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Speaker 1: Get the hell out of my way. It's One More.

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Speaker 2: Thing twice in one week. Katie led One More Thing podcast.

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Speaker 2: But before we get to that, I'm asking, well, did

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Speaker 2: you play anything in band, Katie?

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Speaker 3: I wasn't in band, but I've played several instruments growing up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Michael, do you ever do band in school?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: I was just wondering last night as I was watching

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Speaker 2: the Christmas concert. My son is a tuba player and

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Speaker 2: he's not really into it, and a lot of the

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Speaker 2: kids don't look like they're that into it, and a

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Speaker 2: lot of Martin Urry, a lot of them have no

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Speaker 2: talent for it. What do you think the benefit is

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Speaker 2: of having kids be in band? I was in band

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Speaker 2: and I liked it. And I play a musical instrument

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Speaker 2: every single day. It's rare if I have a day.

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Speaker 2: I mean today, as a sixty year old, I play

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Speaker 2: something almost every single day. I love it. But what

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Speaker 2: do you think the advantage is? What's in it for

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Speaker 2: kids who are like they don't really have a talent

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Speaker 2: for it and they're not really into it, but they

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Speaker 2: do it anyway.

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Speaker 4: I think there's an advantager. Science is rock solid that

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Speaker 4: is great for your brain, helps you with your math skills.

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Speaker 4: It gets all sorts of different parts of your brain

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Speaker 4: working together in a way that's really healthful.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good one. I'll use that on my kid.

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Speaker 2: Anything else, do you think just like being well rounded

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Speaker 2: or anything like that?

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Speaker 4: Maybe? I don't know. I don't know. I try to

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Speaker 4: avoid advocating stuff just because that's the way I rolled, right, Katie.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, the chicks think it's hot when they get older.

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Speaker 2: I tell Henry that all the time, because Henry does

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Speaker 2: have some talent for music I can tell, and plays

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Speaker 2: a little guitar. So, dude, this is gonna be the

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Speaker 2: best thing you've ever done if you keep up with this.

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Speaker 4: Although if all the girls are into the hippity hop music,

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Speaker 4: is that still true? I don't know. I don't have

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Speaker 4: a sense of that. Now.

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Speaker 2: There's still plenty of singer songwriter stuff on the radio. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and the country's huge, of course. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: To quote the great John Mellencamp, cut out all of

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Speaker 4: that macho shit and learn how to play guitar.

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Speaker 2: I've played that song before him. Yeah, what instruments did

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Speaker 2: you play, Kadio? I did not know this.

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Speaker 3: I played piano, violin flute, and then I taught myself

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Speaker 3: guitar later on in.

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Speaker 2: Life all past tense, Do you still play anything?

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Speaker 3: I still play the guitar every now and then. I

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Speaker 3: should play it more, but cool. Yeah, I can't not

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Speaker 3: not play something. I need to every day or it

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Speaker 3: makes me very unhappy. It's just I'm driven to it.

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Speaker 3: For whatever reason.

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Speaker 2: It does something for my brain or ability to check out.

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Speaker 2: I found I can't think about anything else when I'm

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Speaker 2: practicing music, so it just automatically makes me not think

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Speaker 2: about anything.

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Speaker 1: My dad does that love that?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know. It's funny because I play scales and

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Speaker 4: licks and stuff while I watch the news, because I

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Speaker 4: frequently find the news mostly tedious and depressing. But if

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Speaker 4: I'm concentrated, I realized I did not hear anything that

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Speaker 4: was just said. It obliterates everything else, which is what's

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Speaker 4: so healthy about it.

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Speaker 2: I think John Mayer is a big proponent of sitting

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Speaker 2: there with your guitar while you watch TV and just

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Speaker 2: kind of going through things kind of oh really, yeah,

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Speaker 2: gets in the back of your brain somehow.

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Speaker 4: I wonder, Yeah, I would argue with that handsome devil.

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Speaker 2: So what was your thing about? Get out of your

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Speaker 2: way or whatever? Katie get the hell out of my way.

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Speaker 4: I say that to my dog half a dozen times

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Speaker 4: every single day.

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Speaker 1: Just get out of the way.

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Speaker 3: My sweet friend just broke her ankle because her dog

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Speaker 3: got under her when she was going down some stairs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I've always assumed that because Baxter is

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Speaker 4: half a herding dog, that that's part of it. But

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Speaker 4: he will see where you're going and and walk over

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Speaker 4: and stand there like he wants to heard you. And seriously,

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Speaker 4: half a dozen times a day, I say, would you

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Speaker 4: stand this is a doorway, I say, looking at him.

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Speaker 1: It's just so excited to do whatever you're doing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess he's a good fellow.

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Speaker 3: Uh So my intro was about the other day at

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Speaker 3: the grocery store. And I don't know why, but I

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Speaker 1: I hate going in there.

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Speaker 3: I just like to go in, I know what I'm getting,

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Speaker 3: get my stuff, get out.

