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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest with you Hey, today's National Orange Juice Day.

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Speaker 1: I remember as a kid drinking orange juice out of

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Speaker 1: the minute made paper container from the fridge every day

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Speaker 1: when I would get home from school. I would chug it.

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Speaker 1: You would put your lips on it for the whole

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Speaker 1: family to share. Yeah, they didn't really drink it. I

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Speaker 1: think I was the only one. Then they introduced when

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Speaker 1: I was a kid, they introduced calcium fortified orange juice

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Speaker 1: because people drink milk for calcium. So they're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: drink orange juice and we'll put calcium in it and

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Speaker 1: you can get your calcium from our orange juice. The

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Speaker 1: beef between o J and milk, they were just like

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Speaker 1: it was always a competition. I have orange juice and

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Speaker 1: milk always been at on because I've seen many breakfast

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Speaker 1: commercials where they've got glasses of both, right, or they

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Speaker 1: have like a of cereal and then someone's also drinking

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Speaker 1: a glass of orange juice. It's like, I've never in

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Speaker 1: my life had cereal with a glass of orange juice.

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Speaker 1: I have as a kid. Ever a thing for me.

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Speaker 1: I tried to try to be friends, you know, over

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Speaker 1: the years, you know, everyone it's one or the other.

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Speaker 1: For me, Well, I skip breakfast now, so neither of

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Speaker 1: y'all are in my life. I basically alright. Today guys,

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Speaker 1: we have sunshine and warmer going to get into the

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Speaker 1: eighties nineties Inland, so we all have pet peeves. One

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Speaker 1: of a common pet peeve I know with all of us,

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Speaker 1: and it's because of what we do for a living,

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Speaker 1: is when people are late or really late and late

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Speaker 1: all the time. It's annoying. It dry Like, I feel

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Speaker 1: so much anxiety if I'm running late. It just makes

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Speaker 1: me crazy. But then I have people in my life

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Speaker 1: who just never are on time by a lot. Me too.

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Speaker 1: And with you it's Becca, right, Tana, Yes, And I

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Speaker 1: love her to death, you know, Uh, with your best friends,

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Speaker 1: you take the good and the bad. And she's been

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Speaker 1: chronically late our entire friendship. And it's just something that

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Speaker 1: I know about her, and I also just kind of

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Speaker 1: expect it and it is what it is. And normally

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Speaker 1: I don't care because you know, it's something social and

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Speaker 1: you know whatever. But we do a podcast together and

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Speaker 1: it's at the same time every single week, and yet

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Speaker 1: she's always she's like, she's always late. And sometimes it's

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Speaker 1: not bad. Sometimes it's like five minutes, sometimes it's ten. Sometimes,

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Speaker 1: you know, but any little bit is disrespectful, especially professionally.

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Speaker 1: So I was thinking about telling her that everything is

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Speaker 1: going to be fifteen and start fifteen minutes earlier, so

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Speaker 1: that way she's on time. But then I feel bad.

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Speaker 1: But I feel bad lying, and then I don't have

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Speaker 1: to get other people in vision. You should feel good

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Speaker 1: that you're not harsher about it, right, because you're not saying, look,

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Speaker 1: either you hold up your end of the deal or

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Speaker 1: I gotta find another beck of a scrub with here.

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Speaker 1: I would never she's my best friend. Okay, Well this

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Speaker 1: is we're talking about the job, right, Like if we

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Speaker 1: were fifteen minutes late every day, they call us and go, guys, sorry,

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Speaker 1: but Joe, Joe has taken over, you know. But now

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Speaker 1: with with this whole giving people false times, I've done

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Speaker 1: this for I don't feel bad about it. I've done

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Speaker 1: this the parents to my god, kids run late. They

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Speaker 1: just run late. And I think we work in a

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Speaker 1: we have to go to bed at eight thirty. We

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Speaker 1: just like let things linger. So if something starts socially late,

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Speaker 1: it spills into your you time to rest and sleep

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Speaker 1: we are in a medium that is immediate, and so

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Speaker 1: things are by the seconds here. Like I know Blato's

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Speaker 1: brain thinks like that, right, Like two minutes and forty

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Speaker 1: seconds late is different than two minutes late, I know.

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Speaker 1: So I don't think you should feel guilt. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't think you should feel guilt, saying if the sessions

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Speaker 1: lie to her too. You're not making anybody do anything.

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Speaker 1: You're trying to get her there on time or just

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Speaker 1: at your brain is gonna go there. The other way

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Speaker 1: to address it is to say, hey, look back, I

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Speaker 1: love you, my best friend, but I find this disrespectful. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but people's time is the most valuable commodity we have,

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Speaker 1: don't believe that. I don't think that there's no chip.

