1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 1: Well, Happy Valentine's Day. It is time now for the 2 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, 3 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: parenting and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve 4 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:18,119 Speaker 1: HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 5 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 6 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:24,119 Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now, and 7 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: you never know. It could be yours. It could be yours. 8 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: Buckle up a hole on type. We got it for you. 9 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew. Subject. Is 10 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 1: there something better out there? Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm fifty 11 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: two years old and I've been dating a married man 12 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 1: for fourteen years. Our arrangement works out great, and we 13 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: have a condo together, and we traveled together. My family 14 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: loves him, and I love his family. Our condo is 15 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: downtown and his house in the suburbs with his wife 16 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: is in the suburbs with his wife, so I've never 17 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 1: run into them together. He put me in his will 18 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: recently after he had his appendix removed, and that strengthened 19 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: his commitment to me. Our connection is so real. I 20 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: lost a lot of married girlfriends over the years that 21 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: say I'm a homewrecker and I need to get a 22 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 1: life and leave this man alone. I believe it is 23 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 1: possible to love more than one person, so that is 24 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: why I have been thinking about stepping out on my 25 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,680 Speaker 1: men and getting a man on the side. I have 26 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: been with the same guy for fourteen years, and I 27 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: know he's not having sex with his wife, but I 28 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 1: want to experiment a little with someone new, just in 29 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 1: case he is. I meet men all the time, but 30 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: the one I met last week has really got my attention. 31 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 1: The first night, he sent me nudes and I was 32 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: very impressed. I told him I am in a relationship 33 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: and he said that's fine for now, but I'm going 34 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: to be his woman one day soon. He is fifty 35 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: and he's never been married. I want to get to 36 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: know him, but he wants to rush right into sex. 37 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: I like, I should be honest with my boyfriend and 38 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: tell him I've met someone. This new guy said, I 39 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: don't have to tell my married man anything. He said, 40 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: I should have a man all to myself, and I'm 41 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: selling myself short. I'm not like other women that need 42 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: a man around all of the time. So I was content. 43 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: The new guy has me thinking is there something better 44 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: out there? Or does he just want to have sex? Well? 45 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: Yes and yes? Is there something better out there? Yes? 46 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: Does he just want to have sex? Yes? I cannot 47 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 1: believe this letter. I mean, really, do you hear yourself. 48 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: You've been with a married man for fourteen years that 49 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: you've been fooled into thinking doesn't have sex with his wife. Wow. 50 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: Just because you guys have a condo together, just because 51 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 1: you travel together, doesn't mean they are not at home 52 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: in the suburbs doing it. He lives with her, he 53 00:02:56,080 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: sleeps with her. Okay, you wrote this letter like everything 54 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: is fine, You're cool, everything's good. Well, it's not fine. 55 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: Everything is not good. Everyone sees this, but you. The 56 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 1: married women that used to be your friends don't like you. 57 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: He's creeping, he's cheating with you. You're still the other woman, 58 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: You're still the side piece to jump off all of that. 59 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 1: He may have put you in his will, but really, 60 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: if something happens to him, who do you think the 61 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: insurance company is gonna contact? Not you the wife? Okay, 62 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: you have no rights, you have no say in this 63 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: man's life. That would be fourteen years you put in 64 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: for nothing. What a waste. Don't you want a man 65 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: of your own? And I'll tell you this, this new man, 66 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: I don't think he's right either, because he just wants sex. 67 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: You said it yourself, you need to get out of 68 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: this going nowhere relationship. Don't even entertain this new guy. 69 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: So yes, again, there is something better out there for you, 70 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: but you can't see it because you won't get out 71 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: of your own way. You are fifty two years old. 72 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: You gotta do better for yourself. Neither one of these 73 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: guys mean you any good, So stop letting them use 74 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: you for sex and just get out now. Steve, I'm 75 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: gonna just jump right into this letter right here, because 76 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: this letter right here is kind of makes me mad. 77 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 1: Throughout the letter, it's fifty two year old woman, been 78 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: dating the married man for fourteen years. She started this 79 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: when she was thirty eight. That's a big chunk of 80 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: your life dedicated to something that ain't going nowhere. Obviously, 81 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: our arrangement works out great, and we have a condo together, 82 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 1: and we traveled together. My family loves him, I love 83 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: his family. Where is this going? Our condo is downtown 84 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 1: and his houses and the suburbs with his wife. So 85 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 1: I've never running to them together. Well, that's because it's 86 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: the perfect distance. You downtown, durn the suburbs. He got 87 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: a creep crib and you in it. He put me 88 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 1: in his real recently after he had his appendix removed, 89 00:04:56,600 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 1: and that strengthen his commitment to me. No, lady, he 90 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: hold you. He put you in his will. He told 91 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: you that you sit up there and tell your wife 92 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 1: were fit to put this in the wheel? Were you crazy? Honey? 93 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: Put you in no damn will. He told you that 94 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: that line made me sicken. In any other line damn 95 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: than in this letter. Put you in his will. Our 96 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 1: connection is so real. I lost a lot of married 97 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: girlfriends over the years and say, I'm a home wreck 98 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: and I needed to get a life and lead this 99 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: man alone. I believe it's possible to love more than 100 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: one person. So that is why I'm half thinking about 101 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: stepping out on my man and getting a man on 102 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 1: the side. Well why not? Why not you a side? 103 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: Now you are? Now you're thinking about getting a man 104 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 1: on the side. And you say it's because you believe 105 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: that a person can love more than one person. That 106 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: that's what he told you. See, he took the married 107 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: dude told you that that's where you got that from. 108 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:59,239 Speaker 1: So now you're thinking, well, okay, well, since he loved 109 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: two people, let me go love two people. I've been 110 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 1: with the same guy for fourteen years and I know 111 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 1: he's not having sex with his wife. What what in 112 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 1: fourteen years? They ain't got no kids? This man ain't 113 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:21,720 Speaker 1: got no kids. How you think they got him? I 114 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: want to experiment with a little, a little with someone new, 115 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 1: just in case he is. I thought you said he 116 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 1: wouldn't having sex. Now you say you want to experiment 117 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: on the side, just in case heah, you mean just 118 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: in case he having sex at his house and the 119 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 1: end the penhouse, little girl. All right, Steve, hang on, 120 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: hang on, Okay. We'll have part two of your response 121 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour today's 122 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters subject is there something better out there? 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That's one eight hundred 132 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: two five one fifty four hundred. All right, Steve, come on, 133 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is is there 134 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: something better out there? Fitted you? Y'all? Woman been dating 135 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 1: this man for fourteen years. The arrangement is great. He 136 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: got a a little apartment together downtown. His family lives 137 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: out in the suburbs. She feels as though their relationship 138 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 1: to strengthen now because he put me in his wheel 139 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: recently after his appendix, and that strengthen his commitment to me. 140 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 1: That didn't listen to me. How does that strengthen his commitment? 141 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 1: He puts you in the wheel? This is after he died. 142 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: But what where's the commitment after he died? Do you 143 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: understand what the wheel is? It's enforced after the depth 144 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 1: of the person. If he's strengthening his commitment to you, 145 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: it ain't after death. He goes, he ain't committed to 146 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:27,239 Speaker 1: nobody now, And let me tell you something. You ain't 147 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: in no wheel. He told you he put you in 148 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 1: the wheel. You believe anything, you can't You kind of stupid. Really, 149 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 1: I then you said, I believe it's possible a little 150 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 1: more than one person. That's because he told you that too. 151 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: That's why I've been thinking about stepping out on my 152 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: man and getting a man on the side. I've been 153 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: in the same guy for fourteen years. I know he's 154 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: not having sex with his wife. He is, but I 155 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 1: want to experiment a little with someone new, just in 156 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: case he is. Okay, he's having sex with his wife. 157 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna tell you that man and that you 158 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: want to experience with somebody, just in case he is ain't. No, 159 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 1: in case he is. I meet me and all the time. 160 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: But the one I met last week really got my attention. Okay, 161 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: listen to this line. The first night he sent me nudes, 162 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 1: and I was very impressed. You was impressed. The first 163 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 1: night he sent you nudes, and you was impressed. Your 164 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 1: aunt should have been scared. See, you don't know what 165 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: to feel. This man just met you, and all of 166 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 1: a sudden he's sending the nude pictures and you was impressed. 