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Speaker 1: A lot of people are talking about this. I have

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Speaker 1: not really heard much about it. In the relationship flag category,

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Speaker 1: you know, there's red flags, there's green flags. I think

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Speaker 1: there's yellow flags, which are warning flags. So now everyone's

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Speaker 1: talking about the amber flags.

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Speaker 2: They're a little more like here's your like a yellow

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Speaker 2: caution light, if you want to look at it in

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Speaker 2: that way. Ryan. They're not necessarily a reason to go

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Speaker 2: running for the hills and completely dump them, but it's

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Speaker 2: something to maybe be a little bit more on high alert.

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Speaker 2: It kind of gets your.

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Speaker 1: Attention a little bit. Let's say they.

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Speaker 2: Never introduce you to their friends, or they brush off

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Speaker 2: serious conversations with jokes.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's a little annoying. I mean that to me

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Speaker 1: is my yellow guess, yellow amber. They're kind of they're

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Speaker 1: in the same color category. But I you've just put

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Speaker 1: a pin in it, right. These are things that you

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Speaker 1: kind of file and if it becomes annoying or a

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Speaker 1: theme and it really irritates you, then it turns into

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Speaker 1: a red flag.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think it just comes down to the

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Speaker 2: fact that, like you probably have been in a relationship

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Speaker 2: where there was tons of amber flags and maybe you

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Speaker 2: ignored them because they were just so little, and you're

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Speaker 2: just like, it's not that big of a deal. And

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Speaker 2: then they build and they build and they build, and

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Speaker 2: really what it turns out to be is that you

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Speaker 2: should have listened to all of those gut feelings at

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Speaker 2: the beginning of the relationship.

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Speaker 1: And look at this stage in my career of relationships,

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Speaker 1: I just kind of have let's see the red or green.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's think at the.

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Speaker 2: End of the day, the relationship needs to feel good.

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Speaker 2: Like if you're not feeling if it's not making you

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Speaker 2: feel good at the beginning, especially, then it's probably not

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Speaker 2: the right relationship.

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