1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,159 Speaker 1: Welcome to two percent. I'm your host, Michael Easter. Today's 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: guest is Robert Young Pelton. Robert is a journalist who's 3 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: been covering conflicts in war zones and all sorts of 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: wild places for decades. This guy's gonna make a case 5 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: for why getting out of your comfort zone and taking 6 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: on a little bit of risk in life can really 7 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 1: enhance your life across the board, not to mention, this 8 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 1: human being has the most insane stories I've ever heard 9 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 1: in my life, like the time he got kidnapped by 10 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: rebels in Columbia for more than ten days, early meetings 11 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: with the Taliban. 12 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 2: And much more. 13 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: This is an entertaining one, but it's also a really 14 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: insightful one. So with all that said, we're gonna take 15 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: a break. 16 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 2: We're gonna bring on Robert. All right. Well, Robert, thanks 17 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 2: for coming on two percent. 18 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 3: My pleasure. 19 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 2: All right. For those who are unfamiliar, what's the thrust 20 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 2: of your work? 21 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 4: I focus on conflict, mostly emerging groups, So you know, 22 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 4: dirty wars, I guess is a good way to describe it. 23 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 4: But you know a lot of them are non state actors. 24 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:09,839 Speaker 4: They might be PMCs, mercenaries, rebel groups, Jiahatis. I spent 25 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 4: some time with Special Forces, which of course is not 26 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 4: a splinter group, but they're an unusual group that doesn't 27 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 4: usually get covered. So I try to look at the 28 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 4: sort of the cutting edge of conflict and warfare and 29 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 4: what that means. So I guess that's the shortest way 30 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,199 Speaker 4: I can do it. But more important is I spend 31 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 4: time with these people, so I'm I'm in the middle 32 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 4: of their world, and I spend quality time so I 33 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 4: can understand their motivations, what it's really like, et cetera, 34 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 4: et cetera. 35 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: How long have you been doing this? 36 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,119 Speaker 4: I guess since the early nineties. You know, I used 37 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 4: to be a marketing genius. I had a nice, big 38 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 4: office with my name on it, and I had fifty employees, 39 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 4: and I was on the ink five hundred number, one 40 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 4: hundred and forty six. And I did that transition when 41 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 4: I'm the early forties, I guess. So you know I was. 42 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 4: I was getting in trouble before getting into try So. 43 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: I want to give listeners some context here. What's the 44 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: sketchy situation you found yourself in. 45 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 3: You're asking like a football player, what was his favorite. 46 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: I love that you have to I love that you 47 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: have to you're going through a file and it's a 48 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: big file like that. 49 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 4: Enough, Yeah, it's not even worth trying to ask me 50 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 4: what the most dangerous thing I did, because I wrote 51 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 4: a book called the World's Most Dangerous Places. So if 52 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 4: I'm not in the most dangerous places, I'm not doing 53 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:27,399 Speaker 4: my job. 54 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 3: So it's not like I'm. 55 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 4: An accountant who got caught up in some you know, 56 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 4: mall shooting. 57 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 3: I literally go to find the. 58 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 4: Most intense place I can find, and from that comes 59 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 4: a number of experiences. 60 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 3: But I tell everybody everywhere I go, there's little old 61 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 3: ladies there. So it's not me. 62 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 4: It's not for me to brag about how close I 63 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 4: came to death if you unless you can measure like 64 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:49,639 Speaker 4: a bullet. 65 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 3: You know, hitting a wall behind you. 66 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 4: But yeah, I guess the closest I came to death 67 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 4: was when a Liberian rebel shot a bullet like two 68 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 4: inches from my ear. 69 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 3: So that's that's a good measurable distance. 70 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 2: What was going on there that you were over there? 71 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 4: It was a it was a gunfight on the road, 72 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 4: you know, when you when you're surrounded, and we were 73 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 4: in Vanjamin, the. 74 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 3: Charles Taylor's forces used to attack us every day, and 75 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 3: then the rebels would go. 76 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 4: Out to meet them on the road and it all 77 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 4: starts shooting at each other until enough people died, and. 78 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 3: Then they go back to whatever they were doing before that. 79 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 4: And I tend to get up close to the action, 80 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 4: so sometimes the people are shooting from behind me and 81 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 4: over my head. So but I mean, again, it's not 82 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 4: my place to brag about, because there's people that I 83 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 4: can leave a war anytime I want. 84 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 2: Right, That's a really good point. 85 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 3: There's people that can't leave wars. 86 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: And you also left your marketing job in the nineties, 87 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: so tell us how you even got into marketing in 88 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: the first place, and then what prompted you to leave 89 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 1: that role despite its success and the money and all 90 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: of that. That's a good question. 91 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 4: So when I was a kid, I was sixteen, I 92 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 4: lived in a car. I was kicked out of the 93 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 4: house when I was sixteen. I didn't have any money, 94 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 4: so it was cheaper to bout car. Then i'd get 95 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 4: an apartment and I picked fruit for living, you know, 96 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 4: the whole John Steinbeck thing. And I had taken an 97 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 4: aptitude and interest test in high school and basically said 98 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 4: I could either be an astronaut, an advertising man, or 99 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 4: an adventurer. 100 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 3: So the only real job in there was advertising man. 101 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 4: So when I got tired of living in a car 102 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 4: who was a nineteen sixty three Rambler Classic station bag. 103 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 4: Quite nice, you know, pulmanized, they called it, I drove 104 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 4: to Toronto and I called everybody in the phone book, 105 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 4: literally starting with the a's, and said, I'm supposed to 106 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 4: be an advertising man. I'm going to come down and 107 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 4: you can give me a job. And they're like, sure, kid. 108 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 4: So three of those people, three CEOs, actually read to 109 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 4: meet with me. And remember I'm sixteen going on seventeen 110 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 4: at this time. And I met one gentleman who was 111 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 4: impressed with my goal I guess, and said, well, you 112 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 4: know I started in the metal room, so maybe you 113 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 4: can start in the mail room. Work your way up, 114 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 4: blah blah blah. And I said okay. So I went 115 00:04:58,320 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 4: down to the memrooms. 116 00:04:58,960 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 3: So give me a job. 117 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 4: I said, what experience do you have in the meilroom? 118 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 4: I said none, he said out of here. So I 119 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 4: worked as a mailroom in Merrill Lynch stockbrokerage for six 120 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 4: months to get experienced to come back and get a 121 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:13,359 Speaker 4: job in the mailroom what was in BBDO? 122 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 3: And I then began writing. I read all the mail 123 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 3: as a mailboy. 124 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 4: So I wrote a marketing plan which was distributed by 125 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:26,919 Speaker 4: the creative director and vice president to basically shame the 126 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 4: creative people because they hadn't come up with some cool 127 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 4: idea to get this account. And I remember him telling 128 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 4: me that he distributed this thing which I typed on 129 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 4: a Remington and he said, you know who wrote that? 130 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:40,919 Speaker 3: He said, you know, the mailboy wrote that. And you 131 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 3: know much we pay him? 132 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:45,239 Speaker 4: Said dollar an hour. So everybody hated me, but they promoted. 133 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 3: Me to copywriter. 134 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 4: Anyway, it's all long story short. I worked my way 135 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 4: up and I moved to the States on Malania visa, 136 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 4: you know, being a genius, and I started working for 137 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 4: people in Hollywood in California and started my own company 138 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 4: and it was very successful at solving corporate problems that 139 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 4: people had because of my sort of ground truth approach 140 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 4: to marketing research, which I had done when I was 141 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 4: sixteen trying to get a job as a copywright. I 142 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 4: just go out and talked to people and ask him, 143 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 4: what would you do? What do you think of this? 144 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: You know, how would you handle a lot of products 145 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 1: and situation whatever, and. 146 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I have no fear. But you know, I 147 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 4: used to sell chickens when I was ten years old. 148 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 4: I went to a boys school that we raised animals 149 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 4: slaughter than sold intoor to doors. 150 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 3: So I had been. 151 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:37,039 Speaker 4: I'd been, you know, taught how to fear no one 152 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 4: in the middle of the winter trying to empty your 153 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:41,679 Speaker 4: basket of like bacon and ham and chickens or whatever. 154 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 4: So and plus I enjoy talking to people. So anyway, 155 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 4: bottom line is that around when I was in my 156 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 4: early forties, the guy that i'd worked that originally I 157 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 4: worked for, that had promoted me to be a copywriter, 158 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 4: actually left his job after I left and moved to Spain. 159 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 4: Bottom monkey put an earring in and started writing poetry, 160 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 4: and then after doing that for six months, sold the 161 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 4: monkey took the hearing out through where the beret moved. 162 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 4: Ben back with his wife and I think twelve kids, 163 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 4: and died of a heart attack, and I thought, wow, 164 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 4: he was like fifty something change. My father contracted Luke 165 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 4: Garritt's disease, which is a debilitating disease that takes you know, months, 166 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 4: So it took him two years to die and one 167 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 4: of my clients was playing racquetball, actually my largest client, 168 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 4: and broke his like his color bone, and it wouldn't heal, 169 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 4: and so he went back in and they did X 170 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 4: rays and they said, you got bum cans. He got 171 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 4: like six months to live. So I had always taken 172 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 4: a month off to do whatever I wanted to do, 173 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 4: because the test of a good business is that if 174 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 4: you can leave for a month and it's still there 175 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 4: when you get you actually have a good business, right, 176 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 4: And so I would pick a place on a map, 177 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 4: and I just say I'm going to go, you know, Borneo, Africa. 