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Speaker 2: You are going to be married to your jail cell

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Speaker 2: Ooh till death do you part? You're kidding life in prison?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Ah, that's a dark wedding. As dramatic

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Speaker 1: as the title sounds. Unfortunately or fortunately, it actually happened.

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Speaker 1: Two months have passed since that incident, and the drama

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Speaker 1: this comes from callous x twenty on the r slash

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Speaker 1: okay storytype. So I Reddit no for some context, I'm

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Speaker 1: twenty five female, not very close to my father's side

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Speaker 1: of the family. We were always cold, but respectful, respectful

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Speaker 1: with one another. We only see each other at weddings

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Speaker 1: and other more important events. There's actually a joke between us,

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Speaker 1: only weddings and funerals bring us together. This wedding was

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Speaker 1: my cousin's my father's brother's son. Oh okay.

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Speaker 2: I was like, why did you my cousins my father's brothers.

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Speaker 2: As soon as you have like three, you could have

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Speaker 2: just said, like relations in a row, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Out, I'm out. Just keep it at your cousin.

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Speaker 2: For that reason, I'm out, Sharks.

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Speaker 1: I will not be going with your offer, Sharks.

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Speaker 2: There's too much in the family for this one. I'm

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Speaker 2: not looking for a family business, and for that reason,

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Speaker 2: I'm out.

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Speaker 1: This wedding was my cousin's. We already said that. Ironically,

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Speaker 1: I only met his fiance once at an aunt's funeral.

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Speaker 1: Very united family. It sounds like you guys don't like

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Speaker 1: your family. What I'm getting the impression that you guys

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Speaker 2: Actually, I think I've just discovered that they don't like

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Speaker 1: Coming back to the future bride, let's call her Alice.

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Speaker 1: For the life of me, I couldn't say why this

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Speaker 1: do with my job. I'm a graphic designer, and everyone

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Speaker 1: knows graphic designers suck.

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Speaker 2: Every graphic designer just got called out right, it's okay you.

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Speaker 2: Why do you design something meaningful?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? What do you do something meaningful with your life? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Like create the statue of David. You know that's a

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Speaker 2: design that I can get You think, did you think

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Speaker 2: about that? How about doing something that will last make marble?

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Speaker 1: I work from home, and for some reason, she can't

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Speaker 1: take my job seriously, this is probably she probably said that.

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Speaker 2: It's probably like, you got to make some marble.

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Speaker 2: There we go a little marble, David members.

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Speaker 1: I can remember how she asked me once, laughing, what's

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Speaker 1: your real job? Don't tell me you earn from drawing

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Speaker 2: Don't tell me that. Don't tell you you earned from

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Speaker 2: talking to.

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Speaker 1: A computer on YouTube. YouTube.

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Speaker 2: The amount of times that people will be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: Does four months? I have told so many of my

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Speaker 2: Money from that that you can you can survive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So many of Sam's friends when I first was

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Speaker 2: Now, yeah they still have a job. Sam said, he

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Speaker 1: Not yet guys, So yes, She's not my favorite person.

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Speaker 1: When I received the invitation to the wedding five months

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Speaker 1: later from our first meeting, amazing things happened in my life.

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Speaker 1: and finally, after years of saving, I was able to

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Speaker 1: buy the car of my dreams. A Mercedes Benz.

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Speaker 2: GLC replica now a painted bottle. Yeah, I draw on

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Speaker 1: As a short background about my family, we're not rich.

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Speaker 1: We all have average salaries and can live comfortably, not luxuriously.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's a Mercedes, right, nice car. A Mercedes is nice.

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Speaker 1: It's a good car.

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Speaker 2: It's like in Missus Doubtfire when the guy gets some Mercedes.

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Speaker 2: Scene, great scene, and then she rips it off.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah. I hate answering questions about how I make

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Speaker 2: Wait really quick. I honestly would take it as a

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Speaker 2: Where it's like, yeah, job is so cool. Your your

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Speaker 2: concept of how they could make money is doing something

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Speaker 1: Think about it. Yeah, if you take a second, you

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Speaker 1: Fast forward to the wedding. My parents and I arrived

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Speaker 2: There is always an until.

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Speaker 1: There's always an there's always a fast.

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Speaker 1: I agreed, and she jumped on the subject immediately he

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Speaker 1: will be perfect for a bride, she said, without thinking

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Speaker 1: and shook her head. No, you're not gonna drive. John,

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Speaker 1: It was probably a bad reaction, but I started laughing. Uh,

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Speaker 1: I said, I might not know much about my family,

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Speaker 2: You know his going out old age, just old age,

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Speaker 2: you know, not honey near, not even here for rest

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Speaker 1: I asked her if she was trying to get him

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Speaker 2: Stop a groom in traffic. How it's just a man

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Speaker 1: Also, he failed his driver's test three times. I don't

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Speaker 2: Well, all right, we could think about it like he

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Speaker 2: failed three times, or we could think about it that

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Speaker 2: he got so close to passing three times, he probably

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Speaker 2: you know, you think about it so close, he said,

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Speaker 1: Yah. Now he knows, now, he knows what not to do.

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Speaker 1: Until that moment, I still thought she was joking. He wasn't.

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Speaker 1: I tried to reach in agreement that I will not

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Speaker 1: not have a driver's license, regardless of the event. From

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Speaker 1: She yelled at me that I can't even do this

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Speaker 2: So really quick, OPI gets a new car from drawing cartoons,

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Speaker 2: and then this family is like, I really want this

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Speaker 2: and I want my room, who has failed a driving

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Speaker 1: And also you, if you let him drive, you're liabel.

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Speaker 3: And if you're at a wedding, they're probably just drinking happening.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. Also I believe I am slightly out of focus.

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Speaker 3: And fix it.

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Speaker 1: He's slightly out of focus, thank you. Uh yeah no. Also,

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Speaker 1: it's kind of ridiculous that he offered to drive them,

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Speaker 1: so there was a solution or OP offered to drive them,

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Speaker 1: So I don't know what she's plaining about.

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Speaker 1: Nice, nice, Now that's focus. All right, let's get back

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Speaker 1: into it. Everything seemed so ridiculous to me that I

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Speaker 1: don't want to come if you're gonna throw a beer

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Speaker 2: Honestly, kind of funny situation though, might deserve a cartoon.

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Speaker 1: Wow, whole art artist, you know, art.

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Speaker 2: Is what would what would be the New Yorker captured

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Speaker 2: for this one? Bride throwing beer at op who's drawing

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Speaker 2: cartoons with Mercedes?

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Speaker 1: Something about like a non alcoholic wedding, think about alcoholic wedding.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's uh, I'm more of a drying artist guy.

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Speaker 2: Uh uh uh, I said, shaken, not thrown.

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Speaker 1: I like that. I like that. That's good. That was good.

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Speaker 1: I really like it. Okay, can someone draw that? Oh?

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Speaker 2: That is possible. We have artists, We have artists, Yes,

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Speaker 2: could someone draw that? Oh? Make sure you have a

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Speaker 2: New Yorker style competition artists, if.

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Speaker 1: You want, if you want, if you could like submit

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Speaker 1: can capt it. That would be fun, all right. I

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Speaker 1: and promised that he would convince Alice to let me

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Speaker 1: eager to find an agreement where everyone would be happy.

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Speaker 1: I took my coffee and left the yard to check

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Speaker 1: was tricking her, He was making her let her guard down. Oh,

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Speaker 1: he was making up. He let their guard down.

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Speaker 2: Which honestly terrible for the family, right for the marriage.

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Speaker 2: You're a team love.

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Speaker 1: Love cleaning, which should be my last concern. And all

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Speaker 1: They keyed Ope's babies Benz JLC.

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Speaker 2: And a Mercedes Benz JLC is not cheap.

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Speaker 1: It ain't cheap. That ain't no small, That ain't.

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Speaker 2: A Mercedes ben small Extra small x excess. Okay, done,

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Speaker 2: I mean it only a Mercedes Benz GLC with that

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Speaker 2: That it's true that it is free sponsors, but it's

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Speaker 1: It's comedy, comedic.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, look at that Mercedes Benz GLC.

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Speaker 1: Oh Man, wow for four wheel for drive, four wheel drive.

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Speaker 2: It has four wheels technology like that, the acceleration. Look

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Speaker 2: You know it would take at least the key to

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Speaker 1: Where was I? Even though I knew who was the

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Speaker 2: And again that's the type of it that you get

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Speaker 2: Wait, and this is to go to the hairdresser for

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Speaker 1: That's what you get.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's what you get.

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Speaker 3: Do you want her to get all dressed up in

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Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna say. I think they should

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Speaker 3: Play the video on the projector boom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what they should have done. At this time,

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Speaker 2: Wow, that would hurt the car if it didn't have

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Speaker 1: Why was the car where she was.

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Speaker 2: Because with a car like that you could never let

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Speaker 1: It makes sense why the car was with ope, But

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Speaker 2: Was there was in the same space.

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Speaker 3: They probably want to see it all happened.

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Speaker 1: They handcuffed her and put her in the police car.

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Speaker 1: It was huge drama. My friend took care of everything

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Speaker 1: and after two hours she was bailed out by her father.

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Speaker 1: She wasn't too late for the wedding. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, yeah, what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 2: You you got, yeah, you paid for everything. You gotta

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Speaker 1: But you can tell that the gossip spread like wildfire

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Speaker 2: Dang, that gossip went fast her and three seconds. Yah,

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Speaker 2: we got to get all of our foster out, Brad says,

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Speaker 2: is those episodes fostered by Mercedes, We are giving so

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Speaker 1: I don't know how the wedding was. Neither I nor

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Speaker 1: the guests. Oh my god. The next day her father

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Speaker 1: with a lawsuit against Alice. I had insurance, but in

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Speaker 2: Right because if you're having vandalism, insurance wants to go

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Speaker 2: after the ample to get.

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Speaker 1: Money from Actually, I mean I'm assuming that the I

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Speaker 2: Of that of a Mercedes Benz GLC.

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Speaker 1: Is yeh, because small claims it's definitely under ten thousand.

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Speaker 2: I'm guessing sixty seven thousand dollars. No, damn, I'm guessing

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Speaker 2: for all four tires, seventy thousand dollars all.

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Speaker 1: Four tires would be about I want to say, like

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Speaker 2: Yep, How what are we looking at? What are we

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Speaker 2: looking at? Fifty thousand? I thought it was bad, that's

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Speaker 2: not I mean, it's not good. But for a car

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Speaker 1: A car like that, for Mercedes Benz.

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Speaker 2: GLC, are you getting that is a steal? You're telling

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Speaker 2: me you could get it. I could get it two thousand.

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Speaker 1: I could go to Mercedes Benz GLC for twenty six thousand.

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Speaker 2: See, I could, with twenty grand in my pocket walk

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Speaker 2: out the day with the brand news two year old

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Speaker 3: L These are you sorry?

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Speaker 1: These are power Mercedes.

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Speaker 2: Even to used Mercedes Benz JLC is pretty good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what are the amenities?

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Speaker 3: I will go back and edit that out. It was

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Speaker 3: nash Lane. I did not see that. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 3: we didn't see anything. We're to keep going through the story.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Riley, Okay, let's say that the bill

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Speaker 1: was not small for the poor father. She has not

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Speaker 1: tried to contact me since then, and I found out

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Speaker 1: considering most of them were on my side. So am

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Speaker 1: if she was a bride. I'm so stressed out right now.

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Speaker 2: Luckily, luckily it is it where we live.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, this is the it's the.

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Speaker 2: Po box, So it's it's not it's just a relative.

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Speaker 1: You just kind of know where we are. Yeah, we're

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Speaker 2: Riley honestly is the king of Dodd. I don't know

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Speaker 2: one has, No one has negatively dosed us more than Riley.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is true, like.

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Speaker 2: So much, dude, I so much. I didn't know I

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Speaker 2: was gonna put like the table to be fair though

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Speaker 2: you are the in the the most power two docs.

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Speaker 2: No one else has as much power to docks as you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I listen, I know everyone's names, and UH have

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Speaker 3: all the information.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, let's get into this update now to

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Speaker 1: the story real quick, but I am sorry. Now to

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Speaker 1: was an exaggeration. I thought, Uh, that's why I posted here,

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Speaker 1: hoping to get an opinion from people who have no

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Speaker 1: interest in protecting anyone. I'll think about it and let

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Speaker 1: you know if anything changes. But I recently talked to

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Speaker 1: a lawyer and he told me that this case doesn't

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Speaker 1: look very harmful for Alice. Unfortunately, in my country, they

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Speaker 1: don't really apply community service or house arrest. It's jail

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Speaker 1: didn't try to break into it, there will only be

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Speaker 1: a case of vandalism. And I don't know how it

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Speaker 1: to pay for the car repairs myself until I received

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Speaker 1: insurance money. Ah. By the way, you can join us

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Speaker 2: Justivity tap it, tap it.

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Speaker 1: A little bit, Jesus, a little bit. Just have it

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Speaker 2: You have to rap it, Just tap it. M No,

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Speaker 2: you should always rap it.

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Speaker 1: Please don't make a meme. What please don't make a

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Speaker 1: mean over the ashes. Please don't do that. Fuck, don't please.

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Speaker 1: Regarding my cousin, yes he went ahead with the wedding,

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Speaker 1: That's all I can tell you. I would like to

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Speaker 1: have more details of their so called marriage, but they

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Speaker 1: don't even post on social media anymore. But there are

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Speaker 1: some relevant.

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Speaker 2: Comments, relevant comments. Let's hit it.

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Speaker 1: Mowen and Shandon, Oh amo Engendon not.

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Speaker 2: The is a freaking musical.

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Speaker 1: No, that's a queen song. I am the mo engine and.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean? It was Mo and Shandon.

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Speaker 1: I think they're wine. Uh not the ahole. As others

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Speaker 1: have stated, I am surprised that your husband still got

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Speaker 1: they are divorced soon and then Ope your responds, Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: everything was prepared for the wedding. I think he was

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Speaker 1: scared of her. I apologized for ruining his wedding and

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Speaker 1: he apologized for the car. Nothing more. It was a

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Speaker 1: short exchange of messages. I hope she doesn't blame him

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Speaker 1: for what happened, and smoke Frog says, mainly because she

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Speaker 1: dropped the charges so the bride will never have to

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Speaker 1: face legal consequences. Pretty sad move by the op Opie

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Speaker 1: then says she would have ended up in prison, or

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Speaker 1: she would or she would have to pay an enormous

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Speaker 1: would also suffer the consequences for this. She doesn't have

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Speaker 1: a job and my cousin doesn't earn much. The consequences

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Speaker 1: came after her father forced her and my cousin to

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Speaker 1: and are no longer receiving financial support like before. She

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Speaker 1: suffered the consequences, I promise, and smoke Frog says, would

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Speaker 1: you feel bad if you found out she punched or

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Speaker 1: hit or physically hurt someone knowing if she was in jail,

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Speaker 1: that never would have happened. Nop responds, I hope that

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Speaker 1: will not be the case. She's a spoiled girl. I

440
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Speaker 1: felt she got her punishment. I really hope she learned

441
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Speaker 1: her lesson. I didn't want to be responsible for ruining

442
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Speaker 1: her life. But I also agree with your opinion in

443
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Speaker 1: legal terms. You're absolutely right and that is the end

444
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: of the story.

445
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 2: Wow, I mean I think what like, I mean, you

446
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 2: should never have someone vandalize your car, Like that should

447
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 2: never be accepted, but especially if you have a Mercedes

448
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Speaker 2: benz Jils, especially your like that not a car, a

449
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Speaker 2: motor carriage. Yeah, like that, it's not just a car,

450
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 2: it's not just a car lifestyle.

451
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Speaker 1: But yeah, that's the end of the story. Ope, I

452
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Speaker 1: don't think you're the a hole.

453
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Speaker 2: No, you're not the a whle. So so where it

454
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Speaker 2: ended is OP was going, like was not going to

455
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Speaker 2: pursue like harsh legal action, but like was maybe thinking vandalism.

456
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,199
Speaker 2: But then it sounds like the dad is just going

457
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Speaker 2: to pay for the car.

458
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Speaker 1: So yeah, so I don't know, it seems unclear whether

459
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Speaker 1: or not, Oh he's going to pursue like legal action.

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Speaker 2: O y what I don't know what would.

461
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Speaker 1: You guys do? Would you guys, you know, sewer or

462
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Speaker 1: just take the money in that?

463
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Speaker 2: I mean, if the dad was going to pay for

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Speaker 2: I would like, there's no need to to yeah, you

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Speaker 2: know so.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry A twenty twenty four uh YLC dl E.

467
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Speaker 2: Or whatever, Mercedes l Benz JLC.

468
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's one hundred and thirty four.

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Speaker 1: Did I say husband? I think I would like.

470
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Speaker 2: Oh, but that's for the sixty three s Formatic plus SUV. Yeah, which,

471
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Speaker 2: of course, I mean, of course you couldn't pay anything

472
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Speaker 2: less for Mercedes Benz GLC twenty twenty four. That's just

473
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Speaker 2: oh sorry, sorry, you're wrong. That is the gl E.

474
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Speaker 2: That's the easier Yeah, this isn't the g is the GLC. Honestly,

475
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Speaker 2: get out of my face with that ship.

476
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Speaker 1: Totally don't even want to look at it.

477
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 2: I don't even want to look you know what.

478
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Speaker 1: I do want to look.

479
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Speaker 2: At this next story.

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Speaker 3: Earlier, you guys were talking about statues, and I saw

481
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Speaker 3: that Mark limitations no no, no, no, no like statues like

482
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Speaker 3: marble statues.

483
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 2: Oh we were.

484
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 3: Mark Zuckerberg made one for his wife and it's a

485
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Speaker 3: yard because the Romans would make statues of their wives.

486
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Speaker 2: Show me a pick, got it? Show me a pick. Also,

487
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 2: I went surfing this morning.

488
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Speaker 1: Nice?

489
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Speaker 2: What are you doing?

490
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Speaker 1: One second?

491
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Speaker 2: Who are you texting?

492
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Speaker 1: I was looking at my email?

493
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Speaker 2: You're not looking at your email?

494
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Speaker 1: I am you never you've never smiled?

495
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Speaker 3: Could you read my email I sent you the other day? Yeah?

496
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Speaker 1: I didn't get an email.

497
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Speaker 3: You didn't check?

498
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Speaker 1: Did I just loo?

499
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Speaker 2: Markup?

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Speaker 1: I did not?

501
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 2: Is that bringing back the Roman tradition of making a

502
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 2: statue of your wife?

503
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: No emails? Here?

504
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 2: Whoa? And he made that by hand? No?

505
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 3: I think he hired some dude.

506
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: I mean, that's like birthday, is it? It's someone's birthday.

507
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Speaker 2: It's somebody's birthday, somebody's birth it Will I think it's Will.

508
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Speaker 2: I know who it's well exes birthday. Well X his birthday,

509
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 2: it's well ex his birthday. You know it's true.

510
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Speaker 1: This is her grandma's birthday song. But we both apparently

511
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Speaker 1: don't know that one.

512
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we know, we know. But will X birthday? What

513
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:46,719
Speaker 2: do you want as your birthday? Wish? What do you desire?

514
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 1: They shouldn't tell us.

515
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,199
Speaker 2: Uh, we won't tell anyone.

516
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: We won't tell anyone.

517
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 2: It'll be our little secret.

518
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:56,879
Speaker 1: This is this is the secret.

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00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's honestly like we're in the air conditioned soundproof cabin.

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00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 2: Oh maybe it's the Mercedes Benz GC with new soundproofing

521
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Speaker 2: within the vehicle dimensions.

522
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Speaker 3: To keep doing this?

523
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Speaker 2: Why not?

524
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Speaker 3: I will text John if you keep sponsoring.

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Speaker 2: All right, are you ready? You ready? Okay, let's get

526
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 2: into this thing. Girls and boys and boys and girls.

527
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 2: My father in law got drunk at my wedding. Now

528
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Speaker 2: my husband's family won't talk to me. So first off,

529
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Speaker 2: I want to say that I personally do not feel

530
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Speaker 2: like I am an a hole and don't need to

531
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Speaker 2: apologize strong start. Many of my friends my side of

532
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 2: the family and husband agree with me. But maybe you

533
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 2: find people and Reddit can help because my father in

534
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 2: law is currently stirring up a war path in his

535
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 2: family about me, and I am feeling guilty about making

536
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Speaker 2: a rift slashed with my husband in his side of

537
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Speaker 2: the family. By the way, this comes from Admirable History

538
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Speaker 2: four six three on the r slash okay storytime subreddit.

