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Speaker 1: My husband thinks I'm ugly, so now he wants an

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Speaker 1: open marriage. I told him about the first guy I

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Speaker 1: want to see. He doesn't want an open marriage anymore.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, as soon as she links up with a

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Speaker 2: haughty batadi, it's all. Oh, I just want to be

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Speaker 2: with you, babe. Baby. You know I've I've been heaving.

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Speaker 2: I sat down and really had some thoughts lately. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You know, when I said open marriage, I meant for me. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: for you, I love, babe. There's nothing that makes me

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Speaker 2: happier than banging other people. But it makes me said

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Speaker 2: when you bang other people. I just have such a

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Speaker 2: big heart. I just have so much love to get.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah, I want to give my sweetness

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Speaker 2: to all of those, all those babes. I got some

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Speaker 2: money for all these bees out there, gotta paliinate the world.

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Speaker 2: But I still only have one queen because I am Okay,

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Speaker 2: oh boy, my main queen. There we go, baby.

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Speaker 1: About one year ago, my husband Mail forty eight told

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Speaker 2: Dang, sorry about that. That is a tough hammer to drop,

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Speaker 2: not fun. I kind of understand that. Oh no, you're

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Speaker 2: beautiful on the inside. Kidding all jokes. God, Era is.

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Speaker 1: Cod really is it is? It is blossoming. That's because

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Speaker 1: since our second child, male four, was born, he hasn't

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Speaker 1: made love to him.

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Speaker 2: Damn four years.

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Speaker 1: That is pretty rough. He said he loved me more

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Speaker 1: than anything in the world and that the rest of

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Speaker 1: the relationship was perfect, but he needed to do the

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Speaker 1: dirty deed or he would go crazy. I was taken aback,

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Speaker 1: but I started asking him about the definition of an

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Speaker 1: open marriage and we discussed it over a few weeks.

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I was feeling very sexually deprived and

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Speaker 1: the idea ordered to grow on me. I said yes

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Speaker 1: and asked if there were any rules, and he said

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Speaker 1: that usually every couple had their own rules.

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Speaker 2: That's true. That's so my rules. I I beg whoever

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Speaker 2: I want, and you don't. Yeah, you just get to

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Speaker 2: be an old maide that has a dusty old crevice

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Speaker 2: for a vagina that is unused. You know, it's custom

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Speaker 2: fit for us, babe for hours. Yeah. Yeah, And I

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Speaker 2: feel like for our needs, your needs must not be

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Speaker 2: met exactly. Yeah, now you get it. Yeah, I'm trying

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Speaker 2: to go back to like the nineteen fifties style of

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Speaker 2: the relationship. You know, thrown it back the good old days.

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Speaker 2: You know, Oh my god, make open marriages great a

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Speaker 2: get babe. That literally was the og open marriage. Men

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Speaker 2: just rampantly cheating on them, cheating with you know, you

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Speaker 2: got their secretaries, only higher hot secretaries, because that was

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Speaker 2: that's who you bang, that's what you banged. The rules,

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Speaker 2: those are the rules, God, those rules of the open barriage.

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Speaker 2: Literally have you seen mad menon Point? That is literally

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Speaker 2: a documentary. This is no fiction.

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, So our rules are no bringing them

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Speaker 1: home and use protection. My husband was very clear that

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Speaker 1: he also wanted to know who the other person slash

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Speaker 1: persons were and when it happened.

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Speaker 2: That's uh okay. Three rules.

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Speaker 1: The when he said, was to plan our days. He

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Speaker 1: was meeting some new women within a week. I mean

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Speaker 1: he's busy.

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Speaker 2: I guess.

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Speaker 1: He told me everything, showed me pictures, and was gone

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Speaker 1: most of the nights. I'm not gonna lie. I feel

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Speaker 1: like crap, But I thought I needed to give it time.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I get it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's is that a good rule? In a week?

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Speaker 1: He just yeah, I think it's a little information overload.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's like if you ask you share or something. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it seems like yeah, He's just like look baby, look, look, look, look,

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Speaker 2: Come on, come out, check out, check come out. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And this is when we did doggy Yeah, this is

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Speaker 2: when we did a This is a slide show, this

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Speaker 2: is a this is a recap. You know, I could

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Speaker 2: really fix my form on these thrusts for this one.

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Speaker 2: But don't worry this next girl. You really got it down.

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Speaker 1: If we go to slide seven, you would think this

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Speaker 2: And if you look at this graph, you can see

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Speaker 2: my sexual performance time has been increasing from five to

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Speaker 1: Wait, honey, I think it's a second Oh, don't mind

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Speaker 1: the metrics now. I was more careful, however, because I

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Speaker 1: One of them is a client, Jay thirty six, at

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Speaker 1: the bank I worked for, not my client, but he

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Speaker 2: But I also I feel like for the open relationship stuff,

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Speaker 2: how they went into it, it seems like it was

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Speaker 2: to find an emotional connection is it wasn't an explicit

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Speaker 2: violation because they didn't put that in the open marriage contract.

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Speaker 2: But seems to go against the intention.

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Speaker 1: But you know what, it doesn't go against what getting

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Speaker 1: your rocks.

