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Speaker 1: Peace of the planet. Charlamagnea god here.

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Speaker 2: Before we get into today's episode, we've got to celebrate

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Speaker 2: the Black Effect Podcast Network. It's turning five years old, man,

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Speaker 1: Now let's get into it.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 3: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 1: Talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with an

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Speaker 1: opinion who talks back. What's up? Y'all? Is your girl?

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Speaker 3: A J.

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Speaker 1: Holliday? Y'all everyone, it's tampam. This is your time. I'm

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Speaker 1: live from parents And.

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Speaker 3: What time is it over there? Why you look like

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Speaker 3: you're still in.

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Speaker 1: The bed, because I am. Because I've been out partying

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Speaker 1: all night long, all night long. It's three o'clock in

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Speaker 1: the afternoon. I didn't get back into the hotel till

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Speaker 1: like five thirty in the morning. Shame. Did club stay

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Speaker 1: open all night over there? Yes? All night?

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Speaker 3: One of those little strip remember Big Lizzo had got

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Speaker 3: in trouble when she was over there putting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, oh, but I might try to see what

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Speaker 1: see that tonight before I leave. I forgot about that no,

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Speaker 1: so you know, it's Drake concert. So they had like

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Speaker 1: a bunch of Drake after parties around the city. It's nice.

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Speaker 1: I had a good time. I enjoyed it in the concerts.

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Speaker 1: I don't really know a lot of party next door

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Speaker 1: music though, so oh he on tour Drake too. I

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Speaker 1: didn't even I've never seen party next door. That he

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Speaker 1: a big nigga. He looked more like a party at

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Speaker 1: the restaurant the next door. Honestly, party at the buffet. Yo.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, party. I don't think I've never seen him either.

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Speaker 3: Let me see, wait a minute, party next door and

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Speaker 3: he'd be talking flying too. Let me not to say

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Speaker 3: big boys can't talk fly. We boys could be big

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Speaker 3: boys sound good on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about it.

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Speaker 3: And I met some random fat niggas on the internet.

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Speaker 3: You fucking ride him, just one in particular, when we

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Speaker 3: was at Benedict.

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Speaker 1: Bitch, When I tell you that dude was the same

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Speaker 1: size as his.

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Speaker 3: Fucking love seat, dang, I swear to god, I could

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Speaker 3: not believe he had like a seventy inch TV. He

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Speaker 3: was seventy inches, I swear to god. And he had

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Speaker 3: a bunch of sneakers they was all turned that Nigga

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Speaker 3: needed a kick to look at that party next door.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, I haven't seen him, did he. I think

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Speaker 3: he might have gained weight and.

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Speaker 1: He was thick. He was a thick boy up there.

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Speaker 1: He was little though, That's what I'm like. Wait, he big? No,

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Speaker 1: he been eating good, he'd been getting good tour checks

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Speaker 1: and they eating good on tour. Baby, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe on a protozoon very possible because he was thick

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Speaker 1: on that stage. Shame. What'd you do?

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Speaker 3: I ain't do much this weekend? Actually, y'all what I

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Speaker 3: did do this weekend? Now, I did do a lot

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Speaker 3: this weekend. So on Saturday I visited with my mama

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Speaker 3: for like four to five hours, and then on Sunday

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Speaker 3: I visited with my daddy for like four to five hours.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot. That was nice. I feel I got

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Speaker 1: enough visits for the rest of the year.

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Speaker 3: You know, And I think I've said this before, like

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Speaker 3: when you calculate how often you actually see your parents, right,

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Speaker 3: So if you like, if your parents in the sixties

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Speaker 3: seventies and you see them once twice a year, three times,

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Speaker 3: like calculate like how long people be living and calculating

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Speaker 3: how many times you actually gonna see them again. So

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Speaker 3: what I'm saying is see your parents more often period.

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Speaker 1: I know, I need to go put my eyes on

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Speaker 1: my dad. I have not seen my dad in person.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: We talk every day in the group chat at least

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Speaker 1: good morning, but actually physically seeing him that wasn't on FaceTime.

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Speaker 1: It's been two years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I sat with my dad and found out

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Speaker 3: this nigga was diagnosed with prostate cancer this year and

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Speaker 3: had radiation. Didn't tell nobody, damn, damn. And in the

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Speaker 3: midst of telling him, my stepdaddy just had surgery, same thing, he.

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Speaker 1: Was like, yeah, I heard it.

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Speaker 4: I just I said, you know what y'all are like,

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Speaker 4: y'all the parents, like, it's really real that you are

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Speaker 4: a child raising your parents because I guess you didn't

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Speaker 4: want anybody to have like, you know, the energy, the

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Speaker 4: negative energy about it.

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Speaker 3: But I'm never for that. I'm always everything will always

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Speaker 3: be good. That is my attitude about everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm never going to Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I guess him and his wife knew. And I

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Speaker 3: was telling her how I'm so appreciative and have a

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Speaker 3: lot of gratitude and I'm very grateful for her, because y'all,

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Speaker 3: my step mama, My step mama is the saying that

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Speaker 3: we all in our forties, me her and my sisters. Okay,

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Speaker 3: but yeah, my step sister is the same. She's like

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Speaker 3: in between my two sisters. So she's like, yeah, that's

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Speaker 3: what I meant. My step mom, she's like in between

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Speaker 3: my two sisters age wise, and she'd be taking good

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Speaker 3: care of my daddy, thank god, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 3: because you don't have to do it. Yeah, until she'd

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Speaker 3: be like, hey, fuck that old niggabody to go get

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Speaker 3: then I'll step in. But I'm still grateful, Like she

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Speaker 3: made sure he take his medicine, put his little Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So shout out to the young bitches with them old niggas.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, we love y'all, especially when you got our daddy.