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Speaker 1: It's possible. She makes it on time for airplanes, right,

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Speaker 1: barely re sponsible and respectful your time, their time. It's

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Speaker 1: a it's a big deal to me. I think we've

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Speaker 1: we have said, sorry, we're out of time. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: like some some people cannot figure out how to make

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Speaker 1: like running onto the plane like I will be seated

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Speaker 1: in my Let's go back from the root of that.

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Speaker 1: Why does she wait till the last minute? Why does

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Speaker 1: she do that? There's got to be a reason, I know,

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Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. I don't think it's disrespectful because

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Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not just to me, it's not it's

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Speaker 1: just everything in her life she can't do that to

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Speaker 1: people's time. You want us to talk to her, happy

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Speaker 1: to have her on the air. Should you wake her up?

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Speaker 1: I really would love to have a conversation. They're about

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Speaker 1: being on time, do you know, like Jones? If things,

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Speaker 1: if we're waiting here for what seconds? Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 1: I mean it makes me because we have so much

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Speaker 1: certain times, you know, right, and things stack up like

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Speaker 1: if you book like a conference call right after then

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Speaker 1: that everything. Oh, I remember there was a guest or two,

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Speaker 1: I think there were two coming together, and Sugarman kept

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Speaker 1: saying that and they're not here by nine o'clock, then

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Speaker 1: I feel like we've let ourselves down. Well, Amy, Sugarman

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Speaker 1: kept telling me that was it, Amy, right, I kept

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Speaker 1: these guests, we keep saying they're gonna be by nine,

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Speaker 1: then I called back five minutes later she said no, no no,

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Speaker 1: and you still can't let it go. I don't think

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Speaker 1: them was great. Yeah, it's not time. The one that

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Speaker 1: was on time that was um. But the other thing

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Speaker 1: is I don't like being I know when you're telling

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Speaker 1: me a BS time story, like they're in the elevator

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Speaker 1: three times. Really the elevator two floors up. We're not

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Speaker 1: third floor. All right, guys, here we go. Your morning

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Speaker 1: hack is next. So anyway, I agree, Tanya, we should

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Speaker 1: have that go on the line. Sis and I will

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Speaker 1: have a conversation about it. We're happy to do it

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Speaker 1: in a friendly way and that way, it's not on

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Speaker 1: your friendship. Just to find out, like what the root

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Speaker 1: people are like this. I might be like this if

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Speaker 1: we didn't have these kinds of jobs on the air

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Speaker 1: with Ryan C. Christ Let's get to your morning act

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Speaker 1: this morning. Sometimes you have no control over when your

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Speaker 1: job interview is, but they say this is the best

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Speaker 1: situation to be in. If you want to get hired,

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Speaker 1: go last to the interview, Go last, last in line,

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Speaker 1: lasting sequence, last in order, last appointment. Find out when

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Speaker 1: interviews are happening, and schedule yourself late in the day

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Speaker 1: on the last day. Top of mind. You have the choice.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes they tell you this day, this time you show up.

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Speaker 1: It's called recent c bias, recency bias, recent c bias. Recent.

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Speaker 1: Therefore it's in your head and you're clouded by everyone else,

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Speaker 1: and so therefore it's clearer if you're the last person.

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Speaker 1: The last person interviewed is hired fifty six percent of

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Speaker 1: the time. Oh my god, that is not that good.

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Speaker 1: That's a good trick too for your dating life, Like

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Speaker 1: if you're stacking up some dates, always do the drink

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Speaker 1: after dinner, not before. Huh. What Like if you're if

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Speaker 1: a night, same night. Yeah, I don't know that there's

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Speaker 1: a high percentage of people running that, but good for thought.

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Speaker 1: Quote today, You glow differently when your confidence is fueled

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Speaker 1: by belief in yourself instead of validation of others. It's

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Speaker 1: such a great quote on air with Ryan Seacrest. All right,

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Speaker 1: rolling up on seven Let's Go FM headlines. Alright, So

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Speaker 1: comedian Dave Chappelle, he was attacked on stage during a

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Speaker 1: comedy performance at the Hollywood Bowl last night. Chappelle was

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Speaker 1: on stage as part of the Netflix Is a Joke

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Speaker 1: old Isaiah Isaiah Lee, jumped on stage and tackled Chappelle

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Speaker 1: Airbnb this month is ending its Coronavirus era cancelation policy

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Speaker 1: that allows travelers to cancel a reservation for virus related reasons,

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Speaker 1: and that's going to kick in on May thirty one

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Speaker 1: and going forward. Airbnb noted that the company is working

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Speaker 1: to customers in certain countries, and Taylor Swift is headed

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Speaker 1: to the Tribeca Film Festival next month in New York.

