WEBVTT - Dr. Lucky Sekhon on What Every Woman Should Know About Fertility in Her 20s and 30s

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<v Speaker 1>I feel so privileged to be a fertility expert in

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<v Speaker 1>a time where success rates are at an all time high.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking as someone who is yet to go on this journey,

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<v Speaker 2>when do you feel like is the right time for

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<v Speaker 2>women to really start thinking about fatility?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's never too early.

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<v Speaker 2>Doctor Lucky Second is a reproductive androcrinologist who's helping women

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<v Speaker 2>understand their fertility clearly, calmly, and proactively. She cuts through myths, pressure,

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<v Speaker 2>and online noise and focuses on what really matters. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you have any advice for women who are trying to

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we build trust with their own body after

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<v Speaker 2>they feel like their bodies failed them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not because of something you did or didn't do,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're definitely not alone. One in six couples have infertility.

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<v Speaker 2>What if this time will be the time.

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<v Speaker 1>There is some serendipity, there is some luck, and you

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<v Speaker 1>just need one egg to make it past all those hurdles.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to a Really Good Cry podcast. A Really Good

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<v Speaker 2>Cry is here to help you understand your body, feel

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<v Speaker 2>confident in your skin, manage your emotions, and take back

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<v Speaker 2>control of your health. Because growth doesn't always start with answers,

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it starts with a really good cry Lucky thank

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<v Speaker 2>you so much for being here. I really really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>I know you've flown in from New York and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so grateful to have you on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna dive into your book, The Lucky Egg, Understanding

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<v Speaker 2>your Fertility and how to get Pregnant. Now, let me

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<v Speaker 2>tell you, this is one juicy book. There's so much

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<v Speaker 2>information in here. And what I loved about it was

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<v Speaker 2>you don't make it feel too scary.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's really the goal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and I think that, you know, speaking as someone

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<v Speaker 2>who is yet to go on this journey, I definitely

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<v Speaker 2>feel overwhelmed by this whole space and it's a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit scary. Me and my friends talk about it and

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<v Speaker 2>we're like, I don't know, I'm avoiding it. I'm avoiding

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about it until I'm really ready to think about it.

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<v Speaker 2>And when we are, it feels really intense, especially when

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<v Speaker 2>you're over the age of thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it feels overwhelming. There's so much noise and advice

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<v Speaker 1>coming out you.

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<v Speaker 2>A mile a minute, there is, And so I know

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<v Speaker 2>you've been doing this for nearly a decade. I would

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<v Speaker 2>have to start off with some beautiful success stories that

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<v Speaker 2>you've experienced.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean so many, you know, I feel so privileged

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<v Speaker 1>to be a fertility expert in a time where success

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<v Speaker 1>rates are at an all time highly Yes. Yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>you think about when IVF was first invented, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about IVF, but there are so many different ways

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<v Speaker 1>to help people get pregnant, but that's the one that

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<v Speaker 1>everyone associates with my job, right, But it is the

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<v Speaker 1>most striking change that in the nineteen seventies, when it

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<v Speaker 1>first came about and this technology became a thing, it

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<v Speaker 1>was like single digit success rates. And now every week,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, at least two thirds of my patients who

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<v Speaker 1>had an embryo transfer the week before, I'm calling them

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<v Speaker 1>to say, hey, you're pregnant. Oh my god. No. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's really something that I never take for granted because

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<v Speaker 1>I have predecessors, you know, mentors of mine that always

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<v Speaker 1>remind me of how lucky I am. When they were

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<v Speaker 1>coming up in their careers, They're like, it was really hard,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to tell patients let's keep going in the

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<v Speaker 1>face of really low success rates compared to what we

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<v Speaker 1>can offer now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, when do you feel like is the right time

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<v Speaker 2>for women to really still think about the to like

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<v Speaker 2>your ideal puss. And if you're talking to them from

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<v Speaker 2>a young age, when would you say this is the

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<v Speaker 2>time we need to stop thinking about it. So.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it might sound crazi or extreme, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's never too early. I mean, I have a

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<v Speaker 1>five year old and an eight year old daughter. Both

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<v Speaker 1>of them know how to correctly identify their body parts.

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<v Speaker 1>They know about the menstrual cycle. I think we need

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<v Speaker 1>to normalize this and make it so that people aren't

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<v Speaker 1>growing up afraid of their bodies or feeling that their

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<v Speaker 1>bodies are a mystery. I think it should be a

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<v Speaker 1>topic of conversation, maybe not with the lens of trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get pregnant necessarily, but just understanding your menstrual cycle,

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<v Speaker 1>understanding red flags and identifying things early instead of saying, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm only going to react after the fact once I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in a moment of crisis when it comes to my fertility.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love for everyone in their twenties to have

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<v Speaker 1>like a secondary formalized education, because high school health class

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<v Speaker 1>or junior high health class isn't enough. The goals are

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<v Speaker 1>very different, and then that's the last of our formative education,

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<v Speaker 1>and we go off into our twenties and our thirties

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<v Speaker 1>and we're expected to, you know, kind of strive towards

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<v Speaker 1>having it all and achieving our professional goals while navigating

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<v Speaker 1>our personal goals, and then magically trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>our biological clock, hoping to stumble upon the right obgyn

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<v Speaker 1>and the right Google search or the right group of

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<v Speaker 1>friends that are happening to share the good information. And

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<v Speaker 1>it seems a little bit too left up to chance.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that's really why I wrote this book. This

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<v Speaker 1>isn't for people who are only struggling in the trenches

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<v Speaker 1>of infertility, but it's really for people as they enter

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<v Speaker 1>their twenties and thirties to say, Hey, what should I

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<v Speaker 1>be thinking about? How should I be viewing, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>wellness and my overall habits day to day, and what

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<v Speaker 1>should I be thinking about as I embark on this

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<v Speaker 1>journey of trying to get pregnant so that I can

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<v Speaker 1>be as efficient and as effective as possible.

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<v Speaker 2>I know you said that IVF. Obviously you're seeing so

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<v Speaker 2>many great success stories yeah happen and IVF, which is

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<v Speaker 2>so beautiful. What about when it comes to natural pregnancies.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you seen a trend in what's happening there? Is

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<v Speaker 2>it still the same? Well? Does it feel like it's

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<v Speaker 2>getting hot?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that it's largely the same. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>there's anything about our biology that has really changed, Right.

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<v Speaker 1>It takes a long time for evolution to actually take place,

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<v Speaker 1>but our behaviors are changing, and we're waiting longer to

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<v Speaker 1>have children, you know, And I shouldn't say it like

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<v Speaker 1>that because it makes it sound like it's an active choice.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a confluence of factors of how we're

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<v Speaker 1>living differently. It's taking longer to become financially independent and

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like you're in the right place in your life,

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like you have the right partner. I mean, there's

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<v Speaker 1>good things about that. Right. We now live in a

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<v Speaker 1>society where we're saying, let's not settle and let's not

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<v Speaker 1>stay in toxic relationships just for the sake of Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to have children. And there's technologies to try

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<v Speaker 1>to work around that as well. Right, Like women can

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<v Speaker 1>freeze their eggs and say, I feel less pressured to

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<v Speaker 1>stick with something that's not right for me. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to listen to that voice inside my head and say

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<v Speaker 1>let me start fresh, and that would have been really

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<v Speaker 1>hard to do as someone in their mid thirties or

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<v Speaker 1>early forties, maybe twenty years ago, where certain things weren't options, right,

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<v Speaker 1>like egg freezing. But I think you know, the average

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<v Speaker 1>age of when we're starting to build our families has

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<v Speaker 1>definitely increased. Just think about our mother's generation, our grandmother's generation,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's good things about that, right, But our biology

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't kept pace, and we're not really giving women the tools,

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<v Speaker 1>the support, and the education or even the access to

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<v Speaker 1>certain techniques or strategies to try to work around that,

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<v Speaker 1>or even just policies that help us to create space

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<v Speaker 1>in our life so that we can achieve our dreams

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<v Speaker 1>professionally and personally alongside each other.

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<v Speaker 2>You mentioned lifestyle quite a bit throughout this and the

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<v Speaker 2>things that we should be doing in our twenties and thirties.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you say that fertility from your experience is many genetics?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it mainly lifestyle? Is it? You know, what are

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<v Speaker 2>the main factors that are influencing fertility along our journey?

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<v Speaker 1>So timing is really important on two different levels. One

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<v Speaker 1>is the effective age.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Age impacts our ability to ovulate a healthy egg and

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<v Speaker 1>it's not all doom and gloom. It's not like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>over thirty five, all of your eggs go bad. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what society likes to tell people. But in fact, even

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<v Speaker 1>in our late thirties and early forties, you still have

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<v Speaker 1>normal eggs that you can ovulate, but the ability to

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<v Speaker 1>do that starts to shift where it takes many more

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<v Speaker 1>cycles for that egg that you need to ovulate to

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<v Speaker 1>be the one that's selected randomly, because it's a random

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<v Speaker 1>selection process that you cannot control, and it can take

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<v Speaker 1>longer to get pregnant, and there can be a higher

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<v Speaker 1>risks of things like miscarriage. So age is definitely a

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<v Speaker 1>big factor, but also timing with regards to knowing when

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<v Speaker 1>you're ovulating right, and so for people who aren't getting

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<v Speaker 1>regular periods and they never know when their next ovulation

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<v Speaker 1>is happening, or they don't ovulate regularly, that can make

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<v Speaker 1>it more challenging. And there are shifts in health in society.

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<v Speaker 1>The rise in obesity has led to more and more

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<v Speaker 1>people having a harder time ovulating regularly, so that indirectly

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<v Speaker 1>impacts fertility as well. Genetics is huge. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people aren't aware that if they have a first degree

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<v Speaker 1>relative with premature MENOPAUSEIDS, polycystic ovary syndrome which can lead

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<v Speaker 1>to regular cycles, problems like endometriosis. These are all major

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<v Speaker 1>gynecologic disorders that can relate to fertility issues, and there

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<v Speaker 1>can be a several fold increased risk of you yourself

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<v Speaker 1>having those issues if your mom or your sister first

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<v Speaker 1>degree relative also did so. Genetics can play a huge

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<v Speaker 1>role in fertility.

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<v Speaker 2>And not the specific tests that you recommend women do

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<v Speaker 2>to you know, let's say find out from a younger

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<v Speaker 2>age if these things are an issue for them, like

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<v Speaker 2>what would you recommend some of the symptoms out that

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<v Speaker 2>they should look out for, all tests that they should

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<v Speaker 2>be doing.

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<v Speaker 1>So, starting with your period, if your periods are regular,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the first red flag that tells you that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not ovulating regularly. And if you're not ovulating, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>in the game, right. That means releasing an egg, so

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<v Speaker 1>there's a chance for that egg to get fertilized. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I've had women sometimes come to me and say,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been trying for a year, but I've only gotten

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<v Speaker 1>two periods in the last year, And I tell them, well,

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<v Speaker 1>then you really haven't been trying for the full year, right,

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<v Speaker 1>You've only had two attempts that entire time, and so

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<v Speaker 1>we need to do something to give you that opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the other major thing is it's never normal

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<v Speaker 1>to have debilitating periods, periods that are so painful that

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<v Speaker 1>you miss school or work. And it takes an average

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<v Speaker 1>of eight to ten years for someone to be diagnosed

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<v Speaker 1>with endometriosis because a lot of times women's pain has

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<v Speaker 1>been dismissed, overlooked, or normalized. It's just kind of told

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<v Speaker 1>to them, maybe by well meaning family members, that this

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<v Speaker 1>is just a burden that women have to bear, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of a normal thing in our family. Heavy

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<v Speaker 1>periods that can be a sign that you have problems

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<v Speaker 1>like fibroids. So I think really tracking your cycle and

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<v Speaker 1>being intentional is important. You want to be in tune

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<v Speaker 1>with your body, right. And then besides that, I would

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<v Speaker 1>say other things to look out for. We know maintaining

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<v Speaker 1>a healthy body weight is really important for metabolic balance.

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<v Speaker 1>There is this concept of insulin resistance, which you may

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<v Speaker 1>have heard of. This is a major buzzword in the

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<v Speaker 1>wellness world, but it's actually a real issue that I

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<v Speaker 1>see play a role in many cases of infertility and

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<v Speaker 1>pregnancy loss. Insulin is basically a hormone that your body produces.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a key that unlocks cells, that helps the

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<v Speaker 1>blood sugar get stored effectively in your cells. And a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people's cells might not be listening to the

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<v Speaker 1>signal of insulin. There's like resistance to it and sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>weight gain, especially around the mid section, or having a

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<v Speaker 1>strong family history of type two diabetes. These are dead

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<v Speaker 1>ringers where you're like, okay, pcos someone having polycystic ovary syndrome.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a strong relationship. The reason why it matters is

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<v Speaker 1>that insulin gets produced at a higher level if your

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<v Speaker 1>cells aren't listening to that signal, and that can actually

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<v Speaker 1>cause your ovaries to overproduce testosterone and it can lead

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<v Speaker 1>to unhealthy balance imbalances where the eggs are being matured,

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<v Speaker 1>so it can affect our egg quality, the ability to

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<v Speaker 1>ovulate a healthy egg. It can also make it easier

0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:53.280
<v Speaker 1>to have problems like miscarriage. Most miscarriages are not within

0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:56.400
<v Speaker 1>our control. I want to make that clear. Most of

0:10:56.400 --> 0:10:59.440
<v Speaker 1>the time, this is just you ovulated an egg that

0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:02.520
<v Speaker 1>had a type BO or error. But those typos or

0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:04.760
<v Speaker 1>errors in the genetic code of those eggs are more

0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:08.079
<v Speaker 1>likely to happen if the environment around the egg when

0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:12.800
<v Speaker 1>it's maturing is affected by things like insulin resistance or imbalances.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's really important to think intentionally about how do

0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:19.160
<v Speaker 1>we make someone more responsive to the effects of insulin. Right,

0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:22.920
<v Speaker 1>if someone is overweight and they lose weight, that alone

0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:26.160
<v Speaker 1>can help, But building muscle can make you more sensitive

0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:29.600
<v Speaker 1>to insulin. The way we eat, the pattern that we

0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:32.559
<v Speaker 1>have in our diet in terms of fiber and protein,

0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:36.200
<v Speaker 1>and trying to avoid glucose spikes and really stabilizing your

0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:38.520
<v Speaker 1>blood sugar. All of this matters. And this is not

0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:41.040
<v Speaker 1>a moral feeling. There are a lot of people who

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<v Speaker 1>this is just genetically how they're wired, and it's not

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<v Speaker 1>always going to be possible to fix it with diet

0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:48.880
<v Speaker 1>and exercise. Sometimes you do need the help of certain medications,

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<v Speaker 1>whether that be metformin or GLP one agonists.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was going to ask about GLP one's day

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<v Speaker 2>TIPA you mentioned them now, So why is that helping?

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<v Speaker 2>I've had a sage like people get being able to

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<v Speaker 2>get pregnant after they've been on GLP. Is that to

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<v Speaker 2>do with the weight loss or is there something else

0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:07.479
<v Speaker 2>that happens when people are on these peptides.

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<v Speaker 1>It's both weight loss because weight is basically like that

0:12:12.040 --> 0:12:15.480
<v Speaker 1>fat can be like another organ that actually helps you

0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:20.160
<v Speaker 1>overproduce too much estrogen. So in our fat cells we

0:12:20.280 --> 0:12:24.959
<v Speaker 1>convert excess testosterone to estrogen, and so it's all related. Right,

0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:28.559
<v Speaker 1>Your ovaries will overproduce or have a tendency to overproduce testosterone,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe because insulin is causing that to happen, and then

0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:34.360
<v Speaker 1>that extra testosterone is getting converted in your fat cells

0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:38.520
<v Speaker 1>to estrogen. Estrogen is confusing your brain, which is listening

0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:40.959
<v Speaker 1>for the estrogen signal to see what your ovary is doing,

0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:43.360
<v Speaker 1>and then it's not sending the signals to the ovary

0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:46.240
<v Speaker 1>to tell it to ovulate effectively. And it's this vicious cycle.

