WEBVTT - Eddie Marsan and David Arquette Transcend Typecasting

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Alec Baldwin and you're listening to Hear the Thing

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<v Speaker 1>from My Heart Radio. My guests today are actors from

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<v Speaker 1>two very different backgrounds. David Arquette was born into a

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<v Speaker 1>family of entertainers. His four siblings became actors. His mother

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<v Speaker 1>and father were actors. His grandfather, Cliff Arquette, was a

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<v Speaker 1>famous comedian. Even his great grandparents were vaudeville performers. Acting

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<v Speaker 1>is in his blood, but he's also a die hard

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<v Speaker 1>fan of wrestling, which is the subject of his new

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<v Speaker 1>aptly titled documentary You Can't Kill David Arquette. But first,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking with actor Eddie Marsan during the pandemic I

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<v Speaker 1>binged the Showtime series Ray Donovan. Marsan plays Ray's brother Terry,

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<v Speaker 1>a former boxer with Parkinson's disease. Within a terrific cast

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<v Speaker 1>that stars Liev Schreiber and John Voyd, Eddie Marson stands

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<v Speaker 1>out beautifully. These days, Marsam is an in demand actor

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<v Speaker 1>who has worked with the likes of Scorsese, Gonzalez Inobtu

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<v Speaker 1>and Mike Lee. But growing up in working class London,

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<v Speaker 1>becoming an actor was a long shot. Even now, despite

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<v Speaker 1>a long successful career. He struggles with typecasting in the UK.

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<v Speaker 1>When I spend time in America, I think it's race

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<v Speaker 1>and class, and I think it's the same in the UK,

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<v Speaker 1>probably more race in the US. Idriss is a friend

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<v Speaker 1>of mine and he had to come over to the

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<v Speaker 1>US and do the Wire to reinvent himself. And I

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<v Speaker 1>needed to come over to do Ray Donovan to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of get diversity in my career. Even now in the UK,

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<v Speaker 1>I still struggle to get diversity. They still defined me

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<v Speaker 1>by class. I had a really interesting conversation with Wendell Pierce,

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<v Speaker 1>is a really good friend of mine. He was asking

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<v Speaker 1>me what I was doing over and doing Ray Donovan,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, well, when do I I never wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be defined as a work class actor, and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>that's very interesting. Eddie said, because as a black African

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<v Speaker 1>American actor, I couldn't help but be defined because of

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<v Speaker 1>the color of my skin. He said, And what my

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<v Speaker 1>advice to you, Eddie is, don't seek not to be

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<v Speaker 1>defined as a working class actor. Seek to change their

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<v Speaker 1>definition of what it means to be a working class actor.

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<v Speaker 1>And that suddenly opened my mind because I was always

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<v Speaker 1>trying to escape it and now I kind of think

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<v Speaker 1>we're now embrace it, you know, And Terry was a

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<v Speaker 1>great embrace of that because Terry when you were quite often,

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<v Speaker 1>because writers write working class actors, they make because working

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<v Speaker 1>class blue color people speak a colloquial language, they make

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<v Speaker 1>them sound dumb. And what was great about Ray Donovan

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<v Speaker 1>They were inarticulate characters, but they were very articulate in

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<v Speaker 1>a in a weird way. Terry was a great character

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<v Speaker 1>because really he was the mother of the family. He

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<v Speaker 1>basically represents an Irish Catholic wife who can never divorce

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<v Speaker 1>John Boyd even though he's abut so as an access Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what it is. Yeah, it is a class system

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<v Speaker 1>in the UK and and but the US has much

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<v Speaker 1>more much still still, how do they find you to

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<v Speaker 1>do the Raynavent? Sure? What were you doing that you

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<v Speaker 1>thought spark their interest in here? I think Leev put

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<v Speaker 1>the call out to see if I could audition, and

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<v Speaker 1>I auditioned for that. And I love boxing anyway. I

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<v Speaker 1>used to dance when I was younger, so I physically

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<v Speaker 1>quite capable. You're dancing, you like boxing, and you were

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<v Speaker 1>born where bethnal Green. You're the James Cagney of bethnal

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<v Speaker 1>Green were learning Yeah, yeah, I never thought that. Boxing

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<v Speaker 1>and the beginning of two thousand four I did two movies.

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<v Speaker 1>I did Vera Drake for Mike Lee and I did

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<v Speaker 1>twenty one Grahams for Alejandro Gonzalez and The Routu, and

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<v Speaker 1>both of those movies got Oscar attention. I didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>Oscar attention. My parts weren't big enough, but I played

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of part where in Vera Drake I played

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<v Speaker 1>a working class London ex soldier, and I played a

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<v Speaker 1>born again Christian preacher for Bernicia do Toro in twenty

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<v Speaker 1>one Grahams. And on both sides of the Atlantic suddenly

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<v Speaker 1>people thought this guy is a good character actor. There

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<v Speaker 1>was an American actor who said to me, Eddie, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a doughnut actor. He said, in America, he said, quite

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<v Speaker 1>often studios picked young stars who can't act yet. And

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<v Speaker 1>he said, if you imagine a donut, the center as vacuous,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing there, but you got surrounded with something that's substantial.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, you've got a lot of money, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a donut actor. Our version of that was you'd

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<v Speaker 1>play the hackman role. We called it. Yeah, you were

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<v Speaker 1>hired to do the Gene Hackman role, which was they

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<v Speaker 1>had the young star who sold all the tickets and

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<v Speaker 1>brought in all the young audience, and then they had

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<v Speaker 1>to have someone play the Admiral of the Shippers, but

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<v Speaker 1>who could really act. Yeah. Yeah, So that's in a sense,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I did, and that's what I've been doing

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<v Speaker 1>for the last twenty years, popping up and being there

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<v Speaker 1>and having great parts and just being really I love

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<v Speaker 1>being an act her and I loved at what was

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<v Speaker 1>media like entertainment like movies and TV. For you growing

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<v Speaker 1>up in bethnal Green, Hoskins was a big When Hoskins

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<v Speaker 1>came on the scene, he sounded like my father and

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<v Speaker 1>that was the first time I thought, that's my old man.

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<v Speaker 1>He literally sounded like him, and that was a big

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<v Speaker 1>thing for me. There was a driver, my dad was

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<v Speaker 1>a truck driver, Yeah, and he looked a bit like

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<v Speaker 1>Hoskins as well, very similar kind of man. But I

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<v Speaker 1>remember when I was younger watching on the waterfront and

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<v Speaker 1>being captivated by Rod Steiger. I always kind of knew

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<v Speaker 1>loved character actors, always did love John Robert de Vao,

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<v Speaker 1>love love Steiger, and and then I was fascinated by

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<v Speaker 1>character actors who became diverse, like John Hurt in A

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<v Speaker 1>Naked Civil Servant where he played Quent and Crisp, this

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<v Speaker 1>gay man in the fourties. And even as a child,

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<v Speaker 1>I was absolutely fascinated by actors, but I had no

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<v Speaker 1>means of which to pursue it. There was no drama

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<v Speaker 1>school for me until when well, I served an apprenticeship

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<v Speaker 1>as a printer, and and how will read? Then I

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<v Speaker 1>was sixteen to twenty out of school. Yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>left school at fifteen, no qualifications. And then I was

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<v Speaker 1>in the club. I was dancing in the club and

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<v Speaker 1>somebody asked me to be an extra in a movie.

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<v Speaker 1>And I went on this movie set and I saw

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<v Speaker 1>an actor doing a scene and I thought I can

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<v Speaker 1>do that, and I had no idea how to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then and then it went from there, really And

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<v Speaker 1>what was the first job I got paid for? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I was in a pantomime in a in a place

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<v Speaker 1>called Chipping Norton, and I was a clown throwing suits

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<v Speaker 1>of kids and a little fucker's throw him back and

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<v Speaker 1>the stage show. Yeah, yeah, the first was the first

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<v Speaker 1>movie or TV part you got? I did a movie

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<v Speaker 1>called Gangs to Number One with Paul Bettany. He was

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<v Speaker 1>Gangs to Number one and I was the coward. And

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<v Speaker 1>I always Paul always said to me, and if you

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<v Speaker 1>can't be Gangs to number one, don't be Gangs to

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<v Speaker 1>number two. Be the cow Yeah. Yeah. When you talk

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<v Speaker 1>about the working class, you know, when I was first

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<v Speaker 1>working in this business, in the back of my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>the things that were memorable were, you know Robert Newton,

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<v Speaker 1>because I love Robert Newton. Yeah, oh god, I know

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<v Speaker 1>every every line, every facial gesture from Oliver Twist. And

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<v Speaker 1>so speaking of Robert Newton and Dickens that you have

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<v Speaker 1>a magwitch in your life, that the Pip that is

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<v Speaker 1>Eddie Marsen. You had a benefactor? I did, I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I had an Eastern bookmaker called Mr Bennett. Yeah, who

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<v Speaker 1>was Mr Bennett? Can you say? He used to run

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<v Speaker 1>a men's worth store, but he used to run a

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<v Speaker 1>book But he was a bookmaker at the dog track.

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<v Speaker 1>And I used to work for him. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>do for him? I used to I still so close

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<v Speaker 1>to him. I used to sell smarter and stuff I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't interested in the betting side. Used to run a

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<v Speaker 1>clothing store. But he was a big bookmaker and he

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<v Speaker 1>said to me, what do you really want to do?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, I want to be an actor. And

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<v Speaker 1>he said, well, if you get to get to drama school,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll pay, and he did. And the funny thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a terrible malaprop. I get words wrong all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>So when my first couple of weeks of drama school,

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<v Speaker 1>a really strong Cockney accent and I walked in and

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<v Speaker 1>he was there with his wife and I said, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>how's it going. I said, well, they said I've got

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<v Speaker 1>so with my voice, and they want me to see

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<v Speaker 1>a chiropodist because I never and he said his wife

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<v Speaker 1>said that you mean speech therapist and Mr Bennett said no,

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<v Speaker 1>because he keeps putting his foot in it. But this guy,

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<v Speaker 1>so this wasn't about the guy want you to clean

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<v Speaker 1>his guns, or drop this bag of money off at

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<v Speaker 1>the train station, put it in the locker for me.

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<v Speaker 1>None of that. Now, he was a really sweet He

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<v Speaker 1>was a sweet man because he was a bookmaker. If

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<v Speaker 1>you went into a pub with him, all the local

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<v Speaker 1>villains would know him, and he won't have to buy

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<v Speaker 1>a drink because they probably a while within money at

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<v Speaker 1>one point or another. I just love any story about

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<v Speaker 1>mentorship and people who have benefactors, someone who helps you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. I mean if someone because

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<v Speaker 1>this business is so tough now, so you tell me

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<v Speaker 1>this guy. I love that Mr Bennett. Do we all

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<v Speaker 1>wish we had a Mr Bennett? Would have? Is he is?

