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Speaker 1: All right, So Steve, your nephew right here, wanted to

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Speaker 1: ask you a question, Tommy, I.

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Speaker 2: Did I've been in this situation before. I've asked you

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Speaker 2: about this. I just don't know how to handle, but

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Speaker 2: I want it back. So I'm in a situation where

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Speaker 2: I have three loans out and they all about four

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Speaker 2: five thousand dollars apiece.

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Speaker 3: I got three. This is perfect.

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Speaker 2: I got three loans out there now all of us

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Speaker 2: supposed to have been back at least two months ago.

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Speaker 3: So I don't want to go.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to get to the point where, Okay,

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Speaker 2: if I just keep quiet, we're gonna look up. It's

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Speaker 2: gonna be June July, and ain't nobody gonna say nothing?

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Speaker 3: Scared.

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Speaker 2: I'm just you know what I'm saying is the longer

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Speaker 2: I keep going and not saying anything, I think they

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Speaker 2: just gonna not say anything.

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Speaker 4: So I'm just ask you. Okay, So let me ask

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Speaker 4: you a question. How close are you to these people?

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Speaker 4: Are they friends? Relatively?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah? Yeah, yeah they friends? I wouldn't have loaned it.

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Speaker 2: Is this the first time you've loaned the money this

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Speaker 2: sizeable amount?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Any other time might be five six? Okay?

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Speaker 4: So they've released it as time went by. Well, you

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Speaker 4: got two ways you can do this. You can press

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Speaker 4: him about it. The reason they come to you is

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Speaker 4: because they know you got it and they borrow the

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Speaker 4: money with that attitude. I know he got it, and

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Speaker 4: then I told him I was gonna give it back

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Speaker 4: to him then, but I know he got it. See

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Speaker 4: that TV show got you jacked up?

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Speaker 3: Though. Once people see you on TV, they.

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Speaker 4: Think, oh, okay, yeah he got it like that, and

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Speaker 4: you do, and you do, but you need to keep it.

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Speaker 3: So now here's the two ways you can do it.

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Speaker 4: This is the way I choose to do it because

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Speaker 4: it helps me because if they've came back a couple

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Speaker 4: of times, you've loaned them this and that. This loan

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Speaker 4: right here out of now bought you out my life.

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Speaker 4: You can't ever ask me for nothing else. And I

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Speaker 4: just write it off now if you need the money,

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Speaker 4: But it's more like you want it back. Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: want my money back, right And that's not true. And

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Speaker 4: I ain't saying you shouldn't, but I have bought a

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Speaker 4: lot of people out of my life with with with

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Speaker 4: dollar amounts in that range, I've bought a lot of

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Speaker 4: people out of my life, and it has given me

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Speaker 4: so much peace, because that's why I asked you.

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Speaker 3: Have you loaned the money before? Because you have?

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Speaker 4: And then they come back again and now they open

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Speaker 4: that four thousand dollars mark. See, so now they messing

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Speaker 4: around with you. You can buy it out or you

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Speaker 4: can ask them for it. But here's what they're not

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Speaker 4: gonna do. They're not gonna give it to you all

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Speaker 4: at once.

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Speaker 3: That part right there, that's that's the part of it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you can't even feel your money. So

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Speaker 4: now you have to ask you your self, because what

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Speaker 4: you always want God to make you is the is

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Speaker 4: the lender instead of the ball. So now you have

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Speaker 4: to ask yourself when they give me this one thousand,

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Speaker 4: it's five hundred, it's six fifty.

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Speaker 3: Trying to get.

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Speaker 4: Back to that foe, could I just say, hey, man,

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Speaker 4: I'll tell you what you've got that now we now

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Speaker 4: were all done. You can't ask me for nothing else,

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Speaker 4: and you just buy them out your life. You don't

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Speaker 4: even have to make the announcement. It's just now they

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Speaker 4: know they can't come to you for nothing else because

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Speaker 4: they know they owe you. See one thing about that

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Speaker 4: kind of money, people know they owe you. So now

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Speaker 4: I think in me, I just buy them out my life,

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Speaker 4: great investment. So that's three people can't ask you for

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Speaker 4: nothing else.

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Speaker 1: No more them, Hey, where's my money?

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Speaker 3: You're not gonna do that, huh that's timmy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, sir, I think I'm gonna do it.

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Speaker 3: You know I'm gonna ask.

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Speaker 5: But what do you advice do you have by getting

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Speaker 5: this two fifty back? You have advice on that. That's

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Speaker 5: what I need help with because I'm not letting it go.

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Speaker 5: And I mean this, this is not happening. We're not

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Speaker 5: buying nobody out for this two fifty.

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Speaker 4: Going up there and getting that most of us, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: we're going up there and get that two fifty.

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Speaker 3: The I agree.

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Speaker 4: And I'm gonna tell you something, man, the smaller the amount,

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Speaker 4: the more belligerent the person he is.

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Speaker 3: Really no, you ain't talking about that funky two fifty.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a little funky two fifty.

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Speaker 1: It's funky, all right, thank you guys. Coming up next

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Speaker 1: to this, the nephew with today's prank phone call, pay

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Speaker 1: him his money. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning

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