WEBVTT - The Chronic Lateness

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest.

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Seacrest with you Hey, today's National Orange Juice Day.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember as a kid drinking orange juice out of

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<v Speaker 1>the minute made paper container from the fridge every day

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<v Speaker 1>when I would get home from school. I would chug it.

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<v Speaker 1>You would put your lips on it for the whole

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<v Speaker 1>family to share. Yeah, they didn't really drink it. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I was the only one. Then they introduced when

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<v Speaker 1>I was a kid, they introduced calcium fortified orange juice

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<v Speaker 1>because people drink milk for calcium. So they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>drink orange juice and we'll put calcium in it and

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<v Speaker 1>you can get your calcium from our orange juice. The

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<v Speaker 1>beef between o J and milk, they were just like

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<v Speaker 1>it was always a competition. I have orange juice and

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<v Speaker 1>milk always been at on because I've seen many breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>commercials where they've got glasses of both, right, or they

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<v Speaker 1>have like a of cereal and then someone's also drinking

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<v Speaker 1>a glass of orange juice. It's like, I've never in

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<v Speaker 1>my life had cereal with a glass of orange juice.

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<v Speaker 1>I have as a kid. Ever a thing for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to try to be friends, you know, over

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<v Speaker 1>the years, you know, everyone it's one or the other.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, Well, I skip breakfast now, so neither of

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<v Speaker 1>y'all are in my life. I basically alright. Today guys,

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<v Speaker 1>we have sunshine and warmer going to get into the

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<v Speaker 1>eighties nineties Inland, so we all have pet peeves. One

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<v Speaker 1>of a common pet peeve I know with all of us,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's because of what we do for a living,

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<v Speaker 1>is when people are late or really late and late

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. It's annoying. It dry Like, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>so much anxiety if I'm running late. It just makes

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<v Speaker 1>me crazy. But then I have people in my life

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<v Speaker 1>who just never are on time by a lot. Me too.

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<v Speaker 1>And with you it's Becca, right, Tana, Yes, And I

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<v Speaker 1>love her to death, you know, Uh, with your best friends,

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<v Speaker 1>you take the good and the bad. And she's been

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<v Speaker 1>chronically late our entire friendship. And it's just something that

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<v Speaker 1>I know about her, and I also just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>expect it and it is what it is. And normally

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care because you know, it's something social and

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<v Speaker 1>you know whatever. But we do a podcast together and

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<v Speaker 1>it's at the same time every single week, and yet

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<v Speaker 1>she's always she's like, she's always late. And sometimes it's

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<v Speaker 1>not bad. Sometimes it's like five minutes, sometimes it's ten. Sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, but any little bit is disrespectful, especially professionally.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was thinking about telling her that everything is

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<v Speaker 1>going to be fifteen and start fifteen minutes earlier, so

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<v Speaker 1>that way she's on time. But then I feel bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel bad lying, and then I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to get other people in vision. You should feel good

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<v Speaker 1>that you're not harsher about it, right, because you're not saying, look,

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<v Speaker 1>either you hold up your end of the deal or

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta find another beck of a scrub with here.

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<v Speaker 1>I would never she's my best friend. Okay, Well this

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<v Speaker 1>is we're talking about the job, right, Like if we

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<v Speaker 1>were fifteen minutes late every day, they call us and go, guys, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>but Joe, Joe has taken over, you know. But now

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<v Speaker 1>with with this whole giving people false times, I've done

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<v Speaker 1>this for I don't feel bad about it. I've done

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<v Speaker 1>this the parents to my god, kids run late. They

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<v Speaker 1>just run late. And I think we work in a

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<v Speaker 1>world where every fifteen minutes is a big deal because

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<v Speaker 1>we have to go to bed at eight thirty. We

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<v Speaker 1>have to go to bed at whatever time. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>just like let things linger. So if something starts socially late,

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<v Speaker 1>it spills into your you time to rest and sleep

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<v Speaker 1>and recover and get ready for the next day. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>we are in a medium that is immediate, and so

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<v Speaker 1>things are by the seconds here. Like I know Blato's

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<v Speaker 1>song is two minutes and forty eight seconds, So my

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<v Speaker 1>brain thinks like that, right, Like two minutes and forty

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<v Speaker 1>seconds late is different than two minutes late, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't think you should feel guilt. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you should feel guilt, saying if the sessions

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<v Speaker 1>at two, it starts at and then make everybody else

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<v Speaker 1>lie to her too. You're not making anybody do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You're trying to get her there on time or just

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<v Speaker 1>start the session, but not really till two. I's don't saying,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what, you're still going to be waiting fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>minutes for her, because now you're going to be ready

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<v Speaker 1>at your brain is gonna go there. The other way

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<v Speaker 1>to address it is to say, hey, look back, I

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<v Speaker 1>love you, my best friend, but I find this disrespectful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but people's time is the most valuable commodity we have,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. But you know what's interesting is I think

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<v Speaker 1>that there's like, because I remember Patty used to say

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<v Speaker 1>this all the time, she just there's like a chip

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<v Speaker 1>in her where she just like can't get places on time.

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<v Speaker 1>She would always say, it's just there's just some thing

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<v Speaker 1>about her brain that she just can't do it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't believe that. I don't think that there's no chip.

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<v Speaker 1>It's possible. She makes it on time for airplanes, right,

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<v Speaker 1>barely re sponsible and respectful your time, their time. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a it's a big deal to me. I think we've

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<v Speaker 1>had guests on this show that have run late and

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<v Speaker 1>we have said, sorry, we're out of time. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like some some people cannot figure out how to make

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<v Speaker 1>it within an hour. Yeah, she's also the person that's

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<v Speaker 1>like running onto the plane like I will be seated

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<v Speaker 1>in my Let's go back from the root of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Why does she wait till the last minute? Why does

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<v Speaker 1>she do that? There's got to be a reason, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying. I don't think it's disrespectful because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it's not just to me, it's not it's

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<v Speaker 1>just everything in her life she can't do that to

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<v Speaker 1>people's time. You want us to talk to her, happy

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<v Speaker 1>to have her on the air. Should you wake her up?

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<v Speaker 1>I really would love to have a conversation. They're about

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<v Speaker 1>being on time, do you know, like Jones? If things,

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<v Speaker 1>if we're waiting here for what seconds? Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it makes me because we have so much

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<v Speaker 1>to do and it's all like gotta get done by

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<v Speaker 1>certain times, you know, right, and things stack up like

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<v Speaker 1>if you book like a conference call right after then

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<v Speaker 1>that everything. Oh, I remember there was a guest or two,

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<v Speaker 1>I think there were two coming together, and Sugarman kept

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<v Speaker 1>telling me, because we in this show, we do plan

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<v Speaker 1>it a little bit, and so if like we're planning

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<v Speaker 1>to have somebody on before nine o'clock and I keep

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<v Speaker 1>saying that and they're not here by nine o'clock, then

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we've let ourselves down. Well, Amy, Sugarman

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<v Speaker 1>kept telling me that was it, Amy, right, I kept

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<v Speaker 1>telling me. I kept calling her during the songs where

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<v Speaker 1>these guests, we keep saying they're gonna be by nine,

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<v Speaker 1>and she kept telling me they're in the elevator. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I called back five minutes later she said no, no no,

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<v Speaker 1>they're coming up in the elevator. So she was actually

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<v Speaker 1>telling me they're in the elevator. They were still in

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<v Speaker 1>the car coming over the hill. Yeah, but that's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't let that stuff tweak me so much, but

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<v Speaker 1>it does. And then that was like five years ago

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<v Speaker 1>and you still can't let it go. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>we'll ever have them back. I don't remember who of

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<v Speaker 1>them was great. Yeah, it's not time. The one that

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<v Speaker 1>was on time that was um. But the other thing

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<v Speaker 1>is I don't like being I know when you're telling

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<v Speaker 1>me a BS time story, like they're in the elevator

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<v Speaker 1>three times. Really the elevator two floors up. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>in the elevator for twenty minutes to get to the

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<v Speaker 1>third floor. All right, guys, here we go. Your morning

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<v Speaker 1>hack is next. So anyway, I agree, Tanya, we should

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<v Speaker 1>have that go on the line. Sis and I will

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<v Speaker 1>have a conversation about it. We're happy to do it

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<v Speaker 1>in a friendly way and that way, it's not on

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<v Speaker 1>your friendship. Just to find out, like what the root

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<v Speaker 1>is with the waiting till last minute. I'm curious because

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<v Speaker 1>people are like this. I might be like this if

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't have these kinds of jobs on the air

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<v Speaker 1>with Ryan C. Christ Let's get to your morning act

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<v Speaker 1>this morning. Sometimes you have no control over when your

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<v Speaker 1>job interview is, but they say this is the best

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<v Speaker 1>situation to be in. If you want to get hired,

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<v Speaker 1>go last to the interview, Go last, last in line,

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<v Speaker 1>lasting sequence, last in order, last appointment. Find out when

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<v Speaker 1>interviews are happening, and schedule yourself late in the day

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<v Speaker 1>on the last day. Top of mind. You have the choice.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes they tell you this day, this time you show up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called recent c bias, recency bias, recent c bias. Recent.

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<v Speaker 1>Therefore it's in your head and you're clouded by everyone else,

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<v Speaker 1>and so therefore it's clearer if you're the last person.

