
Speaker 5: I think it's best.
Speaker 1: To stay out of me if it were.
Speaker 4: A best friend, I a close friend, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think I would either way.
Speaker 5: Fifty nine percent of Americans would. I would need the
Speaker 5: facts so I couldn't just go by like hearsay.
Speaker 1: How about bad breath? Do you ever talk about that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a big believer and if you have it all.
Speaker 1: Your student fifty of America would do the same thing.
Speaker 6: Becca once told me my breath smelled and I it
Speaker 6: like scarred me for life. Now I feel like I'm
Speaker 6: so paranoid about it. I bring my tongue scraper everywhere.
Speaker 4: That was good.
Speaker 1: That helped. Uh, okay, let's see what these are like things.
Speaker 3: Would you tell a best friend or good friendness Would
Speaker 3: you tell them that they are a bad tipper?
Speaker 4: Yes, no, I don't think I would. I'd be like,
Speaker 4: why be so cheap? Like give more money for Americans?
Speaker 3: Would tell Would you tell a friend that they're not
Speaker 3: a good cook when they cook for you?
Speaker 2: Oh? No, I would just Yeah. I would just eat
Speaker 2: it and enjoy it and never come back.
Speaker 1: I can't.
Speaker 3: They're going to talk to Alfonso in the back room
Speaker 3: said he's been called out for his bo before Alfonso
Speaker 3: bringing in fun So what was the was the smell Offonso?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 7: You know.
Speaker 8: I've heard onions before.
Speaker 3: I've got he gets right up onto Mi.
Speaker 8: No, okay, No, I I am a. I am a
Speaker 8: big supporter of like old spice, so I'm wearing old
Speaker 8: spice right now. You know, Bathom body Works has a
Speaker 8: great men's collection that I started working. I at least
Speaker 8: showered like twice a day, especially after the gym because
Speaker 8: like Jim funk is like a special kind of funk thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that one's like saltine.
Speaker 3: Funny how we we can't smell it. Sometimes we think
Speaker 3: we don't smell what we do. MICHAELA, you're you're one
Speaker 3: centimeter from Alfonso?
Speaker 1: Any honest?
Speaker 2: No, Now, I will be honest.
Speaker 4: But you smell great.
Speaker 1: No mau the onion smell. No Videlia smell MAUI onion.
Speaker 8: The only thing I had was a pack of original
Speaker 8: son chips and so no French onion for me today.
Speaker 3: Yeah, to keep them keeping breakfast the champs. A French
Speaker 3: onion gets on your tongue. It's kiss FM. This is
Speaker 3: something I wanted to share with you. I have a
Speaker 3: if you are a I don't even the word enthusiast.
Speaker 3: Isn't it big enough? If you are obsessed with your
Speaker 3: coffee in the morning, if it is one of the
Speaker 3: most important things in your life. There could be a person,
Speaker 3: another important thing in your life, a relationship, but coffee.
Speaker 3: How excited are you to get up and have your
Speaker 3: first cup?
Speaker 1: Now? I'm obsessed. I love it.
Speaker 3: I like it black. I drink one called Pacha Mama.
Speaker 3: That's the brand I use. I grind my beans, I
Speaker 3: use my Queasin art. It is a morning ceremony that
Speaker 3: quite frankly, keeps me smiling. But listen to this. This
Speaker 3: is a new invention and I'm so into it. I
Speaker 3: cannot wait to get it control.
Speaker 2: You know what.
Speaker 4: I was curious to see if you would be into this.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I love this idea. It's spreadable coffee. Oh,
Speaker 3: spreadable coffee in a tube.
Speaker 4: It looks like toothpaste, like black toothpaste.
Speaker 3: It comes in a toothpaste tube and it comes out
Speaker 3: like tar, but it's it's one hundred percent coffee and
Speaker 3: sweetened with organic Swiss beet sugar. And you put it
Speaker 3: on your nuts, or you put it on your toast.
Speaker 1: You put it on any weird. It looks like black
Speaker 1: oil paint.
Speaker 2: It really does. It looks like you're gonna do an
Speaker 2: art project.
Speaker 3: Coffee flavor spread I mean we have that. It's like
Speaker 3: new Telebate coffee.
Speaker 4: I don't need that.
Speaker 2: How do you measure this though?
Speaker 3: Because I was thinking about what okay, well, what's your jolt?
Speaker 3: I mean, if you spread it all over a piece
Speaker 3: of toast? How many cups of coffee? Exactly a tube?
Speaker 3: So there's a tube which is seventeen bucks is equivalent
Speaker 3: to twenty cups of coffee.