539
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Speaker 2: So some background story sash information, and actually, before we

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Speaker 2: get into that background story sashe information, do you think

541
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Speaker 2: based on that first paragraph Opie is the a hole

542
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 2: because I am getting some serious ahole vibes.

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00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: I think so. But I need to know more. I

544
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: need to know who you know, who the players are.

545
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: I need to know the inciting incident.

546
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I need to know how fast this goes from

547
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 2: zero to sixty?

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00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, expedition, the climax, and the resolution.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, one more, one more.

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Speaker 2: One more, the whole the whole recording session.

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Speaker 3: Or the y Yes with that one.

552
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Speaker 1: But rightley, it's such a good callback.

553
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Speaker 3: It's such a good callback with that, with that particular response.

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Speaker 4: All right.

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Speaker 2: Some background stories leged information. I twenty nine female and

556
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Speaker 2: husband thirty male, got married last year in the summer

557
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Speaker 2: of twenty twenty three, after dating for eight years and

558
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Speaker 2: being engaged for two years. Yes, yes, long time, but

559
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 2: we had agreed upon life goals we wanted to achieve

560
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 2: before marriage and wanted to pay for the wedding completely ourselves,

561
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Speaker 2: so a lot of saving. Also, a two year engagement

562
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Speaker 2: is less than paid. Yeah, less than what Pam, Pam, Pam,

563
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Speaker 2: who's Pam Pam Beasley from the off from the office,

564
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Speaker 2: who had a nine year engagement.

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Speaker 1: Sam, but that didn't end well for her.

566
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Speaker 2: Yeah, during all this time. Father in law and I

567
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 2: never had a good relationship. After meeting for the first time,

568
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Speaker 2: it quickly got to the point that where up until

569
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Speaker 2: last year, we would exchange a quick hello Hi when

570
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Speaker 2: visiting and ignore each other's existence for the rest of

571
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Speaker 2: the visits. He likes to make references to wanting to

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Speaker 2: have women that are just of age of his age.

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Speaker 2: I hope, just of his age. I hope just of age,

574
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Speaker 2: just of age, Oh God. Telling mother in law that

575
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Speaker 2: he should exchange her for a younger woman.

576
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: I lied, he is not the age.

577
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Speaker 2: Telling my husband at the time boyfriend that he should

578
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Speaker 2: consider never, he should never consider marriage as women are

579
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Speaker 2: a burden on men.

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Speaker 1: In front of me, it sounds like this guy doesn't

581
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Speaker 1: like women.

582
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 2: He'll say that in front of her, and we'll say

583
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 2: something cruel and played off as a I can't take

584
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Speaker 2: a joke. Berating his wife for any mistake to the

585
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Speaker 2: point of tears, et cetera. Sounds like a song of

586
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Speaker 2: the earth kind of man.

587
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Speaker 1: These guys.

588
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 2: This guy sucks, This guy, guy stinks. Man. These are

589
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 2: a few examples, and yes, I defiantly call out this crap,

590
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Speaker 2: but it has led to a very obvious dislike for

591
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Speaker 2: one another, but it was just ignored. We lived on

592
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 2: and I actively always try to keep a relaxing, stress

593
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Speaker 2: free atmosphere, which you know, some of the most relaxing

594
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Speaker 2: stress free atmospheres are just not the Mercedes JLC.

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Speaker 3: That counts, no said, and that's reverse psychology.

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Speaker 1: It's just like the air conditions conditioning, just like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I actively always try to keep a relaxing stress

598
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 2: free environment when visiting for mother in law's sake. We

599
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 2: got some more background here, but really quick. So far

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Speaker 2: it feels like, OHP is dealing with extenuating circumstances of

601
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 2: someone who is just a yucky man as case, yucky yucky,

602
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Speaker 2: and Sophia Colon says he says that about women and

603
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Speaker 2: has a wife.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like what why?

605
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Speaker 2: Why?

606
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Speaker 1: Is why? I well, I just don't understand. I don't

607
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Speaker 1: understand misogynists who are like attracted to women, because I'm like,

608
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Speaker 1: are you actually attracted to speak gay? I mean there

609
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Speaker 1: are a lot of gay misogynists. This is yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: really yes, yeah, I'm not gonna I don't know.

611
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Speaker 2: I don't imagine those going like I feel like straight

612
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 2: and misogyny goes more hand in hand than gay and misogyny.

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Speaker 1: Well, yes, but like a lot of white gay men

614
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Speaker 1: can be you know, not, I mean not a lot,

615
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Speaker 1: but like, there are white gay men who are misogynistic.

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Speaker 2: You think, or what buy more than a straight man?

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Speaker 2: And you think, like, percentage wise, what percentage of the

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Speaker 2: gay community you think is misogynists versus percentage of straight community.

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Speaker 1: Oh, well, it's obviously much less. I mean, it's obviously

620
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Speaker 1: much less. But I don't know. I couldn't percentages of that.

621
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Speaker 2: I was, I was, I was baffled.

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00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you were saying, oh.

623
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Speaker 2: Like a lot of gay men are misogynous.

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00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: I didn't say a lot. Well I didn't, but then

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Speaker 1: correct myself. It's not a lot, but there are, Yeah,

626
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 1: there are some, all right, it's pretty rich says they

627
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 1: aren't attracted to the woman, They're attracted to the control.

628
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:22,800
Speaker 2: So truects true anyway, he likes to make references. Anyway.

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Speaker 2: Background to the background. He was the breadwinner for the family.

630
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Speaker 2: Mother in law was a stay at home mom for

631
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Speaker 2: twenty years, not by choice. Up until three years ago.

632
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 2: She was a full time caregiver to her mother who

633
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 2: had a medical crisis that would have either required a

634
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 2: twenty four hour caregiver or specialized nursing home and was

635
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,879
Speaker 2: also raised slash supporting brother in law who has disabilities.

636
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:47,840
Speaker 2: So Mama is is really just taking control?

637
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 1: I'm gona taken control.

638
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 2: I'm a taking control. Oh man has really good control.

639
00:34:56,239 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 2: Yeah you know, yeah, honestly like control drives as well.

640
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 2: Didn't say it, I didn't say it. Do a healthcare cost.

641
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 2: Mother in law essentially gave up trying to go back

642
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 2: to the workforce and was a stay at home mom

643
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 2: twenty four hour caregiver until her mother passed away, and

644
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 2: brother in law, who threw a lot of hard work

645
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 2: and support, was able to live on their own. Father

646
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 2: in law brings us up all the time and arguments

647
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 2: that he was nice enough to keep a roof over

648
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 2: his family's head and that they owe him unquestioning respect,

649
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 2: or when he gets called out mainly by me when

650
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 2: he is bullying mother in law, that he paid for

651
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 2: everything she they have and should just be grateful that

652
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 2: he didn't leave. Yeah, what a great little speech.

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Speaker 1: What a nice family, what a yeah?

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Speaker 2: You know, you know the thing I love about Familia

655
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 2: love the fact they could just buy it.

656
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've always bird you can buy love. You can

657
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 1: buy love. You can buy the love of your family easy. Yeah,

658
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:17,319
Speaker 1: you know it might be cheaper. We didn't say it rightly,

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Speaker 1: say it know you thought it?

660
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 2: No? No, well. Jumping to wedding day ceremony. Jumping to

661
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 2: wedding day ceremonies being held at a church. The wedding agenda, timelines,

662
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,959
Speaker 2: and expectations have been shared repeatedly with the parents' bridal

663
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 2: party inventors. Things were planned for the most part with

664
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:42,280
Speaker 2: plenty of buffer time and areas for being flexible, except

665
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 2: for a one hour period after the ceremony, where we

666
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 2: planned on spending a max of fifteen minutes rounding up

667
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 2: the individual families with the help from assigned bridal party

668
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 2: members for the family photos before we had to head

669
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:58,720
Speaker 2: to a second location for a quick photoshoot before heading

670
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 2: to the venue for the rest of the photos. Family photos.

671
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 2: Fifteen minutes fifteen minute drive. I mean, if you have

672
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 2: a regular car, h to a second location, a fifteen

673
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 2: minute photo and another location, and then a fifteen minute

674
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 2: drive to the venue one hour time slot.

675
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 1: That's actually forty five minutes.

676
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is well, fifteen minutes, fifteen minutes, fifteen minutes,

677
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 2: fifteen minutes that's Oh.

678
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: There was another fifteen minutes fift What was the other

679
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes?

680
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,919
Speaker 2: Well, honestly, with a certain kind of car that has

681
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 2: HD cameras, you could do all of this in one.

682
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: All the way minutes, honestly, time in half.

683
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have to.

684
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 2: We'll bother him on his like trip. Yeah, with his girl.

685
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 2: I already bothered him. So I was asking for a

686
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: authentication thing. While we are completing some photos before the ceremony,

687
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 2: bridle photos, first looks, bride family photo, et cetera, bother

688
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 2: in law is working his way through a twelve back

689
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 2: of beer damn in at the f ing church. Oh

690
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:08,799
Speaker 2: my goodness. Specifically, the guy is getting ready room. Hey,

691
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 2: how do you guys get ready?

692
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: A twelve pack, a bag of beer and a cigar.

693
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 2: One for every hour of the day. You gotta drink

694
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 2: it all at once. Yeah, you gotta pregame the day.

695
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 2: And there's only twelve hours in the day because the

696
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 2: rest of it is night bam, logic fall and just

697
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 2: leaving cans everywhere, not throwing them away. We had asked

698
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 2: before that no one drank at the church, because the

699
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 2: pre stated during pre marriage counseling that if he thought

700
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 2: that either me or my husband were under the influence

701
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 2: of pills, alcohol, or threat, you would call off the wedding.

702
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 2: Freaking narc Yeah are also yeah, yeah, you can drink

703
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 2: if it's Jesus's blood. But all of a sudden, I

704
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 2: open up a twelve pack.

705
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 1: And you're saying, oh, that's not the world.

706
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 2: But you know what, it's the Holy Spirit's blood water.

707
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: Who's to say he's not in there?

708
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 2: Who's the Holy Spirit is everywhere? And he said this

709
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 2: beer or maybe he's in that one or maybe the

710
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 2: next one. But I got drink, Yeah exactly, praise no

711
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 2: little magic on it?

712
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, wait you magic? Nonytr Amen, pretty sure you can

713
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: consecrte any red.

714
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 2: Shot bear with me? Or are you lame anyway? Also,

715
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 2: Jesus no partier part of water. I think that yeah,

716
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 2: wine exactly.

717
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 1: You're telling me he doesn't want to he doesn't want

718
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 1: to get lit.

719
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 2: You're telling me Jesus Jesus is the most lit person.

720
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: Was hanging out with the he was hanging out with.

721
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 2: The hookers, and he was massages in people's feet. Yeah,

722
00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 2: he was getting drunk with his twelve boys. Come, That's

723
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:04,839
Speaker 2: all I gotta say. That's all I gotta say.

724
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 1: That's all I gotta He went out on a on

725
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 1: a Friday night and you came back Sunday, he calls hard.

726
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 2: The boys were like, where were you doing it?

727
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 1: Like, I gotta tell you, I freaking died.

728
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 2: I was dead. You would not believed.

729
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 1: Not I blieve. Man.

730
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 2: Let's just say that was a second coming.

731
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: This is great, this is good.

732
00:40:52,480 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 2: Anyway, I get this story just straight before coming to church,

733
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:03,720
Speaker 2: and don't be drunk or smell like it. At the altar,

734
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:08,839
Speaker 2: multiple beer cans laying everywhere. The guys were not looking good.

735
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 1: Well if they only had a twelve pack and there

736
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: were like a couple guys.

737
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, that's that's called.

738
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 3: I have seen my friend with four dudes finish forty beers.

739
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 1: There's a all right, quick story time, but not I'll

740
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 1: do it after the story. Cool, all right, stick.

741
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 2: The ya there we go talking about you do it

742
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 2: so well?

743
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:38,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know the story, Sam, I do Dad's Oh.

744
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 2: That's a great story. Okay. My maid of honor, bless

745
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 2: her soul, found out, told my husband and both proceeded

746
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 2: to rip father law new one. But he only stopped

747
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 2: after the twelve pack was gone because he is a

748
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 2: man that finished sixty starts. They did keep this a

749
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 2: secret from me until the next day, which I was

750
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 2: grateful for. The walk down the aisle. Father in law

751
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:06,320
Speaker 2: is obviously a little tipsy, but holding it together. I

752
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 2: thought it was just the nerves. Well, ceremony goes off

753
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 2: without a hitch. You know, it does have a hitch.

754
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 2: I can pull anything that four thousand.

755
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna mute your CORYB says, twelve packs, twelve apostles. Coincidence,

756
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 1: I think, not Incredibles.

757
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 2: I think so. I think, which is that that guy

758
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 2: that gets the pricks Ratitu He's Remy, that same guy

759
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 2: the teacher and Incredibles is Remy from Ratituey Really.

760
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 3: Oh I got you?

761
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, wow, all right, I think or no, maybe

762
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 2: it's not sorry, it's ling that's sorry, sorry, it's yeah

763
00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 2: Linguini from Attitude. My bad. Anyway, ceremony goes off without

764
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 2: a hitch, and we get to the faded time slot.

765
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 2: Everyone is being gathered and we're talking and we're taking photos,

766
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 2: smallest family group the largest, rotating through the same spot

767
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:17,280
Speaker 2: under a beautiful archway. In the center of each family

768
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 2: photo is me and husband with respective parents. Husband's father's

769
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 2: family side. First, Good, my father's family side. Good, husband's

770
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 2: mother's family side. Where's the father?

771
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 1: Like the father in law, he's just.

772
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,479
Speaker 2: Walked off after his family photos were done. It takes

773
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 2: fifteen minutes to find him, oh, in the only half

774
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,760
Speaker 2: fifteen minutes, and convince him to come back for the photo.

775
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 2: He went to his car so that he could chat

776
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:49,839
Speaker 2: with some family friends and continue drinking. We had more

777
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 2: beer in the car, Oh my god, legend.

778
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you can fit a lot in search car.

779
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 2: Especially if it's a hatchbag. It is a roomy car

780
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 2: and with premium.

781
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: Leather couples cup holders. Are you kidding me?

782
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 2: Yeah? Sea colders to be cold. He got over to us,

783
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 2: stood with his back to the camera, and it imediately

784
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:28,880
Speaker 2: starts whining for a good solid few minutes. This isn't

785
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:30,240
Speaker 2: even my family.

786
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:32,840
Speaker 4: Why do I have to be here? It's just a

787
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 4: stupid photo. Why do I need to come back? Looks

788
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 4: like someone is being controlling today. My voice changed massively

789
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 4: over the course of that.

790
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 2: My little angel. Oh, while the other families he's included

791
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 2: are watching. Mother in law is trying to calm him down,

792
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 2: and we can't get him to shut up, look at

793
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 2: the camera for one second, to just take the darn thing.

794
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:08,359
Speaker 2: I had it. I turned and yelled, shut the f up,

795
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 2: father for one second, and just take the darn photo.

796
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 1: Whooa yeah, pops off, pop off.

797
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:26,880
Speaker 2: Zero to one hundred, real quick, so quick you silence me,

798
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 2: quick smile, camera clicks and we go on.

799
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: I like to think it op. He goes shut the

800
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 1: f up.

801
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:39,880
Speaker 2: Timeslot was unfortunately missed and we ditched the second location sad,

802
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 2: but had more time at the venue. Four photos and

803
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 2: if you have gotten this far readers, this is the

804
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 2: event that has pushed my father in law to start

805
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:53,840
Speaker 2: the war path. So much stuff happened to the wedding reception,

806
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 2: but it isn't relevant to the current crusade. For the

807
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:01,399
Speaker 2: last year, he has gone around his family and sclandered

808
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 2: me to the point where when they have family gathering

809
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 2: slash celebrations, I am not invited. No, I am not

810
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,239
Speaker 2: allowed in my in law's house if he is home,

811
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 2: and if they visit us, then I either have to

812
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 2: leave or he will not come. He is saying, how

813
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 2: I'm super controlling, that I have no respect for him

814
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 2: as the head of the house, that yelling at him

815
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 2: and having my maid of honor yell at him was

816
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 2: uncalled for and disrespectful, unlike turning your bag and pounding

817
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:33,400
Speaker 2: twelve ters. Fava in Lah's families say that it was

818
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 2: incredibly rude for yelling at father H in front of

819
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 2: the family, and that I have no respect for my elders.

820
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 2: Why should you, Yeah, you got elders respect. You got

821
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,360
Speaker 2: to earn that respect. That I should be ashamed for

822
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:48,479
Speaker 2: embarrassing him like that, that after all he has done

823
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 2: and how much he put into the wedding, I should

824
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 2: have some respect, which you should respect what we do

825
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 2: for you every weekday at three pm PSD where you

826
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 2: could join her live right here on YouTube just tap

827
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 2: her profile. But I'm going to tippity tap onto this

828
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 2: last person respect. They all want an apology saying that

829
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 2: we'll fix everything, but I'm not willing to say it.

830
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 2: This situation is college a lot of tension for my

831
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,720
Speaker 2: mother in law and husband. My husband is one hundred

832
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 2: percent with me, but I can see it hurts him,

833
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:20,320
Speaker 2: and I don't like hurting my husband. His cousins and

834
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:23,280
Speaker 2: relatives are constantly nagging on him. But I am afraid

835
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:27,800
Speaker 2: that apologizing will lead to further abuse and negative behavior

836
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 2: from father in the future, and any perceived disrespect will

837
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 2: lead to the family being turned on us again. And

838
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 2: I want to know, am I the ahole for not apologizing?

839
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 2: Is this a hill we're dying on? I will accept

840
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 2: your judgment, I am, And that is where this story ends.

841
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:54,240
Speaker 2: But what do you think, Sophia.

842
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: M I mean, I think the father in law definitely

843
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 1: deserve to be all that. But I think, like, ideally

844
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 1: you wouldn't yell at him just because like all this drama.

845
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 1: But I think he deserved it.

846
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 2: I mean, I think he did deserve it. But like

847
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 2: if you are if if.

848
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 1: Your goal is to you know, keep all of the

849
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 1: family happy and not you know, rouffle any feathers, then

850
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 1: don't yell. But I don't think that like he didn't deserve.

851
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'll say they like they are paying for

852
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 2: the wedding themselves.

853
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 1: Though, you know, yeah, so it's not like that any

854
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 1: of the in laws are.

855
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 2: Even or the like he's not supporting them, like he's

856
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 2: like he's actively making it worse. Yeah. So it's like, honestly,

857
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 2: I feel like they can say what whatever they want.

858
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 2: But if you're trying to keep the peace, like all right,

859
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 2: like all right, you could you could die on any

860
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 2: hill you want. Yeah, but usually dying on hills means

861
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 2: that's that's that's the last dead. You're dead.

862
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 1: You're dead on that hill. You're dead on that hill

863
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 1: gold Goloth. What's called Riley?

864
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's called Mount Everest.

865
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 1: No, Briley. You should know this the hill where Jesus died.

866
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 3: Oh dude, you know what. I don't.

867
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 1: That's embarrassing. It's go Goloth or something something like that,

868
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:13,800
Speaker 1: something like that.

869
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:15,840
Speaker 2: I'm go golof Queen.

870
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 1: It's like close to that.

871
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I don't know. Google Google ye go. But yeah,

872
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 2: I don't think op is the a whole. But I

873
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 2: also don't think this is the best move for keeping

874
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 2: the peace. I don't think you have to be so

875
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 2: like aggressive, but like you're also your buttons were pushed.

876
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 1: Yeah.

877
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:47,280
Speaker 2: Coffeecat seven nine four says she doesn't have to apologize

878
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 2: even though she was rude. She doesn't need to have

879
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 2: any sort of contact with him, So it's better to

880
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:53,800
Speaker 2: be a controlling be than a doormat in his eyes.

881
00:49:54,440 --> 00:50:00,400
Speaker 2: Swap says, I've died on smalls. That is a hilarious sentence.

882
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:06,720
Speaker 2: I've died on mouss.

883
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:08,240
Speaker 1: Oh, that's good. I've died on mole Hills.

884
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've died on mole hills. Do you think I

885
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 2: won't die on this mountain?

886
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? Someone's like, don't die on that hill, and you're

887
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 1: you just respond I've died on mole hills.