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<v Speaker 1>And so a lot of people are having what they're

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<v Speaker 1>calling ozembic babies because yes, they've had this lifelong history

0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:57.160
<v Speaker 1>of irregularity in their ovulation. It's linked to insulin resistance.

0:12:57.200 --> 0:12:59.880
<v Speaker 1>Maybe they've struggled with their weight. Now they're correcting that

0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:02.800
<v Speaker 1>underlying disturbance, and all of a sudden, the signals from

0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:04.800
<v Speaker 1>their brain are getting through to the over and low

0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:07.840
<v Speaker 1>and behold, they're ovulating and that was the thing that

0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:09.800
<v Speaker 1>was making it harder for them to get pregnant. So

0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:12.560
<v Speaker 1>it's helping a lot of people because it's a very

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<v Speaker 1>potent way to help with weight loss and to make

0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:18.920
<v Speaker 1>someone more sensitive to insulin, especially certain formulations of GLP

0:13:19.000 --> 0:13:19.760
<v Speaker 1>one agonists.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that have any benefit for people have endometriosis or

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<v Speaker 2>is that issue completely separate to this.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're still in the research phases of this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, endometriosis is a different entity, but it is

0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:37.360
<v Speaker 1>related to inflammation and having too much insulin, and that

0:13:37.400 --> 0:13:40.880
<v Speaker 1>insulin resistance I'm talking about is also a pro inflammatory effect.

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<v Speaker 1>Enomeytriosis is a really important one because it's such a

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<v Speaker 1>quality of life issue and there's so many different ways

0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:50.280
<v Speaker 1>it can impact fertility, and no two cases of endometriosis

0:13:50.360 --> 0:13:54.120
<v Speaker 1>are going to be exactly alike. It's very unique per individual.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's basically a condition where the cells that act

0:13:57.520 --> 0:13:59.480
<v Speaker 1>like the innerlining of the uterus that are supposed to

0:13:59.480 --> 0:14:02.280
<v Speaker 1>build up and be hormonally responsive and then shed every

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<v Speaker 1>month when you get your period, are found in other

0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:07.920
<v Speaker 1>parts of the body that they shouldn't be, most often

0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:10.640
<v Speaker 1>the pelvic cavity, and we still don't really truly understand

0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:12.800
<v Speaker 1>the mechanism of why this happens to some people and

0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:16.080
<v Speaker 1>not to others. We know that we all sometimes menstrate

0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:18.960
<v Speaker 1>a little bit backwards. It's called retrograde menstruation through the

0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:22.640
<v Speaker 1>fallopian tubes. And our immune system is like a janitor

0:14:22.720 --> 0:14:25.680
<v Speaker 1>that goes around and kind of recognizes, oh, these cells

0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:29.200
<v Speaker 1>are foreign, let's clean them up. But some people's cells

0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:32.520
<v Speaker 1>may evade detection by their immune system, and it can

0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:34.920
<v Speaker 1>set up shop. And the lining of your uterus is

0:14:34.960 --> 0:14:37.520
<v Speaker 1>meant to be a little bit sticky and invasive. It's

0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:40.120
<v Speaker 1>meant to receive an embryo and allow it to kind

0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:43.440
<v Speaker 1>of burrow its way in, and it can really be

0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:46.120
<v Speaker 1>effective at creating new blood vessels. And so what can

0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:49.040
<v Speaker 1>happen is is if it's in the pelvic cavity, it

0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:53.200
<v Speaker 1>can start setting up shop and becoming hormonally responsive, and

0:14:53.240 --> 0:14:56.680
<v Speaker 1>every time you're getting a period, it's stimulating those implants.

0:14:57.080 --> 0:14:59.480
<v Speaker 1>And what's really mysterious is that it can be found

0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:02.360
<v Speaker 1>in remote locations, like it's been documented in the brain,

0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:06.000
<v Speaker 1>in the lung cavity, but most often it's like location,

0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:10.160
<v Speaker 1>location location, it's in the pelvic cavity causes really painful periods.

0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:12.680
<v Speaker 1>It can cause blockages in the fallopian tubes. It can

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<v Speaker 1>make it harder for an embryo to implant, It can

0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:17.080
<v Speaker 1>affect egg quality, it can cause your eggs to get

0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:20.600
<v Speaker 1>depleted faster. But there are many women that have endometriosis

0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:23.880
<v Speaker 1>that go on to have healthy pregnancies without any issue.

0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:26.440
<v Speaker 1>But there are some women with mouth cases that end

0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:29.920
<v Speaker 1>up having major problems with fertility. So there's a lot

0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:31.960
<v Speaker 1>we still don't understand about it. But we know that

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<v Speaker 1>a huge mechanism of how it affects fertility is through

0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:39.040
<v Speaker 1>inflammatory pathways, and we know there's a lot of information

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<v Speaker 1>now coming out about how GLP ones may help with

0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:45.360
<v Speaker 1>inflammatory issues in our body in general. So you may

0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:48.000
<v Speaker 1>have heard of people saying, you know, my eximo got

0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:51.240
<v Speaker 1>better while I was on a GLP one pagonist. They're talking,

0:15:51.440 --> 0:15:55.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, about so many different potential off target health effects,

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<v Speaker 1>and I wouldn't be surprised if we find out that

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<v Speaker 1>there could be a benefit for women with enomytriosis.

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<v Speaker 2>Hearing people or friends coming out with telling me that

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<v Speaker 2>they've got endometriosis more than I've heard, you know, in

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<v Speaker 2>the past. Maybe just because they're more open about talking

0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:10.880
<v Speaker 2>about it. But what are some of the tools, techniques,

0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:14.680
<v Speaker 2>the medications, or the holistic treatments that people can do

0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:16.720
<v Speaker 2>that you've seen have really helped them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think you know, the key is really trying

0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:24.560
<v Speaker 1>to lead an anti inflammatory lifestyle. And I know that

0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:26.960
<v Speaker 1>sounds kind of woo woo, but it is a real thing.

0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:29.720
<v Speaker 1>I've had many patients with endometriosis, and I do think

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<v Speaker 1>it's amazing that we're having this conversation. And that's why

0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:34.440
<v Speaker 1>you're hearing about it more because more and where women

0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:36.920
<v Speaker 1>are going to their doctors and saying, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I am going to keep probing and asking questions because

0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:43.040
<v Speaker 1>it just doesn't feel right that it's so painful. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think a huge red flag or hallmark sign that

0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:48.600
<v Speaker 1>you could have endometriosis is a history of really painful

0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:50.960
<v Speaker 1>periods and then you went on the birth control pill,

0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:54.720
<v Speaker 1>you shut down ovulation, you shut down that stimulation, and

0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:57.720
<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden that pain went away. That is

0:16:57.800 --> 0:17:02.720
<v Speaker 1>really endometriosis until proven other wise. So I have had

0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:06.959
<v Speaker 1>many patients who've tried different ways of eating, trying to

0:17:07.240 --> 0:17:12.080
<v Speaker 1>adopt a more pro antioxidant type diet like a Mediterranean

0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:16.000
<v Speaker 1>style diet. There are some supplements that have been touted

0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:19.480
<v Speaker 1>as having anti inflammatory effects and maybe being helpful, and

0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:22.560
<v Speaker 1>a lot of this has been studied, but the reality

0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:24.760
<v Speaker 1>is is that a lot of the data on supplements

0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:28.120
<v Speaker 1>is not from well designed studies, and you're looking at

0:17:28.160 --> 0:17:31.119
<v Speaker 1>different types of patient populations, and you don't always know

0:17:31.160 --> 0:17:34.119
<v Speaker 1>what you're getting in each bottle of supplements. So I

0:17:34.119 --> 0:17:36.560
<v Speaker 1>think it's harder to really put a finger on exactly

0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:39.760
<v Speaker 1>what supplements are better for endometriosis. I think when it

0:17:39.800 --> 0:17:43.480
<v Speaker 1>comes to medical management, that's usually the mainstay is, well,

0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:46.439
<v Speaker 1>let's stop what's driving this, right, And so if someone

0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:50.600
<v Speaker 1>says I have debilitating cramps, I've been diagnosed with endometriosis.

0:17:50.600 --> 0:17:53.040
<v Speaker 1>And by the way, the diagnosis, the gold standard way

0:17:53.119 --> 0:17:55.400
<v Speaker 1>is kind of invasive. You have to have a surgery

0:17:56.080 --> 0:17:58.199
<v Speaker 1>where they go through the belly button with a camera

0:17:58.240 --> 0:18:01.400
<v Speaker 1>and actually visualize and take a sample of the tissue

0:18:01.400 --> 0:18:03.560
<v Speaker 1>that they think looks like endometriosis and send it off

0:18:03.560 --> 0:18:07.320
<v Speaker 1>for analysis. That's not very practical to send everyone to

0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:10.239
<v Speaker 1>the operating room just to get a diagnosis. And I

0:18:10.280 --> 0:18:13.280
<v Speaker 1>think that you can make the diagnosis clinically and say, listen,

0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:17.879
<v Speaker 1>it's probably endometriosis. Sometimes you can see it on ultrasound,

0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:20.199
<v Speaker 1>But even if you have a clean looking ultrasound with

0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:21.920
<v Speaker 1>no signs of it, it doesn't mean it's not there.

0:18:21.960 --> 0:18:25.119
<v Speaker 1>It can be insidious in the pelvic side wall. But

0:18:25.280 --> 0:18:27.520
<v Speaker 1>a lot of times if someone's not trying to get pregnant,

0:18:27.840 --> 0:18:31.159
<v Speaker 1>stopping their ovulation. And I know that's not a popular answer,

0:18:31.200 --> 0:18:33.480
<v Speaker 1>and I think a lot of women are very angry

0:18:34.160 --> 0:18:37.520
<v Speaker 1>and bitter, and rightly so about maybe ten years prior

0:18:37.960 --> 0:18:40.399
<v Speaker 1>twenty years prior, being in their teens and it not

0:18:40.480 --> 0:18:43.720
<v Speaker 1>being explained to them clearly. You know, we think you

0:18:43.760 --> 0:18:46.480
<v Speaker 1>of endometriosis. This is why we're advising going on the pill.

0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:48.119
<v Speaker 1>So I've had a lot of patients who are like,

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<v Speaker 1>I went on the pill in my teens. I don't

0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:53.440
<v Speaker 1>know why. I've never explained, and now I'm coming off

0:18:53.480 --> 0:18:56.480
<v Speaker 1>of it and I'm having trouble with my ability to

0:18:56.520 --> 0:19:00.000
<v Speaker 1>get pregnant, and I'm the one diagnosing them with endometriosis,

0:19:00.359 --> 0:19:03.480
<v Speaker 1>when in reality, whoever put them on the pill likely

0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:06.240
<v Speaker 1>suspected that that was what was going on. So I

0:19:06.240 --> 0:19:10.480
<v Speaker 1>think it's about education and trusting women, even at a

0:19:10.520 --> 0:19:13.639
<v Speaker 1>young age. To understand complicated things about their body and

0:19:13.680 --> 0:19:16.199
<v Speaker 1>making sure people are as informed as they possibly can be.

0:19:17.200 --> 0:19:20.840
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes medications isn't going to cut it, and that's where

0:19:20.880 --> 0:19:23.280
<v Speaker 1>surgery could have a role to say, Okay, let's have

0:19:23.359 --> 0:19:26.080
<v Speaker 1>you go see an endometriosis expert. This is what they

0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:28.320
<v Speaker 1>do all day, every day, and they can do it

0:19:28.440 --> 0:19:32.280
<v Speaker 1>via a minimally invasive approach and remove those metriosis lesions

0:19:32.720 --> 0:19:34.680
<v Speaker 1>and it may help to improve your pain and even

0:19:34.760 --> 0:19:36.080
<v Speaker 1>help to improve your fertility.

0:19:36.400 --> 0:19:40.000
<v Speaker 2>Wow, And I know you mentioned regular periods being such

0:19:40.040 --> 0:19:42.960
<v Speaker 2>a good sign of you know, good fertility. So is

0:19:43.040 --> 0:19:45.359
<v Speaker 2>regular periods? Say? Would you say that if you have

0:19:45.400 --> 0:19:47.080
<v Speaker 2>a regular period, you have regular ovulation?

0:19:47.480 --> 0:19:50.560
<v Speaker 1>Pretty much? Yes, But sometimes it can be tricky because

0:19:50.560 --> 0:19:53.840
<v Speaker 1>some women will have problems like polyps in their uterus

0:19:53.880 --> 0:19:57.280
<v Speaker 1>where they're getting cyclical bleeding or regular bleeding and maybe

0:19:57.320 --> 0:20:00.760
<v Speaker 1>mistaking that to be their period. So I think it's

0:20:00.840 --> 0:20:05.880
<v Speaker 1>really about having that regular, characteristic period, like you know,

0:20:05.960 --> 0:20:08.719
<v Speaker 1>three to five days of bleeding. It's different for different people,

0:20:08.760 --> 0:20:13.160
<v Speaker 1>but I think it's not always clear to every patient,

0:20:13.280 --> 0:20:15.360
<v Speaker 1>and so I think keeping a menstrual diary and really

0:20:15.359 --> 0:20:17.200
<v Speaker 1>writing everything down so you can go to your doctor

0:20:17.200 --> 0:20:21.000
<v Speaker 1>with objective data. In general, though, what goes up must

0:20:21.040 --> 0:20:23.879
<v Speaker 1>come down. And I always say when you ovulate, your

0:20:23.920 --> 0:20:26.879
<v Speaker 1>progesterrial levels rise, and then when they drop, your lining

0:20:26.920 --> 0:20:30.040
<v Speaker 1>breaks down. So that's usually why you're bleeding, is because

0:20:30.080 --> 0:20:34.359
<v Speaker 1>you ovulated in the preceding cycle. But bleeding can happen

0:20:34.400 --> 0:20:36.400
<v Speaker 1>for a variety of reasons. So if anything feels off

0:20:36.480 --> 0:20:38.199
<v Speaker 1>or it feels like it's not a normal period, it's

0:20:38.240 --> 0:20:41.000
<v Speaker 1>possible that it isn't. And I'd say the first step

0:20:41.040 --> 0:20:43.639
<v Speaker 1>is getting a pelvic culture sound to investigate, well.

0:20:43.640 --> 0:20:46.359
<v Speaker 2>The kind of test you think that women should be

0:20:46.400 --> 0:20:48.960
<v Speaker 2>doing regularly. Should they be getting the homeless checked regularly,

0:20:49.000 --> 0:20:51.119
<v Speaker 2>and if so, what kind of homeland level should they

0:20:51.200 --> 0:20:52.960
<v Speaker 2>be asking to get checked.

0:20:53.200 --> 0:20:55.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not a big believer in you need to go

0:20:55.680 --> 0:20:59.119
<v Speaker 1>in every year and check your egg count, but I

0:20:59.160 --> 0:21:02.520
<v Speaker 1>think everyone one could benefit from getting it checked at least,

0:21:02.600 --> 0:21:05.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, once or twice in their twenties or early thirties.

0:21:05.720 --> 0:21:07.840
<v Speaker 1>I am a big believer in getting at least one

0:21:07.840 --> 0:21:12.120
<v Speaker 1>pelvic ultrasound, And this is not a guideline based recommendation.