Speaker 5: So I don't know, you do the math, no, liken,
Speaker 5: Just like a two little squirts of that that looks
Speaker 5: like two and a half cups plus the cup you're having.
Speaker 3: Like, that's a lot of credible coffee and portable coffee.
Speaker 3: Like you can throw this in your purse. It's called
Speaker 3: no normal coffee. If you're interested, no normal coffee, We're
Speaker 3: gonna order some here and try it. Oh wow, but
Speaker 3: it's life changing. Congratulations to these coffee tubers. Spreadable coffee.
Speaker 3: Can you imagine?
Speaker 6: But I think I also think not one cup of
Speaker 6: coffee is the same for everybody, you know, because like
Speaker 6: I could drink a cup of coffee at ten pm,
Speaker 6: go to sleep at ten thirty.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I cannot do that.
Speaker 2: I can't do that.
Speaker 4: So it doesn't like.
Speaker 6: Affect me like it affects Sidney. She has like one
Speaker 6: sip of something and she's like, I can't have a
Speaker 6: coffee pass like noon.
Speaker 3: Well, I'm gonna see if you have a toast with
Speaker 3: this spread on it, how you act after?
Speaker 2: I mean, if it tastes good, maybe.
Speaker 3: All right, So check that out if you're interested, they
Speaker 3: can I guess it's only online.
Speaker 1: They can send it to you.
Speaker 3: Well, it's one of two point seven Kiss FM. Last
Speaker 3: week on the show, Sisney and Tany happened to notice
Speaker 3: that my upper arm looked a little different than it.
Speaker 3: There's a barbed wire on my bicep. Now, if you
Speaker 3: look closely, very MAUI of you. So we put it
Speaker 3: on Instagram and I just want to read some of
Speaker 3: the comments.
Speaker 1: I haven't talking about this for years.
Speaker 3: Does my body deserve a tattoo?
Speaker 4: A good tattoo?
Speaker 1: Excuse me? Have I worked hard enough on some body
Speaker 1: parts that it deserves some art.
Speaker 6: The body part that you have this barbed wire around
Speaker 6: is nice placement, I will say.
Speaker 1: So you liked my tattoo.
Speaker 4: Tattoo, But I like the placement of it.
Speaker 6: I like you having a tattoo right there, because your
Speaker 6: arms are your best asset.
Speaker 4: They are big, they are strong.
Speaker 1: Do you know that that's my best asset?
Speaker 2: I see you every day? Yeah, you don't know that
Speaker 2: that's the best.
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about that.
Speaker 6: What this is not.
Speaker 1: We're talking about this tattoo right here on my arm.
Speaker 4: I'm giving you a compliment saying your arms are nice.
Speaker 3: Well, Diana, So these are some listeners are tattoo Diana, Ryan,
Speaker 3: This tattoo is so outdated.
Speaker 2: I agree.
Speaker 1: Annie.
Speaker 3: Please tell me it's fake or we're back in the nineties.
Speaker 3: Concur Lane never thought i'd see the day Ryan will
Speaker 3: get a tattoo. Kendra, I think I might be in shock.
Speaker 3: Someone has been Oh she was actually a compliment. She
Speaker 3: put a fire Emojo.
Speaker 4: She put that bicip though fire.
Speaker 1: Nita, kendraut. Someone has been lifting Jody? Why barbed wire?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm with Jody.
Speaker 1: Does that symbolize something.
Speaker 2: She's trying to be nice?
Speaker 1: Does it? I don't know if it does. I didn't
Speaker 1: look up the chat GPT. What does barbar mean?
Speaker 5: Maybe it was special to you like, maybe your great
Speaker 5: grandfather also had a barbed wire tattoo.
Speaker 3: Maybe yeah, yeah, you're pmaged. Oh.
Speaker 6: Barbed wire symbolizes strength, resilience, rebellion, and protection.
Speaker 1: So there you go.
Speaker 3: Also put it up at prisons, so you know, christa
Speaker 3: Alli band would look better not feeling the wire, Ryan.
Speaker 1: But Ryan should definitely get a sleeve.
Speaker 3: Wow, that's really going in listener responses to my tattoo,
Speaker 3: and they weren't great.
Speaker 1: Joe Anne bicy looks good.
Speaker 3: I'm not a tattoo girl, but on the bicep on
Speaker 3: a guy, it's okay, just saying. Sierra, who works here, commented,
Speaker 3: and what did she say? It's giving, Ryan Philippy, it's.
Speaker 4: Giving, Ryan Philippi vibes.
Speaker 2: Vibes kinda is giving.
Speaker 4: Ryan Philippi vibes.
Speaker 1: Well that's not is that bad?
Speaker 3: It's okay, that's good ej who works here, commented on
Speaker 3: my tattoo. Honestly, I thought his first tattoo would be
Speaker 3: the on air logo you're not going to laughing emotion.
Speaker 3: And finally, Roseanne the only real one that liked it. Listening,
Speaker 3: you got a tattoo, Ryan, It's awesome.
Speaker 1: I like it. I have to admit it's fake. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what you mean, of course it is? It doesn't look real?
Speaker 4: Is it still there?
Speaker 3: I can't get to it right now. I can't get
Speaker 3: to it. It's too way up here on my bicset.
Speaker 3: It was a test run to see what feedback I
Speaker 3: would get, So I don't know either I picked the
Speaker 3: wrong one.
Speaker 1: I might sure the scorpion next time.
Speaker 2: You picked the wrong one.
Speaker 1: Well, the fake ones are not. There's only butterflies.
Speaker 4: Barbed wire butterfly would be nice.
Speaker 3: And then there's the one with mom heart and the
Speaker 3: arrow through it. Try hennah, that's that's more of a commitment,
Speaker 3: isn't it. Yeah, And you have to sit down and
Speaker 3: have them do it. This thing I put on like
Speaker 3: one minute, Yes.
Speaker 5: I know, I put them on my kids all the time,
Speaker 5: pop control usually.
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's the thing that was like,
Speaker 3: it doesn't it doesn't work. I just picked the wrong tattoo.
Speaker 3: But man, am I glad I gave it a testra
Speaker 3: before I committed to something like yeah, right, that was
Speaker 3: kind of good.
Speaker 1: One of two point seven kiss up.
Speaker 3: So your phone it's listening to you, right, I mean
Speaker 3: I it's like I breathe a thought, and all of
Speaker 3: a sudden it ads for shoes come up on my
Speaker 3: or workout clothes come up and my feet.
Speaker 5: Yep.
Speaker 3: So maybe they're listening. Maybe they're not. I think they are.
Speaker 3: But you can make sure they're not doing this. If
Speaker 3: you don't want them to listen, go to settings, scroll
Speaker 3: down to the apps, click on the suspected app and
Speaker 3: turn off microphone. If you do authorize Mike access, it
Speaker 3: is legal for them to listen.
Speaker 1: Crazy not even when you're using it app.
Speaker 4: This is all the apps. You can't just do this
Speaker 4: on like a one setting.
Speaker 5: You have to do it, like for Instagram, you have
Speaker 5: to do it, for Target, you have to do it
Speaker 5: for all the apps that have a microphone.
Speaker 1: Well, take twenty seven minutes and do it. I'm fine,
Speaker 1: you have me too, all right.
Speaker 3: Today's quote here it is quote every day you are
Speaker 3: the sky. Everything else is just the weather.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 6: Oh right, good like good comms, bad coms. Weather changes,
Speaker 6: but the sky stays the same.
Speaker 3: Ye, So stay blue when you get above the clouds,
Speaker 3: it's always blue.
Speaker 1: Can't set them. Well. Rachel's on the phone, Good morning, Rachel,
Speaker 1: how you doing?
Speaker 9: Hi?
Speaker 10: Good things.
Speaker 3: I wanted to take your call because I just was.
Speaker 3: I get a call screen of all the lines and
Speaker 3: I can see it, says Rachel. I saw my boss
Speaker 3: watching something in a photo he sent me. So, your
Speaker 3: your boss sent you a photo, but in the background,
Speaker 3: you saw him watching provocative videos.
Speaker 10: Yes, that is correct.
Speaker 1: Was it a still shot?
Speaker 10: Yeah, it was a picture of my invoice because I
Speaker 10: worked from home, and so I asked him if he
Speaker 10: could send me a picture of it, and he was
Speaker 10: holding it in front of his computer.
Speaker 1: Oh and his computer had adult things on it. Uh
Speaker 1: huh and ouch? Oops, did you tell him yet that
Speaker 1: you saw it?
Speaker 2: Sawid weird?
Speaker 4: I don't know what to do.
Speaker 10: I waited a couple of minutes to respond, and he
Speaker 10: must have finally realized that it was in the background,
Speaker 10: and so we unsent the picture and then resent it
Speaker 10: without anything in the background.
Speaker 3: Okay, first of all, so everybody check your background, check
Speaker 3: the articles, the things that whatever's in your background, Like,
Speaker 3: take a look.
Speaker 4: I means happen. This is not a mistake.
Speaker 2: He did not know. The fact that he's watching dirty
Speaker 2: videos at work is not a mistake.
Speaker 3: Like, wait, was he at home or work?
Speaker 1: I was picturing it at home after hours?
