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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 2: I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our.

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Speaker 2: Relationship and what it's like to be siblings. We are

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Speaker 2: a sibling raivalry.

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Speaker 1: No, no, sibling.

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Speaker 3: You don't do that with your mouth, revely.

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Speaker 2: That's good. Welcome to Part two of Brenda Song Ollie.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited to talk to have talked to Brenda

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Speaker 1: about this about our show and like our relationship on

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Speaker 1: the show, and also her childhood because it's just fascinating,

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Speaker 1: Like child actor life is a whole other thing that it's.

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Speaker 2: Just I mean, we made this into two parts, but

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Speaker 2: it could have been four because there's so much to

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Speaker 2: dive into. Brenda.

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Speaker 1: It's like she's one of those people that she gets

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Speaker 1: going and it's just the best. Like she's hilarious and

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Speaker 1: filled with enthusiasm, and I just love her so much

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Speaker 1: and her life story is pretty awesome.

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Speaker 2: So enjoy Part two.

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Speaker 1: Part two, Brenda, we need to go into some of

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Speaker 1: your childhood, okay, because that's what our show's all about. Great,

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Speaker 1: and so let's move off of the inflection and let's

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Speaker 1: you were born and raised in the in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 4: I was born up north uh in Sacramento, but I'm

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Speaker 4: in Carmichael to be specific. But I've lived in LA

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Speaker 4: since I was five.

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Speaker 1: And what brought your family to Los Angeles?

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Speaker 4: So you, I mean, I don't even think you know this.

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Speaker 4: So it was me, me being a me acting. It

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Speaker 4: was for my birthday, my fifth birthday, that I wanted

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Speaker 4: everyone talks about like coming to LA and we came

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Speaker 4: out with another girl. So I'm gonna tell you like

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Speaker 4: the quickest, like how I became an actor, because that's

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Speaker 4: how I came to LA. So I grew up watching

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Speaker 4: Star Search.

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Speaker 5: I loved it.

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Speaker 4: I would always pretend like I was a model. I

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Speaker 4: wanted to be City Crawford coming out of her red

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Speaker 4: when I was three years old, and my mom had

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Speaker 4: me really young. She had me at sixteen, so she

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Speaker 4: was really young. And my MoMA was at a Kioskin

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Speaker 4: in the middle of the mall. They're doing like you know,

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Speaker 4: you know, one of those like modeling agencies like Model Search,

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Speaker 4: and I was watching and doing like my modeling walk,

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Speaker 4: and of course someone came over give my mom all

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Speaker 4: the info. But we had no money. My dad was

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Speaker 4: you know, it's still in school. My mom was so young.

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Speaker 4: They were both refugees and so great.

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Speaker 1: My mom took the info.

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Speaker 4: I was like, okay, cool, didn't even think about it.

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Speaker 4: But I was like modeling school, and I didn't shut

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Speaker 4: up about it. Chakra at three years old, I didn't

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Speaker 4: talking about this school. A few weeks later, I got really,

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Speaker 4: my mom I was like, okay, fine, if you take

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Speaker 4: just straight up lying, like you do anything, you say

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Speaker 4: very first like commercial audition was for a little Caesar's

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Speaker 2: Me in and pizza pizza, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 4: And they brought me with a bunch of kids, and

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Speaker 5: And the casting director like brought her like told her to.

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Speaker 5: And that's how it sort of started.

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Speaker 4: And then when I I was just kind of auditioning and.

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Speaker 5: Everyone talks about coming to LA.

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Speaker 4: So I came with another little girl for my fifth birthday,

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Speaker 4: booked my first show when I was nine, And that's

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Speaker 4: and my mom just a couple of years ago, was like,

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, I like never read lines with you. Like,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what was the big show?

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Speaker 4: It was called The Sweet Life of Zack and Cody.

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Speaker 4: And so that's when I think I sort of looked

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Speaker 5: Do after school.

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Speaker 2: How old were you?