888
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's there's no that's crazy. I'm crazy. There's no

889
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 2: doubting what I'll do. Nerdy Glass, if only could make

890
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 2: a deal with God, what does that mean? Okay, so

891
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:31,800
Speaker 2: crazy that he called her controlling when he is the

892
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 2: most controlling person in the story.

893
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 1: Actually really.

894
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 2: Back black, Oh.

895
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, ah, yeah, so you said you can help

896
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 1: me up. Basically, when my dad it was in in Australia,

897
00:50:56,000 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 1: kind of meeting my grandpa for the first time, maybe

898
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 1: not the first time, but like early on of the

899
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:06,399
Speaker 1: first time.

900
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 3: Uh.

901
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: He like really wanted to impress our we call him Pop.

902
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:17,440
Speaker 1: They really wanted to impress Pop. Uh. And Pop was like,

903
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: oh yeah, come, come like drink with me and my

904
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 1: my buddies and mate.

905
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 2: Our dad is you know, a huge, a huge drinker,

906
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 2: Like maybe I have a glass of wine. At dinner.

907
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 2: But he's like, sure, you know, all have a couple

908
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 2: of beers. Yeah, He's like, so he's looking like, you know,

909
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 2: the everyone six bag. Maybe they'll have like a couple

910
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 2: of beers maybe six right.

911
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. So, like he gets to the spot a a

912
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: forklift or sounding like literally a truck or for clifting pilets, palates,

913
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 1: a beer no joke, pallet.

914
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 2: To this boat to the point where the boat kind

915
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,479
Speaker 2: of like sinks when the palettes are put on the boat.

916
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, and and they just start I don't even know

917
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 1: how man, it wasn't that many people there, it was

918
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: it was like five five.

919
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're talking palats of balance here.

920
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 1: And my dad's like, and so he drinks. He says

921
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:13,919
Speaker 1: he drinks more than he's ever drank in his entire life.

922
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:20,919
Speaker 1: And I was trying to get fine, Pop is fine. Yeah,

923
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 1: And then my dad's like.

924
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 2: My dad is basically falling off the boat. And that

925
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:28,799
Speaker 2: is the most drunk I think my dad has ever been.

926
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 2: And there you have it, and there you have it.

927
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:32,760
Speaker 1: Well pack of beer story.

928
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 2: Well back, I mean more than twelve pack, I really twelve.

929
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 1: Maybe do you want to start this story? And I'll

930
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: be right back or dog. I'll be.

931
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 2: Righty. I did preate order Michael's book.

932
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 3: Oh, let's go. I loves in the chat.

933
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:54,320
Speaker 2: Also, if you want to support our friend Michael McBride,

934
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 2: also known as Idea Soups it does anyone follow him

935
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 2: on TikTok here Idea.

936
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:01,399
Speaker 3: Soup The Fun Facts guy?

937
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:02,919
Speaker 2: Yeah? What what's his book called?

938
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:03,359
Speaker 4: Uh?

939
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 2: Uh? Facts that make you sound Smarter at Parties? Yeah?

940
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 2: I think that is what it is, is that I

941
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:16,720
Speaker 2: feel like I feel like it's something else. Swak twelve

942
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:20,320
Speaker 2: palettes of beer. Yeah a lot, dude. I love surfing

943
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 2: in the morning. It was great. I went to surf Crew.

944
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 2: Oh so fun. Oh no, you're not here so fun?

945
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:34,360
Speaker 2: Hung out with all my buds. Ooh, I want buds

946
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:40,879
Speaker 2: like a long distance relationships starting that out.

947
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 3: Oh there he is sound smart at parties?

948
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 2: How to Sound Smart at Parties?

949
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 3: On Amazon Bars, Noble Books a million.

950
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:56,359
Speaker 2: Literally it takes like three seconds to buy this book

951
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 2: and it was like twenty five bucks. Twenty five bucks

952
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 2: you don't have to pay till later. Wait, can we

953
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 2: read one of them? I would actually like to know

954
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 2: what the fact is? Can you u zuman enhance if

955
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 2: you put a mouse wheel in the middle of the field.

956
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:17,280
Speaker 2: Wild mice will run on it. Josie. I always assume

957
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 2: mice was just bored in the cages, but I guess

958
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:23,880
Speaker 2: they love running on wheels. I wonder why, evolutionary I

959
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 2: suppose humans getting doorphins from running, so maybe mice do too.

960
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 2: Mice I love running probably survive a lot longer than

961
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 2: those that hate it. That might just be enough evolutionary

962
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 2: pressure to encourage that trait. A runner is high for mice.

963
00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 2: If you will, Javier says, can you imagine the thought

964
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 2: process of the mice that didn't make it? Oh? I

965
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 2: hate running so much, so I think I'll let this

966
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 2: hawk just ease me. Josie. Honestly, I feel that some

967
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 2: days during marathon training. Don't forget that Applying this type

968
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 2: of logic to evolution is post hawk analysis. Figuring out

969
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 2: why traits persisted in a species is often speculative without

970
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 2: hard data. Here we go, Wow, Yeah, there's there's a

971
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:12,359
Speaker 2: little excerpt from the book. And Michael. Has Michael been

972
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:12,839
Speaker 2: on the show.

973
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 3: He was in one episode in Bali.

974
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,320
Speaker 2: Yes, that's true. He was in one episode in Bali.

975
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 1: That is true.

976
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:22,640
Speaker 2: What is his last name?

977
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 3: Riley?

978
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:29,280
Speaker 2: Michael McBride, also known as idea Soup online. Here's Instagram,

979
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:33,479
Speaker 2: here's here's his thing. One million plus on TikTok, which

980
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 2: oh yeah, wait, keep going and see what else. He says. Also, uh,

981
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 2: a couple couple of people you may know just hit

982
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 2: a million followers on TikTok. Oh yeah yeah, oh yeah.

983
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 2: Us we made it. We made it. We hit a

984
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 2: million on TikTok. Dude, it took us a year from

985
00:55:57,360 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 2: going nine hundred and ninety thousand to a million. It

986
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 2: was silly. It was silly. Check it out. My chat

987
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 2: wasn't happening. What's up? Look at that? Look at that m.

988
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 2: Look at that M right there? Oh did it?

989
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:14,359
Speaker 3: It took how many years?

990
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 2: Three?

991
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 3: We were at nine hundred and ninety for a year

992
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:23,359
Speaker 3: per a year. Yeah, it was insane. They wouldn't give

993
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 3: it to.

994
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 2: Us, It wouldn't. They wanted us to fail.

995
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:28,800
Speaker 3: And a crawl to the one hundred million.

996
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 2: We're a million, hundred million, next hundred million, next, that's

997
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:38,800
Speaker 2: that's the next one. It's Brittany Beach says that was

998
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:42,320
Speaker 2: a super smart way of saying, is an evolution nuts facts.

999
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:47,319
Speaker 2: Michael is a smart person. He does have He also

1000
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 2: just has tons of fun facts. M hm, Like, Uh,

1001
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 2: there's this one that he always talks about, which I forget.

1002
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 2: He's told me a couple of times. But it's like

1003
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 2: this Italian thing. I forget what it's called. But it's

1004
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:04,360
Speaker 2: like dressed but not dressed, where they'll like unbutton a

1005
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 2: shirt to make it look like they didn't put any

1006
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 2: effort end, but they put in more effort to un

1007
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 2: button the shirt in that way. I forget. All Right,

1008
00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 2: you ready? Oh welcome?

1009
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 3: She got a snack? You got snacking to get os

1010
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 3: to snack?

1011
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 2: Yeah? Can you share with the class?

1012
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 3: Yep, give me some.

1013
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 2: Give me somewhere that zovie do you wanna? Yeah? I

1014
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 2: saw someone got some of those treader Joe's talkies.

1015
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 3: And the I'm a guest Christian.

1016
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 2: Oh that's a little son of a bee.

1017
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 3: You can probably get some from them. You'd have to,

1018
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:51,920
Speaker 3: am I'm reading this one or it's Sophia, she has

1019
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 3: her mouthful.

1020
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 1: I haven't urged to buy a Mercedes. After the stream

1021
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 1: figure out why.

1022
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:12,280
Speaker 3: This is what happens. We tell you good things and

1023
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 3: then you follow. We have power in our voices. Sam,

1024
00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 3: Let's not get people to buy Mercedes.

1025
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 2: Okay, let's say it, dude, no free sponsors quing. That's ridiculous.

1026
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna talk if you want to. If you

1027
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 2: want to talk power, let's talk like six hundred horsepower

1028
00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:33,840
Speaker 2: of the Mercedes.

1029
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: Let's do it.

1030
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 2: Hold on, you got it right? Smile for us, Yeah, smile,

1031
00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 2: smile and wave mound way.

1032
00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:56,040
Speaker 3: I love that movie. It's crazy how much of an

1033
00:58:56,080 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 3: impact mad Gascar has had on the world because now

1034
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 3: they have the movie. Now they have a country named

1035
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 3: after it, and Madagascar chocolate and Madagascar vanilla named after it.

1036
00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 3: Isn't that crazy. It's crazy because parts of the Caribbean

1037
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 3: is a billion dollar industry. It is like tens of

1038
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 3: billions of dollars.

1039
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 2: Madagascar, Madagascar is a ten billion dollar country built.

1040
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,200
Speaker 3: No no, no movie, movie, movie franchise, back of a movie.

1041
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 2: All right home, right now.

1042
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 1: My mom tried to help me with my wedding, but

1043
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 1: she just made it worse. Get her out of there,

1044
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 1: get her out. Just to give a little background, I

1045
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:37,360
Speaker 1: the bride used to live in Asia, then I moved

1046
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 1: to Us with my husband. We decided to have a

1047
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 1: church wedding in my home country to celebrate with my

1048
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:47,240
Speaker 1: family relatives. Since we only had a civil marriage here us.

1049
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from professional Bit four six

1050
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:52,640
Speaker 1: h three on the r slash Okay storytime sup reread it.

1051
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 1: Uh So, my husband and I traveled to my home

1052
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: country two weeks before a church wedding date to finalize

1053
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 1: some wedding details and my gown and my gown fitting,

1054
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: as well as attending to our international guests like picking

1055
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,200
Speaker 1: them up at the airport and taking them to their

1056
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 1: book hotels. So days before my wedding, we were in

1057
01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 1: the hotel already, my best friend, which was my matron

1058
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:17,080
Speaker 1: of honor, scheduled me for a nail salon appointment to

1059
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 1: get my nails done before my big day. When I

1060
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 1: went to my parents' hotel room, I told my mom

1061
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:24,919
Speaker 1: that I'll have to leave the hotel for my nail

1062
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 1: salon appointment. Then she suddenly accused me of having a

1063
01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 1: bridal shower, partying and getting drunk with my best friend.

1064
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 1: I was so upset and pissed off that I cried.

1065
01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:38,440
Speaker 1: So in short, my mom and I ended up having

1066
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 1: an argument because she strussed me out. Why would I

1067
01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 1: party the day before my wedding and get drunk?

1068
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 2: Why wouldn't I? Are you not.

1069
01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:49,120
Speaker 1: Is it get like a bridle like a bachelorette party.

1070
01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:51,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, well bachelotte party is usually like a week before

1071
01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 2: or something.

1072
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 4: Oh is it?

1073
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 2: What was the title of the story?

1074
01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 1: My mom tried to help with my wedding, but she

1075
01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: just made a work. Doesn't think she's helping so far.

1076
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:02,920
Speaker 2: I feel like we could make that title war.

1077
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 1: Okay, Well what do you want, Sam?

1078
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 2: I like that. I like the TLDR. Can you replace

1079
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:10,480
Speaker 2: it with the TLDR.

1080
01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 1: That's not for the story, that's the wrong story.

1081
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:13,800
Speaker 2: Well it's good.

1082
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 1: Well, if you think of something, we can go back.

1083
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:23,360
Speaker 1: We can rerecon it. To my disappointment, I just left

1084
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 1: the hotel and went to nail and went to the

1085
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 1: nail salon with my best friend. After my nails got done,

1086
01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 1: it was pretty late and we ate dinner because I

1087
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:34,600
Speaker 1: hadn't eaten anything since lunch. Then my mom keeps sending

1088
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 1: me messages to come to the hotel room already and

1089
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:40,040
Speaker 1: I don't know why. So the next day, which is

1090
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:42,840
Speaker 1: the big day, my mother, my maid of honor, and

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Speaker 1: other bridesmaids, and I woke up early to eat our breakfast,

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Speaker 1: which was only on the ground floor of the hotel

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Speaker 1: My mom saw us and she said to my best friend,

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Speaker 1: you know what, the bride is supposed to be with

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Speaker 1: the family, No with you on the wedding day in

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01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: a raised tone voice of my mom. My best friend

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01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 1: brushed it off, ignored it, didn't say a word, and

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01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 1: we continue to eat and finish our breakfast and head

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Speaker 1: back to our respective room rooms. She's just it seems

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Speaker 1: like she's helping zero zero amount.

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01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:15,040
Speaker 2: She's yelling.

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01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 1: She's just yelling at everyone. She's accusing op of having

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01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 1: a bachelorette party, which I mean, I don't know why

1104
01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:24,000
Speaker 1: that's a problem in general. Why is that her issue?

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01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:27,080
Speaker 1: And then she's yelling at her for hanging out with

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Speaker 1: their best friends.

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01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, kind of whack adoodle all around the.

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01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:34,360
Speaker 1: Wedding vendors came early into my bridal suite and my

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01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 1: makeup artist is all set up and started doing my makeup.

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01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:40,480
Speaker 1: My makeup artist brought her other teammates since the rest

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Speaker 1: of her team will be doing my mom's makeup and

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01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 1: my matron of honor in some of my bridesmaids hair

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01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 1: and makeup. I asked my makeup artist who will be

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Speaker 1: the next to sit on the chair for their makeup?

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:51,880
Speaker 1: I asked my makeup artist who will be the next

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01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 1: to sit on the chair. She said the maid of

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Speaker 1: honor first, the bride'smaids, and then my mom would be last.

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Speaker 1: So he didn't ask any more because I was thinking

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Speaker 1: a lot of things. I just messaged my matron of

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01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:07,040
Speaker 1: honor to come up to my room for a makeup. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: After my makeup is done, I immediately had a photo

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Speaker 1: in a video shoot session. So I was with the

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01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: photographers and videographers, and I was so busy that I

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01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:19,640
Speaker 1: wasn't even looking at the time anymore. I didn't pay

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01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:22,480
Speaker 1: attention anymore to what others were doing. My bridal suit

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01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 1: was very busy and there were a lot of people,

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01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,440
Speaker 1: a lot of people. The videographers asked me to record

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01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 1: my voice during the wedding vows to be used for

1130
01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:33,959
Speaker 1: a wedding video. But here's what happens next. My mom

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01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:37,240
Speaker 1: got into my bridal suite. I heard her raise her

1132
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 1: voice at one of my wedding coordinators. All the people

1133
01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:42,760
Speaker 1: in the room stopped and I had to stop recording

1134
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:45,640
Speaker 1: my wedding vows too because we could hear her voice.

1135
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:48,439
Speaker 1: Should get a little dead cat.

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01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 3: I know exactly what that is huh, that's good, that's good. Yeah,

1137
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:57,920
Speaker 3: or AI in post production, that's true, Adobe in hands.

1138
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 1: I was so embarrassed. So apparently my mom got mad

1139
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 1: at the makeup artists and my wedding coordinators for not

1140
01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:07,240
Speaker 1: prioritizing her for her makeup. But she's not in the

1141
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 1: wedding party. Why would she be prioritized like that. All

1142
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 1: of the bridal parties are the people that need to

1143
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:14,560
Speaker 1: get out.

1144
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 2: Because everyone needs their special moment at the wedding.

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01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: And she is the most important persons. She was rude

1146
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:26,040
Speaker 1: to my wedding coordinator and keeps talking loud with the

1147
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:29,680
Speaker 1: hm UA who was doing her hair and makeup. Oh,

1148
01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 1: the hair and makeup artist. On our family photoshoot, It's

1149
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 1: supposed to be fun, memorable, but my mom ruined it.

1150
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 1: On the family photoshoot with my mom and father, she

1151
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 1: keeps saying to me in front of the photographers and videographers,

1152
01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 1: you only love your dad but not me. I wonder why,

1153
01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 1: because you suck freaking's talk. She had this fake smile

1154
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:56,720
Speaker 1: and smirked on me, which I'm very sure was captured

1155
01:04:56,760 --> 01:05:00,040
Speaker 1: on the photo and video. She also said, wow, the

1156
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: photographer was capturing our pictures file. Let's pretend we're happy

1157
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:08,400
Speaker 1: even though we're really not happy. That's like a nightmare.

1158
01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 1: I was so embarrassed the way she acted in front

1159
01:05:13,520 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 1: of my wedding vendors. I just kind of fake smiled

1160
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 1: and just wanted the photo photoshoot session to be over

1161
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:22,520
Speaker 1: and head out to the church. Because of this, I

1162
01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 1: missed my full body shot bridle portraits portraits. I have

1163
01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:29,880
Speaker 1: more group pictures than solo pictures. I was so stressed

1164
01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:33,160
Speaker 1: unhappy all that time, and I could see the faces

1165
01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 1: of the photographers videographers that I hired, and I apologized

1166
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:39,440
Speaker 1: to them and said that it is okay and not

1167
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 1: to worry. On the way to the church, my parents

1168
01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 1: were with me at the car. My mom keeps complaining

1169
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:48,480
Speaker 1: to me that my makeup artist and wedding coordinators didn't

1170
01:05:48,520 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: prioritize her. When my parents left the car and went

1171
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 1: inside the church, my coordinator got inside the bridle car

1172
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 1: and I kept apologizing to her about how my mom acted,

1173
01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 1: and I was holding my tears back because I was

1174
01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:04,480
Speaker 1: humiliated and it kind of ruined my moment, and my

1175
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:07,440
Speaker 1: coordinator tried to console me and she assured me that

1176
01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:10,120
Speaker 1: she's okay. And it's not a big deal for her.

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01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 1: The wedding ceremony was great. Okay, that's good, and it's

1178
01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 1: actually my favorite part of the day because it was

1179
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 1: very solemn. The music and the singer at the church

1180
01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:23,520
Speaker 1: was so iculous, like solemn. He was like, it was

1181
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 1: actually really boring, and.

1182
01:06:26,200 --> 01:06:29,120
Speaker 2: I loved it when they just sung like sad songs

1183
01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 2: about how we're going to break up. The whole time,

1184
01:06:30,920 --> 01:06:33,240
Speaker 2: it made my marriage stronger, stronger.

1185
01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:40,600
Speaker 1: I was crying and in those tears, I felt the

1186
01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:42,880
Speaker 1: music and the singer at the church was so good

1187
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:46,080
Speaker 1: and me while walking down the aisle and seeing my

1188
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:48,720
Speaker 1: husband waiting for me at the altar was the best

1189
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:53,640
Speaker 1: thing ever. Anyway, on to the reception, I think everyone

1190
01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:57,160
Speaker 1: enjoyed the buffet food. Everyone was saying the food was delicious.

1191
01:06:57,560 --> 01:06:59,320
Speaker 1: One thing that kind of ruined it was when my

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01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:02,200
Speaker 1: one of my my coordinators came to me and told

1193
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:04,400
Speaker 1: me that my mom didn't like the music and she

1194
01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:07,200
Speaker 1: asked if they could change it. The thing is my hobby,

1195
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:08,920
Speaker 1: and I hired a string quartet.

1196
01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, can you play Wonderwall?

1197
01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 1: Sorry, I just don't really do string quartets. Can you

1198
01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 1: just change up the vibes?

1199
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:19,120
Speaker 2: Here please, Yeah, maybe like heavy metal please? Yeah?

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01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:21,040
Speaker 1: Can you do like a jazz?

1201
01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 2: Could you please impersonate the sound of an engine? Yeah,

1202
01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:28,040
Speaker 2: just try that specifically one type of engine.

1203
01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:33,080
Speaker 1: We specifically chose the music to be played on our reception.

1204
01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 1: So I was kind of pissed off with her comment.

1205
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:38,680
Speaker 1: My wedding could have been perfect if it weren't for

1206
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 1: the drama and stress. Now the wedding has passed because

1207
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:44,360
Speaker 1: of all the things that happened, my mom and I

1208
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 1: are not in good terms. She still keeps complaining about

1209
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:50,640
Speaker 1: the makeup artists not prioritizing her makeup, that my wedding

1210
01:07:50,720 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 1: coordinators failed to do their job. My eldest brother also

1211
01:07:54,160 --> 01:07:57,040
Speaker 1: said that my bridal suite room was infested by my

1212
01:07:57,240 --> 01:08:01,920
Speaker 1: friends instead of a family. Why your family sucks.

