WEBVTT - This Founder's Failed Social Networking Site Led to a Multi-Billion Dollar Idea - The Story

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to tech Stuff. I'm os Vloschin. Today we're joined

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<v Speaker 1>by Mark Pinkus. He got his start in tech during

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<v Speaker 1>the dot com era and has gone on to found

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<v Speaker 1>multiple companies, including Zinger, producer of.

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<v Speaker 2>Hit game Farm Film.

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<v Speaker 1>Mark found a Zinger in two thousand and seven, and

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<v Speaker 1>the company was acquired by Take two Interactive in twenty

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<v Speaker 1>twenty two.

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<v Speaker 2>For over twelve billion dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>He's also invested in startups like Facebook, which changed the

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<v Speaker 1>Internet as we know today. Mark's new book, Life at

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<v Speaker 1>the Speed of Play Launch Products People Love is pop memoir,

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<v Speaker 1>pop playbook for running a successful business when everything around

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<v Speaker 1>you is in flux.

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<v Speaker 2>Mark pink is welcome to text Stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks.

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<v Speaker 2>What does it mean to live your life at the

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<v Speaker 2>Speed of Play?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, there's so many dimensions that that line has meant

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<v Speaker 4>to me that I wrote a whole book.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, that's got to be the title.

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<v Speaker 4>So on the one hand, I think I think culturally,

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<v Speaker 4>I think we're on the precipice of being able to

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<v Speaker 4>feel like we're living our just our normal lives more

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<v Speaker 4>at the speed of play.

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<v Speaker 3>Speed in a good way.

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<v Speaker 4>I know there's speed that also is hectic, but the

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<v Speaker 4>ideas that life can feel like a beat down, especially

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<v Speaker 4>when we want to do something creative or launch a

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<v Speaker 4>product or a company.

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<v Speaker 3>And in games we get to skip all that.

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<v Speaker 4>We just get to the good stuff and there's really

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<v Speaker 4>no consequence, especially in you know, simulation games, there's almost

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<v Speaker 4>no consequence. Just someone else wins more than you. And

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<v Speaker 4>I think that when we lower the barriers to being

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<v Speaker 4>generitive and creative, we also unlock a lightness of being

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<v Speaker 4>a playfulness because we can try and experiment and a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of things and afford to be wrong, as opposed

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<v Speaker 4>to putting all your wood behind one arrow and saying, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>this has to work and this If this doesn't, my

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<v Speaker 4>company is going out of business or losing my house.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not like that, and it's getting less and less.

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<v Speaker 4>And now in the age of AI, you don't need

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<v Speaker 4>to quit your job. You can even simulate and see

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<v Speaker 4>whether this idea might work before you even bother to

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<v Speaker 4>try it. So I think life the speed of play

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<v Speaker 4>speaks to all of that. And then it's also this

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<v Speaker 4>whole kind of product manager bible and playbook that we

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<v Speaker 4>developed at Zinga that I tried to lay out the

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<v Speaker 4>case for it in the book.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm curious.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously you're most famous for Zinga, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a game company, and the title of the book is

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<v Speaker 1>life that the speed of play and playing games are

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<v Speaker 1>kind of two sides of the same coin, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess what is it you in games?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? I never thought that I'd be able to work

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<v Speaker 4>entrepreneur in games. It seemed like such a such a

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<v Speaker 4>closed off, different kind of industry, and it always was

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<v Speaker 4>and kind of is. But for me, I thought, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>there's a chance, a very decent chance, that games have

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<v Speaker 4>missed their real opportunity, and that in two thousand and seven,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it was a twenty three billion dollar, fairly

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<v Speaker 4>mature industry.

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<v Speaker 2>This was mainly like traditional video games.

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<v Speaker 4>Console video games was kind of flatlining, and the computer

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<v Speaker 4>gaming business was in constant slow growth.

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<v Speaker 3>But it was not a top ten activity on the web.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely not mass market, I mean in the sense of

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<v Speaker 4>that we think about it. It was a very very big,

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<v Speaker 4>niche business, but it was the size of the movie industry.

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<v Speaker 3>Now it's a lot bigger.

