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Speaker 1: John, can you peel this orange?

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Speaker 2: You have hands?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: You just bailed the orange piel tsk. This relationship is over.

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Speaker 4: You heard it here first, the orange peel theory is

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Speaker 4: ruining your relationships?

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Speaker 1: What is the orange fields going on? Guys?

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Speaker 4: Here the whole time, The orange peel theory is a

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Speaker 4: funny little TikTok trend TikTok trends. We're going into TikTok

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Speaker 4: trends now, we're branching out from Reddit.

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Speaker 1: The open ocean.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So the orange peel theory is the idea. Oh wait, no,

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Speaker 4: hold on, I have to read it. I don't know

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Speaker 4: what it is. The orange peel theory involves the ability

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Speaker 4: to understand your partner and their feelings. It's based on

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Speaker 4: their tendency to perform simple tasks for you, whether asked

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Speaker 4: to do them or not, like peeling an orange lemon.

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Speaker 5: So it's like, hey, I can already do that, but

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Speaker 5: if you really love me, you would do it too.

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Speaker 5: And it's an indicative of you being able to do

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Speaker 5: bigger things for your partner.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, see it, I see it.

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Speaker 1: So how is this ruining relationships?

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Speaker 4: Well, last time you, guys, talked about a little Reddit story.

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Speaker 4: Did Yeah, so that was am I the a hole

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Speaker 4: for breaking up with my boyfriend over the orange peel theory?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 4: And the comments were a little bit crazy on the

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Speaker 4: original posts.

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Speaker 1: What were the comments really?

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Speaker 4: So we have one comment from el Fernandez was I

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Speaker 4: always feel like some people who post orange theory on

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Speaker 4: TikTok get it and some don't, and the ones who

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Speaker 4: don't make the whole thing look stupid.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So this person is like orange peel method, I

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Speaker 5: love it.

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Speaker 4: I think that. I don't know if that's true.

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Speaker 5: I like it seems like they're like I like it.

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Speaker 5: It's like most people make it look stupid, but it's

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Speaker 5: actually a good thing.

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Speaker 4: It's actually a good thing. Yeah, I guess so. So

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Speaker 4: this person's somewhat positive, but things that people don't get it.

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Speaker 4: Another person says this is from corpse Corpse secure corpse

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Speaker 4: Corpus corpuscular ocelot, You're the a hole for taking relationship

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Speaker 4: advice from.

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Speaker 1: TikTok relationship advice.

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Speaker 4: That's the only place you should be getting your relationship advice.

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Speaker 4: And then Pitiful Raisin says this is laughable. I do

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Speaker 4: small stuff for my husband all the time, and vice versa.

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Speaker 4: But if I'm sitting company on the couch and then

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Speaker 4: he sits down, ask me for a drink. Oh no,

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Speaker 4: get it yourself.

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Speaker 5: Relationship, failed relationship, relationships over divorce. So what you said,

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Speaker 5: there's like a bunch of tiktoks people us, it is

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Speaker 5: a trend.

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Speaker 4: Let's play that first clip Riley clip.

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Speaker 2: Of three computers.

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Speaker 1: So we can't do it?

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, maybe it doesn't.

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Speaker 3: Make you killed the Swordell there can you kill?

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Speaker 5: And he's not even looking at her, also in his

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Speaker 5: pants occupied scroll.

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Speaker 2: Hands in the pants and scrolling.

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Speaker 1: Someone ever failed?

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Speaker 5: But I think like it seems like you already know

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Speaker 5: that the relationship is doomed if your boyfriend has his

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Speaker 5: hands all the way down his pants is not even

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Speaker 5: willing to like look you in the eye.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, doesn't even care, doesn't even care, she has nails, apparently.

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Speaker 1: Knows obviously you should do it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, dude, these British people, Yeah, the Brits old you

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Speaker 5: got a little bit more for us.

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Speaker 4: We do, we do it. We have some more positive

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Speaker 4: ones and people.

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Speaker 1: So that was that someone that failed.

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Speaker 4: Someone failed. There aren't going to be many of those

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Speaker 4: failed tiktoks. But Also, I don't think that people want

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Speaker 4: to post the failure their relationship. Yeah, but thank you

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Speaker 4: to that tick soccer.

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Speaker 1: For being brave indeed a positive one.

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Speaker 4: Let's play that positive clip.

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Speaker 1: So read them. Uh yeah, let's read it. Yeah yeah, okay.

