WEBVTT - The One Where Lala CANNOT Relate

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, good morning. Do you know that song? I Hello, Hello, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. Welcome you guys to give them La La podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to say we are usually very loud in

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<v Speaker 1>this office, and before it was okay because like across

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<v Speaker 1>the hall, we had some like stylist, a stylist that

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<v Speaker 1>did Katie. We had like a weed company. We've got

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<v Speaker 1>the dudes from Entourage in the building, like chaos, chaos, chaos, chaos, chaos, chaos, chaos.

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<v Speaker 1>And now we have this sweet woman who's a lactation specialist.

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<v Speaker 1>She's gonna have mommies coming in here, which I love,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's got her cute little setup and I'm seeing

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<v Speaker 1>like the little scale that you put the baby on.

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<v Speaker 1>This is so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't wait to learn all about lactation La.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's not easy, and also it's not something

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<v Speaker 1>that every baby is into. Not every baby wants to

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<v Speaker 1>be on the boob, and some momas don't have milk

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<v Speaker 1>come in. Anyway, we'll save that topic for another day.

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<v Speaker 1>But I may be a little bit quieter, although she

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<v Speaker 1>just moved in, so maybe I'll be buck wild until

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<v Speaker 1>I can't be because we got new mamas coming in.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to tell you guys what I learned on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>So I got on the TikTok. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>that's heard of it the TikTok, and I saw this

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<v Speaker 1>dog trainer who specializes in training bully breeds, which are

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<v Speaker 1>usually barrel chested, you know, like the broad chest you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about pimp pull bulldog. So he was saying,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want this to like literally sink into your

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<v Speaker 1>guys's brains, for anyone who has a dog, especially a

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<v Speaker 1>barrel chested dog, needs to know this. So he was

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<v Speaker 1>saying that after you take your dog on a walk

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<v Speaker 1>when you get home, you usually immediately put water in

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<v Speaker 1>front of them because they're panting, and that's just like

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<v Speaker 1>your go to like they need water. He says, you

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<v Speaker 1>should wait at least thirty minutes before giving your dog

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<v Speaker 1>water because they're panting is their way of cooling off,

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<v Speaker 1>and their tummy is also filling with air in that time.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you give them water, not only are they

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<v Speaker 1>like panting trying to cool down, but they're taking in

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<v Speaker 1>water which then causes the stomach to flip and your

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<v Speaker 1>dog instantly dies.

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<v Speaker 2>So and don't you your mom has we have two pibbles.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So I told Easton, I'm like, when you take

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<v Speaker 1>them to the park and you know their pablo is

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<v Speaker 1>like he's thick. So he comes back panting and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't give him water for thirty minutes, for at

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<v Speaker 1>least thirty minutes, just until they've calmed down.

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<v Speaker 2>See, I told you you'll learn so much on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>I promise you're gonna love it. I've learned so much

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<v Speaker 2>on the TikTok Uh, the TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>The TikTok. I also so I did, like after I

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<v Speaker 1>watched the documentary The Blank Scandal, the he whose name

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<v Speaker 1>we shall not mention Scandal on Hulu, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I I need to turn my DMS back on. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a lot. I was getting like thousands a day.

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<v Speaker 1>I decided to turn them back off. If you have

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<v Speaker 1>a story to tell, you know who to contact. And

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<v Speaker 1>I want to leave it at that. I talk about

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<v Speaker 1>that documentary on Sina's podcasts that aired. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>say on Friday, so head there she had. We had

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<v Speaker 1>a really good podcast to that day with her lawyer Nima.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like very smart. Not that I'm shocked. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean he went to law school, but just the amount

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<v Speaker 1>of years that he spent in so many different areas.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, Wow, you are someone who, like I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to pick your brain just to be informed.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just the ease of it to you. You can tell

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<v Speaker 2>when someone say like he the things he talks about

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<v Speaker 2>with ease that I'm like, I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 2>that word means. I don't know any of this is

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<v Speaker 2>just you're like, oh, you're genius.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it is intense.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but he's very smart, and he's very like.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool, oh, so cool, so cool, right, and he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been doing this for X amount of years and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what do you put on that skin? Nima?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you're looking like you're not old enough to

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<v Speaker 1>have done it for that long for real though. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So before we jump into uh vander Pump Rules Part

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<v Speaker 1>two reunion, I want to talk about what I've been

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<v Speaker 1>seeing online about Real Housewives of New Jersey Margaret and Melissa.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was seeing that people were saying that they

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a storyline, Like what is their storyline? Teresa's

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<v Speaker 1>always been uh, Melissa's storyline. And I'm gonna say this.

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<v Speaker 1>We filmed for a very long time and like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>just use my time filming. For example, I shared a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of things at the end of the day, like

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<v Speaker 1>you have no control over what the actual storyline is

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<v Speaker 1>going to be for us this season, before Scandalval happened,

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<v Speaker 1>it was very much the storyline of the season is

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<v Speaker 1>going to be Raquel and Tom Schwartz making out. That

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<v Speaker 1>was the storyline of the season. There's always individual ones

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<v Speaker 1>and then there's like the overall umbrella of what the

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<v Speaker 1>season is about. I feel like Margaret and Melissa, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is maybe an unpopular opinion, I love watching them, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I think they're fantastic. I think Margaret is a little cutthroat,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's all true. That's why I hurt so much,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like, oh, when someone speaks the exact truth,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, well, that was mean, but.

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<v Speaker 3>It was true.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was true. And some people don't deliver the

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<v Speaker 1>insults the way maybe you do, like they're just better

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<v Speaker 1>at it. Yeah, there's some people where we could say

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<v Speaker 1>the exact same thing, but my delivery is gonna cut

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<v Speaker 1>ten times deeper. That's how I feel Margaret is. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't agree with the fact that they say that Margaret

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<v Speaker 1>and Melissa have not had storylines, because I absolutely think

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<v Speaker 1>they do and they have no control over what gets

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<v Speaker 1>edited out? Right? Do you agree with that?

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<v Speaker 2>Jeff Well, I am gonna say yes because I am

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<v Speaker 2>just going to I haven't watched it.

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<v Speaker 1>You haven't watched it at all ever in your life? No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I've watched you're talking about Real Housewives of Jersey

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<v Speaker 2>right right? Yes, No, I just haven't watched it this

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<v Speaker 2>season or last season. Oh, that's fine because I started

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<v Speaker 2>watching Miami and then.

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<v Speaker 1>The drama is overall the same. Okay, it's Teresa and

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<v Speaker 1>her new man are having issues with Joey, Andrga and Melissa. Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>they've kind of always had issue since season three when

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<v Speaker 1>they came on. There were issues that they just couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get over. And then we go through like this period

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<v Speaker 1>of time where they're kind of getting along but certain

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<v Speaker 1>like they can't shake certain things, and now we're back.

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<v Speaker 1>I just watched the reunion. It was so good, was it? Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm see I would just watch the reunion, But

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<v Speaker 2>do I have to? I should probably watch the whole season.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you need to watch the whole season, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you jump straight into the reunion the results.

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<v Speaker 1>Do that. That's what I would do, because I had

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<v Speaker 1>a tough time watching it this, like the entire season,

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<v Speaker 1>I just felt there were certain things that I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really care about. It was like, Okay, got it, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to see an entire three minute scene about this, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm still a diehard. Right. It was so amazing

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<v Speaker 1>to watch the Real Housewives of New Jersey reunion and

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<v Speaker 1>be stimulated by it, because since scanned of all, I

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<v Speaker 1>have not been stimulated by reality TV. I've had to

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<v Speaker 1>go back to like og episodes of Real Housewives to

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<v Speaker 1>like really feel get.

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<v Speaker 2>The buzz, get the butt right, I feel the same way.

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<v Speaker 2>I am a Kardashian lover through and through. And the

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<v Speaker 2>fact that I did not even know that their new

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<v Speaker 2>season was premiering. I had no idea, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, well, I don't think many people did. And I

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<v Speaker 1>heard I heard they are not happy about it. I think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>someone told me that, Oh, Katie told me that Chloe

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<v Speaker 1>had tweeted something about the new season, and maybe every

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<v Speaker 1>tenth comment was like yay, I can't wait, but everyone

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no girl, scannibals, no girl, VPRs tonight, No

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<v Speaker 1>Girl Not Happening VPR.

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<v Speaker 2>That is wild and the fact that I have not

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<v Speaker 2>yet watched it, and just I feel the same way.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like I feel like a lot of people feel

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<v Speaker 2>the same way. We've got Vanderpum.

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<v Speaker 1>I may watch Kardashians for like fall asleep time. That'd

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<v Speaker 1>be a good yeah, because I do like their voices.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that they keep in like the hustling and

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<v Speaker 1>bustling of the little trees in Calabasis, the peaceful. I

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<v Speaker 1>like the sound of the giant front door opening and closing,

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<v Speaker 1>wafting the perfect amount of air as they shake a salad.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm seeing a shaken salad on there in a while.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's no yelling really ever, Yes, there is not

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<v Speaker 1>really ever cackling like laughs. It's very just it's very odd.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even so.

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<v Speaker 2>You could do Courtneys.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet you could if you practice. Just listen to

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of lines Lole. I've said it on here before.

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<v Speaker 2>Lass you should be on SNL because she.

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<v Speaker 1>Does it with Ray Ray. I'm gonna say it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to say, you do a great Rachel, a

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<v Speaker 2>great Rachel like Raquel yes, yeah, of like the movements

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<v Speaker 2>you do with like when you're saying it, the same tone,

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<v Speaker 2>same movements.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you just have to move as if you were

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<v Speaker 1>shaped like a box. Oh no, I said it. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even care. Last do We episode part two?

