1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,040 Speaker 1: Happy holidays. 2 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 2: Here's one of our favorite moments of twenty twenty four. 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 3: You know what, I don't know if you want to 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 3: use your friend's name, Gandhi, Okay, but can I just 5 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 3: say I don't want to use the word jealous, envious. 6 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 3: I don't know. Your friend recently just upended everything. Oh yeah, 7 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 3: she quit her job, she moved, broke up with her boyfriend. 8 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 3: I mean, what brought all this on? What made her 9 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 3: push the reset button? 10 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 4: Man? It was I think it was a long time coming. 11 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 5: She sort of fell into this rut and she wasn't 12 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 5: happy with any aspect of her life. She wasn't happy 13 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 5: with the relationship, she didn't like what was going on 14 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,279 Speaker 5: with work, she didn't like where she was living. She 15 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,319 Speaker 5: just one day up and decided I'm done and got 16 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 5: rid of all of it at the same time, and 17 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 5: she has started a completely new life all over again. 18 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 5: And I am so proud of her. I know, it 19 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 5: takes so much to do any one of those things. Yeah, 20 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 5: let alone all three at the same time. So to you, 21 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 5: my friend, I love you. 22 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 3: We'll call her b Okay, So her job, she moved 23 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 3: to a new town, new city. Yep, Wow, I mean, 24 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 3: does she have a job before she went there. I mean, she. 25 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 5: Still doesn't have a job. She's like, I'm figuring it 26 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 5: out right now. She negotiated a little package with the 27 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 5: company that she was with, so she has a few 28 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:20,199 Speaker 5: months to figure out what's going on, and she's working 29 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 5: on some things. She said, she has some ideas, but 30 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:26,119 Speaker 5: she's just super excited and I love that for her. 31 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 4: She's not scared at all. 32 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 5: She said she was more fearful of actually taking the plunge, 33 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 5: and now that she's done it, she's like, it's the 34 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 5: best thing that's ever happened. Weights lifted, I feel like 35 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 5: a new person. 36 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 3: Wow. 37 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 2: She didn't have a different name, a different identity, die 38 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 2: your hair, Yep, you know what I mean. 39 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 4: Like everything could be different. The only thing that has 40 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 4: carried through was the dog. She took the dog. 41 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 3: Okay, you can't leave the dog. Dogs are good. You 42 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 3: can't leave the dog. Uh Man's cow old. 43 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 4: She is she's thirty six. 44 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah wow, and just said screw it all, I'm 45 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 3: moving on. So you're saying she was a little scared 46 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 3: about taking the leap. H. I guess it's easier for 47 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 3: me to say because I'm not in her position, you 48 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,079 Speaker 3: should be more scared not taking. 49 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 5: The leap totally. And that's when we were talking about it. 50 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 5: I've said the same thing. I was like, you know, 51 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 5: the most terrifying thing would be to be stuck in 52 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 5: a life that you hate every aspect of as opposed 53 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 5: to just taking the leap and figuring it out for yourself, 54 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 5: because you'll fall into something that you appreciate and you like, 55 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 5: and you're making your own rules now and you're not, 56 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,959 Speaker 5: you know, sacrificing your happiness for other people. 57 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 4: And other things. 58 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 3: Wow, okay, so cool. 59 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 4: When she told me this, I almost I screamed. It 60 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 4: was amazing. I was so happy for her. 61 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 3: So was this a long time in the works or 62 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 3: does she just one day woke up and said, no, no, 63 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 3: everything has to be reset everything. 64 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 5: See, you had been toiling it with it for a while, 65 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 5: like she would send some of us a breakup text 66 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,920 Speaker 5: like hey do you think this one works? 67 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 4: Hey? 68 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 5: How should I word it differently? And then I don't 69 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 5: know what happened, but one day she was just like, 70 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 5: that's it and she did all of it. 71 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 3: Wow, No, I know, just ripped it. It's gotta be 72 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 3: of course, it is a lot different if you have 73 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 3: kids involved, or there's you know, other things that you've 74 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 3: got to be paying attention to which are of paramount importance. 75 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 3: I get that, But if you're thirty six years old, 76 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 3: a lot of people would say, oh, no, I'm already 77 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 3: thirty six. It is I waited too long in my 78 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 3: life to push a reset. But no, not at all. 79 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 4: She said. She's not even happier with you. 80 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 3: Know how old I am. I turned the big old, 81 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 3: I turned the big six. Oh, I'm ready to turn 82 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 3: it all off and run like hell bye everybody. Wait, wait, wait, wait, nope, 83 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 3: there's no waiting. I'm taking my dogs and I'm leaving. 84 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 3: I'm leaving town. But uh yeah, you find yourself in 85 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 3: life in a rut, and you're in that ditch like, well, 86 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 3: how do I get out of this ditch? Well, you 87 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 3: know what. You got to get out of the ditch. 