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Speaker 1: Hello, good morning. Do you know that song? I Hello, Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: good morning. Welcome you guys to give them La La podcast.

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Speaker 1: I have to say we are usually very loud in

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Speaker 1: this office, and before it was okay because like across

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Speaker 1: did Katie. We had like a weed company. We've got

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Speaker 1: the dudes from Entourage in the building, like chaos, chaos, chaos, chaos, chaos, chaos, chaos.

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Speaker 1: And now we have this sweet woman who's a lactation specialist.

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Speaker 1: She's gonna have mommies coming in here, which I love,

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Speaker 1: and she's got her cute little setup and I'm seeing

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Speaker 1: like the little scale that you put the baby on.

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Speaker 1: This is so cute.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to learn all about lactation La.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's not easy, and also it's not something

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Speaker 1: that every baby is into. Not every baby wants to

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Speaker 1: be on the boob, and some momas don't have milk

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Speaker 1: come in. Anyway, we'll save that topic for another day.

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Speaker 1: But I may be a little bit quieter, although she

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Speaker 1: just moved in, so maybe I'll be buck wild until

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Speaker 1: I can't be because we got new mamas coming in.

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Speaker 1: I want to tell you guys what I learned on TikTok.

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Speaker 1: So I got on the TikTok. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: that's heard of it the TikTok, and I saw this

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Speaker 1: dog trainer who specializes in training bully breeds, which are

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Speaker 1: usually barrel chested, you know, like the broad chest you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about pimp pull bulldog. So he was saying,

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Speaker 1: and I want this to like literally sink into your

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Speaker 1: guys's brains, for anyone who has a dog, especially a

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Speaker 1: saying that after you take your dog on a walk

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Speaker 1: when you get home, you usually immediately put water in

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Speaker 1: front of them because they're panting, and that's just like

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Speaker 1: your go to like they need water. He says, you

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Speaker 1: should wait at least thirty minutes before giving your dog

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Speaker 1: water because they're panting is their way of cooling off,

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Speaker 1: and their tummy is also filling with air in that time.

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Speaker 1: So if you give them water, not only are they

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Speaker 1: like panting trying to cool down, but they're taking in

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Speaker 1: water which then causes the stomach to flip and your

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Speaker 2: So and don't you your mom has we have two pibbles.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I told Easton, I'm like, when you take

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Speaker 1: them to the park and you know their pablo is

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Speaker 1: like he's thick. So he comes back panting and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you can't give him water for thirty minutes, for at

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Speaker 1: least thirty minutes, just until they've calmed down.

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Speaker 2: See, I told you you'll learn so much on TikTok.

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Speaker 2: I promise you're gonna love it. I've learned so much

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Speaker 2: on the TikTok Uh, the TikTok.

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Speaker 1: The TikTok. I also so I did, like after I

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Speaker 1: watched the documentary The Blank Scandal, the he whose name

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Speaker 1: we shall not mention Scandal on Hulu, I was like,

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Speaker 1: I I need to turn my DMS back on. It

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Speaker 1: was a lot. I was getting like thousands a day.

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Speaker 1: I decided to turn them back off. If you have

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Speaker 1: a story to tell, you know who to contact. And

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Speaker 1: I want to leave it at that. I talk about

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Speaker 1: that documentary on Sina's podcasts that aired. I want to

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Speaker 1: say on Friday, so head there she had. We had

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Speaker 1: a really good podcast to that day with her lawyer Nima.

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Speaker 1: He was like very smart. Not that I'm shocked. I

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Speaker 1: mean he went to law school, but just the amount

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Speaker 1: It was like, Wow, you are someone who, like I

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Speaker 1: would love to pick your brain just to be informed.

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Speaker 2: It's just the ease of it to you. You can tell

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Speaker 2: when someone say like he the things he talks about

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Speaker 2: just you're like, oh, you're genius.

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Speaker 1: Well it is intense.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but he's very smart, and he's very like.

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Speaker 1: Cool, oh, so cool, so cool, right, and he's like,

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Speaker 1: I've been doing this for X amount of years and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you put on that skin? Nima?

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Speaker 1: So before we jump into uh vander Pump Rules Part

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Speaker 1: seeing online about Real Housewives of New Jersey Margaret and Melissa.

