Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect
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Speaker 2: Okay, let me do my little clap ready, tail.
Speaker 3: I hope you enjoyed these claps because Robin's so excited
Speaker 3: about these damn claps.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Listen, that's what they do, like when we're doing our
Speaker 1: confessional there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, little.
Speaker 3: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shitey. I am Jaseelle Bryant.
Speaker 2: What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you
Speaker 2: Rob Dix in the os to Robbie d What episode
Speaker 2: is this? I don't know. This is say, episode five
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Speaker 2: You know, I do appreciate the Black Fact Family. Absolutely
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Speaker 1: I wish I knew you were going to say this
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Speaker 2: It to show a podcast show.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a black guy. Of course, he's black.
Speaker 2: Any like, and he likes and.
Speaker 1: He's talking about just black facts, like, Oh I love that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, but in like a cool way. Yeah. Damn.
Speaker 2: What's the name of I.
Speaker 3: Don't know, but speaking of him, the name of Tailor looked, No,
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Speaker 2: No, let me give you let me fine, Okay, wait
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Speaker 1: His the name of his podcast, and I think we've
Speaker 1: maybe have dropped like his trailer in our feed it's
Speaker 1: called I didn't know. Maybe you didn't either, Yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: he's our brother podcaster.
Speaker 2: Yes, and we appreciate that.
Speaker 1: Yes, but I definitely want to check it out because
Speaker 1: I love, like, I love doing stuff like that, just
Speaker 1: reading like little known facts, ye, learning history, and they
Speaker 1: just have these random like Why do I know this?
Speaker 1: Oh because I learned it on this podcast or whatever
Speaker 1: I put on an article. So yeah, I didn't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe you didn't either, check it out.
Speaker 2: Check it out. So you have a reasonably shady moment. Yes,
Speaker 2: all right.
Speaker 3: So my cleaning people, oh my gosh, cleaning people, like
Speaker 3: if you got a good clean press, you better keep
Speaker 3: them for life.
Speaker 2: Right, keep them for life?
Speaker 1: Because number one, it's like hard to bring new people
Speaker 1: in your house and trust them to that level that
Speaker 1: they're all through your house, all downa shit, they hearing
Speaker 1: your personal conversations whatever it might be, right, and so
Speaker 1: bringing it like finding a cleaning person is not just
Speaker 1: about the actual cleaning that they do. It's the fact
Speaker 1: that you can trust these people absolutely in your personal space.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: So, my cleaning people have been with us, gosh for
Speaker 1: a very long time. I think, even so before the
Speaker 1: kids were born, so before yeah, so before Corey Corey's fifteen.
Speaker 1: My cleaning people have been with us for longer than
Speaker 1: fifteen years. Yeah, and like with me, they right, they've
Speaker 1: moved with us from house to house.
Speaker 2: Me too, I didn't know that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, me too, Yes, so they were the l
Speaker 1: It's so funny like when we were broke, that was
Speaker 1: like the last thing I could let go of. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, when you're broken, you're in
Speaker 1: your downsizes and you're trying to like cut your your
Speaker 1: expenses and your bills.
Speaker 2: You know, I yeah, I could, Okay, I can.
Speaker 1: I can downsize my car, I can start I can
Speaker 1: start shopping, you know, at Zara or not at all
Speaker 1: or whatever or whatever it might be. And I was like,
Speaker 1: I could not let by cleaner people go. But I
Speaker 1: did at one point have to let them go. But
Speaker 1: when we you know, when we were back on our
Speaker 1: feet or whatever, we of course we brought them back.
Speaker 1: So cleaning people sent me an email we had at
Speaker 1: not an email.
Speaker 2: A text.
Speaker 1: We had asked to switch our times. So so they
Speaker 1: do our neighbors as well, okay, and they do our
Speaker 1: They go to our neighbors first and then they come
Speaker 1: to us. And one day they just one day, they
Speaker 1: were at our neighbors for a really long time and
Speaker 1: they got to us a lot later than they usually
Speaker 1: get to.
Speaker 2: Is this the neighbors that still have the Christmas tree?
Speaker 1: Still?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Still? And we damned it, Mark, Yeah, okay, all right.
Speaker 1: And they just just got rid of the pumpkins. Not
Speaker 1: too long, right, it's insane. Yes, So they came to
Speaker 1: us and oh, they were just looking tired. They were
Speaker 1: they were working through the neighbor's house ward them out
Speaker 1: right right, and there were just a couple of spots
Speaker 1: that it seemed like they missed. I had to call
Speaker 1: them and say, hey, you missed this, blah blah blah whatever.
Speaker 1: And so after they left, one and I were talking
Speaker 1: and he was like, I want them to come to
Speaker 1: us first.
Speaker 2: Yes, that's what I'm gonna say.
Speaker 1: Because they come to us and they're tired, and you know,
Speaker 1: they're not on you know, not on point as much.
Speaker 3: And they and your neighbors, that's your contact. Your neighbors
Speaker 3: got them through. Yes, yes, yes, yes, they did come
Speaker 3: to you.
Speaker 1: And I'll tell you why the name why why I
Speaker 1: set it up. So they came in the afternoon because
Speaker 1: in the summertimes, when the kids are out of school,
Speaker 1: they're not getting out of bed bright and.
Speaker 2: Early in the morning.
Speaker 1: My kids sleep in okay, So that's kind of how
Speaker 1: we came to that schedule. And my neighbor's the the
Speaker 1: husband is an anesthesiologist, so his hours are like real
Speaker 1: funky and I don't know, it's just something. It just
Speaker 1: worked out that way, and I was fine with it.
Speaker 1: But this particular time, I was like, yeah, they little,
Speaker 1: I don't know, look like a little slacken so One
Speaker 1: calls them and he's like, hey, man, Enrique.
Speaker 2: So one and Donio ny Okay, that's great.
Speaker 1: He's like, Enrique, you know, I wanted to see if
Speaker 1: you could come to us in the morning instead of
Speaker 1: the afternoon, because you know, it seems like y'all a
Speaker 1: little bit tired when you go over there. So oh
Speaker 1: and mind you, my neighbors have three young kids. Oh no,
Speaker 1: under the age of like kindergarten, and yeah.
Speaker 2: Can you imagine what the ship they're cleaning over there? Yes,
Speaker 2: I mean, and I asked.
Speaker 1: Mama's like, oh, like what's you know, why are you
Speaker 1: so late?
Speaker 2: What's going on?
Speaker 1: And he's like, yeah, it's a little it takes takes
Speaker 1: taking us a little extra time over there.
Speaker 2: So you got three young kids.
Speaker 1: So so One's like, yeah, you know, can y'all can
Speaker 1: you can we maybe flip schedules you come to us
Speaker 1: first because we noticed, you know, you're missing some spots.
Speaker 1: You a little tired, not you know whatever, blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: The service is not as on part as it usually is.
Speaker 1: So he's like, Okay, I'll call and I'll find out
Speaker 1: if they can switch blah blah blah blah. Okay, So
Speaker 1: a few days later, I get a text message and
Speaker 1: it's a long.
Speaker 2: Ass Actually were when we were at the live show.
Speaker 1: Okay, he said his long ass text message, starting off
Speaker 1: with you know the neighbors can't switch the time because
Speaker 1: of blah blah blah reason. And you know, on second thought,
Speaker 1: I don't like you pretty much saying I don't like
Speaker 1: what mister Dixon said.
Speaker 2: What he was offended. He was personally offended. Okay, okay,
Speaker 2: wait wait wait wait, wait wait wait, because why I
Speaker 2: was in a gym talking real I don't wanna say loud.