178 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 3: Whatever. 179 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 4: I did, things like the Camel Trophy. I drove around 180 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 4: the island of Borneo. I did all kinds of interesting things. 181 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 4: And sometimes there were journalists on these expeditions and they 182 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 4: were to make fun of me. 183 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 3: You're a dial a time. 184 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 4: You're like this business guy that you know takes one 185 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 4: month off to do something. And then back in the office, 186 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 4: I said, well, what's real adventure? And I said, you know, 187 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 4: try to go into a country where they're trying to 188 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 4: kill you. And I'm like, what do you mean by 189 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 4: I said, Well, there's places on Earth where if you 190 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 4: go there they will kidnap you and shoot you, harm you. 191 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 4: And I'm like, really, remember I'm not naive, but I 192 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 4: didn't think of this as something you would do on 193 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 4: your victy with your month off. 194 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 3: And I was intrigued by that, and I'm like, well, 195 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 3: give me an example. 196 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 4: And they said, well, you know, like eastern Turkey, there's 197 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 4: this warlord in Afghanistan. There's all these militias and you know, 198 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:47,679 Speaker 4: nobody goes there. And I said, well, if I go there, 199 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 4: would you interview them? They go, oh, hell, yeah, right. 200 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 4: So my first trip was to meet a guy named 201 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 4: Bushak who had tried to kill a pope. 202 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 3: And we drove up on his compound. 203 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 4: And I didn't realize that they were These guys had 204 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 4: guns trained on this because you know, a gun pointed 205 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 4: at you is a very small visual object. So we 206 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 4: drive right in and the guy wants to know what 207 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:10,679 Speaker 4: I want. I said, well, I'm here to meet you, 208 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 4: and like, so, what right, And I'm like, yeah, but 209 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 4: I'm going to write a story about you. I'm going 210 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 4: to do this and I'm going to send friends down 211 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 4: to interview you. 212 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:20,680 Speaker 3: He's like, no, you're not. So he doesn't know what 213 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 3: to do, but he's polite because. 214 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 4: He's Kurdish, right, And he decides we're going to have 215 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 4: a shooting contest. So I'm a pretty good shot. So 216 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 4: his bodyguard throws a pepsi can in the air and 217 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 4: I nail it, right, And so he does that for 218 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 4: a Bushak and he misses, and then bush Ak nodds 219 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 4: to his bodyguard who walks over and executes the pepsi can. 220 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 2: Right. 221 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 4: So that's that's how you learn things, right. It's like, yeah, well, 222 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 4: the thing is that I learned that this is very interesting, right, 223 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 4: And as I set up these interviews for other people, 224 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 4: I began to realize that, you know, these people are 225 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 4: spending a lot of time and to get me to 226 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 4: these places. So the next one was the Taliban, right, 227 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 4: I set up interviews with the leaders of the Taliban, 228 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 4: and again, you know, I'm very forward. And I remember 229 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:09,959 Speaker 4: meeting with the Talibs in Pakistan and the refugee camps 230 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 4: there where they bring the wounded, and I remember meeting 231 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 4: this old mulla and actually was a young buller, but 232 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 4: he looked like he was old because he had a 233 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 4: big beard. 234 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 3: He had just kind of nineteen thirties. 235 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 4: Pistol and bandolier with bullets, and I was explaining that 236 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 4: I wanted to set up interviews with the Willis and 237 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 4: he said, no, it's it's impossible, and I said, well, 238 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 4: because it's haram, right, it's forbidden. And at that time, 239 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 4: the Talibs were very, you know, picky about technology and stuff. 240 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 3: So I said, well, then you're like women hiding behind the. 241 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:44,079 Speaker 2: Burg because you want a camera on them, right. 242 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 3: I was not. 243 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 4: Filming him at that time. I just said I was 244 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 4: setting up the interview, and he just sort of stopped 245 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 4: and there was a deep silence, and then he said, Okay, 246 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 4: I see what you're saying. Because my pitch was if 247 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 4: you want to communicate to the outside world, you need 248 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 4: to be filmed, right. And they had a show in Cobble, 249 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 4: and they agreed that they would do these interviews. 250 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 3: And so I sent a friend of mine who's. 251 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 4: And muzzlim Me's Turkish, and he interviewed all the tell 252 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 4: about I guess my claim to fame was it was 253 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 4: fairly easy for me to approach these people and get 254 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 4: them to agree to be interviewed, which was confounding a 255 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 4: lot of journalists. But you know, most journalists don't do 256 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 4: what I do, which is go there directly and sit 257 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 4: and wait and make friends and talk to people. 258 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: How have you learned to read people and what they 259 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 1: want from your interactions? 260 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 4: Well, if they're shooting at you and they don't stop, 261 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 4: they probably don't like you, right, that's rule number one. Yeah, 262 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 4: it's no. I think most people don't like you. They're suspicious. 263 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 4: Why would you spend time with me? What are you 264 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 4: going to film? Who are you really working for? 265 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 2: Especially if you're an outsider? 266 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:52,719 Speaker 4: Exactly exactly, And I don't know how much you've seen 267 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 4: in my work or how much you've watched, but it's 268 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 4: my stuffs from the inside. 269 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:56,839 Speaker 3: Right. 270 00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:00,160 Speaker 4: It's like, I'm there and these people never call me 271 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 4: up because I'm going to kill you, right like you 272 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 4: you you I did this and you. 273 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:05,439 Speaker 3: Said that I'm going to come kill you. No, nobody 274 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 3: does that. 275 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 4: When I wrote my book, A License to Kill, I 276 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 4: got like indignant letters from some of the people and 277 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:13,319 Speaker 4: I said, I said, you shouldn't have been telling me that. 278 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 4: Then like, well you're not supposed to print out and 279 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 4: I'm like, well, you were talking, but how did you 280 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 4: even remember that? It's because that's my job like this, 281 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 4: So they but nobody exues me, right. They just literally 282 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 4: can't friggin believe that I remembered all that stuff they 283 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 4: told me, because they explained because I asked them questions 284 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:33,079 Speaker 4: like how does your business work, Like, you know, you're 285 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 4: with al Qaeda, and you want to know how do 286 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 4: you pay for this? Like how much does that cost? 287 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 4: What is the salary of this guy? How many people die? 288 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 3: Whatever? 289 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:44,599 Speaker 4: These are legitimate business almost like marketing questions, right, and 290 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 4: how do you function? Competitive analysis, I guess would be 291 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 4: a good word. And and you know, I also ran 292 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 4: ground networks which did the same thing, very penetrating questions 293 00:12:55,280 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 4: in Iraq, Afghanistan, Somalia, Maanmar, Libya. So I take maybe 294 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 4: a business marketing humanistic sentiment into the battlefield, and I 295 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 4: think I humanize what these people are doing. And I'm 296 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:14,680 Speaker 4: very resistant to bullshit or propaganda because I used to 297 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 4: sling it, right, So I just think people respect that, 298 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 4: and people can talk crap about me, but I've actually 299 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 4: been pretty bulletproof. You know. There's been a couple of 300 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 4: times where people trying to manufacture crap against me, and 301 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, whatever, you know, But for the most part, 302 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 4: I think people say what was his motivation, what was 303 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 4: the end product? And did that accurately capture that group, 304 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:42,119 Speaker 4: that war, that battle, the era and they inverted is yes. 305 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: What did you learn about people and what people desire 306 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 1: from copywriting? 307 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 4: So copywriting is interesting because they give you a box 308 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 4: it's two inches by two inches, and they say fill 309 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 4: it with stuff, and you're going, oh, I got to 310 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 4: describe an entire truck. How do I do that in 311 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 4: like one hundred twenty words or fifteen words or whatever. 312 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 4: And you learn to shape and economize on what you're 313 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 4: trying to communicate. 314 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 3: And you also want to hit the button right. 315 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 4: You want to evoke some sense of emotional lust or 316 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 4: desire for that thing, usually a very mundane thing, right, 317 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 4: And you're looking for people's emotions and maybe even their 318 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 4: weaknesses sometime. And if you get it right, they read 319 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 4: the ad. Most people don't read the whole ad, but 320 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 4: they read the ad and they feel. 321 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 3: Good about the product. You know. I work with Steve Jobs. 322 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 4: On the launch of the Lease, which was a desktop 323 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 4: computer basically ripped off of the Xerox system, and I 324 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 4: think the price was ten thousand dollars then, and I 325 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 4: used to argue with Jobs. I said no, nobody's going 326 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 4: to put this on their desk. And he said no, 327 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 4: people that are cool put it on this desk. I 328 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 4: said no, because people that can afford this computer are 329 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 4: business people, and business people think computers sit. 330 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 3: On their secretaries desk. 331 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 4: So you've got a blockage there between what you think 332 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 4: you're doing versus what people want. Right when it failed miserably, Okay, 333 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 4: but you know I got along with jobs. 334 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 3: He was not a pleasant person to a lot of people. Yeah, so. 335 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 1: One of your goals of your work is to understand 336 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 1: the hearts and minds of the people that you meet. 337 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 2: Tell me about that. 338 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 4: Okay, So hearts and minds is literally a propaganda term, right, 339 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 4: So I don't know if I use that term. 340 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 3: What I want to know is context. 