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Speaker 1: So I was seeing that people were saying that they

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Speaker 1: going to be for us this season, before Scandalval happened,

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Speaker 1: this is maybe an unpopular opinion, I love watching them, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I think they're fantastic. I think Margaret is a little cutthroat,

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Speaker 1: but it's all true. That's why I hurt so much,

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Speaker 1: because it's like, oh, when someone speaks the exact truth,

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Speaker 1: But it was true. And some people don't deliver the

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Speaker 1: insults the way maybe you do, like they're just better

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Speaker 1: ten times deeper. That's how I feel Margaret is. I

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Speaker 1: don't agree with the fact that they say that Margaret

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Speaker 1: and Melissa have not had storylines, because I absolutely think

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Speaker 1: they do and they have no control over what gets

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Speaker 2: just going to I haven't watched it.

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Speaker 1: You haven't watched it at all ever in your life? No?

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Speaker 2: No, I've watched you're talking about Real Housewives of Jersey

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Speaker 2: right right? Yes, No, I just haven't watched it this

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Speaker 2: season or last season. Oh, that's fine because I started

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Speaker 1: The drama is overall the same. Okay, it's Teresa and

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Speaker 1: her new man are having issues with Joey, Andrga and Melissa. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: they've kind of always had issue since season three when

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Speaker 1: I just watched the reunion. It was so good, was it? Yes?

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Speaker 2: And I'm see I would just watch the reunion, But

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Speaker 2: do I have to? I should probably watch the whole season.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you need to watch the whole season, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I think you jump straight into the reunion the results.

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Speaker 1: don't need to see an entire three minute scene about this, right,

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Speaker 1: But I'm still a diehard. Right. It was so amazing

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Speaker 1: to watch the Real Housewives of New Jersey reunion and

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Speaker 1: be stimulated by it, because since scanned of all, I

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Speaker 1: go back to like og episodes of Real Housewives to

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Speaker 2: The buzz, get the butt right, I feel the same way.

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Speaker 2: I am a Kardashian lover through and through. And the

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Speaker 2: fact that I did not even know that their new

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Speaker 1: Now, well, I don't think many people did. And I

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Speaker 1: heard I heard they are not happy about it. I think, yeah,

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Speaker 1: someone told me that, Oh, Katie told me that Chloe

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Speaker 1: tenth comment was like yay, I can't wait, but everyone

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Speaker 1: was like, no girl, scannibals, no girl, VPRs tonight, No

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Speaker 2: That is wild and the fact that I have not

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Speaker 2: It's like I feel like a lot of people feel

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Speaker 1: I may watch Kardashians for like fall asleep time. That'd

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Speaker 1: be a good yeah, because I do like their voices.

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Speaker 1: I like that they keep in like the hustling and

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Speaker 2: I'm seeing a shaken salad on there in a while.

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Speaker 1: And there's no yelling really ever, Yes, there is not

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Speaker 1: I can't even so.

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Speaker 2: You could do Courtneys.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that.

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Speaker 2: I bet you could if you practice. Just listen to

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Speaker 2: a couple of lines Lole. I've said it on here before.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to say, you do a great Rachel, a

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Speaker 2: great Rachel like Raquel yes, yeah, of like the movements

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Speaker 1: I don't even care. Last do We episode part two?

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Speaker 1: My dear friend who's now like family, sobbing over how

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Speaker 1: It's like, you're crazy. It's scary. I have so many thoughts.

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Speaker 1: also want to address Lisa Rinna, the love of my life.

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Speaker 1: I adore her unpopular opinion. If you don't like Lisa Rinna,

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Speaker 1: I like her. I like when she freaks out. I

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Speaker 1: think she's human. I think that I when she says

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Speaker 1: true she does. And her mom died, her mom died,

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Speaker 1: be like, you know what, I fucking feel for her

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Speaker 1: because I can't even imagine. No, you cannot. Yeah, I've

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Speaker 1: don't know how to deal with it. You're angry. Everything

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Speaker 1: sitting at lunch and you're like devastated, and you see

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Speaker 1: grieving process. So I don't agree with the amount of shit.

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Speaker 1: Well I got the same amount of shit when my

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Speaker 1: dad died. Anyway. She did an interview and she was

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Speaker 2: Don't you worry, not the families, you guys.

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Speaker 1: But it's all he has, it's all he has to

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Speaker 2: No, I'm so excited, and you guys, I've been behind

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Speaker 2: the scenes begging lalla. I'm like, I know, come on,

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Speaker 1: Please tell me.

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Speaker 2: I won't tell anyone. She's no, I mean you have

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Speaker 2: That's the one thing. I'm like, you guys are really

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Speaker 2: if it's like bad? And then I'm like, oh, I

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Speaker 2: wish we didn't learn that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I guess we'll see I guess we'll see together tonight.