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<v Speaker 1>He passed away. He's gone, he passed away. I was

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<v Speaker 1>working with Ethan Hawk on a movie and it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was a TV think of Moby Dick. And I

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<v Speaker 1>had a week off and I went to see him,

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<v Speaker 1>and my wife told me that he's not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>You won't be able to get back to see him.

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<v Speaker 1>So I had to go and see him one morning

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<v Speaker 1>and I told him how much I loved him. You

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<v Speaker 1>did get to see him before he passed. I held

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<v Speaker 1>his hand and I said I said to him, I

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<v Speaker 1>owe you everything. I said, I owe you my career,

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<v Speaker 1>my happiness, my childhood, the mortgage, the debt, the stress. Everything.

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<v Speaker 1>He was Yeah, but Ethan was very good. Ethan took

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<v Speaker 1>me at the other end of the ship and just

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<v Speaker 1>sat with me while I cried, and gave me a pride.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure everyone just left me alone. He's very sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Actor Eddie Marsan. Another actor who outgrew typecasting is John Deturo.

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<v Speaker 1>He says, despite his success, there was a moment not

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<v Speaker 1>long ago when he considered a career change. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a sort of crisis, maybe eight, nine, ten years ago

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<v Speaker 1>and told my doctor, I said, you know, I'm done

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<v Speaker 1>with this business. I've got to do something really important,

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<v Speaker 1>like what you do. I said, I want to go

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<v Speaker 1>to medical school. I was like fifty years old. And

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, John, you're crazy. He was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know how long medical schools? You know? And he

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<v Speaker 1>said what you do is there's a value to what

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<v Speaker 1>you do, when I was like, no, there's not, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>And he talked me out of it. Here more of

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<v Speaker 1>my conversation with John Tuturo at Here's the Thing dot Org.

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<v Speaker 1>After the Break, Eddie Marsan talks about playing Terry in

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<v Speaker 1>the Showtime series Ray Donovan. I'm Alec Baldwin and you

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<v Speaker 1>were listening to Here's the Thing. The Showtime series Ray

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<v Speaker 1>Donovan is heavy. It's about a troubled family living with

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<v Speaker 1>the legacy of sexual abuse, and Eddie Marsan worked hard

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<v Speaker 1>to realistically portray the progression of his characters Parkinson's disease.

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<v Speaker 1>It got very dark at times. There was a darkness

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<v Speaker 1>in the piece because the thing about Ray Donovan is

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<v Speaker 1>what people didn't realize is it's Trojan Horse television. You

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<v Speaker 1>kind of think it's going to be about Hollywood and

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<v Speaker 1>and actually it's about three Irish brothers who were sexually

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<v Speaker 1>abused and can't articulated. So quite often as an actor,

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<v Speaker 1>you would hold all this darkness about the history of

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<v Speaker 1>being abused by priests in Boston and you couldn't express it.

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<v Speaker 1>So so that was tough. And for me, We've created

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<v Speaker 1>this story that Terry knew that his brothers were being

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<v Speaker 1>abused by the priests, but the priest was given his

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<v Speaker 1>mother solace and so if he told his mother, she

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<v Speaker 1>would die. So we had to allow the priests to

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<v Speaker 1>abuse his brothers. And he was caught between a rock

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<v Speaker 1>and a half place. And that was what the shaik was.

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<v Speaker 1>The shaiksa belize somebody caught between a rock and a

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<v Speaker 1>half place. Morally mainlyev used to get drained by it

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<v Speaker 1>because it was unsaid. It had to be so authentic

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<v Speaker 1>because it was unsaid, and so we had to hold

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<v Speaker 1>it within us. You started shooting the show where in California.

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<v Speaker 1>In California we started in two thousand and twelve. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you live in California? I used to go and live

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<v Speaker 1>in Culver City. Yeah. Yeah. From season six and seven onwards,

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<v Speaker 1>we went over to New York without the first time

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<v Speaker 1>You've lived any length of time in the US. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been working in the US. I mean what I

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<v Speaker 1>did was I made a very conscious choice that it

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<v Speaker 1>was a real big strain on my marriage and my

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<v Speaker 1>family life doing this show. But I knew we had

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<v Speaker 1>to do it. So I decided that I could work

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<v Speaker 1>and have family, but I couldn't work have family and

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<v Speaker 1>have a social life. So I couldn't go go out

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<v Speaker 1>in the evening. I would literally work. As soon as

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<v Speaker 1>I wrapped, I'd fly home every weekend. I flew home.

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<v Speaker 1>Now everyone in Los Angeles to London, Yeah, every weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Yeah, yeah, And I've made that choice, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was the best thing I've did. And your wife

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<v Speaker 1>was grateful, Oh yeah, and God come home. And we'd

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<v Speaker 1>have some days because of the schedule, you'd have three

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<v Speaker 1>or four days at home, and some days you'd have

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<v Speaker 1>one day at home. But it was just to be

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<v Speaker 1>there for the kids just to be a presence. You

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<v Speaker 1>just broke my heart. You have to make that choice.

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<v Speaker 1>And actually it wasn't bad for me. I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>big social animal anyway, and I love the work and

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<v Speaker 1>I have so much fun at work on set. That

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<v Speaker 1>was your social life, that was my social life. What

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<v Speaker 1>was it like for you in the I know that

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<v Speaker 1>in film there's one director you start and finish with,

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<v Speaker 1>and and TV there's many directors. What did directors? Will

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<v Speaker 1>use Ray Donov as an example, and we'll also talk

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<v Speaker 1>about britt directors. What did the American directors on Ray

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<v Speaker 1>Donovan have to offer you? Were they helpful? Yeah? Very

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<v Speaker 1>much so. We had the show runner, Dave Hollander talk

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<v Speaker 1>me about the rhythm of multi season, multi episodic dramas.

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<v Speaker 1>He he taught me how to to set up something

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<v Speaker 1>in one season you'll pay off two seasons later, so

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to pay off everything straight away. You've

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<v Speaker 1>got loads of time. And the other thing I learned

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<v Speaker 1>was that you don't have to play characters who are sympathetic.

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<v Speaker 1>You just have to play characters that are empathetic because

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<v Speaker 1>time restrictions meant that within a two hour drama, a

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<v Speaker 1>character had to be sympathetic over multiple seasons, multiple years

0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:36.600
<v Speaker 1>a character and only needed to be empathetic. You could

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<v Speaker 1>do the worst thing a character could do as long

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<v Speaker 1>as he audaers thought. If I was in that situation,

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<v Speaker 1>I would do the same thing. Then you've done your job.

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<v Speaker 1>So I began to understand the rhythm of it and

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<v Speaker 1>to trust it and don't force it. Also, I've never

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<v Speaker 1>been a big showy actor. Anyway, when I work with

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<v Speaker 1>Mike Lee, I learned so much from Mike Lee because

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<v Speaker 1>as an actor, you always there's always a voice in

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<v Speaker 1>your head which either wants to be clever or be true,

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<v Speaker 1>And with Mike Lee, the answer will always be true.

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<v Speaker 1>From that point, artist that would you know, don't show off?

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<v Speaker 1>Mike would always say, you've got to dig a hole

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<v Speaker 1>and sit in it. Well, it's interesting you look at

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<v Speaker 1>his filmography. He hasn't made that many films. In seventy

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<v Speaker 1>one his first movie Bleak Moments, High Hopes Come, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's made six films since two thousand two. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>what did you I mean you made three films with him?

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<v Speaker 1>How would you describe working with him? Well, his work

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<v Speaker 1>is all about creating the character. There's no script you

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<v Speaker 1>create the character and the story develops out of the character.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I found with Ray Donovan because you had

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<v Speaker 1>a writer's room and the writers would come on set

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<v Speaker 1>and they would be informed by my performances, Terry and me,

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<v Speaker 1>so they would begin to write Terry based on our

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<v Speaker 1>own discussion. So all the characters on Ray Donovan were

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<v Speaker 1>analistic creation of all the writers and the actors and

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<v Speaker 1>the crew together because um, there was so much that

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<v Speaker 1>you were given to them and they were given to you,

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<v Speaker 1>And it was very much like likely is he the

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<v Speaker 1>only director you've worked with more than once? No. I

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<v Speaker 1>worked with David Leach and who's does a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>superhero movies, and he always pulls me in to play

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<v Speaker 1>this villainous part, and quite often he shoots me from

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<v Speaker 1>behind because when the plot doesn't make sense, I can

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<v Speaker 1>go and do a d R and say some stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that no one sees. My lips move. You've done a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of players. I used to. I haven't done place

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<v Speaker 1>for twenty years. We haven't. Do you ever miss it?

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<v Speaker 1>I do? But I never used to get offered good plays.

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<v Speaker 1>It was interesting what you're saying about class. When I

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<v Speaker 1>went over to do Ray Donovan. We were doing a

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<v Speaker 1>second season and it was already quite successful, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing nice films on American TV, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>playing more Diversity in America. And then my agent called me.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, the BBC are doing Richard the Third, and

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<v Speaker 1>I played Richard the Third. I toward Europe Richard the

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<v Speaker 1>Third years ago, and she said they're going to offer

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<v Speaker 1>your part. I don't know what, and I felt, great, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is fantastic. And they cooled and it was to

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<v Speaker 1>play a thief with two lines, and and and there.

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<v Speaker 1>I am going to work with leev and John Voights

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<v Speaker 1>and and dash My Hawk and and working with all

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<v Speaker 1>these great writers. But in the UK I was a

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<v Speaker 1>thief with two lines. But you should be grateful for

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<v Speaker 1>the privilege of doing Richard the Third exactly. Don't you

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<v Speaker 1>don't get too big now, don't get too hearty. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I found that Stafford Clark and other Brits I've worked with.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really, I mean, just the Steaks and the

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<v Speaker 1>uh Tony Walton. We did equest together and oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>just the rigor. I said to somebody. They said, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the task for you? Now? I said, to remember that

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<v Speaker 1>every job is a chance for me to still to learn. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>someone said to me, what's change in your acting? I

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<v Speaker 1>was that guy that was standing there on the set

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<v Speaker 1>with that director, sobbing from the opening line, Oh God,

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<v Speaker 1>how can you do this to us, lady, this clinic.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we need the money in Jesus Christ. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like fucking going up coming to pieces. It's totally wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>And someone said, I said, how's that changed? I said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>that accessing that reservoir of emotion, which is still relatively easy.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I think you either have a knack for

0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:12.000
<v Speaker 1>that or you don't. I said, everything is technical to me,

0:18:12.160 --> 0:18:17.040
<v Speaker 1>it's so technical line pause, pause, like music, be b

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<v Speaker 1>I often think of myself as a session musician, And

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to ask you that. Explain why, Because

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<v Speaker 1>you're creating notes, and you're working in collaboration with other

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<v Speaker 1>other actors, So sometimes you have to play the baseline.

