1 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: I'm Alec Baldwin and you're listening to Hear the Thing 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: from My Heart Radio. My guests today are actors from 3 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: two very different backgrounds. David Arquette was born into a 4 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: family of entertainers. His four siblings became actors. His mother 5 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:24,159 Speaker 1: and father were actors. His grandfather, Cliff Arquette, was a 6 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: famous comedian. Even his great grandparents were vaudeville performers. Acting 7 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: is in his blood, but he's also a die hard 8 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: fan of wrestling, which is the subject of his new 9 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: aptly titled documentary You Can't Kill David Arquette. But first, 10 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: I'm talking with actor Eddie Marsan during the pandemic I 11 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: binged the Showtime series Ray Donovan. Marsan plays Ray's brother Terry, 12 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: a former boxer with Parkinson's disease. Within a terrific cast 13 00:00:56,200 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: that stars Liev Schreiber and John Voyd, Eddie Marson stands 14 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: out beautifully. These days, Marsam is an in demand actor 15 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 1: who has worked with the likes of Scorsese, Gonzalez Inobtu 16 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: and Mike Lee. But growing up in working class London, 17 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: becoming an actor was a long shot. Even now, despite 18 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: a long successful career. He struggles with typecasting in the UK. 19 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: When I spend time in America, I think it's race 20 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: and class, and I think it's the same in the UK, 21 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 1: probably more race in the US. Idriss is a friend 22 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: of mine and he had to come over to the 23 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: US and do the Wire to reinvent himself. And I 24 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:40,400 Speaker 1: needed to come over to do Ray Donovan to kind 25 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: of get diversity in my career. Even now in the UK, 26 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: I still struggle to get diversity. They still defined me 27 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: by class. I had a really interesting conversation with Wendell Pierce, 28 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: is a really good friend of mine. He was asking 29 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 1: me what I was doing over and doing Ray Donovan, 30 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: and I said, well, when do I I never wanted 31 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: to be defined as a work class actor, and he said, 32 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: that's very interesting. Eddie said, because as a black African 33 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: American actor, I couldn't help but be defined because of 34 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: the color of my skin. He said, And what my 35 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: advice to you, Eddie is, don't seek not to be 36 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: defined as a working class actor. Seek to change their 37 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: definition of what it means to be a working class actor. 38 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 1: And that suddenly opened my mind because I was always 39 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: trying to escape it and now I kind of think 40 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: we're now embrace it, you know, And Terry was a 41 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: great embrace of that because Terry when you were quite often, 42 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: because writers write working class actors, they make because working 43 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: class blue color people speak a colloquial language, they make 44 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: them sound dumb. And what was great about Ray Donovan 45 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: They were inarticulate characters, but they were very articulate in 46 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 1: a in a weird way. Terry was a great character 47 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: because really he was the mother of the family. He 48 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: basically represents an Irish Catholic wife who can never divorce 49 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: John Boyd even though he's abut so as an access Yeah, yeah, 50 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 1: that's what it is. Yeah, it is a class system 51 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: in the UK and and but the US has much 52 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: more much still still, how do they find you to 53 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: do the Raynavent? Sure? What were you doing that you 54 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: thought spark their interest in here? I think Leev put 55 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: the call out to see if I could audition, and 56 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 1: I auditioned for that. And I love boxing anyway. I 57 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 1: used to dance when I was younger, so I physically 58 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 1: quite capable. You're dancing, you like boxing, and you were 59 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: born where bethnal Green. You're the James Cagney of bethnal 60 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: Green were learning Yeah, yeah, I never thought that. Boxing 61 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: and the beginning of two thousand four I did two movies. 62 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: I did Vera Drake for Mike Lee and I did 63 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: twenty one Grahams for Alejandro Gonzalez and The Routu, and 64 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: both of those movies got Oscar attention. I didn't get 65 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: Oscar attention. My parts weren't big enough, but I played 66 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: that kind of part where in Vera Drake I played 67 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: a working class London ex soldier, and I played a 68 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: born again Christian preacher for Bernicia do Toro in twenty 69 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: one Grahams. And on both sides of the Atlantic suddenly 70 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: people thought this guy is a good character actor. There 71 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: was an American actor who said to me, Eddie, you're 72 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:19,280 Speaker 1: a doughnut actor. He said, in America, he said, quite 73 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 1: often studios picked young stars who can't act yet. And 74 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,679 Speaker 1: he said, if you imagine a donut, the center as vacuous, 75 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: there's nothing there, but you got surrounded with something that's substantial. 76 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,480 Speaker 1: He said, you've got a lot of money, you're gonna 77 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: be a donut actor. Our version of that was you'd 78 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: play the hackman role. We called it. Yeah, you were 79 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 1: hired to do the Gene Hackman role, which was they 80 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: had the young star who sold all the tickets and 81 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: brought in all the young audience, and then they had 82 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: to have someone play the Admiral of the Shippers, but 83 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:51,119 Speaker 1: who could really act. Yeah. Yeah, So that's in a sense, 84 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: that's what I did, and that's what I've been doing 85 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: for the last twenty years, popping up and being there 86 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 1: and having great parts and just being really I love 87 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 1: being an act her and I loved at what was 88 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: media like entertainment like movies and TV. For you growing 89 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 1: up in bethnal Green, Hoskins was a big When Hoskins 90 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: came on the scene, he sounded like my father and 91 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: that was the first time I thought, that's my old man. 92 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: He literally sounded like him, and that was a big 93 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: thing for me. There was a driver, my dad was 94 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 1: a truck driver, Yeah, and he looked a bit like 95 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: Hoskins as well, very similar kind of man. But I 96 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: remember when I was younger watching on the waterfront and 97 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 1: being captivated by Rod Steiger. I always kind of knew 98 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: loved character actors, always did love John Robert de Vao, 99 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: love love Steiger, and and then I was fascinated by 100 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 1: character actors who became diverse, like John Hurt in A 101 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 1: Naked Civil Servant where he played Quent and Crisp, this 102 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 1: gay man in the fourties. And even as a child, 103 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 1: I was absolutely fascinated by actors, but I had no 104 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: means of which to pursue it. There was no drama 105 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 1: school for me until when well, I served an apprenticeship 106 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 1: as a printer, and and how will read? Then I 107 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 1: was sixteen to twenty out of school. Yeah, yeah, I 108 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: left school at fifteen, no qualifications. And then I was 109 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: in the club. I was dancing in the club and 110 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: somebody asked me to be an extra in a movie. 111 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 1: And I went on this movie set and I saw 112 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 1: an actor doing a scene and I thought I can 113 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 1: do that, and I had no idea how to do it. 114 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: And then and then it went from there, really And 115 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:23,840 Speaker 1: what was the first job I got paid for? Oh? 116 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 1: I was in a pantomime in a in a place 117 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,239 Speaker 1: called Chipping Norton, and I was a clown throwing suits 118 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: of kids and a little fucker's throw him back and 119 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: the stage show. Yeah, yeah, the first was the first 120 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: movie or TV part you got? I did a movie 121 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: called Gangs to Number One with Paul Bettany. He was 122 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: Gangs to Number one and I was the coward. And 123 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: I always Paul always said to me, and if you 124 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: can't be Gangs to number one, don't be Gangs to 125 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: number two. Be the cow Yeah. Yeah. When you talk 126 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: about the working class, you know, when I was first 127 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,040 Speaker 1: working in this business, in the back of my mind, 128 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: the things that were memorable were, you know Robert Newton, 129 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: because I love Robert Newton. Yeah, oh god, I know 130 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: every every line, every facial gesture from Oliver Twist. And 131 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 1: so speaking of Robert Newton and Dickens that you have 132 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: a magwitch in your life, that the Pip that is 133 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: Eddie Marsen. You had a benefactor? I did, I did. 134 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: I had an Eastern bookmaker called Mr Bennett. Yeah, who 135 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: was Mr Bennett? Can you say? He used to run 136 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 1: a men's worth store, but he used to run a 137 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: book But he was a bookmaker at the dog track. 