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Speaker 1: We will. And I would not be shocked if they

432
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: only had certain people in on the editing process of

433
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Speaker 1: the final.

434
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Speaker 2: Well, I wouldn't either, after the league of the trailer

435
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 2: that's got to be on lock now the editing room.

436
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Speaker 1: That's not confirmed, but I'm saying I would not be shocked,

437
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 1: especially seeing as they won't even send us the reunion beforehand,

438
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:55,440
Speaker 1: which they always do. The show airs on a Wednesday,

439
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 1: and we usually get next week's episode on Friday.

440
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,119
Speaker 2: Do you think you're going to get it the day before,

441
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 2: you'll get it a little early, you know? Or do

442
00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 2: you think you won't get it at all?

443
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Speaker 1: I don't. I've been told we're not getting it at all,

444
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 1: that I'm gonna have to that we're watching tonight, so

445
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 1: we're recording this podcast obviously early, but I haven't no.

446
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 2: And can you announce what is what you're going to

447
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 2: be doing tonight?

448
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 1: Tonight? Oh guys, tonight I will be doing a watch

449
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: party whoo whooo. But I won't be able to stay

450
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,400
Speaker 1: for the actual episode because I am going to do

451
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 1: hold on. Easton's calling me, okay, Hi T T. Tt.

452
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 1: He's going to be joining me on the podcast very

453
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 1: as soon as a little Colday what I was going

454
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Speaker 1: to say? What were we just talking about? Oh? I'm

455
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,159
Speaker 1: doing Watch What Happens Live Tonight with Tamra Judge. I

456
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 1: cannot wait. She is back on Real Housewives of OC.

457
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 1: It's the happiest, happiest time of year. OC is back

458
00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 1: to feeling like OC. I never gave up on. I

459
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 1: watched even when Tamra and Vicki were not a part

460
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 1: of it. And Vicky's going to be coming back. I

461
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 1: don't know when in the season, but I do know

462
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 1: she filmed and Tamra is like back and she's the

463
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 1: most incredible housewife right. I adore her and obviously the

464
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 1: star even when she wasn't on OCI. It was like,

465
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: she's still the star and that's my up and I

466
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 1: don't care what anyone else is love.

467
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 2: I love Tamra. But also I'm just kind of like

468
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,719
Speaker 2: putting this all together. So do you know what this means?

469
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 1: Possibly?

470
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 2: So everyone listening to this now. Laala most likely will

471
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Speaker 2: be in the green room at Watch What Happens Live tonight,

472
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 2: Watch What Happens Live? Yeah, watching the episode for the

473
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,199
Speaker 2: first time, so when you see her and watch what

474
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 2: happens live, these will be like raw new emotions.

475
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Speaker 1: No, for real, I'm so nervous and excited for you.

476
00:25:55,359 --> 00:26:00,199
Speaker 1: I'm kind of both as well, because I believe, if

477
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 1: I remember correctly that when Raquel came out, we were

478
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: and I've already said this, I'm gonna say it again,

479
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:12,919
Speaker 1: we're like vicious dogs like she was. I don't know

480
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 1: if she's got the biggest balls in the world, and

481
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 1: again I think balls are very weak, or if she's

482
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: just scary. My mom thinks she's clueless. I agree. After

483
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: watching last week's episode Part two reunion, the way, even

484
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 1: the way that Sena broke down, and I mean everybody

485
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: was crying, right Mariana was crying, I was like, my

486
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 1: friend has been through so much. And when Sheena says,

487
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: you know, I wasn't able to be present for my daughter,

488
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: that for me was like gut wrenching because I know

489
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: that feeling. I remember leaving my situation, having to deal

490
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 1: with the custody and legalities of it all, and it

491
00:26:56,359 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 1: was like, how can I like barely even function with

492
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,880
Speaker 1: my kid? And over time, you know, she not only

493
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: had to deal with it for two months. I'm almost

494
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: two years in, still still dealing with it, but I

495
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: feel like I've become numb and it's like my every day.

496
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 1: I think once it's over, it's gonna be like, wow,

497
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 1: this feels like I really was just like numb and dealing.

498
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: It's gonna feel pretty euphoric, right, Yeah, when there's resolution

499
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: the way that I think they're there's going to be

500
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 1: the way that I know there's going to be. And

501
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,239
Speaker 1: for her for Raquel to sit in her trailer and

502
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 1: not one tier. Even on the preview for tonight's episode,

503
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: Arianna sobbing Santaval pretending to cry, and I wouldn't sob

504
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: over that. It was like, come on, well, no, we know.