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<v Speaker 4>So my hypothesis was, I love the idea that there

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<v Speaker 4>can be a mature industry that has lots of revenues

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<v Speaker 4>has a existing behavior that hasn't even started its real

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<v Speaker 4>growth yet, and that was searched before Google. It was

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<v Speaker 4>fairly mature, and a lot of times those industries get

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<v Speaker 4>mature and they lack real innovation. That was the defense industry,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it was the rocket industry. And it's such

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<v Speaker 4>a terrific place to go because you don't have to

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<v Speaker 4>prove people want to play games. In this case, you

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<v Speaker 4>just had to make it much more accessible to people

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<v Speaker 4>and ask less of them, you know, drop it where

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<v Speaker 4>they are and ask them to play, you know, for

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<v Speaker 4>fifteen minutes and not have to learn anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to come back to Zinga and games, but

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<v Speaker 1>before we get that, I want to talk a bit

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<v Speaker 1>more about your family life. You don't talk too much

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<v Speaker 1>about like individual scenes I mentioned as pot memoir, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're not kind of you know, telling this happened, then,

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<v Speaker 1>that happened type of story. But your dad is this

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<v Speaker 1>kind of Homeston presence and touchstone, and I was quite

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<v Speaker 1>struck by the lesson he really seemed to impart on.

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<v Speaker 1>You is controlled, Oh yeah, yes, where to control and

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<v Speaker 1>play fit together as concepts.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually think it sounds paradoxical. But they actually do

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<v Speaker 4>come together. They are necessary. If you think about when

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<v Speaker 4>we were kids, we could play when we felt the

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<v Speaker 4>most freedom, and in a sense, in order for you

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<v Speaker 4>to have freedom, you need control. If someone else, if

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<v Speaker 4>our parents were controlling our time and behaviors in those moments,

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<v Speaker 4>we wouldn't have felt the freedom to really let loosen play.

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<v Speaker 4>And similarly, for us as creators and founders, we start

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<v Speaker 4>to learn the hard way what happens when we don't

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<v Speaker 4>have control.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not fun, it's not playful, and we don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Get to to really explore our full expression and creativity.

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<v Speaker 4>And so if you have control, then you're guaranteeing yourself

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<v Speaker 4>the open canvas or open highway for you to go

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<v Speaker 4>for it and try whatever it is that you believe in.

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<v Speaker 4>And in a lot of ways, I think that the

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<v Speaker 4>more control founders get, the more room there is to

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<v Speaker 4>see people do really risky, audacious things. Because investors don't

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<v Speaker 4>like risk, you know, they they want certainty. They like upside,

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<v Speaker 4>but they like certainty even more than upside. I mean

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<v Speaker 4>they say they want upside, but they'll take a guaranteed

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<v Speaker 4>three X. You know, most of them over you know,

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<v Speaker 4>a very small potential of one hundred x. Some may

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<v Speaker 4>argue with me, some might be right, but but you know,

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<v Speaker 4>and as you get to be more and more capital

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<v Speaker 4>you might say that there's seed investors that are fine

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<v Speaker 4>with that, but they also have a model that assumes

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<v Speaker 4>a huge loss rate. By the time you get to

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<v Speaker 4>growth investors, public market investors, you're looking at almost a

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<v Speaker 4>zero tolerance for a loss rate.

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<v Speaker 1>So control gives you confidence. Confidence allows you to play.

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<v Speaker 4>The confidence is a part of it, but it also

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<v Speaker 4>gives you degrees of freedom, and it's not very fun.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not a lot of fun to play if you're

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<v Speaker 4>told you can do anything you want between this one

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<v Speaker 4>foot wide expanse. You know, if it's like infinite do

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<v Speaker 4>whatever you can imagine, that's a lot more creatively, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>exciting and has more potential, and you need as a

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<v Speaker 4>foundered you need the freedom to make very very hard

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<v Speaker 4>decisions and bet the company decisions. And you feel that

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<v Speaker 4>you have less and less of that freedom as you

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<v Speaker 4>have more and more constituents, more employees, more investors, higher

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<v Speaker 4>stakes in this more you know, people have more to lose.

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<v Speaker 4>You're carrying a bigger responsibility, and you're kind of going

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<v Speaker 4>to war to be your best. You can't worry about

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<v Speaker 4>you can't be sitting there on the front lines worrying

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<v Speaker 4>about the people that aren't going to like this decision

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<v Speaker 4>if you believe this is the best decision.

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<v Speaker 1>Your dad gave you this advice about control long before

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<v Speaker 1>you were a founder. What did it mean to him?

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<v Speaker 1>And what did you What did this word to control, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you internalize? How did you explain the importance

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<v Speaker 1>of it to you?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it had a It was a double edged sword

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<v Speaker 4>for me with my dad and control, because I saw

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<v Speaker 4>him in building his business. He had a nationwide financial

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<v Speaker 4>pr firm, investor relations, and he had complete control of

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<v Speaker 4>his firm, and that made it very fun for him.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it made it somewhat less fun for other people, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I either the people who work for him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and he had very you know, he also had

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<v Speaker 4>complete control and you know, running our family, and sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>that made that a lot less fun for us.

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<v Speaker 3>But I did.