138 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: And I used to work for him. What did you 139 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: do for him? I used to I still so close 140 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 1: to him. I used to sell smarter and stuff I 141 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: wasn't interested in the betting side. Used to run a 142 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: clothing store. But he was a big bookmaker and he 143 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: said to me, what do you really want to do? 144 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 1: And I said, I want to be an actor. And 145 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: he said, well, if you get to get to drama school, 146 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: I'll pay, and he did. And the funny thing is, 147 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 1: I'm a terrible malaprop. I get words wrong all the time. 148 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: So when my first couple of weeks of drama school, 149 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: a really strong Cockney accent and I walked in and 150 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: he was there with his wife and I said, he said, 151 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: how's it going. I said, well, they said I've got 152 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: so with my voice, and they want me to see 153 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: a chiropodist because I never and he said his wife 154 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: said that you mean speech therapist and Mr Bennett said no, 155 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: because he keeps putting his foot in it. But this guy, 156 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: so this wasn't about the guy want you to clean 157 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: his guns, or drop this bag of money off at 158 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 1: the train station, put it in the locker for me. 159 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: None of that. Now, he was a really sweet He 160 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 1: was a sweet man because he was a bookmaker. If 161 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: you went into a pub with him, all the local 162 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: villains would know him, and he won't have to buy 163 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: a drink because they probably a while within money at 164 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 1: one point or another. I just love any story about 165 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 1: mentorship and people who have benefactors, someone who helps you, 166 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I mean if someone because 167 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,079 Speaker 1: this business is so tough now, so you tell me 168 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: this guy. I love that Mr Bennett. Do we all 169 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 1: wish we had a Mr Bennett? Would have? Is he is? 170 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 1: He passed away. He's gone, he passed away. I was 171 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: working with Ethan Hawk on a movie and it was 172 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: it was a TV think of Moby Dick. And I 173 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:13,079 Speaker 1: had a week off and I went to see him, 174 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,199 Speaker 1: and my wife told me that he's not gonna lie. 175 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:16,719 Speaker 1: You won't be able to get back to see him. 176 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: So I had to go and see him one morning 177 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 1: and I told him how much I loved him. You 178 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 1: did get to see him before he passed. I held 179 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: his hand and I said I said to him, I 180 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 1: owe you everything. I said, I owe you my career, 181 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: my happiness, my childhood, the mortgage, the debt, the stress. Everything. 182 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: He was Yeah, but Ethan was very good. Ethan took 183 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 1: me at the other end of the ship and just 184 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 1: sat with me while I cried, and gave me a pride. 185 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: Make sure everyone just left me alone. He's very sweet. 186 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 1: Actor Eddie Marsan. Another actor who outgrew typecasting is John Deturo. 187 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 1: He says, despite his success, there was a moment not 188 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:04,199 Speaker 1: long ago when he considered a career change. I had 189 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 1: a sort of crisis, maybe eight, nine, ten years ago 190 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: and told my doctor, I said, you know, I'm done 191 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 1: with this business. I've got to do something really important, 192 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,079 Speaker 1: like what you do. I said, I want to go 193 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: to medical school. I was like fifty years old. And 194 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: he was like, John, you're crazy. He was like, you know, 195 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: you know how long medical schools? You know? And he 196 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 1: said what you do is there's a value to what 197 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 1: you do, when I was like, no, there's not, you know, 198 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 1: And he talked me out of it. Here more of 199 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 1: my conversation with John Tuturo at Here's the Thing dot Org. 200 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: After the Break, Eddie Marsan talks about playing Terry in 201 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 1: the Showtime series Ray Donovan. I'm Alec Baldwin and you 202 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:58,079 Speaker 1: were listening to Here's the Thing. The Showtime series Ray 203 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: Donovan is heavy. It's about a troubled family living with 204 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 1: the legacy of sexual abuse, and Eddie Marsan worked hard 205 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: to realistically portray the progression of his characters Parkinson's disease. 206 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: It got very dark at times. There was a darkness 207 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: in the piece because the thing about Ray Donovan is 208 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: what people didn't realize is it's Trojan Horse television. You 209 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 1: kind of think it's going to be about Hollywood and 210 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: and actually it's about three Irish brothers who were sexually 211 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: abused and can't articulated. So quite often as an actor, 212 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 1: you would hold all this darkness about the history of 213 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 1: being abused by priests in Boston and you couldn't express it. 214 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: So so that was tough. And for me, We've created 215 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: this story that Terry knew that his brothers were being 216 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: abused by the priests, but the priest was given his 217 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: mother solace and so if he told his mother, she 218 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: would die. So we had to allow the priests to 219 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 1: abuse his brothers. And he was caught between a rock 220 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 1: and a half place. And that was what the shaik was. 221 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 1: The shaiksa belize somebody caught between a rock and a 222 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 1: half place. Morally mainlyev used to get drained by it 223 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 1: because it was unsaid. It had to be so authentic 224 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 1: because it was unsaid, and so we had to hold 225 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: it within us. You started shooting the show where in California. 226 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 1: In California we started in two thousand and twelve. Did 227 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: you live in California? I used to go and live 228 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 1: in Culver City. Yeah. Yeah. From season six and seven onwards, 229 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 1: we went over to New York without the first time 230 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: You've lived any length of time in the US. No, 231 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 1: I've been working in the US. I mean what I 232 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: did was I made a very conscious choice that it 233 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 1: was a real big strain on my marriage and my 234 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: family life doing this show. But I knew we had 235 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: to do it. So I decided that I could work 236 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 1: and have family, but I couldn't work have family and 237 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: have a social life. So I couldn't go go out 238 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: in the evening. I would literally work. As soon as 239 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: I wrapped, I'd fly home every weekend. I flew home. 240 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 1: Now everyone in Los Angeles to London, Yeah, every weekend. 241 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, yeah, And I've made that choice, and 242 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 1: it was the best thing I've did. And your wife 243 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: was grateful, Oh yeah, and God come home. And we'd 244 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 1: have some days because of the schedule, you'd have three 245 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 1: or four days at home, and some days you'd have 246 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 1: one day at home. But it was just to be 247 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: there for the kids just to be a presence. You 248 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: just broke my heart. You have to make that choice. 249 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: And actually it wasn't bad for me. I'm not a 250 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: big social animal anyway, and I love the work and 251 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,439 Speaker 1: I have so much fun at work on set. That 252 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: was your social life, that was my social life. What 253 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:39,719 Speaker 1: was it like for you in the I know that 254 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 1: in film there's one director you start and finish with, 255 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 1: and and TV there's many directors. What did directors? Will 256 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: use Ray Donov as an example, and we'll also talk 257 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:51,439 Speaker 1: about britt directors. What did the American directors on Ray 258 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: Donovan have to offer you? Were they helpful? Yeah? Very 259 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: much so. We had the show runner, Dave Hollander talk 260 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: me about the rhythm of multi season, multi episodic dramas. 