0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:32.399
<v Speaker 1>They're the lead guitar and you have to play the

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<v Speaker 1>baseline for them, and and and and and it gives

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<v Speaker 1>you a feeling of the collaboration element of the art

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<v Speaker 1>and fitting in and fitting in and working like music.

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<v Speaker 1>I see people, I'm here to play a part by

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<v Speaker 1>the part that fits into everything that what everybody is doing.

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<v Speaker 1>When you went home, did people recognize you? Do people

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<v Speaker 1>watch Ray Darnovan in the UK? They do? It is

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<v Speaker 1>not as big in the UK. Why do you think,

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<v Speaker 1>just not on a big format. I mean, the people

0:18:57.920 --> 0:19:00.679
<v Speaker 1>who watch it are obsessed with it. But in the

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<v Speaker 1>in the U S it's it's massive in the US.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the feelings that people get from Ray Donovan,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never had it before because I've always been an

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<v Speaker 1>actor who disappears into thinks and you know, I've always

0:19:10.600 --> 0:19:12.800
<v Speaker 1>been the outer to focus, best friend, and suddenly for

0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:16.199
<v Speaker 1>people to love Terry, they get very disappointed when they

0:19:16.240 --> 0:19:20.480
<v Speaker 1>find out I'm not as charismatic as Terry, as decent

0:19:20.560 --> 0:19:25.479
<v Speaker 1>as Terry. No, Terry is decent and brave. Well. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a lot written about the fact that they

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<v Speaker 1>ended season seven very unceremoniously. No season eight. Was everybody

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<v Speaker 1>very taken aback by that, Yeah, very surprised. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what the decision was. I don't know why it was.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there was an outline for season eight. They

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<v Speaker 1>were going to finish the show. They had a storyline,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think there's always talk of coming back and

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<v Speaker 1>finishing it in something like a four hour or like

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<v Speaker 1>a two part Yeah, there's something like that. They got

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<v Speaker 1>that they're not done. Yeah, I won't surprise me if

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<v Speaker 1>it happened. I thought, I don't want to say this

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<v Speaker 1>is a spoiler. Or so you folcus out there listening,

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<v Speaker 1>if you are going to watch Ray Donovan, you can

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<v Speaker 1>turn your volume down now while I say that. One

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<v Speaker 1>of the most audacious sequences in the TV show I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever seen was when everybody thought Mick was dead and

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<v Speaker 1>he's not. Yeah, yeah, He's like, oh God, I blew

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<v Speaker 1>out the back of the bus and Jesus and he lives.

0:20:20.760 --> 0:20:22.240
<v Speaker 1>And you knew he was gonna live. You knew he

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna come back. But when he does come back,

0:20:24.040 --> 0:20:27.800
<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh fuck, this guy's the cock wroks that

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<v Speaker 1>won't die. One of the joys of Ray Donovan was

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<v Speaker 1>to watch John act. When you get him talking about

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<v Speaker 1>New York in the sixties and seventies and being a

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<v Speaker 1>young actor and he gave al Pacino a thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 1>to do a play, to put on a play, and

0:20:44.520 --> 0:20:47.800
<v Speaker 1>he talks about Bobby de Voo and all these all

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<v Speaker 1>these actors that he knew, and for an actor, that's

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<v Speaker 1>just it's just manna from heaven to to listen to

0:20:53.920 --> 0:20:59.160
<v Speaker 1>those stories. You're not mute about your politics, No, no, no,

0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:04.399
<v Speaker 1>Why as that? Well? When I grew up, my parents

0:21:04.480 --> 0:21:07.880
<v Speaker 1>had a very very difficult marriage. I come from an

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<v Speaker 1>area full of immigrants, lots of black Caribbean families, and

0:21:12.480 --> 0:21:16.200
<v Speaker 1>I kind of took refuge in a Caribbean family's house.

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<v Speaker 1>They kind of adopted me in a sense. So I

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<v Speaker 1>always felt safer amongst immigrants than I did amongst the

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<v Speaker 1>blue color white working class. And and that those people

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<v Speaker 1>that showed intolerance or bigotry, which is an element of

0:21:33.400 --> 0:21:37.400
<v Speaker 1>the white working class, I was always more threatened by

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<v Speaker 1>them than I was, and I felt safe with them.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was always more encouraged and inspired and and

0:21:45.200 --> 0:21:49.520
<v Speaker 1>nurtured by immigrants. So whenever I hear racism of any

0:21:49.600 --> 0:21:53.760
<v Speaker 1>kind or bigotry, it touches a trauma within me. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I have to come out and say I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like populism. I don't like anybody who sees things in

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<v Speaker 1>a very binary way. I don't trust it. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I might might you know, my economics, I think we

0:22:06.200 --> 0:22:08.479
<v Speaker 1>have to have a certain distribution of wealth because I

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<v Speaker 1>believe in a meritocracy, and in order for for capitalism

0:22:12.960 --> 0:22:15.440
<v Speaker 1>to be a meritocracy, someone like me has to pay

0:22:15.440 --> 0:22:19.080
<v Speaker 1>more taxes for someone like me to achieve their potential.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't trust populism to me. Was that guy in

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<v Speaker 1>the corner of the bar who can manage the England

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<v Speaker 1>soccer team, run the country, but never leaves the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're obviously you wanted to stay. You didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to leave. You were against brexit. Oh yeah. The reason

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to stay within the European Union because I

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<v Speaker 1>think that it's brought prosperity in peace to Europe in

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<v Speaker 1>the last fifty years, and that's a great thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's great for workers rights. I think I also

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<v Speaker 1>distrust referendums because if a politician lies, you can vote

0:22:53.160 --> 0:22:57.000
<v Speaker 1>them out with a referendum. They lie and it's done.

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<v Speaker 1>There is a populist xenophobia that has been prominent in

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<v Speaker 1>America with Trump and prominent in Britain with Brexit. Very similar.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very Any of your kids show any inclination. My

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<v Speaker 1>twelve year old son just did a movie. Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're doing a movie about Roll Dahl and he plays

0:23:17.640 --> 0:23:21.920
<v Speaker 1>a young boy in roll those writing room who kind

0:23:21.920 --> 0:23:25.360
<v Speaker 1>of inspires him to write. And my daughter at sixteen,

0:23:25.480 --> 0:23:28.119
<v Speaker 1>she's just on a movie. But they spent their lives

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<v Speaker 1>on film sets. They have a very healthy attitude. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't shield them from that. They were there, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>because their mum's a makeup artists. I mean, my wife

0:23:36.320 --> 0:23:38.960
<v Speaker 1>was much more successful than I was when we got married.

0:23:39.119 --> 0:23:41.560
<v Speaker 1>I always say I married her for a money and

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<v Speaker 1>so she was really so I would take my kids

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<v Speaker 1>to go and see mommy and they would go into

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<v Speaker 1>the makeup room and and on Ray Donovan, they used

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<v Speaker 1>to come and the crew used to give him a

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<v Speaker 1>radio mike, and they used to run around and give

0:23:54.040 --> 0:23:57.000
<v Speaker 1>everybody coffees and things. So they've got a very healthy

0:23:57.040 --> 0:24:00.399
<v Speaker 1>attitude towards it. You have a bunch of projects and

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<v Speaker 1>assuming that you're in a pipeline that there's a maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a COVID clouded pipeline. Yeah, I've got a film coming

0:24:06.080 --> 0:24:10.560
<v Speaker 1>out with Sean Penn directed flag Day. Yeah, flag Day. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of care are you play? I play an

0:24:13.000 --> 0:24:14.680
<v Speaker 1>insurance guy. Come at the end, I got a big

0:24:14.720 --> 0:24:16.520
<v Speaker 1>speech at the end. While it was a big speech,

0:24:16.520 --> 0:24:17.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's going to be a big

0:24:17.560 --> 0:24:19.720
<v Speaker 1>speech by the time the film comes out, but I

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<v Speaker 1>come out in the end, and what kind of the

0:24:21.880 --> 0:24:25.080
<v Speaker 1>piece as a drama about a young girl and a

0:24:25.160 --> 0:24:28.080
<v Speaker 1>dysfunctional relationship with her father in the seventies, and he

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<v Speaker 1>kind of comes in and out of her life and

0:24:30.720 --> 0:24:34.520
<v Speaker 1>Sean plays the father, his daughter plays the girl. She's

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<v Speaker 1>fantastic in it. It's a it's a great movie. What

0:24:36.920 --> 0:24:38.480
<v Speaker 1>was he like, what did he have to offer you

0:24:38.520 --> 0:24:41.240
<v Speaker 1>as a director? Well, first work with him in a

0:24:41.280 --> 0:24:45.360
<v Speaker 1>movie called The Professor and Madman in Dublin about four

0:24:45.440 --> 0:24:49.000
<v Speaker 1>years ago, and what I found with Sean. I thought

0:24:49.000 --> 0:24:52.440
<v Speaker 1>Sean was very similar to Spielberg in a strange way,

0:24:52.720 --> 0:24:56.639
<v Speaker 1>because what what Spielberg does is Spielberg dances with a camera.

0:24:56.840 --> 0:24:59.760
<v Speaker 1>You know, he kind of visually complements what you're doing.

0:24:59.800 --> 0:25:04.040
<v Speaker 1>And Sewn as an actor who's always aware of of

0:25:04.240 --> 0:25:07.280
<v Speaker 1>every moment, every note, every bat and when you were

0:25:07.320 --> 0:25:09.880
<v Speaker 1>being directed by him, you knew you were with somebody

0:25:09.920 --> 0:25:12.520
<v Speaker 1>who was whether where the camera was an instrument that

0:25:12.640 --> 0:25:17.680
<v Speaker 1>was complimenting you, and he was fantastic directing it. So

0:25:17.960 --> 0:25:20.960
<v Speaker 1>the chasm between the leading man and the character man

0:25:20.960 --> 0:25:23.439
<v Speaker 1>who is as well defined, And I always wonder to

0:25:23.480 --> 0:25:25.719
<v Speaker 1>say to somebody like you, who's as gifted as you are,

0:25:25.760 --> 0:25:29.120
<v Speaker 1>and you're truly a gifted actor, if I said to you,

0:25:29.119 --> 0:25:33.720
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna make seven eight figure salaries a year and

0:25:33.760 --> 0:25:36.000
<v Speaker 1>you'll never get to play those juicy roles where you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to be the number one on the call sheet

0:25:37.960 --> 0:25:40.400
<v Speaker 1>at this point in your career, would you set aside

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<v Speaker 1>or the nutritious juicy roles you've played to become rich

0:25:45.520 --> 0:25:47.600
<v Speaker 1>and famous, or do you like things exactly as they

0:25:47.600 --> 0:25:50.359
<v Speaker 1>are now? I'd like to play some leading roles. I

0:25:50.840 --> 0:25:53.520
<v Speaker 1>always in that My analogy is that a movie is

0:25:53.560 --> 0:25:57.000
<v Speaker 1>like a ghost train ride, and the central character is

0:25:57.040 --> 0:26:00.600
<v Speaker 1>a neutral character, so that they the audience sit on

0:26:00.640 --> 0:26:02.679
<v Speaker 1>the train and go on the ghost train ride, go

0:26:02.720 --> 0:26:05.600
<v Speaker 1>on the ups and downs, but the central character is

0:26:05.680 --> 0:26:09.160
<v Speaker 1>quite neutral, quite bland. And me I played the guy

0:26:09.200 --> 0:26:11.960
<v Speaker 1>who goes boo. I do about six or seven movies

0:26:12.000 --> 0:26:14.320
<v Speaker 1>a year, and I'd like to do one or two

0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:17.560
<v Speaker 1>movies a year and and really get into So I'd

0:26:17.560 --> 0:26:20.159
<v Speaker 1>like a career like yours are like Sean, where you

0:26:20.240 --> 0:26:22.680
<v Speaker 1>end up playing great character roles, but they are the

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<v Speaker 1>leading part. Are you're going to direct films. Yeah, I

0:26:26.160 --> 0:26:27.920
<v Speaker 1>was going to direct. My mother died a couple of

0:26:28.000 --> 0:26:29.960
<v Speaker 1>years ago. I was about to direct a film for

0:26:29.960 --> 0:26:34.440
<v Speaker 1>for BBC Films, but my mother passed away and when

0:26:34.480 --> 0:26:36.480
<v Speaker 1>she was ill, we had to I had to stop.