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Speaker 5: So this TikTok is saying, after hearing about the orange

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Speaker 5: peel theory, I asked my man, will you peel me

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Speaker 5: an orange? He said, of course, where are they? We

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Speaker 5: don't have any? But I wanted to confirm what I

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Speaker 5: already knew. I mean, man is literally making her food

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Speaker 6: I was about to say, he's like cleaning the countertops,

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Speaker 6: making cinnamon rules.

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Speaker 4: It looks like mushrooms.

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Speaker 2: I feel like those are the cinnamon rules.

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Speaker 5: So you get like, yeah, analyze everything that's going on,

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Speaker 5: multiple plans that are in full bloom there taking care

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Speaker 1: It's probably he is.

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Speaker 5: Look, he's wearing a cute little bracelet, he's got a beard.

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Speaker 5: It seems like he's really taking care of himself, the plants,

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Speaker 5: those cinnamon rolls, and his woman.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's see, alright, what else?

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Speaker 4: I don't know?

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Speaker 1: That feels stage though that one.

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Speaker 4: She really set him up. Though she did set him up.

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Speaker 5: I mean, maybe she's just chilling on the couch. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I cleaned like the counters every once in a while,

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Speaker 5: like I do.

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Speaker 6: This is the best, This is the best that she

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Speaker 6: wanted to show the best side of her cake.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's keep I want to see that one

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Speaker 1: to the end of the video.

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Speaker 4: Yeah no, so those were the That was a really nice,

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Speaker 4: lovely TikTok showcasing the relationship. And there was some comments

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Speaker 5: Okay, so I'm assuming, oh wow, like, look look at

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Speaker 5: how amazing this guy is for taking care of his lady.

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Speaker 1: What are the comments?

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Speaker 4: But you forget?

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Speaker 1: Uh, this is the.

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Speaker 4: Orange peel theory is ruining relationship.

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Speaker 3: True.

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Speaker 2: Let's switch.

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Speaker 4: So this person, yo, dre lb h says, why would

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Speaker 4: you ask your man to stop whatever he's doing and

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Speaker 4: take time out of his day to do something you

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Speaker 4: are fully capable of yourself? Inconsiderate?

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Speaker 1: I mean, dang, Like, what if he just wants to

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Speaker 2: No, what if?

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Speaker 6: What if you're wasting four seconds of his precious time

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Speaker 6: with face?

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Speaker 7: Lemons at court has come to session and you are

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Speaker 7: found guilty of being an asshole.

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Speaker 6: When life gives you lemons peel an orange motherfucker.

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Speaker 1: Don't you love it?

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Speaker 5: You're getting a life sentence going straight to the slammer.

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Speaker 4: And then relative twenty one has some other nice thoughts

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Speaker 5: What do they say, Sam, They say, just admit y'all

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Speaker 5: want men to be a father to y'all. We got

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Speaker 5: some daddy issues. I had an ex girlfriend that wanted

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Speaker 5: me bald because her dad was bald.

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Speaker 4: WHOA, that's concerning.

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Speaker 2: She wanted you bald, like in a.

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Speaker 5: Very confirmed Okay, so people are like pissed. Yeah, but

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Speaker 5: can we actually go into that tickto I would to

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Speaker 5: see some of the other comments. Is it like positive?

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Speaker 5: Most of them positive?

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Speaker 1: I see. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what the orange peel theory is, but

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Speaker 5: I have been peeling my husband's for ten years. I

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Speaker 5: feel like that was a little yeah yeah, ten years.

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Speaker 5: Man hasn't peeled one single orange. My husband said, I

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Speaker 5: will get you an orange, but I'm not peeling it.

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Speaker 5: We don't have any oranges. Do you want an apple?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: That was that was two separate thoughts.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but still still red.

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Speaker 4: Flag is not going out to the storm like he

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Speaker 4: should have bought you an orange.

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Speaker 5: My ex peeled every fruit he gave to me. Pull

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Speaker 5: the bone out of our chicken, open the lid of

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Speaker 5: our drinks. But he's still married others afterwards.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's sad. So the orange peel method maybe not

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Speaker 2: Yeah's going to go green flag, but I gonna put.

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Speaker 4: It all the way down too soon.

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Speaker 5: Green flas Okay, so like some positive some negative? I

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Speaker 5: feel like, I do you think it is actually a

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Speaker 5: good thing? What the orange peel method theory theory as

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Speaker 5: of now? As of now, this first one, I think

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Speaker 5: it's okay, Okay, Well, let's let's keep let's keep looking.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if it's ruining any relationships. Hate that

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Speaker 5: The orange peel theory for me is just is being

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Speaker 5: who goes out of his way to do every little

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Speaker 1: On the flip side, on your.

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Speaker 2: Make sure that you never leave.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, what are those comments say, I'm sure they'll

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Speaker 4: be super positive.

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Speaker 1: There's more pictures, more pictures literally orange.

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Speaker 4: He's feeling shreds.

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Speaker 2: Orange because I don't like touching them.

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Speaker 1: Actually, that is a full meal.

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Speaker 2: That's that is a like five star.

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Speaker 6: I think some sort of like I don't know, not

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Speaker 6: loaded potato, but a loaded crab, My goodness, delicious.

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Speaker 4: He's picking up a cilancho. That's so nice.

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Speaker 1: Bro simp.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's he's holding He's holding everything at the airport.

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Speaker 2: And then the final one.

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Speaker 4: It's the final one carrying my snowboard.

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Speaker 6: And then the next one has my golf clubs and

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Speaker 6: the next.

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Speaker 2: One dropping me off.

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Speaker 1: Wait is that Berkeley?

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Speaker 6: Uh dropping me off and picking me up from school

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Speaker 6: because he didn't want me to worry about finding parking

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Speaker 6: or walking far. I mean, that's that's nice.

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Speaker 1: That's nice. Nice cilantro out of the Chipotle. I feel crazy.

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Speaker 6: I don't even have to ask clan. Really nice of

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Speaker 6: him buttering her bread, taking me shopping and carrying my

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Speaker 6: up snacks for me at midnight whenever I'm craving something.

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Speaker 1: That's doing everything.

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Speaker 2: What is this?

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Speaker 1: What does he bring you to the table?

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Speaker 4: That's what the comma say, But also she's just showcasing.

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Speaker 1: What does the common say? I want to see what

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Speaker 5: Say, is there I have a question to you guys, like,

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Speaker 5: can you take it too far?

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Speaker 1: Too much of it, too many oranges?

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Speaker 4: She's just showcasing all the nice things that he does

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Speaker 4: for It's not a herd. I feel like it'd be

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Speaker 4: weird if she was, Like she posted a tech talk

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Speaker 4: and she's like, these are all the nice things that

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Speaker 4: my boyfriend does for me, but also look at all

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Speaker 4: the stuff that I do for him.

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Speaker 2: Want here's the thing, here's the thing.

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Speaker 6: This is a I think a very key thing that

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Speaker 5: Yeah, the different get if you get the orange. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: He said, what do you bring in the relationship? TikTok?

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Speaker 5: User said you found a keeper? He found its damn.

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Speaker 5: Kevin Jameson said he's one hundred percent cheating. Just said

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Speaker 5: You're lucky he learned to do these things without being impatient.

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Speaker 1: That it's over.

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Speaker 5: Like if you have to test them, if you have

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. That's true. It's true.

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Speaker 5: I told my man about the orange peel theory the

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Speaker 6: The orange peel theory ruining the orange peel theory because

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Speaker 2: It and then they are cheating basically answers.

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Speaker 4: Orange peel theory's ruining your relationships because now everyone knows about.

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Speaker 7: Everyone's being super nice, you speakers, I know about they're cheating.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like the charger the charger theory. Can I, oh,

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Speaker 5: you know, what's another orange peel method?

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Speaker 5: Can I charge my phone? What if he asks what

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Speaker 5: is your phone percentage? Battery at Well, we're not in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true, that's true. That's true.

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Speaker 5: TikTok theory, new TikTok theory, the phone charger theory. Test

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Speaker 4: That's right, don't I thought we just decided not to

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Speaker 4: tell charge your relationship.

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Speaker 5: We love the drama. Okay, let's let's see the uh,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is very cute, but it isn't the orange

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Speaker 6: peel theory. For anyone confused, the orange peel theory isn't

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Speaker 4: Let's go to those replies and then the next part.

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Speaker 6: It's about bids for attention and how important it is

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Speaker 6: I guess this kind of is, but not really. More

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Speaker 4: That's Sam not worry.

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Speaker 2: She gets to going.

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Speaker 6: A real orange peeler would would pretend smell them too.

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Speaker 4: You would go get John's shoes, put them on, and

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Speaker 5: Okay, real talk, Would you want your future significant other

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Speaker 4: I think at that point, okay, okay, if I like

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Speaker 1: They were just like this, as every day you need

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Speaker 4: I would give them a little belt crush. At that point,

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Speaker 5: I would love to know from you guys, like would

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Speaker 1: Would you think that's cute?

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Speaker 5: Or like there was another comment before where it's like,

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Speaker 5: is the orange peel method training people? Is the orange

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Speaker 5: peel is the orange Peel theory training people to kind

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Speaker 5: Parent like daughter or son relationship. You know, well, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't want my girlfriend tying my shoes every day.

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Speaker 1: That's fucking weird.

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Speaker 4: I don't think. I don't think that's the orange peel

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Speaker 5: I think it's just these people, Well that's what they're

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Speaker 4: Like, this isn't the orange peel theory.

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Speaker 5: They're saying, this is the orange peel theory. The orange

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Speaker 5: That feels like too much.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Let us know if you feel like that's too much.

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Speaker 5: But shall we get into the next next one?

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Speaker 4: It might not be any more videos. Oh there's comments?

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Speaker 4: Did I find these? I guess so I found everything.

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Speaker 6: Okay, so there are some more from this video. Abby,

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Speaker 6: you guys need to increase your bar from the bare minimum.

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Speaker 6: Sarah Jones replies, sadly, the bare minimum is so hard

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Speaker 6: to find. But I agree, Abby, very hard to find.

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Speaker 6: But find yourself someone who treats you how you deserve

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Speaker 6: worth the wait smiley face and mass. He concludes, doesn't

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Speaker 1: So it's like, if you.

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Speaker 4: Don't have your your partner shoes, is the bare minimum?

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Speaker 4: I feel like.

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Speaker 1: That's that's that's maximum?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what ismum?

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Speaker 4: What was the example that the person gave again because.

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Speaker 4: Don't know if that's bare minimum. I feel like bare minimum?

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Speaker 4: What's bare minimum?

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Speaker 6: Bare minimum is like not ignoring you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, not having your hand in your pants.

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Speaker 1: You have nile, don't.

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 1: That guy got caught being an ass.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Like.

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Speaker 4: Like, I'm assuming that she had her phone. She was like,

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Speaker 4: the video or he saw the phone, and he was like,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna say this anyway. I'm gonna keep my hand

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Speaker 1: And I know I had nothing.

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Speaker 2: I gotta keep warm.

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Speaker 6: The orange peel theory tiktoks is you're literally walking up

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Speaker 6: to someone like, Hi, can you peel this for me?

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Speaker 2: And it's like, babe, what do you do?

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Speaker 4: There was actually didn't inclusive this TikTok Maybe I should

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Speaker 4: have It's summer. It's somewhere on the talk I probably

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Speaker 4: labeled it. It's of someone someone like one guy being like, no,

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Speaker 4: why no, it's not that one.

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Speaker 1: Well let's look at it anyway.

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Speaker 4: Okay, maybe will you peel him for me? Him do

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Speaker 4: it so quickly.

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Speaker 1: Than he passed instant pass?

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Speaker 4: Wait, but there might be green flag. We like that guy?

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Speaker 4: All right, what else I'm trying to Yeah, we can

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Speaker 4: just go through the rest. No, we did that one, see, okay.

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Speaker 5: The orange peel theory reminds me that I'm fully capable

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Speaker 5: opening packages, and et cetera. But my boyfriend does it

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Speaker 4: Of doing a lot.

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Speaker 1: That's cute.

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Speaker 4: She broke her foot.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: All right, get your foot fetish out of here, Jesus,

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Speaker 5: don't don't do that ship for free.

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Speaker 4: I don't know where the other one is.

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Speaker 5: That testing my husband using the orange feel bathod knowing

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Speaker 5: he would pass with flying colors. Is said anything for you,

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Speaker 5: my love?

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Speaker 2: Anything else?

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Speaker 1: Bro staged?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, there's your hair tie.

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Speaker 5: Hey, he doesn't see the phone.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, man, Yeah, I think he's in on

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Speaker 6: You, Ye, so come on. I think could be staged. However,

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Speaker 6: I think this is most reasonable. Like I feel like

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Speaker 6: this would be my response. I'd be like, oh, that's

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Speaker 6: so silly, and I'd start peeling it and we'd have

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is. I feel like if I didn't have.

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Speaker 7: This sage actors trying to ruin our relationships with these oranges.

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Speaker 2: You're fake, just like this orange.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's keep going back to the original tiktoks.

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Speaker 4: Wait, try that one. Try. Oh oh, I might not

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Speaker 4: have included it. Unfortunately, No, yeah I didn't. Sorry guys,

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Speaker 4: it's not there.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so the orange peel theory is real. My boyfriend

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Speaker 5: So he asked me if he could learn how to

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Speaker 5: too tired too, He takes off my makeup because he

453
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Speaker 5: doesn't want my skin to break out. He also avoids

454
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Speaker 5: my messcare up because he's scared he will.

455
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Speaker 1: Hurt me or wake me up.

456
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Speaker 6: So wait, this almost implies that he's doing it while

457
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Speaker 6: she's sleeping.

458
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Speaker 4: Actually kind of impressive.

459
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Speaker 2: Would you want someone to do I don't.

460
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Speaker 4: I don't think. I don't think I would. I don't know,

461
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Speaker 4: But like, how is he doing it? Like is he

462
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Speaker 4: using like a little makeup wipe?

463
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Speaker 5: And he's like, I think he's doing it the way

464
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Speaker 5: that she would want? Would you do that for Naima

465
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Speaker 5: if she asked? I don't care. I don't think I

466
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Speaker 5: would ever think to do that in all honesty, to.

467
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Speaker 1: Do that, that's what's wrong with men.

468
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Speaker 2: That's what's wrong with what's wrong with us ladies and gentlemen.

469
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Speaker 5: Yeah, if you're not taking off your girls.

470
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Speaker 2: Makeup, sleep, you fail.

471
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Speaker 1: You should be working while she's sleeping. Oh man, okay,

472
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Speaker 1: well let's go on.

473
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Speaker 4: How how she stays asleep?

474
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Speaker 1: Yeah?

475
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Speaker 3: Like cow.

476
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Speaker 6: Also, I have to point out the elephant in the room.

477
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Speaker 6: It's the thing that hasn't been said. We have not

478
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Speaker 6: yet seen one example. I think of the reverse. It's

479
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Speaker 6: always the woman asking get a time.

480
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Speaker 4: She passed. It took her three seconds.

481
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Speaker 1: Oh okay, will you.

482
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Speaker 3: Pull an orange for me?

483
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Speaker 6: Right now?

484
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Speaker 3: Yeah?

485
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Speaker 2: What about.

486
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 1: Seen a man as.

487
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:09,439
Speaker 4: They just didn't prepare or.

488
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Speaker 5: Very at least a very high pitched man's voice. I

489
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Speaker 5: want a baritone.

490
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 4: No, there were for sure those because there Well, this

491
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Speaker 4: is the bird theory, though if I go to the

492
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Speaker 4: bird theory is very closely related, uh theory to the

493
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Speaker 4: orange field theory, where Okay, she's gonna explain it. Actually,

494
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 4: don't to that one because that goes into the psychological theory.

495
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 4: And I'm going to talk about go down though, go on,

496
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Speaker 4: I can just tell you what the beard theory is.

497
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 1: Beard.

498
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Speaker 4: So the bird test is basically where you ask or

499
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Speaker 4: like you point out something really mundane to your partner.

500
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 4: You're like, oh, hey, there's a bird, and you see

501
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Speaker 4: if they look for it to see if they're like

502
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Speaker 4: actively engaging in the relationship.

503
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Speaker 1: Are women testing us all the time?

504
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Speaker 4: I feeling, well, this one is from a man. Play

505
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Speaker 4: the clip, roll the clip that one will My wife

506
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 4: passed the bird test. Is there a point here?

507
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe is there a question?

508
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 1: Maybe there? I don't know.

509
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 2: Maybe what do you care?

510
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 1: What statue of the.

511
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Speaker 4: This is their tests?

512
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Speaker 3: Yeah? I don't think it's gargus.

513
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Speaker 1: That's cheese, not gargage on gargoyle. What am I waitnessing

514
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Speaker 1: right now? Did you look it up?

515
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Speaker 2: I don't know this one's a gargoyle.

516
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 1: But she's testing.

517
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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's testing.

518
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Speaker 5: So you think because the Ghostbusters and gargoyles, then this

519
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Speaker 5: why does he have like a hunger games beard?

520
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about? So she got she pointed,

521
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Speaker 1: and she went along, Yes, you know you didn't pass

522
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 1: the Beckham test, that you passed the bird test. What's

523
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Speaker 1: the bird test where you just kind of mentioned something

524
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Speaker 1: and then doesn't have a hunger games.

525
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Speaker 2: Beard's all right, I mean I'm supposed to pick something

526
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Speaker 2: a little more mundane. I don't know.

527
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Speaker 1: I passed, but okay.

528
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,439
Speaker 5: That's the person engages with you, you know, and starts

529
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Speaker 5: like asking questions about and like looking things up and.

530
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 1: Okay, okay.

531
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Speaker 5: So basically she looked to the window after he mentioned something,

532
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Speaker 5: and that means that she's like interested in him and

533
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Speaker 5: his thoughts and ideas.

534
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Speaker 4: It's supposed to be something more as you said, it's

535
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 4: supposed to be something more mundane, like a bird.

536
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Speaker 6: Yeah, and also so it says, but technically I should

537
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Speaker 6: have asked about it a bird during the day, but honestly,

538
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Speaker 6: I think it's better at night because you can't see.

539
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Speaker 2: So she gets up out of her chair.

540
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Speaker 5: She had to move completely. It wasn't just a quick turn.

541
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Speaker 5: It was okay. So, but like, who's who's out here

542
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 5: testing everybody? I don't like all these tests, the hind

543
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 5: and freaking school man.

544
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Speaker 4: Well, there's some research to back up the orange peel

545
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 4: theory and the bird's scientific.

546
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 6: Researchs anyway, Yeah, we don't listen to nerds, So let's

547
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 6: let's go down to that.

548
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 1: The science rabbit hole.

549
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no way, it's more for that.

550
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 1: For next like this, we have more organization.

551
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Speaker 4: You give me a day, all right. So okay, so

552
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 4: this is from Forbes. This is from Forbes. Forbes reputable,

553
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 4: reputable source. So they say, while not a formal scientific theory,

554
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 4: the orange peel theory aligns with what has been observed

555
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Speaker 4: by the Gotman Institute, particularly relating to the concept of

556
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 4: bids for connection. A bid can be as simple as

557
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Speaker 4: a request for a small favor like peeling an orange,

558
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 4: or a verbal or non verbal gesture seeking emotional connection.

559
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Speaker 5: Oh I see, So a bid for connection is just

560
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Speaker 5: being like, notice what I'm noticing?

561
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Speaker 4: And so this comes from the sky John, I think

562
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Speaker 4: it's Actually I don't. I can't remember if his name

563
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 4: is John, but his name is definitely Gotman. So Gotman

564
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 4: created the idea of a bid, which, as we said,

565
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 4: is a fundamental unit of emotional communication. And they can

566
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 4: be small or big, verbal or non verbal, and they

567
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:21,439
Speaker 4: just requests to connect.

568
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 5: And yeah, wait, really quick, John, did you see sop

569
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 5: a spider man cup?

570
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 4: Yea spider cup. He loved it. He looked, Okay, that

571
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,479
Speaker 4: was really cool. I would look at that.

572
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 1: He looked.

573
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 2: Is that the test?

574
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:34,120
Speaker 1: Though?

575
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 6: I feel like that emotional wow, I like he was

576
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 6: about to ask a question about your question I.

577
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Speaker 2: Had, Oh, well is that?

578
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 6: I feel like I feel like the reason why it

579
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 6: is specifically the bird test is because it's something that's

580
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 6: like way often the distance hard that forces you to

581
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 6: really look. This was something that was right in my

582
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 6: eye line that I could easily.

583
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 1: Did you see the other spine man cut downstairs?

584
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 3: Oh?

585
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 4: We can put another clip of the before we go

586
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 4: into the research. If you want play another bird clip,

587
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 4: go back up.

588
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 5: I did the bird test on him, and now I

589
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 5: feel bad? What's that on?

590
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 1: What come on?

591
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 6: There's a cardinal where it's cordial.

592
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 1: Harm that's pretty cute. It's like a running up the stairs.

593
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 5: Why why.

594
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: He's still looking through the window the cardinals?

595
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 2: So this must be the backfire.

596
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: I mean it's not, but I don't think it's a

597
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 1: bad fire works. It works, ye works. It's like, oh

598
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: but and he's so cute.

599
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 2: Cute, But I guess is it like, is there is

600
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: there a backfiring.

601
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: Where it's not a red flag on his end?

602
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 5: Thinking about her? Like if if someone lied about a

603
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 5: bird in the backyard and I come up and oh,

604
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 5: where's the bird, bab I'm so excited to see the bird.

605
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 2: And she's like, I was lying to you.

606
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: This was a TikTok test exactly.

607
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 5: And you're like, I feel like, okay, I think I

608
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 5: feel like it's a red flag before the girl.

609
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 4: Honestly, well, Sam, you'd be right.

610
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 7: Really, I would go down. Organization four figures are getting tired, editors.

611
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry everyone. Okay, So anyway, yeah, so we

612
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 4: talked about what bids were, and we talked about who gotman?

613
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 1: Was got you man?

614
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,479
Speaker 4: Okay? So The New York Times says, actually, this is

615
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 4: Don Cole on The New York Times, who's a therapist

616
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 4: and a clitical coordinator at the Gotman Institute, a research

617
00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 4: group in Seattle that offers methods to help couples strengthen

618
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 4: the relationships, who said that he found the theory endearing

619
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Speaker 4: except for one part, putting your partner to the test.