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Speaker 1: She will turn up to support a special screening of

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Speaker 1: the short film for All Too Well, which she wrote, directed, produced,

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Speaker 1: and started. But Taylor won't just be there to watch

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Speaker 1: the film. She's also going to sit down for a

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Speaker 1: conversation about her approach as a filmmaker. Drive Back a

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Speaker 1: Film festival takes place June eight to nineteenth, and Taylor's

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Speaker 1: appearance set for June eleven on air with Ryan Seacrets.

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Speaker 1: So I saw this early watching the very very very

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Speaker 1: and they told us about the incident at the Hollywood Bowl.

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Speaker 1: Now you think about going to the Hollywood Bowl, and

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Speaker 1: many of you have been or you've seen it. It's

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Speaker 1: weeks if you find out you're going, or if you

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Speaker 1: the stars, And every time I'm there, I think this

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Speaker 1: And so last night at the Bowl, Dave Chappelle was

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Speaker 1: on stage and he got rushed and tackled like full speed.

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Speaker 1: you doing well? Bro? How can we help you? Okay? So, uh,

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Speaker 1: what do you know about those Those are real I

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Speaker 1: gonna dress it with Becca Hi scrubbing in. Congratulations on

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Speaker 1: it's fine because she's late to a plane, she's late

423
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: the parties. She's also late to the podcast. It's like,

424
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 1: it's fine because that's what she does, is it. No, No,

425
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 1: there's something we need to get to the route. There's

426
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,119
Speaker 1: a root thing there. I need to know why she's

427
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 1: always late. So I actually said, with sisany, we'll call

428
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 1: back and we'll talk to about this. So why is

429
00:24:56,640 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 1: it that you run behind in general? Um? Well, I

430
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: don't actually have like the answer, because otherwise I would

431
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 1: not be late to everything. I think if there was

432
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 1: an answer there of like a solution, I don't think

433
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 1: I would be late to everything. Still, But I've been

434
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 1: talking about this in therapy. Thank you for continuing the

435
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: conversation all the we're here for anybody that. Yeah, so

436
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: that's what I was gonna say. Thank you for opening

437
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 1: up to my private problems for you know, a large

438
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 1: listening platform. Um. I think there might be like some

439
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 1: social anxiety attributed to it, and I don't like to

440
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: be first anywhere. Like Tanya loves being the first to

441
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: an event, I hate getting there early and being the

442
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 1: first to arrive and then being the one that has

443
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: to like start the conversations, and then pressure. There's a

444
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,439
Speaker 1: lot of pressure. And then there's another aspect of it,

445
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: I think where I get if I get ready too soon,

446
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 1: I feel like I could maybe take on do like

447
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 1: one more thing before I leave, and then it sets

448
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 1: me back. I don't. Yeah. First of all, I'm thrilled

449
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 1: that you're talking about this in therapy because I said

450
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 1: to tell you this is bigger than just a running behind.

451
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 1: There's a root problem here, and do relate to the

452
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: social anxiety of showing up to something and being the

453
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,160
Speaker 1: only one there. Because I'm gonna tell you something, Becca,

454
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 1: I am the worst at a party, and I am

455
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:30,920
Speaker 1: the worst at an event, and I'm the worst at

456
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: what do you call that conversation? Small talk? I loathe

457
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 1: small talk. I can't I'm so uncomfortable. You can see

458
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,399
Speaker 1: me looking around and fidgeting when I do it. And

459
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,120
Speaker 1: it's ironic that you have a podcast and I do this,

460
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: but I understand it. And I don't like to give

461
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 1: toasts either. Oh I hate I hate doing that. So listen. Yeah,

462
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: how do you how do you stay on? How do

463
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,120
Speaker 1: you stay on time? For everything that you do? Because

464
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 1: it starts with or without me? Right, Like, for example,

465
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 1: on Monday Sunday whatever, Disney Night was Sunday, right, So

466
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: on Sunday night, we did Disney Night on American idol

467
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 1: at five pm Pacific, eight pm Eastern zero zero zero

468
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: zero zero on the clock. It starts, and if I'm

469
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 1: not there, it starts without. So I have in my

470
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: brain that I've got to get there because things in

471
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,479
Speaker 1: my work life start and you're supposed to be there

472
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 1: when they go because they're live so I've conditioned my

473
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: Now I have the opposite prominent way Becca, where I

474
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 1: need to talk to my therapist about I look at

475
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: everything in minutes. Like if we had dinner, I'd be like,

476
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: we can have dinner for forty five minutes and I

477
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: have to go, you know, and I'd like I'd have

478
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 1: a hard out, right, I kind of have dinner with

479
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 1: you till seven, but not seven and one. But that's

480
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: my Yeah, that's what I do. Back up, I in

481
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: better for for like Taco Tuesday, and like it starts

482
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: at six, we're gonna do a hard out by eight thirty.

483
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 1: I think there's some like I think there might be some.