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<v Speaker 1>The last person interviewed is hired fifty six percent of

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<v Speaker 1>the time. Oh my god, that is not that good.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good trick too for your dating life, Like

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<v Speaker 1>if you're stacking up some dates, always do the drink

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<v Speaker 1>after dinner, not before. Huh. What Like if you're if

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to go on a couple of dates in

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<v Speaker 1>a night, same night. Yeah, I don't know that there's

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<v Speaker 1>a high percentage of people running that, but good for thought.

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<v Speaker 1>Quote today, You glow differently when your confidence is fueled

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<v Speaker 1>by belief in yourself instead of validation of others. It's

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<v Speaker 1>such a great quote on air with Ryan Seacrest. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>rolling up on seven Let's Go FM headlines. Alright, So

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<v Speaker 1>comedian Dave Chappelle, he was attacked on stage during a

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<v Speaker 1>comedy performance at the Hollywood Bowl last night. Chappelle was

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<v Speaker 1>on stage as part of the Netflix Is a Joke

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<v Speaker 1>comedy festival. The suspect, identified as a twenty three year

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<v Speaker 1>old Isaiah Isaiah Lee, jumped on stage and tackled Chappelle

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<v Speaker 1>as he was leaving. L A p D said that

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<v Speaker 1>Lee was transported for medical treatment at a local hospital

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<v Speaker 1>where he was a for assault with a deadly weapon.

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<v Speaker 1>Airbnb this month is ending its Coronavirus era cancelation policy

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<v Speaker 1>that allows travelers to cancel a reservation for virus related reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's going to kick in on May thirty one

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<v Speaker 1>and going forward. Airbnb noted that the company is working

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<v Speaker 1>on a guest travel insurance product that will be available

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<v Speaker 1>to customers in certain countries, and Taylor Swift is headed

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<v Speaker 1>to the Tribeca Film Festival next month in New York.

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<v Speaker 1>She will turn up to support a special screening of

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<v Speaker 1>the short film for All Too Well, which she wrote, directed, produced,

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<v Speaker 1>and started. But Taylor won't just be there to watch

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<v Speaker 1>the film. She's also going to sit down for a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation about her approach as a filmmaker. Drive Back a

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<v Speaker 1>Film festival takes place June eight to nineteenth, and Taylor's

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<v Speaker 1>appearance set for June eleven on air with Ryan Seacrets.

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<v Speaker 1>So I saw this early watching the very very very

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<v Speaker 1>early edition when it's still dark edition of the News

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<v Speaker 1>and they told us about the incident at the Hollywood Bowl.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you think about going to the Hollywood Bowl, and

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<v Speaker 1>many of you have been or you've seen it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like an exciting experience. It's one of those things you

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<v Speaker 1>look forward to for months if you've got tickets, or

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<v Speaker 1>weeks if you find out you're going, or if you

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<v Speaker 1>get invited, as it for like a guess. They're so

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<v Speaker 1>stoked because you're out in the middle of a neighborhood

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<v Speaker 1>the stars, And every time I'm there, I think this

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<v Speaker 1>is such an experience and such a beautiful, peaceful, lovely experience.

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<v Speaker 1>And so last night at the Bowl, Dave Chappelle was

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<v Speaker 1>on stage and he got rushed and tackled like full speed.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy comes out of nowhere and essentially like you

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<v Speaker 1>would see in a football game the ball carrier getting tackled.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the audio of what we have history on stage.

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<v Speaker 1>The crowd. You can't believe it. Now. You're not supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to bring phones in, so there is a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of video circulating, but not as much as you would

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<v Speaker 1>think if everybody had their phone, because they were taping

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<v Speaker 1>for the Netflix special, so phones were supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>you know, left at home or in your vehicle, but

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<v Speaker 1>some people did realize they had I think one of

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<v Speaker 1>the phones that captured it. The owner didn't realize that

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<v Speaker 1>had a second phone, and somehow the second phone out

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<v Speaker 1>when this happened. Well I didn't realize. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>about that. Well, anyway, it was captured and it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>just nuts to see this kind of thing. And that

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Now, so here's the one. It was Dave's fine. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>the person that charged him was put into an ambulance

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<v Speaker 1>and taken to the hospital. But you had you had

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Rock there as well. Other comedians were there. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>And here's what Chris Rock said afterwards, is that Will Smith?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean everyone's thinking it, Well, yeah, but like where

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<v Speaker 1>is the barrier civility here? You know, it's like you've

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<v Speaker 1>got that happening on worldwide television. Does that give I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>does that given some people's heads the permission for them

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<v Speaker 1>to go do it? Then it's as if that is

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<v Speaker 1>never I've not seen that happen before the Hollywood Bowl,

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<v Speaker 1>and yet weeks after the Oscars that happens. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's one of the issues why what happened at the

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<v Speaker 1>Oscars was such a big deal, because now it's opening

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<v Speaker 1>up the doors for the crazy. Well they're also I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you're falling the NBA but there are

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<v Speaker 1>more people rushing the NBA games than in the past

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<v Speaker 1>as well, because there's imagery that was projected around the

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<v Speaker 1>world of it happening. And it's not even the imagery,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the lack of accountability immediately after the fact. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like we saw it, we saw nothing happen, and

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<v Speaker 1>everything seemed to be for the no accountability for his actions.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, uh, well think about your on stage.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we're talking to coming up on Friday, We've

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<v Speaker 1>got someone who's gonna be performing actually at Dodger Stadium

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<v Speaker 1>and this is a big deal, Gabrielle Glesiers. He's doing

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<v Speaker 1>comedy at Dodger Stadium. What's running through his mind now

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<v Speaker 1>to big old gates around the stage or big old

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<v Speaker 1>gates around the field so that nobody can enter. But

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<v Speaker 1>scary the show went on, I know, I mean Dave

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<v Speaker 1>even eventually kind of. I think he even made a

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<v Speaker 1>joke about it afterwards. But man, so the guy, twenty

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<v Speaker 1>three year old guy, he was armed with gun with

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<v Speaker 1>a knife. He was arrested for assault with a deadly

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<v Speaker 1>weapon after they had taken him to the local hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>Just you hate to see this. Thuf on air with

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Seacrest. So TikTok health trends. There are so many

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<v Speaker 1>things that are being revealed. They just weren't until TikTok

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<v Speaker 1>became a so a few weeks ago we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about this and a lot of them go viral. But

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<v Speaker 1>are they do they work? Are they really? Are they

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<v Speaker 1>doctor approved? Are they safe? So here's one and we

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<v Speaker 1>saw these on TikTok drinking alo vera juice actually like alo.

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<v Speaker 1>I like the taste of alo Why are you tasting it?

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it's in my shot at the juice store. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that right? Yeah? They put a little alo. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>gel in the shot. Uh. Let's the place pressed juice creation,

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<v Speaker 1>one of those two that's called the more Maurico's favorite, Marshroom,

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<v Speaker 1>Margiano's favorite. No, they might not fit on the bottles,

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<v Speaker 1>very small. How you put on your skin on your sunburn? Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's good for a lot of things. But

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<v Speaker 1>drinking ali Veria juice it said to clear breakouts, improve digestion,

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<v Speaker 1>and improve your well being. Well, if it works, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in right. Is that true? They say no, So there

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<v Speaker 1>you go. It could be really bad for you. It

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<v Speaker 1>could be bad for you. Well, who's out there saying

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<v Speaker 1>it's all good? All right? Next one nasal tanning spray.

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<v Speaker 1>What is that nasal tanning spray? Apparently it's a spray

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<v Speaker 1>that activates certain hormones. They saying we'll tan your skin

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<v Speaker 1>even indoors. Well, that to me just doesn't sound like whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to check with the TikTok doctors on that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't work, It doesn't all right? How about this one?

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<v Speaker 1>Rice water for your hair? Rice water for your hair

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok health trends. Supposedly, the water left after cooking rice,

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<v Speaker 1>so you cook the rice, take the water will make

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<v Speaker 1>your hair long and glossy and promote growth. Olkay, cool

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<v Speaker 1>it down. I'm assuming does not work. So far. None

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<v Speaker 1>of these have worked. What. I try these things too.

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<v Speaker 1>When I see something, I'm like, oh yeah, but we

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<v Speaker 1>need to check it otherwise just waste of cooking rice.

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<v Speaker 1>Hydro gin peroxide for earwax. TikTok are pouring hydrogen prooxide

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<v Speaker 1>in their ears to reduce ear wax. Does it work?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like pointing anything in my ear, swimming pool

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<v Speaker 1>water in my ear. I let do my flip turns.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate shaking my head out and then I hurt

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<v Speaker 1>my neck. Shake my head anyway? Does it work? They

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<v Speaker 1>say it does work, though. Hydroen peroxide does work. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember actually back and swim practice when we got an

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<v Speaker 1>ear ache. They would put hydroen peroxide in your ear

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<v Speaker 1>and then it sounds like bubbles. Like that's dangerous though,

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<v Speaker 1>because like you might take away too much ear wax,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have to have a certain amount to the

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<v Speaker 1>ear wax is good. You don't want to take all

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<v Speaker 1>of it out. I'd like to get mine out me too.

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<v Speaker 1>Put their tongue in there. Yeah, well obviously I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>about like, hold on, you're not even hearing this. Puts

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<v Speaker 1>their tongue in the ear hole. I get in the

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<v Speaker 1>ear in the ear canal, the lobe for sure. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>not not in the canal, but like a different geography,

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<v Speaker 1>or the lobe is Florida, like the peninsula. The canal

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<v Speaker 1>is much more up the seaboard. No one has ever

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<v Speaker 1>put their tongue in your ear, not know, but ear

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<v Speaker 1>wax serves a purpose. You're supposed to keep some in you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like helps from weird things going in there. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I always have too much in my

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<v Speaker 1>ear from my headphones clogging, you know, making your I

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<v Speaker 1>think my headphones make the ear wax because of the sound.