505
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: I think you need more of the Bernie drops, Babe,

506
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:55,160
Speaker 1: more Bernie drops. Yeah, real tears, You're insane. And she's

507
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 1: just sitting there like this looking at them.

508
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 3: Well, well there's something at them there, guys, something so

509
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 3: not even fascinating, just like dark And I don't know

510
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 3: the word.

511
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 2: About those were real tears, or at least I think

512
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 2: they were over the pageants.

513
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: Yes, pull from the back.

514
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,399
Speaker 2: I mean, it's like you can That's why I'm like,

515
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 2: even if I think sociopaths, don't they mimic others' emotion.

516
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 2: So to me, that's why I'm like, she is sociopaths,

517
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 2: because I would assume she's sitting there and she goes, Okay,

518
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,199
Speaker 2: I gotta cry, I gotta cry. The camera's on me,

519
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,400
Speaker 2: and then she could cry, but that's not even happening.

520
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 1: I think we would need to dig deep into whoever

521
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 1: did the psych evaluations on the cult members of Charles Manson.

522
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 3: Oh, okay, okay.

523
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: And then we would know what really was going on

524
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: with Raquel, because I watched a video last night of

525
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: a girl basically saying I just figured out the comparison

526
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: Tom sand of All is Charles Manson and Raquel is

527
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 1: one of his cult followers. She's the type that would

528
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 1: go in do what Charles told her to do and

529
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 1: or Charlie and come out and be like, we should

530
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 1: get breakfast burritos. Ah, yes, I would love a hot

531
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 1: cup of tea.

532
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 2: Like is that like yeah, it's like disassociation or there's

533
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 2: like no what it is, I don't know, but it's yes.

534
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 2: I felt the same way watching Sheena break down. I'm

535
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: sitting there crying and I'm like, I know Sina threw Lalla,

536
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 2: what is going on? Raquel shot a fucking tear because

537
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 2: we've seen you cry. I know people who cannot cry.

538
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 2: We've seen her cry over the pageants.

539
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, Cameron DRez in the Holiday could not cry until

540
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: she fell in love, Oh, until she fell in love.

541
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: So now I'm thinking I don't think Raquel was crying

542
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 1: out of guilt. I think she was literally upset about

543
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: the pageants. And if you look back, going back to

544
00:29:55,680 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 1: Charles Manson and his colt, he really preyed on and women,

545
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: and I believe there were some men who were lost

546
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: and he gave them a safe space and they hung

547
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: on every word because of his because they didn't know

548
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: any different. For the first time, like she said, I

549
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 1: finally felt heard and seen. So I'm thinking that that's

550
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: kind of the equivalent. Again, did not come from me.

551
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 1: I'm just repeating what someone else said. I will not

552
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: say who that is because she ain't gonna get a

553
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 1: cease and desist or like Tamer would say, assistant desist.

554
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 1: All right, none of us want to see those and

555
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 1: if you're trying to send them and send them to Daryl.

556
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think I'm backtracking on how I was like,

557
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 1: I think she's just a broken person.

558
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because I felt that way. But now we're

559
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 2: learning more. I do want and maybe this is on

560
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 2: your list, but I do want to know the feeling

561
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 2: because you cried when Shina got that letter, and I

562
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,239
Speaker 2: want to know like all of that, like what was

563
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 2: behind that because obviously it was emotion moment.

564
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 1: Well, and I understood what Ariana. You know, Ariana was heated, right,

565
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: she was, but she wasn't in it. She's not the

566
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: one that has to walk into course, not the one

567
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: that's got to call witnesses, deal with the lawyer every day,

568
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 1: watch what she says. So when she said I wish

569
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: she didn't. We don't want her anywhere near us, and

570
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, well, this isn't an US thing. This

571
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: is a restraining order against Sena and should this go through,

572
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: this will be a black mark forever and should she

573
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: ever violate it, she could face jail time. Now she

574
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: didn't do anything. But at the end of the day,

575
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: like I said, the core system is a bitch, and

576
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,479
Speaker 1: I was happy that Raquel dropped it because I knew

577
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 1: that Sina could not eat, she couldn't sleep whenever I

578
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 1: saw her. She was vacant because I just knew that

579
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: this was on the forefront of her mind. I knew

580
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: that Summer had you know, started hyperventilating because she called

581
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: Shena called me very upset. She was like, I accidentally

582
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: had a breakdown in front of Summer and she started hyperventilating.

