1 00:00:08,245 --> 00:00:12,325 Speaker 1: School of Humans. 2 00:00:13,485 --> 00:00:17,045 Speaker 2: In the winter of twenty eleven, something was very wrong 3 00:00:17,165 --> 00:00:21,165 Speaker 2: with fifty seven year old Robert Wayne Cox. Robert had 4 00:00:21,165 --> 00:00:25,365 Speaker 2: always been healthy and athletic. According to his sister Lydia, 5 00:00:26,045 --> 00:00:29,885 Speaker 2: Robert was basically happiest when he was at home. He 6 00:00:29,925 --> 00:00:33,005 Speaker 2: lived on a thirty five acre plot of land in Havan, Arkansas, 7 00:00:33,405 --> 00:00:36,525 Speaker 2: a tiny town where the population hovers between three and 8 00:00:36,565 --> 00:00:37,405 Speaker 2: four hundred people. 9 00:00:38,525 --> 00:00:39,845 Speaker 1: Robert was a homebody. 10 00:00:40,565 --> 00:00:44,085 Speaker 2: He loved hanging out with his family and also, according 11 00:00:44,085 --> 00:00:47,325 Speaker 2: to his sister, he loved messing around with old cars, 12 00:00:47,725 --> 00:00:52,205 Speaker 2: restoring them and doing construction projects. He actually helped build 13 00:00:52,205 --> 00:00:54,965 Speaker 2: the log cabin that was on his property. He was 14 00:00:55,125 --> 00:00:59,845 Speaker 2: very proud of that accomplishment. Robert was happily married. He 15 00:00:59,885 --> 00:01:02,605 Speaker 2: had been with his wife, Vicki for over twenty years. 16 00:01:02,965 --> 00:01:06,205 Speaker 2: She had two children. Robert also had a son named 17 00:01:06,205 --> 00:01:10,925 Speaker 2: Brian from a previous marriage. Robert's father, Jean, lived in 18 00:01:10,965 --> 00:01:12,805 Speaker 2: a home he had built on the property back in 19 00:01:12,845 --> 00:01:16,045 Speaker 2: two thousand and six, and his sister Lydia lived just 20 00:01:16,085 --> 00:01:21,125 Speaker 2: down the road. For a long time, Robert Cox had 21 00:01:21,125 --> 00:01:24,925 Speaker 2: a very happy and settled life. But in twenty ten, 22 00:01:25,485 --> 00:01:29,325 Speaker 2: something started happening to Robert Cox. There was a very 23 00:01:29,645 --> 00:01:33,245 Speaker 2: rapid physical deterioration, and by the fall of twenty ten, 24 00:01:34,125 --> 00:01:38,325 Speaker 2: Robert couldn't really walk. His chin dropped down to his chest. 25 00:01:38,885 --> 00:01:44,805 Speaker 2: He became completely nonverbal. His sister, Lydia, was terrified by 26 00:01:44,805 --> 00:01:47,325 Speaker 2: what was happening to her brother. She took him to 27 00:01:47,445 --> 00:01:52,725 Speaker 2: doctor after doctor trying to find answers. Then, on February nineteenth, 28 00:01:52,805 --> 00:01:58,525 Speaker 2: twenty eleven, Robert Wayne Cox disappeared without a trace. He 29 00:01:58,565 --> 00:02:03,605 Speaker 2: has never been seen again. I'm Catherine Townsend. This is 30 00:02:03,645 --> 00:02:07,325 Speaker 2: Helen Gone Murder Line. If you have a case you'd 31 00:02:07,365 --> 00:02:09,485 Speaker 2: like me and my team to look into, you can 32 00:02:09,525 --> 00:02:11,805 Speaker 2: reach out to us at our Helen Gone Murder Line 33 00:02:11,885 --> 00:02:15,605 Speaker 2: at six seven eight seven four four six one four five. 34 00:02:16,205 --> 00:02:20,085 Speaker 2: That's six seven eight seven four four six one four 35 00:02:20,165 --> 00:03:09,445 Speaker 2: or five. When we asked for people to reach out 36 00:03:09,525 --> 00:03:13,005 Speaker 2: and to leave voicemails about unsald murders, I knew that 37 00:03:13,005 --> 00:03:15,645 Speaker 2: we would get a big response. I didn't quite understand 38 00:03:15,885 --> 00:03:19,925 Speaker 2: how tremendous the response would be. I got seven voicemails 39 00:03:19,925 --> 00:03:23,445 Speaker 2: about Robert Cox's case. Seven different people reached out to me, 40 00:03:24,085 --> 00:03:27,005 Speaker 2: either on our murder line or on my personal number 41 00:03:27,165 --> 00:03:31,285 Speaker 2: or via Facebook to tell me about this missing person's case. 42 00:03:31,845 --> 00:03:34,685 Speaker 2: There are so many people in Arkansas and everywhere around 43 00:03:34,725 --> 00:03:38,445 Speaker 2: the country who cared deeply about this case. One of 44 00:03:38,445 --> 00:03:42,525 Speaker 2: those calls came from Robert Cox's sister, Lydia Cox Carter. 45 00:03:43,805 --> 00:03:48,725 Speaker 3: Hello, my name is Lydia Cox Carter. My brother has 46 00:03:48,805 --> 00:03:52,685 Speaker 3: been missing, possibly murdered for the last twelve and a 47 00:03:52,725 --> 00:03:59,685 Speaker 3: half years. I have struggled with law enforcement like nobody's business. Uh, 48 00:03:59,725 --> 00:04:03,845 Speaker 3: there has never been a proper investigation done. I believe 49 00:04:03,885 --> 00:04:08,245 Speaker 3: there is family involvement, the wife, his own son, and 50 00:04:08,405 --> 00:04:12,885 Speaker 3: step kids. He was on hospice at the time of 51 00:04:12,965 --> 00:04:19,005 Speaker 3: his supposed disappearance. We are in Havana, Arkansas, which is 52 00:04:19,085 --> 00:04:23,845 Speaker 3: Yale County, and the new sheriff that we have now 53 00:04:23,925 --> 00:04:27,605 Speaker 3: that come into office this year, he has opened up 54 00:04:27,645 --> 00:04:30,045 Speaker 3: my brother's case to outside agencies. 55 00:04:31,325 --> 00:04:35,045 Speaker 2: Over the years, Lydia has been her brother's biggest champion, 56 00:04:35,085 --> 00:04:37,725 Speaker 2: and she has fought ever since the day he disappeared 57 00:04:38,125 --> 00:04:41,045 Speaker 2: to get answers and to figure out what happened to 58 00:04:41,085 --> 00:04:46,365 Speaker 2: her brother. Robert Wayne Cox was born and raised in California. 59 00:04:46,805 --> 00:04:49,085 Speaker 1: In nineteen eighty seven, he moved to Arkansas. 60 00:04:49,525 --> 00:04:51,725 Speaker 2: He went to work for the county Road Department and 61 00:04:51,765 --> 00:04:54,085 Speaker 2: became a road foreman, a job he would have for 62 00:04:54,125 --> 00:04:57,645 Speaker 2: the next fifteen years. Robert married and he and his 63 00:04:57,685 --> 00:05:01,725 Speaker 2: first wife had a son named Brian. Eventually, the couple divorced, 64 00:05:01,805 --> 00:05:03,885 Speaker 2: and apparently it was acrimonious. 65 00:05:04,525 --> 00:05:07,485 Speaker 1: In fact, according to Lydia, Robert's. 66 00:05:07,045 --> 00:05:10,885 Speaker 2: Ex wife hated him after the divorce, but Lydia said 67 00:05:10,885 --> 00:05:14,645 Speaker 2: that Robert always maintained a close relationship with his son Brian. 68 00:05:16,445 --> 00:05:19,165 Speaker 2: After the road form and job, Robert started working for 69 00:05:19,245 --> 00:05:23,605 Speaker 2: a close friend of his. This involved working with heavy equipment, 70 00:05:23,965 --> 00:05:28,605 Speaker 2: helping with cattle, and doing rural projects clearing trees for logging, 71 00:05:28,685 --> 00:05:32,205 Speaker 2: that kind of thing. This suited Robert because he loved 72 00:05:32,245 --> 00:05:37,245 Speaker 2: working outdoors. In the early nineties, Robert married again to Vicki. 73 00:05:38,405 --> 00:05:40,805 Speaker 2: Lydia moved back to the area in nineteen ninety five, 74 00:05:41,165 --> 00:05:43,165 Speaker 2: and she and Vicki became close friends. 75 00:05:43,805 --> 00:05:47,725 Speaker 4: Here's Lydia, Me and Herber liked best friends from the 76 00:05:47,765 --> 00:05:51,045 Speaker 4: get go. Yeah she was funny, she had a great 77 00:05:51,125 --> 00:05:54,925 Speaker 4: sense of humor. She fit in with our family. She 78 00:05:55,125 --> 00:05:58,565 Speaker 4: thought the sun rose and said on Robert Cox. She 79 00:05:58,805 --> 00:06:02,805 Speaker 4: was always with him every opportunity at that time. And yeah, 80 00:06:02,845 --> 00:06:05,965 Speaker 4: we used to go grocery shopping together. Yard sailing. We 81 00:06:06,045 --> 00:06:08,725 Speaker 4: drive to Kentucky to go see her daughter and her 82 00:06:08,765 --> 00:06:12,405 Speaker 4: little granddaughter. I mean we did everything together. 83 00:06:13,405 --> 00:06:17,045 Speaker 2: Vicki had two kids. Lydia said that they were all close. 84 00:06:17,725 --> 00:06:20,765 Speaker 2: The two sons went to high school together. They were 85 00:06:20,805 --> 00:06:22,965 Speaker 2: tight even after the boys grew up and moved out 86 00:06:23,005 --> 00:06:26,845 Speaker 2: of the house. Vicky worked as a supervisor for Levi. 87 00:06:28,085 --> 00:06:32,125 Speaker 2: Later she began working as a hairdresser. In two thousand 88 00:06:32,125 --> 00:06:35,205 Speaker 2: and six, Robert helped his father, Jean, build a home 89 00:06:35,245 --> 00:06:39,285 Speaker 2: on the property. For a long time, Robert's life was great. 90 00:06:40,165 --> 00:06:43,045 Speaker 2: He had a happy marriage, a happy, blended family, and 91 00:06:43,125 --> 00:06:45,725 Speaker 2: he was able to work outside doing what he loved. 92 00:06:46,765 --> 00:06:48,205 Speaker 1: But things started to change. 93 00:06:48,205 --> 00:06:51,165 Speaker 2: In two thousand and eight, there was a global recession, 94 00:06:52,005 --> 00:06:55,885 Speaker 2: so Robert's friend had to let Robert go. By now 95 00:06:56,085 --> 00:06:59,085 Speaker 2: Robert was in his mid fifties. He found himself out 96 00:06:59,085 --> 00:07:03,125 Speaker 2: of work and at a loose end. This hit Robert 97 00:07:03,165 --> 00:07:07,165 Speaker 2: hard Lydia said this was the beginning of his depression. 