WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Singles Mixer Shocker 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:01.360 Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and you 0:00:01.400 --> 0:00:02.520 found our second. 0:00:02.240 --> 0:00:05.640 Date feed Why we're saying this. Normally Brooke would be 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:08.280 doing it. But she's out there on the phone with 0:00:08.320 --> 0:00:08.840 her kids. 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:10.000 She's crying. 0:00:10.720 --> 0:00:11.959 She's crying happy tears. 0:00:12.039 --> 0:00:13.159 I think, I don't know. 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:15.800 Her daughters started middle school and it's every day. 0:00:15.680 --> 0:00:18.600 Here, so it's been a big emotional right. Yeah, but 0:00:18.680 --> 0:00:19.320 she's there. 0:00:19.600 --> 0:00:22.040 And I have not stopped reading your guys's comments from 0:00:22.040 --> 0:00:24.319 the second date, even though it was on Friday, the 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:27.680 euro date. Jose, Yeah, Norwegian style dating. 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:30.400 Dude, which I need to adapt and adopt. I mean, 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:32.400 because I had no idea this existed. 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:34.000 No, I don't know that it does exist. 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:38.040 I count ten Norwegian listeners commented that this girl has 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:38.680 been scammed. 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:43.960 But you know, man, that's okay. That's actually almost funnier. 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:45.879 I know, I love it. 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:48.199 So if you haven't listened to Friday second date, go 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:48.879 back and do that. 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:52.080 Oh no, and if you're from Norway, help we have enough. 0:00:52.120 --> 0:00:55.760 Norwegians haven't confirmed, they have confirmed. Not real, But that's okay. 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:57.280 Litter live her life that way. 0:00:57.640 --> 0:01:00.760 Sure, she seems happy and yeah, today guy says he. 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:02.200 Has the best icebreaker. 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:05.920 You'll ever hear icebreaker questions, so let us know if 0:01:05.959 --> 0:01:07.760 it would work on you in the comments and what 0:01:07.880 --> 0:01:10.080 your answer would be to it. Yeah, all right, and 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:12.000 here's your second d style. 0:01:12.040 --> 0:01:13.280 Just get right back to Norway. 0:01:14.080 --> 0:01:16.160 All right, brand new second date starts. 0:01:15.880 --> 0:01:21.720 Now the Second Date updated. We obviously have heard about 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:25.720 people meeting on dating apps or during activities like a 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:29.160 run club or hopscotch karaoke classes. 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:30.960 You do it all at the same time. 0:01:31.160 --> 0:01:34.480 Yeah, it's really fun, really challenging. But kind of a 0:01:34.520 --> 0:01:37.440 more old school thing that's been around and it's making 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:40.440 its way back again is singles events. 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:43.960 Oh you know, I've been really into love on the 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:46.559 Spectrum the show and they do all sorts of speed 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:47.920 dating on that show. 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:52.800 And you are doing the singles events too. Oh no, okay, 0:01:52.840 --> 0:01:54.840 but apparently they are still a thing because one of 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:57.480 our listeners went to one recently and he needs our 0:01:57.480 --> 0:02:00.480 help today. His name is Trey, So Trey, thanks for 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:01.920 emailing and welcome to the show. 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:04.120 Hey guys, thank you so much for having me. 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:06.840 Oh well, thank you for thanking us for having you. 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:11.240 Was this the first like singles mingle or whatever they 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:12.920 called it, that you've ever done. 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:15.399 No, so I've actually been to a couple of them. 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:19.480 I am really anti like the dating apps, and I'm 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:21.320 much more on making like a human connection. 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:24.799 Yeah, and it's way harder to lie about yourself when 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:27.560 you're meeting people in person. You can still pull it off, 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:29.800 trust me, but it's harder. What do you mean, I'm 0:02:29.800 --> 0:02:31.080 about six feet I'm sitting right in. 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:31.480 Front of you. 0:02:33.480 --> 0:02:34.560 Okay, so how did it go? 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:37.840 So the last one I went to, it was a 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:40.840 little weirder because there's a ton of guys there. Usually 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:44.640 it's a good, like fifty flippy mix, but it was definitely. 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:46.640 More of I guess you would traditionally call it more 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:47.560 of a sausage fest. 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:51.000 The more guys reply to the emails that when they 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:52.119 set them up than anything. 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:54.600 Sounds like whoever was producing it screwed up. Ye you know, 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:57.239 because that's like the whole point of it. 0:02:57.320 --> 0:03:02.280 A sports bar, Ye, like a cutcy bar, a sports bar, 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:03.000 I'd be a little. 0:03:02.840 --> 0:03:04.960 More excited than it's like a regular total. I never 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:07.920 thought about the venue playing a role in that. I mean, 0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:10.639 now you're working at a disadvantage if there's more guys 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:11.320 than girls. 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:14.240 Yeah, I mean it can be a little competitive, you know, 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:16.600 which is not really like what you want to vibe 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:17.280 to feel. 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:18.760 Like, I don't want to be looking at this time 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:19.680 and be like, oh I wonder. 