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Speaker 1: Let's get in the sins because she can of young,

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Speaker 1: which is an old niggas. Did you see summer Walker

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Speaker 1: popped out at the VMA's with a very death her

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Speaker 1: older gentleman absolutely sprinkle spring and I think biggas Mad

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Speaker 1: Niggas is big man in summer. Now this this I

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Speaker 1: don't know if y'all saw it. But this guy is

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Speaker 1: considerably older than Summer, and he's considerably wider, much whiter

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Speaker 1: than Summer as well in the normal white like that's

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Speaker 1: a pill. So he looked like a vampire. I ain't

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Speaker 3: He definitely a vampire. But to meet, his facial features

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Speaker 3: aren't the worst. And if he's a billionaire, he might

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Speaker 3: be the funniest nigga i've a seen.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, right, that's so.

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Speaker 3: So she posted and she was like, fuck my type

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Speaker 3: period right because my type ain't working clearly. Yeah, she

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Speaker 3: already said she wasn't doing it for love no more,

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Speaker 3: She's doing it for the black card.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I can't do no old less white

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Speaker 1: man like that could do that. I've been talking. It

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Speaker 3: It's a couple of the social media girlies with their

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Speaker 3: white husbands, and I'd be like, girl, why are you

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Speaker 1: Some of them be fine, yeah, a fine, like age appropriate,

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Speaker 1: But that man that make me think of Babs. Do

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Speaker 1: we have a BAPS situation going on?

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Speaker 3: She definitely looks super bapfished on that uh red carpet,

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Speaker 3: and a lot of black men had a lot of

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Speaker 3: choice words. You know, I've seen wench. I hate that

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Speaker 3: term because our ancestors were not having sex with these

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Speaker 3: because they wanted to write to call a woman that

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Speaker 3: who is making a choice.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's just nasty. I hate that.

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Speaker 3: I hate it so much. And like nobody has this

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Speaker 3: type of energy for black men when they date outside

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Speaker 3: the race.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying why black women be coming

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Speaker 3: from men is because y'all, y'all can't just say I

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Speaker 3: like my white women because such and such.

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Speaker 1: Y'all have to.

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Speaker 3: Say because black women such and such and such. That

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Speaker 3: is the problem we have. Other than that, we do

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Speaker 3: not give a fuck about your preference, right, but your

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Speaker 3: preference always seems kind of disparaging to black women. Like

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Speaker 3: that's what it comes with. You got to disparage us

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Speaker 3: to prove that you love your white queen.

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Speaker 1: Nigga, go do that. I ain't mad at her. I

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Speaker 1: ain't mad at nobody for choosing who didn't want to choose.

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Speaker 1: So no power team and black men be nice, damn

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Speaker 1: it ain't no, but black man, you don't see nobody

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Speaker 1: else talking shit in there.

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Speaker 3: No, And it's almost like, so the thing is that

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Speaker 3: they say that black women go with white men like

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Speaker 3: for the money, right, clearly right in this situation, absolutely,

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Speaker 3: and why not, you know what I'm saying, Why we

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Speaker 3: got to keep dating down? But it's actually black men

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Speaker 3: who be pay per chasing when they fucking outside their race,

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Speaker 3: when they start fucking with the big white lady, they

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Speaker 3: pay per chasing, but they try to put it on

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Speaker 3: us as if it's what we're doing. A lot of

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Speaker 3: black women who date black who date white men usually

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Speaker 3: have their lives together. They're a little quirky black girls,

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, most of them, and that's

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Speaker 3: probably who liked them. They went where they were celebrating, right,

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Speaker 3: what's the problem with that?

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Speaker 1: Agreed?

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Speaker 3: Y'all don't like black women. A lot of y'all don't

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Speaker 3: like black women.

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Speaker 1: And it's okay, especially that guy, that big ginger or

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Speaker 1: whatever his name from. I don't know if y'all saw that,

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Speaker 1: the UK rapper Ginger j Ginger j ooh. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if y'all saw that, the dustiest ginger ever, right,

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Speaker 1: and he was like, black women, that's not even your hair.

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Speaker 1: How can I argue with someone who doesn't have their hair?

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Speaker 1: Take the lotches off?

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Speaker 3: What really triggered those black women as when he said

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Speaker 3: put you in your place, that.

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Speaker 1: Girl said what place? Place? Yeah, because what place?

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Speaker 3: So apparently Ginger Jay has done a lot of prison time. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so listen, and I had the jail house niggas. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm not if you go in there and you already

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Speaker 3: with that type of time, it probably be easy if

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Speaker 3: you to slide into those activities a lot displaying that

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Speaker 3: type of aggression where you know a lot of people

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Speaker 3: going to see it is you don't you really do

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Speaker 3: you even like women? And you have somebody you can

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Speaker 3: tower over who's possibly afraid of you. It's because black

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Speaker 3: women aren't afraid of you. You want somebody to be

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Speaker 3: scared of you.

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Speaker 1: I mean not exactly, because why are you so angry though,

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Speaker 1: Like it's one thing to have you know, these are

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Speaker 1: your feelings, but why are you yelling and screaming at

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Speaker 1: people about your feelings about black women? And then he

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Speaker 1: said he don't like how his mother moved, And that

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Speaker 1: made all the sense to me, because you got a

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Speaker 1: black mom, and that's who you're mad at, and that's

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Speaker 1: you need to go sit with, Ayanba, you and your mama.