341 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 4: Okay, when you go into a war, Yes, there might 342 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 4: be two sides, there might be twenty different sides, whatever, 343 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 4: but you need to know the context of why these 344 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 4: people who would normally be baking bread or driving a 345 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 4: truck or whatever are now in a ditch shooting at 346 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 4: each other. Right. And I'm not a conspiracy nut, but 347 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 4: I know that it costs money to buy bullets. 348 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 3: I know it costs money to give food to a soldier. 349 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 3: I know it costs. 350 00:15:56,080 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 4: Money to resupply ammunition and pay for people to bring this, so. 351 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 3: I'm really intrigued by that. 352 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 4: And this is one thing where whether it's the war 353 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 4: in Iraq and a you know, bs WMDs, or whether 354 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 4: it's the. 355 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 3: War and Iran now or the war in Ukraine or whatever. 356 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 4: I'm really good at dissecting the narrative versus the reality, right, 357 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 4: And people always want to tell you what's really going on. 358 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 4: You know, you're you're you're in a freezing house in 359 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 4: Ukraine and this guy's explaining that he used. 360 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 3: To be an. 361 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 4: Executive and now he's killing Russians with a drone and 362 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 4: you know, Russians used to be their friends and now 363 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 4: they're the enemies and what the hell? And you know, 364 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 4: these people want to share their sense of bafflement sometimes 365 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 4: with an outsider. So this is this is a two 366 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 4: way street. It's not just me going, oh, I know everything, 367 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 4: I'm going to go home now. It's it's literally trying 368 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 4: to figure this thing out. 369 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, what have you learned from talking to war lords 370 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: in terras? 371 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 4: That business is a hard way to make money, but 372 00:16:56,080 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 4: warlording is awesome. Like if you if you want break 373 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 4: out of the grind, you know, just be a warlord, 374 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 4: because once you get past politics and laws and again, 375 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 4: this is a very dangerous period in history we live 376 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 4: in where they just took laws and went up to go. 377 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 4: Once you break the law, you're a criminal. But technically, 378 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 4: if it's lawless where you live, you're in charge. And 379 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 4: you see this in Sudan right with HAMETI. You see 380 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 4: this in Libya with Halftar. With these sort of constructs, 381 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 4: these proxies that have been created. 382 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:29,440 Speaker 2: We will break. 383 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:31,880 Speaker 1: And then Robert is going to explain why surviving these 384 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: extreme and kinetic experiences really reframes and improves his relationship 385 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 1: to home. When you go to these places that are kinetic, 386 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: you go meet with the Taliban, how does that reframe 387 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:53,119 Speaker 1: your relationship to home once you get home. 388 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:56,719 Speaker 4: Well, I'm an anomaly. I don't have a heroin addiction. 389 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 4: I didn't read a book about, you know, passing out 390 00:17:59,040 --> 00:17:59,640 Speaker 4: on an airport. 391 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 3: I've never tried to kill myself. 392 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 4: I don't have any negative effects from all the things 393 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 4: I've experienced. I've been married to the same woman for 394 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:10,879 Speaker 4: almost fifty years. I have a beautiful home life. To me, 395 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:14,679 Speaker 4: this was important to have perspective, just like when I 396 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 4: go into a client's office and he makes shoes or baseball. 397 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 4: Because I did the launch of upper Deck card, it's 398 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 4: important to have another perspective. You can't be immersed in it. 399 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 4: So you cannot live in war. Right statistically, you're going 400 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 4: to get killed anyways. But you also have to be 401 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 4: a good person. You also have to have a moral censer. 402 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 4: You have to have responsibilities, you have to make money. 403 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 4: You have to do like really dull, boring things, whether 404 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 4: it's cut the grass or take your dog of the 405 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 4: vet or whatever. So that's a discipline, and it's a 406 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 4: good discipline, and it's not one that people find cool. 407 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,880 Speaker 3: And I don't have a tattoo. I feel so bad. 408 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 4: I can't go on these bro shows because I don't 409 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 4: go to the gym. 410 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 3: But I'm happy and I'm seventy years old. 411 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 4: I'm happy. 412 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 3: I'm healthy. 413 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 4: I wake up every morning and listen to the birds, 414 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,960 Speaker 4: you play with my dogs. I write stuff. If I travel, 415 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 4: I jump on a plane, I go to some place, 416 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 4: meet with some horrible person, you know. 417 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 3: So I it's hard to explain. 418 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 4: This, but it's maybe like a military lifestyle or like 419 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 4: an old explorer lifestyle where you have to balance both. 420 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:24,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, when people travel, a lot of times they will 421 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 1: go on the State Department website and they have the 422 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 1: sort of four rankings, which are basically safe. Two is 423 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 1: exercise caution, Three is reconsider travel, four is do not go. 424 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 2: Do you find those to be accurate? 425 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 4: No? Come on, man, Like, when I started writing the 426 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:43,479 Speaker 4: World's Most Dangerous Places, it was as a response to 427 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:47,160 Speaker 4: the complete idiocy of the State Department in not covering 428 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 4: real risks to travelers, right, whether it be diseased, whether 429 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 4: it be crime, whether it be violence, whatever. 430 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 3: They cleaned up their act. 431 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:58,119 Speaker 4: They got a lot of pressure about road deaths, you know, 432 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 4: like we got to talk about this, about this drug 433 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 4: they give be like whatever. So they try and then 434 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 4: what they did is they politicize it. And this is 435 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,679 Speaker 4: the point. They they don't want you to go to 436 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 4: places that are not necessarily friends with the US. And 437 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 4: it's a weapon, right, and insurance companies, businesses look at 438 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:16,880 Speaker 4: that and going, well, you know, I'd like to set 439 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 4: up a hotel in Cuba, but I can't, you know, 440 00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 4: sanctioned like cub was not our enemy. He was not 441 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 4: firing rockets into Miami. You know, it's like it's so 442 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 4: I don't tell. I don't tell people ignore it. I 443 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 4: tell them to absorb whatever you can. But there's a 444 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 4: reason why the State Department warnings are that bad. 445 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:35,640 Speaker 1: And when you get on the ground you often find 446 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 1: a totally different story. 447 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:39,399 Speaker 4: Well that's the cliche, right, Like I went there and 448 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:40,160 Speaker 4: I had a good time. 449 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,119 Speaker 3: It's it's the. 450 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 4: State Department does have a lot of good statistics. 451 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 3: You know. 452 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 4: I was in Kenya in the embassy. I was picking 453 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 4: up a dead body and they had all these people's 454 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 4: luggage lined up and I'm like, what's that is that 455 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,199 Speaker 4: those old people that died last week? And I'm like, 456 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 4: holy shit, there's a story, right, And so she took 457 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:58,400 Speaker 4: me through each piece of luggage and the roly luggage 458 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:01,000 Speaker 4: and this person did this, This stepped out in front 459 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,120 Speaker 4: of a van, and this person took the wrong medication. 460 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 3: I'm like, that's the shit you need to put on 461 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:06,120 Speaker 3: your website. 462 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 1: What are the big dangers of travel in your mind? Like, 463 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: what should people actually be worried about? Because I think 464 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: people go, oh, there's a you know, there's a rebel 465 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: group here, there's a drug cartel here. 466 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 4: So first of all, traveling is safer than staying at 467 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 4: home because you're entering an ecosystem designed to keep you safe. Right, 468 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 4: So typically when you get on a plane, they do 469 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 4: a lot more than you do when you get. 470 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:30,120 Speaker 3: In your comfort. 471 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:32,879 Speaker 4: When you eat food at a restaurant, they spend a 472 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:35,120 Speaker 4: lot more time making sure it's better than the crap 473 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 4: you beat at home. 474 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,119 Speaker 3: I'm just saying the first of all, you're entering. 475 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:41,919 Speaker 4: An ecosystem that's designed to protect people. Secondly, if you 476 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 4: look at risks that kill people, and I'm not talking 477 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 4: about expats that live overseas. 478 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 3: It's the same thing that kills you here. 479 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:52,160 Speaker 4: It's it's literally drowning because you had too many beers 480 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 4: smacking your moped into a truck, you know, because you 481 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 4: don't know how to ride a moped. Heart attacks like 482 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:03,639 Speaker 4: you know, dull boring stuff, and there is no like, 483 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 4: oh my god, don't go here because this will happen 484 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 4: to you. Now, there are some diseases that you can 485 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:12,199 Speaker 4: pick up in tropical places. I would never eat at 486 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 4: a buffet and Cairo, for example, I would never take 487 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 4: an Acapoca dive tour. Like you know, there's just certain 488 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 4: things I wouldn't do because they're just like ripe for 489 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:25,679 Speaker 4: killing people. But nine times out of ten, when people travel, 490 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,639 Speaker 4: they have a less chance of dying than when. 491 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:28,200 Speaker 3: They stay at home. 492 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,399 Speaker 4: Statistically, you're more likely to slip in your tub and 493 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:35,400 Speaker 4: hurt yourself than you are eaten by a shark kidnapped 494 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 4: by a terrorist. 495 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 3: I mean, the odds are embarrassing. 496 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 4: There are some really good statistics on exposure to transportation 497 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 4: and the dangers of how much time you spend. Right, 498 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 4: So then there are certain things you can look at 499 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 4: like should I take a bus or should I fly? Right? 500 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,479 Speaker 3: Should I ride my bicycles? Should I take a moped? Right? 501 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 3: That people ignore all the time. 502 00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:02,640 Speaker 4: Right, So the basic truths that guide you here are 503 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 4: the same ones that should guide you overseas. 504 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a really good lesson. 