0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:39.800
<v Speaker 1>And because of that, I'm writing things. I have a

0:26:40.000 --> 0:26:44.399
<v Speaker 1>fascinating with American politics. What I love about America is

0:26:44.400 --> 0:26:47.960
<v Speaker 1>it's an idea and it's an idea that people are

0:26:48.000 --> 0:26:52.800
<v Speaker 1>trying to implement as as best as possible. Yeah. Yeah,

0:26:52.960 --> 0:26:57.600
<v Speaker 1>but it's like anything, it exposes people's shortcomings. Some people

0:26:57.720 --> 0:27:03.040
<v Speaker 1>think it supports their bigotry, and other people it inspires generosity,

0:27:03.560 --> 0:27:06.080
<v Speaker 1>and I think that's fascinating. I want to tell you

0:27:06.560 --> 0:27:10.159
<v Speaker 1>again that I watched seasons five, six, and seven of

0:27:10.280 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 1>Ray Donovan. It's on showtime anytime for people that are

0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:16.280
<v Speaker 1>out there, all seven seasons. Eddie Marson, I mean you

0:27:17.040 --> 0:27:19.800
<v Speaker 1>you really you ripped my heart out. Thank you were

0:27:19.960 --> 0:27:23.320
<v Speaker 1>ripped my heart out. I mean the it's the sweet

0:27:23.359 --> 0:27:26.560
<v Speaker 1>and the sour, it's those extremes. It's the dignity and

0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:30.520
<v Speaker 1>the malevolence, but the whole range is there. Not many

0:27:30.520 --> 0:27:33.000
<v Speaker 1>people get that, and that's what you did on that show.

0:27:33.040 --> 0:27:35.240
<v Speaker 1>You got everything out of that part you possibly can.

0:27:35.320 --> 0:27:37.760
<v Speaker 1>You were great in that fucking show. Great, Thank you

0:27:37.840 --> 0:27:47.359
<v Speaker 1>very much, Actor Eddie Marson. David Arquette has seen some

0:27:47.440 --> 0:27:52.280
<v Speaker 1>turbulent times, a very public marriage and divorce, rehab, a

0:27:52.320 --> 0:27:56.080
<v Speaker 1>heart attack, and a career that's stalled in part because

0:27:56.119 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 1>he won a pro wrestling championship two decades ago. But

0:28:00.040 --> 0:28:03.280
<v Speaker 1>David Arquette comes from a long line of performers, and

0:28:03.359 --> 0:28:07.119
<v Speaker 1>he knows how to reinvent himself. My dad was a

0:28:07.119 --> 0:28:10.239
<v Speaker 1>big improvisational actor, and we did a bunch of that

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:14.720
<v Speaker 1>growing up. That was built into sort of our playtime.

0:28:15.480 --> 0:28:18.240
<v Speaker 1>But I wasn't really serious into it until high school.

0:28:18.400 --> 0:28:23.120
<v Speaker 1>Where school Fairfax in Los Angeles? Where were you living

0:28:23.160 --> 0:28:25.480
<v Speaker 1>one part of town. We lived right down the street

0:28:25.520 --> 0:28:30.199
<v Speaker 1>from Paramount Studios, right in Hollywood, But back then it

0:28:30.280 --> 0:28:34.080
<v Speaker 1>was pretty crazy area at the time, punk rock and

0:28:34.440 --> 0:28:38.800
<v Speaker 1>roller skating and you know, just all this bizarre world.

0:28:39.600 --> 0:28:42.400
<v Speaker 1>Then I got into break dancing and graffiti and I

0:28:42.480 --> 0:28:44.880
<v Speaker 1>was kind of like all into that world. And then

0:28:44.920 --> 0:28:46.800
<v Speaker 1>they were doing a school play. They couldn't find the

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:51.680
<v Speaker 1>lead and they approached me, and then I met my teacher, Bendibaldo,

0:28:51.800 --> 0:28:54.680
<v Speaker 1>who had a real impact on my life. Helped me

0:28:54.760 --> 0:28:58.880
<v Speaker 1>focus on just acting and like getting into acting. And

0:28:58.920 --> 0:29:01.120
<v Speaker 1>where were your sisters at that point in your family?

0:29:01.120 --> 0:29:03.560
<v Speaker 1>At the point were they all dabbling in it? Like

0:29:03.640 --> 0:29:07.479
<v Speaker 1>in my family literally because I'm the oldest, My brothers

0:29:07.520 --> 0:29:11.040
<v Speaker 1>were sitting around in the den of our house and

0:29:11.080 --> 0:29:13.720
<v Speaker 1>I was doing a soap opera, you know, and they

0:29:13.720 --> 0:29:16.040
<v Speaker 1>were sitting there, stoned out of their mind and say, now,

0:29:16.080 --> 0:29:18.280
<v Speaker 1>if ship Head here can get on TV, why can't

0:29:18.360 --> 0:29:21.080
<v Speaker 1>we get on TV? You know, there was really the

0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:25.200
<v Speaker 1>such contempt for me that launched their careers. Who was

0:29:25.240 --> 0:29:27.360
<v Speaker 1>the first one to jump in the pool of your

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:32.960
<v Speaker 1>famous siblings? Rosanna really broke down the door for this generation.

0:29:33.240 --> 0:29:36.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, my great grandfather was cliff ar Ket Charlie Weaver,

0:29:37.600 --> 0:29:40.440
<v Speaker 1>and then my father and my mother was also an actress.

0:29:40.800 --> 0:29:44.080
<v Speaker 1>But then this generation, it was Rosanna. She ran out

0:29:44.120 --> 0:29:47.520
<v Speaker 1>to Hollywood and stayed with the family that we were

0:29:47.560 --> 0:29:51.240
<v Speaker 1>friends with when she was like fifteen or sixteen. Patricia

0:29:51.280 --> 0:29:54.800
<v Speaker 1>then got into it, so they were both working actresses

0:29:55.360 --> 0:29:58.160
<v Speaker 1>when I was in high school. And this fascinates me,

0:29:58.320 --> 0:30:01.600
<v Speaker 1>this whole family thing, because you walt to such distinctive personalities.

0:30:01.800 --> 0:30:04.600
<v Speaker 1>Did you have a similar goal? I don't know, there

0:30:04.640 --> 0:30:08.480
<v Speaker 1>was eleven years difference between me and Rosanna, So when

0:30:08.480 --> 0:30:11.760
<v Speaker 1>I was a teenager, she was a woman like starting

0:30:11.800 --> 0:30:15.000
<v Speaker 1>her career, and I always remember like seeing some of

0:30:15.000 --> 0:30:17.760
<v Speaker 1>her early work and being really impressed by it, like

0:30:18.200 --> 0:30:22.440
<v Speaker 1>the Executioner Song and Big Blue and After Hours. I mean,

0:30:22.480 --> 0:30:24.640
<v Speaker 1>she was doing such incredible work and I was just

0:30:24.720 --> 0:30:28.880
<v Speaker 1>in awe of her talent. We all have this improvisational

0:30:29.200 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 1>bass because my dad was a working actor like forty

0:30:32.720 --> 0:30:36.160
<v Speaker 1>five years, so he'd do industrial films and commercials, and

0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:39.280
<v Speaker 1>I was still on the Walton's and just kind of

0:30:39.320 --> 0:30:42.880
<v Speaker 1>paying the bills. So there was also a real kind

0:30:42.880 --> 0:30:47.880
<v Speaker 1>of blue collar element to acting for me. I still

0:30:47.960 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 1>kind of hold that even though I love theater, I

0:30:50.840 --> 0:30:53.480
<v Speaker 1>fell in love with theater. I've been able to do

0:30:53.560 --> 0:31:00.960
<v Speaker 1>a couple really beautiful plays and a couple of real stinkers. Well,

0:31:01.000 --> 0:31:05.040
<v Speaker 1>what's one you enjoyed and where? Describe where were My

0:31:05.120 --> 0:31:08.320
<v Speaker 1>favorite play was at the Geffen. It was called The

0:31:08.400 --> 0:31:11.360
<v Speaker 1>Female of the Species and that Benning was the lead

0:31:11.400 --> 0:31:14.440
<v Speaker 1>in it, and I learned so much just watching her.

0:31:15.440 --> 0:31:19.040
<v Speaker 1>But Net Benning, who has that rare distinction of someone

0:31:19.480 --> 0:31:22.200
<v Speaker 1>who became a movie star based on the performance in

0:31:22.240 --> 0:31:26.560
<v Speaker 1>a play, she did them, the play Coastal Disturbances, the

0:31:26.640 --> 0:31:30.680
<v Speaker 1>Tina how Play on Broadway with Tim Daley. I've always

0:31:30.720 --> 0:31:32.760
<v Speaker 1>found it if I need something to kind of get

0:31:32.840 --> 0:31:35.040
<v Speaker 1>my mind right, like to get my feelings right of it,

0:31:35.120 --> 0:31:37.160
<v Speaker 1>what am I doing and why? Because movies and TV

0:31:37.240 --> 0:31:39.760
<v Speaker 1>has been so daunting for me. I go to a

0:31:39.840 --> 0:31:41.440
<v Speaker 1>play and all of a sudden, then I I just

0:31:41.560 --> 0:31:43.840
<v Speaker 1>feel better, like if we were doing a revival. It

0:31:43.880 --> 0:31:45.680
<v Speaker 1>was a famous piece of material, and it was a

0:31:45.720 --> 0:31:48.520
<v Speaker 1>process that I was much more familiar with. It was

0:31:48.640 --> 0:31:51.240
<v Speaker 1>movie making just seem like, man, you gotta be lucky.