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<v Speaker 4>I did get from him this idea that I talk

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<v Speaker 4>about of a democratic dictatorship, and there was room. There

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<v Speaker 4>was always room for us to express an opinion or

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<v Speaker 4>a preference, but then he was going to make the decision,

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<v Speaker 4>and that was very clear and there is a value

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<v Speaker 4>in that certainty. I think that having uncertainty around decision

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<v Speaker 4>making and letting people think a lot of the problems

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<v Speaker 4>we got into a Silicon Valley companies was a false

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<v Speaker 4>sense of democracy and employees starting to think that it

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<v Speaker 4>was democracy and being led to believe that somewhat because

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<v Speaker 4>they're being given more and more agency, and then this

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<v Speaker 4>rude awakening when they found out it wasn't the democracy. People, Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>this is a business, and I run it, you don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>You're known as the technologist today, but your early career.

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<v Speaker 2>Had quite a lot of intersection with media. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>There are two funny scenes in the book which involve

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<v Speaker 1>you as a young man telling, in one case, the

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<v Speaker 1>most successful media company in American history and the other

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<v Speaker 1>case the most successful media entrepreneur in American history, Disney

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<v Speaker 1>and John Malone, that they were wrong and you were right.

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<v Speaker 3>It can happen.

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<v Speaker 2>So but talk about both those stories.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you were a job interview for Disney and

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<v Speaker 1>they were saying, what would strategy look like if we

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<v Speaker 1>opened a park in every city?

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<v Speaker 2>And you just said that's a dumb idea, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, gatting more questions Yeah, Well, I'm not good

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<v Speaker 4>at interviewing. So I have one, you know, one mode,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's authentic and that's what I aspired to and

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<v Speaker 4>I don't really inspired anything else. And corporations want people

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<v Speaker 4>who are going to be team players. And I've always said,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if I put this in the book,

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<v Speaker 4>that I'm a great team player as long as I'm

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<v Speaker 4>running the team like your dad.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just like my dad. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What I liked about I mean, you've obviously had an

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<v Speaker 1>amazingly successful career, but you're very open in this book

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<v Speaker 1>about the dark moments, something you call the abyss, and

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<v Speaker 1>not just you don't just describe the abyss, but you

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<v Speaker 1>talk about how the abyss is almost a necessary precondition

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<v Speaker 1>of the most successful periods of your life.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you explain that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, wouldn't it be nice if that were true? Because

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<v Speaker 4>then you're like, oh, I'm in a dark period. It

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<v Speaker 4>means the darkest for the dawn. It means I'm about

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<v Speaker 4>to have great stuff happen. So that's an optimistic view, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>not always true, not always true. Or how long that

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<v Speaker 4>abyss is going to go on?

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<v Speaker 2>For it?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it could be six months, it could be.

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<v Speaker 1>But in your case, you hate the abyss, and therefore

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<v Speaker 1>it gives you the motivation to do whatever you want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Get out of the abyss.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, but you got to be really careful that you

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<v Speaker 4>don't have such a strong desire to get out of

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<v Speaker 4>the abyss that you pursue a B plus idea or something.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's the longer you've been in the abyss, the

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<v Speaker 4>more desperate you are to not be in the abyss,

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<v Speaker 4>the more dangerous you are to yourself in terms that

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<v Speaker 4>you have to really have the discipline still. And that's

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<v Speaker 4>why I think I try to talk about pathways out

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<v Speaker 4>of the abyss. Are lots of little steps like engage

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<v Speaker 4>but realize that what you're engaging in may not meet

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<v Speaker 4>your ambitions, and that's powerful knowledge for you to have.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say one thing I've realized in talking about

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<v Speaker 4>this since writing the book is when I look at

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<v Speaker 4>the pattern of my career, it seems to have gone

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<v Speaker 4>in waves of success and failure. And it seems to

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<v Speaker 4>be that I had a lot of success early on

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<v Speaker 4>with Freeloader, with support dot Com going public my second

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<v Speaker 4>company right after that in like four years, and then

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<v Speaker 4>I had a long payeroerod of failure the whole two

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<v Speaker 4>thousand and one all the way, I mean through tribe

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<v Speaker 4>dot net all the way.

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<v Speaker 1>Tribet was your social network, which you found it at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time as basically read Holfum was founding LinkedIn

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<v Speaker 1>buk Zuckerberg was founding.

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<v Speaker 4>Just before Facebook. Yeah, I still managed to fail. And

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<v Speaker 4>that's when I remind people there were a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>social networks that succeeded. We just don't know them because

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<v Speaker 4>they didn't win ultimately. But tagged bibo, you know, there

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<v Speaker 4>was a whole bunch. There was like seven or eight,

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<v Speaker 4>so lots of social networks worked. You know, people were

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<v Speaker 4>into it. I was one of the only ones to fail.