Speaker 1: I want to say just telling the man to wash
Speaker 1: his hands, yeah, which everyone at the live show agreed
Speaker 1: that one was in the right.
Speaker 2: One was in the right.
Speaker 3: But however he got he got put on pause from
Speaker 3: the gym. Is he getting put on pause from the cleaners?
Speaker 2: Yeah? My cleaning people dumped us. No, yo, don't us you.
Speaker 1: He was so offended, like personally offended that that we
Speaker 1: were like critiquing their work and pretty much saying like,
Speaker 1: you know, y'all didn't.
Speaker 2: Do a good job. One can no longer talk to
Speaker 2: anyone dump one. Wan is banned. Wan is banned. But
Speaker 2: I felt the same way. But Wan didn't talk to
Speaker 2: him out of pocket. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: He had were you there? I was there, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I was there when One called him. He didn't say
Speaker 1: anything out of pocket to him. But but I think
Speaker 1: my cleaning person took it the wrong way and he
Speaker 1: really kind of took it personal like we were.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think he just got in his feelings because so
Speaker 1: y'all got fired, we got dumb. What yes, listen, listen
Speaker 1: and think so think about I'm like, I'm like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, like one, we gotta find new people.
Speaker 2: To come in our house. And he's like, no, we're
Speaker 2: gonna make it right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, but let me tell you what I would do.
Speaker 3: I would go to my neighbor's house and cuss them out,
Speaker 3: like they're the reason for all of this.
Speaker 2: Well, but but like I said, I had them.
Speaker 1: I told him they could come in the afternoon because
Speaker 1: in the summertime, when the kid's asleep, I don't want
Speaker 1: you know, the kids getting whatever, getting out of the
Speaker 1: big My kids sleep in, right.
Speaker 2: So it's really not their fault. It's their fault because
Speaker 2: our house is so greed claiming people aren't tired.
Speaker 1: Right. So right, So it was a little stressful time.
Speaker 2: We did call. We talked to him.
Speaker 1: Yesterday, okay, and and they talked it through. Good who
Speaker 1: did the talking, Wan and Wan and he.
Speaker 2: You know, he said, you all do an unbelievable job. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: good And we've been with us for so long. Okay,
Speaker 2: we appreciate you. Go on.
Speaker 1: You know, we weren't trying to uh, you know, offend you.
Speaker 2: Blah blah blahay whatever. So y'all are back on the scale.
Speaker 2: So we're back.
Speaker 3: But but thank god he's charging us more. Oh that
Speaker 3: might have been this, That might have been a deal
Speaker 3: from the beginning. They might be the neighbors probably giving
Speaker 3: him more money.
Speaker 1: He well, maybe he went this is this was his explanation.
Speaker 1: He said, you know, when when y'all first moved into
Speaker 1: the house and I came and I gave you a
Speaker 1: quote for the house, Yeah, you didn't have as much furniture,
Speaker 1: but now you have, you know, a lot more furnitu sure, right,
Speaker 1: and the furniture takes a lot more time to clean.
Speaker 1: So he went up fifty dollars.
Speaker 2: On us, not a whole fifty dollars, the whole fifty dollars, Rob,
Speaker 2: And I seen your paycheck. You can afford it. O
Speaker 2: my god. Okay. So I the shading moment this week
Speaker 2: for me is me. Okay.
Speaker 3: So, and I posted this like like I think today
Speaker 3: maybe or I don't know.
Speaker 2: I posted this a little while ago that Angela and
Speaker 2: the Door.
Speaker 3: You know, they used to run track. I saw that
Speaker 3: and used to Well, they're getting ready to end the
Speaker 3: track season, about to be over.
Speaker 2: Okay, So they've been running track for a while.
Speaker 3: And I've made it clear to any track mom out
Speaker 3: there that being a track mother sucks. It's like the
Speaker 3: worst thing under the sun. It's like, you do not
Speaker 3: want to go all track meat.
Speaker 1: Because your child. I'm sorry, I'm gonna cut you out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because they have one or two events, yes, that last
Speaker 1: twenty seconds. Seven it's seven seconds, and you're there all day,
Speaker 1: all day, waiting for like eight am to six pm.
Speaker 1: Now you're there, Okay, tell me this. Why do you
Speaker 1: have to get there at eight if their event is
Speaker 1: at once.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you don't really know where their event is.
Speaker 3: They do get a schedule like kind of and they
Speaker 3: can kind of like figure out when their event is.
Speaker 3: But there's a big window, a chunk of time that's're
Speaker 3: just sitting there doing as looking at kids, and you
Speaker 3: can give shit and you don't give two ships about
Speaker 3: these kids that are running around, causey at yours, they're
Speaker 3: not yours. And you can try to act like you care,
Speaker 3: you're don't.
Speaker 2: You don't. And it's not change right, Okay, now, but
Speaker 2: is it?
Speaker 1: The team is like the coach or the team tells them, Oh,
Speaker 1: everyone has to get there so you can support and
Speaker 1: cheer on your team.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, no, no, no, the team has to be
Speaker 3: there the entire time. Yeah, and you can't leave because
Speaker 3: you have to support your team.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So it's okay. As a parent, it just sucks.
Speaker 3: And it's to the point now where my kids are like, mine,
Speaker 3: don't come to track me because you're just so mad.
Speaker 2: Why are they? I mean, I'm just like, I don't
Speaker 2: even fake it anymore. I'm just sorry. I'm pissed.
Speaker 3: Okay, long story short, it's their senior night, so that's
Speaker 3: the like their last track meet and indoor track. Indoor track. Oh,
Speaker 3: how did I not mention this indoor track. Every indoor
Speaker 3: track stinks. It smells like sticky feet, it smells like pajamas,
Speaker 3: it smells.
Speaker 2: Like everybody mill the shower. Yeah, okay, there's that.
Speaker 3: Anyway, that's not the point of my story. So because
Speaker 3: it's Angel and a door, so on the this is
Speaker 3: the premise of the senior night. The parents come, they
Speaker 3: wear their kids jersey, the coach talks about them, and
Speaker 3: the parent walks them up and at the end, like
Speaker 3: the principal or somebody gives them like some flowers. So
Speaker 3: I had Angel on the door to walk up at
Speaker 3: the same time. And it's a long walk. You gotta
Speaker 3: walk like half the track. So and my kids, you know,
Speaker 3: I'm a little extra little sometimes, but my kids were
Speaker 3: like very much like my you know, I brought them flowers.
Speaker 3: They didn't want to They didn't want to hold my
Speaker 3: flowers that I brought them. They wanted their stupid carnations
Speaker 3: that the school was going to give them because they
Speaker 3: were like, you know, we just can't walk up with flowers.
Speaker 3: It's weird. So actually they should be the shady moment, yeah,
Speaker 3: but not really. So I said, yeah, guys, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: be cool, like I'm not gonna act wild like I'm
Speaker 3: cool like I said, but I'm walking both of y'all
Speaker 3: up at the same time. They were like, okay, fine,
Speaker 3: because angels, gonna have somebody else walking up because.
Speaker 2: She's like, you're one person and two people one. You're
Speaker 2: just one person, Mom, you can't walk two people up
Speaker 2: at one time. Yes, the hell, I can't have two arms, right,
Speaker 2: so I can't birth to you all the same time.