484
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,919
Speaker 1: This is for my situation. I think there's some control

485
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 1: issues also there of like someone telling me what to

486
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: do and we're to be on time. Like I think

487
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:23,360
Speaker 1: there's that element, which also isn't healthy. So you're protesting

488
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:27,120
Speaker 1: anyone telling you what to do. Yeah, Like I'm all

489
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: jokes aside. That deep rooted. But that could have been

490
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:35,919
Speaker 1: from a relationship, it could have been from something in

491
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: your past. Yeah, why can't you just give yourself like

492
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: a thirty minute buffer, like whatever time I feel, whatever

493
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 1: time it is, No, not a buffer on the other end,

494
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 1: before before the time that you're supposed to be there, like,

495
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: thank you, you get it. If it's two o'clock, just

496
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 1: in your brain know that it's one thirty, like it's

497
00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 1: one thirty, it's one three, and then you'll get there too. Yeah,

498
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: so if it's two o'clock, my brain says one to

499
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 1: two fifteen is the There is no thirty minute window

500
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 1: in a minute to minute schedule. But I'm telling you, guys,

501
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,719
Speaker 1: Patty was the same way. She had the same thing.

502
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: She was like, my brains just not wired that way.

503
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: And so that's how I feel like it. So let's

504
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: agree because this session is up. Let's agree that the

505
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: podcast because Tanya does have a tight schedule that can

506
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 1: ripple in its delay if things don't run relatively on

507
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: track that I can relate to. Yeah, she gotta get

508
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: to Robbie's on time to talk. Let's all and to

509
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 1: start the podcast session on time. We'll go from there,

510
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 1: and Becca, do we agree? I mean, am I am?

511
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 1: I I'm late occasionally for the podcast, but it's like

512
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: I don't think I've been more than ten minutes late

513
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 1: in the last year or so that's has been on zoom.

514
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 1: All right, but I need you to ask your therapist

515
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: about my issue too and get back to me. Okay, yeah,

516
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: I'll talk to her. I talk to her tomorrow, so

517
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: I'll just seriously, can you come back? I want you

518
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 1: to come back. What does she say about people who

519
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: have the opposite issue, which is everything is minute to

520
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: minute to minute and they're they're like crazy in the

521
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 1: head about that your Yeah, I'm like Ryan, I'm paying

522
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: a lot of money for the session. I just want

523
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: to fast. Well, maybe have her call me then, yeah, yeah,

524
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: maybe we'll do. I'll just feel like, hey, can we

525
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 1: call in real quick? Yeah, well, I'll call in to her,

526
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: She'll calling to me whatever. But we want to venmo

527
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 1: and and and we can exchange the session. Tony. You're

528
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: doing the podcast with Becca. I'm doing therapy with Becca. Yeah,

529
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: it's a whole it's a whole new spinoff. Alright, therapy

530
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 1: with Ryan and Beckett's healthy for all of us. Yeah,

531
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 1: it's great. The number one where get your podcast? All right?

532
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 1: Thanks beck for coming on. Good luck not upset. Upset,

533
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm really not. I'm really not. You know, healthy conversation

534
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: right there now. I remember first time I ever came

535
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: to l A I landed l a X, took the

536
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: super shuttle to the Sportsman's Lodge and I was here.

537
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: I was here auditioning for Gladiators two thousand, the kids

538
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: version of American Gladiators. I got it. I got the job.

539
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 1: I thought a big time staying at the Sportsman's Lodge

540
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 1: in the vats. That's a spot in the inner inner

541
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 1: inners of It's right by a studio, the CBS Radford Studios. Right,

542
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 1: you feel like you're in it. But the super shuttle

543
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 1: was a cool concept, and you've got something that may

544
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: even save you more. Yeah. So I feel like a

545
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: lot of people might not know about Metro Micro and

546
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: what it does is that on demand service that operates

547
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 1: within eight zones around Los Angeles County, so watts Compton,

548
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 1: l a X, Inglewood, some parts of the San Fernando

549
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: Valley and so on. So it's not like uberpool or

550
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: a lift line, but you do put in your start

551
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: point and your end point in this nation, and then

552
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 1: when they do come and pick you up. Literally, the

553
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: right is one dollar if you're within the zone. How

554
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 1: do they make money? I don't know if I would

555
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 1: invest in problem, No, but if I was one of

556
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 1: the angel investors of Metro micro and you're doing rides

557
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: for a dollar with gas prices where they are. Yeah,

558
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: is this is this kind of like one of those

559
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: situations where they get you in and then charges come later.