0:03:19.520 --> 0:03:21.400 If this guy is gonna have a better answer than me. 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:24.520 Yeah, okay, did you come in with like a certain 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:28.160 question you like to ask that's intriguing and good combo starter? 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:30.359 Okay, I'll let you guys tell me how good of 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:33.240 a question is. So you're familiar that we only have 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:35.240 the young Sheldon because big. 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:37.880 Bang theory exists. If you could have any. 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:41.160 Young character show, who would you want to see a 0:03:41.200 --> 0:03:42.120 young version of? 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:43.320 Yeah? 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:46.240 Great question, Like we're getting the new Harry Potter series 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:47.920 about young young Harry Potter. 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:50.080 What about the Cosby Show? Is that a good answer? 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:55.640 Young young? She's actually eating pudding because his mom gave 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:56.040 it to him. 0:03:59.040 --> 0:04:00.000 I would not go with that one. 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:00.840 Okay. 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:04.760 My funny after that is young George Costanza because then 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:06.400 you still get a little Jerry. 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:10.920 Wowy somehow she's somehow still bald. 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:14.160 That sounds like a really good icebreaker. How did the 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:15.600 mingling actually go? 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:19.039 So it didn't go great? Like I said, there's a 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:19.520 lot of people. 0:04:19.600 --> 0:04:22.400 It's just hard to find time to get any FaceTime 0:04:22.400 --> 0:04:26.160 with everybody because everyone's just moving so quickly. And the 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:29.080 host of the event came over and mentioned to me like, hey, 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:31.919 I really appreciate you coming out, but then had this 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:35.599 like very weird backhanded comment of I know you're not 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:37.920 as attractive as some of the other guys here. 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:43.400 Oh no, wild The organizer of the event said that 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:45.360 to you, was it a guy or a girl? 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:47.880 It was a girl, and she was like, I know 0:04:47.960 --> 0:04:50.240 what a great personality you have because you've seen me 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:51.360 at other events. 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:54.960 You know, there's no defending that. If she sees like 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:57.919 a thousand eaters a week and she's just being she 0:04:57.960 --> 0:04:59.920 made us in her head and spoken out loud. Yeah, 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.400 or if she is also single, maybe she was trying 0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:05.600 to neg you a little bit. I don't think we don't. 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:08.560 Do that Rightually makes me feel good. 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:11.960 I know, how did you get back in there? After that? 0:05:12.279 --> 0:05:14.040 My confidence would have been deflated. 0:05:14.520 --> 0:05:15.640 Yeah, it didn't go great. 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:20.240 Not so not to rush you through this story, but 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:22.840 we are going to be calling somebody you didn't meet 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:25.359 a woman eventually, right, Yeah. 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:27.960 So that takes me to the next part. So later 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:31.039 in the event, a couple of other like girls walked in. 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:33.120 It was late. It was nice because some of the 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:35.400 people are already kind of matched, so I had a 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:39.560 little bit better of an ink okay, and that's when 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:41.000 I started connecting with Steph. 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:42.479 Steph, Steph Okay. 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:45.599 She was great. We tried it for like fifteen minutes 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:48.560 one on one. I asked her out of course, I 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:51.560 knocked out which young show would you want to see? 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:54.680 Hers was young, It's always sunny, which I think is 0:05:54.880 --> 0:05:55.640 a perfect. 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:02.479 Which means she's funny. Yeah, yeah, she likes humor. 0:06:02.960 --> 0:06:05.040 Yeah, I mean, you guys are cracked. So then we 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:06.960 set up a date. A week later. We met it 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:09.480 just like really cool wine bar that's near min Oh 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:09.920 you did me? 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:12.400 Okay, yeah, I mean I had a few dreams. 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:14.719 But right I like the hour mark. 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:17.760 She was like, well, I has to go and just 0:06:17.839 --> 0:06:19.760 kind of cut it off, which caught me up guard 0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:21.599 because I kind of was locked in for the evening. 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:23.800 I was like, great, we hit the wine bar down 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:26.960 the road is really incredible taco joint that I love 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:27.359 going to. 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:29.680 I thought it would be like a fun like whole night. 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:34.360 Yeah, wine and tacos, perfect combination, just because. 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:36.039 It was right on the hour market sounds like maybe 0:06:36.080 --> 0:06:38.280 she like read something somewhere that's. 