Speaker 3: I can do this anyway. So we get to they
Speaker 3: start talking about a door. We start walking. We're walking,
Speaker 3: we're walking, We're walking, and something inside me was uncontrollable,
Speaker 3: and I just was so overwhelmed with joy I just
Speaker 3: started screaming.
Speaker 2: What why? I started screaming at the top of my lungs.
Speaker 2: I was out of control. While you're walking, yes, I'm
Speaker 2: like yeah, because as we're walking, you gonna say you
Speaker 2: were crying. I was about to cry.
Speaker 3: So as we were walking, their whole team that's not
Speaker 3: seniors is on the side like cheering.
Speaker 2: Okay, so they're like cheering, yay, yay, yay, and I
Speaker 2: just started screaming. Oh my gosh, my children were me.
Speaker 2: I tell you to shut up. They were mortified.
Speaker 3: They were like, this is why, and yes I'm shady
Speaker 3: because I saw I won't go do it, and I
Speaker 3: was just something came over my body.
Speaker 2: Were you doing it? Control them?
Speaker 3: I was doing it because there's something wrong with me
Speaker 3: and it's called I just did not know how to
Speaker 3: control myself.
Speaker 2: I got so.
Speaker 1: Excited because track season's over.
Speaker 2: I got so excited from my children who've been running
Speaker 2: track for three years. Okay, I just got excited. I
Speaker 2: was just so proud of them. Oh my god. So
Speaker 2: anywhere you have video footage of this? I hope not. No.
Speaker 2: I mean I don't know. No, please. I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god. They were actually laughing.
Speaker 3: They did laugh a little bit because they were like,
Speaker 3: here goes mom again acting like a crazy ass.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I was just happy.
Speaker 3: So what's the name of the the the new podcast
Speaker 3: that we want to watch?
Speaker 2: What's it called?
Speaker 1: I didn't know. Yeah, maybe you didn't either, Okay, right,
Speaker 1: I didn't know. Maybe you didn't either.
Speaker 2: I didn't know Drake's penis was yellow? Wait did you
Speaker 2: see it? So I didn't see it? Why wouldn't it
Speaker 2: be yellow? Like yellow yellow, not like like not like
Speaker 2: the same color as his face, like like not like
Speaker 2: his face. His face is not yellow. Okay, yellow. So
Speaker 2: I was talking to a guy who's gay friend of mine.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and when the Drake penis leaked Okay, I'll.
Speaker 2: Tell you who he is later, it was not col okay.
Speaker 3: So because because one of those Miami plastic surgeons like
Speaker 3: came out and said, like, hey, Drake, like call me
Speaker 3: or like I know that you had some work done
Speaker 3: on it or something like its people he's daven trolling him.
Speaker 2: Okay, can you can you? Can you explain what what happened?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What happened?
Speaker 1: Because I I just saw headlines and I saw you know,
Speaker 1: it's just like people were reacting to this Drake penis leak.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't see it.
Speaker 1: I would I wouldn't mind if someone would send it
Speaker 1: to me, DMN it to Robin.
Speaker 2: But so what is what was the sentiment? The sentiment
Speaker 2: was it was nice and big, it was big and yellow.
Speaker 2: Now where did it come from? Like body?
Speaker 1: No, no, no.
Speaker 2: What was the leak from? Like where it was a video?
Speaker 3: I think of him having sex maybe or him in
Speaker 3: the shower something like that.
Speaker 1: Oh really, yeah, anyway, so where's my point in my story?
Speaker 1: Plastic surgeon?
Speaker 2: Oh so yellow?
Speaker 3: I was intrigued, friend, Yeah, I was intrigued because I
Speaker 3: was like, are men really out here getting their penises done?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 3: So I did call Cow. I said, Cow, what's going
Speaker 3: on in the community here? Are men just like getting
Speaker 3: their penises done?
Speaker 2: And he was like all the time. And I was like,
Speaker 2: what are you talking about? Huh? So he said, yeah,
Speaker 2: like you can just get it?
Speaker 1: Shot?
Speaker 2: What get fillers put into the penis? Ew? And well,
Speaker 2: what's philing?
Speaker 1: That's so filler wouldn't make it girth longer?
Speaker 3: So you get girth and length you can get you
Speaker 3: can get I think an inch of girth and three
Speaker 3: inches length?
Speaker 2: Three did you make that up? No? One to three?
Speaker 2: One to three inches? What? So I'm like what? So
Speaker 2: I'm like death. I don't want to speak on Drake's penis,
Speaker 2: but I mean, like, we are you know what I
Speaker 2: mean doing that for the past two minutes?
Speaker 3: I don't so like, you know, I just want to
Speaker 3: say maybe maybe that's what mister Drake did, but it's
Speaker 3: not even it doesn't even matter.
Speaker 1: Who cares you were about to say something about a
Speaker 1: friend that wasn't col.
Speaker 3: Yes, oh, he's in love with it. So there's a friend.
Speaker 3: There's another friend.
Speaker 2: Okay, guy, he likes penises, he's infatuated with it, with
Speaker 2: Drake's penis.
Speaker 3: Yes, he was like, I love yellow penises. And when
Speaker 3: I tell you this friend is later, you're gonna laugh.
Speaker 3: You probably already know who he is. Oh anyway, listen,
Speaker 3: why don't yellow like a crayon? Like a yellow crayon.
Speaker 3: Somebody's gonna send us a picture somebody. I haven't seen
Speaker 3: it either, so I was like, oh, you haven't seen it. No,
Speaker 3: So I told him to send it to me.
Speaker 2: I think he forgot. But yeah, that's intriguing, right What
Speaker 2: makes it yellow? The enlargement procedure, I know.
Speaker 3: But okay, this story is all over the place. I
Speaker 3: wasn't forget Drake. I was intrigued by the fact that
Speaker 3: a lot of men.
Speaker 1: Are enlarging their enlarging their pieces, which I agree with.
Speaker 1: Haven't you seen ads for like, I don't know pills
Speaker 1: or procedures to enlarger penis and does that work?
Speaker 2: Oh my god?
Speaker 3: Wait, pills are procedures to enlarger penis? Okay, So that's
Speaker 3: not yellow. Carly's here, and.
Speaker 1: Carly googled Drake's penis and there's a picture of him.
Speaker 1: He took the picture. It's a selfie. He's in the
Speaker 1: bed and he's holding his penis.
Speaker 2: It's not yellow. It's not yellow. No, oh it's not.
Speaker 2: But but okay, so he has hand. Okay, it's large. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's large a good side. So so right, it doesn't
Speaker 2: it does to me because it's a little crooked.
Speaker 3: Anyway, I want I want feedback from the guys out there,
Speaker 3: if you have had this done.
Speaker 1: Okay, now that you've seen Drake's picture, how do you
Speaker 1: feel about him?
Speaker 2: I don't want to.
Speaker 3: I don't want to jump on that penis, Okay, just
Speaker 3: I just you know, I just what it's.
Speaker 2: I mean, Drake dre what see. I know you love Drake.
Speaker 2: I love his music. Let's get that straight.
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't have any Drake doesn't do it for me. No,
Speaker 1: he don't do it for me either. Oh okay, I
Speaker 1: love his music, but I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm no sexual desire for Drake. No, No, I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not attracted to him.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to, you know, hang out with him,
Speaker 1: kick it with him, and if he walked down the street,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be like, oh my god, Drake, I probably
Speaker 1: don't even want to picture.
Speaker 2: No, no, I want none of the thing, none of
Speaker 2: the things. But I love his music.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Drake, you know he's yes, got he got that
Speaker 3: on lock. But yes, we want to know from the men.