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Speaker 2: Off, getting your rocks out. You gotta get your rocks

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Speaker 2: off popping. Yeah, you know you need emotional connection to.

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Speaker 1: Rock off exactly. She she needs to be railed with.

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Speaker 2: Empathy can't come until you say I love you. That's right.

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Speaker 1: So now I've started flirting about a month ago, and

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Speaker 1: I finally decided I was ready to start sleeping with others. Okay,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, I told Jay about my arrangement. He was disappointed.

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Speaker 2: Why huh?

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Speaker 1: How funny the first arrangement after after your dozens of

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't, but I don't think he can

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Speaker 2: there's no explicit like no like no emotional connection or whatever,

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Speaker 2: like let it create those rules literally.

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Speaker 1: And he's gone on like he was.

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Speaker 2: He she's pumping at umping him through. And the first

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Speaker 1: He was after a week boom, damn d date like

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Speaker 1: come on now. He was disappointed at first, but then

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Speaker 1: I showed him Jay and I told him that I

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Speaker 2: Now, buddy, buddy, you've made your bed, sleeping at my No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: Friday came and my husband texted me that he was

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Speaker 2: Wow, stuck at work. Take care of the kids. Interesting

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Speaker 2: and he's working hard those secretaries.

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Speaker 1: Oh, he's banging out some some overdue material. If you

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Speaker 1: catch my drift, and that he later was going to

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Speaker 2: Time to get the sitter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean I guess this continued every time

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Speaker 1: I fixed a date with Jay, he would do the

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Speaker 2: Man's playing forty Oh my god, more like two D chess.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very obviously. Yeah, oh my god. I don't mind

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Speaker 1: spending more time with my children. But I was getting annoyed.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, he's not letting you get those rocks off.

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Speaker 2: Come on now, and his rocks, his rocks are miles away,

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Speaker 2: has been thrown off the different, different galaxy.

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Speaker 1: Last Monday, I had no meetings at work after lunch,

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Speaker 1: I texted Jay if you wanted to meet, and he

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Speaker 2: Okay, so this is an afternoon delight situation.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes it is. We're we're getting so it can't

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Speaker 1: be cock blocked. Nope, my children were in daycare. I

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Speaker 1: went to his place and it was hot. I've missed

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Speaker 1: this so so much, feeling that I'm desired and that

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Speaker 1: my body.

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Speaker 2: Oh pretty sweet good gravy. I mean, not sweet sexy.

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Speaker 2: It's sexy. It's fifty shades of gray sexy. I'm glad.

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Speaker 1: I mean she thinks you low key deserves it though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, especially because like the husband's league not

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Speaker 1: Bro, my guy is banging twenty four seventh sixty five.

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Speaker 1: He took all of his slots and all of her slots.

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Speaker 1: When I got home, I saw my husband and told him,

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Speaker 1: How dare you?

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Speaker 2: But she did. She said I'm gonna I plan on

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Speaker 1: She she literally let him know constantly basically all that.

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Speaker 1: It's the same like I'm gonna hook up with this guy.

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Speaker 1: I've showed you a ton of times. Yeah, but you

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Speaker 1: didn't like that it was three pm instead of seven,

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Speaker 1: like what, And it wasn't in the house or anything,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't think it broke any of the rules.

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Speaker 2: I think she's in the clear.

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Speaker 1: Well, Opiko's on. I broke a rule.

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Speaker 2: What's the rule?

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Speaker 1: I told him that I didn't he knew that I

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Speaker 1: him about the specific instance. Yeah. Anyway, he didn't speak

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Speaker 2: Interesting. I think I think he has a case of like,

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Speaker 2: now that he sees that she's desirable by other men,

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Speaker 1: This is this is a little comical to me.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think I think it's just super unfair to.

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Speaker 1: Her completely, like oh my gosh, and he's just like

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Speaker 1: it's it's just as a flip flop, yeah, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. And it'd be one thing if he

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Speaker 1: would still be kind of bad. If he's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I thought this was right, I'm not as comfortable with

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Speaker 2: It's still still kind of bad bad, But especially because

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Speaker 2: he's been like gallivanting around exactly but this just feels

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Speaker 2: like he's weaseland.

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Speaker 1: It feels like he's weaseland to me, and we've done

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Speaker 1: it every single night since. Now he's saying that he's

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Speaker 1: close up the marriage. But I don't want to. I

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Speaker 1: like having other options, and we're not her anyone. Okay,

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Speaker 2: No, not at all, not at all, zero percent. The

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think you know, I understand that can happen,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I haven't heard that before.

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Speaker 2: I like. I like the new Turkey Patra effect.

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Speaker 1: That's right. So on to the update. When I found Jay, however,

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Speaker 1: And I was right. Last Tuesday I was supposed to

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Speaker 2: Is that actually what? No? I took some I took

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Speaker 1: I just looked at him and told him that I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hipocrisy is the issue.

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Speaker 1: It's too high. Yeah, it's way too high.

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Speaker 2: I don't have like, I don't really have an issue

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Speaker 1: Just so hot. Maybe if it was like first few

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Speaker 1: it's poor, but it's it's so far at this point.

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Speaker 2: She's only had one due in this man's leg, you know,

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Speaker 1: Dude, Like all the all that he'd gone through, all

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Speaker 2: All the secretaries, try single secretary of that tri state.

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Speaker 1: It's all that. Maybe that's why maybe he actually ran

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Speaker 1: Well why now? Well, he told me that he hadn't

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Speaker 2: is he gonna do? Wait? Someone called the Nobel peace price.

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Speaker 2: We need to give to him now two weeks? What

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Speaker 2: do you want? Bro?

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Speaker 1: Because he thought that I quote was enough, so he

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Speaker 2: I don't know, bro.

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Speaker 1: Maybe when you winter and literally said you are not

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Speaker 2: In two weeks, get off your stop, man, have a

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Speaker 1: He's he's he's I mean, he's so used to his

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Speaker 1: He's like not three three secretaries, different secretaries a day?

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Speaker 1: I mean that, what's what's fourteen? What's fourteen times three?

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Speaker 1: How can I not do math anymore?

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Speaker 2: Six times seven? That's like forty Wow, this is pathetic.

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Speaker 2: It's not quarantine. Did twenty eight to forty two? Forty two?

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Speaker 1: Forteen times three forty two?

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Speaker 1: Nicely done, bro, I completely I said, thirty six and

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Speaker 1: though we don't read math. I asked him why the

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Speaker 2: I think we know why. He's like he fell out

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Speaker 2: And now suddenly that he sees that she's desirable to

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Speaker 2: to me. There it is, yeah, yikes, social psychology, big brains, ladies, gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: I told him I knew why, because suddenly you couldn't

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Speaker 2: There we go, yeah, which I think is like you know,

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Speaker 1: I hadn't thought about it like that.

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Speaker 2: Like what if you're like, dude, like I'm not, I'm

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Speaker 2: not really feeling your hotness anymore. Maye we start hooking

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's possible.

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Speaker 2: Never consider idea. I think that's a great idea. If

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Speaker 2: you guys are both on board, Yo, that's a.

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Speaker 1: Great If they're both on board, it's it's just it's

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Speaker 2: I think that it's a dicey game for sure. If

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Speaker 2: That's a solution, bro, that's a great solution. If I'm

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Speaker 2: to them, open marriage for a little bit, like you know,

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Speaker 2: three months, let's see how many batties we both can get,

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Speaker 2: and then we'll tell each other and then we'll probably

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Speaker 1: It's just a cycle open close, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, Dude, everyone in in uh retirement home is hooking

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Speaker 1: I mean, what else they got to do?

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Speaker 2: What else they got to do? And then they're probably

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Speaker 1: I mean at that point, it's just like Greece. You

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Speaker 1: to worry about STDs. You're going out the door and

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Speaker 1: going out the door. Dude, free for all. Yeah, get

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Speaker 2: Collect them all have massive orgies where it's like I

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Speaker 2: have this idea for an orgy where it's like a

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Speaker 2: that too. You could do strap ons, that's true. Could

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Speaker 1: I mean that is human centipede that sounds human sentiped

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Speaker 1: different thing that sounds like a genis world record. That

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Speaker 2: I wonder if that this must be like a video

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Speaker 1: Called U show. What's our newest show going to be

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Speaker 1: called the Circle of Sex? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Sex and the People Sex? Okay, Big Gray moves There

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Speaker 2: we go the Only Fans Podcast.

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Speaker 1: That's right. He tried to deny it, but I didn't budge.

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Speaker 1: I told him that he wasn't seeing other women because

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Speaker 2: To your we said, that's what we said. I think

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hopefully when I'm pregnant, because in your mind, I

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think she's right on the money with this one.

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 2: So he threw the dinner plate across the room and.

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Speaker 1: Left Yoh that is not acceptable.

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Speaker 2: No, Yeah, he's losing it. He's losing it.

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Speaker 1: He spent the night outside. Next day he was calmer,

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Speaker 2: I believed it in my.

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Speaker 1: I told him that he didn't seem to be as

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Speaker 1: to calm down and listen.

437
00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 2: Interesting. So she's like, hey, I don't want to back

438
00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,679
Speaker 2: down from this open marriage. So it's either open marriage

439
00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:15,440
Speaker 2: or no marriage.

440
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 1: And it's wild, because bro, this is literally all because

441
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:20,919
Speaker 1: of you, like you created the monster.

442
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:24,000
Speaker 2: That's the thing about asking for an open marriage when

443
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,360
Speaker 2: you said it was a dicey game. It's like if

444
00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 2: you open it that and you both agree to open it,

445
00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 2: then you have to both agree to closes it, you know, and.

446
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,719
Speaker 1: That it just it just might not line up, you know,

447
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:35,679
Speaker 1: it might line up.

448
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:35,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

449
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 1: The more like decisions like that, the harder it is

450
00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 1: to align it hard to close. It is unlike the

451
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:47,200
Speaker 1: legs of the secretary that this guy was my goodness.

452
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:50,440
Speaker 1: He couldn't just demolish the kitchen and walk away every

453
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 1: time I said something that wasn't to his taste.

454
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:53,480
Speaker 2: Correct.

455
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,120
Speaker 1: I couldn't and wouldn't go back to how things were

456
00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 1: before opening our marriage. So either he wanted this or

457
00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,680
Speaker 1: we get a divorce. Laying down the lock.

458
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:03,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's like the it seems like the

459
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:06,119
Speaker 2: initial marriage is pretty unfair to herself. It feels right.

460
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 1: I asked him to think about it. Thursday, when he

461
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 1: got back from work, I had already changed and was

462
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,439
Speaker 1: ready to go out. He didn't say anything. When I

463
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 1: got home, he was crying and said that he couldn't

464
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 1: do this anymore. I told him that we can only

465
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 1: have one solution then, and it was divorce. He said

466
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 1: that I was brutal. Quote you're not the beautiful kind

467
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 1: of woman I married anymore. Buddy, Buddy, buddy, this guy

468
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 1: is too much.

469
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just it's like, I mean, let's let's play

470
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 2: Devil's advocate for a secon. Yeah, right, is it mean

471
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 2: to not go back to I think his reasons are bad.

472
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:43,439
Speaker 2: There's a lot of red flags that are coming up

473
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,480
Speaker 2: for him. But let's let's say let's say there were like,

474
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,200
Speaker 2: let's say there were no red flags. Again, obvious red

475
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,880
Speaker 2: flags for this guy, but let's say like he let's

476
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 2: say everything actually went smoothly where it's like he asked

477
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,159
Speaker 2: for an open marriage. He's like, I don't know, But

478
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 2: then they do it, and they both go and see

479
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 2: other people, and then he goes to her a few

480
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 2: months later and it's like, hey, I don't know how

481
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 2: comfortable I am with his open marriage. Do you mind

482
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 2: if we close it? And she's like, I mean yeah,

483
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 2: she has every right to say no even in that situation.

484
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: So again, if if what kind of marriage, if the

485
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 1: decisions one hundred percent aligned at every step between the

486
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 1: two of them, then there's no issue. But it's like

487
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:24,440
Speaker 1: he's done all this tomfoolery and he created the situation.

488
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 2: Now not aligned.

489
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 1: And now she's like no, like, now that we're here,

490
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,959
Speaker 1: because of what you suggested, I don't want this.

491
00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, so and so, even without the red flags, I

492
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 2: think she's still entitled to say no open marriage or

493
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,640
Speaker 2: or divorce. Yeah, and so I think with all these

494
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 2: red flags, she's like doubly entitled. Yeah. Yeah.

495
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 1: He hasn't been home this weekend. He called every night

496
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 1: just to say good night to the children. He texted

497
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 1: me once are you in love with Jay? No?

498
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 2: Is he better than me? Losing questions like oh.

499
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: No, are you going to start dating him if we divorce?

500
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 1: I didn't answer.

501
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 2: Damn, bro, you're asking the dude. Dude, Okay, there's it's

502
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 2: it's to see a medium chunk. But yeah, guy, it's

503
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 2: you know, like I don't necessarily feel bad for him, but.

504
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: Like it's a it's a it's a it's a drastic fall.

505
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 2: There's part of me that if he didn't have red flags,

506
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 2: or I think there would be part of me that

507
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:26,719
Speaker 2: would feel a little bad for him.

508
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 1: My guy is about to go from red flag to

509
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:31,679
Speaker 1: red pill real fast.

510
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 2: Yeah.

511
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 1: All I woulded was the big whoever I woulded, And

512
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 1: then she banged someone and I didn't.

513
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,919
Speaker 2: Like it, and then here we are. Yeah, dude, you

514
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 2: made the bed. You made the bed, made got a lay. Yeah,

515
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 2: it sucks, It sucks for you. You know he made

516
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:47,880
Speaker 2: the bed.

517
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,640
Speaker 1: But Sam, are you ready to get in the bed

518
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 1: of this update?

519
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,439
Speaker 2: I would. I just want to. I just want to

520
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 2: like give a little little shout out to Op for

521
00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 2: for really standing her ground. Yes, yes, she know, like

522
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 2: she realized what she needs to be happy. Yes, and

523
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 2: she's not going to take shit from this guy that's

524
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 2: been treating her poorly. You are exactly. It really is

525
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:10,920
Speaker 2: a beautiful thing. Yeah, it's a good thing. But it

526
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 2: sucks for this dude. But I think he has a

527
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 2: lot of stuff to work on on his own.

528
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's he's got to he's got to go work

529
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 1: it out. He's got to go work it out. Okay,

530
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 1: on to the update, the final.

531
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 2: Update, boo countdown.

532
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: Jay has called me to tell me that it's all

533
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: over and Jay, remember Jay is her hookup, not the husband.

534
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:34,400
Speaker 2: I wonder why that happened. Funny you ask Tom Foolery

535
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 2: and the husband did something. My husband asked to meet

536
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 2: him yesterday. He denied that we had an open marriage

537
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 2: and told Jay he needed to back off. Wow, bro, Bro, Wow.