0:21:12.320 --> 0:21:15.600
<v Speaker 1>This is just my observation as a fertility doctor who

0:21:15.600 --> 0:21:18.480
<v Speaker 1>has seen so many women of varying ages where I'm

0:21:18.560 --> 0:21:22.560
<v Speaker 1>often the first one diagnosing problems like fibroids or that

0:21:22.600 --> 0:21:24.720
<v Speaker 1>they were born with a uterus that has a different

0:21:24.760 --> 0:21:28.240
<v Speaker 1>shape than the average person. And I think that all

0:21:28.280 --> 0:21:30.600
<v Speaker 1>too often this is only coming up because they're coming

0:21:30.600 --> 0:21:33.160
<v Speaker 1>to me with a fertility issue, and then I'm investigating.

0:21:33.600 --> 0:21:35.520
<v Speaker 1>And you see a lot of variation across the board.

0:21:35.560 --> 0:21:38.320
<v Speaker 1>You see some women who are going to their OBGN

0:21:38.359 --> 0:21:39.800
<v Speaker 1>and every once in a while they get a public

0:21:39.880 --> 0:21:43.560
<v Speaker 1>ultrasound because sometimes you have problems going on that you're

0:21:43.560 --> 0:21:45.639
<v Speaker 1>only going to see if you do imaging and they

0:21:45.640 --> 0:21:48.639
<v Speaker 1>haven't manifested as physical symptoms yet. And then there are

0:21:48.680 --> 0:21:51.320
<v Speaker 1>some women that up until they're forties, you know, they've

0:21:51.320 --> 0:21:53.399
<v Speaker 1>never had one and I'm the first one doing it.

0:21:53.520 --> 0:21:56.480
<v Speaker 1>So it's just not standard across the board. And sure,

0:21:56.640 --> 0:21:59.320
<v Speaker 1>maybe it's not practical for everyone to get one ultrasound

0:21:59.320 --> 0:22:01.600
<v Speaker 1>per year, but I think at least once in your

0:22:01.640 --> 0:22:03.959
<v Speaker 1>twenties or thirties just to say that you've taken a

0:22:04.000 --> 0:22:06.680
<v Speaker 1>look at the uterus, at the ovaries and there aren't

0:22:06.680 --> 0:22:08.040
<v Speaker 1>any major red flags.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because if you, let's say you're a woman who

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<v Speaker 2>has decided to freeze her eggs, and the eggs are

0:22:14.280 --> 0:22:17.520
<v Speaker 2>good and good quality, they've said they're fine, But what

0:22:17.640 --> 0:22:20.359
<v Speaker 2>other I guess there's so many other aspects of you

0:22:20.400 --> 0:22:23.520
<v Speaker 2>may have the egg, but the size, the shape or

0:22:23.560 --> 0:22:26.000
<v Speaker 2>size of the vehin of your muterus and all of

0:22:26.000 --> 0:22:29.760
<v Speaker 2>that must also impact. And then does it also change

0:22:29.760 --> 0:22:31.679
<v Speaker 2>as you get older? Because obviously frozen the eggs, so

0:22:31.720 --> 0:22:35.879
<v Speaker 2>that's great, that's there. But does the women's body shift

0:22:35.920 --> 0:22:38.440
<v Speaker 2>and change that makes it harder to get pregnant as

0:22:38.480 --> 0:22:39.080
<v Speaker 2>we get older?

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<v Speaker 1>To for sure? I mean, every time you ovulate, you

0:22:41.760 --> 0:22:45.760
<v Speaker 1>have a cyclical exposure to higher estrogen, and then the

0:22:45.760 --> 0:22:48.480
<v Speaker 1>cycle begins again when you go through your next ovulation.

0:22:49.160 --> 0:22:51.520
<v Speaker 1>And the more ovulations you have in your lifetime, the

0:22:51.520 --> 0:22:55.840
<v Speaker 1>more opportunity for fibroids to grow, for endometriosis to grow.

0:22:56.560 --> 0:22:59.400
<v Speaker 1>So it is definitely something that can change over time.

0:22:59.440 --> 0:23:02.520
<v Speaker 1>And there is this concept of secondary infertility, which we

0:23:02.560 --> 0:23:05.160
<v Speaker 1>don't talk about enough. A lot of women think, Okay,

0:23:05.160 --> 0:23:07.920
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have any issues getting pregnant with baby number one?

0:23:08.440 --> 0:23:10.080
<v Speaker 1>Why is it so difficult now?

0:23:10.680 --> 0:23:10.960
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:23:11.040 --> 0:23:13.200
<v Speaker 1>And just because it was easy once doesn't mean it

0:23:13.240 --> 0:23:15.840
<v Speaker 1>will always be easy because things can change and evolve

0:23:15.880 --> 0:23:19.200
<v Speaker 1>with your body. We know there's the biological clock right

0:23:19.320 --> 0:23:21.679
<v Speaker 1>as we get older, it becomes harder and more challenging

0:23:21.760 --> 0:23:24.119
<v Speaker 1>to ovulate that healthy egg, and that in and of

0:23:24.160 --> 0:23:26.399
<v Speaker 1>itself might be the reason why it's just taking longer.

0:23:26.840 --> 0:23:29.040
<v Speaker 1>But of course things can change with your uterus, even

0:23:29.080 --> 0:23:33.000
<v Speaker 1>your fallopian tubes. You can develop inflammation where they become

0:23:33.040 --> 0:23:35.720
<v Speaker 1>blocked over time even though they previously weren't blocked. So

0:23:35.760 --> 0:23:38.200
<v Speaker 1>it's always really important to never take anything for granted

0:23:38.520 --> 0:23:41.520
<v Speaker 1>and always reevaluate. If more than a year has passed,

0:23:41.840 --> 0:23:44.760
<v Speaker 1>it's time to get a reevaluation if there's a problem,

0:23:44.800 --> 0:23:46.360
<v Speaker 1>if you're trying to get pregnant and it's.

0:23:46.200 --> 0:23:49.720
<v Speaker 2>Not happening, and with regass of testing. Obviously this is

0:23:49.720 --> 0:23:52.240
<v Speaker 2>a smaller type of test. But do these ovulation kits?

0:23:52.240 --> 0:23:54.320
<v Speaker 2>Are they quite accurate for people to use if they

0:23:54.359 --> 0:23:56.200
<v Speaker 2>are on the pregnancy journey.

0:23:56.359 --> 0:23:58.760
<v Speaker 1>Yes, they can be. I mean, I think they work

0:23:58.840 --> 0:24:03.080
<v Speaker 1>really well for people that have regular periods. What they

0:24:03.119 --> 0:24:06.399
<v Speaker 1>are detecting is basically when you ovulate. What's happening is

0:24:06.920 --> 0:24:08.679
<v Speaker 1>you have a stockpile of eggs that you're born with

0:24:08.720 --> 0:24:11.400
<v Speaker 1>like one to two million, and at any given time point,

0:24:11.440 --> 0:24:13.720
<v Speaker 1>a very small subset of them get recruited to the

0:24:13.760 --> 0:24:16.160
<v Speaker 1>surface of the ovaries in a process I can't control,

0:24:16.160 --> 0:24:19.080
<v Speaker 1>and neither can you. Then your brain, like a lottery,

0:24:19.200 --> 0:24:22.080
<v Speaker 1>sends a signal and randomly chooses one of those eggs

0:24:22.119 --> 0:24:25.239
<v Speaker 1>to mature and ovulate, and that's your one shot at

0:24:25.240 --> 0:24:28.520
<v Speaker 1>getting pregnant. That egg lasts for twelve to twenty four hours,

0:24:28.520 --> 0:24:30.560
<v Speaker 1>and if it's not fertilized in that timeframe, it basically

0:24:30.560 --> 0:24:32.320
<v Speaker 1>disintegrates and goes away and you have to wait till

0:24:32.359 --> 0:24:33.080
<v Speaker 1>the next cycle.

0:24:33.200 --> 0:24:33.320
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:24:33.960 --> 0:24:37.400
<v Speaker 1>So, when you PI on a stick an ovulation predictor kit,

0:24:37.840 --> 0:24:40.679
<v Speaker 1>what you're looking for when it lights up or whatever

0:24:40.720 --> 0:24:43.200
<v Speaker 1>the indicator is, is that you're about to ovulate. It's

0:24:43.240 --> 0:24:46.760
<v Speaker 1>actually detecting a signal from your brain, your putuitary gland

0:24:46.760 --> 0:24:50.560
<v Speaker 1>called LH. So that signal initially will cause you to

0:24:50.880 --> 0:24:53.479
<v Speaker 1>mature an egg. It's called follicle stimulating hormone. And then

0:24:53.480 --> 0:24:56.480
<v Speaker 1>a second signal goes out called lutinizing hormone or LH,

0:24:56.920 --> 0:24:59.080
<v Speaker 1>and that gets into your urine very quickly, and so

0:24:59.119 --> 0:25:01.640
<v Speaker 1>that's why we have EP these ovulation predictor kits. Day,

0:25:01.680 --> 0:25:04.720
<v Speaker 1>ok And if you see that signal light up, you're like, Okay,

0:25:04.760 --> 0:25:07.280
<v Speaker 1>this gives me a twenty four to thirty six hour window,

0:25:07.680 --> 0:25:10.560
<v Speaker 1>and it's very beneficial to know about ahead of time

0:25:10.920 --> 0:25:13.320
<v Speaker 1>because sperm will wait in the reproductive tract for three

0:25:13.320 --> 0:25:15.199
<v Speaker 1>to five days, and so you really want to be

0:25:15.240 --> 0:25:18.240
<v Speaker 1>having sex in that three to five day window before

0:25:18.280 --> 0:25:21.159
<v Speaker 1>you actually ovulate any attempts after the egg is already

0:25:21.160 --> 0:25:24.679
<v Speaker 1>released or lower yield. So it's basically giving yourself a

0:25:24.720 --> 0:25:28.680
<v Speaker 1>warning or heads up pay ovulation is about to happen. Now.

0:25:28.840 --> 0:25:32.280
<v Speaker 1>The tricky thing is especially for women with polycystic ovary

0:25:32.320 --> 0:25:35.800
<v Speaker 1>syndrome PCOS. That's a condition where your ovaries, just like

0:25:35.800 --> 0:25:38.640
<v Speaker 1>the insulin resistance we were talking about, there's this overall

0:25:38.680 --> 0:25:41.440
<v Speaker 1>theme of resistance where your ovaries are a bit stubborn

0:25:41.520 --> 0:25:44.440
<v Speaker 1>and resistant to those signals from the brain, and so

0:25:44.600 --> 0:25:47.399
<v Speaker 1>your brain ends up kind of shouting at the ovaries saying, hey,

0:25:47.480 --> 0:25:51.040
<v Speaker 1>I need you to work, and that high LH can

0:25:51.080 --> 0:25:54.880
<v Speaker 1>become this constant force, and so you might get positive

0:25:54.920 --> 0:25:58.080
<v Speaker 1>ovulation predictor kits throughout your cycle and come to me

0:25:58.119 --> 0:26:00.400
<v Speaker 1>and say, I don't understand what's going on. Says I'm

0:26:00.440 --> 0:26:02.840
<v Speaker 1>ovulating all the time, but I'm not getting my period.

0:26:03.359 --> 0:26:05.879
<v Speaker 1>So it might not be the best idea for someone

0:26:05.920 --> 0:26:08.840
<v Speaker 1>who knows they have PCOS, who has irregular or confusing

0:26:08.840 --> 0:26:13.719
<v Speaker 1>cycles to try diy ovulation predictor kids or ovulation monitoring,

0:26:13.760 --> 0:26:18.000
<v Speaker 1>because it could end up being inaccurate and really frustrating.

0:26:18.440 --> 0:26:20.960
<v Speaker 2>Let's get into peacos a little bit, because again, something

0:26:21.000 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 2>that I hear constantly that people around me end up

0:26:23.520 --> 0:26:25.640
<v Speaker 2>finding out that they've got. I would love to start

0:26:25.640 --> 0:26:27.960
<v Speaker 2>off with what have you found has helped people in

0:26:28.000 --> 0:26:31.160
<v Speaker 2>that situation, because the people like I've got family members

0:26:31.160 --> 0:26:34.080
<v Speaker 2>and friends with it, and they're on their pregnancy journey

0:26:34.119 --> 0:26:38.680
<v Speaker 2>and they're really struggling, and it's a very defeating process. It's,

0:26:39.080 --> 0:26:40.879
<v Speaker 2>you know, lose weight, lose weight. They go to the doctor's,

0:26:40.880 --> 0:26:43.600
<v Speaker 2>everyone's like, just lose weight, just lose weight, and being

0:26:43.640 --> 0:26:47.080
<v Speaker 2>told that even if they try, sometimes it's really difficult

0:26:47.160 --> 0:26:49.359
<v Speaker 2>to use the way. And so I would love to

0:26:49.400 --> 0:26:52.000
<v Speaker 2>hear from your experience, what has helped people that you've

0:26:52.040 --> 0:26:54.840
<v Speaker 2>seen with pea COSS and one of the main changes

0:26:54.880 --> 0:26:55.840
<v Speaker 2>that people should be making.

0:26:56.040 --> 0:26:58.760
<v Speaker 1>Yes, So, there are so many different types of polycystic

0:26:58.840 --> 0:27:01.320
<v Speaker 1>over e syndrome. There are some women who have just

0:27:01.359 --> 0:27:03.720
<v Speaker 1>a smidge of it, but their brain is able to

0:27:03.760 --> 0:27:05.840
<v Speaker 1>get through to the over eventually, and they still kind

0:27:05.840 --> 0:27:09.480
<v Speaker 1>of ovulate regularly. I will say for most women with pcos,

0:27:09.520 --> 0:27:13.480
<v Speaker 1>if they're able to ovulate regularly, then it probably isn't

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:15.680
<v Speaker 1>going to be a huge hindrance to their fertility, right.

0:27:15.760 --> 0:27:18.520
<v Speaker 1>But it's for the people that hardly get a period

0:27:18.760 --> 0:27:20.760
<v Speaker 1>or they never know when their next period's coming. It

0:27:20.760 --> 0:27:22.919
<v Speaker 1>could be every forty five days, could be up to

0:27:22.920 --> 0:27:27.040
<v Speaker 1>every seventy days. That's when it becomes really unfair and

0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:30.000
<v Speaker 1>unpredictable because you're not getting as many shots on goal

0:27:30.080 --> 0:27:32.600
<v Speaker 1>as the person with the twenty eight day ovulation, right,

0:27:33.119 --> 0:27:35.119
<v Speaker 1>And so you never know when it's going to happen.

0:27:35.840 --> 0:27:38.240
<v Speaker 1>And even if you're someone who could have sex every day, right,

0:27:38.280 --> 0:27:40.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know who those people are, but apparently they exist,

0:27:41.560 --> 0:27:43.879
<v Speaker 1>it's still not fair because you're not getting as many tries.

0:27:44.080 --> 0:27:44.280
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:47.359
<v Speaker 1>So that's probably the biggest mechanism when we think about

0:27:47.359 --> 0:27:50.720
<v Speaker 1>the link between pcos and infertility. But then you also

0:27:50.760 --> 0:27:55.840
<v Speaker 1>have this association with ovulation at sorry insulin resistance and

0:27:56.080 --> 0:27:59.239
<v Speaker 1>how that may affect in subtle ways and sometimes more

0:27:59.320 --> 0:28:03.720
<v Speaker 1>drastic ways, egg quality and the environment being more inflammatory

0:28:03.840 --> 0:28:06.760
<v Speaker 1>making it harder for an embryo to implant and stay implanted.