Speaker 3: Have you gotten your penis and large? Have you gotten
Speaker 3: this procedure?
Speaker 2: Yes? Did it hurt? Yes? Like is it local anesthesia?
Speaker 3: It's the details, give us the whole And how many
Speaker 3: inches did it increase?
Speaker 2: Too? Right? Yeah? You started?
Speaker 3: I mean and listen, if you got a five inch dick,
Speaker 3: like go get that shit done right?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yes?
Speaker 1: And if you got it, did you like grow a
Speaker 1: third eyeball.
Speaker 2: In the back of your head? Ye, like you know, like.
Speaker 1: Something else crazy happened, but yeah, or if you know
Speaker 1: someone like yeah, just give us the deeds.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this gives SATs all right.
Speaker 3: Now, Beyonce's coming out with a new Speaking of Cow,
Speaker 3: I told col Beyonce is coming for him because you
Speaker 3: know cow sells hair product. Yes, I don't know how
Speaker 3: to pronounce Beyonce's new hairline, so it's sacred.
Speaker 2: That's what I thought.
Speaker 1: Yes, she's because in the caption it said hair is
Speaker 1: sacred s s A c r e D. Okay, the
Speaker 1: new hairline is spelled c E c r E D. Right,
Speaker 1: that's it's sacred.
Speaker 2: So so think about it. So Beyonce, the end of
Speaker 2: Beyonce is Ce.
Speaker 1: Oh so it's sacred.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, it's a lot of thank you sacred. I'm
Speaker 2: here for it, got it? Yes? How did you figure
Speaker 2: that out? Because you you know, you're not really a Beyonce,
Speaker 2: You're not a bee Hiver.
Speaker 1: You don't have to be a bee Hiver to have
Speaker 1: a brain and to use it and to put it
Speaker 1: into some critical thinking.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I'm not mad at it. I'm here for
Speaker 2: the sacred. Yes, today we're going to transform I We're
Speaker 2: going to show you some magic that Beyonce. I'm the
Speaker 2: team I've been working with. I've never tried anything like
Speaker 2: this before, and it's revolutionary. My brain got like an
Speaker 2: expolation of her life, like my hair needed this. It's
Speaker 2: never felt like this before. So I can't wait for
Speaker 2: all that to come out. I want to try it out.
Speaker 2: But you know, I mean, I think it's interesting. Okay.
Speaker 1: Number one Beyonce. I think I said this, Oh, I
Speaker 1: said this said the live show?
Speaker 2: Did I say this at the Life? I'm surprised she's none? No, sooner.
Speaker 1: I said this our in one of our little group chats. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm surprised that Beyonce has been wearing that platinum wig
Speaker 1: for so long.
Speaker 3: You said that, and I and I'm mad at that
Speaker 3: because I love her in the platinum.
Speaker 1: You do, Yes, I'm looking for my tissues. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: love her on the plant. I don't okay, but whatever,
Speaker 1: you know, who cares what I think? Just like I
Speaker 1: don't care what anyone thinks when they tell me how
Speaker 1: they feel about my hair.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just.
Speaker 1: Surprised she's had it for so long because she's it's
Speaker 1: been a while. Oh so you think now what she's
Speaker 1: grown her hair out or something. What does this have
Speaker 1: to do with the sacred Nothing? What I was going
Speaker 1: to say that was just a side note.
Speaker 2: Sorry, y'all.
Speaker 1: I'm wiping my nose in case you can hear that.
Speaker 1: Beyonce doesn't wear her natural hair a lot.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: Well, okay, we don't know what the product is even though,
Speaker 1: so we don't know if it's extensions wigs or if
Speaker 1: it's shampoo, conditioner, hair growth, seam or anything. My assumption's
Speaker 1: like hair, you know, shampoo, Yeah, hair care products. She
Speaker 1: doesn't wear her natural hair. She has beautiful natural hair,
Speaker 1: but she doesn't wear it.
Speaker 2: Okay, So I say.
Speaker 1: Why do we need a hair care line from Beyonce?
Speaker 1: We don't ever see your natural hair.
Speaker 2: Oh, I see what you're saying. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: But that doesn't mean she doesn't want to help the world.
Speaker 3: And I'm sure her products are going to be superior
Speaker 3: and that's.
Speaker 2: Just for you know, or all of us.
Speaker 1: Yeah, or maybe she'll start maybe now that she has
Speaker 1: to promo promote this hair hair care line, maybe she'll
Speaker 1: be wearing her natural hair.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know. I know.
Speaker 1: I just feel like, Okay, if you're going to be
Speaker 1: promoting a hair care line, then we might you might.
Speaker 2: Well, you have to keep the mind.
Speaker 3: Tina used to hair hairstylists, right, and so I'm sure
Speaker 3: Tina has a lot of input into this line.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm just thinking, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I disagree with that because just because we don't see
Speaker 3: her without the wigs or whatever, because she's Yeah, I'm
Speaker 3: sure when she gets home, she takes it off and
Speaker 3: she's wearing her natural hair, and she wants something that
Speaker 3: is good for her hair, right, yeah.
Speaker 2: And my hair and your hair. I agree with that,
Speaker 2: But I'm just saying I don't know.
Speaker 1: I I think if she's gonna really push this product, yeah,
Speaker 1: she might need to wear her natural hair so we
Speaker 1: can see how beautiful her natural hair is, how well
Speaker 1: these products have worked for her natural hair.
Speaker 3: She might I think when the role out comes, she
Speaker 3: might share that and Beyonce, if you want to send
Speaker 3: us some sacred we'll be more than happy to just
Speaker 3: to send it to me. Don't send it to Robbin
Speaker 3: because you know how Robbin is, y'all just rob Okay,
Speaker 3: So anyway, let's talk about amber Rose because I thought
Speaker 3: that this was hilarious. Okay, she shared that, and this
Speaker 3: is a little while ago that she shared it. She
Speaker 3: doesn't believe in forgiveness. Amber Rose is not who used
Speaker 3: to who has a child with Wis Khalifa.
Speaker 2: She used to day Kanye West. Yeah, that's where she
Speaker 2: became known.
Speaker 1: And she has a tattoo on her forehead her children's names.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, and shares boyfriend.
Speaker 2: She used to date. Okay, m hm, yeah.
Speaker 3: She said she doesn't believe in forgiveness if you don't
Speaker 3: want to forgive, if you don't want to forgive. She
Speaker 3: says she's very comfortable with hating people.
Speaker 2: At first, the first time I heard her, because she
Speaker 2: you know, I listened to the audio. The first time
Speaker 2: I heard, I was like, you know what, that's wild.
Speaker 2: But then I'm like, I'm here for that, right, Like
Speaker 2: there's some people out here that Now, mind you, I
Speaker 2: would never, you know, to hate somebody that's energy, right,
Speaker 2: So I've never like be walking around with that kind
Speaker 2: of energy.
Speaker 1: But I get it. Yeah, I get that too. I
Speaker 1: mean I forgive forgiveness. I think forgiveness is a tough
Speaker 1: thing to do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's actually for you. It's not really for them,
Speaker 2: It's for you, right.
Speaker 1: It's like releasing it's forgiveness is more about releasing whatever
Speaker 1: negative energy, toxic energy, or whatever has you consumed by
Speaker 1: by whatever that person did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can say so.
Speaker 1: I shared on season one of The Real House Hot
Speaker 1: Potomac that one of our, one of our best friends,
Speaker 1: took our money.
Speaker 2: Yeah, killed himself. Blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: It took me ten years to forgive.