538
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 1: He showed him the texts where I said that Jay

539
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 1: wasn't better in bed and that I wasn't in love

540
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 1: with him. So Jay was very hurt believing that I

541
00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 1: like to him this sneaky scoundrel. He used the texts.

542
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: That's why he asked those questions.

543
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:11,160
Speaker 2: Bro, is he where does he think this is bro

544
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 2: getting him?

545
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:15,400
Speaker 1: I think I think he's he's gone full delusion mode.

546
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 2: Well, I think he's I think he's probably just trying

547
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 2: to hurt anything he can. Yeah, I think he's going

548
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 2: to he's going he's trying to get like kamikazeing and

549
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 2: find the plane into the relationship. And he's like, I'm

550
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 2: taking you down with me.

551
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: Man, like all plausible deniability.

552
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,639
Speaker 2: This guy's just the window, full blown mass, full blown

553
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 2: ass hat, bro. And he's lying to the guy. He's

554
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 2: literally he's literally lying.

555
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 1: I tried to explain everything to Jay, but he didn't

556
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 1: believe me.

557
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: I don't feel bad that this guy has made a

558
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: terrible life for himself. Is Yeah.

559
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: I sent him a screenshot with my husband arranging his

560
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 1: hookups and a screenshot with me telling my husband that

561
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 1: I was meeting Jay. I think he believed me after that.

562
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: He said he wanted to end it anyways. He has

563
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: feelings for me, but this arrangement won't work for him anymore.

564
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 1: I told him that I totally understand and I apologize

565
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: for my and my husband's actions. I'm not mad, but

566
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 1: I'm sad that I've lost him. It takes a lot

567
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 1: for me to like and trust someone. But I understand

568
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 1: that he doesn't want to deal with this drama. I

569
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: kind of get it too.

570
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I understand your point and understand it.

571
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to miss him though. My husband came home

572
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 1: today all smiles, and he said that we should give

573
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 1: our open marriage another shot.

574
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:32,400
Speaker 2: What an act hole, What an asshole?

575
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:33,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

576
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 2: Wow.

577
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: Seeing how the children were happy seeing him after disappearing

578
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,199
Speaker 1: for the whole weekend broke my heart. I've been so

579
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: self involved forgetting that my babies are the most important

580
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:49,199
Speaker 1: thing right now. I won't forget that now.

581
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 2: Wow. I don't know if I like where this story ended. No,

582
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 2: it's like like it feels like this feels like this

583
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 2: dude's just getting like a free pass. Yeah, you have

584
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 2: a villain one.

585
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: Literally the most free pass, Like like he's done all

586
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 1: of this tomfoolery and he I mean the way that

587
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: ending leads me to believe is that they stay together.

588
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, they have a happily ever after. But dude, you're

589
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: marrying the wrong guy.

590
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: Dude, he is He's a maniac. He is like on

591
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:23,880
Speaker 1: a different planet.

592
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:25,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

593
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 1: Well, okay, all right, Well the question stands, ladies and gentlemen,

594
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,199
Speaker 1: for all of you, with your wonderful fingers, let us know,

595
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 1: was op the a hole? I kind of want to

596
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,120
Speaker 1: know what's the real question here? What's the real question here?

597
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 2: My question is is the husband the a hole for

598
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 2: wanting to close the marriage again? Like if you I

599
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: think that. The question I have is, let's say there's

600
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 2: no red flags if you say, hey, I'm not really

601
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 2: attracted to you, but I think it's because like I don't,

602
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,239
Speaker 2: I don't, I don't know. I haven't seen you as

603
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 2: an object of this is this is really honest seeing

604
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 2: you as an object of desire and a lot time,

605
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 2: And I think opening the marriage would allow me to

606
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 2: see you, like as attractive in the eyes of other men,

607
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 2: and this I might be attracted to you. Could we

608
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 2: open the marriage to see if we can kickstart our

609
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 2: own sexual interest in each other again, and then close

610
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 2: it once that sexual interest is ignited. Is that you

611
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 2: think a non act whole thing to do. And then

612
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 2: also like at the certain levels that op took, what

613
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,959
Speaker 2: was the first action that he took that was an

614
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 2: actable behavior? Was it asking for the open marriage? Yeah?

615
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 2: Was it saying hey, like you can't see this guy.

616
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 2: I would really love to know where you think the

617
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 2: act wholeness came from on either side. And then also

618
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 2: have you ever had an open marriage and closed it

619
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 2: or open if for anyone who has had an open

620
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 2: marriage that it was either successful or unsuccessful, what did

621
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 2: it look like when it started and you did you

622
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 2: close it at any point? Did it cause the marriage

623
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 2: to fall apart? I would love to hear those stories

624
00:29:57,760 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 2: very much.

625
00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 1: So yeah, but I mean might even if we get

626
00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 1: some some great ones, might even bring it on the show.

627
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: That's a very interesting story. But yeah, I mean what

628
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: would you say? What where do you think was the

629
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 1: first time it was like went over the line to ail?

