Speaker 1: Hey, here we go. We're back. We got a brand
Speaker 1: new Second Date episode for you today. Thanks so much
Speaker 1: for finding us.
Speaker 2: It's Work and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're gonna
Speaker 2: start right away comments.
Speaker 1: What do you got, yes, Kim said Hi.
Speaker 3: Well, actually it's the way longer user name than not
Speaker 3: shortening it to Kim okay Hi from Singapore. I told
Speaker 3: my mom I've been listening to a radio station from
Speaker 3: America for years, and she was so confused and said,
Speaker 3: I'd be so ashamed to bring that up to my friends.
Speaker 3: Now she started listening EVENI She's not our first language,
Speaker 3: so I've had to keep explaining it to her. The
Speaker 3: thing is, I have to wait for her to finish
Speaker 3: her laugh just to explain the next part. I think
Speaker 3: she needs to pay me as a translator.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so cute. You're gonna have to translate this
Speaker 4: to her now too, that we're talking about.
Speaker 1: I love that people in other countries are still a
Speaker 1: shame of us. Yeah, as they should be. They get it.
Speaker 1: Your mom's right, I mean, you know, don't tell anybody.
Speaker 1: All right, We're going to start this brand new episode
Speaker 1: right now. Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning Second Date updates.
Speaker 4: It's nice to have returning people on our show.
Speaker 1: Oh for a I mean.
Speaker 4: A little sad because it means they're still single.
Speaker 1: We don't say that part out loud.
Speaker 4: But it's also nice because it gives us more time
Speaker 4: to meddle in their personal lives, which is our favorite
Speaker 4: thing to do. Today's returning caller is a guy named Jeremy,
Speaker 4: who was actually on a segment we do called blind
Speaker 4: Love is Oh Wow.
Speaker 2: That's where we set him up with another person. Did
Speaker 2: it work out?
Speaker 4: It did not work out. He did not score himself
Speaker 4: a date on that because he was clearly struggling to
Speaker 4: get over his ex Yvonne at the time. But something
Speaker 4: must have changed because he's now reached out asking for
Speaker 4: a second date. Update. So, Jeremy, it's good to have
Speaker 4: you back, my man. How you been.
Speaker 5: I'm good.
Speaker 6: It's good to be back.
Speaker 4: How are you guys? We're good.
Speaker 1: That was almost believable.
Speaker 4: I'm choosing to believe it. So have you done that?
Speaker 4: You found yourself a new Yvonne? Okay, her actual name
Speaker 4: is Yvonne.
Speaker 6: No, her name is Missy.
Speaker 2: So are you I mean, are you feeling ready like
Speaker 2: you have let go of that old relationship.
Speaker 6: Yes, I believe I'm totally over it.
Speaker 4: All right, tell us more about Missy. Where'd you meet her?
Speaker 4: We met on the app? Okay, being so specific? What
Speaker 4: did you like about her?
Speaker 6: She's very attractive. She said she wanted someone who is
Speaker 6: emotionally mature. But I still contact her anyway.
Speaker 2: Joke her laugh, it's a joker.
Speaker 1: He's just very self aware.
Speaker 6: I still reached out and we hit it off. We
Speaker 6: had a great conversation and we decided to meet up.
Speaker 1: All right, things are looking good. Where'd you go?
Speaker 6: We went to a baseball game.
Speaker 4: Wow, what an emotionally mature choice for a day.
Speaker 5: See, I'm growing right.
Speaker 1: You didn't do that nine for nine challenge? Did you?
Speaker 6: Nine for nine?
Speaker 5: What's that? Oh?
Speaker 2: That's nine hot dogs, nine beers in nine innings.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, I actually brought our snacks so we
Speaker 6: didn't have to do for nine for nine challenge?
Speaker 4: You snuck snacks into the stadium?
Speaker 2: No, you could actually bring them as long as they're
Speaker 2: in a clear bag, you don't have to sneak them.
Speaker 1: I hit Jimmy John's on the way in.
Speaker 4: Okay, is that what you did, Jeremy?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I did.
Speaker 6: But we kind of talk about food all.