0:28:06.920 --> 0:28:10.280
<v Speaker 1>So there's multiple ways that this can affect fertility. But

0:28:10.359 --> 0:28:14.640
<v Speaker 1>for the person with really irregular cycles, often, yes, we'll

0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:19.399
<v Speaker 1>talk about lifestyle changes, but if you're overweight, you're not

0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 1>at your healthy set point. Yes, losing weight might make

0:28:22.400 --> 0:28:25.720
<v Speaker 1>you more sensitive to insulin, and that might reduce the

0:28:25.760 --> 0:28:28.159
<v Speaker 1>interference of the signals to the ovary and help you

0:28:28.200 --> 0:28:31.159
<v Speaker 1>to ovulate more readily, but it's often not enough, and

0:28:31.240 --> 0:28:34.480
<v Speaker 1>sometimes you do need medication, and there's a medication called letrosol.

0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:37.200
<v Speaker 1>It's a pill that basically fools your brain into thinking

0:28:37.240 --> 0:28:40.160
<v Speaker 1>there's no estrogen and it cranks out an even stronger

0:28:40.200 --> 0:28:43.240
<v Speaker 1>signal and we force the ovary to listen. But it's

0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:46.959
<v Speaker 1>frustrating for people, even though I tell them, hey, PCOS

0:28:47.040 --> 0:28:49.520
<v Speaker 1>is one of the easiest problems that I treat, because

0:28:49.520 --> 0:28:51.240
<v Speaker 1>it's not that you don't have the eggs. It's that

0:28:51.280 --> 0:28:53.000
<v Speaker 1>your body doesn't know how to access the eggs, and

0:28:53.040 --> 0:28:55.440
<v Speaker 1>we do have ways to force it to access the eggs.

0:28:55.920 --> 0:28:57.800
<v Speaker 1>But it seems really unfair that you have to take

0:28:57.800 --> 0:29:00.720
<v Speaker 1>a pill for five days, come in for an all ultrasound,

0:29:00.760 --> 0:29:03.720
<v Speaker 1>maybe some blood work to kind of gauge what's actually

0:29:03.760 --> 0:29:07.000
<v Speaker 1>happening with your body and your ovulation, and it's like,

0:29:07.320 --> 0:29:09.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, work to do something that a lot of

0:29:09.400 --> 0:29:11.800
<v Speaker 1>people take for granted, being able to on their own

0:29:11.840 --> 0:29:16.040
<v Speaker 1>track their ovulation do this without intervention. So something I'm

0:29:16.080 --> 0:29:19.280
<v Speaker 1>constantly saying to my patients with PCOS because they get

0:29:19.440 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 1>very worn down very quickly, where they're like, I just

0:29:22.360 --> 0:29:24.640
<v Speaker 1>started my journey, and I've been on this journey now

0:29:24.680 --> 0:29:27.680
<v Speaker 1>for five months, and you've made me ovulate five months

0:29:27.680 --> 0:29:31.160
<v Speaker 1>in a row. That's great, but nothing's happening. What's wrong.

0:29:31.200 --> 0:29:33.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm starting to panic. And I always explain to them

0:29:33.600 --> 0:29:37.120
<v Speaker 1>human reproduction is so inefficient. When you ovulate one egg,

0:29:37.160 --> 0:29:39.000
<v Speaker 1>it's a long shot. We all need to think about

0:29:39.000 --> 0:29:41.200
<v Speaker 1>it that way, even in our twenties, not every egg

0:29:41.320 --> 0:29:44.680
<v Speaker 1>is going to fertilize, turn into an embryo, and actually implant.

0:29:45.000 --> 0:29:47.200
<v Speaker 1>So if I'm just giving you the opportunity to release

0:29:47.200 --> 0:29:49.840
<v Speaker 1>that egg, I'm giving you, let's say, a twenty percent

0:29:49.960 --> 0:29:52.760
<v Speaker 1>chance of pregnancy each month. I'm just presenting the option.

0:29:53.480 --> 0:29:56.360
<v Speaker 1>But whether it actually all happens after the fact after

0:29:56.400 --> 0:29:58.600
<v Speaker 1>you ovulate, is largely out of our control. So it's

0:29:58.600 --> 0:30:02.400
<v Speaker 1>going to take persistence in time, and eventually if someone

0:30:02.440 --> 0:30:05.040
<v Speaker 1>gets really tired by it. We can always say, let's

0:30:05.040 --> 0:30:07.960
<v Speaker 1>bypass ovulation. You know, we can do things like IBF,

0:30:08.080 --> 0:30:10.800
<v Speaker 1>or we have to take some shots. We extract eggs,

0:30:11.080 --> 0:30:13.360
<v Speaker 1>we put the eggs and sperm together outside the body,

0:30:13.680 --> 0:30:15.560
<v Speaker 1>We put one embryo in at a time, and we

0:30:15.680 --> 0:30:18.000
<v Speaker 1>just say, forget about the ovulation piece, let's just get

0:30:18.000 --> 0:30:21.080
<v Speaker 1>you pregnant. But there's a step wise approach, and I

0:30:21.120 --> 0:30:25.800
<v Speaker 1>think it's really about educating my patients and arming them

0:30:25.840 --> 0:30:28.240
<v Speaker 1>with all of the tools to be resilient because a

0:30:28.280 --> 0:30:31.200
<v Speaker 1>lot of this is just like persistence paying off, but

0:30:31.240 --> 0:30:32.479
<v Speaker 1>you have to stay in it to win it.

0:30:32.680 --> 0:30:36.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think it's so difficult for women when you're

0:30:36.720 --> 0:30:39.680
<v Speaker 2>really trying and you just don't know when do I stop.

0:30:39.720 --> 0:30:42.000
<v Speaker 2>You always, you know with some of my friends that

0:30:42.320 --> 0:30:44.360
<v Speaker 2>you just think, well, what if this time will be

0:30:44.400 --> 0:30:46.720
<v Speaker 2>at the time totally and it's so hard for them

0:30:46.760 --> 0:30:49.320
<v Speaker 2>to know, Okay, well maybe this is the time I

0:30:49.360 --> 0:30:51.600
<v Speaker 2>should give up, like five years, ten years, however long

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:55.480
<v Speaker 2>you're trying for. It's so hard to put a stop

0:30:55.520 --> 0:30:57.600
<v Speaker 2>to it because you're always live in that hope, because

0:30:57.640 --> 0:30:59.880
<v Speaker 2>you also want to believe that your body's capable of.

0:30:59.800 --> 0:31:03.160
<v Speaker 1>That, right and I've seen such miraculous things happen. You know,

0:31:03.200 --> 0:31:05.520
<v Speaker 1>when you were asking me earlier, what are some of

0:31:05.560 --> 0:31:08.400
<v Speaker 1>your favorite fertility stories. I mean, I was talking to

0:31:08.480 --> 0:31:11.520
<v Speaker 1>one of my dear friends today. She's publicly shared her journey,

0:31:11.520 --> 0:31:12.600
<v Speaker 1>and I told her I was going to give her

0:31:12.600 --> 0:31:16.120
<v Speaker 1>a shout out. But Jordana Abram, she has her own

0:31:16.280 --> 0:31:20.280
<v Speaker 1>podcast about, you know, infertility, in her journey with infertility,

0:31:20.320 --> 0:31:24.720
<v Speaker 1>and she just had twin girls after a really harrowing

0:31:24.840 --> 0:31:29.480
<v Speaker 1>journey with infertility and pregnancy loss. And you know, she

0:31:29.680 --> 0:31:32.400
<v Speaker 1>actually kind of gave up on the idea of trying

0:31:32.400 --> 0:31:35.200
<v Speaker 1>to carry on her own and pivoted to surrogacy, and

0:31:35.240 --> 0:31:39.200
<v Speaker 1>the surrogate got pregnant, and then she wasn't even really trying,

0:31:39.560 --> 0:31:42.000
<v Speaker 1>wasn't in the midst of IVF for her own journey,

0:31:42.320 --> 0:31:45.920
<v Speaker 1>and miraculously got pregnant. So she just had two babies,

0:31:46.520 --> 0:31:49.200
<v Speaker 1>like within the span of weeks, two baby girls, and

0:31:49.200 --> 0:31:52.200
<v Speaker 1>they call I guess they're called like twibblings because they're

0:31:52.400 --> 0:31:54.640
<v Speaker 1>kind of like twins. But she carried one and the

0:31:54.640 --> 0:31:57.680
<v Speaker 1>surrogate carried the other, and it was just so fertuitous.

0:31:57.760 --> 0:32:00.680
<v Speaker 1>And it's actually why I called my books Lucky egg

0:32:00.800 --> 0:32:03.920
<v Speaker 1>is stories like this that even when the stats are

0:32:04.000 --> 0:32:06.880
<v Speaker 1>stacked against you, the odds are stacked against you, You've

0:32:06.920 --> 0:32:10.480
<v Speaker 1>tried everything. Sometimes you know, science can get you very far,

0:32:10.640 --> 0:32:12.880
<v Speaker 1>but at the end of the day, there is some serendipity,

0:32:12.920 --> 0:32:15.760
<v Speaker 1>there is some luck, and you just need one egg

0:32:15.920 --> 0:32:19.160
<v Speaker 1>to make it past all those hurdles. And despite all

0:32:19.200 --> 0:32:21.880
<v Speaker 1>of the science and the predictions, at the end of

0:32:21.880 --> 0:32:23.920
<v Speaker 1>the day, it worked for her. And I think that

0:32:24.000 --> 0:32:25.480
<v Speaker 1>those stories give a lot of hope.

0:32:25.600 --> 0:32:27.680
<v Speaker 2>They really do. I think people need to hear those

0:32:27.720 --> 0:32:29.960
<v Speaker 2>because there are so many of the other stories and

0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:32.880
<v Speaker 2>you need those little glimpses of hope that kind of

0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:35.680
<v Speaker 2>get you through the next You know, if you're doing IVF,

0:32:35.720 --> 0:32:37.560
<v Speaker 2>the next cycle and the next cycle, there's.

0:32:37.400 --> 0:32:40.200
<v Speaker 1>More than one way to get there. Yeah, And I think,

0:32:40.360 --> 0:32:42.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, while you don't always have a clear defined

0:32:42.320 --> 0:32:44.360
<v Speaker 1>path and I don't have a crystal ball, trust me,

0:32:44.400 --> 0:32:46.320
<v Speaker 1>it would make my job so much easier if I did.

0:32:46.840 --> 0:32:48.760
<v Speaker 1>I think that the key thing that I can do

0:32:48.880 --> 0:32:51.560
<v Speaker 1>is really coach and guide my patients and give them

0:32:51.560 --> 0:32:54.240
<v Speaker 1>my honest, professional opinion about when it's time to pivot,

0:32:54.680 --> 0:32:57.280
<v Speaker 1>but also leave the door open for you know, there

0:32:57.320 --> 0:32:59.520
<v Speaker 1>is no finality in all of this, Like, you can't

0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:01.920
<v Speaker 1>always pret what's going to happen. All we can do

0:33:02.000 --> 0:33:04.800
<v Speaker 1>is make the next best take the next best step

0:33:04.880 --> 0:33:06.520
<v Speaker 1>based on the information we have at hand.

0:33:06.640 --> 0:33:10.280
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I'd love to get into natural fertility for a

0:33:10.280 --> 0:33:13.280
<v Speaker 2>bit and then move on to IVF. But what would

0:33:13.320 --> 0:33:15.240
<v Speaker 2>you say, because obviously there's so many things that out

0:33:15.240 --> 0:33:17.120
<v Speaker 2>there if you should try this for fertility, and you

0:33:17.120 --> 0:33:18.960
<v Speaker 2>should be eating this and doing this. But as some

0:33:18.960 --> 0:33:21.120
<v Speaker 2>of the lifestyle changes you think that matter the most,

0:33:21.200 --> 0:33:23.880
<v Speaker 2>if there's any that you haven't already mentioned, and which

0:33:23.880 --> 0:33:26.040
<v Speaker 2>ones do you think are overrated and don't really make

0:33:26.120 --> 0:33:26.760
<v Speaker 2>much of a difference.

0:33:26.960 --> 0:33:30.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think lifestyle plays a huge role in our

0:33:30.200 --> 0:33:32.560
<v Speaker 1>general health and in our fertility. And I think the

0:33:32.600 --> 0:33:34.959
<v Speaker 1>best way to think about it is in simple terms,

0:33:35.200 --> 0:33:38.080
<v Speaker 1>whatever is better for heart health tends to be better

0:33:38.080 --> 0:33:41.000
<v Speaker 1>for your fertility. Right, So when you think about exposures

0:33:41.000 --> 0:33:44.080
<v Speaker 1>to avoid, that's the easy place to start. Smoking is

0:33:44.120 --> 0:33:46.240
<v Speaker 1>never good for fertility, right, And it's not good for

0:33:46.280 --> 0:33:48.840
<v Speaker 1>your health in general. We know that it depletes your

0:33:48.840 --> 0:33:51.200
<v Speaker 1>eggs at a faster rate, It is associated with going

0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:53.720
<v Speaker 1>into early menopause, and if you're in menopause, it means

0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:55.960
<v Speaker 1>you run below a critical threshold of eggs, you're not

0:33:56.000 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 1>able to ovulate. And if you're not ovulating, you're not

0:33:58.360 --> 0:34:01.320
<v Speaker 1>in the game. And if it's because of a quantity issue,

0:34:01.600 --> 0:34:04.080
<v Speaker 1>there isn't very much that I can do to work

0:34:04.160 --> 0:34:06.920
<v Speaker 1>around that. I need eggs to work with, right.

0:34:06.920 --> 0:34:08.440
<v Speaker 2>And you're just born with the amount of eggs that

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:09.440
<v Speaker 2>you keep the whole life.

0:34:09.280 --> 0:34:12.799
<v Speaker 1>Right, correct, and things like genetics age. We know as

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:14.680
<v Speaker 1>we get older we lose eggs at a faster rate,

0:34:14.920 --> 0:34:22.239
<v Speaker 1>but also toxic exposures including smoking, can accelerate that process. Drinking, right, alcohol,

0:34:22.600 --> 0:34:25.200
<v Speaker 1>especially the threshold that has been kind of looked at,

0:34:25.239 --> 0:34:28.680
<v Speaker 1>and the overall pattern that has been establ established is

0:34:28.719 --> 0:34:31.600
<v Speaker 1>that less than four drinks in a given week is

0:34:31.680 --> 0:34:34.439
<v Speaker 1>kind of associated with better outcomes versus more than four

0:34:34.480 --> 0:34:38.360
<v Speaker 1>drinks moderate to heavy drinking. When it comes to diet,

0:34:38.440 --> 0:34:41.919
<v Speaker 1>the best diet for fertility is usually the boring one.

0:34:42.040 --> 0:34:42.200
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:34:42.880 --> 0:34:45.399
<v Speaker 1>There are all these bad diets out there about, you know,

0:34:46.440 --> 0:34:52.359
<v Speaker 1>keto or carnivore diet. Anything that's extremely restrictive or very

0:34:52.440 --> 0:34:55.400
<v Speaker 1>one sided and doesn't involve a lot of variety is

0:34:55.440 --> 0:34:57.800
<v Speaker 1>not something that I would ever recommend to my patients.