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<v Speaker 4>So this wasn't like there was one that made out

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<v Speaker 4>of one hundred. You know, there might have been like

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<v Speaker 4>seven or eight that made it out of I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>twelve or ten, you know, so I was in a minority.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it was like an active will to do it

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<v Speaker 4>in a feeling way, and it was so humbling that

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<v Speaker 4>I think it prepared me well for Zinga and being

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<v Speaker 4>ready to do something, start something very small and really

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<v Speaker 4>get to product market fit first and then ambition after.

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<v Speaker 1>And you saw it with your own money, right, You

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<v Speaker 1>can't take any excellent on funding. You got it to

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<v Speaker 1>be cash for positive before you started talking to investors.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, I mean it was actually cash flow

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<v Speaker 4>positive a month after we launched poker the first game.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, I put up three hundred and fifty thousand

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<v Speaker 4>to start the company. We were cash flow positive and

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<v Speaker 4>we actually never needed any of the money that we

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<v Speaker 4>raised all the way up to going public. But I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't know that, and we kept spent doubling down and

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<v Speaker 4>spending more and more. But then our revenues and profits

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<v Speaker 4>kept growing ahead of that. And I will say a

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<v Speaker 4>lesson I've got an investing that comes from Zinga is

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<v Speaker 4>when you see these companies that are growing like that

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<v Speaker 4>and they're beating their own numbers, you just invest at

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<v Speaker 4>any price they asked for, like the.

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<v Speaker 1>Other type of company. So you's always invested in. When

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<v Speaker 1>you've got a call saying we don't have enough computer, right,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah we just need more service. Yeah, just send them

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<v Speaker 1>a check.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't want to come back to zincer.

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<v Speaker 1>But starting in the beginning, as a quote in your book,

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<v Speaker 1>at twenty eight, I found myself washed up and living

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<v Speaker 1>in a junior one bedroom apartment in Washington, DC. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>been the only kid in my hav A business school

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<v Speaker 1>section to graduate without a job. Over the years, my

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<v Speaker 1>classmates have become partners at Goldman or McKinsey, started hedge funds,

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<v Speaker 1>while I managed to get fired from every place I

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<v Speaker 1>worked or.

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<v Speaker 2>Standing in your way? And how did you change that

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<v Speaker 2>with freeloader?

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<v Speaker 4>If I didn't change it, what was standing my way

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<v Speaker 4>was self realization that I'm not employable. Right, So once

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<v Speaker 4>once I accepted that, and I was probably undermining myself.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I know I was undermining myself in all

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<v Speaker 4>these jobs because I know at Columbia Capital there was

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<v Speaker 4>a path I could have gone down to fit in

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<v Speaker 4>to their culture. We see that, right, We're like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>it's not me, but I could adapt me. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>I could dress more like they didn't have a dress code,

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<v Speaker 4>but they all dressed like in khakis and stuff, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>And I was just in like beat up jeans and

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<v Speaker 4>now it's normal the way I just but it was

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<v Speaker 4>not then. But I was I think on some subconscious level,

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<v Speaker 4>I was my father's son and I just was never

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<v Speaker 4>going to.

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<v Speaker 2>You're forcing yourself to fail in some way.

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<v Speaker 1>So you could do your own thing or inviting failure

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<v Speaker 1>without even being fully aware of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I just was never cut out to.

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<v Speaker 4>Fit into some corporate culture, and I tried to All

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<v Speaker 4>that shaped the way I created companies because I wanted

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<v Speaker 4>cultures to not be so oppressive, and I wanted I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to invite divergence, and I wanted to invite in

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<v Speaker 4>weird different kinds of people and mindsets and not have

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<v Speaker 4>people say this is and it happens the at Zinga

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<v Speaker 4>people would say this isn't the way we do it,

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<v Speaker 4>and I would fight that.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like fuck that if? What if the way

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<v Speaker 3>we do it is stupid?

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<v Speaker 4>Like we need some maybe the people who are going

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<v Speaker 4>to say, well, your way of doing it is dumb,

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<v Speaker 4>and like bring that the fuck on?

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<v Speaker 2>After the break?

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<v Speaker 1>Why online poker became Zinga's first success story, stay with us.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a concept in your book which is right, instinct,

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<v Speaker 1>wrong idea. I guess with Tribe don't Net that was

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<v Speaker 1>a classic example, right, Yeah, you're correct that social media

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<v Speaker 1>was going to become basically the whole Internet. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're actually was the wrong one. The company before that,

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<v Speaker 1>which was called Freeloader You essentially had the idea that

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<v Speaker 1>you were going to sort of push information from the

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<v Speaker 1>open Internet onto people's screen savers, and I slowly downloaded

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<v Speaker 1>overnight because that was the speed of the interests. That was,

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<v Speaker 1>in a sense, the wrong instinct but the right idea,

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<v Speaker 1>right because you managed to sell that company for thirty

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<v Speaker 1>eight million dollars, whereas in fact the Internet was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of moving on just as you were selling it, right,

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<v Speaker 1>or how how do you characterize them right now?