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Speaker 3: And on top of that. I'm disappointed any other black

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Speaker 3: men that were in the room, Like, I feel like

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Speaker 3: he fight somebody. Was he going to go run up

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Speaker 3: and fight that girl?

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Speaker 1: Right because he was like, why y'all gotta hold him back? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Very aggressive. So yeah, keep you an Indian woman, child.

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Speaker 1: We don't need you over here. Yeah. But did you

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Speaker 1: see this? There is a family out of Montgomery County.

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Speaker 1: Where is this Texas? I think it's Texas. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: but it says Montgomery County firefighters. Family has a daughter

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Speaker 1: on the way. The last time the Sherman family said

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Speaker 1: Well that means literally every woman with the Sherman last

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Speaker 3: one hundred years seventeen. Yeah, that's nuts. Not a single female.

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Speaker 3: So I saw this funny article. It said that female

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Speaker 3: We were all fighting, and man, my sister threw a

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Speaker 1: They got hit with a brick right in his face,

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Speaker 1: We are gonna talk about can you be single forever

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Speaker 1: Is that the thing? Do you have to be connected

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Speaker 1: Would you be okay being single forever?

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Speaker 3: I don't have a problem being by myself, but that

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: You're not supposed to be trying to do life by yourself.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I like, I listen to like some of my friends'

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Speaker 3: If you had a man there, you'd have to be

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Speaker 3: they always want to know what, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Why you ain't get something before you got here. I'm

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Speaker 3: That's one of the things I hate being like, I

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Speaker 1: I don't always feel like eating. So you can have

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Speaker 1: My daddy used to say, get your air sandwich.

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Speaker 3: If you think you're gonna be hungry, take two slices

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Speaker 3: my face. But yeah, like, it's just certain things you

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Speaker 3: don't got to worry about when you single. You know,

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Speaker 3: not to say we don't be out here smashing, having sex,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, but I kind of like that too.

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Speaker 1: I've been know to not want a title, got to

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Speaker 3: No, not for me, man, I be needing to know,

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Speaker 3: I don't want to. I mean, I'm never mentioning shit,

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Speaker 3: But then it's always when you are in that energy,

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Speaker 1: Is that crazy? Like either we're gonna be together or

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Speaker 3: But what was it a relationship then? Wasn't yeah, you

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Speaker 1: So even once they said like either they gonna leave

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm leaving if a nigga gave me

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Speaker 3: an ultimatum, what.

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Speaker 1: I mean, because technically we were already in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: it just didn't have a title. So I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, man, it's just I know a lot

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Speaker 3: right now is just like it's so good, right to

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Speaker 3: it's like I don't even like you. An, Yeah, you're done.

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Speaker 1: You've done.

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Speaker 3: Try to broke me, break me down, Like I'm really

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Speaker 3: Like you're good today, but what about them other three

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Speaker 1: So you said like this is your forever person, What

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Speaker 1: is forever? I mean, I'm listen. I will love like

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Speaker 3: I will start over as many times as I feel

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Speaker 3: like I need to with anything, career, job, motherfucking just

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Speaker 3: so I'm never scared to leave somebody. It might take

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Speaker 1: I hope, I hope. So. I was about to say,

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Speaker 3: Hope and then move forward and not with intention. You know,

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Speaker 3: when you're fucking with somebody with intention and you're sitting

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Speaker 3: there waiting for them other niggas. Yeah, somebody to kick

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Speaker 3: sweep you on your fucking head, like, damn, that's you.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I've never been the type of woman

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Speaker 3: Know, I'm the FED Show. I'm being a rico, you know,

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Speaker 3: because I don't like the nag. I do be liking

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Speaker 3: happy days. But when she start piling up, I'm be like, listen, now,

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Speaker 3: I was like, people say they want you to address

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Speaker 3: every time I don't like something, now I'm nagging. I mean,

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Speaker 3: everybody does it, though I don't know like I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't really address everything every time. Sometimes

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Speaker 3: you thought I ain't know about because shut the fuck

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I'm like, I do pick and choose

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Speaker 1: I'm not sitting on that. I'm not sitting on that.

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Speaker 1: I'm coming so that that I'm not cheating shit. I'll say.

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Speaker 3: I remember one day where in my one of my

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Speaker 1: Not I don't even know what the girl was an ex.

435
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 3: I just knew she was always a goddamn problem, right

436
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,880
Speaker 3: and so, and we were working on like the food

437
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 3: truck at the time. So I go out to the

438
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 3: food truck, got your kids in my car, and I'm like,

439
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 3: and we're engaged. At this point, I said, you want

440
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 3: an open marriage? That was my way of letting him

441
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 3: know he was on some bullshit and I knew, do

442
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 3: you want to open marriage? So it's never like I'm

443
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 3: like you cheating.

444
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 1: Ain't da da da, No nigga, I like even playing

445
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: fields I am.

446
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 3: I am definitely a one upper, so don't don't tip

447
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 3: me and I won't tap. So if you on that

448
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:45,639
Speaker 3: type of time, I want to be able to be

449
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 3: on that type of time too, because what makes you

450
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,120
Speaker 3: think I just want to be super committed.

451
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:52,120
Speaker 1: If you ain't right, I thought you was gonna say,

452
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:55,679
Speaker 1: y'all pulled up on him. No, hell don't know. The

453
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: kid was like, stay away from my daddy trip. You

454
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: know what movie that kids with me though you never

455
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 1: seen Daddy's Little Girls where, Yeah, I remember, I don't

456
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 1: remember that scene. The lady pulled up on Gabrielle Union.