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<v Speaker 1>My dear friend who's now like family, sobbing over how

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<v Speaker 1>Rachel or Raquel could do this to her, and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I should have ever written her a note.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, you're crazy. It's scary. I have so many thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we need to hear all of your can

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<v Speaker 1>talk about, so we'll dive into that, okay, But I

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<v Speaker 1>also want to address Lisa Rinna, the love of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>I adore her unpopular opinion. If you don't like Lisa Rinna,

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know that I can really fuck with you,

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<v Speaker 1>get out of here. Like last season, everyone's like she

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<v Speaker 1>I like her. I like when she freaks out. I

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<v Speaker 1>think she's human. I think that I when she says

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<v Speaker 1>like I own it, I own it. It's like very

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<v Speaker 1>true she does. And her mom died, her mom died,

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<v Speaker 1>her best friend, her everything, every memory of from the

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<v Speaker 1>time she was born, whatever memory she had when she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, the first one ever, three four years old,

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<v Speaker 1>is with her mom who is no longer on the planet,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can't open your heart just a little to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, you know what, I fucking feel for her

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<v Speaker 1>because I can't even imagine. No, you cannot. Yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 1>lost a dad, which I was very close to him,

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<v Speaker 1>and my world fell like I have never felt that way,

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<v Speaker 1>and God willing, I don't lose my mom for a

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<v Speaker 1>very long time and will not feel that way until

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<v Speaker 1>I lose my other parent. It is earth shattering. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how to deal with it. You're angry. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>that people say is triggering. You can't believe that the

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<v Speaker 1>world is still spinning after that happens to you, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're angry that you see people across you know, you're

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<v Speaker 1>sitting at lunch and you're like devastated, and you see

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<v Speaker 1>someone laughing. You're like, how the fuck could you be

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<v Speaker 1>laughing right now? My mom died. It's a really funky

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<v Speaker 1>grieving process. So I don't agree with the amount of shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I got the same amount of shit when my

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<v Speaker 1>dad died. Anyway. She did an interview and she was

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<v Speaker 1>talking about how reality TV used to be and how

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<v Speaker 1>it is now and just the response is so vile,

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<v Speaker 1>And I have to say this, I can't imagine that

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<v Speaker 1>anyone listening to this podcast, my people would ever act

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<v Speaker 1>the way some of these trolls do. If you have, like,

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<v Speaker 1>please stop. It is a TV show. We all signed

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<v Speaker 1>up for it. So for you to go to an

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<v Speaker 1>extent of sending someone a message who you watch on

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<v Speaker 1>TV that is so vile. It's like you, I hate

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<v Speaker 1>to break it to You are no better than we

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<v Speaker 1>are when you send a message like that. In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>you're even worse because you have nothing to do with this.

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<v Speaker 1>You have nothing to do with this, and the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that it's affecting you this deeply makes me a little

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<v Speaker 1>scared for you. It should.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very scary and sad.

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<v Speaker 1>Because the way other people live their lives, who I

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<v Speaker 1>have no fucking idea who they are, it does affect me,

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<v Speaker 1>so please be kind anyway. In this interview, she was

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<v Speaker 1>saying the response is different. She was getting death threats.

0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:08.680
<v Speaker 1>People were very mean to her. Didn't like it, especially

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<v Speaker 1>because she really didn't do anything. She was just going

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<v Speaker 1>with the motions of life. She says in the interview,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a show, it's a stupid show. Every headline Lisa

0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:21.320
<v Speaker 1>Rinna says, or uh vander Pomp says Real Housewives of

0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:26.000
<v Speaker 1>Beverly Hills, it's stupid. Oh goodness, and it's like, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I know we're all smarter than this. That she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling the show stupid. She was saying, how it's just

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<v Speaker 1>a show, it's a fucking show. She could have said

0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:38.000
<v Speaker 1>it's a fucking show and would have gotten the point

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<v Speaker 1>of stupid across. Like in that sentence, fucking and stupid

0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:44.240
<v Speaker 1>go hand in hand. She's trying to show you that

0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:47.200
<v Speaker 1>it ain't that deep. She wasn't saying it was stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that she's very grateful, I'm sure for the

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<v Speaker 1>opportunities that were brought to her. She's killing the fashion game. Yes,

0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:57.280
<v Speaker 1>she's all over the place, people making fun of her hair.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was Milan Fashion Week. I'm like, all

0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:03.720
<v Speaker 1>are Bravo like cut. We got to get with the

0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:06.160
<v Speaker 1>fact that, like fashion may not make sense to you,

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<v Speaker 1>but that like seventies wig that they put on her

0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:14.000
<v Speaker 1>was so fabulous, Like would it be fabulous if I

0:14:14.040 --> 0:14:16.880
<v Speaker 1>saw her like dining at Red Robin. No, I'd be like,

0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:19.680
<v Speaker 1>this is a little weird. But the bitches in fucking Milan,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, being fabulous in head to toe designer goods,

0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:28.040
<v Speaker 1>and I thought it was absolutely amazing. So I know

0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:31.640
<v Speaker 1>that none of my people are dragging things that don't

0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:33.360
<v Speaker 1>make sense to them because I think you just have

0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:36.640
<v Speaker 1>an appreciation for it. I appreciate Lisa Rina, I really do.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I think that is I've seen this.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me see what she got dragged. How freaking fabulous

0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.680
<v Speaker 1>that screams to me. That's screams it was fas fashion Week,

0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:47.520
<v Speaker 1>Sorry you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>And the reason it screams fashion I see models walking

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<v Speaker 2>down the runway with the most like unique looks. Ever,

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<v Speaker 2>that's just another unique.

0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:57.800
<v Speaker 1>It was so unique head to toe Vivian Westwood, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean fashion and put it all me. Don't you want

0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:05.240
<v Speaker 1>to say it? I was on me a fashion living

0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:11.120
<v Speaker 1>for it. So good. All right, let's jump into it.

0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:15.680
<v Speaker 1>Let's jump right into it. So it starts off with

0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:19.920
<v Speaker 1>basically where it left off for the first part of

0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:22.400
<v Speaker 1>the reunion, where I'm telling Lisa she's got to stop.

0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:26.280
<v Speaker 1>It was strange that like she kept telling me, like la, La,

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<v Speaker 1>stop it when this guy is over here calling me

0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:32.680
<v Speaker 1>a narcissist, which granted, it was like, okay, I'm calling

0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:34.200
<v Speaker 1>him one, like he's got a fight back. What did

0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:35.800
<v Speaker 1>I think he was going to roll over and die? No,

0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:39.800
<v Speaker 1>but there is a huge difference between narcissism and an ego.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'm not going to school you guys on

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<v Speaker 1>this because this isn't school. I'm just gonna say there's

0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:48.000
<v Speaker 1>a difference. If you don't know the difference, google it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to leave it at that. I didn't hear

0:15:50.760 --> 0:15:54.400
<v Speaker 1>him say you pulled your IUD out the second you

0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:58.160
<v Speaker 1>found out Stacey was pregnant. When I watched that, my

0:15:58.360 --> 0:16:01.080
<v Speaker 1>heart fell into my stomach. And I won't even lie,

0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:03.880
<v Speaker 1>like I actually sobbed, Like I did a video and

0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:07.080
<v Speaker 1>posted it to Instagram, and after I sobbed, and my

0:16:07.120 --> 0:16:11.320
<v Speaker 1>mom was like, consider the source, look at him. Why

0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:14.000
<v Speaker 1>do you care? And I'm like, it's not about him.

0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:17.360
<v Speaker 1>It's about the love that I have for my child,

0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:21.160
<v Speaker 1>and it could be anybody who speaks about her. And

0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:25.480
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna send me into like I'm going to war rage.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, can you just clarify because I thought he

0:16:30.680 --> 0:16:33.000
<v Speaker 2>meant something different by that. I was even confused. I'm like,

0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:33.760
<v Speaker 2>what does that have to do.

0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:36.360
<v Speaker 1>It had nothing to do with anything anything, But when

0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:38.760
<v Speaker 1>people are pushed in the corner, they come out swinging.

0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:41.160
<v Speaker 1>That's what he was doing. Like Arianna says, he's trying

0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:44.040
<v Speaker 1>to throw anything at the wall and hoping that it'll stick.

0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:47.560
<v Speaker 1>And it takes a lot to offend me. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think he went for the lowest of low to get

0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:53.720
<v Speaker 1>a rise out of me. And I'm so grateful that

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<v Speaker 1>I did not hear him say that in the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>because that would have been a full on spiral and

0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:03.000
<v Speaker 1>then they would have definitely had security for real, get involved. Right,

0:17:03.520 --> 0:17:07.840
<v Speaker 1>I am not a violent person. Right, I'm afraid of

0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:10.119
<v Speaker 1>the court system. I want no part of it. But

0:17:10.200 --> 0:17:13.280
<v Speaker 1>I know that every mom can relate to when someone

0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:17.600
<v Speaker 1>talks about your child in any way anyway other than

0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:21.919
<v Speaker 1>your kid is amazing. Thank god you have them. You

0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:24.439
<v Speaker 1>will rip their eyes out and you won't even know

0:17:24.480 --> 0:17:29.360
<v Speaker 1>what hit you. You become animalistic, Yeah, I would.

0:17:29.359 --> 0:17:33.480
<v Speaker 2>Imagine, yes, yeah, yes, I just I guess I don't

0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:36.240
<v Speaker 2>understand even him saying it, Like I grew up with

0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:39.480
<v Speaker 2>a mom who planned her babies around when her sisters

0:17:39.520 --> 0:17:41.680
<v Speaker 2>were when her sister was having a baby, So I'm

0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:43.840
<v Speaker 2>just confused. I'm like, well, yeah, isn't that what if

0:17:43.840 --> 0:17:46.600
<v Speaker 2>you have the privilege and like you're lucky enough to

0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:49.199
<v Speaker 2>be able to do that with friends or sisters. I

0:17:49.280 --> 0:17:50.960
<v Speaker 2>want to do that with my fucking sister. That's what

0:17:50.960 --> 0:17:51.879
<v Speaker 2>I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it was he can't even conceptualize what family means

0:17:57.640 --> 0:18:00.399
<v Speaker 1>and what having a child means and the love you

0:18:00.440 --> 0:18:03.280
<v Speaker 1>have for a child. He can't even process that. And

0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:06.840
<v Speaker 1>that's okay because I know that he's a narcissist and

0:18:07.119 --> 0:18:09.800
<v Speaker 1>he was born that way, and there's nothing you can

0:18:09.840 --> 0:18:11.840
<v Speaker 1>do about it. Even when he has a child, if

0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:14.240
<v Speaker 1>and when, he will never understand it because this is

0:18:14.280 --> 0:18:19.000
<v Speaker 1>who he is. For me, I absolutely heard that Brittany

0:18:19.080 --> 0:18:24.399
<v Speaker 1>was trying that Stossy was then pregnant. I knew that.

