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Speaker 1: are y apps of the week? Tyler? What's your YAP

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Speaker 1: of the week?

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Speaker 2: All right? There was this story about this. Let me

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Speaker 2: pull it up. This dude was basically his girlfriend and

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Speaker 2: her family went on a cruise and this motherfucker was

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Speaker 2: called in a bomb threat to the cruise ship. He

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Speaker 2: called in a bomba to the cruise ship and got

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Speaker 2: the crew. Okay, let me read this. A Michigan man,

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Speaker 2: it was sentenced to prison for sending a false bomb

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Speaker 2: threat to Carnival Cruise Line after being upset that his

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Speaker 2: girlfriend's family went on a cruise and left them look

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Speaker 2: care for their pets. The threat was sent via email

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Speaker 2: in January twenty twenty four and forced Carnival that over

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Speaker 2: one thousand rooms of the Sunrise Cruise ship after it

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Speaker 2: departed Miami. He was and this and this dude was

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Speaker 2: living with his girlfriend's family at the time, like dog like,

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Speaker 2: first of all, where's the motherfucking gratitude if that family

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Speaker 2: took your ass in and you're going to ruin a

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Speaker 2: cruise for them. Second of all, I mean, if you

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Speaker 2: didn't know from him calling in a bomber, I think

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Speaker 2: this dude might be a dickhead, which is why he

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Speaker 2: probably wasn't invited to the crew to.

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Speaker 1: The Yeah, so weird. They didn't want to be trapped

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Speaker 1: on a boat with this guy for two weeks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah and so and bro and the motherfucker called in

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Speaker 2: a bomb threat to try to get the cruise dancer

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Speaker 2: to get them to come back, to get his girl

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Speaker 2: to come back. But I think I think the bigger

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Speaker 2: discussion here is the discussion of weapon incompetency. If y'all

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Speaker 2: have heard that term.

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Speaker 1: Where weapon weaponized in competency.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, where where we've seen dudes who yah, dudes

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Speaker 2: who were when they're tasked with a task will deliberately

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Speaker 2: fuck it off, you know, when they were romantic partners

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Speaker 2: some something that will deliberately fuck it off just so

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Speaker 2: they don't get that type of responsibility. He k on

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Speaker 2: them again, like like we've all seen the whole thing

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Speaker 2: about I told my my boyfriend to you know, put

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Speaker 2: away the dishes, you know, after dinner, and he puts

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Speaker 2: the whole fucking crock pot with the fucking electrical cords

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Speaker 2: still in and he puts that in the fridge, right

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Speaker 2: like like intentionally being a dickhead, so you don't get

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Speaker 2: this type of shit put on you again. And you know,

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Speaker 2: us being the big wife guypod, I feel like that

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Speaker 2: is something that we should tackle, right because I think

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Speaker 2: that you know, we've had these discussions in the group

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Speaker 2: chat personally, you know, on air, off air, what have

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Speaker 2: you about how you know, we view that there are

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Speaker 2: healthy ways of being masculine, that there's healthy masculinity that

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Speaker 2: we think that you know, as a man, this is

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Speaker 2: one of my whole hearted believes that as a man,

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Speaker 2: you should make things for your partner easier. That should

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Speaker 2: be what you do as a man. You should make

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Speaker 2: life easier for your lady, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: You should make life easier for your romantic partner. What

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Speaker 2: happened and weapon and conpetency, it's just it's it's something

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Speaker 2: that pisses me off because like, how big of a

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Speaker 2: deal is it to clean up a fucking ditch? How

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Speaker 2: big of a deal is it to fucking walk a

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Speaker 2: dog for a week while your while your girlfriend is

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Speaker 2: on a cruise, right, Like you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: It's it's because you know, we've talked about this before

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Speaker 2: about how the whole toxic masculinity, how how how there's

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Speaker 2: this new way where people want men to be bowed

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Speaker 2: to and don't want men to give anything in return.

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Speaker 2: And that's not how sh it works, bro, That's not

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Speaker 2: how it works in the real world. Like like you know,

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Speaker 2: if like I said, I believe that as a man,

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Speaker 2: you should make things easier for whoever you're involved with.

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Speaker 2: And that's just also part of just being a responsible adult.

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Speaker 2: Like my wife tries to make life easier for me

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Speaker 2: whenever she can, you know what I mean. It's not

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Speaker 2: one side of here. So yeah, man, I just weapon

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Speaker 2: in competency, dog, That's that's that's the most cowardly ship

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Speaker 2: you can do as a man. In my opinion, it

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Speaker 2: is that shit grinds my gears when I see that ship.

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Speaker 1: Did uh Did you ever have a time when you

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Speaker 1: would do that? Because when I was a teenager, I

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Speaker 1: definitely I definitely used weaponizing competency on chores stuff with

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Speaker 1: my mom for sure, like I think every kid did that,

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Speaker 1: but she would call it, ah, she called it gilliganing.

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Speaker 1: After Gilligan on Gilligan Zyle. She'd go, you're not going

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Speaker 1: to fucking Gilligan me, I know you know where to

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Speaker 1: put the fucking dishes us. So she got that shit

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Speaker 1: out of me. I never tried that shit with shar

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Speaker 1: She got that out of me, like at a at

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Speaker 1: a very young age.

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Speaker 2: Well, I couldn't do that shit with my mom because

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Speaker 2: she would make me do that shit again, and I

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Speaker 2: learned quickly bro do the first time, or you know,

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Speaker 2: my mom woke me out of that ship for sure.

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Speaker 1: That was my mom was just like, well it's not

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Speaker 1: done yet. You could still fucking figure that shit out