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Speaker 1: So you said that you felt like this girl, Christine

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Speaker 1: Hey Christine? How are you? This is Jewel from Brook

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Speaker 1: You're from a radio station, Yes, Moving ninety two point five.

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Speaker 1: listening to Hey Gavin, listen. You know, I was really nervous,

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