620
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Speaker 1: Yes, putting your partner to the test is a red flag.

621
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 4: Call agrees with you.

622
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 6: Yes, God.

623
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 4: Don Cale says that seems negative and inappropriate, because the

624
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 4: whole idea in successful marriages is we don't want to

625
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 4: set them up to fail. He said, if you want

626
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 4: your orange peeled, just ask for it, but don't play

627
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 4: games or let the appealing become a referendum on the

628
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 4: health of your relationship. Yes, instead of testing partners to

629
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 4: see if they will make you a latte in the morning,

630
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 4: for example, you should instead say I love when you

631
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Speaker 4: make a latte in the morning.

632
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: Oh, I love, I love. Yes, I think that is

633
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: way healthier.

634
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Speaker 4: Yes, I do think that a lot of these TikTok

635
00:30:55,880 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 4: videos are just fun little cutesyship. That's thesis.

636
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 6: It starts cute and then it evolves into absurd, masty peel.

637
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 4: End of your relationship.

638
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: I honest, but I do.

639
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Speaker 5: I do think these kinds of like TikTok tests on

640
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 5: relationships are not healthy, even if they if they pass

641
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 5: like that last one is super cute, but like it's

642
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 5: kind of I think it's fed up. One like to

643
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 5: record your partner, maybe without them knowing, and also just

644
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 5: like to test like it's kind of like a.

645
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think some of these tests are a little

646
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 4: too far.

647
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 6: So what if there is a What if there is

648
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 6: something in the orange peel theory called the cute zone,

649
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 6: the cute zone being there is a space where these

650
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 6: tests are fun, silly, cute, and enjoyable for all parties involved,

651
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 6: where it doesn't really matter the person isn't truly testing

652
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 6: them or using it as information to determine something about

653
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 6: the relationship. And it's fun. But once we exit the

654
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 6: cute zone is when it becomes dangerous.

655
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Speaker 4: If you're actually using this to test the relationship.

656
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: You're you're failing.

657
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like it's like us astrology to completely dictate

658
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 5: your life. Yes, I may have offended our eighty five

659
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 5: percent female audience. Don't come after me. I don't know.

660
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: I like this.

661
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 4: I'm cancer, which I've heard is the better type of cancer.

662
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 2: Let's go. I don't know if I'm that type of cancer,

663
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 2: but I almost What are you? July twenty one.

664
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Speaker 3: What is that?

665
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 4: The cancer cancer cancer science?

666
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: About this about astrology?

667
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 4: No, go down, No, that's all. You can read more

668
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 4: quotes from from any of the articles if.

669
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Speaker 2: You want, about like forty minutes.

670
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Speaker 4: If you want, we can read more of the article.

671
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Speaker 4: I have three articles there. I just picked a couple

672
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Speaker 4: of quotes from there.

673
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well maybe you can do more of

674
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Speaker 1: the quote. Sure, I like more quotes.

675
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Speaker 4: I could just read the whole New York Times article.

676
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 4: The New York Times says, imagine you're someone who loves

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Speaker 4: eating oranges, but I hates peeling that.

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Speaker 1: I don't think we should just read an entire article, right, Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Did you so you already read the thing that you

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Speaker 2: I read the thing? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I did. Maybe we do a couple more tiktoks.

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Speaker 4: Sure we can just go on on the bird test.

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Speaker 4: You could just go on TikTok and then like look

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Speaker 4: up that, you know, like I did the bird test

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Speaker 4: or like the orange peel.

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Speaker 1: Theory, just bird test.

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Speaker 4: Maybe since we did the orange peel I did. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: most of the orange peel theories were pretty similar the

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Speaker 4: bird tests. You'll probably find more people actually testing their partners,

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Speaker 4: which might be more interesting.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's like this first one. Baby, it was when

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Speaker 1: you would pay Pa, you would pay Paya.

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Speaker 4: I love her a the kids you could pass you woe,

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Speaker 4: I'm doing this trend in your past.

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Speaker 2: That is adorable.

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Speaker 4: That's cute. That's cute. That one, Oh ship, there's a

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Speaker 4: woodpecker where where.

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Speaker 7: I did.

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Speaker 3: Sorry mony cute talk.

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Speaker 4: It's a no. The dog is interesting.

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Speaker 2: Just to naked.

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Speaker 1: Oh da dang dang, I guess the bird.

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Speaker 4: I'm about to try the bird ty so my husband,

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Speaker 4: I feel like he's.

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Speaker 1: Going to fail.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, what about cardinval?