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<v Speaker 4>It's a really interesting way of framing it. I haven't

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<v Speaker 4>thought about it that way. I think that it was

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<v Speaker 4>the right instinct in that moment. It was the right

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<v Speaker 4>instincts that I think I did tap into that the

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<v Speaker 4>Internet was too hard for most people and not accessible,

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<v Speaker 4>and it was too slow. Those are my two big instincts.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, it's too hard and it's too slow for

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<v Speaker 4>normal people. I mean, you could also say it was

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<v Speaker 4>wrong instinct about the Internet being slow, because bandwidth came

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<v Speaker 4>eventually got faster. But in that moment it was right,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think the idea was I think it was

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<v Speaker 4>the right idea, and I think our execution was like

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<v Speaker 4>a B minus. I mean, it was a pretty janky product,

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<v Speaker 4>but it was. But it was so interesting that you

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<v Speaker 4>can bring out kind of a really bad product that

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<v Speaker 4>really has an idea that resonates for people, and it

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<v Speaker 4>can do well despite that. You know, it could work

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<v Speaker 4>twenty percent of the time and that's enough for people.

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<v Speaker 3>And in the beginning, when something's emergent.

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<v Speaker 1>It's also I mean, so you sold that company within

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<v Speaker 1>less than a year of building it, yeah, for thirty

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<v Speaker 1>eight million dollars, which is exactly the same price your

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<v Speaker 1>father sold his company for. That's weird, Which is weird?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the conversation like?

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<v Speaker 4>It was a real kind of wake up moment for

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<v Speaker 4>my dad because he had built his company over thirty

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<v Speaker 4>eight years and sold it for thirty eight million dollars

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<v Speaker 4>and it was a huge success and his company produced

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<v Speaker 4>very lo large income for him and his partners. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>he is an agency and agencies at agencies and pr

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<v Speaker 4>firms don't have a lot of assets they build up,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it's just the people and the brand. So

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<v Speaker 4>that was a huge success at his time. But then

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<v Speaker 4>this was on a different order magnitude because the Internet

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<v Speaker 4>is a marketplace of everybody, so it was just such

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<v Speaker 4>a different scale and my dad shifted the relationship, and

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<v Speaker 4>all of a sudden he was like, okay, you you

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<v Speaker 4>get something that I don't get, and you're like surpassing me,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, and men are very thinking a lot about,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, money and achievement, and my dad was very

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<v Speaker 4>achievement oriented. And so it did change the relationship in

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<v Speaker 4>good ways. I mean we we since I was eighteen,

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<v Speaker 4>we had had more of a p your relationship when

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<v Speaker 4>he wasn't supporting me financially, and then this really changed it.

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<v Speaker 1>So then you sort of you took the money and

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<v Speaker 1>then you started thinking about basically this was was this

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen ninety five?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it nineteen ninety six, nine ninety six?

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<v Speaker 2>And then you made support dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>You took it public, another big success, and then the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of dot com boom outside the dot com bust

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<v Speaker 1>happened and you had time on your hands, as did

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of other interesting people like bread Hoffmann, and

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<v Speaker 1>you started thinking about what you referred to as like

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<v Speaker 1>the social cocktail party on the internet. And you made

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<v Speaker 1>tribe dot net. What why do you think tribe dot

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<v Speaker 1>net failed where LinkedIn and Facebook succeeded.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I saw the potential to acquire a big audience

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<v Speaker 4>through the virality of social networking, and that worked, and

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<v Speaker 4>Tribe was very viral and got a big audience quickly,

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<v Speaker 4>much bigger than LinkedIn. But what I didn't see was

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<v Speaker 4>how important trust was for mainstream Internet users. And they

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<v Speaker 4>were just putting themselves on the Internet and they didn't

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<v Speaker 4>like the idea of strangers seeing them and contacting them.

