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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 2: And if you need advice on sex, on dating, parenting, work, relationships,

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Speaker 2: your letter live on the air, just like we're going

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Speaker 2: to read this one right here, right now.

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Speaker 3: Buggle up, hold on tight.

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Speaker 1: We got it for you here.

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Speaker 3: It is a Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, nephew. Subject we were nude when we met.

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Speaker 2: Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a thirty one year old

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Speaker 2: single man. I'm six four and I work out five

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Speaker 2: days a week, so I'm in great physical condition. I

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Speaker 2: am a doctor now and I come from a large family,

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Speaker 2: so to put myself through medical school, I worked as

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Speaker 2: a male dancer and porn star, and I was able

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Speaker 2: to make a lot of money. Sex was never a

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Speaker 2: problem for me, and when I worked, I was having

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Speaker 2: sex up to five times a day with all kinds

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Speaker 2: of voluptuous women. I didn't think much about sex because

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Speaker 2: it was my job. All of that changed when I

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Speaker 2: met a new girl at work. She walked onto the

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Speaker 2: set and we both were nude, and she had the

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Speaker 2: most beautiful body I'd ever seen. She was a veteran

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Speaker 2: in the industry, and I was intrigued that she wanted

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Speaker 2: to work with me. We had sex on camera and

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Speaker 2: it was instant chemistry. It was like we were made

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Speaker 2: for each other. Sex didn't mean much to her either.

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Speaker 2: See you're gonna love this line, but she had to

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Speaker 2: admit that I was very good at what I did.

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Speaker 2: Come on, boy, we ended up being friends with benefits,

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Speaker 2: and that's all we could be since she was married.

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Speaker 2: There's also an age difference she's older, but that never

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Speaker 2: mattered to her, and we have been in our situationship

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Speaker 2: for over six years. To this day, I'm still under

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Speaker 2: her spell. She is not happy in her marriage, but

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Speaker 2: she told me she'd never get a divorce because her

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Speaker 2: husband always supported her lifestyle and he has been good

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Speaker 2: to her. I love her too, and I want to

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Speaker 2: be with her.

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Speaker 1: You love her too, Junior. I'm thinking about moving.

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Speaker 2: To a neighboring city to get a fresh start, but

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Speaker 2: I'm afraid she will forget about me. Am I crazy

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Speaker 2: to think she might have a change of heart and

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Speaker 2: want me. Uncle Steve. Should I start dating other women

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Speaker 2: or should I keep shooting my shot with her?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 2: You know, we're going to tell you, at least I am,

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Speaker 2: stop shooting your shot with her. You know, we're going

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Speaker 2: to tell you to leave this married woman, of course,

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Speaker 2: because that is the right thing to do. Everybody says

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Speaker 2: they're not happy in their marriage when you're dating them. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: everyone says that when when they're in an affair, they're

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Speaker 2: not happy in their marriage.

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Speaker 1: Everybody says that.

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Speaker 3: Whore you to say it.

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Speaker 1: I just say, yes, you did, Yes, you did. All

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Speaker 1: going on?

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Speaker 2: Be quiet, okay, be quiet? Just because we're talking about

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Speaker 2: naked people. You think you can.

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Speaker 1: Get into the letter, all right?

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Speaker 2: I definitely think you should go ahead and move to

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Speaker 2: a neighboring city and get a fresh start. Yes, you

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Speaker 2: have chemistry with this woman. Yes, she's beautiful, the most

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Speaker 2: beautiful body you've ever seen. Yes, you know you guys

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Speaker 2: love working together and you're intrigued and you're under her

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Speaker 2: spell and you've been together for over six years.

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Speaker 1: But how is this going to work?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you want to just keep hope alive thinking

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Speaker 2: that she's going to leave her husband. It usually never

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Speaker 2: works out that way, Okay, it just does.

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Speaker 1: You're a doctor. You can get someone.

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Speaker 2: Okay, keep hope alive. Yeah, Are you crazy to think

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Speaker 2: she might have a change of heart and want you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're not crazy, but most people who think

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Speaker 2: that their wish does not come true for the most part.

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Speaker 2: You got to start dating other women and stop shooting

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Speaker 2: your shot. Because you've been with her for six years

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Speaker 2: and nothing's changed. It is time to move on, mister

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Speaker 2: six working out five days a week and a doctor.

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Speaker 2: Now you can find someone else, all right, Steve, and

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Speaker 2: you make a lot of money.

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Speaker 3: Come on, see what what Shirley?

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Speaker 1: You heard med of that?

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Speaker 3: This was your response to this?

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Speaker 2: An what?

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Speaker 3: Come on? What is wrong with you? See these people

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Speaker 3: like this is normal? You should leave this married woman.

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Speaker 3: We're talking about two punch dolls. Why are you? Why

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Speaker 3: are you trying to have a morality comp two poor stalls?

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Speaker 1: He asked the question.

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Speaker 3: He did cerre talking about the right thing to do,

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Speaker 3: the right thing to do.

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Speaker 1: He's a doctor, about the right thing. He's a doctor.

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Speaker 3: Now they screw on camera for a living and for money.

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Speaker 3: This is prostitution being filmed. This is what this is

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Speaker 3: to have sense for money talking about show.

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Speaker 1: He did that to work his way through school. You

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Speaker 1: heard that medical school page.

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Speaker 3: You heard that? How many times have you heard stripper

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Speaker 3: say this, but you steal a.

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Speaker 4: Girl?

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Speaker 1: Just give your answer. That's my answer, Just give yours.

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Speaker 3: My answer is about your answer. So answer on the

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Speaker 3: second half of this letter. Everybody gonna understand.

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Speaker 1: Why I'm I'm not changed, but.

