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Speaker 2: this episode is going to be a little bit different today.

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Speaker 1: So without further ado Itriselba. What are you doing? Cutaways?

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Speaker 1: You know what a time to be alive though, man,

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Speaker 1: But you don't get grumpyche I'm.

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Speaker 1: Hey, guys.

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Speaker 1: What are you most proud of about yourself? Let's go

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Speaker 1: right in. Damn yeah, I am proud that. I'm very

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Speaker 1: So are we telling the truth? Yes? The truth? Only

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Speaker 1: No fucks straight all the way. I want that, no fucks.

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Speaker 2: And also, I think once you get to a certain age,

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Speaker 1: All exactly, you know, even if it offends or or

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Speaker 2: Do you still get that feeling of like wanting something

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Speaker 1: Have that type of pressure? Yeah, definitely. I'm always calibrating

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Speaker 1: I put a film up, you know, a hijacked twos coming.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's going to do as well

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435
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Speaker 1: down with the minutia. Are trying to be in the weeds.

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Speaker 1: I find that very dangerous, especially when I'm an executive

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Speaker 1: producer on the show and an actor. So it's a

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Speaker 1: bit of a weird place to be when you're trying

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Speaker 1: to make sure that the health of the distribution of

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Speaker 1: the show is done well to your taste. Oftentimes it's

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Speaker 1: out of my hands, you know what I'm saying. So

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Speaker 1: I do find myself doing that, but I think you

443
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Speaker 1: should always you know, having good output is impressive. Everybody's

444
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Speaker 1: impressed when someone dresses up nice or really good at

445
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Speaker 1: what they do. Everyone's impressed by that. And actually it's good.

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Speaker 1: It's good that the world values their output, you know

447
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And it's good. Yeah.

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Speaker 7: So I don't feel bad about that pressure. But yeah,

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Speaker 7: but you do put the pressure on yourself. I do,

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Speaker 7: I imagine I do, and I don't do it in

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452
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Speaker 7: I don't like doing things that.

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Speaker 1: Oh why did you do that? It wasn't that great?

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Speaker 1: Why did you do it? I don't. I hate that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You would have to be

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Speaker 2: I think anybody who has like the longevity that you've

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Speaker 1: I just assume that this is my last job. I

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Speaker 2: So what does the next season look like for you?

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Speaker 2: Not just not of the show, but of your life.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to, you know, diversify. I do a lot

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Speaker 1: of different things, so I'm trying to diversify my talent.

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Speaker 1: So right now my day job is being an actor.

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Speaker 1: I do director, right, but I'm going to just spread

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Speaker 1: that out a little bit further. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's part of the next stage. Is

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Speaker 1: kind of taking that. He's so good at it. I like,

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Speaker 1: I love directing. This is like, you know, you get

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Speaker 1: to sit in the seat that talks to everybody as

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Speaker 1: opposed to the seat that everyone talks to you as

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Speaker 1: the actor. So more behind the scenes, more behind the scenes.

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Speaker 1: I'm doing quite a bit of work with Elbow Hope

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Speaker 1: and the charity work, which has been amazing because you

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Speaker 1: get again, I'm in sectors that have nothing to do

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Speaker 1: with entertainment, but I have real life, you know, implications,

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Speaker 1: real life outcomes, especially where in Africa, in Siri and

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Speaker 1: in Ghana, where the things I'm working for impacting lives.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's a young generation over there who have

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Speaker 1: never been to a cinema. I can build a cinema.

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Speaker 1: I can build things out. This is that what you're

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Speaker 1: doing there? I'm trying to Yeah, beautiful. Yeah, what about love?

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day is upon us? Is it IDUs? Yes? That's

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Speaker 1: why water is red sweater? Do you have a Valentine's

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Speaker 1: Day for all the lovely? We have a very high

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Speaker 1: a lot of women high women demographic.

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Speaker 2: On the I r L Podcast, Ladies, would you like

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Speaker 2: to send the message of love to the love?

