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Speaker 1: Three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station,

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Speaker 1: Fred Show, kaal and Rufio, Paulina, Owner Bone or everybody

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Speaker 1: is here, Good morning. I So researchers have looked at

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Speaker 1: how women flirt and they have determined the most effective

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Speaker 1: flirting moves for a woman, the thing that a woman

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Speaker 1: can do to most effectively flirt. I'm listening. It's funny

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Speaker 1: because I saw this this morning, and I was actually

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Speaker 1: having this conversation with someone the other day and she

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Speaker 1: was telling me that she doesn't think that people know

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Speaker 1: when she's knows they can't figure out when she's flirting,

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Speaker 1: And so I wonder, M and you gotta hit us up?

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Speaker 1: Eight five nine one three five is that you get

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Speaker 1: ahold of Fred Show? But what is your if you're

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Speaker 1: thinking about it and you're being conscious, or even if

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Speaker 1: you look back on it, what would you say is

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Speaker 1: your go to flirting move? Because I was thinking about

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Speaker 1: it too, and like, I don't maybe if I'm actually

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Speaker 1: talking to you, then I'm flirting because I tend to

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Speaker 1: be sort of reserved, believe it or not, Like in person,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I tend to keep to my self. I'm

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Speaker 1: actually sort of shy and so I guess if I'm talking,

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Speaker 1: then that's like trying to get you to laugh, or

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Speaker 1: like trying to engage. I guess that's me flirting. But

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't have like a move or or

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Speaker 1: like a go to. I don't know. Yeah, I've seen

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Speaker 1: you approach to women. Um, I know, when you're interested

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Speaker 1: in someone, your body language changes. I've noticed you're more

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Speaker 1: present towards them. But you also talk a lot, like

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Speaker 1: you're a talker by nature, but not really like in public,

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Speaker 1: like you'll you'll hang out with us more. You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying when we're with you, But when you're interested,

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Speaker 1: I've seen you walk away. You've just got addled your

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Speaker 1: way out of the group. Yeah, I think it. I

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Speaker 1: think it surprises people that I talk for a living.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, I don't want to talk to anybody eutside

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Speaker 1: of this room. That's true. Yeah, it's I feel like

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Speaker 1: I'm not getting paid. I'm that interested in speaking. So

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Speaker 1: either either fork up some dough and and I'll talk

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Speaker 1: to you, or no. This is what it says. The

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Speaker 1: most effective way that a woman flirts is by tilting

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Speaker 1: her head down and looking straight at her target. What

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Speaker 1: like the target being referred to as a target. I

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Speaker 1: think we should take pictures of you guys attempting to

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Speaker 1: do that, tilting your head down then and looking straight

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Speaker 1: at your target. Yeah. No, I don't even know if

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Speaker 1: that mean I don't do that? Okay, okay, but I

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Speaker 1: want to know, like when you're flirting, Like, think about

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Speaker 1: it for a minute. When you're flirting, what are you doing,

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Speaker 1: calin if you're actively flirting with somebody? I don't. I

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Speaker 1: want to be well, first of all, I want you

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Speaker 1: to flirt with me, and I the best way to

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Speaker 1: flirt is when a girl doesn't feel like she's being

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Speaker 1: hit on, Like that's the best thing to be creepy.

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Speaker 1: Don't tell me, well, it's so beautiful. That is my voice,

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Speaker 1: so creepy and shaky what I'm doing for me? Just like,

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Speaker 1: be really funny, act kind of not that interested but interested. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So you're not going to flirt with a guy. I

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Speaker 1: don't know how to flirt. I mean, I'm just like myself.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, actually I'm a lot more

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Speaker 1: quiet around people than I have a crush on, which

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Speaker 1: is very hard to believe. I'm sure. So you rufio

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Speaker 1: when you when you first met Jess, didn't you walk

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Speaker 1: up to her and say like you're going to be

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend or something, hi's her neck and started grinding

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Speaker 1: on her. How you flirt? You know, dancing was always

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Speaker 1: because you're a good dancer, though, so that's an advantage

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Speaker 1: because women like men who can dance. I know it

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Speaker 1: because I can't, you know, And so the floor never

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Speaker 1: hurt anybody a little hips way. Yeah, what's amazing is

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Speaker 1: that she says that you're very vanilla in the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: So for being as good of a dancer as you are, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess I would expect, like hanging from the seeing

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Speaker 1: freaking deacons. Whatever works, you know, it appears to be

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Speaker 1: workings and a beautiful child you created it that. What

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Speaker 1: about you, Polly, I feel like you're a little more obvious.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you go for the gold. Yes. I

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Speaker 1: have to also know though first first things First, you

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Speaker 1: trying to say what's up or can I get on

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Speaker 1: the radio or something, I'm like, oh, and that happens.

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Speaker 1: Like but that's the point though, is how so someone

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Speaker 1: has to actually say to you, Paulina, I am flirting

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Speaker 1: with you. No, I can commence. I know I can

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Speaker 1: tell because they're interested. Again, body language and one thing

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Speaker 1: that I do when I'm flirting back and I do

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Speaker 1: this all the time. As I'm touchy, I will touch

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Speaker 1: your arm. I'll like hit you because there's some funny Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm one of those girls, one of those girls. I'll

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Speaker 1: get close to you, I'll touch and then it's not

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Speaker 1: a good thing. I shouldn't be touching people. But I

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Speaker 1: like a little flirt, you know. I like to be

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Speaker 1: close to somebody. The researchers found that a few expressions

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Speaker 1: were identified by most, if not all, men, as flirting.

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Speaker 1: The most effective nonverbal, non physical method of signaling flirting

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Speaker 1: is when women turn their head to one side while

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Speaker 1: tilting it down slightly, had a slight smile, and their

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Speaker 1: eyes were facing towards the target. Yes, psychology today, this

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Speaker 1: is like legitimate research. Here. They published eleven most frequently

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Speaker 1: used flirty behaviors by women. The solitary dance. While seated

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Speaker 1: music playing. Well, so it just like bopping your head

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Speaker 1: I see you dancing by yourself. I think that you're

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Speaker 1: flirting with me. The room encompassing glance. The woman looked

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Speaker 1: around the room for about five to ten seconds without

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Speaker 1: making eye contact with others. One way I'd probably guilty

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Speaker 1: of flirting is looking at you to the point that

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Speaker 1: you like, not like creepily, but like you know, I

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Speaker 1: was looking at you. Then you look back at me.

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Speaker 1: I look away. Yeah. It's like I want you to

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Speaker 1: know that I was looking at but I don't. But

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Speaker 1: I do that what I'm stopped that I'll stopped like too,

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Speaker 1: And I'm looking at people in other cars and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm looking at you. Then they look at me and

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Speaker 1: I look down. I look away. These are the most

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Speaker 1: frequently used flirting behaviors by women. Short darting glance. The

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Speaker 1: a man of interest. Gay's fixate. The woman made eye

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Speaker 1: I can't make eye contact if I'm flirting. It scares

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Speaker 1: me too. The head toss. The woman flipped her head

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Speaker 1: all these moves aren't like slow motion. I know the

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Speaker 1: hair flip. We know what that is. A smile A lean.

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Speaker 1: The woman moved her torso on up, her body forward,

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Speaker 1: the opposite side of her neck. The laugh giggle generally

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Speaker 1: Um head nod. Usually in conversation with the man, the

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Speaker 1: woman nodded in agreement. So if I say something in

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Speaker 1: you nod that means you're flirting with me. Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: might give men the ride. Yeah. Sometimes I'm just nodding

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Speaker 1: because I agree this is fantastic. I disagree with you.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, so are you hungry? Yes, she wants it. Here,

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Speaker 1: here's some food you lean forward to get it. Clearly

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Speaker 1: she's targeting me right now. Who wants to go see

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Speaker 1: Kevin Hart? Got tickets for yours at seven thirty. It's

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Good morning, one h three five. So

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Speaker 1: Kalin has a crush and it h I'm like some

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Speaker 1: much stammering around like I don't know how mud surprising

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Speaker 1: when the Kalin has a crush, it just did it

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Speaker 1: should be you know it might surprise you who the

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Speaker 1: crush is on Fred Show one or three five kiss

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Speaker 1: eight five five five nine one one three five Go ahead, Kalin,

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Speaker 1: who is it? You have a crush on this person

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Speaker 1: that many people, while they might admire fictionally, they don't

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Speaker 1: they may not see the appeal. Yes, So I am

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Speaker 1: rewatching the Sopranos, which I mean, if you haven't seen it,

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Speaker 1: what the hell are you doing? I could see start.

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Speaker 1: It's been long enough, I could start over again. So good,

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Speaker 1: Like it's just it's still it's still tracks. But anyways,

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Speaker 1: so daughter's hot on that show. I still have a crush. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: what is that? Who's that Jamie Lynn Sigler? Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I've been rewatching it, and you know, slowly I'm

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Speaker 1: realizing I'm like, oh my god, Like I'm really attracted

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Speaker 1: to Tony Soprano. And so I text my mom, who's

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Speaker 1: a therapist, and I'm like, are you at all concerned

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Speaker 1: he's not James James Um. But I'm like, really, like

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Speaker 1: I would, really I would be into him, So you

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Speaker 1: don't think the character role or anything about the character

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Speaker 1: has anything to do with while you're attracted. It has to,

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Speaker 1: that's what That's what it is. But it has concerning

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Speaker 1: because it's I think it's the bad stuff he does.

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Speaker 1: I don't think like the murders. I mean, he's just

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Speaker 1: he's the boss and it's hot, Like he calls his shots.