Speaker 4: Okay, this is like during work hours.
Speaker 5: Well, Rachel is like what kind of project you're working on?
Speaker 2: And whatever?
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know why. I was like he always
Speaker 1: at homeworking.
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe he's mistakes still happened.
Speaker 3: So but inappropriate at work completely? Yeah, Rachel, Now it's
Speaker 3: your boss, so we need to think carefully.
Speaker 1: What do we do? Do you go to h R like,
Speaker 1: what do you want to do?
Speaker 10: I don't know? He he re like I haven't even responded.
Speaker 10: Do I say things and act like I didn't see that?
Speaker 5: He?
Speaker 3: I think you don't respond erase it and let's just
Speaker 3: move on, right, it's not great?
Speaker 5: Maybe yeah, strike one and then if it happens again,
Speaker 5: it's just like this is too much.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just I mean, it fits me and this
Speaker 3: is not maybe good advice, but I would just like
Speaker 3: move on.
Speaker 4: Oh but like how uncomfortable now.
Speaker 3: Look at But he probably knows you saw it, so
Speaker 3: maybe he's that's him appropriate. It's all bad on him too,
Speaker 3: It's all bad on him, but it is your boss.
Speaker 3: Oh I feel hunger pangs.
Speaker 2: Do you still have the original picture?
Speaker 1: I send it?
Speaker 6: I didn't screenshot it now, Oh, but you should check
Speaker 6: your computer because sometimes when you unsend.
Speaker 2: It still goes to your other right and it goes
Speaker 2: to other devices.
Speaker 1: Okay, check that, and so check it.
Speaker 5: Keep it as evidence because if you ever tried to
Speaker 5: pull something fishy down that road, to try to like
Speaker 5: fire you or do something weird because he's uncomfortable, then
Speaker 5: you have evidence.
Speaker 10: Okay, interesting, I like that idea.
Speaker 1: Thank you. You've been watching your honor.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the court of law.
Speaker 1: Yeah, good luck.
Speaker 3: I'm not messing around following the facts and the evidence here, Rachel,
Speaker 3: thank you very much.
Speaker 1: I mean, look, if she's.
Speaker 3: Uncomfortable, go to HR talk about it. If she's not,
Speaker 3: move on. Yeah, oh I'm mean. In Southgate, I got Ariana. Hi,
Speaker 3: Arianna in Southgate. How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 4: I'm good?
Speaker 2: How are you?
Speaker 1: Super good? Thank you?
Speaker 3: So you have something for us. Your friends started dating
Speaker 3: a trainer you liked. Yes, tell me the story though.
Speaker 9: So, yeah, me and my friend we were both single
Speaker 9: and we work out together, and I mentioned to her
Speaker 9: that I thought the trainer was cute, and so I
Speaker 9: asked him if he had a girlfriend, and he said
Speaker 9: he did, so I kind of was just like, okay,
Speaker 9: you know, I'll move on, and oh well, but then
Speaker 9: I found out that my friend actually like went behind
Speaker 9: my back and left her number for him and he
Speaker 9: texted her. So I don't know. I feel like she
Speaker 9: lied to me or or he lied to me about
Speaker 9: being in a relationship and then she kind of went
Speaker 9: behind my back, And I just don't know. Do I
Speaker 9: need a new trainer or a new friend or am
Speaker 9: I just being dramatic?
Speaker 1: Wow, those are some choices. What do you think, Sysney.
Speaker 2: Tanya trainers come and go.
Speaker 5: I wouldn't get too far into it, Yeah, because do
Speaker 5: you really want to lose a friendship over this?
Speaker 9: I mean, it just feels shady that she knew I
Speaker 9: was into him and then she kind of went behind
Speaker 9: my back and gave him her number.
Speaker 1: Anyway, Yeah, I think.
Speaker 3: I'm not so sure this is worth like not being
Speaker 3: friends with. I think this is a direct address, so
Speaker 3: you directly address the issue with Hey, I got to
Speaker 3: tell you something.
Speaker 1: I love you, but I think it.
Speaker 3: Was totally uncool for you to do this behind my
Speaker 3: back when you know that I was vibing or wanted
Speaker 3: to vibe with this trainer, and you kind of did
Speaker 3: this knowing that, which feels awkward and feels like intentional.
Speaker 5: Do you know she if she did it before or
Speaker 5: after you guys talked about this.
Speaker 9: I think it was right after. That's what's weird about it.
Speaker 9: It was right after he told me that he had
Speaker 9: a girlfriend. So I don't know if he doesn't have
Speaker 9: a girlfriend or she doesn't care that he has a girlfriend.
