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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and you

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Speaker 1: found our second.

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Speaker 2: Date feed Why we're saying this. Normally Brooke would be

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Speaker 2: doing it. But she's out there on the phone with

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Speaker 3: She's crying.

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Speaker 1: She's crying happy tears.

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Speaker 2: I think, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Her daughters started middle school and it's every day.

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Speaker 3: Here, so it's been a big emotional right. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: And I have not stopped reading your guys's comments from

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Speaker 1: the second date, even though it was on Friday, the

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Speaker 1: euro date. Jose, Yeah, Norwegian style dating.

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Speaker 3: Dude, which I need to adapt and adopt. I mean,

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Speaker 3: because I had no idea this existed.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know that it does exist.

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Speaker 1: I count ten Norwegian listeners commented that this girl has

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Speaker 3: But you know, man, that's okay. That's actually almost funnier.

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Speaker 3: I know, I love it.

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Speaker 1: So if you haven't listened to Friday second date, go

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Speaker 1: back and do that.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, and if you're from Norway, help we have enough.

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Speaker 3: Norwegians haven't confirmed, they have confirmed. Not real, But that's okay.

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Speaker 2: Litter live her life that way.

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Speaker 1: Sure, she seems happy and yeah, today guy says he.

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Speaker 2: Has the best icebreaker.

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Speaker 1: You'll ever hear icebreaker questions, so let us know if

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Speaker 1: it would work on you in the comments and what

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Speaker 1: your answer would be to it. Yeah, all right, and

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Speaker 1: here's your second d style.

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Speaker 3: Just get right back to Norway.

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Speaker 2: All right, brand new second date starts.

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Speaker 3: Now the Second Date updated. We obviously have heard about

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Speaker 3: people meeting on dating apps or during activities like a

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Speaker 2: You do it all at the same time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really fun, really challenging. But kind of a

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Speaker 4: Oh you know, I've been really into love on the

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Speaker 3: And you are doing the singles events too. Oh no, okay,

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Speaker 3: help today. His name is Trey, So Trey, thanks for

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Speaker 3: emailing and welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hey guys, thank you so much for having me.

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Speaker 3: Oh well, thank you for thanking us for having you.

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Speaker 4: Was this the first like singles mingle or whatever they

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Speaker 5: No, so I've actually been to a couple of them.

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Speaker 6: I am really anti like the dating apps, and I'm

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's way harder to lie about yourself when

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Speaker 3: trust me, but it's harder. What do you mean, I'm

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Speaker 3: The more guys reply to the emails that when they

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Speaker 5: If this guy is gonna have a better answer than me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, did you come in with like a certain

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Speaker 5: It was a girl, and she was like, I know

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Speaker 6: And I'm also not someone that's gonna like triple text

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Speaker 3: You are self aware that is crazy on this show, dude, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: We're not, but we'll do it. With your second date

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Speaker 3: Here, dude, you know we're all together. We're a team

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the Fawns is on the show with us today.

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Speaker 2: That is a reference that no one under the age

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning. Steph, are you still there?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Okay, Dad.

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Speaker 3: Hey, as you can tell, we're a really fun, jokey

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, has not clicking?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe you explain it?

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, Well, Steph, you met a great guy who

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Speaker 7: Who's this guy you're talking about?

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Speaker 4: I'm really bad with names that I forgot to write Joe,

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Speaker 4: all right, I forgot to write his name down.

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Speaker 3: It's okay, pass the baton to me. The guy's name

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Speaker 3: is Trey.

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Speaker 2: That's what I was gonna say, Trey.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember Trey?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I do.

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Speaker 7: I feel kind of bad about that one. Oh you do.

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Speaker 3: Oh well, we heard about the date that you two

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Speaker 2: Well maybe that's why she feels bad. Is that why

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Speaker 7: Honestly, I don't even know if I should be like

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Speaker 3: Oh it's embarrassing. Is it embarrassing for you or is

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Speaker 7: I guess potentially for everyone. I don't know. WHOA.

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Speaker 7: Okay, well, I mean I guess I can tell you it.

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Speaker 3: Would really help him out.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, basically I'm friends with some of the people that

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Speaker 2: Are you kidding?

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Speaker 7: I mean just one particular night, you know, they didn't

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 4: He had actually mentioned that about the speed dating night

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that would be because sometimes they give people like

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Speaker 1: You WHOA, Well, you went on the second date after that.

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Speaker 2: That's true, you guys yo?

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Speaker 3: Were you paid to go out with him on the

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 7: No, not at all. It was just the initial kind

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Speaker 2: I'm confused though, were you interested in him or were

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Speaker 4: Because it sounds like you out to the wine bar

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Speaker 3: Are you sure he's really cute?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 3: How cute is he? To tell us how cute it is? Okay,

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Speaker 3: Because according to him, you're not reaching out to him anymore.

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Speaker 7: Well, I don't know. Sometimes I'm just really non confrontational,

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Speaker 4: Kind of bad news.

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Speaker 3: But initially that's how they met, Like she was paid

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Speaker 3: It is cute. I hear you that you're worried about

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Speaker 7: No no, no, no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Please do not say that to me.

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Speaker 3: I can't not say that to you, because the truth.

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Speaker 5: Is My God, Hey, how's it going, Stuffy.

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Speaker 7: I'm really sorry you had to find out like this

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Speaker 6: I totally understand the awkwardness of not wanting to like

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Speaker 5: Obviously I was there as.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So, Trey, you're not offended at all or put

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Speaker 5: Be there, honestly not. That's kind of up to the organizer.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she got Bobby's there. However they get there

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Speaker 4: If anything, you should be you should feel guilty stuff

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean, you should pay him thirty

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Speaker 2: I was just going to have her give the money

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Speaker 3: You can always send it to us too, I mean,

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Speaker 3: we could always start one. But Steph, what do you

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Speaker 7: I don't know. I just I enjoyed your company. I

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Speaker 3: It's nice.

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Speaker 7: I just got like nervous, and like I said, I

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Speaker 3: But it's all out there now, yeah, and I feel

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Speaker 2: The way, and you don't even realize that stuff. You're

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Speaker 4: You gave the best answer to his TV show question

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Speaker 3: That's why this is gonna be kind of tricky because

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Speaker 4: Up to the dates I see where we're at a charity.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not going to offer to pay for you

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I don't want this to be more confused or

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Speaker 2: It's a gift card.

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Speaker 5: Still, So Steph, will you go out with me again?

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Speaker 5: Can we try running it back and doing it again? Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I mean I think I'm gonna say yes. It's not

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Speaker 7: Well, I mean, this is such an odd of going

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Speaker 3: Like that irative, right exactly. This is good. Nobody ever

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Speaker 3: What a great wedding toast story if it ever gets

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Speaker 2: I think they're so cute.

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Speaker 3: My friend paid me to meet him, then I fell

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's perfect because it's funny, a little self deprecated.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, woman, you just don't hear that enough in wedding

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Speaker 3: Had Allegedly, we said not to say it during the

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Speaker 2: It was killing deal, wasn't it.

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Speaker 3: I did a great job, and you can all thank

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, if that's the bar, yeah, sure.

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Speaker 3: If you want to thank us, or if you just

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Speaker 3: want our help, we're available online. You can email the show.

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Speaker 3: We'll call that person who's not calling you back, and

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Speaker 3: go check out all of our second dates wherever you

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Speaker 3: get your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey