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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let me do my little clap ready, tail.

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Speaker 3: I hope you enjoyed these claps because Robin's so excited

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Speaker 3: about these damn claps.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Listen, that's what they do, like when we're doing our

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Speaker 1: confessional there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, little.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shitey. I am Jaseelle Bryant.

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Speaker 2: What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you

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Speaker 2: Rob Dix in the os to Robbie d What episode

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Speaker 2: is this? I don't know. This is say, episode five

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Speaker 2: hundred and eighty three, eight million, eight million, seventeen thousand.

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Speaker 2: You know, I do appreciate the Black Fact Family. Absolutely

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Speaker 2: want to get them a little shout out. We love y'all.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate the fact that we are part of the

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Speaker 2: fam bank. Yes, Yes, and they've they've added a couple

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Speaker 2: of nice new shows they have. There's one, Damn.

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Speaker 1: I wish I knew you were going to say this

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Speaker 1: because I would actually remember the name of.

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Speaker 2: It to show a podcast show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a black guy. Of course, he's black.

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Speaker 2: Any like, and he likes and.

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Speaker 1: He's talking about just black facts, like, Oh I love that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, but in like a cool way. Yeah. Damn.

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Speaker 2: What's the name of I.

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Speaker 3: Don't know, but speaking of him, the name of Tailor looked, No,

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Speaker 3: look that up, because this is this We're still on

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Speaker 3: Black History Month, and you know, we got to get

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Speaker 3: it all in because.

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Speaker 2: We are black and the black black black Black, So.

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Speaker 3: First and foremost, if you've never if you've never listened

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Speaker 3: to another podcast on the Black Effect Network, which is

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Speaker 3: run by black people, Yes, we love Dollie Charlemagne, all

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Speaker 3: our whole Black Black Effect family. We love you guys,

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Speaker 3: and we appreciate being a part of this black world.

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Speaker 3: That's part of our little black history moment.

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Speaker 2: No, let me give you let me fine, Okay, wait

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Speaker 2: is this here we go? Yes?

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Speaker 1: His the name of his podcast, and I think we've

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Speaker 1: maybe have dropped like his trailer in our feed it's

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Speaker 1: called I didn't know. Maybe you didn't either, Yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: he's our brother podcaster.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and we appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but I definitely want to check it out because

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Speaker 1: I love, like, I love doing stuff like that, just

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Speaker 1: reading like little known facts, ye, learning history, and they

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Speaker 1: just have these random like Why do I know this?

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Speaker 1: Oh because I learned it on this podcast or whatever

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Speaker 1: I put on an article. So yeah, I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you didn't either, check it out.

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Speaker 2: Check it out. So you have a reasonably shady moment. Yes,

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Speaker 3: So my cleaning people, oh my gosh, cleaning people, like

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Speaker 3: if you got a good clean press, you better keep

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Speaker 3: them for life.

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Speaker 2: Right, keep them for life?

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Speaker 1: Because number one, it's like hard to bring new people

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Speaker 1: they're all through your house, all downa shit, they hearing

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Speaker 1: your personal conversations whatever it might be, right, and so

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Speaker 1: bringing it like finding a cleaning person is not just

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Speaker 1: about the actual cleaning that they do. It's the fact

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Speaker 1: that you can trust these people absolutely in your personal space.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: So, my cleaning people have been with us, gosh for

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Speaker 1: My cleaning people have been with us for longer than

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Speaker 1: fifteen years. Yeah, and like with me, they right, they've

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Speaker 2: Me too, I didn't know that.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny like when we were broke, that was

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Speaker 2: You know, I yeah, I could, Okay, I can.

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Speaker 1: I can downsize my car, I can start I can

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Speaker 1: We had asked to switch our times. So so they

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Speaker 1: And they just just got rid of the pumpkins. Not

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Speaker 1: Because they come to us and they're tired, and you know,

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Speaker 3: And they and your neighbors, that's your contact. Your neighbors

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Speaker 2: Can you imagine what the ship they're cleaning over there? Yes,

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Speaker 1: And he's like, yeah, it's a little it takes takes

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Speaker 1: first because we noticed, you know, you're missing some spots.

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Speaker 1: You a little tired, not you know whatever, blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: it's a long.

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Speaker 2: Ass Actually were when we were at the live show.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he said his long ass text message, starting off

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Speaker 1: what mister Dixon said.

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Speaker 2: What he was offended. He was personally offended. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: that one was in the right.

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Speaker 2: One was in the right.

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Speaker 3: But however he got he got put on pause from

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Speaker 2: Yeah? My cleaning people dumped us. No, yo, don't us you.

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Speaker 1: He was so offended, like personally offended that that we

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Speaker 2: Do a good job. One can no longer talk to

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Speaker 2: anyone dump one. Wan is banned. Wan is banned. But

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Speaker 2: I felt the same way. But Wan didn't talk to

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Speaker 1: He had were you there? I was there, Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think he just got in his feelings because so

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Speaker 1: and think so think about I'm like, I'm like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, like one, we gotta find new people.

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Speaker 2: To come in our house. And he's like, no, we're

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, but let me tell you what I would do.

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Speaker 3: I would go to my neighbor's house and cuss them out,

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Speaker 3: like they're the reason for all of this.

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Speaker 2: Well, but but like I said, I had them.

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Speaker 1: I told him they could come in the afternoon because

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Speaker 1: you know, the kids getting whatever, getting out of the

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Speaker 1: big My kids sleep in, right.

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Speaker 2: So it's really not their fault. It's their fault because

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Speaker 2: our house is so greed claiming people aren't tired.

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Speaker 1: Right. So right, So it was a little stressful time.

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Speaker 2: We did call. We talked to him.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday, okay, and and they talked it through. Good who

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Speaker 1: did the talking, Wan and Wan and he.

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Speaker 2: You know, he said, you all do an unbelievable job. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: good And we've been with us for so long. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we appreciate you. Go on.

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Speaker 1: You know, we weren't trying to uh, you know, offend you.

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Speaker 2: Blah blah blahay whatever. So y'all are back on the scale.

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Speaker 2: So we're back.

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Speaker 3: But but thank god he's charging us more. Oh that

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Speaker 3: might have been this, That might have been a deal

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Speaker 3: from the beginning. They might be the neighbors probably giving

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Speaker 3: him more money.

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Speaker 1: He well, maybe he went this is this was his explanation.

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Speaker 1: He said, you know, when when y'all first moved into

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Speaker 1: quote for the house, Yeah, you didn't have as much furniture,

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Speaker 1: but now you have, you know, a lot more furnitu sure, right,

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Speaker 1: and the furniture takes a lot more time to clean.

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Speaker 1: So he went up fifty dollars.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So it's okay. As a parent, it just sucks.

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Speaker 3: And it's to the point now where my kids are like, mine,

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Speaker 3: Okay, long story short, it's their senior night, so that's

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Speaker 3: Anyway, that's not the point of my story. So because

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Speaker 3: like very much like my you know, I brought them flowers.

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Speaker 3: They didn't want to They didn't want to hold my

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Speaker 3: It's weird. So actually they should be the shady moment, yeah,

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Speaker 3: cool like I said, but I'm walking both of y'all

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Speaker 2: She's like, you're one person and two people one. You're

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Speaker 2: at one time. Yes, the hell, I can't have two arms, right,

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Speaker 2: so I can't birth to you all the same time.

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Speaker 3: I can do this anyway. So we get to they

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Speaker 3: start talking about a door. We start walking. We're walking,

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Speaker 3: we're walking, We're walking, and something inside me was uncontrollable,

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Speaker 3: and I just was so overwhelmed with joy I just

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Speaker 2: What why? I started screaming at the top of my lungs.

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Speaker 2: I was out of control. While you're walking, yes, I'm

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Speaker 2: like yeah, because as we're walking, you gonna say you

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Speaker 3: So as we were walking, their whole team that's not

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Speaker 3: seniors is on the side like cheering.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so they're like cheering, yay, yay, yay, and I

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Speaker 2: just started screaming. Oh my gosh, my children were me.

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Speaker 2: I tell you to shut up. They were mortified.

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Speaker 3: They were like, this is why, and yes I'm shady

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Speaker 3: because I saw I won't go do it, and I

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Speaker 2: Were you doing it? Control them?

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Speaker 3: I was doing it because there's something wrong with me

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Speaker 3: and it's called I just did not know how to

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Speaker 2: I got so.

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Speaker 1: Excited because track season's over.

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Speaker 2: I got so excited from my children who've been running

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Speaker 2: track for three years. Okay, I just got excited. I

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Speaker 2: was just so proud of them. Oh my god. So

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Speaker 2: anywhere you have video footage of this? I hope not. No.

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Speaker 2: I mean I don't know. No, please. I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god. They were actually laughing.

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Speaker 3: They did laugh a little bit because they were like,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I was just happy.

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Speaker 3: So what's the name of the the the new podcast

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Speaker 3: that we want to watch?

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Speaker 2: What's it called?

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. Yeah, maybe you didn't either, Okay, right,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. Maybe you didn't either.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know Drake's penis was yellow? Wait did you

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Speaker 2: see it? So I didn't see it? Why wouldn't it

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Speaker 2: be yellow? Like yellow yellow, not like like not like

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Speaker 2: the same color as his face, like like not like

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Speaker 2: his face. His face is not yellow. Okay, yellow. So

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Speaker 2: I was talking to a guy who's gay friend of mine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and when the Drake penis leaked Okay, I'll.

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Speaker 2: Tell you who he is later, it was not col okay.

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Speaker 3: So because because one of those Miami plastic surgeons like

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Speaker 3: came out and said, like, hey, Drake, like call me

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Speaker 3: or like I know that you had some work done

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Speaker 3: on it or something like its people he's daven trolling him.

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Speaker 2: Okay, can you can you? Can you explain what what happened?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What happened?

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Speaker 1: Because I I just saw headlines and I saw you know,

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Speaker 1: it's just like people were reacting to this Drake penis leak.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't see it.

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Speaker 1: I would I wouldn't mind if someone would send it

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Speaker 1: to me, DMN it to Robin.

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Speaker 2: But so what is what was the sentiment? The sentiment

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Speaker 2: was it was nice and big, it was big and yellow.

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Speaker 2: Now where did it come from? Like body?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no.

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Speaker 2: What was the leak from? Like where it was a video?

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Speaker 3: I think of him having sex maybe or him in

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Speaker 3: the shower something like that.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, yeah, anyway, so where's my point in my story?

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Speaker 1: Plastic surgeon?

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Speaker 2: Oh so yellow?

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Speaker 3: I was intrigued, friend, Yeah, I was intrigued because I

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Speaker 3: was like, are men really out here getting their penises done?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: So I did call Cow. I said, Cow, what's going

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Speaker 3: on in the community here? Are men just like getting

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Speaker 3: their penises done?

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Speaker 2: And he was like all the time. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: what are you talking about? Huh? So he said, yeah,

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Speaker 2: like you can just get it?

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Speaker 1: Shot?

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Speaker 2: What get fillers put into the penis? Ew? And well,

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Speaker 2: what's philing?

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Speaker 1: That's so filler wouldn't make it girth longer?

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Speaker 3: So you get girth and length you can get you

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Speaker 3: can get I think an inch of girth and three

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Speaker 3: inches length?

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Speaker 2: Three did you make that up? No? One to three?

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Speaker 2: One to three inches? What? So I'm like what? So

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Speaker 2: I'm like death. I don't want to speak on Drake's penis,

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Speaker 2: but I mean, like, we are you know what I

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Speaker 3: I don't so like, you know, I just want to

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Speaker 3: say maybe maybe that's what mister Drake did, but it's

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Speaker 3: not even it doesn't even matter.

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Speaker 1: Who cares you were about to say something about a

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Speaker 1: friend that wasn't col.

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Speaker 3: Yes, oh, he's in love with it. So there's a friend.

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Speaker 3: There's another friend.

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Speaker 2: Okay, guy, he likes penises, he's infatuated with it, with

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Speaker 2: Drake's penis.

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Speaker 3: Yes, he was like, I love yellow penises. And when

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Speaker 3: I tell you this friend is later, you're gonna laugh.

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Speaker 3: You probably already know who he is. Oh anyway, listen,

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Speaker 3: why don't yellow like a crayon? Like a yellow crayon.

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Speaker 3: Somebody's gonna send us a picture somebody. I haven't seen

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Speaker 3: it either, so I was like, oh, you haven't seen it. No,

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Speaker 3: So I told him to send it to me.

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Speaker 2: I think he forgot. But yeah, that's intriguing, right What

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Speaker 2: makes it yellow? The enlargement procedure, I know.

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Speaker 3: But okay, this story is all over the place. I

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Speaker 3: wasn't forget Drake. I was intrigued by the fact that

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Speaker 3: a lot of men.

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Speaker 1: Are enlarging their enlarging their pieces, which I agree with.

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Speaker 1: Haven't you seen ads for like, I don't know pills

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Speaker 1: or procedures to enlarger penis and does that work?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: Wait, pills are procedures to enlarger penis? Okay, So that's

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Speaker 3: not yellow. Carly's here, and.

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Speaker 1: Carly googled Drake's penis and there's a picture of him.

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Speaker 1: He took the picture. It's a selfie. He's in the

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Speaker 1: bed and he's holding his penis.

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Speaker 2: It's not yellow. It's not yellow. No, oh it's not.

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Speaker 2: But but okay, so he has hand. Okay, it's large. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's large a good side. So so right, it doesn't

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Speaker 2: it does to me because it's a little crooked.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, I want I want feedback from the guys out there,

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Speaker 3: if you have had this done.