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Speaker 1: Everybody respects him. He kind of does everything like super casual,

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Speaker 1: Like he doesn't even flinch, you know, he does it,

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Speaker 1: he walks away. He's got all these hot like babes

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Speaker 1: who want to do him. I don't know, he's like

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Speaker 1: he's in charge. He's in charge, and you like that,

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Speaker 1: you're into that. I I mean, I'm but I'm worried

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Speaker 1: for myself because I'm like, he's not like classically handsome.

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Speaker 1: And also I think it's an attraction for the wrong reason.

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Speaker 1: So what I'm saying to you men out there who

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Speaker 1: listen to the shows, if you're interested in Klin and

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Speaker 1: you're a murderer, then things are going to go quite well.

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Speaker 1: A nice crime leader then you know hit us up. No, no,

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Speaker 1: please don't do three five? Who comes to mind for

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Speaker 1: you as you drive to work or get ready for

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Speaker 1: or do whatever you're doing, whatever people do these days,

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Speaker 1: I have no idea who is the person? Who is

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Speaker 1: you know? I guess you could say classically not attractive,

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Speaker 1: because you know, I don't know, like David Backum or

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Speaker 1: Brad Pitt or or whoever. You know, people are like

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Speaker 1: that's obvious, right, everybody thinks they're attractive. But I'm talking

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Speaker 1: about who are you attracted to? That other people might

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Speaker 1: say really? Um. For example, I am attracted to the

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Speaker 1: pioneer woman on the Food Network. I don't know what.

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Speaker 1: Google her name. She's a she's hell the pioneer lose

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Speaker 1: Wait this this is the barefoot contessa that he and

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Speaker 1: she and Jeffrey read drum yeah, read drumming yeah? What

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Speaker 1: redhead lady? About her? I don't know. She looks like

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Speaker 1: I just would I'd go to the I'd go to

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Speaker 1: the homestead or wherever she lives. I let her make

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Speaker 1: me an ice cream cake, and I would just Hey,

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Speaker 1: this this could be you with this cowboy hat on him?

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Speaker 1: She has a how a cowboy husband? Yeah she does.

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Speaker 1: She lives on the homestead. What about hers? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just I dig it when she's on I watch it.

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Speaker 1: But the Barefoot Contessa. Hell no, fish Monker, Jeffrey's coming

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Speaker 1: home from the city, shut up standard No. I'm I

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Speaker 1: like this this lady, this pioneer woman. I think she's

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Speaker 1: very attractive. Also like Bonnie Hunt, which I think is

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Speaker 1: very interesting that I do like Bonnie Hunt. I met

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Speaker 1: Money Hunt a couple of years ago and I tried, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: expert that she spoke to for the book said a

416
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Speaker 1: Sunday morning kind of feeling. Another said that it was

417
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Speaker 1: be with one's own thoughts without judgment, or simply sitting

418
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 1: and soaking up the sunlight. In practice, it's lying on

419
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 1: the sofa daydreaming, or idly ambling back and forth from

420
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,160
Speaker 1: the shops, letting your mind wander in a supermarket queue,

421
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,919
Speaker 1: or sitting with a cat on your lap gazing as

422
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 1: you sit on the bus whatever it's doing nothing, do

423
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 1: you think you could do it? My problem with doing

424
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 1: nothing is that my brain starts to work. Ye spin,

425
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 1: And even if I don't have anything to do, like

426
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:28,879
Speaker 1: I don't have to feed a child or something, I

427
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:32,200
Speaker 1: still feel like I'm thinking about. It's reason I can't

428
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 1: meditate because I just sit there and then Okay, I'm

429
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,360
Speaker 1: gonna focus on whatever this person saying on whatever app

430
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,359
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, I start thinking about,

431
00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: oh my god, I've grat to pate that bill, or

432
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 1: I got do this thing for the show or whatever.

433
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: I can't do it. So I feel like it's it

434
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 1: wants to be more work to focus on nothing than

435
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 1: just to do the thing. It is work to meditate,

436
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 1: that's for sure. And then you start thinking about like

437
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,440
Speaker 1: what you did in like October of two thouven or something,

438
00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 1: and that's when it really gets crazy. That's why I

439
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 1: can't see Sometimes I'm always thinking about October two thleven.

440
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 1: Can you meditate? Because you and I know, Shelley, you

441
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 1: and I have like similar sensability of neuroticism. Yeah, um,

442
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 1: I actually I can meditate. I've gotten better. Um, I've

443
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,480
Speaker 1: also gotten better doing nothing. I would say I've tried

444
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 1: to really just like, yeah, of Nixon during this quarantine,

445
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 1: because social media, I feel like, makes it really hard

446
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 1: because when you're just sort of in that place of

447
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 1: doing nothing, like, oh, let me check the Instagram, you know,

448
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: can I watch TV and Nixon or I think that's

449
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 1: doing something? Oh, I think Nixon has to be just

450
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:36,119
Speaker 1: like there no stimulus. Yeah, that's taking a lot of walks.

451
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 1: And just like in my thoughts, is that nothing? That's nothing?

452
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 1: I think that's the same. That's the thing. Yeah, it's nothing. Yeah,

453
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 1: I know it's the thing. Could you do it? You

454
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 1: can do it because you're home and you got Ashland

455
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: and he's not gonna let you do nothing. Yeah, can't

456
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: you tell the kid I'm doing this? Do you do?

457
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 1: Nixon would love it. Let's go, especially when you're yelling

458
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 1: at three fives in the morning. Why were you left

459
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone, Kim, Good morning, Welcome to the program,

460
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 1: Good morning, Thank you so much for talking to me.

461
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 1: It's waiting by the phone and we're trying to figure

462
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 1: out what's going on with this guy, Jake, So why

463
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: don't you explain? Um, give us all the pertinent information,

464
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 1: all the backstories, so we can maybe call this guy.

465
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 1: And we'll definitely call this guy and see if we

466
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: can figure out what's going on. Yeah, totally. Um, so

467
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 1: we met this night when I was like out drinking

468
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 1: at this bachelorette party kind of, I guess. Well, so

469
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: I was like at dis bachelorette party and there also

470
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 1: was a bachelor party in the same bar, okay, and

471
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 1: I wasn't really talking to these guys, but some of

472
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 1: other girls in our bachelorette party were talking to them,

473
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: and I was like, the single ones of course or whatever.

474
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 1: But so some of the married girls, they were like,

475
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:01,399
Speaker 1: they were talking to the guys, and it turns out

476
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: there was like a single guy in the guy's proof

477
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 1: and we like, oh, single single guy, single girl. Of course,

478
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 1: you guys are right, yeah, something like that. It said.

479
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 1: It was not like so fast like that. Um. I

480
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: didn't actually talk to him at the bar that night

481
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: when we lived. It turns out one of the girls,

482
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:24,960
Speaker 1: one of the other girls too, was Mary, got one

483
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: of the guys numbers like a little sketchy, but like whatever,

484
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 1: and she was texting with him and she said that

485
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 1: like his friend wanted to talk to me because he

486
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 1: saw me across the bar and thought I was cute

487
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, okay, cool, So he texted

488
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 1: me and we um. We texted her a bit and

489
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 1: then we agreed to meet up. So we went out

490
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: and wherever was all like, it was pretty fun, he

491
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 1: was cool, and then we ended up guiding kind of us.

492
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: And I know we hooked up, and I just I

493
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,520
Speaker 1: have not heard back from him, so I just did

494
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: not what is up? So you can help me. Yeah,

495
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 1: so this is this sort of long way of happening,

496
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 1: is you got these two groups of people, men and women,

497
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,439
Speaker 1: and the married guys are working in your on your behalf,

498
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: and so you wind up out with this dude, and

499
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 1: it sounds like it went really well. So I don't know.

500
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 1: I mean, if it was like a great date in

501
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 1: a hook up and everything. I'm always wondering why why

502
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 1: would someone not call you after they spent the whole

503
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: night with you and hooked up. But yeah, we've heard

504
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: some strange things. So let's see if we can figure

505
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 1: out what's going on. We'll call this guy who you

506
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: met at the bachelorette party, Jake, and hopefully we can

507
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: straighten this out. Yeah, hopefully we can straighten this out

508
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: for you and set you guys up on another date

509
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: that we pay for. Okay, well, thank you. I'm a

510
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,400
Speaker 1: little nervous, But what's up. I'm gonna play one song.

511
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 1: We'll call this guy next. Hang on, I'd say, right here,

512
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 1: you've got to hear what happens next. We'll do part

513
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: two of waiting by the phone right after this song.

514
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Speaker 1: On one three five one three five Kiss FM, Chicago's

515
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 1: number one him music station. Good morning, it's the Fred's Show.

516
00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 1: Hey Kim, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call It's

517
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 1: a kind of long, convoluted story as to how you

518
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,919
Speaker 1: guys met. But but you were at a bachelor at party,

519
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,119
Speaker 1: A bunch of guys with a bachelor party at the

520
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 1: same place, all the marrieds got together and decided that

521
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 1: because you're single on some guy in the bachelor party

522
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: was single, that you two should go out, right Yeah,

523
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: and he had like seen me and he's out of

524
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: his cue, so right, well, okay, so you guys go

525
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,479
Speaker 1: out and have a great time hook up, and now

526
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 1: he's ghosting and you want to know what's up? Yeah,

527
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: I just don't know. I mean we had a good time.

528
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 1: We're just having fun, but I just don't know what happened.