1213
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:06,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, infested, but with like, you know, people that you invited.

1214
01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:10,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, my bridal suite room was infected by the bridal party.

1215
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 2: Disgusting.

1216
01:08:12,120 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 1: Did they just want like free housing or something?

1217
01:08:14,200 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 2: Was that? I don't know, I don't know.

1218
01:08:16,400 --> 01:08:19,759
Speaker 1: He also compared my wedding to his wedding. He's wedding

1219
01:08:19,800 --> 01:08:23,479
Speaker 1: for getting shocked. I didn't like all the remarks they

1220
01:08:23,560 --> 01:08:25,960
Speaker 1: said and the toxicity was extreme for me that I

1221
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:29,519
Speaker 1: decided not to talk to them at all. I cut

1222
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 1: communication with them. If you were in my shoes, what

1223
01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:34,680
Speaker 1: would you guys do? By the way, I know what

1224
01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:37,280
Speaker 1: you guys should do. Join us live on YouTube every

1225
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:39,479
Speaker 1: weekday at three pm. Cap our profile.

1226
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 2: Just tap it, hap it please.

1227
01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 1: It's just every time I think of our wedding, I

1228
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:47,320
Speaker 1: feel happy that I got married to my husband at

1229
01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:49,840
Speaker 1: the church, but at the same time, I feel sad

1230
01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:53,760
Speaker 1: and disappointed. I wanted to look our photos, at our

1231
01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:56,080
Speaker 1: photos and videos, but it also reminds me of the

1232
01:08:56,120 --> 01:08:58,400
Speaker 1: bad things that happened on my wedding day. It was

1233
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:00,240
Speaker 1: supposed to be the happiest day of my life life,

1234
01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:04,519
Speaker 1: but I feel like it ruined my moment. I yeah,

1235
01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:06,000
Speaker 1: and that is the end of that story.

1236
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:10,240
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean that that's why you just just don't

1237
01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:13,160
Speaker 2: invite your family to the wedding. You don't always have

1238
01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:15,880
Speaker 2: to invite everyone to your wedding. You can do something small.

1239
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can do a little wedding.

1240
01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:19,519
Speaker 2: I think if you have like a I think this

1241
01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:22,320
Speaker 2: goes into the question like if you have a toxic family,

1242
01:09:22,640 --> 01:09:24,320
Speaker 2: have a small wedding so you don't have to invite

1243
01:09:24,360 --> 01:09:24,720
Speaker 2: all of them.

1244
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:27,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I think I think it. I mean, you know,

1245
01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:29,880
Speaker 1: he's asking what I think whether or not she should

1246
01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 1: cut contact or go low contact. I think it seems

1247
01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:35,719
Speaker 1: like your parents, your family just does not want.

1248
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 2: The best for you, and so I think they don't

1249
01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:38,000
Speaker 2: want the best for you.

1250
01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:40,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, the way to go.

1251
01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:43,680
Speaker 2: Mom called me yesterday and she's like, I read an

1252
01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:48,040
Speaker 2: article that there are people that are cutting out their

1253
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 2: families because their family is toxic. We're not toxic.

1254
01:09:54,120 --> 01:09:55,000
Speaker 1: We're not toxic, right.

1255
01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:59,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, Mom, I'm going to keep you in

1256
01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:04,400
Speaker 2: my life life for a very long time. Agreed at

1257
01:10:04,479 --> 01:10:05,040
Speaker 2: least a year.

1258
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 3: That's three hundred days.

1259
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:11,840
Speaker 1: That's a long time, a long time. But that is

1260
01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:14,799
Speaker 1: the end of that story and the end of this episode.

1261
01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:17,880
Speaker 2: Oh but guess what? Oh wait, should we do a

1262
01:10:17,920 --> 01:10:20,479
Speaker 2: sign off the song? But if you love us, make

1263
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 2: sure to subscribe. We love you, See you tomorrow, except

1264
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:27,040
Speaker 2: if you're in the members only stream. We got some

1265
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 2: more coming.

1266
01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 1: Free, some more steffe, We got some.

1267
01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:39,680
Speaker 2: Dono's dough will X remember for five months. I'm so

1268
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:42,320
Speaker 2: glad to get a stream. It was my birthday yesterday

1269
01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:47,519
Speaker 2: and I told you happy birthday Today wow of lies,

1270
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:53,400
Speaker 2: but just kidding. Happy birthday, Happy birthday, Josephine Modolo birthquest.

1271
01:10:54,240 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 2: Hi guys, ifia couve your ears, Hi daddy, Damn Cassandra Rivera.

1272
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:06,560
Speaker 2: If all four tires are slash, insurance will cover it.

1273
01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 2: If they only slash one to three.

1274
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:11,519
Speaker 1: They will have heard that. I have heard that.

1275
01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:16,639
Speaker 2: What Yeah weird, that's so weird. Yeah, Nicole my son.

1276
01:11:16,680 --> 01:11:18,360
Speaker 2: Thanks to the two bucks and this, and start a

1277
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:19,679
Speaker 2: new one because you can rewind.

1278
01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:23,520
Speaker 1: Okay, I was considering.

1279
01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:27,280
Speaker 2: Uh, Nicole my sa I checked, and it's death. There

1280
01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 2: be saved, y'all. It's fine. It's not our actual address.

1281
01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:37,759
Speaker 2: Dominica Stangers, thanks for the five pounds. My great grandmother

1282
01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 2: had this opinion about husbands or men. She said to

1283
01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:46,479
Speaker 2: my grandmother, why do you need a pain in the ass? Then,

1284
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:49,720
Speaker 2: Moonlight Cat Dragon, thanks for the being a member. For

1285
01:11:49,800 --> 01:11:53,599
Speaker 2: three months, my ex fiance kept leaving my mother's funeral

1286
01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:56,799
Speaker 2: to go drink beer in the car. I already decided

1287
01:11:56,840 --> 01:11:59,640
Speaker 2: to leave him before that. I just used him to

1288
01:11:59,760 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 2: move move first, Damn Moonlit Cat Dragon, Crazy Samy, thanks

1289
01:12:07,200 --> 01:12:09,480
Speaker 2: for the twenty bucks. I had a great time in California,

1290
01:12:09,560 --> 01:12:11,800
Speaker 2: mostly stayed up in San Francisco, but still had a

1291
01:12:11,840 --> 01:12:14,000
Speaker 2: great time. Planning to go back to California, but going

1292
01:12:14,040 --> 01:12:17,639
Speaker 2: to check out La. Aoh, they go back next year

1293
01:12:17,840 --> 01:12:20,680
Speaker 2: or may wait till the Olympics comes and take two

1294
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:21,280
Speaker 2: weeks off.

1295
01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:25,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, just wait four years, just wait four years. Yeah, no,

1296
01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:28,720
Speaker 1: I'm excited for the Olympics in LA. Yeah, they're they're

1297
01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:30,519
Speaker 1: doing a lot of metro and.

1298
01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:33,160
Speaker 2: Uh, hopefully we can dream.

1299
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:36,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, no they are. They've already started it, have they.

1300
01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:38,400
Speaker 1: They've started to extend everything and yeah.

1301
01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 2: They're gonna working. I don't know, like where can I go?

1302
01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:44,559
Speaker 1: I don't know, but that's what they said.

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01:12:44,840 --> 01:12:46,719
Speaker 2: You know, I used to take the metro from Santa

1304
01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:49,280
Speaker 2: Monica to my work. Yeah, when I had a job

1305
01:12:49,439 --> 01:12:54,400
Speaker 2: for like two months. Yeah, take months for six months, months,

1306
01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:55,560
Speaker 2: six months.

1307
01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:58,280
Speaker 1: Six moons. Okay and OK.

1308
01:13:00,720 --> 01:13:01,320
Speaker 3: Not allowed?

1309
01:13:03,560 --> 01:13:03,840
Speaker 1: Pas.

1310
01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:09,960
Speaker 3: Do you want to get the next one set up?

1311
01:13:10,040 --> 01:13:20,360
Speaker 3: Sam on the phone, Uh, I'll be back, don't worry.

1312
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 3: I just I just gotta eat. I made breakfast and

1313
01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:26,680
Speaker 3: I made a small thinking like oh, this would be

1314
01:13:26,720 --> 01:13:28,200
Speaker 3: good not to have a big breakfast, and then I

1315
01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:30,600
Speaker 3: got hungry, like literally ten minutes after I ate it.

1316
01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:40,960
Speaker 3: Something is wrong. I gotta wait for him to he's

1317
01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:51,960
Speaker 3: he's doing something change. I got a haircut before I left,

1318
01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:54,599
Speaker 3: and it's like working now. Usually takes like about two

1319
01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:57,800
Speaker 3: weeks for the haircut to work. Yeah, I like it

1320
01:13:57,880 --> 01:14:01,800
Speaker 3: a lot. Uh you ready?

1321
01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:06,719
Speaker 2: Yep? All right? Cool? One second, I think we made

1322
01:14:06,960 --> 01:14:17,040
Speaker 2: my Sophia. Were you looking at these titles? By the way, yeah, loaded,

1323
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 2: I feel like they could be a little bit more specific.

1324
01:14:23,439 --> 01:14:29,080
Speaker 2: But but I but I think also doctor all right.

1325
01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:30,519
Speaker 1: Well, I mean I went over with all the titles,

1326
01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:30,920
Speaker 1: so it's me.

1327
01:14:33,080 --> 01:14:36,679
Speaker 2: It's me, You're just born and all right? You ready?

1328
01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:37,320
Speaker 1: Yes?

1329
01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:42,559
Speaker 2: Do this thing? My best friend is stalking my husband.

1330
01:14:42,800 --> 01:14:45,800
Speaker 2: Should I end the relationship? So I never thought I

1331
01:14:45,840 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 2: would find myself in this situation, but here we are

1332
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:52,840
Speaker 2: for context. I've been friends with Sarah thirty female for

1333
01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:55,240
Speaker 2: a few years. We've been through a lot together and

1334
01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:59,280
Speaker 2: I consider her one of my closest friends. However, recently

1335
01:14:59,720 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 2: some happened I couldn't ignore. By the way, this comes

1336
01:15:03,240 --> 01:15:07,040
Speaker 2: from Throwaway Lost Kitten on the arslash Okay storytime subreddits.

1337
01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:10,840
Speaker 2: Over the past few months, Sarah has gotten close with

1338
01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 2: my husband, maybe too close, and I was pretty much

1339
01:15:14,240 --> 01:15:18,040
Speaker 2: okay with us hiking and eating out together. You're okay

1340
01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:20,760
Speaker 2: with your husband eating out. I don't know about that.

1341
01:15:21,479 --> 01:15:25,679
Speaker 2: She came to our wedding, et cetera. However, all hours

1342
01:15:25,720 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 2: of the day, Sarah has been sending my husband twenty

1343
01:15:29,400 --> 01:15:33,160
Speaker 2: eight mail a ton of messages and memes, not memes,

1344
01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:35,960
Speaker 2: not mesmes, you know, memes are the way to a

1345
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 2: man's heart. At first, I didn't think much of it.

1346
01:15:39,400 --> 01:15:41,280
Speaker 2: My husband and I are both friendly people, and I

1347
01:15:41,320 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 2: know Sarah has a good sense of humor. I mean,

1348
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 2: look at her memes. But the frequency and nature of

1349
01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:51,639
Speaker 2: the messages started to make me uncomfortable. They weren't just occasional,

1350
01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:56,240
Speaker 2: funny memes. It felt like she was constantly reaching out

1351
01:15:56,280 --> 01:15:56,559
Speaker 2: to him.

1352
01:15:57,040 --> 01:16:00,000
Speaker 1: Hmmm, A getting a little too close with those little.

1353
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:03,599
Speaker 2: Too close, too close for comfort, Like the memes are

1354
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:07,240
Speaker 2: like when your best friend's husband is so hot that

1355
01:16:07,360 --> 01:16:11,200
Speaker 2: you just want him. And then it's just like her.

1356
01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:16,720
Speaker 2: It's her, it's just her, he's custom making all the memes.

1357
01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:19,559
Speaker 1: She's doing like photo shoots, just names.

1358
01:16:21,479 --> 01:16:24,000
Speaker 2: I try to brush it off, thinking maybe I was overreacting,

1359
01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:27,320
Speaker 2: but the feeling persistent. I eventually talked to my husband

1360
01:16:27,360 --> 01:16:29,120
Speaker 2: about it, and while he assured me there was nothing

1361
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:34,800
Speaker 2: going on. He got defensive. Red flag. He got defensive,

1362
01:16:34,880 --> 01:16:37,400
Speaker 2: saying nothing is going on. I allowed them to still

1363
01:16:37,439 --> 01:16:39,880
Speaker 2: hang out, and I tried my hardness not to seem crazy,

1364
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:44,479
Speaker 2: but yes, I feel crazy stopping right here? Would you

1365
01:16:44,560 --> 01:16:47,639
Speaker 2: be okay with this? How many memes is too many

1366
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:50,639
Speaker 2: memes to send to your friend's husband.

1367
01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:53,560
Speaker 1: I guess I just want to know, like, what what

1368
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:57,160
Speaker 1: was there like, because this is Op's friend, not the

1369
01:16:57,240 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 1: husband's friend, and so where did this friendship begins.

1370
01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:01,719
Speaker 2: With the husband?

1371
01:17:01,920 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1372
01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 2: I think they were all hanging out together and then

1373
01:17:05,160 --> 01:17:07,679
Speaker 2: she started sending memes and then she started sending hella memes.

1374
01:17:07,800 --> 01:17:10,479
Speaker 1: I guess it depends on what time you're sending these memes.

1375
01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:13,480
Speaker 2: I think no more than three memes a day, unresponded

1376
01:17:13,520 --> 01:17:18,800
Speaker 2: to Yeah, yeah, but that's not but I like, I

1377
01:17:18,840 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 2: will send like ten reels to Riley.

1378
01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:25,680
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but reels are so reels are such an

1379
01:17:25,720 --> 01:17:26,800
Speaker 1: inactive form of.

1380
01:17:27,320 --> 01:17:30,760
Speaker 2: You know, like you're just like still though, Yeah, I

1381
01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:33,000
Speaker 2: want to know what the memes are. Radish says sus

1382
01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:38,720
Speaker 2: Radish is my boyfriend. I communicate with memes throughout the day. Yeah,

1383
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:41,120
Speaker 2: we didn't know the content of the memes, release the

1384
01:17:41,200 --> 01:17:45,920
Speaker 2: memes memes. So I decided to finally talk to Sarah.

1385
01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:50,479
Speaker 2: I approached her calmly and explained how her constant messaging

1386
01:17:50,560 --> 01:17:54,080
Speaker 2: made me feel uncomfortable. I used eye statements to avoid

1387
01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:58,880
Speaker 2: sounding accusatory and try to be as understanding as possible therapy.

1388
01:17:59,560 --> 01:18:04,719
Speaker 2: Instead of understanding or apologizing, she got defenses. She got defensive.

1389
01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:09,640
Speaker 2: She insisted that it was harmless, that I was being ridiculous.

1390
01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:12,599
Speaker 2: What do we think? Red flag are not big red

1391
01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:17,160
Speaker 2: Flag dying, They're all denying it. What do you think, John,

1392
01:18:17,160 --> 01:18:22,000
Speaker 2: what do you think? Yeah? I think, Leah G says,

1393
01:18:22,040 --> 01:18:24,680
Speaker 2: but do you send ten reels to John's girlfriend? I

1394
01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:28,200
Speaker 2: do not. I do not send ten reels to John's girlfriend.

1395
01:18:28,840 --> 01:18:32,360
Speaker 2: I don't think I've actually sent any of reels John's girlfriend. Yeah, yeah,

1396
01:18:32,479 --> 01:18:37,400
Speaker 2: rough ten more, but not ten maybe like three three max,

1397
01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 2: I feel like once you I think ten three is

1398
01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:46,040
Speaker 2: three is totally fine. Over six is danger over ten

1399
01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:53,639
Speaker 2: is way too much, and then also over three after

1400
01:18:53,840 --> 01:18:54,519
Speaker 2: dark is too much.

1401
01:18:54,560 --> 01:18:57,040
Speaker 1: I also don't like, don't know how many you know.

1402
01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:59,440
Speaker 1: I don't know if I've ever sent over ten to anyone.

1403
01:18:59,280 --> 01:19:01,360
Speaker 2: Really definite, only sent over ten to in a day.

1404
01:19:01,720 --> 01:19:03,320
Speaker 2: Yeah to Christian for sure.

1405
01:19:05,360 --> 01:19:07,080
Speaker 1: I also don't really send a lot of Instagram reel

1406
01:19:07,080 --> 01:19:09,720
Speaker 1: I'm more of a TikTok you know, well.

1407
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:10,759
Speaker 2: How many do you send on TikTok?

1408
01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:13,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, hundreds, I don't know.

1409
01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:19,719
Speaker 2: The conversation didn't go well, and shortly after she blocked

1410
01:19:19,840 --> 01:19:23,240
Speaker 2: me on social media. I was shocked and heard. I

1411
01:19:23,320 --> 01:19:25,160
Speaker 2: never wanted to end our friendship over this, but I

1412
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:28,839
Speaker 2: felt disrespected and ignored. I'm feeling a mix of emotions

1413
01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:31,559
Speaker 2: right now. On one hand, I feel justified in setting

1414
01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:34,400
Speaker 2: boundaries and protecting my marriage. On the other hand, I'm

1415
01:19:34,439 --> 01:19:37,559
Speaker 2: mourning the loss of a longtime friend. Has anyone else

1416
01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:41,080
Speaker 2: experienced something similar? How did you handle it? Any advice

1417
01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:44,160
Speaker 2: or perspective would be greatly appreciated. And there are some

1418
01:19:44,479 --> 01:19:49,560
Speaker 2: edits and some thick update But I'm looking at the

1419
01:19:49,720 --> 01:19:54,000
Speaker 2: chat coffee kat seven nine one four has four red flags.

1420
01:19:54,200 --> 01:20:02,000
Speaker 2: Duchess Casanda five red flags, Dominika stan Jeriska four red flags,

1421
01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:08,200
Speaker 2: slithy Toes slyy Toes seven red flags, A lot of

1422
01:20:08,240 --> 01:20:14,120
Speaker 2: red flags. Sloths can run Nope, something is up, Samantha says, Wow,

1423
01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:15,960
Speaker 2: I thought when your bestI gets a partner. They are

1424
01:20:15,960 --> 01:20:22,040
Speaker 2: supposed to be your second best friend. Oh yeah, I mean,

1425
01:20:22,160 --> 01:20:26,040
Speaker 2: but maybe it's just like default best friend. What are

1426
01:20:26,080 --> 01:20:26,640
Speaker 2: you doing over there?

1427
01:20:26,680 --> 01:20:34,240
Speaker 1: So you all right pulling up why I'm doing producer things?

1428
01:20:35,600 --> 01:20:36,400
Speaker 2: Chat's right there?

1429
01:20:36,680 --> 01:20:37,120
Speaker 1: Okay?

1430
01:20:39,920 --> 01:20:42,439
Speaker 2: But uh yeah, so I I mean in terms of

1431
01:20:43,960 --> 01:20:48,080
Speaker 2: is op justified and setting boundaries to protect the marriage? Yeah,

1432
01:20:48,080 --> 01:20:51,800
Speaker 2: I think so, I think completely, Like, and she did it.

1433
01:20:51,800 --> 01:20:53,400
Speaker 1: In a way that wasn't like accusatory.

1434
01:20:53,439 --> 01:20:55,680
Speaker 2: It was just like, hey, yeah, yeah, it's like just

1435
01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:57,880
Speaker 2: like hey, I noticed you were sending my husband a

1436
01:20:57,960 --> 01:20:58,679
Speaker 2: lot of memes.

1437
01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:03,400
Speaker 1: Is that all question answer?

1438
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:09,080
Speaker 2: Should the boundary come from OPE? Or should the boundary

1439
01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:10,599
Speaker 2: come from the partner?

1440
01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:10,960
Speaker 4: Oh?

1441
01:21:11,080 --> 01:21:14,200
Speaker 1: I think yeah. Maybe the thing is talking to your

1442
01:21:14,320 --> 01:21:16,920
Speaker 1: partner first and saying, hey, I'm not souper what she

1443
01:21:17,040 --> 01:21:19,880
Speaker 1: did and he denied it. So Opie has gone to

1444
01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:23,400
Speaker 1: both people and they've both kind of rejected her concerns.