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<v Speaker 4>But my business model, which was to be like Craigslist

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<v Speaker 4>meets Friendster, the business model of Craigslist, was at odds

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<v Speaker 4>with that because to be a Craigslist a listing, everyone

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<v Speaker 4>needed to be able to contact everybody. So what really

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<v Speaker 4>worked on Tribe, and this is still an opportunity that's

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<v Speaker 4>not explored that someone should go steal and use, is

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<v Speaker 4>the value of the loose ties of these urban tribes,

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<v Speaker 4>these psychographic in some cases demographic, but interest based groups

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<v Speaker 4>that you have affinity groups. And that's what Tribes was

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<v Speaker 4>that it was based on Ethan Waters, I think that's

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<v Speaker 4>his name, essay on urban tribes, and that really worked.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean people loved it. They would be in the

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<v Speaker 4>Mission something tribe or they had their burning Man camps.

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<v Speaker 4>And so now you have these people, you have enough

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<v Speaker 4>of them affinity to and you can that was enough

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<v Speaker 4>to go to Brazil and somebody who knows someone from

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<v Speaker 4>my burning Man camp or from my Mission Freaks or whatever,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, weird group had enough of an affinity for

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<v Speaker 4>that social filter and lens to create a likeness and

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<v Speaker 4>a connection for me with someone in Brazil they've never met.

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<v Speaker 4>And so in a way it was like LinkedIn's two

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<v Speaker 4>or three degrees away and that worked. The two problems

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<v Speaker 4>with that one I ignored it. So that's a problem

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<v Speaker 4>in the Paul Graham sense. I should have just focused

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<v Speaker 4>on that one part and said, Okay, that's working. How

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<v Speaker 4>do I be that right? And in some ways that's reddit.

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<v Speaker 4>But and then the other problem though with that is

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<v Speaker 4>that that for that loose ties concept to work, you

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<v Speaker 4>still need people to be able to see and connect

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<v Speaker 4>with people that they are not that are not in

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<v Speaker 4>their networks, and so that's violating that trust thing. So

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<v Speaker 4>there's still going to have the membrane of trust being

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<v Speaker 4>very difficult to get right. So you know, it ends

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<v Speaker 4>up being a lot of mainstream women getting you know,

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<v Speaker 4>undesirable interest you know from a lot of men, so

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<v Speaker 4>you know, which comes off in the form of dick pics.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So anyway, that was Yeah, that was a big

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<v Speaker 3>miss with.

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<v Speaker 2>Tribe, but it was the right instinct.

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<v Speaker 4>It was like three killer instincts and one losing idea,

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<v Speaker 4>and it put.

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<v Speaker 1>You in put you in the right stream both meeting

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<v Speaker 1>a young monk Zuckerberg and being one of the very

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<v Speaker 1>first investors in Facebook. I think you invested like was

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<v Speaker 1>it fifty dollars thirty eight act number? Yeah, thirty eight again, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, and that if you kept it with worth

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<v Speaker 1>six billion dollars today. Yeah, yeah, you didn't keep all

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<v Speaker 1>of it, have done some of it.

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<v Speaker 4>The only like sliver I kept was what I put

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<v Speaker 4>in my kids accounts eventually, so they.

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<v Speaker 2>Got to thank you Dad.

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<v Speaker 1>And also, I mean, what would you so take a

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<v Speaker 1>step back, what is Zinger And would you have been

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<v Speaker 1>able to come up with it if you hadn't done Tribe?

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<v Speaker 4>I guess I know I wouldn't have gotten to Zinga

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<v Speaker 4>if I hadn't done Tribe first. And because when we

0:25:31.400 --> 0:25:33.679
<v Speaker 4>were doing Tribe, we were thinking there's going to be

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<v Speaker 4>this massive competition on plugins. We call it plugins but APIs.

0:25:38.119 --> 0:25:41.439
<v Speaker 4>We thought there's going to be these video services and

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<v Speaker 4>games and all these other things. We were right to

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<v Speaker 4>some degree. We said, we'll never be able to keep

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<v Speaker 4>up with the other social networks. So the only way

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<v Speaker 4>is going to be having a plug in architecture.

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<v Speaker 1>So we have this captive audience, will allow the people

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<v Speaker 1>to access it and will charge them some.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and then that didn't happen until eventually it did,

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<v Speaker 4>and later than I thought. So I thought this happened

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<v Speaker 4>in you know, two thousand and four, two thousand and five,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, it didn't happen until two thousand and seven.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm still always thinking about this. But I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>it's so annoying to have to go get distribution. It's

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<v Speaker 4>so annoying to have to raise venture capital line to

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<v Speaker 4>build all of this infrastructure of accounts and password reset,

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<v Speaker 4>like all that stuff that now we take for granted.

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<v Speaker 3>You had to build yourself then.