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<v Speaker 1>Loud blah blah blah. Anyway, back to this TikTok out trends.

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<v Speaker 1>One more chlorophyll water. TikTokers are putting drops of liquid

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<v Speaker 1>chlorophyll and a glass of water and saying it boost energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Clear's acne. Does it work debatable, but it's likely safe.

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<v Speaker 1>I think chlorphl is good for you for something, so

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't protest that one, but more or less from

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<v Speaker 1>the ones we pulled most of that chuck that don't work?

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<v Speaker 1>Good luck? How you doing Mario? Hey? Good? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing well? Bro? How can we help you? Okay? So, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been seeing this girl for three months and she, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>she just asked me to take a home fertility test.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I guess they have these kids now where

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<v Speaker 1>you can test your fertility at home or something. Um. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is that we're not even technically boyfriend and

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend though, um, like we're talking about having a family together.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, that's yeah, that's like no. But she

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<v Speaker 1>seems to be sort of jumping into it kind of,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, off to that. We talked, we I, what's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like? Is this? Do you think this is necessary?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a test for you? Yes? Yeah, yeah, no, she

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<v Speaker 1>she said she wants to make sure I have a

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<v Speaker 1>good swimmers before we take this to the next level

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<v Speaker 1>either way, did she want to know you are ready

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<v Speaker 1>or not ready? I think she wants to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that I can have kids, uh with her? How long

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<v Speaker 1>you guys been together? Three months? Three months? Yeah? Yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I personally, I just think we should we should date

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<v Speaker 1>and just it seems like a cart before the horse

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<v Speaker 1>on this. If you guys are together and talking about

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<v Speaker 1>kids together and what that might be or look like,

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<v Speaker 1>then maybe you both want to see where you stand.

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<v Speaker 1>But it seems a little soon and out of order

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<v Speaker 1>right in terms of the way sequence of things. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's she she in her mind, she's like, why start

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<v Speaker 1>the journey if we know we're never going to reach

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<v Speaker 1>the finish line? Okay, I don't know. I mean we

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<v Speaker 1>are both in our mid thirties, so I guess she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to waste time. But like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but how do you feel you don't feel comfortable with it,

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<v Speaker 1>or you don't think that she's the one that you

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<v Speaker 1>want to have kids with yet or anyway, like where

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<v Speaker 1>are you? It's it's not even that I don't want to,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just feel so soon to be like thinking about that,

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<v Speaker 1>planing that out initially, you know, she's invasive. Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you say, honestly, look, I think this is uh this

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<v Speaker 1>I need we need to get to know each other better,

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<v Speaker 1>We need to spend more time together better before this

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<v Speaker 1>seems to Yeah, I don't think you're wrong, Mario. I

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<v Speaker 1>like if somebody told me three months and to go

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<v Speaker 1>get my eggs checked, I'd be like, see you dude. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she's she's awesome. She's like she's great, she's

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<v Speaker 1>just one thing awesome. If she's like, hey, listen, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to get to know you, but but first let

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<v Speaker 1>me find out if you're a contender. You know, it

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<v Speaker 1>seems like it seems to me it doesn't seem so romantic. Um. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was very mechanical, and she's trying to rule you

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<v Speaker 1>out if you can't moving on, you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like it doesn't give me some more months to see

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys are even talking about this kind of

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<v Speaker 1>thing before. All right, Mario, thank you for calling. Appreciating

0:21:57.600 --> 0:22:05.120
<v Speaker 1>good luck, all right, thank you? Like whatever, Wow, Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you know about those Those are real I

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<v Speaker 1>looked them up. Those are real things. You can get

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<v Speaker 1>them out CBS. But it is a sensitive conversation to

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<v Speaker 1>have at the right time. Talked crazy. But if she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to have kids immediately, then that's something they should

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<v Speaker 1>be on the same page about. But they should have

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<v Speaker 1>the kids conversation before she's like just testing him for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems weird. Rys, We're stopping the show for a second.

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<v Speaker 1>I have five minute dollar Spring Cash coming. We're stopping

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<v Speaker 1>the show in its tracks for a second. Antanya, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for addressing this. You're welcome. Yes, you were saying

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<v Speaker 1>that you have a little bit of an issue with

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<v Speaker 1>your best friend, you're trying to figure out how to

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<v Speaker 1>resolve it, and that she's always late. Yeah, and just socially,

0:23:00.760 --> 0:23:04.040
<v Speaker 1>but for your podcast sessions too, well, she's It's not

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<v Speaker 1>a disrespect thing because she's just late in general life,

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<v Speaker 1>like she's the last person on the flight. To everybody

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<v Speaker 1>she's late for. You're enabling her, you are. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you let someone continue to do that to

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<v Speaker 1>everybody else, that's just I I don't it's not it's

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<v Speaker 1>a real disrespect. It's a it's a pet peeve of mine.

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<v Speaker 1>It stops now. We're gonna talk to her about it,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I know it's your best friend, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna take your personal relation out of it, and we're

0:23:30.640 --> 0:23:35.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna dress it with Becca Hi scrubbing in. Congratulations on

0:23:36.000 --> 0:23:41.800
<v Speaker 1>the success of scrubbing In. I am nervous about what

0:23:41.880 --> 0:23:48.000
<v Speaker 1>Tonya is talking about. Don't you don't know what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Before we get to it. Let's just congratulate Becca. Win

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<v Speaker 1>are two People's Choice awards for Best Podcast. Thank you,

0:24:00.680 --> 0:24:06.360
<v Speaker 1>You're welcome. So Becca, let me just cut to it right. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>We were talking about the tremendous success in chemistry that

0:24:10.240 --> 0:24:12.400
<v Speaker 1>you and Tanya have on your podcast and in your

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<v Speaker 1>friendship in real life. And then Tanya, we often, you know,

0:24:16.359 --> 0:24:18.639
<v Speaker 1>we are here many hours and we often just ramble

0:24:18.720 --> 0:24:21.320
<v Speaker 1>and fall into these conversations, and we fell into this

0:24:21.400 --> 0:24:24.800
<v Speaker 1>conversation about being on time. And Tania may have said

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<v Speaker 1>that you're not on a regular basis, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's not okay. Um, you know that to me

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<v Speaker 1>is it's pet peeve of mine. And I said, we

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<v Speaker 1>need to find out why that said no, no no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine because she's late to a plane, she's late

0:24:39.520 --> 0:24:42.240
<v Speaker 1>the parties. She's also late to the podcast. It's like,

0:24:42.359 --> 0:24:44.640
<v Speaker 1>it's fine because that's what she does, is it. No, No,

0:24:44.680 --> 0:24:46.840
<v Speaker 1>there's something we need to get to the route. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a root thing there. I need to know why she's

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<v Speaker 1>always late. So I actually said, with sisany, we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>back and we'll talk to about this. So why is

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<v Speaker 1>it that you run behind in general? Um? Well, I

0:25:01.600 --> 0:25:05.520
<v Speaker 1>don't actually have like the answer, because otherwise I would

0:25:05.560 --> 0:25:07.440
<v Speaker 1>not be late to everything. I think if there was

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<v Speaker 1>an answer there of like a solution, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>I would be late to everything. Still, But I've been

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<v Speaker 1>talking about this in therapy. Thank you for continuing the

0:25:16.560 --> 0:25:22.600
<v Speaker 1>conversation all the we're here for anybody that. Yeah, so

0:25:22.760 --> 0:25:24.320
<v Speaker 1>that's what I was gonna say. Thank you for opening

0:25:24.400 --> 0:25:28.080
<v Speaker 1>up to my private problems for you know, a large

0:25:28.440 --> 0:25:32.960
<v Speaker 1>listening platform. Um. I think there might be like some

0:25:33.480 --> 0:25:36.720
<v Speaker 1>social anxiety attributed to it, and I don't like to

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<v Speaker 1>be first anywhere. Like Tanya loves being the first to

0:25:40.359 --> 0:25:43.000
<v Speaker 1>an event, I hate getting there early and being the

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<v Speaker 1>first to arrive and then being the one that has

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<v Speaker 1>to like start the conversations, and then pressure. There's a

0:25:50.240 --> 0:25:52.439
<v Speaker 1>lot of pressure. And then there's another aspect of it,

0:25:52.520 --> 0:25:55.040
<v Speaker 1>I think where I get if I get ready too soon,

0:25:55.560 --> 0:25:59.159
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I could maybe take on do like

0:25:59.240 --> 0:26:02.680
<v Speaker 1>one more thing before I leave, and then it sets

0:26:02.720 --> 0:26:06.879
<v Speaker 1>me back. I don't. Yeah. First of all, I'm thrilled

0:26:06.920 --> 0:26:08.400
<v Speaker 1>that you're talking about this in therapy because I said

0:26:08.400 --> 0:26:10.480
<v Speaker 1>to tell you this is bigger than just a running behind.