Speaker 2: Him, as he was now no longer living, right, no
Speaker 2: longer living.
Speaker 1: I cursed his name frequently, frequently, like literally, I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: I would with verve, Yes, I would. You know, we
Speaker 1: would talk about the situation sometimes years later and I
Speaker 1: would just be like, manam I can you know because
Speaker 1: I never got to have that conversation with him. I
Speaker 1: never got to have the like got closure. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: never had closure. I never got to have the you
Speaker 1: know what the was going on? Why would you do that?
Speaker 2: But none of it.
Speaker 1: I never got the apology, none of it. And so
Speaker 1: I had anger and emotions of negative emotions towards him
Speaker 1: for ten years. And it was one day, it was
Speaker 1: very weird. I was driving and I said this out loud.
Speaker 1: I said, I forgive you.
Speaker 2: Ah, look at that. Yeah, and then you were it
Speaker 2: was released from you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was released because I know he regrets what
Speaker 1: he did. You don't know, you know, he he did
Speaker 1: what he did out of more desperation, not intentionally trying
Speaker 1: to hurt people. And yeah, you know, but it took
Speaker 1: me ten years to get to that.
Speaker 2: Okay, But so you recommend that people forgive if it's something.
Speaker 1: No, Well, okay, yes, and no, okay, take your time
Speaker 1: with forgiveness.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, you.
Speaker 1: Know, because I think a lot of times when something
Speaker 1: goes on between someone and you have other people in
Speaker 1: your air, oh, you know, forgiveness and you know, God
Speaker 1: says we should, we should forgive and all this type
Speaker 1: of stuff. If you're not ready to forgive, it's okay.
Speaker 1: I get that, it's okay. But if you feel like
Speaker 1: this has been weighing you down, and not that the
Speaker 1: situation prevented me from doing anything right, but I just
Speaker 1: still had that negative emotion towards him when I thought
Speaker 1: about it, and it really wasn't more so about me.
Speaker 2: It was just like I can't even explain it.
Speaker 1: It's just one day I came to the realization that
Speaker 1: I forgave him, okay, and I wasn't in a rush
Speaker 1: to forgive him.
Speaker 3: So for ten years, you and Amber Rose were like
Speaker 3: synced up. Y'all were like the same.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I like to say, walking around hating people.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I'm hating a deceased person. I know that's absurd,
Speaker 1: it's absurd, But if it was done to you, you
Speaker 1: would understand.
Speaker 3: Me, right, very true, you know, But I think that
Speaker 3: in order for you to live, because you always want
Speaker 3: to me. I want to strive to always be in
Speaker 3: peace and in happiness. So in order for that to happen,
Speaker 3: I can't carry that. I can't carry around hatred. I
Speaker 3: can't carry around me being mad at somebody, Right, So
Speaker 3: I gotta let just let stuff go.
Speaker 2: You probably just let it go. Yeah, yeah, I mean.
Speaker 1: But it's that's kind of a I typically do that,
Speaker 1: and it's not. Yeah, so Carly saying she finds that
Speaker 1: interesting because she knows my personality. I don't get caught
Speaker 1: up on stuff. I think it was the fact that
Speaker 1: he was deceased and he was such a good friend
Speaker 1: and we were never able to have any type of
Speaker 1: conversation or closure on it. But I think if if
Speaker 1: he were still alive, let's say, okay, if he were
Speaker 1: still alive he stole our money and we cut him off,
Speaker 1: you know, you're no longer our friend, it probably would
Speaker 1: have been easier for me to let it go. Because
Speaker 1: I'm looking at him. I'm like, you're still alive, and
Speaker 1: you walking around, you know, you're a little happy, merry way,
Speaker 1: and then that would be like, you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: not getting my feelings all caught up in him because
Speaker 1: he's over here living his life like nothing happened, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But just have him jumped one
Speaker 1: of the two, right.
Speaker 2: I just think I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just think that the fact that he like did
Speaker 1: what he did, he passed away the way he did,
Speaker 1: It's just that that changed things for me. But I
Speaker 1: typically am able to be like, oh she said, what, Okay.
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm just not gonna talk to you again.
Speaker 2: Like I don't have any you don't give it energy.
Speaker 1: I don't give it energy, like with respect to what
Speaker 1: has gone on, you know on the show. I have
Speaker 1: no anger. I have no you know, nothing towards anyone.
Speaker 1: But I have decided to say, Okay, that person doesn't
Speaker 1: fit in this box in my life anymore.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Amen, And now I'm with that.
Speaker 1: I'm with that. So he had an out. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: my friend had an out. Yeah, he took his life.
Speaker 1: He was able to cut the situation off, cut all
Speaker 1: his issues, you know, out, and not face the consequences.
Speaker 2: And we had to. We had to grind, we had to.
Speaker 2: So everything happens for a reason, I mean, whatever reason
Speaker 2: is right. So club Sha Shay. I just wanted to
Speaker 2: just touch on him for like eight seconds. Okay. He
Speaker 2: that is the new Oprah. It's the new breaking news. Okay. Club.
Speaker 3: Who knew that Shannon Sharp club would be the new
Speaker 3: breaking news.
Speaker 1: That's where everybody wants to go to vent.
Speaker 2: To vent and to and to just let it air out.
Speaker 2: They will.
Speaker 3: That's where you go when you want to air out
Speaker 3: anything that you've been holding on to for dear life.
Speaker 3: Now let me just say this, So the another Baltimore girl.
Speaker 2: The I told you greatness.
Speaker 3: Money, the comedian Monique, comedian and actress, Oh yes, right,
Speaker 3: and Emmy Oscar, Yeah, Oscar winning actress. She won, right,
Speaker 3: I think she went, Yeah, she won, Okay, Okay, she
Speaker 3: definitely was nominated.
Speaker 2: Okay, so she just wanted to go and just like air.
Speaker 3: Now we've heard her have grievances with Tyler Perry and
Speaker 3: and okay.
Speaker 1: I wonder before was she on the calendar before Kat
Speaker 1: Williams interviewed.
Speaker 2: Like already scheduled. I don't know, I don't know, but
Speaker 2: he seemed bored. Okay, Yeah, when when Kat Walliams was
Speaker 2: doing his his song and dance and his you know,
Speaker 2: just chit chatting Shannon Sharp was involved, right, he was
Speaker 2: in it. He was a key key in or whatever.
Speaker 3: Right, he didn't seem interested in whatever Monique had to say.
Speaker 3: And it just made me feel like, so Club Sha
Speaker 3: Shay it was it was not a club environment, right.
Speaker 2: No, it definitely.
Speaker 1: It definitely was a different a different vibe.
Speaker 2: I cracked up.
Speaker 1: I saw the clip where she was talking about how
Speaker 1: she had audio of Tyler Perry.
Speaker 2: Apologizing to her. Oh really, I didn't hear that, Okay, So.
Speaker 1: She has audio of Tyler Perry apologizing to her and
Speaker 1: pretty much saying the things that he said about her
Speaker 1: really didn't happen, they weren't true. He was trying to
Speaker 1: retracting the statement she had, you know, conversation. She recorded
Speaker 1: the conversation and she sent it to Club Sha Sha
Speaker 1: before the interview to listen to it. So she like,
Speaker 1: you heard the interview. You heard the apology, didn't you?
Speaker 2: And he's like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and she's like what did he say?
Speaker 2: And he was like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's like what did he say? No way,
Speaker 1: It's like she wanted Shannon to repeat what he heard.
Speaker 2: Did listen to it exactly?