98 00:07:07,925 --> 00:07:12,085 Speaker 2: His mental health started to deteriorate. Now around this time, 99 00:07:12,325 --> 00:07:16,445 Speaker 2: Robert also started to fixate more on Vicki. He began 100 00:07:16,565 --> 00:07:21,045 Speaker 2: to suspect that Vicky was being unfaithful. At first, Lydia 101 00:07:21,085 --> 00:07:24,125 Speaker 2: said she thought Robert was being paranoid. She could not 102 00:07:24,325 --> 00:07:26,325 Speaker 2: imagine Vicky betraying her brother. 103 00:07:27,565 --> 00:07:30,605 Speaker 4: Toward the end of two thousand and nine, he started 104 00:07:30,685 --> 00:07:33,885 Speaker 4: in saying, telling me, you know that he felt like 105 00:07:34,005 --> 00:07:37,965 Speaker 4: Vicky was messing around Donnie. He'd been following her and stuff. 106 00:07:37,965 --> 00:07:40,805 Speaker 4: And I said, you're crazy. She ain't miss her hound, 107 00:07:40,845 --> 00:07:44,525 Speaker 4: don you And He's like, yes, she is, Yes she is. 108 00:07:45,085 --> 00:07:47,445 Speaker 4: At that point in time, I just never believed that 109 00:07:47,685 --> 00:07:50,125 Speaker 4: she was doing something like that. Now, whether she was 110 00:07:50,285 --> 00:07:51,085 Speaker 4: or not, I don't know. 111 00:07:51,925 --> 00:07:55,125 Speaker 2: When Vicky took a cruise with her family, Robert's extreme 112 00:07:55,205 --> 00:07:59,045 Speaker 2: anxiety increased. Vicky would leave the house, Robert would wonder 113 00:07:59,085 --> 00:08:02,565 Speaker 2: where she was and who she was with. Sometimes Robert 114 00:08:02,565 --> 00:08:06,765 Speaker 2: would get into his truck and follow Vicky. Throughout twenty ten, 115 00:08:07,005 --> 00:08:08,245 Speaker 2: things kept getting worse. 116 00:08:09,285 --> 00:08:12,285 Speaker 4: He got very I guess you could say, kind of 117 00:08:12,365 --> 00:08:17,005 Speaker 4: clingy with her. And then he started driving back and forth. See, 118 00:08:17,045 --> 00:08:21,365 Speaker 4: we live almost thirty miles from here to Russellville where 119 00:08:21,405 --> 00:08:26,245 Speaker 4: she was working, and he'd drive over there, sometimes two, three, 120 00:08:26,325 --> 00:08:28,445 Speaker 4: four times a day just to make sure she was 121 00:08:28,485 --> 00:08:30,685 Speaker 4: at work because he just knew that she was messing 122 00:08:30,725 --> 00:08:33,885 Speaker 4: around on him. So there was also something, you know, 123 00:08:34,965 --> 00:08:36,965 Speaker 4: I guess mental going on, I don't know. 124 00:08:38,205 --> 00:08:41,965 Speaker 2: Later in twenty ten, as things were continuing to escalate, 125 00:08:42,765 --> 00:08:46,285 Speaker 2: that's when the physical symptoms started. Lyddy and her dad 126 00:08:46,405 --> 00:08:49,885 Speaker 2: drove Robert to different doctors. They put him on several 127 00:08:49,885 --> 00:08:54,485 Speaker 2: different medications, Zoloft first and then some other drugs, but 128 00:08:54,525 --> 00:08:57,685 Speaker 2: he was experiencing some negative side effects from the medication. 129 00:08:58,645 --> 00:09:02,965 Speaker 4: I believe it was zoloft, and when he was on that, 130 00:09:03,085 --> 00:09:08,085 Speaker 4: he started hallucinating. He'd look out into the field and 131 00:09:08,125 --> 00:09:10,765 Speaker 4: he'd say, you see that bear or that lying down 132 00:09:10,805 --> 00:09:14,165 Speaker 4: there or something like that. And then at one point 133 00:09:14,245 --> 00:09:18,845 Speaker 4: he got to where they had him on a psychiatric drug, 134 00:09:19,365 --> 00:09:24,045 Speaker 4: and he would think that he would see my mom 135 00:09:24,605 --> 00:09:28,725 Speaker 4: or our mom's deceased and our oldest brother is deceased. 136 00:09:29,085 --> 00:09:31,085 Speaker 4: He would think that he would see them down in 137 00:09:31,205 --> 00:09:34,485 Speaker 4: my dad's vehicles, sitting in the vehicle. So he would 138 00:09:34,565 --> 00:09:37,285 Speaker 4: take like a blanket or a jacket, or a bowl 139 00:09:37,285 --> 00:09:39,325 Speaker 4: of soup or something down there because he thought he 140 00:09:39,365 --> 00:09:40,685 Speaker 4: was seeing them sitting in there. 141 00:09:41,805 --> 00:09:44,485 Speaker 2: The doctors took him off the drugs and his hallucinations 142 00:09:44,485 --> 00:09:50,525 Speaker 2: went away, but his paranoia remained. Lydia was frustrated. She 143 00:09:50,685 --> 00:09:53,205 Speaker 2: thought that Vicki didn't seem to be worried enough about 144 00:09:53,245 --> 00:09:58,125 Speaker 2: Robert's rapid physical and mental deterioration. Lydia said she wanted 145 00:09:58,125 --> 00:10:00,285 Speaker 2: her brother to go to the doctor to be tested 146 00:10:00,285 --> 00:10:05,005 Speaker 2: for dementia. He did see a couple of different doctors. 147 00:10:06,005 --> 00:10:09,125 Speaker 2: One doctor said it was possible that Robert could have 148 00:10:09,205 --> 00:10:12,205 Speaker 2: frontal lobe damage, but the doctor said they needed to 149 00:10:12,205 --> 00:10:14,165 Speaker 2: get a pet scan in order to get a more 150 00:10:14,205 --> 00:10:15,885 Speaker 2: definite diagnosis. 151 00:10:16,525 --> 00:10:17,485 Speaker 1: But there was a hitch. 152 00:10:18,125 --> 00:10:20,525 Speaker 2: Robert didn't have health insurance because he had been out 153 00:10:20,565 --> 00:10:23,925 Speaker 2: of work for so long, and that pet scan would 154 00:10:23,965 --> 00:10:28,365 Speaker 2: cost four thousand dollars. Jean, Robert's father, said that he 155 00:10:28,405 --> 00:10:32,085 Speaker 2: would pay for the treatment, but Vicky refused, even when 156 00:10:32,165 --> 00:10:35,325 Speaker 2: Lydia claimed she told her sister in law that Vicky 157 00:10:35,365 --> 00:10:38,245 Speaker 2: would not have to pay Gene back. She claims that 158 00:10:38,325 --> 00:10:43,245 Speaker 2: Vicky just said no. Testing for dementia was scheduled, but 159 00:10:43,365 --> 00:10:47,205 Speaker 2: Robert never made it to the appointment. At this point, 160 00:10:47,765 --> 00:10:51,885 Speaker 2: Robert was also experiencing a lot of physical problems. I 161 00:10:51,965 --> 00:10:55,045 Speaker 2: saw a home video that Lydia is shared with a 162 00:10:55,125 --> 00:10:58,205 Speaker 2: local news station, and it really gives an idea of 163 00:10:58,285 --> 00:11:02,405 Speaker 2: how difficult it was for Robert to move around. We're 164 00:11:02,405 --> 00:11:04,765 Speaker 2: going to provide a link to that video in our 165 00:11:04,765 --> 00:11:07,165 Speaker 2: episode notes, and I really recommend that you check it 166 00:11:07,205 --> 00:11:11,045 Speaker 2: out because within a few months this man went from 167 00:11:11,085 --> 00:11:15,365 Speaker 2: being a vital, fifty something active guy who was in 168 00:11:15,445 --> 00:11:21,605 Speaker 2: shape to literally shuffling, barely moving forward. He looked like 169 00:11:21,685 --> 00:11:24,605 Speaker 2: a ninety year old man walking around. The difference is 170 00:11:24,645 --> 00:11:25,845 Speaker 2: extremely dramatic. 171 00:11:26,765 --> 00:11:30,685 Speaker 4: The last time that he was actually verbal was on 172 00:11:30,725 --> 00:11:33,605 Speaker 4: his birthday, which is September twenty eighth to twenty ten. 173 00:11:34,485 --> 00:11:37,285 Speaker 4: After that it was just downhill. After that, he was 174 00:11:37,325 --> 00:11:43,165 Speaker 4: having trouble swallowing, like eating whole foods and stuff like that. 175 00:11:43,965 --> 00:11:48,045 Speaker 4: So I started making his food purade. My dad went 176 00:11:48,085 --> 00:11:54,445 Speaker 4: and lotch you know, insurance stuff, and by Thanksgiving of 177 00:11:54,525 --> 00:11:58,485 Speaker 4: twenty ten, the head was dropping and by Christmas of 178 00:11:58,565 --> 00:12:02,205 Speaker 4: twenty ten, his chin was resting on his chest. 179 00:12:03,285 --> 00:12:06,925 Speaker 2: By December of twenty ten, ten were continuing to mount 180 00:12:06,965 --> 00:12:11,485 Speaker 2: between Vicky and Lydia. Then one day, Lydia got a 181 00:12:11,485 --> 00:12:14,245 Speaker 2: Facebook message that she said stopped her cold. 182 00:12:15,405 --> 00:12:19,645 Speaker 4: One night toward the end of December, Vicky sent me 183 00:12:19,645 --> 00:12:23,445 Speaker 4: a Facebook message told me that you know that she 184 00:12:23,565 --> 00:12:28,925 Speaker 4: had talked to the kids, and Brian's wife, Rebecca sent 185 00:12:29,045 --> 00:12:32,605 Speaker 4: Vicky a Facebook message and then Vicky shared it with me, 186 00:12:33,725 --> 00:12:39,085 Speaker 4: and Rebecca said, will go along with whatever y'all want 187 00:12:39,125 --> 00:12:43,285 Speaker 4: to do. But Robert told Brian that if he ever 188 00:12:43,365 --> 00:12:47,925 Speaker 4: got sick like his mom, he'd want Brian to kill him. 189 00:12:48,565 --> 00:12:54,005 Speaker 4: So I immediately printed that off. I don't know why 190 00:12:54,685 --> 00:12:58,325 Speaker 4: I did, but thank God that I did. And I'd 191 00:12:58,365 --> 00:13:02,685 Speaker 4: come back at Vicky and I said, who would even 192 00:13:02,885 --> 00:13:05,965 Speaker 4: talk or be thinking about that in a time like this, 193 00:13:07,645 --> 00:13:10,365 Speaker 4: And She's like, I know, She said, I don't know 194 00:13:10,405 --> 00:13:12,405 Speaker 4: what I would do without you if I didn't have 195 00:13:12,445 --> 00:13:14,965 Speaker 4: you help in me, because you know, Brian, once his 196 00:13:15,045 --> 00:13:17,565 Speaker 4: dad started getting sick, he just quit coming around as 197 00:13:17,685 --> 00:13:20,005 Speaker 4: much and stuff, and him and his dad was pretty tired. 