0:26:10.680 --> 0:26:16.080
<v Speaker 1>There's a root problem here, and do relate to the

0:26:16.240 --> 0:26:19.520
<v Speaker 1>social anxiety of showing up to something and being the

0:26:19.520 --> 0:26:21.160
<v Speaker 1>only one there. Because I'm gonna tell you something, Becca,

0:26:22.560 --> 0:26:27.000
<v Speaker 1>I am the worst at a party, and I am

0:26:27.040 --> 0:26:30.920
<v Speaker 1>the worst at an event, and I'm the worst at

0:26:30.960 --> 0:26:35.359
<v Speaker 1>what do you call that conversation? Small talk? I loathe

0:26:35.480 --> 0:26:38.600
<v Speaker 1>small talk. I can't I'm so uncomfortable. You can see

0:26:38.640 --> 0:26:41.399
<v Speaker 1>me looking around and fidgeting when I do it. And

0:26:41.440 --> 0:26:44.120
<v Speaker 1>it's ironic that you have a podcast and I do this,

0:26:44.680 --> 0:26:49.240
<v Speaker 1>but I understand it. And I don't like to give

0:26:49.280 --> 0:26:56.040
<v Speaker 1>toasts either. Oh I hate I hate doing that. So listen. Yeah,

0:26:57.200 --> 0:26:59.320
<v Speaker 1>how do you how do you stay on? How do

0:26:59.400 --> 0:27:02.120
<v Speaker 1>you stay on time? For everything that you do? Because

0:27:02.240 --> 0:27:05.840
<v Speaker 1>it starts with or without me? Right, Like, for example,

0:27:06.280 --> 0:27:09.639
<v Speaker 1>on Monday Sunday whatever, Disney Night was Sunday, right, So

0:27:09.680 --> 0:27:12.000
<v Speaker 1>on Sunday night, we did Disney Night on American idol

0:27:12.720 --> 0:27:19.360
<v Speaker 1>at five pm Pacific, eight pm Eastern zero zero zero

0:27:19.480 --> 0:27:22.760
<v Speaker 1>zero zero on the clock. It starts, and if I'm

0:27:22.800 --> 0:27:26.160
<v Speaker 1>not there, it starts without. So I have in my

0:27:26.240 --> 0:27:28.760
<v Speaker 1>brain that I've got to get there because things in

0:27:28.800 --> 0:27:31.479
<v Speaker 1>my work life start and you're supposed to be there

0:27:31.480 --> 0:27:34.920
<v Speaker 1>when they go because they're live so I've conditioned my

0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:37.639
<v Speaker 1>Now I have the opposite prominent way Becca, where I

0:27:37.680 --> 0:27:41.200
<v Speaker 1>need to talk to my therapist about I look at

0:27:41.240 --> 0:27:43.800
<v Speaker 1>everything in minutes. Like if we had dinner, I'd be like,

0:27:43.920 --> 0:27:45.560
<v Speaker 1>we can have dinner for forty five minutes and I

0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:49.720
<v Speaker 1>have to go, you know, and I'd like I'd have

0:27:49.760 --> 0:27:53.440
<v Speaker 1>a hard out, right, I kind of have dinner with

0:27:53.480 --> 0:27:56.040
<v Speaker 1>you till seven, but not seven and one. But that's

0:27:56.119 --> 0:27:59.480
<v Speaker 1>my Yeah, that's what I do. Back up, I in

0:27:59.560 --> 0:28:01.560
<v Speaker 1>better for for like Taco Tuesday, and like it starts

0:28:01.600 --> 0:28:06.320
<v Speaker 1>at six, we're gonna do a hard out by eight thirty.

0:28:06.720 --> 0:28:09.840
<v Speaker 1>I think there's some like I think there might be some.

0:28:10.240 --> 0:28:13.919
<v Speaker 1>This is for my situation. I think there's some control

0:28:14.440 --> 0:28:17.639
<v Speaker 1>issues also there of like someone telling me what to

0:28:17.720 --> 0:28:19.800
<v Speaker 1>do and we're to be on time. Like I think

0:28:19.840 --> 0:28:23.360
<v Speaker 1>there's that element, which also isn't healthy. So you're protesting

0:28:23.400 --> 0:28:27.120
<v Speaker 1>anyone telling you what to do. Yeah, Like I'm all

0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:33.760
<v Speaker 1>jokes aside. That deep rooted. But that could have been

0:28:33.800 --> 0:28:35.919
<v Speaker 1>from a relationship, it could have been from something in

0:28:35.920 --> 0:28:38.280
<v Speaker 1>your past. Yeah, why can't you just give yourself like

0:28:38.280 --> 0:28:42.600
<v Speaker 1>a thirty minute buffer, like whatever time I feel, whatever

0:28:42.680 --> 0:28:45.080
<v Speaker 1>time it is, No, not a buffer on the other end,

0:28:45.680 --> 0:28:49.520
<v Speaker 1>before before the time that you're supposed to be there, like,

0:28:49.720 --> 0:28:55.240
<v Speaker 1>thank you, you get it. If it's two o'clock, just

0:28:55.320 --> 0:28:57.640
<v Speaker 1>in your brain know that it's one thirty, like it's

0:28:57.640 --> 0:29:00.680
<v Speaker 1>one thirty, it's one three, and then you'll get there too. Yeah,

0:29:00.840 --> 0:29:03.840
<v Speaker 1>so if it's two o'clock, my brain says one to

0:29:04.000 --> 0:29:09.080
<v Speaker 1>two fifteen is the There is no thirty minute window

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:11.280
<v Speaker 1>in a minute to minute schedule. But I'm telling you, guys,

0:29:11.360 --> 0:29:13.719
<v Speaker 1>Patty was the same way. She had the same thing.

0:29:13.880 --> 0:29:16.200
<v Speaker 1>She was like, my brains just not wired that way.

0:29:16.200 --> 0:29:18.600
<v Speaker 1>And so that's how I feel like it. So let's

0:29:18.600 --> 0:29:24.520
<v Speaker 1>agree because this session is up. Let's agree that the

0:29:24.640 --> 0:29:30.920
<v Speaker 1>podcast because Tanya does have a tight schedule that can

0:29:31.200 --> 0:29:36.160
<v Speaker 1>ripple in its delay if things don't run relatively on

0:29:36.240 --> 0:29:42.320
<v Speaker 1>track that I can relate to. Yeah, she gotta get

0:29:42.320 --> 0:29:45.760
<v Speaker 1>to Robbie's on time to talk. Let's all and to

0:29:45.800 --> 0:29:48.040
<v Speaker 1>start the podcast session on time. We'll go from there,

0:29:49.160 --> 0:29:53.600
<v Speaker 1>and Becca, do we agree? I mean, am I am?

0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:56.080
<v Speaker 1>I I'm late occasionally for the podcast, but it's like

0:29:56.360 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've been more than ten minutes late

0:29:58.400 --> 0:30:02.960
<v Speaker 1>in the last year or so that's has been on zoom.

0:30:03.040 --> 0:30:05.120
<v Speaker 1>All right, but I need you to ask your therapist

0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:08.080
<v Speaker 1>about my issue too and get back to me. Okay, yeah,

0:30:08.080 --> 0:30:09.920
<v Speaker 1>I'll talk to her. I talk to her tomorrow, so

0:30:09.960 --> 0:30:12.520
<v Speaker 1>I'll just seriously, can you come back? I want you

0:30:12.520 --> 0:30:14.600
<v Speaker 1>to come back. What does she say about people who

0:30:14.600 --> 0:30:16.840
<v Speaker 1>have the opposite issue, which is everything is minute to

0:30:16.880 --> 0:30:19.080
<v Speaker 1>minute to minute and they're they're like crazy in the

0:30:19.080 --> 0:30:24.240
<v Speaker 1>head about that your Yeah, I'm like Ryan, I'm paying

0:30:24.240 --> 0:30:27.320
<v Speaker 1>a lot of money for the session. I just want

0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:31.880
<v Speaker 1>to fast. Well, maybe have her call me then, yeah, yeah,

0:30:31.960 --> 0:30:34.000
<v Speaker 1>maybe we'll do. I'll just feel like, hey, can we

0:30:34.040 --> 0:30:36.040
<v Speaker 1>call in real quick? Yeah, well, I'll call in to her,

0:30:36.080 --> 0:30:39.280
<v Speaker 1>She'll calling to me whatever. But we want to venmo

0:30:39.560 --> 0:30:47.040
<v Speaker 1>and and and we can exchange the session. Tony. You're

0:30:47.040 --> 0:30:52.000
<v Speaker 1>doing the podcast with Becca. I'm doing therapy with Becca. Yeah,

0:30:52.200 --> 0:30:55.880
<v Speaker 1>it's a whole it's a whole new spinoff. Alright, therapy

0:30:55.960 --> 0:30:58.480
<v Speaker 1>with Ryan and Beckett's healthy for all of us. Yeah,

0:30:58.480 --> 0:31:00.960
<v Speaker 1>it's great. The number one where get your podcast? All right?

0:31:00.960 --> 0:31:05.560
<v Speaker 1>Thanks beck for coming on. Good luck not upset. Upset,

0:31:06.920 --> 0:31:14.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm really not. I'm really not. You know, healthy conversation

0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 1>right there now. I remember first time I ever came

0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:24.200
<v Speaker 1>to l A I landed l a X, took the

0:31:24.280 --> 0:31:29.080
<v Speaker 1>super shuttle to the Sportsman's Lodge and I was here.

0:31:29.280 --> 0:31:32.120
<v Speaker 1>I was here auditioning for Gladiators two thousand, the kids

0:31:32.240 --> 0:31:36.520
<v Speaker 1>version of American Gladiators. I got it. I got the job.