Speaker 5: Day or are we going to talk about this date?
Speaker 4: Oh, we're going to talk about food first.
Speaker 1: That you have just a whole food segment every day.
Speaker 4: Really, okay, if you want to talk about your date,
Speaker 4: that's fine. What what do you want to tell us?
Speaker 6: A great date? That's what I want to tell you.
Speaker 1: Guys.
Speaker 4: It's a great date where she's not calling you back.
Speaker 4: So great for him, though.
Speaker 6: That's what I'm not understanding. I don't understand why.
Speaker 1: What was so great about it?
Speaker 6: To you? There were people around that knew me.
Speaker 4: Oh, actually as good people that story.
Speaker 6: You know, I'm a well known guy. We go to
Speaker 6: the baseball game, people know me.
Speaker 4: Wow. Okay.
Speaker 2: Some people get the same seats every time they know
Speaker 2: and you like create a community of people around you
Speaker 2: by doing that.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I don't know if she liked that or not.
Speaker 6: Oh oh wow, Well, because I was talking to them
Speaker 6: and I maybe didn't focus on her as much as
Speaker 6: I should have.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you have like a window like a five minutes Hey,
Speaker 4: good to see you. But I mean if it's like
Speaker 4: fifteen twenty minutes and you're keeping your date waiting, that's rude.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm with you on that one.
Speaker 4: Just for anything, Alexis, would that be a huge turn
Speaker 4: off to you? If you're out on a date with
Speaker 4: the guy and everybody thinks he's super popular and wants
Speaker 4: to talk to him, you're holding that against him.
Speaker 1: Am I included in the conversation or just absolutely.
Speaker 4: Not standing there awkwardly eating your hot dog?
Speaker 1: Why can't she be included? Why do I have to
Speaker 1: stand eat a hot dog?
Speaker 4: Because it's not about you, it's about him.
Speaker 1: I don't really asking me this.
Speaker 4: Then, yeah, I.
Speaker 6: Try to include her in a couple of conversations. But
Speaker 6: she didn't know the people.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, it sounds like her fault. She didn't know
Speaker 1: you very well.
Speaker 4: Do you remember it's a first date.
Speaker 1: How long were these conversations?
Speaker 6: I mean I wasn't time in it or anything. Ten minutes,
Speaker 6: I don't know, But I did try to get some
Speaker 6: alone time with her. So I I said, hey, let's
Speaker 6: get out of here, let's go get dinner.
Speaker 4: That's right, Oh, really good.
Speaker 1: And so you guys did dinner as well as the game.
Speaker 4: Long along with the snacks that you brought in a food.
Speaker 6: Yes, I made sure she was well fed.
Speaker 1: He that a man all right, how is dinner?
Speaker 6: Dinner was great, but it was a lot of the same.
Speaker 6: I knew people at the dinner place as well. I'm
Speaker 6: a popular guy. As I said, we just don't realize.
Speaker 4: Or do you only go to two places in your
Speaker 4: entire life, so everybody knows he's there, Like, here's back.
Speaker 6: It is one of my favorite places, but it's just
Speaker 6: one of those things, one of those nights.
Speaker 2: Okay, you sound like my husband who makes friends with
Speaker 2: the cashier.
Speaker 1: We can't walk to the grocery.
Speaker 2: Store without getting stopped for times by the mail person
Speaker 2: and the other guy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it doesn't brook sound so in love. So how
Speaker 4: did it end with you and Missy?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 1: We left them.
Speaker 6: Well, she asked me to take her home, and I
Speaker 6: was thinking, like why so early? But she said, hey,
Speaker 6: it's been three hours, and I was like, oh, okay, yeah,
Speaker 6: you're right. Three hours is a lot of time.
Speaker 2: That's awesome on your part that it didn't feel like
Speaker 2: three hours too, Like you bye, you wanted more time
Speaker 2: with her, which is great.
Speaker 4: That's cute. Yeah, because it sounds like you barely got
Speaker 4: any time with her. He was talking to everybody else.