0:31:51.480 --> 0:31:55.920
<v Speaker 1>You know, you need a lot of luck in this business. Definitely,

0:31:56.160 --> 0:31:57.760
<v Speaker 1>When did the luck come for you? When did you

0:31:57.760 --> 0:32:00.400
<v Speaker 1>first feel lucky? I did a film called On His

0:32:00.480 --> 0:32:04.440
<v Speaker 1>Way Back that was sort of my first indie film, Darling,

0:32:04.520 --> 0:32:07.440
<v Speaker 1>that went to festivals and people sort of appreciated it,

0:32:07.760 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 1>and I think from there, I did a film called

0:32:10.080 --> 0:32:13.560
<v Speaker 1>Dream with the Fishes. I really loved that experience. Who

0:32:13.600 --> 0:32:18.360
<v Speaker 1>was the director, Finn Taylor, really amazing writer director. She

0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:20.640
<v Speaker 1>was brilliant. It's one of my favorite films that I've

0:32:20.680 --> 0:32:23.560
<v Speaker 1>done because it's based on a true story and just

0:32:23.680 --> 0:32:27.000
<v Speaker 1>really had a lot of hard and really beautiful music

0:32:27.040 --> 0:32:29.600
<v Speaker 1>in it, and I got to work with this actor

0:32:29.640 --> 0:32:33.040
<v Speaker 1>Brad Hunt, that I've still dear friends with. And then

0:32:34.080 --> 0:32:36.400
<v Speaker 1>what happens in terms of you make a movie that

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:39.600
<v Speaker 1>makes a huge amount of money correct they scream and

0:32:39.640 --> 0:32:42.400
<v Speaker 1>that movie makes bags of money, and then what happens

0:32:42.440 --> 0:32:44.640
<v Speaker 1>do you all of a sudden you decide now I

0:32:44.680 --> 0:32:47.680
<v Speaker 1>need to do different movies. I could select sort of

0:32:48.160 --> 0:32:50.400
<v Speaker 1>more films that I wanted to do. I had met

0:32:50.440 --> 0:32:54.840
<v Speaker 1>Courtney Cox, my ex wife, on Scream that had been

0:32:55.120 --> 0:32:58.360
<v Speaker 1>become a big focus of my life, just my relationship.

0:32:58.960 --> 0:33:01.880
<v Speaker 1>And then I did a couple uh studio movies, but

0:33:01.920 --> 0:33:04.920
<v Speaker 1>they're kind of It was funny. I was watching this

0:33:05.440 --> 0:33:10.040
<v Speaker 1>documentary on the casting director of of Midnight Cowboy, and

0:33:10.080 --> 0:33:15.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm all captivated by this beautiful story of this incredible

0:33:16.080 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 1>artistic casting director and she cast one of my favorite films. Yeah,

0:33:22.480 --> 0:33:24.560
<v Speaker 1>and I'm watching it and I'm like loving it. And

0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:27.560
<v Speaker 1>then she was like, then the studio made me start

0:33:27.640 --> 0:33:31.320
<v Speaker 1>casting crap. And it's like the show picture of me

0:33:34.280 --> 0:33:37.680
<v Speaker 1>c spot run the movie. I had done a kid's movie,

0:33:37.840 --> 0:33:41.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, So I was like, oh, it was like

0:33:41.480 --> 0:33:44.960
<v Speaker 1>this gut punch. I know, people are really selective about

0:33:45.000 --> 0:33:49.640
<v Speaker 1>what they do and the protective of their careers. And

0:33:49.720 --> 0:33:53.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting that more now, but I never really was.

0:33:54.040 --> 0:33:56.120
<v Speaker 1>I'd always do like a kids movie if I wanted

0:33:56.160 --> 0:33:59.000
<v Speaker 1>to do a kid's movie, or or horror film, or

0:33:59.280 --> 0:34:02.080
<v Speaker 1>I do a fun like I did this movie Eight

0:34:02.160 --> 0:34:05.680
<v Speaker 1>Legged Freaks, which was like a throwback to the sixties

0:34:05.760 --> 0:34:09.200
<v Speaker 1>kind of creature features like I love all that stuff.

0:34:09.239 --> 0:34:13.120
<v Speaker 1>So I never saw it as selling out or you

0:34:13.160 --> 0:34:17.160
<v Speaker 1>weren't calculating enough. Now you know you made the mistake

0:34:17.239 --> 0:34:19.680
<v Speaker 1>of doing what you wanted to do right right, as

0:34:19.719 --> 0:34:22.080
<v Speaker 1>opposed what they wanted you to do, you know now

0:34:22.120 --> 0:34:23.960
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, because I don't want to dwell

0:34:24.000 --> 0:34:26.440
<v Speaker 1>on this too much, but I just find the counterpoint interesting.

0:34:26.920 --> 0:34:29.239
<v Speaker 1>When you met Courtney on Scream, she was on the

0:34:29.280 --> 0:34:32.680
<v Speaker 1>TV show already or no, yeah, she she was on Friends.

0:34:32.680 --> 0:34:34.719
<v Speaker 1>They were in like their first or second year, so

0:34:34.760 --> 0:34:36.480
<v Speaker 1>it was very early on. And then she when she

0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:39.080
<v Speaker 1>comes out the other end of that tunnel. She's one

0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:41.239
<v Speaker 1>of the most famous women and she's part of one

0:34:41.239 --> 0:34:44.200
<v Speaker 1>of the most famous TV shows in history. You were

0:34:44.239 --> 0:34:47.720
<v Speaker 1>married to her for how long thirteen years or twelve

0:34:47.760 --> 0:34:49.759
<v Speaker 1>years or something, so that run of that show, you

0:34:49.760 --> 0:34:52.239
<v Speaker 1>were pretty much the run of the show. Yeah, through

0:34:52.280 --> 0:34:54.560
<v Speaker 1>the run of the show. We have a sixteen year

0:34:54.600 --> 0:34:57.040
<v Speaker 1>old daughter together now, but yeah, through the run of

0:34:57.080 --> 0:34:59.319
<v Speaker 1>the show. You know, when you were with someone in

0:34:59.400 --> 0:35:04.640
<v Speaker 1>that acting relationship, I became her husband a lot, you know.

0:35:05.360 --> 0:35:08.040
<v Speaker 1>You know, you become second fiddle to a certain degree,

0:35:08.400 --> 0:35:12.280
<v Speaker 1>or like there's an effect on your career in a sense,

0:35:12.400 --> 0:35:14.920
<v Speaker 1>or you even just in any relationship. You just have

0:35:14.960 --> 0:35:19.640
<v Speaker 1>to start making choices. Like I remember I was up

0:35:19.640 --> 0:35:22.800
<v Speaker 1>for a role with High Fidelity, but I had already

0:35:22.840 --> 0:35:25.960
<v Speaker 1>committed to me and Courtney doing this film together called

0:35:26.239 --> 0:35:29.800
<v Speaker 1>The Shrink Is In, And Stephen Fears called me in

0:35:29.840 --> 0:35:32.240
<v Speaker 1>the office. He said, come on, you gotta do this movie.

0:35:33.080 --> 0:35:34.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, I know you have the film with your wife,

0:35:34.960 --> 0:35:41.440
<v Speaker 1>but marriage is temporary. Movies are forever. Yeah, right, I

0:35:41.440 --> 0:35:43.279
<v Speaker 1>had guys call me up. I had guys call me

0:35:43.320 --> 0:35:44.600
<v Speaker 1>up and they said they were like, we can always

0:35:44.640 --> 0:35:47.000
<v Speaker 1>get you another wife out, Like, I mean, you know,

0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:49.440
<v Speaker 1>let's get serious. Did you get that sense from her

0:35:49.600 --> 0:35:51.799
<v Speaker 1>that the goose that lays the golden egg and you

0:35:51.800 --> 0:35:54.200
<v Speaker 1>have to really really protect that there were risks that

0:35:54.239 --> 0:35:57.799
<v Speaker 1>she couldn't take in her career. Yeah, for sure. I

0:35:57.840 --> 0:36:01.120
<v Speaker 1>definitely had to watch my self. I was a bit

0:36:01.160 --> 0:36:04.680
<v Speaker 1>of a wild character anyway. But when we had our daughter, Coco,

0:36:04.760 --> 0:36:08.840
<v Speaker 1>I remember the paparazzi at this point in Los Angeles

0:36:08.920 --> 0:36:12.280
<v Speaker 1>had just gone crazy. They were like gangsters with cameras

0:36:12.360 --> 0:36:15.640
<v Speaker 1>and they would like provoke fights with me, and I'd

0:36:15.680 --> 0:36:19.239
<v Speaker 1>be like screaming, like I got this protective instinct of

0:36:19.360 --> 0:36:22.720
<v Speaker 1>my child. It was like, you know, you know about

0:36:22.840 --> 0:36:25.560
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't know anything about that, David, I have no

0:36:25.640 --> 0:36:29.840
<v Speaker 1>idea what you're talking about. Paparazzi threatening your wife, your child,

0:36:30.280 --> 0:36:33.080
<v Speaker 1>and you become really really activated over that. I have

0:36:33.200 --> 0:36:35.879
<v Speaker 1>no idea what you're talking about. I know. It's so

0:36:36.360 --> 0:36:40.560
<v Speaker 1>it's gets so crazy. It was a weird time because

0:36:40.600 --> 0:36:43.040
<v Speaker 1>we were she was like the darling and and all

0:36:43.080 --> 0:36:46.200
<v Speaker 1>that stuff, and you start going to all the parties

0:36:46.239 --> 0:36:49.680
<v Speaker 1>and you start meeting all the big people and all

0:36:49.719 --> 0:36:51.600
<v Speaker 1>the stuff. And then we got a divorce and I

0:36:51.719 --> 0:36:55.760
<v Speaker 1>just kind of like really took it hard. I started drinking,

0:36:56.520 --> 0:37:01.680
<v Speaker 1>just heartbroken. That was a tough time just to sort

0:37:01.680 --> 0:37:04.920
<v Speaker 1>of bounce comes apart. When there's no kids, obviously, it's

0:37:04.920 --> 0:37:08.120
<v Speaker 1>a it's different when those kids involved. You know. When

0:37:08.160 --> 0:37:11.640
<v Speaker 1>I got divorced and have my daughter Ireland. It was

0:37:11.719 --> 0:37:14.640
<v Speaker 1>fucking agony, man, it was fucking agony, you know, just

0:37:14.680 --> 0:37:17.600
<v Speaker 1>to be another statistic, you know. Now, let me ask

0:37:17.600 --> 0:37:23.560
<v Speaker 1>you this, your sister who was born your brother Roberts, right,

0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:28.040
<v Speaker 1>if I read correctly, Alexis didn't emerge till she was

0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:32.520
<v Speaker 1>really in her thirties correct well, within the family, she did.