457
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: She on a date. She was on the best date

458
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 1: she had with another attorney, and a van pulled up

459
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: and the door slid open, and the little boys jo

460
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 1: dad like, stay away from my daddy. Tramp shit girl.

461
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,679
Speaker 3: I remember when I was leaving and I was taking

462
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 3: like food at the refrigerator, like I eat a lot

463
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,400
Speaker 3: of things people don't eat right, so I'm not about

464
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 3: to leave. I'm leaving like I'm leaving, leaving, and his

465
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 3: son was like, why are you taking all our food?

466
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 3: It was at that moment I was like, you and

467
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 3: your daddy. I beat the one in here cooking and

468
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 3: slaving and fee of your eyes. You don't eat this ship.

469
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 3: I'm taking out hair. These are things I bought for me. Like,

470
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 3: why ain't taking hour He's just studying me. Why you're

471
00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:01,239
Speaker 3: taking all our food? Your Daddy's gonna get you some

472
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 3: more food. This is my food. What'd you say?

473
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: Shut up? Shut up? I missed those kids, man.

474
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,199
Speaker 3: I definitely told his ass to shut up because I

475
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 3: was not taking all this food. This is daddy energy

476
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 3: just tapped into him right quick. Yep, that's all that

477
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 3: shit was.

478
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:19,919
Speaker 1: Now he wouldn't know where the good shit going because

479
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,719
Speaker 1: you look at peanut butter and jelly than this motherfucker.

480
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 3: They definitely say, wake me up. We want your breakfast.

481
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 3: Didn't your daddy just give y'all cereal? But y'all want

482
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 3: my breakfast hot? It's better.

483
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: So do we like what celebrities are like proudly single

484
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: versus like people who are like seem like they fake independent.

485
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 3: I don't think anybody is. I mean you had Beyonce

486
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 3: single independent, all these songs she was making, and really

487
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 3: she wanted a husband.

488
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Like the girlies be talking

489
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: hell is shit, but they stay pregnant right you know?

490
00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:00,440
Speaker 3: So why are we spreading that, yes, spreading our rhetoric

491
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 3: when really women want to be loved all of it. Yeah,

492
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 3: we want to be in love. We want somebody to

493
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 3: consider us. We want We just want it with the

494
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 3: right person and we don't want to have to go

495
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 3: through the fucking struggle first to get it. We just

496
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 3: want you to be a one day one.

497
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: That's it.

498
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 3: So I think if all women can find that that situation. Now,

499
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 3: I'm not saying bitches ain't crazy, because that's a lot

500
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 3: of women that are crazy as hell who probably need

501
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 3: to be by themselves because they cannot coexist with someone else.

502
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 3: But I believe for the most part, like women, just

503
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,679
Speaker 3: women do want relationships. I think it might be like

504
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 3: a defense mechanism.

505
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: I think that's what it is for me. Oftentimes, I

506
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:46,439
Speaker 1: think it's just like an office meant like, why we

507
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: need to If I don't pick, nobody, nobody can hurt

508
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:50,360
Speaker 1: me kind of thing.

509
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm picking, and I like to pick, you know

510
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I like to pick because you get

511
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 3: what you want when you when you pick, So even

512
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,640
Speaker 3: if you got multiple people pursuing you, you still get

513
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 3: to That's why it's important to date. And like we've

514
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 3: talked before, like black women just don't know how to

515
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 3: date because we were never allowed to. Yeah, right, So

516
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 3: white girls got multiple boyfriends, They got multiple friends. John,

517
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 3: all these people can come to the house, they hanging

518
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,160
Speaker 3: out with them, you know, not even having sex.

519
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 1: At least their parents think they ain't having sex.

520
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 3: But you know, when black women get to the age

521
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 3: of dating, which let our elders tell it.

522
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 1: It need to be after college.

523
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 3: Right, you know, yeah, you need to find your mate

524
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 3: while you're in college. You got to try to figure

525
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 3: out how to do both.

526
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 1: Well, it's just so far in college you're still like

527
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: so young. And especially I feel like the kiddies that

528
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 1: are well they're adults, the young adults that are in

529
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: college now, I don't think they are as mature, you know.

530
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 1: I think there's a bit of arrested development when it

531
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: comes with millennials and Gen z or and I think

532
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: like some of them don't even I mean, listen, I

533
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,479
Speaker 1: don't feel like a lot of people get to know

534
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 1: themselves for real until they're in their thirties.

535
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you're right, men and women when men might

536
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 3: take it even a look than that.

537
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 1: It's a proven scientific fact, yeah right.

538
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 3: You might not be dealing with a fully developed male

539
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 3: until he's you know, late thirties.

540
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 1: Forties, early forties, and then sometimes.

541
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 3: You know, they be thinking they'd to pick it the litter,

542
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 3: so they really they still be playing even in today forties,

543
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 3: Like my daddy is seventy two years old. I remember

544
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 3: my daddy's still playing in his fifties and sixties.

545
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: Okay, good out here, wrong. I was living with his

546
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 1: nigga for like a year or two. I saw it.

547
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 3: I knew when my daddy was coming home and when

548
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 3: he wasn't. If he put on like a tracksuit or something,

549
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 3: he coming back. If that and put a hat on

550
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 3: some hard bottoms, he ain't coming back. I don't seen

551
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 3: a bra on the fucking Like, what is happening? You

552
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 3: know you had a teenage daughter living here. He live

553
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 3: in his best life, best life for a long time,

554
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 3: you know, staying And now.