261 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: He he taught me how to to set up something 262 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: in one season you'll pay off two seasons later, so 263 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 1: you don't have to pay off everything straight away. You've 264 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:16,679 Speaker 1: got loads of time. And the other thing I learned 265 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 1: was that you don't have to play characters who are sympathetic. 266 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: You just have to play characters that are empathetic because 267 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 1: time restrictions meant that within a two hour drama, a 268 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: character had to be sympathetic over multiple seasons, multiple years 269 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 1: a character and only needed to be empathetic. You could 270 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 1: do the worst thing a character could do as long 271 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 1: as he audaers thought. If I was in that situation, 272 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 1: I would do the same thing. Then you've done your job. 273 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 1: So I began to understand the rhythm of it and 274 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 1: to trust it and don't force it. Also, I've never 275 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: been a big showy actor. Anyway, when I work with 276 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: Mike Lee, I learned so much from Mike Lee because 277 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: as an actor, you always there's always a voice in 278 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: your head which either wants to be clever or be true, 279 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: And with Mike Lee, the answer will always be true. 280 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 1: From that point, artist that would you know, don't show off? 281 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 1: Mike would always say, you've got to dig a hole 282 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: and sit in it. Well, it's interesting you look at 283 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 1: his filmography. He hasn't made that many films. In seventy 284 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 1: one his first movie Bleak Moments, High Hopes Come, and 285 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 1: he's made six films since two thousand two. Yeah, and 286 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: what did you I mean you made three films with him? 287 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 1: How would you describe working with him? Well, his work 288 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 1: is all about creating the character. There's no script you 289 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 1: create the character and the story develops out of the character. 290 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: And what I found with Ray Donovan because you had 291 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 1: a writer's room and the writers would come on set 292 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 1: and they would be informed by my performances, Terry and me, 293 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: so they would begin to write Terry based on our 294 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 1: own discussion. So all the characters on Ray Donovan were 295 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: analistic creation of all the writers and the actors and 296 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: the crew together because um, there was so much that 297 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 1: you were given to them and they were given to you, 298 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: And it was very much like likely is he the 299 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 1: only director you've worked with more than once? No. I 300 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 1: worked with David Leach and who's does a lot of 301 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 1: superhero movies, and he always pulls me in to play 302 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 1: this villainous part, and quite often he shoots me from 303 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 1: behind because when the plot doesn't make sense, I can 304 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 1: go and do a d R and say some stuff 305 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: that no one sees. My lips move. You've done a 306 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 1: lot of players. I used to. I haven't done place 307 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 1: for twenty years. We haven't. Do you ever miss it? 308 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 1: I do? But I never used to get offered good plays. 309 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 1: It was interesting what you're saying about class. When I 310 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: went over to do Ray Donovan. We were doing a 311 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 1: second season and it was already quite successful, and I 312 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 1: was doing nice films on American TV, and I was 313 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: playing more Diversity in America. And then my agent called me. 314 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: He said, the BBC are doing Richard the Third, and 315 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 1: I played Richard the Third. I toward Europe Richard the 316 00:16:57,320 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 1: Third years ago, and she said they're going to offer 317 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: your part. I don't know what, and I felt, great, okay, 318 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: this is fantastic. And they cooled and it was to 319 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 1: play a thief with two lines, and and and there. 320 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 1: I am going to work with leev and John Voights 321 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 1: and and dash My Hawk and and working with all 322 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 1: these great writers. But in the UK I was a 323 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 1: thief with two lines. But you should be grateful for 324 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 1: the privilege of doing Richard the Third exactly. Don't you 325 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 1: don't get too big now, don't get too hearty. No. 326 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 1: I found that Stafford Clark and other Brits I've worked with. 327 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: It was really, I mean, just the Steaks and the 328 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 1: uh Tony Walton. We did equest together and oh my god, 329 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,400 Speaker 1: just the rigor. I said to somebody. They said, what's 330 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: the task for you? Now? I said, to remember that 331 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 1: every job is a chance for me to still to learn. Yeah, 332 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 1: someone said to me, what's change in your acting? I 333 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:48,160 Speaker 1: was that guy that was standing there on the set 334 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 1: with that director, sobbing from the opening line, Oh God, 335 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: how can you do this to us, lady, this clinic. 336 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 1: You know, we need the money in Jesus Christ. And 337 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 1: I'm like fucking going up coming to pieces. It's totally wrong. 338 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:02,479 Speaker 1: And someone said, I said, how's that changed? I said, well, 339 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: that accessing that reservoir of emotion, which is still relatively easy. 340 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:09,919 Speaker 1: I guess I think you either have a knack for 341 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 1: that or you don't. I said, everything is technical to me, 342 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 1: it's so technical line pause, pause, like music, be b 343 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 1: I often think of myself as a session musician, And 344 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 1: I was going to ask you that. Explain why, Because 345 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 1: you're creating notes, and you're working in collaboration with other 346 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:30,439 Speaker 1: other actors, So sometimes you have to play the baseline. 347 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 1: They're the lead guitar and you have to play the 348 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: baseline for them, and and and and and it gives 349 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: you a feeling of the collaboration element of the art 350 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 1: and fitting in and fitting in and working like music. 351 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 1: I see people, I'm here to play a part by 352 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 1: the part that fits into everything that what everybody is doing. 353 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: When you went home, did people recognize you? Do people 354 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 1: watch Ray Darnovan in the UK? They do? It is 355 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 1: not as big in the UK. Why do you think, 356 00:18:55,960 --> 00:18:57,920 Speaker 1: just not on a big format. I mean, the people 357 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:00,679 Speaker 1: who watch it are obsessed with it. But in the 358 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 1: in the U S it's it's massive in the US. 359 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:05,400 Speaker 1: You know, the feelings that people get from Ray Donovan, 360 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 1: I've never had it before because I've always been an 361 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: actor who disappears into thinks and you know, I've always 362 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: been the outer to focus, best friend, and suddenly for 363 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:16,199 Speaker 1: people to love Terry, they get very disappointed when they 364 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 1: find out I'm not as charismatic as Terry, as decent 365 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:25,479 Speaker 1: as Terry. No, Terry is decent and brave. Well. Of course, 366 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 1: there was a lot written about the fact that they 367 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 1: ended season seven very unceremoniously. No season eight. Was everybody 368 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 1: very taken aback by that, Yeah, very surprised. I don't 369 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 1: know what the decision was. I don't know why it was. 370 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: I think there was an outline for season eight. They 371 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 1: were going to finish the show. They had a storyline, 372 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:48,120 Speaker 1: and I think there's always talk of coming back and 373 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 1: finishing it in something like a four hour or like 374 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:53,119 Speaker 1: a two part Yeah, there's something like that. They got 375 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 1: that they're not done. Yeah, I won't surprise me if 376 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: it happened. I thought, I don't want to say this 377 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:02,199 Speaker 1: is a spoiler. Or so you folcus out there listening, 378 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: if you are going to watch Ray Donovan, you can 379 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 1: turn your volume down now while I say that. One 380 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 1: of the most audacious sequences in the TV show I've 381 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 1: ever seen was when everybody thought Mick was dead and 382 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 1: he's not. Yeah, yeah, He's like, oh God, I blew 383 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:20,400 Speaker 1: out the back of the bus and Jesus and he lives. 