560
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: If you keep using them, you know, they get you

561
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 1: in the door at a dollar, and then somehow you

562
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 1: can subscribe further it'll be more. But basically, like if

563
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 1: you were to take an uber somewhere that was a

564
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 1: certain distance within the zone, it might cost you twelve dollars,

565
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:54,959
Speaker 1: let's say, And then if you take it here like

566
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: it's if it's like somewhere within the zone of like

567
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 1: that area to go get a haircut, or to go

568
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: to Target, or to just go run an errand or

569
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: go meet up your friends for happy hour real quick

570
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: for you don't want to drive it, toss you one dollar.

571
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 1: It's one of those things that seems too good to

572
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: be true, and I'm always skeptical about that. One of

573
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 1: us needs to go try it out. Well, listen, Tanya,

574
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: when's the next time you and Robbie are going out

575
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: in the town. Yeah, I'm gonna say this feels like

576
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 1: a Sisney assignment. She brought it to us see it

577
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: through girls, sugar fish car seats. Take no, take it.

578
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: You take it to sugarfish one day for your sneaky lunch.

579
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: I knew you got your home close enough to where

580
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 1: you could get your sushi. I knew it. No, no, no,

581
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: the sugar fish moved to me. It's almost like the universe. Alright.

582
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: So we have Ruby joining us on the microphone here. Hello,

583
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 1: Ruby is senior producer Air. I'm loving it too. So far,

584
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: are you having a good time? I am yes. What's

585
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 1: the worst part? Um? Off the I can't think of

586
00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: anything off top. Maybe just having to get up a

587
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 1: little bit earlier, probably that part. Yeah, that never and

588
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 1: that never goes. Everyone says you never get used to it. See.

589
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 1: People used to tell me when I started here, They're like, oh,

590
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: after two years, you'd be totally used to it. Well

591
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 1: it's been twenty. You're like, no, no, no, all right,

592
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: So let's let's just I always I think Sissy Tanya

593
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 1: we always interested in everybody's life, including our own. But

594
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: I've always said it's most important that you know Sissony

595
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 1: happily married all you know, at peace, Tanya, whatever she

596
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 1: wishes for that she's there and at peace before I

597
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 1: focus on myself. You know, always wanted them in a

598
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,839
Speaker 1: place where there there there's peace and happiness and love

599
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 1: and joy before myself. And I was about to start

600
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: focusing on me, and then Ruby comes in. So now

601
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 1: I got to focus on Ruby's peace, love, joy, happiness

602
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: first before I focus on me. So ru be as

603
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 1: I understand it, because you've told us you and her

604
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 1: boyfriend had been together for a while and the next

605
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 1: phase would be a proposal. Right, yeah, where are we

606
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 1: on them? So actually we went to the bay a

607
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, and his parents were like, oh,

608
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 1: we know this jeweler. He's great. He'll give you a

609
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 1: good deal for the ring and like great quality and

610
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 1: all this stuff, and they're like, you have to go

611
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: to him. And then so it's like this was a

612
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 1: conversation at dinner and then um, like he just keeps

613
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: on bringing it up. He's like, we went to a

614
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: Kien sana and he's like, oh my god, our wedding

615
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: is going to be so fun, Like it's just gonna

616
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 1: be great, like our families being together because they both

617
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: love to party. So he's like, there, it's just going

618
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 1: to be such a good time and I need to

619
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 1: spend time with your dad. Just pin pin and that

620
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 1: salsa make sauce. Yes, yes, yes, yeah, I just said

621
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: I'm putting a pin. This is but I need to

622
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 1: spend time with him because of the sauce that you

623
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: guys make. Oh my god, he is a he's out

624
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: of control. He's he's a good time though. Okay, good now.

625
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: So anyway, so families together, all the talk and then

626
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 1: no action, Yes, no action yet. But I feel weird,

627
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: like I like, obviously I'm I'm down, I'm ready, I'm

628
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 1: ready to go down that route. Like I definitely you know,

629
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: love him, want to be with him. Um, but I

630
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: don't like to like give the ultimatum. Well, how long

631
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,799
Speaker 1: just got to give an ultimatum? Girl? How long has

632
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 1: this um public talk been about the proposal? How long

633
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: has you been saying it out loud to so many people? Um,

634
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:35,879
Speaker 1: probably more so within the last like two years. Yeah,

635
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 1: it's been a minute. It means it could be coming. Yeah,

636
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 1: But also I'm like he's been saying it for a while.

637
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: And to be fair, like when we first met, he

638
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 1: was like like I want to get like I want

639
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 1: to get married, Like I want to marry you. Like

640
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: even when we first started dating, so within the first

641
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 1: couple of years, he would say that, and I always

642
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: thought it was kind of like, Okay, this is sweet,

643
00:36:57,080 --> 00:37:00,359
Speaker 1: this is cute. But more so lately he's like very

644
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 1: like I can't wait, when is this going to happen?