0:34:58.239 --> 0:35:01.279
<v Speaker 1>And it's shocking how much that is pushed and recommended. Yeah,

0:35:01.280 --> 0:35:05.120
<v Speaker 1>you look online, a Mediterranean style diet is always going

0:35:05.160 --> 0:35:07.239
<v Speaker 1>to serve your health better, whether it be your heart

0:35:07.239 --> 0:35:11.040
<v Speaker 1>health or your fertility. So that means, you know, lean proteins,

0:35:11.160 --> 0:35:15.799
<v Speaker 1>healthy sources of fats like nuts, seeds, avocado, eating the

0:35:15.920 --> 0:35:18.920
<v Speaker 1>rainbow like this is such common sense stuff, but it's

0:35:18.920 --> 0:35:21.120
<v Speaker 1>actually been proven in the data that this seems to

0:35:21.160 --> 0:35:24.120
<v Speaker 1>be associated with better pregnancy rates, whether trying on your

0:35:24.160 --> 0:35:27.680
<v Speaker 1>own or looking at women who are undergoing treatment. Exercise

0:35:27.800 --> 0:35:30.480
<v Speaker 1>is so important, you know, movement is medicine and one

0:35:30.560 --> 0:35:34.160
<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty minutes of cardiovascular exercise per week, but

0:35:34.280 --> 0:35:37.680
<v Speaker 1>also resistance training and doing kind of a mix of everything.

0:35:37.680 --> 0:35:39.960
<v Speaker 1>But I think building muscle because again that makes you

0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:42.359
<v Speaker 1>more resistant to the effects of insulin, which is really

0:35:42.400 --> 0:35:46.799
<v Speaker 1>important for your overall health and fertility. Sleep we know

0:35:46.880 --> 0:35:49.880
<v Speaker 1>that if you're consistently getting less than seven hours, that

0:35:50.000 --> 0:35:53.840
<v Speaker 1>can lead to menstrual disturbances, so it's really important to

0:35:53.840 --> 0:35:56.960
<v Speaker 1>be consistent with your sleep routine. And then stress is

0:35:56.960 --> 0:35:59.319
<v Speaker 1>a big one, right I'm here to actually tell you

0:35:59.360 --> 0:36:02.080
<v Speaker 1>that the day today's stress, you know, the boardroom meeting,

0:36:02.239 --> 0:36:05.120
<v Speaker 1>that big deadline. Those aren't affecting your fertility in a

0:36:05.160 --> 0:36:07.480
<v Speaker 1>negative way, and we need to stop blaming ourselves.

0:36:07.600 --> 0:36:07.920
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:36:08.080 --> 0:36:11.400
<v Speaker 1>So many women who go through miscarriages or failed cycles

0:36:11.520 --> 0:36:14.200
<v Speaker 1>or they're not getting pregnant trying on their own, they'll

0:36:14.239 --> 0:36:17.360
<v Speaker 1>often say, you know, I really need to clean up

0:36:17.400 --> 0:36:19.800
<v Speaker 1>my lifestyle. I need to like clear my life of stress.

0:36:19.840 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 1>And I just think that that is a losing battle.

0:36:22.480 --> 0:36:25.480
<v Speaker 1>You know, living a stress free life is not really

0:36:25.719 --> 0:36:29.839
<v Speaker 1>the goal. I think it's about setting up coping mechanisms

0:36:30.160 --> 0:36:33.080
<v Speaker 1>and being able to build resilience so that you can

0:36:33.080 --> 0:36:36.640
<v Speaker 1>handle stress effectively and that you don't have unhealthy coping mechanisms.

0:36:36.640 --> 0:36:37.479
<v Speaker 1>That's really the key.

0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 2>I think, even though you said, oh, you know, it's

0:36:40.239 --> 0:36:43.120
<v Speaker 2>all the basic things that we already know. Even if

0:36:43.160 --> 0:36:46.480
<v Speaker 2>it is basic, it's so needed to be reminded of

0:36:46.520 --> 0:36:49.600
<v Speaker 2>every single day, because yes, of course we're told eating vegetables,

0:36:49.600 --> 0:36:51.359
<v Speaker 2>but all we eat all vegetables, And yeah, we're told

0:36:51.400 --> 0:36:53.920
<v Speaker 2>to exercise for this many hours, but are we actually

0:36:54.000 --> 0:36:55.840
<v Speaker 2>doing it right? A lot of the time, it's the

0:36:55.880 --> 0:36:58.719
<v Speaker 2>simple stuff that people struggle with the most. Right is

0:36:59.040 --> 0:37:02.480
<v Speaker 2>getting a takeaway and eating something deep fried might be

0:37:02.600 --> 0:37:05.600
<v Speaker 2>a lot more convenient but all we thinking on a

0:37:05.680 --> 0:37:08.720
<v Speaker 2>daily basis about our hot health, are we thinking about

0:37:08.760 --> 0:37:12.880
<v Speaker 2>all fertility and so yes, it sounds really simple, but

0:37:13.040 --> 0:37:15.160
<v Speaker 2>if we actually affect on it. Sometimes I think we

0:37:15.239 --> 0:37:17.239
<v Speaker 2>hear things over and over again, but oh we've heard that,

0:37:17.280 --> 0:37:18.279
<v Speaker 2>but all we actually doing it?

0:37:18.360 --> 0:37:21.360
<v Speaker 1>No, and there's opposite advice out there. R exactly the

0:37:21.440 --> 0:37:23.960
<v Speaker 1>number of times I've sat across my desk from a

0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:27.440
<v Speaker 1>couple and you know, either partner will be like, well,

0:37:27.640 --> 0:37:31.240
<v Speaker 1>he or she exercises five days a week, and I'm like, bravo,

0:37:31.360 --> 0:37:34.720
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a good thing. But there is this narrative still,

0:37:34.840 --> 0:37:37.600
<v Speaker 1>and I feel like this was a really really prevalent

0:37:37.719 --> 0:37:40.759
<v Speaker 1>narrative like ten twenty years ago, that when women are

0:37:40.760 --> 0:37:43.080
<v Speaker 1>trying to get pregnant they should be treating their bodies

0:37:43.120 --> 0:37:45.799
<v Speaker 1>so delicately, and especially when you are pregnant, oh god

0:37:45.840 --> 0:37:49.160
<v Speaker 1>forbid you exercise. I think we're moving away from that,

0:37:49.320 --> 0:37:52.440
<v Speaker 1>and now it's understood that, you know, our bodies are amazing,

0:37:52.600 --> 0:37:55.239
<v Speaker 1>and when you are pregnant, it's actually advised that you

0:37:55.280 --> 0:37:58.960
<v Speaker 1>should exercise regularly. But there's still this idea of like, well,

0:37:59.160 --> 0:38:03.279
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to toast you too much exercise and

0:38:03.320 --> 0:38:06.440
<v Speaker 1>that's actually bad advice. You know, being sedentary is actually

0:38:06.480 --> 0:38:08.239
<v Speaker 1>so bad for our health, and it's not great for

0:38:08.280 --> 0:38:11.840
<v Speaker 1>our fertility either. So movement is good. Movement is medicine,

0:38:11.880 --> 0:38:13.839
<v Speaker 1>and we shouldn't be afraid of it. I mean there

0:38:13.880 --> 0:38:17.080
<v Speaker 1>are extremes. You know, if someone's training for the Olympics

0:38:17.840 --> 0:38:21.520
<v Speaker 1>and in combination, you know, eating very little and there's

0:38:21.560 --> 0:38:23.879
<v Speaker 1>a major imbalance in the amount of energy they're taking

0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:27.080
<v Speaker 1>in and what they're expending. That can affect your fertility

0:38:27.120 --> 0:38:29.640
<v Speaker 1>because it can shut down ovulation. It's almost like your

0:38:29.680 --> 0:38:32.200
<v Speaker 1>brain is saying, we're too stressed out, we don't have

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:34.640
<v Speaker 1>enough resources to just keep you alive, Like we're not

0:38:34.760 --> 0:38:38.239
<v Speaker 1>going to shunt energy towards ovulation because we don't want

0:38:38.280 --> 0:38:41.480
<v Speaker 1>to support a baby right now. That's a very extreme example.

0:38:41.640 --> 0:38:44.520
<v Speaker 1>But for someone who's exercising three to five days a week,

0:38:44.840 --> 0:38:46.880
<v Speaker 1>that's a good thing and we shouldn't be afraid of that.

0:38:47.120 --> 0:38:51.560
<v Speaker 2>And should women be avoiding high intensity exercises during the

0:38:51.560 --> 0:38:52.880
<v Speaker 2>prices of trying to get pregnant.

0:38:53.040 --> 0:38:55.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. I think exercise is better than

0:38:55.840 --> 0:38:59.839
<v Speaker 1>no exercise. Maybe, you know, in early pregnancy, it's not

0:39:00.080 --> 0:39:02.000
<v Speaker 1>lies to be like, now's a great time to take

0:39:02.040 --> 0:39:04.640
<v Speaker 1>up CrossFit. You know, I've never worked out before, but

0:39:04.680 --> 0:39:07.359
<v Speaker 1>now I'm gonna enjoin the CrossFit cults. Like I don't

0:39:07.440 --> 0:39:11.160
<v Speaker 1>necessarily think that's a good idea, but that's because physiologically,

0:39:11.520 --> 0:39:14.320
<v Speaker 1>in the early steps of pregnancy, especially in the first trimester,

0:39:14.400 --> 0:39:16.759
<v Speaker 1>your body is adjusting and you have a lot of

0:39:16.800 --> 0:39:19.680
<v Speaker 1>progesterone and that can cause your ligaments to be more

0:39:19.680 --> 0:39:21.640
<v Speaker 1>relaxed and you're more prone to injuries. So I always

0:39:21.680 --> 0:39:24.160
<v Speaker 1>tell patients to be careful when they're doing new things

0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:26.920
<v Speaker 1>or easing back into an exercise routine. But the earlier

0:39:26.960 --> 0:39:29.080
<v Speaker 1>you get back into it, the easier it is. I

0:39:29.120 --> 0:39:32.040
<v Speaker 1>think the longer you go without exercise, it's easier to

0:39:32.040 --> 0:39:34.279
<v Speaker 1>become deconditioned, and it's much harder to kind of pick

0:39:34.320 --> 0:39:35.600
<v Speaker 1>up in the second and third trimester.

0:39:35.960 --> 0:39:38.920
<v Speaker 2>Because I always hear about how for women, you know,

0:39:39.200 --> 0:39:44.760
<v Speaker 2>especially recently Expects saying avoid any woman should be avoiding

0:39:44.840 --> 0:39:47.440
<v Speaker 2>high intensity training because it really throws off your hormones

0:39:47.480 --> 0:39:49.840
<v Speaker 2>and your courts all. And I guess I was wondering,

0:39:49.960 --> 0:39:53.120
<v Speaker 2>what is too intense exactly? Is it breaking a sweat

0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:55.920
<v Speaker 2>like she's breaking a sweat? Should we not be out

0:39:55.960 --> 0:39:58.000
<v Speaker 2>of breath when we're walking out by now it's really

0:39:58.080 --> 0:40:00.439
<v Speaker 2>hard because then as soon as you're told that, yeah,

0:40:00.520 --> 0:40:02.640
<v Speaker 2>you think, oh so I should stick to pelosis, Yeah,

0:40:02.560 --> 0:40:03.880
<v Speaker 2>stick to going on wolves.

0:40:03.960 --> 0:40:06.960
<v Speaker 1>No, you need to work your heart out right. And

0:40:07.080 --> 0:40:09.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't think when people are I think when people

0:40:09.320 --> 0:40:13.160
<v Speaker 1>are saying that, what they're really referring to is like

0:40:13.280 --> 0:40:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Olympic level training, like where you're really doing something repetitive

0:40:17.920 --> 0:40:20.359
<v Speaker 1>and it's not in balance. But I think for someone

0:40:20.400 --> 0:40:22.520
<v Speaker 1>who's just like I want to go for a run

0:40:22.600 --> 0:40:24.880
<v Speaker 1>for half an hour to an hour a day, not

0:40:24.920 --> 0:40:27.200
<v Speaker 1>only is that so good for your physical health and

0:40:27.239 --> 0:40:30.080
<v Speaker 1>your fertility, but it's also great for your mental health too.

0:40:30.480 --> 0:40:32.960
<v Speaker 1>So this narrative of women, you know they're going through

0:40:32.960 --> 0:40:36.000
<v Speaker 1>fertility treatments or they're trying on their own, and now

0:40:36.040 --> 0:40:38.799
<v Speaker 1>maybe they're in early pregnancy, and telling them to be

0:40:38.880 --> 0:40:41.680
<v Speaker 1>so careful and that they are these delicate beings and

0:40:41.680 --> 0:40:44.279
<v Speaker 1>they shouldn't be exercising, it's doing a major disservice to

0:40:44.320 --> 0:40:47.520
<v Speaker 1>them because it's not actually rooted in scientific evidence. We

0:40:47.600 --> 0:40:50.640
<v Speaker 1>know the scientific evidence actually is saying it's better to

0:40:50.640 --> 0:40:53.640
<v Speaker 1>be someone that exercises regularly. But I think it's a

0:40:53.760 --> 0:40:57.240
<v Speaker 1>huge problem when it comes to taking away a tool

0:40:57.320 --> 0:40:59.160
<v Speaker 1>that so many use for their mental health.

0:40:59.280 --> 0:41:01.680
<v Speaker 2>Yes, and if you think about it tribally, like even

0:41:01.680 --> 0:41:03.960
<v Speaker 2>if you go back culturally, back in the day, women

0:41:04.040 --> 0:41:07.479
<v Speaker 2>were grinding, like, they were really out there. They were

0:41:07.600 --> 0:41:09.879
<v Speaker 2>picking the they were picking the fruits, they were going out,

0:41:09.920 --> 0:41:10.720
<v Speaker 2>they were foraging.

0:41:10.719 --> 0:41:13.720
<v Speaker 1>They were doing so much, not working desk jobs.

0:41:13.840 --> 0:41:16.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly, they were sitting around for that long. So

0:41:16.880 --> 0:41:19.040
<v Speaker 2>I imagine moving your body. All you're really doing is

0:41:19.040 --> 0:41:21.200
<v Speaker 2>a one hour to maybe two hours.

0:41:21.000 --> 0:41:24.560
<v Speaker 1>Work, counteracting all of the sedentary other hours of the day.

0:41:25.360 --> 0:41:27.880
<v Speaker 1>It's really important. I'm here to say that that's not

0:41:27.960 --> 0:41:28.279
<v Speaker 1>a thing.

0:41:28.400 --> 0:41:32.480
<v Speaker 2>Okay, good to know. Are there any foods that you

0:41:32.600 --> 0:41:37.040
<v Speaker 2>recommend when someone is starting to try and get pregnant.

0:41:37.120 --> 0:41:38.400
<v Speaker 2>Are there any foods that you're like, you know what,

0:41:38.400 --> 0:41:41.040
<v Speaker 2>this has actually been found to really help on this

0:41:41.160 --> 0:41:43.680
<v Speaker 2>journey or is it generally just the Mediterranean diet.

0:41:43.800 --> 0:41:46.600
<v Speaker 1>It's more the pattern of eating there isn't. I think

0:41:46.600 --> 0:41:48.840
<v Speaker 1>one of the biggest fertility myths is that there's this

0:41:48.920 --> 0:41:52.759
<v Speaker 1>set formula, whether it be a superfood or you know,

0:41:52.800 --> 0:41:55.800
<v Speaker 1>a particular set of supplements that are guaranteed to reverse

0:41:55.800 --> 0:41:58.120
<v Speaker 1>the biological clock or a guarantee that you're going to

0:41:58.120 --> 0:42:00.319
<v Speaker 1>get pregnant faster than the next person that's not doing

0:42:00.320 --> 0:42:03.240
<v Speaker 1>those things. That's not true, right, There isn't a single

0:42:03.280 --> 0:42:05.680
<v Speaker 1>thing that falls within that bucket. I think it's more

0:42:05.680 --> 0:42:08.680
<v Speaker 1>of a dietary pattern. I think variety is always good,

0:42:09.560 --> 0:42:13.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, when you think about the major top nutrients,

0:42:13.320 --> 0:42:16.560
<v Speaker 1>like folate is really important from leafy green vegetables. We

0:42:16.600 --> 0:42:19.080
<v Speaker 1>also say to take folic acid as part of your

0:42:19.080 --> 0:42:23.080
<v Speaker 1>prenatal vitamin because it's actually very important for preventing a

0:42:23.080 --> 0:42:25.880
<v Speaker 1>certain type of birth defect that affects the spinal canal.