1445
01:21:25,120 --> 01:21:30,439
Speaker 2: Hmm, yeah, yeah, because he went she went to she

1446
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:33,439
Speaker 2: went to OPE, she went to her husband, but like, honestly,

1447
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:36,840
Speaker 2: red flag for the husband too, like that he wasn't

1448
01:21:36,880 --> 01:21:39,840
Speaker 2: willing to just like talk to her about it. And

1449
01:21:39,960 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 2: it's not like she's saying, oh, I think you're cheating.

1450
01:21:42,080 --> 01:21:44,360
Speaker 2: It's just like, hey, I feel a little uncomfortable with

1451
01:21:44,439 --> 01:21:45,559
Speaker 2: you guys talking so much.

1452
01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:48,200
Speaker 1: No, it seems like she was very calm about it.

1453
01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:51,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, Slotskin Run says it's an overreaction from the friend,

1454
01:21:52,040 --> 01:22:00,519
Speaker 2: which is telling. Yeah, but we got some edits edit one.

1455
01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:02,920
Speaker 2: A good friend of mine checked his social media and

1456
01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:07,559
Speaker 2: Sarah's looked like Sarah blocked my husband as well. Pew

1457
01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:13,680
Speaker 2: Is that good? Yes? Maybe edit too. My husband and

1458
01:22:13,760 --> 01:22:17,439
Speaker 2: I agreed to marital counseling. If this fails, I'm divorcing

1459
01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:18,800
Speaker 2: him Pregnantory.

1460
01:22:19,880 --> 01:22:21,800
Speaker 1: That did we missing? Did you skip something?

1461
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:25,720
Speaker 3: No?

1462
01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:30,719
Speaker 1: Oh, that seems maybe like I think.

1463
01:22:30,680 --> 01:22:34,160
Speaker 2: There might be some information that we don't have because

1464
01:22:34,160 --> 01:22:36,280
Speaker 2: there's an update coming up. Yeah, let's get to this

1465
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:39,800
Speaker 2: update because I definitely wouldn't divorce at this point. Yeah, no,

1466
01:22:40,720 --> 01:22:41,880
Speaker 2: based on the information that we know.

1467
01:22:41,960 --> 01:22:43,720
Speaker 1: And yeah, now we know that this feels like a

1468
01:22:43,760 --> 01:22:46,120
Speaker 1: spoiler because now we know that the friend blocked him,

1469
01:22:46,240 --> 01:22:46,920
Speaker 1: So what happened?

1470
01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:51,559
Speaker 2: Sloskin Run says both are completely invalidating op Yeah, I agree.

1471
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:54,360
Speaker 2: Schmid says the main red flag is both the friend

1472
01:22:54,360 --> 01:22:58,439
Speaker 2: and the partner being upset at her for saying anything yeah,

1473
01:22:59,200 --> 01:23:01,479
Speaker 2: Kimberly finds as the only time the friend of the

1474
01:23:01,520 --> 01:23:05,880
Speaker 2: spouse should be messaging their partner is if out of

1475
01:23:05,920 --> 01:23:09,080
Speaker 2: concern and making plans for surprise or with their friend,

1476
01:23:09,200 --> 01:23:10,559
Speaker 2: also included in the thread.

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01:23:11,320 --> 01:23:13,160
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that because I'm friends with one

1478
01:23:13,200 --> 01:23:14,599
Speaker 1: of my friends partners.

1479
01:23:15,240 --> 01:23:18,720
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, like I'm I am my friend. Who

1480
01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:21,280
Speaker 2: are my friends? Yeah, I'm friends with some of my

1481
01:23:21,360 --> 01:23:23,599
Speaker 2: friend's partners, and not to the same degree I'm friends

1482
01:23:23,640 --> 01:23:27,479
Speaker 2: with my main friend. But and like we've we've we've

1483
01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:29,760
Speaker 2: talked outside of it, but not like we don't send

1484
01:23:29,800 --> 01:23:30,880
Speaker 2: each other memes or anything.

1485
01:23:33,640 --> 01:23:33,960
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1486
01:23:34,080 --> 01:23:37,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe maybe I don't have any I have my

1487
01:23:37,160 --> 01:23:37,599
Speaker 2: right friend.

1488
01:23:38,840 --> 01:23:41,040
Speaker 1: I've got close friendship with one of my friend's partners.

1489
01:23:41,479 --> 01:23:43,439
Speaker 2: Yeah did you know them?

1490
01:23:44,120 --> 01:23:44,160
Speaker 3: No?

1491
01:23:44,560 --> 01:23:49,439
Speaker 2: Were you introduced to miss Juliana? Oh really? Yeah? Well

1492
01:23:50,080 --> 01:23:54,000
Speaker 2: update Hello everyone. I'm sorry for the sudden post removal yesterday.

1493
01:23:54,120 --> 01:23:56,080
Speaker 2: My post has violated a rule in the subreddit and

1494
01:23:56,160 --> 01:23:57,960
Speaker 2: for that, I'm sorry, but he was in the middle

1495
01:23:57,960 --> 01:23:59,639
Speaker 2: of reading it. However, I wanted to share an update

1496
01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:04,519
Speaker 2: you all and talk about my husband and how the

1497
01:24:04,640 --> 01:24:07,360
Speaker 2: talk with my husband went, and I took your advice

1498
01:24:07,400 --> 01:24:10,840
Speaker 2: into consideration to have a discussion with him. When he

1499
01:24:10,880 --> 01:24:14,080
Speaker 2: got off work, he called me and we immediately didn't

1500
01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:17,000
Speaker 2: have a good start to the conversation. My husband thinks

1501
01:24:17,040 --> 01:24:20,400
Speaker 2: I'm jealous because he said it's not infidelity for her

1502
01:24:20,560 --> 01:24:23,320
Speaker 2: to send him memes and messages once in a while.

1503
01:24:24,320 --> 01:24:26,360
Speaker 2: He said he never saw Sarah in that light and

1504
01:24:26,439 --> 01:24:28,479
Speaker 2: that he really just liked her as a friend and

1505
01:24:28,600 --> 01:24:30,760
Speaker 2: he's told me that for many months, and he's just

1506
01:24:30,840 --> 01:24:33,679
Speaker 2: sick of me accusing him of infidelity when he works

1507
01:24:33,760 --> 01:24:35,599
Speaker 2: hard for me to be a stay at home mom.

1508
01:24:36,280 --> 01:24:39,320
Speaker 2: He never flirted with Sarah. He also said he's incredibly

1509
01:24:39,360 --> 01:24:41,920
Speaker 2: happy that I'm pregnant and he wants to start a family.

1510
01:24:42,280 --> 01:24:46,519
Speaker 2: So I've been a priority and not Sarah. So I've

1511
01:24:46,560 --> 01:24:49,679
Speaker 2: been a p priority and not Sarah. However, he mentioned

1512
01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:52,360
Speaker 2: that he and his brother I'd grown somewhat distant from

1513
01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:54,840
Speaker 2: Sarah in the past because she was immature and has

1514
01:24:54,920 --> 01:24:58,240
Speaker 2: blocked many people throughout their friendship that I wasn't aware of.

1515
01:24:58,800 --> 01:25:01,920
Speaker 2: She's not good at taking credit and has fought with

1516
01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:04,840
Speaker 2: other players when they went paintballing or at the gym.

1517
01:25:05,240 --> 01:25:07,800
Speaker 2: And this is something Sarah likes to do, is brag

1518
01:25:07,880 --> 01:25:11,920
Speaker 2: about blocking people. I know someone like that that I'm

1519
01:25:11,920 --> 01:25:14,080
Speaker 2: not really I don't really talk to anymore. I think

1520
01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:17,400
Speaker 2: it's whack. I think if you're blocking a hell of people,

1521
01:25:17,479 --> 01:25:19,080
Speaker 2: then whack.

1522
01:25:19,320 --> 01:25:21,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't think i've I've I don't know if

1523
01:25:21,960 --> 01:25:24,880
Speaker 1: i'm I guess I've blocked like random people.

1524
01:25:25,240 --> 01:25:28,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm talking about like friends or past friends.

1525
01:25:28,560 --> 01:25:31,760
Speaker 2: My husband's mentioned other friends brought up issues in the past.

1526
01:25:31,800 --> 01:25:35,960
Speaker 2: Sarah simply blocked them. It's something Sarah simply does what

1527
01:25:36,080 --> 01:25:36,360
Speaker 2: she does.

1528
01:25:36,479 --> 01:25:36,679
Speaker 1: Whack.

1529
01:25:37,920 --> 01:25:41,720
Speaker 2: Anyway, when we got home, we hardly spoke and there

1530
01:25:41,800 --> 01:25:44,760
Speaker 2: was a lot of awkwardness. I signed myself up for

1531
01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:47,720
Speaker 2: therapy because he didn't want marital counseling yet. And at

1532
01:25:47,800 --> 01:25:50,120
Speaker 2: night we finally managed to talk some more and I

1533
01:25:50,200 --> 01:25:53,000
Speaker 2: asked my husband if they block each other. He told

1534
01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:54,920
Speaker 2: me he hasn't checked, but it hasn't received anything from

1535
01:25:54,960 --> 01:25:59,360
Speaker 2: Sarah all day. I told him the blocker. However, he

1536
01:25:59,439 --> 01:26:02,200
Speaker 2: doesn't believe even blocking anyone because he thinks it's immature

1537
01:26:02,240 --> 01:26:04,599
Speaker 2: and childish. I kind of would agree.

1538
01:26:04,920 --> 01:26:06,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, I just like unfollower.

1539
01:26:06,560 --> 01:26:08,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you need a block. I mean,

1540
01:26:08,160 --> 01:26:10,639
Speaker 2: I don't even think you need to unfollow her. Maybe

1541
01:26:10,640 --> 01:26:12,640
Speaker 2: you just don't respond, eh, I don't know.

1542
01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:14,519
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think it blocking is like necessarily

1543
01:26:14,560 --> 01:26:16,439
Speaker 1: I don't. I wouldn't agree. It's like imature and childish.

1544
01:26:16,520 --> 01:26:20,840
Speaker 2: But like I think for the context of this, like

1545
01:26:20,920 --> 01:26:22,520
Speaker 2: I don't think he needs to blow.

1546
01:26:22,320 --> 01:26:24,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there are cases where you should block

1547
01:26:24,600 --> 01:26:25,720
Speaker 1: h Yeah, but this doesn't feel like.

1548
01:26:27,200 --> 01:26:30,519
Speaker 2: He wants Sarah me to salvage the friendship, and he

1549
01:26:30,600 --> 01:26:32,560
Speaker 2: wants to reach out to her so we can have

1550
01:26:32,600 --> 01:26:35,679
Speaker 2: a chance to talk before the fallout. His response about

1551
01:26:35,680 --> 01:26:37,759
Speaker 2: why he's so defensive about the friendship is not because

1552
01:26:37,760 --> 01:26:40,600
Speaker 2: of infidelity, but because he's disappointed that I ended a

1553
01:26:40,640 --> 01:26:42,840
Speaker 2: friendship that I held on to for so long and

1554
01:26:42,920 --> 01:26:46,160
Speaker 2: that Sarah held me in high regard. He thinks sending

1555
01:26:46,280 --> 01:26:49,080
Speaker 2: memes isn't any proof of cheating, and he never flirted

1556
01:26:49,160 --> 01:26:51,960
Speaker 2: with her. He said he would hurt her memes. He

1557
01:26:52,080 --> 01:26:55,000
Speaker 2: apologized for oversharing with her, and he thought she was

1558
01:26:55,120 --> 01:26:57,479
Speaker 2: just offering a shoulder to cry on. He said he's

1559
01:26:57,520 --> 01:27:00,920
Speaker 2: mainly sad about losing the other guy friend that Sarah

1560
01:27:00,960 --> 01:27:03,320
Speaker 2: brought to the table. They were all gamers and went

1561
01:27:03,360 --> 01:27:05,040
Speaker 2: to the gym together, and he's going to miss that

1562
01:27:05,479 --> 01:27:08,479
Speaker 2: if Sarah and I don't reconcile the friendship. My husband

1563
01:27:08,600 --> 01:27:11,000
Speaker 2: is also sad about all the drama this is cause

1564
01:27:11,320 --> 01:27:13,639
Speaker 2: and how Sarah's guy friends are going to bad mouth

1565
01:27:13,720 --> 01:27:16,360
Speaker 2: me because I confronted her. He told me that it's

1566
01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:19,320
Speaker 2: too soon for marital counseling for him. I didn't want

1567
01:27:19,360 --> 01:27:21,400
Speaker 2: to force that upon him right now. I feel like

1568
01:27:21,479 --> 01:27:24,040
Speaker 2: I'm in limbo and don't have the strength just get

1569
01:27:24,160 --> 01:27:27,040
Speaker 2: up and leave him, if that's the answer you're looking for.

1570
01:27:27,840 --> 01:27:30,960
Speaker 2: I don't feel like we're at leaving him territory.

1571
01:27:31,360 --> 01:27:33,840
Speaker 1: It does feel somewhat, but the thing is like he's

1572
01:27:33,880 --> 01:27:36,880
Speaker 1: not willing to go through marital counseling, which I think

1573
01:27:36,920 --> 01:27:37,519
Speaker 1: they need.

1574
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:41,000
Speaker 2: Which I mean if one person wants marital counseling, then

1575
01:27:41,080 --> 01:27:42,720
Speaker 2: you yeah.

1576
01:27:42,800 --> 01:27:45,160
Speaker 1: It's like I don't agree. He's like, oh, well, we're

1577
01:27:45,200 --> 01:27:48,080
Speaker 1: not ready for that. One person says, hey, we need

1578
01:27:48,160 --> 01:27:49,280
Speaker 1: marital counseling. You should go.

1579
01:27:49,520 --> 01:27:52,479
Speaker 2: Do you think he's doing anything wrong by talking to Sarah?

1580
01:27:53,400 --> 01:27:56,880
Speaker 2: I think the hurting her memes that he sends.

1581
01:27:56,840 --> 01:27:58,479
Speaker 1: I don't know. It seems like they just have too

1582
01:27:58,520 --> 01:28:02,800
Speaker 1: close a relationship. Uh, and oh, he's not comfortable with it.

1583
01:28:02,960 --> 01:28:05,920
Speaker 2: Like because they're also hanging out like in a group too,

1584
01:28:06,479 --> 01:28:09,080
Speaker 2: like they're going to the gym together and they're gaming together. Yeah,

1585
01:28:10,400 --> 01:28:13,400
Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I don't see anything necessarily like

1586
01:28:14,160 --> 01:28:15,320
Speaker 2: super super wrong here.

1587
01:28:15,640 --> 01:28:18,320
Speaker 1: I just think that he is belittling her.

1588
01:28:19,280 --> 01:28:20,720
Speaker 2: He's being very manipulative.

1589
01:28:20,800 --> 01:28:23,960
Speaker 1: Really I would. I mean, I think that he is

1590
01:28:24,040 --> 01:28:29,439
Speaker 1: not necessarily doing anything wrong actionably, but his words are

1591
01:28:29,640 --> 01:28:32,000
Speaker 1: the issue. Like oh, he's like, hey, I'm I don't

1592
01:28:32,040 --> 01:28:33,519
Speaker 1: love this, and he's like, oh, it's not a big deal.

1593
01:28:33,800 --> 01:28:35,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, I like marital counseling. He's like, no,

1594
01:28:35,439 --> 01:28:36,160
Speaker 1: we don't even agreed.

1595
01:28:36,240 --> 01:28:38,400
Speaker 2: I think what he's what he's doing, he's being too

1596
01:28:38,479 --> 01:28:42,040
Speaker 2: dismissive of Opie's concerns, but like that's where he's going wrong.

1597
01:28:42,120 --> 01:28:44,960
Speaker 2: But in terms of like the things that OPI is

1598
01:28:45,080 --> 01:28:49,320
Speaker 2: upset about, it doesn't feel like we have significant enough

1599
01:28:49,520 --> 01:28:53,600
Speaker 2: proof too, like go straight to divorce.

1600
01:28:53,280 --> 01:28:55,439
Speaker 1: Which he feels like, I don't know if it's divorce ready.

1601
01:28:55,520 --> 01:28:59,639
Speaker 2: I don't think it's divorce ready. I will say, I'm

1602
01:28:59,640 --> 01:29:01,519
Speaker 2: going to look at his phone myself when I have

1603
01:29:01,600 --> 01:29:05,760
Speaker 2: the energy, probably today and confirm if anything is going on. Oh,

1604
01:29:05,840 --> 01:29:08,280
Speaker 2: we have we do have update from op coming up

1605
01:29:09,320 --> 01:29:12,040
Speaker 2: and confirm if anything is going on. It's easier said

1606
01:29:12,080 --> 01:29:14,080
Speaker 2: than done. A part of me believes him and that

1607
01:29:14,160 --> 01:29:16,000
Speaker 2: he doesn't like her, but their friendship still makes me

1608
01:29:16,040 --> 01:29:18,200
Speaker 2: feel weird. I didn't check his phone because I was

1609
01:29:18,240 --> 01:29:21,519
Speaker 2: going through a huge energy drain it and it wasn't

1610
01:29:21,560 --> 01:29:24,320
Speaker 2: good for the baby. I prioritize my well being and

1611
01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 2: kept things low key. It was terrifying for me, and

1612
01:29:28,000 --> 01:29:30,640
Speaker 2: I guess I'm not strong enough for that yet. I

1613
01:29:30,760 --> 01:29:34,160
Speaker 2: probably will today now that my husband and I talked

1614
01:29:34,240 --> 01:29:42,000
Speaker 2: more and there are some relevant comments oOoOO. But as

1615
01:29:42,000 --> 01:29:44,360
Speaker 2: Slaska run says, I feel like hearting something is different

1616
01:29:44,400 --> 01:29:48,639
Speaker 2: between genders. Double TAP's just just to like let people

1617
01:29:48,720 --> 01:29:49,439
Speaker 2: know that you've seen it.

1618
01:29:49,560 --> 01:29:51,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, I feel like I've everyone hurts things.

1619
01:29:52,080 --> 01:29:53,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like everyone hurts things.

1620
01:29:53,880 --> 01:29:57,320
Speaker 1: Harding is like I think it's like the least the

1621
01:29:57,400 --> 01:29:58,759
Speaker 1: least action.

1622
01:29:59,439 --> 01:30:01,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you're not even responding, You're.

1623
01:30:01,439 --> 01:30:03,960
Speaker 1: Just hurting, Like, yeah, like I've seen it.

1624
01:30:04,240 --> 01:30:06,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like somebody even say it's a slight to just

1625
01:30:07,000 --> 01:30:07,559
Speaker 2: hurt something.

1626
01:30:07,800 --> 01:30:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, well it's like you you're it's a step above

1627
01:30:10,479 --> 01:30:13,760
Speaker 1: just seeing looking at it, but it's not actually taking

1628
01:30:13,800 --> 01:30:14,639
Speaker 1: the time to respond.

1629
01:30:14,760 --> 01:30:18,760
Speaker 2: No, I feel like it's like the minimum he can

1630
01:30:18,840 --> 01:30:21,120
Speaker 2: do to not make her feel like she's just sending

1631
01:30:21,200 --> 01:30:22,160
Speaker 2: memes into an abyss.

1632
01:30:22,320 --> 01:30:25,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, and prince have never.

1633
01:30:25,800 --> 01:30:28,759
Speaker 2: Moore says, if someone is affecting a relationship, they deserve

1634
01:30:28,840 --> 01:30:32,240
Speaker 2: to be blocked. Your partner is your concern, not your buddies.

1635
01:30:32,360 --> 01:30:35,880
Speaker 2: Find your own friends. You're old enough to do that. Oh,

1636
01:30:36,000 --> 01:30:37,920
Speaker 2: PE's huppy, he's.

1637
01:30:37,760 --> 01:30:38,599
Speaker 1: Your own friends.

1638
01:30:39,280 --> 01:30:43,960
Speaker 2: I mean, yes, but also thank you for the ten bucks.

1639
01:30:44,160 --> 01:30:46,920
Speaker 2: But some people are like more introverted and need help

1640
01:30:47,040 --> 01:30:49,120
Speaker 2: finding friends, you know, Like it's I am.