645
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I'm just waiting. Maybe this is all

646
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: part of the plan, right to throw you off, to

647
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: put you into this space so that he can pull

648
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,280
Speaker 1: off his surprise that he's been thinking about ever since

649
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: he met you. Because I gotta tell you, I don't

650
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 1: know him, but it sounds like he's a good guy.

651
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: And if he was already saying that out of the gate.

652
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 1: And still I love that he's excited about your families

653
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: that I'd like the family parts, that makes me very important. Um,

654
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,919
Speaker 1: But I think maybe this is part of the plan,

655
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:35,760
Speaker 1: Like he's wanted to get you all sort of worked

656
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 1: up about it and then comes in for the surprise.

657
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: Now does he know for a fact that like you

658
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: will say yes and you want to marry him and

659
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: that's your plan as well? Or do you have any hesitation? No? No, no.

660
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: We have conversations like how many people we want at

661
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: our wedding where we want to have It's like we

662
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: have these conversations, so he knows I'm definitely down. Well,

663
00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 1: the way we address things here is we talked to him. No,

664
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: let me tell you. That's not going to solve it.

665
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: I don't think I don't think so. But sometimes I

666
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,760
Speaker 1: think with with Michael, when I we were like having

667
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: these conversations and such, probably around the same time, like

668
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 1: two years of talking about what we get married, Yes

669
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: we will when? When? When? And for him and I

670
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 1: don't know if it's like a guy thing, but he

671
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: really wanted to have like all his ducks in a

672
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: row before he proposed. He wanted to like not have

673
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 1: any more debt, and he wanted to maybe figure out

674
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: like where we were gonna live like and all that like,

675
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 1: And so that might be some of the pressures that

676
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: he's still thinking about. And you need to reassure him

677
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: that stuff doesn't matter, like like don't we don't wait

678
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: for that moment. But I know, but like if I

679
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: would have sat around we Michael and I just finished

680
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: paying off his student loans this year, like and we've

681
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:49,839
Speaker 1: been married for eight years, you know what I mean.

682
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 1: And so it's like if I would have waited for

683
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 1: him to pay all his student loans, like, he probably

684
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 1: would never be married. So I think you've got to

685
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,839
Speaker 1: reassure him in that sense, maybe that stuff doesn't matter.

686
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 1: Let's just do it and then we'll do it together.

687
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: We'll figure it out together. That's a good point. I

688
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 1: never even really thought about that. But and just to

689
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 1: add to this in a seasonal context, if this is

690
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: not my fault, we might need to reapproach. Do I

691
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 1: need to do the ultimatum give him? I don't like

692
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 1: that word, but I mean, you know, okay, spring, summer,

693
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: good weather, let's get this thing done like this year.

694
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:27,920
Speaker 1: Such a cute nails already, aren't there? I see right?

695
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:33,720
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, always ready. Let's let's quickly sum this up, Sney,

696
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: What what are we? How are we leaving this? I

697
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: think you have another conversation about about money, because it

698
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:42,240
Speaker 1: really does come down to that, I think sometimes. And

699
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:45,760
Speaker 1: and just reassure him that it doesn't it doesn't matter

700
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: that like you guys don't have stuff figured out already,

701
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 1: you know, like where you're gonna live next year and all,

702
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 1: let's forget it and then see where it goes and

703
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 1: just be like you know I want to marry you.

704
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 1: You know that, and when it happens, I'll be so happy,

705
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 1: right see, An, I don't know if like we just

706
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 1: resigned our lease with the Sisters again for a year,

707
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 1: so I don't know if that had something to do

708
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: with it. Two of him being like he was so

709
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 1: adamant on like us getting our own place. He was

710
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 1: part of his vision and like you know, it'll go,

711
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 1: it'll go by fast. I think let's let's let's see

712
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 1: where we are come September. Okay, okay, thank you, Ruby,

713
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 1: thank you again. I want to make sure you Joey

714
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: love He's happiness. Focus on me now, Kania, you have

715
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:32,360
Speaker 1: a report, let's get into it. Yeah, and my trending

716
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 1: report is about Lydia Co. So she's the number of

717
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 1: three women's golfer in the world. And you might be asking, Tanya,

718
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 1: when did you get into golf? Well, I'm not really

719
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,320
Speaker 1: into golf. But on Sunday, during a tournament in Palace Verdes,

720
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: she was seen receiving this treatment on her back and

721
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 1: she was asked by this reporter about it, and um

722
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 1: it was a Golf Channel reporter and he asked if

723
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 1: there was any long term concern, to which she responded,

724
00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:00,040
Speaker 1: I hope not. It's that time of the month, and

725
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 1: the reporter got all frazzled, and she went on to

726
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: say that during her period she experiences tightness in her back,

727
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: which I totally get. I get that too, and the

728
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 1: reporter was really kind of left at a loss for words.