Speaker 1: Like listen that ship he would he would not tell
Speaker 1: her what Tyler Perry said.
Speaker 2: He's say, I got my apology, and he's like, yeah,
Speaker 2: but like why is that so important? That's not like
Speaker 2: why would that be just sometimes it's like life is hard, yeah,
Speaker 2: and if you're successful, shit has happened along the way
Speaker 2: that it has not been right. It's just life. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Now, but I think in that industry and we don't
Speaker 1: we don't know the truth because we're not there. You
Speaker 1: can easily get black bald. And that's what that's what
Speaker 1: she was saying. Okay, she got black bald because of
Speaker 1: the things that that you know, people complained about her
Speaker 1: professionalism and you know, her being difficult to work with.
Speaker 2: So is there any ownership on her part? No?
Speaker 3: Okay, now I don't. I don't know what she has done.
Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, if she's difficult to work
Speaker 3: with or or not. I don't know any of those things.
Speaker 3: But is everyone saying this?
Speaker 1: A lot of people, a lot of people have said,
Speaker 1: you know the same things about her, she's difficult to
Speaker 1: work with.
Speaker 2: And then you know the whole Dal Hughley thing. I
Speaker 2: saw that now.
Speaker 3: I saw DL's response to what she said, and DL
Speaker 3: was just like, you's a lie, right, and you lion,
Speaker 3: and you lied about that too, right.
Speaker 2: Monique is a liar.
Speaker 1: Which is hilarious to note because not one person in
Speaker 1: the world came out to say that Kat Williams is
Speaker 1: a liar.
Speaker 2: Right, right, But as soon as Monique tried it, I
Speaker 2: was like, scir she a liar and she lies.
Speaker 1: So let's she tell you that Cat Williams is telling
Speaker 1: the truth because nobody, not one challenged, not any person.
Speaker 3: He said yes, but but Monique is potentially live.
Speaker 2: Okay, and you know us just sat down with Shannon
Speaker 2: Sharp too.
Speaker 3: Yeah that and he yeah nothing nothing really uh yeah.
Speaker 2: Clipworthy newsworthy came out.
Speaker 3: Of outside of like he he didn't did or did
Speaker 3: not babysit Beyonce or something crazy, right, which is insane.
Speaker 3: They're okay, so we got some we got some something
Speaker 3: called lettus emails and we want to we want to
Speaker 3: talk about them.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: So this is from Chrissy and she says, good morning.
Speaker 3: I just wanted to say I love you, ladies. I've
Speaker 3: listened to every podcast since the beginning. Me and my
Speaker 3: husband came to see you live in Philly and we
Speaker 3: got the meet and greet tickets. But I have a
Speaker 3: one year old cappuccina. Oh, I have a Jesus Christ,
Speaker 3: I have a one year old capa chun.
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know if that's right. Monkey.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, she has a one year old monkey. Forget
Speaker 3: what kind it is, which is having a toddler on meth.
Speaker 1: Which is like having a Maybe I should have read
Speaker 1: this before I read this.
Speaker 2: Okay, so we.
Speaker 3: Didn't make it in time. However, I was the white
Speaker 3: girl with the dreads sitting in one of the front
Speaker 3: I saw her tables, and I strogglingly recommended that you
Speaker 3: guys do more live shows, because you guys make great entertainment.
Speaker 2: Y'all are funny and shit. Thank you.
Speaker 3: Do you remember I remember seeing a white girl with dreads? Okay,
Speaker 3: so shout out to Christy. White girl with dreads? Yes,
Speaker 3: who has a monkey?
Speaker 2: Yes? Okay, who's on meth?
Speaker 3: I don't know anyway about the Stanley the Stanley cup.
Speaker 3: I thought it was a stupid trend, but when I
Speaker 3: drank out of my daughter's one day, I was.
Speaker 2: Like, oh, I get it.
Speaker 3: Then one day my husband forgot his drink, so I
Speaker 3: gave him mine and he was shocked.
Speaker 2: How good the water tasted.
Speaker 3: What Okay, Okay, I know it sounds crazy, but you
Speaker 3: have to try it. I ordered him a forty ounce
Speaker 3: black one which was sixty five dollars, which which is
Speaker 3: just stupid, but whatever.
Speaker 2: He put his barbershop sticker over the name ha. But
Speaker 2: me and him both drink way much more water than
Speaker 2: we used to. I can't explain it. You just gotta
Speaker 2: try it.
Speaker 3: If this ain't a plug, I don't know what is.
Speaker 3: By the way, Stanley Cup is not paying us a
Speaker 3: dime for this. They should Okay, keep being, Oh, keep
Speaker 3: being you, stay throwing your shade because your product, your
Speaker 3: podcast is number one, and you guys are my favorite
Speaker 3: housewives in the entire franchise.
Speaker 2: Ps Is.
Speaker 3: I love you when you just make shit up. It's hilarious.
Speaker 3: I know I'm gonna start doing that more.
Speaker 1: More, Oh gosh, please, and ways include that to lead
Speaker 1: with it.
Speaker 2: I'm out right so we don't get suited.
Speaker 3: And Robin, I love how you stay true to who
Speaker 3: you are who you were before the show, and how
Speaker 3: you stick by your man and how he's he isn't
Speaker 3: changing for no one because of what others may think.
Speaker 3: Hashtag real Shit Forever A fan Chrissy from Wilmington, and
Speaker 3: here's a picture of Aboo. Okay, so monkey Abu is
Speaker 3: the monkey. Guys, we might put this on our Instagram story. Okay,
Speaker 3: if y'all can see Abu the monkey. He has on
Speaker 3: a red hoodie and he's chilling.
Speaker 2: Does that really look like a monkey? It does? If
Speaker 2: it doesn't look like a monkey, what does it look like?
Speaker 2: I don't know?
Speaker 1: Okay, can I can I talk about the Stanley Cup?
Speaker 3: Okay, let me say one thing about the Stanley Cup
Speaker 3: before you talk about So I checked in with Jason
Speaker 3: and Stanley Cup and he was like, does that I
Speaker 3: gave you a Stanley Cup? And I was like what
Speaker 3: He said that I gave you Stanley Cup every long
Speaker 3: time ago? And I was like, what happened?
Speaker 2: What you mean?
Speaker 3: Because I was like, do you know about the Stanley
Speaker 3: Cup trade? What's going on with the Stanley Cup? I
Speaker 3: think it's a young person thing. Explaining the Stanley Cup
Speaker 3: to me, He was like, I.
Speaker 2: Gave you a Stanley cut. I was like, well, Jason,
Speaker 2: you know that these kids just steal all my stuff.
Speaker 2: So he was like okay, he was like, well, I
Speaker 2: just want you to know I had your back burst.
Speaker 1: He gave you a Stanley cup. So do you even
Speaker 1: do you remember receiving a Stanley cup from Jason? I do,
Speaker 1: now I do, since he said it okay, and I
Speaker 1: gave it a door, took it, okay, yeah.
Speaker 2: Color is it? It's great, like a light grade. Okay.
Speaker 1: So you didn't even know that you were getting a
Speaker 1: Stanley cup.
Speaker 2: No, I just kind of like thanks Jason when he
Speaker 2: gave it to him. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So did he give you something else with it?
Speaker 3: Or he's just like here, what was it for a
Speaker 3: He went somewhere and he brought it back from he
Speaker 3: was like summer skiing and he.
Speaker 2: Brought it back.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, so crazy. I realized I have a Stanley
Speaker 1: cup in my house.