555
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 1: Do you have any friends that like swore they be

556
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: single forever and like now they booed up in love

557
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: and a different person, got a kid and all kind

558
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: of shit.

559
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 3: No, not one of them. That's why I'm like, maybe

560
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 3: those women only exist online, or maybe those women are

561
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 3: ones who have been who are now divorced with children

562
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 3: and like fuck that. Or older women right in her

563
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 3: fifties or something like that. But young younger women like

564
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 3: our age, Like, no, everybody wants somebody like they looking

565
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 3: for their husband. They manifest their right and they list

566
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 3: out they're trying to manifest their husbands.

567
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:44,959
Speaker 1: Everybody.

568
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 3: Do you know anybody who just be like sucked out?

569
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 1: I want to be single, No, I don't know. You know,

570
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: actually I do? Is fun? Huh? Is she still getting

571
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: smashed up? She don't want to how to say she

572
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: don't want to have sex? Well, I think she just

573
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: so tired of men and like it's exhausted, being feeling,

574
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 1: feeling misused, because she definitely got like a very very negative,

575
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 1: very negative perspective, negative energy when it comes toward dating

576
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: and what you're gonna get and how you know, She's

577
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 1: just like, fuck these niggas, fuck them. I don't want

578
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: to fuck. I don't want to date. I don't want

579
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: to be bothered with them at all. I'm like, well,

580
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: are you a lesbian? And she's like, no, I'm not

581
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 1: gay either.

582
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 3: I'm always fucked these niggas too, right, But I love

583
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 3: these niggas, Let's not get it twisted. Fuck these niggas

584
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 3: who be on that motion. Right, if somebody comes along

585
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 3: who isn't, I'd be ready. That's what I mean. Like

586
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:52,959
Speaker 3: when I say fuck these niggas, like collectively for these niggas.

587
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 1: As a as a body of people.

588
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm never like I love men like and

589
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 3: I love love. I understand the power of partnership and

590
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 3: a union, you know, what I'm saying, even though a

591
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 3: lot of men don't understand, and y'all be out here

592
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 3: paper chasing, running in circles, you don't realize the bad

593
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 3: come with your wife, right, you know, and not saying

594
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 3: that you can't be shit without a woman.

595
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 1: But whatever you got going on, I.

596
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 3: Bet you it will triple double, quadruple backflip.

597
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: Okay if you get a good woman. Do you think

598
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: there's a difference between loneliness and solitude.

599
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, they a little bit, right, so they could be

600
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 3: a little interchangeable or they can be like opposite. I

601
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 3: think solitude is good, and you don't. You're not necessary lonely,

602
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 3: necessarily lonely when you're in solitude, I like to be

603
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 3: by myself, you know what I'm saying. I like and

604
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 3: right now I got like a long distance thing going on,

605
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 3: and it's good. Yeah, because I'm a Gemini right every

606
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 3: single day, Like I have to work up to that,

607
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 3: like I do like cohabitating, but I have to.

608
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 1: Work up to that, like in a long term relationship.

609
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: I think my like my last serious serious relationship work

610
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 1: lasted as long as it did because my nigga was deployed.

611
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: He was military, so he'd be gone for three more

612
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 1: and then come home for three months and then be

613
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: gone three more months, and that shit used to.

614
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 3: Just yeah, you really missed them. When you see them,

615
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 3: you miss each other. So it does make the love

616
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 3: like stronger. But once you like in that and y'all

617
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 3: in each other's faces every day all day, like you

618
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 3: really learn each other.

619
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: That's the hard part. Like that's the hard part for

620
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: me of a committed relationship in my face every day

621
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: every day. Huh. I said, you're still here, Yeah, like

622
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: every single day, day in and day out, and y'all

623
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: always here. You know.

624
00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 3: I said I would never live with a man in

625
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 3: an apartment, and I mean the townhouse is essentially the

626
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 3: same thing, Like I have done both now at this point,

627
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 3: and it's not enough space. Yeah, because if you pissed

628
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 3: me off and you still can walk past me, I'm

629
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 3: going to trip. Last night, I was in here practicing kicksweeping.

630
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:24,760
Speaker 3: I might post a video practicing that is funny, because

631
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 3: why are you because I want to KickSweep a nigga

632
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 3: in the midst of an argument, like when he like.

633
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 1: That's not want to be.

634
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 3: And wash their head like like pop up off the

635
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 3: floor a little bit.

636
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:48,240
Speaker 1: Like, but I think relationships would last a lot longer

637
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: if people had that space.

638
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 3: Well, I'm not opposed to separate bedrooms, separate bedrooms, separate bathroom.

639
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 3: We need a big ass house and we could take turns.

640
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 3: But nine times out of ten, man gonna be in

641
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,959
Speaker 3: your room because your shit can be cleaner, better linen

642
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 3: all that, Like, it's a comfortable room. Your ship is

643
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 3: the playroom. I'm not opposed to, like older people start

644
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 3: doing it. My parents live in separate rooms right now,

645
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 3: both of them. Okay, both sets of family members. They

646
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 3: live in separate rooms.

647
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, because this time, Yeah, and I think it's healthy.

648
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 5: Were still individuals. You know what I'm saying. We're not

649
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 5: sleep in the same bed every now.

650
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,760
Speaker 1: Get I would listen. I'm even one of those people

651
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:38,879
Speaker 1: like if we sleep in the same bed, I don't

652
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 1: want to sleep on you. Get over there, like we

653
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 1: can cuddle, but then what's this time to go to sleep?