1641
01:30:49,120 --> 01:30:53,120
Speaker 1: Not anti like friends being. I want everyone to be

1642
01:30:53,200 --> 01:30:54,120
Speaker 1: friends with my partner.

1643
01:30:55,160 --> 01:30:56,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I want.

1644
01:30:56,439 --> 01:30:56,920
Speaker 1: I feel like that.

1645
01:30:57,080 --> 01:30:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, what are you going to invite them over? Oh?

1646
01:31:00,040 --> 01:31:04,160
Speaker 2: I all hang out. He's busy and play board games.

1647
01:31:04,400 --> 01:31:05,960
Speaker 1: I yeah, I want to do that.

1648
01:31:07,560 --> 01:31:09,840
Speaker 2: Come on, you said we want you want to be friends.

1649
01:31:10,040 --> 01:31:16,360
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I'm not seeing the Okay, all right, we'll

1650
01:31:16,439 --> 01:31:16,680
Speaker 1: do it.

1651
01:31:16,800 --> 01:31:19,639
Speaker 2: We'll do it, all right, let's get into the relevant comments.

1652
01:31:19,680 --> 01:31:22,160
Speaker 2: So oh, he explains the history. Hi there, thank you.

1653
01:31:22,280 --> 01:31:24,280
Speaker 2: Sarah was my friend first, and we've been friends for

1654
01:31:24,360 --> 01:31:26,639
Speaker 2: many years, even when I was married to my husband.

1655
01:31:26,720 --> 01:31:29,040
Speaker 2: She's been my friend. Didn't have an interest with my

1656
01:31:29,160 --> 01:31:30,920
Speaker 2: husband until they started to get to know each other

1657
01:31:31,040 --> 01:31:34,400
Speaker 2: better over video games, tabletop games, jim paintballing. It seems

1658
01:31:34,439 --> 01:31:36,439
Speaker 2: like they have a lot of shared interest I don't

1659
01:31:36,479 --> 01:31:38,280
Speaker 2: have some of the same interests as my husband, and

1660
01:31:38,320 --> 01:31:41,120
Speaker 2: they started talking more about games and hobbies. We started

1661
01:31:41,160 --> 01:31:43,120
Speaker 2: hanging out more, but sometimes I didn't want to be

1662
01:31:43,200 --> 01:31:45,000
Speaker 2: involved in their hobbies. And they went to the gym

1663
01:31:45,080 --> 01:31:46,960
Speaker 2: with a group of people, and I was okay with

1664
01:31:47,080 --> 01:31:49,200
Speaker 2: it for a while, but then she started to come

1665
01:31:49,280 --> 01:31:52,639
Speaker 2: around more and message my husband separately and her friendship,

1666
01:31:53,360 --> 01:31:56,920
Speaker 2: oh and her friendship, and I became stale. We hardly

1667
01:31:57,000 --> 01:31:59,400
Speaker 2: talked anymore. And I agree with you. She doesn't have

1668
01:31:59,479 --> 01:32:02,840
Speaker 2: boundaries for all our friendship. She can't keep a relationship

1669
01:32:02,960 --> 01:32:06,280
Speaker 2: and she ends up locking every single one. The majority

1670
01:32:06,320 --> 01:32:08,559
Speaker 2: of her friends, not mine, are single guys that are

1671
01:32:08,560 --> 01:32:11,719
Speaker 2: attracted to her. This never bothered me, but she started

1672
01:32:11,720 --> 01:32:13,840
Speaker 2: to add my husband in that group of single guy

1673
01:32:13,920 --> 01:32:16,320
Speaker 2: friends that and that didn't sit right with me because

1674
01:32:16,320 --> 01:32:18,920
Speaker 2: my husband and I are married and she's loving more

1675
01:32:19,000 --> 01:32:20,600
Speaker 2: of the bachelor lifestyle.

1676
01:32:21,400 --> 01:32:23,960
Speaker 1: I don't know what I mean if she I guess

1677
01:32:24,000 --> 01:32:25,840
Speaker 1: it just depends on like is she flirting with these

1678
01:32:25,920 --> 01:32:29,120
Speaker 1: guys or is it truly just guy friends? It doesn't.

1679
01:32:30,040 --> 01:32:33,960
Speaker 2: It feels like I don't know. I feel like I'm

1680
01:32:35,200 --> 01:32:39,960
Speaker 2: I'm getting that he's not being understanding for sure, but

1681
01:32:40,120 --> 01:32:41,800
Speaker 2: I feel like he's not doing a ton.

1682
01:32:42,080 --> 01:32:43,920
Speaker 1: It feels like there might be a little bit of

1683
01:32:44,040 --> 01:32:46,040
Speaker 1: insecurity on a p side.

1684
01:32:46,280 --> 01:32:46,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's which she.

1685
01:32:46,920 --> 01:32:49,559
Speaker 1: Doesn't say that like the husband is all the way

1686
01:32:49,560 --> 01:32:49,960
Speaker 1: in the right.

1687
01:32:50,320 --> 01:32:52,599
Speaker 2: No, No, because I think how he's how he's addressing

1688
01:32:52,640 --> 01:32:55,160
Speaker 2: her insecurity is wrong. But I do feel like a

1689
01:32:55,200 --> 01:32:56,800
Speaker 2: lot of this is inecurity.

1690
01:32:56,600 --> 01:33:01,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I don't know, Like I feel like if

1691
01:33:02,040 --> 01:33:03,360
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm trying to think of it, like

1692
01:33:03,439 --> 01:33:05,320
Speaker 1: if if my partner was like, you can't hang out

1693
01:33:05,360 --> 01:33:09,280
Speaker 1: with other guys and be like see you. I live

1694
01:33:09,320 --> 01:33:12,439
Speaker 1: in a house with old men. I can't annoy them.

1695
01:33:13,960 --> 01:33:18,280
Speaker 2: Opie explains, Uh, what more explains more about the text. Honestly,

1696
01:33:18,439 --> 01:33:21,719
Speaker 2: it's not just memes. I wish it was just memes.

1697
01:33:22,080 --> 01:33:25,400
Speaker 2: She messages him about her problems and daily routines, makes

1698
01:33:25,520 --> 01:33:27,479
Speaker 2: plans with him, and doesn't speak to me at all.

1699
01:33:27,840 --> 01:33:30,240
Speaker 2: On top of that, she spams him with memes all

1700
01:33:30,400 --> 01:33:33,400
Speaker 2: hours of the day, including at night and in the

1701
01:33:33,560 --> 01:33:36,519
Speaker 2: crack of dawn. Effing, annoying, and I'm tired of seeing

1702
01:33:36,560 --> 01:33:40,720
Speaker 2: her stupid Instagram user name on his notifications. F her,

1703
01:33:40,760 --> 01:33:43,360
Speaker 2: I'm glad he's out of my life. There's more, but

1704
01:33:44,080 --> 01:33:47,080
Speaker 2: there's also more on our lives every weekday at three

1705
01:33:47,120 --> 01:33:49,880
Speaker 2: pm ust here on YouTube just have her profile and

1706
01:33:50,000 --> 01:33:53,120
Speaker 2: then OPI said when her friend is a man hoarder.

1707
01:33:53,520 --> 01:33:56,600
Speaker 2: I really believe that this is the closest best explanation

1708
01:33:56,840 --> 01:33:59,160
Speaker 2: and observation of my friend Sarah. He has a whole

1709
01:33:59,200 --> 01:34:02,559
Speaker 2: circle of single guy friends, and she swears they are platonic,

1710
01:34:02,640 --> 01:34:05,240
Speaker 2: but treats them like they're her shoulders to cry on.

1711
01:34:05,400 --> 01:34:06,879
Speaker 1: Oh if they're her friends.

1712
01:34:07,479 --> 01:34:09,320
Speaker 2: I never cared about it, but once she started to

1713
01:34:09,360 --> 01:34:11,640
Speaker 2: get close to my husband, I couldn't handle it and

1714
01:34:11,760 --> 01:34:13,800
Speaker 2: I started to question it for months. She blew up

1715
01:34:14,040 --> 01:34:16,200
Speaker 2: when I carefully communicated with her that I don't like

1716
01:34:16,280 --> 01:34:19,320
Speaker 2: her having access to my husband, get a meltdown, and

1717
01:34:19,439 --> 01:34:23,360
Speaker 2: it made me second guess how sincere our friendship truly was.

1718
01:34:24,560 --> 01:34:28,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think there's maybe like slots can

1719
01:34:28,120 --> 01:34:30,240
Speaker 1: run says they're both in the wrong in some ways,

1720
01:34:32,520 --> 01:34:35,880
Speaker 1: which is true. I think it really depends because I

1721
01:34:36,000 --> 01:34:38,560
Speaker 1: can understand where Opie is coming from. There could be

1722
01:34:38,600 --> 01:34:42,880
Speaker 1: a world where this you know, other friend is prioritizing

1723
01:34:43,080 --> 01:34:48,600
Speaker 1: her male friendships over ope and kind of sidelining her.

1724
01:34:50,240 --> 01:34:51,800
Speaker 1: But there's also a rule where she like, these are

1725
01:34:51,920 --> 01:34:52,960
Speaker 1: just her close friends.

1726
01:34:53,320 --> 01:34:56,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean should be men. And also her and

1727
01:34:56,160 --> 01:34:58,519
Speaker 2: her husband, like they share a lot of hobbies, you know,

1728
01:34:58,680 --> 01:35:01,160
Speaker 2: so it's like and it sounds like they're hanging out

1729
01:35:01,200 --> 01:35:03,479
Speaker 2: in groups, and yes they're talking, but they're talking like

1730
01:35:04,400 --> 01:35:08,120
Speaker 2: between memes and just like scheduling hanging out.

1731
01:35:10,320 --> 01:35:13,120
Speaker 1: I think it could be a problem. I just don't.

1732
01:35:13,160 --> 01:35:15,240
Speaker 1: I don't think we have enough information.

1733
01:35:15,320 --> 01:35:18,360
Speaker 2: I don't think it's I don't think it's a problem yet.

1734
01:35:21,240 --> 01:35:26,200
Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know. I'm I'm not Yeah, yeah,

1735
01:35:26,320 --> 01:35:30,479
Speaker 2: no conflict. I'm a little like because I could see this,

1736
01:35:31,000 --> 01:35:35,840
Speaker 2: you know, uh, escalating into an emotional affair, but I

1737
01:35:36,280 --> 01:35:40,320
Speaker 2: feel like it's not there yet. And yes, you need

1738
01:35:40,520 --> 01:35:44,640
Speaker 2: like you need boundaries around your relationship and all that,

1739
01:35:44,840 --> 01:35:49,160
Speaker 2: but it just doesn't feel like Opie's husband is doing

1740
01:35:50,120 --> 01:35:55,640
Speaker 2: anything wrong right now besides not really coming to the

1741
01:35:55,720 --> 01:35:57,599
Speaker 2: table when she's insecure about stuff.

1742
01:35:57,760 --> 01:35:59,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think, well, I don't know if

1743
01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:02,720
Speaker 1: I have enough information too to really.

1744
01:36:03,600 --> 01:36:07,479
Speaker 2: But but I would love to know what you guys think.

1745
01:36:07,760 --> 01:36:10,200
Speaker 2: Let us know, Maybe we do a little poll. Do

1746
01:36:10,360 --> 01:36:16,120
Speaker 2: you think, uh, Opie is right to be mad that

1747
01:36:17,840 --> 01:36:21,240
Speaker 2: her husband is hanging out with his friend? So is

1748
01:36:21,320 --> 01:36:22,519
Speaker 2: opd a hope for being mad?

1749
01:36:30,560 --> 01:36:30,600
Speaker 3: Like?

1750
01:36:37,680 --> 01:36:41,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, cly the Toath says it's already a problem because

1751
01:36:41,960 --> 01:36:44,120
Speaker 1: she has no other female friends and she just blocked

1752
01:36:44,160 --> 01:36:47,040
Speaker 1: op after a small conversation. This girl is a walking issue.

1753
01:36:47,320 --> 01:36:50,920
Speaker 1: That is a good point. She did block her, so

1754
01:36:51,800 --> 01:36:52,439
Speaker 1: that that's a.

1755
01:36:52,439 --> 01:36:54,200
Speaker 2: Way that's whack. Yeah, but I don't think it, like,

1756
01:36:54,479 --> 01:36:56,680
Speaker 2: like the the idea of like blocking is weird, but

1757
01:36:56,760 --> 01:36:58,840
Speaker 2: I don't think there's anything else that was. But that's

1758
01:36:58,880 --> 01:37:01,920
Speaker 2: not just that sounds like something that she does regardless,

1759
01:37:02,200 --> 01:37:05,920
Speaker 2: not like just yeah, like she blocks dessantly, So it's

1760
01:37:05,920 --> 01:37:06,840
Speaker 2: a character trait.

1761
01:37:07,080 --> 01:37:09,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, just a blocker.

1762
01:37:18,360 --> 01:37:33,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's where that ends.

1763
01:37:34,000 --> 01:37:34,120
Speaker 1: Uh.

1764
01:37:34,479 --> 01:37:39,960
Speaker 2: Jimmy Lee says he's done this before. Maybe Kimberly find

1765
01:37:39,960 --> 01:37:44,280
Speaker 2: says he's humoring Sarah's inappropriate behavior and alarming reactivity, which

1766
01:37:44,320 --> 01:37:49,280
Speaker 2: results in pressuring op into accepting subpar treatment into relationships.

1767
01:37:51,720 --> 01:37:54,679
Speaker 2: I mean is but like they're but they're all friends,

1768
01:37:54,960 --> 01:37:58,720
Speaker 2: you know, Like I think you're gonna have uh uh,

1769
01:37:59,280 --> 01:38:04,759
Speaker 2: like non same sex relationships friendships and it be okay,

1770
01:38:04,840 --> 01:38:07,000
Speaker 2: and like you can talk to them about hobbies and stuff.

1771
01:38:07,760 --> 01:38:08,600
Speaker 2: You know, what do you think for you?

1772
01:38:08,960 --> 01:38:12,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think yes to that. But she

1773
01:38:12,160 --> 01:38:15,519
Speaker 1: was also saying that she was kind of oversharing about

1774
01:38:15,560 --> 01:38:18,160
Speaker 1: problems in her life and stuff, which I think is

1775
01:38:18,479 --> 01:38:20,120
Speaker 1: the thing that you do with your friends. It really

1776
01:38:20,200 --> 01:38:29,840
Speaker 1: just depends on how close of friends they are. Yeah, damn,

1777
01:38:36,360 --> 01:38:39,160
Speaker 1: certifiably gensis. I've always had more guy friends, but I've

1778
01:38:39,240 --> 01:38:42,040
Speaker 1: also always been respectful to their partners. I wouldn't have

1779
01:38:42,080 --> 01:38:46,080
Speaker 1: dismissed those concerns. I would have apologized and corrected it asap. Yeah,

1780
01:38:46,160 --> 01:38:48,000
Speaker 1: and it seems like Opie did bring it up in

1781
01:38:48,040 --> 01:38:50,120
Speaker 1: a respectful way and she was just blocked for it. Also,

1782
01:38:50,160 --> 01:38:51,760
Speaker 1: thank you for the ten months. Appreciate it.

1783
01:38:51,920 --> 01:38:54,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think that the response to all of this

1784
01:38:54,439 --> 01:38:59,120
Speaker 2: is is shady. But yeah, but let us know what

1785
01:38:59,200 --> 01:39:02,639
Speaker 2: you think in the comments below that I think we're

1786
01:39:02,640 --> 01:39:05,160
Speaker 2: going to get in two our next story.

1787
01:39:05,240 --> 01:39:08,600
Speaker 1: Paul is saying eighty eight percent, OPI is not the

1788
01:39:08,800 --> 01:39:11,519
Speaker 1: ahole this walk said. Sam did not hear a damn thing.

1789
01:39:11,640 --> 01:39:14,479
Speaker 2: So yeah, sorry, I was. I was changing that. I

1790
01:39:14,600 --> 01:39:18,479
Speaker 2: was getting the next story. Ready, you're right Sydney without kidneys,

1791
01:39:18,680 --> 01:39:22,639
Speaker 2: which also I did not realize for a while.

1792
01:39:23,040 --> 01:39:24,880
Speaker 1: I just realized that right now.

1793
01:39:25,120 --> 01:39:27,360
Speaker 2: Also, we're going to do a little musical chairs. Sophia

1794
01:39:27,439 --> 01:39:29,479
Speaker 2: is going to read this next one, and I am

1795
01:39:29,560 --> 01:39:36,600
Speaker 2: going to get a snack from downstairs. They call it

1796
01:39:37,760 --> 01:39:38,479
Speaker 2: call what get in.

1797
01:39:38,479 --> 01:39:39,720
Speaker 3: The lunch line? Who's in the lunch on?

1798
01:39:39,840 --> 01:39:40,000
Speaker 2: Next?

1799
01:39:40,040 --> 01:39:42,320
Speaker 3: I think it was Sam on the line? Sam's in

1800
01:39:42,360 --> 01:39:47,120
Speaker 3: the lunch line? Is me? Sam? Now you're next the order?

1801
01:39:47,439 --> 01:39:48,920
Speaker 3: Because did you call it? Did you call dim?

1802
01:39:49,439 --> 01:39:49,640
Speaker 1: Call it?

1803
01:39:50,240 --> 01:39:50,720
Speaker 2: You just did?

1804
01:39:51,520 --> 01:39:52,320
Speaker 1: I said it first?

1805
01:39:52,760 --> 01:39:55,720
Speaker 3: You said it first? Did she say first? Sam? I

1806
01:39:55,760 --> 01:40:00,160
Speaker 3: didn't hear it either. Unbelievable it.

1807
01:40:01,720 --> 01:40:06,639
Speaker 1: My, there's a typo, my, I think. Hold, I don't

1808
01:40:06,680 --> 01:40:08,639
Speaker 1: think that's.

1809
01:40:10,560 --> 01:40:11,120
Speaker 3: Doing it. What's up?

1810
01:40:11,160 --> 01:40:11,400
Speaker 2: Guys?

1811
01:40:11,800 --> 01:40:12,120
Speaker 1: All right?

1812
01:40:12,320 --> 01:40:13,720
Speaker 3: Walk? Wait? Do you know who swak is?

1813
01:40:13,960 --> 01:40:15,479
Speaker 1: Sydney without Kidney's we just learned?

1814
01:40:16,120 --> 01:40:17,439
Speaker 3: Oh you did? Yeah, I knew.

1815
01:40:18,439 --> 01:40:24,000
Speaker 1: That's so cool of you. Thanks jealous? Okay, I think

1816
01:40:24,120 --> 01:40:27,759
Speaker 1: my wife is having an affair with her friend. Should

1817
01:40:27,800 --> 01:40:30,920
Speaker 1: I let it happen? Wife and I had a serious

1818
01:40:31,000 --> 01:40:34,000
Speaker 1: disagreement and we're on Reddit asking strangers if we're right,

1819
01:40:34,120 --> 01:40:36,000
Speaker 1: because it's not like we can get an honest opinion

1820
01:40:36,080 --> 01:40:36,920
Speaker 1: from friends and family.

1821
01:40:37,040 --> 01:40:40,760
Speaker 3: Wait we we No, Okay, I'm looking for it.

1822
01:40:41,120 --> 01:40:42,320
Speaker 1: We don't worry. It's already there.

1823
01:40:42,560 --> 01:40:44,600
Speaker 3: No think, dude, let's go.

1824
01:40:44,880 --> 01:40:45,840
Speaker 1: I believe it's already there.

1825
01:40:46,000 --> 01:40:47,160
Speaker 3: Okay, all right.

1826
01:40:47,640 --> 01:40:49,960
Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from deleted on the r

1827
01:40:50,000 --> 01:40:53,439
Speaker 1: slash ookay story times that read it. So my wife

1828
01:40:53,560 --> 01:40:56,719
Speaker 1: cannot be left be alone with their thoughts for a second.

1829
01:40:57,080 --> 01:40:59,559
Speaker 1: She's always got to be doing something, keeping her hands busy,

1830
01:40:59,640 --> 01:41:02,400
Speaker 1: her mind. I'm busy. He never sits down for a minute.

1831
01:41:02,479 --> 01:41:04,679
Speaker 1: She's like a hummingbird who can never for a second

1832
01:41:04,760 --> 01:41:09,320
Speaker 1: be alone or relax. I describe myself as an introvert

1833
01:41:09,400 --> 01:41:13,880
Speaker 1: in an extroverted world and have a very extraverted wife.

