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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, it's Sophia. Welcome to work in progress. Welcome

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Speaker 1: back to the second portion of our conversation with our

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Speaker 1: favorite gal Brookshields. I think there's something so special about

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Speaker 1: finding your friendships as women, and certainly something that I

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Speaker 1: think I cherish, especially in our you know, crazy line

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Speaker 1: of work, and you are one of the people who

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Speaker 1: lives in the way that I feel like I want to.

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Speaker 1: I have looked up to you likewise for so long

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Speaker 1: because you make sure, despite you know, being the face,

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Speaker 1: you know, being the icon, like being all of the

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Speaker 1: things that sometimes women are told they're only allowed to be,

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Speaker 1: you add all of your full humanity onto it. And

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Speaker 1: you've you've shared work about reclaiming ownership of your story.

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Speaker 1: You know, your your books, as I mentioned, have just

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Speaker 1: been so beautiful. You've you've lived through moments of celebrity

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Speaker 1: culture and also helped us process it, and you've made

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Speaker 1: us I think think about those things more deeply. And

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Speaker 1: I'm curious how you feel about fame now. Do you

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Speaker 1: feel like for you it's healthier? Do you feel like

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Speaker 1: it's a ruse? Like how what is your relationship? You've

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Speaker 1: been famous for fifty years?

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Speaker 2: Like why is that.

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Speaker 3: You know, so that's a question actually that it's surprising me,

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Speaker 3: not now because it's been coming up. It's surprising that

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Speaker 3: it has been coming up of late. And I'm sort

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Speaker 3: of wondering what is in the zeitgeist and what just

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Speaker 3: I think because with with internet sensations and TikTok stars

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Speaker 3: and reality shows and right, and you ask a kid

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Speaker 3: they say famous, you know.

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Speaker 2: You used to be. I want to be a doctor

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Speaker 2: or I want to be this.

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Speaker 3: I think people are starting to really look at fame differently,

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Speaker 3: like what does it really mean? Right?

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Speaker 2: And is it good? Is it bad? Is it purposeful?

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Speaker 3: Is it because it doesn't it doesn't rely on the

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Speaker 3: same criteria that it used to rely on in many ways,

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Speaker 3: and infamous and famous is also you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like that that sort of the relationship between those two

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Speaker 3: age and for this next generation is coming up.

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Speaker 2: What I have I used to fight it.

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Speaker 3: I used to try to shy away from it, try

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Speaker 3: to hide it. Don't want to revel in it, don't

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Speaker 3: want to don't want to oh it because it just

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Speaker 3: came with too much and it felt like it was

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Speaker 3: cannibalizing my life, right, So I fought for to be regular,

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Speaker 3: and I fought to real friends, and I thought I'd

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Speaker 3: get an education and all those things, and you kind

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Speaker 3: of come to this. I've had to come to this

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Speaker 3: conclusion that it's not going away, and I now look

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Speaker 2: And when I was able.

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Speaker 3: To sort of make that switch in my head, I

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Speaker 3: didn't resent it anymore. And yes, I still want privacy,

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Speaker 3: and I and I, you know, I'm always amazed at

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Speaker 3: how people don't listen when they're you know, they come

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Speaker 3: and you know, I knew you. I had your genes

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Speaker 3: or your doll or your this, and you were in

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Speaker 3: my locker and you're like and you could be literally

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Speaker 3: saying like I'm actually bleeding out right now, and if

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Speaker 3: right here, and it's going to be ugly and really messy,

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Speaker 3: and and you could literally have a narrative that is that,

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Speaker 3: and they go, I know, right, and you and my

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Speaker 3: sister went on and this, and and you're just like, wow,

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Speaker 3: people really need to just make it about them, And

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Speaker 3: that moment and they're desperate for it. And that used

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Speaker 2: There's nothing to do with me, It's all about you.