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Speaker 4: I did the pilot when I was fifteen and at

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Speaker 4: I was. I was so lucky because I was still

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Speaker 4: able to do school. Because I was also such a nerd.

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Speaker 4: I graduated high school early, and because I was on

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Speaker 4: a kid's show, they still had a tutor for me

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Speaker 4: because the boys, the two twin boys, were so young

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Speaker 4: Like I'm thinking of like nineties pot pourrix and I'm

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Speaker 4: I don't have any life experience. I've lived the work

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Speaker 1: Was so young. But what about your siblings? Did your

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Speaker 4: I always say that my brothers drove me, except two

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Speaker 4: But I didn't realize that they were just so protective

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Speaker 4: And I'm and I'm so grateful because you know, I

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Speaker 4: I feel like my life would not be and I

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Speaker 4: Like I feel like, no one humbles you more than family,

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Speaker 4: No one keeps you sane and drives you in sane

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Speaker 1: When you met Mac, did you was this one of

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Speaker 1: the things you guys like really connected on, was like

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Speaker 1: being childhood child actors.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I can't you make some superheroes and

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Speaker 4: No, don't get me there, No, Kate would Kate would

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Speaker 2: I can't. Yeah, I know. My algorithm is filled with

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Speaker 1: I actually think it's a really funny thing to do

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Speaker 5: A screenshot of your algorithm.

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Speaker 1: What is it? Oh my god, it's so funny because

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Speaker 5: Mine right now. Mine is just sports like that is.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's the best.

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Speaker 4: Mine is so sad. It is literally basketball like the

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Speaker 2: That's my airl my god, that's so funny because you

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Speaker 2: And that's what happens to me. If I just keep

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, for sure, that's what's happened. That's what happens.

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Speaker 2: Because when your guy, when your friend sends you someone

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Speaker 1: Then then I feel like my algorithm should be different.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I will say this. I'm also not on

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Speaker 1: What the It's like facial massage, no, like like like like.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I've got boobs. And then fish because I've like

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Speaker 1: I'm just vanity and disaster. That's all this is. It's

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Speaker 2: You know what.

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Speaker 1: I'm just I'm saying it out loud because I'm not

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Speaker 2: I had this premonition that he's going to go to

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Speaker 4: because we're all at home. I was just like refreshing

438
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Speaker 4: my like social society, what was happening in the world,

439
00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:31,720
Speaker 4: what's going on? And I forgot to sort of take

440
00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:34,479
Speaker 4: care of myself and in the last year, And honestly,

441
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:38,240
Speaker 4: Kate was such a big like inspiration for like me

442
00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:41,000
Speaker 4: getting back into the gym, me like taking time for

443
00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:45,240
Speaker 4: myself because I I really struggled, especially when I had

444
00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:48,200
Speaker 4: my kids, struggling with finding like a work life balance

445
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Speaker 4: and like trying to mitigate that stress and that anxiety.

446
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Speaker 4: And I didn't realize like how much like you know,

447
00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,440
Speaker 4: if you're on your phone at night, you don't realize

448
00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:58,200
Speaker 4: that you've been scrolling on Instagram for an hour and

449
00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:01,480
Speaker 4: you should have been sleeping. But it took me a

450
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 4: second to also, I think, you know, that's a good

451
00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 4: way to put it. Earning back your dopamine was. I

452
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 4: try not to be on my phone before when I

453
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:10,679
Speaker 4: wake up or when I go to sleep, or I

454
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:12,600
Speaker 4: usually I try to only use it for like work,

455
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,399
Speaker 4: for texting, for emailing. I've like put all of my

456
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 4: like social apps within its own little thing, so it's

457
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:21,680
Speaker 4: not something that I just click on mindlessly. But it's

458
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,440
Speaker 4: because I think it's so hard in today's society because

459
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,760
Speaker 4: everything is so easily accessible. It's like right there, it's

460
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:29,360
Speaker 4: like it's one information. We have supercomputers in our pockets.