529
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: A lot of fun. Sounds like. Let's call him right now? Yeah, Hello,

530
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: Hi is this Jake. Yes, Hey, j Good morning Fred

531
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 1: from the Fred Show. The whole crew is here one

532
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 1: h three five Kiss FM in Chicago. And I'm sorry

533
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 1: to bother you, but I do have to tell you

534
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,159
Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now and I

535
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can we

536
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: chat for a couple of minutes on the show? All right? Yes?

537
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: Or what's this? Well? Thank you very much. We're calling

538
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 1: on behalf of a woman who I guess you went

539
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 1: on a date with her. Your friends sets you up

540
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: through a batchelorette party. Her name is Kim. Oh wow, yeah, yeah, okay, Well,

541
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: as you might imagine, Kim, you know, you guys went out,

542
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: she said, and she thought you guys had a great time.

543
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: Says that you guys hooked up, and she's kind of

544
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: wondering why she hasn't heard from you. Yeah, I mean you.

545
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: I assume you guys have like the story of how

546
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,119
Speaker 1: we met right right the Bachelor You were on the

547
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: bachelor party, she was at the Batchelrette party and the

548
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 1: married married people, I call him married. They decided that

549
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 1: you two because your singles should go out. That's always

550
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: how it is, you know, because I'm always a single one.

551
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 1: It's like, well, you're a single and she's single, so

552
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 1: obviously I should be together. So that's what happened, right, Yeah, Yeah,

553
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm

554
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: not really sure if you want me to be that

555
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: honest with you. I know that sounds weird. You're gonna

556
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: be honest that you're not sure if you should be honest. No,

557
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest. I'm gonna be honest that I

558
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:56,719
Speaker 1: want you to be honest. I want you to tell

559
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: us what's going on so we can tell her. I

560
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: honestly do Okay, sure, I mean, I'll tell you again.

561
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: I was literally at that party because I think we're

562
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: having a good time at something yet, but I didn't

563
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 1: I didn't know who she was. I didn't really see her.

564
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: I didn't pick her out of the crowd, nothing like that.

565
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 1: So it's basically just a blind date kind of a

566
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 1: thing that one of my buddies was like, yeah, she's cute,

567
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: like you should go out with her, and so I

568
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: said yes. So like when we went on, when we

569
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: went on the actual date, like I didn't know what

570
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,239
Speaker 1: she looked like. I had to find like I had

571
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: to text her to see exactly where she was because

572
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 1: I didn't know who she was or the funch people

573
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: in the bar, and I had to like find exactly her.

574
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: So you honestly, like she was under the impression that

575
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: you had seen her in the room at the party

576
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: and that you wanted to go out with her based

577
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: on what you saw. But you're saying that you all

578
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: of this was on somebody else said you should go

579
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: out with her. You never saw her. You literally walked

580
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 1: into the restaurant to go on this date and did

581
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 1: not know who you were going on a date with exactly.

582
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: I had no idea who it was, could not pick

583
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: her out of a crowd at all. Okay, Well, it

584
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 1: doesn't sound like that worked out too poorly for you,

585
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 1: because once you did figure out what you were going

586
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: on a day with, you hooked up, she said, and

587
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: the rest of it. So what's the problem, um, Well,

588
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: like I mean, I basically I saw her and I

589
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: was like, well, okay, sure, I mean, like okay, sure, like,

590
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 1: well while we're here kind of thing. So you're not

591
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: indo her. You were never indoor, Yeah, not not really.

592
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 1: I mean but you were look up with her. So

593
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: what's that about? What she wanted it? And you know

594
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 1: why not she wanted it? By the way, chimists here,

595
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,479
Speaker 1: I forgot to mention that. I mean, I would think

596
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: you would at least have asked for like a social

597
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: media or Insta handle or done some sleuthing. At least

598
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 1: you just straight up showed up having no idea who

599
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: you were going out with. Yeah, and it's like you

600
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 1: pretended to know. I mean we were texting, Jake, Like,

601
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: what the heck? I mean you, Wow, you definitely could

602
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: have fooled me, considering we hung out like all night

603
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: and then we smashed. Wow. I mean, if you guys

604
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 1: hooked up, it couldn't have been that bad. I mean, yeah,

605
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: it wasn't bad. I mean we talked and stuff. I'm

606
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: just she's not really much type. It just didn't really,

607
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, just didn't really do it for me.

608
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 1: I mean sounds like she's your type for something, but yeah, exactly. Look,

609
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: the bottom line is I saw the group. I didn't

610
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 1: really want to pick her, but that's just what was available.

611
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 1: So oh my god, knew you knew who I was,

612
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 1: and you still are saying like, oh, I didn't even

613
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: want to go out with it. This is so gross.

614
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: Are you saying like that of the group that wouldn't

615
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: have been your choice? Is that what you is that

616
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: what you mean by that? Yeah, there were there were

617
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of other girls out there. There were

618
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: like more of my type. I mean, hey, that sends

619
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: to hurt her. It's just that's just not what I'm

620
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 1: really hitting you. And you were hoping you'd show up

621
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: to find one of them because you were too lazy

622
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: to even like figure out who the hell you're going

623
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 1: on a date with, like you were, you didn't have

624
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 1: the time for that. Yeah, I don't care. I mean

625
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,239
Speaker 1: a buddy just said, hey, she's cute going a date

626
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Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, I'm single, I mean why not.

627
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: I got nothing else to go to tonight, so let's

628
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Speaker 1: do it. I don't care, and I had nothing else

629
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: to do. Oh oh my god. I mean, look, I

630
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: wish I would not even have an ass Like honestly,

631
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 1: I wish I would not I don't even want to

632
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: know this. Honestly, I think a lot of people feel

633
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: that way when they call in here. They would prefer

634
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: not to have known what the answer was. But all right,

635
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: look um, so I Kim, I don't even I guess

636
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: it's not even I don't have to ask the question.

637
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: I would never have a guess this like you could

638
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: have fooled me. You don't go home with me and

639
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: then tell me I didn't even want to see you

640
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: in the first place. Yeah, I mean that doesn't sound right,

641
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: but whatever, So no second date, Kim. I'm sorry, this

642
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: is I'm sorry. This is the explanation, Jake, I guess.

643
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: Thanks for answering, and good luck out there. Tickets to

644
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 1: see Kevin Hard at the USC got him next on

645
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 1: The Fred Show. Good Morning, one three five to join

646
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 1: The Fred Show on one three five up now, I'll

647
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: call eight five five five nine five. I want to

648
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: play this for you. Um, this is I laughed so

649
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 1: hard yesterday. So if you remember you've been listening to

650
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: our show for some time, we once we once had

651
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: an intern name Young Cougar Bait. Young Cougar Bait is

652
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: now host of the Joe Show on a radio station Tampa.

653
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 1: Our sister station there in Tampa, Florida. We're very proud

654
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 1: of him. In addition, actually Nix, who also was on

655
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: our station, UM is his co host. And then some

656
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: other dude, and so say, I'm I'm only saying that

657
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 1: to piss him off. Its name as Jeb, it's Jed.

658
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 1: I just I just want to piss him off. So anyway,

659
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: so Jeb Jeb Bush is on that show. Very exciting UM.

660
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: And so I was every now and again I check

661
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: in with these guys and I listened to their show,

662
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: and they're doing such a good job down there, and

663
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: we're very proud of them. And this was the segment

664
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 1: they did yesterday. I guess cougar baits girlfriend can't say

665
00:33:55,320 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: the word furniture. So so then cougar Bait asks Ashley

666
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: say the word that you can't say. There's a word

667
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: that she can't say, and it is hysterical. Listen to

668
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 1: all right, listen, he would employ here, what can you

669
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 1: not say, Ashley? Massa Massachusetts, Massachusetts, Massachusetts? How do you

670
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: say it? That's exactly how you say Massachusetts. Tom Brady

671
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 1: lives in Tampa now, but he used to live in Massachusetts.

672
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: And the problem now is I have to think about

673
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:44,320
Speaker 1: saying it after hearing her say that Massachusetts, Massachusetts. I

674
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:48,439
Speaker 1: was born there, so I should Massachusetts. I can't see

675
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 1: this is the problem. I hear it the wrong way

676
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 1: so many times, right right right, right right right. Um.

677
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 1: You guys make fun of the way that I say nightmare?

678
00:34:56,160 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 1: What the hell mirror nightmare? Night me? Um? But what

679
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 1: what are the words or word? What is a word

680
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: that you can't say? Eight? Five, five, five, nine, one

681
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 1: one or three five? Before you go and you have one?

682
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:16,439
Speaker 1: Mine was that that state? That Boston is the state?

683
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 1: Jason Brown? What's the state? Massa shues? I can't. I

684
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: was born in Wellesley Hills, which is a suburb of

685
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: Boston in Massachusetts, Massachusetts. I can't. Okay, what is the

686
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: word that you can or words multiple that you cannot say? Um?

687
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: Participation is a hard one for me for some reason,

688
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 1: and I can I can say it on its own,

689
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: but in in like a disclaimer, I can't say it

690
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:46,399
Speaker 1: like I got to read it here all the time,

691
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: price and participation. Maybe I can't say participate, participation. I

692
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,839
Speaker 1: can't say it. What about you, Paulina, let's go. I'm

693
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 1: sure there are one or two or twenty. There's got

694
00:35:55,600 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: to be a lie. I don't know. M Later on

695
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 1: we're gonna have picture and Picture night, and maybe I'll

696
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,479
Speaker 1: send you some money for the alcohol that we're gonna

697
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: need to get through the pictures and then how would

698
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 1: you like me to send it to you? No? No,

699
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 1: she yes, they kind of they banned me, but I

700
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 1: can't say, uh that one song by Bobby Valentino, I'm

701
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 1: an anomalous? Are you gonna be anomenous? I can't say

702
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 1: that one anonymous problem. Now, it's a lot of these words.