505 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 4: And by the way, there are people like if you 506 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,879 Speaker 4: go to Marti Gras, I tell people this all the 507 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:15,399 Speaker 4: time because I laugh. Go sit on the balcony, watch 508 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 4: the crowd, and the crowd will flow like a river. Right, 509 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 4: move and there'll be people that are sitting in one 510 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 4: spot and you'll see them signaling to people in the crowd. Right, 511 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 4: and you'll see this infrastructure this ecosystem of crime that 512 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 4: deliberately targets tourists, like go to an airport and Pakistan, 513 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 4: go to an airport in Mexico City, You'll see certain 514 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:40,440 Speaker 4: people that shouldn't be there, and they're trying to hustle, right, 515 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 4: they're using tourists like like like piranha eat fish, you know, 516 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:44,880 Speaker 4: or sharks eat minnows. 517 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 3: So you don't have to be a genius to stay 518 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 3: healthy and say, but. 519 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 1: It's kind of about paying attention and being aware in 520 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 1: the first well. 521 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 4: Yes, and this okay, So there is one danger, like 522 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 4: people get shit faced on vacation, right they assume that, oh, 523 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,320 Speaker 4: I'm in a resort, so hey, let's go for that 524 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 4: eighth margarita and let's go, hey, let's go swimming, right, Like, yes, 525 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 4: there is that stupidity factory. 526 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 527 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,240 Speaker 1: And in terms of like that the sorts of crime 528 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 1: that you were talking about, it's one not drinking enough, 529 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,920 Speaker 1: but just paying attention to your surroundings in the first place. 530 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 1: Like I feel like people just kind of maybe they 531 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 1: don't do it at home, but on vacations just like oh, 532 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 1: thinks you're rid. 533 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, if. 534 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 4: You're looking for criminals, just go where tourists go, because 535 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 4: tourists get preyed on by criminals. Now, I'll tell you 536 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 4: a funny statistic that'll just the most dangerous country on earth. 537 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 3: Do you know that one? 538 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 4: No, statistically there you don't because nobody pays attention. It's 539 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 4: the Vatican, Okay, the Holy See statistically the most dangerous 540 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 4: place because it has more crime than any other country 541 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:44,320 Speaker 4: on earth. 542 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 3: And people are going to say, oh, they're typing already 543 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 3: like that, guys. 544 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 4: Full of crat. No, what happens is they have so 545 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 4: many tourists that come to visit the Vatican, the Holy 546 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 4: See and whatever, and there are parking lots full of 547 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 4: criminals who watch people go knowing they're going to be 548 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 4: gone for two hours, three hours or whatever. And the 549 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 4: only place I've ever had all my stuff stolen, let 550 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 4: me guess, is the vatic When I came back to 551 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,920 Speaker 4: the car, I looked around, and I looked at the hell, 552 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:14,640 Speaker 4: and there's all these kids just sitting on the hell 553 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,879 Speaker 4: waiting for people to lock their car, and like, look around, 554 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 4: you don't make sure they're safe, and then they run 555 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 4: down pop the trunk dealers crap. 556 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 557 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 3: And then when you go to the police. 558 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,719 Speaker 4: They go, oh, what a terrible thing, and it's awful, 559 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 4: but they'll never find yourself. Right. It's a business, right, 560 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 4: So statistics can be misleading sometimes, but common sense is 561 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 4: always the best path. 562 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, have you been surprised by the sort of I 563 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 1: guess kindness and the people that you find in places 564 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: is compared to what's generally portrayed in the media. 565 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 2: You talked about propaganda, Ah, not really. 566 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,959 Speaker 4: I mean, remember, I'm the kind of guy that's driving 567 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 4: down the road. I think it was Ohio or something 568 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 4: like that, and I saw this beautiful farmhouse on a 569 00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:59,840 Speaker 4: hill and this, you know, the sky's a dark blue color, 570 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 4: and they were like the windows were on and they 571 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 4: were yellow, and I'm like, I drove up the guy's driveway. 572 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 3: I bang on the door. 573 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 4: And I said, I need to take pictures of your house. 574 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,679 Speaker 4: You might say, oh it is come on in, you know. 575 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 4: I said, no, no, I want to take picture just right 576 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,359 Speaker 4: now because the light's ready. So when you're done, you 577 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 4: come back in, and you know, they give me food, 578 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 4: they talk to me what you're doing, you know, and 579 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 4: I send them pictures. 580 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:21,120 Speaker 3: Now he thinks I'm a nice guy. I think he's 581 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:21,680 Speaker 3: a nice guy. 582 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,480 Speaker 4: It's no different when I'm on the front lines in Afghanistan. 583 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 4: People are like, oh, nobody takes my picture when I'm 584 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:28,399 Speaker 4: at work, and I'm like, okay, I'll take a picture. 585 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 4: Are there assholes out there? Absolutely? Are there bad There's 586 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,640 Speaker 4: a lot of tweaked people out there right that don't 587 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,880 Speaker 4: like foreigners or white people whatever. You know, you've got 588 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 4: to watch for them, to watch their eyes and their movements. 589 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 4: There's a lot of people that are stoned. You know, 590 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 4: they're drunk. I want to do bad things to you 591 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 4: because they took some medicine or some chemical or drug alcohol. So, 592 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 4: but are those people here, Yeah, of course, I mean 593 00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 4: so at the end of the day, it's it's you 594 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 4: learn to read people. You learn to find those people 595 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 4: that are nice to you, not trying. 596 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 3: To con you. And again, I've got a great BS filter. 597 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 4: You know. My whole life has been figuring out what's 598 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 4: genuine and what's not. 599 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 3: So maybe that's part of it. 600 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 1: Is it something to sort of should people sort of 601 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,960 Speaker 1: listen to those spidy senses for a lack of a 602 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 1: better term, like, if something feels off, listen to that. 603 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,360 Speaker 4: You're an animal, Yeah, of course you're an animal, right, 604 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,120 Speaker 4: and animals only look forward, they don't look behind them 605 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 4: or whatever. 606 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,040 Speaker 3: And I used to teach counter. 607 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,679 Speaker 4: Surveillance to like a Special Forces unit out here in 608 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 4: San Diego, Special Operations unit. Most people live in a 609 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,960 Speaker 4: very mammalian world, right. We're always in a hurry to 610 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:43,880 Speaker 4: get somewhere. We're hungry, we're late, so we we look 611 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:44,440 Speaker 4: this way. 612 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 3: Right. 613 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 4: We don't have eyes on the side of our head, 614 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:48,880 Speaker 4: and we definitely don't have in the back of our head. 615 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 4: But if you stop and turn around and watch people 616 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 4: coming at you, or go down the back alley, loop 617 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 4: around and come back out and see you're still there, 618 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,359 Speaker 4: you start, you know, figuring out their rhythm. 619 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 3: Right. 620 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 4: I remember I was telling you about Bourbon Street right 621 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,200 Speaker 4: during Marti gras Is. It is an ecosystem, right, And 622 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 4: in the age of the technic or what you when 623 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,880 Speaker 4: to call our people are like literally staring at their 624 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 4: phones looking around. 625 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:14,120 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 626 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,920 Speaker 4: Right, So yeah, I mean I read a thousand page 627 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 4: book on this stuff. And you know, my podcast tries to. 628 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:26,919 Speaker 3: Gently back people into this world. And the podcast is 629 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,359 Speaker 3: basically the foundation for the next edition of the World's 630 00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:30,400 Speaker 3: Most Dangerous Places. 631 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,919 Speaker 4: And I'm surprised how much of it focuses on psychological 632 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 4: dangers and technical dangers rather than physical dangers. 633 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 1: What are your tips for communicating with new people, your 634 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 1: meeting when you go to these places, How do you 635 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,000 Speaker 1: approach those interactions? 636 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 4: Well, first of all, the most interesting thing in the 637 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 4: world is not you, it's them, right, So it's it's 638 00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 4: fairly I used to set up meetings, secret meetings between 639 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 4: one star American generals and Taliban leaders and cobbled and 640 00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:59,959 Speaker 4: I remember this one general was like, what the hell 641 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 4: am I going to ask this guy like? And he 642 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 4: demanded that I have my says guy and my SF 643 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 4: guy with a pistol and plane clothes. And I said, 644 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 4: no one's gonna shoot anybody, right, We're gonna have a 645 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 4: good meal. There's an Italian restaurant called Room, and I 646 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,880 Speaker 4: would use the top slow and he said, what the hell? 647 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 3: Man like, you know, he's scared, And I'm like, okay. 648 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 4: Ask them abouts kids, talk about the weather, ask them 649 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:24,000 Speaker 4: what kind of meal he likes. I mean, ask the 650 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:27,040 Speaker 4: things you would ask your neighbor if you were at a 651 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:27,800 Speaker 4: baseball game, you know. 652 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 3: And they would do this and then they would kind of. 653 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,520 Speaker 4: Move into like why are you fighting mode? Right, that's 654 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 4: kind of discussion, and he's what they would come back saying, wow, 655 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 4: like I had no idea like of the history of 656 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 4: this place, the view of these people have of us, Like, yeah, 657 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 4: they love Americans. They won't know why the hell you're 658 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 4: shooting at them, because remember, you're the ones that helped 659 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 4: them get rid of the Russians. You believe in God, 660 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 4: pick up trucks and guns. You don't have a beard, 661 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 4: but you know the SF guys do, and they want 662 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 4: to get rid of bad had people and you're supposed 663 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 4: to be good people, but you're shooting at them and 664 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,960 Speaker 4: they believe in God and all these looks. It's just bizarre, 665 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 4: right when you look at the context of some of 666 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 4: these wars we fought. But it allows these people to go, 667 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 4: I'm not afraid of the Taliban anymore. 668 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 3: I get them. I get why they're doing what they're doing. 669 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,920 Speaker 1: That's such a great metaphor for so many things that 670 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 1: people fear. 671 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 3: What's that God's gun and pickup truck? 672 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 2: For half the country, we have linkages. 673 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 3: We have linkages with just about everything. 674 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you don't understand those linkages unless you go 675 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 1: actually have the conversation or do the thing. 