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Speaker 1: Okay, now that you've seen Drake's picture, how do you

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Speaker 1: feel about him?

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Speaker 2: I don't want to.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to jump on that penis, Okay, just

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Speaker 3: I just you know, I just what it's.

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Speaker 2: I mean, Drake dre what see. I know you love Drake.

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Speaker 2: I love his music. Let's get that straight.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't have any Drake doesn't do it for me. No,

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Speaker 1: he don't do it for me either. Oh okay, I

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Speaker 1: love his music, but I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm no sexual desire for Drake. No, No, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm not attracted to him.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to, you know, hang out with him,

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Speaker 1: kick it with him, and if he walked down the street,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be like, oh my god, Drake, I probably

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Speaker 1: don't even want to picture.

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Speaker 2: No, no, I want none of the thing, none of

439
00:19:57,840 --> 00:19:59,160
Speaker 2: the things. But I love his music.

440
00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, Drake, you know he's yes, got he got that

441
00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,760
Speaker 3: on lock. But yes, we want to know from the men.

442
00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:06,240
Speaker 3: Have you gotten your penis and large? Have you gotten

443
00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:06,880
Speaker 3: this procedure?

444
00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:10,359
Speaker 2: Yes? Did it hurt? Yes? Like is it local anesthesia?

445
00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:13,400
Speaker 3: It's the details, give us the whole And how many

446
00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:15,360
Speaker 3: inches did it increase?

447
00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:17,359
Speaker 2: Too? Right? Yeah? You started?

448
00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:21,160
Speaker 3: I mean and listen, if you got a five inch dick,

449
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,040
Speaker 3: like go get that shit done right?

450
00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:23,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yes?

451
00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:25,080
Speaker 1: And if you got it, did you like grow a

452
00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:26,000
Speaker 1: third eyeball.

453
00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:27,639
Speaker 2: In the back of your head? Ye, like you know, like.

454
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:33,399
Speaker 1: Something else crazy happened, but yeah, or if you know

455
00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,200
Speaker 1: someone like yeah, just give us the deeds.

456
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, this gives SATs all right.

457
00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:39,320
Speaker 3: Now, Beyonce's coming out with a new Speaking of Cow,

458
00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:41,320
Speaker 3: I told col Beyonce is coming for him because you

459
00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:44,399
Speaker 3: know cow sells hair product. Yes, I don't know how

460
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:48,680
Speaker 3: to pronounce Beyonce's new hairline, so it's sacred.

461
00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:50,200
Speaker 2: That's what I thought.

462
00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:53,240
Speaker 1: Yes, she's because in the caption it said hair is

463
00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:56,879
Speaker 1: sacred s s A c r e D. Okay, the

464
00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:02,120
Speaker 1: new hairline is spelled c E c r E D. Right,

465
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:03,720
Speaker 1: that's it's sacred.

466
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:06,800
Speaker 2: So so think about it. So Beyonce, the end of

467
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:08,199
Speaker 2: Beyonce is Ce.

468
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 1: Oh so it's sacred.

469
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 2: Oh okay, it's a lot of thank you sacred. I'm

470
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,960
Speaker 2: here for it, got it? Yes? How did you figure

471
00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 2: that out? Because you you know, you're not really a Beyonce,

472
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:21,120
Speaker 2: You're not a bee Hiver.

473
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,159
Speaker 1: You don't have to be a bee Hiver to have

474
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:28,439
Speaker 1: a brain and to use it and to put it

475
00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:30,119
Speaker 1: into some critical thinking.

476
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,960
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I'm not mad at it. I'm here for

477
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:37,120
Speaker 2: the sacred. Yes, today we're going to transform I We're

478
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:38,919
Speaker 2: going to show you some magic that Beyonce. I'm the

479
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 2: team I've been working with. I've never tried anything like

480
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:44,440
Speaker 2: this before, and it's revolutionary. My brain got like an

481
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:48,400
Speaker 2: expolation of her life, like my hair needed this. It's

482
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 2: never felt like this before. So I can't wait for

483
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,520
Speaker 2: all that to come out. I want to try it out.

484
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,000
Speaker 2: But you know, I mean, I think it's interesting. Okay.

485
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,000
Speaker 1: Number one Beyonce. I think I said this, Oh, I

486
00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 1: said this said the live show?

487
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 2: Did I say this at the Life? I'm surprised she's none? No, sooner.

488
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 1: I said this our in one of our little group chats. Okay,

489
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 1: I'm surprised that Beyonce has been wearing that platinum wig

490
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:11,879
Speaker 1: for so long.

491
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:14,080
Speaker 3: You said that, and I and I'm mad at that

492
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,119
Speaker 3: because I love her in the platinum.

493
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 1: You do, Yes, I'm looking for my tissues. Yeah, I

494
00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:24,199
Speaker 1: love her on the plant. I don't okay, but whatever,

495
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 1: you know, who cares what I think? Just like I

496
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 1: don't care what anyone thinks when they tell me how

497
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: they feel about my hair.

498
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just.

499
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 1: Surprised she's had it for so long because she's it's

500
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 1: been a while. Oh so you think now what she's

501
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 1: grown her hair out or something. What does this have

502
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:40,480
Speaker 1: to do with the sacred Nothing? What I was going

503
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 1: to say that was just a side note.

504
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:44,200
Speaker 2: Sorry, y'all.

505
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 1: I'm wiping my nose in case you can hear that.

506
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:49,920
Speaker 1: Beyonce doesn't wear her natural hair a lot.

507
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 2: Right.

508
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 1: Well, okay, we don't know what the product is even though,

509
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 1: so we don't know if it's extensions wigs or if

510
00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 1: it's shampoo, conditioner, hair growth, seam or anything. My assumption's

511
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 1: like hair, you know, shampoo, Yeah, hair care products. She

512
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 1: doesn't wear her natural hair. She has beautiful natural hair,

513
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 1: but she doesn't wear it.

514
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,880
Speaker 2: Okay, So I say.

515
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,719
Speaker 1: Why do we need a hair care line from Beyonce?

516
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,160
Speaker 1: We don't ever see your natural hair.

517
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 2: Oh, I see what you're saying. You know what I'm saying.

518
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 3: But that doesn't mean she doesn't want to help the world.

519
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 3: And I'm sure her products are going to be superior

520
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 3: and that's.

521
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 2: Just for you know, or all of us.

522
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, or maybe she'll start maybe now that she has

523
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 1: to promo promote this hair hair care line, maybe she'll

524
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 1: be wearing her natural hair.

525
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know. I know.

526
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 1: I just feel like, Okay, if you're going to be

527
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 1: promoting a hair care line, then we might you might.

528
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:42,720
Speaker 2: Well, you have to keep the mind.