0:18:25.080 --> 0:18:28.439
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember the sequence, but Sheina was pregnant at

0:18:28.440 --> 0:18:32.800
<v Speaker 1>the time and lost her baby, which was devastating, and

0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:36.520
<v Speaker 1>then was you know, blessed with Summer Moon, who's so

0:18:36.640 --> 0:18:40.240
<v Speaker 1>magical and was supposed to be here. So I always

0:18:40.359 --> 0:18:45.320
<v Speaker 1>knew I want to give whatever child, boy, girl, whatever, friends,

0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:48.240
<v Speaker 1>and I want them to grow up the way I did.

0:18:48.280 --> 0:18:51.960
<v Speaker 1>And my mom planned pregnancies around her friends that were

0:18:51.960 --> 0:18:56.080
<v Speaker 1>having babies, so for me, it's like the fact that

0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:58.920
<v Speaker 1>you made that stand of all, like it was disgusting

0:18:58.920 --> 0:19:02.720
<v Speaker 1>and likea want to have a baby. It's like you're

0:19:03.840 --> 0:19:08.600
<v Speaker 1>so bottom of the barrel, like mold. You're the fucking

0:19:08.840 --> 0:19:12.680
<v Speaker 1>mold at the bottom of a fucking barrel. Yes, because

0:19:12.720 --> 0:19:13.080
<v Speaker 1>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Just like what it just was almost like you're I

0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:19.640
<v Speaker 2>don't that doesn't deserve a response. So I'm very glad.

0:19:19.680 --> 0:19:21.600
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it deserves a response from you because it

0:19:21.640 --> 0:19:23.960
<v Speaker 2>was toward you, but it's almost like you are so

0:19:25.280 --> 0:19:28.399
<v Speaker 2>like not worth even a second more of my time.

0:19:28.760 --> 0:19:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I know. And my mom when I posted, she was like,

0:19:31.200 --> 0:19:33.679
<v Speaker 1>I just don't want him if you guys get another

0:19:33.720 --> 0:19:36.480
<v Speaker 1>season for him to know that that's a trigger for you.

0:19:36.600 --> 0:19:39.359
<v Speaker 1>And I said, and I was in the heat of

0:19:39.400 --> 0:19:42.159
<v Speaker 1>the moment, then I'm gonna have to start coming for

0:19:42.200 --> 0:19:45.159
<v Speaker 1>his family and I'll have a fucking hay day. Trust me,

0:19:46.200 --> 0:19:47.400
<v Speaker 1>I'll have a fucking hay day.

0:19:48.000 --> 0:19:51.399
<v Speaker 2>Don't you worry, not the families, you guys.

0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:53.080
<v Speaker 3>Against the family.

0:19:54.320 --> 0:20:01.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, fuck no, I was fiurious, figurbrious. I've calmed down.

0:20:01.160 --> 0:20:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I've calmed down since then. Okay, so him constantly talking

0:20:05.960 --> 0:20:09.639
<v Speaker 1>Santaval then wants to talk about me taking accountability. I

0:20:09.800 --> 0:20:12.920
<v Speaker 1>don't know how many more times I can address, explain,

0:20:13.280 --> 0:20:16.600
<v Speaker 1>take accountability. What's happening here? And I see it as

0:20:16.600 --> 0:20:19.320
<v Speaker 1>clear as day. He wants me to be married to

0:20:19.400 --> 0:20:22.160
<v Speaker 1>my past because it's all he has against me. His

0:20:22.320 --> 0:20:28.000
<v Speaker 1>past and present are very much together in alignment, still existing. Now.

0:20:28.040 --> 0:20:30.760
<v Speaker 1>If there was a moment where it was like, la,

0:20:30.920 --> 0:20:34.639
<v Speaker 1>La has been dating someone who's legally married, and they said,

0:20:34.640 --> 0:20:36.480
<v Speaker 1>but he said he was separated, and I'm in the

0:20:36.520 --> 0:20:39.760
<v Speaker 1>same fucking situation, then we can bring up my past

0:20:39.840 --> 0:20:44.160
<v Speaker 1>because the past is very much in the present right now,

0:20:44.400 --> 0:20:48.320
<v Speaker 1>right totally understand he wants everyone to be married to

0:20:48.320 --> 0:20:50.960
<v Speaker 1>their past. But the thing is is we had that

0:20:51.119 --> 0:20:53.680
<v Speaker 1>shit annulled the long time ago, Like this marriage ain't

0:20:53.680 --> 0:20:58.439
<v Speaker 1>working by e get out, never knew ya, thanks for

0:20:58.560 --> 0:21:04.400
<v Speaker 1>the shitty memories grown from it. So his the incessant

0:21:04.440 --> 0:21:09.040
<v Speaker 1>need to keep bringing up all of that. James sleeping

0:21:09.119 --> 0:21:12.200
<v Speaker 1>with Kristen, It's like, you gotta come off it. We

0:21:12.240 --> 0:21:17.480
<v Speaker 1>live in today, right, yes, And it was like.

0:21:17.520 --> 0:21:20.199
<v Speaker 2>What are you It had nothing to do with the president,

0:21:20.240 --> 0:21:21.520
<v Speaker 2>And I don't know which one of you said it,

0:21:21.520 --> 0:21:23.359
<v Speaker 2>but you're like, that's I think it was Arihanish, Like,

0:21:23.400 --> 0:21:25.760
<v Speaker 2>that's not what we're talking about. Like it was so

0:21:25.840 --> 0:21:28.800
<v Speaker 2>infuriating to watch, and like you said, that's exactly what

0:21:28.840 --> 0:21:30.919
<v Speaker 2>it is. He's bringing up things because that's all he

0:21:30.960 --> 0:21:34.240
<v Speaker 2>has to cling on too, and not even not even

0:21:34.480 --> 0:21:36.520
<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is a whole other thing. But like

0:21:36.680 --> 0:21:39.200
<v Speaker 2>you were also drinking then, and you're sobern out. There's

0:21:39.280 --> 0:21:42.120
<v Speaker 2>just so many differences and it doesn't even compare. We're

0:21:42.119 --> 0:21:44.040
<v Speaker 2>not living in the same world. We're not living in

0:21:44.119 --> 0:21:46.640
<v Speaker 2>the same world as Sandoval, and I don't even think

0:21:46.680 --> 0:21:48.359
<v Speaker 2>he's living in that world in the past.

0:21:48.640 --> 0:21:50.679
<v Speaker 1>But it's all he has, it's all he has to

0:21:50.760 --> 0:21:53.280
<v Speaker 1>get the heat off of him. Yes, but I don't

0:21:53.280 --> 0:21:56.040
<v Speaker 1>know how many more times we can all answer for

0:21:56.200 --> 0:21:58.920
<v Speaker 1>things that we did when we were in our twenties. Yeah,

0:21:58.960 --> 0:22:02.320
<v Speaker 1>it's exhausting. And like I told him season nine, I'm

0:22:02.359 --> 0:22:04.320
<v Speaker 1>getting off the ride with you. I will not get

0:22:04.359 --> 0:22:08.280
<v Speaker 1>back on it with you. What's crazy is tonight's episode.

0:22:09.040 --> 0:22:12.600
<v Speaker 1>They did not send us no stop I swear.

0:22:12.800 --> 0:22:13.800
<v Speaker 3>Wait why oh?

0:22:13.800 --> 0:22:14.800
<v Speaker 2>Because the reveal.

0:22:15.000 --> 0:22:17.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and if you watched last week, which I know

0:22:17.840 --> 0:22:21.080
<v Speaker 1>we all did. When it shows the preview for tonight,

0:22:21.240 --> 0:22:25.560
<v Speaker 1>it says wait until the last five minutes and it's like,

0:22:26.160 --> 0:22:29.280
<v Speaker 1>what happened in the last five minutes of this episode

0:22:29.320 --> 0:22:37.399
<v Speaker 1>that is like so giant that our executive producer would say,

0:22:37.680 --> 0:22:42.600
<v Speaker 1>don't don't make a decision going forward with this show

0:22:43.680 --> 0:22:45.480
<v Speaker 1>until you see this.

0:22:46.000 --> 0:22:48.959
<v Speaker 2>No, I'm so excited, and you guys, I've been behind

0:22:48.960 --> 0:22:51.240
<v Speaker 2>the scenes begging lalla. I'm like, I know, come on,

0:22:51.359 --> 0:22:53.240
<v Speaker 2>you have to know, you have to have an idea.

0:22:53.280 --> 0:22:53.800
<v Speaker 1>Please tell me.

0:22:53.840 --> 0:22:55.760
<v Speaker 2>I won't tell anyone. She's no, I mean you have

0:22:55.760 --> 0:22:57.359
<v Speaker 2>no idea, or at least that's what you're telling me

0:22:57.400 --> 0:22:58.520
<v Speaker 2>and convincing.

0:22:58.080 --> 0:23:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Me of it. No, they've kept this on the line.

0:23:01.680 --> 0:23:02.480
<v Speaker 1>I do hope.