0:31:36.560 --> 0:31:38.840
<v Speaker 1>I thought a big time staying at the Sportsman's Lodge

0:31:38.920 --> 0:31:42.760
<v Speaker 1>in the vats. That's a spot in the inner inner

0:31:42.800 --> 0:31:47.120
<v Speaker 1>inners of It's right by a studio, the CBS Radford Studios. Right,

0:31:47.160 --> 0:31:49.600
<v Speaker 1>you feel like you're in it. But the super shuttle

0:31:49.720 --> 0:31:51.760
<v Speaker 1>was a cool concept, and you've got something that may

0:31:51.760 --> 0:31:53.800
<v Speaker 1>even save you more. Yeah. So I feel like a

0:31:53.800 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 1>lot of people might not know about Metro Micro and

0:31:56.360 --> 0:31:58.640
<v Speaker 1>what it does is that on demand service that operates

0:31:58.640 --> 0:32:02.160
<v Speaker 1>within eight zones around Los Angeles County, so watts Compton,

0:32:02.480 --> 0:32:05.280
<v Speaker 1>l a X, Inglewood, some parts of the San Fernando

0:32:05.360 --> 0:32:08.000
<v Speaker 1>Valley and so on. So it's not like uberpool or

0:32:08.040 --> 0:32:11.080
<v Speaker 1>a lift line, but you do put in your start

0:32:11.120 --> 0:32:13.000
<v Speaker 1>point and your end point in this nation, and then

0:32:13.000 --> 0:32:15.240
<v Speaker 1>when they do come and pick you up. Literally, the

0:32:15.360 --> 0:32:18.120
<v Speaker 1>right is one dollar if you're within the zone. How

0:32:18.160 --> 0:32:22.720
<v Speaker 1>do they make money? I don't know if I would

0:32:22.760 --> 0:32:25.480
<v Speaker 1>invest in problem, No, but if I was one of

0:32:25.520 --> 0:32:29.400
<v Speaker 1>the angel investors of Metro micro and you're doing rides

0:32:29.400 --> 0:32:32.080
<v Speaker 1>for a dollar with gas prices where they are. Yeah,

0:32:32.680 --> 0:32:35.200
<v Speaker 1>is this is this kind of like one of those

0:32:35.240 --> 0:32:39.400
<v Speaker 1>situations where they get you in and then charges come later.

0:32:39.440 --> 0:32:41.240
<v Speaker 1>If you keep using them, you know, they get you

0:32:41.280 --> 0:32:43.720
<v Speaker 1>in the door at a dollar, and then somehow you

0:32:43.720 --> 0:32:47.200
<v Speaker 1>can subscribe further it'll be more. But basically, like if

0:32:47.240 --> 0:32:49.400
<v Speaker 1>you were to take an uber somewhere that was a

0:32:49.440 --> 0:32:52.400
<v Speaker 1>certain distance within the zone, it might cost you twelve dollars,

0:32:52.480 --> 0:32:54.959
<v Speaker 1>let's say, And then if you take it here like

0:32:55.080 --> 0:32:57.640
<v Speaker 1>it's if it's like somewhere within the zone of like

0:32:57.880 --> 0:33:00.440
<v Speaker 1>that area to go get a haircut, or to go

0:33:00.520 --> 0:33:02.800
<v Speaker 1>to Target, or to just go run an errand or

0:33:02.840 --> 0:33:04.560
<v Speaker 1>go meet up your friends for happy hour real quick

0:33:04.600 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 1>for you don't want to drive it, toss you one dollar.

0:33:08.680 --> 0:33:10.720
<v Speaker 1>It's one of those things that seems too good to

0:33:10.760 --> 0:33:13.120
<v Speaker 1>be true, and I'm always skeptical about that. One of

0:33:13.160 --> 0:33:16.280
<v Speaker 1>us needs to go try it out. Well, listen, Tanya,

0:33:16.320 --> 0:33:17.840
<v Speaker 1>when's the next time you and Robbie are going out

0:33:17.840 --> 0:33:19.720
<v Speaker 1>in the town. Yeah, I'm gonna say this feels like

0:33:19.760 --> 0:33:21.960
<v Speaker 1>a Sisney assignment. She brought it to us see it

0:33:22.040 --> 0:33:28.400
<v Speaker 1>through girls, sugar fish car seats. Take no, take it.

0:33:28.520 --> 0:33:32.600
<v Speaker 1>You take it to sugarfish one day for your sneaky lunch.

0:33:34.200 --> 0:33:36.120
<v Speaker 1>I knew you got your home close enough to where

0:33:36.120 --> 0:33:38.160
<v Speaker 1>you could get your sushi. I knew it. No, no, no,

0:33:38.200 --> 0:33:43.600
<v Speaker 1>the sugar fish moved to me. It's almost like the universe. Alright.

0:33:43.680 --> 0:33:47.680
<v Speaker 1>So we have Ruby joining us on the microphone here. Hello,

0:33:47.920 --> 0:33:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Ruby is senior producer Air. I'm loving it too. So far,

0:33:52.680 --> 0:33:55.000
<v Speaker 1>are you having a good time? I am yes. What's

0:33:55.040 --> 0:33:59.840
<v Speaker 1>the worst part? Um? Off the I can't think of

0:33:59.880 --> 0:34:02.480
<v Speaker 1>anything off top. Maybe just having to get up a

0:34:02.520 --> 0:34:05.800
<v Speaker 1>little bit earlier, probably that part. Yeah, that never and

0:34:05.840 --> 0:34:09.360
<v Speaker 1>that never goes. Everyone says you never get used to it. See.

0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:12.719
<v Speaker 1>People used to tell me when I started here, They're like, oh,

0:34:12.760 --> 0:34:15.600
<v Speaker 1>after two years, you'd be totally used to it. Well

0:34:15.640 --> 0:34:20.000
<v Speaker 1>it's been twenty. You're like, no, no, no, all right,

0:34:20.040 --> 0:34:23.640
<v Speaker 1>So let's let's just I always I think Sissy Tanya

0:34:24.160 --> 0:34:29.200
<v Speaker 1>we always interested in everybody's life, including our own. But

0:34:29.400 --> 0:34:32.600
<v Speaker 1>I've always said it's most important that you know Sissony

0:34:32.760 --> 0:34:38.400
<v Speaker 1>happily married all you know, at peace, Tanya, whatever she

0:34:38.560 --> 0:34:41.920
<v Speaker 1>wishes for that she's there and at peace before I

0:34:41.960 --> 0:34:44.719
<v Speaker 1>focus on myself. You know, always wanted them in a

0:34:44.760 --> 0:34:47.839
<v Speaker 1>place where there there there's peace and happiness and love

0:34:47.880 --> 0:34:51.560
<v Speaker 1>and joy before myself. And I was about to start

0:34:51.560 --> 0:34:54.200
<v Speaker 1>focusing on me, and then Ruby comes in. So now

0:34:54.239 --> 0:34:57.360
<v Speaker 1>I got to focus on Ruby's peace, love, joy, happiness

0:34:57.360 --> 0:35:00.719
<v Speaker 1>first before I focus on me. So ru be as

0:35:00.760 --> 0:35:03.279
<v Speaker 1>I understand it, because you've told us you and her

0:35:03.280 --> 0:35:06.160
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend had been together for a while and the next

0:35:06.680 --> 0:35:10.680
<v Speaker 1>phase would be a proposal. Right, yeah, where are we

0:35:10.760 --> 0:35:13.080
<v Speaker 1>on them? So actually we went to the bay a

0:35:13.120 --> 0:35:16.320
<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks ago, and his parents were like, oh,

0:35:16.560 --> 0:35:19.120
<v Speaker 1>we know this jeweler. He's great. He'll give you a

0:35:19.120 --> 0:35:22.000
<v Speaker 1>good deal for the ring and like great quality and

0:35:22.040 --> 0:35:23.440
<v Speaker 1>all this stuff, and they're like, you have to go

0:35:23.520 --> 0:35:25.640
<v Speaker 1>to him. And then so it's like this was a

0:35:25.680 --> 0:35:29.759
<v Speaker 1>conversation at dinner and then um, like he just keeps

0:35:29.800 --> 0:35:31.360
<v Speaker 1>on bringing it up. He's like, we went to a

0:35:31.440 --> 0:35:34.000
<v Speaker 1>Kien sana and he's like, oh my god, our wedding

0:35:34.080 --> 0:35:36.120
<v Speaker 1>is going to be so fun, Like it's just gonna

0:35:36.160 --> 0:35:39.799
<v Speaker 1>be great, like our families being together because they both

0:35:39.840 --> 0:35:41.480
<v Speaker 1>love to party. So he's like, there, it's just going

0:35:41.520 --> 0:35:43.000
<v Speaker 1>to be such a good time and I need to

0:35:43.080 --> 0:35:45.840
<v Speaker 1>spend time with your dad. Just pin pin and that

0:35:47.160 --> 0:35:49.600
<v Speaker 1>salsa make sauce. Yes, yes, yes, yeah, I just said

0:35:49.600 --> 0:35:51.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm putting a pin. This is but I need to

0:35:51.280 --> 0:35:52.960
<v Speaker 1>spend time with him because of the sauce that you

0:35:52.960 --> 0:35:55.040
<v Speaker 1>guys make. Oh my god, he is a he's out

0:35:55.040 --> 0:35:57.719
<v Speaker 1>of control. He's he's a good time though. Okay, good now.