529
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 3: Tina used to hair hairstylists, right, and so I'm sure

530
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 3: Tina has a lot of input into this line.

531
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm just thinking, I don't know.

532
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,120
Speaker 3: I disagree with that because just because we don't see

533
00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 3: her without the wigs or whatever, because she's Yeah, I'm

534
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 3: sure when she gets home, she takes it off and

535
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 3: she's wearing her natural hair, and she wants something that

536
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 3: is good for her hair, right, yeah.

537
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 2: And my hair and your hair. I agree with that,

538
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,440
Speaker 2: But I'm just saying I don't know.

539
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: I I think if she's gonna really push this product, yeah,

540
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 1: she might need to wear her natural hair so we

541
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 1: can see how beautiful her natural hair is, how well

542
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 1: these products have worked for her natural hair.

543
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 3: She might I think when the role out comes, she

544
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,120
Speaker 3: might share that and Beyonce, if you want to send

545
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 3: us some sacred we'll be more than happy to just

546
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 3: to send it to me. Don't send it to Robbin

547
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,359
Speaker 3: because you know how Robbin is, y'all just rob Okay,

548
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 3: So anyway, let's talk about amber Rose because I thought

549
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 3: that this was hilarious. Okay, she shared that, and this

550
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:43,439
Speaker 3: is a little while ago that she shared it. She

551
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 3: doesn't believe in forgiveness. Amber Rose is not who used

552
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 3: to who has a child with Wis Khalifa.

553
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,199
Speaker 2: She used to day Kanye West. Yeah, that's where she

554
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 2: became known.

555
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 1: And she has a tattoo on her forehead her children's names.

556
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, and shares boyfriend.

557
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,880
Speaker 2: She used to date. Okay, m hm, yeah.

558
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 3: She said she doesn't believe in forgiveness if you don't

559
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 3: want to forgive, if you don't want to forgive. She

560
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 3: says she's very comfortable with hating people.

561
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,439
Speaker 2: At first, the first time I heard her, because she

562
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 2: you know, I listened to the audio. The first time

563
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 2: I heard, I was like, you know what, that's wild.

564
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 2: But then I'm like, I'm here for that, right, Like

565
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 2: there's some people out here that Now, mind you, I

566
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 2: would never, you know, to hate somebody that's energy, right,

567
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 2: So I've never like be walking around with that kind

568
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 2: of energy.

569
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 1: But I get it. Yeah, I get that too. I

570
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: mean I forgive forgiveness. I think forgiveness is a tough

571
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: thing to do.

572
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's actually for you. It's not really for them,

573
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 2: It's for you, right.

574
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,880
Speaker 1: It's like releasing it's forgiveness is more about releasing whatever

575
00:25:56,400 --> 00:26:00,880
Speaker 1: negative energy, toxic energy, or whatever has you consumed by

576
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: by whatever that person did.

577
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can say so.

578
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 1: I shared on season one of The Real House Hot

579
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 1: Potomac that one of our, one of our best friends,

580
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: took our money.

581
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, killed himself. Blah blah blah.

582
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: It took me ten years to forgive.

583
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 2: Him, as he was now no longer living, right, no

584
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 2: longer living.

585
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:26,120
Speaker 1: I cursed his name frequently, frequently, like literally, I mean yeah,

586
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 1: I would with verve, Yes, I would. You know, we

587
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 1: would talk about the situation sometimes years later and I

588
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: would just be like, manam I can you know because

589
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: I never got to have that conversation with him. I

590
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 1: never got to have the like got closure. Yeah, I

591
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: never had closure. I never got to have the you

592
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: know what the was going on? Why would you do that?

593
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 2: But none of it.

594
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: I never got the apology, none of it. And so

595
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: I had anger and emotions of negative emotions towards him

596
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: for ten years. And it was one day, it was

597
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 1: very weird. I was driving and I said this out loud.

598
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 1: I said, I forgive you.

599
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 2: Ah, look at that. Yeah, and then you were it

600
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 2: was released from you.

601
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was released because I know he regrets what

602
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: he did. You don't know, you know, he he did

603
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 1: what he did out of more desperation, not intentionally trying

604
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: to hurt people. And yeah, you know, but it took

605
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: me ten years to get to that.

606
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 2: Okay, But so you recommend that people forgive if it's something.

607
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: No, Well, okay, yes, and no, okay, take your time

608
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:34,160
Speaker 1: with forgiveness.

609
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: Oh okay, you.

610
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,440
Speaker 1: Know, because I think a lot of times when something

611
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 1: goes on between someone and you have other people in

612
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 1: your air, oh, you know, forgiveness and you know, God

613
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: says we should, we should forgive and all this type

614
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: of stuff. If you're not ready to forgive, it's okay.

615
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 1: I get that, it's okay. But if you feel like

616
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 1: this has been weighing you down, and not that the

617
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: situation prevented me from doing anything right, but I just

618
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,880
Speaker 1: still had that negative emotion towards him when I thought

619
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 1: about it, and it really wasn't more so about me.

620
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:11,199
Speaker 2: It was just like I can't even explain it.

621
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 1: It's just one day I came to the realization that

622
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: I forgave him, okay, and I wasn't in a rush

623
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: to forgive him.

624
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 3: So for ten years, you and Amber Rose were like

625
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 3: synced up. Y'all were like the same.

626
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I like to say, walking around hating people.

627
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I'm hating a deceased person. I know that's absurd,

628
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: it's absurd, But if it was done to you, you

629
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: would understand.

630
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 3: Me, right, very true, you know, But I think that

631
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 3: in order for you to live, because you always want

632
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,719
Speaker 3: to me. I want to strive to always be in

633
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 3: peace and in happiness. So in order for that to happen,

634
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 3: I can't carry that. I can't carry around hatred. I

635
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 3: can't carry around me being mad at somebody, Right, So

636
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 3: I gotta let just let stuff go.

637
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 2: You probably just let it go. Yeah, yeah, I mean.

638
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 1: But it's that's kind of a I typically do that,

639
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: and it's not. Yeah, so Carly saying she finds that

640
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: interesting because she knows my personality. I don't get caught

641
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 1: up on stuff. I think it was the fact that

642
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: he was deceased and he was such a good friend

643
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 1: and we were never able to have any type of

644
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: conversation or closure on it. But I think if if

645
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: he were still alive, let's say, okay, if he were

646
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 1: still alive he stole our money and we cut him off,

647
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: you know, you're no longer our friend, it probably would

648
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: have been easier for me to let it go. Because

649
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: I'm looking at him. I'm like, you're still alive, and

650
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: you walking around, you know, you're a little happy, merry way,

651
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 1: and then that would be like, you know what, I'm

652
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: not getting my feelings all caught up in him because

653
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: he's over here living his life like nothing happened, you

654
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But just have him jumped one

655
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 1: of the two, right.

656
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 2: I just think I don't know.