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Speaker 1: Wife always says to me, I am not romantic. She's like,

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Speaker 1: she's just what you are going to break the hearts

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Speaker 1: of everyone right now? I try, I definitely try. She'll say,

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Speaker 1: you do try, but it's not natural to me. I'm

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Speaker 1: tough love. And how do you receive that?

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Speaker 2: Do you receive that as an opportunity to try harder

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Speaker 2: when you know?

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Speaker 1: Yes, because that's how you're supposed to receive it. If

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Speaker 1: your wife says you're not romantic enough, you should receive

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Speaker 1: that as I need to be more romantic. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: me put this way right. I mean I come from

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Speaker 1: you know, romance. I wasn't raised in a house that

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Speaker 1: looked at romance in that way. What was romantic to

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Speaker 1: my mom and dad? Is not you know, Valentino and

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Speaker 1: bows and arrows. It was like my dad coming home

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Speaker 1: with you know, food to cook for my wife, my

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Speaker 1: mom and my mom and be like, wow, you got

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Speaker 1: the good meat from the market. So romantic. That was romance.

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Speaker 4: A piece of meat more, you know, you know, putting

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Speaker 4: food on the table and you know it's gonna be

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Speaker 4: a good Friday, eat good.

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Speaker 1: That's romantic? Is that yours? What is your definition of romance?

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Speaker 1: I like, I like being encouraging to my wife. You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I love when she has moments

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Speaker 1: of doubts. I like being that arm that ar to

561
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Speaker 1: be like yo, you got this, you know, and just

562
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Speaker 1: reinforced that she can do what she wants to do.

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Speaker 1: And to me that you know, when she does that

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Speaker 1: for me, that's romance. Like she buys me flowers, break

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Speaker 1: but she just hugs me and like, yo, you're doing

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Speaker 1: your thing. Homes of information. Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Just that's romantic to me. That's that's yeah, that's romantic

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Speaker 1: to me. Like but the whole you know, hey, a

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Speaker 1: lot of flowers and candy? Guy, I am, I mean

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Speaker 1: I have to Sabrina. Yeah, she lives for it, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: But you and the receiving and a romance, so you

573
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Speaker 2: what you think of it is.

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Speaker 1: Like support and support for the ladies.

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Speaker 2: So who are going to go home to their husbands,

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Speaker 2: this is your advice to them how to take care

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Speaker 2: of you.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate when it's kind of like, hey, I know

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Speaker 1: you had this type of week, so I hooked your

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Speaker 1: favorite things, and I know you want to be by yourself,

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Speaker 1: so I hooks up a little studio few you know,

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Speaker 1: there you go. That to me is so thoughtful. That's romance.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm like, oh man, that's amazing. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I think you're going to do well this Valentine's Day season,

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Speaker 2: and I think Hijack two is going to do amazing

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Speaker 2: on Apple and I can't wait to see. Yeah, I

588
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Speaker 2: can't wait to see all the work you're gonna do

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Speaker 2: this year.

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Speaker 1: I wish I had more time. We will welcome do more.

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Speaker 1: Take one more before you go? There we go. I'm

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00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: really gonna use that sound effect, but no, you were

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00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: you get bored by the second time use it?

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00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 2: Okay, what's it's possible, But for twice it's gonna it's

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Speaker 2: gonna hit all right, I like this question for you,

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Speaker 2: and then we're gonna, I know, we gotta go.

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Speaker 1: That's one.

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Speaker 2: You take that one, and then I'm gonna find the

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Speaker 2: one I love, and then we're gonna let you get

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Speaker 2: out of here.