461
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Speaker 4: It's like it's it's so different now. And this past

462
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 4: year has been so amazing to sort of kind of

463
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 4: take a step back and go back to waking up,

464
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 4: like spending time reading, going to the gym, like not

465
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Speaker 4: even paying attention to my phone, Like I have a

466
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Speaker 4: specific like alerts for work things or for people in

467
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Speaker 4: my life, so I know when I need to look

468
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 4: at my phone, and I feel like it has helped

469
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Speaker 4: my stress level so much.

470
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Speaker 1: It's amazing when you find the things that work for

471
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Speaker 1: you and you can consolidate those things, how it changes

472
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Speaker 1: the way that you live. Like I, for instance, like

473
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Speaker 1: I think the first thing is to assess the things

474
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Speaker 1: that are your weak point, weak spots, like what are

475
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Speaker 1: the challenges and like mine, I think for everybody it's

476
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 1: definitely the phone. But my big thing was like my

477
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 1: like I look at like how like okay, how can

478
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Speaker 1: I be the most efficient in my life, achieve the

479
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 1: things that I want to achieve, but not go down

480
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:34,600
Speaker 1: this thing like I have to be available to everybody

481
00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 1: in order to succeed. I have to be an open

482
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Speaker 1: book and I have to be doing this all the time,

483
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 1: and I need this all the time, and I need

484
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Speaker 1: this all the time to succeed, and then you can't

485
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Speaker 1: really focus on your children. Like what is your version

486
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Speaker 1: of success?

487
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Speaker 2: What do you want?

488
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Speaker 1: Those things like you all assess right then when you

489
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Speaker 1: kind of go back to it. I always think it's

490
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Speaker 1: like I always think it becomes like what's the thing

491
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Speaker 1: that's your achilles heel? Like what's the thing that drives

492
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 1: you crazy? And like then you write those things down,

493
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to be looking at my phone

494
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,400
Speaker 1: all the time. I can't stand that fucking thing because

495
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 1: I can't. I want to be able to be focused

496
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 1: on my kids, and I'm we're focusing on my kids,

497
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 1: and I realize that, like there are all of these

498
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: things that you can be doing that we're not doing. Like,

499
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 1: for instance, I hate emails. Some people love them. I

500
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,199
Speaker 1: hate them. I don't like them. I find them to

501
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 1: be disruptive. I find it to be one of the

502
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,120
Speaker 1: things that people think because they send you an email,

503
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,640
Speaker 1: that means that that's they've done their part. That they

504
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 1: don't follow through. If they send email to me. Then

505
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 1: it's like someone's as well, I sent you the email,

506
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,919
Speaker 1: and you're like when two weeks ago and then you

507
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: have to go through a million emails. What's the heading?

508
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 1: You get the heading wrong, it's not right. You can't

509
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 1: get to the email. I'll put it back up in

510
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: your inbox. I'm like, I hate this. What's your inbox

511
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 1: at right now?

512
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 2: Oh? I don't even look at them. I can't even

513
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 2: see mine is zero. I have a weird thing. I

514
00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 2: have to clear everything out.

515
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:03,159
Speaker 1: Makes you feel good? Yeah, so that's your vibe, Like

516
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, Like you have to for me.

517
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: I've just realized that everybody in my life needs to

518
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: know that I have a phone number and that you

519
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:15,880
Speaker 1: can call me. Yeah, and like I'm one of those, right,

520
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 1: So so that way I don't have to sit there

521
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 1: and go through emails and sit for hours and have

522
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 1: it be disrupting me when I'm trying to watch the kids. Well,

523
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 1: you got to answer this email. You got to do

524
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: I can't do it. And so it's like, so I

525
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:32,160
Speaker 1: set my times, like in the morning, I have an

526
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 1: hour I look at my emails. That's it. I'm not

527
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: going to look at them all day's right, and then

528
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 1: I make sure that I communicate to everybody that I

529
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 1: don't look at emails, like if they really need me,

530
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 1: they can text me or they can call me. Like

531
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Speaker 1: I think everybody needs those little things that make their

532
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 1: life less that they know what they can handle. Like

533
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Speaker 1: I am so adhd Like I'm halfway down an email

534
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 1: and I'm like I'm out, I'm out, I can't And

535
00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 1: then I was right back. I'm like, great, that's my response.