1834
01:41:14,360 --> 01:41:16,800
Speaker 1: She does not understand my need for time alone. I

1835
01:41:16,920 --> 01:41:18,960
Speaker 1: work for ten to twelve hours a day talking to

1836
01:41:19,080 --> 01:41:22,200
Speaker 1: people and listening to them and directing them. I just

1837
01:41:22,360 --> 01:41:25,439
Speaker 1: want some alone time to unwind after work. She does

1838
01:41:25,640 --> 01:41:28,800
Speaker 1: not understand that she decided to replace me with her

1839
01:41:28,960 --> 01:41:32,479
Speaker 1: friend because I wanted time to unwind. They spend almost

1840
01:41:32,560 --> 01:41:35,519
Speaker 1: every single day together. She's often not home because she's

1841
01:41:35,560 --> 01:41:39,000
Speaker 1: doing something with her friend, and he is obviously a

1842
01:41:39,040 --> 01:41:42,240
Speaker 1: great looking guy whose body would fit in Paris right now,

1843
01:41:42,720 --> 01:41:47,439
Speaker 1: oh in the Olympics. Ah whatever, as if that helps

1844
01:41:47,479 --> 01:41:50,160
Speaker 1: my worries with my marriage. My wife and I got

1845
01:41:50,200 --> 01:41:52,400
Speaker 1: into an argument because I asked her to cut down

1846
01:41:52,479 --> 01:41:55,880
Speaker 1: on the times she's seeing this friend. She then retaliated

1847
01:41:55,920 --> 01:41:58,360
Speaker 1: that she's seeing other friends and that she'll see other

1848
01:41:58,400 --> 01:42:03,280
Speaker 1: friends instead. I told her she's having an emotional affair. Whoa,

1849
01:42:03,680 --> 01:42:06,759
Speaker 1: and she refused to accept it. It's all my fault

1850
01:42:07,080 --> 01:42:10,680
Speaker 1: that she's spending time with this friend. Am I the

1851
01:42:10,760 --> 01:42:13,040
Speaker 1: A hole? I just want her to take a step

1852
01:42:13,120 --> 01:42:18,479
Speaker 1: back and realize this isn't healthy for our merit. M OP,

1853
01:42:18,640 --> 01:42:20,000
Speaker 1: I think you are a little bit the a hole

1854
01:42:20,080 --> 01:42:23,000
Speaker 1: because that is so far a leap from just saying hey,

1855
01:42:23,040 --> 01:42:27,799
Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable with you spending all this time instead

1856
01:42:27,840 --> 01:42:32,120
Speaker 1: accusing her of having an emotional affair. I don't know.

1857
01:42:32,720 --> 01:42:36,759
Speaker 1: It seems like they both have different needs and opis

1858
01:42:36,760 --> 01:42:39,559
Speaker 1: saying she doesn't understand why I need time alone except

1859
01:42:39,600 --> 01:42:43,200
Speaker 1: she's giving you that time alone, but she in turn

1860
01:42:43,360 --> 01:42:45,599
Speaker 1: has needs where she needs to spend time with people.

1861
01:42:46,479 --> 01:42:49,840
Speaker 1: And then she said, oh, you're uncomfortable with me spending

1862
01:42:49,840 --> 01:42:51,879
Speaker 1: all my time with this person. Then I'll see other friends.

1863
01:42:51,680 --> 01:42:53,719
Speaker 3: Too, which they're just yappin'.

1864
01:42:54,240 --> 01:42:56,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're just freaking Yeah, But I don't know. I

1865
01:42:56,840 --> 01:42:58,320
Speaker 1: think that OPI is kind of the a hole here.

1866
01:43:00,040 --> 01:43:01,840
Speaker 1: She'll read of this, there is more to this story.

1867
01:43:02,360 --> 01:43:03,479
Speaker 1: But what do you think, really?

1868
01:43:04,320 --> 01:43:10,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, any more evidence of why you're not comfortable with this?

1869
01:43:10,760 --> 01:43:12,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like literally all we know is that they're

1870
01:43:13,280 --> 01:43:13,760
Speaker 1: hanging out.

1871
01:43:14,160 --> 01:43:15,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. We know that he's a good

1872
01:43:15,920 --> 01:43:18,160
Speaker 3: looking guy and they're hanging out, and I could see

1873
01:43:18,160 --> 01:43:22,040
Speaker 3: where the angle where you may think that they're emotionally cheating,

1874
01:43:22,120 --> 01:43:24,080
Speaker 3: but it we have no proof.

1875
01:43:24,280 --> 01:43:27,320
Speaker 1: We don't have to just accusing her because she's spending

1876
01:43:27,400 --> 01:43:27,840
Speaker 1: time with him.

1877
01:43:28,080 --> 01:43:31,759
Speaker 3: What line would it have to be to become emotionally cheating?

1878
01:43:32,560 --> 01:43:34,120
Speaker 3: Like what what conversations?

1879
01:43:35,200 --> 01:43:37,280
Speaker 1: I mean, you would have to be flirting in conversation

1880
01:43:38,080 --> 01:43:41,719
Speaker 1: like trauma, you know, maybe talking about your your worries

1881
01:43:41,800 --> 01:43:45,400
Speaker 1: and you're deep inner secrets. I think there is a

1882
01:43:45,439 --> 01:43:51,080
Speaker 1: type of conversation that entails cheating or emotional cheating. Sophia

1883
01:43:51,160 --> 01:43:54,320
Speaker 1: Colonne says everyone is the a hole, which I mean,

1884
01:43:54,360 --> 01:43:57,000
Speaker 1: I can see that depending on how she is acting

1885
01:43:57,080 --> 01:43:57,639
Speaker 1: with this friend.

1886
01:43:58,040 --> 01:44:00,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want pictures of everyone.

1887
01:44:00,800 --> 01:44:01,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to.

1888
01:44:01,840 --> 01:44:05,840
Speaker 3: I want to you look like op looks like they everyone.

1889
01:44:05,680 --> 01:44:08,240
Speaker 1: Everyone totally spizier. One says, what about talking to the

1890
01:44:08,320 --> 01:44:10,439
Speaker 1: friend and maybe hanging out with them to see what

1891
01:44:10,479 --> 01:44:11,960
Speaker 1: they're like? Yeah, you can see kind.

1892
01:44:11,880 --> 01:44:15,000
Speaker 3: Of, Yeah, because Sophia is my like good girlfriend, and

1893
01:44:15,360 --> 01:44:17,640
Speaker 3: I bring my girlfriend around, so then like they kind

1894
01:44:17,640 --> 01:44:20,880
Speaker 3: of get an idea of like how that works. Yeah,

1895
01:44:21,439 --> 01:44:22,759
Speaker 3: I think that is very important.

1896
01:44:23,040 --> 01:44:25,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, slide The toaves is why is a new friend

1897
01:44:25,080 --> 01:44:29,160
Speaker 1: more important than your spouse? Which I get, but I

1898
01:44:29,280 --> 01:44:32,320
Speaker 1: think in this situation it is a little bit more

1899
01:44:32,439 --> 01:44:37,519
Speaker 1: nuanced because Opie said I want time alone because I

1900
01:44:37,560 --> 01:44:40,560
Speaker 1: think a lot of times people are like only no,

1901
01:44:41,280 --> 01:44:43,000
Speaker 1: maybe not this is not true. But I think that

1902
01:44:44,640 --> 01:44:48,240
Speaker 1: we can understand why someone would want time alone, and

1903
01:44:48,360 --> 01:44:50,360
Speaker 1: I think on the same end, we should also understand

1904
01:44:50,400 --> 01:44:54,280
Speaker 1: that some people need time with others. Like I would

1905
01:44:54,320 --> 01:44:56,240
Speaker 1: say that when I am alone for more than a day,

1906
01:44:56,280 --> 01:44:58,400
Speaker 1: I kind of like get really stressed out, like I

1907
01:44:58,520 --> 01:45:00,360
Speaker 1: need to talk, I need my alone time. I also

1908
01:45:00,479 --> 01:45:02,120
Speaker 1: need to talk to people.

1909
01:45:02,360 --> 01:45:05,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it feels like you went to an extreme. Yes,

1910
01:45:06,280 --> 01:45:08,519
Speaker 3: and now it's Okay, you went to an extreme. You

1911
01:45:08,560 --> 01:45:10,639
Speaker 3: now know what you need and you can swing back.

1912
01:45:10,800 --> 01:45:13,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I don't even think he's wrong for asking

1913
01:45:13,439 --> 01:45:15,840
Speaker 1: for that, But I just don't think he's in the

1914
01:45:15,960 --> 01:45:20,320
Speaker 1: right necessarily for ask for not expecting her to also

1915
01:45:20,360 --> 01:45:21,080
Speaker 1: be alone and that.

1916
01:45:21,280 --> 01:45:24,840
Speaker 3: He asked for a lot of more loone time, and

1917
01:45:25,640 --> 01:45:27,600
Speaker 3: he probably asked for too much alone time, is what

1918
01:45:27,640 --> 01:45:30,280
Speaker 3: I'm thinking. And now he's jealous of the attention because

1919
01:45:30,520 --> 01:45:32,920
Speaker 3: the wife always gave him attention and now she's giving

1920
01:45:32,920 --> 01:45:33,639
Speaker 3: it to the new friend.

1921
01:45:33,800 --> 01:45:37,200
Speaker 1: Yeah. Cases, I think a calm conversation addressing concerns is

1922
01:45:37,240 --> 01:45:40,080
Speaker 1: always important before accusatory statements torture partner. That's what I

1923
01:45:40,160 --> 01:45:41,840
Speaker 1: was saying. If he had come to her and said, hey,

1924
01:45:41,880 --> 01:45:43,920
Speaker 1: I'm not like super comfortable with you spending all this

1925
01:45:44,040 --> 01:45:47,120
Speaker 1: time with this one guy, that would have been a

1926
01:45:47,160 --> 01:45:49,280
Speaker 1: different story. But he went straight to your having an

1927
01:45:49,280 --> 01:45:54,920
Speaker 1: emotional affair, which I don't like. But let's get into

1928
01:45:55,080 --> 01:45:59,439
Speaker 1: the wife's response, I ambivert. It's like, so you have

1929
01:45:59,479 --> 01:46:02,519
Speaker 1: an extrovert and an introvert, and ambivert is someone who

1930
01:46:02,720 --> 01:46:03,439
Speaker 1: needs kind of both.

1931
01:46:03,720 --> 01:46:07,719
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, phibious, yes exactly.

1932
01:46:09,479 --> 01:46:15,800
Speaker 1: But yeah, let's get into this the wife responds, I

1933
01:46:16,080 --> 01:46:18,680
Speaker 1: am with my husband because I love him, not for

1934
01:46:18,800 --> 01:46:21,800
Speaker 1: any ulterior reasons. I saw a lot of comments that

1935
01:46:21,840 --> 01:46:25,200
Speaker 1: I was using him for money. Make roughly the same salary,

1936
01:46:25,320 --> 01:46:28,360
Speaker 1: and we have similar savings and retirement accounts. I have

1937
01:46:28,479 --> 01:46:32,120
Speaker 1: made many sacrifices for my husband out of love. My

1938
01:46:32,240 --> 01:46:34,280
Speaker 1: husband and I have been married for twelve years, but

1939
01:46:34,439 --> 01:46:37,519
Speaker 1: over time he has become more and more introverted. He

1940
01:46:37,640 --> 01:46:39,840
Speaker 1: hates people and wants to spend a lot of time

1941
01:46:39,880 --> 01:46:44,479
Speaker 1: alone to unwind. This is our normal schedule. My husband works.

1942
01:46:44,840 --> 01:46:47,160
Speaker 1: My husband's work starts at eight thirty to nine am.

1943
01:46:47,920 --> 01:46:51,160
Speaker 1: His job involves a lot of client interaction and team interaction.

1944
01:46:51,560 --> 01:46:54,000
Speaker 1: He could leave by five thirty or six pm, but

1945
01:46:54,160 --> 01:46:57,200
Speaker 1: often he chooses to stay alone until eight PM because

1946
01:46:57,200 --> 01:46:59,360
Speaker 1: they get free dinner credit if they stay past eight.

1947
01:47:00,120 --> 01:47:03,040
Speaker 1: His team does not stay. He does not have extra

1948
01:47:03,120 --> 01:47:05,600
Speaker 1: work to do. He hates cooking, but he's also very

1949
01:47:05,720 --> 01:47:08,800
Speaker 1: choosy with meals. He comes home at eight thirty pm

1950
01:47:08,920 --> 01:47:11,519
Speaker 1: and immediately goes into his man cave to unwind. He

1951
01:47:11,640 --> 01:47:14,320
Speaker 1: will be there for hours. Will then come out at

1952
01:47:14,360 --> 01:47:17,240
Speaker 1: eleven thirty pm. We'll have our first conversation of the day.

1953
01:47:17,360 --> 01:47:20,439
Speaker 1: Oh my God, and then after twenty thirty minutes, he'll

1954
01:47:20,479 --> 01:47:23,200
Speaker 1: want to have spicy sleep. We only have spicy sleep

1955
01:47:23,280 --> 01:47:26,479
Speaker 1: once a month or so because of this, this does

1956
01:47:26,560 --> 01:47:30,800
Speaker 1: not sound super healthy. I totally understand wanting a little

1957
01:47:30,800 --> 01:47:33,240
Speaker 1: bit of alone time, but if you spend more time

1958
01:47:33,280 --> 01:47:37,240
Speaker 1: alone than with your like partner that you're married to,

1959
01:47:38,960 --> 01:47:41,600
Speaker 1: maybe not the healthiest relationship.

1960
01:47:42,040 --> 01:47:44,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, is not c Yeah?

1961
01:47:45,120 --> 01:47:52,080
Speaker 1: Because yeah, I think this is not super healthy. On weekends,

1962
01:47:52,120 --> 01:47:54,800
Speaker 1: he'll spend the entire day either in bed or hold

1963
01:47:54,880 --> 01:47:57,360
Speaker 1: up in his man cave. He will never want to

1964
01:47:57,400 --> 01:47:59,799
Speaker 1: do anything that involves stepping out of the home, except

1965
01:47:59,840 --> 01:48:02,559
Speaker 1: on rare occasions. He can be out for two hours

1966
01:48:02,600 --> 01:48:04,560
Speaker 1: and be the most wonderful man that I married, but

1967
01:48:04,640 --> 01:48:07,640
Speaker 1: by hour three he becomes downright kurt to me and embarrassing.

1968
01:48:08,240 --> 01:48:10,080
Speaker 1: I can never have of each day or a day

1969
01:48:10,080 --> 01:48:12,040
Speaker 1: at the park, or a museum date, or even a

1970
01:48:12,120 --> 01:48:15,280
Speaker 1: long dinner with him. On Sunday nights, he'll complete all

1971
01:48:15,360 --> 01:48:17,400
Speaker 1: the chores he let pile up in the week. My

1972
01:48:17,520 --> 01:48:19,840
Speaker 1: schedule is pretty straightforward. I can get up and go

1973
01:48:19,920 --> 01:48:22,760
Speaker 1: to work before my husband is awake, I come back,

1974
01:48:23,040 --> 01:48:25,240
Speaker 1: I come home by four pm and wrap up any

1975
01:48:25,360 --> 01:48:28,200
Speaker 1: other work at home, I'll clean a bit, do laundry,

1976
01:48:28,240 --> 01:48:31,760
Speaker 1: and make dinner. My friend, who is just a very

1977
01:48:31,960 --> 01:48:35,360
Speaker 1: good friend, lives in the same apartment complex I do,

1978
01:48:35,720 --> 01:48:38,000
Speaker 1: is a great cook. He and I will often swap

1979
01:48:38,080 --> 01:48:40,960
Speaker 1: recipes and cook together. We end up eating dinner together

1980
01:48:41,000 --> 01:48:43,200
Speaker 1: a lot. We also go on a nice walk after dinner.

1981
01:48:43,640 --> 01:48:45,599
Speaker 1: I do spend more time with my friend because he's

1982
01:48:45,640 --> 01:48:48,000
Speaker 1: close by. He doesn't have children, and he has a

1983
01:48:48,040 --> 01:48:51,360
Speaker 1: relatively free schedule and likes activities. I will talk with

1984
01:48:51,479 --> 01:48:54,479
Speaker 1: my friends and family as well over FaceTime. Most of

1985
01:48:54,520 --> 01:48:56,800
Speaker 1: my family is physically far, but I love them and

1986
01:48:56,880 --> 01:48:59,519
Speaker 1: I love catching up with them. Most of my friends

1987
01:48:59,600 --> 01:49:01,960
Speaker 1: have kids and are busy, so I treasure talking with

1988
01:49:02,040 --> 01:49:05,759
Speaker 1: them as well. On weekends, I'll do chores, make plans,

1989
01:49:05,840 --> 01:49:08,360
Speaker 1: then catch up with my friends. This past weekend I

1990
01:49:08,439 --> 01:49:10,280
Speaker 1: went to a friend's arts submission out of State Fair.

1991
01:49:10,680 --> 01:49:13,360
Speaker 1: I'll do grocery shopping We're really getting Opie's full schedule.

1992
01:49:13,840 --> 01:49:15,639
Speaker 1: Or I'll drive ten to twenty minutes for a scene

1993
01:49:15,680 --> 01:49:17,559
Speaker 1: of khike. We live in some of the most beautiful

1994
01:49:17,640 --> 01:49:19,720
Speaker 1: natural areas in the world, and I just love a

1995
01:49:19,760 --> 01:49:22,000
Speaker 1: two to three hour hike and reaching the peak of

1996
01:49:22,000 --> 01:49:24,760
Speaker 1: a small Mountain. I like trying new foods, I like

1997
01:49:24,840 --> 01:49:27,080
Speaker 1: doing new things. I like being with people. I even

1998
01:49:27,160 --> 01:49:31,439
Speaker 1: like babysitting my friend's children. So pausing real quick, it

1999
01:49:31,640 --> 01:49:36,200
Speaker 1: sounds like they're just not maybe aligned in their like

2000
01:49:37,560 --> 01:49:44,000
Speaker 1: social like social style or socialization styles, which I don't

2001
01:49:44,400 --> 01:49:47,479
Speaker 1: think if you are just a very, very introverted person,

2002
01:49:47,520 --> 01:49:51,479
Speaker 1: that's not an issue. It just maybe becomes hard if

2003
01:49:51,560 --> 01:49:55,240
Speaker 1: you are expecting your partner to not be an extrovert,

2004
01:49:55,680 --> 01:50:01,440
Speaker 1: if they are extroverted, because both people have needs and extroverts,

2005
01:50:02,200 --> 01:50:05,240
Speaker 1: you know, I think both are valid needs. This seems

2006
01:50:05,360 --> 01:50:10,920
Speaker 1: like he is not respecting his wife's needs as well.

2007
01:50:12,120 --> 01:50:15,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is tough.

2008
01:50:15,720 --> 01:50:20,040
Speaker 1: This is Rebecca Parole, says their roommates at this point.

2009
01:50:20,160 --> 01:50:23,599
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, I mean they're barely seeing each other

2010
01:50:25,360 --> 01:50:28,000
Speaker 1: benefits only once a month though.

2011
01:50:28,840 --> 01:50:37,839
Speaker 3: Oh man, yeah never yeah ah break up Yeah.

2012
01:50:38,000 --> 01:50:41,960
Speaker 1: I think maybe I think maybe this is divorce. This

2013
01:50:42,080 --> 01:50:45,400
Speaker 1: is her husband, oh divorce, Maybe this is this is

2014
01:50:45,520 --> 01:50:49,600
Speaker 1: either you try and go to counseling or if that

2015
01:50:49,680 --> 01:50:53,360
Speaker 1: doesn't work, maybe on the road to divorce. Kimberly find

2016
01:50:53,360 --> 01:50:55,479
Speaker 1: says it sounds like he's depressed and anxious and wants

2017
01:50:55,479 --> 01:50:57,559
Speaker 1: so Peter fix it for him without him taking any

2018
01:50:57,600 --> 01:51:02,240
Speaker 1: action at all, probably probably lashing out as a misdirected

2019
01:51:02,280 --> 01:51:06,960
Speaker 1: shame he's feeling for not changing. Yeah oh yea YoY

2020
01:51:08,320 --> 01:51:10,599
Speaker 1: uh and totally spices up the wife does do things

2021
01:51:10,640 --> 01:51:13,120
Speaker 1: alone unless she constantly gets someone tight with her. Yeah,

2022
01:51:13,120 --> 01:51:16,120
Speaker 1: it does seem like she is doing things alone as well.