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Here's the one that I'm

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Speaker 1: going to do in the interim, which is what do

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Speaker 1: you think is your superpower? My superpower is that I

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Speaker 1: think if you sit down with me long enough, you'll

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Speaker 1: see a version of yourself within my presence. I think

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Speaker 1: that it's a super power to sit with someone and

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Speaker 1: even if they don't look like you don't relate, you

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Speaker 1: know enough culturally different, different gender, that actually when they

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Speaker 1: talk to you and you connect with them, you're actually like,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I feel like that sometimes I could

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Speaker 1: be there. I could do that. It is the only

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Speaker 1: thing that allows me to be transparent as an actor.

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Speaker 1: When people watch my characters, so they like me or not,

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Speaker 1: they'll be like, I kind of believe them in that role.

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Speaker 1: Oh he was good in that. The reason what they're

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Speaker 1: saying is because they see something within the character, within

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Speaker 1: my vessel that they relate to me. That is to

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Speaker 1: me a superpower that's something that I definitely feel like.

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Speaker 1: You know, I can talk to young people in a room,

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Speaker 1: and I pride myself of being able to talk to

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Speaker 1: a bunch of ten year olds who don't relate to

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Speaker 1: me whatsoever. I see my son, my son's eleven, you know,

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Speaker 1: I talk to his friends and we kick it. I

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Speaker 1: love that. And then I'll be able to sit in

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Speaker 1: a room with a head of state who has degrees

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Speaker 1: in social political, you know, management. I have nothing like that,

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Speaker 1: but I can talk on a level about what they

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Speaker 1: might be going through, how to think through things, and

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Speaker 1: that is, to me, is my superpower. Yeah, that's a

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Speaker 1: pretty good one. I think you have the say so.

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Speaker 1: Of course, you've been part of the discussions with some

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Speaker 1: else could get only through you. Superpower. Thanks man.

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Speaker 2: Last question and then go, Okay, I asked this question

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Speaker 2: to everybody on the walkout, so you got to get it.

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Speaker 1: To Okay before you go, can you kick a sixteen

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Speaker 1: freestyle off the dumb? Are you going to do that? Okay?

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Speaker 2: No, it's not the question, guys, but if I wanted

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Speaker 2: If I wanted you to kick a freestyle right now,

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Speaker 2: and you've made your own music, lots of it successful,

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Speaker 2: could you kick a sixteen right now if you had

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Speaker 2: off the dumb?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 1: Could you kick a pre written sixteen? I could kick.

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Speaker 1: I could kick a pre written But I don't write rhymes.

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Speaker 1: When I rhyme, I have to weirdly enough. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: I don't write them down. You want to make this

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Speaker 1: spit of verse about my nople, I do not. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: they're fine. They just read the question. If God were

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Speaker 1: to text you right now, what would he say? What

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Speaker 1: would it say if you got that big text, that

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Speaker 1: big text? Ah wow? I think he would say something

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Speaker 1: like or she would say something like, it's okay, go ahead,

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Speaker 1: close your eyes and just let it out. Which I

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Speaker 1: would interpret interpretate is you know, for example, when press

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Speaker 1: runs right, you're thinking about your answers. You sort of

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Speaker 1: like you have to be presentable, going on Kelly Clarkson

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Speaker 1: and Andrew Martinez. I have to give something, but sometimes

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Speaker 1: it's better just to shut your I just speak from

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Speaker 1: your heart, you know what I mean? And I think

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Speaker 1: that's what he would say. I love that.

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Speaker 2: I think you did that today. So yeah, yeah, eighty

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Speaker 2: percent of it and I'll cut it. I'll edit the

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Speaker 2: other twenty.

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Speaker 1: The boring stuff like the sound effects and all of that.

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Speaker 1: We keeping that. We love you, just love you all minds.

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Speaker 1: So good to be here. Thank you so much. Yoga

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Speaker 1: and pro. You're going I'm going pro. You are going

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Speaker 1: pro and you are going to direct? Okay, perfect, get

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Speaker 1: yourself in real life? Hey, what's up? This is in

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Speaker 1: yoursella in real life?

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Speaker 2: All right, guys, so it is now Angie Martinez in

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Speaker 2: real life. So we do have a segment on the

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Speaker 2: show and it's the voice notes presented by boost Mobile.