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<v Speaker 4>And but then at the same time, Facebook announced they're

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<v Speaker 4>opening up their API access, and I said, great, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't have to build any of this infrastructure. I can

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<v Speaker 4>just be on someone else's network. A lot of what

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<v Speaker 4>I think about in social networks and games is dimensionality,

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<v Speaker 4>and I like the idea of there's a richness of

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<v Speaker 4>being able to do something that opens this other dimension

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<v Speaker 4>that wasn't there.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So it creates a new paradigm of interaction. You're

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook and then you get to go into poker.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually on the whole web, it's a quiet experience. It's

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<v Speaker 4>like you're in a library. You are just looking at

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<v Speaker 4>your browser that hasn't changed since nineteen ninety four. It's

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<v Speaker 4>the same browser. It's the same type in you know,

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<v Speaker 4>URL window, and it's still links and pages, right, And

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<v Speaker 4>I thought, when's it going to get rowdy? And so

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<v Speaker 4>what I want to do with poker? I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I want to make it kind of loud and rowdy.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to be like, turn the lights up a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit. And on Facebook, nobody could talk to each other,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, live or anything. And now all of a

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<v Speaker 4>sudden they could drop in here and meet the other

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<v Speaker 4>people and often their friends.

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<v Speaker 1>And they're not playing for money those it's it's no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's spoke of additional chips. Yes, And nonetheless it was cuptivating.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, people are afraid of losing even a dollar, so

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<v Speaker 4>people don't want to be the sucker. So there's a

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<v Speaker 4>mentality that people would rather practice their poker without having

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<v Speaker 4>to spend money. But an insight that I had was

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<v Speaker 4>that they wanted more chips, first of all, because they

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<v Speaker 4>always do, but second because they wanted to play against

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<v Speaker 4>better players.

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<v Speaker 1>But they would play real money. They would pay real

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<v Speaker 1>money to get more chips. They will later and back

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<v Speaker 1>into money. But so Poka takes off, then Foamville you

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<v Speaker 1>become most famous for right Yeah, And all this time,

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<v Speaker 1>basically all of your business is coming through Facebook, and

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<v Speaker 1>Mark is your friend and you're one of the first

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<v Speaker 1>invests in his business. And then all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 1>they turn around to you and say, if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>play by all of our rules and effectually become a subsidiary,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to kill you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>How did that feel? Well?

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't take any of it personally, because it's the

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<v Speaker 4>only reason that we were able to scale so quickly

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<v Speaker 4>was because we were, you know, an app apps riding

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<v Speaker 4>on top of Facebook. So at one moment you're on

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<v Speaker 4>strategy for them, and another moment you're not on strategy,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's life and it's there.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's their right to do that.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't like the way they went about it, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>kind of taking us in a dark alley and beating

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<v Speaker 4>us up and In fact, the only reason that in

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<v Speaker 4>the end they came back to the negotiating table with

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<v Speaker 4>us is because at some point we realized that we

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<v Speaker 4>didn't have any NDA signed between the two companies, so

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<v Speaker 4>we I don't know if we threaten this, but we

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:24.800
<v Speaker 4>heavily implied that there was nothing stopping us from taking

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<v Speaker 4>their agreement they asked us for to sign and publishing

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<v Speaker 4>it on the internet, which would not have helped their reputation.

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<v Speaker 2>And because they would have been seen to be bullying.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not going to help you being an app developer

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<v Speaker 4>platform when your lead app developer was just given like

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<v Speaker 4>put the barrel. Yeah, a contract you know that says

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<v Speaker 4>you're going to be captive to our company and and

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<v Speaker 4>nothing that you launch on Facebook can go anywhere else

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<v Speaker 4>on the internet. You know, like that might dry up,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, interest in your platform pretty quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>So you, with John Doo's support, turned around and said

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to fight this and rather go down than

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<v Speaker 1>except becoming your subsidiary.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. It was a very heroic, romantic moment for our

0:30:05.000 --> 0:30:09.080
<v Speaker 4>company and scary, but I knew it wasn't going to matter.

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<v Speaker 4>That Zuck and I were friends and at this point

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<v Speaker 4>I'd been to his wedding. You know, we were legitimately friends,

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<v Speaker 4>but he had such a sense of fate and destiny

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<v Speaker 4>that nothing was going to get in the way of that.

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<v Speaker 4>And so if if there was something about Zinga that

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<v Speaker 4>was in the way, it didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Matter if we had a friendship. I said.

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<v Speaker 4>It was more like he wouldn't take pleasure as he

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<v Speaker 4>like pushed the sword into my neck.

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<v Speaker 2>So look how much to ask you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's it's the sort of fomo era all

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<v Speaker 1>over again, right like, I mean there it's a space

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<v Speaker 1>x ipo anthropic ipo, and I mean that's just that's

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<v Speaker 1>just money, but everything that goes around it is I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the moment where everybody in Selicon Value is

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<v Speaker 1>feeling that the future is being built in real time. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>your friend riad Hoffmann wrote the wrote the forward to

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<v Speaker 1>your book, and he I thought it was very very

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<v Speaker 1>interesting essay actually, but I.