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:40.440 Like, oh, don't let your date go more than an hour, 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:42.000 you know what I mean? I don't know. 0:06:42.480 --> 0:06:44.440 I mean my head first went to if she's doing 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:47.719 these speed dating events with him, maybe there's multiple other 0:06:47.800 --> 0:06:50.479 guys that she matched with and had a whole idea 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:52.400 just you're a common thing to have, like kind of 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:55.839 a rotation or roster. Now she just knock them all 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:59.000 out exactly. Yeah, how long ago did that date happen? 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:01.719 That is about a week ago. 0:07:01.960 --> 0:07:03.440 All right, and you haven't heard from her at all. 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:05.440 No, she hasn't gotten back. 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:08.440 And I'm also not someone that's gonna like triple text 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:10.840 someone like I'm gonna you know, I'll give the space 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:11.680 to respond. 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:16.720 You are self aware that is crazy on this show, dude, Yeah, 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:20.280 that never happens. So let's come back. We're gonna call 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:23.280 Steph for you, try and get you a second date. Update. 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:25.400 In the meantime, if you like younger versions, you can 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:27.880 go back and listen to old stuff from our podcast. 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:29.760 Here are a little bit younger versions of us. 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:33.280 Jeffrey, We're never older on the podcast, are we No. 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:35.480 We're not, but we'll do it. With your second date 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:40.640 update right after this second date update if you're just 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:44.040 joining us. We've been talking to Trey about his date 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:47.160 with a woman named Steph. They met at a singles mixer, 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:50.120 where he learned Steph likes the show It's Always Sonny 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:54.480 in Philadelphia, which is why yes sorry, so naturally for 0:07:54.560 --> 0:07:57.360 their date, he took her out not to an Irish bar, 0:07:57.680 --> 0:08:00.000 but to a wine bar. I thought, you want to say, 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:04.200 should it's smart. Don't give women everything they want right 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:05.920 up front and work for it. 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:07.920 Just do a dumpster behind the. 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:12.680 Would have worked justice, But at the one hour mark, 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:15.600 Steph kind of called it all of a sudden, almost 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:18.240 like she was timing the date, so kind of a 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:22.120 strange end to it, and Trey, here's the deal. If 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:24.480 we are able to get her to answer, you know, 0:08:24.480 --> 0:08:26.520 we're going to talk to her about your actual date 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:29.680 and probably about the night you two met. So I 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:33.080 need to ask you, is it totally off limits for 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:35.520 us if it comes up to tell her about the 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:40.120 host of the singles mixer calling you unattractive in the world. 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:42.520 Mention that I'm just saying if it comes up. 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:44.760 The date wasn't even part of that conversation. 0:08:44.960 --> 0:08:45.160 Why. 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:48.880 Okay, Yeah, I'm sure it won't. This is great. 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:52.160 Okay, I don't. 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:53.760 Listen. 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:55.840 I'm bring up because I'd be curious to hear what 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:57.840 she would say in response to that comment. 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:03.440 Here, dude, you know we're all together. We're a team 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:05.480 on this. Let's all put our hands in on three 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:12.240 one two three ugly Okay, dude, I. 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:14.520 Will say right now that there are many people out 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:17.400 there that may not be beautiful at the first meeting, 0:09:17.559 --> 0:09:19.800 but then they get more attractive the more you know them. 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:21.600 God, you hear her voice. She doesn't believe that. I 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:25.079 do believe that your rock bottom. Okay, here, it's gonna 0:09:25.120 --> 0:09:27.280 go on. It's not gonna come up. I won't say 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:27.640 it's here. 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:29.640 We get there's a reason why you guys are my 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:30.200 favorite show. 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:35.520 I guess we'll see. Okay, I'm gonna diear number. Here 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:49.199 we go see if steph answers hello, Hey, is this Steph? 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:57.479 Yeah? 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:00.000 Sign all uncomfort? 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:02.320 Yeah, the Fawns is on the show with us today. 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:05.960 That is a reference that no one under the age 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:06.640 of fifty. 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:09.199 It's fine. We're a radio show. We're called Brook and 0:10:09.280 --> 0:10:11.520 Jeffrey in the morning. Steph, are you still there? 0:10:12.280 --> 0:10:12.559 Yeah? 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:14.200 Okay, Dad. 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:17.120 Hey, as you can tell, we're a really fun, jokey 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:19.560 type of show, but we do get serious a little 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:21.040 bit with this segment that we do. It's called the 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:21.920 second date update. 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:25.440 Okay, okay, has not clicking? 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:27.880 Yeah, maybe you explain it? 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:30.880 Oh okay, Well, Steph, you met a great guy who 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:32.800 you went out with, and now he wants another date 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:33.800 and you aren't calling him back. 