384 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 1: And you knew he was gonna live. You knew he 385 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: was gonna come back. But when he does come back, 386 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 1: you're like, oh fuck, this guy's the cock wroks that 387 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: won't die. One of the joys of Ray Donovan was 388 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,639 Speaker 1: to watch John act. When you get him talking about 389 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 1: New York in the sixties and seventies and being a 390 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:42,119 Speaker 1: young actor and he gave al Pacino a thousand dollars 391 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 1: to do a play, to put on a play, and 392 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 1: he talks about Bobby de Voo and all these all 393 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,160 Speaker 1: these actors that he knew, and for an actor, that's 394 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 1: just it's just manna from heaven to to listen to 395 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:59,160 Speaker 1: those stories. You're not mute about your politics, No, no, no, 396 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:04,399 Speaker 1: Why as that? Well? When I grew up, my parents 397 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 1: had a very very difficult marriage. I come from an 398 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:12,399 Speaker 1: area full of immigrants, lots of black Caribbean families, and 399 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 1: I kind of took refuge in a Caribbean family's house. 400 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,919 Speaker 1: They kind of adopted me in a sense. So I 401 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 1: always felt safer amongst immigrants than I did amongst the 402 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 1: blue color white working class. And and that those people 403 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:33,359 Speaker 1: that showed intolerance or bigotry, which is an element of 404 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:37,400 Speaker 1: the white working class, I was always more threatened by 405 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,640 Speaker 1: them than I was, and I felt safe with them. 406 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:44,919 Speaker 1: And I was always more encouraged and inspired and and 407 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: nurtured by immigrants. So whenever I hear racism of any 408 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 1: kind or bigotry, it touches a trauma within me. And 409 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 1: so I have to come out and say I don't 410 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: like populism. I don't like anybody who sees things in 411 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 1: a very binary way. I don't trust it. I think 412 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:06,159 Speaker 1: I might might you know, my economics, I think we 413 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,479 Speaker 1: have to have a certain distribution of wealth because I 414 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 1: believe in a meritocracy, and in order for for capitalism 415 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 1: to be a meritocracy, someone like me has to pay 416 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 1: more taxes for someone like me to achieve their potential. 417 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 1: I don't trust populism to me. Was that guy in 418 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: the corner of the bar who can manage the England 419 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,400 Speaker 1: soccer team, run the country, but never leaves the bar. 420 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 1: So you're obviously you wanted to stay. You didn't want 421 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,200 Speaker 1: to leave. You were against brexit. Oh yeah. The reason 422 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,720 Speaker 1: I wanted to stay within the European Union because I 423 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 1: think that it's brought prosperity in peace to Europe in 424 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,919 Speaker 1: the last fifty years, and that's a great thing. I 425 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 1: think it's great for workers rights. I think I also 426 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 1: distrust referendums because if a politician lies, you can vote 427 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 1: them out with a referendum. They lie and it's done. 428 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: There is a populist xenophobia that has been prominent in 429 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: America with Trump and prominent in Britain with Brexit. Very similar. 430 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 1: It's very Any of your kids show any inclination. My 431 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:14,359 Speaker 1: twelve year old son just did a movie. Um, yeah, 432 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 1: they're doing a movie about Roll Dahl and he plays 433 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 1: a young boy in roll those writing room who kind 434 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:25,360 Speaker 1: of inspires him to write. And my daughter at sixteen, 435 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 1: she's just on a movie. But they spent their lives 436 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 1: on film sets. They have a very healthy attitude. You 437 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 1: didn't shield them from that. They were there, I mean 438 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 1: because their mum's a makeup artists. I mean, my wife 439 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: was much more successful than I was when we got married. 440 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 1: I always say I married her for a money and 441 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 1: so she was really so I would take my kids 442 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,640 Speaker 1: to go and see mommy and they would go into 443 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 1: the makeup room and and on Ray Donovan, they used 444 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:51,920 Speaker 1: to come and the crew used to give him a 445 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 1: radio mike, and they used to run around and give 446 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 1: everybody coffees and things. So they've got a very healthy 447 00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 1: attitude towards it. You have a bunch of projects and 448 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 1: assuming that you're in a pipeline that there's a maybe 449 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: a COVID clouded pipeline. Yeah, I've got a film coming 450 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 1: out with Sean Penn directed flag Day. Yeah, flag Day. Yeah. 451 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: What kind of care are you play? I play an 452 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,680 Speaker 1: insurance guy. Come at the end, I got a big 453 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 1: speech at the end. While it was a big speech, 454 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's going to be a big 455 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 1: speech by the time the film comes out, but I 456 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: come out in the end, and what kind of the 457 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 1: piece as a drama about a young girl and a 458 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 1: dysfunctional relationship with her father in the seventies, and he 459 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 1: kind of comes in and out of her life and 460 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 1: Sean plays the father, his daughter plays the girl. She's 461 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: fantastic in it. It's a it's a great movie. What 462 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 1: was he like, what did he have to offer you 463 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 1: as a director? Well, first work with him in a 464 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:45,360 Speaker 1: movie called The Professor and Madman in Dublin about four 465 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 1: years ago, and what I found with Sean. I thought 466 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,440 Speaker 1: Sean was very similar to Spielberg in a strange way, 467 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:56,639 Speaker 1: because what what Spielberg does is Spielberg dances with a camera. 468 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 1: You know, he kind of visually complements what you're doing. 469 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: And Sewn as an actor who's always aware of of 470 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 1: every moment, every note, every bat and when you were 471 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,880 Speaker 1: being directed by him, you knew you were with somebody 472 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 1: who was whether where the camera was an instrument that 473 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 1: was complimenting you, and he was fantastic directing it. So 474 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 1: the chasm between the leading man and the character man 475 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 1: who is as well defined, And I always wonder to 476 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,719 Speaker 1: say to somebody like you, who's as gifted as you are, 477 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 1: and you're truly a gifted actor, if I said to you, 478 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 1: you're gonna make seven eight figure salaries a year and 479 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 1: you'll never get to play those juicy roles where you're 480 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:37,680 Speaker 1: going to be the number one on the call sheet 481 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,400 Speaker 1: at this point in your career, would you set aside 482 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 1: or the nutritious juicy roles you've played to become rich 483 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 1: and famous, or do you like things exactly as they 484 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 1: are now? I'd like to play some leading roles. I 485 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,520 Speaker 1: always in that My analogy is that a movie is 486 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 1: like a ghost train ride, and the central character is 487 00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 1: a neutral character, so that they the audience sit on 488 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,679 Speaker 1: the train and go on the ghost train ride, go 489 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,600 Speaker 1: on the ups and downs, but the central character is 490 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 1: quite neutral, quite bland. And me I played the guy 491 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 1: who goes boo. I do about six or seven movies 492 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 1: a year, and I'd like to do one or two 493 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 1: movies a year and and really get into So I'd 494 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,159 Speaker 1: like a career like yours are like Sean, where you 495 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,680 Speaker 1: end up playing great character roles, but they are the 496 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 1: leading part. Are you're going to direct films. Yeah, I 497 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 1: was going to direct. My mother died a couple of 498 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 1: years ago. I was about to direct a film for 499 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 1: for BBC Films, but my mother passed away and when 500 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 1: she was ill, we had to I had to stop. 501 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 1: And because of that, I'm writing things. I have a 502 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:44,399 Speaker 1: fascinating with American politics. What I love about America is 503 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 1: it's an idea and it's an idea that people are 504 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 1: trying to implement as as best as possible. Yeah. Yeah, 505 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 1: but it's like anything, it exposes people's shortcomings. Some people 506 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 1: think it supports their bigotry, and other people it inspires generosity, 507 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: and I think that's fascinating. I want to tell you 508 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:10,159 Speaker 1: again that I watched seasons five, six, and seven of 509 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 1: Ray Donovan. It's on showtime anytime for people that are 510 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 1: out there, all seven seasons. Eddie Marson, I mean you 511 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 1: you really you ripped my heart out. Thank you were 512 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 1: ripped my heart out. I mean the it's the sweet 513 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 1: and the sour, it's those extremes. It's the dignity and 514 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: the malevolence, but the whole range is there. Not many 515 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 1: people get that, and that's what you did on that show. 516 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:35,240 Speaker 1: You got everything out of that part you possibly can. 517 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,760 Speaker 1: You were great in that fucking show. Great, Thank you 518 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:47,359 Speaker 1: very much, Actor Eddie Marson. David Arquette has seen some 519 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 1: turbulent times, a very public marriage and divorce, rehab, a 520 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 1: heart attack, and a career that's stalled in part because 521 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 1: he won a pro wrestling championship two decades ago. But 522 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 1: David Arquette comes from a long line of performers, and 523 00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:07,119 Speaker 1: he knows how to reinvent himself. My dad was a 524 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,239 Speaker 1: big improvisational actor, and we did a bunch of that 525 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 1: growing up. That was built into sort of our playtime. 