0:23:03.160 --> 0:23:05.720
<v Speaker 2>Here's the thing. Look, it's been explosive, it's been dramatic,

0:23:05.760 --> 0:23:09.360
<v Speaker 2>it's broken all the records. It's amazing. But now it's like, uh, oh,

0:23:09.400 --> 0:23:11.240
<v Speaker 2>did they play it up too much? And it's gonna

0:23:11.280 --> 0:23:14.640
<v Speaker 2>be like, oh, come on, Like, I hope not too.

0:23:14.920 --> 0:23:16.840
<v Speaker 2>That's the one thing. I'm like, you guys are really

0:23:16.880 --> 0:23:20.679
<v Speaker 2>playing this up. So let's just hope it or not

0:23:20.720 --> 0:23:22.439
<v Speaker 2>even hope. I don't even know the word, because what

0:23:22.480 --> 0:23:24.720
<v Speaker 2>if it's like bad? And then I'm like, oh, I

0:23:24.760 --> 0:23:25.760
<v Speaker 2>wish we didn't learn that.

0:23:25.880 --> 0:23:26.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:23:26.280 --> 0:23:28.520
<v Speaker 2>I guess we'll see I guess we'll see together tonight.

0:23:28.840 --> 0:23:32.200
<v Speaker 1>We will. And I would not be shocked if they

0:23:32.359 --> 0:23:36.040
<v Speaker 1>only had certain people in on the editing process of

0:23:36.080 --> 0:23:37.040
<v Speaker 1>the final.

0:23:38.160 --> 0:23:40.520
<v Speaker 2>Well, I wouldn't either, after the league of the trailer

0:23:41.119 --> 0:23:44.320
<v Speaker 2>that's got to be on lock now the editing room.

0:23:44.280 --> 0:23:47.080
<v Speaker 1>That's not confirmed, but I'm saying I would not be shocked,

0:23:47.200 --> 0:23:52.040
<v Speaker 1>especially seeing as they won't even send us the reunion beforehand,

0:23:52.040 --> 0:23:55.440
<v Speaker 1>which they always do. The show airs on a Wednesday,

0:23:55.800 --> 0:23:58.800
<v Speaker 1>and we usually get next week's episode on Friday.

0:23:59.480 --> 0:24:02.119
<v Speaker 2>Do you think you're going to get it the day before,

0:24:02.400 --> 0:24:04.520
<v Speaker 2>you'll get it a little early, you know? Or do

0:24:04.560 --> 0:24:05.840
<v Speaker 2>you think you won't get it at all?

0:24:05.880 --> 0:24:07.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I've been told we're not getting it at all,

0:24:07.640 --> 0:24:09.600
<v Speaker 1>that I'm gonna have to that we're watching tonight, so

0:24:09.600 --> 0:24:12.720
<v Speaker 1>we're recording this podcast obviously early, but I haven't no.

0:24:13.000 --> 0:24:15.440
<v Speaker 2>And can you announce what is what you're going to

0:24:15.520 --> 0:24:16.080
<v Speaker 2>be doing tonight?

0:24:16.440 --> 0:24:22.119
<v Speaker 1>Tonight? Oh guys, tonight I will be doing a watch

0:24:22.200 --> 0:24:26.560
<v Speaker 1>party whoo whooo. But I won't be able to stay

0:24:26.760 --> 0:24:29.400
<v Speaker 1>for the actual episode because I am going to do

0:24:29.800 --> 0:24:33.399
<v Speaker 1>hold on. Easton's calling me, okay, Hi T T. Tt.

0:24:34.240 --> 0:24:36.080
<v Speaker 1>He's going to be joining me on the podcast very

0:24:36.080 --> 0:24:42.119
<v Speaker 1>as soon as a little Colday what I was going

0:24:42.160 --> 0:24:44.280
<v Speaker 1>to say? What were we just talking about? Oh? I'm

0:24:44.320 --> 0:24:47.159
<v Speaker 1>doing Watch What Happens Live Tonight with Tamra Judge. I

0:24:47.320 --> 0:24:52.119
<v Speaker 1>cannot wait. She is back on Real Housewives of OC.

0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:56.800
<v Speaker 1>It's the happiest, happiest time of year. OC is back

0:24:56.840 --> 0:25:00.439
<v Speaker 1>to feeling like OC. I never gave up on. I

0:25:00.480 --> 0:25:03.200
<v Speaker 1>watched even when Tamra and Vicki were not a part

0:25:03.200 --> 0:25:06.359
<v Speaker 1>of it. And Vicky's going to be coming back. I

0:25:06.359 --> 0:25:08.040
<v Speaker 1>don't know when in the season, but I do know

0:25:08.119 --> 0:25:12.560
<v Speaker 1>she filmed and Tamra is like back and she's the

0:25:12.640 --> 0:25:18.399
<v Speaker 1>most incredible housewife right. I adore her and obviously the

0:25:18.440 --> 0:25:20.639
<v Speaker 1>star even when she wasn't on OCI. It was like,

0:25:20.680 --> 0:25:24.560
<v Speaker 1>she's still the star and that's my up and I

0:25:24.600 --> 0:25:26.760
<v Speaker 1>don't care what anyone else is love.

0:25:27.160 --> 0:25:30.000
<v Speaker 2>I love Tamra. But also I'm just kind of like

0:25:30.040 --> 0:25:32.719
<v Speaker 2>putting this all together. So do you know what this means?

0:25:32.720 --> 0:25:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Possibly?

0:25:33.440 --> 0:25:37.760
<v Speaker 2>So everyone listening to this now. Laala most likely will

0:25:37.760 --> 0:25:40.719
<v Speaker 2>be in the green room at Watch What Happens Live tonight,

0:25:41.119 --> 0:25:44.680
<v Speaker 2>Watch What Happens Live? Yeah, watching the episode for the

0:25:44.720 --> 0:25:47.199
<v Speaker 2>first time, so when you see her and watch what

0:25:47.200 --> 0:25:50.800
<v Speaker 2>happens live, these will be like raw new emotions.

0:25:51.119 --> 0:25:54.800
<v Speaker 1>No, for real, I'm so nervous and excited for you.

0:25:55.359 --> 0:26:00.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of both as well, because I believe, if

0:26:00.240 --> 0:26:05.920
<v Speaker 1>I remember correctly that when Raquel came out, we were

0:26:05.960 --> 0:26:07.600
<v Speaker 1>and I've already said this, I'm gonna say it again,

0:26:07.720 --> 0:26:12.919
<v Speaker 1>we're like vicious dogs like she was. I don't know

0:26:12.920 --> 0:26:15.320
<v Speaker 1>if she's got the biggest balls in the world, and

0:26:15.359 --> 0:26:18.919
<v Speaker 1>again I think balls are very weak, or if she's

0:26:19.320 --> 0:26:24.280
<v Speaker 1>just scary. My mom thinks she's clueless. I agree. After

0:26:24.320 --> 0:26:29.040
<v Speaker 1>watching last week's episode Part two reunion, the way, even

0:26:30.760 --> 0:26:33.879
<v Speaker 1>the way that Sena broke down, and I mean everybody

0:26:33.960 --> 0:26:37.480
<v Speaker 1>was crying, right Mariana was crying, I was like, my

0:26:37.600 --> 0:26:40.080
<v Speaker 1>friend has been through so much. And when Sheena says,

0:26:40.520 --> 0:26:43.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, I wasn't able to be present for my daughter,

0:26:44.480 --> 0:26:47.760
<v Speaker 1>that for me was like gut wrenching because I know

0:26:47.960 --> 0:26:51.920
<v Speaker 1>that feeling. I remember leaving my situation, having to deal

0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:56.240
<v Speaker 1>with the custody and legalities of it all, and it

0:26:56.359 --> 0:27:00.800
<v Speaker 1>was like, how can I like barely even function with

0:27:00.880 --> 0:27:02.880
<v Speaker 1>my kid? And over time, you know, she not only

0:27:02.920 --> 0:27:05.240
<v Speaker 1>had to deal with it for two months. I'm almost

0:27:05.320 --> 0:27:08.359
<v Speaker 1>two years in, still still dealing with it, but I

0:27:08.400 --> 0:27:10.520
<v Speaker 1>feel like I've become numb and it's like my every day.

0:27:10.560 --> 0:27:14.160
<v Speaker 1>I think once it's over, it's gonna be like, wow,

0:27:14.400 --> 0:27:19.880
<v Speaker 1>this feels like I really was just like numb and dealing.

0:27:20.680 --> 0:27:24.280
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna feel pretty euphoric, right, Yeah, when there's resolution

0:27:24.680 --> 0:27:27.280
<v Speaker 1>the way that I think they're there's going to be

0:27:28.240 --> 0:27:30.159
<v Speaker 1>the way that I know there's going to be. And

0:27:30.200 --> 0:27:33.239
<v Speaker 1>for her for Raquel to sit in her trailer and

0:27:33.280 --> 0:27:37.640
<v Speaker 1>not one tier. Even on the preview for tonight's episode,

0:27:37.680 --> 0:27:44.720
<v Speaker 1>Arianna sobbing Santaval pretending to cry, and I wouldn't sob

0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:47.480
<v Speaker 1>over that. It was like, come on, well, no, we know.

0:27:47.640 --> 0:27:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I think you need more of the Bernie drops, Babe,

0:27:49.760 --> 0:27:55.160
<v Speaker 1>more Bernie drops. Yeah, real tears, You're insane. And she's

0:27:55.240 --> 0:27:57.880
<v Speaker 1>just sitting there like this looking at them.

0:27:58.080 --> 0:28:01.800
<v Speaker 3>Well, well there's something at them there, guys, something so

0:28:03.240 --> 0:28:07.879
<v Speaker 3>not even fascinating, just like dark And I don't know

0:28:07.920 --> 0:28:08.600
<v Speaker 3>the word.

0:28:08.480 --> 0:28:11.800
<v Speaker 2>About those were real tears, or at least I think

0:28:11.800 --> 0:28:13.160
<v Speaker 2>they were over the pageants.