0:35:57.760 --> 0:36:00.200
<v Speaker 1>So anyway, so families together, all the talk and then

0:36:00.239 --> 0:36:03.320
<v Speaker 1>no action, Yes, no action yet. But I feel weird,

0:36:03.400 --> 0:36:06.960
<v Speaker 1>like I like, obviously I'm I'm down, I'm ready, I'm

0:36:07.000 --> 0:36:10.080
<v Speaker 1>ready to go down that route. Like I definitely you know,

0:36:10.200 --> 0:36:12.279
<v Speaker 1>love him, want to be with him. Um, but I

0:36:12.360 --> 0:36:18.920
<v Speaker 1>don't like to like give the ultimatum. Well, how long

0:36:19.600 --> 0:36:22.799
<v Speaker 1>just got to give an ultimatum? Girl? How long has

0:36:22.960 --> 0:36:27.920
<v Speaker 1>this um public talk been about the proposal? How long

0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:30.160
<v Speaker 1>has you been saying it out loud to so many people? Um,

0:36:31.400 --> 0:36:35.879
<v Speaker 1>probably more so within the last like two years. Yeah,

0:36:36.640 --> 0:36:39.440
<v Speaker 1>it's been a minute. It means it could be coming. Yeah,

0:36:39.480 --> 0:36:42.360
<v Speaker 1>But also I'm like he's been saying it for a while.

0:36:42.560 --> 0:36:44.640
<v Speaker 1>And to be fair, like when we first met, he

0:36:44.719 --> 0:36:47.640
<v Speaker 1>was like like I want to get like I want

0:36:47.640 --> 0:36:49.560
<v Speaker 1>to get married, Like I want to marry you. Like

0:36:49.600 --> 0:36:52.080
<v Speaker 1>even when we first started dating, so within the first

0:36:52.080 --> 0:36:54.360
<v Speaker 1>couple of years, he would say that, and I always

0:36:54.400 --> 0:36:57.000
<v Speaker 1>thought it was kind of like, Okay, this is sweet,

0:36:57.080 --> 0:37:00.359
<v Speaker 1>this is cute. But more so lately he's like very

0:37:00.520 --> 0:37:03.360
<v Speaker 1>like I can't wait, when is this going to happen?

0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:09.279
<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, I'm just waiting. Maybe this is all

0:37:09.360 --> 0:37:12.120
<v Speaker 1>part of the plan, right to throw you off, to

0:37:12.160 --> 0:37:15.200
<v Speaker 1>put you into this space so that he can pull

0:37:15.280 --> 0:37:18.280
<v Speaker 1>off his surprise that he's been thinking about ever since

0:37:18.320 --> 0:37:20.200
<v Speaker 1>he met you. Because I gotta tell you, I don't

0:37:20.200 --> 0:37:21.839
<v Speaker 1>know him, but it sounds like he's a good guy.

0:37:22.080 --> 0:37:24.640
<v Speaker 1>And if he was already saying that out of the gate.

0:37:24.680 --> 0:37:26.880
<v Speaker 1>And still I love that he's excited about your families

0:37:26.880 --> 0:37:30.120
<v Speaker 1>that I'd like the family parts, that makes me very important. Um,

0:37:30.160 --> 0:37:32.919
<v Speaker 1>But I think maybe this is part of the plan,

0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:35.760
<v Speaker 1>Like he's wanted to get you all sort of worked

0:37:35.800 --> 0:37:38.520
<v Speaker 1>up about it and then comes in for the surprise.

0:37:38.560 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 1>Now does he know for a fact that like you

0:37:41.320 --> 0:37:42.920
<v Speaker 1>will say yes and you want to marry him and

0:37:43.040 --> 0:37:46.600
<v Speaker 1>that's your plan as well? Or do you have any hesitation? No? No, no.

0:37:46.719 --> 0:37:50.160
<v Speaker 1>We have conversations like how many people we want at

0:37:50.160 --> 0:37:52.640
<v Speaker 1>our wedding where we want to have It's like we

0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:56.560
<v Speaker 1>have these conversations, so he knows I'm definitely down. Well,

0:37:56.680 --> 0:38:03.759
<v Speaker 1>the way we address things here is we talked to him. No,

0:38:06.280 --> 0:38:08.200
<v Speaker 1>let me tell you. That's not going to solve it.

0:38:08.320 --> 0:38:10.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I don't think so. But sometimes I

0:38:10.719 --> 0:38:12.760
<v Speaker 1>think with with Michael, when I we were like having

0:38:12.760 --> 0:38:15.960
<v Speaker 1>these conversations and such, probably around the same time, like

0:38:16.000 --> 0:38:18.319
<v Speaker 1>two years of talking about what we get married, Yes

0:38:18.320 --> 0:38:22.080
<v Speaker 1>we will when? When? When? And for him and I

0:38:22.080 --> 0:38:23.480
<v Speaker 1>don't know if it's like a guy thing, but he

0:38:23.560 --> 0:38:25.200
<v Speaker 1>really wanted to have like all his ducks in a

0:38:25.280 --> 0:38:27.560
<v Speaker 1>row before he proposed. He wanted to like not have

0:38:27.640 --> 0:38:30.279
<v Speaker 1>any more debt, and he wanted to maybe figure out

0:38:30.280 --> 0:38:32.120
<v Speaker 1>like where we were gonna live like and all that like,

0:38:32.239 --> 0:38:33.840
<v Speaker 1>And so that might be some of the pressures that

0:38:33.880 --> 0:38:36.319
<v Speaker 1>he's still thinking about. And you need to reassure him

0:38:36.360 --> 0:38:39.719
<v Speaker 1>that stuff doesn't matter, like like don't we don't wait

0:38:39.760 --> 0:38:42.200
<v Speaker 1>for that moment. But I know, but like if I

0:38:42.200 --> 0:38:45.160
<v Speaker 1>would have sat around we Michael and I just finished

0:38:45.160 --> 0:38:48.040
<v Speaker 1>paying off his student loans this year, like and we've

0:38:48.040 --> 0:38:49.839
<v Speaker 1>been married for eight years, you know what I mean.

0:38:49.880 --> 0:38:51.640
<v Speaker 1>And so it's like if I would have waited for

0:38:51.719 --> 0:38:54.040
<v Speaker 1>him to pay all his student loans, like, he probably

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:56.520
<v Speaker 1>would never be married. So I think you've got to

0:38:56.640 --> 0:38:59.839
<v Speaker 1>reassure him in that sense, maybe that stuff doesn't matter.

0:39:00.200 --> 0:39:01.880
<v Speaker 1>Let's just do it and then we'll do it together.

0:39:01.960 --> 0:39:04.480
<v Speaker 1>We'll figure it out together. That's a good point. I

0:39:04.560 --> 0:39:07.600
<v Speaker 1>never even really thought about that. But and just to

0:39:07.600 --> 0:39:10.880
<v Speaker 1>add to this in a seasonal context, if this is

0:39:10.920 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 1>not my fault, we might need to reapproach. Do I

0:39:14.760 --> 0:39:18.319
<v Speaker 1>need to do the ultimatum give him? I don't like

0:39:18.360 --> 0:39:21.880
<v Speaker 1>that word, but I mean, you know, okay, spring, summer,

0:39:22.000 --> 0:39:24.680
<v Speaker 1>good weather, let's get this thing done like this year.

0:39:25.520 --> 0:39:27.920
<v Speaker 1>Such a cute nails already, aren't there? I see right?

0:39:28.040 --> 0:39:33.720
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, always ready. Let's let's quickly sum this up, Sney,

0:39:33.800 --> 0:39:35.560
<v Speaker 1>What what are we? How are we leaving this? I

0:39:35.600 --> 0:39:39.160
<v Speaker 1>think you have another conversation about about money, because it

0:39:39.200 --> 0:39:42.240
<v Speaker 1>really does come down to that, I think sometimes. And

0:39:42.239 --> 0:39:45.760
<v Speaker 1>and just reassure him that it doesn't it doesn't matter

0:39:45.800 --> 0:39:48.120
<v Speaker 1>that like you guys don't have stuff figured out already,

0:39:48.480 --> 0:39:49.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, like where you're gonna live next year and all,

0:39:49.920 --> 0:39:52.880
<v Speaker 1>let's forget it and then see where it goes and

0:39:52.960 --> 0:39:54.920
<v Speaker 1>just be like you know I want to marry you.