526 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 1: But I wasn't really serious into it until high school. 527 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:23,120 Speaker 1: Where school Fairfax in Los Angeles? Where were you living 528 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 1: one part of town. We lived right down the street 529 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:30,199 Speaker 1: from Paramount Studios, right in Hollywood, But back then it 530 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 1: was pretty crazy area at the time, punk rock and 531 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 1: roller skating and you know, just all this bizarre world. 532 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 1: Then I got into break dancing and graffiti and I 533 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 1: was kind of like all into that world. And then 534 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,800 Speaker 1: they were doing a school play. They couldn't find the 535 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 1: lead and they approached me, and then I met my teacher, Bendibaldo, 536 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 1: who had a real impact on my life. Helped me 537 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 1: focus on just acting and like getting into acting. And 538 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 1: where were your sisters at that point in your family? 539 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 1: At the point were they all dabbling in it? Like 540 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,479 Speaker 1: in my family literally because I'm the oldest, My brothers 541 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: were sitting around in the den of our house and 542 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 1: I was doing a soap opera, you know, and they 543 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 1: were sitting there, stoned out of their mind and say, now, 544 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 1: if ship Head here can get on TV, why can't 545 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 1: we get on TV? You know, there was really the 546 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 1: such contempt for me that launched their careers. Who was 547 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,360 Speaker 1: the first one to jump in the pool of your 548 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 1: famous siblings? Rosanna really broke down the door for this generation. 549 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 1: I mean, my great grandfather was cliff ar Ket Charlie Weaver, 550 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: and then my father and my mother was also an actress. 551 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:44,080 Speaker 1: But then this generation, it was Rosanna. She ran out 552 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 1: to Hollywood and stayed with the family that we were 553 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 1: friends with when she was like fifteen or sixteen. Patricia 554 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 1: then got into it, so they were both working actresses 555 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 1: when I was in high school. And this fascinates me, 556 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 1: this whole family thing, because you walt to such distinctive personalities. 557 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 1: Did you have a similar goal? I don't know, there 558 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 1: was eleven years difference between me and Rosanna, So when 559 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 1: I was a teenager, she was a woman like starting 560 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 1: her career, and I always remember like seeing some of 561 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: her early work and being really impressed by it, like 562 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 1: the Executioner Song and Big Blue and After Hours. I mean, 563 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 1: she was doing such incredible work and I was just 564 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 1: in awe of her talent. We all have this improvisational 565 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 1: bass because my dad was a working actor like forty 566 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 1: five years, so he'd do industrial films and commercials, and 567 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 1: I was still on the Walton's and just kind of 568 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 1: paying the bills. So there was also a real kind 569 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 1: of blue collar element to acting for me. I still 570 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 1: kind of hold that even though I love theater, I 571 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 1: fell in love with theater. I've been able to do 572 00:30:53,560 --> 00:31:00,960 Speaker 1: a couple really beautiful plays and a couple of real stinkers. Well, 573 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:05,040 Speaker 1: what's one you enjoyed and where? Describe where were My 574 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,320 Speaker 1: favorite play was at the Geffen. It was called The 575 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 1: Female of the Species and that Benning was the lead 576 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 1: in it, and I learned so much just watching her. 577 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 1: But Net Benning, who has that rare distinction of someone 578 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,200 Speaker 1: who became a movie star based on the performance in 579 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 1: a play, she did them, the play Coastal Disturbances, the 580 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 1: Tina how Play on Broadway with Tim Daley. I've always 581 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 1: found it if I need something to kind of get 582 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 1: my mind right, like to get my feelings right of it, 583 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 1: what am I doing and why? Because movies and TV 584 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 1: has been so daunting for me. I go to a 585 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 1: play and all of a sudden, then I I just 586 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 1: feel better, like if we were doing a revival. It 587 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 1: was a famous piece of material, and it was a 588 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 1: process that I was much more familiar with. It was 589 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 1: movie making just seem like, man, you gotta be lucky. 590 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:55,920 Speaker 1: You know, you need a lot of luck in this business. Definitely, 591 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 1: When did the luck come for you? When did you 592 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 1: first feel lucky? I did a film called On His 593 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 1: Way Back that was sort of my first indie film, Darling, 594 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 1: that went to festivals and people sort of appreciated it, 595 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,960 Speaker 1: and I think from there, I did a film called 596 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 1: Dream with the Fishes. I really loved that experience. Who 597 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 1: was the director, Finn Taylor, really amazing writer director. She 598 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 1: was brilliant. It's one of my favorite films that I've 599 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,560 Speaker 1: done because it's based on a true story and just 600 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:27,000 Speaker 1: really had a lot of hard and really beautiful music 601 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 1: in it, and I got to work with this actor 602 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: Brad Hunt, that I've still dear friends with. And then 603 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 1: what happens in terms of you make a movie that 604 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 1: makes a huge amount of money correct they scream and 605 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 1: that movie makes bags of money, and then what happens 606 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 1: do you all of a sudden you decide now I 607 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 1: need to do different movies. I could select sort of 608 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 1: more films that I wanted to do. I had met 609 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 1: Courtney Cox, my ex wife, on Scream that had been 610 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 1: become a big focus of my life, just my relationship. 611 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 1: And then I did a couple uh studio movies, but 612 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 1: they're kind of It was funny. I was watching this 613 00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: documentary on the casting director of of Midnight Cowboy, and 614 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 1: I'm all captivated by this beautiful story of this incredible 615 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:22,400 Speaker 1: artistic casting director and she cast one of my favorite films. Yeah, 616 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 1: and I'm watching it and I'm like loving it. And 617 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: then she was like, then the studio made me start 618 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: casting crap. And it's like the show picture of me 619 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,680 Speaker 1: c spot run the movie. I had done a kid's movie, 620 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 1: you know, So I was like, oh, it was like 621 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 1: this gut punch. I know, people are really selective about 622 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 1: what they do and the protective of their careers. And 623 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,920 Speaker 1: I'm getting that more now, but I never really was. 624 00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 1: I'd always do like a kids movie if I wanted 625 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,000 Speaker 1: to do a kid's movie, or or horror film, or 626 00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 1: I do a fun like I did this movie Eight 627 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 1: Legged Freaks, which was like a throwback to the sixties 628 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:09,200 Speaker 1: kind of creature features like I love all that stuff. 629 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 1: So I never saw it as selling out or you 630 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 1: weren't calculating enough. Now you know you made the mistake 631 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 1: of doing what you wanted to do right right, as 632 00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: opposed what they wanted you to do, you know now 633 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 1: at the same time, because I don't want to dwell 634 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 1: on this too much, but I just find the counterpoint interesting. 635 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,239 Speaker 1: When you met Courtney on Scream, she was on the 636 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:32,680 Speaker 1: TV show already or no, yeah, she she was on Friends. 