0:28:14.119 --> 0:28:15.680
<v Speaker 1>Yes, pull from the back.

0:28:15.720 --> 0:28:18.399
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's like you can That's why I'm like,

0:28:18.560 --> 0:28:23.680
<v Speaker 2>even if I think sociopaths, don't they mimic others' emotion.

0:28:24.280 --> 0:28:26.720
<v Speaker 2>So to me, that's why I'm like, she is sociopaths,

0:28:26.720 --> 0:28:29.359
<v Speaker 2>because I would assume she's sitting there and she goes, Okay,

0:28:29.359 --> 0:28:32.199
<v Speaker 2>I gotta cry, I gotta cry. The camera's on me,

0:28:32.280 --> 0:28:34.400
<v Speaker 2>and then she could cry, but that's not even happening.

0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:37.600
<v Speaker 1>I think we would need to dig deep into whoever

0:28:37.800 --> 0:28:43.440
<v Speaker 1>did the psych evaluations on the cult members of Charles Manson.

0:28:43.960 --> 0:28:46.320
<v Speaker 3>Oh, okay, okay.

0:28:46.600 --> 0:28:49.440
<v Speaker 1>And then we would know what really was going on

0:28:49.480 --> 0:28:52.920
<v Speaker 1>with Raquel, because I watched a video last night of

0:28:52.960 --> 0:28:56.680
<v Speaker 1>a girl basically saying I just figured out the comparison

0:28:57.320 --> 0:29:01.080
<v Speaker 1>Tom sand of All is Charles Manson and Raquel is

0:29:01.120 --> 0:29:03.360
<v Speaker 1>one of his cult followers. She's the type that would

0:29:03.360 --> 0:29:08.080
<v Speaker 1>go in do what Charles told her to do and

0:29:08.240 --> 0:29:12.440
<v Speaker 1>or Charlie and come out and be like, we should

0:29:12.480 --> 0:29:16.720
<v Speaker 1>get breakfast burritos. Ah, yes, I would love a hot

0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:17.480
<v Speaker 1>cup of tea.

0:29:18.280 --> 0:29:21.400
<v Speaker 2>Like is that like yeah, it's like disassociation or there's

0:29:21.520 --> 0:29:23.960
<v Speaker 2>like no what it is, I don't know, but it's yes.

0:29:24.040 --> 0:29:27.120
<v Speaker 2>I felt the same way watching Sheena break down. I'm

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:30.200
<v Speaker 2>sitting there crying and I'm like, I know Sina threw Lalla,

0:29:30.320 --> 0:29:33.120
<v Speaker 2>what is going on? Raquel shot a fucking tear because

0:29:33.200 --> 0:29:37.000
<v Speaker 2>we've seen you cry. I know people who cannot cry.

0:29:37.200 --> 0:29:39.840
<v Speaker 2>We've seen her cry over the pageants.

0:29:40.000 --> 0:29:43.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Cameron DRez in the Holiday could not cry until

0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:46.680
<v Speaker 1>she fell in love, Oh, until she fell in love.

0:29:47.160 --> 0:29:50.440
<v Speaker 1>So now I'm thinking I don't think Raquel was crying

0:29:50.440 --> 0:29:53.360
<v Speaker 1>out of guilt. I think she was literally upset about

0:29:53.360 --> 0:29:55.600
<v Speaker 1>the pageants. And if you look back, going back to

0:29:55.680 --> 0:30:01.160
<v Speaker 1>Charles Manson and his colt, he really preyed on and women,

0:30:01.640 --> 0:30:05.600
<v Speaker 1>and I believe there were some men who were lost

0:30:05.840 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 1>and he gave them a safe space and they hung

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:12.440
<v Speaker 1>on every word because of his because they didn't know

0:30:12.480 --> 0:30:15.160
<v Speaker 1>any different. For the first time, like she said, I

0:30:15.200 --> 0:30:19.760
<v Speaker 1>finally felt heard and seen. So I'm thinking that that's

0:30:19.920 --> 0:30:22.920
<v Speaker 1>kind of the equivalent. Again, did not come from me.

0:30:23.560 --> 0:30:27.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm just repeating what someone else said. I will not

0:30:27.600 --> 0:30:29.600
<v Speaker 1>say who that is because she ain't gonna get a

0:30:29.600 --> 0:30:32.400
<v Speaker 1>cease and desist or like Tamer would say, assistant desist.

0:30:33.000 --> 0:30:35.880
<v Speaker 1>All right, none of us want to see those and

0:30:36.000 --> 0:30:39.000
<v Speaker 1>if you're trying to send them and send them to Daryl.

0:30:39.880 --> 0:30:43.240
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I think I'm backtracking on how I was like,

0:30:43.280 --> 0:30:45.200
<v Speaker 1>I think she's just a broken person.

0:30:45.520 --> 0:30:47.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, because I felt that way. But now we're

0:30:47.760 --> 0:30:50.520
<v Speaker 2>learning more. I do want and maybe this is on

0:30:50.560 --> 0:30:52.880
<v Speaker 2>your list, but I do want to know the feeling

0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:55.480
<v Speaker 2>because you cried when Shina got that letter, and I

0:30:55.520 --> 0:30:58.239
<v Speaker 2>want to know like all of that, like what was

0:30:58.240 --> 0:31:00.880
<v Speaker 2>behind that because obviously it was emotion moment.

0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:05.160
<v Speaker 1>Well, and I understood what Ariana. You know, Ariana was heated, right,

0:31:05.240 --> 0:31:07.280
<v Speaker 1>she was, but she wasn't in it. She's not the

0:31:07.320 --> 0:31:08.920
<v Speaker 1>one that has to walk into course, not the one

0:31:08.920 --> 0:31:11.160
<v Speaker 1>that's got to call witnesses, deal with the lawyer every day,

0:31:11.160 --> 0:31:14.280
<v Speaker 1>watch what she says. So when she said I wish

0:31:14.320 --> 0:31:17.160
<v Speaker 1>she didn't. We don't want her anywhere near us, and

0:31:17.200 --> 0:31:19.800
<v Speaker 1>it's like, okay, well, this isn't an US thing. This

0:31:19.880 --> 0:31:23.640
<v Speaker 1>is a restraining order against Sena and should this go through,

0:31:24.160 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 1>this will be a black mark forever and should she

0:31:27.160 --> 0:31:30.920
<v Speaker 1>ever violate it, she could face jail time. Now she

0:31:31.120 --> 0:31:33.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't do anything. But at the end of the day,

0:31:33.120 --> 0:31:35.640
<v Speaker 1>like I said, the core system is a bitch, and

0:31:36.240 --> 0:31:39.479
<v Speaker 1>I was happy that Raquel dropped it because I knew

0:31:39.480 --> 0:31:42.800
<v Speaker 1>that Sina could not eat, she couldn't sleep whenever I

0:31:42.880 --> 0:31:46.560
<v Speaker 1>saw her. She was vacant because I just knew that

0:31:46.840 --> 0:31:50.400
<v Speaker 1>this was on the forefront of her mind. I knew

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:54.120
<v Speaker 1>that Summer had you know, started hyperventilating because she called

0:31:54.280 --> 0:31:58.240
<v Speaker 1>Shena called me very upset. She was like, I accidentally

0:31:58.360 --> 0:32:02.240
<v Speaker 1>had a breakdown in front of Summer and she started hyperventilating.

0:32:02.960 --> 0:32:07.640
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, Raquel, you stupid fucking bitch to

0:32:07.800 --> 0:32:11.840
<v Speaker 1>cause to cause this to someone who who has done

0:32:11.880 --> 0:32:14.440
<v Speaker 1>nothing but defend you. Go to bat for you giving

0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:18.200
<v Speaker 1>you a home. Brock's family was coming into town. They

0:32:18.200 --> 0:32:21.040
<v Speaker 1>were gonna stay at their old apartment, and Raquel left

0:32:21.080 --> 0:32:25.520
<v Speaker 1>it dirty, no toilet paper. You're a fucking, filthy, disgusting mess,

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:29.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, raised in a barn, Like what the fuck?

0:32:30.440 --> 0:32:33.440
<v Speaker 1>Like Shina took care of that girl for her to

0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:36.840
<v Speaker 1>do that to her and take time, Like I told Shena,

0:32:37.560 --> 0:32:40.400
<v Speaker 1>you can fuck with us all day long. The second

0:32:40.480 --> 0:32:43.120
<v Speaker 1>you do something that doesn't allow me to fully be

0:32:43.160 --> 0:32:44.960
<v Speaker 1>present with my daughter, it's unforgivable.

0:32:45.320 --> 0:32:48.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And then to go like it was nothing after

0:32:48.520 --> 0:32:50.960
<v Speaker 2>Sheen has gone through all of this pain, and then

0:32:51.000 --> 0:32:56.200
<v Speaker 2>to go, I regret it. Oh, this is like however

0:32:56.360 --> 0:32:59.040
<v Speaker 2>long of Oh just just a throw away like, yeah,

0:32:59.080 --> 0:33:01.520
<v Speaker 2>I shouldn't have done that. I'm gonna drop it. Great,

0:33:01.840 --> 0:33:05.240
<v Speaker 2>good decision. But Shina just went through whatever days or

0:33:05.280 --> 0:33:09.280
<v Speaker 2>weeks of this like pain. Yeah that you caused, Willy nilly.

0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:13.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just oh.

0:33:12.280 --> 0:33:15.880
<v Speaker 2>No, it was that was heartbreaking to watch and yeah yeah,

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:18.480
<v Speaker 2>and then obviously you felt for her because you is

0:33:18.520 --> 0:33:20.880
<v Speaker 2>that the you said you told me? I think was

0:33:20.880 --> 0:33:23.240
<v Speaker 2>that the one and only time you cried during the

0:33:23.280 --> 0:33:23.880
<v Speaker 2>whole reunion?