703
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 1: When I hear you say them, I don't know how

704
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: to say them properly. Um, anomalous, anomous, Okay, any other ones? Oa, okay, ruffio. Clothes, Yeah,

705
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:49,280
Speaker 1: there's clothes. There's clothes. Clothes. Remember he couldn't say report.

706
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: That's why we say Weatherport Weatherport brought to you by

707
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 1: would you weather ports on here? Um? And he wears

708
00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 1: clothes when he does the weather reports. Now they don't

709
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 1: let me say it. They just want me to do

710
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 1: the weather. They record the report. What is it for you? Calin?

711
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 1: There's so many Um, I can't say statistics. Oh, I'm cured,

712
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:15,439
Speaker 1: I can statistics. Statistics oh, I'm all better, Okay, I can't.

713
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 1: I mean, there's a lot, Shelley anything, any words you

714
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: have a hard time with. What's nostal not still nostalgia,

715
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 1: nostalgia non stillagia. I always want to say, sometimes the doctor,

716
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: if I feel somebody to do a culture on me

717
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: of some kind nostalgic Juel, Juel, good morning, oh, good morning,

718
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 1: good morning. I love you, guys, thank you, we love

719
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 1: you too. Worse. A lot of people can't say this.

720
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 1: It's worse. Sure. I can't say anything worse to Sure.

721
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: Nobody can say wors sure. Worst. The more I say it,

722
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: the more I don't think. I'm Shire. I thought it's

723
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: worse to Shire. It probably is. I don't know. I

724
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 1: don't know if that goes in bloody man know how

725
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 1: to say yes, Steake Marinada. The more I say it,

726
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 1: the more I'm unsure. Juel, thank you, have a great day.

727
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: I only hear the words that people can't say. Five

728
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:22,359
Speaker 1: nine one h three five Danielle, Hi, Hey, good morning.

729
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: What's the words you can't say? So it's an animal

730
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:33,359
Speaker 1: and I say hyahena and it's a hyena hyena? How

731
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 1: you saying hyena? I mean what are you using that word?

732
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,879
Speaker 1: I want to know, like, how often is hyhena coming up? Well?

733
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 1: When we I have kids, I have three little ones,

734
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 1: and when we watched the Lion, of course, plain what

735
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: those animals are? And I can't say. Always laughed at me,

736
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 1: so hyhena? Okay, all right, thank you, Danielle a good day,

737
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 1: thanks for calling. Hey, Harvey avey. What's the words you

738
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 1: can't say? I can't say. I mean I could say it,

739
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 1: it doesn't sound right. Warm and warm, warm, there's a

740
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: like a warm in the there's a warm in the

741
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: ground over there, and it's warm in here. It sounds

742
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 1: like the same thing. Yeah, everyone says, but I hear

743
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: it in my head though. It sounds like I'm saying

744
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 1: warm worm there's oh it's it's a warm outside. It's

745
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 1: worm outside. Yeah, kind of, there's a warm in the

746
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 1: ground over there. Yeah, you sound so dejected. Don't ever

747
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:33,879
Speaker 1: bring up warm or warm. You have had a great day.

748
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 1: It's hot outside, thank you. Yeah, it's hot and there's

749
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 1: a same insect or something. Hey Joe, Yeah, good morning, Joe.

750
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 1: How are you good? Thank you? Um, thanks for calling.

751
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: What's the words you can't say? Oh? Whoa Hello, your

752
00:39:54,719 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: phone is nothing a CB radio or something like that. Hey, Johanna,

753
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: break yeah, got a smokey on to you. What's that.

754
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,440
Speaker 1: It's been nice to talk to you. It's great to

755
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 1: talk to you too. It's fantastic. Um, good words for you.

756
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 1: We'll hear the word. It's not the Bachelor, but the

757
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 1: female version of it. I honestly cannot do it. Um,

758
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:23,360
Speaker 1: that's Sarette. That's Sarette. No, I think it sounds that

759
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 1: sounds okay, it sounds like the Bachelor. I mean it

760
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 1: sounds like a drunk version. That's Sarette. Gonna say, I

761
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 1: think Joan to bend to a bachelorette party. I think

762
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 1: that's what it is. I got for you. Thank you, Johanna,

763
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:47,879
Speaker 1: have a great day. That's pretty good. Hey Alan, Hi,

764
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Hey? Alan? What word can't you say? Sority?

765
00:40:54,520 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 1: Don't say that word the sorarity, like the sorit sorority.

766
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 1: Are you trying to say sorority or sobriety soriety? Oh okay, no,

767
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:17,759
Speaker 1: she does not. Thank you Allan. Thank you for putting

768
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: your license in good risk. Hey Lindsay, Hi, Lindsay, how

769
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 1: are you? I'm good? How are you great? Thanks? For calling,

770
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. What's the word you can't say? I

771
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 1: cannot say the word Pam, pamphlip. You said it, I

772
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: said it, Okay, I can't say it. I choose to

773
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: say brochure and said, sure, yeah, pamphlet, you said it. Okay, pamphlet,

774
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: Thanks pamphlet. It was a terrible I mean, I knew

775
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 1: what you meant, but yes, it's a brochure. I know you.

776
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 1: My husband definitely makes funny for it. Okay, all right,

777
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Have a good day than I want.

778
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: Let me want you some more of these. Next the

779
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 1: word that you cannot say? And I got a bunch

780
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: of good ones holding right here, so stay right here.

781
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: We're back in three minutes eight five, five, nine, one

782
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 1: one h three five. Our friend Ashley can't say Massachusetts,

783
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: and now I have to think really hard about it. Massachusetts, Massachusetts, Massachusetts.

784
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: I love Ashley so much. I love Joe Cougar Bay

785
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 1: WFLZ in Tampa, Florida. We love them. And that guy

786
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: John on there with him. He's so good. I love

787
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: the way he answers the phones. What's his name, Jed, Yeah,

788
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:36,839
Speaker 1: he's good. Yeah, it's a great show. Proud of those guys.

789
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: That's a big deal though. You know people they come

790
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: on his show sometimes and they manage to somehow do

791
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: good things after working here. It's incredible. That means, you know,

792
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: any of you guys leave, you'll probably be on you know,

793
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 1: New Yorker LA, you'll probably you know, you'll probably in

794
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: the next seacrest. One in Hawaii right now. Yeah, Yeah,

795
00:42:54,200 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 1: Kimmy's in Hawaii on dubah. The station's called Dababa. Yeah

796
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 1: in Hawaii. That probably doesn't play like classic Hawaiian with

797
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 1: she sis a whole like language. Yeah, they got a

798
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 1: whole language, uh huh, but it's like a street language.

799
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: It's not like, yeah, that's the thing. And then when

800
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: we got one guy in Minneapolis, yep, Dubs is out

801
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 1: there still. Yeah, and then we got the Tampa folks,

802
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 1: and then we got uh, I don't know, we got

803
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 1: other people. So I guess good things do happen after

804
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:29,919
Speaker 1: you leave here. So none of you guys are allowed.

805
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but you guys aren't allowed to leave to

806
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:34,800
Speaker 1: stay right here. Yeah, no, you can know. No nobody

807
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: else gets to leave. Sorry, you're you're forced to work

808
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: here forever. Sounds about right, Yeah, I don't. I don't

809
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 1: appreciate being abandoned. Um, Hey Joe, Joe, Hi, good morning,

810
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 1: how are you? Thank you? Oh? What's the word Joe

811
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 1: that you can't say? Okay, I can say the other?

812
00:43:56,120 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: The other you can't take, but you have and like

813
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 1: he can't say husband, the metaphan is the word you

814
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 1: can't say, which is a hard word to say. But

815
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: how do you say it? But my husband to say,

816
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 1: I see a mental fin really fat, I see an.

817
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think I've ever seen the

818
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: worst talent is it contains a set of MENA fan? Yeah,

819
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:27,880
Speaker 1: I see the words. That's the thing. If I were

820
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 1: like a physician or something. I don't know how doctors Okay,

821
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 1: thank you, Joe, have a good day. I don't know how,

822
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 1: But like doctors can say all those names of all

823
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: those drugs. I mean, I guess maybe you get used

824
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 1: saying the same ones all the time, but like they

825
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: can say it with conviction, and I don't. I can't

826
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: say half of them. Yeah, oh, we're gonna give you

827
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 1: a prescription of you know, gargoyle. And now I see

828
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Speaker 1: how why they write like that too, because they probably

829
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Speaker 1: not even spelling it. Out. They don't even know how

830
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 1: to spell it. So if you know whatever, scribble it. Hey, Krista, Hey,

831
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:02,479
Speaker 1: good morning. What the words you can't say? I really

832
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 1: have to think about it to say it properly for Tuesday, Tuesday,

833
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:11,919
Speaker 1: British Tuesday. Yeah. My friends are like, no, you put

834
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 1: like the chew in front of the day, not Tuesday,

835
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: it's Tuesday. No. I think you said it right. This

836
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: sounds fine to us. I think so too. Let everybody

837
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 1: gets me so much crab for it. Will you tell

838
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 1: them that they're all the rest of them are wrong?

839
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 1: I will? Thank you, Chris. I have a great day,

840
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:33,839
Speaker 1: thanks so much for calling. Hey Megan, Hi, Hi, good morning.

841
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 1: These are words you can't say. Let's hear them. Okay,

842
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 1: I can't say curtain and I can't say belly button

843
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: curtain and belly button curtain. Yeah, curtain and belly button.