630
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 2: I mean for the husband. I think the first time

631
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 2: was when he was cock blocking the wife. Yeah, that

632
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 2: felt like it's like, hey, you're being a hypocrite here,

633
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 2: like It's one thing to ask for an open marriage

634
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 2: and start to test that out, but to not allow

635
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 2: the wife to play by the same rules you're playing

636
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:30,479
Speaker 2: by seems really hypocritical and really insecure. Yeah, and then

637
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 2: I think he just got progressively more Yeah.

638
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, throughout the story exactly, he's just amplified. It's snowballs.

639
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what balls we always love, which

640
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 2: one sam the little balls of characters that I call

641
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 2: words that you drop, that you drop in the comments

642
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 2: section below, Oh yes, love those balls. Love those balls,

643
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 2: word balls. And we have a few comments from the video.

644
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 2: My stepdad stole my inheritance to buy house. This is

645
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 2: my revenge. And in story one, the stepdad steals the

646
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 2: inheritance buy the house. Public subscriber Moonlight zero two one six'

647
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 2: one says if money is left the, child it is

648
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 2: the Child's she can sue her, parents lawyer. Up my,

649
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 2: love you can totally win. This his parents made some

650
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 2: big no, nos especially about spending that much in a,

651
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 2: house just shy of the eighteenth birthday when a residence

652
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 2: before was, fine and then public Subscriber Jay akevedo, says

653
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 2: hope there is an update where he sues them for

654
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 2: the stolen, money or has them arrested for buying a

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00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 2: house of stolen. Money it will be beautiful either. Way

656
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 2: LIKE i hope thieves and the man here are so.

657
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 2: Screwed ooh, strong opinions. Strong we love the opinions of

658
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 2: our public. Subscribers if you have an opinion that you

659
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 2: want to drop and maybe have us read comment down

660
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 2: below and we'll talk to you. Soon love, you and

661
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 2: make sure to publicly.

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00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: Subscribed my son's in laws bandits from the, wedding, fine

663
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: Then i'm evicting your daughter in mich writer.

664
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 2: SON i feel like the punishment fits the. Crime you.

665
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 2: KNOW i feel like if you don't invite your parents

666
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 2: to your wedding and you're still living in their house rent,

667
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 2: free then you gotta you gotta get your butt out

668
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 2: of there, then you. KNOW i think it's like the

669
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 2: ultimate insult. Too it is it is like you can't

670
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 2: live here. ANYMORE i mean that it's like it would

671
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: be bad if you went to your to your friend

672
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 2: and be, like, hey like, sorry you can't come to the,

673
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 2: Wedding like that would be. Bad but if you went

674
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 2: to like your parents are like, YEAH i don't think

675
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 2: it would be like a, fit you, know, like.

676
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:37,959
Speaker 1: YEAH i JUST i just don't think it's your, vibe

677
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: you know WHAT i, Mean like we're gonna be playing

678
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 1: like music you don't like eating like vegan.

679
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 2: Stuff the. Guy let's see the guy from the office

680
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 2: or off the space where it's, like, yeah the long

681
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 2: the long haired, guy the guy the guy from office

682
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 2: space that's like a dick is the movie or the? Movie,

683
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 2: yeah a lumber like Mister. Lumberg, yeah he's like you Put,

684
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 2: Yeah i'm gonna need you To.

685
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 1: They should they should hire that guy to tell, them,

686
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: like you're not invited to the. Way, yeah there's a

687
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: guy a TikTok who does. That well you're not. Invited

688
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 1: well he just delivers bad news like, hey h your

689
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 1: wife is leaving you for the mail. Man, wow it's great. Content.

690
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: Wow so my wife AND i bought a four bedroom

691
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: house In pennsylvania that my son lives In. Nice our

692
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: son went to college In pennsylvania and wanted to stay

693
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: in the, area so it just made.

694
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 2: Sense so free, living, great free living and free, loading that's. Right.

695
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: Uh so we bought the house as a second. Home

696
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 1: we live In New jersey and commute Into manhattan for.

697
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 1: Work we figured that he would have a place to

698
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 1: live and could visit every so often and we could

699
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 1: spend some quality time.

700
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 2: Together so, far so. Good, yeah it seems like the perfect.

701
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 2: Setup the.

702
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: Parents the parents are doing what they can for the baby.

703
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: Boy we pay the, taxes services and maintenance on the,

704
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 1: house and our son pays for his groceries and the house,

705
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: utilities and so that's a pretty sweet fricking.

706
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 2: Deal, yeah pay for his Grown it's, like, uh, yeah

707
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 2: of course he graduated from.

708
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 1: University, yeah, yeah he's LIKE i think he's going through.

709
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: UNIVERSITY i guess at this point through.

710
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 2: UNIVERSITY i feel like my parents help pay for my

711
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:14,359
Speaker 2: groceries WHEN i was going through.

712
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 1: University but it's also not like, like oh my, gosh

713
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 1: he pays for his, Groceries like you, know it's not

714
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: like a huge flex, bro not a huge flex almost

715
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: going well for a few, years and our son met

716
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 1: a girl and they got, serious, serious, serious, serious.

717
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 2: Serious about clapping down.

718
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: Jerks now we met her and she seems nice enough

719
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: when she's not getting, no.

720
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 2: No, No then she's, naughty and then she's naughty not.