654
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: Please go to your corner and get the fuck away

655
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 1: from me, don't. You might can put a leg over

656
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 1: here a little bit, but don't be trying to hold

657
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: onto me like the last I keep saying, the last relationship,

658
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: he would want to like me to late sleep on

659
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: his chest? Do you have ground beef grown beef on

660
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:07,919
Speaker 1: sh He had little curly hairs on his chest and

661
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: want me to sleep on that? And then he was sweat.

662
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 1: Oh hell no, get off of me. That'd be me.

663
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 3: I started sweating immediately, like I want to cut over

664
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,319
Speaker 3: for two minutes, and then like you know, I love

665
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 3: you and I'm turning my back to you. Yes, I

666
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:25,240
Speaker 3: saw this diagram. They were saying, like people who actually

667
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:30,240
Speaker 3: sleep back to back, like couples booty the booty, booty

668
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 3: to booty have the best relationships actually, like they're confident

669
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:36,839
Speaker 3: in their relationship that we don't know what I'm saying.

670
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: So I'm trying to fucking sleep. Yeah, damn, you have

671
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 1: to be connected at the joints, Like god, damn, let

672
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 1: me go.

673
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 3: Imagine being sleep and every night somebody like taking their

674
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 3: feet and rubbing the bottom of your feet with their toes,

675
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 3: you know, while they're sleeping, while you're trying to go

676
00:36:56,880 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 3: to sleep, while you're sleeping, every ain't gonna night, you like,

677
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 3: stop doing that to my fucking feet. How am I

678
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 3: supposed to go to sleep?

679
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 4: Right?

680
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 1: Somebody sickling the bottom of my fucking foot. First of all,

681
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:11,919
Speaker 1: you probably don't want to do that with my foot.

682
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 1: You're gonna cut yourself.

683
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 3: You got defense mechanisms like I don't know what type

684
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 3: of animal got raisins on the bottom of your foot.

685
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:25,879
Speaker 3: Just to the nigga, try it.

686
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: I've been staying at twenty years. Okay, all right, I

687
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: got some questions for me. Would you rather be single

688
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 1: forever or date someone broke? What the fuck? Hello? Why

689
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: we can't why we can't never like I'm here, bitch, got.

690
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 3: Why we can't ever have both stingle forever or date

691
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:55,760
Speaker 3: someone broke?

692
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:57,240
Speaker 1: Okay?

693
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 3: Because I understand broke is a mindset, So you have

694
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 3: a broke mindset. I can't fuck with you. If you're

695
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:07,240
Speaker 3: currently in between blissings, I might give fuck with you,

696
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. If you're a man with

697
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 3: a plan, I can. I would prefer doing that and

698
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 3: just being completely single. But if we going with this

699
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:21,760
Speaker 3: exactly how it says, I would just be single.

700
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: Without adding in all the other factors.

701
00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 3: I would just be single because that is not a

702
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 3: happy life for me, because that is not a happy man.

703
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, because listen, the number one reason in the United

704
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: States that relationships. Dissolve is what finances. So I don't

705
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 1: want to be with no broke, angry man just so

706
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: I can say I'm happy I'm with somebody.

707
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's a lot of women's situations. They got

708
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 3: that dude, they can't get off their damn couch a.

709
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:58,720
Speaker 1: Mad Okay, what about this one? Single for single forever?

710
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:00,399
Speaker 1: Or deal with a cheater love?

711
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 3: See, I've done that right, and it just doesn't lead

712
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 3: to a good place like there even if he stops cheating,

713
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 3: the trust is gone. I don't trust you not to cheat.

714
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 3: I don't want to keep harassing somebody about the past.

715
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 3: So if I can't do that, I need to get

716
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 3: out the situation. If you can't really actively forgive, because

717
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 3: forgiveness is given giving up hope for a better pass,

718
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 3: that's all it is.

719
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 1: And if you can't give up hope for a better pass.

720
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 3: You gotta get out of there. So I would just

721
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 3: be single then, just to stay with somebody who's always

722
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:35,879
Speaker 3: gonna cheat.

723
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 1: See for me, I don't know, because cheating ain't a

724
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 1: deal breaker for me.

725
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 3: It depends on well maybe it depends on how you cheat.

726
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,359
Speaker 3: And if you're giving pitches money like somebody could send

727
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 3: me like a roll of cash app and Apple pay

728
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:51,479
Speaker 3: payments you've been sending.

729
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 1: I'm outitor. Oh but what kind of what kind of

730
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 1: I don't know, because think about it, what kind of

731
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 1: women are you dealing with that you don't have to

732
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 1: do nothing for?

733
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 3: There's a lot of women out here who can't even

734
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 3: ask for what they need or want. So even though

735
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 3: you know he doesn't have to show up with anything,

736
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 3: she probably maybe he's the type of person where you

737
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,239
Speaker 3: got to actually ask him. It's not that he can't

738
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 3: do it, but he's not offering. She could be fucking with.

739
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 3: He could be somebody like that for her.

740
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: For me over here, it's a little bit different. Require money,

741
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: like you don't require any like financial help, and you

742
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 1: just you be questioning a woman. No, You're like, what

743
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 1: are you doing? You're just getting You just want his

744
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 1: dick is crazy.

745
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 3: And a lot of women just want the dick. That

746
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:56,879
Speaker 3: is the weird part to me, Like that's all y'all

747
00:40:56,960 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 3: like man dick for brings. I have this argument with

748
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 3: a loved one all the time, and I remember one

749
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 3: time she said to me, well he got bills.

750
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 1: Too, stole sounds like a personal problem.

