WEBVTT - Get The Hell Outta My Way! 

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<v Speaker 1>Get the hell out of my way. It's One More.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing twice in one week. Katie led One More Thing podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>But before we get to that, I'm asking, well, did

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<v Speaker 2>you play anything in band, Katie?

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't in band, but I've played several instruments growing up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Michael, do you ever do band in school?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I was just wondering last night as I was watching

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<v Speaker 2>the Christmas concert. My son is a tuba player and

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<v Speaker 2>he's not really into it, and a lot of the

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<v Speaker 2>kids don't look like they're that into it, and a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of Martin Urry, a lot of them have no

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<v Speaker 2>talent for it. What do you think the benefit is

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<v Speaker 2>of having kids be in band? I was in band

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<v Speaker 2>and I liked it. And I play a musical instrument

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<v Speaker 2>every single day. It's rare if I have a day.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean today, as a sixty year old, I play

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<v Speaker 2>something almost every single day. I love it. But what

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<v Speaker 2>do you think the advantage is? What's in it for

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<v Speaker 2>kids who are like they don't really have a talent

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<v Speaker 2>for it and they're not really into it, but they

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<v Speaker 2>do it anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>I think there's an advantager. Science is rock solid that

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<v Speaker 4>is great for your brain, helps you with your math skills.

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<v Speaker 4>It gets all sorts of different parts of your brain

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<v Speaker 4>working together in a way that's really healthful.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's a good one. I'll use that on my kid.

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<v Speaker 2>Anything else, do you think just like being well rounded

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<v Speaker 2>or anything like that?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe? I don't know. I don't know. I try to

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<v Speaker 4>avoid advocating stuff just because that's the way I rolled, right, Katie.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, the chicks think it's hot when they get older.

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<v Speaker 2>I tell Henry that all the time, because Henry does

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<v Speaker 2>have some talent for music I can tell, and plays

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<v Speaker 2>a little guitar. So, dude, this is gonna be the

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<v Speaker 2>best thing you've ever done if you keep up with this.

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<v Speaker 4>Although if all the girls are into the hippity hop music,

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<v Speaker 4>is that still true? I don't know. I don't have

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<v Speaker 4>a sense of that. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>There's still plenty of singer songwriter stuff on the radio. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and the country's huge, of course. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>To quote the great John Mellencamp, cut out all of

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<v Speaker 4>that macho shit and learn how to play guitar.

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<v Speaker 2>I've played that song before him. Yeah, what instruments did

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<v Speaker 2>you play, Kadio? I did not know this.

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<v Speaker 3>I played piano, violin flute, and then I taught myself

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<v Speaker 3>guitar later on in.

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<v Speaker 2>Life all past tense, Do you still play anything?

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<v Speaker 3>I still play the guitar every now and then. I

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<v Speaker 3>should play it more, but cool. Yeah, I can't not

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<v Speaker 3>not play something. I need to every day or it

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<v Speaker 3>makes me very unhappy. It's just I'm driven to it.

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<v Speaker 3>For whatever reason.

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<v Speaker 2>It does something for my brain or ability to check out.

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<v Speaker 2>I found I can't think about anything else when I'm

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<v Speaker 2>practicing music, so it just automatically makes me not think

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<v Speaker 2>about anything.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad does that love that?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know. It's funny because I play scales and

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<v Speaker 4>licks and stuff while I watch the news, because I

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<v Speaker 4>frequently find the news mostly tedious and depressing. But if

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<v Speaker 4>I'm concentrated, I realized I did not hear anything that

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<v Speaker 4>was just said. It obliterates everything else, which is what's

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<v Speaker 4>so healthy about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think John Mayer is a big proponent of sitting

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<v Speaker 2>there with your guitar while you watch TV and just

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<v Speaker 2>kind of going through things kind of oh really, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>gets in the back of your brain somehow.

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<v Speaker 4>I wonder, Yeah, I would argue with that handsome devil.

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<v Speaker 2>So what was your thing about? Get out of your

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<v Speaker 2>way or whatever? Katie get the hell out of my way.

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<v Speaker 4>I say that to my dog half a dozen times

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<v Speaker 4>every single day.

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<v Speaker 1>Just get out of the way.

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<v Speaker 3>My sweet friend just broke her ankle because her dog

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<v Speaker 3>got under her when she was going down some stairs.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, I've always assumed that because Baxter is

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<v Speaker 4>half a herding dog, that that's part of it. But

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<v Speaker 4>he will see where you're going and and walk over

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<v Speaker 4>and stand there like he wants to heard you. And seriously,

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<v Speaker 4>half a dozen times a day, I say, would you

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<v Speaker 4>get the hell out of my way? Why did you

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<v Speaker 4>stand this is a doorway, I say, looking at him.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just so excited to do whatever you're doing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I guess he's a good fellow.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh So my intro was about the other day at

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<v Speaker 3>the grocery store. And I don't know why, but I

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<v Speaker 3>hate little things more than I hate the grocery store.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate going in there.

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<v Speaker 3>I just like to go in, I know what I'm getting,

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<v Speaker 3>get my stuff, get out.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I'm going to get the coffee.

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<v Speaker 3>And I noticed like a couple of people kind of

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<v Speaker 3>standing as if they were waiting to get into the aisle,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, oh God, okay, of course of course

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<v Speaker 3>this is happening on the aisle.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to go down. The reason they were.

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<v Speaker 3>Doing that is because this chick that was probably maybe

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<v Speaker 3>late twenties at I kid you not, had a camera

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<v Speaker 3>set up on a shopping cart and was doing a

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<v Speaker 3>TikTok dance and no one was telling her to move.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, my god, shame I wasn't there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I wish I think we're all figuring.