721
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 1: Nice santa's got a brand new bag and you made

722
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: the naughty.

723
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 2: List you're gonna go directly Into santa's. Sack it ain't,

724
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 2: cold BUT i got two lumps for. You let's just

725
00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 2: Say i'm gonna go through your chimney. Today, nice too.

726
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 2: BAD i can barely fit with my.

727
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 1: And and and here and here's what we just went,

728
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: down like Full, christmas, dude full Christ.

729
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 2: We're in the middle Of.

730
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 1: July, yeah, yeah, yeah you, know it's like we're halfway.

731
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: There we're halfway. There but then the big. Announcement they

732
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 1: announce that they're, engaged and she moves into the house

733
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: with our. Son so that's that's a big. Move it's

734
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 1: a huge move getting engaged over. Here now for the

735
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:32,879
Speaker 1: problem the.

736
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 2: Wedding, SEE i thought that would be like not the.

737
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 2: PROBLEM i think that would be, like you, know all

738
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 2: the wedding celebration and, yes, love when when the wedding

739
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 2: is the, problem you, know something ain't.

740
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: Right of, course we hold a little get to know

741
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 1: you barbecue at Our pennsylvania. House my son and daughter are,

742
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:54,720
Speaker 1: there as are our son's fiance and her parents and. Sisters.

743
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: Cool we all seem to beginning along. Well my, wife

744
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,359
Speaker 1: daughter and the fiance go into the house along with

745
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: her mother and, sisters and my, son.

746
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 2: A lot of, family big.

747
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: FAMILY a few minutes, later my wife and daughter come

748
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 1: out and they're really. Upset what. Happened they come over

749
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,879
Speaker 1: and tell me that we're leaving and driving back To New.

750
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 2: Jersey, okay WHY i try to find out what.

751
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,919
Speaker 1: Happened and once we got back To New, jersey they

752
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 1: calmed down and they tell me that our son and

753
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,879
Speaker 1: his fiance's family don't want us at their own.

754
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 2: Wedding how could you say, that, like like the balls

755
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 2: on you to be LIKE i don't want you At it's? Insane,

756
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 2: Yeah like that's what That that is the most ridiculous request. Ever.

757
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 1: Now, now maybe if they were, like you, know we

758
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: had we had a parents a few stories back that

759
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 1: were like trying to say that they were trying to

760
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 1: send them to like a mental institution to steal all their. Money,

761
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 1: yeah if their parents are like, that then that makes.

762
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: Sense but these parents are doing everything they can to support.

763
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 2: You, yeah, yeah and they like they let you stay

764
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 2: in the. House in the, House like what the man

765
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 2: has not thought this. Through let's just say. That Good.

766
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 1: God according to WHAT i was, called we're not there

767
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: kind of.

768
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 2: People what does that? Mean what does that? Mean like

769
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 2: are they like really smelly or something or like like

770
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 2: covered in.

771
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 1: Shit it's like like.

772
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 2: And just roll around in feces like like like even

773
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,720
Speaker 2: if you had rolled around in vces and you smelled

774
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 2: the high, oven just like put a shower up into

775
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 2: hose them down before they. Go they're walking you down the.

776
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 2: Aisle have a spray with some suns and some. Water

777
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 2: it's gonna be like one of those like like drive through. Carts,

778
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 2: LITERALLY i was. LIVID i called my son and asked

779
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 2: him what the heck this was all. About he tells

780
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 2: me that her family feel that we are not good

781
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 2: enough and will embarrass them at a family, wedding and

782
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 2: that we are all uninvited from the. Wedding Whmbarrass? HOW

783
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 2: i want to know? HOW i want to know?

784
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:01,359
Speaker 1: How so not good?

785
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 2: Enough that's? Crazy this needs to be like get his

786
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 2: life in, check.

787
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 1: Dude we need we need to create like we need

788
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 1: to create A tv show where we create the worst

789
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 1: people from Our reddit stories and just like like embarrass the.

790
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, yeah you know practical.

791
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: Jokers NO i.

792
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 2: Don't actually it's like this like classic prank show kind

793
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 2: of like burped all prank. Shows, yeah and there's this

794
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 2: one where they they basically like set up a fake

795
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 2: prank show where they get people to like sign something,

796
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 2: right and then they just go like when they when

797
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 2: LIKE i think they sit on a whoope, cushion just

798
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 2: like something super, dumb and then a whole live band comes,

799
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 2: in like like a big ass like baby comes in

800
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 2: and it says you're a dumb, Fuck you're a dumb.

801
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 2: Fuck and then a guy comes out and says you're

802
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:58,240
Speaker 2: on dumb fucksum. Fuck but then the person starts crying,

803
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,720
Speaker 2: yeah and the guy who's like like making them like

804
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 2: like like like like driving, Them, yeah uh is actually

805
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 2: getting pranked because they hired a professional actor to cry

806
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 2: on the spot and so he's the one getting. Pranked

807
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:12,280
Speaker 2: it's a reverse.

808
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 1: Prank Uno CARSE i like the reverse, prank LIKE i

809
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: would do, it you know how they like watching the

810
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: trailer like the other person getting.