Speaker 1: I felt like six hours.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but Okay, I think we have enough information to
Speaker 4: go off of here. We're gonna come back call Missy
Speaker 4: for you and try to figure out why she doesn't
Speaker 4: want a second date with the most popular man in
Speaker 4: this entire town.
Speaker 6: You said it, not me.
Speaker 4: Just hold on when we come back and do your
Speaker 4: second date update right after this.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates.
Speaker 4: You've heard of the most interesting man in the world.
Speaker 4: Lucky for us, today we've been graced by the most
Speaker 4: popular man in the city. Wow, Jeremy, who took his
Speaker 4: date Missy to a baseball game and to dinner, but
Speaker 4: admits he did spend a lot of that time talking
Speaker 4: to other people who were constantly coming up to him
Speaker 4: because they knew him, and they admire him. They love him. Ya, Jeremy,
Speaker 4: he is the most popular man in this zip.
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, we already knew him. He'd already been
Speaker 1: on our show.
Speaker 4: Maybe that's why he's so famous. Maybe the only person
Speaker 4: he's not popular with, though, is Missy because she's not
Speaker 4: calling him back. So we're trying to figure out why
Speaker 4: that is.
Speaker 2: Brooke, what do you think did you get a chance
Speaker 2: to apologize to Missy, because it sounds like you're pretty
Speaker 2: self aware of not spending enough time or attention to her.
Speaker 6: Apologize, Jeremy, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I misread the first part of this. I thought there
Speaker 1: was some regret in your That's not true.
Speaker 6: It's not.
Speaker 5: I did my bad.
Speaker 6: The next date, I'll pick a different place where I'm
Speaker 6: less well known.
Speaker 1: See that's where you're such a man. Women apologize for
Speaker 1: things that are in our control all the time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we look at Alexis. I'll probably apologize right now for
Speaker 1: no reason at all.
Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe you should apologize for misjudging Jeremy in the
Speaker 4: first part of this call.
Speaker 1: Apparently I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: There you go.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry for Brooke.
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, everybody is sorry, Jeremy. So let's figure
Speaker 4: out if Missy's sorry too for not calling you back.
Speaker 4: We're going to dial her number.
Speaker 6: Well, she should be sorry. I texted her four times,
Speaker 6: no response, so I'm sure she's sorry.
Speaker 4: One I know. Yeah, what a cold heartless woman. I'm
Speaker 4: excited to talk to her. Let's do it. Excited dialer
Speaker 4: right now here we go. Hello, Hey is this Missy? Yeah, hey, Missy.
Speaker 4: This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 4: the morning. How you doing.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, missy you good morning? What? Yeah,
Speaker 1: good morning. I was pretty it wasn't a hearing.
Speaker 4: Have you ever heard of something called the second Date Update?
Speaker 5: No? What is that?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's kind of rude. I expect that my mom
Speaker 4: shares them on her Facebook, so you know they're really
Speaker 4: cool viral. Yeah, but it's a segment where we try
Speaker 4: to help one of our listeners, in this case, an
Speaker 4: extremely popular guy named Jeremy get some clarity about your date,
Speaker 4: a guy who is beloved by many.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I don't understand then, So Jeremy reached out to
Speaker 5: you or you reach out to him both?
Speaker 1: Really? Yeah, I mean he reached out to us, and
Speaker 1: then we called him.
Speaker 4: I mean, we're honored that we even got the chance
Speaker 4: to speak with him. It's amazing that he was willing
Speaker 4: to give us that time. So some people do think
Speaker 4: it's a little odd though, that you haven't been jumping
Speaker 4: at the chance to spend more time with him. And
Speaker 4: if there's a reason for that, we would. I'd love
Speaker 4: to know why, just to help him out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because we know a little bit about your date.
Speaker 5: Oh, so he told you what happened?
Speaker 4: You're saying what happened, like it was a bad thing. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: because we heard that you went to a baseball game
Speaker 4: and dinner.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, sort of, what do you mean sort of?
Speaker 1: How do you sort of go to those things?
Speaker 5: He took me to a Rex Sports League baseball game.
Speaker 2: Oh dogs, are kids like that?