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<v Speaker 4>God, why doesn't that happen to me?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it would have.

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<v Speaker 1>Been a different type of video if I was there.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh well, and I'm sitting there and I'm watching her,

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<v Speaker 3>and she didn't have the camera facing like we the

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<v Speaker 3>group was not standing behind her.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>If I had been in shot, this would be a

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<v Speaker 3>completely different broadcast. But it was away from us and

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<v Speaker 3>just complete disregard for the fact. I mean, there was

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<v Speaker 3>this sweet little old lady who was probably in her

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<v Speaker 3>mid eighties, like just trying to get her tea, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and she's sitting there doing this stupid f and dance

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<v Speaker 3>and finally.

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<v Speaker 1>This big, burly cowboy dude went.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, move, good job, burly cowboy dude.

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<v Speaker 3>But it was just I mean, I don't I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 3>I've had a moment of like, where am I? How

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<v Speaker 3>did I end up here?

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<v Speaker 4>Where I am?

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<v Speaker 3>Stopped at a grocery aisle because a woman is dancing

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<v Speaker 3>to a camera.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I can see how a lot of kindly older

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<v Speaker 2>people would think I need to stay out of their way.

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<v Speaker 2>They're doing something.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there were three people just waiting for her to

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<v Speaker 3>People lack the confidence to say what clearly needs to

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<v Speaker 3>be said.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, it's it's funny. I I was thinking

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<v Speaker 4>what I was about to say is such a truism,

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<v Speaker 4>But then I realized, No, I think the vast majority

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<v Speaker 4>of the population, especially younger, younger people, have never heard this.

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<v Speaker 4>I was gonna say, Katie, what is required of good

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<v Speaker 4>people for evil to triumph? They're silence.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all this requested.

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<v Speaker 4>Would you don't let the evil of TikTok dancing clog

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<v Speaker 4>the grocery aisles of our society? Say something? What would

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<v Speaker 4>you have said, you dumb mother? No, I just excuse me,

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<v Speaker 4>just pushed past.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was too deeply, too deep in the line to

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<v Speaker 1>do that.

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<v Speaker 3>But and it was also the fact that that this

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't a teenager, which I mean, even if it was

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<v Speaker 3>a teenager, it would have been annoying, but it would

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<v Speaker 3>have been like, Okay, they're dumb. You know, this woman's

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<v Speaker 3>frontal lobe is fully developed, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think I would have just walked to whatever

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<v Speaker 2>product I need to get and shop. I would have

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<v Speaker 2>just shopped like I was normally gonna shop. And if

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<v Speaker 2>we end up in the same space, excuse me, not lucky.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, carts in my way, excuse me, excuse me, I

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<v Speaker 4>gotta get by you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks, right where I needed to be, of course, and

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<v Speaker 1>I stood.

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<v Speaker 3>I stood there like an ass I was like, I

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<v Speaker 3>think it was because my brain didn't really understand what

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<v Speaker 3>was happening.

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<v Speaker 4>Right. That's funny, isn't that when that sort of thing

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<v Speaker 4>happens in life that you think it's so weird you

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<v Speaker 4>don't like have a I think psychologists would tell you

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<v Speaker 4>you don't have a script for it, which is the

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<v Speaker 4>psychological You walk into a church, for instance, if you've

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<v Speaker 4>ever been in churches, you know how to act, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what is where and roughly what's going on. If

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<v Speaker 4>you go, like to a Catholic church as a Protestant,

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<v Speaker 4>your script is a little bit off and you have

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<v Speaker 4>to adjust it. And that sort of thing if you

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<v Speaker 4>try to go down a grocery all if somebody's doing

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<v Speaker 4>a TikTok dance, you don't really have a script for that.

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<v Speaker 4>You got entirely ad lib the whole thing. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I get it. There's a moment of a right, wait

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<v Speaker 4>a minute, this is so weird. What do we do?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I totally had that, And well, now that I'm seasoned,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll just knock her out next time.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of TikTok, it's like when the guy did the

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<v Speaker 2>splits and ate the the entire raw egg in front

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<v Speaker 2>of that yes, exactly boiled egg. It's like I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't react the way I wish I would have

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<v Speaker 2>reacted because it was a little cognitive dissonance going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I do not have a script for somebody doing

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<v Speaker 2>the splits, getting lower and lower, pulling a full hard

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<v Speaker 2>boiled egg out of their backpack, and then eating it

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<v Speaker 2>in front of me.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know what to do performance art. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>found out that that guy does that. That's his thing.

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<v Speaker 2>That's his thing all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I wonder how we.

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<v Speaker 1>Came up with that.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's what how many iterations he went through? You know,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna squat and uh and munch on a nice

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<v Speaker 4>ripe slice of watermelon. No, that's not really good.

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<v Speaker 2>It'll lay on my back and eat sardines.

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<v Speaker 4>No better if I do splits and eat sardines. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>that's still not think.

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<v Speaker 2>I see that guy around town now, and then I

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<v Speaker 2>think I wish he'd come over now because I got

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<v Speaker 2>a bit of the jerk store calling her out of you.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I got I'm ready to talk to him now,

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<v Speaker 2>but he's gonna end up stalking the guy just hoping

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<v Speaker 2>he does it again. Hey, buddy, how you doing. You

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<v Speaker 2>got any like weird skills or anything.

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<v Speaker 5>Katie, I'm surprised that you just didn't go pick up

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<v Speaker 5>your product and just maybe put a couple of dance

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<v Speaker 5>moves on video right along with her.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I join in and catch her again. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>show her a dance move.

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<v Speaker 4>Her Blewie. Well, I guess that's it.