729
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:15,399
Speaker 1: And there seems to be this stigma or you know

730
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 1: that it's taboo where athletes. Women athletes are not supposed

731
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,359
Speaker 1: to talk about their periods, and it's kind of been

732
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 1: There's been a lot of talk going on about it

733
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:27,280
Speaker 1: in praise for for Lydia because um, even some ESPN

734
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: journalists were saying that we should normalize women in sports

735
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: talking about their periods. It's not an excuse or an embarrassment.

736
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,319
Speaker 1: It's just a bodily function. And I just think the

737
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: more we talk about it, the better, because I feel like,

738
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: I remember, you know, I use this stuff my tampon

739
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: in my sleeves of my sweatshirt before I would go

740
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 1: to the bathroom, and it's like, why am I hiding that?

741
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,919
Speaker 1: It's not embarrassing. I shouldn't be embarrassed about it. So

742
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: just to understand more, you're comfortable talking about all kinds

743
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: of things that are going on with you, Sydney, Are

744
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 1: you the same Do you feel the same way, because

745
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 1: I feel like it might depend on the person's comfort

746
00:41:58,120 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: level of having I still like to put my tamp

747
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,799
Speaker 1: on in my sleep when I go walk to the

748
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 1: bathroom and walk down the hallway and see some of

749
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: my coworkers, like I don't want to bump into somebody,

750
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 1: and then I'm just holding my tampon. Would you have

751
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: that conversation, you know too, if you're competing in the

752
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: sporting event, would you have that conversation with the s

753
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 1: pen reporter? Probably not, But that's just me. I don't know.

754
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: Everybody's different. I don't need to, like I'm not embarrassed

755
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: to hide it, but I don't need to like announce it.

756
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Yeah? But it's also like so

757
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:33,959
Speaker 1: cool to be on your period. Know that, Like she's

758
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 1: winning this tournament and she's like getting this thing on

759
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: her back and she's not embarrassed to say, like, I'm

760
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 1: on my period and my back is like really hurting me.

761
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 1: You know. It's like we do go through it. We

762
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 1: have these things once a month, Like sometimes I'm in

763
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: like excruciating pain, and if you think if you ask me,

764
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:53,880
Speaker 1: I'd be like, dude, Sometimes I say it within like

765
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 1: people that I'm comfortable with, but I would not in

766
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: an interview. I would never say that. I don't think me.

767
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 1: I guess I like that. I like that both sides

768
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: of the equation. Tanya, who will has educated me significantly

769
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,720
Speaker 1: and then actually says, you have two you're very comfortable

770
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: with things. I think also, maybe I know it's like

771
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 1: this is something that's evolved in terms of a cultural dialogue,

772
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 1: but I also think that we're comfortable with each other

773
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 1: here and we do talk about and you guys certainly

774
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: do talk about those things that maybe if we just met,

775
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe you would, Tanny, maybe you wouldn't.

776
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:26,760
Speaker 1: But if we were like week one of our show,

777
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if we would in this because I

778
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 1: always picture no one listening, like I always think it's

779
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 1: just us. So things that I different here with just

780
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: like us. Yes, but things I even say to you

781
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: guys now I probably would have said in our first

782
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 1: year because you're just not comfortable. But again I think

783
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 1: it's only the three of us here in our own

784
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 1: little zoom. Yeah, do you feel if you pull up.

785
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 1: The first year that I started working with you, I

786
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 1: was a little bit what was really like the first year?

787
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: It was really eleven months because you have the first

788
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 1: month off after you start. Remember John Ivy gave me

789
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: the first month off. Do you remember that guy? But

790
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 1: I still you know what I mean, Tanya, I do

791
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: know what you mean, but I just want you to know.

792
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 1: And Ryan, if you have any period questions, I like

793
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:21,359
Speaker 1: to consider myself like a period trailblazer, so you can

794
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,880
Speaker 1: just shoot them my way. If anybody listening has period

795
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: questions or menstrual cup questions, I'm happy to help. Thank you.

796
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 1: All right, the walls are down and I like it. Yeah,

797
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Seacrest, Let's bring in Donnie Walbert

798
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: from New Kids on the Block. You know, there are

799
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 1: just certain shows you your family, your friends, your siblings

800
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 1: you gotta see. And New Kids on the Block is

801
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 1: just one of those shows. And Donnie Walbert joining us

802
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: right now. De walb How are you? What's up? Guys? Hello? Ryan?

803
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 1: You look great, buddy. Are you into a new fitness grind?

804
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 1: I'm totally in tour prep mode, which means fitness grind,

805
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:09,320
Speaker 1: dancing grind, like full on creative mode for the tour.

806
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 1: Um So, yeah, I've been. Usually my routine is in July,

807
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 1: I start back on Blue Bloods, coming off with a tour.

808
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 1: I'm in really great shape, and then I eat a

809
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: lot of doughnuts and eat whatever I want till December January.