Speaker 5: He was playing.
Speaker 1: Like a slow pitch co ed league.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and when he told me, I thought, Okay, it's
Speaker 5: going to be a professional sports thing. But no, like
Speaker 5: I was back in the bleachers.
Speaker 2: Honestly, that could have been a fun night if you
Speaker 2: had been prepared.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you were also invited to play.
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah, I did ask you if you want
Speaker 4: to play.
Speaker 5: No, but he did come over a few times and
Speaker 5: ask me if I could cheer louder.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 4: Well, that's nice. He wants to involve you in the game,
Speaker 4: and look, I brought a cheerleader. I'm gonna need you
Speaker 4: to cheer. But this explains why he was telling us
Speaker 4: he was so popular at the game that everybody knew
Speaker 4: him because it's his team.
Speaker 1: We also assumed.
Speaker 2: I also assumed that when he told us about this,
Speaker 2: he was talking about professional sports.
Speaker 4: All this makes me scared to even ask you about
Speaker 4: what happened to din?
Speaker 1: Seriously?
Speaker 4: Because he said people knew him there too.
Speaker 1: Don't tell me.
Speaker 2: He took you to his parents' house for a meal,
Speaker 2: at a friend's house, a friends out.
Speaker 4: Why what are you guys doing there?
Speaker 1: He told us that he was trying to get alone
Speaker 1: time with you.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah he did.
Speaker 5: It was the opposite of that.
Speaker 1: So what was the explanation?
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was a meeting.
Speaker 1: It was an M meeting m l M.
Speaker 5: Where they pitch you stuff and you can sell under them.
Speaker 1: A mid level marketing is what mls like tupperware, those
Speaker 1: weird ladies who.
Speaker 4: Yeah, sure, Yeah, he's trying to help stock your kitchen.
Speaker 2: Could have been vitamins, you never know, vitamins, yeahs.
Speaker 5: And I was like, what is going on? And like
Speaker 5: there were a tray of finger sandwiches. But then we
Speaker 5: had to immediately sit down for the talk.
Speaker 2: So are you not calling them back because you've made
Speaker 2: your fortune now?
Speaker 5: Not exactly. And at one point while they're talking, he
Speaker 5: leans over to me and he says, pretty cool, right.
Speaker 4: Is he trying to sign you up for this? I
Speaker 4: just clicked in my yes.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 5: He said, if you could join me, you could be
Speaker 5: under me.
Speaker 4: I like, how we that it wasn't we did not
Speaker 4: know the details of the day. This way a slightly
Speaker 4: different version of the story from Jeremy.
Speaker 1: Without any of the details from.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and so the person we need to speak to
Speaker 4: about it is actually Jeremy himself, who's on the other
Speaker 4: line listening to this, waiting to jump in and talk
Speaker 4: to you.
Speaker 2: What.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Jeremy, Yeah, I'm here. Yeah, yeah, the details.
Speaker 2: Dude, You let us think that it was a pro
Speaker 2: gabe that you took her to a restaurant, not that.
Speaker 6: You well, you guys didn't have that's on you.
Speaker 5: You should ask.
Speaker 6: You didn't ask for all the pertinent information.
Speaker 4: Okay, we should have been like was it a professional game?
Speaker 6: Really?
Speaker 4: Should we? That's on us. We're about investigators, Jeremy. So
Speaker 4: we apologize for that, but the rest of the details
Speaker 4: are pretty incriminating.
Speaker 6: Hell, what are you talking about.
Speaker 2: You're trying to con her into whatever weird MLM scheme you've.
Speaker 1: Got going on. Yeah, no, was my phone.
Speaker 6: I'm trying to make her some money.
Speaker 5: Listen, I felt misled for the entire date. You took
Speaker 5: me to sell fathball league you play in, and then
Speaker 5: you try to get me to sell organic sprinklers or whatever.
Speaker 6: Listen, I wasn't trying to sell you on the product.
Speaker 6: That product sells itself. You don't want to miss out
Speaker 6: on this. You better get in while they're going fast.
Speaker 4: He's a good salesman.