637 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:34,719 Speaker 1: They were in like their first or second year, so 638 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: it was very early on. And then she when she 639 00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 1: comes out the other end of that tunnel. She's one 640 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 1: of the most famous women and she's part of one 641 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,200 Speaker 1: of the most famous TV shows in history. You were 642 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:47,720 Speaker 1: married to her for how long thirteen years or twelve 643 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,759 Speaker 1: years or something, so that run of that show, you 644 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,239 Speaker 1: were pretty much the run of the show. Yeah, through 645 00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,560 Speaker 1: the run of the show. We have a sixteen year 646 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,040 Speaker 1: old daughter together now, but yeah, through the run of 647 00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 1: the show. You know, when you were with someone in 648 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:04,640 Speaker 1: that acting relationship, I became her husband a lot, you know. 649 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:08,040 Speaker 1: You know, you become second fiddle to a certain degree, 650 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:12,280 Speaker 1: or like there's an effect on your career in a sense, 651 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 1: or you even just in any relationship. You just have 652 00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:19,640 Speaker 1: to start making choices. Like I remember I was up 653 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,800 Speaker 1: for a role with High Fidelity, but I had already 654 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 1: committed to me and Courtney doing this film together called 655 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,800 Speaker 1: The Shrink Is In, And Stephen Fears called me in 656 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,240 Speaker 1: the office. He said, come on, you gotta do this movie. 657 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 1: You know, I know you have the film with your wife, 658 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 1: but marriage is temporary. Movies are forever. Yeah, right, I 659 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,279 Speaker 1: had guys call me up. I had guys call me 660 00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 1: up and they said they were like, we can always 661 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 1: get you another wife out, Like, I mean, you know, 662 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,440 Speaker 1: let's get serious. Did you get that sense from her 663 00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 1: that the goose that lays the golden egg and you 664 00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 1: have to really really protect that there were risks that 665 00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:57,799 Speaker 1: she couldn't take in her career. Yeah, for sure. I 666 00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 1: definitely had to watch my self. I was a bit 667 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 1: of a wild character anyway. But when we had our daughter, Coco, 668 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:08,840 Speaker 1: I remember the paparazzi at this point in Los Angeles 669 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:12,280 Speaker 1: had just gone crazy. They were like gangsters with cameras 670 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 1: and they would like provoke fights with me, and I'd 671 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 1: be like screaming, like I got this protective instinct of 672 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,720 Speaker 1: my child. It was like, you know, you know about 673 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 1: I wouldn't know anything about that, David, I have no 674 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:29,840 Speaker 1: idea what you're talking about. Paparazzi threatening your wife, your child, 675 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:33,080 Speaker 1: and you become really really activated over that. I have 676 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,879 Speaker 1: no idea what you're talking about. I know. It's so 677 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:40,560 Speaker 1: it's gets so crazy. It was a weird time because 678 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:43,040 Speaker 1: we were she was like the darling and and all 679 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 1: that stuff, and you start going to all the parties 680 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 1: and you start meeting all the big people and all 681 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,600 Speaker 1: the stuff. And then we got a divorce and I 682 00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:55,760 Speaker 1: just kind of like really took it hard. I started drinking, 683 00:36:56,520 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 1: just heartbroken. That was a tough time just to sort 684 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:04,920 Speaker 1: of bounce comes apart. When there's no kids, obviously, it's 685 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 1: a it's different when those kids involved. You know. When 686 00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,640 Speaker 1: I got divorced and have my daughter Ireland. It was 687 00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,640 Speaker 1: fucking agony, man, it was fucking agony, you know, just 688 00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 1: to be another statistic, you know. Now, let me ask 689 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:23,560 Speaker 1: you this, your sister who was born your brother Roberts, right, 690 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 1: if I read correctly, Alexis didn't emerge till she was 691 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 1: really in her thirties correct well, within the family, she did. 692 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,760 Speaker 1: She came out in her late teens, nineteen or something, 693 00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:38,440 Speaker 1: and my mom was really liberal and she had a 694 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 1: really hard time with it. That was really a weird 695 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 1: time because we're like, Mom, you're like the most open minded. 696 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,440 Speaker 1: She had a hard time because she knew it was 697 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,879 Speaker 1: just gonna be a hard life for Alexis. But then 698 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: she did the wedding singer and she was boy George 699 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:57,040 Speaker 1: and that, so she kind of did certain roles where 700 00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:00,200 Speaker 1: she showed that side, but she didn't really come out 701 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:04,520 Speaker 1: like publicly until she was ready to say, I only 702 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 1: want to do you know, either female or transgender parts, 703 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 1: And that's where she kind of came out publicly early 704 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:17,600 Speaker 1: two thousand's two four that yeah, I was reading about 705 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,799 Speaker 1: her and said she was born in sixty nine, so 706 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 1: that makes her like thirty five years old. So she 707 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:25,400 Speaker 1: was living with that and and and keeping that close 708 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 1: until she was thirty five years old. Oh, when she 709 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,920 Speaker 1: was thirty five, that's when she became a woman. But 710 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,120 Speaker 1: then at the end of her life then she wanted 711 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,720 Speaker 1: us to refer to her as our brother again before 712 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,320 Speaker 1: she died. So it's like this confusic thing where I 713 00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:43,759 Speaker 1: say my brother and my sister. But towards the end, 714 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:47,600 Speaker 1: Alexis was like the female side of her, or her 715 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,880 Speaker 1: wanting to be a female she realized was connected a 716 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 1: lot to sexuality. So at the end she wanted to 717 00:38:54,760 --> 00:39:01,960 Speaker 1: be referred more to as our brother. David Arquette follow 718 00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 1: Here's the Thing on the I Heart Radio app, Apple 719 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:09,200 Speaker 1: Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. While you're there, 720 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:13,800 Speaker 1: leave us a review. When we return, David talks about 721 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,759 Speaker 1: why he wanted to get back in the ring for 722 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 1: his new documentary You Can't Kill David Arquette. I'm Alec 723 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:32,880 Speaker 1: Baldwin and this is Here's the Thing. David Arquette is 724 00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 1: a long time real deal fan of professional wrestling. In 725 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 1: the year two thousand, he won the w c W 726 00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:44,800 Speaker 1: World Heavyweight Championship, a title he held for twelve days. 727 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 1: An achievement that was mocked by wrestling fans and Hollywood alike. 728 00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:54,040 Speaker 1: His career stalled, he let himself go, and then he 729 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 1: decided to get back in the ring. It's all captured 730 00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:01,400 Speaker 1: in a documentary released last year whose idea was the 731 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 1: movie you Can't Kill David Arquette. You can't. And by 732 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,279 Speaker 1: the time I was done watching the movie, I mean, 733 00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,400 Speaker 1: I thought, that's a cute title. That's a fun title. 734 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:15,319 Speaker 1: This is his middle aged crisis. You know he's up there. 735 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:19,080 Speaker 1: It was like my third middles his third When it 736 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:22,000 Speaker 1: came around to his third midlife crisis, he decided to 737 00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:25,319 Speaker 1: film it. That's genius. So you do this movie. And 738 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 1: I watched and by the end, I was like, Wow, 739 00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,520 Speaker 1: that's a very apt title, because you can't kill David 740 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 1: ar cat When did this wrestling thing begin? And why? 741 00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:42,680 Speaker 1: What's the funk were you thinking? Well? I did a 742 00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 1: movie called Ready to Rumble years ago. It was one 743 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,640 Speaker 1: of those like three studio films I did that kind 744 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,919 Speaker 1: of didn't get received very well, and it didn't even 745 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,439 Speaker 1: get received very well by the wrestling community at the time. 746 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 1: It's a really over the top comedy, but it's since 747 00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:00,560 Speaker 1: kind of grown some cult status. So I did this 748 00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,640 Speaker 1: movie Ready to Rumble. It was through Warner Brothers. Warner 749 00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,799 Speaker 1: Brothers at the time owned w c W, which was 750 00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:10,279 Speaker 1: like the competiting brand to w w E, the two 751 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:14,680 Speaker 1: largest wrestling companies, and to promote the film, I went 752 00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 1: on and I did some like appearance and got involved 753 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,799 Speaker 1: because Diamond Dallas paid a big wrestler at the time, 754 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,480 Speaker 1: and he's also the star of the film Ready to Rumble, 755 00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:26,319 Speaker 1: and we'd become friends through the process. So I came 756 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,000 Speaker 1: and I did some in ring thing and it got 757 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:32,520 Speaker 1: a really good reaction from the crowd. So they brought 758 00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:35,440 Speaker 1: me back to do a second thing and they said 759 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:39,120 Speaker 1: we're going to make you the champion. That was wrestling fans, 760 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:44,319 Speaker 1: So I was like, no, that's all. Yeah. And since 761 00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:46,439 Speaker 1: I was a kid. For since I was a kid, 762 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,680 Speaker 1: I always loved it. I'd go to the matches throughout 763 00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,560 Speaker 1: the years and I saw Andre the Giant as a 764 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:54,960 Speaker 1: kid and it just kind of blew my mind. I 765 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:58,040 Speaker 1: just love it because my family goes back to Vaudeville. 