844
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:48,360
Speaker 1: So it's the tea that you're having, or yeah, curtain

845
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 1: and belly but I am prop and then yeah, I

846
00:45:56,840 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 1: don't know curtain, curtain, huddon, I don't belly buddon. Okay,

847
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 1: that's kind of funny, it's kind of cute. Thank you, Megan,

848
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 1: Thank you. Have a great day. Hey, Amy, good morning, day, Hi,

849
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 1: good morning. What's the words you can't say? Hey? Amy?

850
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 1: So I'm coming over. I'm gonna bring you in a

851
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 1: nice or charcouderie tray, but I need you to cool

852
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:28,360
Speaker 1: it off for a little while before we have it.

853
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 1: What word you're gonna put it in? Were in the icebox?

854
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 1: In the fridge? In the fridge. Oh my god, that's

855
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: so funny. Thank you, Amy. I think I see all

856
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 1: these words now in my mind. I'm like, am I

857
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 1: saying it right? Hey? Rosie? Hello, Hi, Rosie. You can't

858
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: say this word? Which one is it's? Is it February February?

859
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,839
Speaker 1: Or is it February? That's a hard one for people.

860
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: I think it's February. Be wary. Yeah, so the first

861
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 1: R assignment February. Yeah, yeah, you don't mention the R

862
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: the first Oh there is there isn't another feb are

863
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 1: you you? Oh, you're right, it's February. Ray, it's true.

864
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 1: It is? Yeah, oh, because you be spelled it wrong.

865
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 1: And the thing it looks it looked normal to me.

866
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 1: So thank you, Rosie, Thank you. Have a good day.

867
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 1: See this is the thing. Maybe I'm saying all this.

868
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: I know I'm saying stuff wrong. Andy, Hi, Hello, Hi?

869
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 1: What can't you say he moves home enema or no anima?

870
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:44,839
Speaker 1: What are you trying to say? Home from the movie?

871
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 1: And then oh an enemy? Yeah? And then yeah, why

872
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 1: do you have to say that? Yeah? I don't know. Yeah,

873
00:47:57,600 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 1: you don't have to ever say that. So you're okay,

874
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 1: don't worry about it. True, have a good day. I

875
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:07,240
Speaker 1: don't think I can say we're fun? Is it? Nareda

876
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 1: Nareda narrata? Hey, good morning. How are you? I'm fine?

877
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:18,320
Speaker 1: How are you great? What's the word you can't say? Oh? Yeah, ummm,

878
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: I love cinnamon to crunch cinmmon, right, Cimon? Are you

879
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 1: saying simons? I can't even say, like, I just say

880
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:34,439
Speaker 1: cinnamon or spice, cinnamon. I didn't know she was saying

881
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 1: cinnamon or so you're putting some cinnamon in there with

882
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: the cookies. Yep, that's it. What is it though? What

883
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: are you putting in there? Oh? Man, I can't believe

884
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: me on the radio for this. I'm putting Simon cimonin

885
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 1: That is the best. Thank you so much. Have a

886
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 1: good day. Let's do the this. How many words of

887
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: people can't say the entertainment of warsh. I bet it's

888
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: worsh Anna says her mom. Can't say wash on, Nanna,

889
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 1: you just say warsh. Same. Got tickets to see Kevin

890
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: Harts Each at the UC on September twenty third. Tickets

891
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Speaker 1: go on sale ten am today at ticketmaster dot com.

892
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:18,359
Speaker 1: Thanks to Live Nation calling number twenty five. You are

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Speaker 1: going eight five five five nine one one h three five,

894
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Speaker 1: Good morning, it's the Fred Show on Kiss good. It's

895
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,480
Speaker 1: the Fred Show on one three five kiss at him?

896
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 1: Do you have one? It takes the Battle showbish Shelly

897
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:40,839
Speaker 1: and the showbis, showdown, show bid. How are you? Good morning?

898
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 1: What's up? Oh bactual, baby's kicking today. I don't know

899
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:47,280
Speaker 1: what's going on, but baby's kicking. You eat some spicy

900
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:48,800
Speaker 1: vood or some Is that what happened? You ate some

901
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 1: spicy No? No, I didn't. I don't know what it is?

902
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's welcome your eyes. Gotta be weird.

903
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 1: By the way, I can't even imagine what that would

904
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: be like to uh, to have a human growing inside.

905
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 1: I mean, that would just drive my anxiety, would just

906
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 1: be going nuts. I don't. I just women are amazing

907
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 1: in every single way and that's another one. I just

908
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 1: don't I just can't even I can't fathom it. But

909
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 1: let's welcome your challenger today. It's Earn. Hi, Earn. How

910
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: you doing, hi? Friend? I'm doing well. How are you

911
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 1: very well? Tell us about yourself please? I am a

912
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 1: fourth year medical student. Um, I'm from him Dale, but

913
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm living in High Park right now. Wow, University of

914
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:32,320
Speaker 1: Chicago is there where you go? Smart? Yeah? Yeah, I'm listening.

915
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 1: Oh she's really smart. Then you are for real? For real,

916
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 1: Earn Damn? What do you what's your specialty going to be?

917
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:42,880
Speaker 1: I'm going into internal medicine. I'm thinking cardiology, but undecided

918
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 1: right now? Wow? Okay, yeah, all right. Not an idiot,

919
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 1: Arnie is not an idiot. Okay, you're a price today,

920
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: which I'm sure would come in very handy. Oh with

921
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 1: those medical school bills, A big nice seven hundred and

922
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 1: fifty bucks that might pay somebody interests. I don't even know.

923
00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: Seven hundred and fifty bucks is the price. Shelley's record

924
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 1: five sixty eight and thirty seven, and she's on a

925
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 1: twelve game win streak. Okay, okay, Shelley, with all due respect,

926
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 1: if you would get the hell out. All right, we

927
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 1: had adopted it a neuroscientist or whatever earlier this week. Unbelievable.

928
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 1: All right, good, yeah, we have highly intelligent people to

929
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 1: listen to us. All right, Shelley's going to the sound booth.

930
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 1: That was nice. That was nice. She didn't hear you

931
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: because she already laughed. But so she thinks you're she

932
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 1: thinks you're cold as eyes. But that's all right. We

933
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:28,399
Speaker 1: can let her think that. Right here we go. Question

934
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 1: number one. The parent company for this Canadian fast food credits,

935
00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: Justin Bieber, was significant with significantly driving up their sales significantly.

936
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:42,439
Speaker 1: That's a hard word to say. Why are you laughing

937
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,719
Speaker 1: at me? Name the chain? What's the name of the place.

938
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 1: In a new song, you guys, my kids focus with you, guys.

939
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 1: In a new song, Nick Cannon says he wants his

940
00:51:55,440 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 1: ex wife back. Name her all right. Carry This actor,

941
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: known for movies like Grease, Saturday Night, Fever, and pulp Fiction,

942
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 1: is sixty eight years old today. John Apple TV Plus

943
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 1: is coming out with a docum series called Dynasty, focusing

944
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 1: on Bill Belichick and this NFL team the New England,

945
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,879
Speaker 1: and new photos have emerged of this actor dressed as

946
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 1: Wonka for a Charlie and the Chocolate Factory prequel. The

947
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 1: new new photos have emerged of this actor dressed as

948
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 1: Wonka for a Charlie and the Chocolate Factory prequel. Who

949
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 1: plays Yeah, oh is it um? That's a five? The

950
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: perfect casting? All right, somebody sex Shelley. We gotta get

951
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 1: Sully back out of the boof the boof poof. Wow,

952
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 1: that was a really good job though. Hey, super impressed.

953
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:04,439
Speaker 1: Guess what Shell's bad news. That's a five right there.

954
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 1: I knew it. I knew that would happened. There goes

955
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 1: your weekend. I know you're gonna be stressed about this

956
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:14,240
Speaker 1: all weekend. This is for big money too, pretty proper

957
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 1: decent money. Seven hundred and fifty bucks. Here we go.

958
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: Question number one. The parent company for this Canadian fast

959
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 1: food credits, Justin Bieber, was significantly driving up their sales,

960
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 1: Tim Hortons. Tim Hortons is correct. In a new song,

961
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 1: Nick Cannon says he wants his ex wife back. Name her.

962
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: He said, like eighteen kids since he dated her, so

963
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: I don't know if she wants him back. That's a

964
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 1: lot of malosophy. This actor, known for movies like Grease,

965
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:45,399
Speaker 1: Saturday Night Fever and Pulp Fiction is sixty eight years old. Today,

966
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: John Travolta Apple TV Plus is coming out with a

967
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 1: docu series called Dynasty, focusing on Bill Belichick and this

968
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 1: NFL team, the Patriots, and new photos have emerged of

969
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 1: this actor dressed as Wonka for Charlie and the Chocolate

970
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 1: Factory for a prequel of that movie, Timothy, that's fine,

971
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 1: we got a tie. We got big money on Monday,

972
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: or I guess we'll do it Tuesday, big money on Tuesday.

973
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:21,880
Speaker 1: You gotta come back her and for eight hundred bucks. Okay, okay,

974
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: sounds good, all right, good, Hold on one second, stay

975
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,399
Speaker 1: right there, So Earn's coming back. Eight hundred bucks. Could

976
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: have earned yourself some extra money right there, Like all

977
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 1: the doctors and stuff would be so busy, but they're not.

978
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 1: I guess what are you trying to say? Maybe she's

979
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 1: maybe she's just so smart, you know, she's just so

980
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 1: smart that she has needs extra stimulus, you know for

981
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:47,399
Speaker 1: her brain. Multitask for smartass brain. Yeah, all right, good, yeah, good?