583
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, Raquel, you stupid fucking bitch to

584
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: cause to cause this to someone who who has done

585
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: nothing but defend you. Go to bat for you giving

586
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 1: you a home. Brock's family was coming into town. They

587
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: were gonna stay at their old apartment, and Raquel left

588
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: it dirty, no toilet paper. You're a fucking, filthy, disgusting mess,

589
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: you know, raised in a barn, Like what the fuck?

590
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 1: Like Shina took care of that girl for her to

591
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: do that to her and take time, Like I told Shena,

592
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 1: you can fuck with us all day long. The second

593
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: you do something that doesn't allow me to fully be

594
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: present with my daughter, it's unforgivable.

595
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then to go like it was nothing after

596
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 2: Sheen has gone through all of this pain, and then

597
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 2: to go, I regret it. Oh, this is like however

598
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 2: long of Oh just just a throw away like, yeah,

599
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have done that. I'm gonna drop it. Great,

600
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 2: good decision. But Shina just went through whatever days or

601
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 2: weeks of this like pain. Yeah that you caused, Willy nilly.

602
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, just oh.

603
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 2: No, it was that was heartbreaking to watch and yeah yeah,

604
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 2: and then obviously you felt for her because you is

605
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 2: that the you said you told me? I think was

606
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 2: that the one and only time you cried during the

607
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 2: whole reunion?

608
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, the only time I cried was when I

609
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 1: was talking the scene where Lisa tells me like the

610
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: angry side, and it's like, don't call me angry, don't

611
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 1: call me angry. I'm not angry. I'm tough. Yeah, and

612
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 1: I use my words.

613
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 2: Well, I don't like that. I mean nobody. It's like

614
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 2: the woman like, oh, she's an angry woman scorned.

615
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 1: It's like no, no, no, well, us chick's got to deal

616
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: with that every single day. Yeah, we've talked about this

617
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: even in the core system. The mom is volatile. She

618
00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: must be on her period. She's bitter, she's scorned, she's

619
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: mad that she got cheated on. She's mad because she

620
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 1: doesn't get to live the lifestyle anymore. There are women

621
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 1: where it's like okay, but they're few and far between.

622
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: A woman doesn't step into a courtroom and is willing

623
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 1: to spend her entire life savings to protect her child

624
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 1: because she got cheated on. Right, it's not how this works.

625
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: We're not angry, bitter or scorned. We are aware, we're concerned.

626
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:25,800
Speaker 1: We're tough, we're strong, we're vocal. Learn how to fucking

627
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 1: speak to me. If you want to label me, you

628
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: better label me correctly. All right, all of us, all

629
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 1: of us chicks, don't fucking label us unless you want

630
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 1: to label us correctly. You want to call me a bitch,

631
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: you better put bad in front of that, because yes,

632
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: I'm a bad bitch. I'm that bitch. It's no secret

633
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 1: that I don't dig pageants. I don't. I know. I

634
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: have people around me who are in pageants. This is

635
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 1: not a direct insult to them, because I have a lot,

636
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: not a lot, but I have friends who are in pageants.

637
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 1: I have friends who have been strippers or there still strippers.

638
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 1: You know, get it how you live, baby, and they're strippers.

639
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: They fucking have each other's backs.

640
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 2: Hmmm love that?

641
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: Yeah? Fucking bright or die? Yeah, the pageants I do

642
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 1: have a couple people in my circle who were pageant

643
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 1: girls who are beautiful souls right as beautiful on the

644
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,879
Speaker 1: inside as they are on the outside. When it comes

645
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 1: to Raquel, you put her in a pageant, and for

646
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: many years, the competition had to do with who's prettier,

647
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: who looks better in a bathing suit, who looks better

648
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 1: in a gown? And it's the most unhealthy competition you

649
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:39,919
Speaker 1: could possibly place your daughter in. I can't even believe

650
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:43,399
Speaker 1: they still exist. I think they're absolutely fucking mortifying. Yeah,

651
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 1: I know, you know, like whatever happened to competition in

652
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: like a soccer game, you know, or like a singing competition.

653
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 1: I'm all about healthy competition between women jobs, dancing, singing.

654
00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 1: The fact that we have competitions based on beauty is

655
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 1: absolutely repulsive. So you have to remember she's been in

656
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 1: competition mode with women in an unhealthy way from the

657
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 1: time she was yay hi, you know. And she claims

658
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 1: it's because she wanted to put herself out there and

659
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:19,919
Speaker 1: be better at speaking, go into acting or something, join

660
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 1: debate team, like it doesn't make any sense. And if

661
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:27,799
Speaker 1: you notice, you know, she's very into appearance. Like the

662
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 1: night we were in Las Vegas, the Have Asou trip.