88 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 3: But only you can do it. You have to make 89 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 3: the decisions. You have to make the hard decisions, the 90 00:03:56,440 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 3: decisions that are challenging and frightening. But no one else 91 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 3: can do it. No one else has got to do it. 92 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 3: You have to do it. What are you waiting for? 93 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 4: She said? 94 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 5: She thought about what we talk about all the time. 95 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 5: You cannot control other people or other circumstances in your life. 96 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 5: You can only control yourself. And she said she was 97 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 5: the common denominator and all of the things that she 98 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 5: didn't like. So she did what she could in her 99 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 5: control and she changed it. 100 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 1: I love it. I'm so happy for her. 101 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 3: What scary? 102 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 6: So what if you're in a ditch you want to 103 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 6: flip the switch and start over like your friend did, 104 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,359 Speaker 6: but you're financially strapped and you're like, find But what 105 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 6: if the financial things the only thing that is holding 106 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 6: you back from doing that? Because I know some people 107 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 6: that want to hit the reset button on a lot 108 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 6: of things in life, but but they're being held back 109 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 6: by economics. 110 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 3: You gotta find a way. 111 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 4: Only fans. 112 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 6: Hell, I take off, do what you gotta do. But like, no, 113 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 6: I know a lot of people who really are Yeah, 114 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 6: they want to start over, but they can't. Like easier 115 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 6: said than done. 116 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 3: Well, no, you can. You know it's easy for us 117 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 3: to say you can, but you can't. There is a way. 118 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:03,040 Speaker 3: It may be it may break your back, you may 119 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 3: have to work two jobs, you may have to work 120 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 3: around the clock and to save the money. I mean no, 121 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 3: but if you have that goal in mind, you will 122 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 3: find a way. And if anyone says, well yeah, yeah, yeah, 123 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 3: dare you say that, and well, no, I'm saying it. 124 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 7: You do. 125 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 3: Gary V was in once a long time ago talking 126 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 3: about this. He said, people come to have all the time. 127 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 3: Gary V. I want to be successful, but I'm stuck 128 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 3: in doing this. He said, You're not stuck in anything. 129 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 3: You continue your work, you continue your job, but you 130 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 3: do the side hustle. You figure it out. It's going 131 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 3: to take time, it's going to take a mountain of sacrifice. 132 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,280 Speaker 3: You can do it, don't let don't talk yourself out 133 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 3: of it. 134 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 6: Yeah. 135 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 3: So if I sit here and say, well it's a 136 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 3: financial thing, well yeall know that that's a major thing. 137 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 3: That is a problem. But you know what, what problem 138 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 3: cannot be solved, You got to figure out how to 139 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 3: solve that problem. It takes time. Everyone expects everything to 140 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 3: be fixed overnight. You can't. You can't look at life 141 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 3: like that. Sometimes problems, challenges, it takes it could take 142 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 3: a year. But the thing is is during that year 143 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 3: or two years, you always keep your eye on the 144 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 3: end result. You always do. You never let it go. 145 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 2: And sometimes it's not that easy either, Like, sometimes you 146 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 2: think you've fixed it, but you run the complications along 147 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 2: the way and you have to deal with those. So 148 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 2: everything is not gonna be said and done just like that. 149 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 2: You just gotta work at it. 150 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 5: I also think too, like the regret of making a 151 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 5: mistake seems a little lighter than the regret of always 152 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 5: wondering what would have happened if, Like, at least you 153 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 5: have an answer and you can start over with knowledge 154 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 5: of something, whereas if you never take a chance, you're 155 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 5: never gonna know. 156 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 2: You're always gonna wonder what if. 157 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:37,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, it is drastic, though you know what these things are. Drastic. 158 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 3: You're like and you may have a lot of friends 159 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,559 Speaker 3: and family members saying, are you crazy? What are you doing? 160 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 3: I remember when I started in radio. My dad is like, 161 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 3: what are you doing? I said, Dad, And this is 162 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 3: I had like a part time job, no insurance, so 163 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 3: you kind of you need a job with insurance before No, 164 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 3: I don't want a job with insurance. I want a 165 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 3: job that makes me happy and satisfied. The insurance will come. 166 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 2: You know that happened with me too with this job, right, 167 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 2: So I got the job I was making four to 168 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 2: twenty five an hour out right out of college. And 169 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 2: my mother kept saying, you need to quit. She was like, 170 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: you need to find something else, blah blah blah, and 171 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 2: I kept saying, no, I'm want to stick it out. 172 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 2: If something good's gonna happen, I know it, I know it, 173 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 2: I know it. And she was just like, okay, And 174 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 2: so you know if I had listened, then we wouldn't be. 175 