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:36.800 Who's this guy you're talking about? 0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:40.640 I'm really bad with names that I forgot to write Joe, 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:43.480 all right, I forgot to write his name down. 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:46.000 It's okay, pass the baton to me. The guy's name 0:10:46.080 --> 0:10:46.560 is Trey. 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:48.040 That's what I was gonna say, Trey. 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:49.319 Okay, back to brook. 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:51.200 Do you remember Trey? 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:51.920 Yeah? 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:52.560 I do. 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:54.280 Yeah. 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:57.079 I feel kind of bad about that one. Oh you do. 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:00.760 Oh well, we heard about the date that you two 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:05.240 went on to the wine bar, and from Trey's description 0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:07.719 of it, it was a really nice time. So he's 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:10.000 a little bit just confused now that there hasn't been 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:12.000 a second meetup, no follow up afterwards. 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:13.839 Well maybe that's why she feels bad. Is that why 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:14.760 you feel bad? Stuff? 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:17.200 Honestly, I don't even know if I should be like 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:21.120 telling you about this because it's kind of embarrassing. I 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:22.000 feel weird about it. 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:25.120 Oh it's embarrassing. Is it embarrassing for you or is 0:11:25.160 --> 0:11:26.640 it embarrassing for Trey? 0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:27.480 Uh? 0:11:28.600 --> 0:11:32.600 I guess potentially for everyone. I don't know. WHOA. 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:36.400 Okay, here's the deal. Whenever we have listeners on this segment, 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:40.600 they acknowledge that there may be some awkwardness, some difficult 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:43.679 truths that they have to hear, and Trey just wants 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:46.520 to know the honest reason there hasn't been a second 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:47.360 meet up no matter what. 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:51.760 Okay, well, I mean I guess I can tell you it. 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:53.000 Would really help him out. 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:58.120 Yeah, basically I'm friends with some of the people that 0:11:58.320 --> 0:11:59.880 organize these singles events. 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:01.439 Are you kidding? 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:03.679 I mean just one particular night, you know, they didn't 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:06.800 quite have enough people there, specifically, they didn't really have 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:07.880 a lot of women. 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:09.439 Oh. 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:12.560 He had actually mentioned that about the speed dating night 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:13.719 that you guys met, that there was. 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:14.520 A lot of guys. 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:15.839 Then there was like another wave. 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:21.760 Yeah, that would be because sometimes they give people like 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:24.599 thirty bucks to just show up and like kind of 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:26.600 mingle with everybody. Just fill it out. 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:30.800 You WHOA, Well, you went on the second date after that. 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:32.840 That's true, you guys yo? 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:35.120 Were you paid to go out with him on the 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:35.720 second date? 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:35.960 No? 0:12:36.720 --> 0:12:39.319 No, not at all. It was just the initial kind 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:42.360 of speed dating thing with everybody. But okay, I just 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:46.120 kept thinking the whole time, like this continues to go, well, 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:49.800 we're gonna have to have a conversation about oh it 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:53.200 answered the picture initially, and I just feel horrible about 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:54.679 that because I don't I don't want him to take 0:12:54.679 --> 0:12:55.280 it the wrong way. 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:58.280 I'm confused though, were you interested in him or were 0:12:58.280 --> 0:12:58.600 you not? 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:00.839 Because it sounds like you out to the wine bar 0:13:00.960 --> 0:13:03.079 just for an ego boost is what I'm picking up. 0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:06.480 That was part of it. But I mean, he's really cute. 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:09.679 He's really nice. Anyone would be lucky to go on 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:10.360 a date with him. 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:12.760 Are you sure he's really cute? 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:12.880 Like? 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:18.000 How cute is he? To tell us how cute it is? Okay, 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:22.839 I was cute. So where is your head at now, Steph, 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:26.040 Because according to him, you're not reaching out to him anymore. 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:28.520 That sends the signal that you're not interested. 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:32.679 Well, I don't know. Sometimes I'm just really non confrontational, 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:35.600 and I really really didn't want to have that conversation 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:39.160 where I'm like, oh, hey, I was paid to meet you, 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:41.240 and you're never going to get. 0:13:41.120 --> 0:13:42.480 Into a relationship with this great guy. 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:45.679 Kind of bad news. 