198 00:13:21,285 --> 00:13:27,445 Speaker 4: And then after when all this took place, Brian come 199 00:13:27,485 --> 00:13:30,325 Speaker 4: out and he seen him a couple of times out 200 00:13:30,325 --> 00:13:32,645 Speaker 4: in a pasture across the road from his dad's house, 201 00:13:32,725 --> 00:13:35,085 Speaker 4: and then after that him and his wife just kind 202 00:13:35,085 --> 00:13:38,565 Speaker 4: of disappeared, and everybody was asking me, my husband and 203 00:13:38,725 --> 00:13:41,645 Speaker 4: other neighbors, like, where's Brian, Where's Brian? Why ain't Brian 204 00:13:41,725 --> 00:13:43,845 Speaker 4: out here? Because nobody's seen Brian. 205 00:13:43,925 --> 00:13:48,725 Speaker 2: Again, we're coming up to the day when Robert Cox 206 00:13:48,725 --> 00:13:53,925 Speaker 2: went missing in February of twenty eleven. But first I 207 00:13:53,925 --> 00:13:56,125 Speaker 2: want to take a step back here and talk about 208 00:13:56,125 --> 00:13:59,885 Speaker 2: this property that Robert and Vickie lived on, because understanding 209 00:13:59,925 --> 00:14:02,925 Speaker 2: that terrain is crucial to figuring out what happened to 210 00:14:03,005 --> 00:14:07,445 Speaker 2: Robert Cox. Robert and Bickie's home was on a thirty 211 00:14:07,485 --> 00:14:11,485 Speaker 2: five acre piece of land. Robert's father, Jean, had a 212 00:14:11,525 --> 00:14:14,445 Speaker 2: small house on that property on a three acre plot. 213 00:14:15,365 --> 00:14:18,005 Speaker 2: Lydia lived just about a mile away. There were a 214 00:14:18,005 --> 00:14:22,965 Speaker 2: couple of neighbors between them. The entire area around Robert 215 00:14:22,965 --> 00:14:27,085 Speaker 2: Cox's house was bordered with something called clearcut. 216 00:14:28,365 --> 00:14:30,565 Speaker 4: I don't know if you know what a clearcut is, 217 00:14:31,525 --> 00:14:35,765 Speaker 4: but they'll plant like a pine thicket and they let 218 00:14:35,805 --> 00:14:38,925 Speaker 4: them trees grow to about for about fifteen twenty years, 219 00:14:38,925 --> 00:14:40,845 Speaker 4: and then they'll come in and they'll clear cut it 220 00:14:42,165 --> 00:14:44,565 Speaker 4: and they take the biggest part of the tree and 221 00:14:44,605 --> 00:14:49,925 Speaker 4: then they delimit. So when a clearcut is done being cut, 222 00:14:50,645 --> 00:14:56,045 Speaker 4: it is very very rough ground and there is tree tops, branches, 223 00:14:57,085 --> 00:15:00,245 Speaker 4: you know, big holes where they pull the trees out 224 00:15:00,285 --> 00:15:02,325 Speaker 4: of the ground and all that stuff. I mean, it's 225 00:15:02,405 --> 00:15:03,645 Speaker 4: just a big mess. 226 00:15:05,245 --> 00:15:09,525 Speaker 2: In his week in state, Lydia explained there was no 227 00:15:09,645 --> 00:15:12,725 Speaker 2: way that Robert could have navigated that property by himself 228 00:15:13,365 --> 00:15:17,965 Speaker 2: because he would be in danger of falling. Also, Lydia said, 229 00:15:17,965 --> 00:15:21,325 Speaker 2: by the time her brother disappeared, he was not going 230 00:15:21,365 --> 00:15:23,885 Speaker 2: out by himself. Going out by himself would have been 231 00:15:23,925 --> 00:15:25,125 Speaker 2: completely out of character. 232 00:15:25,165 --> 00:15:27,325 Speaker 1: It would have been very dangerous for him. 233 00:15:27,965 --> 00:15:30,085 Speaker 2: The last time that Lydia saw her brother was on 234 00:15:30,125 --> 00:15:34,725 Speaker 2: Wednesday night, February sixteenth. On that evening, Vicky brought Robert 235 00:15:34,765 --> 00:15:38,245 Speaker 2: by Lydia's house. Lydia said the next couple of days 236 00:15:38,285 --> 00:15:42,565 Speaker 2: were pretty busy. Her dad Jean saw Robert, but she 237 00:15:42,685 --> 00:15:45,605 Speaker 2: didn't see him on Thursday or Friday. She and her 238 00:15:45,645 --> 00:15:48,445 Speaker 2: husband were getting ready to have company, and so she 239 00:15:48,565 --> 00:15:50,525 Speaker 2: was getting the house ready and just taking care of 240 00:15:50,525 --> 00:15:53,085 Speaker 2: a lot of things. So now we come to that 241 00:15:53,165 --> 00:15:57,965 Speaker 2: fateful day, Saturday, February nineteenth, twenty eleven, the day that 242 00:15:58,085 --> 00:16:02,365 Speaker 2: Robert went missing. Lydia took us through her memories of 243 00:16:02,405 --> 00:16:05,445 Speaker 2: that day, a day she says she relives over and over. 244 00:16:07,085 --> 00:16:10,165 Speaker 2: Her day started at around eight thirty. She called her dad, 245 00:16:10,285 --> 00:16:13,565 Speaker 2: Jean to ask if he had breakfast yet. Jean told 246 00:16:13,565 --> 00:16:15,645 Speaker 2: her that he was planning on driving to chalk taw At, 247 00:16:15,685 --> 00:16:18,445 Speaker 2: nearby town. He was taking a drive to pick up 248 00:16:18,445 --> 00:16:20,605 Speaker 2: some wagon wheels that he had left there to be repaired. 249 00:16:21,725 --> 00:16:25,165 Speaker 2: This was Lydia's regular routine. By the way, she often 250 00:16:25,205 --> 00:16:27,885 Speaker 2: went to her brother's house at least once a day, 251 00:16:27,965 --> 00:16:30,765 Speaker 2: sometimes multiple times, in order to check on her elderly 252 00:16:30,805 --> 00:16:34,645 Speaker 2: father and her brother. Lydia told Jean he needed to 253 00:16:34,645 --> 00:16:37,205 Speaker 2: have something to eat, so at around eight thirty, her 254 00:16:37,285 --> 00:16:39,525 Speaker 2: dad stopped at her house to have a quick breakfast. 255 00:16:39,965 --> 00:16:43,165 Speaker 2: Then he left to run his errand Lydia spent the 256 00:16:43,205 --> 00:16:45,925 Speaker 2: rest of the morning cleaning her house, taking care of chores. 257 00:16:47,085 --> 00:16:51,205 Speaker 2: She was getting ready to have company. Then at twelve thirty, 258 00:16:51,845 --> 00:16:54,605 Speaker 2: Lydia said she realized that she hadn't checked in on 259 00:16:54,645 --> 00:16:58,565 Speaker 2: her brother yet, so she called her brother's house and 260 00:16:58,685 --> 00:17:00,485 Speaker 2: Vickie answered the phone. 261 00:17:01,005 --> 00:17:04,045 Speaker 4: So it was exactly twelve thirty two pm when I 262 00:17:04,085 --> 00:17:09,045 Speaker 4: made the call up there. She answered the phone, and 263 00:17:09,085 --> 00:17:13,605 Speaker 4: I said, what are y'all doing? She said, well, Angie's 264 00:17:13,685 --> 00:17:17,965 Speaker 4: painting my toe nails and doing laundry. And she said Shelby, 265 00:17:18,045 --> 00:17:21,165 Speaker 4: the granddaughter, was doing something. She may have been outside 266 00:17:21,205 --> 00:17:23,845 Speaker 4: riding before will or something, I don't know, I don't remember. 267 00:17:24,765 --> 00:17:28,125 Speaker 4: And then I said, well, what's brother doing? She said, well, 268 00:17:28,245 --> 00:17:31,085 Speaker 4: I don't know. She said, he was in here pulling 269 00:17:31,125 --> 00:17:34,125 Speaker 4: on my arm. But he's been gone for about ten minutes. 270 00:17:35,605 --> 00:17:37,125 Speaker 4: And I said, well, don't you think you need to 271 00:17:37,125 --> 00:17:40,485 Speaker 4: send somebody outside to make sure he's okay? Because I 272 00:17:40,565 --> 00:17:44,445 Speaker 4: wasn't worried about him wandering off because he was very homebody. 273 00:17:44,725 --> 00:17:47,765 Speaker 4: He was either in and out of his house or 274 00:17:47,805 --> 00:17:53,685 Speaker 4: walking from his house to my dad's house. And so 275 00:17:53,725 --> 00:17:56,565 Speaker 4: she told Shelby, the granddaughter, she said, go outside and 276 00:17:56,605 --> 00:17:58,845 Speaker 4: see if you see or papaw. When I heard her 277 00:17:58,885 --> 00:18:01,605 Speaker 4: go out the door, heard her stand on the porch, 278 00:18:02,085 --> 00:18:05,685 Speaker 4: called Papa, pappaw a few times. Come back in. She said, no, 279 00:18:05,885 --> 00:18:10,925 Speaker 4: I don't see him. Vicky said, well, when my toenails dry, 280 00:18:11,045 --> 00:18:13,125 Speaker 4: she said, I'll slip my shoes on and I'll go 281 00:18:13,205 --> 00:18:16,205 Speaker 4: outside and see where he's at. And I said, no, 282 00:18:16,445 --> 00:18:19,245 Speaker 4: you get off your ass now and you go outside 283 00:18:19,285 --> 00:18:22,565 Speaker 4: and see where he's at. She said, okay, okay, and 284 00:18:22,605 --> 00:18:26,485 Speaker 4: I said, keep me on the phone. They supposedly went outside, 285 00:18:26,565 --> 00:18:29,685 Speaker 4: looked around the yard. She's like, I don't see him anywhere. 