536
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit here and write.

537
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 2: That's like me reading news articles in the morning. I'm like, oh,

538
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 2: this is interesting, like you know something, and I get

539
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 2: like three pair of paragraph and I'm like I'm done.

540
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 2: Or sometimes I'll scroll all the way to the end

541
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 2: and then I'll read the last paragraph and then go

542
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 2: backwards and for some reason that helps me.

543
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Speaker 4: Whatever your process or boundary is like one of the

544
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,400
Speaker 4: things that I like, you know, I was such a creep.

545
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 4: I was like I would just like watch Kate all

546
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:31,679
Speaker 4: the time because I was like I didn't know, like

547
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 4: it was so incredibly like inspiring to see you do everything,

548
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 4: but at the same time, like you could you would

549
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 4: sit down and talk to anybody for like an hour

550
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,360
Speaker 4: about anything, like if you got into a conversation with someone,

551
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 4: you would drop anything and everything to have a real

552
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,879
Speaker 4: conversation with someone and like it like nothing else mattered,

553
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:52,919
Speaker 4: and it said so much about who you were. And

554
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,639
Speaker 4: I think that's why this experience was so amazing, because

555
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,199
Speaker 4: everyone else could be great, but if our number, if

556
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 4: Kate was terrible, the whole experience would be like, oh.

557
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 5: This is this is not fun.

558
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 4: But we I think you set such a great tone

559
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 4: and pace for the show and for everyone. Everyone just

560
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 4: had such a good time because we all were so comfortable,

561
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 4: we all felt so safe, like and the funny thing

562
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 4: is that we like we joke about Genesis, Genesis, who's incredible.

563
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 4: It was because the fact that we would because you

564
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 4: didn't like everyone on top of you, that's.

565
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 5: What we'd be.

566
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 4: Like Jenifist because she would be doing whatever, like she

567
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 4: was just like come out of the shadows.

568
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 5: She was like, I've been here the whole time doing

569
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:29,719
Speaker 5: all this thing.

570
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:38,400
Speaker 1: That's like, oh oh god, hold on, Genesis, it's already done.

571
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 5: It's already done.

572
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 4: Like that's what was amazing.

573
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 1: So Jenna I just yelled her name. She's like here, yes,

574
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: it's like that's what.

575
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,119
Speaker 4: Was like so fascinating, because I think for me it

576
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,439
Speaker 4: was I say, I was so fortunate that this was

577
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 4: one of the first jobs I came into after having kids,

578
00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,440
Speaker 4: because it's so daunting for me at least to find

579
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 4: a balance, and like every single day, like Kate could.

580
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,479
Speaker 5: Attest this, I was like, Kate, what do I do?

581
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 5: I don't know how to do this.

582
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:10,640
Speaker 4: It's you gave me such incredible like advice about motherhood,

583
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 4: about life, about work life balance that I it honestly

584
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 4: changed me so much and changed my perspective and outlook

585
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 4: on this business.

586
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: And yeah, and also like just I mean, I think

587
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 1: I can say this because it's a very common thing

588
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: for women and I think an important thing that women

589
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 1: like you kind of get out of the hormone phase

590
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 1: of like having your child. So it's about a year in, yeah,

591
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: and the baby's your hormones start to get back into

592
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 1: their normal thing, and then you want to go do stuff.