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Speaker 3: Then I just sort of stopped and said, Okay, first

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Speaker 3: of all, let's have empathy for those people, because if

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Speaker 3: this is the most exciting thing this happened to, I'm like,

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Speaker 3: let them have it. But also, you know, say thank

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Speaker 3: or whatever it is. And it can be kind and

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Speaker 3: you can still protect yourself. But as an actor, you know,

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Speaker 3: I've had to look at it more as a commodity

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Speaker 3: where I never would have done it. I was, you know,

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Speaker 3: And I can be kind and have a wonderful work ethic,

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Speaker 2: And owning that.

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Speaker 3: Power or that fame or whatever you want to call

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Speaker 3: it has given it this its purpose to me in

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Speaker 3: a very different way. And you know, it got me

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Speaker 3: And I know it did because of all the publicity

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Speaker 3: I did and the people wanted, you know, and I thought, Okay,

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Speaker 3: don't resent it. It's not taking from your life. If

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Speaker 3: you can harness it appropriately and don't ever overuse it,

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Speaker 3: longer career, you know. And I think that that's been

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Speaker 3: It took me a while because in a way.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, that's two.

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Speaker 3: But then I started looking at it as an executive

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: I was talking to the head of the union and

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Speaker 3: and Actor's Equity was there and I went as the president.

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Speaker 3: And this one woman is just such a dynamo and

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Speaker 3: union and the constructor union, and she's just this lovely

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Speaker 3: And she said to me, she called me up one

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Speaker 3: and I said, okay.

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Speaker 2: She said, you don't.

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Speaker 3: You don't step into your power and you deserve to

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Speaker 3: and you really really should. And she said, not just

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Speaker 3: as a union leader, because it's the most uncomfortable thing

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Speaker 3: for me, but because it's all about taking the attention

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Speaker 3: people more. And I think that she said, that's that's

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Speaker 3: had a therapist who said the same thing, and it

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Speaker 3: I think many women do experience that, yes, And I

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Speaker 3: want to keep telling them it's not arrogance, it's ownership

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Speaker 2: To have that.

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Speaker 3: And that's changed while I've been getting to this sort

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Speaker 3: And it's amazing what people want that from you, you know,

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Speaker 3: they want they want that, they look to it and

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Speaker 3: so you putting yourself down is not it's not helpful

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Speaker 1: And now a word from our sponsors, who make this

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Speaker 1: show possible. It's an interesting thing because men are asked

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Speaker 1: to humble themselves as they succeed. And I will never

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Speaker 1: forget Connie Britton said something to me similarly to what

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Speaker 1: you're saying now. We were, you know, talking about something

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Speaker 1: was like she was asking me for like a what's

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Speaker 1: a what's another way to say? And I said, I

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Speaker 1: like I'm looking at my friends going oh, right, and

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Speaker 1: I could see it for other people always, and I

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Speaker 1: could do exactly what you're saying. I could say, step

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Speaker 1: into your power. Know you're worth, organize for more. Our

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Speaker 1: unions deserve a raise, people deserve healthcare. You know, everyone

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Speaker 3: I think women are so used to holding other people

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Speaker 3: it for yourself, and it's like, yeah, yeah, but and

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Speaker 2: And I think you know.

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Speaker 3: I also, humility isn't interesting being humble and being I

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Speaker 2: You can be gracious, you could be thankful.

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Speaker 3: You can be humbled by seeing something unbelievable, that's beautiful,

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Speaker 3: or that's something and a child, you know, that is,

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Speaker 2: We don't, you know, And you think, I mean, I.

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Speaker 3: And then you start believing your self deprecation and then

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Speaker 3: because you feel less then. Yeah, and it's very it's

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Speaker 3: onto how.

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Speaker 2: To get Acorn because not everybody has Acorn.

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Speaker 3: But is that you can watch it with all types

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Speaker 3: of people like you don't. You can watch it with

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Speaker 3: your kids, you can watch it with a partner. You

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00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 3: can and it's just entertainment and you will laugh, and

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Speaker 3: you will have your heartstrings pulled every now and then,

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Speaker 3: and you will you.

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Speaker 2: Know, it's a great escape.