657
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: I just think that the fact that he like did

658
00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: what he did, he passed away the way he did,

659
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: It's just that that changed things for me. But I

660
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: typically am able to be like, oh she said, what, Okay.

661
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm just not gonna talk to you again.

662
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 2: Like I don't have any you don't give it energy.

663
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: I don't give it energy, like with respect to what

664
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:18,239
Speaker 1: has gone on, you know on the show. I have

665
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 1: no anger. I have no you know, nothing towards anyone.

666
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,959
Speaker 1: But I have decided to say, Okay, that person doesn't

667
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 1: fit in this box in my life anymore.

668
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 2: Yeah. Amen, And now I'm with that.

669
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 1: I'm with that. So he had an out. Yeah, so

670
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: my friend had an out. Yeah, he took his life.

671
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: He was able to cut the situation off, cut all

672
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: his issues, you know, out, and not face the consequences.

673
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 2: And we had to. We had to grind, we had to.

674
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 2: So everything happens for a reason, I mean, whatever reason

675
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 2: is right. So club Sha Shay. I just wanted to

676
00:30:55,800 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 2: just touch on him for like eight seconds. Okay. He

677
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 2: that is the new Oprah. It's the new breaking news. Okay. Club.

678
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 3: Who knew that Shannon Sharp club would be the new

679
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 3: breaking news.

680
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 1: That's where everybody wants to go to vent.

681
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 2: To vent and to and to just let it air out.

682
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 2: They will.

683
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 3: That's where you go when you want to air out

684
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 3: anything that you've been holding on to for dear life.

685
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 3: Now let me just say this, So the another Baltimore girl.

686
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 2: The I told you greatness.

687
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 3: Money, the comedian Monique, comedian and actress, Oh yes, right,

688
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:38,959
Speaker 3: and Emmy Oscar, Yeah, Oscar winning actress. She won, right,

689
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 3: I think she went, Yeah, she won, Okay, Okay, she

690
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 3: definitely was nominated.

691
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 2: Okay, so she just wanted to go and just like air.

692
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 3: Now we've heard her have grievances with Tyler Perry and

693
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 3: and okay.

694
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 1: I wonder before was she on the calendar before Kat

695
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 1: Williams interviewed.

696
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 2: Like already scheduled. I don't know, I don't know, but

697
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 2: he seemed bored. Okay, Yeah, when when Kat Walliams was

698
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 2: doing his his song and dance and his you know,

699
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 2: just chit chatting Shannon Sharp was involved, right, he was

700
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 2: in it. He was a key key in or whatever.

701
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 3: Right, he didn't seem interested in whatever Monique had to say.

702
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 3: And it just made me feel like, so Club Sha

703
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 3: Shay it was it was not a club environment, right.

704
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 2: No, it definitely.

705
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: It definitely was a different a different vibe.

706
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 2: I cracked up.

707
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: I saw the clip where she was talking about how

708
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: she had audio of Tyler Perry.

709
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 2: Apologizing to her. Oh really, I didn't hear that, Okay, So.

710
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 1: She has audio of Tyler Perry apologizing to her and

711
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: pretty much saying the things that he said about her

712
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: really didn't happen, they weren't true. He was trying to

713
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: retracting the statement she had, you know, conversation. She recorded

714
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: the conversation and she sent it to Club Sha Sha

715
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 1: before the interview to listen to it. So she like,

716
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 1: you heard the interview. You heard the apology, didn't you?

717
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 2: And he's like.

718
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and she's like what did he say?

719
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 2: And he was like.

720
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's like what did he say? No way,

721
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: It's like she wanted Shannon to repeat what he heard.

722
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 2: Did listen to it exactly?

723
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: Like listen that ship he would he would not tell

724
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 1: her what Tyler Perry said.

725
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 2: He's say, I got my apology, and he's like, yeah,

726
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 2: but like why is that so important? That's not like

727
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 2: why would that be just sometimes it's like life is hard, yeah,

728
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 2: and if you're successful, shit has happened along the way

729
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 2: that it has not been right. It's just life. Yeah.

730
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: Now, but I think in that industry and we don't

731
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,479
Speaker 1: we don't know the truth because we're not there. You

732
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: can easily get black bald. And that's what that's what

733
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 1: she was saying. Okay, she got black bald because of

734
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: the things that that you know, people complained about her

735
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: professionalism and you know, her being difficult to work with.

736
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 2: So is there any ownership on her part? No?

737
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 3: Okay, now I don't. I don't know what she has done.

738
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, if she's difficult to work

739
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 3: with or or not. I don't know any of those things.

740
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 3: But is everyone saying this?

741
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 1: A lot of people, a lot of people have said,

742
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: you know the same things about her, she's difficult to

743
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 1: work with.

744
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 2: And then you know the whole Dal Hughley thing. I

745
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 2: saw that now.

746
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,720
Speaker 3: I saw DL's response to what she said, and DL

747
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 3: was just like, you's a lie, right, and you lion,

748
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 3: and you lied about that too, right.

749
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 2: Monique is a liar.

750
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: Which is hilarious to note because not one person in

751
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 1: the world came out to say that Kat Williams is

752
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 1: a liar.

753
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 2: Right, right, But as soon as Monique tried it, I

754
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 2: was like, scir she a liar and she lies.

755
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 1: So let's she tell you that Cat Williams is telling

756
00:34:57,120 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 1: the truth because nobody, not one challenged, not any person.

757
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 3: He said yes, but but Monique is potentially live.

758
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:07,760
Speaker 2: Okay, and you know us just sat down with Shannon

759
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 2: Sharp too.

760
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 3: Yeah that and he yeah nothing nothing really uh yeah.

761
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 2: Clipworthy newsworthy came out.

762
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 3: Of outside of like he he didn't did or did

763
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:22,240
Speaker 3: not babysit Beyonce or something crazy, right, which is insane.

764
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:33,760
Speaker 3: They're okay, so we got some we got some something

765
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 3: called lettus emails and we want to we want to

766
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 3: talk about them.

767
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:39,400
Speaker 2: Okay.

768
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:43,720
Speaker 3: So this is from Chrissy and she says, good morning.

769
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 3: I just wanted to say I love you, ladies. I've

770
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 3: listened to every podcast since the beginning. Me and my

771
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 3: husband came to see you live in Philly and we

772
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 3: got the meet and greet tickets. But I have a

773
00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:01,800
Speaker 3: one year old cappuccina. Oh, I have a Jesus Christ,

774
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:05,240
Speaker 3: I have a one year old capa chun.

775
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,280
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know if that's right. Monkey.

776
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,919
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, she has a one year old monkey. Forget

777
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 3: what kind it is, which is having a toddler on meth.

778
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 1: Which is like having a Maybe I should have read

779
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: this before I read this.

780
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 2: Okay, so we.