766 00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,040 Speaker 1: There's such a like a circule, this kind of connection. 767 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,080 Speaker 1: I love clowns. I love you know, the circus world. 768 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:07,400 Speaker 1: You know wrestling was kind of connected to that, and this, 769 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,240 Speaker 1: you know sport that I believe for a long time 770 00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:13,320 Speaker 1: was a normal sport where it's not sort of predetermined 771 00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:16,840 Speaker 1: like it is. So it was like an opportunity. And 772 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:19,040 Speaker 1: all these guys that I was fans of, Hulk Hogan 773 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:22,120 Speaker 1: and Macho Man were all at this company, and so 774 00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,000 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, that would be amazing, and they 775 00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:25,719 Speaker 1: said we're gonna make you the champion. I was like, 776 00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 1: that's a terrible idea. Domdal's page said, well, listen if 777 00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,319 Speaker 1: you if you don't do it, then it's over. There's 778 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,719 Speaker 1: no more promotion to ready to rumble, there's no more wrestling, 779 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:37,360 Speaker 1: like that's it. And I said, well, what if I 780 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,120 Speaker 1: do it? They say, you get to come with us 781 00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:42,280 Speaker 1: for the next two weeks, travel with all this whole show, 782 00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,200 Speaker 1: and you know, you're the champion for two weeks and 783 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:48,000 Speaker 1: then you'll lose it at the pay per view. I'd 784 00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 1: rather be champion for two weeks than not at all. Exactly, 785 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,919 Speaker 1: That's what I thought. I thought, Oh, be the fan 786 00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 1: that finally became a champion. But the fact that I 787 00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:00,600 Speaker 1: was a comedic actor from Hollywood, the they saw it. 788 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:05,040 Speaker 1: Married to some girl on sitcom. They didn't go for it, 789 00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:08,040 Speaker 1: and they've projected me. They hated me for twenty years. 790 00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,040 Speaker 1: They'd spit on me and yelled the most horrible things 791 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,680 Speaker 1: and like trying to pick fights with me and all 792 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:17,000 Speaker 1: this stuff. And then the internet, Who's day? The fans 793 00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:22,239 Speaker 1: fans wrestling fans and it was second. So you were 794 00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,799 Speaker 1: the champion for two weeks and they rejected you could 795 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,360 Speaker 1: then though you were a Hollywood poser. Yeah, you're a 796 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:30,400 Speaker 1: Hollywood got to like get drunk with Rick Flair in 797 00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:34,000 Speaker 1: a ball married to her. It was a huge baggage 798 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,319 Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, you need to be married to a 799 00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,600 Speaker 1: woman with like scars on her face and everything. But 800 00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:40,680 Speaker 1: so you're married to her and they think you're a 801 00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,160 Speaker 1: Hollywood poser. You do this for two weeks, But do 802 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,239 Speaker 1: you find that all of a sudden you want to 803 00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,759 Speaker 1: get into the wrestling thing for real because you're sick 804 00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:51,439 Speaker 1: of people thinking that you haven't got what it takes. Yeah. 805 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 1: I mean when we were younger, we used to scrap 806 00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 1: all the time, get into little rumbles and fights and 807 00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 1: all this stuff. You know, But was it your pride 808 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:03,360 Speaker 1: the triggered you? Yeah, it was. I I hated that 809 00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,680 Speaker 1: they were like, I was a wooss you know what 810 00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:10,400 Speaker 1: I mean? They just treated me like this, like little 811 00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:15,120 Speaker 1: punk being bullied. I was constantly being bullied for like 812 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,759 Speaker 1: and I was like, shut up, I'm gonna prove my show. 813 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 1: You show you? Yeah? I did? And how does that beginning? 814 00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:25,839 Speaker 1: Who do you go to? Sit there and go I 815 00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:27,759 Speaker 1: really really want to get into this. Who do you 816 00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:30,200 Speaker 1: tell that to? It built up for years and then 817 00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:32,480 Speaker 1: I had two stints put in my heart. I had 818 00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,759 Speaker 1: a really bad reaction to a stress test. I thought 819 00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,120 Speaker 1: it was having no hard attack. And when I came 820 00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,880 Speaker 1: out of it, I told my wife I've been really 821 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:44,919 Speaker 1: thinking about wrestling. She was like, what are you talking. Yeah. 822 00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:48,799 Speaker 1: My current Christina, who's incredible. She produced the film You 823 00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:52,920 Speaker 1: Cannot Kill David or Catch was McClarty. McClarty and she 824 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:56,160 Speaker 1: was a correspondent for E. Yeah. She went to n 825 00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 1: I U as a journalist and then did local news 826 00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:02,799 Speaker 1: and then then E and we had met sort of 827 00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 1: at an eighties boat party. She's just such a badass, 828 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:10,080 Speaker 1: Like the skill set that she got from being a 829 00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:15,120 Speaker 1: journalist goes right into being a producer. So incredibly well. 830 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,160 Speaker 1: And her her uncle was like a chief of staff 831 00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,759 Speaker 1: to Clinton his first term, so she just could really 832 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,719 Speaker 1: get stuff done. Two stents in your heart, You I 833 00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:26,840 Speaker 1: want to begin my wrestling career, Well, it was what 834 00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:31,040 Speaker 1: did your wife? I literally was watching my life and seeing, 835 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:34,919 Speaker 1: like my friends, my family, my children, well kids, Well, 836 00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:36,920 Speaker 1: this is a life if I if I don't make 837 00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:40,919 Speaker 1: it through. And I didn't have like many regrets necessarily, 838 00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:43,959 Speaker 1: But then I was thinking about wrestling. It was so 839 00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:46,759 Speaker 1: strange to me that it was such a high on 840 00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:51,759 Speaker 1: the list of like things that still were kind of 841 00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:54,960 Speaker 1: gnawing at me. So I told her everyone wanted to 842 00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,399 Speaker 1: return to wrestling. I also knew I had to lose 843 00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,920 Speaker 1: a bunch of weight and get in shape, and I 844 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,759 Speaker 1: just thought if I were to do this process, it 845 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,600 Speaker 1: would be fun to film it so that I could 846 00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:11,080 Speaker 1: give wrestling fans a glimpse of the experience I had 847 00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:15,360 Speaker 1: when I first wrestled. So the film covers the period 848 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:19,719 Speaker 1: of your launching of your legit wrestling career. Yeah this 849 00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 1: is twenty years later. Now twenty years later, two stants later, 850 00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:29,400 Speaker 1: divorce later, You're gonna launch her wrestling career And Christina 851 00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:31,520 Speaker 1: doesn't sit there and call her a divorced Lawyer. She 852 00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,239 Speaker 1: seems like she really got it together. What was her response? 853 00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 1: She thought it was crazy she did. It's all in 854 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 1: the in the film. You know, there's also like this 855 00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:44,680 Speaker 1: whole undertone was like my love for Randy Kaufman. Uh, 856 00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:48,040 Speaker 1: he always loved wrestling. He actually went to Memphis and 857 00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 1: like wrestled for a year or two. Randy Piper was 858 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:55,440 Speaker 1: one who slapped him. That was Jerry Lawler, JR. Lawler, 859 00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:58,799 Speaker 1: j Lawler and he also I've wrestled Jerry Lawler in 860 00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:00,880 Speaker 1: the in the Doctor Ventary, I got of the do 861 00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:04,879 Speaker 1: a pile driver just like Andy, but it literally messed 862 00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,399 Speaker 1: my neck up to this day. It's it's so much 863 00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:12,719 Speaker 1: more dangerous and painful and like how physically challenging than 864 00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 1: anything I've ever done before. I never knew like how 865 00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:21,000 Speaker 1: how real it is, Like it is more there's more 866 00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:25,000 Speaker 1: contact than you think. So my view of it, I mean, 867 00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:26,919 Speaker 1: my sense of it is I think most people share 868 00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:30,160 Speaker 1: this is that it's an extraordinary amount of physical conditioning. 869 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 1: These guys and these women who do this look great. 870 00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,840 Speaker 1: They're all athletic and ripped up and strong and powerful 871 00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:40,319 Speaker 1: and muscled up and everything, and there's just enough reality 872 00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 1: and just enough violence to make it look real. But 873 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:46,680 Speaker 1: it's all choreography, and I mean there is some spontaneity, 874 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 1: but it's all worked out for the safety of those involved. 