0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:28.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Yeah, the only time I cried was when I

0:33:28.720 --> 0:33:32.400
<v Speaker 1>was talking the scene where Lisa tells me like the

0:33:32.480 --> 0:33:36.000
<v Speaker 1>angry side, and it's like, don't call me angry, don't

0:33:36.000 --> 0:33:40.320
<v Speaker 1>call me angry. I'm not angry. I'm tough. Yeah, and

0:33:40.360 --> 0:33:41.400
<v Speaker 1>I use my words.

0:33:41.680 --> 0:33:44.080
<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't like that. I mean nobody. It's like

0:33:44.120 --> 0:33:47.560
<v Speaker 2>the woman like, oh, she's an angry woman scorned.

0:33:47.600 --> 0:33:50.400
<v Speaker 1>It's like no, no, no, well, us chick's got to deal

0:33:50.440 --> 0:33:54.360
<v Speaker 1>with that every single day. Yeah, we've talked about this

0:33:54.880 --> 0:33:57.120
<v Speaker 1>even in the core system. The mom is volatile. She

0:33:57.160 --> 0:34:00.320
<v Speaker 1>must be on her period. She's bitter, she's scorned, she's

0:34:00.360 --> 0:34:02.640
<v Speaker 1>mad that she got cheated on. She's mad because she

0:34:02.640 --> 0:34:05.120
<v Speaker 1>doesn't get to live the lifestyle anymore. There are women

0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:07.440
<v Speaker 1>where it's like okay, but they're few and far between.

0:34:07.560 --> 0:34:10.520
<v Speaker 1>A woman doesn't step into a courtroom and is willing

0:34:10.560 --> 0:34:13.480
<v Speaker 1>to spend her entire life savings to protect her child

0:34:13.560 --> 0:34:16.520
<v Speaker 1>because she got cheated on. Right, it's not how this works.

0:34:16.600 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 1>We're not angry, bitter or scorned. We are aware, we're concerned.

0:34:21.239 --> 0:34:25.800
<v Speaker 1>We're tough, we're strong, we're vocal. Learn how to fucking

0:34:25.840 --> 0:34:27.680
<v Speaker 1>speak to me. If you want to label me, you

0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:32.239
<v Speaker 1>better label me correctly. All right, all of us, all

0:34:32.239 --> 0:34:35.000
<v Speaker 1>of us chicks, don't fucking label us unless you want

0:34:35.000 --> 0:34:37.359
<v Speaker 1>to label us correctly. You want to call me a bitch,

0:34:37.360 --> 0:34:39.279
<v Speaker 1>you better put bad in front of that, because yes,

0:34:39.920 --> 0:34:46.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm a bad bitch. I'm that bitch. It's no secret

0:34:46.719 --> 0:34:49.960
<v Speaker 1>that I don't dig pageants. I don't. I know. I

0:34:50.000 --> 0:34:52.080
<v Speaker 1>have people around me who are in pageants. This is

0:34:52.120 --> 0:34:54.840
<v Speaker 1>not a direct insult to them, because I have a lot,

0:34:55.120 --> 0:34:58.160
<v Speaker 1>not a lot, but I have friends who are in pageants.

0:34:58.160 --> 0:35:00.720
<v Speaker 1>I have friends who have been strippers or there still strippers.

0:35:00.760 --> 0:35:03.800
<v Speaker 1>You know, get it how you live, baby, and they're strippers.

0:35:03.840 --> 0:35:05.200
<v Speaker 1>They fucking have each other's backs.

0:35:05.239 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 2>Hmmm love that?

0:35:06.800 --> 0:35:10.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Fucking bright or die? Yeah, the pageants I do

0:35:10.920 --> 0:35:14.400
<v Speaker 1>have a couple people in my circle who were pageant

0:35:14.440 --> 0:35:18.759
<v Speaker 1>girls who are beautiful souls right as beautiful on the

0:35:18.760 --> 0:35:20.879
<v Speaker 1>inside as they are on the outside. When it comes

0:35:20.920 --> 0:35:23.759
<v Speaker 1>to Raquel, you put her in a pageant, and for

0:35:24.040 --> 0:35:28.000
<v Speaker 1>many years, the competition had to do with who's prettier,

0:35:28.239 --> 0:35:30.520
<v Speaker 1>who looks better in a bathing suit, who looks better

0:35:30.560 --> 0:35:34.960
<v Speaker 1>in a gown? And it's the most unhealthy competition you

0:35:35.000 --> 0:35:39.919
<v Speaker 1>could possibly place your daughter in. I can't even believe

0:35:39.960 --> 0:35:43.399
<v Speaker 1>they still exist. I think they're absolutely fucking mortifying. Yeah,

0:35:43.600 --> 0:35:46.840
<v Speaker 1>I know, you know, like whatever happened to competition in

0:35:46.880 --> 0:35:50.600
<v Speaker 1>like a soccer game, you know, or like a singing competition.

0:35:50.680 --> 0:35:55.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm all about healthy competition between women jobs, dancing, singing.

0:35:57.200 --> 0:36:01.239
<v Speaker 1>The fact that we have competitions based on beauty is

0:36:01.400 --> 0:36:04.840
<v Speaker 1>absolutely repulsive. So you have to remember she's been in

0:36:04.920 --> 0:36:08.480
<v Speaker 1>competition mode with women in an unhealthy way from the

0:36:08.520 --> 0:36:11.480
<v Speaker 1>time she was yay hi, you know. And she claims

0:36:11.520 --> 0:36:15.120
<v Speaker 1>it's because she wanted to put herself out there and

0:36:15.640 --> 0:36:19.919
<v Speaker 1>be better at speaking, go into acting or something, join

0:36:20.000 --> 0:36:23.359
<v Speaker 1>debate team, like it doesn't make any sense. And if

0:36:23.400 --> 0:36:27.799
<v Speaker 1>you notice, you know, she's very into appearance. Like the

0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:31.160
<v Speaker 1>night we were in Las Vegas, the Have Asou trip.

0:36:31.760 --> 0:36:35.720
<v Speaker 1>She was so fucking wasted and comes in the next

0:36:35.800 --> 0:36:39.600
<v Speaker 1>day with a full face of makeup on, and I

0:36:39.719 --> 0:36:43.680
<v Speaker 1>was like, what is going on? That's why I go, Wow,

0:36:43.800 --> 0:36:47.919
<v Speaker 1>you look so great, because I was like, last night

0:36:48.440 --> 0:36:50.920
<v Speaker 1>you were like trying to like blow the fucking you

0:36:50.920 --> 0:36:53.360
<v Speaker 1>were trying to blow the paras up with tinfoil in

0:36:53.400 --> 0:36:56.000
<v Speaker 1>the microwave. And now you go to the first set

0:36:56.040 --> 0:36:58.919
<v Speaker 1>of mean clashes on what the fuck not the.

0:36:58.800 --> 0:37:01.040
<v Speaker 2>Fresh set of mean clashes. She should have been rolling

0:37:01.080 --> 0:37:02.799
<v Speaker 2>in there looking like a troll, like any of us

0:37:02.840 --> 0:37:03.960
<v Speaker 2>would the next morning.

0:37:04.440 --> 0:37:09.880
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, it was all about appearance. Keep in mind. On

0:37:09.920 --> 0:37:12.279
<v Speaker 1>the way to have a Sue, we pulled off to

0:37:12.320 --> 0:37:15.080
<v Speaker 1>get food and she claims we were so mean to

0:37:15.120 --> 0:37:17.799
<v Speaker 1>her at this diner that we stopped in at. I

0:37:17.880 --> 0:37:21.680
<v Speaker 1>was like, you literally were vomiting in the bathroom the

0:37:21.680 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 1>whole time we were asking you if you were okay.

0:37:24.120 --> 0:37:27.080
<v Speaker 1>We ordered you food, We ordered you a soda to

0:37:27.160 --> 0:37:29.759
<v Speaker 1>try and like sop up some of the alcohol, and

0:37:29.800 --> 0:37:32.239
<v Speaker 1>then we put you in a booth behind us to

0:37:32.280 --> 0:37:36.240
<v Speaker 1>go to We didn't exile you. You needed to lay down. Yeah,

0:37:36.280 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 1>you're insane, and there's nothing worse than being so hungover

0:37:41.080 --> 0:37:42.640
<v Speaker 1>in sick with full glam.

0:37:42.440 --> 0:37:46.600
<v Speaker 2>On nothing that sounds like a nightmare. I would rip

0:37:46.640 --> 0:37:47.320
<v Speaker 2>my face.

0:37:47.080 --> 0:37:50.440
<v Speaker 1>Off one hundred percent. And I was like, now you

0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:52.520
<v Speaker 1>look rougher than you would have if you didn't wear makeup,

0:37:52.520 --> 0:37:54.560
<v Speaker 1>because you got the mass scara, you got one eyelash

0:37:54.600 --> 0:37:56.920
<v Speaker 1>kind of fucking blowing in the breeze, Like what are

0:37:56.960 --> 0:38:02.000
<v Speaker 1>we doing? I can't really, I could never relate to her,

0:38:02.040 --> 0:38:05.480
<v Speaker 1>and I tried so freaking hard. I was like, Lava,

0:38:06.440 --> 0:38:08.560
<v Speaker 1>you really connect with everyone. I'm not getting it. Can

0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:10.319
<v Speaker 1>you please just like figure this out? And I sit

0:38:10.320 --> 0:38:14.120
<v Speaker 1>there and have a battle with myself, like she fucking sucks,

0:38:14.200 --> 0:38:17.200
<v Speaker 1>she's not relatable, And then it was like, no, you

0:38:17.239 --> 0:38:19.880
<v Speaker 1>can do it. You can do it, And it was

0:38:20.080 --> 0:38:23.440
<v Speaker 1>really an internal battle of mine for a really long time. Well,

0:38:23.440 --> 0:38:26.960
<v Speaker 1>and I don't have to nice. And then when Andy

0:38:27.000 --> 0:38:29.400
<v Speaker 1>asks her Andy's face while she's talking.