751
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 3: You asking me for money. Now, I gotta suck my

752
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 3: man's dick to give you a dollar. How is that right? Yeah,

753
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 3: I'm doing the dirty work, and you over here let

754
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 3: somebody hop on your body for what.

755
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 1: I don't understand it. I will never understand it. At

756
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 1: least get a pack of cigarettes. Right, A dry person

757
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 1: or mass do not match? You?

758
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 3: Remember Bud, your grandmama, she that's used to. At least

759
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 3: get get a pack of cigarettes.

760
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 1: All right? This is gonna come home single forever or

761
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 1: married with no sex?

762
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 3: Does it okay? Does the husband have a bag, Yes.

763
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: He's not broke. I ain't gonna say he rich rich,

764
00:41:59,120 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 1: but he ain't broke.

765
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 3: I might could do married with no sex if you single? Right,

766
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 3: you're not supposed to be letting nobody smash on you

767
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 3: if you're single.

768
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: Right, No, that's not true. You have sex when you single?

769
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 3: Maybe that's another episode. I mean you don't like Yeah,

770
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:24,879
Speaker 3: of course, right, But most women want more than sex. Yeah,

771
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 3: most women want more than just letting somebody get on

772
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 3: their ass.

773
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 1: Most women, you know, not you If you want a

774
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 1: marriage with no sex versus being you didn't say I

775
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: can have no You said no sex. That means no

776
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 1: sex with him, and let's say that it's married with

777
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: no s with him, because I'm gonna get me. I

778
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:53,880
Speaker 1: don't know.

779
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 3: I just I have been in relationships where love is

780
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 3: going and you don't want to have sex, and you

781
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 3: just not even in the mood to have sex. You know.

782
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:04,919
Speaker 3: So men always talking about how their wives are gonna

783
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: be giving it up. I'm gonna tell y'all a secret.

784
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 3: Women ain't gonna don't want to tell y'all. She don't

785
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 3: like you were giving that pussy up when we in love. Okay,

786
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 3: we can't wait for you to touch us.

787
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: They move too high, they're bored and never rubbing his

788
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 1: foot on the bottom of their foot at night. They

789
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 1: can't get no fucking sleep. They like they get bored.

790
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 1: I don't even think it's I don't think it's good.

791
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 1: The stroke will change. It's the same position. We're gonna

792
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 1: start missionary and then I'm gonna flip you over, and

793
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: then I'm gonna do that a couple of times. I'm

794
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,919
Speaker 1: gonna come and go to sleep. Same ship for twenty years. Yeah,

795
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: she tied. She don't want that no more.

796
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 3: I think married people or people who have been in

797
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 3: long term committed relationships, they need to go go go

798
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:51,240
Speaker 3: to a hotel more often.

799
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:56,360
Speaker 1: Hotel sex be good. Vacation sex. That's what I always like.

800
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 1: The girl the say like they sex might be born

801
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: at home, but when they go on vacation, they get

802
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: splitted out by their men.

803
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's see, because you're just happy you're on vacation,

804
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 3: you got to worry about the kids ain't here if

805
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 3: you got them like it's just all fun times and

806
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 3: then maybe like that thing that made them like each

807
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 3: other gets rekindled, like they acting like kids themselves. You

808
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 3: got to keep that childlike energy man to keep fun.

809
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 3: And shit is just extra strict and too much adult

810
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 3: shit going on. Like we just living, working and paying bills.

811
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 3: I don't really feel like sucking dick. I really don't

812
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 3: feel like you know. So on one of our episodes

813
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,919
Speaker 3: when I said, like I want a man who ain't

814
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 3: mad that we ain't having sex for a month for

815
00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 3: our goals, I believe sometimes you have to practice abstinence

816
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 3: right from multiple things, just fasting to reach goals.

817
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 1: You just have to, Like, if.

818
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 3: You're milking a man every single night, I promise you

819
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 3: he's not producing. He don't have the energy too, if

820
00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 3: you're doing it right, baby, because I put niggas asleep.

821
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 1: So if your nigga always awake, you ain't doing nothing

822
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:08,360
Speaker 1: every night? Every night is crazy?

823
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, like having sex every night, having sex every time

824
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 3: your man wants to have sex. That's not I wouldn't

825
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 3: suggest that to anybody. No, I'm not saying deprived, but

826
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 3: have a little boundary even in the marriage, to make

827
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 3: sure he keeps producing.

828
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, but a month is crazy? Is it thirty days?

829
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 1: It's four weeks? You break that down, it's thirty days. Yeah,

830
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 1: that's sound like, yeah, that's a long time, y'all just horny.

831
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 1: Why y'all are horning thirty days? And I got a

832
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 1: whole man right there. Every day it seemed like a lot.

833
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, but every day like we knocking our goals, Like

834
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 3: every day we doing things like might that might have

835
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:58,240
Speaker 3: us tired? And this is in situations where you're building

836
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, like, why do you even

837
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:02,800
Speaker 3: what's the reward? What are we celebrating with the sex?

838
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:07,879
Speaker 3: That's how I feel. I'm talking about relationship girl, by

839
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 3: that love shit, man ain't ship when them bill's piling

840
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 3: up on your ass? Yeah, you know what I'm saying,

841
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 3: like you only got enough money for bills, enough but

842
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 3: nothing fun.

843
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, now that don't sound fun at all. Yes, and

844
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 1: why do you I have to be happy to have sex.

845
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: You have to be happy to have sex to do it?

846
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 1: WI are really really mad? One of the two toxic?

847
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: That's all.

848
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 3: I'm here.

849
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:34,320
Speaker 1: You toxic.