Speaker 2: See, we all got these dumb ass Stanley cups. Didn't
Speaker 2: even know.
Speaker 1: So last Christmas, not the Christmas, not the most recent Christmas,
Speaker 1: a whole year ago. Ola like oil of Ola, the
Speaker 1: brand Olay. They sent me a gift package and in
Speaker 1: it was their products. They had like retinol products and
Speaker 1: stuff and a Stanley cup, No, a lose Stanley cup
Speaker 1: with Olay logo on it, you know, says Stanley. And
Speaker 1: at the time, if you look in my cabinets. In
Speaker 1: my kitchen, I probably have one hundred and twenty five
Speaker 1: water bottles, right, you know what I mean that I
Speaker 1: don't even use because I'm one of those wasteful people
Speaker 1: that drinks out of the Fiji bottle or the Aquafina
Speaker 1: bottle or whatever. So when I was on my fast,
Speaker 1: one of the we had to drink this drink all day.
Speaker 1: So you had to do pour this drinking and mix
Speaker 1: it with water. And it's supposed to be twenty eight ounces.
Speaker 1: You're supposed to carry around with you all day. And
Speaker 1: I was like, what do I have that's big enough
Speaker 1: to put this drink in?
Speaker 2: So I go looking in my cabinet.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and there it is this big blue Stanley cup
Speaker 1: with a handle and a.
Speaker 2: Straw sticking out of it.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, this is perfect, perfect.
Speaker 1: It holds forty ounces, so I could put my whole
Speaker 1: drink in it. And I can tell you my water
Speaker 1: is so it was like water mixed with this drink.
Speaker 1: It tasted good, it kept it was, it stayed cold.
Speaker 1: It was like really convenient.
Speaker 2: It tastes better, it better in a Stanley cup.
Speaker 1: So do you know when you like if you get
Speaker 1: water out of your filtered refrigerator, right, you get it
Speaker 1: out your refrigerator, it doesn't taste great. So that's the
Speaker 1: water that I had in my Stanley cup in addition
Speaker 1: to this mix.
Speaker 2: And it tasted perfect.
Speaker 1: It was like nice and crisp, and it was so
Speaker 1: weird to me.
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I oh, so now you get it.
Speaker 2: Now you get it.
Speaker 1: Okay, well I get it, but I don't you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. It's like the craze over it, Like
Speaker 1: that's how people are just fanatic about it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, that's a little stress. You like, take
Speaker 2: it easy. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, okay, this this cup is legit.
Speaker 2: It's good. It's a good size.
Speaker 1: It's good for like it fits perfectly in your cup
Speaker 1: holder in the car because.
Speaker 2: Of the way it's shaped.
Speaker 1: Yes, because it's big right in most big waters containers, yeah,
Speaker 1: can't fit in your cup holder.
Speaker 2: This one.
Speaker 1: They have a nice little narrow bottom sticks in your
Speaker 1: cup holder. You know, the handle is perfect, the little
Speaker 1: straws perfect.
Speaker 3: It was just I was like, okay, so we need
Speaker 3: a reasonably shady Stanley cup.
Speaker 2: Yeah, how does that happen? We gotta call Stanley. I
Speaker 2: don't know. Okay, we'll figure it out. Yeah, you figure
Speaker 2: it out, and I won't let my kids steal it. Right,
Speaker 2: so funny, or forget that I have it. That's even
Speaker 2: a crazy so funny. Yes, somebody needs some advice and
Speaker 2: we're here to get it. Before we do advice, let's
Speaker 2: do a little hater hater Oh we love hater mail
Speaker 2: hater man.
Speaker 1: We don't get a hater mail song like don right here.
Speaker 2: It's really quick. It's not as deep as Linda with
Speaker 2: the deer.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so this person, Sandra says, I love
Speaker 1: you ladies, but you laughed and shamed the klepto basketball player.
Speaker 1: But one and your son ate and put back at target.
Speaker 2: That's stealing too.
Speaker 1: And Jiselle, you show no compassion about hitting the deer.
Speaker 1: Please try and speak to two sides of your stories.
Speaker 1: Be good human beings, still listening.
Speaker 2: What's up, Sandra?
Speaker 1: What? Sandra? Okay, you're right? One and Corey you need
Speaker 1: to go to jail.
Speaker 2: How dare they?
Speaker 1: How dare they taste tests and they didn't like it
Speaker 1: and they put it back. They need to go to
Speaker 1: jail because that's the same thing as walking out of
Speaker 1: target with candles, body wash.
Speaker 2: Soap lotion under your jacket.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's not And how dare I live in the
Speaker 3: dear die?
Speaker 2: How dare I live? Okay? Crazy, y'all people out here crazy?
Speaker 2: All right, So we need advice for Alaniya Whitfield. She
Speaker 2: needs advice for her fourteen year old daughter. All right, hello,
Speaker 2: lovely ladies. First, I want to say I've been a
Speaker 2: loyal listener since episode one.
Speaker 3: You Tube brightened up my day, especially when I've had
Speaker 3: a rough one and I turned to I turn on
Speaker 3: an episode of Reason Me Shady and it helps me tremendously.
Speaker 3: My name is Holly. Okay, so I totally said her
Speaker 3: name wrong. Her name is Holly. I live in Bangor, Maine.
Speaker 2: Shout out to Banger. Is that how you really pronounced that?
Speaker 2: B a ng o or Banger? Yes?
Speaker 1: Okay, yes, Robin, I know you have been to Banger.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, okay, yes, that's where I got kicked out
Speaker 1: of the airport.
Speaker 2: That's right, that's right, and had experience at the airport.
Speaker 2: Ha ha.
Speaker 3: I promise you we aren't that bad. I need some advice.
Speaker 3: My daughter's fourteen and has recently been getting in trouble
Speaker 3: at school. She just got suspended for smoking pot. I
Speaker 3: thought she was smarter than that. But I also know
Speaker 3: what it's like to be a teenage girl.
Speaker 2: Giselle.
Speaker 3: You've raised some very smart, respectable ladies, and I would
Speaker 3: love your advice on how you approach the situation and
Speaker 3: how to give the best guidance for my daughter. Thank
Speaker 3: you for any advice you two might have.
Speaker 2: Keep doing what you're.
Speaker 3: Doing, and just know that the guy that you guys
Speaker 3: are making a difference. Lots of love, Holly, Oh, that's
Speaker 3: so nice.
Speaker 2: Yes, thank you. And I don't know what kind of
Speaker 2: advice I can give Grace smoke a weed right now? Oh, okay,
Speaker 2: I'm joking, jokes, jokes. You know. I was extremely upfront and.
Speaker 3: Honest with my kids about everything, sex, drugs, rock and roll, everything,
Speaker 3: just because I don't want them to learn about things
Speaker 3: and be curious about things and then they're in the
Speaker 3: streets trying to figure it out. So I tried to
Speaker 3: do scare tactics, okay, and I tried to be like,
Speaker 3: you know, if you smoke weed, then you're gonna be
Speaker 3: hooked on heroin for the rest of your life, right
Speaker 3: And I know that makes it's no correlation.
Speaker 2: But I was like, it's a.
Speaker 1: Slippery slow, it's a gateway drug.
Speaker 2: It's a gateweight drug, very slow.
Speaker 1: I shared that. My I'm sorry to cut you off,
Speaker 1: but I shared. You know, I smoked weed at a
Speaker 1: young age and my best friend, who kind of you know,
Speaker 1: was the one that I would get into trouble with.