593
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 1: You want to go work or have your own kind

594
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,239
Speaker 1: of experience. And then at the same time, you're just

595
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 1: like completely pulled by the desire to just also want

596
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,439
Speaker 1: to be domestic. And so that's like you're like living

597
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: in this dichotomy of like, I really want to go

598
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,479
Speaker 1: have that experience and I want to feel like it

599
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,919
Speaker 1: did before I had a child, but I don't. So

600
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 1: therefore I'm trying to figure out how to still feel

601
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,719
Speaker 1: present in this while I can still be a really

602
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: great mom.

603
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 2: No, but how how lucky are you that you got

604
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 2: to work in Los Angeles? Because that's big, Oh my god,

605
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 2: with kids with baby with babies too, oh my god.

606
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: Well, and I think for I think for people who

607
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 1: kind of think like that, you know, there's there's like

608
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 1: the pros and cons of our business is that you

609
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 1: can do a show. For ours was four four and

610
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: a half months. You do the show, and then you

611
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 1: have a lot of time off, right depending on how

612
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 1: you live your life. But like then you could have

613
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 1: a good month off, you could have a good two

614
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 1: months off before you start another job. And that's a

615
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: great thing because then you're super connected in your family

616
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 1: and you can be home. But the but the flip

617
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: side of it is that you have five am calls,

618
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: so you're up before the kids are up, and then

619
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: if you're like our show, you're not home until the

620
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 1: kids are just about to go to sleep or not

621
00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: after yeah, so you're missing you literally missing everything, like oh,

622
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 1: you have a.

623
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 2: Parent teacher conference. You're like, uh yeah, me boring anyway, you.

624
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: Know, or even like one I had to watch Ronnie's

625
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: like show on FaceTime. It just sucked. It just sucks.

626
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 4: But it's one of the best things about working on like,

627
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 4: you know, something like our show. It's like for four

628
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 4: and a half months, you're like sort of in this

629
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 4: bubble where you know, like it's like your business, Like Oliver,

630
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 4: You're in Toronto doing this show. It's like camp. You

631
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 4: get to know everyone super well. You get this like crazy,

632
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 4: very very unique experience, and then sometimes you may never

633
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 4: see these people again for years. Yeah, it's like the

634
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 4: craziest emotional like up and down.

635
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 5: I was like, no, wonder, we're all crazy.

636
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 2: Is Oh, of course, of course that's what That's the

637
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 2: way it is. And my son Wilder is working on

638
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 2: the show too, and he's getting to experience that, which

639
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 2: is the how quickly you everyone falls in love, yeah,

640
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 2: and then how quickly you know you break up?

641
00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: And oh, I have to say, Brenda's different because Brenda's

642
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: been on her like you know, amazing press a moment

643
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 1: with the with the movie last show Girl, which was

644
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: so fun to see you in.

645
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 4: So said that we missed you at tip.

646
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that we were there now at the

647
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: same time.

648
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 5: Just missed each other.

649
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 2: Oh, I want to see that.

650
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: It's great.

651
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 2: I'm in my I'm in my oscar moment right now.

652
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 2: I just watched The Apprentice last night. Oh yeah, dude,

653
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 2: fucking great, so good. Sebastianism is so good. That is

654
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 2: such a difficult tightrope to walk, and he fucking did

655
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 2: it masterfully. I was like blown away by him. I

656
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 2: thought he was amazing, honestly, like amazing, you know.

657
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: But what I was going to say, what I was

658
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: going to say was that Brenda, because Brenda's been you

659
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: know and then doing her thing. But we've actually my

660
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 1: the siblings, Me, Scottie and Drew have really tried to

661
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 1: stay connected during this whole time, like if I if

662
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm back, we'll go out and have like sibling you know,

663
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 1: dinners and all things.

664
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 2: But yeah, Scotty was over that. It was in a desert,

665
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 2: and I'm really good friends with Swiss Scotty as well.

666
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 4: I love Scotty.

667
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's the best.

668
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: So there is a different like we have we have

669
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: kind of maintained a little bit better than I think,

670
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 1: But it's true. You kind of go into this camp

671
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 1: and then you got and then you come back for press,

672
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: which I'm so excited because so much fun, I know.