0:37:32.800 --> 0:37:35.760
<v Speaker 1>She came out in her late teens, nineteen or something,

0:37:36.040 --> 0:37:38.440
<v Speaker 1>and my mom was really liberal and she had a

0:37:38.440 --> 0:37:41.480
<v Speaker 1>really hard time with it. That was really a weird

0:37:41.520 --> 0:37:45.200
<v Speaker 1>time because we're like, Mom, you're like the most open minded.

0:37:46.560 --> 0:37:48.440
<v Speaker 1>She had a hard time because she knew it was

0:37:48.520 --> 0:37:51.879
<v Speaker 1>just gonna be a hard life for Alexis. But then

0:37:51.960 --> 0:37:54.200
<v Speaker 1>she did the wedding singer and she was boy George

0:37:54.200 --> 0:37:57.040
<v Speaker 1>and that, so she kind of did certain roles where

0:37:57.080 --> 0:38:00.200
<v Speaker 1>she showed that side, but she didn't really come out

0:38:00.440 --> 0:38:04.520
<v Speaker 1>like publicly until she was ready to say, I only

0:38:04.560 --> 0:38:08.200
<v Speaker 1>want to do you know, either female or transgender parts,

0:38:09.400 --> 0:38:13.840
<v Speaker 1>And that's where she kind of came out publicly early

0:38:13.880 --> 0:38:17.600
<v Speaker 1>two thousand's two four that yeah, I was reading about

0:38:17.600 --> 0:38:19.799
<v Speaker 1>her and said she was born in sixty nine, so

0:38:19.880 --> 0:38:22.120
<v Speaker 1>that makes her like thirty five years old. So she

0:38:22.200 --> 0:38:25.400
<v Speaker 1>was living with that and and and keeping that close

0:38:25.680 --> 0:38:29.000
<v Speaker 1>until she was thirty five years old. Oh, when she

0:38:29.080 --> 0:38:31.920
<v Speaker 1>was thirty five, that's when she became a woman. But

0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:34.120
<v Speaker 1>then at the end of her life then she wanted

0:38:34.280 --> 0:38:37.720
<v Speaker 1>us to refer to her as our brother again before

0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:40.320
<v Speaker 1>she died. So it's like this confusic thing where I

0:38:40.360 --> 0:38:43.759
<v Speaker 1>say my brother and my sister. But towards the end,

0:38:43.760 --> 0:38:47.600
<v Speaker 1>Alexis was like the female side of her, or her

0:38:47.800 --> 0:38:50.880
<v Speaker 1>wanting to be a female she realized was connected a

0:38:50.880 --> 0:38:54.759
<v Speaker 1>lot to sexuality. So at the end she wanted to

0:38:54.760 --> 0:39:01.960
<v Speaker 1>be referred more to as our brother. David Arquette follow

0:39:02.080 --> 0:39:05.120
<v Speaker 1>Here's the Thing on the I Heart Radio app, Apple

0:39:05.200 --> 0:39:09.200
<v Speaker 1>Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. While you're there,

0:39:09.400 --> 0:39:13.800
<v Speaker 1>leave us a review. When we return, David talks about

0:39:13.840 --> 0:39:15.759
<v Speaker 1>why he wanted to get back in the ring for

0:39:15.840 --> 0:39:29.160
<v Speaker 1>his new documentary You Can't Kill David Arquette. I'm Alec

0:39:29.200 --> 0:39:32.880
<v Speaker 1>Baldwin and this is Here's the Thing. David Arquette is

0:39:32.960 --> 0:39:37.200
<v Speaker 1>a long time real deal fan of professional wrestling. In

0:39:37.280 --> 0:39:40.160
<v Speaker 1>the year two thousand, he won the w c W

0:39:40.400 --> 0:39:44.800
<v Speaker 1>World Heavyweight Championship, a title he held for twelve days.

0:39:45.560 --> 0:39:49.440
<v Speaker 1>An achievement that was mocked by wrestling fans and Hollywood alike.

0:39:50.080 --> 0:39:54.040
<v Speaker 1>His career stalled, he let himself go, and then he

0:39:54.120 --> 0:39:57.400
<v Speaker 1>decided to get back in the ring. It's all captured

0:39:57.400 --> 0:40:01.400
<v Speaker 1>in a documentary released last year whose idea was the

0:40:01.400 --> 0:40:07.600
<v Speaker 1>movie you Can't Kill David Arquette. You can't. And by

0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:10.279
<v Speaker 1>the time I was done watching the movie, I mean,

0:40:10.320 --> 0:40:12.400
<v Speaker 1>I thought, that's a cute title. That's a fun title.

0:40:12.719 --> 0:40:15.319
<v Speaker 1>This is his middle aged crisis. You know he's up there.

0:40:15.560 --> 0:40:19.080
<v Speaker 1>It was like my third middles his third When it

0:40:19.120 --> 0:40:22.000
<v Speaker 1>came around to his third midlife crisis, he decided to

0:40:22.040 --> 0:40:25.319
<v Speaker 1>film it. That's genius. So you do this movie. And

0:40:25.400 --> 0:40:27.640
<v Speaker 1>I watched and by the end, I was like, Wow,

0:40:28.480 --> 0:40:31.520
<v Speaker 1>that's a very apt title, because you can't kill David

0:40:31.640 --> 0:40:37.080
<v Speaker 1>ar cat When did this wrestling thing begin? And why?

0:40:37.280 --> 0:40:42.680
<v Speaker 1>What's the funk were you thinking? Well? I did a

0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:45.640
<v Speaker 1>movie called Ready to Rumble years ago. It was one

0:40:45.680 --> 0:40:48.640
<v Speaker 1>of those like three studio films I did that kind

0:40:48.640 --> 0:40:51.919
<v Speaker 1>of didn't get received very well, and it didn't even

0:40:51.920 --> 0:40:54.439
<v Speaker 1>get received very well by the wrestling community at the time.

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:57.120
<v Speaker 1>It's a really over the top comedy, but it's since

0:40:57.200 --> 0:41:00.560
<v Speaker 1>kind of grown some cult status. So I did this

0:41:00.600 --> 0:41:03.640
<v Speaker 1>movie Ready to Rumble. It was through Warner Brothers. Warner

0:41:03.640 --> 0:41:06.799
<v Speaker 1>Brothers at the time owned w c W, which was

0:41:06.920 --> 0:41:10.279
<v Speaker 1>like the competiting brand to w w E, the two

0:41:10.440 --> 0:41:14.680
<v Speaker 1>largest wrestling companies, and to promote the film, I went

0:41:14.719 --> 0:41:18.080
<v Speaker 1>on and I did some like appearance and got involved

0:41:18.120 --> 0:41:20.799
<v Speaker 1>because Diamond Dallas paid a big wrestler at the time,

0:41:21.080 --> 0:41:23.480
<v Speaker 1>and he's also the star of the film Ready to Rumble,

0:41:23.520 --> 0:41:26.319
<v Speaker 1>and we'd become friends through the process. So I came

0:41:26.320 --> 0:41:29.000
<v Speaker 1>and I did some in ring thing and it got

0:41:29.000 --> 0:41:32.520
<v Speaker 1>a really good reaction from the crowd. So they brought

0:41:32.600 --> 0:41:35.440
<v Speaker 1>me back to do a second thing and they said

0:41:35.600 --> 0:41:39.120
<v Speaker 1>we're going to make you the champion. That was wrestling fans,

0:41:39.160 --> 0:41:44.319
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, no, that's all. Yeah. And since

0:41:44.360 --> 0:41:46.439
<v Speaker 1>I was a kid. For since I was a kid,

0:41:46.480 --> 0:41:49.680
<v Speaker 1>I always loved it. I'd go to the matches throughout

0:41:49.719 --> 0:41:52.560
<v Speaker 1>the years and I saw Andre the Giant as a

0:41:52.640 --> 0:41:54.960
<v Speaker 1>kid and it just kind of blew my mind. I

0:41:55.000 --> 0:41:58.040
<v Speaker 1>just love it because my family goes back to Vaudeville.

0:41:58.680 --> 0:42:01.040
<v Speaker 1>There's such a like a circule, this kind of connection.

0:42:01.120 --> 0:42:04.080
<v Speaker 1>I love clowns. I love you know, the circus world.

0:42:04.560 --> 0:42:07.400
<v Speaker 1>You know wrestling was kind of connected to that, and this,

0:42:07.840 --> 0:42:10.240
<v Speaker 1>you know sport that I believe for a long time

0:42:10.320 --> 0:42:13.320
<v Speaker 1>was a normal sport where it's not sort of predetermined

0:42:13.360 --> 0:42:16.840
<v Speaker 1>like it is. So it was like an opportunity. And

0:42:16.880 --> 0:42:19.040
<v Speaker 1>all these guys that I was fans of, Hulk Hogan

0:42:19.120 --> 0:42:22.120
<v Speaker 1>and Macho Man were all at this company, and so

0:42:22.160 --> 0:42:24.000
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Oh, that would be amazing, and they

0:42:24.000 --> 0:42:25.719
<v Speaker 1>said we're gonna make you the champion. I was like,

0:42:25.760 --> 0:42:29.080
<v Speaker 1>that's a terrible idea. Domdal's page said, well, listen if

0:42:29.080 --> 0:42:31.319
<v Speaker 1>you if you don't do it, then it's over. There's

0:42:31.360 --> 0:42:34.719
<v Speaker 1>no more promotion to ready to rumble, there's no more wrestling,

0:42:35.000 --> 0:42:37.360
<v Speaker 1>like that's it. And I said, well, what if I

0:42:37.400 --> 0:42:39.120
<v Speaker 1>do it? They say, you get to come with us

0:42:39.120 --> 0:42:42.280
<v Speaker 1>for the next two weeks, travel with all this whole show,

0:42:42.719 --> 0:42:45.200
<v Speaker 1>and you know, you're the champion for two weeks and

0:42:45.239 --> 0:42:48.000
<v Speaker 1>then you'll lose it at the pay per view. I'd

0:42:48.120 --> 0:42:51.640
<v Speaker 1>rather be champion for two weeks than not at all. Exactly,

0:42:52.080 --> 0:42:54.919
<v Speaker 1>That's what I thought. I thought, Oh, be the fan

0:42:55.040 --> 0:42:57.200
<v Speaker 1>that finally became a champion. But the fact that I

0:42:57.239 --> 0:43:00.600
<v Speaker 1>was a comedic actor from Hollywood, the they saw it.

0:43:00.719 --> 0:43:05.040
<v Speaker 1>Married to some girl on sitcom. They didn't go for it,

0:43:05.080 --> 0:43:08.040
<v Speaker 1>and they've projected me. They hated me for twenty years.

