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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Sam. This is a John your og

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Speaker 1: Okay storytime podcast host and we got some great stories

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Speaker 1: coming up. Before that, we have a quick two minute

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Speaker 1: break from the sponsors that keep the show a lot.

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Speaker 1: My partner cheated on me with two women. He wants

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Speaker 1: to stay together because he has cancer. Should I stay?

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Speaker 1: Last week left off this story. Man has been exposed

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Speaker 1: for having tens of women that he has cheated on

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Speaker 1: Opie with and he is a kid with OP and

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Speaker 1: he's given OP and SDI. But the come up and

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Speaker 1: is coming. We're getting into part two of this story.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: So it's come to light this week that his ex

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Speaker 1: partners have been reporting him for years to no avail. Wow,

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Speaker 1: so this isn't the first time my man has been

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Speaker 1: found out for cheating on multiple women.

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Speaker 2: Which makes sense that he's been reported before, but horrendous

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Speaker 2: that hasn't like.

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Speaker 1: Come out again?

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Speaker 2: Thank you for working.

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Speaker 1: His mom is on the school board and her best

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Speaker 1: friend is his head teacher. And he's a teacher. This

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Speaker 1: man is teaching the youth.

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Speaker 2: Get him out of the schools.

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Speaker 1: Get him out of the schools. The only thing I

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Speaker 1: want him teaching is scheduling and time management. Because again,

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Speaker 1: how insanity insane. I'm hoping with the added element of

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Speaker 1: social services this time and an investigation into child endangement

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Speaker 1: for our daughter, they can't sweep it under the carpet

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Speaker 1: any longer. We're escalating the situation where in the UK

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Speaker 1: his complaints have been escalated to LADO in the past,

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Speaker 1: which is basically our version of what controls the school's

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Speaker 1: judgment over any dangerous situations, but nothing has happened. One

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Speaker 1: of his exes gave me all the dirty details of

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Speaker 1: their report to push that they ignored her, and it's

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Speaker 1: escalated to this. So at least op's escalating. But it

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Speaker 1: seems like nothing has happened in the past.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, at each checkpoint, no one's taken any action so.

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Speaker 1: Far, And a commentary responds, feel like we need a

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Speaker 1: full name and a link to his Facebook, or at

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Speaker 1: the very least to make sure he is up on

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Speaker 1: prick Advisor. What is that, dude?

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Speaker 2: Apparently, I guess a brick advisor a service for Yeah,

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Speaker 2: let's let's let's investigate here.

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Speaker 1: Prick advice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never heard of this. I've heard of sites though,

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Speaker 2: where it's like women can be like, oh, don't get

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Speaker 2: with this guy watching. Oh yeah, yeah, there's there's definitely

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Speaker 2: some sights out there.

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Speaker 1: I saw this thing where was like fboy dot com

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Speaker 1: M have me see that. I haven't seen him anyway,

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Speaker 1: Op responds. He deleted his Facebook after I made a

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Speaker 1: post on here. He is the most convincing person you

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Speaker 1: have ever met. For the first time, someone proved him

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Speaker 1: wrong by posting medical evidence and he couldn't take it.

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Speaker 1: I'm waiting on approval to join prick Advisor UK and

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Speaker 1: are we dating the same man in northeast to Warrnan

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Speaker 1: all the other women I couldn't find myself and comment

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Speaker 1: or asked what SDI did he passed to you? Has

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Speaker 1: your baby been tested and or treated? Nope, he responds.

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Speaker 1: At the time, I refuse further testing in denial and

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Speaker 1: regret it so much. I was given a course of

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Speaker 1: antibiotics and because my symptoms went, they left it at that.

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Speaker 1: For me, all I know is from the SDI being

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Speaker 1: untreated for so long, I ended up with strep group

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Speaker 1: So I was on an antibiotic trip when my wa

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Speaker 1: were broken to my baby would be safe. She's perfectly

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Speaker 1: healthy and face no issues luckily, thank god, the small ones.

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Speaker 1: I think I've been lucky and whatever it was must

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Speaker 1: have not turned into an STD because my medical documents

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Speaker 1: only say partner STI. We also haven't slept together for

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Speaker 1: a very long time now after my surgery, so I

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Speaker 1: know I'm at least safe now. And a commenter responds,

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Speaker 1: how does he manage his time?

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Speaker 2: We asked the same way, like is.

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Speaker 1: This superpowered time management? A full time job which requires

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Speaker 1: extra hour work, a baby, a girlfriend, a mother, many lovers.