673
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 1: And that's the thing.

674
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 4: It's like, but you because you bond so and I

675
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 4: think because you know, obviously we've had so many different experiences,

676
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 4: and I feel like this show is really special because

677
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 4: everyone was so different and everyone was living their own

678
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 4: very crazy lives. But we all got to like really

679
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 4: like escape to do the show together.

680
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 2: You know.

681
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 4: It was like our escape from like all the craziness

682
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 4: that was happening. And I'm so genuinely excited to see

683
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 4: everyone just in a couple of weeks, which I.

684
00:31:55,440 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: Know were no assholes, No, everyone is so fun, Like

685
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 1: so you're working with the best comedians, people who just

686
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 1: don't miss a beat, like totally, you know, they got

687
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: the memo. Everyone showed up the way you would want

688
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 1: people to show up for a show like this, which

689
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 1: is supposed to be fun and enjoyable to watch, and

690
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 1: and and and and then we all fell in love

691
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: with each other. It was like I I literally left

692
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 1: every day going I'm having the time of my life

693
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: with everything, you know, and then it's just you, me

694
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 1: and a bunch of boys. You know, it's literally just us.

695
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 4: But you know what was so great about that though,

696
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 4: and I talked to Dave about it, is the fact

697
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 4: that but you and I have we have so many Davis,

698
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 4: our showrunner, and it's like because we have brothers, I

699
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 4: It's like, doesn't we there was never like we were

700
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 4: never we were like we would mess around with the

701
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 4: boys just as much as they would mess around with

702
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 4: each other.

703
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: Because yeah, I was like, this is.

704
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 2: All I know.

705
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: I don't know any we don't know sisters. Yeah, I

706
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 1: mean I actually have a sister, which I'm getting to

707
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: know now, But like we grew up with boys.

708
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 2: That's all right.

709
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: So it's like it couldn't have hired two girls that

710
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 1: felt more comfortable in a room full of stinky uh

711
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: like completely inappropriate boy exactly.

712
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 4: Like And the funny thing was like, I mean, you know, Allie,

713
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 4: you know, you know Scotty, like I feel like he

714
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 4: would like he's always so facetious and like so like

715
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 4: he would like, you know, he's so funny, but yet

716
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 4: if he gave it back to him, he'd be like

717
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 4: oh my god, what you'd like me, So.

718
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 5: You have to take it and you give it. You

719
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 5: better be able to take it.

720
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 4: And like he'd be appalled by some of the things

721
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 4: I said to him, Like even like we were texting

722
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 4: about something. He goes it's like he's like this feels inappropriate, Like, sir,

723
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 4: read your text message and then you tell me it

724
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 4: was so much fun. And it's like when we were

725
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:54,719
Speaker 4: wrapping the show, it's like one of the hardest things

726
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 4: about these sort of like ten episode series. By the

727
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 4: time we were like on our tenth episode and about

728
00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 4: to wrap this series or the season, it was hard because,

729
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 4: like I remember, we had this conversation multiple times. We're like, wait,

730
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 4: we're just in rhythm, like we just got to know

731
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:08,879
Speaker 4: our characters, got to know each other, Like.

732
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: Shouldn't there be five more episodes because we were just

733
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 1: so in it.

734
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, you know.

735
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 4: Yeah. But by the end of it, it's like it's

736
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 4: like you almost want to shoot the pilot at the

737
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 4: end because by then it's like that's.

738
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 5: When we know each other, we know our characters. It's

739
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 5: it's so crazy.

740
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 2: It's not a bad idea I.

741
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,479
Speaker 5: Started doing doing the pilot at the end of the show.

742
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 3: Yeh yeah, before we get out of here, I wouldn't know.

743
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 2: So you've been you've got even with Mac for ten years,

744
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 2: right or so, coming up on eight eight years and

745
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 2: you're you're getting married though.

746
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 5: I sort of got the will we just haven't.

747
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:50,760
Speaker 4: The thing I'm still people is we haven't had time.