0:38:29.920 --> 0:38:30.759
<v Speaker 3>I enjoyed that.

0:38:30.880 --> 0:38:33.360
<v Speaker 2>And sometimes I'm like Andy, not the face, because sometimes

0:38:33.360 --> 0:38:35.440
<v Speaker 2>he'll ask things on things. I love Andy, I'm obsessed

0:38:35.440 --> 0:38:37.279
<v Speaker 2>with him, but sometimes he'll ask things on watch what

0:38:37.320 --> 0:38:40.560
<v Speaker 2>Happens Live, And as a person's answering, he starts to

0:38:40.600 --> 0:38:42.640
<v Speaker 2>give and that would make me fucking panic.

0:38:42.719 --> 0:38:43.279
<v Speaker 1>No, I love it.

0:38:43.480 --> 0:38:45.879
<v Speaker 2>If I'm answering a question and Andy's giving me that look,

0:38:45.880 --> 0:38:48.800
<v Speaker 2>I would go, h, maybe I'm wrong. I don't sorry

0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:51.359
<v Speaker 2>what am I saying? But I love it. But when

0:38:51.400 --> 0:38:53.919
<v Speaker 2>he was doing it to Riquel, it was like, yes, Andy.

0:38:53.760 --> 0:39:01.040
<v Speaker 1>With the looks well, if you watch the like uncensored Peacock, yes,

0:39:01.080 --> 0:39:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Because they cut this out of the Bravo version, he

0:39:04.719 --> 0:39:07.239
<v Speaker 1>says to her, did you was there a part of

0:39:07.280 --> 0:39:08.800
<v Speaker 1>you that thought this was gonna work out? And she

0:39:08.840 --> 0:39:11.960
<v Speaker 1>gets this big grin, and the Bravo version she goes,

0:39:12.000 --> 0:39:14.520
<v Speaker 1>I was living in my own reality and they cut

0:39:14.520 --> 0:39:17.880
<v Speaker 1>it at that. In the Peacock version, she goes, you know,

0:39:18.719 --> 0:39:21.560
<v Speaker 1>my hope was that, like he would break up with

0:39:21.719 --> 0:39:26.600
<v Speaker 1>Arianna and then we could start dating. And I'm like

0:39:26.880 --> 0:39:30.360
<v Speaker 1>the lack of And everyone sits there and they're like,

0:39:30.400 --> 0:39:35.800
<v Speaker 1>she's twenty eight, she's twenty eight. If she were twenty three, great,

0:39:36.560 --> 0:39:40.120
<v Speaker 1>twenty five, twenty six, twenty eight. I can only go

0:39:40.200 --> 0:39:42.560
<v Speaker 1>back to what I can relate to twenty eight years old.

0:39:42.560 --> 0:39:44.640
<v Speaker 1>I had lost my dad, I had gotten sober, I

0:39:44.640 --> 0:39:48.120
<v Speaker 1>had become a stepmother. There's no fucking excuse twenty eight.

0:39:48.160 --> 0:39:49.200
<v Speaker 1>You're a grown ass woman.

0:39:49.520 --> 0:39:52.560
<v Speaker 2>You know better when your frontal lobe is fully formed

0:39:52.600 --> 0:39:53.240
<v Speaker 2>by twenty fow.

0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:56.120
<v Speaker 1>Start thinking about consequences. Yeah, And to think that they

0:39:56.160 --> 0:39:59.480
<v Speaker 1>were just gonna break up and then Riquel and Sandoval

0:39:59.520 --> 0:40:01.720
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna start dating, and you didn't think that. Ariana

0:40:01.719 --> 0:40:03.600
<v Speaker 1>would be like, why are you, like, you're my best

0:40:03.600 --> 0:40:06.520
<v Speaker 1>friend and you're gonna date my ex boyfriend? Or were you? Like?

0:40:06.640 --> 0:40:09.799
<v Speaker 1>I want I feel like I want to interview her.

0:40:09.920 --> 0:40:12.000
<v Speaker 1>I need to see tonight's episode. I want to know

0:40:12.040 --> 0:40:14.640
<v Speaker 1>what the one on one was like. Obviously, I'm like,

0:40:14.760 --> 0:40:17.399
<v Speaker 1>I could do it. Andy Cohen is like the best

0:40:17.440 --> 0:40:20.480
<v Speaker 1>of the best interviews. That's why he does Kardashians, he

0:40:20.520 --> 0:40:24.440
<v Speaker 1>does all reality because he asks the hard questions. I

0:40:24.520 --> 0:40:28.279
<v Speaker 1>really want to know what her game plan was, if

0:40:28.320 --> 0:40:30.720
<v Speaker 1>she even thought about it, because maybe she didn't.

0:40:31.600 --> 0:40:35.239
<v Speaker 2>I mean, there's there's no world right in which because

0:40:35.239 --> 0:40:37.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm just putting two and two together her being like

0:40:37.600 --> 0:40:39.640
<v Speaker 2>we didn't think she really we.

0:40:39.560 --> 0:40:40.279
<v Speaker 1>Thought they were.

0:40:40.400 --> 0:40:44.359
<v Speaker 2>She was ignoring it, choosing to ignore. So in my mind,

0:40:44.400 --> 0:40:46.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, did she really really think, like, well, she's

0:40:46.880 --> 0:40:48.920
<v Speaker 2>choosing to ignore it, so she's yeah, care.

0:40:48.880 --> 0:40:51.880
<v Speaker 1>Well she says that, uh so when she said it

0:40:51.920 --> 0:40:54.560
<v Speaker 1>sounds like you're blaming her, and yeah, she doesn't even say, no,

0:40:54.760 --> 0:40:58.279
<v Speaker 1>that's not what like I but I'm like an I

0:40:58.440 --> 0:41:01.640
<v Speaker 1>like to think I'm a normal. She was like, yeah,

0:41:01.760 --> 0:41:04.239
<v Speaker 1>at the time, that's like where my head was at.

0:41:04.320 --> 0:41:06.400
<v Speaker 1>And for me, it's like, Okay, that's how you justified it.

0:41:06.440 --> 0:41:08.319
<v Speaker 1>Like she doesn't want to know. If she wanted to know,

0:41:08.360 --> 0:41:11.840
<v Speaker 1>she'd dig harder, she'd ask more questions. She wouldn't believe

0:41:11.840 --> 0:41:13.920
<v Speaker 1>what he's telling her. You know, she kind of just

0:41:14.120 --> 0:41:16.640
<v Speaker 1>believed what he was telling her a face value because

0:41:16.680 --> 0:41:17.839
<v Speaker 1>she trusted you.

0:41:17.880 --> 0:41:18.200
<v Speaker 3>Guys.

0:41:18.400 --> 0:41:21.560
<v Speaker 1>That's what you do to both. If she didn't trust

0:41:21.600 --> 0:41:23.880
<v Speaker 1>either of you, you wouldn't be her best friend and

0:41:23.920 --> 0:41:26.640
<v Speaker 1>he would be your boyfriend. What the fuck are you

0:41:26.760 --> 0:41:28.080
<v Speaker 1>talking about?

0:41:28.480 --> 0:41:32.239
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's I she's it's survival or whatever it is

0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:34.040
<v Speaker 2>where she's telling herself that I don't know what it

0:41:34.080 --> 0:41:36.719
<v Speaker 2>is because I don't even claim to know the mind

0:41:36.760 --> 0:41:39.359
<v Speaker 2>of someone like Raquel, and I can't comprehend it. But

0:41:39.719 --> 0:41:42.960
<v Speaker 2>that's all I can think. She's telling herself these things

0:41:43.320 --> 0:41:46.360
<v Speaker 2>so she doesn't break down. Hopefully, because if she really

0:41:46.680 --> 0:41:49.799
<v Speaker 2>let herself face it, she'd maybe if she's got a

0:41:49.840 --> 0:41:51.759
<v Speaker 2>soul in there break down and be like, what the

0:41:51.760 --> 0:41:52.640
<v Speaker 2>fuck have I done?

0:41:52.680 --> 0:41:55.240
<v Speaker 1>What did I do? I think we're well past that point.

0:41:55.600 --> 0:41:58.760
<v Speaker 1>And if there have been tears shed behind the scenes,

0:41:58.840 --> 0:42:02.200
<v Speaker 1>it has nothing to do with how she affected Arianna

0:42:02.200 --> 0:42:03.360
<v Speaker 1>and the rest of the friend group.

0:42:03.760 --> 0:42:07.160
<v Speaker 2>It's more so, how do I look now? Mm hmm,

0:42:07.680 --> 0:42:11.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's heartbreaking? Yeah, this, I mean it's wild.

0:42:11.400 --> 0:42:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I think she will absolutely come back if there's another season,

0:42:15.360 --> 0:42:18.719
<v Speaker 1>she will come back. The only way she wouldn't is

0:42:18.800 --> 0:42:21.400
<v Speaker 1>if her family puts her in a fucking bunker and

0:42:21.400 --> 0:42:23.960
<v Speaker 1>doesn't allow her to come out. I think that's the

0:42:24.000 --> 0:42:25.359
<v Speaker 1>only way that she wouldn't return.

0:42:25.719 --> 0:42:29.399
<v Speaker 2>I just don't see her returning to the to the

0:42:29.640 --> 0:42:33.120
<v Speaker 2>reunion and then deciding not to come back. There's no

0:42:33.239 --> 0:42:36.040
<v Speaker 2>worlds I would have seen her. I would have been like, oh,

0:42:36.120 --> 0:42:38.040
<v Speaker 2>if I would have had to guess, she's definitely got

0:42:38.160 --> 0:42:39.560
<v Speaker 2>not going to go to the reunion, but she'll be

0:42:39.600 --> 0:42:42.120
<v Speaker 2>back for season eleven. She went to the reunion. I

0:42:42.120 --> 0:42:45.080
<v Speaker 2>don't think there's any world in which she decides herself

0:42:45.080 --> 0:42:47.400
<v Speaker 2>not to come back. I think she's like, let me

0:42:47.440 --> 0:42:48.840
<v Speaker 2>redeem myself. Season eleven.