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Speaker 1: Opie responds, he would disappear from time to time and

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Speaker 1: with a huge help for him. He would tell me

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Speaker 1: he needed to set days and times, et cetera, as

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Speaker 1: he can only work in routines for his recovery. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: I can look back now and see that really he

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Speaker 1: just needed to know which girl was where and when.

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Speaker 1: I've been told by multiple people now that he will

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Speaker 1: often just not turn up to work because he's on

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Speaker 1: a bendor at a woman's house. And I was kept

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Speaker 2: This is app like, I'm sorry if you not only

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Speaker 2: if you're a teacher and you like, you know, just

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Speaker 2: don't show up multiple times, but don't show it multiple

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Speaker 2: times and they figure out the reason was you went

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Speaker 2: on a bender with some woman and you're married.

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Speaker 1: And how are you still employed? I don't understand this,

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Speaker 1: Like this is like does that mean the mom was

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Speaker 1: in the know and the mom's just like wing manning, She's.

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Speaker 2: Like, that's my mind. You don't lock them both up?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so bad. Well. Comtor says he is a serial adulterer,

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Speaker 1: He spreads sdis he lies about having cancer, he's a

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Speaker 1: primary school teacher, and he's in a band, and OPI responds,

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Speaker 1: that he wasn't punted out in twenty nineteen for having

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Speaker 1: cancer like you told me, but putted it out in

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Speaker 1: twenty eighteen when his abusive behavior towards women was exposed

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Speaker 1: member who didn't believe it and never mentioned anything about

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Speaker 1: common to responds, is your boyfriend my ex because my

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Speaker 1: ex was also a substance regular user who faith cancer

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Speaker 1: and other health problems while abusing me physically, mentally and

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Speaker 1: spicy sleepily and op. He responds if he lives in

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Speaker 1: the UK and used to be in a feminist punk band.

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Speaker 1: Not a feminist punk band.

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Speaker 2: I know. I hate this guy, thronos out a source.

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Speaker 2: No oh man, oh so many issues. Definitely, he's like

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Speaker 2: mentally deranged.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, I need to look up something really quick.

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Speaker 1: What is it called? Oh?

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Speaker 2: The service?

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Speaker 1: He's probably like, sorry, drop my book of poems by

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Speaker 1: Rupee Kaur. What is this?

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Speaker 2: This guy's a feminist. I don't know it, bro, I

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Speaker 2: do not know. Being one hundred percent honest here, I

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Speaker 2: know Susan b Anthony Anthony God shout out.

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Speaker 1: Sorry I dropped my Margaret Atwood Feminist poetry book. Got him.

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Speaker 2: One more time for the money?

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, bro, after coming after coming away from his

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Speaker 2: They believed it, they believed it. I mean that was

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Speaker 1: I think our Rupe Kawer I forgot whatever whatever that

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Speaker 1: one is. Anyway, I'm so sorry. For your experience and

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Speaker 1: hope you've healed. Commenter says, Opie, the Daily Mail will

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Speaker 1: be all over this, they would, says, Ope, I've shown

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Speaker 1: my social worker what I've shared online so far, and

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Speaker 1: no one has been named or can be identified on here.

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Speaker 1: That's okay, And I've been extremely polite about the situation

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Speaker 1: him any more AMMO or information to use his defense,

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Speaker 1: I need to be careful until the investigations are over.

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Speaker 1: him teaching for another six years like the last time

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Speaker 1: he was reported. Another commenter says, make it pop, make

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Speaker 1: to what level do you flame this guy publicly? Because

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean it's a good question.

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Speaker 1: Because usually we're like the usual advice on the show

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Speaker 1: is like, you know, blaming people publicly usually isn't necessary,

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Speaker 2: Well, that's this is like yeah, exactly, like, oh, you

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Speaker 2: like just blown out of the water gargageman proportions. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, I feel like it's gotten to the

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Speaker 1: a pothole in the road, you'd like tell your town representatives, Hey,

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Speaker 1: like there's a pothole in the road, like affecting everyone,

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Speaker 1: Like this man is like a relation potholes. Yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: sure all the car is not no, not to drive

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Speaker 2: Psa absolutely, Like anything that OP wants to do and

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Speaker 2: is comfortable with them like probably. I mean there's so

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Speaker 2: many women. Yeah you know that they might also do

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you are doing a public service, but you at

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's I think for OP it's like, hey, do

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Speaker 2: I want to go full board with this and take Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do I want to take this on my shoulders?