676 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 2: You know. 677 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 1: It's like fear is kind of think, it's felt prior 678 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 1: to the actual experience. 679 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 4: All right, but I'll tell you a cautionary tale. So 680 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 4: when I went to Chestia, I had to link up 681 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 4: with every terrorist group, every military group, every political group. 682 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 3: You know. 683 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 4: So they said, Okay, who's this asquatch? That's Pelton. What 684 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:55,360 Speaker 4: the hell is he doing here? You know, he's her 685 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 4: Russian spies. Is he trying to do something like? No, No, 686 00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 4: he's the guy that writes that book. 687 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 3: He's cool. Right, he's on Discovery. Right. That was the 688 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 3: big thing I met with the FBI. 689 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 4: The FBI harassed me, like, we wanted all about your 690 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 4: trub I said, by my damn book. I said, come on, 691 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 4: tell us about your truck. I said, by my damn book. 692 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 4: You know, invest the money, use government funds. Like no, no, 693 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 4: we just want like we're big fans. We want to 694 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 4: sit down with you. Right, So these two guys sit 695 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 4: down with me, and I said, I tell them a 696 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 4: story of going to chest You wish you could read 697 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 4: and Hunter Hammer and right, it's a good story because 698 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 4: it's it's hillacious, right. 699 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 3: Just the amount of ordinance dropped on me and stuff 700 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:28,720 Speaker 3: like that, and. 701 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,320 Speaker 4: I said, I'll only do this if you give me 702 00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 4: the transcript. You remember, FBI is just still take No. 703 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 4: They just sit there steret you and they wear these 704 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 4: like cheap polos and what they try to look like undercover. Anyways, 705 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,000 Speaker 4: I said, when you write your report, send a copy 706 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 4: to me because there's a lot of foreign names. 707 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 3: And I talked fast and whatever. 708 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 4: So they leave. But a year later I get to know, Oh, 709 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 4: when did you meet with besides? I said, I didn't 710 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:55,719 Speaker 4: meet with them. 711 00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 3: I told you that. I said, I went to his 712 00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 3: house and he was gone. I said, oh, okay. 713 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,160 Speaker 4: Week later, Oh when did you meet I said, look, 714 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 4: send me the damn report because I have a terrible 715 00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 4: feeling that you guys are idiots, so that you wrote 716 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 4: down a bunch of stuff that I didn't say. 717 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 3: So asked me another question. I said, look this bullshit. 718 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 3: I'm not doing this again. 719 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 4: So I lose my passport in istanbo I come back. 720 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 4: I have a Canadian passport and I tell the truth. 721 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 4: I go to the customs guy at LAX and I say, hey, man, 722 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 4: I lost my US passport. 723 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 3: You know who I am. 724 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 4: You can type my name in there, but here's my 725 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,280 Speaker 4: Canadian pass music. Go in the room with the hookers 726 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 4: and the drug dealers. Okay, fine, So I go in 727 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 4: this room. I sit there for two and a half hour. 728 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 4: Now they're messing with me because they put your passport 729 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 4: on the wall and you can tell when you came 730 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 4: in and when other people are leaving. And I'm sitting 731 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 4: there and every time I go up to say hey man, 732 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 4: come on man, they put their hand on their gun 733 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 4: names sit. 734 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, we're going to play it that way. Fine. 735 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,719 Speaker 3: I finally get called up. This guy opens a computer 736 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 3: and I say. 737 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 4: To him, hey man, I'm I'm fairly famous. 738 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 3: You just google me. You'll see who I am. You 739 00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 3: can you know? I mean literally, my passport and my 740 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 3: visas are on the entry silence. 741 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 4: So he reads this report for forty five minutes and 742 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 4: I'm like, dude, but is this a book? 743 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 3: Like, come on back, like I'm a value of old 744 00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:11,560 Speaker 3: ag here. 745 00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,200 Speaker 4: He gets to the end of the thing and he goes, 746 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 4: that's pretty cool. You're famous, And I said, isn't this 747 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,880 Speaker 4: how this conversation started? He gets me back by password 748 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 4: and they go. 749 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,160 Speaker 1: We're gonna take a break, and then Robert's gonna tell 750 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 1: us about the time he got kidnapped, marched into the 751 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 1: jungle and thought he was going to get shot. Tell 752 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 1: us about when you got kidnapped in Columbia. 753 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:38,960 Speaker 2: Was that all? Okay? 754 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 3: So I blame my wife? 755 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, so right, I blame my wife. I was in Libery, 756 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 4: which I told you about, which was very gorey. You know, 757 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 4: my gunman gave me a severate head after a battle. 758 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 4: There are people eating things that they shouldn't eat, and 759 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,280 Speaker 4: there's just a lot of shooting, a lot of dead people. 760 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 3: Okay, I filmed it all. Bring it back, give it 761 00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:57,600 Speaker 3: to Discovery. 762 00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:59,920 Speaker 4: They edit it, and to their credit, they ran it 763 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 4: and it was like holy shit, like like you know, 764 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 4: like that's on TV. It's like one of these like 765 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 4: sixties French movies like Mondo Connie. But I said, that's 766 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 4: what's happening right now in the country that we created. Liburier, right, 767 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 4: they're literally they have the what looks like the American flag, 768 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 4: they have the pledge of Allegians. These people are waiting 769 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:23,320 Speaker 4: for American to save them. Somebody says, man, you tweet. 770 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:25,239 Speaker 4: I said, no, I'm not tweeting this. How it is 771 00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 4: in that place. Other people looked at like, damn man, 772 00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 4: you got it, you know, And I said, okay, what 773 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 4: do you want me to said, well, you work for 774 00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:33,960 Speaker 4: National Geographic. 775 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,920 Speaker 3: You should do a hiking and camping story. 776 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:39,759 Speaker 4: And I said, I hate hiking and camping ever since 777 00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 4: I went to this survival boys school. 778 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I said, okay, I'll do it. I get it. 779 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 4: Maybe I should just like shift a little bit into 780 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:50,759 Speaker 4: the old expedition of stuff I used to do. 781 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,600 Speaker 3: Right, So I always wanted to do the Darien Gap. 782 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,719 Speaker 4: When I was nineteen, I hitchhiked from Vancouver down to 783 00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 4: South America to Panama specifically, and at that time, this 784 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,239 Speaker 4: was in seventy five, you could hike the Dairying Gap. 785 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 3: They's just say it was dangerous and people warned you off. 786 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:11,400 Speaker 4: And I was running out of money, and I thought, hmmm, 787 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:17,040 Speaker 4: do I hi the Darien Gap or do I go 788 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 4: live on a tropical island. I'm like, let me think 789 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 4: about that for a second, Like, okay, I'm going to 790 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 4: live on a tropical liland. So I went to San Andres, 791 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 4: which is a big drug smuggling center, and I broke 792 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 4: people out of jail, and I really enjoyed myself and 793 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,359 Speaker 4: I did that, but I didn't do the Daring Gap. 794 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:33,240 Speaker 4: So I went to my editor at National Geographic Adventure 795 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:35,840 Speaker 4: and said, Okay, I want to find two young people 796 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,600 Speaker 4: who want to hire, who want to hike the gap. 797 00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 4: I'm going to be like the old burnt out adventure guy. 798 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 4: They're going to be the young, you know, adventure people, 799 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:45,800 Speaker 4: and we'll talk about why we do what we do, 800 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 4: what's what's adventure, why the risk, blah blah blah. 801 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,600 Speaker 3: It's a brilliant idea. Actually I get there. 802 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 4: I find two people who had no intention of hiking 803 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 4: the Darren Gap, but when they saw me doing it, 804 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,000 Speaker 4: they go, oh, I'm going with Robert. So they were 805 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:02,680 Speaker 4: twenty two twenty three, and we start off and they literally. 806 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:03,960 Speaker 3: Fly a helicopter out to stop us. 807 00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:07,279 Speaker 4: Panamanian police fly a helicopter and say what are you doing? 808 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 3: And then they go, it's that guy, you know. So 809 00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:13,799 Speaker 3: I say, look, I've talked to the leaders of the FARK. 810 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,760 Speaker 3: I interviewed all of them. I told him I was coming. 811 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,280 Speaker 4: I talked to the leaders of the desk squads, Carlos Castano, 812 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,320 Speaker 4: I set up an interview with him. I'm pretty comfortable 813 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 4: that I know all the groups here that if I 814 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,879 Speaker 4: run into them, you know they can vouch for me. Well, 815 00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,840 Speaker 4: two days then there was an ambush and they killed 816 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,919 Speaker 4: an Indian guy, not our guide, but the guy that was. 817 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 3: On the path. 818 00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:37,799 Speaker 4: And we had a decision to make and I said, 819 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 4: I'm going to walk into the ambush. I'm pretty comfortable 820 00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:44,120 Speaker 4: with ambushes and I know what to do and whatever. 821 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 4: And they're like cool, and I'm like, no, it's not 822 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:50,360 Speaker 4: cool at all. It's like really dicey because going to 823 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 4: be it's yes, exactly exactly. I said, we can turn around, 824 00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 4: but they're going to see our footprints. We're in the 825 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 4: jungle right and we could go down into the wilderness, 826 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:00,839 Speaker 4: but I don't think you guys are going. 827 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:01,839 Speaker 3: To find your way out. 828 00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,359 Speaker 4: We were deep in the jungle and I said, I'm 829 00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 4: going to walk into the ambush. You stay about five 830 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,440 Speaker 4: hundred yards two hundred yards behind, talk really loud in 831 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 4: English when they start shooting. 832 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,560 Speaker 3: If I roll left, you roll right and then and 833 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:16,759 Speaker 3: then you can run away. Right. 834 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,720 Speaker 4: But I think if I can make contact with these people, 835 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,080 Speaker 4: I can find out who they are, what happened, blah 836 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 4: blah blah. 837 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 3: So that's what I did. And they were all jacked up. 838 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,839 Speaker 5: Because they just you know, ambushed these guys and tell 839 00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 5: Us put her hands up, put her hands down, do this, 840 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,680 Speaker 5: and of course everybody bunched up and they wanted to 841 00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 5: execute our guide and I said, no, you can't. 842 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:40,200 Speaker 4: So why because I'm with the Discovery Channel, I'm with 843 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 4: Natural Geographic and these people know these brands, which is hilarious. 