2023
01:51:16,320 --> 01:51:17,840
Speaker 1: She just also hangs out with her friend.

2024
01:51:19,160 --> 01:51:19,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2025
01:51:20,560 --> 01:51:22,559
Speaker 1: I think that the OPI is being the first op

2026
01:51:22,760 --> 01:51:28,479
Speaker 1: is being a little bit overbearer or maybe over yeah.

2027
01:51:29,080 --> 01:51:32,040
Speaker 1: Yeah uh. Now he wants me to cut off my

2028
01:51:32,120 --> 01:51:34,800
Speaker 1: friend because he says it's an emotional affair. We have

2029
01:51:35,040 --> 01:51:38,639
Speaker 1: never crossed any boundaries. I don't have any feelings for him,

2030
01:51:38,680 --> 01:51:40,560
Speaker 1: and I don't think he has any feelings for me.

2031
01:51:41,280 --> 01:51:44,000
Speaker 1: If he did, he has never once indicated that. But

2032
01:51:44,120 --> 01:51:46,400
Speaker 1: my husband also doesn't want me to talk on FaceTime

2033
01:51:46,479 --> 01:51:49,120
Speaker 1: with my friends and family because it irritates him. He

2034
01:51:49,240 --> 01:51:51,280
Speaker 1: doesn't want me to bring my friend around because they're

2035
01:51:51,360 --> 01:51:54,559
Speaker 1: loud and their kids are loud. I'm frustrated and tired

2036
01:51:54,600 --> 01:51:58,439
Speaker 1: of compromising, compromising when all I've done is compromise. I

2037
01:51:58,520 --> 01:52:01,320
Speaker 1: can have dinner parties or hosts my family or bring

2038
01:52:01,439 --> 01:52:03,960
Speaker 1: friends home, I can't go on vacation because my husband

2039
01:52:04,000 --> 01:52:06,680
Speaker 1: won't go. He will never spend a full day with me.

2040
01:52:07,000 --> 01:52:08,800
Speaker 1: And by the way, you can join us live on

2041
01:52:08,880 --> 01:52:11,439
Speaker 1: YouTube and spend a full day with us. Yeah, every

2042
01:52:11,479 --> 01:52:15,200
Speaker 1: weekday at three pm, just tap our profile like click,

2043
01:52:15,439 --> 01:52:18,760
Speaker 1: like click. He threatened to kick me out yesterday because

2044
01:52:18,760 --> 01:52:21,439
Speaker 1: at the emotional affair he accused me of having. I'm

2045
01:52:21,520 --> 01:52:24,280
Speaker 1: tired of how he's treating me and how he refuses

2046
01:52:24,360 --> 01:52:27,160
Speaker 1: to take any responsibility for the failure of her marriage.

2047
01:52:27,680 --> 01:52:29,880
Speaker 1: This is I think their marriage is over. Yeah, I

2048
01:52:29,920 --> 01:52:33,200
Speaker 1: think their marriage is over because him not only accusing

2049
01:52:33,280 --> 01:52:36,000
Speaker 1: her of an emotional affair with no proof, but also

2050
01:52:36,320 --> 01:52:39,519
Speaker 1: kicking her out of her house. That's ridiculous. This is

2051
01:52:40,000 --> 01:52:42,479
Speaker 1: this goes beyond, you know, being an introvert. This is

2052
01:52:43,000 --> 01:52:47,200
Speaker 1: this is controlling. Yeah they slyly Tod says they are

2053
01:52:47,280 --> 01:52:48,800
Speaker 1: not compatible, which I agree.

2054
01:52:48,960 --> 01:52:53,680
Speaker 3: I think there's an update is an upstatee oh look

2055
01:52:53,760 --> 01:52:57,240
Speaker 3: into it. Talked about his husband starts work at eight thirty.

2056
01:52:57,560 --> 01:53:01,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, never mind, it's Brittany Beach says. The husband

2057
01:53:01,560 --> 01:53:04,040
Speaker 1: is jealous that someone even talks to his wife because

2058
01:53:04,040 --> 01:53:07,040
Speaker 1: he knows he doesn't. It's a control tactic at that. Yeah,

2059
01:53:07,600 --> 01:53:09,800
Speaker 1: and Dutchess Sana says he wants her to cut out

2060
01:53:09,840 --> 01:53:13,840
Speaker 1: the world because he has divorce. Please. Yeah, it's just

2061
01:53:14,040 --> 01:53:18,200
Speaker 1: very controlling and I think this is definitely definitely divorce worthy.

2062
01:53:19,240 --> 01:53:22,000
Speaker 3: Get him out of there, you lovers not roommates.

2063
01:53:22,439 --> 01:53:26,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that is the end of that story. Let's

2064
01:53:26,800 --> 01:53:28,720
Speaker 1: get on to the next. Actually, before we do, can

2065
01:53:28,800 --> 01:53:30,639
Speaker 1: we read the uh.

2066
01:53:33,439 --> 01:53:33,479
Speaker 3: So?

2067
01:53:33,560 --> 01:53:35,479
Speaker 1: I think there was so much share that they had

2068
01:53:35,560 --> 01:53:39,320
Speaker 1: something totally spies. There's no more of this story alas

2069
01:53:43,240 --> 01:53:46,439
Speaker 1: we haven't read the it's Brittany Beach one. Okay, it's

2070
01:53:46,520 --> 01:53:49,439
Speaker 1: Britney Beach. Thank you for being a member for two months. Sam,

2071
01:53:49,560 --> 01:53:52,000
Speaker 1: have you ever worked a job in the engineering field?

2072
01:53:52,080 --> 01:53:54,759
Speaker 1: You said you studied it? And we're curious. From Sophia

2073
01:53:54,840 --> 01:53:58,800
Speaker 1: Cologne and I with love, No he is not. Uh

2074
01:53:59,240 --> 01:54:02,040
Speaker 1: and to be be that one, Oh Lady of the Elephants,

2075
01:54:02,040 --> 01:54:04,320
Speaker 1: thank you for the five bucks. Reminder, exit the chat

2076
01:54:04,400 --> 01:54:06,200
Speaker 1: and like the video so they'll spend no whee all

2077
01:54:07,640 --> 01:54:12,519
Speaker 1: and uh, Empress of Nevermore, thank you for the ten bucks.

2078
01:54:12,600 --> 01:54:15,360
Speaker 1: If someone's affecting your relationship, they deserve to be blocked.

2079
01:54:15,760 --> 01:54:18,479
Speaker 1: Your partner is your concern, not your buddies. Find your

2080
01:54:18,479 --> 01:54:20,559
Speaker 1: own friends, you're old enough to do that. Oh piece hobby.

2081
01:54:20,600 --> 01:54:22,519
Speaker 1: I think we read that one that was hert the

2082
01:54:22,560 --> 01:54:27,439
Speaker 1: other story. Uh oki doki opie. Hey guy, Oh, thank

2083
01:54:27,479 --> 01:54:29,640
Speaker 1: you for being a member for five months. Let's go.

2084
01:54:30,320 --> 01:54:33,600
Speaker 1: Hey guys, I'm turning seventy tomorrow. No, we're sixty nine

2085
01:54:33,680 --> 01:54:33,920
Speaker 1: for me.

2086
01:54:34,640 --> 01:54:39,360
Speaker 3: Oo Ooo, just be a lot of people were saying,

2087
01:54:39,440 --> 01:54:41,040
Speaker 3: just be sixty nine plus.

2088
01:54:40,880 --> 01:54:44,040
Speaker 1: One, sixty nine plus one. Yeah, just every from sixty

2089
01:54:44,120 --> 01:54:47,520
Speaker 1: nine on. You just add you do it in like baby,

2090
01:54:47,880 --> 01:54:50,720
Speaker 1: like baby time. You're like, I'm sixty nine and twelve months.

2091
01:54:50,880 --> 01:54:54,840
Speaker 1: I'm sixty nine thirty months. Josephine mandolaber Quez, thank you

2092
01:54:54,880 --> 01:54:57,680
Speaker 1: for the twenty seven sec How dare you treat dot

2093
01:54:57,760 --> 01:55:01,920
Speaker 1: queen like this? She's number one. I'm I deserve that food. Oh,

2094
01:55:02,040 --> 01:55:02,480
Speaker 1: I deserve it.

2095
01:55:03,040 --> 01:55:06,160
Speaker 3: We read it one day. You're always the first one

2096
01:55:06,200 --> 01:55:06,480
Speaker 3: to eat.

2097
01:55:06,520 --> 01:55:10,200
Speaker 1: Though, that's not true. That's so not true. Yes, it is.

2098
01:55:10,320 --> 01:55:11,360
Speaker 1: It is not true.

2099
01:55:12,080 --> 01:55:13,560
Speaker 3: Usually it is not.

2100
01:55:13,760 --> 01:55:15,520
Speaker 1: If I'm producing, I'm not the first one to eat.

2101
01:55:16,440 --> 01:55:17,240
Speaker 3: We're not producing.

2102
01:55:18,120 --> 01:55:19,240
Speaker 1: I was just producing.

2103
01:55:21,480 --> 01:55:24,240
Speaker 3: Usually, whenever you're hosting, you're the first one to get

2104
01:55:24,240 --> 01:55:26,640
Speaker 3: out of the rotation. Oh you show up, you come

2105
01:55:26,720 --> 01:55:32,000
Speaker 3: late later, boss, lander. No, this is what it is.

2106
01:55:32,760 --> 01:55:34,360
Speaker 3: I wouldn't. She's just hating on me.

2107
01:55:35,680 --> 01:55:40,000
Speaker 1: Okay, uh arian s three, I think, uh yeah, okay,

2108
01:55:40,080 --> 01:55:44,400
Speaker 1: let's get into it. I thought my husband was cheating

2109
01:55:44,440 --> 01:55:46,640
Speaker 1: on me. The truth was way crazier.

2110
01:55:46,840 --> 01:55:49,000
Speaker 3: Oh no, Oh, I don't even know if I want

2111
01:55:49,040 --> 01:55:49,120
Speaker 3: to know.

2112
01:55:49,160 --> 01:55:50,840
Speaker 1: I don't even want to know. I don't even want

2113
01:55:50,840 --> 01:55:54,400
Speaker 1: to know. My thirty eight female husband forty male and

2114
01:55:54,520 --> 01:55:58,120
Speaker 1: I have been together for seventeen years, married for almost fifteen,

2115
01:55:58,240 --> 01:56:01,760
Speaker 1: and we have five kids, ranging from a teenager to

2116
01:56:01,880 --> 01:56:06,240
Speaker 1: a toddler. Everything in our relationship is great. He's an

2117
01:56:06,240 --> 01:56:09,680
Speaker 1: amazing husband and father. He provides everything we have, make

2118
01:56:09,760 --> 01:56:12,360
Speaker 1: sure my emotional and physical needs are met. He makes

2119
01:56:12,360 --> 01:56:15,200
Speaker 1: sure we're always having fun and things are exciting. He

2120
01:56:15,400 --> 01:56:19,839
Speaker 1: showers me with affection, brings me flowers often. He's everything

2121
01:56:19,920 --> 01:56:22,680
Speaker 1: I could possibly want. I try to be the most

2122
01:56:22,760 --> 01:56:25,200
Speaker 1: loving and affectionate wife I can be for him and

2123
01:56:25,440 --> 01:56:28,760
Speaker 1: always tell him that I love and appreciate him. Sounds

2124
01:56:28,800 --> 01:56:32,080
Speaker 1: like you got the perfect marriage. The end of story.

2125
01:56:32,840 --> 01:56:37,960
Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from throore Illegal on the

2126
01:56:38,120 --> 01:56:43,320
Speaker 1: r slash Okay storytimes Up read it lately. So yesterday

2127
01:56:43,360 --> 01:56:45,920
Speaker 1: morning I saw two texts on my husband's phone from

2128
01:56:45,920 --> 01:56:49,640
Speaker 1: a woman's name I didn't recognize that said le me

2129
01:56:49,680 --> 01:56:54,320
Speaker 1: and get it and he'll be surprised with red hearts.

2130
01:56:54,360 --> 01:56:56,680
Speaker 1: At the end of both messages, they're.

2131
01:56:56,520 --> 01:57:02,040
Speaker 3: Talking about buying a new car or flowers or flowers

2132
01:57:02,160 --> 01:57:07,080
Speaker 3: for her. Oh, I think it is for her.

2133
01:57:08,000 --> 01:57:10,800
Speaker 1: I was too shocked and mentally distraught to say anything

2134
01:57:10,880 --> 01:57:13,480
Speaker 1: and pretended that everything was okay. I couldn't check his

2135
01:57:13,560 --> 01:57:16,240
Speaker 1: phone since he left for work almost immediately after the

2136
01:57:16,320 --> 01:57:20,040
Speaker 1: notifications came in. He came home close to an hour

2137
01:57:20,120 --> 01:57:22,560
Speaker 1: later last night and just said that there was traffic,

2138
01:57:22,960 --> 01:57:25,120
Speaker 1: but I was tracking his location and he went out

2139
01:57:25,160 --> 01:57:27,560
Speaker 1: of his way and stopped in some random neighborhood for

2140
01:57:27,640 --> 01:57:34,840
Speaker 1: about thirty minutes. Ooh uh, conspiracy theory. Conspiracy theory ring. Oh,

2141
01:57:35,160 --> 01:57:37,080
Speaker 1: because he thought she was cheating. He was cheating.

2142
01:57:37,840 --> 01:57:38,040
Speaker 2: Ring.

2143
01:57:38,400 --> 01:57:39,040
Speaker 1: I think maybe they.

2144
01:57:39,000 --> 01:57:44,280
Speaker 3: Said the truth was way crazier. Oh ah, oh, not

2145
01:57:44,400 --> 01:57:46,880
Speaker 3: a random no neighborhood.

2146
01:57:48,480 --> 01:57:50,360
Speaker 1: I thought we were in a great place, so I

2147
01:57:50,520 --> 01:57:53,160
Speaker 1: really didn't want to believe he's cheating, but all the

2148
01:57:53,240 --> 01:57:56,120
Speaker 1: evidence points towards it. We watched a movie together last

2149
01:57:56,200 --> 01:57:57,720
Speaker 1: night and took the kids to the beach. They have

2150
01:57:57,840 --> 01:58:01,120
Speaker 1: kids with some family. Oh wait, no, they're already married.

2151
01:58:01,120 --> 01:58:02,320
Speaker 1: I don't know why I thought it was a ring.

2152
01:58:04,080 --> 01:58:07,000
Speaker 1: It's not a ring. We watched a movie together last

2153
01:58:07,120 --> 01:58:08,920
Speaker 1: night and took the kids to the beach with some

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Speaker 1: family friends today. But I'm still spiraling over this and

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Speaker 1: don't know what to do. He has a wife and

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Speaker 1: five beautiful kids who love him. I just can't understand

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Speaker 1: why he would throw all that away. How do I

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Speaker 1: find out the truth? Five five kids a lot of kids.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if he was shooting, how is he managing that?

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Speaker 3: Wait? How long were they together for?

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Speaker 1: I mean five kids at least. I'm trying to figure out. No, okay, sorry,

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01:58:37,040 --> 01:58:41,080
Speaker 1: seventeen years. Oh seventeen years, Well that's four plus five.

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Speaker 1: He's got nine damn. Promisers are telling Opie to either

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Speaker 1: gather evidence and divorce him, or that he brought bought

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Speaker 1: a gift for her and not to freak out. There

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Speaker 1: is no in between. Although people came up back after

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Speaker 1: the update, Okay, I'm not gonna say what they did.

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Speaker 1: Update one day later, I just.

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Speaker 3: Put into the chat where blit cheating.

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Speaker 1: Or not feeding her? What do you think? That's just

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Speaker 1: because as his fight.

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Speaker 3: Club guys put in your votes, lurkers, Yeah, put in.

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Speaker 1: Your votes, get in there. I'm calling you out, John, Well,

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Speaker 1: this was all a massive waste of time. To clarify,

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Speaker 1: there were no telltale signs of cheating. He was very

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Speaker 1: emotionally present, and we have an active, spicy sleep life nice.

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Speaker 1: And he's a loving and affectionate as loving and affectionate

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Speaker 1: as usual, and he doesn't hide his phone or mysteriously

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Speaker 1: disappear for hours. The thing is, after our youngest was born,

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Speaker 1: I developed an eating disorder and I gained close to

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Speaker 1: thirty five pounds in the following two years, and my

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Speaker 1: confidence and self esteem and our spicy sleep life was

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01:59:44,880 --> 01:59:48,120
Speaker 1: terrible during that time. I'm so sorry. For about the

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Speaker 1: last year, I joined my husband in his early morning

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Speaker 1: workouts and started watching my diet and cooking healthier for

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Speaker 1: the family, and I'm down fifteen pounds since.

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Speaker 3: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: My husband was always very resuring and affectionate, and my

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Speaker 1: confidence has begun to return a little, and our spicy

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Speaker 1: sleep life is infinitely better than those two years. But

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Speaker 1: I still feel somewhat insecure, especially since my husband has

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Speaker 1: only gotten fitter and become even more muscular throughout our marriage. Ooh,

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Speaker 1: la la to the point. I suck at lying and

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Speaker 1: hiding things from my husband, so I couldn't go with

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02:00:21,040 --> 02:00:24,920
Speaker 1: the reverse psychology approach like some people suggested. Last night,

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Speaker 1: after the kids went to bed, I directly told my

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Speaker 1: husband that's what we like to see, though direct communication,

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Speaker 1: that I saw the messages on his phone and tracked

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Speaker 1: his location to some random neighborhood and demanded to know

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Speaker 1: what was going on. He laughed and thought I was joking,

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Speaker 1: and I quite literally started crying and said that I

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Speaker 1: was serious and I needed the truth. It's your final

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Speaker 1: votes in We're about to find out. He told me

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Speaker 1: that we had to go outside and he wanted to

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Speaker 1: show me something. He opened the trunk of his car

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02:00:54,120 --> 02:00:56,520
Speaker 1: and there was a plastic bag and he told me

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Speaker 1: to open it.

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Speaker 3: A puppy. Oh.

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Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna say it was a body.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that would have been better.

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Speaker 1: It was the truth's way crazier. By the way, you

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Speaker 1: can join us live on YouTube at three pm Pacificcanna

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Speaker 1: time just stop her profile.

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 1: It was a photo album consisting of chronological pictures of

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Speaker 1: us and the kids for all fifteen all so sweet,

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Speaker 1: It's so sweet. Oh, And it was meant to be

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Speaker 1: an anniversary gift. It's pretty for our fifteenth later this week.

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Speaker 1: The text were from a female coworker whose husband runs

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Speaker 1: a business making photo albums for special occasions, and my

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Speaker 1: husband has been talking to her about getting a customized

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Speaker 1: photo album made. So he was seeing a dude, I guess,

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Speaker 1: so on Friday night he went to their place to

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Speaker 1: pick up the album. And as for the red heart

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Speaker 1: center message, my husband showed me in his conversation with her,

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Speaker 1: and she ends every single message with her red heart.

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Speaker 1: The specific text I saw were there, so I knew

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Speaker 1: he hadn't deleted anything. He made jokes about how I

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Speaker 1: ruined his anniversary gift, and we ended up staying up

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Speaker 1: and going through the entire album and talking about old memories,

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Speaker 1: and all I can say is, I'm very thankful for

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Speaker 1: my husband in every day, in every way. That's the

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Speaker 1: end of it.

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Speaker 2: Aw yay.

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Speaker 1: I love when we get happy stories.

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Speaker 3: Are you crying? No?

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Speaker 1: This is me? This is me though.

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Speaker 3: That is very nice.

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to do that one day. What a

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Speaker 3: photo album?

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Speaker 1: A photo album? You're so sweet, so sweet with me

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Speaker 1: wife and with my wife and mcgib's but that is

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02:02:47,080 --> 02:02:50,760
Speaker 1: the end of that story. Wow, and everyone who said

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Speaker 1: he was cheating Rob, look yourself in the mirror and

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Speaker 1: ask yourself, why do you see the worst than people?

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Speaker 3: You just need to get off Reddit for a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Get off Reddit.

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Speaker 3: She'd probably stop watching a little bit, just a little bit,

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Speaker 3: like go here a little bit and then come back

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Speaker 3: to yourself.

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Speaker 1: Touch some grass, and then come back when you're ready

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Speaker 1: to join the table. But that is the end of

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Speaker 1: the story, this very happy story, and the end of

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Speaker 1: this episode.