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Speaker 2: You're already it's like either way, you're the one that's

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Speaker 2: You're the victim in this situation. So it's like, so

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Speaker 2: you can use you but that that it is a PSA,

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Speaker 2: Like there's probably a lot of women that don't even know.

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Speaker 1: I would say, like, generally, if someone cheats on you,

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Speaker 1: I don't think you need to publicly flame them, Like

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Speaker 1: I like, generally, I don't think that's like I think

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Speaker 1: But if they are consistently doing it, and you know,

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Speaker 1: maybe I want to warn people. Yeah, the recap publicly

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Speaker 1: calling out the man's behavior like a pothole field road

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Speaker 2: Love it, Opie.

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Speaker 1: Sadly, I think parents are aware and not receiving help

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Speaker 1: from the school in the situation. One woman he dated

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, how there has to be something like

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Speaker 1: Bro, he's probably hot.

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Speaker 2: I think he's just like a devious, evil mastermind.

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Speaker 1: Yes, evil evil, hot hot mastermind. Maybe DV is hot.

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Speaker 1: There's no way like this man is Probably.

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Speaker 2: He's probably a looker. He's probably a looker.

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Speaker 1: He's far and wide. She's been updating me to let

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Speaker 1: me know that he wasn't seen in school for multiple

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Speaker 1: days after my health visitors and social worker began their

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Speaker 1: reports on Monday. But he was back in half a

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Speaker 1: day Friday, so man's back to work is normal. Cot.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this story is multiple parts. Make sure

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Speaker 1: Let's get back into the story because we have an update. John,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is the first update. We have

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Speaker 1: an update, and this update is from February tenth, twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty five. This year, Oh my, this year. We got

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Speaker 1: Well, so I've only shown my own information. I would

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Speaker 2: We're just circling around you with our bodies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like you like bees and a hornets.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not gonna let this happen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then they vibrate and the hornet gets cood.

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Speaker 2: Do that please? Something?

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Speaker 1: He's drinking and using every weekend with his group of

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Speaker 1: twenty year old friends. I hope that answers most of

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Speaker 1: the questions in the comments for the people saying they

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Speaker 1: have been through similar Oh God, I hope not. I

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Speaker 1: am so unbelievably sorry. This is the worst pain I've

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Speaker 1: experienced and would never wish it on another soul. If

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Speaker 1: you're struggling going through this, we're still struggling, please contact

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Speaker 1: your country's crisis teams and go to your doctors for

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Speaker 1: mental health advice. I'm not sure about other counties, but

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Speaker 1: the UK is brilliant for confidential help and advice. You're

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Speaker 1: never alone. Thank you for all your advice and help.

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Speaker 1: And that's where this story ends. We got another story

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Speaker 1: in this episode coming up that's just as crazy. But wow,

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Speaker 1: what a saga. I'm kind of mad. There was no

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Speaker 1: consequences for this guy, or seemingly no conscert.

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Speaker 2: I mean hopefully literally it's now in the making, and like,

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Speaker 2: but we got to give Opi the props and kudos

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Speaker 2: because it seems that she was the one that started

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Speaker 2: knocking the car and the cards and things were happening.

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Speaker 2: Op OPI made it happen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm like, this guy, he's but he was confronted,

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Speaker 1: you know, years before, and then he just built a new.

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Speaker 2: Roster absolute insanity. You know, he could just move Like

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Speaker 2: I don't understand how the parents haven't like revolted or

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Speaker 2: like a revolt in general hasn't happened like in the

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Speaker 2: school and like all the.

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Speaker 1: Areas we need to move life with these tens of people.

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Speaker 2: Like the scandal, I don't know. I mean, I do

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Speaker 2: know it's tragic, but like, wow, I'm hopefully it's right

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Speaker 2: around the corner for this guy for all to come

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Speaker 2: crashing down.

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Speaker 1: And I would love to know the comments, like, what

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Speaker 1: do you think about this public flaming? Do you think

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Speaker 1: it's necessary? Do you think it's too much? Do you

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Speaker 1: think it's too little? Let us know what you think

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Speaker 1: in the comments below. But we got one more story

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Speaker 1: for you before we end this episode.

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Speaker 2: Let's dive in. I encourage my wife to explore nominogamy

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Speaker 2: and it ruined my marriage.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, she explored it too much.

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Speaker 2: Who would have funk?

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Speaker 1: If you want to find this episode, just go to

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Speaker 1: the show notes a description of this episode, and click

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Speaker 1: the link for part three, the finale of Dump Him Week.

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Speaker 1: See you over there,