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Speaker 3: I don't want you to change your I'm going aga

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Speaker 3: from a disappoint them on the standpoint. And what I

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Speaker 3: don't want you doing this time about aunt aunt Steve,

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Speaker 3: that's too much. We don't want to do that on

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Speaker 3: the air.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're doing it on that Well you know I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna say that, all right.

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Speaker 3: And we know we're going to do this on the air.

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Speaker 1: You did joe us all right, Look, we'll have part

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Speaker 1: two of.

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Speaker 3: Steve workout five days a week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're that's what you're mad about. Just say it,

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Speaker 1: Just say it.

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Speaker 3: What they ain't got a thing to do with it.

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Speaker 1: Nothing at all.

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Speaker 3: You'll find out what I'm mad about. Come on, let's go, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, we'll be back with Steem's response coming up at

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Speaker 2: twenty three minutes after the hour subjects we were nude

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Speaker 2: when we met.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 3: What's up, yallist is let us see and you're listening

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Speaker 3: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter subject.

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Speaker 1: We were nude when we met.

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Speaker 3: He is a man.

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Speaker 1: Start load.

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Speaker 3: He's gonna try to trick us. Sweet work out five

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Speaker 3: days so I'm in great physical condition. That ain't upset

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Speaker 3: about nothing. I don't care. I ain't thirty one. I

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Speaker 3: am a doctor now and I come from a large family.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, congratulations dog. In the letter stars turning so

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Speaker 3: to put my self through medical school. This way we

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Speaker 3: spost give everything. I worked as a male dancer and

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Speaker 3: of money. Sex was never a problem for me when

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Speaker 3: I worked. Okay, dog, A lot of people can say

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Speaker 3: that I can make that statement. Really, sex has never

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Speaker 3: been a problem for me when I worked. But then

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Speaker 3: this way to let her take a turn. I was

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Speaker 3: having sex up to five times a day with all

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Speaker 3: kinds of voluptious women. That's never happened. No, I didn't

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Speaker 3: think that much about sex because it was my job.

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Speaker 3: All that changed when I met a new girl at work.

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Speaker 3: She walked on the set and we were both knude,

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Speaker 3: and she had the most beautiful body I had ever seen. Well,

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Speaker 3: get in line, homie, you ain't the only one seen

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Speaker 3: this beautiful body. She was a veteran in the industry.

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Speaker 3: I was intrigued that she wanted to work with me.

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Speaker 3: She didn't worked with everybody else. What the hell you happy?

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Speaker 3: Are you judging in the industry? And I was? I was.

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Speaker 3: I was intrigued that she wanted to work with me.

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Speaker 3: She didn't work with everybody else. We had sex on camera,

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Speaker 3: and it was instant chemistry. Oh okay, pardon it was

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Speaker 3: like we was made for each other. Yes, come on, dog.

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Speaker 3: Sex didn't mean much to her either, I guess not

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Speaker 3: don't mean nothing to her. We ended up being friends

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Speaker 3: with benefits and that's all we could be since and

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Speaker 3: here where Shirley started getting real Christian since she was married.

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Speaker 3: That's the bowing on star is married. Yes, a lot.

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Speaker 3: Obviously these weren't the same vows, you vosti. One of

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Speaker 3: the lines in the marriage vow says to cling unto

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Speaker 3: her and only unto her. She done latched on it, everybody,

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Speaker 3: she's older or na old Vetrian, you thirty one, putting

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Speaker 3: it on you like you ain't ever had before. But

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Speaker 3: that never mattered to her. And we have been in

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Speaker 3: this situation for over six years. Oh so you've been

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Speaker 3: under hospel. She did something. You know why? She could

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Speaker 3: at it because you do it all the time practice

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Speaker 3: to get paid for this practice, she'd have done stuff

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Speaker 3: for you. She learned this stuff. She is not happy

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Speaker 3: in her marriage. Well, let me guess why his poems

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Speaker 3: a lot of men, and a lot of men sleep

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Speaker 3: with her better than her husband. Do you're right? She

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Speaker 3: ain't happy because she got too many people to compare

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Speaker 3: it to, and the list goes norm I like under Boat,

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Speaker 3: I like thunder Boat. I like beef Jackie, I like

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Speaker 3: Lies and Terrorists. I like big Juicy Jerome. She got

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Speaker 3: a lot that she going her and then she said

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Speaker 3: she ain't happy in her mom. But she told me

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Speaker 3: she never get a divorce because her husband always supported

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Speaker 3: her lifestyle and he has been good to her. Hell yeah,

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Speaker 3: he stayed with her. Over to you, don't your dumb

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Speaker 3: that's a doctor want to marry a porn star? And

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Speaker 3: when you take her up to the office and eighteen

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Speaker 3: of your customers recognized, ain't that up? And he know

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Speaker 3: it's gonna happen because he say, I love her too

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Speaker 3: and I want to be with her. Sir, you want

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Speaker 3: to be with her? You want boy old? Let me

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Speaker 3: read this now, hen she I love her too and

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Speaker 3: I want to be with her. You want to be

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Speaker 3: with her. You know how many men want to be

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Speaker 3: with her. You can't count the men that couldn't been

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Speaker 3: to work and quit being stupid. Now, this is how

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Speaker 3: stupid he is. I'm thinking about moving to a neighboring

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Speaker 3: forget about me. Am I crazy to think she might

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Speaker 3: have a change of heart. You better hope she don't

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Speaker 3: and won't meet boy. She won't you pose, she don't.

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Speaker 3: Won't he give me that? Lish? She won't?

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Speaker 1: All right, So Steve, we gotta get out of this letter. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Hi, this is Felicia's shot. And you're listening to the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show.