850
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 3: You be making up reasons to fighting niggas, so y'all

851
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:37,800
Speaker 3: can have makeup sex.

852
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to be upset. I don't do that.

853
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: Don't worry.

854
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 3: You don't even know if you just don't do that

855
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 3: or not? Great the helly No, man, the more we fight,

856
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:53,359
Speaker 3: the less I like you.

857
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you never had like really good makeup sex

858
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: like mm hmm. I don't want to have sex. We gotta.

859
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 3: We have to have had an in depth conversation about

860
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:13,799
Speaker 3: whatever transpired, and maybe the day after tomorrow I'll give

861
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 3: it to.

862
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 1: You three days. We'll revisit this conversation in thirty days. Nigga.

863
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you're not climbing up on me if you

864
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 3: don't piss me off. Because the problem with men, they

865
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 3: are already don't understand what intimacy really is. Intimacy is

866
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 3: not you tapping me on my shoulder, if you don't

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Speaker 3: pissed me off all fucking day, and now we're in

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Speaker 3: the bed and you think I'm supposed to happily give

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Speaker 3: you my pussy like this is somebody else going into

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Speaker 3: my body, my body. I can't let you go in

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Speaker 3: my body when you have not been being nice to

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Speaker 3: me all day.

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Speaker 1: Right, I agree.

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Speaker 3: So intimacy starts when you wake up kissing on me,

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Speaker 3: rubbing up on me. If I'm cooking you breakfast, you're

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Speaker 3: touching me like the makeup, the makeup. I think of

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Speaker 3: makeup sex.

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Speaker 1: I think of reinforcement of the conversation that we've had

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Speaker 1: to make up. Now we're having sex, not just we

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Speaker 1: was mad, but now I want to fuck.

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Speaker 3: No, so it's gonna be like right after the conversation.

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Speaker 3: It's not gonna be a cool down period.

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Speaker 1: It don't have to be no cool down period, as

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Speaker 1: long as we've communicated that you're sorry. See here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: I'm scared of people who say sorry easily.

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Speaker 3: Because I really don't do shit. I try, my really,

887
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Speaker 3: my heart is my dam is not to do shit.

888
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Speaker 3: I got to apologize, whant to say sorry about it?

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Speaker 3: So when somebody can easily say sorry, they are going

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Speaker 3: to violate you again, Okay, if all they got to.

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Speaker 1: Do is say sorry to get that play. No, it's

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Speaker 1: as long as that, as long as it feels sincere,

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00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 1: you know, not even like they're saying that just to

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Speaker 1: say it, but like if they're acknowledging my perspective and

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Speaker 1: they are seeing where what they did may have hurt

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Speaker 1: me or upset me or why it did, I'm okay

897
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Speaker 1: with that sorry. You know what if they do it again?

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Speaker 1: Hear me?

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Speaker 3: What if they do it again the thing that they

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Speaker 3: apologize for, they do it again in a month and

901
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 3: a half now, a month and a half ago, was

902
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 3: that really a legitimate sincere apology?

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Speaker 1: Seeing then, I know that's the slippery slope. That's what

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Speaker 1: you gotta see. Like, I'm a work in progress, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, no, not just change behavior, And motherfucker, don't never

906
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 3: have to tell me sorry. You don't never have to

907
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:32,919
Speaker 3: apologize to me for nothing, I promise. I just don't

908
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 3: want to see that shit again.

909
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 1: That's it. That's all you have to do.

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Speaker 3: And I'm and I'm yeah, and I'm happy. I don't

911
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 3: want to see that shit again. If I got to

912
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,879
Speaker 3: say something to you about the same thing again. I'm

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Speaker 3: building a rico.

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Speaker 1: What's your last last?

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Speaker 3: Y'all, bitch is better stop flexing like y'all happy being

916
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Speaker 3: single because you're not okay, and no, uh, I'm not

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Speaker 3: saying you're lonely, right. I think men they just think

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Speaker 3: that women are just going to die alone. The Bible

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Speaker 3: says man shouldn't be alone, okay, because we can. We

920
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 3: can be alone in solitude and and not be lonely.

921
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Speaker 3: We got relationships with our friends. You know, half your

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Speaker 3: niggas don't even got no healthy relationships with other men.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: We always want to have community, I believe as women. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I agree, you know, so we don't got to worry

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Speaker 3: about being alone.

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Speaker 1: Good loving people, good friendships, church, fine hobbies, and that's

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Speaker 1: more of you know, you have solitude and that's not long. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, that's that's really My last last is like

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Speaker 1: we want, we want it, We want good men, definitely

931
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Speaker 1: want good men.

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Speaker 3: A lot of women need to stop acting like it.

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Speaker 3: And it's because somebody ran into a bad man.

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Speaker 1: Like the men.

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Speaker 3: I can tell us choose better man, you'd be thinking

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Speaker 3: you choosing better and then all of a sudden, Michael

937
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 3: Myers shows up on your ass, you know. So we

938
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Speaker 3: be doing our best the information we have until until

939
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Speaker 3: it's representative, you know, dies, and then all of a sudden,

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Speaker 3: the real nigga polls up.

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Speaker 1: It is like this you right shit, Well, listen to

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Speaker 1: me again, my last last I pray a healthy relationship

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Speaker 1: for anyone within the sound of my voice with whether

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Speaker 1: that be with yourself or with somebody else. Amen, period,

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Speaker 1: all right, period, period, all right, y'all, y'all single bitches.

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Speaker 1: If you enjoyed this episode.

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Speaker 1: nigga because somebody else is out here sooner and they

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