0:42:26.160 --> 0:42:27.880
<v Speaker 1>And that's why a lot of the American diet is

0:42:27.880 --> 0:42:32.520
<v Speaker 1>actually fortified with fullic acid. But taking you know, folate

0:42:32.600 --> 0:42:34.960
<v Speaker 1>through diet as well as a follic acid in your

0:42:35.000 --> 0:42:39.719
<v Speaker 1>supplement Omega threes. These are fatty acids, healthy sources of

0:42:39.760 --> 0:42:42.319
<v Speaker 1>fats that you don't produce naturally in your body, and

0:42:42.360 --> 0:42:46.520
<v Speaker 1>you can get them from nuts, seeds, salmon. It's anti

0:42:46.560 --> 0:42:49.600
<v Speaker 1>inflammatory and it is known to be better for fertility

0:42:49.680 --> 0:42:50.880
<v Speaker 1>and for pregnancy health.

0:42:51.080 --> 0:42:54.600
<v Speaker 2>Anify greens for the pholin and healthy fats exactly.

0:42:55.000 --> 0:42:57.400
<v Speaker 1>And then iron, I would say iron and protein are

0:42:57.440 --> 0:42:59.960
<v Speaker 1>really important as well. There are many people that are

0:43:00.120 --> 0:43:03.040
<v Speaker 1>undiagnosed with iron deficiency and there can be an association

0:43:03.239 --> 0:43:05.359
<v Speaker 1>with it making it harder to get pregnant. So it's

0:43:05.360 --> 0:43:07.000
<v Speaker 1>something that I screen all my patients.

0:43:06.800 --> 0:43:10.080
<v Speaker 2>Especially in all culture iron and I just had got

0:43:10.320 --> 0:43:12.280
<v Speaker 2>some of my block tests back and I was like, oh,

0:43:12.320 --> 0:43:15.520
<v Speaker 2>my iron has gotten so low. Iron invismin dy Yeah,

0:43:15.600 --> 0:43:17.239
<v Speaker 2>like every time I stopped taking it.

0:43:17.239 --> 0:43:19.680
<v Speaker 1>It just do you live in LA I don't want

0:43:19.680 --> 0:43:21.640
<v Speaker 1>to know what my vidy swinter.

0:43:22.280 --> 0:43:23.520
<v Speaker 2>I really need to get back to it. So I

0:43:23.560 --> 0:43:27.120
<v Speaker 2>took my IES supplement this morning for you. I wanted

0:43:27.120 --> 0:43:31.680
<v Speaker 2>to ask about supplements because you just mentioned them prenatals.

0:43:31.800 --> 0:43:35.000
<v Speaker 2>Do you have anyones that you recommend and what's your

0:43:35.200 --> 0:43:35.759
<v Speaker 2>view on them?

0:43:36.120 --> 0:43:38.719
<v Speaker 1>So I try to stay away from recommending any particular

0:43:38.760 --> 0:43:41.480
<v Speaker 1>brand as a doctor, Okay, okay, because I think it's

0:43:41.480 --> 0:43:43.760
<v Speaker 1>important for me to not be biased in that regard.

0:43:43.840 --> 0:43:47.080
<v Speaker 1>But always, you know, I think one that contains fulloic acid.

0:43:47.440 --> 0:43:50.160
<v Speaker 1>If you go to the American College of Obgyn website,

0:43:50.160 --> 0:43:53.799
<v Speaker 1>there's actually a list of nutrients and amounts of nutrients

0:43:53.840 --> 0:43:56.360
<v Speaker 1>that are the daily recommended amount for women who are

0:43:56.400 --> 0:43:58.920
<v Speaker 1>trying to get pregnant or in the first trimester, and

0:43:58.960 --> 0:44:02.000
<v Speaker 1>so whether you're getting that for diet or from supplementation,

0:44:02.400 --> 0:44:04.440
<v Speaker 1>I think it doesn't matter how you're doing it, but

0:44:04.480 --> 0:44:06.239
<v Speaker 1>it's really important to try to hit on all of

0:44:06.239 --> 0:44:11.759
<v Speaker 1>those major vitamins and micronutrients. When you think about other

0:44:11.840 --> 0:44:14.680
<v Speaker 1>supplements that have been looked at, first of all, correcting

0:44:14.719 --> 0:44:17.439
<v Speaker 1>any known deficiencies. We already talked about it a little

0:44:17.440 --> 0:44:20.360
<v Speaker 1>bit like iron. Vitamin D is another one that plays

0:44:20.640 --> 0:44:24.319
<v Speaker 1>an essential role in many aspects of human reproduction as

0:44:24.360 --> 0:44:27.239
<v Speaker 1>well as early pregnancy health, and so many of us

0:44:27.280 --> 0:44:30.960
<v Speaker 1>are vitamin D deficient. So I would say start by

0:44:30.960 --> 0:44:33.680
<v Speaker 1>correcting deficiencies. You know, if you have a B twelve deficiency.

0:44:33.719 --> 0:44:35.640
<v Speaker 1>A lot of times the earliest sign of these things

0:44:35.719 --> 0:44:38.560
<v Speaker 1>is looking at a complete blood count and seeing, okay,

0:44:38.560 --> 0:44:41.000
<v Speaker 1>some of your levels are off, and you can indicate

0:44:41.400 --> 0:44:44.200
<v Speaker 1>whether you know whether that's actually causing anemia or whether

0:44:44.200 --> 0:44:47.120
<v Speaker 1>there's just subtle changes in your complete blood count that

0:44:47.160 --> 0:44:50.120
<v Speaker 1>may lead down a further line of investigation to say, hey,

0:44:50.200 --> 0:44:53.600
<v Speaker 1>are you deficient in fold eate vitamin B twelve? Are

0:44:53.600 --> 0:44:56.880
<v Speaker 1>these things that we can correct with supplementation or changes

0:44:56.880 --> 0:45:00.680
<v Speaker 1>in your diet. Coenzyme Q ten is probably one of

0:45:00.719 --> 0:45:04.520
<v Speaker 1>the more studied vitamins when we think about supplements for

0:45:04.920 --> 0:45:09.360
<v Speaker 1>fertility and it's an antioxidant. It doesn't have the perfect

0:45:09.400 --> 0:45:12.719
<v Speaker 1>data that I would love to recommend it wholeheartedly, but

0:45:12.880 --> 0:45:16.480
<v Speaker 1>it definitely has a pretty favorable side effect profile, doesn't

0:45:16.480 --> 0:45:18.759
<v Speaker 1>seem to have a lot of interactions with medications or

0:45:18.800 --> 0:45:23.040
<v Speaker 1>major side effects, and there are some pretty well designed studies,

0:45:23.200 --> 0:45:26.360
<v Speaker 1>large scale studies that have shown a relationship between taking

0:45:26.400 --> 0:45:29.640
<v Speaker 1>six hundred milligrams of coenz im Q tena day and

0:45:30.000 --> 0:45:33.359
<v Speaker 1>higher pregnancy rates and women undergoing treatment. So it's specifically

0:45:33.640 --> 0:45:35.600
<v Speaker 1>been looked at for a lot of women who may

0:45:35.600 --> 0:45:38.280
<v Speaker 1>be older or are dealing with diminished to varying reserve.

0:45:38.840 --> 0:45:40.520
<v Speaker 1>But it's not the end albeit at all, And it's

0:45:40.520 --> 0:45:42.160
<v Speaker 1>not something that I'm like, this isn't going to work

0:45:42.200 --> 0:45:45.080
<v Speaker 1>if you don't take this, But it's probably got the

0:45:45.080 --> 0:45:47.520
<v Speaker 1>most evidence behind it versus some of the others. And

0:45:47.560 --> 0:45:50.520
<v Speaker 1>in my book, I have a whole table where and

0:45:50.560 --> 0:45:53.480
<v Speaker 1>this was the chapter that the writing almost killed me

0:45:53.560 --> 0:45:57.120
<v Speaker 1>because it's really depressing as a doctor, as someone who's

0:45:57.120 --> 0:46:00.719
<v Speaker 1>scientifically minded to comb through so much bad data, you know,

0:46:00.719 --> 0:46:02.480
<v Speaker 1>I was just like, I can't believe this is touted

0:46:02.480 --> 0:46:05.000
<v Speaker 1>to be like the end all, be it all of supplements. Meanwhile,

0:46:05.000 --> 0:46:08.040
<v Speaker 1>there's like hardly any human studies, right, So this table

0:46:08.120 --> 0:46:10.440
<v Speaker 1>goes through all of the different types of supplements that

0:46:10.480 --> 0:46:12.919
<v Speaker 1>have generated any buzz when it comes to improving male

0:46:13.000 --> 0:46:16.360
<v Speaker 1>or female fertility, And I put, how is this proposed

0:46:16.400 --> 0:46:18.719
<v Speaker 1>to actually help? Because a lot of people are taking

0:46:18.800 --> 0:46:21.480
<v Speaker 1>these things without even knowing what is today the proposed benefit.

0:46:21.960 --> 0:46:25.399
<v Speaker 1>What is the typical dosage that's been taken and recommended.

0:46:25.680 --> 0:46:28.239
<v Speaker 1>What do the studies actually show a lot of the

0:46:28.280 --> 0:46:32.520
<v Speaker 1>studies shown really little effect, or you know, are really

0:46:32.520 --> 0:46:35.359
<v Speaker 1>poorly designed or have really small numbers. So when you

0:46:35.400 --> 0:46:37.799
<v Speaker 1>actually look through it, I think that that gives you

0:46:37.920 --> 0:46:41.680
<v Speaker 1>the necessary context and information to make informed decisions. I

0:46:41.719 --> 0:46:44.080
<v Speaker 1>will say, there isn't one single supplement that I'm like,

0:46:44.160 --> 0:46:46.239
<v Speaker 1>this is vital and if you don't take it, you

0:46:46.280 --> 0:46:48.759
<v Speaker 1>know your fertility is going to be doomed. That just

0:46:48.960 --> 0:46:50.120
<v Speaker 1>isn't a thing in my field.

0:46:50.320 --> 0:46:52.520
<v Speaker 2>Okay, good to know. I think that'll help with other people.

0:46:52.840 --> 0:46:53.839
<v Speaker 2>Do that ease about it?

0:46:53.960 --> 0:46:54.160
<v Speaker 1>Yes?

0:46:54.440 --> 0:46:56.560
<v Speaker 2>I definitely move on to egg freezing, and then we

0:46:56.719 --> 0:47:00.239
<v Speaker 2>mentioned it earlier. But first of all, there's obviously egg

0:47:00.239 --> 0:47:03.719
<v Speaker 2>freezing and then there is embryo freezing. Now, are is

0:47:03.760 --> 0:47:05.719
<v Speaker 2>it two different processes that a woman has to go

0:47:05.800 --> 0:47:07.880
<v Speaker 2>through or is it pretty much the same process that

0:47:08.160 --> 0:47:09.120
<v Speaker 2>both in tail.

0:47:09.160 --> 0:47:12.359
<v Speaker 1>So it's same, it looks same for the female partner. Okay,

0:47:13.000 --> 0:47:14.880
<v Speaker 1>So the first step to egg or embryo freezing, and

0:47:14.880 --> 0:47:16.799
<v Speaker 1>these are the two methods that we know of that

0:47:17.160 --> 0:47:20.320
<v Speaker 1>are effective at trying to preserve someone's fertility for the future.

0:47:20.880 --> 0:47:23.320
<v Speaker 1>The first step looks the same and it involves trying

0:47:23.320 --> 0:47:26.480
<v Speaker 1>to go in and capture a bunch of eggs, basically

0:47:26.520 --> 0:47:29.680
<v Speaker 1>salvaging them. Remember I said at the beginning that there's

0:47:29.719 --> 0:47:32.200
<v Speaker 1>a stockpile of eggs that you're born with. At any

0:47:32.280 --> 0:47:35.000
<v Speaker 1>given time point, only a very limited subset of eggs

0:47:35.080 --> 0:47:37.720
<v Speaker 1>are allowed to escape from that pantry, so to speak.

0:47:37.800 --> 0:47:39.719
<v Speaker 1>And it's almost like rationing. That's why I use the

0:47:39.760 --> 0:47:42.440
<v Speaker 1>word pantry, because it's like your body allows you to

0:47:43.200 --> 0:47:46.040
<v Speaker 1>release only as many as you can afford to release.

0:47:46.080 --> 0:47:48.000
<v Speaker 1>So earlier in your life, when you have more in

0:47:48.000 --> 0:47:50.000
<v Speaker 1>your stockpil, you bring more to the surface, and later

0:47:50.040 --> 0:47:52.319
<v Speaker 1>in life when you have less than your stockpile. Because

0:47:52.320 --> 0:47:54.880
<v Speaker 1>we don't make new eggs over time, you can't regenerate eggs,

0:47:55.120 --> 0:47:57.360
<v Speaker 1>then you bring fewer to the surface. Now, when I

0:47:57.400 --> 0:47:59.160
<v Speaker 1>do an ultrasound on someone and I'm looking at through

0:47:59.160 --> 0:48:01.239
<v Speaker 1>ovaries and I'm counting those bubbles of fluid that we

0:48:01.239 --> 0:48:03.839
<v Speaker 1>call follicles, those are the eggs that we're pulled out

0:48:03.880 --> 0:48:07.640
<v Speaker 1>of the stockpile, and so counting them only matters if

0:48:07.680 --> 0:48:10.080
<v Speaker 1>you're going through a process like an egg retrieval for

0:48:10.239 --> 0:48:14.200
<v Speaker 1>fertility preservation or for IVF to overcome in fertility, And

0:48:14.719 --> 0:48:18.000
<v Speaker 1>the first step is taking shots. The shots that you

0:48:18.120 --> 0:48:22.120
<v Speaker 1>take for eight to ten days approximately are mimicking that

0:48:22.120 --> 0:48:24.759
<v Speaker 1>same signal your brain sends to the ovary to get

0:48:24.800 --> 0:48:27.520
<v Speaker 1>one of them to normally mature and then later ovulate.

0:48:28.040 --> 0:48:30.320
<v Speaker 1>But we have you take those shots at a slightly

0:48:30.360 --> 0:48:33.719
<v Speaker 1>higher level in an effort to select everything that's been

0:48:33.760 --> 0:48:36.239
<v Speaker 1>pulled out of the stockpile. So the first step is

0:48:36.280 --> 0:48:38.719
<v Speaker 1>you want to mature them. And just like when you

0:48:38.920 --> 0:48:41.960
<v Speaker 1>have a banana that ripens, it's easier to appeel. When

0:48:42.000 --> 0:48:44.880
<v Speaker 1>a follicle becomes larger, the egg inside of it is

0:48:44.920 --> 0:48:47.400
<v Speaker 1>more likely to be mature and capable of being fertilized

0:48:47.400 --> 0:48:50.560
<v Speaker 1>by sperm one day. So we're bringing you in during

0:48:50.560 --> 0:48:52.120
<v Speaker 1>the course of these eight to ten days of shots,

0:48:52.160 --> 0:48:54.480
<v Speaker 1>which you're typically taking at home on your own or

0:48:54.560 --> 0:48:56.800
<v Speaker 1>the help of a nurse. Right, and then you're coming

0:48:56.840 --> 0:48:59.879
<v Speaker 1>in for periodic monitoring visits. These are usually done early

0:48:59.880 --> 0:49:01.359
<v Speaker 1>in the morning so that we can get same day

0:49:01.360 --> 0:49:04.279
<v Speaker 1>results where we're doing a scan and blood work, engaging

0:49:04.320 --> 0:49:07.359
<v Speaker 1>how is your body responding, And at a certain point

0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:09.000
<v Speaker 1>we'll say, Okay, it looks as good as it can

0:49:09.040 --> 0:49:11.279
<v Speaker 1>possibly get. I think we're going to capture as many

0:49:11.280 --> 0:49:13.480
<v Speaker 1>of the eggs as we can. Let's go in and

0:49:13.520 --> 0:49:15.880
<v Speaker 1>get them out. And that is a very minor procedure.