0:43:08.080 --> 0:43:11.040
<v Speaker 1>They'd spit on me and yelled the most horrible things

0:43:11.560 --> 0:43:13.680
<v Speaker 1>and like trying to pick fights with me and all

0:43:13.719 --> 0:43:17.000
<v Speaker 1>this stuff. And then the internet, Who's day? The fans

0:43:17.560 --> 0:43:22.239
<v Speaker 1>fans wrestling fans and it was second. So you were

0:43:22.239 --> 0:43:24.799
<v Speaker 1>the champion for two weeks and they rejected you could

0:43:24.800 --> 0:43:27.360
<v Speaker 1>then though you were a Hollywood poser. Yeah, you're a

0:43:27.400 --> 0:43:30.400
<v Speaker 1>Hollywood got to like get drunk with Rick Flair in

0:43:30.440 --> 0:43:34.000
<v Speaker 1>a ball married to her. It was a huge baggage

0:43:34.040 --> 0:43:36.319
<v Speaker 1>for you. Yeah, you need to be married to a

0:43:36.400 --> 0:43:38.600
<v Speaker 1>woman with like scars on her face and everything. But

0:43:38.920 --> 0:43:40.680
<v Speaker 1>so you're married to her and they think you're a

0:43:40.680 --> 0:43:43.160
<v Speaker 1>Hollywood poser. You do this for two weeks, But do

0:43:43.200 --> 0:43:45.239
<v Speaker 1>you find that all of a sudden you want to

0:43:45.239 --> 0:43:47.759
<v Speaker 1>get into the wrestling thing for real because you're sick

0:43:47.800 --> 0:43:51.439
<v Speaker 1>of people thinking that you haven't got what it takes. Yeah.

0:43:51.480 --> 0:43:53.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean when we were younger, we used to scrap

0:43:53.680 --> 0:43:57.200
<v Speaker 1>all the time, get into little rumbles and fights and

0:43:57.280 --> 0:43:59.920
<v Speaker 1>all this stuff. You know, But was it your pride

0:44:00.040 --> 0:44:03.360
<v Speaker 1>the triggered you? Yeah, it was. I I hated that

0:44:03.400 --> 0:44:06.680
<v Speaker 1>they were like, I was a wooss you know what

0:44:06.719 --> 0:44:10.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean? They just treated me like this, like little

0:44:10.920 --> 0:44:15.120
<v Speaker 1>punk being bullied. I was constantly being bullied for like

0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:19.759
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, shut up, I'm gonna prove my show.

0:44:19.920 --> 0:44:24.000
<v Speaker 1>You show you? Yeah? I did? And how does that beginning?

0:44:24.000 --> 0:44:25.839
<v Speaker 1>Who do you go to? Sit there and go I

0:44:25.920 --> 0:44:27.759
<v Speaker 1>really really want to get into this. Who do you

0:44:27.800 --> 0:44:30.200
<v Speaker 1>tell that to? It built up for years and then

0:44:30.239 --> 0:44:32.480
<v Speaker 1>I had two stints put in my heart. I had

0:44:32.520 --> 0:44:34.759
<v Speaker 1>a really bad reaction to a stress test. I thought

0:44:34.760 --> 0:44:37.120
<v Speaker 1>it was having no hard attack. And when I came

0:44:37.160 --> 0:44:39.880
<v Speaker 1>out of it, I told my wife I've been really

0:44:39.920 --> 0:44:44.919
<v Speaker 1>thinking about wrestling. She was like, what are you talking. Yeah.

0:44:45.040 --> 0:44:48.799
<v Speaker 1>My current Christina, who's incredible. She produced the film You

0:44:48.880 --> 0:44:52.920
<v Speaker 1>Cannot Kill David or Catch was McClarty. McClarty and she

0:44:53.000 --> 0:44:56.160
<v Speaker 1>was a correspondent for E. Yeah. She went to n

0:44:56.280 --> 0:44:59.000
<v Speaker 1>I U as a journalist and then did local news

0:44:59.080 --> 0:45:02.799
<v Speaker 1>and then then E and we had met sort of

0:45:03.360 --> 0:45:07.080
<v Speaker 1>at an eighties boat party. She's just such a badass,

0:45:07.160 --> 0:45:10.080
<v Speaker 1>Like the skill set that she got from being a

0:45:10.160 --> 0:45:15.120
<v Speaker 1>journalist goes right into being a producer. So incredibly well.

0:45:15.560 --> 0:45:18.160
<v Speaker 1>And her her uncle was like a chief of staff

0:45:18.200 --> 0:45:20.759
<v Speaker 1>to Clinton his first term, so she just could really

0:45:20.800 --> 0:45:23.719
<v Speaker 1>get stuff done. Two stents in your heart, You I

0:45:23.760 --> 0:45:26.840
<v Speaker 1>want to begin my wrestling career, Well, it was what

0:45:26.920 --> 0:45:31.040
<v Speaker 1>did your wife? I literally was watching my life and seeing,

0:45:31.120 --> 0:45:34.919
<v Speaker 1>like my friends, my family, my children, well kids, Well,

0:45:34.960 --> 0:45:36.920
<v Speaker 1>this is a life if I if I don't make

0:45:36.960 --> 0:45:40.919
<v Speaker 1>it through. And I didn't have like many regrets necessarily,

0:45:41.480 --> 0:45:43.959
<v Speaker 1>But then I was thinking about wrestling. It was so

0:45:44.040 --> 0:45:46.759
<v Speaker 1>strange to me that it was such a high on

0:45:46.800 --> 0:45:51.759
<v Speaker 1>the list of like things that still were kind of

0:45:51.800 --> 0:45:54.960
<v Speaker 1>gnawing at me. So I told her everyone wanted to

0:45:55.000 --> 0:45:57.399
<v Speaker 1>return to wrestling. I also knew I had to lose

0:45:57.400 --> 0:45:59.920
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of weight and get in shape, and I

0:46:00.120 --> 0:46:02.759
<v Speaker 1>just thought if I were to do this process, it

0:46:02.760 --> 0:46:06.600
<v Speaker 1>would be fun to film it so that I could

0:46:06.640 --> 0:46:11.080
<v Speaker 1>give wrestling fans a glimpse of the experience I had

0:46:11.160 --> 0:46:15.360
<v Speaker 1>when I first wrestled. So the film covers the period

0:46:15.640 --> 0:46:19.719
<v Speaker 1>of your launching of your legit wrestling career. Yeah this

0:46:19.800 --> 0:46:23.960
<v Speaker 1>is twenty years later. Now twenty years later, two stants later,

0:46:25.040 --> 0:46:29.400
<v Speaker 1>divorce later, You're gonna launch her wrestling career And Christina

0:46:29.480 --> 0:46:31.520
<v Speaker 1>doesn't sit there and call her a divorced Lawyer. She

0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:34.239
<v Speaker 1>seems like she really got it together. What was her response?

0:46:35.080 --> 0:46:37.920
<v Speaker 1>She thought it was crazy she did. It's all in

0:46:37.920 --> 0:46:40.440
<v Speaker 1>the in the film. You know, there's also like this

0:46:40.520 --> 0:46:44.680
<v Speaker 1>whole undertone was like my love for Randy Kaufman. Uh,

0:46:44.840 --> 0:46:48.040
<v Speaker 1>he always loved wrestling. He actually went to Memphis and

0:46:48.080 --> 0:46:51.520
<v Speaker 1>like wrestled for a year or two. Randy Piper was

0:46:51.600 --> 0:46:55.440
<v Speaker 1>one who slapped him. That was Jerry Lawler, JR. Lawler,

0:46:55.760 --> 0:46:58.799
<v Speaker 1>j Lawler and he also I've wrestled Jerry Lawler in

0:46:58.840 --> 0:47:00.880
<v Speaker 1>the in the Doctor Ventary, I got of the do

0:47:01.160 --> 0:47:04.879
<v Speaker 1>a pile driver just like Andy, but it literally messed

0:47:04.920 --> 0:47:07.399
<v Speaker 1>my neck up to this day. It's it's so much

0:47:07.440 --> 0:47:12.719
<v Speaker 1>more dangerous and painful and like how physically challenging than

0:47:12.800 --> 0:47:16.000
<v Speaker 1>anything I've ever done before. I never knew like how

0:47:17.040 --> 0:47:21.000
<v Speaker 1>how real it is, Like it is more there's more

0:47:21.080 --> 0:47:25.000
<v Speaker 1>contact than you think. So my view of it, I mean,

0:47:25.000 --> 0:47:26.919
<v Speaker 1>my sense of it is I think most people share

0:47:26.960 --> 0:47:30.160
<v Speaker 1>this is that it's an extraordinary amount of physical conditioning.

0:47:30.000 --> 0:47:32.560
<v Speaker 1>These guys and these women who do this look great.

0:47:32.600 --> 0:47:35.840
<v Speaker 1>They're all athletic and ripped up and strong and powerful

0:47:35.880 --> 0:47:40.319
<v Speaker 1>and muscled up and everything, and there's just enough reality

0:47:40.360 --> 0:47:42.560
<v Speaker 1>and just enough violence to make it look real. But

0:47:42.600 --> 0:47:46.680
<v Speaker 1>it's all choreography, and I mean there is some spontaneity,

0:47:46.760 --> 0:47:50.160
<v Speaker 1>but it's all worked out for the safety of those involved.

0:47:50.320 --> 0:47:52.200
<v Speaker 1>You don't take somebody and smash their face through the

0:47:52.800 --> 0:47:56.759
<v Speaker 1>glass table, you know, sometimes people do. Actually, you know,

0:47:56.920 --> 0:48:00.319
<v Speaker 1>it is all like worked out. But what you learned

0:48:00.400 --> 0:48:03.359
<v Speaker 1>very quickly that people in the ring sometimes have other

0:48:03.640 --> 0:48:07.120
<v Speaker 1>things going on in their life. There's something called a receipt,

0:48:07.200 --> 0:48:09.839
<v Speaker 1>Like if somebody hits you with something, you can get

0:48:09.840 --> 0:48:13.279
<v Speaker 1>a receipt to hit them back at some point. A

0:48:13.280 --> 0:48:15.520
<v Speaker 1>lot of stuff happens in the wrestling ring. That's not

0:48:15.560 --> 0:48:18.440
<v Speaker 1>when you work with like super pros, like the real pros.

0:48:18.600 --> 0:48:21.120
<v Speaker 1>You could get in a ring with them and everything smooth,

0:48:21.239 --> 0:48:25.000
<v Speaker 1>and you know, it looks like they're killing you. It's beautiful. Yeah,

0:48:25.160 --> 0:48:26.759
<v Speaker 1>what was the most painful thing that happened to you

0:48:26.800 --> 0:48:29.480
<v Speaker 1>in the ring? We had this death match where I

0:48:29.520 --> 0:48:31.600
<v Speaker 1>got stabbed in the neck with a light tube and

0:48:31.640 --> 0:48:35.200
<v Speaker 1>that was pretty in those painful Yeah, that's the film,

0:48:35.400 --> 0:48:38.400
<v Speaker 1>but that actually wasn't the most painful. I think the

0:48:38.440 --> 0:48:41.959
<v Speaker 1>pile Driver by Jerry Lawler or um I got put

0:48:42.000 --> 0:48:45.160
<v Speaker 1>through a table through my back out against Bully Ray.