982
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: Earns back after the long weekend, then eight hundred bucks

983
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,840
Speaker 1: on Tuesday. Showby Shelley's weekend is ruin because we got

984
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 1: to tie. You gotta focus on that all weekend, and

985
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,719
Speaker 1: the showby Shelley Show is on later on today ten

986
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 1: to noon on one or three point five. We'll see

987
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 1: you then, have a great day. Shells. Here we go.

988
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 1: It's our Friday tradition. The Friday Throwback Dance Party is

989
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 1: on TJ Nearrod kiss here on The Friend Show hashtag FTDP.

990
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 1: Hit us up on social tell us what you want

991
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:16,760
Speaker 1: to hear all your favorite throwbacks to start the long weekend.

992
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:21,600
Speaker 1: On The Friend Show, it's one o three five. Get

993
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Speaker 1: up our boy. TJ Nerotic on Twitter on all the

994
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Speaker 1: Socials TJ Anu ro ot. I see another Friday Throwback

995
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Speaker 1: Dance Party hashtag FTTP. Thank you so much. D J

996
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Speaker 1: Nerotic gets The Friend Show on one h three five.

997
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: I got two jewelry stories for you. The first is

998
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 1: this viral video a high school student that created some

999
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 1: drama among his teachers with a sixteen dollars gadget that

1000
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:50,880
Speaker 1: can supposedly tell whether they're a diamond's real um. Diamond

1001
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:54,319
Speaker 1: tester Kid is his TikTok name. He uploaded his first

1002
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 1: video of an eight part series of September twenty first

1003
00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: and now viral clip has been viewed almost five million times.

1004
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 1: The team uses a diamond selector two to test if

1005
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:06,280
Speaker 1: one of his teacher's wedding rings is a real diamond

1006
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: or a simulated stone like a season or whatever. Turns out,

1007
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:13,879
Speaker 1: according to the video, at least that one of these,

1008
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 1: at least one of the rings is fake or the

1009
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 1: diamond is face. Um. The teacher is shocked by the results. Listener,

1010
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 1: You right, yeah, alright, that's real. Of course, let me

1011
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 1: test her. That could price fake? That kid sounds like

1012
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: he's twenty five teach third grade? Okay, that's what. And

1013
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 1: then the second teacher was so upset she called her husband,

1014
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 1: I guess on the video from the classroom, Hey, you married? Right? Ye?

1015
00:56:53,120 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 1: Are you got? Yes? All? Aren't they mad at him? Yeah?

1016
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 1: That's that's the question. You want to ask a real right,

1017
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 1: let me see that. This is great calling her husband.

1018
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 1: I don't put it on real class to yell at

1019
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 1: her husband. I don't know. I guess. So yeah, that

1020
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 1: went viral. I mean, I obviously, if you give someone

1021
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 1: a diamond ring, a diamond and gaze or ring, you're

1022
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 1: presenting it as a real diamond. So I suppose it's

1023
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: deceptive if if that person were to find out that

1024
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 1: it's fake, that it's glass and not a diamond or whatever.

1025
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 1: But if that person goes her whole life and never knows,

1026
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: I guess you get to live with that as the guy.

1027
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 1: But like, does anybody really cares ruining marriages over here?

1028
00:57:55,840 --> 00:58:00,040
Speaker 1: His teacher marriages? Yeah? Well, because now it's like I

1029
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 1: guess you could argue like did he lie? Did he

1030
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Speaker 1: not lie? I mean you could argue like as a

1031
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 1: as a guy who gives a woman a fake ring?

1032
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 1: Are you lying? Or are you not lying? Are you just?

1033
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: Are you? You know what I mean? Like nobody wants

1034
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 1: a fake ring, and everyone assumes a ring is real.

1035
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 1: But if if it's pretty and you like it, nobody

1036
00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:20,479
Speaker 1: can tell, then who's the liar? Or is anyone really lying? Yeah?

1037
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 1: I think I just would rather not know. I mean, dude'

1038
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 1: obviously lying he bought a ring that's not real and

1039
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 1: then play it off like it's real. But I'm saying,

1040
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 1: but you okay, but you say play it off like

1041
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 1: it's real. He proposes with a ring and there's probably

1042
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 1: never any conversation. I mean, nobody accepts a diamond ring

1043
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 1: and goes Hey, by the way, is this real? Nobody

1044
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 1: does that? Assume it's real, right, right? But if you

1045
00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 1: never say anything, are you lying? Yes, that's a good question.

1046
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: That is a good question. If you present a woman

1047
00:58:50,720 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 1: or a woman presents a woman whatever, a diamond engagement ring, yeah,

1048
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: and you never say anything about it. You just say,

1049
00:58:57,400 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 1: here's a beautiful ring, will you marry me? And she

1050
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: says yes, puts whatever and puts it on her finger,

1051
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: and you never say a word about it. And then

1052
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 1: everyone's happy and everyone gets there's you don't present a fake,

1053
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:10,400
Speaker 1: a praise all, nothing like. It's just that's the ring.

1054
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 1: Everyone's happy, everyone thinks it's beautiful. And then five years

1055
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 1: later somebody comes along with a diamond tester and realize

1056
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 1: and then then you realize that it's not real. Did

1057
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 1: he really? Did the guy really lie? I would say

1058
00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:27,919
Speaker 1: he didn't lie. I would say he didn't he didn't

1059
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 1: say anything. He didn't lie. I mean, you're lying off

1060
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:33,560
Speaker 1: the bed by buying a fake ring, presenting it as

1061
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 1: it's a real diamond. That's lie, are you? I mean? Yes,

1062
00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 1: everybody assumes it's real, but you now it's one thing.

1063
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 1: If you go, isn't this a beautiful three carrot diamond

1064
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: that I got you worth thirty thousand dollars. Tell all

1065
00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 1: your friends, now that's a lie. Yes, But if I

1066
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:48,959
Speaker 1: just give you a beautiful ring and don't say any

1067
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 1: more about it, and I just think it's beautiful and

1068
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 1: I gave it to you, and that's the symbol that

1069
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 1: I'm presenting to you, and now we're married and you're happy.

1070
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 1: Did I lie to you? Yes? By not saying anything,

1071
00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 1: you're lying, But what it's like, just my actually he

1072
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 1: couldn't do a real diamond. But then then you would

1073
01:00:03,440 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 1: then say something. Then you'd be like, I can't afford

1074
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 1: a real diamond, like why would you can sit? That

1075
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 1: cheapens the whole thing. That cheapens the moment then, And

1076
01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:12,880
Speaker 1: the other thing is if she's happy or he's say,

1077
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 1: whoever gets this ring? If this person's happy and doesn't,

1078
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 1: is none the wiser? Doesn't that prove the point that

1079
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:19,439
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be a real diamond. And five

1080
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 1: years down the road, you're on this kid's TikTok video

1081
01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 1: and it's a fake the whole time. Then what then

1082
01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 1: you're you're you're calling that whole live for five years

1083
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 1: eight five five five nine, one, one h three five.

1084
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:30,439
Speaker 1: Now I'm curious about this. Now, what are you gonna

1085
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 1: We'll get to the second jewelry story later. What are

1086
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 1: you gonna do about this? Because again I'm not saying

1087
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 1: I want to do this. My whole thing about engagement

1088
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 1: rings and rings and gifts in general is buy the

1089
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 1: gifts that you can afford to give, and then hopefully

1090
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:47,920
Speaker 1: as your relationship improves, then you can afford more expensive things.

1091
01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:49,880
Speaker 1: But if you if you go out and start your life,

1092
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 1: you're twenty something years old, you get married and you

1093
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: can only afford to five thousand dollars ring or twenty

1094
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 1: five hundred whatever it is, and you give somebody a

1095
01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 1: fifteen thousand dollars ring or twenty thousand dollar ring that

1096
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 1: you can't afford. You're making all these payments on her whatever.

1097
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:04,200
Speaker 1: That's I don't think that's a good way to start

1098
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 1: your life. And I think it's also you're you're not

1099
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 1: doing that because that's the symbol, because that symbol is necessary.

1100
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 1: You're doing it because you want to send a message

1101
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:14,920
Speaker 1: to other people that you have more than you do.

1102
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:17,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. And yes, nobody wants to

1103
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 1: give there the person they're a lover there, wants to

1104
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 1: marry a little ring, and but what's more important to you, Like,

1105
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: let's get married, let's have enough money to do it,

1106
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:28,480
Speaker 1: or let's wait years and years and years till I

1107
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 1: can afford to give a symbol that I believe is

1108
01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 1: a reflection of me. But if you're buying a fake ring,

1109
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 1: why buy a ginormous fake ring, you know what I'm saying?

1110
01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:38,760
Speaker 1: Why not just afford the one you can afford, Like

1111
01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 1: you're saying, like a tiny real stone or diamond that

1112
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 1: you could sing forward. Now, if you're presenting somebody with

1113
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:46,640
Speaker 1: a five carrot ring, and you know that's one thing.

1114
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:48,880
Speaker 1: But I haven't seen this person's ring. I don't know.