0:39:54.920 --> 0:39:58.480
<v Speaker 1>You know that, and when it happens, I'll be so happy,

0:39:58.960 --> 0:40:00.960
<v Speaker 1>right see, An, I don't know if like we just

0:40:01.080 --> 0:40:04.040
<v Speaker 1>resigned our lease with the Sisters again for a year,

0:40:04.360 --> 0:40:05.880
<v Speaker 1>so I don't know if that had something to do

0:40:05.960 --> 0:40:08.160
<v Speaker 1>with it. Two of him being like he was so

0:40:08.200 --> 0:40:11.920
<v Speaker 1>adamant on like us getting our own place. He was

0:40:11.960 --> 0:40:16.120
<v Speaker 1>part of his vision and like you know, it'll go,

0:40:16.200 --> 0:40:19.560
<v Speaker 1>it'll go by fast. I think let's let's let's see

0:40:19.560 --> 0:40:23.440
<v Speaker 1>where we are come September. Okay, okay, thank you, Ruby,

0:40:23.520 --> 0:40:25.160
<v Speaker 1>thank you again. I want to make sure you Joey

0:40:25.239 --> 0:40:29.200
<v Speaker 1>love He's happiness. Focus on me now, Kania, you have

0:40:29.280 --> 0:40:32.360
<v Speaker 1>a report, let's get into it. Yeah, and my trending

0:40:32.440 --> 0:40:35.000
<v Speaker 1>report is about Lydia Co. So she's the number of

0:40:35.239 --> 0:40:38.360
<v Speaker 1>three women's golfer in the world. And you might be asking, Tanya,

0:40:38.360 --> 0:40:41.319
<v Speaker 1>when did you get into golf? Well, I'm not really

0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:44.320
<v Speaker 1>into golf. But on Sunday, during a tournament in Palace Verdes,

0:40:44.800 --> 0:40:47.719
<v Speaker 1>she was seen receiving this treatment on her back and

0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:51.840
<v Speaker 1>she was asked by this reporter about it, and um

0:40:51.880 --> 0:40:53.880
<v Speaker 1>it was a Golf Channel reporter and he asked if

0:40:53.880 --> 0:40:56.640
<v Speaker 1>there was any long term concern, to which she responded,

0:40:57.000 --> 0:41:00.040
<v Speaker 1>I hope not. It's that time of the month, and

0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:02.719
<v Speaker 1>the reporter got all frazzled, and she went on to

0:41:02.760 --> 0:41:05.680
<v Speaker 1>say that during her period she experiences tightness in her back,

0:41:06.680 --> 0:41:09.160
<v Speaker 1>which I totally get. I get that too, and the

0:41:09.200 --> 0:41:11.800
<v Speaker 1>reporter was really kind of left at a loss for words.

0:41:12.040 --> 0:41:15.399
<v Speaker 1>And there seems to be this stigma or you know

0:41:15.920 --> 0:41:19.440
<v Speaker 1>that it's taboo where athletes. Women athletes are not supposed

0:41:19.480 --> 0:41:21.359
<v Speaker 1>to talk about their periods, and it's kind of been

0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:22.920
<v Speaker 1>There's been a lot of talk going on about it

0:41:22.920 --> 0:41:27.280
<v Speaker 1>in praise for for Lydia because um, even some ESPN

0:41:27.320 --> 0:41:29.520
<v Speaker 1>journalists were saying that we should normalize women in sports

0:41:29.560 --> 0:41:32.400
<v Speaker 1>talking about their periods. It's not an excuse or an embarrassment.

0:41:32.400 --> 0:41:35.319
<v Speaker 1>It's just a bodily function. And I just think the

0:41:35.320 --> 0:41:37.160
<v Speaker 1>more we talk about it, the better, because I feel like,

0:41:37.200 --> 0:41:40.080
<v Speaker 1>I remember, you know, I use this stuff my tampon

0:41:40.200 --> 0:41:42.520
<v Speaker 1>in my sleeves of my sweatshirt before I would go

0:41:42.560 --> 0:41:44.839
<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom, and it's like, why am I hiding that?

0:41:44.960 --> 0:41:47.919
<v Speaker 1>It's not embarrassing. I shouldn't be embarrassed about it. So

0:41:48.200 --> 0:41:52.799
<v Speaker 1>just to understand more, you're comfortable talking about all kinds

0:41:52.800 --> 0:41:54.600
<v Speaker 1>of things that are going on with you, Sydney, Are

0:41:54.600 --> 0:41:56.279
<v Speaker 1>you the same Do you feel the same way, because

0:41:56.280 --> 0:41:58.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel like it might depend on the person's comfort

0:41:58.120 --> 0:41:59.719
<v Speaker 1>level of having I still like to put my tamp

0:41:59.760 --> 0:42:01.799
<v Speaker 1>on in my sleep when I go walk to the

0:42:01.800 --> 0:42:03.400
<v Speaker 1>bathroom and walk down the hallway and see some of

0:42:03.440 --> 0:42:05.000
<v Speaker 1>my coworkers, like I don't want to bump into somebody,

0:42:05.000 --> 0:42:08.640
<v Speaker 1>and then I'm just holding my tampon. Would you have

0:42:08.760 --> 0:42:12.840
<v Speaker 1>that conversation, you know too, if you're competing in the

0:42:12.840 --> 0:42:14.560
<v Speaker 1>sporting event, would you have that conversation with the s

0:42:14.560 --> 0:42:19.799
<v Speaker 1>pen reporter? Probably not, But that's just me. I don't know.

0:42:19.960 --> 0:42:23.480
<v Speaker 1>Everybody's different. I don't need to, like I'm not embarrassed

0:42:23.520 --> 0:42:26.080
<v Speaker 1>to hide it, but I don't need to like announce it.

0:42:26.080 --> 0:42:29.440
<v Speaker 1>Does that make sense? Yeah? But it's also like so

0:42:29.520 --> 0:42:33.959
<v Speaker 1>cool to be on your period. Know that, Like she's

0:42:34.000 --> 0:42:36.799
<v Speaker 1>winning this tournament and she's like getting this thing on

0:42:36.840 --> 0:42:39.279
<v Speaker 1>her back and she's not embarrassed to say, like, I'm

0:42:39.320 --> 0:42:42.239
<v Speaker 1>on my period and my back is like really hurting me.

0:42:42.360 --> 0:42:44.319
<v Speaker 1>You know. It's like we do go through it. We

0:42:44.400 --> 0:42:46.880
<v Speaker 1>have these things once a month, Like sometimes I'm in

0:42:46.960 --> 0:42:49.560
<v Speaker 1>like excruciating pain, and if you think if you ask me,

0:42:49.600 --> 0:42:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, dude, Sometimes I say it within like

0:42:54.360 --> 0:42:56.440
<v Speaker 1>people that I'm comfortable with, but I would not in

0:42:56.560 --> 0:42:58.680
<v Speaker 1>an interview. I would never say that. I don't think me.

0:42:59.600 --> 0:43:01.960
<v Speaker 1>I guess I like that. I like that both sides

0:43:02.000 --> 0:43:05.880
<v Speaker 1>of the equation. Tanya, who will has educated me significantly

0:43:06.719 --> 0:43:08.720
<v Speaker 1>and then actually says, you have two you're very comfortable

0:43:08.760 --> 0:43:11.600
<v Speaker 1>with things. I think also, maybe I know it's like

0:43:11.880 --> 0:43:15.040
<v Speaker 1>this is something that's evolved in terms of a cultural dialogue,

0:43:15.040 --> 0:43:16.960
<v Speaker 1>but I also think that we're comfortable with each other

0:43:17.000 --> 0:43:19.680
<v Speaker 1>here and we do talk about and you guys certainly

0:43:19.719 --> 0:43:22.960
<v Speaker 1>do talk about those things that maybe if we just met,

0:43:23.000 --> 0:43:25.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe you would, Tanny, maybe you wouldn't.

0:43:25.040 --> 0:43:26.760
<v Speaker 1>But if we were like week one of our show,

0:43:27.239 --> 0:43:29.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if we would in this because I

0:43:30.080 --> 0:43:32.920
<v Speaker 1>always picture no one listening, like I always think it's

0:43:33.000 --> 0:43:36.640
<v Speaker 1>just us. So things that I different here with just

0:43:36.719 --> 0:43:39.560
<v Speaker 1>like us. Yes, but things I even say to you

0:43:39.600 --> 0:43:42.080
<v Speaker 1>guys now I probably would have said in our first

0:43:42.200 --> 0:43:47.719
<v Speaker 1>year because you're just not comfortable. But again I think

0:43:47.719 --> 0:43:49.759
<v Speaker 1>it's only the three of us here in our own

0:43:49.800 --> 0:43:53.560
<v Speaker 1>little zoom. Yeah, do you feel if you pull up.

0:43:53.600 --> 0:43:57.080
<v Speaker 1>The first year that I started working with you, I

0:43:57.200 --> 0:44:00.640
<v Speaker 1>was a little bit what was really like the first year?

0:44:01.520 --> 0:44:03.000
<v Speaker 1>It was really eleven months because you have the first

0:44:03.040 --> 0:44:05.160
<v Speaker 1>month off after you start. Remember John Ivy gave me

0:44:05.200 --> 0:44:11.960
<v Speaker 1>the first month off. Do you remember that guy? But

0:44:12.040 --> 0:44:14.400
<v Speaker 1>I still you know what I mean, Tanya, I do

0:44:14.480 --> 0:44:16.040
<v Speaker 1>know what you mean, but I just want you to know.

0:44:16.080 --> 0:44:18.000
<v Speaker 1>And Ryan, if you have any period questions, I like

0:44:18.040 --> 0:44:21.359
<v Speaker 1>to consider myself like a period trailblazer, so you can

0:44:21.400 --> 0:44:23.880
<v Speaker 1>just shoot them my way. If anybody listening has period

0:44:23.960 --> 0:44:27.480
<v Speaker 1>questions or menstrual cup questions, I'm happy to help. Thank you.

0:44:28.680 --> 0:44:32.120
<v Speaker 1>All right, the walls are down and I like it. Yeah,

0:44:33.840 --> 0:44:38.880
<v Speaker 1>on air with Ryan Seacrest, Let's bring in Donnie Walbert

0:44:38.920 --> 0:44:42.160
<v Speaker 1>from New Kids on the Block. You know, there are

0:44:42.360 --> 0:44:47.320
<v Speaker 1>just certain shows you your family, your friends, your siblings

0:44:47.400 --> 0:44:49.600
<v Speaker 1>you gotta see. And New Kids on the Block is

0:44:49.719 --> 0:44:52.279
<v Speaker 1>just one of those shows. And Donnie Walbert joining us

0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:57.040
<v Speaker 1>right now. De walb How are you? What's up? Guys? Hello? Ryan?