167 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: Your ass should have been scared. I told him I'm 168 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 1: in a relationship, and he said, that's fine for now, 169 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:42,839 Speaker 1: but I'm going to be his woman one day soon. Okay, ladies, 170 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: don't want to teach you all something. If a man 171 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:49,839 Speaker 1: says to you, you gonna be my woman one day soon, 172 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: I want you to hear what that really means. That 173 00:09:53,360 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: means you gonna be his woman for one day, and 174 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: the next line as soon as possible. So as soon 175 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: as possible, you're gonna be his woman for one day. Now. 176 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 1: He had already sent you news, and then he follows 177 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 1: it up with this line. Right, he didn't even know you. 178 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 1: He's fifty and he's never been married, and I want 179 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 1: to get to know him, but he wants to rush 180 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:27,959 Speaker 1: right into sex. That's why he sent the news. You 181 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 1: got the new picture. You're right about that. He sent 182 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: you the new picture first night. I feel like I 183 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: should be honest with my boyfriend and tell him I 184 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 1: met someone. Okay, then what okay, go ahead and try 185 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: that and then write us back. Let us know how. 186 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: We go ahead and tell him that. The new guy said, 187 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: I don't have to tell my married man anything. Boy. 188 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 1: People can just tell you anything. Yo. Bother side said, 189 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: you ain't got to tell him nothing. You should have 190 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: a man all to yourself, and I'm selling myself short. 191 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: I'm not like other women that need a man around 192 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: all the time. So I was content. The new guy 193 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: has me thinking, is there's something better out there? Does 194 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:22,440 Speaker 1: he just want to say? Shirley's absolutely right, Yes he 195 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: does want to say, and that's all he wanted to say. 196 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: He just met you. He's send you nudes the first night. 197 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 1: You impressed and you should have been scared. Who does 198 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 1: that if you meet a guy on the first night 199 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: he sent your new picture of himself? What you think 200 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 1: he wants? How stupid can you be? Didn't he tell 201 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 1: you don't need to tell your friend nothing because he 202 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:52,319 Speaker 1: know now he gonna talk you out of sleeping with him. Look, lady, 203 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: you got low self esteem fourteen years you with someone 204 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 1: that ain't going nowhere. Now you're want experiment, But because 205 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 1: you don't have any experience at dating, you just have 206 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 1: experience at creeping. Now you don't even know what to 207 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: say to the dude that's dating. So lady, I don't look, 208 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't let me see what she 209 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: asked us far. Is that something better out there? Of 210 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 1: course it is? Yeah, But See the problem with you 211 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,959 Speaker 1: getting something better is you ain't what better people want. 212 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: See that's a word. You can't get what you don't give. 213 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: You want a man that's upstanding, it's gonna treat you 214 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 1: right when you're not treating other people right. Or you 215 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 1: want somebody to treat you a certain way when you 216 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 1: let anybody treat you any kind of way. So is 217 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:48,599 Speaker 1: it something better out there? To answer that question is 218 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:52,199 Speaker 1: absolutely there's something better out there. But that's something better 219 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:56,080 Speaker 1: is looking for something better hisself and right now you 220 00:12:56,120 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: ain't it. So I don't know what you want, and 221 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what anybody out there wants that does 222 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: this type of thing. So that's it for you. I 223 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 1: don't know what else to tell you. Yeah, now, look, 224 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 1: let's be adults about this whole thing. Situations happen, that's life. 225 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:22,439 Speaker 1: But lady you wrote in I'm just telling you you're 226 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:26,200 Speaker 1: going down and you're to know where relationship, and you 227 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: just gotta understand that if you were seeing other people 228 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: trying to get your life together, I'd understand that you've 229 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: been on hold for fourteen years. Yeah, all right, thank you. Steve. 230 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter. 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