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Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. Come on, thank you If

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Speaker 1: subject I gave my husband a hall pass, Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm a twenty two year old married woman. My husband

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Speaker 1: My husband and I never meant to her this woman. Okay,

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Speaker 1: have Part two of the Strawberry Letter. Responses to The

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Speaker 1: We want you to respond, Yeah, but who you want? Though?

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