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<v Speaker 4>Think what he wrote was so good that it I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, oh shit, I got to make the book better.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a funny a funny way around, but I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he he Basically I always ask people two questions, what

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<v Speaker 1>game are you playing?

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<v Speaker 2>And what's your theory? Of the game.

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<v Speaker 1>So I guess I want to ask that question to you,

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<v Speaker 1>and in particular to ask you know, as you think

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<v Speaker 1>about this moment, everything you've done so far, you know,

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:25.719
<v Speaker 1>what's the game you're playing, what's your theory of it,

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<v Speaker 1>and what comes next?

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<v Speaker 2>For Mark Pinkers in the Age of AI.

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<v Speaker 4>I asked myself that all the time. Luckily I have

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<v Speaker 4>some answers, and I talked in the book about that.

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<v Speaker 4>I realized in the midst of building Zinga, what my

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<v Speaker 4>why was that I want to build one of these

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<v Speaker 4>Internet treasures, these services. We can't remember life before or

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<v Speaker 4>imagine life without. And that's my why. And what I

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<v Speaker 4>also realized in this kind of came through my book

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<v Speaker 4>of Life Practice just.

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<v Speaker 2>For the audience, that this is basically an annual review

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<v Speaker 2>cycle you give to.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, and the first part of it is read

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<v Speaker 4>it or throughout it, I'm reading everything I've written before,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's a conversation and a dialogue with yourself over time.

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<v Speaker 4>And the painful weight of time and weight of pages

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<v Speaker 4>is how many years you talk about doing the same

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<v Speaker 4>things and you don't do it right And we all

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<v Speaker 4>feel that, but there's nothing like reading it in your

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<v Speaker 4>like shit, five years ago, ten years ago, I was

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<v Speaker 4>trying to do the same thing. I was still talking

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<v Speaker 4>about launching dot earth next year, and I still haven't

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<v Speaker 4>fucking done it right, And it's like, what am I

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<v Speaker 4>going to do differently this year? How am I going

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<v Speaker 4>to stop time and make a difference? And so it's

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<v Speaker 4>it's been a powerful practice for me. It hasn't always worked, obviously,

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<v Speaker 4>because I kept talking about launching dot earth and I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't do it. But what I have learned is this

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<v Speaker 4>that there's It's the most important thing over time is

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<v Speaker 4>not It's not whether or not you achieve it the goal.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not whether or not I build that internet treasure

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<v Speaker 4>that I dream of, It's did I go after it?

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<v Speaker 4>Am I in integrity with that goal or out of integrity?

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<v Speaker 4>Because if I went for it last year, which I

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<v Speaker 4>did and it didn't work, which it didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't feel bad about last year.

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<v Speaker 4>I can check that off and say, Okay, I tried

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<v Speaker 4>that approach, it didn't work. I'm not going to do

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<v Speaker 4>that again. What did I learn from that that I

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<v Speaker 4>can do definitely this year if I didn't do it

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<v Speaker 4>last year, and it's just another broken promise to myself.

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<v Speaker 4>The deeper thing is I'm out of integrity with myself.

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<v Speaker 4>It means in some level, I can't trust myself. So

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<v Speaker 4>you're kind of full of shit. You're writing this down

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<v Speaker 4>here as you did last year, but I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't what's the point.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't believe you because you're going to get distracted

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<v Speaker 4>and you don't really mean it. So when are you

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<v Speaker 4>going to be honest with yourself that you don't really

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<v Speaker 4>have this goal? So you know, I'm being very Northern

0:34:02.960 --> 0:34:07.120
<v Speaker 4>California about this, but you know it's it's true. And

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<v Speaker 4>so for me, what is the game? The game is

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<v Speaker 4>I enjoyed building innovative, emergent products, trying to connect the

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<v Speaker 4>dots before they're obvious, trying to bring that to the

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<v Speaker 4>mass market, make these things accessible to them in ways

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<v Speaker 4>that they don't feel stupid. And the game is I wanted.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to be prosecuting that with great teams, and

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<v Speaker 4>I hope to get back to the high that I

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<v Speaker 4>had with Zinga of just this loop of every week

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<v Speaker 4>coming up with ideas and working with great teams and

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<v Speaker 4>then seeing them go out, learn and do, rinse, and

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<v Speaker 4>do it again.

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<v Speaker 2>The book is life at the speed of Play. Not thinkers.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, thanks for tech stuff. I'mos Vloscian.

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<v Speaker 1>This episode was produced by Eliza Dennis and Melissa Slaughter.

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