0:48:45.640 --> 0:48:48.320
<v Speaker 1>Those were some of the most painful. You hit the

0:48:48.960 --> 0:48:51.719
<v Speaker 1>mat so hard all the time. I got this kind

0:48:51.760 --> 0:48:55.160
<v Speaker 1>of reoccurring whiplash is pretty much what it is. One

0:48:55.160 --> 0:48:57.480
<v Speaker 1>of my muscles that connects my shoulder to my neck

0:48:57.600 --> 0:49:01.320
<v Speaker 1>just has never been the same. But the really interesting

0:49:01.400 --> 0:49:05.080
<v Speaker 1>thing is you learn a lot about acting like it

0:49:05.200 --> 0:49:07.960
<v Speaker 1>has to be real, Like you have to tap into

0:49:07.960 --> 0:49:12.520
<v Speaker 1>these emotions that you could tell a story without making

0:49:12.560 --> 0:49:16.040
<v Speaker 1>a sound. You have to show that you're scared or

0:49:16.120 --> 0:49:22.239
<v Speaker 1>like now you're filled with ancor yeah, and and it's

0:49:22.280 --> 0:49:24.000
<v Speaker 1>all in your eyes and it's all in this thing.

0:49:24.160 --> 0:49:26.560
<v Speaker 1>But it's also when you get into a wrestling room,

0:49:26.560 --> 0:49:29.920
<v Speaker 1>time speeds up. You'll do something and think like I'm

0:49:29.960 --> 0:49:33.319
<v Speaker 1>gonna stop to the corner like an upset little kid,

0:49:34.360 --> 0:49:36.279
<v Speaker 1>and I'll watch it back and I like, run to

0:49:36.320 --> 0:49:38.640
<v Speaker 1>the corner. I was like, wait a second, I thought

0:49:38.640 --> 0:49:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I took so much time doing that, But when you

0:49:43.080 --> 0:49:46.920
<v Speaker 1>watch it back, it's so much quicker. So it teaches

0:49:46.960 --> 0:49:49.920
<v Speaker 1>you to really be in the moment. There's this connection

0:49:50.000 --> 0:49:53.120
<v Speaker 1>with an audience that you don't even have enough play.

0:49:53.239 --> 0:49:56.520
<v Speaker 1>It does like then move into this, Oh, you're doing

0:49:56.560 --> 0:50:01.520
<v Speaker 1>a sport, You're combining. Like I was in my therapist

0:50:01.640 --> 0:50:04.520
<v Speaker 1>office and I was like, oh, because my least favorite

0:50:04.520 --> 0:50:07.800
<v Speaker 1>thing in the world is war and violence towards others,

0:50:07.880 --> 0:50:12.520
<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to hurt anyone. So I was like, wow,

0:50:12.560 --> 0:50:16.200
<v Speaker 1>that's my least favorite thing, and here I am simulating violence.

0:50:16.840 --> 0:50:19.040
<v Speaker 1>Did this work that you put in for the film,

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<v Speaker 1>the wrestling thing and coming back twenty years later, did

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<v Speaker 1>that rekindle your love of acting as well? It did? Yeah,

0:50:25.080 --> 0:50:27.680
<v Speaker 1>it did. It grounded me for one. It made me

0:50:27.760 --> 0:50:32.600
<v Speaker 1>really just grateful for life. There's something that I've always

0:50:32.640 --> 0:50:35.560
<v Speaker 1>tried to do is sort of stay in touch with people,

0:50:36.280 --> 0:50:38.080
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, not get all caught up

0:50:38.080 --> 0:50:42.759
<v Speaker 1>in Hollywood and that world. I like people. I like

0:50:42.920 --> 0:50:47.000
<v Speaker 1>really interesting characters that you'll meet in the world. So

0:50:47.120 --> 0:50:48.799
<v Speaker 1>you find a lot of them in the rest of

0:50:48.800 --> 0:50:50.840
<v Speaker 1>the world, and you see a lot of like human

0:50:50.960 --> 0:50:53.200
<v Speaker 1>nature in the rest of the world. And yeah, it

0:50:53.400 --> 0:50:56.839
<v Speaker 1>keeps you grounded. What did your sisters say about there?

0:50:57.400 --> 0:50:59.840
<v Speaker 1>They here in the film very fleetingly. What did they

0:51:00.000 --> 0:51:02.239
<v Speaker 1>think about you getting light tube smashed in your face

0:51:02.239 --> 0:51:05.080
<v Speaker 1>and all the stuff? Yeah, that wasn't Everyone was really

0:51:05.160 --> 0:51:07.920
<v Speaker 1>upset about that. My wife was like, I just feel

0:51:07.960 --> 0:51:09.840
<v Speaker 1>like you want to die, and I was like, I

0:51:09.920 --> 0:51:13.400
<v Speaker 1>don't want to die, but I've definitely been beating myself up.

0:51:13.560 --> 0:51:18.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to die, but I'm thinking about it. Mulligan, Honest,

0:51:18.400 --> 0:51:23.560
<v Speaker 1>there's definitely a sado mastochistic element to deathmatch wrestling. People

0:51:23.560 --> 0:51:27.000
<v Speaker 1>are doing it for some reason. They're beating themselves up there,

0:51:27.120 --> 0:51:30.880
<v Speaker 1>numbing themselves, They're kind of experiencing this. It's also this

0:51:30.960 --> 0:51:33.959
<v Speaker 1>connection with these fans that are watching it and they're

0:51:34.000 --> 0:51:38.359
<v Speaker 1>like blood hungry, like they freak out. There's like when

0:51:38.360 --> 0:51:41.080
<v Speaker 1>I went into that room, they hated me, like they

0:51:41.120 --> 0:51:44.160
<v Speaker 1>literally did not like me, and then when I was

0:51:45.200 --> 0:51:47.319
<v Speaker 1>leaving they were cheering me. So I kind of want

0:51:47.360 --> 0:51:49.880
<v Speaker 1>them over in that moment. So here's this image I

0:51:49.920 --> 0:51:51.759
<v Speaker 1>have of you because I've seen other people like this.

0:51:52.840 --> 0:51:55.359
<v Speaker 1>I've seen people in the forty years that I've been

0:51:55.400 --> 0:51:58.720
<v Speaker 1>working as an actor since nine, I've seen people where

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:01.200
<v Speaker 1>like the path you can take, and of course there

0:52:01.239 --> 0:52:04.600
<v Speaker 1>are diverse paths, they're not all the same, but you

0:52:04.719 --> 0:52:08.320
<v Speaker 1>achieve a certain place in the business where you can relax.

0:52:08.400 --> 0:52:09.879
<v Speaker 1>You know there's work there if you want. It isn't

0:52:09.880 --> 0:52:12.040
<v Speaker 1>always what you want to do, but one for them

0:52:12.120 --> 0:52:14.240
<v Speaker 1>one for you. You can make a little indie movie.

0:52:14.280 --> 0:52:16.520
<v Speaker 1>It's a clever part. Now do you think that's true

0:52:16.520 --> 0:52:17.799
<v Speaker 1>of you? Do you think there was a point where

0:52:17.800 --> 0:52:19.880
<v Speaker 1>you just sat there and said, fuck this, man, I

0:52:19.920 --> 0:52:24.279
<v Speaker 1>just can't. I can't be what they want me to be. Yeah,

0:52:24.440 --> 0:52:28.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't. There's a lot about the business that doesn't

0:52:28.080 --> 0:52:31.200
<v Speaker 1>appeal to me. And I just I'm horrible at auditions,

0:52:31.320 --> 0:52:34.120
<v Speaker 1>So just doing auditions. But I've done a bunch of

0:52:34.160 --> 0:52:38.719
<v Speaker 1>like little scrappy films just to like help first time

0:52:38.760 --> 0:52:41.960
<v Speaker 1>directors and this and that. Like you know, I've been

0:52:42.000 --> 0:52:44.040
<v Speaker 1>acting for thirty years, and I mean that's set just

0:52:44.640 --> 0:52:48.920
<v Speaker 1>super ultra low budget, just to still stay sort of

0:52:48.960 --> 0:52:51.960
<v Speaker 1>connected to it all. It's a long journey, you know.

0:52:52.520 --> 0:52:55.040
<v Speaker 1>And you're starting out and come to l A and

0:52:55.080 --> 0:52:58.640
<v Speaker 1>you your grandfather is this famous actor, and your sisters

0:52:58.719 --> 0:53:02.560
<v Speaker 1>become famous, and then you marry the prom queen and

0:53:02.600 --> 0:53:04.520
<v Speaker 1>you go through everything you've gone through and look where

0:53:04.560 --> 0:53:08.360
<v Speaker 1>you are now you're married. Your wife saidal yeah, you

0:53:08.440 --> 0:53:10.560
<v Speaker 1>have a lot to be grateful for. You got two

0:53:10.560 --> 0:53:14.520
<v Speaker 1>little kids. You're still alive, even in spite of your

0:53:14.520 --> 0:53:18.000
<v Speaker 1>best efforts, You're still alive. Yeah, And I get to

0:53:18.040 --> 0:53:21.919
<v Speaker 1>have an interview with one of my heroes. You really

0:53:21.960 --> 0:53:25.000
<v Speaker 1>are incredible actor. I've always been a huge fan. Listen.

0:53:25.000 --> 0:53:27.040
<v Speaker 1>I hope you have a lot of great things coming

0:53:27.120 --> 0:53:28.720
<v Speaker 1>up for you, man, because I think that you're really

0:53:28.800 --> 0:53:30.680
<v Speaker 1>You're just so original, you know what I mean, You're

0:53:30.719 --> 0:53:35.520
<v Speaker 1>so I watch you in that movie, and I hope

0:53:35.520 --> 0:53:37.440
<v Speaker 1>people watch this movie. They've got to see this movie.

0:53:37.719 --> 0:53:41.080
<v Speaker 1>You can't kill David Arquette. It is really, really, really

0:53:41.120 --> 0:53:43.239
<v Speaker 1>a lot of fun to painful. There's a lot of

0:53:44.200 --> 0:53:47.920
<v Speaker 1>it's funny. I appreciate it. Thank you. That'st of luck

0:53:47.960 --> 0:53:55.200
<v Speaker 1>to you, buddy, to my thanks to actors Eddie Marston

0:53:55.600 --> 0:54:01.160
<v Speaker 1>and David Arquette. We're produced by Kathleen Ruth, Carrie Donohue

0:54:01.239 --> 0:54:05.600
<v Speaker 1>and Zach McNeese. Our engineer is Frank Imperial. Thanks to

0:54:05.719 --> 0:54:10.120
<v Speaker 1>Sarah every and Justin Wright. I'm Alec Baldwin. Here's the

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