1115
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 1: Maybe it's just an average normal ring. And the guy

1116
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 1: thinks that spending money on diamonds is stupid, and so

1117
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 1: he didn't. Hey, Andretta, good morning. What are you gonna do? Look,

1118
01:01:58,480 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: I'm not really I don't want to be in this

1119
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,320
Speaker 1: position like I want to. I would agree that if

1120
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 1: you propose to someone, the assumption is that what you're

1121
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:10,440
Speaker 1: giving them is legitimate, no matter what's being said. If

1122
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 1: you don't say anything and everyone's happy, then you're not

1123
01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 1: really lying. But if this is how life feel, if

1124
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:17,680
Speaker 1: you love the person, what does that matter if it's

1125
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 1: twenty five rings to a thirty thousand dollars rings? And

1126
01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 1: what are you really going to get mad? Like? If

1127
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:24,120
Speaker 1: you like it, you love it? They say, what does

1128
01:02:24,120 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 1: that matter? How much it caused? And since when does

1129
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:28,120
Speaker 1: it matter what it caused? Him? He's like me, I

1130
01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 1: feel like you're a superficial person. Oh you imagine didn't

1131
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: buy me if there's a thirty thousand thousand dollars rings. Hey,

1132
01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 1: but least he loves doing enough to propose to you

1133
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 1: to marry you, don't be with you. I would argue,

1134
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 1: that's more important. That easy for me to say, you know,

1135
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 1: the hope of some magic over there? Um? And yes,

1136
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 1: I mean do I want to be in a position

1137
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:46,520
Speaker 1: where I give a little chip of a diamond is

1138
01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 1: someone I'm crazy in love with? And then she goes

1139
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 1: and shows all her friends, and all of her friends

1140
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 1: are like, oh that's tiny or whatever. But on the relationship, yeah,

1141
01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 1: oh why can't you do that later on down the road?

1142
01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 1: Like my fee asked you proposed to me? I know

1143
01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:01,600
Speaker 1: it's not no thousand dollars a ring, but they didn't matter.

1144
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 1: I love him in a Samariam, and I know later

1145
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:06,480
Speaker 1: down the ring, down the line, say when you renew

1146
01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 1: your vows, why can't then he could buy you that

1147
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 1: thirty thousand dollars ring that you really I agree with

1148
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:12,440
Speaker 1: that that I can not agree with that. Nobody's spent

1149
01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 1: thirty thousand. If all you've got is what you've got,

1150
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 1: and then then there are more important things to spend

1151
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:22,680
Speaker 1: money on in that point in your life, So get

1152
01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:25,240
Speaker 1: what you can. How many people I know people who

1153
01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 1: are quote unquote saving for the ring, and that's the

1154
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 1: reason that they're not married after years and years and

1155
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 1: years sex to me, he says, I deserve a really

1156
01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 1: good ring. I told him, I don't care if we

1157
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 1: went to little twenty five third ring. You asking me

1158
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 1: is what matters to me. Us becoming a family for

1159
01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 1: our daughter is what matters to me, not how much

1160
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 1: money you put one. So we're gonna have to wait

1161
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:45,680
Speaker 1: two years so you can buy me a ten thousand

1162
01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 1: dollars ring. It's like that that seems silly to me.

1163
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 1: It's again, it's the perfectly buy a house. Let's buy

1164
01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 1: a house. There you go the future. I don't care

1165
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 1: about no dame ring. There you go, thank you, Adrian,

1166
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 1: and have a great day. Yes, I get sense to me.

1167
01:03:56,680 --> 01:04:00,360
Speaker 1: That makes sense. Hey, Lissay, you heard the whole thing.

1168
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 1: Here is this guy on TikTok the students going around

1169
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 1: and revealing apparently I don't know if it's real or not,

1170
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: but then all his teachers have a lot of the

1171
01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: teachers have fake rings. And then, at least to the question,

1172
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 1: if you present someone a fake ring but you don't

1173
01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 1: say anything about it one way or the other, are

1174
01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 1: you lying? You think it depends on who you're speaking to.

1175
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 1: I think that technically, technically it is lying by omission

1176
01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 1: because you're not actually disclosing that it is fake. But

1177
01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 1: I'm just going off of my personal experience with my

1178
01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 1: husband and at the time when we were getting engaged

1179
01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 1: and we didn't really want to put the money towards

1180
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:42,520
Speaker 1: an expensive ring, he bought me a very inexpensive one

1181
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 1: and we put the money towards a house instead because

1182
01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:47,760
Speaker 1: that was more important to us. But that was a

1183
01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 1: joint decision that you made together, and so you knew

1184
01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 1: what was going on. It was a real ring as

1185
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 1: opposed to being presented with something that you thought was real,

1186
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:58,959
Speaker 1: but it was fake in an effort to save money. True,

1187
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 1: so to answer, but question, technically it's lying biomission because

1188
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:06,120
Speaker 1: I think it's just because of the standard. Everybody believes

1189
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 1: that when they are getting proposed to, unless it's spoken

1190
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 1: about beforehand, that it is real unless it's disclosed. Technically

1191
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 1: it's lying because you're not saying it. But I guess

1192
01:05:18,360 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: if you're happy with somebody, then it shouldn't matter to them,

1193
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 1: And if it is based off of a ring, then

1194
01:05:23,840 --> 01:05:27,440
Speaker 1: it's probably not going to be I don't want to

1195
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 1: say it's not going to be a happy marriage anyway,

1196
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:31,919
Speaker 1: but if you're just marrying somebody based on the fact

1197
01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:35,760
Speaker 1: that their ring is expensive and you wanted to marry

1198
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 1: them for that reason, then it's probably not a marriage anybody.

1199
01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 1: It's to say the ring has to be real. Who's

1200
01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:44,640
Speaker 1: to say it has to be? Where did that standard

1201
01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:47,360
Speaker 1: gets set? Agree with that? But I feel like that

1202
01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:51,040
Speaker 1: is the standard. It's unfortunate that that's the standard, but

1203
01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:53,720
Speaker 1: I feel like it is. This is what the de

1204
01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:56,480
Speaker 1: Beerst people did, you know, like a billion years ago,

1205
01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:59,400
Speaker 1: as they took junk stones and they managed to market

1206
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:01,440
Speaker 1: to everybody that this is what every woman wants, and

1207
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, every woman wanted it, and

1208
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 1: now they're you know, diamonds are worth however much, and

1209
01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 1: this is a different conversation. But I guess I would say,

1210
01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 1: if you like the ring and it's pretty and you're happy,

1211
01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:11,880
Speaker 1: then so be it. Let's move on. But you're right,

1212
01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:14,480
Speaker 1: I guess I assume it's real, and I've ever I don't.

1213
01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:17,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's tough. Thank you, Alyssa, thank you.

1214
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 1: I have a good day. Hey, Stephanie, you don't like this.

1215
01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:25,560
Speaker 1: You think that if a guy presents a fake diamond

1216
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:28,400
Speaker 1: to a woman that it's a lie, even if it's

1217
01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 1: never discussed. No, that's true what it said. But I said,

1218
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 1: oh damn, you tell me. I'm just reading the synopsis. No,

1219
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 1: what did you say. It doesn't matter, m if it's

1220
01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:45,200
Speaker 1: a lie or not, that's not the issue. The issue

1221
01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 1: is the fact that you know you're joining somebody for

1222
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 1: the rest of your life, supposedly, like that's what you think,

1223
01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 1: and then if it comes down, say, five years down

1224
01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:55,840
Speaker 1: the line, that's the deception. You're starting the marriage off

1225
01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:59,120
Speaker 1: with the decent Yes, So it's just a simple conversation

1226
01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 1: that has to be made, you know. I mean, if

1227
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 1: you're with someone and they only want a diamond ring,

1228
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:06,000
Speaker 1: and you know that this person only wants a diamond ring,

1229
01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 1: but then you're knowingly like not telling them, right, But

1230
01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,320
Speaker 1: if they don't want it, it doesn't matter. It's just

1231
01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 1: a it's a simple conversation that has to be mad.

1232
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 1: But if I give you a fake diamond, Stephanie, and

1233
01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:20,200
Speaker 1: you're happy with that, well then I guess I just

1234
01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 1: saved myself as of money. But then if she's a

1235
01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:23,920
Speaker 1: person that wants it. But if she's a person that

1236
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:26,120
Speaker 1: wants a diamond, and then she's showing it off to

1237
01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:29,280
Speaker 1: her friends and then to her friend everybody and everyone's happy,

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01:07:29,360 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 1: but exactly also living a lie. She's lying about the legit, Yeah,

1239
01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:37,400
Speaker 1: because she's been deceived the whole time. If I found

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01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: out five years later, I'd be like, you're straight up

1241
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 1: lied to me Like this whole time, I've been thinking

1242
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:48,680
Speaker 1: that this is real. And I think that's pretty stating. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1243
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:51,600
Speaker 1: I get it. Everybody kind of knows what you're doing there, Stephanie.

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01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:54,400
Speaker 1: Thank you, have a great day. Thanks so much for listening.

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01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:57,400
Speaker 1: Hey Jen, Hey there, how are you hey? So you

1246
01:07:57,480 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 1: weren't proposed to with a fake ring, and I actually

1247
01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 1: picked it out knowing it was fake, and you didn't care.

1248
01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:06,840
Speaker 1: I did not care. I would rather spend the money,

1249
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 1: I think for our household or our wedding. And it's

1250
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:11,919
Speaker 1: a beautiful ring. I wear it once in a while,

1251
01:08:12,080 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 1: and that's it. Let's say let's say that you didn't

1252
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:17,640
Speaker 1: know that it was fake, but you did know that

1253
01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 1: he could afford it. If you're being honest with yourself,

1254
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:22,120
Speaker 1: would you have assumed it was real and then felt

1255
01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:24,800
Speaker 1: deceived if you found it later it was fake. I

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01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:27,599
Speaker 1: would have assumed it was real, but I wouldn't have cared.

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01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:30,679
Speaker 1: I'm not a jewelry person. I've knocked into that stuff.

1258
01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 1: So that's the thing is my buddies who saved and

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01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:36,080
Speaker 1: saved or saved and then then buy these really expensive

1260
01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:39,439
Speaker 1: wedding rings and then the person now only wears like

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01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:43,400
Speaker 1: this little tiny gold that they bought from some boozy

1262
01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 1: designer or whatever, and it's like, wait a minute, my mom,

1263
01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:49,799
Speaker 1: My dad bought my mom the super huge crazy diamond.

1264
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 1: He saved all this money, designed himself, he's an engineer

1265
01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:55,200
Speaker 1: or whatever, and she never wears that because well, because

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01:08:55,240 --> 01:08:57,800
Speaker 1: it's like kind of a lot, and so they got

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01:08:57,840 --> 01:08:59,360
Speaker 1: married when they were older. He had the money, so

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01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:01,320
Speaker 1: he did it. But then you know, now she wears

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01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:03,160
Speaker 1: like a band, which is also nice, but it's not

1270
01:09:03,280 --> 01:09:04,960
Speaker 1: the big thing he spent all the money on. That's

1271
01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:13,640
Speaker 1: in that safe somewhere. What good a dead do you know? No,

1272
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 1: we've already had this cone. It is a little bit

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01:09:17,000 --> 01:09:18,800
Speaker 1: of an antiquated design because he gave it to her

1274
01:09:18,840 --> 01:09:22,040
Speaker 1: in the early nineties. My sister's idea is that she's

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01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:24,080
Speaker 1: going to take this ring that my dad designed with

1276
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 1: his own hands and pull the diamond out and put

1277
01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:29,000
Speaker 1: it in something else over my dead body. No, now

1278
01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:31,760
Speaker 1: it's going to be Yeah, that's what happens for you. No,

1279
01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:34,640
Speaker 1: has that happened. I got to get engaged. Well, and

1280
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:36,960
Speaker 1: I don't care if nobody ever wears it, and which,

1281
01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:38,920
Speaker 1: which is the argument that people have had it with me,

1282
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:41,439
Speaker 1: is well then what a waste. But it's not a waste.

1283
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:43,439
Speaker 1: It's not like my dad went to zails and bought

1284
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 1: a design that's now antiquated. He made it in cad

1285
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 1: and and then made the little mold and gave it

1286
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:51,599
Speaker 1: to the He made it himself from his own brain,

1287
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:57,280
Speaker 1: and your sister wants to down, No, you couldn't do this.

1288
01:09:58,840 --> 01:10:04,280
Speaker 1: My father like that. Hey Loupe, Hey bretwall Lope, morning man.

1289
01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 1: I think a good one. I think, Uh, there's a

1290
01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 1: couple of things people are not taking a consideration. First

1291
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:13,040
Speaker 1: of all, what is this kid using? Is you using

1292
01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:18,920
Speaker 1: an actual machine? Is it using like a little tester?

1293
01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:23,559
Speaker 1: And and then how do you know that actually works

1294
01:10:23,640 --> 01:10:26,680
Speaker 1: or doesn't work? First of all? Second of all, how

1295
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:28,960
Speaker 1: do you know that these guys didn't get tuped at

1296
01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:32,640
Speaker 1: the jury store? Yeah, that's true too, you know. I

1297
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:34,800
Speaker 1: mean there's a lot of designest people. You know, I

1298
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:37,759
Speaker 1: don't know nothing about time? Is that com be easy

1299
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 1: trick to buy a three thousand dollars bringing which is

1300
01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:43,920
Speaker 1: bringing worth only five five hundred dollars? You know? I

1301
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:47,720
Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, I mean it's possible that one of

1302
01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 1: these guys got taken. Yeah, and then that's how he's

1303
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:51,560
Speaker 1: finding out thanks this a little snotting noose kid in

1304
01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:54,160
Speaker 1: the high school. That's the story I'm sticking too. Yeah,

1305
01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:59,960
Speaker 1: Cross and I got receipt Now you're not I don't,

1306
01:11:01,040 --> 01:11:04,320
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think this kid is really doing

1307
01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:07,000
Speaker 1: what he says he's doing. I mean, we don't know

1308
01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 1: how well that the whole conversation though, is a hypothetical now,

1309
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:13,439
Speaker 1: I mean, Luther, we're just now no, you're just saying

1310
01:11:13,479 --> 01:11:15,760
Speaker 1: what who is the liar? Or is anyone lying? But

1311
01:11:15,840 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 1: thank you so much, man, have a good day. Glad.

1312
01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:23,519
Speaker 1: You call her Erica? Erica? Yeah, you you're the Erica?

1313
01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:29,400
Speaker 1: You Erica? Is that you? Helo Erica me? And then

1314
01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:33,640
Speaker 1: she hung up. Yeah, no, it's me, I'm here. Yeah, No,

1315
01:11:34,760 --> 01:11:38,840
Speaker 1: is your name America? It is? It's you. Are you

1316
01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:44,879
Speaker 1: lying about your name? Right now? I forgot about yourself

1317
01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:50,160
Speaker 1: with a fake name, liar. Okay, what do you want

1318
01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 1: to say? Please go ahead? Okay, So I you know,

1319
01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:58,280
Speaker 1: I'm I have a ring. I'm not engaged, I'm not married.

1320
01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 1: We've just kind of had this um understanding for the

1321
01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:04,519
Speaker 1: past ten years that like, look, we're not going to

1322
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:07,519
Speaker 1: get married. It's not it's not for us the ring.

1323
01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:12,519
Speaker 1: But my dad is very, very traditional, and he wanted

1324
01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:14,680
Speaker 1: the ring. He wanted to know that we are in it.

1325
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 1: So it was a diamond ring. It was like only

1326
01:12:17,479 --> 01:12:20,439
Speaker 1: five hundred dollars, but I love it. If a band

1327
01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:24,439
Speaker 1: it is gorgeous, but down down the road, friends and family,

1328
01:12:24,479 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 1: I think you know, the history of like the diamond is,

1329
01:12:27,960 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 1: so if you get a diamond, that diamond is yours.

1330
01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:33,640
Speaker 1: So if that guy seats, the fat guy leaves it,

1331
01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:37,760
Speaker 1: that guy whatever, that's your security to like get out

1332
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:41,920
Speaker 1: and that's your ring. Also, you're saying that if if

1333
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:44,680
Speaker 1: it's a fake ring and she's walking around thinking, well,

1334
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 1: at least I've got the value of this. If he

1335
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:49,880
Speaker 1: does something bad and then she doesn't, that just kind

1336
01:12:49,880 --> 01:12:53,559
Speaker 1: of a pessimistic way to view the ring, right, I understand,

1337
01:12:53,880 --> 01:12:58,519
Speaker 1: believe me, I understand, But I mean traditionally that is

1338
01:12:58,600 --> 01:13:02,439
Speaker 1: the way that the act diamonds came in to play.

1339
01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:04,920
Speaker 1: You guys were asking why it has to be a

1340
01:13:05,120 --> 01:13:09,840
Speaker 1: diamond value, it has more value. I don't think that

1341
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:11,920
Speaker 1: the history of the diamond is here's a diamond in

1342
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:13,720
Speaker 1: case I cheat on you and then you're gonna go

1343
01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:16,839
Speaker 1: get yourself an apartment. I don't think that's the story.

1344
01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:20,080
Speaker 1: But I get that there's an assumption that it's worth something.

1345
01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:22,760
Speaker 1: But again, these are all assumptions. It doesn't make someone

1346
01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 1: a liar. It might make them a little shady, but

1347
01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:28,760
Speaker 1: you know, you're assuming a lot of things. Yeah, you

1348
01:13:29,000 --> 01:13:33,880
Speaker 1: absolutely are. You are going into marriage in general, that's true.

1349
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:38,000
Speaker 1: But if if he buys you a jankie ring that

1350
01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 1: you're happy with, and then he is able to go

1351
01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:43,000
Speaker 1: put the down payment on the house too and pay

1352
01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:44,760
Speaker 1: off some credit card bills and pay for the wedding,

1353
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:49,000
Speaker 1: then well, and then a win win, right. I completely agree.

1354
01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:52,320
Speaker 1: That's why I'm super satisfied, admiring and my beautiful house.

1355
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:54,200
Speaker 1: And this segment is going to make sure I never

1356
01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:56,880
Speaker 1: get away with this ever, because when I'm marry now

1357
01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:58,679
Speaker 1: is going to buy one of those sixteen dollars testers

1358
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 1: on Amazon, and I'm up to thank you, Erica, and

1359
01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:06,160
Speaker 1: You're gonna have the greatest relationship and the best like

1360
01:14:06,680 --> 01:14:16,639
Speaker 1: history to come. So you do. I know, Oh, Kylan

1361
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:19,519
Speaker 1: has no faith. I think he does, though I'm kidding.

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01:14:19,880 --> 01:14:21,439
Speaker 1: I have faith in you, Fred. I just want to

1363
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:25,160
Speaker 1: dance at your wedding, man. I just want to go

1364
01:14:25,640 --> 01:14:29,120
Speaker 1: there early and be there for everything and then leave

1365
01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 1: early like you do. At least I showed up for

1366
01:14:34,120 --> 01:14:37,600
Speaker 1: the actual events that matter and then I left. No,

1367
01:14:37,800 --> 01:14:39,599
Speaker 1: then I left and didn't drink all your old I'm

1368
01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:41,960
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna shut down that barn everything. Oh, I

1369
01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:45,040
Speaker 1: know when you or yeah, it's gonna be great when

1370
01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:47,240
Speaker 1: I when there are two people at the wedding and

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01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:52,479
Speaker 1: the person I'm married and Elvis Fred Show