781
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 3: Didn't make it in time. However, I was the white

782
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 3: girl with the dreads sitting in one of the front

783
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 3: I saw her tables, and I strogglingly recommended that you

784
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:33,280
Speaker 3: guys do more live shows, because you guys make great entertainment.

785
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 2: Y'all are funny and shit. Thank you.

786
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 3: Do you remember I remember seeing a white girl with dreads? Okay,

787
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 3: so shout out to Christy. White girl with dreads? Yes,

788
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 3: who has a monkey?

789
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 2: Yes? Okay, who's on meth?

790
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 3: I don't know anyway about the Stanley the Stanley cup.

791
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 3: I thought it was a stupid trend, but when I

792
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 3: drank out of my daughter's one day, I was.

793
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 2: Like, oh, I get it.

794
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 3: Then one day my husband forgot his drink, so I

795
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:04,280
Speaker 3: gave him mine and he was shocked.

796
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 2: How good the water tasted.

797
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 3: What Okay, Okay, I know it sounds crazy, but you

798
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 3: have to try it. I ordered him a forty ounce

799
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 3: black one which was sixty five dollars, which which is

800
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 3: just stupid, but whatever.

801
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 2: He put his barbershop sticker over the name ha. But

802
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 2: me and him both drink way much more water than

803
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:34,760
Speaker 2: we used to. I can't explain it. You just gotta

804
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 2: try it.

805
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 3: If this ain't a plug, I don't know what is.

806
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:39,840
Speaker 3: By the way, Stanley Cup is not paying us a

807
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:43,919
Speaker 3: dime for this. They should Okay, keep being, Oh, keep

808
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 3: being you, stay throwing your shade because your product, your

809
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 3: podcast is number one, and you guys are my favorite

810
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 3: housewives in the entire franchise.

811
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 2: Ps Is.

812
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 3: I love you when you just make shit up. It's hilarious.

813
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 3: I know I'm gonna start doing that more.

814
00:37:55,800 --> 00:38:00,359
Speaker 1: More, Oh gosh, please, and ways include that to lead

815
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 1: with it.

816
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 2: I'm out right so we don't get suited.

817
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 3: And Robin, I love how you stay true to who

818
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 3: you are who you were before the show, and how

819
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 3: you stick by your man and how he's he isn't

820
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 3: changing for no one because of what others may think.

821
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 3: Hashtag real Shit Forever A fan Chrissy from Wilmington, and

822
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 3: here's a picture of Aboo. Okay, so monkey Abu is

823
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 3: the monkey. Guys, we might put this on our Instagram story. Okay,

824
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 3: if y'all can see Abu the monkey. He has on

825
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 3: a red hoodie and he's chilling.

826
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 2: Does that really look like a monkey? It does? If

827
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 2: it doesn't look like a monkey, what does it look like?

828
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 2: I don't know?

829
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: Okay, can I can I talk about the Stanley Cup?

830
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 3: Okay, let me say one thing about the Stanley Cup

831
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,760
Speaker 3: before you talk about So I checked in with Jason

832
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 3: and Stanley Cup and he was like, does that I

833
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 3: gave you a Stanley Cup? And I was like what

834
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:00,359
Speaker 3: He said that I gave you Stanley Cup every long

835
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 3: time ago? And I was like, what happened?

836
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 2: What you mean?

837
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,240
Speaker 3: Because I was like, do you know about the Stanley

838
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 3: Cup trade? What's going on with the Stanley Cup? I

839
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,359
Speaker 3: think it's a young person thing. Explaining the Stanley Cup

840
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 3: to me, He was like, I.

841
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 2: Gave you a Stanley cut. I was like, well, Jason,

842
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 2: you know that these kids just steal all my stuff.

843
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 2: So he was like okay, he was like, well, I

844
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 2: just want you to know I had your back burst.

845
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:27,879
Speaker 1: He gave you a Stanley cup. So do you even

846
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 1: do you remember receiving a Stanley cup from Jason? I do,

847
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 1: now I do, since he said it okay, and I

848
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: gave it a door, took it, okay, yeah.

849
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,919
Speaker 2: Color is it? It's great, like a light grade. Okay.

850
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 1: So you didn't even know that you were getting a

851
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:41,839
Speaker 1: Stanley cup.

852
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 2: No, I just kind of like thanks Jason when he

853
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 2: gave it to him. Yeah.

854
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, So did he give you something else with it?

855
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 3: Or he's just like here, what was it for a

856
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:52,399
Speaker 3: He went somewhere and he brought it back from he

857
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 3: was like summer skiing and he.

858
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 2: Brought it back.

859
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:59,280
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, so crazy. I realized I have a Stanley

860
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: cup in my house.

861
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,959
Speaker 2: See, we all got these dumb ass Stanley cups. Didn't

862
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 2: even know.

863
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 1: So last Christmas, not the Christmas, not the most recent Christmas,

864
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: a whole year ago. Ola like oil of Ola, the

865
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 1: brand Olay. They sent me a gift package and in

866
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: it was their products. They had like retinol products and

867
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:20,320
Speaker 1: stuff and a Stanley cup, No, a lose Stanley cup

868
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 1: with Olay logo on it, you know, says Stanley. And

869
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 1: at the time, if you look in my cabinets. In

870
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:32,280
Speaker 1: my kitchen, I probably have one hundred and twenty five

871
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: water bottles, right, you know what I mean that I

872
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 1: don't even use because I'm one of those wasteful people

873
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: that drinks out of the Fiji bottle or the Aquafina

874
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: bottle or whatever. So when I was on my fast,

875
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 1: one of the we had to drink this drink all day.

876
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 1: So you had to do pour this drinking and mix

877
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: it with water. And it's supposed to be twenty eight ounces.

878
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 1: You're supposed to carry around with you all day. And

879
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: I was like, what do I have that's big enough

880
00:40:58,560 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 1: to put this drink in?

881
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 2: So I go looking in my cabinet.

882
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and there it is this big blue Stanley cup

883
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 1: with a handle and a.

884
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 2: Straw sticking out of it.

885
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:14,760
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, this is perfect, perfect.

886
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,879
Speaker 1: It holds forty ounces, so I could put my whole

887
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 1: drink in it. And I can tell you my water

888
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 1: is so it was like water mixed with this drink.

889
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: It tasted good, it kept it was, it stayed cold.

890
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 1: It was like really convenient.

891
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:35,879
Speaker 2: It tastes better, it better in a Stanley cup.

892
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 1: So do you know when you like if you get

893
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 1: water out of your filtered refrigerator, right, you get it

894
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: out your refrigerator, it doesn't taste great. So that's the

895
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 1: water that I had in my Stanley cup in addition

896
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:46,959
Speaker 1: to this mix.

897
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,320
Speaker 2: And it tasted perfect.

898
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: It was like nice and crisp, and it was so

899
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: weird to me.

900
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:55,879
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I oh, so now you get it.

901
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 2: Now you get it.