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Speaker 3: It's you know, it's forty five minutes or whatever with

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Speaker 3: commercials or whatever, and it's just you kind of watch

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Speaker 3: it and you leave feeling lighter because you forgot everything.

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Speaker 2: And that's crazy in the world.

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Speaker 1: You mean, an enjoyable TV watching experience, remember those.

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Speaker 3: I know, And you just sort of feel like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I feel like I just took a yoga class or something.

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Speaker 2: You know, and you've laughed and you've cried. It's better

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Speaker 2: than cats, and it's.

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Speaker 3: Just a it's a feel good They say cozy mysteries,

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Speaker 3: and I don't know, I mean that gets kind of

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Speaker 3: a little small sy in my opinion, the way that sounds.

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Speaker 3: But it's definitely, you know, there's room for just entertainment

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Speaker 3: and it's okay to laugh, and it's okay to you know,

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Speaker 3: and we're not it's not gory. You don't get a

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Speaker 3: sick feeling in your stomach, you know, like so much

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Speaker 3: of it that I watch and I'm just like, oh God,

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Speaker 3: And yes, it makes you feel good.

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Speaker 1: I love that there's so much that you've done, and

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Speaker 1: I I know you're not I know you're not hanging

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Speaker 1: anything up anytime soon. So when you think about, you know,

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Speaker 1: how life feels right now and how fulfilling it is,

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Speaker 1: what feels like your work in progress still?

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Speaker 2: I mean probably everything.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I'm gearing up for the second

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Speaker 3: season and already I'm already fighting. That's just like already

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Speaker 3: having conversations like, no, we have to get the writer's

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Speaker 3: room started two weeks earlier, not two weeks later.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, we have to build the sets, you know,

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Speaker 2: like all these things.

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Speaker 3: But I think I'm I think where I am a

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Speaker 3: work in progress is giving myself a little bit more

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Speaker 3: of a pat on the back and knowing that I

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Speaker 3: really do have to take care of myself and that

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Speaker 3: means sleeping, and that means physically and because I will run.

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Speaker 2: So, I mean, look at my arm. I'm in a

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Speaker 2: huge cat What happened.

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Speaker 3: My muscle was starting to attach itself around a nerve

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Speaker 3: and killing the nerve, and.

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Speaker 2: I was losing feeling in my hands, and you know,

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Speaker 2: you don't want to be it. You don't want to

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Speaker 2: be the crazy lady, you know.

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Speaker 3: And I finally just said to this doctor, I was like,

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Speaker 3: can you do all the tests please?

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Speaker 2: Because it turns.

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Speaker 3: Out something's up and you know better about your body.

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Speaker 3: So I think where I am at work in progress

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Speaker 3: is not really not being afraid to speak up for

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Speaker 3: myself and for things that don't feel right to me,

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Speaker 3: and not saying yes to absolutely everything because I just

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Speaker 3: I'm tired.

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Speaker 2: I'm just tired, I know, I really am.

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Speaker 3: And you know it's okay. You don't owe anybody anything,

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Speaker 3: you know, I mean, yes, their kids, but but that

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Speaker 3: it's comes from a different place, you know.

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Speaker 2: But I think you know this obligatory.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yess you know, it's just doesn't doesn't feel

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Speaker 3: good anymore, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's I think that might be my work

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Speaker 1: in progress. To my friend, well, yes, yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: well I love it. I mean, for everyone at home

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Speaker 1: catch up on the whole season of your.

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Speaker 2: Killing Me sixty chords.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like it's perfect. It's it's it's like a

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Speaker 1: great weekend of being entertained and then we can all

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Speaker 1: be ready for season two to come.

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Speaker 3: Out.

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Speaker 2: Yes, thank you, just thank you so much. I just

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Speaker 2: I'm so happy. This is a this is a piece.

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Speaker 3: Of what you're doing right now, because I think, not

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Speaker 3: only could I listen to your voice always forever, but

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Speaker 3: you have so much to say and you're so smart

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Speaker 3: and lovely and it's and I'm glad people are getting

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Speaker 3: to experience it.

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Speaker 1: Thanks, honey,