844 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,279 Speaker 4: And then you'll be on prow for war crimes and 845 00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:49,879 Speaker 4: which is a ballsy thing to do when you. 846 00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 3: Surround which you're at gunpoint in the jungle. 847 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:56,399 Speaker 4: And we sat there with their hands on our head 848 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,799 Speaker 4: and you know, on their knees. And this guy comes 849 00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 4: up and he gets on a log and he starts 850 00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 4: making a speech about where the farc, we're here to 851 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 4: liberate the people, a blah blah, his bullshit. And I 852 00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,279 Speaker 4: could see that the shirt was on backwards inside out right. 853 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 4: And when we had originally when I had walked up 854 00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 4: to this abuish site, it said clearly on it. You 855 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:21,720 Speaker 4: know auc Beck, which is the oldest desk squad in Columbia, 856 00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:22,520 Speaker 4: so I knew there. 857 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 3: So this is really strange. 858 00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:28,000 Speaker 4: And so I said to Mark, and do not speak, 859 00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 4: do not speak Spanish. Do not give them any indication 860 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:34,440 Speaker 4: you could speak Spanish. Just be stupid, stupid, stupid. And 861 00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:39,759 Speaker 4: Mark Bless's point of little head got really friendly with him, 862 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,840 Speaker 4: but they were bullshitting him about being leftist gorillas, and 863 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 4: they were not. 864 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:47,080 Speaker 3: They were right wing desks. And they went past us and. 865 00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,240 Speaker 4: They murdered all these people in a village we stayed, 866 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 4: and we were walked to gunpoint towards Columbia. And my 867 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:57,080 Speaker 4: point is is that they couldn't communicate with their leaders 868 00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:58,799 Speaker 4: because we were so deep in the jungle, so the 869 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,040 Speaker 4: radios didn't go all the way to their headquarters down south. 870 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:06,480 Speaker 4: So anyway, when we got to this out, they made 871 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,200 Speaker 4: us sleep in the middle of a soccer patch and 872 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,600 Speaker 4: they had like five guys in each corner with their 873 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,319 Speaker 4: guns on us, which I thought was kind of weird. 874 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,719 Speaker 4: And then they took us into a graveyard in the morning. 875 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 4: I said, this is not working out the way it's 876 00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:21,759 Speaker 4: supposed to look. And they took Mark away and I said, oh, 877 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,800 Speaker 4: if I hear a gunshot, that means that they just 878 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:25,160 Speaker 4: shot him, right, And I said, but I don't think 879 00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:27,000 Speaker 4: they're going to shoot him, because we've been walking for 880 00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:30,880 Speaker 4: so long. It's kind of weird, right, So he disappears 881 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 4: and then they come from Mega said no, no, no, we'll 882 00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:34,640 Speaker 4: go together. There's no reason, like no, no. I just 883 00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:36,279 Speaker 4: argued with them. I said, no, fuck you, We're going 884 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,279 Speaker 4: to go together. And so I kind of walked real 885 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:40,880 Speaker 4: slow and oh, I got a time my shoe up. 886 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,879 Speaker 3: I got to do this, and they didn't seem to care. 887 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,319 Speaker 4: So I said, okay, they're not nervous about me kind 888 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:45,840 Speaker 4: of lagging in. 889 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:47,440 Speaker 3: So I come into the. 890 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:50,839 Speaker 4: River bed and there's Mark in the middle of all 891 00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 4: these old guys. It's like beautiful riverbed, like stones and 892 00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:57,720 Speaker 4: water flowing and all these horses with like silver decorated saddles. 893 00:39:57,920 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 3: And Mark's chained smoking now he didn't. 894 00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,240 Speaker 4: Smoke, puffing on a cigarette, and all these guys are laughing, 895 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 4: and I'm like, what the hell is going on here? 896 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 4: And Mark you they're not gonna shoot us, Robert and 897 00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:09,120 Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, they're not going to shoot us. They 898 00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:12,839 Speaker 4: said they're actually the death squads. They're not farking. I'm like, yeah, 899 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,359 Speaker 4: that's right, Marks, that's right. So I've been telling you 900 00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 4: for ten days. 901 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,439 Speaker 3: So they. 902 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,120 Speaker 4: Realized that they captured this guy and Collas Castano know 903 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,680 Speaker 4: who we were. Carlos actually sent the press release out 904 00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:28,960 Speaker 4: to Reuter saying we were being held for our safety, 905 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:29,720 Speaker 4: which is kind. 906 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:29,880 Speaker 3: Of be us. 907 00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:33,680 Speaker 4: But they then kidnapped us again because they wanted me 908 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,880 Speaker 4: when they found out that I was working Discovery. They 909 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 4: wanted me to interview their leader, whose name was Commander Aleman, who. 910 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:44,279 Speaker 3: Says, not like the Nazis, just because I like to 911 00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:46,840 Speaker 3: be on time. And I said, I'm not in the 912 00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:48,360 Speaker 3: mood to interview anyone like, you know. 913 00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 4: And he brought this big, fat guy with a red 914 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:51,880 Speaker 4: cross on his t shirt and he said, that's our 915 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,759 Speaker 4: human rights director. I said, oh, so that's the guy 916 00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 4: that decides whether he used chainsaws or rocks to smash people's. 917 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,080 Speaker 2: Heads, a human rights director for the death squads. 918 00:40:59,320 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. 919 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:03,360 Speaker 4: And I'm just like, this is irony defined and really, 920 00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,240 Speaker 4: I don't want to interview you. I have no interest 921 00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,400 Speaker 4: in promoting your whatever you. 922 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:08,239 Speaker 3: Want me to do. 923 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 4: And then they all lined up, there's one hundred and 924 00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:15,480 Speaker 4: seventy six of them, and this horrible little abandoned think 925 00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 4: of this ranch that we were being held in, and 926 00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,080 Speaker 4: they all came by and shook my hand, and then 927 00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:23,640 Speaker 4: you know, cheered and smiled, and then there was this priest, 928 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,360 Speaker 4: and this priest took us into town and I said, 929 00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:29,799 Speaker 4: I just want a good meal. 930 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:32,560 Speaker 3: I want a cold beer, I want a good steak, 931 00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:34,239 Speaker 3: and I want to eat too much, and I want 932 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,320 Speaker 3: to drink tom I just want to sleep. I just sleep, 933 00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,920 Speaker 3: you know, without insects or anything. 934 00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,399 Speaker 4: So anyway, at the end of the day, we got 935 00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,040 Speaker 4: sort of kidnapped by the military who insisted I had 936 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:45,680 Speaker 4: to go to the embassy, and they wanted me to 937 00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,560 Speaker 4: press charges. And I'm like, no, I said, when these 938 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,840 Speaker 4: guys come from me with a little axe, you're not 939 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:51,479 Speaker 4: going to be there. 940 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,160 Speaker 3: And this is their war, it's not my war. 941 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,480 Speaker 4: I'm the guy that went for a hike in the 942 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 4: middle of their military operation. 943 00:41:58,320 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 3: And that's just the way. 944 00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:00,920 Speaker 4: If you want me to press murder charges, Yes, I 945 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:03,359 Speaker 4: met with these people. They went and murdered all these 946 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,319 Speaker 4: people that we had met with. So anyway, that was 947 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:07,399 Speaker 4: what happens when I go hiking, you. 948 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 2: Camping, which is why you don't like to hiking. Cap Uh. 949 00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,360 Speaker 4: Well, I end up doing that, but I don't I 950 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:18,480 Speaker 4: don't choose to write about it because I prefer conflict. 951 00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 2: You mentioned that you haven't. 952 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:25,080 Speaker 1: Then you use the language tweaked like this hasn't had 953 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,359 Speaker 1: these experiences affected you? 954 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 2: Going home? No? 955 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 3: I learned something from why is that? Well? 956 00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:35,400 Speaker 4: I learned something from people who actually fight for a living. 957 00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 4: Is you need a decompression window. So when you are 958 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:45,160 Speaker 4: in combat or in conflict, you're adrenalinist, just pumping, just 959 00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:47,239 Speaker 4: whether you like it or not, whether you could be 960 00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,839 Speaker 4: the coolest cucumber, it's still you're you're on edge, right, 961 00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:50,680 Speaker 4: you're paying attention. 962 00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:52,280 Speaker 3: Everything's crystal clear. 963 00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,560 Speaker 4: And you know I would have had I think I 964 00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:58,319 Speaker 4: have ADHD. So in a normal world, I'm I don't 965 00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 4: pay attention, But in a in tense world, I'm like 966 00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:04,839 Speaker 4: crystal clear, Like I'm really really good in emergencies. And 967 00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 4: you cannot go from an environment in which people are 968 00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:12,840 Speaker 4: trying to kill you all the time to an environment 969 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,960 Speaker 4: where there's a backfire and a shopping mall and you 970 00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:18,640 Speaker 4: think that somebody's just fired off a rocket or a 971 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:22,879 Speaker 4: gun or something. So you need that decompression. And if 972 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,000 Speaker 4: you do that, then you don't snap at your wife, 973 00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:29,759 Speaker 4: you don't get mad about things, and you process what 974 00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:31,920 Speaker 4: you've seen right now. The other thing is I. 975 00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,280 Speaker 3: Don't kill people for living. So there's a big. 976 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:37,560 Speaker 4: Difference between let's say, killing a child or a woman 977 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:39,759 Speaker 4: or dropping a bomb on a girls' school or something 978 00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:43,360 Speaker 4: and having to process that. Right, I have not committed 979 00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:48,760 Speaker 4: crimes overseas or here. Actually I should, and I totally 980 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:54,680 Speaker 4: respect that we put our troops through hlacious intense experiences 981 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:58,120 Speaker 4: that are not processed, that are not decompressed, that are 982 00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:01,840 Speaker 4: not respected as being souls. Right, And I also include 983 00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:03,839 Speaker 4: brain damage from IEDs and. 984 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,000 Speaker 3: Things like that. Right, there are a. 985 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:08,439 Speaker 4: Lot of people who have been physically damaged that were 986 00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:09,680 Speaker 4: not treated properly. 987 00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:13,960 Speaker 3: And you know, I talked to lots and lots and. 988 00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:16,520 Speaker 4: Lots of people that have PTSD and they's just, you know, 989 00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:18,200 Speaker 4: they they can't deal with it. 990 00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,120 Speaker 3: It's and they trial different things. 991 00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:21,840 Speaker 4: And yes, there are ways to deal with it, but 992 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,920 Speaker 4: it's got to be a respected. 993 00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:27,640 Speaker 3: Part of sending people to war. 994 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,640 Speaker 4: And when I was a kid, I had relatives that 995 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,680 Speaker 4: used to just sit old guys that were in World 996 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:34,600 Speaker 4: War One and they would just spit into a can 997 00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:36,280 Speaker 4: and change smoke player cigarettes. 