0:42:49.280 --> 0:42:55.560
<v Speaker 1>Well, I've heard I've that communication has been happening. I

0:42:55.560 --> 0:43:00.200
<v Speaker 1>don't know if it's between this side of things and

0:43:00.239 --> 0:43:06.200
<v Speaker 1>her team direct, but I've heard that communication is open.

0:43:06.600 --> 0:43:09.279
<v Speaker 1>It's alive and well and happening. But that doesn't mean much,

0:43:09.320 --> 0:43:11.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, because until someone appears with a camera in

0:43:11.440 --> 0:43:13.160
<v Speaker 1>front of them, doesn't really matter.

0:43:13.360 --> 0:43:14.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited for tonight.

0:43:14.640 --> 0:43:17.600
<v Speaker 1>I can't even Tonight's I'm excited too. I'm actually nervous

0:43:17.640 --> 0:43:20.280
<v Speaker 1>because usually if I get it a few days before,

0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:24.640
<v Speaker 1>I can like start mentally preparing, and there's no That's

0:43:24.640 --> 0:43:27.120
<v Speaker 1>why I'm kind of nervous for watch what Happens Live tonight,

0:43:27.280 --> 0:43:30.120
<v Speaker 1>you are a little bit okay, because it's gonna be

0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:33.040
<v Speaker 1>so fresh. I will have just seen it, and usually

0:43:33.080 --> 0:43:35.200
<v Speaker 1>I watch and I kind of I go through the

0:43:35.239 --> 0:43:38.319
<v Speaker 1>emotions of it and reliving it and kind of go

0:43:38.400 --> 0:43:40.719
<v Speaker 1>through it foggy, and then I have to rewatch, and

0:43:40.760 --> 0:43:44.440
<v Speaker 1>then I rewatch again to make my podcast notes, and

0:43:44.480 --> 0:43:48.719
<v Speaker 1>then I watch again live. So I've with all the episodes.

0:43:48.760 --> 0:43:51.560
<v Speaker 1>I watch them like four or five times before it

0:43:51.760 --> 0:43:55.200
<v Speaker 1>actually by the time it actually airs. Yeah, and it's

0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:58.040
<v Speaker 1>also fun to watch it five hundred times and know

0:43:58.080 --> 0:44:01.120
<v Speaker 1>what's coming and then to watch with a group of

0:44:01.120 --> 0:44:05.560
<v Speaker 1>your friends who haven't seen it and see their reactions. Yeah,

0:44:05.719 --> 0:44:09.480
<v Speaker 1>because you wonder and is my is my jaw on

0:44:09.560 --> 0:44:14.000
<v Speaker 1>the floor because I was there? Or is what they

0:44:14.080 --> 0:44:17.400
<v Speaker 1>said just as bad as how I'm taking it? And

0:44:17.440 --> 0:44:19.719
<v Speaker 1>so when you watch other people who are outsiders watch

0:44:19.760 --> 0:44:23.759
<v Speaker 1>and they're like clutching their pearls and gasping, You're like,

0:44:23.800 --> 0:44:24.400
<v Speaker 1>oh shit.

0:44:24.520 --> 0:44:27.719
<v Speaker 2>Yes, because I think your reactions are probably less than

0:44:27.760 --> 0:44:30.560
<v Speaker 2>a lot of us, a lot of us, because you

0:44:30.640 --> 0:44:33.000
<v Speaker 2>were there or you heard about it, and you still

0:44:33.000 --> 0:44:35.560
<v Speaker 2>react crazy. Now times that by ten, and that's how

0:44:35.640 --> 0:44:36.920
<v Speaker 2>most of us are reacting.

0:44:37.080 --> 0:44:38.319
<v Speaker 1>This is what I'm gonna say to you, guys.

0:44:38.400 --> 0:44:39.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let's hear it.

0:44:39.920 --> 0:44:45.320
<v Speaker 1>There is a comment that Sandoval makes tonight that will

0:44:45.640 --> 0:44:52.359
<v Speaker 1>show who this person is. And I think he's going

0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:54.040
<v Speaker 1>to need security for a while.

0:44:54.480 --> 0:44:55.560
<v Speaker 2>And you know this will air.

0:44:55.960 --> 0:44:59.000
<v Speaker 1>I know it'll air, Okay, it's I know it will

0:44:59.040 --> 0:45:04.879
<v Speaker 1>air because when Sheena and I went to the FYC

0:45:05.360 --> 0:45:08.279
<v Speaker 1>event for which is for your consideration, it was the

0:45:09.400 --> 0:45:14.359
<v Speaker 1>Emmy event for NBCU and they showed like I think

0:45:14.400 --> 0:45:18.680
<v Speaker 1>six or nine minutes of the Final Reunion which is tonight, okay,

0:45:18.960 --> 0:45:21.520
<v Speaker 1>and they were like, we saw the clip of Sandoval

0:45:21.680 --> 0:45:27.960
<v Speaker 1>saying this, and they were like, I'm disgusted. It's so

0:45:28.080 --> 0:45:32.040
<v Speaker 1>funny how someone can do what he was doing this

0:45:32.320 --> 0:45:35.360
<v Speaker 1>entire time on the reunion, pretending to cry, doing that

0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:38.319
<v Speaker 1>whole thing, and then he delivers a line like that,

0:45:38.360 --> 0:45:44.719
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, Wow, whoever ends up with you, I'm

0:45:44.880 --> 0:45:48.719
<v Speaker 1>so sad for them. Yeah, like, very sad for them,

0:45:49.000 --> 0:45:51.520
<v Speaker 1>and so happy for my friend. Before we sign off.

0:45:51.560 --> 0:45:53.520
<v Speaker 1>I also want to say this because I knew that

0:45:53.560 --> 0:45:56.840
<v Speaker 1>this would be a headline somewhere. It wasn't really, but

0:45:57.600 --> 0:46:00.880
<v Speaker 1>when I listened, I was like, oh, fuck last week's episode.

0:46:00.880 --> 0:46:04.600
<v Speaker 1>I was talking about Arianna and her thriving and doing

0:46:04.640 --> 0:46:07.000
<v Speaker 1>all of that, and saying that she became background noise

0:46:07.040 --> 0:46:10.319
<v Speaker 1>to Sandoval, and that I know that most people didn't

0:46:10.320 --> 0:46:12.120
<v Speaker 1>take it that way because I didn't see much about it.

0:46:12.600 --> 0:46:17.480
<v Speaker 1>That was absolutely not an insult what I was saying,

0:46:17.520 --> 0:46:19.440
<v Speaker 1>because I can relate to it. When you deal with

0:46:19.480 --> 0:46:24.560
<v Speaker 1>someone like Sandoval, they are exhausting. You become background noise,

0:46:24.840 --> 0:46:29.319
<v Speaker 1>you fade into the distance because you just cannot I mean,

0:46:29.440 --> 0:46:34.400
<v Speaker 1>even Schwartzy is background noise against Sandoval because you just

0:46:34.560 --> 0:46:38.040
<v Speaker 1>can't go up against someone like that. Because you're just tired.

0:46:38.480 --> 0:46:41.160
<v Speaker 1>So that's where I was coming from. I texted Ariana

0:46:41.239 --> 0:46:44.960
<v Speaker 1>after last week's episode and I said, I just want

0:46:44.960 --> 0:46:48.600
<v Speaker 1>to tell you I fucking hate your ex. I'm so

0:46:48.880 --> 0:46:51.040
<v Speaker 1>glad that you're out here being the star that you

0:46:51.120 --> 0:46:53.759
<v Speaker 1>fucking always been because he stifled your fire. And I

0:46:53.880 --> 0:46:57.200
<v Speaker 1>freaking stand by that I have been, even though Arianna

0:46:57.239 --> 0:47:00.720
<v Speaker 1>and I have you know, gone from you know, cookie

0:47:00.760 --> 0:47:04.319
<v Speaker 1>to do not so great Like, I really have so

0:47:04.440 --> 0:47:06.279
<v Speaker 1>much love for her and the way that I've looked

0:47:06.280 --> 0:47:09.720
<v Speaker 1>at her just her talent. I mean, she's a phenomenal dancer,

0:47:09.800 --> 0:47:13.759
<v Speaker 1>that bod hit different, stunning face, she's intelligent, she has

0:47:13.800 --> 0:47:16.520
<v Speaker 1>it all going for her. And it was so devastating

0:47:17.120 --> 0:47:19.360
<v Speaker 1>to watch after coming out of my own situation because

0:47:19.360 --> 0:47:23.360
<v Speaker 1>I started realizing what men are kind of like my

0:47:23.480 --> 0:47:25.360
<v Speaker 1>ex and Santa all is one and I was just

0:47:25.440 --> 0:47:27.560
<v Speaker 1>like God, I said, oh, watch what happens, Lie, You've

0:47:27.600 --> 0:47:29.879
<v Speaker 1>gotta get arian out of there, And now we did,

0:47:29.960 --> 0:47:34.360
<v Speaker 1>and she's thriving, living for it all right, my loves,

0:47:34.440 --> 0:47:37.399
<v Speaker 1>I hope that you have a fantastic hump day. Make

0:47:37.400 --> 0:47:40.680
<v Speaker 1>sure if you drink, you drink responsibly, don't drive. I

0:47:40.880 --> 0:47:44.080
<v Speaker 1>love you so much enjoy tonight's episode and I will

0:47:44.120 --> 0:47:46.600
<v Speaker 1>catch You. Make sure you watch Watch what Happens like

0:47:46.680 --> 0:47:48.160
<v Speaker 1>too love you. Catch you next week