663
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:35,720
Speaker 1: She was so fucking wasted and comes in the next

664
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: day with a full face of makeup on, and I

665
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: was like, what is going on? That's why I go, Wow,

666
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:47,919
Speaker 1: you look so great, because I was like, last night

667
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 1: you were like trying to like blow the fucking you

668
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 1: were trying to blow the paras up with tinfoil in

669
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: the microwave. And now you go to the first set

670
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,919
Speaker 1: of mean clashes on what the fuck not the.

671
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 2: Fresh set of mean clashes. She should have been rolling

672
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 2: in there looking like a troll, like any of us

673
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 2: would the next morning.

674
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: Absolutely, it was all about appearance. Keep in mind. On

675
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 1: the way to have a Sue, we pulled off to

676
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: get food and she claims we were so mean to

677
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,799
Speaker 1: her at this diner that we stopped in at. I

678
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: was like, you literally were vomiting in the bathroom the

679
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: whole time we were asking you if you were okay.

680
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: We ordered you food, We ordered you a soda to

681
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: try and like sop up some of the alcohol, and

682
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: then we put you in a booth behind us to

683
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 1: go to We didn't exile you. You needed to lay down. Yeah,

684
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: you're insane, and there's nothing worse than being so hungover

685
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 1: in sick with full glam.

686
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 2: On nothing that sounds like a nightmare. I would rip

687
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:47,320
Speaker 2: my face.

688
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 1: Off one hundred percent. And I was like, now you

689
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: look rougher than you would have if you didn't wear makeup,

690
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: because you got the mass scara, you got one eyelash

691
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 1: kind of fucking blowing in the breeze, Like what are

692
00:37:56,960 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: we doing? I can't really, I could never relate to her,

693
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: and I tried so freaking hard. I was like, Lava,

694
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 1: you really connect with everyone. I'm not getting it. Can

695
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 1: you please just like figure this out? And I sit

696
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 1: there and have a battle with myself, like she fucking sucks,

697
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 1: she's not relatable, And then it was like, no, you

698
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 1: can do it. You can do it, And it was

699
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 1: really an internal battle of mine for a really long time. Well,

700
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: and I don't have to nice. And then when Andy

701
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 1: asks her Andy's face while she's talking.

702
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 3: I enjoyed that.

703
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 2: And sometimes I'm like Andy, not the face, because sometimes

704
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 2: he'll ask things on things. I love Andy, I'm obsessed

705
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 2: with him, but sometimes he'll ask things on watch what

706
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 2: Happens Live, And as a person's answering, he starts to

707
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 2: give and that would make me fucking panic.

708
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 1: No, I love it.

709
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:45,879
Speaker 2: If I'm answering a question and Andy's giving me that look,

710
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,800
Speaker 2: I would go, h, maybe I'm wrong. I don't sorry

711
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:51,359
Speaker 2: what am I saying? But I love it. But when

712
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:53,919
Speaker 2: he was doing it to Riquel, it was like, yes, Andy.

713
00:38:53,760 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 1: With the looks well, if you watch the like uncensored Peacock, yes,

714
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 1: Because they cut this out of the Bravo version, he

715
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 1: says to her, did you was there a part of

716
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 1: you that thought this was gonna work out? And she

717
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 1: gets this big grin, and the Bravo version she goes,

718
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 1: I was living in my own reality and they cut

719
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 1: it at that. In the Peacock version, she goes, you know,

720
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: my hope was that, like he would break up with

721
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: Arianna and then we could start dating. And I'm like

722
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 1: the lack of And everyone sits there and they're like,

723
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 1: she's twenty eight, she's twenty eight. If she were twenty three, great,

724
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 1: twenty five, twenty six, twenty eight. I can only go

725
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: back to what I can relate to twenty eight years old.

726
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 1: I had lost my dad, I had gotten sober, I

727
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: had become a stepmother. There's no fucking excuse twenty eight.

728
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 1: You're a grown ass woman.

729
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 2: You know better when your frontal lobe is fully formed

730
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:53,240
Speaker 2: by twenty fow.