286 00:18:30,285 --> 00:18:33,205 Speaker 4: I'm telling her places to look, and I said, make 287 00:18:33,245 --> 00:18:35,725 Speaker 4: sure he's not in the garage, make sure he's not 288 00:18:35,805 --> 00:18:39,445 Speaker 4: in the storage shed, and then next to his garage 289 00:18:39,485 --> 00:18:41,885 Speaker 4: there was a gap, and I said, well, go in 290 00:18:42,005 --> 00:18:44,445 Speaker 4: that gap and make sure he's not behind one of 291 00:18:44,445 --> 00:18:50,725 Speaker 4: those buildings. She supposedly did that, and she said, oh, yeah, 292 00:18:50,805 --> 00:18:54,805 Speaker 4: I see him. He's almost to the road. I'm going 293 00:18:54,845 --> 00:18:57,445 Speaker 4: to go get my keys and get my car out 294 00:18:57,525 --> 00:18:59,445 Speaker 4: of the garage and go up on the road and 295 00:18:59,485 --> 00:19:04,645 Speaker 4: pick him up. So we hung up. I went running 296 00:19:04,685 --> 00:19:08,085 Speaker 4: out to the shop where my husband was working, told 297 00:19:08,165 --> 00:19:10,365 Speaker 4: him what was going on. And I told him, I said, 298 00:19:10,365 --> 00:19:12,565 Speaker 4: I swear to God, she's going to wind up killing 299 00:19:12,605 --> 00:19:15,205 Speaker 4: my brother or losing him. And I said, I'm fixing 300 00:19:15,245 --> 00:19:17,685 Speaker 4: to whip out that power of attorney and take him 301 00:19:17,685 --> 00:19:22,005 Speaker 4: away from her and bring him down here. And he's like, well, 302 00:19:22,045 --> 00:19:25,125 Speaker 4: whatever you want to do, we'll do it. So I 303 00:19:25,205 --> 00:19:28,485 Speaker 4: come back in the house. I start doing my chores 304 00:19:28,525 --> 00:19:35,485 Speaker 4: again because I'm thinking everything's okay. So about thirty minutes later, 305 00:19:36,285 --> 00:19:40,485 Speaker 4: I hear my cell phone telling me I had a voicemail. 306 00:19:40,645 --> 00:19:44,605 Speaker 4: So I pick up the voicemail. She says, well, we 307 00:19:44,685 --> 00:19:50,245 Speaker 4: can't find Rob and hung up. That's all she said. 308 00:19:50,885 --> 00:19:53,445 Speaker 4: So I go running out back out to the shop. 309 00:19:53,525 --> 00:19:57,285 Speaker 4: I told my husband. I said apparently they've lost him. 310 00:19:57,365 --> 00:19:59,685 Speaker 4: Get on your quad head that way. I'm going to 311 00:19:59,765 --> 00:20:02,045 Speaker 4: get my horse. I'll be there as quick as I can. 312 00:20:03,405 --> 00:20:06,725 Speaker 2: Lydia jumped on her horse and rode toward Robert's house 313 00:20:06,765 --> 00:20:09,405 Speaker 2: as fast as she could. Her husband jumped on his 314 00:20:09,405 --> 00:20:12,965 Speaker 2: squad bike. It had rained recently in the area, so 315 00:20:13,165 --> 00:20:17,045 Speaker 2: that ground was saturated. Lydia said that her horse was 316 00:20:17,085 --> 00:20:20,565 Speaker 2: getting bogged down in that mud, so the area, which 317 00:20:20,645 --> 00:20:23,325 Speaker 2: was tough to navigate on the best of days, became 318 00:20:23,405 --> 00:20:27,765 Speaker 2: almost impossible. Lydia saw a neighbor, Bob, approaching from the 319 00:20:27,805 --> 00:20:30,805 Speaker 2: north side of the clearcut. Lydia talked to Bob and 320 00:20:30,965 --> 00:20:34,205 Speaker 2: found out that Vicky had been to Bob's house. Now 321 00:20:34,245 --> 00:20:37,765 Speaker 2: it's unclear whether she actually talked to Bob, Lydia says 322 00:20:37,845 --> 00:20:41,365 Speaker 2: she believes that Vicky went to the house, didn't see him, 323 00:20:41,445 --> 00:20:44,445 Speaker 2: and then called and left him a message. Anyway, somehow 324 00:20:44,485 --> 00:20:47,605 Speaker 2: Bob got the message, so by the time Lydia got 325 00:20:47,685 --> 00:20:52,805 Speaker 2: to Robert's house, several people were already there looking for him. Bob, 326 00:20:53,005 --> 00:20:57,365 Speaker 2: another neighbor named Don Angela, her daughter, Shelby, and Vicky, 327 00:20:57,685 --> 00:21:01,565 Speaker 2: plus the local mail carrier. By that night, there were 328 00:21:01,605 --> 00:21:04,845 Speaker 2: over one hundred volunteers scouring the woods looking for Robert, 329 00:21:05,605 --> 00:21:08,805 Speaker 2: literally more than a third of the town. A friend 330 00:21:08,845 --> 00:21:10,925 Speaker 2: who had a private plane went up in the air 331 00:21:10,965 --> 00:21:14,885 Speaker 2: and flew around all afternoon. He found no sign of Robert. 332 00:21:15,845 --> 00:21:18,685 Speaker 2: Lydia said law enforcement showed up, and from the beginning 333 00:21:19,045 --> 00:21:23,405 Speaker 2: her relationship with the Yale County Sheriff's Department was pretty strained. 334 00:21:24,325 --> 00:21:24,885 Speaker 4: She said. 335 00:21:24,925 --> 00:21:28,325 Speaker 2: The local sheriff's department was really unprepared for a missing 336 00:21:28,365 --> 00:21:31,725 Speaker 2: person's case like this. Lydia admits she was frustrated by 337 00:21:31,725 --> 00:21:34,005 Speaker 2: some of their decisions, like the fact that they set 338 00:21:34,045 --> 00:21:36,285 Speaker 2: up their command post a quarter of a mile away. 339 00:21:37,205 --> 00:21:39,565 Speaker 2: Lydia wanted to know why they weren't setting it up 340 00:21:39,605 --> 00:21:43,245 Speaker 2: closer to home, and why they weren't questioning Robert's family 341 00:21:43,325 --> 00:21:49,005 Speaker 2: members already. Lydia was questioning aspects of Vicky's story. First 342 00:21:49,005 --> 00:21:51,805 Speaker 2: of all, she wondered, how could her brother, who had 343 00:21:51,805 --> 00:21:55,965 Speaker 2: difficulty walking a few steps, somehow walk hundreds of yards 344 00:21:56,005 --> 00:21:58,725 Speaker 2: to the edge of that clear cut and disappear within 345 00:21:58,805 --> 00:22:02,485 Speaker 2: just a few minutes. Secondly, Lydia thought it was strange 346 00:22:02,565 --> 00:22:05,325 Speaker 2: that Vicky went to see a neighbor, but that it 347 00:22:05,405 --> 00:22:07,685 Speaker 2: was it's the neighbor's son who actually called the police. 348 00:22:08,685 --> 00:22:12,725 Speaker 2: Her brother was vulnerable, why hadn't Vicky called nine to 349 00:22:12,725 --> 00:22:17,965 Speaker 2: one one? Then Lydia noticed something else. When she was 350 00:22:18,005 --> 00:22:22,205 Speaker 2: talking to their neighbor Don Don, was describing his attempt 351 00:22:22,285 --> 00:22:26,685 Speaker 2: to recreate the scene with Vicky. Don asked Vicky exactly 352 00:22:26,765 --> 00:22:29,045 Speaker 2: where she was standing when she was talking to Lyddy 353 00:22:29,085 --> 00:22:32,325 Speaker 2: on the phone and where Robert was standing. Lydia said 354 00:22:32,525 --> 00:22:35,405 Speaker 2: that from where Vicky said she was talking on the phone, 355 00:22:36,005 --> 00:22:38,205 Speaker 2: she could not have seen Robert through the dense brush. 356 00:22:39,485 --> 00:22:42,245 Speaker 4: So when my neighbor Don first got up there, he 357 00:22:42,365 --> 00:22:46,005 Speaker 4: was the first one there and he asked her, He said, 358 00:22:46,205 --> 00:22:50,365 Speaker 4: show me exactly where you last seen Rob. And she 359 00:22:50,485 --> 00:22:53,045 Speaker 4: took him down there and showed him and said right here. 360 00:22:53,925 --> 00:22:56,205 Speaker 4: And he said when he got down there, there were 361 00:22:56,405 --> 00:23:01,005 Speaker 4: no footprints whatsoever. And then when my neighbor Bob come 362 00:23:01,125 --> 00:23:04,365 Speaker 4: riding up on his horse, he come right along that 363 00:23:04,725 --> 00:23:07,965 Speaker 4: edge there next to my brother's property where she claimed 364 00:23:08,005 --> 00:23:11,605 Speaker 4: she had seen him. And Bob yelled from in the 365 00:23:11,645 --> 00:23:14,885 Speaker 4: clearcut up to the road. Who's got stars on the 366 00:23:14,925 --> 00:23:18,965 Speaker 4: bottom of their shoes? She says, I do. She had 367 00:23:19,005 --> 00:23:21,125 Speaker 4: on a pair of shoes that apparently had stars on 368 00:23:21,165 --> 00:23:22,005 Speaker 4: the bottom of them. 369 00:23:23,005 --> 00:23:26,885 Speaker 2: Remember, it had rain recently, which means that anyone walking 370 00:23:26,925 --> 00:23:31,205 Speaker 2: out there would presumably leave fairly deep footprints. Yet the 371 00:23:31,245 --> 00:23:34,245 Speaker 2: only footprints the neighbor found in that area, according to Lydia, 372 00:23:34,525 --> 00:23:38,845 Speaker 2: were Vickie's. I asked Lydia if law enforcement took pictures 373 00:23:38,845 --> 00:23:42,085 Speaker 2: of those footprints. Her response was telling. 374 00:23:42,765 --> 00:23:48,685 Speaker 4: Who law enforcements? Yeah, they done nothing. No, man, they 375 00:23:48,725 --> 00:23:49,045 Speaker 4: did not. 376 00:23:50,365 --> 00:23:50,405 Speaker 2: No. 377 00:23:51,805 --> 00:23:54,845 Speaker 4: I don't even know if law enforcement was even in 378 00:23:54,965 --> 00:23:55,765 Speaker 4: that clearcut. 379 00:23:56,725 --> 00:23:59,725 Speaker 2: The Yale County Sheriff's Department kept searching. The state police 380 00:23:59,725 --> 00:24:02,365 Speaker 2: came in at around ten pm that night. They brought 381 00:24:02,445 --> 00:24:06,045 Speaker 2: bloodhounds and volunteers and they did search everywhere. They went 382 00:24:06,045 --> 00:24:11,525 Speaker 2: through fields, barns, cars, abandoned wells, sinkholes, and anywhere else 383 00:24:11,565 --> 00:24:12,205 Speaker 2: they could think of. 384 00:24:12,765 --> 00:24:17,365 Speaker 1: But they found no trace of Robert. But the dogs 385 00:24:17,445 --> 00:24:18,885 Speaker 1: did alert on the property. 