Speaker 9: But either way, they were.
Speaker 5: Already like for months before this and she didn't tell you.
Speaker 9: That would be super shady.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't lose the friendship, but I would deal with
Speaker 3: this directly, and the words I would use are, this
Speaker 3: is uncool and the fun intentional.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not a bad approach, and let.
Speaker 1: Let this person respond to that. Let your friend respond yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: put it on him.
Speaker 6: I mean, when you're dating, it's like the wild World West.
Speaker 6: You know, the Wow Wow West.
Speaker 1: What do you know about dating?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 1: I know the last time you went on a date.
Speaker 6: I went on several hundreds of dates, and there was
Speaker 6: so many complications because I like, I liked a trainer,
Speaker 6: My friend liked a trainer. We both like the same guy.
Speaker 6: You just just it's all a mess. You just gotta
Speaker 6: throw your hat in the ring and pray.
Speaker 3: I don't pray before my dates. Maybe that's what I'm
Speaker 3: missing exactly.
Speaker 1: Pray. I'm gonna I almost called you.
Speaker 3: I almost said, all right, I'm gonna go to thank
Speaker 3: you for calling Ariana.
Speaker 1: Hariana, thank you for listening. You take care, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you?
Speaker 3: Ye yeah, Ariana Grande calling in about you know that
Speaker 3: issue with a friend.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 3: One of two point seven Kiss FM. One of two
Speaker 3: point seven Kiss FM. Jackie is on the line in Downy.
Speaker 3: Good morning, Jackie. It's Ryan Seacrest, It's Tanya, It's Disney.
Speaker 1: How are you.
Speaker 11: I am good, I'm okay.
Speaker 3: You're asking I'm all right, But you're asking yourself what
Speaker 3: we all do? We all do these little things and
Speaker 3: we say, am I a bad human because of it?
Speaker 9: So?
Speaker 1: What is your bad human moment?
Speaker 11: About my boyfriend and I. We've been dating for almost
Speaker 11: two years now, I think, and this mom and I
Speaker 11: have a really weird relationship. I should say my boyfriend
Speaker 11: with like, my relationship with my boyfriend has been great.
Speaker 11: We rarely argue. We're very very much in love. But
Speaker 11: his mother is always saying to me how lucky I
Speaker 11: am to be dating a guy like him, like stuff
Speaker 11: like like you must thank your lucky stars. You ended
Speaker 11: up with a guy like my son, and you sure
Speaker 11: are lucky to have ended up with my son. Likes
Speaker 11: that's exactly how she sounds horrible, But like I just like,
Speaker 11: I smile and I just say, yeah, that's what I say.
Speaker 11: I just say like, yeah, he makes me very happy,
Speaker 11: or something like, you know, something along those lines. But
Speaker 11: last weekend I snapped she did it again, and I
Speaker 11: wasn't in the mood, and I just said, well, I
Speaker 11: think he's just as lucky to be with me as
Speaker 11: I am with him.
Speaker 4: I don't think that's not that bad.
Speaker 11: No, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3: Need a reenactant of the tone, because it's like, how
Speaker 3: did you say, be like, yeah, right, we're looking at
Speaker 3: each other, we're both lucky.
Speaker 5: I honestly I said it.
Speaker 11: Yeah, I said it like that. I said, you know,
Speaker 11: I think that he's just as lucky to be with
Speaker 11: me as I am with him, with a big smile
Speaker 11: on my face, very loving. I even I kissed him
Speaker 11: on the cheek directly after I said that, So it
Speaker 11: was not then get ready for this she she laughs,
Speaker 11: and she goes, well, you have to admit it's not
Speaker 11: the same thing. So here's what she's getting at. My
Speaker 11: family it is pretty middle class. You know, I didn't
Speaker 11: grow up super poor, but like we didn't go on
Speaker 11: big vacations or anything. And his family has a big
Speaker 11: house in a gated community, an infinity pool and two
Speaker 11: Tesla's and blah blah blah blah blah. Okay, but to
Speaker 11: be clear, I don't care about any of that. But
Speaker 11: that's what she was getting at. That's what she cares about.
Speaker 11: So anyway, when she he said that it's not the
Speaker 11: same thing, I snapped and I said, you should keep
Speaker 11: in mind that he's unemployed and with his worthless college degree,
Speaker 11: he's probably going to be for a long time. For
Speaker 11: the record, he was a music theory major and like
Speaker 11: basically does nothing all day.
Speaker 4: So this is so juicy.
Speaker 2: I'm very invested.