902
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: Okay, well I get it, but I don't you know

903
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: what I mean. It's like the craze over it, Like

904
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 1: that's how people are just fanatic about it.

905
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, that's a little stress. You like, take

906
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 2: it easy. Yeah. Yeah.

907
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,240
Speaker 1: But I'm like, okay, this this cup is legit.

908
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 2: It's good. It's a good size.

909
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,919
Speaker 1: It's good for like it fits perfectly in your cup

910
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 1: holder in the car because.

911
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 2: Of the way it's shaped.

912
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 1: Yes, because it's big right in most big waters containers, yeah,

913
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 1: can't fit in your cup holder.

914
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 2: This one.

915
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 1: They have a nice little narrow bottom sticks in your

916
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: cup holder. You know, the handle is perfect, the little

917
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:31,800
Speaker 1: straws perfect.

918
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 3: It was just I was like, okay, so we need

919
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 3: a reasonably shady Stanley cup.

920
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, how does that happen? We gotta call Stanley. I

921
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 2: don't know. Okay, we'll figure it out. Yeah, you figure

922
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:47,399
Speaker 2: it out, and I won't let my kids steal it. Right,

923
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 2: so funny, or forget that I have it. That's even

924
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 2: a crazy so funny. Yes, somebody needs some advice and

925
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 2: we're here to get it. Before we do advice, let's

926
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 2: do a little hater hater Oh we love hater mail

927
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:02,919
Speaker 2: hater man.

928
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 1: We don't get a hater mail song like don right here.

929
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 2: It's really quick. It's not as deep as Linda with

930
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 2: the deer.

931
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:28,359
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so this person, Sandra says, I love

932
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 1: you ladies, but you laughed and shamed the klepto basketball player.

933
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 1: But one and your son ate and put back at target.

934
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 2: That's stealing too.

935
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:43,280
Speaker 1: And Jiselle, you show no compassion about hitting the deer.

936
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: Please try and speak to two sides of your stories.

937
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 1: Be good human beings, still listening.

938
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 2: What's up, Sandra?

939
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: What? Sandra? Okay, you're right? One and Corey you need

940
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 1: to go to jail.

941
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:55,319
Speaker 2: How dare they?

942
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 1: How dare they taste tests and they didn't like it

943
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: and they put it back. They need to go to

944
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 1: jail because that's the same thing as walking out of

945
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 1: target with candles, body wash.

946
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 2: Soap lotion under your jacket.

947
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 3: Okay, it's not And how dare I live in the

948
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 3: dear die?

949
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 2: How dare I live? Okay? Crazy, y'all people out here crazy?

950
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 2: All right, So we need advice for Alaniya Whitfield. She

951
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 2: needs advice for her fourteen year old daughter. All right, hello,

952
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 2: lovely ladies. First, I want to say I've been a

953
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 2: loyal listener since episode one.

954
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 3: You Tube brightened up my day, especially when I've had

955
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 3: a rough one and I turned to I turn on

956
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 3: an episode of Reason Me Shady and it helps me tremendously.

957
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 3: My name is Holly. Okay, so I totally said her

958
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 3: name wrong. Her name is Holly. I live in Bangor, Maine.

959
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 2: Shout out to Banger. Is that how you really pronounced that?

960
00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:52,800
Speaker 2: B a ng o or Banger? Yes?

961
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 1: Okay, yes, Robin, I know you have been to Banger.

962
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: Oh yes, okay, yes, that's where I got kicked out

963
00:44:57,960 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: of the airport.

964
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 2: That's right, that's right, and had experience at the airport.

965
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 2: Ha ha.

966
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 3: I promise you we aren't that bad. I need some advice.

967
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:08,240
Speaker 3: My daughter's fourteen and has recently been getting in trouble

968
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 3: at school. She just got suspended for smoking pot. I

969
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,879
Speaker 3: thought she was smarter than that. But I also know

970
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:17,799
Speaker 3: what it's like to be a teenage girl.

971
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 2: Giselle.

972
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 3: You've raised some very smart, respectable ladies, and I would

973
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 3: love your advice on how you approach the situation and

974
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,839
Speaker 3: how to give the best guidance for my daughter. Thank

975
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 3: you for any advice you two might have.

976
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 2: Keep doing what you're.

977
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 3: Doing, and just know that the guy that you guys

978
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 3: are making a difference. Lots of love, Holly, Oh, that's

979
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 3: so nice.

980
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 2: Yes, thank you. And I don't know what kind of

981
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 2: advice I can give Grace smoke a weed right now? Oh, okay,

982
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 2: I'm joking, jokes, jokes. You know. I was extremely upfront and.

983
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:56,800
Speaker 3: Honest with my kids about everything, sex, drugs, rock and roll, everything,

984
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 3: just because I don't want them to learn about things

985
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 3: and be curious about things and then they're in the

986
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:06,279
Speaker 3: streets trying to figure it out. So I tried to

987
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 3: do scare tactics, okay, and I tried to be like,

988
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 3: you know, if you smoke weed, then you're gonna be

989
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 3: hooked on heroin for the rest of your life, right

990
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 3: And I know that makes it's no correlation.

991
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 2: But I was like, it's a.

992
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 1: Slippery slow, it's a gateway drug.

993
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 2: It's a gateweight drug, very slow.

994
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: I shared that. My I'm sorry to cut you off,

995
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 1: but I shared. You know, I smoked weed at a

996
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 1: young age and my best friend, who kind of you know,

997
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: was the one that I would get into trouble with.

998
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 1: We stopped hanging out midway through ninth grade, and by

999
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 1: her senior year, she was hooked on heroin.

1000
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:46,359
Speaker 2: Yes, so it is a gateway drug. It can be, Yes,

1001
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 2: it can be.

1002
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 3: I I a couple other things I told them. I

1003
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,319
Speaker 3: was like, you know, do you know how you get

1004
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 3: heroin in your body? And they're like how you have

1005
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 3: to take a needle and you have to like click it,

1006
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 3: you know how they be clicking the knee and then

1007
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:01,880
Speaker 3: you put.

1008
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 2: It in your veins and they're like why what do

1009
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 2: you mean?

1010
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:12,399
Speaker 3: So I like, I over exaggerate what's really happening. I mean,

1011
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 3: if you tell your child that, that's like traumatizing, right,

1012
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 3: And it's like, why would I want to get high

1013
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 3: at bad?

1014
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 2: Right?

1015
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 3: So I just say, Holly, just be honest with your daughter,

1016
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:26,240
Speaker 3: and like, yes, weed is a gateway drug. Yeah, However,

1017
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 3: if the child is just smoking weed at fourteen, is

1018
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 3: that that bad?

1019
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: So?

1020
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what I mean?

1021
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 3: It could be some other bad she could be selling

1022
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:41,399
Speaker 3: if my fourteen year olds okay, fine, it's really bad.

