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Speaker 1: We call them blogs.

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Speaker 2: Jason Brown with the Official Reverend Wedding Efficiant.

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Speaker 1: How did it all go over the weekend? It was good,

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Speaker 1: so dear blog.

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Speaker 3: So yes, Friday, I officiated my first wedding. It was

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Speaker 3: my boyfriend, Mike's nephew Alex and his now wife Sarah.

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Speaker 3: I was super honored that they let me officiate. I

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Speaker 3: had never done it before, so I had to get

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Speaker 3: you know, ordained. You know, it took the seven minutes

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Speaker 3: to put my credit card information on the website. I

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Speaker 3: got my little.

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Speaker 2: Certificate process so I have to use. I think that

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Speaker 2: website you have to actually type in your name.

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Speaker 3: Doesn't autofil Yeah, it's yeah. But I brought it all

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Speaker 3: with me in my binder. I had my little certificate

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Speaker 3: and my little badge, my clergy badge that it gives

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Speaker 3: me my little licenses, the sample licenses. And so Friday

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Speaker 3: was the wedding, and it took me about three weeks

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Speaker 3: to like write the whole script just because I pulled

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Speaker 3: from like different sources. Like there's like a standard script

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Speaker 3: you can use, but they wanted it to be a

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Speaker 3: little bit more funny, you know, no religious tones and

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Speaker 3: sort of like not so formal, like no the thou

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Speaker 3: like that type of stuff. So I had to like

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Speaker 3: basically write the whole thing, and it was a lot

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Speaker 3: of work.

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Speaker 1: And I was cool.

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Speaker 3: I was calm, I was collected, like right until we

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Speaker 3: like walked out, and then I got super nervous, like

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Speaker 3: like almost shaking nervous. And then I walked out like

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Speaker 3: sort of started my thing, and they were both crying,

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Speaker 3: so like I was trying to hold it together because

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Speaker 3: I'm very much like if I see someone else crying,

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Speaker 3: like I get uncomfortable, but also like when it's like

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Speaker 3: happy tears, like then I start crying. And then I

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Speaker 3: look over at Mike and he's in the front row

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Speaker 3: and he's like sobbing, and I'm like like I'm like

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Speaker 3: trying to hold it together.

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Speaker 1: But I think it was good. It went really fast.

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Speaker 3: I think it ended up being the whole thing was

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Speaker 3: eleven minutes because I was afraid and wanted to be.

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Speaker 2: People were so happy that you did that.

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Speaker 3: Like, y, yeah, I didn't want to go on like

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Speaker 3: a thirty minute like diet Tribe, you know, but yeah,

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Speaker 3: everyone was saying it was it was good and they

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Speaker 3: liked it, and Mike was like, you know, you need

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Speaker 3: to do more.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm a one and done, Like it

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Speaker 3: was a lot of work and I just don't know,

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Speaker 3: like I don't ever want to take that script and

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Speaker 3: like use it again for someone else, like I would

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Speaker 3: have to rewrite the whole thing because then to me,

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Speaker 3: it like loses you know how special it is. So

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Speaker 3: but I'm really happy I did it and and very

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Speaker 3: happy they asked me to do it. But I'm also

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Speaker 3: happy it's over because it was it was a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, good for you. Do you have a cocktail before?

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Speaker 3: No, I did it and they offered me a beer,

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Speaker 3: but I'm like, no, like I just want to like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You wanted to do the moment, right spirit you exactly? Well? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: plus he was wearing a full cloak.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was giving Poblio you know, that white paper hat.

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Speaker 2: I thought that was a little aggressive, you know.

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Speaker 1: But why not.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it just swung by Leo's house. He gave it

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Speaker 3: to me a low for the weekend. But yeah, no,

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Speaker 3: it was it was. It was good, but I was

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Speaker 3: way more nervous than I thought I was going to be.

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Speaker 2: But ye, it's like right before you I've done a

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Speaker 2: few of these. Right before you do it, you realize,

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Speaker 2: oh wow, like this is one of the most important

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Speaker 2: moments in some life, and for some reason, I'm in

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Speaker 2: the middle of it.

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Speaker 3: Like I know, and like this doesn't translate like everyone's like, oh, well,

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Speaker 3: you talk to you know, every many people ever seen that,

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Speaker 3: Like this is different, Like not only like is this

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Speaker 3: family and friends that are looking at you, but also

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Speaker 3: like this is hopefully their only day that they're going

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Speaker 3: to have like this, and so it's like I don't

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Speaker 3: want to say something or do something that's gonna like

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Speaker 3: screw it up, you know.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it's funny too that you make that point, Jason.

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Speaker 2: People all the time when it comes to public speaking,

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Speaker 2: whether it's at a charity event or something like that

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Speaker 2: that you do, you know, officiating a wedding for a

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Speaker 2: friend or whatever it is, or giving you know, speaking

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Speaker 2: in front of clients or whatever it's, people are like, oh,

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Speaker 2: this is not this must not be a big deal

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Speaker 2: for you, because you know, you talk to thirteen people

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Speaker 2: every day, and the truth is it's just it's so

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Speaker 2: wildly different. Because, as far as I'm concerned, I'm just

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Speaker 2: in your talking to my little friends, I can't see

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Speaker 2: anybody who's listening or your reactions. But when you're in

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Speaker 2: front of everybody, even if it's you know, the same

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Speaker 2: thirteen people, now I get your live reaction to whatever

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Speaker 2: I said. Like, as far as I'm concerned, I'm Chris

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Speaker 2: rock up in here. But then you know, when I'm talking,

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Speaker 2: you know, in front of a group, and if I

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Speaker 2: don't get the feedback that I was hoping for at

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Speaker 2: the time that I was hoping for it, and then

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Speaker 2: it's completely deflating.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I had planted laughs.

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Speaker 3: I was like, mom, you laugh no matter what, if

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Speaker 3: it's funny or not, if you think it should be

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Speaker 3: a joke, like you laugh. So but people laugh to

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Speaker 3: my little funny, my little funny times. So yeah, I

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Speaker 3: think it went well.

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Speaker 1: Good for you, Good for you. That's always my advice.

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Speaker 1: I've given it before.

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Speaker 2: But my advice for if you're doing something like that,

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Speaker 2: or if you give me a wedding speech or whatever, like,

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Speaker 2: don't set yourself up with the line or the several

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Speaker 2: lines that you are certain are going to crush it

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Speaker 2: because especially upfront, because if you go up there and

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Speaker 2: you say something that you're anticipating, you know, sort of

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Speaker 2: thriving from and getting the energy and like breaking the

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Speaker 2: ice with a joke and then nobody laughs that, it

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Speaker 2: is a painful remainder of whatever.

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Speaker 1: You have to do is to happen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and my other advice is that and you didn't

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Speaker 2: do this, of course, but wedding, officiating a wedding, or

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Speaker 2: giving a speech at a wedding is not an opportunity

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Speaker 2: to roast someone, Like it is not the roast of

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Speaker 2: that person. Like, that's not I can't tell you how

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Speaker 2: many weddings I've been to. If people I went to

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Speaker 2: college with and somebody stands up there and goes, oh, man,

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Speaker 2: one night I was out with, you know, and it's like,

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Speaker 2: oh god, really now, like not that's the person's parents

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Speaker 2: are there? You know, It's like, who did I just

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Speaker 2: let my daughter marry and you got this idiot up

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Speaker 2: there talking about.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's not that it is that the time

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Speaker 1: or place for that.

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Speaker 2: No, don't do it. Don't do it, or I'll do

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