Speaker 3: So, uh, are you a bad human? You're not a
Speaker 3: bad human. We all ask ourselves that we have these
Speaker 3: moments where we think we could be. But I mean,
Speaker 3: with this situation, I feel like it's almost best you
Speaker 3: don't engage with the mom on it.
Speaker 1: Like, what's the point it just becomes petty.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's never going to change, you know what I mean?
Speaker 5: You got to just take her for who she is
Speaker 5: and underneath your skin. Yeah, she's gonna always make comments
Speaker 5: like this and you can't let it get to you.
Speaker 4: Or you can apologize.
Speaker 6: If you're feeling guilty, you can apologize to her for
Speaker 6: the way that you said it, and then you have
Speaker 6: to just move on and be like, I apologize, I
Speaker 6: did my part and I have to move on.
Speaker 2: Yes, I agree with that.
Speaker 1: I don't want to apologize.
Speaker 2: I know you don't want.
Speaker 1: To, but it might just be the best way tot
Speaker 1: moo thing.
Speaker 5: You don't want her to have more animosity to be
Speaker 5: mad at you, and you know what, the tension to
Speaker 5: build exactly, especially if you love. If you apologize, then
Speaker 5: she's going to be like Lea she apologized. You know
Speaker 5: that you're gonna get that reaction probably, which is not great.
Speaker 3: But I think they have a good point. She's not
Speaker 3: gonna change Grin and Barrett. That's what my mommy used
Speaker 3: to say, just grin and bear.
Speaker 4: Grin and Barrett so well.
Speaker 3: Said was the name of a person. I'm like, who's
Speaker 3: barrett words? Grin and bear with it? Jackie, good luck
Speaker 3: on this, Thanks for listening to us, Thanks for calling.
Speaker 11: Oh my gosh, thank you so much.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're not a bad human No, but Grin
Speaker 2: and Barrett.
Speaker 1: On air with Ryan seacrets.
Speaker 3: One of two point seven kissed up them. By the way,
Speaker 3: Tony did that? Did you record the playlist that that
Speaker 3: DJ mixed for you guys to have?
Speaker 4: It's so good?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 1: Did you get it recorded?
Speaker 4: I think I could get a copy. I requested all
Speaker 4: those songs.
Speaker 1: I want it. I think it's fair to ask.
Speaker 5: I can ask for sure it's not a copy.
Speaker 1: But I bet he recorded his mix.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I bet he did.
Speaker 1: I could definitely ask. I think they record their mixes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think so. They create a file.
Speaker 6: Yeah, because all those songs that he played were on
Speaker 6: our request list.
Speaker 3: I love all those songs. I kind of want the
Speaker 3: mix of them. Yeah, okay, and I'll label it your
Speaker 3: wedding playlist or something ya rad yad playlist. Yeah, but
Speaker 3: I kind of loved it. It was like a mix of everything.
Speaker 3: I meant to ask you in the moment, but I
Speaker 3: thought that was it wasn't like the right moment to ask.
Speaker 1: You were cutting cake and stuff.
Speaker 2: Anyway into apt I know I.
Speaker 1: Missed that part. What did you do? Because you kept
Speaker 1: talking about the dessert, but it never came.
Speaker 4: It did come.
Speaker 5: I totally missed the dessert. I like to remember seeing it,
Speaker 5: and I mean like, yeah, I'll come back. And then
Speaker 5: we were just dancing and then I went back to sell.
Speaker 4: The table that came at nine.
Speaker 1: No, it did not come at nine. Then I missed it,
Speaker 1: missed it.
Speaker 4: You had to go. It didn't come to your plate,
Speaker 4: You had to go get it.
Speaker 1: Well, made an announcement.
Speaker 4: Did it get eaten? Did I just threw it away?
Speaker 4: Freaking out? That was why we didn't get a cake,
Speaker 4: because we loved.
Speaker 1: Because she goes to me, are you eating sugar these days?
Speaker 1: Because the dessert's insane.
Speaker 6: There's like a chocolate hazelnut ice cream like bar basically,
Speaker 6: and then like banana, you needed someone to like pass
Speaker 6: the mountain trays.
Speaker 5: At our wedding, we had a late night snack and
Speaker 5: nobody was going to eat it.
Speaker 2: And then eventually they just started breaking.
Speaker 3: Post warning pass out and get a glass for the
Speaker 3: breaking of the glass. Okay, like those are the notes.
Speaker 3: Now we know, Now we know Michaela's first date questions.
Speaker 3: Here we go, MICHAELA, What's what's set this up for us?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 7: So I saw this article on the Huffington Post and
Speaker 7: they had questions from therapists to ask on a first
Speaker 7: date for compatibility. So basically, if you ask these questions
Speaker 7: early on, you can find red flags and green flag early. Okay,
Speaker 7: all right, all right, So I want to know if
Speaker 7: you guys think I should ask these on my future dates?