998 00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:39,359 Speaker 3: They never talked, never mentioned what they did in the war. 999 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:41,799 Speaker 4: So we've always had it. We just we need to 1000 00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 4: respect it. You know, we need and when we launch 1001 00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:47,400 Speaker 4: a war, we need to say, dude, whoever fired those 1002 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:51,000 Speaker 4: missiles into that girls school is dealing with that right now, 1003 00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:53,719 Speaker 4: you know, and the stupid guy who told them to 1004 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,600 Speaker 4: do that needs to be held accountable, you know. And 1005 00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,400 Speaker 4: so this is what's missing from warfare. It's kind of like, ah, 1006 00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:03,719 Speaker 4: I push about Boo, you know, Drone Boop. Anyway, I'm 1007 00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,719 Speaker 4: not a crusader for that, but they were in a 1008 00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:06,720 Speaker 4: different kind of warfare. 1009 00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:11,120 Speaker 1: You mentioned with the with going to Columbia, part of 1010 00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:14,839 Speaker 1: the thing was to have you explain why you take 1011 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:15,279 Speaker 1: the risk. 1012 00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:16,759 Speaker 2: Why do you take the risk? 1013 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,120 Speaker 3: Well, everything's the risks. I mean, you know, you got 1014 00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:21,600 Speaker 3: a one hundred percent chance of dying. 1015 00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,160 Speaker 4: It's just maybe you can help choose a little bit 1016 00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:28,440 Speaker 4: about how that happens. I have never When I was 1017 00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:29,920 Speaker 4: a kid, you know, I used to play chicken at 1018 00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:32,400 Speaker 4: stoplights with I used to hide down a mailbox and 1019 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,279 Speaker 4: run out and see if the cars could stop in time. 1020 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 3: I mean, I I was a terrible kid. 1021 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:40,919 Speaker 4: I don't I don't think I view risk the same 1022 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,959 Speaker 4: way that other people do. And remember I keep saying, 1023 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,000 Speaker 4: there's old ladies there, so it's not like I'm like, oh, 1024 00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:46,600 Speaker 4: look at this guy. 1025 00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 3: He's walking on the street. There's a danger. I know. 1026 00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:52,160 Speaker 3: In Keshnya, you can become transcendent. 1027 00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 4: So you know, I used to sleep above ground and 1028 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 4: they used to take out houses every night, and I 1029 00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:57,680 Speaker 4: slept like a baby, right, And they used to use 1030 00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,520 Speaker 4: these ergon rockets which were wud right, boom boo. 1031 00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,480 Speaker 3: Boom boom bo boom. 1032 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:04,160 Speaker 4: I wake up in the morning and there'd be two 1033 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:06,759 Speaker 4: house gone, two hours down, three out and four whatever. 1034 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:08,640 Speaker 3: So you can become transcendent. 1035 00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,920 Speaker 4: And when I used to walk down the street and Grosney, 1036 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,799 Speaker 4: people used to clap, you know because oh there's an 1037 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:18,319 Speaker 4: American here, you know, like, yeah, he's brave and he's 1038 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:20,839 Speaker 4: sharing this and that. But you actually don't believe you're 1039 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:24,680 Speaker 4: gonna die, Like you literally like erase the fear. And 1040 00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:26,839 Speaker 4: a lot of people will tell you this story where 1041 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,400 Speaker 4: you come under fire and your brain kicks into this 1042 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,239 Speaker 4: higher level of survival where you're just smooth and practiced 1043 00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:37,600 Speaker 4: and whatever. And you know, I've seen this with some 1044 00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,200 Speaker 4: of the green brave friends I have, is they just 1045 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,520 Speaker 4: kick it like and they'll kill five or six people 1046 00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:46,040 Speaker 4: and then go right back to what they're doing. 1047 00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,240 Speaker 3: So it's it's a really weird place. 1048 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 4: You don't want to be right, to be above the 1049 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,440 Speaker 4: normal fear level, I guess is what it is. 1050 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, how do you draw the line between a lot 1051 00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 1: of people who do what you do, have died process? 1052 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,719 Speaker 1: How do you draw the line between you're going there 1053 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:04,880 Speaker 1: to get a story you think is important to tell 1054 00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:07,880 Speaker 1: versus the risk level is too high and it's becomes 1055 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:08,600 Speaker 1: sort of dumb. 1056 00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 4: I think I start with the initial impetus, Like the 1057 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,920 Speaker 4: Iraq War was a good example I did. I helped 1058 00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,960 Speaker 4: make a documentary about just how terrible that war was 1059 00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:22,560 Speaker 4: sold and the amount of duplicity and lying and deceit 1060 00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,760 Speaker 4: that our government went through. When I say our government, 1061 00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,839 Speaker 4: I mean you know Bush Junior and the neocons to 1062 00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:31,840 Speaker 4: create a violent cataclysm meant that had nothing to do 1063 00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 4: with America's safety. And I've lost friends in almost all 1064 00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:39,839 Speaker 4: those wars. But I lost one friend who was on 1065 00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:41,880 Speaker 4: the you know they talk about the horse soldiers, you 1066 00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:44,319 Speaker 4: know ODA five ninety five. I kind of adopted and 1067 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,799 Speaker 4: they used my logo and I would make sure they're 1068 00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,240 Speaker 4: outfitted before they went out every time they were deployed 1069 00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:54,080 Speaker 4: with my dpix Skier nives And when I first met 1070 00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,800 Speaker 4: Bill Bennett, he was literally going in to get Mike's 1071 00:47:56,800 --> 00:48:00,600 Speaker 4: fan's body at Kelly Junky and He's like the guy. 1072 00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,600 Speaker 3: That's on TV, and I'm like yeah. He said, oh, man, 1073 00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:03,319 Speaker 3: I love that show. 1074 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,400 Speaker 4: You got any hats, and so I said yeah, So 1075 00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:08,760 Speaker 4: I gave him some hats, and that kind of became 1076 00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:12,560 Speaker 4: their thing, right, And they had just spent two weeks 1077 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:14,720 Speaker 4: dropping bombs on the Taliban and whatever. 1078 00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:16,680 Speaker 3: So Bill and I became very close. 1079 00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:19,719 Speaker 4: And when he went into the Iraq War, we talk 1080 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,520 Speaker 4: all the time, and he sent me an email like, man, 1081 00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:23,799 Speaker 4: I don't think I'm going to make it out of 1082 00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:24,239 Speaker 4: this war. 1083 00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:25,919 Speaker 3: And I'm like why, man, Like why are you talking 1084 00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:26,200 Speaker 3: like this? 1085 00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:26,719 Speaker 4: I don't know. 1086 00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:27,880 Speaker 3: I just got a bad feeling. 1087 00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:32,040 Speaker 4: And he was ready to go home and his wife 1088 00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:33,920 Speaker 4: had decorated his house. 1089 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:38,000 Speaker 3: With welcome back. Bill had a young son and he 1090 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:38,480 Speaker 3: was killed. 1091 00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,480 Speaker 4: He was killed in Ramadi wearing gear that had my 1092 00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:46,680 Speaker 4: logo on it. So you lose people and you have 1093 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,840 Speaker 4: to respect just how important they were to their family 1094 00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,920 Speaker 4: or their friends and whatever. And I think if you 1095 00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:56,160 Speaker 4: multiply that times. However, many people died in the Iraq 1096 00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:59,440 Speaker 4: war on both sides, and also in this current conflict. 1097 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,480 Speaker 4: Is it terrible thing to start a war like that 1098 00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,480 Speaker 4: without being able to explain to those families why people 1099 00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:06,520 Speaker 4: lost their lives. 1100 00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:07,520 Speaker 3: I don't know how. 1101 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,600 Speaker 4: Many funerals you've been to for soldiers, or how many 1102 00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:11,680 Speaker 4: kids you've talked to the never met their dads or whatever, 1103 00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:13,600 Speaker 4: but you know it's a serious weight, right. 1104 00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:16,240 Speaker 2: What do you always take on your trips? 1105 00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:21,640 Speaker 3: Money? No, there's no better solution when you get in 1106 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:22,640 Speaker 3: the shit than money. 1107 00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:25,600 Speaker 4: I take about five thousand bucks usually, although these days 1108 00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:29,880 Speaker 4: it's probably not the number one. You need to be 1109 00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:32,640 Speaker 4: brand new dollars, right, not the old and nobody takes 1110 00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:34,680 Speaker 4: the old shit anymore. And it's gotta be you got 1111 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:36,839 Speaker 4: to break it down into twenties, fives, and ten so 1112 00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:38,560 Speaker 4: that you know the only thing you don't want to 1113 00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:42,279 Speaker 4: have just eight hundred dollars. Obviously, today everybody brings a 1114 00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:44,720 Speaker 4: cell phone, but I also bring a dummy cell phone. 1115 00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:49,800 Speaker 4: I have a special phone that can't be traced, can't 1116 00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:53,000 Speaker 4: be hacked. But if they wanted at the airport, more 1117 00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:54,400 Speaker 4: power to them. 1118 00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:56,319 Speaker 3: And it's so cool. It didn't even have a name, 1119 00:49:56,360 --> 00:50:00,000 Speaker 3: So it's like I take gifts for people. 1120 00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:03,600 Speaker 4: So on the high end, I'll take knives that I 1121 00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:07,440 Speaker 4: make the depske your knives, which are expensive knives, and 1122 00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:09,960 Speaker 4: they'll go to the commander's or somebody that did something 1123 00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:13,560 Speaker 4: you know, special for me and they're obviously well appreciated. 1124 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 4: I'll take small gifts. Well, I used to hang up 1125 00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:18,880 Speaker 4: mister deepe stickers, you know the ones that go on 1126 00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,640 Speaker 4: all the weapons. You see, hats, T shirts, stuff like that. 1127 00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,720 Speaker 4: Hot sauce. I always bringing crystal hot sauce because sometimes 1128 00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:27,960 Speaker 4: the food is not to your liking. Although again, like 1129 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 4: when I was in Ukraine, I hit the most beautiful. 1130 00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:33,200 Speaker 3: Restaurants you can imagine. I kept thinking, it's not like 1131 00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:34,440 Speaker 3: the old days. It's not like the. 1132 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,640 Speaker 4: I think the SAT phone is, you know, I don't 1133 00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:41,680 Speaker 4: know if people run SAT phones or in reaches, And 1134 00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:45,719 Speaker 4: now apples now have the ability to text from your 1135 00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:48,239 Speaker 4: phone on a SAT network, which could come. I was 1136 00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:50,200 Speaker 4: in chat and my car broke down and so I 1137 00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 4: had like an inReach and I was able to chat 1138 00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:55,359 Speaker 4: with people and using the satellite not the cell phone. 1139 00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,200 Speaker 4: Of course, I take like a first aid kit that 1140 00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:01,799 Speaker 4: inclods drugs for stomach upset or whatever. And a lot 1141 00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,120 Speaker 4: of times I buy those drugs there just you know, 1142 00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:07,319 Speaker 4: sipro and stuff like that. But I try not to 1143 00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:07,960 Speaker 4: bring too much. 1144 00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:09,520 Speaker 3: And of course I bring a dpscre and I but 1145 00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:11,120 Speaker 3: I being multiple DPSCRE knife. 