810
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 1: Then January I start getting in back into tour mode

811
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,839
Speaker 1: and stop eating the donuts and start behaving myself. Well,

812
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: if you've ever seen Blue Bloods, you're obligated to eat

813
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,760
Speaker 1: on that show. I mean, that's the that's the big scene,

814
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 1: isn't it. That's right. I always eat. Yeah, every dinner scene,

815
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 1: I eat like crazy, And uh, you know, I'd like

816
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: to add food to a lot of the scenes. So

817
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 1: like you know, if I'm in a car driving around

818
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: with my partner, I say, let's get some donuts, and

819
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 1: we just put them in the scene just because, just

820
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,840
Speaker 1: to make it authentic, we are gonna give away in

821
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 1: a second here, Three Nights the White Donna Lulu to

822
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,319
Speaker 1: see New Kids on the Block is one of those

823
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: nights which I'm so site for. And you should know,

824
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 1: I was watching somebody feed Fill. This is a food

825
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 1: show I was watching and it's on Netflix, and he

826
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 1: was doing the foods of Honolulu. There are some incredible

827
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:09,879
Speaker 1: like strip mall restaurants there in Honoluludana. I'm gonna forward

828
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: you some of the ideas because there's some great food there.

829
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 1: Speaking of food, now, I'm curious to know. I can

830
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: only imagine what it was like when you and all

831
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 1: the guys were in New Kids on the Block for

832
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 1: the first handful of years on the road. What the

833
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 1: last few seconds were like before you hit the stage.

834
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 1: But now in these times, what are those moments like

835
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 1: before the guys have to go out and be new

836
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:37,720
Speaker 1: Kids on the Block again on the stage. Well, first

837
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 1: of all, I don't want to brush over the fact

838
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: that you're giving away a three day trip to Hawaii

839
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 1: to see you, because I mean, it's one of the

840
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,400
Speaker 1: things I love about you. Ran. You love giving stuff away,

841
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: and I love giving stuff away. We haven't been in

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Speaker 1: Hawaii in over thirty years, and it's our first time

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Speaker 1: going back to perform. I mean, I've been on vacation

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Speaker 1: and stuff. Of course, I love going to Hawaii. Um,

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Speaker 1: it's amazing and I can't but New Kids not been

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Speaker 1: and so I cannot wait for us to go back. Um,

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Speaker 1: in terms of what it's like to go on stage.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's pretty calm. You know, Um, I guess

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Speaker 1: it's kind of like if you were a rookie in

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Speaker 1: in the NBA or the NFL or something and you're

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Speaker 1: about to go into a game. You're all amped up.

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Speaker 1: It's like Tom Brady the first Super Bowl he played

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Speaker 1: and even smashing heads home at all people. And Willie McGinnis,

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Speaker 1: the famous Patriots linebacker, said he relax, relax um, and uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, years later he probably walks out to the

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Speaker 1: super Bowl like, hey man, let's go. It's another it's

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Speaker 1: another game. Let's just be great and do our best.

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Speaker 1: And that's kind of what it's like. We were grateful

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Speaker 1: that our fans still care, that they still come to

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Speaker 1: see us. We're in somewhat in awe that it's happening,

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Speaker 1: but we're much calmer and very you know, focused on

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Speaker 1: saving energy for where it's important, which is on stage,

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Speaker 1: not backstage with us goofing around before we walk out there. Truly,

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Speaker 1: Donny Walber with us, truly new Kids on the Black

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Speaker 1: can this forever? That is reality? Isn't it? As long

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Speaker 1: as we can dance a little bit, I think it's

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Speaker 1: great if you could just do a step later in

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Speaker 1: life volved one step forward, one step back. You know,

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Speaker 1: motown moves exactly half of a pelvic broust. Think our

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Speaker 1: fans are loyal and dedicated blockheads are gonna get tired

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Speaker 1: of the pelvic thrust thing. But if there's a chance

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Speaker 1: we could be in our seventies and they could be like, yes,

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Speaker 1: that's it. People want it all right, let's get this now.

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Speaker 1: Color one oh chew three nights. As we were talking

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Speaker 1: about Hawaiian new Kids on the Block, two tickets to

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Speaker 1: the show on the mix tape tour. Make sure you

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Speaker 1: look them up and check them out. Donnie big love

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Speaker 1: to you and Jenny. Good to see you, buddy. Thank

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Speaker 1: you guys so much for always supporting and always just

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Speaker 1: being the best. Appreciate you so much, right, thank you.

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Speaker 1: and I could never date because we would just be

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Speaker 1: fighting about time seven. I think it's several reasons why

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Speaker 1: I was like, Yeah, Ryan's roses coming up tomorrow, be

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Speaker 1: here for it and five dollars spring cash and Wango

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