386 00:24:19,725 --> 00:24:23,285 Speaker 4: Dog handler come in and she said, well, my dog 387 00:24:23,445 --> 00:24:27,525 Speaker 4: trackeding north along the edge of the clear cut and 388 00:24:27,565 --> 00:24:31,285 Speaker 4: then out east part way across the clear cut. I 389 00:24:31,365 --> 00:24:34,605 Speaker 4: told her, I said, there ain't no way. Then she 390 00:24:34,765 --> 00:24:38,325 Speaker 4: said they tracked him, you know, out in the yard 391 00:24:38,925 --> 00:24:41,325 Speaker 4: and then up the driveway to the end of the 392 00:24:41,405 --> 00:24:45,885 Speaker 4: driveway and then the dog lost sin. So then that's 393 00:24:45,925 --> 00:24:48,285 Speaker 4: when the theory come in. Well, somebody must have drove 394 00:24:48,365 --> 00:24:49,365 Speaker 4: by and picked him up. 395 00:24:50,485 --> 00:24:55,005 Speaker 2: This seemed far fetched to Lydia. Lydia said that a 396 00:24:55,125 --> 00:24:59,405 Speaker 2: strange car going unnoticed would have been very strange in 397 00:24:59,445 --> 00:25:02,885 Speaker 2: their neighborhood. This was a place where everyone knew everyone. 398 00:25:03,365 --> 00:25:05,365 Speaker 2: They knew when the trash truck came in and when 399 00:25:05,365 --> 00:25:08,765 Speaker 2: it left, So the idea that someone could have driven 400 00:25:08,805 --> 00:25:11,005 Speaker 2: by and picked Robert up at that exact time of 401 00:25:11,085 --> 00:25:16,725 Speaker 2: day during a five minute period is very implausible. Also, 402 00:25:16,965 --> 00:25:20,605 Speaker 2: if they did, what would their motive have been? When 403 00:25:20,605 --> 00:25:24,765 Speaker 2: he disappeared. Robert had nothing on him, no wallet, no medication. 404 00:25:25,565 --> 00:25:28,445 Speaker 2: What would their motive be for picking up and kidnapping 405 00:25:28,445 --> 00:25:31,925 Speaker 2: an elderly man in the middle of the afternoon. Lydia 406 00:25:32,005 --> 00:25:35,525 Speaker 2: said that at some point someone told her that the 407 00:25:35,605 --> 00:25:38,765 Speaker 2: first search dogs had been tired, so she called the 408 00:25:38,805 --> 00:25:42,125 Speaker 2: sheriff at the time. Sheriff guilty. She said she would 409 00:25:42,125 --> 00:25:45,725 Speaker 2: like to get fresher search dogs out there, and she 410 00:25:45,885 --> 00:25:49,845 Speaker 2: said he cussed her out, but the sheriff did relent 411 00:25:49,925 --> 00:25:52,685 Speaker 2: and agreed to send more dogs. When the second group 412 00:25:52,685 --> 00:25:55,605 Speaker 2: of dogs came to the area, they alerted in only 413 00:25:55,645 --> 00:26:00,005 Speaker 2: one place, the front door. Vicki told law enforcement that 414 00:26:00,045 --> 00:26:02,725 Speaker 2: when Robert left the house that day, he was wearing 415 00:26:02,765 --> 00:26:06,685 Speaker 2: gray tennis shoes, gray sweatpants, and a navy blue hoodie. 416 00:26:08,125 --> 00:26:12,725 Speaker 2: To Lydia, the clothing description was also a bit strange. 417 00:26:13,045 --> 00:26:19,405 Speaker 4: My brother dressed western boots, jeans, flannel shirts, T shirts, 418 00:26:19,525 --> 00:26:21,645 Speaker 4: you know, very simple in plain. 419 00:26:22,685 --> 00:26:25,085 Speaker 1: So a hoodie would have been a little out of character. 420 00:26:25,645 --> 00:26:27,805 Speaker 4: Very much out of character. I mean I never seen 421 00:26:27,885 --> 00:26:31,005 Speaker 4: him wear a hoodie, even when he was, you know, sick. 422 00:26:31,885 --> 00:26:33,965 Speaker 4: I mean, she was still putting his T shirts on 423 00:26:34,085 --> 00:26:36,965 Speaker 4: and then putting a flannel on, you know, over the 424 00:26:37,005 --> 00:26:39,205 Speaker 4: T shirts, like he always did. I don't know where 425 00:26:39,205 --> 00:26:40,405 Speaker 4: the blue hoodie come from. 426 00:26:41,005 --> 00:26:44,205 Speaker 2: Could someone else have been walking around a hoodie, someone 427 00:26:44,205 --> 00:26:46,885 Speaker 2: who wanted to create the description that way in case 428 00:26:46,925 --> 00:26:50,165 Speaker 2: they were spotted from a distance. Lydia's mind came up 429 00:26:50,165 --> 00:26:53,685 Speaker 2: with many possibilities, but all of them, in her imagination, 430 00:26:54,445 --> 00:26:57,445 Speaker 2: ended with someone doing something unspeakable to her brother. 431 00:26:58,525 --> 00:27:01,885 Speaker 4: I got to the point to where I was following vultures, 432 00:27:02,285 --> 00:27:04,365 Speaker 4: you know, I'd see him circling out in the pasture, 433 00:27:04,405 --> 00:27:07,205 Speaker 4: and I'd follow him, and I'd get out and I'd 434 00:27:07,205 --> 00:27:09,605 Speaker 4: go look just to make sure, because you don't know. 435 00:27:09,885 --> 00:27:12,165 Speaker 4: At that point, it was hard for me to wrap 436 00:27:12,165 --> 00:27:14,645 Speaker 4: my mind around that somebody and my family could hurt 437 00:27:14,685 --> 00:27:20,045 Speaker 4: my brother. But it was kind of looking pretty iffy 438 00:27:20,245 --> 00:27:22,845 Speaker 4: that somebody very well could have done something to him. 439 00:27:24,005 --> 00:27:27,805 Speaker 2: But her conversations with law enforcement continue to be frustrating, since, 440 00:27:27,845 --> 00:27:30,285 Speaker 2: according to her, they did not seem to consider the 441 00:27:30,325 --> 00:27:32,845 Speaker 2: possibility of Robert being the victim of foul play. 442 00:27:34,525 --> 00:27:38,125 Speaker 4: Why ain't just setting up in his yard and questioning family, well, 443 00:27:38,125 --> 00:27:40,765 Speaker 4: because that's the last ones that supposedly seen him, But 444 00:27:40,845 --> 00:27:44,925 Speaker 4: they didn't. And they just kept coming up to me 445 00:27:45,085 --> 00:27:49,245 Speaker 4: and asking me different questions and about my brother. And 446 00:27:49,285 --> 00:27:53,325 Speaker 4: I'm like, you don't understand. I said, he ain't able 447 00:27:53,405 --> 00:27:58,085 Speaker 4: to navigate this. The man's chin was resting on his chest. 448 00:27:58,125 --> 00:28:02,205 Speaker 4: He was on hospice, and you know where's he gonna go. 449 00:28:02,725 --> 00:28:07,125 Speaker 4: He walked with a shuffled gate to disappear in five minutes, 450 00:28:07,165 --> 00:28:09,805 Speaker 4: and that's what she said. The timeline at was five minutes. 451 00:28:11,045 --> 00:28:14,005 Speaker 2: Lyndia was also wondering where her brother's son Brian was, 452 00:28:14,485 --> 00:28:18,205 Speaker 2: why he wasn't on social media posting why he wasn't 453 00:28:18,245 --> 00:28:21,365 Speaker 2: in her opinion, helping more with the search. Eventually, she 454 00:28:21,445 --> 00:28:24,525 Speaker 2: admits she suspected multiple people in the family may have 455 00:28:24,605 --> 00:28:27,565 Speaker 2: been aware, at least of what was going on. She 456 00:28:27,805 --> 00:28:31,485 Speaker 2: said that she really noticed that Vicky did not appear 457 00:28:31,525 --> 00:28:33,045 Speaker 2: to be that concerned about Robert. 458 00:28:34,565 --> 00:28:37,485 Speaker 4: She was out there talking and laughing with them and 459 00:28:37,525 --> 00:28:39,725 Speaker 4: carrying on. I don't know who it was. Could have 460 00:28:39,765 --> 00:28:41,845 Speaker 4: been somebody in her family, I don't know, because a 461 00:28:41,845 --> 00:28:45,405 Speaker 4: bunch of her family come home started flowing in after that. 462 00:28:46,285 --> 00:28:49,605 Speaker 4: Another person told me that she was outside in the 463 00:28:49,725 --> 00:28:51,805 Speaker 4: yard and there was people up there, you know, looking 464 00:28:51,885 --> 00:28:54,605 Speaker 4: all around the yard and around the house and everything, 465 00:28:54,645 --> 00:28:57,725 Speaker 4: and she's like, there's plenty of food and drink in here. 466 00:28:57,845 --> 00:29:00,125 Speaker 4: If you guys get hungry, thirsty, come on in, get 467 00:29:00,165 --> 00:29:02,805 Speaker 4: you whatever you want and whatever and stuff like that, 468 00:29:03,005 --> 00:29:06,485 Speaker 4: and just you know, nobody were seeing. The woman shed 469 00:29:06,525 --> 00:29:08,525 Speaker 4: a tear. I never seen her shed it here. 470 00:29:11,685 --> 00:29:16,285 Speaker 2: Also on Sunday, Lydia got another shock when she went 471 00:29:16,325 --> 00:29:20,365 Speaker 2: to her brother's house. She found hospice nurses there taking 472 00:29:20,365 --> 00:29:23,925 Speaker 2: her brother's things away. Robert had been missing less than 473 00:29:23,925 --> 00:29:25,045 Speaker 2: twenty four hours. 