0:44:57.440 --> 0:44:59.920
<v Speaker 1>You look great, buddy. Are you into a new fitness grind?

0:45:01.000 --> 0:45:04.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm totally in tour prep mode, which means fitness grind,

0:45:04.960 --> 0:45:09.320
<v Speaker 1>dancing grind, like full on creative mode for the tour.

0:45:09.680 --> 0:45:13.400
<v Speaker 1>Um So, yeah, I've been. Usually my routine is in July,

0:45:13.560 --> 0:45:16.160
<v Speaker 1>I start back on Blue Bloods, coming off with a tour.

0:45:16.200 --> 0:45:17.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm in really great shape, and then I eat a

0:45:17.920 --> 0:45:21.680
<v Speaker 1>lot of doughnuts and eat whatever I want till December January.

0:45:21.760 --> 0:45:24.160
<v Speaker 1>Then January I start getting in back into tour mode

0:45:24.200 --> 0:45:27.839
<v Speaker 1>and stop eating the donuts and start behaving myself. Well,

0:45:27.840 --> 0:45:29.960
<v Speaker 1>if you've ever seen Blue Bloods, you're obligated to eat

0:45:30.400 --> 0:45:32.760
<v Speaker 1>on that show. I mean, that's the that's the big scene,

0:45:32.800 --> 0:45:36.759
<v Speaker 1>isn't it. That's right. I always eat. Yeah, every dinner scene,

0:45:36.800 --> 0:45:39.759
<v Speaker 1>I eat like crazy, And uh, you know, I'd like

0:45:39.840 --> 0:45:41.440
<v Speaker 1>to add food to a lot of the scenes. So

0:45:41.480 --> 0:45:43.200
<v Speaker 1>like you know, if I'm in a car driving around

0:45:43.200 --> 0:45:45.000
<v Speaker 1>with my partner, I say, let's get some donuts, and

0:45:45.040 --> 0:45:47.719
<v Speaker 1>we just put them in the scene just because, just

0:45:47.800 --> 0:45:50.840
<v Speaker 1>to make it authentic, we are gonna give away in

0:45:50.880 --> 0:45:53.560
<v Speaker 1>a second here, Three Nights the White Donna Lulu to

0:45:53.640 --> 0:45:55.319
<v Speaker 1>see New Kids on the Block is one of those

0:45:55.400 --> 0:45:57.480
<v Speaker 1>nights which I'm so site for. And you should know,

0:45:57.520 --> 0:45:59.759
<v Speaker 1>I was watching somebody feed Fill. This is a food

0:45:59.760 --> 0:46:02.920
<v Speaker 1>show I was watching and it's on Netflix, and he

0:46:02.960 --> 0:46:06.560
<v Speaker 1>was doing the foods of Honolulu. There are some incredible

0:46:06.680 --> 0:46:09.879
<v Speaker 1>like strip mall restaurants there in Honoluludana. I'm gonna forward

0:46:09.920 --> 0:46:12.520
<v Speaker 1>you some of the ideas because there's some great food there.

0:46:12.560 --> 0:46:17.120
<v Speaker 1>Speaking of food, now, I'm curious to know. I can

0:46:17.160 --> 0:46:20.520
<v Speaker 1>only imagine what it was like when you and all

0:46:20.560 --> 0:46:22.239
<v Speaker 1>the guys were in New Kids on the Block for

0:46:22.239 --> 0:46:25.400
<v Speaker 1>the first handful of years on the road. What the

0:46:25.480 --> 0:46:27.600
<v Speaker 1>last few seconds were like before you hit the stage.

0:46:27.640 --> 0:46:31.000
<v Speaker 1>But now in these times, what are those moments like

0:46:31.120 --> 0:46:33.480
<v Speaker 1>before the guys have to go out and be new

0:46:33.560 --> 0:46:37.720
<v Speaker 1>Kids on the Block again on the stage. Well, first

0:46:37.760 --> 0:46:39.600
<v Speaker 1>of all, I don't want to brush over the fact

0:46:39.680 --> 0:46:42.000
<v Speaker 1>that you're giving away a three day trip to Hawaii

0:46:42.040 --> 0:46:43.799
<v Speaker 1>to see you, because I mean, it's one of the

0:46:43.800 --> 0:46:46.400
<v Speaker 1>things I love about you. Ran. You love giving stuff away,

0:46:46.640 --> 0:46:48.680
<v Speaker 1>and I love giving stuff away. We haven't been in

0:46:48.719 --> 0:46:51.960
<v Speaker 1>Hawaii in over thirty years, and it's our first time

0:46:52.000 --> 0:46:54.000
<v Speaker 1>going back to perform. I mean, I've been on vacation

0:46:54.040 --> 0:46:57.360
<v Speaker 1>and stuff. Of course, I love going to Hawaii. Um,

0:46:57.400 --> 0:47:00.640
<v Speaker 1>it's amazing and I can't but New Kids not been

0:47:00.760 --> 0:47:03.560
<v Speaker 1>and so I cannot wait for us to go back. Um,

0:47:03.600 --> 0:47:06.200
<v Speaker 1>in terms of what it's like to go on stage.

0:47:07.400 --> 0:47:11.240
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's pretty calm. You know, Um, I guess

0:47:11.239 --> 0:47:14.920
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like if you were a rookie in

0:47:14.920 --> 0:47:17.440
<v Speaker 1>in the NBA or the NFL or something and you're

0:47:17.440 --> 0:47:19.359
<v Speaker 1>about to go into a game. You're all amped up.

0:47:19.400 --> 0:47:21.440
<v Speaker 1>It's like Tom Brady the first Super Bowl he played

0:47:21.440 --> 0:47:26.880
<v Speaker 1>and even smashing heads home at all people. And Willie McGinnis,

0:47:27.560 --> 0:47:33.160
<v Speaker 1>the famous Patriots linebacker, said he relax, relax um, and uh,

0:47:33.440 --> 0:47:35.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, years later he probably walks out to the

0:47:35.640 --> 0:47:37.520
<v Speaker 1>super Bowl like, hey man, let's go. It's another it's

0:47:37.520 --> 0:47:39.399
<v Speaker 1>another game. Let's just be great and do our best.

0:47:39.440 --> 0:47:41.560
<v Speaker 1>And that's kind of what it's like. We were grateful

0:47:42.000 --> 0:47:44.040
<v Speaker 1>that our fans still care, that they still come to

0:47:44.080 --> 0:47:46.520
<v Speaker 1>see us. We're in somewhat in awe that it's happening,

0:47:46.560 --> 0:47:50.920
<v Speaker 1>but we're much calmer and very you know, focused on

0:47:51.000 --> 0:47:54.120
<v Speaker 1>saving energy for where it's important, which is on stage,

0:47:54.120 --> 0:47:57.280
<v Speaker 1>not backstage with us goofing around before we walk out there. Truly,

0:47:57.360 --> 0:47:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Donny Walber with us, truly new Kids on the Black

0:47:59.680 --> 0:48:05.120
<v Speaker 1>can this forever? That is reality? Isn't it? As long

0:48:05.160 --> 0:48:08.040
<v Speaker 1>as we can dance a little bit, I think it's

0:48:08.160 --> 0:48:09.960
<v Speaker 1>great if you could just do a step later in

0:48:10.000 --> 0:48:14.120
<v Speaker 1>life volved one step forward, one step back. You know,

0:48:14.480 --> 0:48:20.200
<v Speaker 1>motown moves exactly half of a pelvic broust. Think our

0:48:20.280 --> 0:48:23.600
<v Speaker 1>fans are loyal and dedicated blockheads are gonna get tired

0:48:23.640 --> 0:48:26.240
<v Speaker 1>of the pelvic thrust thing. But if there's a chance

0:48:26.280 --> 0:48:30.080
<v Speaker 1>we could be in our seventies and they could be like, yes,

0:48:30.200 --> 0:48:32.879
<v Speaker 1>that's it. People want it all right, let's get this now.

0:48:32.960 --> 0:48:35.279
<v Speaker 1>Color one oh chew three nights. As we were talking

0:48:35.280 --> 0:48:37.400
<v Speaker 1>about Hawaiian new Kids on the Block, two tickets to

0:48:37.840 --> 0:48:40.640
<v Speaker 1>the show on the mix tape tour. Make sure you

0:48:40.760 --> 0:48:43.000
<v Speaker 1>look them up and check them out. Donnie big love

0:48:43.040 --> 0:48:45.319
<v Speaker 1>to you and Jenny. Good to see you, buddy. Thank

0:48:45.320 --> 0:48:48.239
<v Speaker 1>you guys so much for always supporting and always just

0:48:48.360 --> 0:48:51.080
<v Speaker 1>being the best. Appreciate you so much, right, thank you.

0:48:52.239 --> 0:48:59.359
<v Speaker 1>Okay on air with Ryan Secrets do it for us

0:48:59.360 --> 0:49:02.520
<v Speaker 1>here kiss Wait. Becca texted me and she said Ryan

0:49:02.520 --> 0:49:04.200
<v Speaker 1>and I could never date because we would just be

0:49:04.239 --> 0:49:07.719
<v Speaker 1>fighting about time seven. I think it's several reasons why

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Yeah, Ryan's roses coming up tomorrow, be

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<v Speaker 1>here for it and five dollars spring cash and Wango

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<v Speaker 1>Tango tickets every hour on Air with Ryan Seacrest,