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:49.000 But initially that's how they met, Like she was paid 0:13:49.120 --> 0:13:51.240 money to go there and meet him. And I can 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:55.440 see how specifically anybody just to be there, sure, anybody, 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:58.120 but anyone finding out the person they really like was 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:01.160 paid to meet them, and that's not going to feel good. 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:04.040 It is cute. I hear you that you're worried about 0:14:04.080 --> 0:14:06.640 having that conversation with him down the line somewhere it 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:09.120 could be awkward. The good news is we already got 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:12.560 it out of the world, like abandoned, because he's actually 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:14.440 on the other line listening to this right now. 0:14:14.640 --> 0:14:15.600 No no, no, no, no, no, no. 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:16.120 Yeah. 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:18.040 Please do not say that to me. 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:21.000 I can't not say that to you, because the truth. 0:14:20.840 --> 0:14:26.880 Is My God, Hey, how's it going, Stuffy. 0:14:26.920 --> 0:14:29.600 I'm really sorry you had to find out like this 0:14:29.200 --> 0:14:30.720 is pretty strange. 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:35.160 I totally understand the awkwardness of not wanting to like 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:38.000 mention how you ended up at said event. 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:40.000 Obviously I was there as. 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:43.520 A participant, But I think whatever the love story ends up. 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:46.200 Being, it doesn't matter the origins it's more about how 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:46.840 it ends up. 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:50.240 Okay, So, Trey, you're not offended at all or put 0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:52.920 off by the fact that she was paid that night to. 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:56.320 Be there, honestly not. That's kind of up to the organizer. 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:59.480 I mean, she got Bobby's there. However they get there 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:03.000 as long as were continuing to like have a conversation. 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:07.040 And it's not all being paid to continue conversation. 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:10.000 If anything, you should be you should feel guilty stuff 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:12.920 that you took the money. Since you met somebody at 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:13.760 the bed. 0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:17.080 You know what I mean, you should pay him thirty 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:20.160 dollars to make it even and now he knows you 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:23.080 really like him for him, right. 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:24.880 I was just going to have her give the money 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:27.000 back to the organized best. 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:29.040 You can always send it to us too, I mean, 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:32.000 we could always start one. But Steph, what do you 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:33.720 think about what he just said there? 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:36.800 I don't know. I just I enjoyed your company. I 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:37.800 enjoyed talking with you. 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:39.960 It's nice. 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:43.440 I just got like nervous, and like I said, I 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:45.920 was two in my head about the conversation we were 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:46.600 going to have to have. 0:15:46.960 --> 0:15:49.200 But it's all out there now, yeah, and I feel 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:52.200 some positive momentum happening. We've got some of that awkward 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:53.240 conversation out of. 0:15:53.240 --> 0:15:55.200 The way, and you don't even realize that stuff. You're 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:56.200 really good at conversation. 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:59.240 You gave the best answer to his TV show question 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:00.160 out of the entire. 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:05.640 That's why this is gonna be kind of tricky because 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:08.320 I want to offer to send you on another date 0:16:08.440 --> 0:16:11.440 until you we pay for it. But yeah, and then 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:13.360 it's like her to show. 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:16.880 Up to the dates I see where we're at a charity. 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:19.400 Yeah, I'm not going to offer to pay for you 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:21.800 guys to meet up, but we will strongly encourage you 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:24.080 to get back together. How does that sound? 0:16:24.360 --> 0:16:27.800 Honestly, I don't want this to be more confused or 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:30.400 muddled by money being involved. I'd love for it to 0:16:30.440 --> 0:16:32.320 kind of feel more organic and genuine. 0:16:34.200 --> 0:16:35.560 It's a gift card. 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:41.040 Still, So Steph, will you go out with me again? 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:47.320 Can we try running it back and doing it again? Yeah? 0:16:47.400 --> 0:16:49.440 I mean I think I'm gonna say yes. It's not 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:51.960 like a pity yes or anything like I really would 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:52.440 like to see you. 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:55.280 That's kind of a backwards compliment. 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:00.480 Well, I mean, this is such an odd of going 0:17:00.520 --> 0:17:02.800 about it. It's not like I feel pressure from you 0:17:02.960 --> 0:17:03.440 or anything. 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:12.440 Like that irative, right exactly. This is good. Nobody ever 0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:19.400 would call him that. Congratulations Tray and congratulations Steph. You're 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:21.280 both going to meet up one more time and we're 0:17:21.400 --> 0:17:27.200 not going to pay for it. Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:28.040 --> 0:17:30.960 What a great wedding toast story if it ever gets 0:17:30.960 --> 0:17:31.480 to that point. 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:33.200 I think they're so cute. 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:37.119 My friend paid me to meet him, then I fell 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:37.560