Speaker 1: Well, all right, okay.
Speaker 7: Number one, what would your exes say if I asked
Speaker 7: them what it's like to be in a relationship with you?
Speaker 3: I mean it's a bit bold, like it because I
Speaker 3: love I love, I like it. Maybe just not as
Speaker 3: the first question, but.
Speaker 1: It's okay, okay.
Speaker 7: And number two, what are you doing in life now
Speaker 7: that would make your future self proud?
Speaker 4: That one confuses me. I have to get I think
Speaker 4: that hard. Yeah, okay.
Speaker 7: Number three, what were the big and small differences that
Speaker 7: you and your exes had in the past?
Speaker 4: Too much?
Speaker 7: How do you handle feedback given from your partner when
Speaker 7: they have an issue about you or the release?
Speaker 1: These are way too wow?
Speaker 4: What what's your lave language?
Speaker 7: I feel like someone that Yeah, I mean, I feel
Speaker 7: like this one is good because you can find out,
Speaker 7: like you know, if they're gaslighting their ex partner or
Speaker 7: being honest or maybe taking responsibility.
Speaker 1: Dark already about the X. It's X heavy.
Speaker 5: It's X heavy, so I shouldn't ask is there another
Speaker 5: one that's that's not about an X?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 3: I mean all these are like how do you handle feedback?
Speaker 3: Give them for your partner when they are have an
Speaker 3: issue that's dark? I kind of like a little more.
Speaker 3: Uh so when you're not what do you do for work?
Speaker 7: Right?
Speaker 3: When you're not doing that? Like what occupies your time?
Speaker 3: Where's your brain going?
Speaker 1: Like? What do you like to do to to fulfill
Speaker 1: your brain? Your time?
Speaker 3: And you know that kind of what do you watch him?
Speaker 3: What are you listening to? A superficial?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: These are fine later but way X heavy and no,
Speaker 3: don't go negative.
Speaker 5: You know these are bad if you like folded them
Speaker 5: up and put them in a fish bowl and then
Speaker 5: like they had like it was a game.
Speaker 3: I mean, how about what do you like to eat?
Speaker 3: Are you watching white lotus? Let's start there?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Good? Now are you saf or see? What's your palate?
Speaker 4: Language? Is also a really good one right out the gate.
Speaker 1: I think that's a good one actually, and yeah, it's
Speaker 1: very simple. What's mine?
Speaker 4: Yours is acts of service?
Speaker 2: Mine is words of affirmation?
Speaker 1: What's my mean?
Speaker 6: Acts of service is like let's say for people. Yeah, no, no,
Speaker 6: Like let's say you had, like you had to pick
Speaker 6: up your dry cleaning, you had to take Georgia somewhere,
Speaker 6: you had like all these airans to run, and you
Speaker 6: were like stressed out, and your partner just went and
Speaker 6: did like all those things.
Speaker 2: That's right.
Speaker 1: I think doing things for people.
Speaker 4: This is the way you like to receive love, not
Speaker 4: the way to give.
Speaker 1: What do I give?
Speaker 4: I don't know how you get? Wait, does that check out?
Speaker 5: If some someone did all those things for you, would
Speaker 5: you fall more in love with them absolutely?
Speaker 6: Or like or like you had a very stressful day
Speaker 6: at work and they knew you had a stressful day
Speaker 6: and then they drew you a bath and like put
Speaker 6: like your favorite glass of wine.
Speaker 4: Yeah that's service.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, if you're listening, yeah, yes, calling the ones.
Speaker 4: Yeah, DMS, calling the ones.
Speaker 1: Isn't that the work book you did?
Speaker 4: Calling in the one?
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah, mikaela rip up that paper all day,
Speaker 3: all day all they hit all the time. Originating out
Speaker 3: of Laah so High, you get it in Orange County,
Speaker 3: Vanjerry County, you get it all over the country. You
Speaker 3: get it all over the world. On iHeartRadio. But it
Speaker 3: originates from Los Angeles, the entertainment capital, the mosaic of cultures,
Speaker 3: best restaurants, food, that's just where we are people, those two.
Speaker 3: So there's a new trend that I'm reading about.
Speaker 1: I didn't read the whole thing, but.
Speaker 3: Basically they're calling it micro retiring, right, micro retiring.