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Speaker 2: Will you guys get to call in or you send

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Speaker 2: a comment, send a question, And I'm going to try

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Speaker 2: to do more of these so that we can have

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Speaker 2: a little bit more interact with each other. So again,

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Speaker 2: go to the Edge Martinez IRL page and then you

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Speaker 2: can follow there, subscribe and send questions or comments. And

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Speaker 2: if you're like a regular, we'll put in the stories

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Speaker 2: like who's coming up, We'll tease what guests are coming up.

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Speaker 2: And if you're a fan of any of them or

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Speaker 2: you have a question for any of them, then you

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Speaker 2: can send us messages that way, So that's how we'll communicate.

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Speaker 2: But we have a voice note right now. This one's

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Speaker 2: for me right letter.

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Speaker 1: It Hi Angie.

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Speaker 8: I'm an on air personality and I just launched my

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Speaker 8: own podcast where I interview different guests, and I'm really

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Speaker 8: trying to stand out from the crowd. You know, they

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Speaker 8: say everyone has a podcast. What's the difference between a

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Speaker 8: good interview and a memorable one?

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Speaker 2: Listen, it depends what your standards are, Like a lot

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Speaker 2: of people, how many people watched it as a good interview?

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Speaker 2: For me, I think, you know, sometimes a good interview

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Speaker 2: is just a good conversation and people like it and

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Speaker 2: they don't feel like they wasted their time watching it,

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Speaker 2: and maybe you learn something about the guest and the

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Speaker 2: conversation stays flowing and interesting. I think that's a good

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Speaker 2: A good interview one that stays with you, that's really meaningful.

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Speaker 2: That really matters is when somebody shares something or you

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Speaker 2: learn something that long after you've watched the interview, that

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Speaker 2: that stays with you. Like I was talking to gab

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Speaker 2: Union about this. She's a fan of the podcast, and

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Speaker 2: she was saying that she watched Lauren London's interview and

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Speaker 2: then had to reach out to her and they had

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Speaker 2: long form conversation after that. Or sometimes I meet people

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Speaker 2: in the street and say, you know, when this person

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Speaker 2: said this, I needed to hear it.

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Speaker 1: In that moment.

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Speaker 2: To me, those are the meaningful ones when people share

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Speaker 2: stories that we actually use or that just stay with you,

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Speaker 2: just stay with you.

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Speaker 1: In your life.

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Speaker 2: There's so many moments, little moments with people that I

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Speaker 2: have all the time that stay with me, and I'm

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Speaker 2: so grateful for that. So I'm always chasing that. So

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Speaker 2: to me, I think that's a separation for me, but

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Speaker 2: I guess for everybody else is different. But ultimately, you

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Speaker 2: want to learn something and you want to take away

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Speaker 2: something from every conversation. And so I think as an interviewer,

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Speaker 2: to answer your question, when you have somebody coming in

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Speaker 2: you're about to interview them, think about that in like,

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Speaker 2: what inspires you about this person? What is interesting or

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Speaker 2: to be learned from their life or their experience, And

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Speaker 2: I think you start your question asking from there.

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Speaker 1: And then also once.

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Speaker 2: You're in the interview and you're in the conversation, listen

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Speaker 2: to your guests because sometimes they will take you to

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Speaker 2: a place you're not even expecting them to go, and

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Speaker 2: you have to be present to be able to let

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Speaker 2: them go. There, So being prepared, having a perspective and

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Speaker 2: idea of what you think the conversation should be like,

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Speaker 2: and then being free enough to be in the moment

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Speaker 2: and let something happen.

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Speaker 1: I think it's kind of the sweet spot. So good

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Speaker 1: luck to you. Thank you for your question. Hey guys,

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Speaker 1: thanks for watching.

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Speaker 2: Make sure you subscribe, like comments, and check out all

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Speaker 2: of the other episodes we have on Edge.

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