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Speaker 1: And so I'm going to get the coffee.

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Speaker 3: And I noticed like a couple of people kind of

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh God, okay, of course of course

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Speaker 3: this is happening on the aisle.

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Speaker 1: I need to go down. The reason they were.

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Speaker 3: Doing that is because this chick that was probably maybe

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Speaker 3: late twenties at I kid you not, had a camera

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Speaker 3: set up on a shopping cart and was doing a

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Speaker 3: TikTok dance and no one was telling her to move.

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Speaker 4: Wow, my god, shame I wasn't there.

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Speaker 1: Oh I wish I think we're all figuring.

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Speaker 4: God, why doesn't that happen to me?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it would have.

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Speaker 1: Been a different type of video if I was there.

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Speaker 3: Oh well, and I'm sitting there and I'm watching her,

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Speaker 3: and she didn't have the camera facing like we the

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 3: If I had been in shot, this would be a

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Speaker 3: completely different broadcast. But it was away from us and

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Speaker 3: just complete disregard for the fact. I mean, there was

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Speaker 3: and she's sitting there doing this stupid f and dance

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Speaker 1: This big, burly cowboy dude went.

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Speaker 4: Hey, move, good job, burly cowboy dude.

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Speaker 3: But it was just I mean, I don't I don't understand.

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Speaker 3: I've had a moment of like, where am I? How

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Speaker 4: Where I am?

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Speaker 3: Stopped at a grocery aisle because a woman is dancing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can see how a lot of kindly older

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Speaker 2: They're doing something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there were three people just waiting for her to

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Speaker 3: People lack the confidence to say what clearly needs to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it's it's funny. I I was thinking

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Speaker 4: what I was about to say is such a truism,

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Speaker 4: But then I realized, No, I think the vast majority

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Speaker 4: of the population, especially younger, younger people, have never heard this.

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Speaker 4: I was gonna say, Katie, what is required of good

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Speaker 4: people for evil to triumph? They're silence.

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Speaker 1: That's all this requested.

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Speaker 4: Would you don't let the evil of TikTok dancing clog

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Speaker 4: the grocery aisles of our society? Say something? What would

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Speaker 4: you have said, you dumb mother? No, I just excuse me,

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Speaker 4: just pushed past.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was too deeply, too deep in the line to

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Speaker 3: But and it was also the fact that that this

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I would have just walked to whatever

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Speaker 2: just shopped like I was normally gonna shop. And if

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Speaker 2: we end up in the same space, excuse me, not lucky.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, carts in my way, excuse me, excuse me, I

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Speaker 4: gotta get by you.

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Speaker 1: Thanks, right where I needed to be, of course, and

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Speaker 3: I stood there like an ass I was like, I

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Speaker 3: think it was because my brain didn't really understand what

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Speaker 4: Right. That's funny, isn't that when that sort of thing

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Speaker 4: happens in life that you think it's so weird you

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Speaker 4: you don't have a script for it, which is the

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Speaker 4: psychological You walk into a church, for instance, if you've

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Speaker 4: you go, like to a Catholic church as a Protestant,

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Speaker 4: try to go down a grocery all if somebody's doing

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Speaker 4: a TikTok dance, you don't really have a script for that.

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Speaker 4: You got entirely ad lib the whole thing. And yeah,

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Speaker 4: I get it. There's a moment of a right, wait

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I totally had that, And well, now that I'm seasoned,

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Speaker 3: I'll just knock her out next time.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of TikTok, it's like when the guy did the

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Speaker 2: I didn't react the way I wish I would have

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Speaker 2: Because I do not have a script for somebody doing

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Speaker 4: I didn't know what to do performance art. Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: found out that that guy does that. That's his thing.

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Speaker 2: That's his thing all the time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wonder how we.

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Speaker 1: Came up with that.

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Speaker 4: Here's what how many iterations he went through? You know,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna squat and uh and munch on a nice

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Speaker 4: ripe slice of watermelon. No, that's not really good.

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Speaker 2: It'll lay on my back and eat sardines.

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Speaker 4: No better if I do splits and eat sardines. Now,

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Speaker 4: that's still not think.

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Speaker 2: I see that guy around town now, and then I

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Speaker 2: think I wish he'd come over now because I got

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Speaker 2: a bit of the jerk store calling her out of you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I got I'm ready to talk to him now,

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Speaker 2: but he's gonna end up stalking the guy just hoping

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Speaker 2: he does it again. Hey, buddy, how you doing. You

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Speaker 2: got any like weird skills or anything.

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Speaker 5: Katie, I'm surprised that you just didn't go pick up

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Speaker 5: your product and just maybe put a couple of dance

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Speaker 5: moves on video right along with her.

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Speaker 1: You know, I join in and catch her again. I'll

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Speaker 1: show her a dance move.

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Speaker 4: Her Blewie. Well, I guess that's it.