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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Alex is on the phone today for our first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Riley. So in

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Speaker 2: a second we'll call her and see if she's house,

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date.

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Speaker 2: But first, Alex, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: heard from Riley?

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Speaker 3: It's been about ten days?

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Speaker 4: Okay, now that you're counting, yeah, you how many times

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Speaker 4: have you reached out to her in that time.

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Speaker 5: I've sent a few texts, but it's it's been nothing crazy.

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Speaker 6: Okay, we'll tell us about the date.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, we went to an underground concert and it

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Speaker 5: was so much fun.

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Speaker 3: I thought it would be. Yeah, it was actually.

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Speaker 6: On my ground.

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Speaker 3: It was it was in like the basement of the

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Speaker 3: back of this cool It was actually it was pretty cool.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And I thought it was gonna be like this

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Speaker 5: perfect combination of low pressure but still lots of fun,

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Speaker 5: you know. And we had we had a few drinks.

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Speaker 5: We were viving in the music and she was even

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Speaker 5: dancing a little bit. And I gotta say, she's like

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Speaker 5: super cool too, Like she doesn't even have to try.

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Speaker 5: She's one of those she's just so cool and she

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Speaker 5: knows her music. She wasn't just like oh, I like everything.

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Speaker 5: She had opinions and I respect that, you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 5: And then the night ended with us grabbing some late

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Speaker 5: night pizza and there was a kiss and it was

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Speaker 5: in the moment and the music was still in the

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Speaker 5: background and everything, but it was kind of cinematic.

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Speaker 3: It felt like it was right out of the movie.

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Speaker 4: It feels really good to hear guys romanticize these kisses too.

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Speaker 3: It felt like it was perfect.

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Speaker 6: Okay, well, what do you think is the reason she's

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Speaker 6: ghosting you?

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Speaker 5: Then I might be overthinking it, but I might have

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Speaker 5: gotten a little bit too into the concert.

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Speaker 4: What does that mean though?

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Speaker 6: Like a mosh bit?

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Speaker 3: Well kind of.

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Speaker 5: I mean, like I jumped up on the stage, but

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Speaker 5: like the band invited me. They were like, who's ready

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Speaker 5: to rock? And I just I took initiatives.

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Speaker 6: You know, you're like, I am sir, and.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, and and then maybe there was like I

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Speaker 5: also there was this one moment that I spilled my

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Speaker 3: Throw me across the room.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So it was a.

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Speaker 5: Pretty pretty big guy. But that's all I can think about.

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Speaker 5: I mean, like I said, I think I'm overthinking it.

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Speaker 6: Something happened because of the spilling the drink or.

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Speaker 5: I mean, the guy just looks kind of angry, but

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Speaker 5: like I know, he, like I said, he was a

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Speaker 6: But it was alation.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, okay, maybe that's why maybe she wants

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Speaker 4: Some people are like that, you're joking, but there are

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Speaker 4: some people like that and that's a red flag though.

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Speaker 4: So for you, though, what was she doing while you

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I kind of lost her in the

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Speaker 3: it was like adrenaline was high. Lost in the moment

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Speaker 6: She became a peasant people in the in the crowd.

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Speaker 3: No, I wanted her to come up. I thought she

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 4: So then when you said you kissed m m okay,

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Speaker 4: who did it first?

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Speaker 6: You or her?

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Speaker 5: I mean it was I felt like I think it

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Speaker 3: Like the felt right.

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Speaker 6: You know, what was the last thing she said to you?

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Speaker 5: She said she had a great night and that she

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Speaker 3: So okay, I really don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well we'll see if we figure it out

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Speaker 2: for you. Then we'll play a song come Back, and

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Speaker 2: then call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, we'll play a song come Back and get

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Speaker 2: your first Day follow up, Next.

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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: Alex is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Riley.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and see if we

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Speaker 2: can get him another date if he still wants one

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Speaker 2: after here's the reason why. But first, Alex, remind us

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Speaker 2: about your date again.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well I took her to an underground concert sort

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Speaker 5: of thing. I thought it would be fun and we

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Speaker 5: had a great time, like she was dancing. We really

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Speaker 5: hit it off. It felt like we even. Just at

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Speaker 5: the end of the night, she said she wanted to

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Speaker 5: see me again, but I don't know. I've been going

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Speaker 3: Hasn't reached out again or responded.