875 00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:52,200 Speaker 1: You don't take somebody and smash their face through the 876 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:56,759 Speaker 1: glass table, you know, sometimes people do. Actually, you know, 877 00:47:56,920 --> 00:48:00,319 Speaker 1: it is all like worked out. But what you learned 878 00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:03,359 Speaker 1: very quickly that people in the ring sometimes have other 879 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:07,120 Speaker 1: things going on in their life. There's something called a receipt, 880 00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:09,839 Speaker 1: Like if somebody hits you with something, you can get 881 00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:13,279 Speaker 1: a receipt to hit them back at some point. A 882 00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 1: lot of stuff happens in the wrestling ring. That's not 883 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,440 Speaker 1: when you work with like super pros, like the real pros. 884 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:21,120 Speaker 1: You could get in a ring with them and everything smooth, 885 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:25,000 Speaker 1: and you know, it looks like they're killing you. It's beautiful. Yeah, 886 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:26,759 Speaker 1: what was the most painful thing that happened to you 887 00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,480 Speaker 1: in the ring? We had this death match where I 888 00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:31,600 Speaker 1: got stabbed in the neck with a light tube and 889 00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,200 Speaker 1: that was pretty in those painful Yeah, that's the film, 890 00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:38,400 Speaker 1: but that actually wasn't the most painful. I think the 891 00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,959 Speaker 1: pile Driver by Jerry Lawler or um I got put 892 00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:45,160 Speaker 1: through a table through my back out against Bully Ray. 893 00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:48,320 Speaker 1: Those were some of the most painful. You hit the 894 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,719 Speaker 1: mat so hard all the time. I got this kind 895 00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,160 Speaker 1: of reoccurring whiplash is pretty much what it is. One 896 00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,480 Speaker 1: of my muscles that connects my shoulder to my neck 897 00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:01,320 Speaker 1: just has never been the same. But the really interesting 898 00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:05,080 Speaker 1: thing is you learn a lot about acting like it 899 00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,960 Speaker 1: has to be real, Like you have to tap into 900 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:12,520 Speaker 1: these emotions that you could tell a story without making 901 00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:16,040 Speaker 1: a sound. You have to show that you're scared or 902 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:22,239 Speaker 1: like now you're filled with ancor yeah, and and it's 903 00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,000 Speaker 1: all in your eyes and it's all in this thing. 904 00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,560 Speaker 1: But it's also when you get into a wrestling room, 905 00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:29,920 Speaker 1: time speeds up. You'll do something and think like I'm 906 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:33,319 Speaker 1: gonna stop to the corner like an upset little kid, 907 00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,279 Speaker 1: and I'll watch it back and I like, run to 908 00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:38,640 Speaker 1: the corner. I was like, wait a second, I thought 909 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:42,520 Speaker 1: I took so much time doing that, But when you 910 00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:46,920 Speaker 1: watch it back, it's so much quicker. So it teaches 911 00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,920 Speaker 1: you to really be in the moment. There's this connection 912 00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:53,120 Speaker 1: with an audience that you don't even have enough play. 913 00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:56,520 Speaker 1: It does like then move into this, Oh, you're doing 914 00:49:56,560 --> 00:50:01,520 Speaker 1: a sport, You're combining. Like I was in my therapist 915 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,520 Speaker 1: office and I was like, oh, because my least favorite 916 00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:07,800 Speaker 1: thing in the world is war and violence towards others, 917 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 1: and I don't want to hurt anyone. So I was like, wow, 918 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:16,200 Speaker 1: that's my least favorite thing, and here I am simulating violence. 919 00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,040 Speaker 1: Did this work that you put in for the film, 920 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,520 Speaker 1: the wrestling thing and coming back twenty years later, did 921 00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,640 Speaker 1: that rekindle your love of acting as well? It did? Yeah, 922 00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:27,680 Speaker 1: it did. It grounded me for one. It made me 923 00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:32,600 Speaker 1: really just grateful for life. There's something that I've always 924 00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:35,560 Speaker 1: tried to do is sort of stay in touch with people, 925 00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,080 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, not get all caught up 926 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:42,759 Speaker 1: in Hollywood and that world. I like people. I like 927 00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:47,000 Speaker 1: really interesting characters that you'll meet in the world. So 928 00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:48,799 Speaker 1: you find a lot of them in the rest of 929 00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:50,840 Speaker 1: the world, and you see a lot of like human 930 00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:53,200 Speaker 1: nature in the rest of the world. And yeah, it 931 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:56,839 Speaker 1: keeps you grounded. What did your sisters say about there? 932 00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:59,840 Speaker 1: They here in the film very fleetingly. What did they 933 00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,239 Speaker 1: think about you getting light tube smashed in your face 934 00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:05,080 Speaker 1: and all the stuff? Yeah, that wasn't Everyone was really 935 00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:07,920 Speaker 1: upset about that. My wife was like, I just feel 936 00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:09,840 Speaker 1: like you want to die, and I was like, I 937 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:13,400 Speaker 1: don't want to die, but I've definitely been beating myself up. 938 00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:18,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to die, but I'm thinking about it. Mulligan, Honest, 939 00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:23,560 Speaker 1: there's definitely a sado mastochistic element to deathmatch wrestling. People 940 00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:27,000 Speaker 1: are doing it for some reason. They're beating themselves up there, 941 00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:30,880 Speaker 1: numbing themselves, They're kind of experiencing this. It's also this 942 00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:33,959 Speaker 1: connection with these fans that are watching it and they're 943 00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:38,359 Speaker 1: like blood hungry, like they freak out. There's like when 944 00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:41,080 Speaker 1: I went into that room, they hated me, like they 945 00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:44,160 Speaker 1: literally did not like me, and then when I was 946 00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,319 Speaker 1: leaving they were cheering me. So I kind of want 947 00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:49,880 Speaker 1: them over in that moment. So here's this image I 948 00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:51,759 Speaker 1: have of you because I've seen other people like this. 949 00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,359 Speaker 1: I've seen people in the forty years that I've been 950 00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:58,720 Speaker 1: working as an actor since nine, I've seen people where 951 00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:01,200 Speaker 1: like the path you can take, and of course there 952 00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:04,600 Speaker 1: are diverse paths, they're not all the same, but you 953 00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:08,320 Speaker 1: achieve a certain place in the business where you can relax. 954 00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:09,879 Speaker 1: You know there's work there if you want. It isn't 955 00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:12,040 Speaker 1: always what you want to do, but one for them 956 00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,240 Speaker 1: one for you. You can make a little indie movie. 957 00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:16,520 Speaker 1: It's a clever part. Now do you think that's true 958 00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:17,799 Speaker 1: of you? Do you think there was a point where 959 00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:19,880 Speaker 1: you just sat there and said, fuck this, man, I 960 00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:24,279 Speaker 1: just can't. I can't be what they want me to be. Yeah, 961 00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:28,040 Speaker 1: I don't. There's a lot about the business that doesn't 962 00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 1: appeal to me. And I just I'm horrible at auditions, 963 00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:34,120 Speaker 1: So just doing auditions. But I've done a bunch of 964 00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:38,719 Speaker 1: like little scrappy films just to like help first time 965 00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:41,960 Speaker 1: directors and this and that. Like you know, I've been 966 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:44,040 Speaker 1: acting for thirty years, and I mean that's set just 967 00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:48,920 Speaker 1: super ultra low budget, just to still stay sort of 968 00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,960 Speaker 1: connected to it all. It's a long journey, you know. 969 00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:55,040 Speaker 1: And you're starting out and come to l A and 970 00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:58,640 Speaker 1: you your grandfather is this famous actor, and your sisters 971 00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 1: become famous, and then you marry the prom queen and 972 00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:04,520 Speaker 1: you go through everything you've gone through and look where 973 00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:08,360 Speaker 1: you are now you're married. Your wife saidal yeah, you 974 00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,560 Speaker 1: have a lot to be grateful for. You got two 975 00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:14,520 Speaker 1: little kids. You're still alive, even in spite of your 976 00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:18,000 Speaker 1: best efforts, You're still alive. Yeah, And I get to 977 00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:21,919 Speaker 1: have an interview with one of my heroes. You really 978 00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:25,000 Speaker 1: are incredible actor. I've always been a huge fan. Listen. 979 00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:27,040 Speaker 1: I hope you have a lot of great things coming 980 00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:28,720 Speaker 1: up for you, man, because I think that you're really 981 00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:30,680 Speaker 1: You're just so original, you know what I mean, You're 982 00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:35,520 Speaker 1: so I watch you in that movie, and I hope 983 00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:37,440 Speaker 1: people watch this movie. They've got to see this movie. 984 00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:41,080 Speaker 1: You can't kill David Arquette. It is really, really, really 985 00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:43,239 Speaker 1: a lot of fun to painful. There's a lot of 986 00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:47,920 Speaker 1: it's funny. I appreciate it. Thank you. That'st of luck 987 00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:55,200 Speaker 1: to you, buddy, to my thanks to actors Eddie Marston 988 00:53:55,600 --> 00:54:01,160 Speaker 1: and David Arquette. We're produced by Kathleen Ruth, Carrie Donohue 989 00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:05,600 Speaker 1: and Zach McNeese. Our engineer is Frank Imperial. Thanks to 990 00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:10,120 Speaker 1: Sarah every and Justin Wright. I'm Alec Baldwin. Here's the 991 00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:12,920 Speaker 1: Thing is brought to you by iHeart Radio.