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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Ryan,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: Hey how are you. We're doing great.

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Speaker 1: Uh, so we're trying to figure out why this woman

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Speaker 1: Fiona who you met is not calling you back after you,

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Speaker 1: guys went on a date that I assume you thought

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Speaker 1: was successful. So you got to tell us kind of

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Speaker 1: all the backstory. How did you guys meet? Uh, tell

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Speaker 1: us about any dates that you've been on, and then

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Speaker 1: where where we are now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 3: So we met on the apps.

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Speaker 2: You know, I do know, sadly. Yeah, yeah, and.

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Speaker 3: You know, we we talked back and forth a little bit,

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Speaker 3: and you know, we exchanged numbers, and we texted back

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Speaker 3: and forth a bit, and and then we you know,

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Speaker 3: we went on a date, right, And the date was

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Speaker 3: fun and the good conversations, good, good time, tack my

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Speaker 3: own and we ended up going back to my place

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Speaker 3: to hang out afterwards, which I thought was a good sign.

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Speaker 3: You know, it was cool, and but you know I

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Speaker 3: was I was a total gentleman about the whole thing,

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Speaker 3: Like nothing happened. And then she headed out for the night.

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Speaker 3: And since then, nothing nothing, no no no calls, no text, no.

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Speaker 1: Nothing, okay, so back to your place. No, no crazy stuff,

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Speaker 1: because you say you were a gentleman, and but you

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Speaker 1: were pretty confident when she left that you would see

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Speaker 1: her again, as most people who call us are, oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, absolutely. And then you've reached out, you've called,

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Speaker 1: you've texted, no response, Yeah, okay, all right, Well let's

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Speaker 1: we have Fiona's number. We're going to play one song,

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Speaker 1: come back and in two minutes, and we'll call her

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Speaker 1: and we'll see if we can figure out what's going on.

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Speaker 1: The hope is that we can straighten things out and

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Speaker 1: then set you guys up on another day that we

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Speaker 1: pay for.

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Speaker 2: Sound good.

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Speaker 3: That sounded great.

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Speaker 2: Let's find out what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Part two of waiting at the phone after Cia back

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Speaker 1: in two minutes. It's the Fred Show. Hey Ryan, Hey,

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Speaker 1: all right, welcome back. Let's call Fiona. You guys met

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Speaker 1: on the apps. You went on a date back to

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Speaker 1: uh was it back to your place or her place?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Back?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you were a gentleman. You say everything went well, No, no,

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Speaker 1: you know you didn't. I don't know, push push the issue.

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Speaker 1: You were just trying to be a nice guy, hoping

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Speaker 1: to see her again. And you thought you would, except

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Speaker 1: she's not responding to you calls, texts, you're reaching out,

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Speaker 1: no response at all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's a very correct.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well let's call Fiona now and see what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Good luck, I thank you. Hi is his Fiona? Hi Fiona,

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Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: The whole crew is here and I have to tell

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Speaker 1: you that we are on the radio right now. I

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Speaker 1: would need your permission to continue with the call. Can

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Speaker 1: which have for just a second. I won't take too

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Speaker 1: much of your time. Okay, we're calling on me.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: By the way, we're calling on behalf of a guy

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Speaker 1: named Ryan who says you met you on the dating

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Speaker 1: apps and you you guys recently went out on a date.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember this guy and the date?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well he described what he thought was a

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Speaker 1: really great date and he said that he was hoping

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Speaker 1: to see you again. He says he believed he was

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Speaker 1: a gentleman and that he's been reaching out and you're

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Speaker 1: not responding. So what we're trying to do is help

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Speaker 1: him out and hopefully you straighten this out, kind of

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Speaker 1: figure out why you have been ghosting, it would appear.

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Speaker 1: Why you why you're not responding to him at all?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Wow, Yeah, there's absolutely like no chance I would

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Speaker 4: go out with him again ever.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so that's an obviously a misread on his part

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Speaker 1: because he thought there was odd chance. So what happened, Like,

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Speaker 1: why are we not interested in Ryan anymore?

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Speaker 4: Like the gate was fine, and then we went back

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Speaker 4: to his place and I told him I didn't want

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Speaker 4: to have sex, and he like freaked out at me.

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Speaker 4: He was like being insane.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: See, he said he was a gentleman. No, gentleman, he

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Speaker 1: was not a gentleman. You're saying, no, he was not

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Speaker 1: a gentleman. No, So what did he say? He was like,

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Speaker 1: you know, he kind of got to that point of

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Speaker 1: the date and things started to happen. You're like, we're

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Speaker 1: not doing that, and then he was he was a

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Speaker 1: jerk about.

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Speaker 4: It, jerk and just like had completely assumed that it

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Speaker 4: was like a sure thing for him and was like

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Speaker 4: so pissed when I told him I was off case.