0:49:16.040 --> 0:49:18.280
<v Speaker 1>It takes ten minutes or less. You're put to sleep

0:49:18.320 --> 0:49:22.160
<v Speaker 1>with light sedation through an IV. An antithesiologist is watching

0:49:22.239 --> 0:49:25.279
<v Speaker 1>the entire time, and all we're doing is if this

0:49:25.360 --> 0:49:27.799
<v Speaker 1>is the vaginal canal going to the uterus, right, the

0:49:27.840 --> 0:49:31.880
<v Speaker 1>ovaries sit very low down on either side. Under ultrasound guidance,

0:49:31.960 --> 0:49:33.920
<v Speaker 1>we kind of angle the ultrasound this way and we

0:49:34.000 --> 0:49:36.840
<v Speaker 1>use a long, thin needle. Under ultrasound guidance, we're basically

0:49:36.920 --> 0:49:39.600
<v Speaker 1>popping each bubble and just draining the fluid to pick

0:49:39.680 --> 0:49:42.239
<v Speaker 1>up the egg from each one on either side. So

0:49:42.280 --> 0:49:44.640
<v Speaker 1>there's no incisions on your abdomen. This is not a

0:49:44.680 --> 0:49:47.319
<v Speaker 1>major surgery, and you wake up in the recovery room.

0:49:47.360 --> 0:49:49.920
<v Speaker 1>And I'm speaking from experience having gone through this. I

0:49:49.920 --> 0:49:52.719
<v Speaker 1>did embryo freezing with my husband at thirty four. I

0:49:52.760 --> 0:49:54.439
<v Speaker 1>woke up in the recovery room like I can't believe

0:49:54.440 --> 0:49:56.160
<v Speaker 1>it's over, you know, And it felt like the best

0:49:56.239 --> 0:49:58.480
<v Speaker 1>nap of my life. I woke up crampy, kind of tired,

0:49:58.560 --> 0:50:02.240
<v Speaker 1>went home and slept for five six And that day

0:50:02.400 --> 0:50:04.640
<v Speaker 1>they can take the eggs out and we can either

0:50:04.680 --> 0:50:07.040
<v Speaker 1>freeze them as eggs, which are as single cells, so

0:50:07.080 --> 0:50:09.600
<v Speaker 1>you can actually test the quality. You can just know, hey,

0:50:09.640 --> 0:50:12.439
<v Speaker 1>I have some mature eggs, okay, and you can freeze them.

0:50:12.840 --> 0:50:14.640
<v Speaker 1>Or if you have a partner or you want to

0:50:14.640 --> 0:50:17.240
<v Speaker 1>do this with a sperm donor, we can take sperm

0:50:17.280 --> 0:50:19.239
<v Speaker 1>and we can inseminate those eggs. We can put them

0:50:19.239 --> 0:50:22.080
<v Speaker 1>with the eggs and fertilize them, let them grow for

0:50:22.160 --> 0:50:25.920
<v Speaker 1>a week. And as they're growing, they're separating into two

0:50:25.960 --> 0:50:28.200
<v Speaker 1>cell types, cells that become the baby and cells that

0:50:28.239 --> 0:50:30.360
<v Speaker 1>would one day become the placenta. That's an embryo that

0:50:30.400 --> 0:50:32.680
<v Speaker 1>in plants. We can even remove some of those outer

0:50:32.680 --> 0:50:34.640
<v Speaker 1>cells and send them off for genetic testing or not

0:50:35.040 --> 0:50:37.800
<v Speaker 1>and freeze them at the embryo stage. But embryos you

0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:41.120
<v Speaker 1>can assess the quality because you can do that genetic testing. Okay,

0:50:41.480 --> 0:50:43.719
<v Speaker 1>you know that anyone can have an embryo form from

0:50:43.760 --> 0:50:46.040
<v Speaker 1>their eggs, even in their twenties that has missing or

0:50:46.040 --> 0:50:48.960
<v Speaker 1>extra DNA. These are typos and errors that happen as

0:50:49.000 --> 0:50:51.359
<v Speaker 1>part of human biology, and they become more prevalent as

0:50:51.360 --> 0:50:55.280
<v Speaker 1>we get older. But that's the advantage of embryo freezing

0:50:55.400 --> 0:50:57.880
<v Speaker 1>is that you're further along in the process. Not every

0:50:57.880 --> 0:51:01.120
<v Speaker 1>egg that you eventually saw fertilize and try to turn

0:51:01.160 --> 0:51:04.400
<v Speaker 1>into an embryo. We'll get there, because again, human reproduction

0:51:04.520 --> 0:51:08.120
<v Speaker 1>is inefficient, and that inefficiency isn't magically solid for just

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:10.040
<v Speaker 1>because you're doing this high tech process. So when you

0:51:10.040 --> 0:51:12.719
<v Speaker 1>think about freezing eggs, I wouldn't even call it an

0:51:12.760 --> 0:51:14.960
<v Speaker 1>insurance policy or a backup plan. I would call it

0:51:15.080 --> 0:51:17.680
<v Speaker 1>a head start if and should you ever need IVF

0:51:17.719 --> 0:51:20.040
<v Speaker 1>in the future. How lovely is it to be able

0:51:20.080 --> 0:51:22.319
<v Speaker 1>to say, well, we have a larger cohort of eggs

0:51:22.320 --> 0:51:24.000
<v Speaker 1>and what I'm typically going to be able to get

0:51:24.000 --> 0:51:26.320
<v Speaker 1>in one round of effort now at this older age,

0:51:26.560 --> 0:51:29.440
<v Speaker 1>and they should have a higher conversion rate from eggs

0:51:29.480 --> 0:51:31.839
<v Speaker 1>to healthy embryos because they were from when you were

0:51:31.880 --> 0:51:35.120
<v Speaker 1>in your twenties or early thirties versus now, And so

0:51:35.680 --> 0:51:38.040
<v Speaker 1>it's not to say every egg will be guaranteed to

0:51:38.080 --> 0:51:41.520
<v Speaker 1>be successful. So having enough eggs based on the age

0:51:41.560 --> 0:51:43.440
<v Speaker 1>you are when you freeze your eggs is really essential.

0:51:43.480 --> 0:51:45.400
<v Speaker 1>And there's a lot of unknowns that you're willing to

0:51:45.480 --> 0:51:48.480
<v Speaker 1>accept for flexibility though, because you can come back and

0:51:48.560 --> 0:51:51.319
<v Speaker 1>use those eggs with whichever partner once you turn them

0:51:51.320 --> 0:51:53.359
<v Speaker 1>into embryos, you're not able to undo that, so you're

0:51:53.440 --> 0:51:54.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of committed.

0:51:54.520 --> 0:51:56.120
<v Speaker 2>So you make it sounding much more of an easier

0:51:56.160 --> 0:51:58.560
<v Speaker 2>process than I feel, because so many of my friends

0:51:58.560 --> 0:52:01.640
<v Speaker 2>have been considering it. But I'm not sure, and it

0:52:01.640 --> 0:52:04.200
<v Speaker 2>feels like a scary process. But it's essentially a fifteen

0:52:04.280 --> 0:52:06.600
<v Speaker 2>day ish period that you're going through.

0:52:07.000 --> 0:52:08.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I don't want to sugarcoat it. I mean,

0:52:09.080 --> 0:52:11.319
<v Speaker 1>was it the most favorite thing that I ever did?

0:52:11.440 --> 0:52:11.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:52:11.840 --> 0:52:14.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean you feel bloated, You definitely have some side effects.

0:52:15.000 --> 0:52:17.719
<v Speaker 1>You have some cramps even a few days after the procedure,

0:52:18.120 --> 0:52:20.560
<v Speaker 1>but it's not the months and months of shots that

0:52:20.600 --> 0:52:21.919
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people assume.

0:52:21.760 --> 0:52:24.600
<v Speaker 2>And there's no negative effects on the body after you've

0:52:24.600 --> 0:52:25.040
<v Speaker 2>done it.

0:52:25.040 --> 0:52:29.279
<v Speaker 1>It's no, It's very transient because remember the eggs that

0:52:29.320 --> 0:52:32.160
<v Speaker 1>come to the surface, they're always getting thrown away at

0:52:32.200 --> 0:52:34.520
<v Speaker 1>the end of the cycle. So this isn't depleting your

0:52:34.560 --> 0:52:37.960
<v Speaker 1>egg count, this isn't putting you into menopause faster. This

0:52:38.040 --> 0:52:40.720
<v Speaker 1>is us just salvaging what would have already been wasted

0:52:40.760 --> 0:52:44.120
<v Speaker 1>in that cycle. And it's not something that is ever

0:52:44.160 --> 0:52:47.320
<v Speaker 1>going to affect your future fertility. Even if you feel

0:52:47.320 --> 0:52:49.840
<v Speaker 1>bloated and you have some water weight gain, all of

0:52:49.880 --> 0:52:52.320
<v Speaker 1>that will dissipate as the hormones leave your body about

0:52:52.440 --> 0:52:54.279
<v Speaker 1>two weeks later. You get a period about one to

0:52:54.320 --> 0:52:56.680
<v Speaker 1>two weeks after the egg retrieval and everything resets.

0:52:56.920 --> 0:52:59.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay, oh my god. Yeah. Definitely put people to ease

0:53:00.160 --> 0:53:02.640
<v Speaker 2>their minds, to ease that this process, because I feel

0:53:02.880 --> 0:53:04.799
<v Speaker 2>like it feels like such a big decision to make,

0:53:04.880 --> 0:53:07.279
<v Speaker 2>but actually it's just safeguarding as all.

0:53:07.360 --> 0:53:08.879
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm just gaving myself to you to think it's

0:53:08.880 --> 0:53:11.160
<v Speaker 1>a big decision, and it's also a big cost, right.

0:53:11.239 --> 0:53:14.160
<v Speaker 1>Not everyone has insurance coverage to do this, So I

0:53:14.200 --> 0:53:16.160
<v Speaker 1>do think it's a big decision. But I think it's

0:53:16.200 --> 0:53:19.000
<v Speaker 1>an important thing to consider and at least learn about

0:53:19.520 --> 0:53:21.640
<v Speaker 1>if and should you ever find yourself or if you

0:53:21.719 --> 0:53:24.600
<v Speaker 1>think you're someone who might find yourself realistically in a

0:53:24.600 --> 0:53:26.680
<v Speaker 1>place where you're trying to build your family in your

0:53:26.760 --> 0:53:30.319
<v Speaker 1>late thirties, forties and beyond, then it's a smart thing

0:53:30.360 --> 0:53:32.319
<v Speaker 1>to do. I mean, I did this at thirty four.

0:53:32.840 --> 0:53:35.240
<v Speaker 1>I had already had a child, but I just felt

0:53:35.239 --> 0:53:38.160
<v Speaker 1>really overwhelmed getting back into work and trying to balance

0:53:38.200 --> 0:53:40.600
<v Speaker 1>it all. And I said to myself, as a fertility doctor,

0:53:40.640 --> 0:53:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to take my own advice because I don't

0:53:42.520 --> 0:53:44.759
<v Speaker 1>see myself being in a place where I'm ready to

0:53:44.800 --> 0:53:47.960
<v Speaker 1>try again for another two to three years, and inevitably

0:53:48.000 --> 0:53:49.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be thirty seven thirty eight, it could

0:53:49.560 --> 0:53:51.560
<v Speaker 1>be a little bit harder to ovulate that healthy egg

0:53:51.560 --> 0:53:53.839
<v Speaker 1>that I need to ovulate. So let me do this.

0:53:54.080 --> 0:53:57.440
<v Speaker 1>And I'm so glad I did, because I did end

0:53:57.520 --> 0:53:59.960
<v Speaker 1>up having secondary infertility. It was harder for me to

0:54:00.120 --> 0:54:03.160
<v Speaker 1>get pregnant, and it wasn't surprising as to why, but

0:54:03.239 --> 0:54:06.160
<v Speaker 1>I was so I was less stressed, and I felt

0:54:06.200 --> 0:54:08.319
<v Speaker 1>really at ease with the fact that I already had

0:54:08.440 --> 0:54:10.279
<v Speaker 1>done the hard work of creating the embryos.

0:54:10.400 --> 0:54:13.880
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I would have to move on to IVF. What

0:54:13.920 --> 0:54:15.880
<v Speaker 2>do you feel is the biggest misconception that people have

0:54:15.920 --> 0:54:16.680
<v Speaker 2>about IVF.

0:54:17.040 --> 0:54:19.200
<v Speaker 1>I think there's a lot of fear. Right so you

0:54:19.200 --> 0:54:21.680
<v Speaker 1>already talked about, oh my gosh, how long is this

0:54:21.800 --> 0:54:24.239
<v Speaker 1>going to take, how evasive is it, how hard is it?

0:54:24.640 --> 0:54:27.680
<v Speaker 1>I think people overestimate that. I think this is there's

0:54:27.719 --> 0:54:31.359
<v Speaker 1>this idea of like IVF long haulers, Like there's all

0:54:31.400 --> 0:54:34.200
<v Speaker 1>these people that you hear these nightmare stories of oh

0:54:34.200 --> 0:54:37.200
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, they've done so many cycles, and sometimes I

0:54:37.239 --> 0:54:40.960
<v Speaker 1>think patients feel my patients will say like I want

0:54:41.000 --> 0:54:42.759
<v Speaker 1>to try this, but I don't want to be someone

0:54:42.800 --> 0:54:45.200
<v Speaker 1>that's doing cycle after cycle left and I'm like, you're

0:54:45.200 --> 0:54:47.120
<v Speaker 1>not signing up for that. I mean, you're going to

0:54:47.160 --> 0:54:49.399
<v Speaker 1>try this and then let's see what the outcome is

0:54:49.440 --> 0:54:52.160
<v Speaker 1>and then make a thoughtful decision depending on how you

0:54:52.200 --> 0:54:55.239
<v Speaker 1>felt going through the process, what the results were, how

0:54:55.280 --> 0:54:57.719
<v Speaker 1>much progress we made. Is this something we need to

0:54:57.760 --> 0:55:00.239
<v Speaker 1>try again. Yeah, some people get what they need out

0:55:00.239 --> 0:55:02.680
<v Speaker 1>of the first round off IBF. There are many people

0:55:02.719 --> 0:55:05.160
<v Speaker 1>where it takes more than one round because not every

0:55:05.200 --> 0:55:08.759
<v Speaker 1>egg that they extract is going to fertilize, grow into

0:55:08.800 --> 0:55:10.759
<v Speaker 1>an embryo, and sometimes if you're starting with a small

0:55:10.840 --> 0:55:14.319
<v Speaker 1>number or you have significant egg quality issues, you may

0:55:14.400 --> 0:55:16.040
<v Speaker 1>end up in a position and I did for one

0:55:16.080 --> 0:55:17.640
<v Speaker 1>of my cycles when I was trying to do this

0:55:17.680 --> 0:55:20.440
<v Speaker 1>just preemptively where I only had two eggs retrieved and

0:55:20.440 --> 0:55:22.080
<v Speaker 1>none of them turned into embryos. And that was a

0:55:22.080 --> 0:55:24.640
<v Speaker 1>cycle where I had nothing to show for it. So

0:55:24.680 --> 0:55:27.240
<v Speaker 1>that can be really difficult. And I think people sometimes

0:55:27.280 --> 0:55:30.279
<v Speaker 1>go into IVF thinking the success rates are really high,

0:55:30.360 --> 0:55:32.400
<v Speaker 1>so this is going to be the solve, and they

0:55:32.440 --> 0:55:34.800
<v Speaker 1>might be blindsided to find out, hey, it didn't work,

0:55:34.880 --> 0:55:36.759
<v Speaker 1>and I need to try this more than once. So

0:55:37.400 --> 0:55:39.920
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a balance of don't be so overly

0:55:39.920 --> 0:55:42.160
<v Speaker 1>pessimistic and assume you're going to be sucked into this

0:55:42.239 --> 0:55:44.800
<v Speaker 1>IVF world where you're just going on this non stop

0:55:44.880 --> 0:55:48.160
<v Speaker 1>train of IVF. No, you can make thoughtful decisions. There's

0:55:48.200 --> 0:55:52.160
<v Speaker 1>no like you're not like a past exactly, and there

0:55:52.160 --> 0:55:54.680
<v Speaker 1>should be an ongoing conversation with your doctor, not just

0:55:54.760 --> 0:55:57.680
<v Speaker 1>something that you're like a passive passenger and all of this.