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 3: Where we are. 176 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 6: You gotta quit that job. It costs you more to 177 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 6: go to work than you are making it. 178 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 7: A tho. 179 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 2: There were days where I'd pay to go to work 180 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 2: and I would pay for parking and whatever. They weren't 181 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 2: paying for it. 182 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, I wasn't making anything they were. I was paying 183 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 4: them to work here. 184 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: And look at you, now, Yeah, what's that prog I've 185 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 1: learned this as a parent. And when you want somebody 186 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:51,119 Speaker 1: to do something, they might do it, but they won't 187 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: do it to the extent that when they want it. 188 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: And when you want something bad enough for yourself, you 189 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: won't be able to be stopped no matter what anybody said, 190 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 1: no matter what obstacle comes up, no matter what it takes, 191 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: you will find a way to do it. If it's 192 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: what you want, and so that's truely what it comes 193 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: down to. 194 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 3: You know, you can easily say, well, this is what 195 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 3: I do professionally, this is all I know, and I 196 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 3: have to do this, but unfortunately the job sector I'm 197 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 3: working in is deteriorating. It's just evaporating. And well then 198 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 3: you got to go do something you don't know, you know, 199 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 3: that's the whole point of this Loretta line twenty She said, 200 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 3: enough is enough. I'm moving to Costa Rica. I'm taking 201 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 3: the family. Congratulations on taking a family, Loretta. What made 202 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 3: you decide okay, Costa Rica because a lot of Americans 203 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 3: do this, they love going down there. 204 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 7: Well, I'm not American. I'm British. You guys know me. 205 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 7: I'm the ginger tea lady. H oh. 206 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 3: Hello, So you're moving, you're picking up, You're moving to 207 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 3: Costa Rico. Now what made you decide to make the change. 208 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 7: Well, the terrifying events of twenty twenty in America really 209 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 7: opened up the eyes of a lot of US Brits. 210 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 7: And the violence, the gun violence, the crazy politics. Really 211 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 7: I mean scary nose Costa Rica. There's no gun violence, 212 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 7: there's no military, they have no army. 213 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 3: They spend the money they would spend on an army, 214 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 3: on education. Yeah. Now, I've been there several times. I 215 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 3: love Costa Rica. It is fascinating. And every time here 216 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 3: you visit, you're like, let's look at real estate. I'm 217 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 3: find an apartment. So when are you moving? 218 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 7: We're moving middle of August. 219 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 3: That's tomorrow. 220 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 1: Years ago. 221 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 3: Congratulations, we just. 222 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 7: Sold our house. Our house went on the market. It's 223 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 7: sold within a week. So yeah, we've got no choice. 224 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 7: We're going. Yeah. 225 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:43,439 Speaker 3: Are you a little like well, like a scary type 226 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 3: of excitement going on and stirring in your stomach? Are 227 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 3: you what are you thinking? What are you feeling? 228 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 7: I'm terrified, but I think I might at some point 229 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 7: when I've met you guys, show you one of my tattoos. 230 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 7: It says face the fear and do it anyway. I 231 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 7: you know, being from England, born in London, but I 232 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 7: come from a culture of people that immigrate. My family 233 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:06,679 Speaker 7: and Nigerian obviously I moved from London to here nearly 234 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 7: twenty years ago. It's you know, it's not the most 235 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 7: abnormal thing to do. It's terrifying, absolutely, And with children 236 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 7: you have to be very, very cognizant about what their 237 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 7: needs are so we're choosing a specific place in Costa 238 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 7: Rica that will sort of take care of their extra 239 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 7: curricular needs, take care of their school, make sure they're 240 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 7: going to have friends. My husband and I we can 241 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 7: you know, we can go to the coast every weekend 242 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:31,719 Speaker 7: and make sure we get beach time. But really the 243 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 7: most important thing is making sure that our children's mental 244 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 7: health is taken care of. 245 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 3: Wow, I got adopt me please, I'm on the way. Well, Loretta, 246 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 3: it's bittersweet and saying congratulations, but you know, knowing that 247 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 3: you're not here anymore, but you can listen to us 248 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 3: Costa Rica. Well I think we're number three rated morning 249 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 3: show in Costa Rica. You know, well listen, I have 250 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 3: a wonderful time in Congratulations and yeah, be more afraid 251 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 3: of not making a change than making the change. Congratulations 252 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 3: you and that tattoo. It means a lot to read 253 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 3: that tattoo to me one more. 254 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 7: Time, face the fear and do it anyway. 255 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 3: There you go, all right, all right, thank you, Loretta, 256 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 3: and god speed much love to do your family. 257 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 7: You know, all of you. 258 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: Take that. 259 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 7: Thank you, Danielle, thank you guys, Thank you Loretta. 260 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 3: Have a wonderful life, my heart. 261 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 2: Ginger Tea is amazing,