731
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 1: Start thinking about consequences. Yeah, And to think that they

732
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: were just gonna break up and then Riquel and Sandoval

733
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,720
Speaker 1: we're gonna start dating, and you didn't think that. Ariana

734
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: would be like, why are you, like, you're my best

735
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 1: friend and you're gonna date my ex boyfriend? Or were you? Like?

736
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,799
Speaker 1: I want I feel like I want to interview her.

737
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 1: I need to see tonight's episode. I want to know

738
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: what the one on one was like. Obviously, I'm like,

739
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 1: I could do it. Andy Cohen is like the best

740
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 1: of the best interviews. That's why he does Kardashians, he

741
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:24,440
Speaker 1: does all reality because he asks the hard questions. I

742
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 1: really want to know what her game plan was, if

743
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:30,720
Speaker 1: she even thought about it, because maybe she didn't.

744
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 2: I mean, there's there's no world right in which because

745
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 2: I'm just putting two and two together her being like

746
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 2: we didn't think she really we.

747
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 1: Thought they were.

748
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 2: She was ignoring it, choosing to ignore. So in my mind,

749
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 2: I'm like, did she really really think, like, well, she's

750
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 2: choosing to ignore it, so she's yeah, care.

751
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 1: Well she says that, uh so when she said it

752
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: sounds like you're blaming her, and yeah, she doesn't even say, no,

753
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 1: that's not what like I but I'm like an I

754
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: like to think I'm a normal. She was like, yeah,

755
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 1: at the time, that's like where my head was at.

756
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 1: And for me, it's like, Okay, that's how you justified it.

757
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:08,319
Speaker 1: Like she doesn't want to know. If she wanted to know,

758
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:11,840
Speaker 1: she'd dig harder, she'd ask more questions. She wouldn't believe

759
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: what he's telling her. You know, she kind of just

760
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 1: believed what he was telling her a face value because

761
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 1: she trusted you.

762
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 3: Guys.

763
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 1: That's what you do to both. If she didn't trust

764
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 1: either of you, you wouldn't be her best friend and

765
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: he would be your boyfriend. What the fuck are you

766
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 1: talking about?

767
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 2: Well, that's I she's it's survival or whatever it is

768
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 2: where she's telling herself that I don't know what it

769
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 2: is because I don't even claim to know the mind

770
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:39,359
Speaker 2: of someone like Raquel, and I can't comprehend it. But

771
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 2: that's all I can think. She's telling herself these things

772
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 2: so she doesn't break down. Hopefully, because if she really

773
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 2: let herself face it, she'd maybe if she's got a

774
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 2: soul in there break down and be like, what the

775
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 2: fuck have I done?

776
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,240
Speaker 1: What did I do? I think we're well past that point.

777
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:58,760
Speaker 1: And if there have been tears shed behind the scenes,

778
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 1: it has nothing to do with how she affected Arianna

779
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 1: and the rest of the friend group.

780
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 2: It's more so, how do I look now? Mm hmm,

781
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 2: Oh that's heartbreaking? Yeah, this, I mean it's wild.

782
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 1: I think she will absolutely come back if there's another season,

783
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 1: she will come back. The only way she wouldn't is

784
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: if her family puts her in a fucking bunker and

785
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 1: doesn't allow her to come out. I think that's the

786
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:25,359
Speaker 1: only way that she wouldn't return.

787
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:29,399
Speaker 2: I just don't see her returning to the to the

788
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 2: reunion and then deciding not to come back. There's no

789
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 2: worlds I would have seen her. I would have been like, oh,

790
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 2: if I would have had to guess, she's definitely got

791
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 2: not going to go to the reunion, but she'll be

792
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 2: back for season eleven. She went to the reunion. I

793
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 2: don't think there's any world in which she decides herself

794
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 2: not to come back. I think she's like, let me

795
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:48,840
Speaker 2: redeem myself. Season eleven.

796
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 1: Well, I've heard I've that communication has been happening. I

797
00:42:55,560 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 1: don't know if it's between this side of things and

798
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: her team direct, but I've heard that communication is open.

799
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 1: It's alive and well and happening. But that doesn't mean much,

800
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 1: you know, because until someone appears with a camera in

801
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 1: front of them, doesn't really matter.

802
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 2: I'm so excited for tonight.

803
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: I can't even Tonight's I'm excited too. I'm actually nervous

804
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,280
Speaker 1: because usually if I get it a few days before,

805
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 1: I can like start mentally preparing, and there's no That's

806
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: why I'm kind of nervous for watch what Happens Live tonight,

807
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: you are a little bit okay, because it's gonna be

808
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: so fresh. I will have just seen it, and usually

809
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:35,200
Speaker 1: I watch and I kind of I go through the

810
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:38,319
Speaker 1: emotions of it and reliving it and kind of go

811
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: through it foggy, and then I have to rewatch, and

812
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 1: then I rewatch again to make my podcast notes, and

813
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 1: then I watch again live. So I've with all the episodes.