748
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 1: This is my thing. We talked about this on the

749
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 1: show too. It's like planning a wedding.

750
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 2: Right, So it's not about it's not about doing the

751
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 2: Goldie Han Kurt Russell method. It's more just about like,

752
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 2: we don't have time.

753
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 4: And can I tell you though, we have very much

754
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 4: to use your parents as example. Way before we ever

755
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 4: knew you guys, was like I love the fact that

756
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 4: you don't need a piece of paper to show that

757
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 4: your commitment to.

758
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 2: One another totally.

759
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 4: You choose to show up every single day and that's

760
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 4: what we do. It's like, you know, for us, if

761
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 4: we're to get married, it'd be more just for the kids. Like,

762
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 4: of course I want to be married to him. I

763
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 4: love him, he's my partner. He knows that. But a

764
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 4: piece of paper is not going to change that for us.

765
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 4: If anything, it's a reason to have a party. And

766
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 4: to have all of our friends over and to celebrate.

767
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 1: That's my thing. It's like what are we it's and

768
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: this is you knew the amount.

769
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 2: Of time as we talked about we did, how.

770
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 4: Many dresses we've looked at, like oh fashion was like

771
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 4: this would be a great like the.

772
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 1: Actual like party and that's the fun part. Yeah you know, yeah,

773
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: But but then like.

774
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 2: There's money, so much money.

775
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: It costs so much money, and it's so much planning.

776
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,919
Speaker 2: And no, no what I'm saying like getting though there's

777
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 2: a financial benefit to get a tacky things.

778
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 4: Oh believe me, I know there's like when we were

779
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 4: starting TOTAT, I was like, Pebe, I don't know if

780
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 4: I want to be in your tax bracket. It kind

781
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 4: of sucks like in my little leg, like you have

782
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 4: those silly conversations because it's so much more than just

783
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 4: like running off to get married.

784
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 5: I mean, believe me.

785
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 4: It's again like part of us is like, well maybe

786
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 4: we just like have a party to celebrate like us,

787
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,359
Speaker 4: like there's you know, at this point, I don't think

788
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 4: we could be more connected and more committed in any way,

789
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 4: shape or form. But also at the same time, we

790
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,320
Speaker 4: always say, like I always want to check in with

791
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 4: him and make sure that he's happy and that this

792
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 4: is what he continuously wants, because you know, especially in

793
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 4: a relationship, it's like, yes, you're gonna have to fight there,

794
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 4: you're gonna have ups and downs, but ultimately we care

795
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,839
Speaker 4: about each other enough where we want to make sure

796
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 4: that this is where we continuously want to be and

797
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 4: that we're moving forward in the same direction. Because it's

798
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 4: also hard, especially in this business, when we're both off

799
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 4: doing like little bubbles and you're so busy and to

800
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 4: stay connected is really hard. It's one of the things

801
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 4: that I really loved about working on this show was

802
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 4: seeing how all of these very busy, successful people stayed

803
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 4: connected with their partners. Like, you know, I remember meeting

804
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 4: Katie Scott's wife for the first time and being like,

805
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 4: oh my god, it is so nice to meet you.

806
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: And see I don't like this. Oh my god, you're

807
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 1: a saint.

808
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like, how do you do it?

809
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 1: How do you tell to you? How does this feel? Intimately?

810
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 1: Because because this is a lot.

811
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 4: It's also been so little, but it's so wonderful to

812
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 4: kind of like especially like experiences, I guess where you

813
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,399
Speaker 4: get to go and sort of learn from each other

814
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 4: and like ask for advice from because what we do

815
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 4: is so crazy. Like I always say, like, I'm so fortunate.

816
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 4: I get to do the thing that I dreamed of

817
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 4: doing since I was a little kid, and that's my job.

818
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 4: And I get to like work with people that I

819
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 4: like admire that I like never thought that i'd be

820
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,439
Speaker 4: in the same room in and I get to work

821
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:01,440
Speaker 4: with them and to be collaborate. It's so crazy what

822
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 4: we do and to sort of also, so it's also

823
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 4: at the same time, it's very like it's very specific.