811
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 2: PRANKED i would have like just.

812
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:25,360
Speaker 1: Some like frickin muscleman just like like like arm, sports

813
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 1: like bust down the door and then just start like

814
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 1: there's like another producer sitting next to.

815
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 2: Them and they'd be like you owe.

816
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: Me fifty thousand dollars and just try to attack them

817
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:36,760
Speaker 1: and that person just like holy.

818
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:40,240
Speaker 2: Shit, yeah like they think they're watching the. Prank, yeah

819
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 2: but literally they know that they are the.

820
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 1: Prank back back to back to our our protagonists.

821
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 2: Who are not being. Pranked this is sadly, reality sad.

822
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: REALITY i little week go by to call myself, down

823
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: and THEN i drive back to The pennsylvania. House the

824
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 1: new future in laws are in the house along with the.

825
00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:00,320
Speaker 1: Fiance it appears they've all moved into the house. House

826
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 1: what so you uninvite me from the wedding and now

827
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: you live in my, house all of, them all of,

828
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 1: them the parents.

829
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:12,720
Speaker 2: TOO i don't understand how they think that this family

830
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,280
Speaker 2: will embarrass them at the, Wedding like they they are embarrass,

831
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 2: yeah like they have like a house to live.

832
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 1: In like, guys, guys we don't want to embarrass, Us

833
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 1: so we're just gonna live in your house and and

834
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: use your credit cards and like because you just be too,

835
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 1: Embarrassing like it would just be too.

836
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 2: Embarrassing LIKE i, GET i, mean this is it would be.

837
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 2: Terrible BUT i could understand if like the other family

838
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 2: was super rich or, something and then it was like

839
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 2: you can't come to the wedding because you're a bunch of, hicks,

840
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:41,240
Speaker 2: right like so terrible some sort of like that like, reason,

841
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 2: yeah like but that no reason makes? Reason but what

842
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 2: the heck is the? Reason there's not even any logic behind,

843
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 2: it like they have NO i don't. UNDERSTAND i really

844
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 2: want to, know LIKE i want to, yea sit them,

845
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 2: down say what the fuck is going? On they asked

846
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 2: me What i'm doing? There, GEE i own the.

847
00:40:56,960 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 1: House i've told them that since we aren't. INVITED i

848
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: was coming over to talk to my. Son they tell

849
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 1: me to leave their.

850
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 2: House. Ridiculous we're about. It we're about to live the

851
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:12,359
Speaker 2: other shoes about to. Draw are you, Ready? Sam we're

852
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 2: fully cocked and loaded over. Here i'm ready to be cocked.

853
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 2: COCKED i lost.

854
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: IT i told them that they had thirty days to

855
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: get the.

856
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 2: F outs a lot.

857
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 1: Very generous over. HERE i told my Son i'm selling

858
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: the house and he could find somewhere else to live

859
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 1: with all of. THEM i go to realtor in town

860
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 1: and list the house for.

861
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 2: Sale, wow that was, Quick.

862
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 1: Daddy ain't playing. Around they call my son at work

863
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: and tell him WHAT i. Said apparently they thought he

864
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 1: owned the. House how the tables have turned jokes on?

865
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 2: You?

866
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:48,399
Speaker 1: Now who's?

867
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 2: Embarrassing how did they think he owns? It he's in.

868
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 2: College he listened To Gary Vee yeah and to THE.

869
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 3: I decided to fuck my parents and, LIKE i got a,

870
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 3: house bro WHAT i turned this paper clip and then

871
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:05,760
Speaker 3: went to a garage sale and bought a little kiddie

872
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 3: pool and then sold it as an.

873
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 1: Nfty fuck your, parents your parents don't. Sleep he calls

874
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: me and asks me Why i'm selling the. HOUSE i

875
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 1: told HIM i paid for it along with the taxes on,

876
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 1: it so it's.

877
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 2: Mine damn, straight the only answer you.

878
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 1: Need he was living there rent, free but since he

879
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 1: decided he doesn't want us in his new fancy schmancy,

880
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 1: life he has to get.

881
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 2: Out punishment fits the.

882
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 1: Crime, yeah it. DOES i tell him the same AS

883
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:42,919
Speaker 1: i told his future in. Laws he has thirty days

884
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 1: to get, out and Then i'll get my lawyer and

885
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,840
Speaker 1: get them. Evicted. Shit so the question, is so the

886
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 1: question is AM i the a hole for taking this

887
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: hard stance on? Them he is my, son but the

888
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 1: in laws seemed to take over and we no longer.

889
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 2: COUNT i, mean he needs to learn a. Lesson, honestly

890
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 2: this is this is the exact appropriate. Punishment this is

891
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 2: reality hitting it like sitting in right, right like, like

892
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 2: oh you think like you think that you're better than. Us,

893
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 2: now well let's let's let's, see let's see if you

894
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 2: can fend for.

895
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: Yourself yeah you know, What yeah go go buy, go

896
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 1: go buy a mansion with all you're clearly like so

897
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: much better than, us better at making money and all that.

898
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,879
Speaker 2: Stuff then go go be better and buy a. House

899
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 2: go do. It fuck that, guy