474 00:29:25,645 --> 00:29:29,365 Speaker 4: Sunday morning, she had Hospice out there and had them 475 00:29:29,365 --> 00:29:34,005 Speaker 4: come and pick up everything, the hospital bed, the bedside, 476 00:29:34,045 --> 00:29:37,285 Speaker 4: come ode, you know, just whatever they brought out, because 477 00:29:37,285 --> 00:29:38,525 Speaker 4: she said he wasn't coming back. 478 00:29:42,485 --> 00:29:45,245 Speaker 2: After Lydia saw the nurses taking Robert's things out of 479 00:29:45,285 --> 00:29:48,245 Speaker 2: his home only twenty four hours after he had gone missing, 480 00:29:48,965 --> 00:29:52,565 Speaker 2: she said the relationship between her and Vickie deteriorated fast. 481 00:29:53,805 --> 00:29:56,965 Speaker 2: Lydia had thought of Vicky as a sister, but Lydia 482 00:29:57,005 --> 00:30:00,085 Speaker 2: says they have not spoken since March of twenty eleven, 483 00:30:00,725 --> 00:30:04,325 Speaker 2: just a few weeks after her brother went missing. Lydia 484 00:30:04,365 --> 00:30:09,125 Speaker 2: also wondered about her suspicion started on Saturday night when 485 00:30:09,365 --> 00:30:13,365 Speaker 2: she asked Vicki about why Brian and his wife were 486 00:30:13,365 --> 00:30:15,085 Speaker 2: not out late searching for Robert. 487 00:30:16,085 --> 00:30:19,405 Speaker 4: I've seen her about ten o'clock and she said, well, 488 00:30:19,445 --> 00:30:23,925 Speaker 4: I finally heard from Brian. And I said, and she said, well, 489 00:30:24,605 --> 00:30:28,205 Speaker 4: they got wet and tired, so they went home and 490 00:30:28,245 --> 00:30:31,365 Speaker 4: took a shower and went to bed. And I said, 491 00:30:31,565 --> 00:30:35,645 Speaker 4: so your dad is missing, and he's a sick human being, 492 00:30:36,365 --> 00:30:38,605 Speaker 4: and you're wet and tired and you're going to go 493 00:30:38,605 --> 00:30:39,005 Speaker 4: to bed. 494 00:30:40,365 --> 00:30:42,765 Speaker 2: Lydia could not wrap her head around this. She had 495 00:30:42,845 --> 00:30:45,485 Speaker 2: always known Brian and her brother Robert to have a 496 00:30:45,645 --> 00:30:49,845 Speaker 2: very close relationship. She couldn't understand why, in her opinion, 497 00:30:49,925 --> 00:30:53,245 Speaker 2: Brian didn't seem to be more proactive about searching for 498 00:30:53,285 --> 00:30:58,245 Speaker 2: his father. However, as time went on, she kept thinking 499 00:30:58,325 --> 00:31:01,205 Speaker 2: back to that weird Facebook message, the one about a 500 00:31:01,245 --> 00:31:05,125 Speaker 2: mercy killing. She wondered, could Brian have known something about 501 00:31:05,165 --> 00:31:09,965 Speaker 2: what happened? Lydia says that after that, her relationship with 502 00:31:10,045 --> 00:31:12,085 Speaker 2: Brian also completely fell apart. 503 00:31:13,245 --> 00:31:18,605 Speaker 4: That following Monday, Brian was off work that day, so 504 00:31:18,725 --> 00:31:23,485 Speaker 4: I had gone that to Vicki's to my brother's house 505 00:31:24,565 --> 00:31:27,685 Speaker 4: to take care of the dogs. She had some goats 506 00:31:27,725 --> 00:31:32,325 Speaker 4: at that time and some chickens, so I went up 507 00:31:32,325 --> 00:31:35,285 Speaker 4: there to take care of them chores for her. And 508 00:31:35,325 --> 00:31:37,725 Speaker 4: when I come back around the front of the house, 509 00:31:37,845 --> 00:31:40,285 Speaker 4: Brian and his wife was there, and Brian had my 510 00:31:40,405 --> 00:31:43,725 Speaker 4: brother's quad in the yard and he was bent over 511 00:31:43,885 --> 00:31:48,085 Speaker 4: working on it, and I was talking to Becca. I 512 00:31:48,125 --> 00:31:51,085 Speaker 4: don't remember what we were saying, but anyways, I'm sure 513 00:31:51,125 --> 00:31:54,605 Speaker 4: something about what was going on. Brian never turned around 514 00:31:54,645 --> 00:31:57,565 Speaker 4: and looked at me, and I told him, I said, Brian, 515 00:31:58,685 --> 00:32:01,365 Speaker 4: I said, you know there's something wrong with this story, right, 516 00:32:01,725 --> 00:32:04,925 Speaker 4: I said, you know there is no way your dad 517 00:32:05,085 --> 00:32:08,125 Speaker 4: could have walked out in that clear cut and disappeared. 518 00:32:09,045 --> 00:32:11,765 Speaker 4: He said, well, we gotta go, he says, I got 519 00:32:11,765 --> 00:32:15,565 Speaker 4: to go to my friends. I don't remember why, but 520 00:32:16,205 --> 00:32:18,405 Speaker 4: they loaded up and left and night laid eyes on 521 00:32:18,445 --> 00:32:18,965 Speaker 4: that kid. 522 00:32:19,005 --> 00:32:23,445 Speaker 2: Since Later, her father Jean, went to Dan Bell where 523 00:32:23,445 --> 00:32:25,405 Speaker 2: Brian was working as a mechanic, and tried to talk 524 00:32:25,445 --> 00:32:25,765 Speaker 2: to him. 525 00:32:26,765 --> 00:32:28,245 Speaker 1: He also got the silent treatment. 526 00:32:29,805 --> 00:32:32,565 Speaker 4: After this all happened, my dad started going down there 527 00:32:32,605 --> 00:32:35,725 Speaker 4: trying to talk to Brian because my dad had a 528 00:32:35,725 --> 00:32:40,645 Speaker 4: good relationship with Brian too, and Brian wouldn't look at 529 00:32:40,645 --> 00:32:43,205 Speaker 4: my dad. He wouldn't talk to my dad. He would 530 00:32:43,245 --> 00:32:47,125 Speaker 4: just look through him, or look beside him, or drop 531 00:32:47,165 --> 00:32:51,045 Speaker 4: his head and just turn and walk away. So one 532 00:32:51,085 --> 00:32:53,365 Speaker 4: day he cornered him down there and he said, Brian, 533 00:32:53,525 --> 00:32:56,765 Speaker 4: he said, I don't know who did it, he said, 534 00:32:56,765 --> 00:32:59,285 Speaker 4: but somebody hurt my boy. And he says, and I'm 535 00:32:59,285 --> 00:33:00,525 Speaker 4: going to find out who it is. 536 00:33:01,525 --> 00:33:05,805 Speaker 2: Then, Lydia said, Vicky started replacing furniture in the back 537 00:33:05,845 --> 00:33:08,165 Speaker 2: bedroom where her brother had been sleeping. 538 00:33:08,845 --> 00:33:16,445 Speaker 4: That weekend after this whole mysterious disappearance thing. Vicky's replacing 539 00:33:16,525 --> 00:33:22,165 Speaker 4: bedroom furniture in the back bedroom. She even called me 540 00:33:22,205 --> 00:33:23,645 Speaker 4: down there and told me to come look at it. 541 00:33:23,685 --> 00:33:26,525 Speaker 4: After they got done with it. She said, oh, come 542 00:33:26,525 --> 00:33:28,845 Speaker 4: and look at the furniture I got from my brother. 543 00:33:29,125 --> 00:33:31,445 Speaker 4: And I'm thinking to myself, I'm not saying anything, but 544 00:33:31,485 --> 00:33:33,925 Speaker 4: I'm thinking to myself, why are you worried about changing 545 00:33:33,965 --> 00:33:38,085 Speaker 4: out furniture when your husband's missing? And then there was 546 00:33:38,125 --> 00:33:40,565 Speaker 4: some stuff back there. I don't know what they was burning. 547 00:33:40,725 --> 00:33:45,565 Speaker 4: I don't know if it's furniture or what. So, I 548 00:33:45,605 --> 00:33:50,845 Speaker 4: don't know. Just too many red flags for me. And 549 00:33:50,925 --> 00:33:53,845 Speaker 4: you know, law enforcement didn't seem to think that some 550 00:33:53,925 --> 00:33:55,965 Speaker 4: of that stuff wasn't pertinent. I don't know. 551 00:33:57,005 --> 00:33:59,965 Speaker 2: Lydia began to believe that her brother never made it 552 00:34:00,005 --> 00:34:02,685 Speaker 2: past the front door and that something had happened to 553 00:34:02,765 --> 00:34:07,765 Speaker 2: him inside the house. After a few days, the searches stopped, 554 00:34:08,525 --> 00:34:11,125 Speaker 2: the case went cold, and it became just part of 555 00:34:11,205 --> 00:34:14,885 Speaker 2: local legend the guy who lived there but disappeared one day, 556 00:34:15,805 --> 00:34:18,885 Speaker 2: but Lydia and her father could not forget a few 557 00:34:18,925 --> 00:34:23,045 Speaker 2: months after Robert's disappearance, they hired a private investigator named Donnie. 558 00:34:24,165 --> 00:34:27,285 Speaker 2: Donnie eventually built up a huge case file, and one 559 00:34:27,325 --> 00:34:30,405 Speaker 2: of the first mysteries that Donnie helped solve was why 560 00:34:30,445 --> 00:34:33,685 Speaker 2: he believes the search dogs alerted out near the clear cut. 561 00:34:34,565 --> 00:34:36,365 Speaker 4: There's a lot of things I wouldn't know if it 562 00:34:36,445 --> 00:34:39,005 Speaker 4: hadn't have been for the private investigator that come in 563 00:34:39,005 --> 00:34:42,845 Speaker 4: in June of twenty eleven. What I found out about 564 00:34:42,845 --> 00:34:47,885 Speaker 4: the dogs the state police dogs saying they tracked him, 565 00:34:48,125 --> 00:34:51,845 Speaker 4: you know, along the edge of the clearcutting out east. 566 00:34:52,365 --> 00:34:56,245 Speaker 4: And the reason they tracked him along the outside edge 567 00:34:56,285 --> 00:34:58,405 Speaker 4: of the yard next to the county road and out 568 00:34:58,445 --> 00:35:03,805 Speaker 4: to the driveway is because that night when this all 569 00:35:03,845 --> 00:35:06,445 Speaker 4: took place, or that day when this all took place, 570 00:35:06,885 --> 00:35:10,165 Speaker 4: Angela was wearing my brother's house shoes and the granddaughter 571 00:35:10,245 --> 00:35:14,005 Speaker 4: had on my brother's muck boots. So that's why the 572 00:35:14,045 --> 00:35:17,485 Speaker 4: dogs tracked where they tracked, because those kids had my 573 00:35:17,525 --> 00:35:18,125 Speaker 4: brother's shoes. 