1023
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's bad. It's not good. That's bad. So

1024
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 2: give her a no. Oh my god, okay, it's it is.

1025
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 2: It is very scary out here. It is all sidey.

1026
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 1: It's very scary. Yes, I will with me. I have voice,

1027
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: jaill you have girls, okay at fourteen? I want to

1028
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:03,320
Speaker 1: know how much freedom did your girls have at fourteen?

1029
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 2: What's fourteen? What class? What grade is that? That's like

1030
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:11,279
Speaker 2: ninth grade pretty much? Ninth grade? Okay? Yeah. And when

1031
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 2: you say freedom, what do you mean.

1032
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: Like to hang out, to go, to leave your house

1033
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 1: without you being there and they can just go. They're like, oh, Mom,

1034
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 1: can you drop us off at the at Susie's house?

1035
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 1: Or can you drop us off at the movie now?

1036
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:28,879
Speaker 1: Or can you drop us off at the mall?

1037
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 2: No?

1038
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 1: Or can you write? So the difference, I think is

1039
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 1: how much freedom do your children have? Because I was fourteen,

1040
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:42,800
Speaker 1: I knew better. I was a almost a straight a student.

1041
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: I was well behaved in school. I was well behaved

1042
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: at home, but my parents gave me a little bit

1043
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 1: of freedom, and that's when I got into my trouble.

1044
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 1: That's when I would smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol, smoke weed

1045
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 1: because I was hanging out with someone who had acts, yes,

1046
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:05,720
Speaker 1: but when I was at home, I wasn't doing that well.

1047
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: I would sneak out, okay, anyway she was, I would

1048
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: sneak no, no, no, I would like sneak or whatever.

1049
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 2: But I knew way. I knew way better.

1050
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 1: And I always had the fear of my parents finding

1051
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: out and the repercussions and getting in trouble and so

1052
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,360
Speaker 1: so I think that prevented me from like really going

1053
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 1: far with that. I always knew that my parents were

1054
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: were going to be there and we're gonna if they

1055
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 1: found out, I was going to get in trouble. But

1056
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 1: it's all about the freedom you give your kids. And Holly,

1057
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: I hate to say it, and I know it might

1058
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 1: be a struggle. You might have to reign in the

1059
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 1: freedom that your daughter has.

1060
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:45,360
Speaker 3: But also open lines of communication. Let's let's talk about this,

1061
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:47,839
Speaker 3: like why are you smoking weed like you're fourteen? Why

1062
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 3: why are you doing this?

1063
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 2: Right? Don't just be the parent that's just.

1064
00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 3: Gonna like punish you and go to hell off and

1065
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 3: not like have conversation.

1066
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,400
Speaker 1: Right, And you got to look at her friends. You

1067
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,799
Speaker 1: gotta look at who is she spending time with. Hate

1068
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 1: certain certain friends I would be I would go out

1069
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: and I would get in trouble with, I would do

1070
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: things I shouldn't do stuff with, and then other friends

1071
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: we're doing much different things. So it's all about who

1072
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 1: is she spending time with, how much freedom does she

1073
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:17,440
Speaker 1: have and does she know better? And like I believe

1074
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 1: she knows better because you're a concerned parent.

1075
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,240
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, and tell her to listen to reasonably shady

1076
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 3: because to her to listen to this advice that we're.

1077
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 1: Giving, well, I think Holly can can you know can translate? Yeah,

1078
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:33,360
Speaker 1: but tell her my story how I was hanging out fourteen.

1079
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 1: You please tell her that I was hanging out fourteen

1080
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:38,760
Speaker 1: spoken we doing shit I shouldn't have been doing, drinking,

1081
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 1: getting black out drunk, and my friend that I was

1082
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 1: doing that with eventually had to go to rehab by

1083
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 1: the by senior year. That's she doesn't want to go

1084
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 1: down that road.

1085
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 2: No, okay, So she.

1086
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 1: And I had to take I literally had to take

1087
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: a step back from hanging out with her.

1088
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,880
Speaker 2: Yes, and every after that everything was fine.

1089
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 1: Yes, but I do want to When we were driving

1090
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 1: home from Philly, yeah, Justeselle finally smelled the scent of.

1091
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 2: Weed on the highway. I didn't know.

1092
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 3: Well, no, let's back up. We're driving. Robin smells the

1093
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Speaker 3: weed smell. Because I said, I've never smelled weed, like

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Speaker 3: outside of her car right when you're driving. She was like,

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Speaker 3: you smell at you smell that, you smell at And

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Speaker 3: I was like, smell.

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Speaker 2: She's like, you don't smell that weed. You smell it now.

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Speaker 2: You're smell it now. And I was like and so, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I smelled it.

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Speaker 3: A million times. Okay, smelled a million times. It just

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Speaker 3: never registered me what I was smelling.

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Speaker 1: Oh you thought it was like some some sticks burning

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Speaker 1: on No. I just never gave it anything really, ok Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I just was like, well I just keep driving, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's what you were smelling.

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Speaker 3: Yeah I was, you know, sometimes I can be a

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Speaker 3: little air hairdish, but yeah, Robin was dead on it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was like, you smell that, that's weed.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So when is the appropriate age to just start

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Speaker 2: smoking weede twenty five. I would like them to wait

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Speaker 2: till they're like in college. So what's that? What's college? Twenty? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: nineteen twenty twenty. I do want to say, y'all, I

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Speaker 2: don't you have to wait till your brain cells are

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Speaker 2: finished growing? Please? And that's that's what I was going

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Speaker 2: to say. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I do want to say I fried some brain cells.

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Speaker 1: We know, Okay, because I'm telling you something like I notice, I.

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Speaker 2: Know, I'm gonna tell y'all right now, I'll be cut off.

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Speaker 3: Robin walks around her house in circles, okay, and those

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Speaker 3: are the brain cells that she killed.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I noticed when my memory went to shit. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I noticed when like my attention went to shit. I

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Speaker 1: noticed it even at a you know, when I was

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Speaker 1: a teenager, I was like, why am I forgetting shit?

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Speaker 1: Why can't I think of certain words? Why can't I

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Speaker 1: remember shit? And I know it's because I smoked weed

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Speaker 1: at a young age. So Holly, tell your daughter that too.

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Speaker 1: She's gonna make herself real stupid smoking weed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And how old are you now? Forty something?

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Speaker 2: Forty four?

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Speaker 3: And yes, so Holly, your daughter's not wanna be forty

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Speaker 3: four walking around circles.

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Speaker 2: In her house. Okay, because that's what Robin.

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Speaker 1: Does, starting four tests in thirty seconds.

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Speaker 2: All right, we are out of here. We got to go.

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Speaker 2: We love y'all so much. Don't ever forget to live

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Speaker 2: your life. Either reasonable or Shady or My Light.

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Speaker 3: Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Effect podcast Network.

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