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Speaker 5: And there was just a couple of incidents like I

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Speaker 5: jumped up on stage after they invited me, and I

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Speaker 5: don't know. I was just five and I was having

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Speaker 5: a good time, but I was super into it and

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Speaker 2: Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 2: for you. Then are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 7: Hello.

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Speaker 6: Hi is this Riley? Hey Riley? How are you? This

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Speaker 6: is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. Hi, Riley.

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Speaker 6: My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name's Jubel.

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Speaker 6: How's it going show?

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Speaker 7: No, this is so kind of joke.

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Speaker 6: Great. No, have you listened to the show before?

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Speaker 7: I haven't. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 2: No, it's fine. Well, don't worry about it. Maybe now

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Speaker 2: you'll check it out because you're actually on the show.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment on the show. It's called the

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Speaker 2: First Day follow Up. It's where if you go out

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Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and you ghost them, that

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 6: So, can you think of anybody who you want to

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Speaker 6: email us about you?

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Speaker 7: I'm being I guess, is it Alex?

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Speaker 6: You are correct? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Alex emailed us and told us about your date. He said,

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Speaker 2: it's been like ten days and he hasn't heard anything

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Speaker 2: he said, you want to see him again?

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Speaker 7: Oh my god. Of course Alex waid through something like this.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I ghosted him, Okay, so why, yeah, can you

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Speaker 8: Because he embarrassed me so much I couldn't I couldn't

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Speaker 6: He was so embarrassing. Why why is the embarrassing?

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Speaker 8: So he took me to this concert and like he

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Speaker 8: No, it wasn't that, Like he was not like corny cocks,

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Speaker 4: They had just wo's been a little confused, different stories

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Speaker 2: He said that they saw him having fun and they

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Speaker 8: No, like he said, dude, like like some other like

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Speaker 7: Him on the stage.

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Speaker 6: Oh that's funny.

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Speaker 4: Oh maybe he was standing next to some hot girl

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Speaker 6: He didn't tell us that they kicked him off the stage.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, like security had to like escort him off the stage.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we missed that part.

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Speaker 6: Okay. Is that is that the reason you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Well it was just yeah, he just started like no awareness,

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Speaker 3: Hey, hey, can I say something now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes again, Alex, Hey, Riley, that's Alex. He's actually

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Speaker 7: He's on the phone right, how yeah, that was him.

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Speaker 6: He wants to say something now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I just want to clarify this. Nobody nobody

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Speaker 7: They like escorted you back, like off of the stage.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what concert you were at, Riley, because

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Speaker 5: that's not what happened. The security guard literally gave me

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Speaker 6: I can picture that.

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Speaker 7: No, that's not that's not what happened. Like are you

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Speaker 8: Like they literally like escorted you off the stage, like

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Speaker 3: They didn't stop, They didn't have to stop. They just

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Speaker 7: What are you even talking about?

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Speaker 8: They asked us to leave like we got like kicked

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Speaker 3: They weren't kicking us out.

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Speaker 5: They asked us to leave because like I was up

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Speaker 6: For autographs. That's funny.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean the crowd went crazy when I went

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Speaker 7: They were crazy and they were mad you interrupted the shovel.

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Speaker 3: That's not how I maybe they thought that was going

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Speaker 7: How are you confusing this?

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Speaker 8: The security guard said, you guys are eighty stakes that

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Speaker 6: Ever, it sounds like you got kicked out. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: That's not how I thought we did.

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Speaker 7: We got kicked out.

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Speaker 3: How do you not know me? Listen? I mean you

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Speaker 3: and I, that me and that security guard. We like

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Speaker 3: I thought he was just kidding around.

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Speaker 7: They this bump everyone.

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Speaker 6: Well, Riley, would you like another day with Alex? Will

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Speaker 7: No? No, thank you?

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Speaker 8: I mean, I know everyone wants to like a viral,

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Speaker 8: but not for the wrong reasons.

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Speaker 5: Well that really sucks because I thought we were really

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Speaker 5: vibing together at the whole concert.

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Speaker 7: Well, I'm sorry. I guess that just shows like how

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Speaker 7: unaware you are.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, then cheer loss. I guess no autographs for you.

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