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Speaker 2: Guys, that is not oh no gentlemanly. No, did we

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Speaker 2: not hear the man say gentlemanly? Yeah, Well he said

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Speaker 2: that I was a little suspect. Yeah, sir, are we sure?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Let us know that he was a gentleman like.

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Speaker 1: By no definition of only bringing Ryan. I forgot to

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Speaker 1: mention that Ryan is here. I'm sorry, I always I'm

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Speaker 1: very forgetful. Ryan you said gentlemanly. She says, you were

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Speaker 1: putting the pressure on. That is never okay, that is

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Speaker 1: not cool.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I need to defend myself, like this

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Speaker 3: has been painted a little a little off.

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Speaker 2: Kilter, now, right, why is that?

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Speaker 3: Well, so, look like you know, like I said, we

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Speaker 3: texted a lot before a date, and these text gout

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Speaker 3: super sexual and super detailed and super graphic, right, like

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Speaker 3: like she was describing like the positions they like, and

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Speaker 3: like Fiona told me a bunch of things that she

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Speaker 3: was going to do to me on their date, and

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Speaker 3: so like.

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Speaker 1: So she initiated this or you were talking like that

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Speaker 1: and she was like kind of there, No, she's talking

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Speaker 1: super sexy then to you before the date, and so

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Speaker 1: that you get the expectation because the communication was sexy,

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Speaker 1: that then you you should definitely be able to hook

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Speaker 1: up in real life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that we're.

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Speaker 3: Definitely going to right, Yeah, like, no no questions.

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Speaker 2: About it, no, that's not how it works exactly.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 1: No talk is one thing. I mean, I can see

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Speaker 1: how you might, I guess I can see how you

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Speaker 1: might get that idea. But then when a person says

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Speaker 1: that they're not they know that they don't want to

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Speaker 1: do that in real life, then you have to respect

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Speaker 1: that you can't. It's the freak out part that I

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Speaker 3: Like you may have thought, yeah, I didn't freak out.

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Speaker 3: No no, no, like I just like I was surprised to

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Speaker 3: hear her change in her tune. But like, like I said,

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Speaker 3: I was a gentleman about the whole thing. I didn't

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Speaker 3: like to push the issue. I was just surprised that

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Speaker 3: it was that. You know that after all that talk.

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Speaker 1: Like nothing, you know, get these sex messages, read them

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Speaker 1: to me, let me hear no, no, no, no. So, Fiona,

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Speaker 1: he says he didn't freak out, He was wrong to

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Speaker 1: have any expectation.

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Speaker 2: You say he did freak out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he absolutely freak out. I don't know what his

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Speaker 4: definition of gentlemanly is, but that is not mine.

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Speaker 2: So again, I want to be really clear.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, I want to be really clear that he

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Speaker 1: has that you, Fiona, have no expectation to do anything

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Speaker 1: with this man in person, and then when you say no,

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Speaker 1: that means no. But were you guys like getting into

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Speaker 1: it was the conversation like a lot about stuff that

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Speaker 1: that might happen, to the point where he was kind

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Speaker 1: of maybe a little a little ready.

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Speaker 4: To go, Like we were definitely being forty over text,

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Speaker 4: like that's for sure, but it's just it's just a

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Speaker 4: different situation in person, and like I was not I

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Speaker 4: was not into it.

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Speaker 1: You know, I agree, and and so you didn't want

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Speaker 1: to do it, so you said no, And then he's

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Speaker 1: supposed to be he said he was a gentleman, which

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Speaker 1: he was not, right, so he was supposed to be like, hey, okay,

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Speaker 1: that's fine. And then maybe maybe if he had done that,

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Speaker 1: and then you guys getting back to you know, get

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Speaker 1: back to talking again a little bit, maybe this could

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Speaker 1: have gone your way, Ryan, if you hadn't been a jerk.

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Speaker 3: I was not a jerk, like I thought. I was

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Speaker 3: reading the room and everything. This is this is all

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Speaker 3: very surprising stuff to me.

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Speaker 1: You thought wrong it would appear all right. Look, so Fiona,

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Speaker 1: no you're not interested in this guy, no second date.

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm good. Thanks. I don't want to see him again.

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Speaker 2: There you go, Ryan, not gonna happen. Man. So there's

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Speaker 2: your answer. Okay, I mean you got chill out right,

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Speaker 2: I'm being a creep. Yeah, I don't know, guys.

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Speaker 3: I again, like her version of this story is not

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Speaker 3: is not what happened, Like I don't know what her

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Speaker 3: definition of that is. But like I was, I didn't yell,

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Speaker 3: I didn't scream, like nothing else.

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Speaker 1: Like, well, it's not going to work out, no second date.

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Speaker 1: So look is your answer, Fiona. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for your time. We appreciate you. Ryan, best of luck

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Speaker 1: to you as well.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thanks,