824
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:08,879
Speaker 4: So when you meet a group of people who are

825
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 4: so open and generous with their time and their advice

826
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 4: about what it's like to navigate being a good human being,

827
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 4: being a good parent, a good partner. Also while you know,

828
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 4: working and doing all these things, it's really nice and

829
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:27,240
Speaker 4: it's surprising that you don't run into more incredibly generous.

830
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,240
Speaker 5: People like we did on this show.

831
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 4: Like I it's one of my favorite things was just

832
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 4: hanging out and talking to everybody like we did that

833
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 4: like the last few days of filming.

834
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:34,399
Speaker 5: I think that's all we did.

835
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 4: We were like we were just in our corner watching

836
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 4: the game. Just those are fun those were fun, fun,

837
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 4: crazy night shoots we had.

838
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we have night shoots that we're just Yeah.

839
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 4: It was so fun and funny because it's like at

840
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 4: the end of the day, we were I mean, we

841
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 4: just had a time. Like I can't I can't say

842
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:03,839
Speaker 4: anything like I miss I truly hope that we get

843
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 4: to do more because it was such a fun time

844
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 4: and everyone. It's also like everyone was so talented, Like

845
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 4: that was the thing, Like I felt so incredibly like

846
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 4: in a place where everyone was like the bar was

847
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 4: set so high every single day that it was like, Oh,

848
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 4: it's like it's like just fun to be in that

849
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 4: kind of environment. Like I miss it.

850
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: It was the best. You're the best.

851
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 5: No, you're the best. No, I you don't understand. I

852
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 5: miss you so much.

853
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 4: I because you were in New York for forever now,

854
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 4: so now that you're not, well, we'll be in New

855
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 4: York together. Well, I'll like, come bug.

856
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 2: You got it. Maybe I'll fly down. I'm visit.

857
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 5: That would be so fun.

858
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: We're actually gonna have the boys on the sibling that I.

859
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 5: Was about to say, I was like, Oh, that is going.

860
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 1: To be so much fun. It's so fun to do

861
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,800
Speaker 1: this with the cast. It's like, this is the best.

862
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:51,439
Speaker 5: No, this is the best. Thank you guys for having

863
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 5: me on. This is so great. I'm so happy to

864
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 5: see you, Kate. I missed you. I can't wait to

865
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 5: see you next week.

866
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 1: I love you.

867
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 5: You know I love you guys.

868
00:39:58,400 --> 00:39:58,720
Speaker 2: Oliver.

869
00:39:58,760 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 4: It was nice to like, finally.

870
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 2: Chat, nice to finally chat. Maybe I'll see in New York.

871
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, thank you guys.

872
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 1: We should go to a game. That's really what we

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Speaker 1: should do. And we should go to a game.

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Speaker 4: Let's do it well.

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Speaker 5: Now that we have Luca, it's even more excited. We

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Speaker 5: have to go to a game.

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Speaker 4: Holy fuck, Jeanie, if you're listening to us, we need

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Speaker 4: to come to a game.

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Speaker 2: Genie, if you're listening to us, what did I do?

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Speaker 2: I might just let me know what I did?

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Speaker 5: What I did? I'll talk soon. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Bye. Isn't she the best?

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Speaker 2: She's so great.

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Speaker 1: She's also so talented, Oliver. She's like, she's so funny

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Speaker 1: and talented. We had so much fun together, and it's

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Speaker 1: just a funny thing when you meet someone for the

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Speaker 1: first time and you don't know how that's going to gel.

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Speaker 1: And we do so much together and the first read

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Speaker 1: through was just the best. I was like, Oh, she's

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Speaker 1: so got such good energy and she's so much fun,

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Speaker 1: and it's yeah, I hope people like the show because

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Speaker 1: we all loved doing it.

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Speaker 4: No