Speaker 1: We stopped hanging out midway through ninth grade, and by
Speaker 1: her senior year, she was hooked on heroin.
Speaker 2: Yes, so it is a gateway drug. It can be, Yes,
Speaker 2: it can be.
Speaker 3: I I a couple other things I told them. I
Speaker 3: was like, you know, do you know how you get
Speaker 3: heroin in your body? And they're like how you have
Speaker 3: to take a needle and you have to like click it,
Speaker 3: you know how they be clicking the knee and then
Speaker 3: you put.
Speaker 2: It in your veins and they're like why what do
Speaker 2: you mean?
Speaker 3: So I like, I over exaggerate what's really happening. I mean,
Speaker 3: if you tell your child that, that's like traumatizing, right,
Speaker 3: And it's like, why would I want to get high
Speaker 3: at bad?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 3: So I just say, Holly, just be honest with your daughter,
Speaker 3: and like, yes, weed is a gateway drug. Yeah, However,
Speaker 3: if the child is just smoking weed at fourteen, is
Speaker 3: that that bad?
Speaker 1: So?
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: It could be some other bad she could be selling
Speaker 3: if my fourteen year olds okay, fine, it's really bad.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's bad. It's not good. That's bad. So
Speaker 2: give her a no. Oh my god, okay, it's it is.
Speaker 2: It is very scary out here. It is all sidey.
Speaker 1: It's very scary. Yes, I will with me. I have voice,
Speaker 1: jaill you have girls, okay at fourteen? I want to
Speaker 1: know how much freedom did your girls have at fourteen?
Speaker 2: What's fourteen? What class? What grade is that? That's like
Speaker 2: ninth grade pretty much? Ninth grade? Okay? Yeah. And when
Speaker 2: you say freedom, what do you mean.
Speaker 1: Like to hang out, to go, to leave your house
Speaker 1: without you being there and they can just go. They're like, oh, Mom,
Speaker 1: can you drop us off at the at Susie's house?
Speaker 1: Or can you drop us off at the movie now?
Speaker 1: Or can you drop us off at the mall?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: Or can you write? So the difference, I think is
Speaker 1: how much freedom do your children have? Because I was fourteen,
Speaker 1: I knew better. I was a almost a straight a student.
Speaker 1: I was well behaved in school. I was well behaved
Speaker 1: at home, but my parents gave me a little bit
Speaker 1: of freedom, and that's when I got into my trouble.
Speaker 1: That's when I would smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol, smoke weed
Speaker 1: because I was hanging out with someone who had acts, yes,
Speaker 1: but when I was at home, I wasn't doing that well.
Speaker 1: I would sneak out, okay, anyway she was, I would
Speaker 1: sneak no, no, no, I would like sneak or whatever.
Speaker 2: But I knew way. I knew way better.
Speaker 1: And I always had the fear of my parents finding
Speaker 1: out and the repercussions and getting in trouble and so
Speaker 1: so I think that prevented me from like really going
Speaker 1: far with that. I always knew that my parents were
Speaker 1: were going to be there and we're gonna if they
Speaker 1: found out, I was going to get in trouble. But
Speaker 1: it's all about the freedom you give your kids. And Holly,
Speaker 1: I hate to say it, and I know it might
Speaker 1: be a struggle. You might have to reign in the
Speaker 1: freedom that your daughter has.
Speaker 3: But also open lines of communication. Let's let's talk about this,
Speaker 3: like why are you smoking weed like you're fourteen? Why
Speaker 3: why are you doing this?
Speaker 2: Right? Don't just be the parent that's just.
Speaker 3: Gonna like punish you and go to hell off and
Speaker 3: not like have conversation.
Speaker 1: Right, And you got to look at her friends. You
Speaker 1: gotta look at who is she spending time with. Hate
Speaker 1: certain certain friends I would be I would go out
Speaker 1: and I would get in trouble with, I would do
Speaker 1: things I shouldn't do stuff with, and then other friends
Speaker 1: we're doing much different things. So it's all about who
Speaker 1: is she spending time with, how much freedom does she
Speaker 1: have and does she know better? And like I believe
Speaker 1: she knows better because you're a concerned parent.
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, and tell her to listen to reasonably shady
Speaker 3: because to her to listen to this advice that we're.
Speaker 1: Giving, well, I think Holly can can you know can translate? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but tell her my story how I was hanging out fourteen.
Speaker 1: You please tell her that I was hanging out fourteen
Speaker 1: spoken we doing shit I shouldn't have been doing, drinking,
Speaker 1: getting black out drunk, and my friend that I was
Speaker 1: doing that with eventually had to go to rehab by
Speaker 1: the by senior year. That's she doesn't want to go
Speaker 1: down that road.
Speaker 2: No, okay, So she.
Speaker 1: And I had to take I literally had to take
Speaker 1: a step back from hanging out with her.
Speaker 2: Yes, and every after that everything was fine.
Speaker 1: Yes, but I do want to When we were driving
Speaker 1: home from Philly, yeah, Justeselle finally smelled the scent of.
Speaker 2: Weed on the highway. I didn't know.
Speaker 3: Well, no, let's back up. We're driving. Robin smells the
Speaker 3: weed smell. Because I said, I've never smelled weed, like
Speaker 3: outside of her car right when you're driving. She was like,
Speaker 3: you smell at you smell that, you smell at And
Speaker 3: I was like, smell.
Speaker 2: She's like, you don't smell that weed. You smell it now.
Speaker 2: You're smell it now. And I was like and so, yeah,
Speaker 2: I smelled it.
Speaker 3: A million times. Okay, smelled a million times. It just
Speaker 3: never registered me what I was smelling.
Speaker 1: Oh you thought it was like some some sticks burning
Speaker 1: on No. I just never gave it anything really, ok Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just was like, well I just keep driving, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's what you were smelling.
Speaker 3: Yeah I was, you know, sometimes I can be a
Speaker 3: little air hairdish, but yeah, Robin was dead on it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like, you smell that, that's weed.
Speaker 2: Okay. So when is the appropriate age to just start
Speaker 2: smoking weede twenty five. I would like them to wait
Speaker 2: till they're like in college. So what's that? What's college? Twenty? Yeah,
Speaker 2: nineteen twenty twenty. I do want to say, y'all, I
Speaker 2: don't you have to wait till your brain cells are
Speaker 2: finished growing? Please? And that's that's what I was going
Speaker 2: to say. Okay.
Speaker 1: I do want to say I fried some brain cells.
Speaker 1: We know, Okay, because I'm telling you something like I notice, I.
Speaker 2: Know, I'm gonna tell y'all right now, I'll be cut off.
Speaker 3: Robin walks around her house in circles, okay, and those
Speaker 3: are the brain cells that she killed.
Speaker 1: Yes, I noticed when my memory went to shit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I noticed when like my attention went to shit. I
Speaker 1: noticed it even at a you know, when I was
Speaker 1: a teenager, I was like, why am I forgetting shit?
Speaker 1: Why can't I think of certain words? Why can't I
Speaker 1: remember shit? And I know it's because I smoked weed
Speaker 1: at a young age. So Holly, tell your daughter that too.
Speaker 1: She's gonna make herself real stupid smoking weed.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And how old are you now? Forty something?
Speaker 2: Forty four?
Speaker 3: And yes, so Holly, your daughter's not wanna be forty
Speaker 3: four walking around circles.
Speaker 2: In her house. Okay, because that's what Robin.
Speaker 1: Does, starting four tests in thirty seconds.
Speaker 2: All right, we are out of here. We got to go.
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