814
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: I watch them like four or five times before it

815
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: actually by the time it actually airs. Yeah, and it's

816
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: also fun to watch it five hundred times and know

817
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 1: what's coming and then to watch with a group of

818
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: your friends who haven't seen it and see their reactions. Yeah,

819
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: because you wonder and is my is my jaw on

820
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: the floor because I was there? Or is what they

821
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 1: said just as bad as how I'm taking it? And

822
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: so when you watch other people who are outsiders watch

823
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: and they're like clutching their pearls and gasping, You're like,

824
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 1: oh shit.

825
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 2: Yes, because I think your reactions are probably less than

826
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 2: a lot of us, a lot of us, because you

827
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 2: were there or you heard about it, and you still

828
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 2: react crazy. Now times that by ten, and that's how

829
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 2: most of us are reacting.

830
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 1: This is what I'm gonna say to you, guys.

831
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's hear it.

832
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 1: There is a comment that Sandoval makes tonight that will

833
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 1: show who this person is. And I think he's going

834
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: to need security for a while.

835
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 2: And you know this will air.

836
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: I know it'll air, Okay, it's I know it will

837
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:04,879
Speaker 1: air because when Sheena and I went to the FYC

838
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 1: event for which is for your consideration, it was the

839
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:14,359
Speaker 1: Emmy event for NBCU and they showed like I think

840
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 1: six or nine minutes of the Final Reunion which is tonight, okay,

841
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 1: and they were like, we saw the clip of Sandoval

842
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 1: saying this, and they were like, I'm disgusted. It's so

843
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 1: funny how someone can do what he was doing this

844
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 1: entire time on the reunion, pretending to cry, doing that

845
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 1: whole thing, and then he delivers a line like that,

846
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: and you're like, Wow, whoever ends up with you, I'm

847
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 1: so sad for them. Yeah, like, very sad for them,

848
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 1: and so happy for my friend. Before we sign off.

849
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: I also want to say this because I knew that

850
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 1: this would be a headline somewhere. It wasn't really, but

851
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 1: when I listened, I was like, oh, fuck last week's episode.

852
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 1: I was talking about Arianna and her thriving and doing

853
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: all of that, and saying that she became background noise

854
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Speaker 1: to Sandoval, and that I know that most people didn't

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Speaker 1: take it that way because I didn't see much about it.

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Speaker 1: That was absolutely not an insult what I was saying,

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Speaker 1: because I can relate to it. When you deal with

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Speaker 1: someone like Sandoval, they are exhausting. You become background noise,

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Speaker 1: you fade into the distance because you just cannot I mean,

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Speaker 1: even Schwartzy is background noise against Sandoval because you just

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Speaker 1: can't go up against someone like that. Because you're just tired.

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Speaker 1: So that's where I was coming from. I texted Ariana

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Speaker 1: after last week's episode and I said, I just want

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Speaker 1: to tell you I fucking hate your ex. I'm so

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Speaker 1: glad that you're out here being the star that you

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Speaker 1: fucking always been because he stifled your fire. And I

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Speaker 1: freaking stand by that I have been, even though Arianna

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Speaker 1: and I have you know, gone from you know, cookie

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Speaker 1: to do not so great Like, I really have so

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Speaker 1: much love for her and the way that I've looked

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Speaker 1: at her just her talent. I mean, she's a phenomenal dancer,

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Speaker 1: that bod hit different, stunning face, she's intelligent, she has

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Speaker 1: it all going for her. And it was so devastating

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Speaker 1: to watch after coming out of my own situation because

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Speaker 1: I started realizing what men are kind of like my

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Speaker 1: ex and Santa all is one and I was just

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Speaker 1: like God, I said, oh, watch what happens, Lie, You've

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Speaker 1: gotta get arian out of there, And now we did,

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Speaker 1: and she's thriving, living for it all right, my loves,

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Speaker 1: I hope that you have a fantastic hump day. Make

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Speaker 1: sure if you drink, you drink responsibly, don't drive. I

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Speaker 1: love you so much enjoy tonight's episode and I will

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Speaker 1: catch You. Make sure you watch Watch what Happens like

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Speaker 1: too love you. Catch you next week