574 00:35:18,285 --> 00:35:22,205 Speaker 2: Un this would seem to be a major discovery because 575 00:35:22,245 --> 00:35:25,525 Speaker 2: presumably the police based their theory that Robert could have 576 00:35:25,525 --> 00:35:28,325 Speaker 2: been picked up at that road edge largely on where 577 00:35:28,365 --> 00:35:29,645 Speaker 2: those first dogs alerted. 578 00:35:30,805 --> 00:35:32,885 Speaker 1: Did he talk to them? Did he talk to Angela 579 00:35:32,925 --> 00:35:33,645 Speaker 1: and the granddaughter? 580 00:35:34,685 --> 00:35:40,125 Speaker 4: Yes? And there's conflicting statements with Angie and Vicky, because 581 00:35:40,485 --> 00:35:44,085 Speaker 4: Angie's statement says there's no way Robert could have been 582 00:35:44,125 --> 00:35:47,085 Speaker 4: in that clear cut, and there's no way he could 583 00:35:47,085 --> 00:35:49,605 Speaker 4: have made it out of the clear cut up onto 584 00:35:49,645 --> 00:35:53,925 Speaker 4: the county road. And she's correct because it was wet, 585 00:35:54,085 --> 00:35:58,005 Speaker 4: muddy and slick, and it's a four foot incline from 586 00:35:58,165 --> 00:36:00,885 Speaker 4: coming out of the clearcut up to the county road. 587 00:36:01,725 --> 00:36:04,485 Speaker 4: But yet her mother says he was in the clearcut, 588 00:36:05,565 --> 00:36:08,645 Speaker 4: appeared within five minutes, and there's nowhere to go. 589 00:36:11,925 --> 00:36:15,245 Speaker 2: Donnie, the PI discovered something else, something else, he says, 590 00:36:15,285 --> 00:36:19,925 Speaker 2: the police missed. He said the police never asked Vicky 591 00:36:20,005 --> 00:36:23,885 Speaker 2: about insurance policies that she had on her husband. Lyddy 592 00:36:23,965 --> 00:36:26,805 Speaker 2: explained that Vicky had a life insurance policy on Robert 593 00:36:27,405 --> 00:36:29,605 Speaker 2: and that she found out later Vicky had made some 594 00:36:29,685 --> 00:36:31,845 Speaker 2: changes as a little. 595 00:36:31,685 --> 00:36:34,245 Speaker 4: Bit of time goes on. He asked her, he said, 596 00:36:35,405 --> 00:36:39,285 Speaker 4: did the police, state police, or the sheriff ever ask 597 00:36:39,405 --> 00:36:42,845 Speaker 4: you if you had any kind of life insurance policies, 598 00:36:42,925 --> 00:36:47,045 Speaker 4: burial policies or anything like that. She said no. He said, well, 599 00:36:48,205 --> 00:36:51,245 Speaker 4: he said, do you have any insurance policies and she said, yeah, 600 00:36:51,285 --> 00:36:54,085 Speaker 4: I have a burial policy in an accident policy. And 601 00:36:54,125 --> 00:36:56,485 Speaker 4: he said, well, I'll need copies of those. He said, 602 00:36:56,485 --> 00:36:59,405 Speaker 4: that way, if something comes up, I'll be able to 603 00:36:59,445 --> 00:37:04,245 Speaker 4: help you out with it. She said, well, I kind 604 00:37:04,245 --> 00:37:07,405 Speaker 4: of might have messed up. He said, what do you mean. 605 00:37:08,085 --> 00:37:11,685 Speaker 4: She said, well, that accident policy, she said, I increased 606 00:37:11,725 --> 00:37:16,525 Speaker 4: it after Robert disappeared. So what it was is it 607 00:37:16,645 --> 00:37:20,925 Speaker 4: was a accident policy like you get from banks if 608 00:37:20,925 --> 00:37:24,685 Speaker 4: you lose a limb or eye or something, or you 609 00:37:24,725 --> 00:37:28,125 Speaker 4: get accidentally killed. So what she did was is it 610 00:37:28,205 --> 00:37:31,005 Speaker 4: was that fifty thousand, and she increased it to two 611 00:37:31,085 --> 00:37:34,885 Speaker 4: hundred or two hundred and fifty thousand, and then she 612 00:37:35,045 --> 00:37:42,165 Speaker 4: made her son Carl the beneficiary on that policy. Bran, yes, 613 00:37:42,325 --> 00:37:47,245 Speaker 4: her son, not Brian, her son. So that's a big 614 00:37:47,285 --> 00:37:51,605 Speaker 4: red flag. Why would you increase a policy after your 615 00:37:51,685 --> 00:37:52,645 Speaker 4: husband disappears. 616 00:37:54,565 --> 00:37:58,445 Speaker 2: In August of twenty eleven, Lydia said Vicky got rid 617 00:37:58,485 --> 00:38:01,085 Speaker 2: of the rest of her brother's clothes. That was also 618 00:38:01,245 --> 00:38:03,245 Speaker 2: around the time when Vicky took off her wedding ring. 619 00:38:04,125 --> 00:38:09,165 Speaker 2: The following year, Vicky was moving on, Vicky met George Keith. 620 00:38:10,165 --> 00:38:13,405 Speaker 2: Vicky and George started dating. They wanted to get married, 621 00:38:13,565 --> 00:38:17,325 Speaker 2: but there was one problem. Robert had not been legally 622 00:38:17,365 --> 00:38:21,605 Speaker 2: declared dead, and Lydia still had her brother's power of attorney, 623 00:38:21,725 --> 00:38:24,445 Speaker 2: which he had given her in two thousand and nine. 624 00:38:24,485 --> 00:38:28,045 Speaker 2: In July twenty twelve, Vicki petitioned the court to have 625 00:38:28,165 --> 00:38:33,125 Speaker 2: Robert declared dead, which they did. After Robert was legally 626 00:38:33,165 --> 00:38:36,925 Speaker 2: declared dead in twenty thirteen, Vicky and George were married. 627 00:38:38,085 --> 00:38:40,405 Speaker 2: I want to point out, and this is really important. 628 00:38:40,885 --> 00:38:44,845 Speaker 2: Over the years, Lydia and Vicki have obviously clashed. At 629 00:38:44,885 --> 00:38:48,085 Speaker 2: one point, Lydia was talking to local reporters and went 630 00:38:48,085 --> 00:38:48,805 Speaker 2: to the property. 631 00:38:49,445 --> 00:38:51,565 Speaker 1: Vicki told the reporters to get off her property. 632 00:38:52,165 --> 00:38:56,605 Speaker 2: Now, I'm sure that Vicky has a completely different story 633 00:38:56,605 --> 00:38:58,525 Speaker 2: to tell. I'm sure there's a whole other side of 634 00:38:58,565 --> 00:39:01,805 Speaker 2: that story. I have reached out to her for comment 635 00:39:01,965 --> 00:39:05,885 Speaker 2: and she's not replied. I've also reached out to Ryan. 636 00:39:06,925 --> 00:39:09,085 Speaker 2: I would love to talk to them because I really 637 00:39:09,125 --> 00:39:11,565 Speaker 2: do believe that it's only by piecing everything together we're 638 00:39:11,565 --> 00:39:12,965 Speaker 2: going to be able to find out what happened to 639 00:39:13,045 --> 00:39:16,685 Speaker 2: Robert Cox. Vicky has never been named as a suspect. 640 00:39:17,205 --> 00:39:20,205 Speaker 2: She did pass a lie detector test, She's never been 641 00:39:20,285 --> 00:39:22,765 Speaker 2: charged with anything and never to my knowledge, been a 642 00:39:22,805 --> 00:39:27,085 Speaker 2: suspect in her husband's appearance. Over the years, Lydia and 643 00:39:27,165 --> 00:39:31,805 Speaker 2: Vicky went to court several times. The judge mainly sided 644 00:39:31,805 --> 00:39:37,805 Speaker 2: with Vicky. Vicky ended up with Robert's property, but Robert's father, Gene, 645 00:39:37,845 --> 00:39:39,405 Speaker 2: was allowed to live in his house for the rest 646 00:39:39,405 --> 00:39:43,085 Speaker 2: of his life. Now, I can only imagine the tension 647 00:39:43,285 --> 00:39:46,365 Speaker 2: that must have been present at that property, because can 648 00:39:46,365 --> 00:39:51,165 Speaker 2: you imagine living on the property with your former father 649 00:39:51,245 --> 00:39:54,965 Speaker 2: in law, the father in law who suspects that you 650 00:39:55,005 --> 00:39:57,485 Speaker 2: have killed his son, and having to see him every day. 651 00:39:58,085 --> 00:40:00,045 Speaker 2: I cannot imagine what that must have been like for 652 00:40:00,125 --> 00:40:03,925 Speaker 2: any of those people. Over the years, Lydia reached out 653 00:40:03,965 --> 00:40:06,885 Speaker 2: to everyone she could think of. She called the Attorney General, 654 00:40:06,965 --> 00:40:10,325 Speaker 2: she posted on social media. She called the FBI and 655 00:40:10,405 --> 00:40:14,405 Speaker 2: true crime shows, including Nancy Grace, anyone who could help 656 00:40:14,445 --> 00:40:15,725 Speaker 2: her get answers. 657 00:40:15,965 --> 00:40:18,245 Speaker 4: And I said, and believe me, I am not here 658 00:40:18,285 --> 00:40:22,525 Speaker 4: to make enemies with you guys. But it's not your 659 00:40:22,605 --> 00:40:27,005 Speaker 4: loved one. It's not in your backyard, I said, it's mine. 660 00:40:27,085 --> 00:40:28,925 Speaker 4: I said. When you lay your head on your pillow 661 00:40:28,965 --> 00:40:32,445 Speaker 4: at night, you know where your people are. You know 662 00:40:32,525 --> 00:40:35,445 Speaker 4: where your family is. I said, I know where most 663 00:40:35,485 --> 00:40:39,125 Speaker 4: of mine are, living or dead. I know where they are, 664 00:40:39,605 --> 00:40:43,525 Speaker 4: I said, But Robert Cox, I have no clue, and 665 00:40:43,565 --> 00:40:48,805 Speaker 4: I said in Robert Cox, you got five suspects that 666 00:40:48,925 --> 00:40:53,405 Speaker 4: are just running them up, and not one person has 667 00:40:53,525 --> 00:41:00,725 Speaker 4: ever ever brought them in and investigated, interrogated, I said nothing. 