1146 00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:16,000 Speaker 4: Sometimes iPads, like those small iPads are really helpful, you know, 1147 00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:19,759 Speaker 4: for maps and reading and stuff like that. But at 1148 00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:22,319 Speaker 4: the end of the day, you make the decision to 1149 00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:25,480 Speaker 4: bring either too much or not enough. And I always 1150 00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:29,080 Speaker 4: err on the side of not bringing too much. I think, 1151 00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:31,600 Speaker 4: if you're taking more than carry on when you're traveling 1152 00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:33,760 Speaker 4: around the world. And by the way, I bring cameras 1153 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:35,920 Speaker 4: with me too, so it's not like I have a 1154 00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:40,800 Speaker 4: wardrobe whatever. I think. As I've lectured people many times, 1155 00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:44,040 Speaker 4: it's like, try traveling but nothing. It scares people, right, 1156 00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,799 Speaker 4: like don't don't go to a store and so, oh 1157 00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:48,480 Speaker 4: I need this because I'm doing that, and I got 1158 00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:50,920 Speaker 4: to get one of those, because the color. Don't take 1159 00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:55,040 Speaker 4: a water bottle, don't take the fancy shoes. Because I say, 1160 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:56,920 Speaker 4: everywhere I go and I hire a guide, the guy 1161 00:51:57,000 --> 00:52:01,800 Speaker 4: just grabs a plastic bag, throws a toothbrush. 1162 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:01,080 Speaker 3: And off we go. 1163 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:05,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, and in today's world, you can get just about anything. 1164 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,240 Speaker 3: Not me because I got size thirteen feet. 1165 00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:10,520 Speaker 4: But you can get just about anything you need anywhere 1166 00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:11,080 Speaker 4: in the world. 1167 00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:14,200 Speaker 1: That's a fun lesson for no matter who you are 1168 00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:16,160 Speaker 1: and where you're going. That's a fun experiment. 1169 00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,880 Speaker 4: The more stuff you carry, the more likely you are 1170 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:22,239 Speaker 4: to lose that stuff. If you pack things like a 1171 00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:24,600 Speaker 4: twenty dollars watch, not a two thousand dollars watch, not 1172 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:26,880 Speaker 4: your Apple watch, but I mean like a used Time X, 1173 00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:30,200 Speaker 4: you give it away, Like everything that you have with you, 1174 00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,520 Speaker 4: you should be able to give away. Maybe your iPhone's 1175 00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:34,520 Speaker 4: a little too precious, but then why are you taking it, 1176 00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:37,239 Speaker 4: you know, because then you've got something else to worry about. 1177 00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:39,279 Speaker 4: Why not take an old android, a piece of crap 1178 00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:40,200 Speaker 4: android or something. 1179 00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:42,520 Speaker 3: So yeah, I mean, the. 1180 00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:44,640 Speaker 4: More stuff you carry, the more likely you are to 1181 00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:46,760 Speaker 4: lose it or to worry about it, which then creates 1182 00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:49,640 Speaker 4: a whole chain of Like I learned this, by the way, 1183 00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,439 Speaker 4: because I bicycled across Europe and I thought, I can't 1184 00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,200 Speaker 4: do anything because I got this damn bicycle and I 1185 00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:56,200 Speaker 4: can't leave it anywhere, So I'm always worried about somebody 1186 00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:58,920 Speaker 4: to steal my bicycle. And when I told it was like, 1187 00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,720 Speaker 4: I'm free, free it last right, I can go anywhere 1188 00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:03,200 Speaker 4: I want. Like when I was in the Vatican, they 1189 00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:05,800 Speaker 4: stole all my stuff. I thought, this is cool. Yeah, 1190 00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:07,839 Speaker 4: I need to brush my tooth. I'm gonna ask. I'm 1191 00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:09,879 Speaker 4: gonna buy a toothbrush. I need a new shirt. 1192 00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:11,920 Speaker 3: I'm gonna go buy a new shirt. Like it's it's cool. 1193 00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:15,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's just a great way to insert adventure 1194 00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:19,200 Speaker 1: into whatever wherever you're going. One thing that I when 1195 00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 1: I was in i Raq, I found that American cigarettes 1196 00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:25,759 Speaker 1: were useful, particularly Marlboro's. It's like you just had someone 1197 00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:27,960 Speaker 1: to marb but they're immediately your friend and they'll talk 1198 00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:28,319 Speaker 1: to you. 1199 00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:28,720 Speaker 3: Correct. 1200 00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:30,480 Speaker 4: And I used to bring lots of cigarettes, and then 1201 00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 4: I realized that people started vaping, and you know, it's 1202 00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,600 Speaker 4: and then they have all kinds of different duty restrictions 1203 00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 4: for bringing cigarettes over and so I buy them locally. 1204 00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:40,640 Speaker 4: But yes, cigarettes are a great form of currency. 1205 00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:43,120 Speaker 1: Where are some off sort of off the beaten bath 1206 00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:47,280 Speaker 1: places that the average person could go that you recommend. 1207 00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:48,960 Speaker 4: Well, first of all, we're all average, So I don't 1208 00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,840 Speaker 4: know why why you say that anybody can go just 1209 00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:52,640 Speaker 4: about anywhere. 1210 00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:55,560 Speaker 3: I guess this is what you want to do. I 1211 00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,440 Speaker 3: choose what I do because it interests me. 1212 00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,200 Speaker 4: But if it didn't interest me, I wouldn't do it 1213 00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:01,640 Speaker 4: like I would, you know, So if you don't like 1214 00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:03,120 Speaker 4: what I do, don't do that. Like if you're an 1215 00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:07,879 Speaker 4: art collector, if you're an archaeology or archaeological nut. There's 1216 00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,120 Speaker 4: so many cool places out there, like I like Libya, 1217 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,720 Speaker 4: you know, and people go, oh, here you go plugging 1218 00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:13,360 Speaker 4: a war zone. 1219 00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:15,800 Speaker 3: You can fly into Tripley. You can go to Magnus 1220 00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:17,680 Speaker 3: Left or Leptis Magnus, whatever it's called. 1221 00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:23,319 Speaker 4: See this amazing deserted city that's only like half excavator, 1222 00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:26,200 Speaker 4: not even that, And go, I just saw something that 1223 00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:28,880 Speaker 4: rarely anybody sees. And I'm like filled with love for 1224 00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:34,040 Speaker 4: history and the whole what happened. There's really cool places 1225 00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:37,160 Speaker 4: like Somalia. Go to Somalia and you can learn all 1226 00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:40,040 Speaker 4: about the ancient civilizations in Somalia, and go, I didn't 1227 00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:44,279 Speaker 4: know that, Like I really didn't know that they existed Ethiopia, 1228 00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:47,280 Speaker 4: I mean, and these people, these places all have active 1229 00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:51,000 Speaker 4: conflict going on, you know, not in the place you're going, 1230 00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:56,799 Speaker 4: but they they're considered you know, war zones. Afghanistan strangely enough, 1231 00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,040 Speaker 4: And here's the funny thing. So you go on YouTube 1232 00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:01,520 Speaker 4: now and what I used to do, which was like 1233 00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:05,440 Speaker 4: I'm going to this country, nobody's there, it's just me 1234 00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:07,520 Speaker 4: and they're just killing the hell out of each other. 1235 00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:09,800 Speaker 4: Now it's like I'm going to the world's most dangerous 1236 00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:13,120 Speaker 4: places and I didn't get killed. So we have a 1237 00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:18,600 Speaker 4: whole industry of people doing what I did with their phones, right, 1238 00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:20,719 Speaker 4: and you know, more power to them. 1239 00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:23,600 Speaker 3: I don't know why they should portray them as dangerous places. 1240 00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:26,400 Speaker 4: But I think the barriers are dropping, and you know, 1241 00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:28,880 Speaker 4: like I'd like to go to Iran right now because 1242 00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:31,400 Speaker 4: I think it's interesting to understand what the hell is 1243 00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,560 Speaker 4: going on in the run And I'm not supporting Iran. 1244 00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:37,560 Speaker 4: I'm not supporting, you know, the idea that I told 1245 00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:39,960 Speaker 4: us want to do all this damage to the global economy. 1246 00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:42,080 Speaker 4: But i just want to see it because I'm not 1247 00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:45,120 Speaker 4: getting like Al Jazeerah has a couple of guys there 1248 00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:50,120 Speaker 4: the runnings let in some Western journalists very briefly. I 1249 00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:51,920 Speaker 4: don't know what's going on in Gaza. I see some 1250 00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:54,120 Speaker 4: stuff from the West Bank. Is it biased? Is it 1251 00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:57,719 Speaker 4: true Lebanon's getting flattened. You know, it's there's just a 1252 00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,600 Speaker 4: lot of places where there's just I don't not a 1253 00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:05,520 Speaker 4: lot of interest in coverage that goes deep. Right, it 1254 00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:07,920 Speaker 4: has to be on the news every day. And this 1255 00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:11,319 Speaker 4: was what killed journalism was hotel journalism. Right, you got 1256 00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:15,440 Speaker 4: to be on the roof every night to pitch your story, 1257 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:19,120 Speaker 4: and God forbid you go out by Rolls Royce, Like 1258 00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:21,319 Speaker 4: I didn't just get lost into the countryside at the 1259 00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:24,680 Speaker 4: peak of the war, because that doesn't work today in 1260 00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:25,760 Speaker 4: today's news. 1261 00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:29,400 Speaker 1: After all of your work, what do you think people 1262 00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:32,880 Speaker 1: often get wrong about what makes life worth living and interesting? 1263 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:37,359 Speaker 4: Ohoh, okay, So we don't choose to be born, right, 1264 00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:41,280 Speaker 4: we're in either an accident like I was, or we're 1265 00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,640 Speaker 4: the love of somebody's eye and we just are raised. 1266 00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:49,480 Speaker 4: But you don't realize how the clock is ticking until 1267 00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:51,680 Speaker 4: you get in your forties. And even then, like I 1268 00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:56,839 Speaker 4: was woken up by my mentors and my father dying unexpectedly, right, 1269 00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,560 Speaker 4: and you know, I drove a Rolls rice, I had 1270 00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:01,960 Speaker 4: a beautiful home by the half acre on the ocean. 1271 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:05,319 Speaker 3: I had my name on my building. What more could 1272 00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:06,360 Speaker 3: you want that? 1273 00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:10,799 Speaker 4: I had, but I thought, I need to do that 1274 00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:12,920 Speaker 4: thing that I always wanted to do, you know, the 1275 00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:15,960 Speaker 4: education side of it. And I got to get going. 1276 00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:17,840 Speaker 4: And most people say, well, I can't I need to 1277 00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:19,680 Speaker 4: do this, I can't do that because of this, and 1278 00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:22,200 Speaker 4: I'm like, no, every second that goes by is a 1279 00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,440 Speaker 4: second you're not doing the thing that you really should 1280 00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:26,360 Speaker 4: be doing. If you're unhappy, If you're happy and keep 1281 00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:30,120 Speaker 4: doing that thing right and don't be afraid to reinvent yourself. 1282 00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:33,200 Speaker 1: Well, that feels like a great place, Dan, Robert, thanks 1283 00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:34,240 Speaker 1: so much for coming on the show. 1284 00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:35,280 Speaker 2: I enjoyed the conversation. 1285 00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:38,160 Speaker 3: Oh my pleasure, my pleasure. Thank you for having me 1286 00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:38,640 Speaker 3: on your show. 1287 00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:40,640 Speaker 1: Thanks for checking out the show, and thanks to Robert 1288 00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 1: for swinging by to tell us those wild stories with 1289 00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:45,160 Speaker 1: good takeaways. As a reminder, we're in your feed twice 1290 00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,400 Speaker 1: a week, so please keep an eye out for more 1291 00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:50,400 Speaker 1: review the show. Subscribe to the show that helps us 1292 00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,240 Speaker 1: and it helps you by keeping you aware of all 1293 00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:54,280 Speaker 1: the new episodes that are coming out. Check out the 1294 00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,920 Speaker 1: iHeart app. You can watch this show for free on 1295 00:57:57,000 --> 00:58:01,280 Speaker 1: it and as always, have fun, don't die, and listen 1296 00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:09,440 Speaker 1: to Robert. If you listen to Robert, you probably won't die. 1297 00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:11,120 Speaker 4: Glaska