Speaker 6: You better get in now.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. I kind of want to get in on.
Speaker 6: It, though, but yeah, I follow its put my email out.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, nope, we're.
Speaker 1: Not doing that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're not going to do that, Jeremy. She's telling
Speaker 4: you that you led her to believe this was going
Speaker 4: to be more of an intimate, romantic, one on one experience,
Speaker 4: and you've turned it into a whole thing about yourself.
Speaker 6: What's more intimate than bringing you to my safe place
Speaker 6: where I play baseball? That's one who If we're going
Speaker 6: to be together, we should make money together.
Speaker 4: That's the goal, right, It's not very intimate if there's
Speaker 4: a chain link fence dividing you on the field from
Speaker 4: her in the stands.
Speaker 1: You are the kind of spin you are turning all
Speaker 1: of this into. You're the heroes job, you know what.
Speaker 6: It sounds to me like she's not emotionally mature.
Speaker 4: You need to take.
Speaker 6: Maybe you should be a little grateful.
Speaker 5: I was grateful that you took me home.
Speaker 4: That's nice.
Speaker 6: Well, with these gas prices, he's literally so good.
Speaker 4: Everything, dude.
Speaker 1: In one minute, Jose is going to be selling sprinklers.
Speaker 2: You know, we got to get him off the boat.
Speaker 6: He's not going to be selling sprinklers. They sell themselves.
Speaker 4: Before we all, before we all become your clients. Jeremy,
Speaker 4: we just need to ask Missy this question. Are we
Speaker 4: really we always do? Would you be willing to go
Speaker 4: out with Jeremy one? Wait?
Speaker 6: Wait, wait, wait wait, I don't want to go out
Speaker 6: with her at this point. Oh way, she's not popular enough.
Speaker 4: Everybody that knows you, I think his feelings are a
Speaker 4: little hurt.
Speaker 5: Well, enjoy being in your feelings. It's a path for me.
Speaker 2: I mean, it would be pretty sick revenge, though, Missy,
Speaker 2: if you did become a sprinkler salesman and outsold.
Speaker 6: But I'll make money off that because she'll be under me.
Speaker 4: Everybody wins.
Speaker 6: But the fact that she can't recognize that is a
Speaker 6: big red flag.
Speaker 4: All right, well, Missy, I'm sorry, too many red flags
Speaker 4: on your part. You're being rejected.
Speaker 5: Yes, you know what, I can find another field, a field.
Speaker 4: To put sprinklers in kind of nice.
Speaker 6: You know what, you just missed out. You would have
Speaker 6: been a great salesperson.
Speaker 4: That was a cease of line.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna steal that.
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: And it's been a few years since we've had a
Speaker 4: listener take a date to an LM meeting and try
Speaker 4: to pass it off as like a romantic move.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And even at the end he was not backing down.
Speaker 4: He's like, you missed out on this huge opportunity and
Speaker 4: you're the red flags.
Speaker 1: Has anyone thought that maybe the product was the problem.
Speaker 1: Maybe product like if they had been.
Speaker 2: Like skincare, maybe she'd be into it, or God or
Speaker 2: even like a Mexican timeshare like that would have been
Speaker 2: down out.
Speaker 4: That anything would have been better than sprinklers, if that's
Speaker 4: what it really was, organic sprinkling difference. Although I do
Speaker 4: enjoy a listener who hears all the mistakes that they
Speaker 4: made and then turns around and says, well, I don't
Speaker 4: want to date them. Yeah, they don't get me.
Speaker 1: That special type of person.
Speaker 4: Yes, Jeremy's a man who likes to be in control,
Speaker 4: and I'm sure that's not the last We're going to
Speaker 4: hear from him.
Speaker 6: On this show.
Speaker 4: Will we respond to him next time? I don't know,
Speaker 4: Please know, But his dating journey is going to be
Speaker 4: a long, long one, yeah, if I'm predicting it correctly.
Speaker 4: But that gives us a lot of time to provide
Speaker 4: you with more content, So go find all of it.
Speaker 4: It's available online where you get your pod cast. Just
Speaker 4: search Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.