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Speaker 4: You see it. I'm about to try their fail. I

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Speaker 4: think that's a medium.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a medium. I think it's more past than.

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Speaker 2: It was it was the.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, it's a cardinal.

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Speaker 1: It's a cardinal. Brobate's fun of her.

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Speaker 3: Oh you pass.

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Speaker 5: I don't think that guys like being tested like this. No, okay,

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Speaker 5: So I think finally, let's look up a couple more

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Speaker 5: orange peels, and I think we need to choose whether

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Speaker 5: the bird tests and the orange Field method are good

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Speaker 5: or bad for relationships.

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Speaker 2: Final vote.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's just the Gotman Institute, Like the Gotman Institute

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Speaker 4: that came up with the idea of doing a little skit.

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, that's that's it. Yes, this is the one

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Speaker 4: I was talking about earlier.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel that for me?

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Speaker 4: He looks like I'm a de Franco or John? What's

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Speaker 4: the other Franco? He's suspicious.

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Speaker 1: His bread and milk disgusting.

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Speaker 4: No, easy, that can't be milk. That's got to be

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Speaker 4: something else.

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Speaker 1: I think it's milk.

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Speaker 4: But so yeah, so he I think I think he failed. Well,

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Speaker 4: he knew that he was being like, knew that something

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Speaker 4: was going on because it was courting. So I feel like, that's.

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Speaker 1: Why are any men testing women with this?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's on you, guys.

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Speaker 6: We fail, We failed doing her test.

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Speaker 1: Let's it.

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Speaker 5: Let's see tell telling my telling my boyfriend a purposely

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Speaker 5: boring story.

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Speaker 1: It's two minutes long long.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to hear.

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Speaker 4: No, soone should read this. Ah okay, but I feel

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Speaker 4: like that's a like is that entirely selfless?

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Speaker 1: He likes the orange eating candy?

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Speaker 4: Like for example, whatever, my friend Isabella, she doesn't like

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Speaker 4: the orange sour gummies and she gives them to me,

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Speaker 4: but I love them. So I'm like, all right, mutually beneficial.

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Speaker 5: I think we need to decide once and for all

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Speaker 5: whether the orange peel method and the bird tests are

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Speaker 5: good or bad for listeners.

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Speaker 4: It's the orange peel theory.

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Speaker 1: All right, the field theory.

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Speaker 5: Relationships totally because you shouldn't be testing your partner.

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Speaker 4: According to gom oh, well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you think, Sophia.

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Speaker 4: I think test the testing aspect is not good, but

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Speaker 4: I think the idea of the orange peel theory in

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Speaker 4: like conceptually is good because science, scientific research. Yes, I

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Speaker 4: think the orange peel theory as a concept is good.

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Speaker 1: So you want no method, No, No, I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: I'm saying the concept behind it is good in that like, oh,

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Speaker 4: you know, having small gestures instead of big grand gestures

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Speaker 4: are good for relationships. But like the testing aspect, okay.

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Speaker 5: So what do you think you're the deciding factor? I

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Speaker 5: know Sophia is yes. What say you, sir?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: Oh, I know us have it.

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Speaker 6: I agree because like, like, like I mentioned, if it's

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Speaker 6: in the cute zone, there's it's innocuous, there's nothing wrong.

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Speaker 6: But I think it's the idea of seriously testing your partner.

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Speaker 6: I think I think most of these are humorous, good natured, silly.

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Speaker 2: It's fun.

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Speaker 6: But if you're really going in like I need to

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Speaker 6: test this person, I think that's probably not great. Or

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Speaker 6: the fact that you're like I need to use a

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Speaker 6: tool like this to see if my relationship is good,

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Speaker 6: then the relationship probably isn't.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, great, I think I think I agree with that though.

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Speaker 4: I think it's like I think I am yes on

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Speaker 4: that aspect, right. I think it's just like the testing No,

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Speaker 4: But if you're like, oh, hey, My partner already does this.

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Speaker 5: So Sophia is for women testing men to see good enough.

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Speaker 7: She's for deceitful video taking of men failing.

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Speaker 5: But I would love to know what do you guys think?

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Speaker 5: What do you guys think? Are you four or are

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Speaker 5: you against the orange peel metas.

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Speaker 4: The orange peel method? No? Shoot? Is the orange peel

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Speaker 4: theory good?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: No? Oh?

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Speaker 7: Is the orange pil theory ruining relationships?

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Speaker 1: That's what we're talking?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what.

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Speaker 4: Is the orange peel theory ruining your relationships?

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Speaker 5: Let us know the comments yes or no, and also

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Speaker 5: let us know about the bird test. We'd love to

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