Speaker 5: Yes, it's having a moment right now. It's exactly what
Speaker 5: it kind of sounds like. It's stepping away from your career,
Speaker 5: your job for an extended break and then eventually going
Speaker 5: back to it when you're ready, or when you're done
Speaker 5: with your micro retirement, you take a hiatus, yes, sabbatical
Speaker 5: or something like that. It's kind of like, right now
Speaker 5: we are grinding and working, and essentially you retire when
Speaker 5: you're sixty five, right, Yeah, So people are thinking, why
Speaker 5: wait until we're sixty five to kind of do some
Speaker 5: of the things on our bucket list that we want
Speaker 5: to do, whether it's traveling and this, you know, maybe
Speaker 5: starting a family, but like not having that crazy work life.
Speaker 5: So it's a micro retirement and then eventually you go
Speaker 5: back to your career when you're ready, assuming that you
Speaker 5: can jump right back in.
Speaker 2: And it's not an.
Speaker 3: Interesting Yeah, I'm just playing this out here. So if
Speaker 3: we took a micro retirement for a year, I think
Speaker 3: they'd replaced.
Speaker 4: It, I would think, So, I don't think this works for.
Speaker 2: Every job for sure.
Speaker 1: Hey, people forget about us in about a week.
Speaker 4: Uh huh.
Speaker 1: So what if we micro.
Speaker 3: Retire and just do like the eight o'clock hour or something.
Speaker 3: You know, it's like just do one hour at micro atime.
Speaker 5: But that's not really like retiring, because I think the
Speaker 5: whole point is to have days and weeks and months
Speaker 5: where you just are.
Speaker 4: Not doing your job.
Speaker 1: You guys, Fine, perfect, I got it.
Speaker 3: Why do you guys do three weeks and I'll do
Speaker 3: one a month and I'll micro retire.
Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm up there.
Speaker 4: I feel like that's not don't work.
Speaker 5: I don't know that it would work, but I mean
Speaker 5: it's the whole thing of like breaking the cycle of burnout.
Speaker 5: Does everyone feel that eventually at some point in their lives?
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah for sure.
Speaker 5: And then by the time we all are supposed to retire,
Speaker 5: are we going to be too tired to do.
Speaker 1: The things we wanted to do? Why? Wait?
Speaker 5: Yeah, So it's an interesting take on it. But if
Speaker 5: I guess if you can have the flexibility to do
Speaker 5: this by.
Speaker 3: All means Hi Los Angeles, Southern California, listening worldwide across
Speaker 3: the country.
Speaker 1: And the iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 3: So on social media, a lot of people talking about, hey,
Speaker 3: how is your mental health not great?
Speaker 1: Why? Because of my social media?
Speaker 3: And so they put a list of things, a bunch
Speaker 3: of things you can do that are sort of non
Speaker 3: therapy things to improve your mental health.
Speaker 1: I want to run through these and see what you think.
Speaker 3: Okay, so I want to Avon says, I do little
Speaker 3: favors for myself. Future me will love waking up to
Speaker 3: a clean room, fresh leftovers, fresh laundry. So she does
Speaker 3: little things for herself. Fine, she feels good. Just chores, Yeah, chores, right,
Speaker 3: page I like this. One page doesn't say I'm sorry
Speaker 3: for everything, like I'm always I'm sorry. I'm sorry, I'm right,
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, myny way, I'm sorry. Can I get it?
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry. Are you using that
Speaker 3: bench track? I'm so sorry using that way.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: To stop it.
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm going to because page says, yeah, not apologizing
Speaker 3: for things is a game changer. You don't have to
Speaker 3: be sorry for everything. Yeah, all right, Louise says, all
Speaker 3: those things I've been saving for a special occasion, I
Speaker 3: do them now.
Speaker 1: Good for your mental health?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can see that.
Speaker 3: Complimenting a random person. Zoe says, I made my room
Speaker 3: comfortable with warm and lightning. I like that. Becca says
Speaker 3: saying no. Saying no is so powerful for mental health. Right,
Speaker 3: stop watching the news. That's another one that's better for
Speaker 3: mental health. Ken Dole says as saying I'm so brave
Speaker 3: before doing anything that makes me nervous.
Speaker 4: I can see that.
Speaker 1: Talk little pep talk McKenzie.
Speaker 3: These are people that are tapping into helm for mental
Speaker 3: health out therapy. Mackenzie says, do not disturb literally twenty
Speaker 3: four to seven.
Speaker 2: Oh, like, she has her do not disturb on her
Speaker 2: phone she's.
Speaker 1: Wearing around her head.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and wells just says, don't rush.
Speaker 1: Slow it down. Oh yeah, I am a rusher.
Speaker 3: I am a full time rusher, so I want to
Speaker 3: slow it down a bit.
Speaker 2: That's all stress.
Speaker 1: I want to two seven.
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Speaker 5: Sure?
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