0:55:58.480 --> 0:56:02.000
<v Speaker 1>But also it's not always rosy like. Sometimes it takes

0:56:02.040 --> 0:56:04.480
<v Speaker 1>time and it's and while science has gotten us very far.

0:56:04.480 --> 0:56:06.719
<v Speaker 1>It's not the solf you know, sometimes it takes more

0:56:06.719 --> 0:56:09.480
<v Speaker 1>than one round to get there. There's a lot of

0:56:09.480 --> 0:56:13.000
<v Speaker 1>fear around IVF and this misconception that it could cause

0:56:13.040 --> 0:56:16.359
<v Speaker 1>breast cancer. That's a huge one as well, and that's

0:56:16.440 --> 0:56:18.480
<v Speaker 1>just not a thing. You know that the data shows

0:56:18.480 --> 0:56:21.239
<v Speaker 1>that there isn't a relationship between women who have done

0:56:21.800 --> 0:56:24.879
<v Speaker 1>a round of IVF, even several rounds of IVF, who

0:56:24.880 --> 0:56:27.359
<v Speaker 1>have been followed for decades in their lives, they don't

0:56:27.360 --> 0:56:30.440
<v Speaker 1>have a higher risk of developing breast cancer. There is

0:56:30.480 --> 0:56:33.879
<v Speaker 1>an underlying risk factor where we know that the more

0:56:33.960 --> 0:56:38.319
<v Speaker 1>ovulations you've had in your lifetime is related to risk

0:56:38.360 --> 0:56:40.920
<v Speaker 1>of breast cancer. And so I think there might be

0:56:40.960 --> 0:56:43.600
<v Speaker 1>with a without iv ACT, right, But I think when

0:56:43.640 --> 0:56:46.960
<v Speaker 1>people initially used to ask this question, you know, if

0:56:46.960 --> 0:56:49.840
<v Speaker 1>you're looking at a population of patients going through IVF,

0:56:50.320 --> 0:56:52.880
<v Speaker 1>they might be older at time of first time that

0:56:52.880 --> 0:56:55.600
<v Speaker 1>they're trying to get pregnant. So there's a lot of

0:56:55.680 --> 0:56:59.520
<v Speaker 1>like confounding variables and things. And when we've looked into

0:56:59.560 --> 0:57:02.120
<v Speaker 1>the data, and we've looked to countries like Denmark that

0:57:02.160 --> 0:57:04.440
<v Speaker 1>have done a good job of keeping registries and following

0:57:04.480 --> 0:57:07.839
<v Speaker 1>long term outcomes. IVF is very safe in the long term.

0:57:07.840 --> 0:57:09.600
<v Speaker 1>It's not going to impact your fertility, and it's not

0:57:09.640 --> 0:57:11.880
<v Speaker 1>going to impact your risk for things like breast cancer.

0:57:12.040 --> 0:57:15.360
<v Speaker 2>Okay, And are there any helistic treams that you recommend

0:57:15.360 --> 0:57:19.440
<v Speaker 2>alongside when people getting IVF, like acupuncture or anything that

0:57:19.480 --> 0:57:21.600
<v Speaker 2>you've noticed has helped along that journey.

0:57:21.840 --> 0:57:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I think acupuncture has been a wonderful tool for a

0:57:24.960 --> 0:57:27.760
<v Speaker 1>lot of my patients. Now I'm going to be forthcoming

0:57:27.800 --> 0:57:31.520
<v Speaker 1>and say that there isn't one singular study that's well designed,

0:57:31.640 --> 0:57:35.360
<v Speaker 1>large that's like this really moved the needle and intended

0:57:35.560 --> 0:57:39.280
<v Speaker 1>in pregnancy rates for women. But it's certainly not harmful.

0:57:39.800 --> 0:57:41.960
<v Speaker 1>And I do know that a lot of my patients

0:57:42.000 --> 0:57:44.720
<v Speaker 1>find it very relaxing. They feel like it helps with

0:57:44.840 --> 0:57:48.840
<v Speaker 1>stress relief, It helps them feel less anxious. Maybe some

0:57:48.920 --> 0:57:52.040
<v Speaker 1>of it is placebo, but you know, the idea is

0:57:52.080 --> 0:57:54.440
<v Speaker 1>that it can improve blood flow to certain areas of

0:57:54.480 --> 0:57:58.200
<v Speaker 1>the body. This is an ancient form of Chinese medicine.

0:57:58.280 --> 0:58:00.880
<v Speaker 1>You don't always know everything there is to know. I've

0:58:00.920 --> 0:58:04.200
<v Speaker 1>gone to acupuncturists for migraines, you know, as a Western

0:58:04.240 --> 0:58:07.320
<v Speaker 1>medicine doctor. So I don't think there's a downside. I

0:58:07.320 --> 0:58:09.360
<v Speaker 1>think if there are things that aren't going to hurt

0:58:09.560 --> 0:58:12.120
<v Speaker 1>and could be helpful, even if it's like on a

0:58:12.200 --> 0:58:14.480
<v Speaker 1>mental health front, then I'm all for it.

0:58:14.520 --> 0:58:17.880
<v Speaker 2>And why not? Yeah, exactly talking about mental health, I

0:58:17.920 --> 0:58:20.600
<v Speaker 2>feel like, you know, we mentioned the women who have

0:58:20.720 --> 0:58:23.280
<v Speaker 2>tried and tried and they just feel really betrayed by

0:58:23.280 --> 0:58:26.480
<v Speaker 2>their own bodies. Yes, do you have any advice for

0:58:26.560 --> 0:58:29.200
<v Speaker 2>women who are trying to you know, we build trust

0:58:29.240 --> 0:58:31.840
<v Speaker 2>with their own body after they feel like their bodies

0:58:31.840 --> 0:58:34.440
<v Speaker 2>failed them, Like how to rebuild that relationship with their

0:58:34.440 --> 0:58:35.760
<v Speaker 2>body off to something like this?

0:58:36.080 --> 0:58:38.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I think the first thing is and

0:58:38.160 --> 0:58:40.480
<v Speaker 1>you have to drill this into your brain because trust

0:58:40.520 --> 0:58:43.280
<v Speaker 1>me as an expert who tells women this all day

0:58:43.320 --> 0:58:45.680
<v Speaker 1>every day. When I went through my own fertility journey,

0:58:46.120 --> 0:58:49.360
<v Speaker 1>it was such a human nature knee jerk reaction to

0:58:49.400 --> 0:58:53.200
<v Speaker 1>automatically look inward and blame myself. And so I'm here

0:58:53.240 --> 0:58:55.360
<v Speaker 1>to tell you it is not your fault. You know,

0:58:55.440 --> 0:58:58.520
<v Speaker 1>whatever you're experiencing, it's not because of something you did

0:58:58.680 --> 0:59:02.000
<v Speaker 1>or didn't do. And that maybe confusing coming off of

0:59:02.160 --> 0:59:06.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, our conversation about lifestyle, but in reality, age

0:59:06.480 --> 0:59:09.800
<v Speaker 1>timing genetics play have much more of a weighted role

0:59:09.840 --> 0:59:12.600
<v Speaker 1>in all of this than the things that you can control,

0:59:12.880 --> 0:59:14.960
<v Speaker 1>and it's not fair. This is a hard thing to

0:59:15.040 --> 0:59:17.920
<v Speaker 1>uncouple in our mind because so much of our life

0:59:17.960 --> 0:59:19.840
<v Speaker 1>is about the effort we put in and then seeing

0:59:19.880 --> 0:59:23.680
<v Speaker 1>the product right, and fertility is not one of those things.

0:59:23.760 --> 0:59:26.280
<v Speaker 1>And I think you can set the conditions as much

0:59:26.280 --> 0:59:28.160
<v Speaker 1>as you can, you can put your best fit forward

0:59:28.200 --> 0:59:30.840
<v Speaker 1>as much as you can, but it can be really

0:59:30.920 --> 0:59:34.120
<v Speaker 1>unfair and it doesn't discriminate. So it is not your

0:59:34.120 --> 0:59:36.640
<v Speaker 1>fault and you're definitely not alone. One in six couples

0:59:36.680 --> 0:59:39.840
<v Speaker 1>have infertility. There are so many women. At least ten

0:59:39.880 --> 0:59:43.440
<v Speaker 1>percent of women have endometriosis, ten percent of women have pcos.

0:59:44.000 --> 0:59:46.240
<v Speaker 1>There's a reason why we're talking about this so much,

0:59:46.320 --> 0:59:48.320
<v Speaker 1>and it's because we're blowing the lid off of all

0:59:48.360 --> 0:59:51.000
<v Speaker 1>of these issues. Because I think there's a revolution where

0:59:51.000 --> 0:59:54.080
<v Speaker 1>women are like, we're tired of being you know, so

0:59:54.200 --> 0:59:57.120
<v Speaker 1>secretive about something and feeling ashamed of our bodies. It's

0:59:57.160 --> 1:00:00.760
<v Speaker 1>time for us to openly share and change their because

1:00:00.800 --> 1:00:03.760
<v Speaker 1>it really isn't our fault, and I think there shouldn't

1:00:03.760 --> 1:00:07.880
<v Speaker 1>be pressure or a rush to heal. It's going to

1:00:07.920 --> 1:00:10.120
<v Speaker 1>be a natural process. And I think something we don't

1:00:10.120 --> 1:00:12.919
<v Speaker 1>talk about enough is, you know, the journeys that don't

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<v Speaker 1>end in a baby. Right. We've seen people like Jennifer Anison,

1:00:18.040 --> 1:00:21.400
<v Speaker 1>high profile people share that they went through their own

1:00:21.640 --> 1:00:24.480
<v Speaker 1>fertility journey where they tried and despite all of their

1:00:24.520 --> 1:00:27.880
<v Speaker 1>access and the resources that they had, it wasn't successful.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think people really lauded that and thought, wow,

1:00:31.480 --> 1:00:33.360
<v Speaker 1>if this can happen to her, And this really shed

1:00:33.400 --> 1:00:35.320
<v Speaker 1>light on this issue because there is a bias towards

1:00:35.360 --> 1:00:39.040
<v Speaker 1>sharing the positive endings, the happy endings, and those stories

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<v Speaker 1>because that's uplifting and what people want to hear. But

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<v Speaker 1>this doesn't always work for everyone. And I think there

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<v Speaker 1>is often a way to overcome issues if you're willing

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<v Speaker 1>to pivot, you know, there's usually a way for us

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<v Speaker 1>to help you get there. But sometimes there can be

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<v Speaker 1>really difficult circumstances, and sometimes people aren't open to all

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<v Speaker 1>of the different options. You know, it's really your choice,

1:01:01.040 --> 1:01:04.400
<v Speaker 1>and you're entitled to the vision of what you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>for your family building journey. And I don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>it's helpful to tell people, well, you can always use

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<v Speaker 1>donor egg, or you can always adopt or you can

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<v Speaker 1>do surrogacy. It's easier, said, than.

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<v Speaker 2>Such an emotional tie to It's so much deeper than

1:01:18.720 --> 1:01:21.080
<v Speaker 2>just the baby itself. It's like how you feel about

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<v Speaker 2>your own body. It's exact how woman feels her responsibility

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<v Speaker 2>is or her duty is. Like there's so much identity.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and sometimes you have to do a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>work to undo that yes, and realize that you're more

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<v Speaker 1>than your fertility.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's really hard, especially in certain cultures, but

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<v Speaker 2>just the culture of women, like in society even now,

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<v Speaker 2>it's so hard to for women who have been brought

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<v Speaker 2>up thinking that this is the n actual progression of

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<v Speaker 2>life and this is how it should be, to really

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<v Speaker 2>uncouple themselves from.

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<v Speaker 1>Them absolutely, and I think the burden shouldn't be on them.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it needs to be on society. Right, when

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<v Speaker 1>are we going to stop asking women? Are you trying?

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<v Speaker 1>So when you start trying, it's like you don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That probably like every time I post it, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not okay, I get it. Yeah, you guys want

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<v Speaker 2>to see a baby have your own. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I've become so hyper sensitive working in this field that

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I'm in the line at Starbucks and I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>overhearing someone's conversation, just cringing. You know, I think that people,

1:02:16.680 --> 1:02:19.200
<v Speaker 1>even who aren't in the fertility journey could benefit from

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<v Speaker 1>reading my book because there's a whole section on how

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<v Speaker 1>to be a sensitive partner or family member or friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Had the best show up for the people in your

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<v Speaker 1>life that are facing this challenge.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much. This has been amazing. I really

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<v Speaker 2>appreciate all the insight that you've given, but also just

1:02:35.600 --> 1:02:38.040
<v Speaker 2>the hope that you've probably shared with so many people

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<v Speaker 2>that are on this journey of whether it's fertility, whether

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<v Speaker 2>it's trying to get pregnant. You know, there's so many

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<v Speaker 2>steps to this, and I think you've really helped not

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<v Speaker 2>just you know, go through it here, but in your book.

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<v Speaker 2>It's such a I mean it's a hefty book and

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<v Speaker 2>it's just filled with so much goodness that's so useful.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise it's an easy read.

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<v Speaker 2>No it is. It's such an easy wead, but I

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<v Speaker 2>really appreciate how in detail it is, Like we need

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<v Speaker 2>this because there is so much to it, and I

1:03:03.440 --> 1:03:06.000
<v Speaker 2>think it's really important to have all the knowledge you

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<v Speaker 2>can possibly have then feel empowered like knowledge is power,

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<v Speaker 2>and to have that about your own body as a

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<v Speaker 2>woman is just so important.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, something we see a lot online is like click beat,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, feeling like what the video you're about to

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<v Speaker 1>watch is going to answer her and solve all your problems.

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<v Speaker 1>And I really wanted to create a resource that actually,

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<v Speaker 1>in detail answered people's questions right, And this is this

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<v Speaker 1>goes beyond the character limit on a caption or the

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<v Speaker 1>three minute limit on an Instagram reel. You just can't

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<v Speaker 1>give that level of nuance in detail. So that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote this book.

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<v Speaker 2>Aways a way too precious and complicated to be able

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<v Speaker 2>to do it in that amount of time.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly. I think this is like a health class two

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<v Speaker 1>point zero and I hope it'll help a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much, Lucky, I think really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>And if anyone listening, go get your copy of The

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<v Speaker 2>Lucky Egg Understanding Your Fertility, How to Get Pregnant Now

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<v Speaker 2>by Doctor Lucky Second.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, thank you, thank