668 00:41:02,405 --> 00:41:05,445 Speaker 2: In twenty fifteen, Lydia talked to a local Fox News. 669 00:41:06,485 --> 00:41:09,805 Speaker 2: This time it was a two part special. The reporter 670 00:41:10,365 --> 00:41:12,845 Speaker 2: went out to the property and climbed through the clear 671 00:41:12,885 --> 00:41:15,805 Speaker 2: cut and you can really see what hard and rough 672 00:41:15,885 --> 00:41:18,165 Speaker 2: terrain that is and how hard it would have been 673 00:41:18,245 --> 00:41:21,805 Speaker 2: for an elderly man byll these physical challenges to navigate it. 674 00:41:22,725 --> 00:41:25,765 Speaker 2: At the time, Robert's father, Jean, told the reporter he 675 00:41:25,845 --> 00:41:29,525 Speaker 2: thought of his missing son every single day. He said, quote, 676 00:41:29,805 --> 00:41:31,725 Speaker 2: I get up at night and I go out and 677 00:41:31,765 --> 00:41:36,445 Speaker 2: look he comes to me in my dreams end quote. Eventually, 678 00:41:37,085 --> 00:41:40,085 Speaker 2: Lydia got a meeting with the prosecutor. She said she 679 00:41:40,165 --> 00:41:43,765 Speaker 2: was underwhelmed by his response. When I was talking to 680 00:41:43,845 --> 00:41:46,485 Speaker 2: Lydia about her meeting with the prosecutor, I had to 681 00:41:46,525 --> 00:41:48,685 Speaker 2: ask her about something I heard her say to another 682 00:41:48,725 --> 00:41:52,925 Speaker 2: media outlet. She said the prosecutor told her that unless 683 00:41:52,965 --> 00:41:57,365 Speaker 2: they had a body and a confession, that they couldn't prosecute. 684 00:41:57,485 --> 00:42:01,005 Speaker 2: I thought, I misheard or maybe she misspoke, because to 685 00:42:01,085 --> 00:42:05,165 Speaker 2: me that was unbelievable, but she said that's exactly what happened. 686 00:42:06,165 --> 00:42:08,325 Speaker 4: So we just sat there and we started asking questions 687 00:42:08,325 --> 00:42:12,205 Speaker 4: of the private detective was there, and I had my 688 00:42:12,285 --> 00:42:16,085 Speaker 4: state rep and then an attorney from the Attorney General's 689 00:42:16,125 --> 00:42:19,085 Speaker 4: office there, and then he's like, well, there's nothing I 690 00:42:19,125 --> 00:42:21,085 Speaker 4: can do for you. He says, you'll have to go 691 00:42:21,125 --> 00:42:24,325 Speaker 4: over to the sheriff's office and hash it out with them. 692 00:42:24,925 --> 00:42:28,645 Speaker 2: At that point, law enforcement did take action. They took 693 00:42:28,725 --> 00:42:31,645 Speaker 2: Lydia and her dad in and they separately questioned them. 694 00:42:31,965 --> 00:42:35,965 Speaker 2: They gave Lydia a lit detector test, which she passed. Again, 695 00:42:36,045 --> 00:42:38,845 Speaker 2: I should mention Vicky did eventually take a polygraph test. 696 00:42:39,725 --> 00:42:42,645 Speaker 2: Lydia said that she talked to VICKI after Vicky took 697 00:42:42,685 --> 00:42:45,645 Speaker 2: the test, and that Vicky was talking about taking xanax. 698 00:42:46,205 --> 00:42:50,285 Speaker 2: So Lydia believes that the xanacts that Vicky took could 699 00:42:50,285 --> 00:42:52,285 Speaker 2: have influenced the test, But it's important to mention that 700 00:42:52,325 --> 00:42:56,405 Speaker 2: she did pass the polygraph. The police department considers this 701 00:42:56,445 --> 00:43:01,205 Speaker 2: an open investigation, so they aren't revealing any details. In 702 00:43:01,245 --> 00:43:04,525 Speaker 2: twenty twenty three, a new sheriff took over, he said 703 00:43:04,525 --> 00:43:07,125 Speaker 2: he was going to have an open door policy. Lydia 704 00:43:07,205 --> 00:43:09,605 Speaker 2: said she has a good relationship with the new sheriff 705 00:43:10,405 --> 00:43:13,125 Speaker 2: and that the new sheriff has said that he would 706 00:43:13,125 --> 00:43:16,005 Speaker 2: open the case back up and be open to outside help. 707 00:43:16,405 --> 00:43:18,525 Speaker 2: And I just want to say to the Yale County 708 00:43:18,525 --> 00:43:22,205 Speaker 2: Sheriff's Department and to the Arkansas State Police, if you 709 00:43:22,325 --> 00:43:26,045 Speaker 2: do want my help in any way, I would be 710 00:43:26,205 --> 00:43:29,045 Speaker 2: more than happy to put time and work into this 711 00:43:29,085 --> 00:43:30,845 Speaker 2: case if you're willing to share any part of the 712 00:43:30,845 --> 00:43:34,925 Speaker 2: case file. Eventually, Vicky sold the house where she had 713 00:43:34,965 --> 00:43:36,965 Speaker 2: been living with Robert, the one that he built with 714 00:43:37,005 --> 00:43:40,845 Speaker 2: his bare hands. She and her new husband moved to Russellville. 715 00:43:40,885 --> 00:43:45,165 Speaker 2: For years, Robert's former house sat there empty. The house 716 00:43:45,245 --> 00:43:47,805 Speaker 2: was sold to someone in another state, and now it's 717 00:43:47,845 --> 00:43:52,965 Speaker 2: rented out as an airbnb. Jean passed away and tragically 718 00:43:53,285 --> 00:43:57,605 Speaker 2: he died, never knowing what happened to his son. After 719 00:43:57,685 --> 00:44:01,045 Speaker 2: he died, Vicky's daughter, Angela and her husband moved into 720 00:44:01,125 --> 00:44:04,525 Speaker 2: Jean's former home, and meanwhile, Lydia still lives in the 721 00:44:04,565 --> 00:44:08,565 Speaker 2: same house near her brother's property, so she has to 722 00:44:08,685 --> 00:44:11,245 Speaker 2: drive by the place where her brother disappeared and look 723 00:44:11,365 --> 00:44:13,845 Speaker 2: at some of the people who she believes may have 724 00:44:13,885 --> 00:44:16,005 Speaker 2: had a pardon it, or at least know what happened 725 00:44:16,525 --> 00:44:23,285 Speaker 2: every single day. According to the Yale County Sheriff's Department, 726 00:44:23,605 --> 00:44:27,445 Speaker 2: the case is still active. They told Fox News back 727 00:44:27,445 --> 00:44:30,725 Speaker 2: in twenty fifteen. Quote we wish that we could share 728 00:44:30,725 --> 00:44:34,205 Speaker 2: more information, but since this is a complex, active investigation 729 00:44:34,405 --> 00:44:37,685 Speaker 2: into an incident which occurred under suspicious circumstances, we have 730 00:44:37,765 --> 00:44:40,605 Speaker 2: to consider all possibilities and maintain the integrity of the 731 00:44:40,605 --> 00:44:42,165 Speaker 2: investigation end quote. 732 00:44:43,645 --> 00:44:47,325 Speaker 1: So what really happened to Robert Cox? I agree with Lydia. 733 00:44:47,405 --> 00:44:50,565 Speaker 2: I think it's incredibly unlikely, if not impossible, that he 734 00:44:50,645 --> 00:44:54,125 Speaker 2: was out walking randomly by himself and was kidnapped in 735 00:44:54,245 --> 00:44:58,365 Speaker 2: broad daylight completely disappeared in a five minute space of time. 736 00:44:59,445 --> 00:45:02,245 Speaker 2: Over the years, Lydia's mind has gone to dark places. 737 00:45:02,805 --> 00:45:07,165 Speaker 2: She's had to consider every single possibility. She's wondered about 738 00:45:07,245 --> 00:45:11,165 Speaker 2: Robert's physical deterioration, how fast it all happened. She wondered 739 00:45:11,165 --> 00:45:14,245 Speaker 2: if that was a coincidence, or could her brother have 740 00:45:14,325 --> 00:45:18,325 Speaker 2: been poisoned. Lydia told The Missing Podcast she did wonder 741 00:45:18,365 --> 00:45:21,085 Speaker 2: at one point about Vicky's habit of giving her brother 742 00:45:21,205 --> 00:45:24,485 Speaker 2: in sheer milkshakes, and when Vicky gave him the shakes, 743 00:45:25,045 --> 00:45:27,845 Speaker 2: Lydia said she would put a lot of extra chocolate syrup. 744 00:45:27,525 --> 00:45:28,285 Speaker 1: In the drinks. 745 00:45:28,725 --> 00:45:31,445 Speaker 2: She said when she made Robert shakes, he never needed 746 00:45:31,445 --> 00:45:33,565 Speaker 2: that extra chocolate, so she kind of wondered why Vicky 747 00:45:33,605 --> 00:45:37,405 Speaker 2: did that. Then again, Lydia was the one making a 748 00:45:37,405 --> 00:45:41,525 Speaker 2: lot of Robert's food, and even before the physical deterioration, 749 00:45:41,645 --> 00:45:47,245 Speaker 2: he was clearly having issues physical and psychological. There's one 750 00:45:47,285 --> 00:45:51,125 Speaker 2: more area that Lydia believes needs to be searched more thoroughly. 751 00:45:51,725 --> 00:45:56,885 Speaker 2: When Vicky sold the property, she kept the three acre 752 00:45:56,965 --> 00:45:59,565 Speaker 2: patch of land with Jean's house on it in the family. 753 00:46:01,285 --> 00:46:05,205 Speaker 2: Lydia wonders if her brother is somewhere on that property, 754 00:46:05,965 --> 00:46:09,885 Speaker 2: somewhere close to home. To this day, she believes he 755 00:46:10,005 --> 00:46:11,965 Speaker 2: never made it off of that property alive. 756 00:46:13,445 --> 00:46:14,485 Speaker 1: I'm Catherine Townsend. 757 00:46:15,125 --> 00:46:28,725 Speaker 2: This is Helen Gone Murder Line. Helen Gone Murder Line 758 00:46:28,765 --> 00:46:31,365 Speaker 2: is a production of School of Humans and iHeart Podcasts. 759 00:46:31,765 --> 00:46:34,885 Speaker 2: It's written and narrated by me Catherine Townsend and produced 760 00:46:34,885 --> 00:46:38,845 Speaker 2: by Gabby Watts. Music contributed by Ben sale And this 761 00:46:38,925 --> 00:46:43,405 Speaker 2: episode was scored and mixed by Miranda Hawkins. Executive producers 762 00:46:43,405 --> 00:46:45,725 Speaker 2: are Virginia Prescott, Brandon Barr, and L. C. 763 00:46:45,845 --> 00:46:48,285 Speaker 1: Crowley. 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